Forever Young?
See Story HEAT Weekend New Year’s See Story on page 4 Resolutions on page 10 A Kiss Is More Than Just a Kiss January 5, 2004 Volume 5, Number 1 See story on page Q2 Forever Young? Bergling Explores Love-Hate Relationship Between Older and Younger Gay Guys By Phil LaPadula A more typical story is his experience in He just said, ‘How old?’ as if that was going Managing Editor an Internet chat room a few years ago. “I to be the entire parameter of our online At age 43, Tim Bergling may be “reeling remember a guy who came into a chat room, contact—and at 36, I was already too far gone in the years,” but he’s still reeling in the cute and he had one of those interesting-sounding for him.” young guys. In fact, he just came out of a 13- screen names,” Bergling recalls. “I said, ‘Hey, The brief cyber encounter sparked his month relationship with a very mature 19- what’s up?’ There was a bit of a pause, and long-time interest in writing a book on gay year-old whom he met online. then he said, ‘How old?’ men and age. The bulk of his research for the It’s easy to see why Bergling, an ex- “I said, ‘36.’ book came from a survey and poll on his Marine who still appears in boot-camp shape, There was a little bit of a longer pause, Web site, www.reelingyears.com. About would attract some of the younger set.
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