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Strengthening Marriage: Instructor's Guide 36889_000_COVER.qxd 06-23-2011 2:36 PM Page 1 STRENGTHENING MARRIAGE INSTRUCTOR’S GUIDE 36889_000_COVER.qxd 06-23-2011 2:36 PM Page 2 36889_000_BODY2.qxd 08-23-2007 11:08 Page i STRENGTHENING MARRIAGE INSTRUCTOR’S GUIDE Published by The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints Salt Lake City, Utah 36889_000_BODY2.qxd 08-23-2007 11:08 Page ii THE LORD HAS PROMISED ETERNAL FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS TO THOSE WHO MAKE AND KEEP TEMPLE MARRIAGE COVENANTS. 36889_000_BODY2.qxd 08-23-2007 11:08 Page iii CONTENTS “The Family: A Proclamation to the World”............................................................................iv Guidelines for the Instructor....................................................................................................v 1. Applying Gospel Principles ..................................................................................................1 2. Communicating with Love................................................................................................11 3. Fostering Equality and Unity ............................................................................................23 4. Overcoming Anger ............................................................................................................33 5. Resolving Conflict..............................................................................................................47 6. Enriching Marriage............................................................................................................55 Appendix ..............................................................................................................................63 IMAGE CREDITS Page xii (top): O Jerusalem by Greg K. Olsen. © Greg K. Olsen. Do not copy. Page 46 (top): The Sermon on the Mount by Carl Heinrich Bloch. Used by permission of the National Historic Museum at Frederiksborg in Hillerød, Denmark. Do not copy. Except as noted below, all photography is by Robert Casey. © Robert Casey. Do not copy. Page ii: Brian K. Kelly. Page xi: Steve Bunderson. © Steve Bunderson. Do not copy. Page 8: © Corbis. Page 12 (bottom): Welden C. Andersen. Page 46 (bottom): Craig W. Dimond. © 2006 by Intellectual Reserve, Inc. All rights reserved. Printed in the United States of America. English approval: 8/02 36889_000_BODY2.qxd 08-23-2007 11:08 Page iv THE FAMILY THE FIRST PRESIDENCY AND COUNCIL OF THE TWELVE APOSTLES OF THE CHURCH OF JESUS CHRIST OF LATTER-DAY SAINTS W E, THE FIRST PRESIDENCY and the Council of the sacred duty to rear their children in love and righteous- Twelve Apostles of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter- ness, to provide for their physical and spiritual needs, to day Saints, solemnly proclaim that marriage between a teach them to love and serve one another, to observe the man and a woman is ordained of God and that the commandments of God and to be law-abiding citizens family is central to the Creator’s plan for the eternal wherever they live. Husbands and wives—mothers and destiny of His children. fathers—will be held accountable before God for the dis- charge of these obligations. ALL HUMAN BEINGS—male and female—are created in the image of God. Each is a beloved spirit son or daughter of THE FAMILY is ordained of God. Marriage between man heavenly parents, and, as such, each has a divine nature and woman is essential to His eternal plan. Children are and destiny. Gender is an essential characteristic of indi- entitled to birth within the bonds of matrimony, and to be vidual premortal, mortal, and eternal identity and purpose. reared by a father and a mother who honor marital vows with complete fidelity. Happiness in family life is most likely IN THE PREMORTAL REALM, spirit sons and daughters knew to be achieved when founded upon the teachings of the and worshiped God as their Eternal Father and accepted Lord Jesus Christ. Successful marriages and families are His plan by which His children could obtain a physical established and maintained on principles of faith, prayer, body and gain earthly experience to progress toward per- repentance, forgiveness, respect, love, compassion, work, fection and ultimately realize his or her divine destiny as and wholesome recreational activities. By divine design, an heir of eternal life. The divine plan of happiness enables fathers are to preside over their families in love and righ- family relationships to be perpetuated beyond the grave. teousness and are responsible to provide the necessities of Sacred ordinances and covenants available in holy life and protection for their families. Mothers are primarily temples make it possible for individuals to return to the responsible for the nurture of their children. In these presence of God and for families to be united eternally. sacred responsibilities, fathers and mothers are obligated THE FIRST COMMANDMENT that God gave to Adam and to help one another as equal partners. Disability, death, or Eve pertained to their potential for parenthood as hus- other circumstances may necessitate individual adapta- band and wife. We declare that God’s commandment for tion. Extended families should lend support when needed. His children to multiply and replenish the earth remains WE WARN that individuals who violate covenants of in force. We further declare that God has commanded chastity, who abuse spouse or offspring, or who fail to that the sacred powers of procreation are to be em- fulfill family responsibilities will one day stand account- ployed only between man and woman, lawfully wedded able before God. Further, we warn that the disintegration as husband and wife. of the family will bring upon individuals, communities, WE DECLARE the means by which mortal life is created to and nations the calamities foretold by ancient and be divinely appointed. We affirm the sanctity of life and of modern prophets. its importance in God’s eternal plan. WE CALL UPON responsible citizens and officers of HUSBAND AND WIFE have a solemn responsibility to love government everywhere to promote those measures and care for each other and for their children. “Children designed to maintain and strengthen the family as the are an heritage of the Lord” (Psalms 127:3). Parents have a fundamental unit of society. This proclamation was read by President Gordon B. Hinckley as part of his message at the General Relief Society Meeting held September 23, 1995, in Salt Lake City, Utah. 36889_000_BODY2.qxd 08-23-2007 11:08 Page v GUIDELINES FOR THE INSTRUCTOR Strengthening marriage is essential, especially in these latter days when confusion and temptation abound. Speaking of our time, President Gordon B. Hinckley said: “The family is falling apart all over the world. The old ties that bound together father and mother and children are breaking everywhere. Hearts are broken; children weep. Can we not do better? Of course we can.”1 This course was created in response to the need for stronger family relationships and was written to benefit as many people as possible. It contains gospel principles and skills to help participants improve their marriages. Use this instructor’s guide in conjunction with the resource guide for couples. It provides supplemental information to help you conduct class sessions successfully. Several ideas in this introduction and in the appendix were adapted from the instruc- tor’s guide of Principles of Parenting, a series written by H. Wallace Goddard and published by the Alabama Cooperative Extension Service.2 ADMINISTERING THE COURSE The course should typically be taught to groups of 20 or fewer participants by pro- fessionals at LDS Family Services agencies or by volunteers in wards and stakes. A typical course will last six to eight sessions. Sessions are usually 90 minutes in length. Strengthening Marriage: Resource Guide for Couples includes six topics that may be used in group meetings. Although you will select the topics that you think will best address the needs of class members, you should teach session 1, “Applying Gospel Principles,” as the first session of the course. To be addressed adequately, some topics may require two or more class sessions. Consider the following suggestions for administering the course: • Follow agency guidelines for charging group fees when the course is sponsored by an agency of LDS Family Services. When the course is sponsored by a stake or ward, the fee should cover only the cost of materials. Participants should pay the fee at the beginning of the course to help encourage attendance. • Encourage couples to attend sessions together to foster harmonious relationships. The principles they learn can draw them together when they both participate, but these principles can become a wedge if one person is uninvolved or unsupportive. • Keep track of the number of sessions attended by each participant by taking roll each time you meet (see page 66 in the appendix). v 36889_000_BODY2.qxd 08-23-2007 11:08 Page vi G UIDELINES FOR THE I NSTRUCTOR • Contact the nearest LDS Family Services agency if you have questions about teaching the course. Agency locations and telephone numbers can be found at www.ldsfamilyservices.org. ANNOUNCING THE COURSE When you share information about the course, describe what individuals and couples can gain by attending. A list of benefits will more readily motivate couples than a list of topics to be discussed. The benefits of the course are many. Individuals who participate will learn how to resolve conflict, foster greater intimacy and trust, and make marriage a prior- ity so they can enjoy greater happiness
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