The uz at News From B’naiB Zion CongregationZ inBZ Shreveport, LA MAY 2016 / NISAN - IYAR 5776 From Rabbi Dr. Jana De Benedetti
I really do try to do good things. I really do try to make the world a better place. Stuff Happens I try to see people the way I think that they want to be seen. I like to believe that if I treat someone with respect, then I can get respect in return. I think that I want to believe in “karma.” If I do good things, then life will be good, and good things will come my way. In the Torah it teaches that if we keep the Commandments, and live life justly, and with mercy, then good things will happen, and we can walk humbly with God. What does it mean when that doesn’t happen? When you eat healthy, and exercise, and get enough sleep, and wash your hands – and you still get sick? When you are kind, and generous, and sweet, and someone takes advantage of that? When you think you did all the right things, followed all the instructions, crossed your t’s and dotted your i’s, and still get rejected? That’s just not right…Why does that happen? What do you do about it? Some people yell. They get angry. They try to force things to go their way. Their blood pressure goes up – and so does the blood pressure of everyone around them. They believe: “This can’t be happening to me.” Some people shut down. They often wait it out, hoping that it will pass, and only come back out when they think it is over. They hide and wonder “how could this be happening to me?” Some people just complain about it. They tell the story to everyone who will listen, and if they tell it well enough, they might find many people willing to listen. They are the ones who say, “You won’t believe what happened to me.” Depending on how bad the thing is that happens, and depending how important the thing is – some people may go through many of these reactions: yelling, telling, “cave-dwelling.” They may never fix what is broken, but sometimes these reactions can make a person feel a little better. Sometimes these reactions don’t help. Sometimes bad stuff happens, and we can’t fix it. Sometimes bad stuff happens, and it isn’t because of anything you did. Stuff sometimes happens. That is why I like being part of a holy congregation. It reminds me to make good choices, and it celebrates with me when good things happen. It also listens to me when bad things happen, and comforts me. Sometimes someone in the congregation knows how to help. Sometimes no one does. To be a part of a holy congregation, and to be able to experience these “benefits,” you have to not only take, you have to give. We like to be here to help, but we also sometimes need help. We need to feel safe enough to share with each other that bad stuff is happening to us, and we need to feel loved enough to share with each other that good stuff is happening to us. That is what we are here to do. If you don’t feel like you can trust us, you need to spend more time with us. Thank you to everyone who trusts me with their stuff, and thank you for letting me trust you with mine.
Bivrakha (with blessing),
B’nai Zion Page 1 M AY 2016/ NISAN - I YAR 5776 From Our President, Donald Posner The time has come and gone. This is my last monthly presidential message to y’all. The last two years have: a) flown by; b) felt like 20; c) been rewarding or d) all of the above. Pick one.
Many thanks for allowing me to serve as your president. I have enjoyed every minute of it.
Per the by-laws (both old and new) I have to give a yearly written report on the state of the congregation. I am happy to report: “all is well.”
As the years have blended together and I have a short memory for most things, I would like to recap some of the highlights that have happened during this time. It goes without saying, but much too important not to acknowledge, that most of the following were accomplished without any of my direct assistance. Thanks to all of you who played a part.
I was fortunate to represent B’nai Zion for many a Bar and Bat Mitzvah during my first year. I was also blessed to lead services twice during my term. What a joke – I mean my sermon for those who attended!
We have successfully fulfilled our mission of providing a Jewish house of worship. The percent of membership who attend our High Holy Day Services is amazing. It is also heart- warming to see all who attend Friday night services, Torah study, Saturday morning services and our Religious School on Sunday. Many thanks to Rabbi Jana, Helaine Braunig, and all of those who plan, prepare and attend these and other functions including invited speakers, Chanukah celebrations, Purim carnival, Passover seder, book of the month club, Hebrew classes and more. This only mentions a small portion of what happens here. Thanks to a wonderful Sisterhood and Brotherhood for all of your hard work.
Speaking of hard work, thanks to Jerie Black for planning our camp scholarship fundraiser. Thank you to all who donate to the Camp Scholarship Fund.
Many of our functions have been possible because of the generous assistance of the North Louisiana Jewish Federation. Please thank their board members for sponsoring so many of our wonderful programs.
During the last two years we have had our share of “things that need fixing.” Some of the work has been completed and other projects are on the agenda for the near future.
We unveiled our beautiful Donor Wall to acknowledge those who generously gave toward the remodeling of our beautiful Sanctuary. The back parking lot has been repaved and restriped. Our dumpster has a new home. The front parking lot has new stripes and new handicap spots. (continued on next page) Page 2 M AY 2016/ NISAN - I YAR 5776 B’nai Zion From our President, Donald Posner (cont’d from page 2) All of our large air conditioning units have been replaced on the roof. New thermostats should help keep a pleasant environment. Our roofs have been patched and/or replaced. We are in the process of fixing inside ceilings and soundproofing Lefkowitz Hall to prepare for the installation of a new sound system. A huge new piece of playground equipment has been approved and will be installed in the very near future.
All three of our sacred Torah scrolls have been repaired. This was long overdue. Ask the Rabbi to share the story of our oldest Torah.
We have merged our Cemetery Trust and Foundation Trust into the auspices of the general congregation. The funds will remain segregated but this will make it much easier for future Boards to manage.
In addition, our Board has approved a total rewrite of our by-laws. Plan to attend our annual meeting on May 22nd as these need to be approved by the congregation at that time.
Financially, generous benefactors and a favorable stock market have blessed us. Despite spending a tremendous amount on the roofs and air conditioning units, I can report that we are solvent and can pay our bills!
Finally, remember that at our meeting a year ago we secured the services of Rabbi Jana for another five years. A true blessing!
Once again, thank you all for your assistance, attendance and positive attitude. It has been a pleasure.
Shalom Y’all, B’nai Zion Board of Trustees 2015-2016 President Donald Posner Vice President Gary Abrams Treasurer Todd Muslow Secretary Kathy Plante Past President Craig Toys Sisterhood Bethany Sorkey Brotherhood Joe Badt, Jr. Jon Black Larry Evensky Rochelle Goldsholl Marla Hyman Sidney E. Kent Ann Maxey Anna Myers Jerald Perlman Harvey Rubin Barry Suckle
B’nai Zion Page 3 M AY 2016/ NISAN - I YAR 5776 From Our Educator, Helaine Braunig – - - – – - –
Page 4 M AY 2016/ NISAN - I YAR 5776 B’nai Zion Israel Independence Shabbat Celebration Ron Bernstein from Kibbutz Yahel (the Reform Movement’s first kibbutz) will join us at services May 13 at 6:00 PM and speak to us about Israel as we celebrate Israel Independence Day at B’nai Zion. He founded Kibbutz Yahel in the Negev in 1977 and has been living there ever since. He has worked the soil of the Negev as a manager of the Agricultural Experimental Station at Kibbutz Yotvata, Yahel's vegetable and citrus operation. Yahel's orchard consists of pomelos which are the largest and highest producing in Israel. Bernstein has also worked as a Yahel desert tour guide. With his extensive connections in the Reform movement, he has accompanied tours from NFTY (National Federation of Temple Youth and URJ youth movement) during summers as well as synagogue tours, individuals tours and tour missions.
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B’nai Zion Page 5 M AY 2016/ NISAN - I YAR 5776 Simcha Shabbat It is such a blessing for us to celebrate happy events together. Please join us each month when we bless and honor those who will be celebrating a birthday or anniversary during the month. If your birthday or anniversary is in May we will celebrate and honor you May 6, 2016 during services and have a special Oneg Shabbat following services. If your birthday or anniversary is in June your Simcha Shabbat will be June 3, 2016.
Please make sure that the office knows your birthday and anniversary dates. If you are not on our birthday and anniversary list in the bulletin, it means we do not have your information.
Tot Shabbat Children who are pre-readers and their families (and anyone who enjoys not having to sit still during services) please join us in the Sanctuary for Tot Shabbat, 9:00-9:30 a.m. Saturday, May 14, 2016, and Saturday, June 4, 2016. Rabbi Jana will lead a singing, dancing, marching, boinging, no-reading- necessary, great story, happy Shabbat service. Jewish Ethical Dilemma Dialogue with Rabbi Jana
Count On It
Remember to continue to count the Omer as we get closer to celebrating the awesome moment when we receive the Law and reinforce our commitment to being in covenant with God on Shavuot. This year Shavuot is June 12.
For info about counting the Omer go to the Holiday Resources link at the BZ website. People of the Book Club
The Book Club is scheduled to meet May 10 at 7:00 PM in the B’nai Zion Parlor. This month we will be discussing: The Last Flight of Poxl West is a memoir within a memoir within a novel. In other words, it tells the fictional story of a late 20th century teenage boy, Elijah Goldstein, who recounts the story of his uncle, Poxl West, who wrote a memoir about his years as an RAF pilot during WWII. (Reviews from Amazon.com) Page 6 M AY 2016/ NISAN - I YAR 5776 B’nai Zion Community Holocaust Remembrance Service