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PERSONALITY DISORDERS AND MENTAL ILLNESSES: THE TRUTH ABOUT PSYCHOPATHS, SOCIOPATHS, AND NARCISSISTS PDF, EPUB, EBOOK Clarence T Rivers | 148 pages | 21 Apr 2014 | Createspace | 9781499142303 | English | United States Narcissists, Sociopaths and Psychopaths (90 books) God, all this rivalry over me? Please, keep going. How absolutely exciting. I get so bored when I am in a long-term, committed relationship. I thrive on the validation and attention of so many admirers. I betrayed my previous partners and they found out. Of course, by then, I had to discard them because they had seen behind the mask and they were no longer willing to invest in forgetting my crimes. Feel sorry for me. Nurse me back to emotional health. Come closer. The truth is, I prefer to be the one inflicting pain. I love leaving the places where my victims have me figured out and starting over. Are you buying this bullshit? Only then can you break free from their mind games, gaslighting and falsehoods — and live freely in the truth. Baskin-Sommers, A. Empathy in narcissistic personality disorder: From clinical and empirical perspectives. Personality Disorders: Theory, Research, and Treatment, 5 3 , Ford, C. Lies and liars: Psychiatric aspects of prevarication. American Journal of Psychiatry, 5 , Shahida Arabi is a summa cum laude graduate of Columbia University graduate school, where she researched the effects of bullying across the life-course trajectory. Her work has been shared and endorsed by numerous clinicians, mental health advocates, mental health professionals and bestselling authors. She is passionate about using her knowledge base in psychology, sociology, gender studies and mental health to help survivors empower themselves after emotional abuse and trauma. Or via RSS Feed. Find help or get online counseling now. About the Blog Archives. Here are twelve of the most common lies narcissists and sociopaths tell us, translated into what they actually mean: 1. I would never lie to you. He or she was obsessed with me. I was hanging out with friends. I miss you and love you. Just checking in. Cheating is morally wrong. They mean nothing to me. My ex was so dishonest and toxic. I used to be a player, but now I am a changed man or woman. Now I want a meaningful relationship and a life partner. I am truly sorry, I really am. Kent A. George K. Simon Jr. Aydin Guner. Jon Bet. Zari L. Ballard Goodreads Author. Sigmund Freud. Simon Baron-Cohen. Scott Peck. Christopher J. Patrick Editor. Cynthia Zayn. Gerald Thorne. Sarah Tate. Elena Patrick. Wendy T. Joan Lachkar. Joseph Burgo Goodreads Author. Drew Keys. James Fallon. Tim McGregor Goodreads Author. Theodore Millon Editor. Benjamin B. Jane McGregor Goodreads Author. Scott W. Martin Kantor. William H. Reid Goodreads Author Editor. Media Concept. Paul Moran. Paul J. Rebecca M. 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They are warned to guard against expressing human impulses of empathy, caring or kindness, all of which are traits that are linked with weakness and those the powerful deem weak — and are entitled to exploit — such as women and children, weak men and other groups. Multifaceted cross-cultural historical and anthropoligical studies in the last five decades prove otherwise. And their work is also conducted by narcissist trolls all over the internet. A narcissist and psychopath whether male or female identifies strongly with an internalized misogynist belief system, and specific intentions to prove dominance and superiority, and thus feels entitled to take over and control the mind of another with any means necessary. The MeToo Movement has only scratched the surface. So how does a narcissist reveal himself? In the same way that all persons do. We become our habits and habitual behaviors. Not just occasional, here and there. Our habits reveal what we derive pleasure from, most value, most want. Narcissists reveal who they are by what they do,not what they say. Here are twelve actions that narcissists take that reveal a pathology that poses harm or danger to others:. They use gaslighting to derail any attempt of another to feel fully human, as separate beings with needs, wants, dreams of their own. Narcissists regard kind, loving, caring persons as not only inferior and weak, but also dangerous and emasculating to those in authority positions. They live in a topsy turvy world in which everyone is either a hunter or prey. In other words, they lie, lie, lie to themselves and one another about what is normal in human relationships. They gaslight. And gaslighting is a form of lying, a fear-elevating communication tactic, proven in scientific studies, to cripple the otherwise amazing abilities of the human brain to think, more specifically, to derail any attempts of a partner to emotionally connect as a real live human being with a voice, yearnings, wants, dreams of her own. He sees his job as training her to think, do, feel, say what serves or pleases his needs and interests. Anything else he perceives as a threat! They lie feeling entitled to do so to prove their superiority. Narcissists lie as a way of life. They often speak in code, amongst one another. They say the word love, they mean sex. They view concept such as soulmates or partnership relations as bait to trap women. In the case of this article, this refers to male entitlements over female, however, these cult practices are responsible for all institutional violence, as they rationalize physical, emotional and, or sexual violence of those in authority positions against whatever group is targeted, for example, children, gays and nonwhites, among others, often within the very institutions that supposedly exist to protect them, such as family, church, education, athletics, government, and so on. They believe violating the rights of a partner is proof of their superiority. Narcissists do not see their partner, or women in general, as human beings. This more than anything else explains why they act entitled to treat women perhaps also other groups, children, gays, nonwhites, other religions, etc. They do not see a woman partner as human. In many cases the domestic violence is mostly or perhaps solely emotional abuse, a form of emotional abuse that is separate and far more severe than the usual tongue lashings of parents scolding, shaming children into obedience although this is also abuse, and harmful as well. Narcissists know this well. They want you to argue over the points they make, or their accusations. Time and energy are precious. Do not waste them. Narcissists intentionally violate and abuse a parter, using the tactic of gaslighting to get into their mind to subjugate their will, control what they think, feel and believe about self and their abuser. Ultimately the goal of narcissistic abuse is to inflict on their partner the same topsy-turvy worldview they hold — one in which the abuser is infallible master and justified in all they do to include abuse, whereas their victim is ever to blame, deserves, even caused their own abuse. Telling a narcissist that they faltered in any way is likely to get a violent reaction, a fit of rage, physical and, or emotional abuse, stony silence or punitive treatment that lasts for hours or days. They may leave the house for an extended period of time, or react violently just to have an excuse to leave or do what they wanted anyway. This reveals the dehumanizing view they hold of others, and sadly of human relationships. The violent reaction by the way is intentional, itself part of a strategy. This is why narcissists hate and fear the truth like nothing else. One is to help you understand the condition beyond the textbook definition of sociopathy. Two, I hope that you can effectively utilize the information presented in this book to spread awareness and help prevent the number of children growing up to become sociopaths. Three, this book is for your own safety and protection. As you cross the street, you are highly likely to come across a narcissist, and this would only mean one thing: they are common.