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The Ex-Gay Survivor the Ex-Gay Survivor The Ex-Gay SurvivoR The Ex-Gay SurvivoR Conference Conference Undoing the Damage Undoing the Damage Affirming our Lives Together Affirming our Lives Together June 29 – July 1, 2007 June 29 – July 1, 2007 UC Irvine, California UC Irvine, California Many of us tried to change our sexuality in multiple ways, Sponsored by: Many of us tried to change our sexuality in multiple ways, Sponsored by: from dressing and acting in more gender normative ways from dressing and acting in more gender normative ways to actually attending ex-gay programs or receiving therapy. to actually attending ex-gay programs or receiving therapy. Why did we do it? What harm did it caused? What good, Why did we do it? What harm did it caused? What good, if any, came of it? How does it affect us today? How does if any, came of it? How does it affect us today? How does this ex-gay past affect our current relationships with others? this ex-gay past affect our current relationships with others? As people who now embrace our sexual orientation and .com As people who now embrace our sexual orientation and .com identity, we have not always had the opportunity to identity, we have not always had the opportunity to unpack that time in our lives when we tried to change. UCIrvine unpack that time in our lives when we tried to change. UCIrvine UCI LGBT UCI LGBT TheEx-Gay Survivor Conference will give us a chance to Resource Center TheEx-Gay Survivor Conference will give us a chance to Resource Center explore these issues, meet with other survivors, and process explore these issues, meet with other survivors, and process our stories through art, talk and interactive workshops. our stories through art, talk and interactive workshops. For more information For more information Most of all, it will be a space to share with fellow survivors and a complete Most of all, it will be a space to share with fellow survivors and a complete how we’ve moved beyond our ex-gay experiences to develop schedule of events: how we’ve moved beyond our ex-gay experiences to develop schedule of events: www.beyondexgay.com www.beyondexgay.com into the healthy people we have become and are becoming. or www.soulforce.org into the healthy people we have become and are becoming. or www.soulforce.org Register now! www.soulforce.org Register now! www.soulforce.org Workshop leaders and entertainment include: Workshop leaders and entertainment include: Rev. Phil Lawson Dr. Jallen Rix Christine Bakke Peterson Toscano Jeff Lutes, MS, LPC Rev. Phil Lawson Dr. Jallen Rix Christine Bakke Peterson Toscano Jeff Lutes, MS, LPC UMC Minister Doctor of Co-founder of Doin’ Time in Executive Director UMC Minister Doctor of Co-founder of Doin’ Time in Executive Director and Civil Sexology and Beyond Ex-Gay the Homo No Mo of Soulforce and Civil Sexology and Beyond Ex-Gay the Homo No Mo of Soulforce Rights Veteran Ex-Gay Survivor Halfway House Rights Veteran Ex-Gay Survivor Halfway House Plus other entertainment, a film forum and workshop leaders. See our full list of events and Plus other entertainment, a film forum and workshop leaders. See our full list of events and workshop leaders at www.beyondexgay.com/conference workshop leaders at www.beyondexgay.com/conference SurvivorGeneral SurvivorGeneral .
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