Gender Identity Bill Dies in Seven Minutes By Dana LaRocca HB235, the Gender Identity Anti-Dis- crimination Act was recommitted to the Judicial Proceedings Committee OUT on April 11. It never went to the floor of April 22, 2011 | Volume IX Issue 24 the Senate for a vote. The process began with its remov- al from the Rules Committee where it “No Retreat on Marriage” had been held for a week. It was re- leased on April 5 after pressure from Equality Maryland and other support- Del. Mary Washington reflects on her ers as well as the influence of its spon- sor Delegate Joselyn Pena-Melnyk. On Thursday, April 7, hearings first session in the House of Delegates were held before the Senate Judicial By Steve Charing tant to them. Proceedings Committee. Each side Fresh from the recently completed 2011 Mary Washington, who is also Associ- was given forty-five minutes to pres- Maryland General Assembly, Delegate ate Director for the nonprofit Parks and Peo- ent its case. That time was extended Mary Washington is proud to show off her ple Foundation, was elected in November to slightly due to the volume of questions new district office on the corner of Barclay represent District 43 in the Maryland House by the senators. The primary speak- Ave. and 32nd St. across from the Waver- of Delegates. The district also includes the ers in favor of the bill were the spon- ly Farmers’ Market. The two-story building neighborhoods of Charles Village, Guilford, sor Delegate Pena-Melnyk and Attor- has been around for many decades and was Lauraville, Montebello, and Govans—all with ney Lisa Mottet from the National Gay even once a butcher shop. Washington ac- a significant number of LGBT people. and Lesbian Task Force. The testimo- knowledges there’s a lot of work to do to ren- In being elected as Delegate, Mary ny of the mothers of transgender chil- ovate the office, and she is excited to share Washington became only the second out dren added a personal dimension to the space with fellow Delegates Maggie Mc- lesbian African-American in the U.S. to the testimony of HB235 supporters. Intosh and Curt Anderson. serve in a state legislature and the first ever Ruth Jacobs from Citizens for a “Not only is this office in the heart of my in Maryland. She joins six other openly gay Responsible Government was ques- district, but it’s where two major areas of Bal- delegates and one senator in the legisla- tioned by Senator Zirkin regarding ro- timore meet,” she said in noting the excel- ture—one of the highest totals of LGBT rep- bocalls that his constituents had re- lent location. She hopes her constituents will resentatives in the country. ceived at 3:00 a.m. in opposition to come by to discuss issues that are impor- —continued on page 3 HB235. He questioned the legality of the calls. Ms. Jacobs testified that if the bill passed transgender employ- ees might sue their employers for using the wrong pronouns. Senator The Telling Project Raskin pushed her to give an example of where an employer had ever been Baltimore Veterans ‘Tell’ sued in this country or anywhere in the world for using the wrong pronoun. Stories of DADT and Combat She was unable to do so. Jenna Fischetti testifying as a It has been more than eight years since the transgender opponent of HB235 stat- United States began Operation Iraqi Free- ed that, “Not once, not once, in the his- dom. Thousands of military personnel now tory of transgender specific legislation have stories of deployments, often times has any state gone back and added multiple, after returning home. Often, how- public accommodations only once a ever, they don’t talk about what they went previous law existed.” through. The lack of public accommo- Writer Jonathan Wei is hoping to reveal dations protections was the central some of that experience through The Tell- theme of all four of the transgender ing Project, a unique stage production that panelists who opposed the bill. That is built from the ground up using local veter- notwithstanding, Ms. Fischetti’s state- ans to tell their stories, in their own words, to ment was factually misleading. Cal- friends and neighbors. Jonathan has teamed —continued on page 5 up with local producer and Veteran Artist The Telling Project: Baltimore features (top row, L to R): Meghan Walton, Patrick Young, —continued on page 9 Cate Conroy, Jeremy Johnson; (bottom, L to R): Erin Byers, Tracy Miller, Elijah Sacra A Blueprint for Achieving Marriage Equality in 2012

Part 2: Winning emanating from the National Organization and to help as volunteers. Co-Publishers for Marriage (NOM) and a bevy of religious It won’t be just a simple task of stuffing Jim Becker • Jim Williams [email protected] a Referendum organizations will be breathtaking. They envelopes. There will be a great need for Last issue I presented my ideas on how we will use money—lots of it—from outside of grass roots activism—the only way we can Executive Editor Jim Becker can be successful in achiev- Maryland to smear us as a win this fight. Door knocking, phone bank- [email protected] ing marriage equality next year. community. ing, lit drops, town hall meetings will be re- Managing Editor In Part 1, I offered a strategy Every stereotype, every quired—just like a political campaign be- OUT Steve Charing to help win over persuadable Spoken exaggeration, every unveri- cause that’s exactly what it is. [email protected] legislators to pass the bill and fied claim, and every scare Equality Maryland deserves the right to Production Director send it to the Governor’s desk. tactic will be thrown into the lead the effort. They should not go at alone Bill Andriette

If you were unable to read that barrage of commercials, ro- but they should be the lead. If other orga- Sales Director segment, please visit www.bal- bocalls and mailings to sway nizations and entities try to compete for the Mary Taylor timoreoutloud.com and click on otherwise fair-minded citi- spotlight and trample all over each other, the [email protected] Viewpoints and then Outspo- zens of the state that we are effort will fail just like in California. Leather Columnist ken. In Part 2 below I will dis- immoral, filthy slime who will Equality Maryland will, however, have Rodney Burger cuss the referendum possibility. teach kids to be gay and ruin a lot of work to do. And they need to start Contributing Writers We are a long way off from society. planning for a referendum battle NOW—not Josh Aterovis • Shawn Bradley • Terrence Brower • Jeffrey a referendum—both in terms of Even if you don’t contem- wait until the bill is signed into law. Fund- Clagett • Jeffrey Clouser • Chuck Duncan • Deborah Draisin • Gerry Fisher • Eva Hersh MD • Marty Hoegg • Sam Kunz • Dana time and also in what needs to plate marriage, every one of raising strategies, town hall meetings in as LaRocca • Jessica Lemmo • Jay Loane • Meredith Moise • Vann be accomplished before that Steve Charing these lies and attacks are di- many districts as possible, setting up an in- Mills • Bill Palmer • David Placher • Sandy Rawls • Colin Riley • eventuality. Of course, if the rected to you as well. You frastructure for phone banking, designing fli- Gregg Shapiro • Larry Walker Civil Marriage Protection Act have to consider: do you like ers and mailers and other necessities must Graphics is not signed into law, there will be no refer- being relegated to second-class citizenship begin right away. Joe Velasquez endum. There is no guarantee that it will be status and stomped on? If so, then you prob- Equality Maryland is a small organiza- Cartoonist brought up again, and there is no guarantee ably won’t be interested in reading on. tion with a handful of staff and volunteers. It Bruce Garrett (www.brucegarrett.com) we hold onto existing support or change the But if you do have dignity, pride and a needs to beef up its donor base and attract Photographers minds of a few. feeling of self-worth and would be personal- even more volunteers. Bruce Garrett • Jay W. • Justin Nixon

And also keep in mind that at no time in ly offended by the absurd characterizations The organization will have to seek na- Web Editor our history has marriage equality been won that will befall us, then you are in this with tional partners and build coalitions with pro- Anja Saine at the ballot box, no matter how blue or pro- the thousands of Maryland gay and lesbi- gressive organizations like labor unions, [email protected] gressive a state may be. We are, in terms an couples who would be denied marriage particularly government unions who have Managed Web Services The Fusio Group of numbers, a small minority, nationally and rights should a referendum to overturn the money and people. They should also enlist 866-322-7498, www.thefusiogroup.com in Maryland. Even with family members, co- law establishing marriage equality is suc- the help of supportive elected officials to ex- National Advertising Rep workers, neighbors, friends and other al- cessful. For every insult hurled at us, you ecute a grass roots effort district by district. Rivendell Media lies supporting our cause, we are greatly should and must take them personally and It would be great if the GLCCB steps up 908-232-2021 outnumbered. react accordingly. and partners with Equality Maryland to offer Founders Moreover, the opposition who is invari- We need everyone in the LGBT commu- space for phone banking and provide oth- Jim Becker • Joe Berg • Mike Chase • ably well-funded, well-organized, and well- nity to help combat the lies. It will take a lot of er resources including mailing lists to attract Lee Mooney (1959-2007) • Jim Williams motivated has a history of success in plac- money, to be sure. We must enlist the fund- contributions. The GLCCB should also allow es like California and Maine. We are clearly raising expertise and infrastructure from na- Pride to be used as a means to energize the Baltimore OUTloud the Davids among the Goliaths and our chal- tional LGBT organizations. We must bolster community and allow speakers to share with P.O. Box 3640, Baltimore, Maryland 21214 410-244-6780 lenge will be daunting to say the least. Equality Maryland’s efforts to raise money the stage with the entertainers, if only for a www.baltimoreoutloud.com But we can overcome the few minutes, to rally the odds. masses. Additional Information The main thing is for our The referendum, if Baltimore OUTloud is published every other Friday by Pride community to come togeth- one takes place, must be Media, Ltd. in Baltimore, Maryland. Readers comments and er. Many gays and lesbians viewed as a war because unsolicited materials are welcomed and may be sent to: editor@ baltimoreoutloud.com. All materials appearing in this newspaper do not see the marriage is- if it fails there is no telling are the property of Pride Media, Ltd. and may not be reproduced sue as one where they feel what the eventual outcome without the written permission of the editor. they should donate mon- will be for marriage equal- ey or help in any way. They ity in Maryland. Therefore, are single and don’t think of it should be approached themselves as ever going to with the greatest degree of be married or they are cou- seriousness and be fought pled and also don’t see nup- like it’s the last battle. © 2011 – All rights reserved tials in their future. And we must all be sol- Chair of the Board of Trustees – Jim Becker But none of that mat- diers in that battle wheth- President – Jim Williams ters. When the opposition er you envision being mar- Secretary and Treasurer – Mike Chase machine cranks up, the lies ried or not. t

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NOT RE REAT ON MARIAGE the opposition. “At one point we had a very the local LGBT community, Washington sug- until 2014. “I think we can raise that amount – continued from page 1 strong coalition of 60 co-signers of the bill gests that it’s a national concern with peo- by 2014 to protect our delegates.” Washington graciously extended an in- and 71 were needed to pass. But once the ple feeling alienated by homophobia in the She emphasized the importance of win- vitation to Baltimore OUTloud to be the first pressure came from the outside, they were workplace and elsewhere, and they’re trying ning marriage equality here. “Maryland is the publication to visit the new office and to in- not able to withstand it. What we need to de- to live their lives. gateway to the South. Winning marriage in terview her on the three-month legislative velop for next year is getting 71 or 73 votes “We need them to come out if they can. Maryland provides the framework for win- session that ended April 11. who are committed to equality regardless of If they belong to a teachers union, speak out ning marriage everywhere.” Although the session was strenuous and pressure from the outside.” at the meetings. Speak out at their church. Speaking to other lawmakers on these at times contentious, Washington is pleased Washington noted that not only fresh- People will do what important matters is that she embarked on this journey to An- man delegates, such as Tiffany Alston, buck- we ask them to do and “Equality Maryland something Delegate napolis. “As an African-American and as a led under the pressure but also “some of our it’s up to us to ask.” Washington had been lesbian, it is important to have our points of friends” who had once checked the box for And she noted that can be at the table doing throughout the view represented there. It’s an exciting job supporting marriage equality on the [Equal- “those who need gov- but they can’t session. And she is to help people and to learn so much about ity Maryland] questionnaire. She pointed to ernment most tend to building relationships the state.” the Catholic Church and NOM as entities participate the least,” do all the work.” by working and stand- She said the state has diverse interests that applied considerable pressure that in- so the LGBT popula- ing up with delegates with competing social and political priori- cluded filling up the delegates’ offices with tion is not much differ- on other issues that ties and agendas that make it complicated. opponents. ent from the general population with respect they care about. But the fact that she was a Washington emphasized that the readers “Elected officials want to stay elected,” to political activism. freshman didn’t provide her with significant should know that “their delegates worked she says. “The threats by NOM and others Washington advocates a statewide clout. As she returns next year and ultimate- really hard and were thoughtful with their that they would back opponents of marriage grass-roots campaign in each district with ly gets re-elected, her influence will mount. decisions.” equality and run people against those who national and state money. When NOM threat- While Mary Washington acknowledged Besides the legislature’s not passing the support it was a major factor in changing ened pro-marriage equality delegates that that civil unions being won elsewhere is Civil Marriage Protection Act and the Gender their minds.” they will be defeated with a $1 million war good, she emphatically states there should Identity Anti-Discrimination Act, the delegate Washington explained we have that pow- chest, she said that HRC, Freedom to Mar- be “no retreat on marriage.” Marriage is one expressed disappointment regarding some er, too but we need to coalesce it. Further, ry and other gay groups should have coun- of the basic rights for citizens. environment issues, such as not imposing we need to ally with other issues. She sin- tered the threat immediately with $2 million And she promises to work hard towards a moratorium on shale and natural gas drill- gled out the unions who “have the money of their own money, which won’t be needed achieving that goal. t ing and also for not succeeding in stimulat- and people power to defend a delegate.” ing additional job creation. In addition, she When asked about what is needed to lamented the fact that budget constraints did help educate church-going African-Ameri- not allow for meaningful reform in the juve- cans on marriage equality, Washington was nile justice system and not doing more for quick to point out that Catholics should also LGBT homeless youth. be educated as well as conservative white And Mary Washington was disenchant- working class folks. “People from their own ed at the split within the LGBT community community need to speak with them.” regarding the gender identity legislation that She adds, “We need a Maryland cam- was fostered by national transgender orga- paign. We simply cannot have people drop- nizations. She would have liked to have had ping in from National [ LGBT organizations]. “public accommodations” remain in the bill Maryland and Baltimore are parochial plac- but regretted the attacks from our own com- es. We know who we know, we know who munity. “The attacks should not have been we like. We’re very suspicious of outsiders. made against those taking principled posi- We’re very protective of our culture, and you tions who are our friends but should have have to be able to speak the language. What been directed instead towards those who some in the LGBT community sees as high would never give us our rights.” marketing to bring in the dollars, that’s not Of course, we wanted to hear Wash- what’s going to sell these delegates on mar- ington’s insights as to why marriage equal- riage equality. Many in these communities ity failed in the House. She along with fel- have to come out and talk to their friends and low Baltimore Delegate Luke Clippinger and neighbors and make demands on the broad- others in the LGBT caucus made passionate er community to support them.” floor speeches and spoke with colleagues in Washington points out, however, that na- personal terms on the importance of getting tional organizations’ expertise is needed to this bill passed. help build coalitions and show us how to win. “We have a lot of work to do,” she points “Equality Maryland can be at the table but out. “We need to build a coalition of people they can’t do all the work. They have a broad that not only explains why marriage equality mission including transgender protections. is a good thing but a coalition that is also will- We need a campaign just on marriage equal- ing to fight and convince others.” ity and a separate campaign on the trans- Washington surmised that the failure to gender issue.” pass the measure was due to pressure from On the lack of political activism within

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Chase Brexton Health Services (CBHS), He’s astute, considered, and calm. His pres- the search for the most apt candidate to lead Hospital. He is currently Principal of Neu- one of the premier community health cen- ence means a better night’s sleep for those CBHS forward into the future from its suc- meister Healthcare Management Services. ters in Maryland, nationally known for its who work with him. We’ll miss him, but he’ll cessful 33 year old past,” said Les Pitton, Neumeister noted, “It is an honor for treatment of patients with HIV/AIDS and be a great asset to the Community Health chair of the CEO Search Committee. me to act as interim CEO and ensure and chronic illnesses, announced Center in Albany, NY, his perma- Added Dave Shippee, Chase Brex- contribute to the smooth day-to-day work- today that its Board of Direc- nent home,” stated Shaun Car- ton CEO, “I welcome someone as accom- ing of CBHS. Meanwhile of course the CEO tors has appointed Dan Neu- rick, CBHS Board member. plished in the health care field as Dan to search committee will continue to examine meister, of Neumeister Health- Neumeister, who is an ex- steer CBHS particularly now, with CBHS various profiles and will select the best can- care Management Services, to perienced health care execu- poised to embrace our role in health care didate as a more permanent incumbent of serve as interim CEO. Neumeis- tive, officially arrives in Balti- reform, the annual gala celebration immi- the position.” ter will take over for the present more in his interim capacity May nent, and many more milestones to cov- Chase Brexton Health Services, Inc. is CEO, Dave H. Shippee, when 1. Meanwhile, the CEO search er this year. His in-depth knowledge of a private, non-profit health care organization Mr. Shippee leaves to assume a committee, with the profession- health care and 30 year experience in lead- providing a range of clinical services from new position at Whitney Young al assistance of an outside re- ing health care organizations means he is primary medical care to behavioral health Health Center in New York the cruitment agency, will continue ready to step in as the interim.” services to dental, among others. It current- end of April. Mr. Shippee and Mr. Dan Neumeister to seek a fitting candidate for the Neumeister’s previous assignments in- ly operates four centers located in Baltimore Neumeister are working to en- CEO position. clude stints as Executive of Alaska Na- City, Baltimore County, Howard County and sure a smooth transitioning of management. “We are very pleased that someone of tive Medical Center, CEO of Enloe Medical Talbot County. For more information on its “David Shippee has been a brilliant CEO the seniority and experience of Dan Neu- Center, Vice-President of Baxter Perfusion many programs and services, please visit for CBHS, steering the organization with de- meister agreed to step in during this inter- Services, COO of Salinas Valley Memori- www.ChaseBrexton.org. t termination through change and expansion. im period, which gives us more time to hone al District Hospital and Grossmont District

Eq Maryland Black Family Alliance: Annapolis Updates Corneruality

By Darrell Carrington for LGBT equality in Maryland. While we were not able to see But is spite of these significant On April 11, as the clock struck midnight on the final day full equality pass this year, just think of where we can begin achievements Maryland is still not living of the 2011 General Assembly Session, LGBT Marylanders if we take the time during this legislative off-season to build up to the promise of equality for all citizens. found themselves without the civil rights a coalition that brings together people of Loving and committed gay and lesbian cou- we fought so hard to attain. In spite of broad faiths, creeds, sexual orientation, ples are still excluded from marriage. Transgen- the hard work and support of volunteers gender identity, cultures, and ability. We der Marylanders will still be discriminated against in throughout the state, Equality Maryland, can and must make it happen! many areas including jobs and housing. ACLU, Progress Maryland, SEIU and our As a coalition of LGBT supporters, Let’s not throw in the towel and give up on advancing other organizational allies did not see we reached many milestones this ses- equality - instead let’s make a commitment NOW to come the progress that we had hoped for and sion. We should all be proud that by com- together and channel this frustration into building a stron- worked for over the past few months and ing together we were able to get further ger community, a stronger coalition of equality supporters so over the last few years. than ever before and truly build a founda- that we are able to continue to advance a pro-equality agen- It had been speculated by many that tion for future victories. da and ensure that all Marylanders are treated equally un- 2011 was our year - the year of equali- „„ The Civil Marriage Protection Act der the law. ty for the Free State, but it did not come made it out of the Senate Judicial Pro- You can look to MBFA and other pro-equality allies to to fruition. We witnessed historic games- ceedings Committee (7-4); passed out help begin that conversation and start a dialogue on how manship in the session’s final days, but of the House Judiciary after an extreme- we bring more diverse communities to the table to advance with the support of many elected lead- ly tough vote (12-10), and finally passed equality in the Free State. We need you to join in. ers, we were able to get a fair hearing in through the Maryland Senate with a vote There are lessons to be learned. There are challenges Judicial Proceedings Committee for The of 25-21 and bipartisan support. to overcome. There are bridges to cross and relationships to Gender Identity Anti-Discrimination Bill. „„ The Gender Identity Anti-Discrimi- mend. Will you be part of that team that brings more of our In spite of thousands of emails and calls nation Act, an important first step provid- community to the table to fight for LGBT equality? into legislators, hundreds of in-person ing job and housing protections for trans- Today, let’s acknowledge the accomplishments of the visits and story after story demonstrating gender Marylanders made it out of the 2011 session, the passion and dedication of the thousands the real need for equal protections, the House Health & Government Operations of Marylanders who made their voices heard, and the many legislature failed to enact either of the key Subcommittee (5-3), the House Health & lawmakers who stood up for equality. Progress can be dif- pieces of legislation that we had strug- Government Operations Committee (15- ficult and it takes time, but all of us at MBFA are committed gled to advance. 8); the full House with bipartisan support to coming together to continue the hard work in 2012 and We remain incredibly disappointed in (86-52), got out of the Senate Rules Com- beyond. The struggle continues. t the final results, but we should all hold our heads high and mittee, an extremely significant hurdle, and finally through Darrell Carrington is a founding member of the Maryland come back to the table to build a stronger coalition of support the Senate Judicial Proceedings Committee (7-4). Black Family Alliance.

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GENDER IDENTITY BILL DIES of Gender Identity. Senator Brochin want- poised for action in the full Senate. Senator today and turned their backs on the most – continued from page 1 ed to remove employment protections alto- Frosh’s amendment was brought up by Sen- vulnerable members of our community. We ifornia and Colorado had both returned to gether, making it just a housing bill. Sena- ator Raskin but no discussion ensued. In- are appalled that lawmakers continue to play right such wrongs after having passed in- tor Frosh wanted to remove two stead, Sen. DeGrange of Anne politics with much needed protections for the complete laws. words from the definition of Gen- Arundel County asked for the bill transgender community.” On Saturday, April 9, the arguments be- der Identity and to add that the to be sent back to committee. Seemingly in reference to a recent sur- gan in the committee. Transgender oppo- identity must be “persistent.” The vote was taken. The Senate vey conducted by the National Gay and Les- nents of the bill had pushed for the bill to be Senator Frosh’s amendment voted 27-20 in favor of it being bian Task Force and the National Center for amended to include public accommodations. was the one that passed, thus recommitted to the Judicial Pro- Transgender Equality entitled “Injustice at But any amendment would have served the throwing a potential monkey ceedings Committee. That was Every Turn,” she said that “Equality Mary- purpose of slowing, and potentially killing the wrench into the passage of the at 12:47 p.m. land remains committed to fighting against bill. An amendment in the Senate would re- bill. The resulting definition was It took only seven minutes of discrimination and injustice targeting the les- quire that the bill be returned to the House of “a persistent bona fide gender- democracy to kill the bill. bian, gay, bisexual, and transgender com- Delegates to vote on that amendment. With related identity and the manifes- Two hours later Equality munity at every turn.” only two working days left to the legislative tation of that identity in gender- Sen. James Maryland’s Executive Director, Senator Richard Madaleno has vowed to season this would have made it almost im- related appearance regardless DeGrange Morgan Meneses-Sheets re- introduce a bill that includes public accom- possible to pass the bill into law simply be- of the individual’s assigned sex sponded to the defeat of HB235 modations next year. He has sponsored sim- cause of the time restrictions. at birth.” with these words: ilar bills, the last two with wide support, in Several Senators offered amendments. On Monday, April 11 at 12:40 p.m. on the “Six Senators who committed to support 2007 through 2010. Each of those efforts Senator Shank wanted a medical definition last day of the legislative session the bill was HB 235 took a walk on justice and fairness never came to a full Senate vote. t

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nator at PFLAG National, will lead a work- mistakes. But this wasn’t shoplifting and the ty and disability, as transsexualism is large- shop designed to give the participants ideas way my clerk acted was unacceptable.” (Bay ly considered a disorder by leading medical and information about how best to grow and Windows—Hannah Clay Wareham at bay- agencies. sustain their chapters. Registration is $30, windows.com) The suit notes that Devoureau, 39, is and forms are available at www.pflagphila. “legally, medically and socially” male. He org. (Philadelphia Gay News—Jen Colletta began psychological counseling and tes- at epgn.com) tosterone therapy in 2006 and underwent sex-reassignment surgery in 2009, around the same time he obtained a legal name- change and updated federal- and state-is- sued government identification to reflect his sex. (Philadelphia Gay News—Jen Colletta at epgn.com) Northeast PFLAG groups to meet in Philadelphia

Philadelphia, PA—Members of Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays Transman chapters throughout the region will head to Philadelphia later this month to share best sues claiming practices and work cooperatively to support Student accuses employment the LGBT people in their lives. PFLAG Phil- adelphia will host the annual North Atlantic Harvard Square discrimination Regional Conference at Davio’s Restaurant, Market of Camden, NJ—A New Jersey transgen- 117 S. 17th St., on April 30. The conference der man has filed an employment discrimi- is held at sites throughout the region each homophobia nation lawsuit that challenges the inclusion year, but Philadelphia hasn’t played host in Cambridge, MA—A Harvard University un- of trans workers in gender-specific jobs, a Kobe Bryant makes more than a decade. dergraduate has accused a Market in the suit considered to be the first of its kind. The When PFLAG National asked the group Square employee of homophobia follow- Transgender Legal Defense and Education anti-gay slur and to stage the event this year, Kim Otto, PFLAG ing an incident that occurred early Sunday Fund, on behalf of plaintiff El’Jai Devoureau, apologizes Philadelphia board member and chair of the morning on April 3, at the 24-hour Cam- filed suit April 8 with the Superior Court of conference planning committee, said the bridge shop. The Harvard Crimson reported New Jersey against the Camden-based Ur- Los Angeles, CA—Kobe Bryant, the Lak- members were “more than happy” to take on that Aaron C. Fallon, a member of the class ban Treatment Associates LLC. The agen- ers’ superstar basketball player, April 12 the task. Otto said the venue-selection pro- of 2011, and his boyfriend, who is not a Har- cy hired Devoureau in June 2010 as a urine looked straight into a TNT TV camera and cess was a bit hectic—due in large part to vard student, kissed while in the market. Fal- monitor for men, a position that required him called the referee a “fucking fag.” Bryant’s the wealth of events happening in the city lon said that they were subsequently asked to oversee that men reporting to the drug- defense? “Frustration.” at the end of April—but said Davio’s will be to leave; one employee allegedly told them, treatment center were providing their own, It took Bryant three attempts and twen- an ideal location for the event, with its vast “We don’t want that shit in here.” and not falsified, urine samples. The job de- ty-four hours to reconcile the situation with conference space in the heart of Center City. “We were trying to pick out something to scription required that a male hold the posi- the gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgen- More than 50 people have registered so far eat, and my boyfriend kissed me,” Fallon told tion and, upon learning that Devoureau was der community and their allies, but if his at- and are expected to come from throughout the Crimson. “Literally right after we kissed, born female, the agency terminated him. tempts—at least at first—felt half-hearted, Pennsylvania, New Jersey, Maryland, New an employee came out from behind the New Jersey’s Law Against Discrimination perhaps it’s because they were. “The words York and Washington, D.C. sandwich counter and told us to get out.” Fal- prevents employment discrimination based expressed do NOT reflect my feelings to- Conference participants will have break- lon followed the incident with an email sent on gender identity. Devoureau is requesting wards the gay and lesbian communities and fast and lunch at the restaurant and take part over the open list of the Harvard College reinstatement, back pay and compensatory were NOT meant to offend anyone. . . What in a series of workshops led by regional and Queer Students and Allies. List members and punitive damages. I said last night should not be taken literal- national speakers. “We have a very dynam- promptly provided an outpouring of support. Michael Silverman, executive director ly.” He ultimately managed to call the presi- ic and terrific list of speakers, who are going Fallon returned to Market in the Square and of the TLDEF, said the issues this case ad- dent of the nation’s largest LGBT organiza- to offer a lot of really good information,” Otto discussed the issue with Ahmed Eino, the dresses have never been raised in an em- tion, the Human Rights Campaign, to offer said. Steven Goldstein, chair of New Jer- store’s manager. “I go there a lot, and I was ployment-discrimination lawsuit before. what President Joe Solmonese described sey’s Garden State Equality, will head a ses- really offended by what happened,” Fallon “This is the first case like this, so it’s very as a “heartfelt” apology. “He told me that it’s sion on engaging with lawmakers on LGBT- told the Crimson. “I felt personally attacked, unique,” he said. “There are a limited num- never ok to degrade or tease, and that he un- rights issues. Dr. Michael LaSala, author of and I went back because I wanted to say that ber of positions out there for which there derstands how his words could unfortunately Coming Out, Coming Home: Helping Fami- homophobia isn’t going to be tolerated.” are legitimate sex qualifications. And then give the wrong impression that this is appro- lies Adjust to a Gay or Lesbian Child and an Eino told the Crimson that the employ- there’s the question of whether a transgen- priate conduct,” and, “At the end of a difficult associate professor at Rutgers University, ee in question has lost his job. “I know my der person satisfies those sex qualifications, day, I applaud Kobe for coming forward and will speak to the participants about his work guys, and this guy had been working for me and that’s a question no court has ever an- taking responsibility for his actions.” counseling families and LGBT individuals. for a while,” Eino told the college newspaper. swered.” The suit contends three counts of Ironically, Bryant’s words could not have Jamie Curtis, senior field and policy coordi- “We [are] all human, and a human makes discrimination, based on sex, gender identi- been more relevant. Just hours earlier the

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NBA, the Ad Council, and GLSEN were tap- making any action perceived as homosexu- sist him to live on his own and function inde- ing a public service announcement against ality a criminal offense. The Gays and Les- pendently given his physical problems relat- anti-gay language as part of GLSEN’s “Think bians of Zimbabwe Association is allowed to ed to HIV/AIDS and his resulting depression, Before You Speak” campaign, to be aired operate but several members face police ha- anxiety, and isolation after the loss of his during the NBA finals, in an effort to show rassment. The country is in the process of mother and sister.” (Hannah Clay Wareham the league as more “gay-friendly.” U.K. rug- drafting a new constitution that could pave at baywindows.com) by star and straight-ally Ben Cohen had a the way for new elections but there’s likely to few words for Kobe Bryant about frustration. be no revision to the laws banning homosex- The 32-year old gay-friendly icon called Bry- uality. (365Gay.com—Jon Fairbanks) ant’s outburst “disappointing,” and added, “As a professional athlete and rugby World Cup champion, I understand the heat and passion of competition at the highest levels. But we must all remember that strong bod- Justice’s Civil ies must be balanced with strong characters, and work toward that end. Our positions as Rights chief role models demand it.” (365Gay.com—Da- meets students on vid Badash) bullying Charlotte, NC—The head of the U.S. De- partment of Justice’s Civil Rights Division Defense of and the Charlotte-area U.S. attorney met April 14 with students and community lead- Marriage leader ers to discuss bullying, hate crimes and civil Landlord can’t bar gets bigotry award rights issues. Assistant U.S. Attorney Gener- al Thomas Perez, a Marylander and former support dog for HIV Washington, D.C.—The direct action, gay member of Governor O’Malley’s cabinet, positive man group, GetEqual ambushed anti-gay Maggie and U.S. Attorney for the Western District Gallagher today at a Congressional hear- of North Carolina Anne Tompkins, a lesbi- Boston, MA—The Massachusetts Commis- ing on “Defending Marriage.” Gallagher is an, met with students at Northwest School sion Against Discrimination (MCAD) has or- the board chairman of the National Organi- of the Arts. Perez and Tompkins spoke brief- dered that a landlord cannot order an HIV- zation for Marriage and was testifying in the ly before showing the Justice Department positive renter to get rid of his emotional hearings. Civil Rights Division’s “It Gets Better” video, Zimbabwe support dog. Building owners Brighton Gar- GetEqual gave Gallagher the “First An- inspired by columnist Dan Savage’s It Gets dens Apartments, The Lombardi Corpora- nual Anita Bryant Award for Unbridled and Better Campaign. President tion, and Michael J. Lombardi were fined Unparalleled Bigotry.” A statement notes: “I am looking at this room and I see condemns European $5,000 for arguing that tenant Richard M. “Competition for the prize was fierce, with America,” Perez told an audience of students Blake’s medical requirements were “irrele- Ms. Gallagher out-bigoting such notable in grades six through 12. Perez encouraged gay ‘filth’ vant” when it came to the building’s ban on figures as Senator John McCain, Michelle students to embrace diversity. “What I see Harare, Zimbabwe—On April 14, Zimba- pets. Bachmann, Pastor Rick Warren, and Sarah here is that you embrace diversity,” Perez bwe President Robert Mugabe condemned MCAD found that the owners had com- Palin. said. “We as a nation embrace diversity and European gay “filth” while criticizing West- mitted disability discrimination, according “In presenting this award to Ms. Gallagh- that’s why we are such a powerful nation.” ern political leaders for maintaining his as- to Massachusetts’ Lawyers Weekly’s news er, we are recognizing the bigotry that she Last October, the U.S. Department of set freeze and travel ban. Mugabe made the blog. Blake was awarded $25,000 in emo- has pioneered over the past few years—mal- Education’s Office of Civil Rights announced speech in Harare during the burial of Men- tional distress damages. Denise McWilliams, ice that has put her ahead of the pack in the new interpretations of federal civil rights laws. ard Muzariri, the director general of Zimba- Blake’s attorney, argued that a doctor sug- world of professional bigots who draw a pay- Some anti-LGBT discrimination, harassment bwe’s Central Intelligence Organization. The gested Blake get a support dog after he be- check each day from the hatred they stir up and bullying is now considered a type of sex- EU and US slapped Mugabe with sanctions came depressed, isolating himself and rarely among the ‘radical right’ wing of the Amer- based discrimination and falls under feder- following Zimbabwe’s disputed presidential leaving the house. “He was depressed, basi- ican public,” said Robin McGehee, direc- al jurisdiction. Perez told students that such elections in 2002. Opposition leaders in the cally lounging around the apartment all day tor of GetEqual. “At a time when Americans bullying and discrimination is often based country, Western governments and foreign long, and his weight rose and blood pressure overwhelmingly support marriage equality on gender roles and stereotypes. Discrim- media outlets claim the process was rigged. got out of control,’’ McWilliams said. He got it takes a very special person like Ms. Gal- ination against LGBT and Muslim students “We don’t worry ourselves about the go- Kayla, a boxer mix, in 2008, and almost im- lagher to stand up and fight for discrimina- are among his division’s fastest growing. ings-on in Europe,” Mugabe said. “About the mediately, his health and his mood began to tions and bigotry. It’s gratifying to be able to Immediately following the assembly, Per- unnatural things happening there, where improve. draw attention to the unrelenting hatred that ez met with about a dozen student leaders they turn man-to-man and woman-to-wom- According to MCAD, Blake “established Ms. Gallagher and others at the National Or- from the school. Perez and Tompkins also an. We say, well, it’s their country. If they that keeping his emotional support dog is a ganization for Marriage have been contribut- met with leaders from the local LGBT com- want to call their country British Gaydom, it’s reasonable accommodation necessary to ing to American life.” (365Gay.com—Jennifer munity. Charlotte Observer writer Franco Or- up to them. That’s not our culture. We con- afford him an equal opportunity to use and Vanasco editor in chief) doñez reported that Perez was scheduled to demn that filth.” enjoy the premises,” and “submitted credible meet with members of other minority groups, Five years ago, Zimbabwe passed laws evidence…that [he required the dog] to as- as well. (Q-Notes Online—at q-notes.com) t

BALTIMORE OUTLOUD APRIL 22, 2011 • baltimoreoutloud.com q 7 news // national Delaware House Passes Landmark Civil Unions Bill Bill Providing Critical Family Protections Moves to Governor Who Has Pledged to Sign

The Human Rights Campaign, the nation’s islation,” said Equality Delaware President rently, five states have laws providing an ex- largest LGBT civil rights organization, and Lisa Goodman. “The fact that the Delaware pansive form of state-level relationship rec- Equality Delaware, Delaware’s statewide General Assembly passed civil union legis- ognition for gay and lesbian couples, without coalition of LGBT advocates, congratulates lation on the first attempt is a great testament offering marriage. California, Nevada, New the Delaware House for passing civil unions to how far public opinion has come on equal- Jersey, Oregon, and Washington provide by an 26 to 15 vote on April 14. The bill now ity issues. This is a great day for equality in same-sex couples with access to almost of goes to Governor Markell for his signature. Delaware.” all the state level benefits and responsibili- “Today, we celebrate a victory for all Del- SB 30 will allow same-sex couples to ties of marriage, through either civil unions to achieve lesbian, gay, bisexual and trans- aware families who will have the tools to pro- enter into civil unions giving them all of the or domestic partnerships. Earlier this year, gender equality. By inspiring and engaging tect themselves in good times and in bad,” rights, benefits, and obligations of marriage the governors of Hawaii and Illinois signed all Americans, HRC strives to end discrimi- said HRC President Joe Solmonese. “We under state law, but would not allow same- into law civil unions bills. Couples in Illinois nation against LGBT citizens and realize a look forward to Governor Markell signing this sex couples to obtain marriage licenses. Re- can begin applying for civil union licenses on nation that achieves fundamental fairness bill into law and thank Senator Sokola and ligious institutions may choose not to solem- June 1, 2011 and in Hawaii couples can be- and equality for all. Representative George for their leadership nize civil unions. gin applying on Jan. 1, 2012. Equality Delaware is a coalition of Del- on this bill, and Equality Delaware for their Delaware will be the 8th state to of- Same-sex couples do not receive federal aware advocates working to ensure and tireless dedication.” fer civil unions or comprehensive domes- rights and benefits in any state. promote dignity, safety, and equality for all “We are tremendously proud that the tic partnerships. After the bill is signed into The Human Rights Campaign is Ameri- lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender Del- Delaware House as passed civil union leg- law, it will take effect on Jan. 1, 2012. Cur- ca’s largest civil rights organization working awareans. t

California Craftily Outmaneuvering Other States

Very few states can claim the title of “trend movement” be include in the curriculum. The the bill because he believed that teaching setter.” California, however, is a progressive history of Harvey Milk, for example, one of about homosexuality should be reserved As I state that has a history of changing cultur- the first openly gay elected officials from San to students’ parents. A realist would argue See It al thinking in America, and today is no dif- Francisco, would clearly have a lead role in that former Gov. Schwarzenegger’s logic David Placher ferent. In California, public school students the future academic program. is flawed because not all students’ parents are required to undergo academic studies Also, it can be argued that these types of understand or accept homosexuality as an about women’s history and black history. groundbreaking educational programs help option for children, leading one to ask: how torial candidate in Minnesota. These educational programs are designed students learn about themselves and com- could a parent possibly deliver a positive Canvass For A Cause, a gay rights to teach students about the struggles and bat any young gay students’ feeling of infe- presentation on gays in society, when they group, was outraged by this donation, and accomplishments of minority groups that riority or low self- themselves do not organized protests outside several San Di- were once suppressed from fully participat- esteem issues they “California’s State understand, know, ego stores. The controversy was so loud, ing in society. may undergo; theo- or agree with gay that even Lady Gaga canceled a deal to dis- The program’s anticipated outcome is retically, leading to Senate has a pending relationships or his- tribute a special new album edition to Tar- that students will appreciate diversity and a reduction in teen tory? If the current get. If the current chief executive officer and understand that inequality can cause a dys- suicides because bill that would pro-gay bill passes board of Target had learned about the strug- functional society, ultimately suppressing students will know require gay history both the Californian gles gays incurred during their high school individuals that could possibly benefit so- that being gay is nat- Senate and House, educational programs, they may have been ciety as a whole. California’s State Senate ural, that gays have to be included in the it is expected that less willing to approve a $150,000 donation has a pending bill—the first in the nation— a prominent role and Jerry Brown, the to an organization that promotes anti-gay that would require gay history to be included have been histori- academics of public current governor, candidates. in the academics of public school students. cally active mem- will sign the bill with- Being gay is not a simple lifestyle or Although California forcing students to learn bers in society. At school students.” out reservations. choice. It is a state of individualism, an iden- about minority groups seems controversial the same time, aca- Creating a better tity as to how one is born. If society fails to at first glance, the short- and long-run impli- demic programs that focus on issues relat- society can only be accomplished by edu- teach youths about common differences, cations are profoundly positive, which could ing to being gay could help ward off bullying cating youths. Had educating youths about then discrimination will continue to occur ultimately create a better and more under- and harassing by aggressive students that gays occurred years ago, it may have pre- and poor choices will continue to be made. standing society. target gays. vented the current controversy that has de- In order to counter discriminatory conduct, Although the State Senate bill is vague A bill similar to the one proposed was veloped in San Diego. Last year, Target, a education must be presented to youths dur- on gay history subject specifics or time- passed by California’s Democratic-con- national retailer, donated $150,000 to Minne- ing their developing stages of life, so they frames, it does mandate that notable Cal- trolled legislature a few years ago; however, sota Forward, which ultimately backed Tom can understand that diversity is not some- ifornians who have participated in the “gay former Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger vetoed Emmer, an anti-gay right and failed guberna- thing uncommon, but something natural. t

8 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD APRIL 22, 2011 • baltimoreoutloud.com The Telling Project says, “but I’m amazed when people are sur- – continued from page 1 prised to hear what it was like. Being part of Program director Brian “BR” McDonald to this project is humbling because I’m sharing bring the production to Baltimore. it with so many people at the same time. I Though the production is fresh in each still find myself assuming that people ‘get it’ city, The Telling Project: Baltimore will be the and when they hear what happened to me, first time the production has included a vet- they often tell me they didn’t ‘get it’ at all.” eran who was affected by the yet-to-be-re- Producer BR is an Army veteran and he pealed law known as ‘Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell.’ says teaming with Wei was an easy decision. Jeremy Johnson, a Navy veteran, settled “Veteran Artist Program is meant to help in Baltimore after being discharged veteran artists,” he explained, “whether they under the law in 2007. He was are performers or producing art pieces, introduced to the project team up with professionals to help through BR, and Jonathan them succeed. In this case, while not found his story interesting. all of the veterans in this play are “Jeremy’s story is im- actors—they’re telling their own portant not simply be- stories in their own words— cause it is a ‘DADT’ sto- who knows, they might ry, but because it is a part of like performing and pur- Jeremy,” says Wei. “In being a sue something similar in the part of Jeremy, it is also a part of future.” Baltimore, because Jeremy is a member of BR’s commitment to diversity in the pro- the community of Baltimore.” duction is not limited to the performers. He Also included in the production are four has teamed up with Semaj Wright, a profes- other veterans, the wife of one and the moth- sional ASL interpreter, to expand the avail- er of a Marine sniper killed in action. Each ability of the performance to the Deaf/Hard story covers an aspect of veteran life that of Hearing community in D.C. and Maryland. Wei hopes will pull back the curtain on the For Wright, participating was something abstract idea of the “veteran” label. In ex- he says he didn’t have to think twice about. plaining this, he discusses how starting from “I was in the Army and discharged for be- scratch in each city allows for stories to be ing gay before ‘Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell.’ Being heard that might otherwise be missed. In part of this project, where the goal is to share Baltimore, they happened to include the sto- what it is like to be a veteran, is exciting.” ry of a gay veteran. The show runs for three dates at two lo- “We create new productions in every cations. The first is the evening of April 27 at city,” Wei says, “because these ‘issues’ are the Walters Art Museum and is a $150 per- most important when they are human, rath- ticket fundraiser to pay for the cost of pro- er than abstract. Jeremy speaks eloquent- duction. Two more shows take place May 6 ly, with nuance, compassion and intelligence and 7 at Stephens Hall on the Towson Uni- to ‘DADT’ and its ramifications. But most im- versity Campus. Tickets for those shows are portantly, Jeremy speaks.” $5 for students and $10 for general admis- For his part, Johnson says he is sur- sion. For more information about the project prised he was asked to be included and un- visit: www.thetellingproject.org. sure of how the audience will react. To learn more about the Veteran Artist “I’ve talked about my experiences many Program here in Baltimore, visit www.veter- times since being discharged,” Johnson anartistprogram.org. t

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BALTIMORE OUTLOUD APRIL 22, 2011 • baltimoreoutloud.com q 9 Thinking Out Loud // Editorial

Some progress was made in Annapolis Coming Up Empty: but two major victories remain elusive.

This was supposed to be the year. Maryland the fight and received the brunt of the blame. for Equality Maryland said, “Over the com- especially since its removal this year failed was poised to join five other states and D.C. And that’s not fair. While the organization’s ing weeks we will work with our board, vol- to enact the legislation. Transgender folks in legalizing marriage for same-sex cou- overall performance was not perfect during unteers, supporters, legislative allies, and should unite and tell their personal sto- ples. And finally a measure would be passed this session, the failure of these bills should our local and national partners to discuss ries to legislators throughout the year—not that would offer certain protections to those not be laid on Equality Maryland’s doorstep. our next steps, consider possible strate- just when it’s time for committee testimony. based on gender identity. In fact, a key com- They are as disappointed and frustrated as gies and determine how we can continue to These lawmakers need to be educated. ponent of the bill, “public accommodations,” anybody. build and enhance an even stronger state- With Marriage Equality, we call on Gov- had been stripped purportedly to help pave Both bills moved further along through wide movement aimed at securing both gen- ernor O’Malley to play a more active role in the way towards passage. the legislative process than ever before in der identity anti-discrimination protections in influencing wavering legislators. If he had Those were the two signature pieces of history. Both made it out of their respective employment, housing, credit, and public ac- shown the degree of passion towards mar- legislation during the recently ended 2011 committees where they had been bottled up commodations and ending the exclusion of riage equality in the Free State as he had General Assembly. But we came up emp- for years—an encouraging first step. The loving and committed gay and lesbian cou- done with respect to the death penalty, we ty. Both bills were eventually recommitted to Senate approved the Civil Marriage Protec- ples from marriage. There are lessons to be probably would have had that bill passed and committee where they remained for the du- tion Act, and the full House did the same with learned. We hope that you will be part of the signed. He is the state’s leader with enor- ration of the session. the Gender Identity Anti-Discrimination Act. discussion.” mous influence. This is the time to use it. The anger, disappointment and frustra- But in the House, several delegates, who We are pleased that Equality Maryland And we also call on members of our own tion following each failed attempt were palpa- were previously identified as supporters of plans to develop ideas from a wider circle community to get more involved, to donate ble and expected. In the case of the contro- marriage equality, yielded to well-organized and engage more of the community. To that time and money and also tell your personal versial Gender Identity Anti-Discrimination and well-funded opposition. And the Gender end, we have allotted space in this newspa- stories to legislators, especially if your rep- Act, the transgender community was split Identity Anti-Discrimination Act was killed off per so that Equality Maryland can regularly resentative has not been supportive. But over the “public accommodations” matter, this year by a few senators who remain sig- present their ideas to our readers in a col- please thank those who have stood behind and the dispute became testy and virulent. nificant obstacles. umn called “Equality Corner.” us in these efforts and ask that they continue To be clear, people worked very hard to In a statement to supporters, Mor- We also support the inclusion of “pub- their support in the future. t get these bills passed. Equality Maryland led gan Meneses-Sheets, executive director lic accommodations” in next year’s attempt,

NEWS POLL // President Obama has said that his position on marriage equality is “evolving.” Do you think the President will announce support for marriage equality before the 2012 elections?

Yes, he sees marriage for same- sex couples as a human right

No, it would be a political risk Not sure To vote, visit www.baltimoreoutloud.com. Any comments on this question or any LGBT-related topic should be sent to editor@ baltimoreoutloud.com.

10 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD APRIL 22, 2011 • baltimoreoutloud.com thinking out lOUD

to kill the bill. The evening before the Sen- because last year s bill included public ac- now for us to capitalize on that to our advan- ate hearings they gathered to discuss strate- commodations, and second because last tage, not to just give it away. This has been gy for the next day. Unanimously they decid- year’s bill was never considered likely to go a long time coming, and we can’t let a few ed that they would argue for an amendment to a vote, so the senators would never have among us undo everything we’ve done.” put forth by Sandy Rawls of Trans-United to had to live up to their promises. The death of HB235 was Equality Mary- City Desk include public accommodations in a manner Equality Maryland insiders are quick to land’s second epic failure of the year. This view from Mt Vernon similar to the Baltimore City ordinance. say that transgender opposition played no bill was their last chance of the season to flex Dana LaRocca Encouraging an amendment, any part in the defeat of HB235. They say that their political muscle. Their failure to engage amendment in the Senate, would require the the fix was already in by Senate President the transgender community in the decision- bill to return to the House for a vote. The lo- Mike Miller or that the bill was doomed by making process is something that they now HB235 Death gistics of doing that would be almost impos- Senator Frosh whom they blamed for the bill recognize as they reach out to that same sible so close to the end of the session. It being stuck in committee in previous years. community as this goes to press. Their abil- Comes With was a potentially dangerous decision, but Trans-activists paint a different picture. ity to follow the lead of the transgender com- TransMaryland activists agreed that it was a Just days before the bill was introduced to munity, especially the needs of the under- Lessons Learned necessary risk to take. the full Senate, they targeted 16 senators class and ethnic minorities, will determine As it turned out the bill was amended, who Equality Maryland had labeled as fa- their legitimacy in the coming year. “Today is not a day to celebrate,” cried voic- with an amendment by Senator Frosh that vorable votes. Through an aggressive cam- Readers can expect a greater empha- es from Equality Maryland as HB235, the merely changed the language of the defi- paign they addressed those senators asking sis on direct action within the community in Gender Identity Anti-Discrimination bill, was nition of Gender Identity. This would like- them to kill the bill. Over half of them subse- collaboration with organizations like Trans- sent back to committee on the final day of ly have been enough to kill the bill. But the quently voted to recommit. United. All sides agree that we must have a the legislative session, thus killing the bill. bill died a happier death the following Mon- While it is not likely that the transgen- bill before the State House next year in or- Still, transgender folk who had opposed the day before the full Senate when in a 27 to 20 der opposition was wholly responsible for der to keep the conversation alive. But the bill because it had lacked protections in pub- vote, the Senate chose to return the bill to the 9 votes that changed sides it is argu- possibility of actually seeing a bill pass that lic accommodations were toasting their new the Judicial Proceedings Committee. able that their influence was felt in the Sen- soon is not a serious expectation. Expect to won power. The ignominious death of HB235 Equality Maryland cried foul, as Morgan ate chamber and that at least some of the see grassroots education and visibility from represented for them the end to domination Meneses-Sheets claimed that “Six Sena- senators were convinced that the interests leaders like Robyn Webb and Donna Pla- by the lesbian and gay political machine tors who committed to support HB 235 took of those most affected were not being fully mondon whose contributions during the last run by Equality Maryland out of their Sharp a walk on justice and fairness today.” But her considered. three months have been enormous. Street bunker. claim of their commitment to support the bill Long time trans-activist Robyn Webb Some of the more vocal voices we have Once the bill was released from the Rules was partly based on analysis of those sena- said, “We worked hard to repossess our heard from will fall into silence as those Committee transgender activists opposed to tors who had supported last year’s bill. That voice. We managed to gain some amount of whose interest is justice eclipse those whose the bill saw no choice other than to attempt analysis was flawed for two reasons. First, political capital in this fight, and the time is interest is self-serving. t

hero for our community. If Gover- nor O’Malley joins Attorney Gener- al Gansler as a true leader for LGBT The Way Forward Marylanders he will secure a last- By Kevin Walling our community and deserve our gratitude. Unsung heroes ing legacy as a civil rights champi- Today as I write this short piece on the way forward for LGBT of this fight include staff in the leadership, including Kris- on for every community. He needs Marylanders after devastating losses this past session in An- tin Jones, Joe Bryce, Pat Miller, Jake Weissmann, Hannah to hear from us every day. He has napolis, I cannot help by remember the legacy of Baltimore’s Miller, Ashlie Bagwell and so many more straight allies who a proud history of supporting equal- favorite son, William Donald Schaefer. Schaefer died this poured their heart and soul into making equality a reality for ity legislation and has committed to past Monday and while he won’t be remembered as a cru- our families. signing both bills. We must show him sader for LGBT equality, by any means, he will be remem- 2) Equality Maryland. As the former Communications and the way and convince him to go door William Donald bered as a complicated character who single-handedly res- Development Director at EQMD, I have a unique perspec- to door in Annapolis, as Governor Schaefer cued our city from the brink after the riots and restored faith tive on the organization. Just like the members and staff of Glendening did for anti-discrimina- in our charming city. the LGBT caucus, EQMD staff, volunteers and members are tion legislation, and demand that Maryland live up to its his- Perhaps there’s a lesson in Schaefer’s legacy for the truly dedicated individuals to the fight. We may disagree on tory as the Free State. LGBT community. He was a true fighter for what he believed strategy and focus, but that is only natural in a movement to 4) Legislative Leadership. In the following months, we in, right or wrong, and we need that same tenacity in our fight secure equal rights. At this critical time, Equality Maryland need to focus our efforts in District 30 and Anne Arundel to secure equality for ourselves and our families. needs your support, guidance and involvement. Do not let County as well as District 27 and Prince George’s County. Some weeks have passed since the marriage equali- these setbacks drive you from the fight for equality. If you pull Both Speaker Busch (D-30) and Senate President Mike Mill- ty loss in the House, while recent setbacks on transgender back, the National Organization for Marriage, Bishop Harry er (D-27) respect the voices of their communities and must equality are still settling in. Here’s what I know: Jackson and anti-equality homophobes win. I urge Equali- hear from their constituents on this issue. They not only have 1) LGBT Caucus and leadership staff and lobbyists. ty Maryland to build from these successes—both bills finally a responsibility to their districts, but also to the entire state— Members of the LGBT equality caucus in the General As- reaching the floor and passing in one body—continue edu- a state that enjoys majority support for marriage equal- sembly, Rich, Maggie, Heather, Anne, Bonnie, Mary, Luke cating the community and listening to the needs and con- ity rights according to the Washington Post. In addition to and Peter, did an incredible job in advancing both bills. Along cerns of the LGBT community. Governor O’Malley, we must focus our efforts on the Senate with their staff, these legislators are tireless advocates for 3) Governor O’Malley. We need the governor to be a —continued on page 20

BALTIMORE OUTLOUD APRIL 22, 2011 • baltimoreoutloud.com q 11 R AinBOW FAMILIES // REAL PARENTING HEALTH AND WELLNESS N o More Cruise Control By Vann Mills Allow your youngster to do their homework The What does that mean? It means the tran- in close proximity to you also helps. While Getting sition has started and you must earn con- you are working on a project, your young Unstuck tinuing education credits in Parenting 101. person will mimic your ability to focus and Gerry Fisher Journey, Parents sometimes do not recognize the feel as though they are working like ‘big shift in the way their child communicates people,’ while you give your silent support. new needs until it is too late. Basic commu- Socially your youngster may have trou- By Gerry Fisher, Life Coach nication skills that have worked in the past ble identifying where they ‘fit.’ From day www.BaltimoreLifeCoachGerry.com Not the are your reference book; however, children to day, their social groups change like the When I say, “It’s about the journey, not the ‘speak’ differently during maturing phases. weather. As a parent, you may feel like you destination,” you might hesitate for a mo- An awkward period for you and your have told them about how to manage cer- ment, because it isn’t a commonly heard Destination child is the late stages of elementary tain types of individuals and they are not message. After a few seconds, you’d prob- school, third and fourth grade. During this grasping the concepts. Remember that you ably understand and nod. “Yes!” „„ Don’t delay action in favor of over-ana- period, children are experiencing an awak- have given them the tools and now they But if I said to you, “What can you DO lyzing—let some action inform your planning ening. The elementary school-aged child must put them to use. to honor the journey more than the destina- „„ Practice flexibility is in the throes of peer pressure and an in- Since it has been a while since you ad- tion?” I’d probably see furrowed eyebrows. „„ Beware comparisons—don’t compare crease in academic trials while parents are vised them on such a matter, you must re- “What exactly do you mean?” what you have with what you expected or startled out of cruise control, of first and main patient. Gently refresh their memory As a life coach, I meet with people reg- with what other people have second grades. on more than one occasion how to vocal- ularly to figure out ways of making wisdom Of course, working regularly with a men- In grade three, their foundation is test- ly and physically assert self without fighting, “come alive” on a regular basis, so it even- tor, guide, or life coach can help you prac- ed. Your youngster will feel confident in the when to use staff, and how to utilize positive tually becomes habit. Therefore, to give you tice and strengthen these skills. morning and come home from school feel- self-talk after an incident. a feel for this type of life coaching approach, And why is this wisdom particularly ing spun by tornado winds. Peer pressure At home, be sure to include your young- let’s deconstruct “it’s the journey, not the helpful for LGBT people? It seems to me will definitely manifest and you may find ster in your busy life. Invite them into the destination,” so it feels do-able. Then, let’s that it’s difficult to separate regular gay life yourself repeating self-esteem builders, re- kitchen to help prepare dinner to bond, take a look at how living this way can sup- from at least a little bit of activism. When I enforcing behavior expectations at school show them the benefits of following instruc- port healthy, happy LGBT lives. say “activism,” I mean some action that con- and home, explaining reproductive and sex- tions, and foster a sense of accomplishment First, let me tip my hat to the destina- tributes to a better future. At its most basic ual content more than you expected. Chal- and value. Permitting them to do something tion. Why? Because stuck people need a vi- level, simply expressing same-gender love lenged academically and socially these tips easy like making orange juice or setting the sion or goal to motivate them, get them off and transgender feelings are activist, in that will assist you and your pre-tween to adjust. table will make both of you laugh, learn and the couch, and get them moving again. But they challenge the norm. Walking into an Academically take notice of the sub- forget about the stressors of the day. as soon as you begin moving, I recommend LGBT club, reading this newspaper, partici- jects that your child enjoys completing. Use Allowing your youngster to lead dis- a quick shift to appreciating the journey— pating on an LGBT website, or being in a re- this as an incentive when you are building cussions at the dinner table will allow you the day-to-day experience of doing and lationship have an activist effect. in their weak areas. For example, if your to learn about their concerns and open the learning. However, a college roommate once said youngster finds math easy allow door to understanding how they are Why is the journey more important than to me, “I feel sorry for people under 30 who them to toggle between the coping with different issues. the destination? Let us count the ways… aren’t activists, and I feel sorry for people weaker subject matter and Being willing to come out First, a destination is an illusion; once over 30 who still are.” It’s a bit cynical, but math. This will make you of your comfort zone will you reach a goal, you’ll quickly turn around I knew instantly what he meant. So, what him or her feel accom- prove beneficial to the and pick the next goal, right? Second, noth- does that mean for LGBT people, whose plished as they new relationship you ing completely turns out the way you ex- lives are so intertwined with activism? struggle and are building with your pected; life is what happens while you’re Well, a more mature form of activism see instant child. The transi- busy making other plans. Third, how many doesn’t sacrifice the present for the future. results of tion begins be- times have you set off toward a goal and dis- Yes, let’s keep working toward marriage hard work. fore your covered an even better goal along the way? equality, AND let’s form family with gusto As adults, very eyes. If Finally, if you’re stressed out about reach- and passion and integrity today, regardless we tend you are not ing the goal, you’re more likely to make mis- of what the state says about it. Yes, let’s to think careful, you takes in the present that end up threaten- keep working toward ending prejudice and in a lin- will miss the ing the goal. discrimination, but let’s not focus on righ- ear man- chance to Here is what you can do to turn this wise teousness and bitterness about “the way ner, but we mold the clay. saying into a regular habit: things should be” (destination), and focus need to re- Turn the „„ Practice keeping a relaxed-yet-focused instead on speaking our truths (journey). member that cruise control state of mind—it’s harder than it sounds! And here’s the most mind-bending part the goal is to button off, put „„ Do meditative, mindfulness exercises of it: if we focus on doing the journey real- complete the on your race- „„ Learn to savor and appreciate the ly, REALLY well, then we are more likely to homework feel- car gloves, moment reach our destination quicker and easier. If ing accom- and get back into „„ Focus on “relationship” over “result” we participate today with love and integrity, plished and not the race. t „„ Say “yes” and participate as much as we are more likely to bring about the tomor- traumatized. possible row of our dreams. t

12 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD APRIL 22, 2011 • baltimoreoutloud.com HEALTH AND WELLNESS

Open Wide Cancer ask Dr Eva Dr Eva Hersh From Oral Sex?

Dear Dr. Eva, This brings me back to your original Can you get Hodgkin’s lymphoma question. No, you cannot get Hodgkin’s lym- from a person that has it by swallowing phoma from a person that has it by swal- their semen? He didn’t tell me until later, lowing their semen. But you might get any and I heard it was caused by a virus. And number of other things, including HIV! Un- that would be just about my luck! protected oral sex is a common cause of oral Worried syphilis, throat gonorrhea, lip herpes, and Dear Worried, warts on the lips or tongue. It’s less common to catch HIV from oral sex, but it happens. Hodgkin’s Lymphoma is not an infectious For your health’s sake, please use a condom condition. A person cannot get it from con- for oral sex or do without it. tact with the body fluids (semen or blood) of Dr. Eva a person who has it. Dear Dr. Eva, The reason this question comes up is that some cancers are triggered by specif- I have noticed bumps under my arms ic viruses. Some (not all) cases of Hodgkin’s that come and go. Could these be signs lymphoma, and several other kinds of lym- of cancer? I stay really clean and shave phoma as well, are triggered by the Epstein under my arms every day, so I’m sure it Barr virus (EB). EB is an extremely com- couldn’t be an infection. Should I get a mon virus—90% of adults have antibodies to mammogram? EB virus in their blood, meaning they have 35 years old been infected with EBV. Many of these infec- Dear 35, tions occur in young childhood and are com- pletely without symptoms- the child may not If you are sure the bumps come and feel ill at all, or may have a minor illness that go, that is a very good sign. Cancer-related seems just like the other minor viral illnesses bumps (lymph nodes) don’t come and go— of childhood. When a person is not infected they come and stay. in childhood, and becomes infected in ado- I suggest you see your primary care med- lescence or adulthood EB virus can cause ical provider for an exam and discussion. mononucleosis (“mono”), a disease charac- Regular shaving does not decrease the terized by fever, prolonged sore throat, se- chance of infections—it actually increases vere fatigue, and sometimes liver and spleen the risk. Consider not shaving, or using hair enlargement. Mononucleosis is usually a removal cream or waxing instead. If you feel disease of adolescents and young adults. you must shave, use a new disposable razor It is contagious through saliva and is some- every time and wash well with antibacterial times called the kissing disease. soap before shaving. Hodgkin’s lymphoma occurs more often A mammogram is not likely to be help- in people who have had mononucleosis. So ful. In women under 40, the breast tissue it seems that becoming infected with the EB is denser, and mammograms often cannot virus at an older age (adolescence or older) show a clear image. As a result, unneces- makes a person more likely to have a later sary biopsies are done which cause scarring reactivation of the virus causing lymphoma. that makes future mammograms harder to Some researchers have suggested that EBV interpret, resulting in more unnecessary bi- associated Hodgkin’s lymphoma could be opsies and scarring. eliminated by making sure everyone is ex- Dr. Eva t posed to the EB virus in early childhood. Dr. Eva Hersh is Chief Medical Officer at However, very few people who have Chase Brexton Health Services. Send your mononucleosis will develop lymphoma. So comments and questions to her by email at it seems that other factors are involved. In- [email protected], or by surface born genetic vulnerability can be a predis- mail to Eva Hersh MD, Chase Brexton Health posing factor. So can acquired immunodefi- Services, 1001 Cathedral St., Baltimore, MD ciency such as occurs in people with AIDS. 21201

BALTIMORE OUTLOUD APRIL 22, 2011 • baltimoreoutloud.com q 13 passings FAITH Earl S. Martin Winning Faith Group Inclusion: A Community Advocate Remembered Framing Our Presentation By Bill Palmer powerment Advocacy Project (LEAP). His On Wednesday, April 13, 2011, family, work included serving as a member of the By Mark Patro At a recent training session with the Bal- friends and colleagues gathered at the Community Advisory Board at the John We have made tremendous progress this timore-Washington Area Reconciling Minis- Metropolitan Community Church of Bal- Hopkins University AIDS Clinical Trial year in many ways. Progress for inclusion tries (BWARM) on how to form your three- timore to celebrate a life well lived, and a Group Site and as a volunteer with Church- has been made on the Maryland State lev- minute “elevator story,” I listened with great friend well loved. His family knew him as es United Against AIDS. el, the Federal level and within some faith interest to Rev. Mary Kay Totty of Dumbar- Earl S. Martin, most friends The achievement, of which organizations. We have made progress be- ton United Methodist Church in Washing- knew him as Martin Earle, and I believe he was most proud, cause we have stopped arguing with the ton, D.C. describe this process. She told others knew him as simply was the establishment of the opposition. When we let them define the her story of how she came to supporting the Martinique. Whatever name 2 Snaps & a Circle HIV / AIDS framework of the conversation, we allow inclusion of LGBT people in the church. he was known by, he was best Ministry at the Metropolitan them to win. When we frame the presen- “I was a small child in grade school and known as someone who had Community Church of Balti- tation, we win. We as a community need to I was always, ALWAYS picked last for kick- a lasting impact on the lives more. Martin, while unabash- understand how and why this works. ball.” I think she referred to herself as “ath- he touched with a bright and edly proud of his Christian Marriage equality in Maryland was letically challenged.” beautiful smile, a gentle and faith, felt a strong need to en- voted on in the State Senate for the first “But this one time I remember,” and she generous spirit, and a kind and sure that Christian communi- time and passed. It came to the brink in even remembered the boy’s name, “being loving heart. ties better met the needs of ev- the House of Delegates. In fact, it came to picked fourth and that day I kicked a home Martin was born July 8, eryone in the community who within one or two votes of passing the sec- run.” 1961 in Baltimore, Maryland sought out their support. The 2 ond house to become law after garnering The point is obvious, when we are in- and received his early education in Or- Snaps & a Circle Ministry sought to devel- the promised Governor’s signature. cluded, when we feel as credible as every- leans, France and in Stuttgart, Germa- op ongoing opportunities for the church to On the Federal level Don’t Ask, Don’t one else we feel empowered to do well. In ny, later graduating from Lake Clifton High better provide for the needs of those living Tell was repealed and signed into law. the media and in the political arena, stories School in Baltimore. His further educa- with HIV/AIDS in the community through President Obama vowed to stop defending of yearning and desire provoke hope and tion included study of Theatre Arts at Tow- educational support and networking op- The Defense of Marriage Act, declaring it optimism. “Hope” has worked before. son State University, and certification as a portunities, as well as to empower peo- unconstitutional. Shortly thereafter, its re- As the Maryland Legislative session of manager through the Baltimore Studio of ple of faith with the educational information peal was reintroduced in Congress. 2011 came to a close, it appears that we Hair Design, which allowed him to open his needed to protect them from becoming in- Many in Catholic congregations across worked extremely hard and won nothing. own salon where he could follow his pas- fected by HIV. the country now support Marriage Equal- And our opponents will celebrate the fail- sion for working as a hair designer and Martin passed on surrounded by his ity in spite of the church hierarchy’s posi- ure of passage of SB116 and HB235, but makeup artist. Martin was always one to Pastor and family on April 6, 2011, after a tion. The United Methodist church is hold- in the process we have gained some new stand out in a crowd, at events throughout long struggle with HIV-related complica- ing many area-wide conversations about supporters. We have galvanized our per- the community supporting LGBT- and HIV- tions, finally succumbing to lung cancer. removing the words, “Homosexuality is in- sistence. We have seen how desperate our related issues, with a smile on his face, a Martin asked that donations in his compatible with Christian teaching” from opponents become when they sense our camera in hand, and almost always wear- memory be made to the Metropolitan their Book of Discipline, which essentially pending victory. ing the sharpest outfit in the room. Community Church of Baltimore, 401 W. is the church’s Constitution. We are on the right side of justice. I now A passionate activist, advocate and hu- Monument Street, Baltimore, 21201. I be- When we tell our personal stories, KNOW Marriage Equality and Transgen- manitarian, Martin focused much of his ef- lieve that it was his hope, that these con- whether we are LGBT or parents or al- der Civil Rights will soon be Maryland law. fort on improving the lives of people living tributions would help sustain the 2 Snaps lies, we make our effort personal. In the And, yes, “soon” is undefined, but I know with HIV and prevention of the spread of & a Circle Ministry past his direct abili- Maryland Senate, Senator James Brochin the trajectory is much shorter than it has HIV. He served as a member of the Board ty to do so. The viability and sustenance changed his position and voted to support ever been. We must continue to tell our sto- of Directors of LifeLinc of Maryland and of that ministry long into the future would marriage equality when he evaluated the ries. We have made progress because we a member of the People Living with HIV/ most certainly be a fitting tribute to a much simple and hopeful life stories of desire for have stopped arguing with the opposition. AIDS Committee of the Greater Baltimore loved friend, family member, and colleague inclusion when weighed against the nasty I will admit that progress in Faith or- HIV Health Services Planning Council. He whose presence will be greatly missed. t and hateful vitriol of people like New Jer- ganization is slower, but we will win inclu- was also a graduate of the Leadership Em- sey’s Brian and Maggie. Senator Kathy sion as more and more folks in the religious Klausemeier decided to vote in support of movable middle hear our stories. t the Civil Marriage Protection Act when she Mark Patro is president of the Baltimore Le Roy W. Roloff listened to the stories of her constituents’ County chapter of PFLAG—Parents, Fami- desire for inclusion. lies and Friends of Lesbians and Gays. Le Roy W. Roloff passed away at his home in Lutherville, on April 8, 2011, from pancreatic cancer. Friends fondly remember talk- The Byzantine Rite Old Catholic Church is pleased to announce the ing to Le Roy during happy hour at the Drinkery, while his part- opening of our Cathedral of Saint Antony ner Don tended bar. He was also employed at the Club Baths in Join us every Sunday 1:00 PM at Divine Liturgy at First Unitarian UC, 12 W. Franklin Street the early 1980’s. (corner of Charles and Franklin Streets in Downtown Baltimore). For more information, He is survived by two older sisters, as well as Don, his partner contact [email protected] or 443-691-4926. of 21 years. He is also survived by Don’s two sons. Le Roy was http://church.revdanielromanos.com deeply loved, and will be truly missed. t

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BALTIMORE OUTLOUD APRIL 22, 2011 • baltimoreoutloud.com q 15 Lively Arts // OUT ON STAGE Cirque du Soleil’s TOTEM Dazzles in Baltimore By Steve Charing TOTEM has been billed as a production that “traces the fascinating journey of the human species from its original amphibian state to its ultimate desire to fly. The char- acters evolve on a stage evoking a giant tur- tle, the symbol of origin for many ancient civilizations.” Make no mistake, the two and a half hour spectacle under the Grand Chapite- au (Big Top) in the Westport area of Balti- more features the thread of the evolution of man woven throughout, but you can quickly file that away as the acts unfold. Where the opening scene represents an ancient, trib- al depiction, the next scene, puzzlingly, dis- plays a modern beach complete with Frisbee tossers. Therefore, if TOTEM, written and direct- ed by Robert Lepage, is about the evolution at best. An attempt of the human species exploring the dawn of towards comic re- creation—humanity’s amphibian origins and lief, for example, by its ultimate desire to fly—there is no logical two clowns hurtling chronology to support it as it moves back amok in a runaway and forth in both time and space. The three speedboat failed to major themes were the beginning of life with hit the mark. reptiles, fish, amphibians and birds; the evo- Costumes de- lution to man; and the cycle of the seasons. signed by Kym Bar- But without a clear, orderly progression, rett, however, were such themes get lost amidst the acts. magnificent in its de- Nonetheless, in typical Cirque du Soleil tail, and their ties to form, TOTEM (pronounced toe-TEM) enter- the show’s themes tains and dazzles the senses with astound- were impressive. ing acrobatic and aerial feats, stunning sets, “Although TOTEM costumes and music. is quite fantastical, As TOTEM mirrors the circle of life, it em- there’s also a sense ploys creative symbolism conveyed by hoop of reality,” says Bar- dances, rings, juggling and spins. A quintet rett. “The costumes were inspired in part by performed behind the weeds of the marsh. icent and would surpass most circuses. of Asian female unicyclists throwing bowls documentary film. I wanted them to have a Composers and musical directors Guy If you want to simply sit back and en- on top of each others’ heads without using kind of documentary patina, even though we Dubuc and Marc Lessard who work profes- joy the sights and sounds of this spectacle hands was the best of the best. The act that were inventing our own reality.” sionally under the name of “Bob & Bill” were and not try to expend much effort in mak- involved women engaging in magical foot Carl Fillion’s set design was equally out- also effective in reflecting TOTEM’s themes ing sense of the show’s themes, then it is a juggling (Crystal Ladies) was a close sec- standing. “TOTEM is about evolution, so it by mixing genres and cultures. “Each acro- worthwhile experience. t ond. And then there was the couple on the was appropriate that the sets went through batic number has its own respiration, its own Cirque du Soleil was created in 1984 fixed trapeze offering a tremendous display their own evolution,” says Fillion. “I do al- rhythm, and its own arc,” says Bob & Bill. from a band of 20 street performers in Que- of agility, strength and athleticism. ways like to work with space, constantly “The music has to take that into account— bec City, Canada by Guy Laliberté. The com- All the acrobatic and aerial stunts—the transforming it and filling it with movement.” not only in the interests of the audience, but pany now has 5,000 employees from nearly Rings Trio, Roller Skates, Hoops Dancer, Tilted slightly forward, the rear stage in the interests of the artists too.” 50 different countries, including more than perches (involving 10 businessmen trying to doubled as a stage entrance and as a pro- Although the aroma of popcorn, kettle 1,200 artists. reach the highest peaks)—were entertaining jection surface. Through the use of moving corn and cotton candy permeated the en- TOTEM opened in Montreal one year to be sure and had the enthusiastic audience images, it became a virtual swamp, a riv- trance tent of the site, this was not your ev- ago and will tour North America and Europe. applauding wildly following each. These per- er source, a marsh, a lake, an ocean, a vol- eryday circus. There were some clowns run- It is truly an international company with 21 formances comprise the fun part of Cirque’s canic island, a pond and a starry sky. This ning through the audience prior to the show, countries represented among the cast and brand and brought life to TOTEM. creative fluid scenery was cleverly execut- but not like you would see in the traditional crew of 119. It runs in Baltimore through May But the story lacked a cohesiveness ed throughout the show, and to me, rivaled circus, nor was there a traditional ringmaster 1 with the next stop being Pittsburgh. Tick- which would have added a clearer context the individual acts for pure joy. The orches- or animal acts. But the aerial stunts, gymnas- ets may be obtained at 1-800-450-1480 and for the acts. And the narration was flimsy tra, under the direction of Neilson Vignola, tics and acrobatics were precise and magnif- at www.cirquedusoleil.com.

16 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD APRIL 22, 2011 • baltimoreoutloud.com Live ly Arts // OUT ON SCREEN The Best That Ar thur You Can Do? By Chuck Duncan Best Supporting Actor Oscar for the role). A few years ago, director John Waters com- Arthur’s family is dismayed by his behav- mented on the Hollywood trend of remakes ior and threaten to cut him off unless he mar- by telling filmmakers they should stop re- ries a girl named Susan—more of a business making classics and remake bad movies arrangement than a real marriage. Unfortu- and make them better. Hollywood, sadly, has nately, Arthur has fallen for another girl from not heeded his words and now gives us a the wrong side of the tracks (Liza Minnelli), “re-boot” of the comedy classic Arthur. but is forced to go through with the wedding Any movie from the 1980s is ripe for the because money talks. picking because the people who go to the Hobson takes ill and passes away, leav- movies, especially on opening weekend, ing Arthur (who had been sober while caring weren’t even born when the original Arthur for Hobson) despondent. He hits the bottle was released in 1981, and they almost sure- again, tells Linda he loves her and they go ly don’t know Dudley Moore and only know to the church to stop the wedding. Susan’s Liza Minnelli as that old singer from Sex & the father, however, is very over-protective and City 2 (and maybe Arrested Development). gives Arthur a thrashing at the church when The original Arthur Bach was a drunk, he shows up with Linda and the wedding is adult’s body whereas the original Arthur was bending as his mother, rather than his fa- plain and simple. A fun drunk, but a drunk canceled. Arthur knows he will be broke but just an irresponsible adult. We’re told the new ther, threatens to cut him off from the family nonetheless. He was also filthy rich thanks happy, but his grandmother tells him that he Arthur drinks but he spends more time play- fortune if he doesn’t marry Susan (Jennifer to his family’s deep pockets, and he loved can have the money because no Bach will ing with his toys and causing havoc around Garner) but his heart is once again torn by to cruise around a pre-Disney-fied New York ever be a working class person. New York than he does getting drunk. a girl from the wrong side of the tracks, this City picking up prostitutes for a night of fun. The new Arthur follows the same basic Political correctness has caught up time named Naomi (Greta Gerwig). He had a servant named Hobson (played plot, but without any of the charm. This Ar- with Arthur so much that now he attends Hobson is now a woman (Helen Mirren) brilliantly by Sir John Gielgud, who won the thur, played by Russell Brand, is a child in an AA meetings! There is also some gender- —continued on page 20

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BALTIMORE OUTLOUD APRIL 22, 2011 • baltimoreoutloud.com q 17 Lively Arts // BETWEEN THE COVERS Postcard from the Philippines: An Interview with Author R. Zamora Linmark

By Gregg Shapiro as with any other stories that are borne from stay in Manila serve like a guide to him. Bur- Gay writer R. Zamora Linmark, a.k.a. Zack, a personal experience. The autobiographi- rnadette was the closest to being Vince’s is the author of two poetry collections, two cal route can be very tempting, but I was not spiritual guidance, explaining to him, for ex- novels and the play Rolling The R’s, based writing a memoir. I was creating a story that ample, the possible causes of his night- on his first novel of the same name. His is dependent on imagination, a story that, at mares and the migratory ways of Filipinos. second novel, the marvelous Leche (Cof- times, blurs the fictive from the real, the fac- Bino Boca, on the other hand, was Vince’s fee House Press), hits the shelves in May tual from what could be construed as factual. guide to Manila’s High Society 101. This part 2011. The story of Vicente who returns to the Once I liberated Vince from myself, and vice- of the novel, in fact, was one of the last-min- Philippines after living in Hawaii for sever- versa, another world, as intense and magnif- ute inclusions. I knew there was something al years, Leche is funny and seriously satir- icent as mine, opened up. missing about him, that he was more than ical and one of the most satisfying novels of GS: One of the most prevalent compo- just a director of socio-political melodrama the year. I spoke with Zack shortly before the nents of Leche is the humor. ther ties to or come from the Philippines but flicks. It wasn’t until he started bitching to publication of the novel. RZL: Humor is a necessary element in Leche are no longer living there. Ambivalence, ac- Vince about Manila’s High Society that his Gregg Shapiro: Zack, how much of you is because it is partly a satire and more impor- cording to John Updike, is “the only kind of character began to blossom. in Vince, the main character of your nov- tantly, humor—twisted, corny, playful—is an love worth writing about.” GS: Keeping with the movie theme, there el Leche? integral part of the Philippine culture. It is their GS: Dreams also play a role in the book. is a cinematic quality to the book. Would R. Zamora Linmark: I’m glad you asked me way of dealing with this maddening world, RZL: Dreams, or my understanding of them, you say that’s a reflection of the influ- that because one of the things I had to keep with grief, love and other disappointments. are metaphors for what we have gone or are ence of film on Filipino culture? in mind while writing the novel was that I was GS: It’s clear that Vince and others in the going or will go through. Affirmations and RZL: I write in terms of scenes, which may not Vince, that though we may share the par- book have a love/hate relationship with omens in our lives. For writers, exploring explain for the book’s cinematic quality. The allel experience of having gone back to our the Philippines. Would you say that that the dreams of their characters is one route chapters composed of moments and memo- childhood home, the Philippines, after being is a commonly shared feeling? to better understanding them. Another is ries are broken down according to scenes. away from it for so long, Vince was not me RZL: I don’t know if it’s a shared feeling by through their desires. Also, the protagonist, Vince, majored in film and I was not him. It was difficult, of course, all Filipinos. Perhaps for those who have ei- GS: The book does an effective job of de- (and literature), which explains for the num- picting the blurring of the lines between ber of film references. If anything, Leche is superstition and religion. an homage to the wonderful world of cine- RZL: Many Filipinos are Folk Catholics (if ma—to Fellini, Chaplin, and Filipino melo- Books For Kids Day there is such a term), that is, they believe in drama movies. It was the movies that initi- superstitions and anting-antings (or amulets) ated Vince into the world of the imagination, Saturday May 7, 2011 as much as they do in God and miracles. and it was also the movies that triggered un- “Blurring” is the operative word. It is what I wanted memories. 9am to 2pm attempt to do in Leche—to blur the lines be- GS: Was it fun to make up the names and Rain or Shine! tween two opposing elements or forces, be- plots of Bino’s movies? tween the real and hyper-fictive world, be- RZL: Yes [laughs]. I had a lot of fun inventing tween the personal and public, between the them, including a script of his latest melodra- Poly-Western High School truth and exaggeration. The aim of fiction ma which starred President Aquino’s daugh- Located at: Falls Road at Cold Spring Lane, Baltimore is not just to tell a story but to convince the ter Kris. These films, absurd and campy as Exit 9 off I-83 (Jones Falls Expressway) reader that the events in it took place. they are, are not far from the kind of mov- GS: You utilize some fascinating devices, ies that come out of the Philippines. You’d including the “postcards” and the “tour- be surprised to discover that I did not have Donate your new and gently used books to the ist tips.” to work very hard in stretching my imagina- RZL: Leche is also a travelogue, a guide- tion [laughs]. Baltimore Reads Book Bank to help those schoolchildren book to Manila as well as a young man’s GS: If there was a movie made of Leche, otherwise unable to afford books of their own. journey into the heart of (his) darkness. who would you want to portray Vince? Think of Lemuel Gulliver, except that he is RZL: Hmmm. I don’t know if I’d want Leche going to a foreign place that used to be his to be adapted into film. In a way, it already home. I thought of postcards and tourist tips is one.

because these are the “tools” of the traveler. GS: Leche also deals with the intersec- The postcards also allow us to see Manila tion of gay and Filipino culture. from Vince’s perspective as told in the first RZL: I’m not an advocate of categories but person point of view. if Leche has a sexuality, it would be “queer.” GS: I really loved the wisdom of beloved It’s neither gay nor straight. It’s transgres- movie director Bino Boca and house- sive, subverts rather than subscribes to our keeper Burrnadette, two characters on binary ways of thinking and looking at gen-

the opposite ends of the social spectrum. der. In Leche I tried to show that desire can- For more information: RZL: Both Bino Boca and Burrnadette not be boxed in, that it is as uncategorizable BooksForKidsDay.org or BaltimoreReads.org served as Vince’s guides. In fact, many of as it is temporary. That it’s open season for the characters that Vince meets during his everyone who dares to catch it. t

18 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD APRIL 22, 2011 • baltimoreoutloud.com Live ly Arts // MUSIC COOLCOOL CRAFTSCRAFTS

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BALTIMORE OUTLOUD APRIL 22, 2011 • baltimoreoutloud.com q 19 NINE PAIRS Out musician Kate Cooper and Damien The Way Forward – continued from page 19 Cox of An Horse have picked up the pace a – continued from page 11 pledge five million. We need to match our bit on “Dressed Sharply,” the opening cut on opponents dollar for dollar, organized block Cat’s Eyes self-titled debut on Cooper- Walls (Mom+Pop). You might even mistake President and House Speaker—every sin- by block and strategy by strategy. National ative Music/Downtown is something to purr them for a mixed gender Tegan and Sara. In gle day until next the next session in Janu- partners help on this front, but need to ac- about. The unlikely mingling of the talents of fact, the whole musical mood of the disc is ary 2012. knowledge and understand the relationships The Horrors’ vocalist Faris Badwan and Ca- somewhat brighter, as you can hear on gal- 5) Demographics. A majority of Maryland- already built and the plans already in motion. nadian opera singer/musician Rachel Zeffi- loping tracks such as the title cut, “Airport ers support full marriage rights—the num- There is no question we will win the ra has yielded 10 hauntingly hip tunes. As Death,” “Trains and Tracks” and the afore- bers are clearly on our side, but we have a lot fight for full marriage rights and transgender theme songs go, the titular track is nothing to mentioned “Dressed Sharply.” (An Horse is of work to do in key demographics. We need equality. As Attorney General Gansler rightly hiss at. “Best Person I Know,” a praisewor- performing May 1 in Towson at Recher The- to work with our allies in the African Ameri- says, “It is not a matter of if, but when.” The thy song of praise, is followed by the darkly atre and on May 10 in Baltimore at Ottobar.) can Christian community and with Catholics “when” can be next year, if we band togeth- gorgeous “I’m Not Stupid.” Equally stunning Beach House isn’t the only male/female around the state to win over supporters pew er as a community, set our differences aside are “The Lull” and “I Knew It Was Over.” A Maryland duo mining a modern psychedel- by pew. There are hundreds of thousands and keep focused on the end game: a state strong `60s influence can be heard on “Over ic vein. On Tall Hours In The Glowstream of church going Marylanders who support free from discrimination, where every Mary- You,” “Face In The Crowd,” “Not A Friend” (Suicide Squeeze), Cotton Jones taps into our rights and we need to help channel their lander has the opportunity to enjoy equal and “Bandit.” a similar musical mindset. But unlike Beach voices within their communities. employment opportunities, protect their fam- Reduced to a duo on Vices & Virtues (De- House, Cotton Jones adds a country gospel 6) National partners. We need nation- ily and grow up knowing that they can one caydance/Fueled By Ramen), Panic! At The element to their sound, which is most audi- al groups like HRC, the Task Force, Victo- day marry the person they love. t Disco still know how to make an emo ruckus. ble on “Somehow To Keep It Going,” “Glor- ry Fund, Gill Action and others to be at the Kevin Walling currently serves as the Even if you don’t dig emo (see Fall Out Boy), ylight and Christie,” “Man Climbs Out of the table now. We need to develop a key strate- National Field Director for No Labels— there’s something appealing about the way Winter” and “No Things I Need (Like Some gy for swaying the handful of votes we need a national movement encouraging elect- the dudes weave an infectious dance (!) beat Time Again).” (Cotton Jones is performing on over the coming months. When the National ed officials to put common sense so- into songs such as “Let’s Kill Tonight,” “Hur- May 7 in Easton at NightCat.) Organization for Marriage pledges one mil- lutions over party politics. He lives in ricane” and “Ready To Go (Get Me Out of My On Raven In The Grave (Vice), The Ra- lion dollars to defeat elected officials who Baltimore, Maryland. He can be reached at Mind)” (which sounds like a lost The Killers veonettes continue to rev their garage/ support equality, we need our partners to [email protected] track), without sacrificing any (post)adoles- goth sound over the course of # tracks. It cent angst. The guys even refresh their pal- comes through loud and clear on the tracks ette with the lovely acoustic ballad “Always” “Recharge & Revolt,” “Forget That You’re Arr thu asperated by Brand through the entire shoot, and the retro pop of “Sarah Smiles.” Young,” “Let Me On Out” and “Ignite.” t – continued from page 17 because she was just a sourpuss the whole time. Audiences loved Gielgud’s Hobson be- who is Arthur’s nanny instead of butler. Yes, cause he was witty and just rolled his eyes at Formerly known as Deer Park Lodge, We Proudly Present... nanny. Unfortunately for Mirren, she doesn’t Arthur, while Mirren’s Hobson just comes off have half as many great one-liners as Giel- as a disapproving parent. gud did in the original (don’t count on any Worst of all is Greta Gerwig. I enjoyed Oscar glory for this role), and her illness and her performance in No Strings Attached, but death happen so fast that there is no real here she’s got one expression and one tone emotional impact. of voice, no matter how happy or angry she I will be honest and admit that I am not is with Arthur. the world’s biggest Russell Brand fan. His It’s been a long time since I’ve seen the voice is grating and he’s really not pleasant original Arthur, but I do remember laughing to look at. All I could think about was if he a lot while watching it. I laughed once dur- ever washes his hair. He plays the little boy ing the new Arthur. Some movies are just of in Arthur perfectly but there’s never any real their time and can’t be remade or updated growth in the character, even when he does without taking some drastic measures. Ar- call off the wedding and forsake his millions. thur was certainly of a time when audienc- Jennifer Garner did turn in a nice per- es could laugh with and love a drunk million- formance as the woman who knew her mar- aire with a penchant for ladies of the evening riage to Arthur was only business, because (and a heart of gold). by taking the Bach name she would con- It’s hard to warm up to a spoiled brat mil- trol his company when his mother stepped lionaire with a fleet of movie cars (including down. Garner played the cold-hearted gold the original Arthur limo) who doesn’t know digger very well. the value of a dollar even if he does have a It’s hard to tell if Mirren just took the role heart of gold. The best that you can do? 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20 q BALTIMORE OUTLOUD APRIL 22, 2011 • baltimoreoutloud.com DINING

Adventures in Baltimore Restaurants Jessica Lemmo

Miguel’s Cocina y Cantina 1200 Steuart St Baltimore, MD 21230 full of flavor. It is also just a good the next day Michael Marx started with Blue Agave, which when you dig into its leftovers. he sold a few years ago and then went on to Another item that a few tried was the En- open RUB BBQ and now on to Miguel’s Co- chiladas de Pollo with hand-pulled, fresh cina y Cantina in the Silo Point building. TheGood Food & Drinks, Dizz Casual & Funky roasted chicken with queso cotija, Smoked Once you pass the double glass doors Gouda and Jack cheeses then rolled in red with silver cactus door handles, you walk in corn tortillas and topped with Salsa Verde to a chic industrial type atmosphere with the and served with sautéed cactus and black high ceilings and with a laid back feeling. beans ($14). The appearance was appeal- The bright-colored walls are adorned with a ing but as you got into it the meat was on the statue of Our Lady of Guadalupe, Mexican dry side. However, the sautéed cactus was a beer logos and skeleton faces (to represent crowd pleaser. the Day of the Dead). The wooden bar with Another anticipated dish was the Car- Spectacular 180° Views modern star lights separates the two dining nitas Juvencio with a Coca-Cola marinade rooms. The tall glass windows allow dinners over 12-hour, slow-roasted chunks of ten- of Charm City to overlook the cargo ships and harbor. der pork then served with refried beans, ci- Each table is greeted with drink orders lantro, onions, jalapeño, lime and warm corn Full Bar Now Open and chips with two types of salsa (mild green tortillas ($16). The hype of the anticipation of tomatillo sauce and spicier red-tomato). My this dish was a bit of a letdown and the flavor first drink of the night was the Miguel’s mar- wasn’t as bold as anticipated. Mondays garita with Hornitos Plata, Gran Gala, and A creative dish that was enjoyed was the 50¢ Wings & $1.50 Domestic Bottles Miguel’s mix ($7). They say all the margari- Salmon en Pepitas which is Pumpkinseed Dizz tas are fresh and no mix (some might ques- crusted filet of Salmon with Mole Verde and Happy Hour TheG r a n d v i e w tion this). It was fresh and a great way to start then served with Sunflower seed red chard 50¢ Off All Beer Selections dinner celebration. Try Guacamole with fresh and black beans, on a red corn tostada Monday—Friday 11 am 10 pm avocado, prepared with Serrano chilies, ci- ($16.50). The meat was moist and perfect- Monday Friday 3pm7pm Saturday & Sunday 8:30 am 10 pm lantro, fresh lime juice, kosher salt and fresh ly cooked and the sunflower seed chard was Breakfast served weekends 8:30 am 2pm chopped garlic (for 4 people $12). The Gua- very delicious. 300 W 30th St ● 4438695864 camole (pictured) was fresh and had plenty While we sampled everyone’s dishes and www.thedizzbaltimore.com St. Mary’s Roland View Towers of ample size pieces of avocado. enjoying conversation I treated myself to an- Follow us on Facebook & Twitter 3838 Roland Ave, Rooftop ● 4438693085 When perusing the menu for your dinner other margarita. This time I tried the Jamaica options don’t get discouraged by the worlds (Ha-maika) with Sauza Gold, Hibiscus flower, that are unfamiliar to you because the wait triple sec and Miguel’s mix ($6). This margar- staff is very helpful and willing to explain ita was very powerful and made you feel as things. There seemed to be a trend among though you were lounging on a beach. the table with what people were ordering Besides a few let downs with some of because there were a few dishes repeated the dishes another hiccup we came across when orders were placed. was the service. Our waitress was attentive One popular item was the El Tri Burrito with drinks but would sometimes disappear with grilled skirt steak, pulled chicken and for long periods of time to the point I had to pork chunks stuffed into a large flour torti- chase her down somewhere in the restaurant lla and then topped with Salsas Tri Colores- when we were ready to order. Our food did chile rojo, Lime Crema and Mole Verde and seem to take about 45 minutes (if not a few served with arroz verde and refried beans more) to finally come out after we ordered. ($13). The size of this burrito makes jaws With the hiccups aside I would be will- drop and wrists hurt from its weight. Not one ing to stop by and sample a few more dish- person really ate more than half due to its es plus dessert and give Miguel’s Cocina y size. Each of the three meats was moist and Cantina a second chance. t

BALTIMORE OUTLOUD APRIL 22, 2011 • baltimoreoutloud.com q 21 YOUR MONEY // REAL ESTATE Springtime Maintenance Tips for LGBT Homeowners Whether someone already owns a home to start from the top and work downward, so expected changes and or plans to purchase one this spring during most homeowners begin with a close exami- reporting those to a tree the busiest season for real estate sales, it is nation of the roof. But insurance profession- surgeon for closer exami- helpful to know some timely home mainte- als, arborists, and landscapers typically rec- nation. Any dead branch- nance tips. Doing routine home maintenance ommend going higher and starting with any es need to be removed this time of year not only helps to preserve a trees on the property. That’s because if the by a qualified arborist, valuable investment and improve home eq- trees have dead wood or hanging branches otherwise a strong gust uity, but it can also contribute in both tan- those can rain down on the roof and under- of wind could dislodge gible and intangible ways to an enhanced mine any repairs that have may have been them, and falling limbs or quality of life. Living in a home that is well already completed elsewhere. toppled trees can cause taken care of gives one invaluable peace of Look for signs of diseased or rotten serious bodily injury and mind, and it also offers a special boost of es- branches by observing trees as they be- property damage. teem that comes from pride of ownership. gin to “green-out” with new leaves. If parts Examine the Roof LGBT homeowners can use the follow- of the tree show a conspicuous absence of and Gutter System ing expert tips and guidelines to get a head new leaves it usually indicates dead wood. Next study the roof start on their springtime residential proper- One good way to track these changes is to from the ground, looking for curled or miss- mortar in the joints between stones or bricks ty to-do list. take photographs of trees from various an- ing shingles. Homeowners should use great has deteriorated it is important to refill those Check the Trees gles while they are covered with leaves in caution if they plan to go onto the rooftop, gaps, otherwise the wall’s structural integrity When beginning a spring maintenance or late summer. Then compare those photos however, because that kind of work can be will be compromised. If the concrete blocks housecleaning project it is common practice from one year to the next, tracking any un- hazardous – even for professional roofers. If or wooden beams supporting the house at there are any leaks or stains inside the attic the foundation have little lines and trails of it is best to hire a contractor to climb up and dirt or mud on them, those could be termite search for telltale signs of leakage as well tracks. Carpenter ants also eat wood and if as damaged flashing around chimneys, dor- they are swarming around woodwork, espe- mers, and vent pipes. Don’t rush out and pay cially damp or rotten boards, they could be for a brand new roof without getting compet- doing a tremendous amount of unseen dam- ing bids and evaluations, though, because age. Order routine termite inspections of the many problems on the roof can be fixed with house in order to stay protected, especial- affordable, relatively minor repairs. ly during the warm and damp spring months Clear out and repair the gutters next, when infestations often occur. making sure that all gutter pipes are ade- Those who have wood burning fireplac- quately supported and have enough pitch es should also move woodpiles to the edge or angle to ensure proper drainage. They of the yard, rather than storing wood in or should slope approximately half an inch per around the house. Termites will often nest in 10-foot length, and running water into gutters firewood and then migrate into the home un- from a garden hose is one way to check flow less wood is stored in a dry place at a safe and drainage. The spouts should also be po- distance. This is also the perfect time to sitioned in such a way that the water does check air conditioning systems. Make sure not splash back onto the home’s foundation that the outdoor compressor equipment and or drain toward the house. Drainage should central air fans are free of leaves and oth- instead run away from the exterior without er debris. creating wet walkways or annoying puddles. Finally, replace dusty and dirty air filters. Police the Perimeter New filters are inexpensive and contribute to Bushes, plants, and flowerbeds should the efficient performance of air conditioning also be at least 18 inches from the exteri- units while also controlling the cost of oper- or walls of the home with dirt kept off of the ating those systems, both in terms of money base foundation. Home inspectors usually and energy. t recommend leaving enough space around To find real estate professionals devoted the outside of the house to allow a clear, un- to serving the LGBT community, visit www. obstructed view of the foundation. 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BALTIMORE OUTLOUD APRIL 22, 2011 • baltimoreoutloud.com q 23 Leather David Rink Sashed Line Rodney Burger Mr. Baltimore Deaf Leather 2011

The Baltimore Leather Association of the Mr. Maryland Leather 2012 Contest com- Deaf (BLADeaf) hosted their 19th Annual ing up in November. Talk about location! Af- BLADeaf Run featuring the BLADeaf Con- ter the ShipMates’ cocktail party everyone test on April 8-9 in Baltimore. Although the walked (or stumbled) right next door to Le- contest was to feature the selection of five on’s Leather Lounge for the BLADeaf Con- new titleholders: Mr./ Ms. Baltimore Deaf test. Dennis Hart did a wonderful job as pro- Leather 2011, Baltimore Deaf Leatherboy ducer of this year’s event. 2011, Mr. Baltimore Deaf Bear 2011, and Bal- One contestant does not mean the per- timore Deaf Cub 2011 at the time of the con- son is automatically presented with the title. test only one contestant had registered. A leather title must be earned. A few years This year’s BLADeaf Run began with back BLADeaf was faced with one contes- a BLADeaf Bar Night at the Baltimore Ea- tant for Baltimore Deaf Leatherboy and at the gle, which also functioned as a brief Meet & end of the contest the title was not awarded. Greet and included the introduction of judg- I also witnessed a year when a Ms. Philadel- es and the one contestant David Rink of Phil- phia Leather was not selected because the adelphia. This year’s judges were Interna- one contestant did not achieve a minimum tional Ms. Deaf Leather 2010 Valerie Sherrill, score. International Deaf Leatherboy 2005 boy alex Contestant David Rink competed in in- leffers, International Mr. Deaf Leather 1998 terview, barware, physical appearance Danny Carbonnel, Mr. Maryland Leather (jock), fantasy performance, on stage ques- 2007 Sir Steve, and Maryland Leatherboy tions, and formal leather. The members of 2008 Derick Rojas. I had the pleasure of be- BLADeaf were delighted when it was an- ing selected Tally Master and Ms. Baltimore nounced the David had earned enough After such a busy three weeks it was so re- Deaf Leather 2008-2009 and fellow Ship- p oints to be sashed Mr. Baltim ore Deaf Leath - freshing when on April 14 the Spotlighters Mate member Karen Taylor was the Mistress er 2011. The members of BLADeaf, the first Theatre put on a show for the local Leath- of Ceremonies deaf leather club in the nation, were thrilled er Community. Spotlighters Theatre Execu- On Saturday afternoon Karen joined a that they would have a representative at the tive Director Fuzz Roark dedicated the April large group of ShipMates at the Hotel Brex- International Mr. Deaf Leather 2011 Contest 14 production of The Great American Trailer ton for a two-hour cocktail party prior to the being held July 13-15, 2011 in Denver, Colo- Park Musical as a benefit for C.O.M.M.A.N.D., contest. I am really pleased with how well the rado. It should also be noted the next year’s M.C. and Brother Help Thyself (BHT). Just Hotel Brexton has turned out and loved stay- International Deaf Leather Contest is sched- like finding the right person to step up for a ing there last year during the Mr. Maryland uled to be held right here in Baltimore. The leather title, casting a show is just as diffi- Leather 2011 Contest. It is quickly becom- BLADeaf weekend ended on Saturday night cult. The casting was flawless in this hilari- ing the official hotel of Baltimore’s Leath- with a victory party bar night at the Triple L ous musical comedy. This is the 49th season er Community. It is my understanding that sponsored by C.O.M.M.A.N.D., M.C. for the Spotlighters Theatre located at 817 St. C.O.M.M.A.N.D., M.C. has already selected Well for three weekends in a row now our Paul Street in Mt. Vernon, and Spotlighters the Hotel Brexton as the host hotel for the local Leather Community has put on a show. always does so much to support our commu- nity. Please go and support them. Plus, the productions are always great! It was a small but fun production on Sun- day, April 10 as the Baltimore Eagle present- ed their 2nd annual Chili Cook off. This year’s Keelhaul weekend event at Camp Ramble- chili contest was a benefit for the relief effort wood on July 8-10. This year’s theme is; “In in Japan and was judged by last year’s chili Search of Moby’s Dick.” For just $199 you cook off winner and ShipMate Club member get cabin accommodations, all meals (in- T.C., Ms. Gay Maryland America 2010 Onyx cluding the ShipMates’ 37th Anniversary Revlon, and Baltimore’s own Queen of Com- Dinner) and all the cocktail parties you can edy Shawnna Alexander. It looks like Ship- handle. There is also a large swimming pool Mates really do know food as newly elect- and a dungeon play area. Applications are ed ShipMate Club Secretary Thomas took now being accepted. Check at WWW.ship- home First Place with Mr. Maryland Leather matesclub.com for all the details. 2007 Sir Steve as Runner-up. See you at Keelhaul 2011. It is going to Hopefully there will be no beans around be a blast! Our local Leather Community re- the campfire as the ShipMates present their ally knows how to put on a show! t

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BALTIMORE OUTLOUD APRIL 22, 2011 • baltimoreoutloud.com q 25 have graced me with their presence since I last felt his touch. Apparently it wasn’t a touch to remember. People We Like: Melissa Ray I say you can only be friends with an ex By Jay Loane Melissa grew up in Ferndale and at- if and only if you both are truly over each As we watch the temperatures rise once tended North County High. She graduat- Hearts other. When I speak to another of my ex’s again, our staying at home away from the ed in 2000 and headed off to Anne Arundel and Minds we laugh and joke about things. I tell him to cold is coming to an end. We venture out- Community College where she is still work- Shawn Bradley tell his boyfriend I said hello and I was over doors more, and with this renewed spirit, we ing on getting her degree in Business. “I’m the moon for him, when his boyfriend took head off to our favorite libation one credit short,” she said. him on his first cruise. Lucky for him that I location more regularly. She plays on the DC My Friend Used To Be My got him a passport while we were togeth- One such place is PW’s CAPS—a gay softball league Lover, Is that Weird? er or else he wouldn’t have been going on Sports Bar in Laurel where you playing different positions. “I a cruise. will find the always exciting Me- move around a lot. Right field, By now we have all had lovers, ex-lovers or Since he’s now truly become my friend lissa Ray tending bar. For some second base and this year, friends with benefits. If you’re still a virgin those little petty things don’t matter. Just of those who remembered pitching.” and your 21 years of age, you have my con- the fact that he’s gotten over me and has when Melissa worked at Grand And with her already busy dolences. Not that there’s anything wrong moved on to find happiness is what helps Central, you were always guar- schedule, she still finds time in with being a virgin, but from the point of this me sleep at night. anteed a smile and friendly per- partake in a unique passion. article, how could you possibly understand And no I’m not saying that to mean that son behind the bar. Melissa is a big fan of Paranor- what I’m about to speak about? I’m some type of prize, which I am. Aren’t “I made it a point to visit Me- mal Activities. “I watch Paranor- The question is can you be friends with you? What I mean is that, once the relation- lissa’s bar every time I stopped by Grand mal State and Ghost Hunters whenever I your ex-lover? For me the question is sim- ship is over for me, I make it a point to move Central,” commented Ian Deveroux of Don can. Love the show and I love the ghosts. I ple: sure I can be friends with my ex. In fact, on and be happy without them. I just want White’s Jeep. “She has a way to make you even went up to the Eastern State Peniten- I’m on good terms with all of my ex’s. Some the same for them. feel not just as a customer but more like a tiary last year and went on the haunted tour.” I’m friendlier with than others. The others, Don’t you hate when your ex continues friend. It is a comforting feeling to know you We even got into a conversation about well one I should say does tend to get on to call you and tries to get back in your good have someone who is interested in you and the town of Havre de Grace and the ghosts my nerves. graces? It’s horrible. When I decide to an- not looking at you as a dollar sign walking up there. Of course, I quickly pointed her in I believe we all have had that one lover swer the phone and speak to the annoy- into her bar. I also enjoy her excitement and the direction of their Facebook page. who wants to keep re-inventing the wheel. ing one, one of the first questions out of my conversations we had many a night.” Melissa’s personality, charisma and ele- I’m like HELLO, it didn’t work the first time mouth is, don’t you have a boyfriend yet? I I caught up with Melissa a short time gance are features adored by many. A per- and I’m not the type to retrace my footsteps. do this for one reason only to let them know ago on one of those rare 70 degree days at fect example came about from John Cook, Been there, done that and ended up burn- that I have moved on and I’m not looking our old stomping ground, Grand Central. It Co-Owner of PW’s, who stated, “Melissa’s ing the t-shirt. Half of the time when he calls back. As a matter of fact I’m cheering for had been quite a while since I last saw her fun and creative personality really shines I just let it go to voicemail. If I felt he was them to do the same. and she hasn’t changed a bit. Well, almost. through, and she brings that and more to truly over me then I could be a true friend Once that has happens that is when we Melissa resides in Mount Vernon and her work. She is an avid sports fan; every- to him. I would be able to tell him about my can be friends. We can double date and not has recently started a new venture. It is body loves her enthusiasm when the bar current relationship, which is going great. I have it be an issue. Maybe we can even va- called Lissa’s Events. She is an event plan- plays the O’s and Ravens games. Melissa could tell him about all of the new and excit- cation together. So for my friend that used ner in her spare time though she admits that is an important member of the PW’s team!” ing things that I’m discovering about myself. to be my lover, it isn’t weird as far as I’m is becoming more a regularity. “A friend who Melissa is currently single and is quick- However fortunate or unfortunate it may concerned. It only get’s weird when we stop was getting married asked me to tend bar ly to add that any man who she meets must be, I can’t. I can’t tell him anything without acting like adults. at her reception. Of course, I would. As we be okay with “my lifestyle and friends. I take his getting mad. Mind you, this relationship So how many of you out there have a talked about the plans for the big event, I them out to a gay bar usually on the first has been null and void for over six years. close friend that use to be your lover? t noticed how frustrated she was with all the date and if they have a problem with that, Hasn’t he moved on? Lord knows I have To hear more from Shawn Bradley go to stages and told her that I would arrange the then I have a problem with them.” moved on a long time ago. Honestly, I can’t www.guysatbrunch.com. Be sure to check event free of charge. It was more for getting So if you have an upcoming event and even remember how he was in the bed- out his debut comedy cd A Bottom Like Me my feet wet and a notch on my clipboard for need the services of a good planner, you room. There have been a number of men to now on iTunes and Amazon.com. future events,” Melissa stated. can always find Melissa at PW’s. t

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April 23 April 26 beloved tale. Audience members will join May 6-7 Peter, Wendy, John, and2011 Michael as they Tilted Torch: The Bipolar Show at The Strand Offers A New Improv sprinkle fairy dust and literally take to the The Telling Project Creative Alliance Workshop, OFF THE CUFF! air, flying to the Never Land. Directed [See front page story.] 8:00 p.m. Towson by Susan Kramer. Smith Theatre, Tilted Torch is celebrating their 2-year Improv class will begin at the Strand University, Stephen’s Hall, 8000 York Rd, HCC, 10901 Little Patuxent Parkway, anniversary with a throwback to their Theater Company! For beginners and Towson, MD. $5 Students, $10 General. Columbia 21044. $15 general admission; very first show. Prepare for two nights intermediate level improv enthusiasts. $12 for seniors, military members and of wild and extreme mood swings with No experience needed to learn improv. groups; $10 for students with I.D.; and $8 May 9 the sweet and sinister fire play of Miss Classes begin April 26 and every for children age 12 and younger. Tickets Joule and Malibu. 8:00 p.m. The Creative Tuesday from 7:30-9:30pm until June 28. The Baltimore Choral Arts Society may be purchased through the Horowitz Alliance, 3134 Eastern Ave., Baltimore. Classes are limited to 15 participants. Holds Open Rehearsal for Auditions Center Box Office (443-518-1500, www. Tix: $11 CA members, 16 non-members. $15 each. Enroll in the entire 10 week howardcc.edu/horowitzcenter) or the Singers who are interested in learning session for a discounted price of $135 Info: www.creativealliance.org/events/ Arts Collective website (www.howardcc. about how to join the Chorus for the (and a guaranteed spot!). Participants eventItem2482.html. edu/studentarts). 2011-12 season are welcome to sing with “dropping in” should arrive at least 10 us as we rehearse the Choral Finale to April 25 minutes before each class. April 29-30 the Mahler Resurrection Symphony. 7:30 Info: email class instructor Mattie Rogers: pm. Grace United Methodist Church, Stonewall Uprising on American [email protected] or Theatre Project Presents Readings 5407 N. Charles St. Baltimore. Call (410) Experience PBS visit: www.strandtheatercompany.org Featuring Baltimore School for the 523 7070 Ext 203 for details or www. Arts Students baltimorechoralarts.org. When police raided the Stonewall Inn, a popular gay bar in the Greenwich April 27 Theatre Project presents regional Village section of New York City on June Attorney General Gansler on premier readings of a new play, Adrift on May 15 28, 1969, the street erupted into violent Maryland Gay Radio the Mississippi, about the escape from PFLAG Westminster-Carroll protests that lasted for the next six days. slavery of Reverend Robert Hickman and County Tackles Homophobic The Stonewall riots, as they came to be LIVE Call in Radio Show for the Maryland four other escapees in the early 1860s. Rhetoric known, marked a major turning point in LGBT Community. The 2nd monthly The cast will feature acting students the modern gay civil rights movement in radio show will feature the Attorney from the Baltimore School for the Arts Joan Garrity is guest speaker for program the United States and around the world. General Gansler as the guest. 3:00 p.m. and David Mitchell, director of Run of the titled, “Ignorant Statements and Brilliant 9-10:30 pm. Check local listings. Responses: Confronting Homophobic Call in to ask a question: (818) 532- Mill Theatre Company. Performances Rhetoric.” 5:00 pm. St. Paul’s United Info: www.baltimoreoutloud.com and 9777. www.blogtalkradio.com/ are April 29 at 7 pm and April 30 at 2 pm Church of Christ, Corner of Bond & click on Lively Arts/Personalities/ rgroup/2011/04/27/maryland-gay-radio- and 7 pm. Green Sts., Westminster, MD 21157. Exclusives. guest-attorney-general-doug-gansler May 5-8 Info: 410-861-0488 or e-mail: [email protected]. April 26 April 27 13th Annual Maryland Film www.pflagwcc.org Auditions for Unraveled on the The Telling Project Festival Gravel: A New Musical The Telling Project, a unique stage Designed to advocate for films May 18 and filmmakers as they enter the The first Baltimore Playwrights Festival production that is built from the ground Hunks in Trunks Benefit for AIDS marketplace, the Maryland Film Festival musical produced by The Audrey Herman up using local veterans to tell their Action Baltimore Spotlighters Theatre, 817 St. Paul St. stories, in their own words, to friends and celebrates the art of film in the tradition Baltimore. Lobby, 7 p.m. Performance neighbors. [See front page story.] of famous Baltimoreans like John Waters R-Group presents Hunks In Trunks Dates: Aug 4 - Aug 24. Be prepared and Barry Levinson. Documentaries, 2011: All Male Swimsuit Fashion Show Info: Walters Art Museum, 600 N. Charles to sing 16-24 measures of a ballad or short films and features are screened at Red Maple, 930 North Charles St., St., Baltimore. $150/ticket fundraiser. upbeat song, preferably from a rock or at several locations throughout the city Baltimore. 7:30 -11:30 pm. 100% of the contemporary musical. Bring your sheet as Baltimore goes Hollywood for the swimsuit charity auction will benefit music, an accompanist will be provided – April 28 - May 15 better part of a week. Maryland Institute AIDS Action Baltimore. A single ticket is College of Art/The Charles Theater, no a cappella auditions. You will also be Peter Pan at Howard Community $22, a couples ticket is $39 and a VIP- 1711 N. Charles St., Baltimore. www.md- reading sides from the show. College Sponsor Group Tickets available for 4 or filmfest.com. 6. To order tickets by phone for this event Contact: Michael Tan, Director at Created by Student Arts Collective at call 410-997-0404 or go to the R-Group [email protected] HCC. 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