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TAKE BACK YOUR LIFE: RECOVERING FROM CULTS AND ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS PDF, EPUB, EBOOK Janja Lalich,Madeleine Landau Tobias | 384 pages | 17 Aug 2006 | Bay Tree Publishing | 9780972002158 | English | Berkeley, CA, United States Take Back Your Life: Recover from Cults, Abusive Relationships User icon An illustration of a person's head and chest. Sign up Log in. Web icon An illustration of a computer application window Wayback Machine Texts icon An illustration of an open book. Books Video icon An illustration of two cells of a film strip. Video Audio icon An illustration of an audio speaker. Audio Software icon An illustration of a 3. Software Images icon An illustration of two photographs. Images Donate icon An illustration of a heart shape Donate Ellipses icon An illustration of text ellipses. Take back your life : recovering from cults and abusive relationships Item Preview. EMBED for wordpress. Want more? The following list of social-structural, social-psychological, and interpersonal behavioral patterns commonly found in cultic environments may be helpful in assessing a particular group or relationship. Compare these patterns to the situation you were in or in which you, a family member, or friend is currently involved. This list may help you determine if there is cause for concern. This is not so much a diagnostic instrument as it is an analytical tool. This may result in members' participating in behaviors or activities they would have considered reprehensible or unethical before joining the group for example, lying to family or friends, or collecting money for bogus charities. Often, this is done through peer pressure and subtle forms of persuasion. They believe there is no other way to be, and often fear reprisals to themselves or others if they leave or even consider leaving the group. It was adapted from a checklist originally developed by Michael Langone. Langone, Michael, Ph. Do They Work? New Age Take Back Your Life - Abusive Controlling Relationships These are educational workshops, not therapy groups. We gain support and learn from each other. Janja and Colleen include brief presentations with a few slides on specific topics such as the following:. Upcoming Workshop Schedule. Based on participant's requests and needs, each workshop will focus on specific topics participants address for in-depth exploration. You say as much or as little as is comfortable. Here are the steps if you are interested:. We will accept up to about 20 participants in each workshop so everyone has an opportunity to contribute. We may break out into smaller groups for discussion. You can attend once or be a "regular" as a core group of people attending are helping each other. You can pay via my website on the "Make a payment" menu item. Please note what they payment is for, and your name. Arrive minutes early to be ready for the start. Some participants continue more often. Education of one's experience is primary to recovery, as is gaining validation, acknowledgement, and mutual support from others who understand. Dealing With Manipulative People. Gaslighting: The 'perfect' romance that became a nightmareGaslighting: The 'perfect' romance that became a nightmare. In Nicole Brown Simpson's Words. Interview With Hedda Nussbaum. Is your abuser a narcissist? Letter from Nicole Brown Simpson to O. Manipulative people brainwash their partners using something called 'perspecticide' — here are the signs it's happening to you. Prison camp mentality keeps domestic violence going. Reasons why abuse victims return often complex, experts say. Rob Porter allegations detail common traits of domestic abuse, experts say. Seeing the warning signs of a toxic relationships. Speaker discusses personal experiences in abusive marriage. Survivors' stories: Three abused women find way out, discover their worth. Take the Narcissistic Personality Inventory. Taking stock of syndrome. Thought Reform and the Psychology of Totalism. Cult Education Institute :: Group Information Archives That a disaffected generation should turn to spirituality is not surprising; that it should do so for political reasons is indeed interesting. A chilling indictment of contemporary Mormon and Christian fundamentalist polygamy, God's Brothel reveals gruesome facts about Bible-based polygamy through the brave voices of 18 women who escaped from 10 of the 11 main religious groups as well as independent families. Their stories include rape, incest, orgies, and violence, making this form of polygamy more akin to sexual slavery than to any quaint religious or lifestyle choice. Blaming ourselves, we asked for God's forgiveness, but felt distant from the church and sometimes from God too. Often, however, the fault is not ours but that of Christian leaders who abuse spiritually. How can we recognize the signs of spiritual abuse? What can we do to gain healing from the wounds we have experienced? With clarity and refreshing honesty, Ken Blue answers these questions and offers hope and healing to the victims of spiritual abuse. In addition he shows Christian leaders how to avoid abusive patterns and instead offer Christ's gospel of grace to every casualty of bad church experiences. In this book the author describes his experiences in the Unification Church, including his rising to the position of a leader-in-training at the Unification Theological Seminary, his arranged marriage, and growing disillusionment that led ultimately to his walking away from the organization to which he had devoted so much of his life. An explosive first-person account by a young woman who spent fifteen years in a sex cult called the Children of God, which encouraged "sacred prostitution" and taught that "The Lord is our pimp. She would soon be prostituting herself for a perverse cult that used sex to lure sinners to the Lord -- and this is her shocking, searingly honest account of a fifteen-year spiritual odyssey gone haywire. The Children of God turned its female devotees into Heaven's Harlots, leading strangers to the love of God by enticing them with the pleasures of the flesh. At its height, the cult boasted 19, members around the world: In such places as France and Monte Carlo, young women, Miriam among them, mingled with the rich and famous to save their souls, and in this unsparing, unnerving autobiography, she'll identify some of her high-profile "clients. Now, in a clear, compelling, cautionary tale, she shares both her extraordinary existence as a holy whore and the daunting experience of rebuilding a normal life -- an ordeal that led her to found a group dedicated to helping other cult survivors reclaim their souls as well. The troubled-teen industry, with its scaremongering and claims of miraculous changes in behavior through harsh discipline, has existed in one form or another for decades, despite a dearth of evidence supporting its methods. And the growing number of programs that make up this industry are today finding more customers than ever. Maia Szalavitz's Help at Any Cost is the first in-depth investigation of this industry and its practices, starting with its roots in the cult-like sixties rehabilitation program Synanon and Large Group Awareness Training organizations like est in the seventies; continuing with Straight, Inc. Szalavitz uncovers disturbing findings about these programs' methods, including allegation of physical and verbal abuse, and presents us with moving, often horrifying, first-person accounts of kids who made it through-as well as stories of those who didn't survive. The book also contains a thoughtfully compiled guide for parents, which details effective treatment alternatives. This book is the result of years of study into the reasons that people comply with requests in business settings. It has sold over a quarter million copies in nine languages. Not directly about cults, this book is nonetheless very useful because the author explains many of the everyday social psychological mechanisms that are used extensively in cultic environments. It is also a literary masterpiece, and a classic of autobiographical writing. By the end, readers will care passionately about the author, her family, and the many characters that illuminate these pages. The author, a former member of The Way International, shows how easily an idealistic young person can be swept away by a spiritual quest and manipulated through the quiet malevolence lurking beneath the religious exterior of a false leader. Guttmacher Award as the most outstanding publication in forensic psychiatry. The award is well deserved. This book represents the combined knowledge of three prominent experts in the fields of memory, trauma, post-traumatic stress, suggestibility, hypnosis, mind control and behavior control. An extensive bibliography allows the serious researcher to consult original source materials and provides the opportunity for further study. This book is an excellent reference for mental health providers, legal experts, child abuse investigators, researchers, policy makers, attorneys, and judges involved in legal cases where issues concerning memory, suggestibility, or hypnosis arise. For years sympathizers and had little to do with cult critics. Drawing upon an additional ten years of observation and personal experience, Steve and Jack offer new insights in the search for lasting joy, fuller freedom, amd greater understanding, and a more honest experience of God. They were completely dependent on their patriarch but they played very grown-up games, including mass poisoning. Among them was Guest's mother, whose overwhelming quest for self was her ticket straight into the underworld of the Bhagwan from the time Guest was six years old. As the movement grew and became even more destructive, and his oblivious mother became more and more involved, Guest was moved with and without her from commune to commune according to the whims and absolute authority of those who claimed they were creating heaven. Instead they created abandoned buildings, purloined cash, shattered dreams, and adults like Guest who are marked by the neglect suffered in a childhood among the completely self-absorbed.