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IN JEWISH HISTORY we may not be able to control the outcome, we are Sunday, July 5, 2020 --- 13 Tammuz, 5780 able to control our actions. Only we can choose R. Yosef Yitzchak Freed (1927) how we are going to proceed on this journey, and On the 13th of Tammuz of 1927, the sixth Lubavitcher Rebbe, Rabbi Yosef how we are going to face the challenges that beset Yitzchak Schneersohn, received the documents authorizing his release from a us. We may not want to put in so much effort; we sentence of exile to Kastroma in the interior of Russia. The Rebbe was actually may feel ready to move on. But if we find notified of his release on Tammuz 12, but since that day was a legal holiday, the ourselves stuck in one place, that’s a sign that Certificate of Release freeing him to travel home was issued only the next day. there’s still work to be done where we are. Thus both the 12th and 13th of Tammuz are celebrated as a "festival of liberation" A chassid who lived in Russia once came to by the Chabad-Lubavitch community. the Tzemach Tzedek, the third Chabad rebbe, and asked him for permission to settle in Israel, so that Tuesday, July 7, 2020 --- 15 Tammuz, 5780 he could further his spiritual development. The Passing of R. Chayim ben Attar (1743) Tzemach Tzedek answered him, “Mach doh Eretz Passing of the famed Torah scholar and mystic Rabbi Chayim ben Attar (1696- Yisroel. Make this place Israel.” The Tzemach 1743), author of the Ohr HaChayim commentary on the Torah. Born in Morocco, Tzedek was not dismissing the chassid’s he also lived and taught in Algiers, Italy, Acco and Jerusalem, where he settled a aspiration to live in Israel. But with this response year before his passing. Many stories are told of his holiness and greatness, and of he was saying, “Why are you rushing off to Israel? the repeated unsuccessful attempts by Rabbi Israel Baal Shem Tov to reach the Have you already accomplished everything that Holy Land and meet with him in the belief that together they could bring you need to do here? Have you transformed your the Moshiach and the final redemption. own surroundings into a place that exudes Passing of R. Aryeh Leib, Author of Shaagas Aryeh (1785) holiness?” The Rebbe related a story with a similar theme: A group of young men were at a chassidic R. Aryeh Leib was an outstanding scholar known for his diligence in study and gathering with the fifth Lubavitcher rebbe, the penetrating analysis. He served as rabbi of Metz and authored Shaagas Aryeh, a Rebbe Rashab, who was preparing to say a collection of analytical discourses on the laws of Orach Chaim (daily life and the chassidic discourse. Before he said the discourse, festivals). This classic work enjoys much fame and is indispensable for any serious the chassidim sang a traditional preparatory student who desires to plumb the depths of Jewish law. melody. As they were very eager to hear the In addition to Shaagas Aryeh, R. Aryeh Leib authored Turei Even and Gevuras Ari, discourse, they sang the melody rather hastily. The in-depth commentaries to a number of Talmudic tractates.

Rebbe Rashab was not pleased with this, and he told them, “A chassid is a pnimi, an inwardly Wednesday, July 8, 2020 ---16 Tammuz, 5780 Made; Hur Killed (1313 BCE) focused person. Wherever he is, whatever he does, In the year 2448 from Creation (1313 BCE), Tammuz 16 was the 40th day he is completely there at that moment. He does not following the Giving of the Torah at , and the people of Israel wrongly view one matter as a mere preparation for another expected ' return from the mountain (he would actually return on the matter. Rather, each thing that he is involved with following day). When their leader failed to return, they demanded from : gets his full attention.” There are many times "Make us a god that shall go before us". Hur (Moses' nephew, the son of when we look around and feel that we would be and ) tried to stop them and was killed by the mob. Aaron fashioned a calf of much better off somewhere else, living under molten gold. different conditions. And that may be true. But sometimes the key to reaching that other place, Thursday, July 9, 2020 --- 17 Tammuz, 5780 wherever it may be, is completing all that needs to Moses Breaks Tablets (1313 BCE) be done in the here and now. We need to utilize The Talmud (Taanit 28b) lists five tragic events in Jewish history that occurred on every moment to its fullest, and this in itself Tammuz 17, on account of which a fast was instituted on this day. The first of these creates the changes that carry us into the next occurred in 1313 BCE, forty days after the Giving of the Torah on Sivan 6. Upon stage.As Jewish people, we have been awaiting descending Mount Sinai and witnessing Israel's worship of the Golden Calf (see the redemption for a very, very long time. And the "Today in Jewish History" for yesterday, Tammuz 16), Moses smashed the Tablets long wait has worn us down, made us very inscribed with the Ten Commandments which he was carrying down from the impatient, maybe even a bit skeptical. But if we mountain. are still here, that means we still have more to do here, and we need to do it with full concentration Jerusalem Walls Breached (69 CE) and focus. In this way, we can bring the The other three national tragedies mourned on Tammuz 17 are connected with the redemption into the here and now, until it becomes Roman conquest of Jerusalem and their destruction of the Second Temple in the year part of our reality. Then G-d will grant us the 69 CE: hoped-for blessings in full—peace in our homes, --The walls of the besieged city of Jerusalem were breached. our lives and the entire world. --The Roman general Apostomus burned the Torah and, By Chaya Shuchat --placed an idol in the Holy Temple. The fighting in Jerusalem continued for three weeks until the 9th of Av, when the Holy Temple was set aflame.

Friday, July 10, 2020 --- 18 Tammuz, 5780 Golden Calf Destroyed (1313 BCE) Moses destroyed the Golden Calf, and re-ascended Mount Sinai to plead G-d's forgiveness for the Jewish people. (Exodus 32:20; Talmud Taanit 30b.)