St. Jude the Apostle Parish

Sunday, February 14, 2021NSixth Sunday in Ordinary Time

800 NIAGARA FALLS BLVD.
 MASS SCHEDULE NORTH TONAWANDA, NY 14120


Saturday Vigil5:00 pm RECTORY PHONE: 694
0540 • FAX: 694
8943 Sunday8:00 am, 10:00 am, 12:00 noon, FAMILY FAITH FORMATION: 694
4540 Tuesday and Thursday6:45 am After hours
emergency
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1880  MondayMFriday9:00 am Website: www.stjudetheapostle.org  Saturday9:00 am EMAIL: [email protected]  Holy Day Massessee inside facebook.com/St
Jude
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FIRST FRIDAY EXPOSITION 222063947871449/ 9:30 am to 5:00 pm (Sept.
June) Formed
Great learning tool! Formed.org. Parish code (V76GH4) No First Friday devotion during July & August 
PARISH STAFF NOVENA TO OUR LADY 
OF PERPETUAL HELP Pastor……….………………………………... Rev. James W. Kirkpatrick, Jr. Wednesdaysat the 9:00 am. Mass. Deacons……………………………………. Daniel Brick & John Steiner 
Music Director/Organist/Choirmaster…… …………. ....Michael Hauser EUCHARISTIC ADORATION Folk Group………………………………… ……………. Peggy Barkley Wednesdays 9:30 amM8:00 pm in Church Family Faith Formation /Confirmation coordinator.... Lynda Mostowy Divine Mercy Chaplet recited at 3:00 pm.


 RECTORY HOURS CONFESSIONS

Monday
Thursday
9:30 am
3:00 pm. Fridays
9:30 am
1:00 pm Saturdays4:00 pm−4:45 pm  (or by appointment)
FAMILY FAITH FORMATION



Tuesday & Thursday 10:00 am
2:00 pm MARRIAGE
Arrangements are to be made by calling the rectory 6 WELCOME NEW PARISHIONERS months in advance. A date cannot be reserved until Please fill out a registration form obtained at entrances to the church or the couple meets with the pastor. Couples are to attend a Pre
Cana Conference. contact the rectory during office hours.


BAPTISMS FUNERAL LUNCHEONS  The Bereavement committee is a group that provides a luncheon in the Held at 1:00 pm on the last Sunday of the month. They Parish Hall for a minimum of 25 people and not more than 100 people can also be scheduled at weekend Masses. A required following the funeral Mass of a parishioner. Volunteers are always needed class for parents and godparents is held in church the and will be placed on a rotating team. Tuesday before the Baptism at 7:00 pm. Please call the rectory for registration. A godparent is to be a Con- firmed Catholic and be able to obtain a letter of recom- mendation from his/her parish.
Sixth Sunday in Ordinary Time

MESSAGE FROM FR JIM
PARISH MISSION STATEMENT

Dear Parishioners,
“St. Jude the Apostle is a Roman Catholic community commit- ted to knowing our Christian Faith. We are a welcoming com- Lent starts this Wednesday. Whenever Lent comes around I munity striving to live in the truth of the Gospel, with love in service to others. Led by the Holy Spirit and rooted in the certainly acknowledge it is a time that I need. It is a time for Eucharist, we believe in the dignity of each person and that all preparation and spiritual growth. We will be having Stations of life is sacred.”  the Cross every Friday. Hours for the Sacrament of Reconcili- ation will be extended. I will be hearing confessions every
MASSES FOR THE WEEK

Wednesday from 7pm to 9pm. Bishop Fisher will be visiting
February 13, 2021NFebruary 21, 2021
our parish March 16th to share a Lenten reflection. You will be hearing much more about this soon. I’m very excited to Saturday, February 13, 2021N(Vigil) have him here.
Gn 3:9
24 Ps 90:2
4c, 5
6, 12
13 Mk 8:1
10 9:00 am  Joseph and Yolanda Tallerico by Joanne Stevick This Monday, February 15th, we begin the Consecration to St 5:00 pm  Louis F. Burgler by wife and family
Joseph. Every day there will be a reflection and prayers that can be found on the diocesan website https:// Sunday, February 14, 2021 MSixth Sunday in Ordinary Time www.buffalodiocese.org/consecrationtostjoseph. I suggest Lv 13:1
2, 44
46 Ps 32:1
2, 5, 11 1 Cor 10:31
11:1 Mk 1:40
45 you take this opportunity for spiritual growth. I will be doing it 8:00 amNJohn Bartel by family along with you. It will end with the consecration on March 19th.
10:00 amN William Leach by wife
12 noon  Rita Dellisola by Vince & family
Finally, we have run into a difficulty with our streaming of Masses. In order for those who cannot come to Mass I will Monday, February 15, 2021NWeekday stream the 10 am Mass on our parish Facebook page on Sunday Gn 4:1
15, 25 Ps 50:1, 8, 16bc
17, 20
21 Mk 8:11
13 9:00 amN Marilyn Malucci by Gwen McCallum
until it is resolved. I’m very frustrated with the situation. Please be patient as we work this out.
Tuesday, February 16, 2021NWeekday Gn 6:5
8, 7:1
5, 10 Ps 29:1a, 2, 3ac
4, 3b, 9c
10 Mk 8:14
21 Christ’s Peace,
6:45 amNJohn Maglio I by John Maglio II 9:00 amNFrances Prescott by family
Fr Jim Kirkpatrick
PREPARING FOR OUR LENTEN JOURNEY
Wednesday, February 17, 2021NAsh Wednesday Jl 2:12
18 Ps 51:3
6b, 12
14, 17 2 Cor 5:20
6:2 Mt 6:1
6, 16
18 On Ash Wednesday, February 17th, this is a day of fast and abstinence. 9:00 am MCharles Cupp by Wal Mart family Ashes will not be distributed on the forehead, they will be sprinkled on the 7:00 pmNDonald Duquette by Knights of Columbus members
crown of your head due to the ongoing COVID pandemic. Ashes will be distrib- uted during the 9:00 am Mass and 7:00 pm Mass.
Thursday, February 18, 2021NThursday after Ash Wednesday Dt 30:15
20 Ps 1:1
4, 6 Lk 9:22
25 Abstinence N All Catholics who have reached their 14th birthday are bound to 6:45 am MJoseph Emry family by estate abstain totally from meat on the following days: Ash Wednesday, all Fridays 9:00 amNBarb Johnston by Karen & Doug Lucin during Lent and Good Friday.
FastingNAll Catholics between their 18th and 59th birthdays are also bound to Friday, February 19, 2021NFriday after Ash Wednesday observe the Law of Fast on the following days: Ash Wednesday and
Is 58:1
9a Ps 51:3
6b, 18
19 Mt 9:14
15 Good Friday. This practice involves limiting oneself to a single full meal and 9:00 amNClaudette Lemieux (birth) by Uncle Jack & Auntie Gloria
avoiding food between meals. Light sustenance may be taken on two other occasions in the course of the day.
Saturday, February 20, 2021N(Vigil) Is 58:9b
14 Ps 86:1
6 Lk 5:27
32 Easter DutyNAfter they have been initiated into the Most Holy Eucharist, all 9:00 am 
People of our Parish



the faithful are bound by the obligation of receiving Communion at least once a 5:00 pmNJoseph & Julia Wawrzynek by Wawrzynek family
year. This precept must be fulfilled during the Easter season, unless for a good reason it is fulfilled at another time during the year. Since the dispensation Sunday, February 21, 2021NFirst Sunday of Lent from the obligation to attend Mass remains in place, Easter Duty, while admira- Gn 9:8
15 Ps 25:4
9 1 Pt 3:18
22 Mk 1:12
15 ble for those who may fulfill it, is also dispensed. Once the dispensation from 8:00 amNDonna Grawe by Jerry & Pam Casillo the obligation to attend Mass is lifted, the importance of Easter Duty, along with 10:00 amNAl DiMatteo by Rose & family regular attendance at Mass, will be a part of ongoing catechesis and evangeliza- 12 noonNMarjorie Platzer by family
tion.

  APPEAL 2021
ROSARY GUILD
When you are lonely, we are hope. What we do with the 24 hours in a day The Rosary Guild will meet on Tuesday, February 16th at can effect countless hours and days ahead. Our volunteers at Catholic Chari- 6:30 pm for their meeting. Hostesses for the evening are ties know this to be true. Through our programs, volunteers have the oppor- Meg Martin and Laura Crowe. All women of the parish are invited. Also we tunity to serve the community through our multiple food pantries, lend a will be selling 2021 calendars, depicting Buffalo on each month, in the vesti- friendly ear through Friendly Phones and the Telephone Assurance Program, bule of the Church this weekend The $5.00 goes to Ann Zon’s Nicaragua and much more. Help continue to move hands and hearts through Catholic missions. They are also on display in the rectory office.
Charities and the Fund for the Faith by giving to Appeal 2021. Call our Help- line at 7162181419 if you need assistance or want to donate, or visit PRESIDENTS DAY ccwny.org/donation today. Catholic Charities of Buffalo is HOPE for All The rectory office will be closed on Monday, February 15th in observance of Seasons
President’ Day.

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February 14, 2021


VOCATIONS
Our Faith Community’s Gift to God


A Vocation View
Receipts 2/6/21N2/7/21

“Go, show yourself to the priest...for your cleansing.” We no Regular weekly $ 7,295.22 longer have leprosy, but we do need priests to be purified of Christmas 40.00 mortal sins. Solemnity of Mary 1.00 Heat 41.00 If God is calling you to take up this healing mission, contact Fr. Snow 86.00 Dave Baker at 716
847
5535 or visit buffalovocations.org Auxiliary 612.00 Candles 190.00 Our Lady of Fatima, The Traveling Madonna
Memorial Donations 95.00 “We Share” Elec. givingreg. wkly 1,585.00

2021 has been dedicated to St. Joseph
Total Weekly receipts $9,945.22

St. Joseph is a Pilar of Families Catholic Relief Services $ 5.00 Church in C. & E Europe & Poland
$ 225.00
Jesus, Mary and Joseph love families. Their three hearts are very concerned about what is happening to families For more information about the “We Share” Contribution Program, visit today. Families are falling apart.
the Parish Website at www.stjudetheapostleparish.org Click on the “Parish Support” icon and follow the “We Share” link to make secure Modern man has distanced himself from God and attempted to redefine online donations using credit/debit cards or direct withdrawals from your what it means to be a family. As a result, divorce rates are at am all bank account.
time high; the majority of married couples use contraception; abortion is legal; and it is socially acceptable for children to be raised by two FAITH FORMATION
dads and/or two moms. The family stands on the edge of a great preci- pice.
Presidents' Day: No Classes weekend FEB 13 and 15.

“Various programs backed by very powerful resources nowadays seem Family Faith Office is closed FEB 12
19, 2021 to aim at the breakdown of the family. At times it appears that concert- Class resumes on: SAT, FEB 20th from 10:30
11:30 am (Grades 1st ed efforts are being made to present as “normal” and attractive, and
8th) MON, FEB 22 from 6:45
7:45 pm (Grades 9th & 10th)
even to glamourize, situations which are in fact “irregular”. Indeed, they contradict “the truth and love; which should inspire and guide Please turn in any missing work to room #3 for all grades.
MonThu relationships between men and women, thus causing tensions and divi- 9:303:00 pm, FRI 9:301:00 pm, weekends after Masses.
If you are sions in families, with grave consequences particularly for children. behind on assignments, do not worry.
Just do your best and return them The Moral conscience becomes darkened; what is true, good, and beau- once complete.


tiful is deformed; and freedom is replaced by what is actually enslave- Reminders:


ment.”…..St. John Paul II
Grade 2 has First Reconciliation on FEB 27, 2021.
Times are God established the family to be a school of love, something beautiful, at 9:45 am and 10:45 am.
We look forward to this wonderful delightful, and lifegiving, and the devil and his agents want to destroy day of mercy, grace and forgiveness with you!
it. The only way to turn the situation around is elevate the Holy Family as the model and blueprint of the family. When the Holy Family is Jesus, I trust in you!
celebrated in society, we will again know the sanctity of motherhood, the heroism of fatherhood, and the blessing of children.
Please consider making the St Joseph Consecration from FEB 15March 19, 2021.

A great way to learn about St Joseph and I would strongly recommend making the “Consecration of St. Joseph” grow in virtue and wisdom!
He's the protector of the Church, beginning on February 15th and ending on March 19th.
families, virgins, hope of the sick, dying and terror of de- mons!
He will not let you down.
I have made the consecration If you and your family would like to honor Our Lady or would like her interces- sion with Jesus, call Ann 6924396 to arrange a time for her to visit.
myself and led groups in it too!
You will be grateful you did thisthe entire Diocese of Buffalo is encouraged to make this Scholarship Grants available to our consecration.
You can go to the website at Buffalo or read the
parish communities in North Tonawanda
bulletin for more info.

It is the Year of St. Joseph!

North Tonawanda Catholic Club and Madonna Council, Knights of Men of Faith
Columbus announce Scholarship Grants available to our parish commu- nities. Scholarship Grants are available for 8th grade students going to a The Men of Faith will be meeting Saturday Catholic High School and High School seniors going onto college. The February 20th after the 9:00 am Mass in the par- grants can be as much as $1,000.00 each. Applications are available at ish hall.
This month's topic we will discuss Sac- Madonna Council or by calling 6935470. The deadline for submission is April 1, 2021. The scholarship grants will be awarded based on aca- rifice and the role it plays with all men as we prepare for the up- demic standing, financial need and family involvement with Madonna coming Lenten journey.
We will share ideas, experiences, what Council. Membership in the Council is not a mandatory requirement. worked and what has not worked in the past for each of us.
All

However, we are always looking for new members. Call for an applica- men are welcome, refreshments will be offered.

tion.
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EUCHARISTIC MINISTERS

Saturday, February 13 5:00 pm J. Holesko, B.     Franusiak, S. Cuccia

Sunday, February 14 8:00 am D. Scibilia, P.      Mancuso, T. Hanavan  10:00 am R. Sarullo, J. Renda     J. Peresie   12 noon R. O’Sullivan, S.     Ruska, B. Giroux

Saturday, February 20 5:00 pm T. Sack, C. Shilen     J. Seymour

Sunday, February 21 8:00 am M. Truty, MJ     Wolanyk, J. Casillo    10:00 am M. & F. Barry     J. Kasperek    12 noon P. Ziatts, S. Maziarz     J. Makey

   





LECTORS

Saturday, February 13 5:00 pm K. Lord

Sunday, February 14 8:00 am J. Zilliox



10:00 am J. Casillo



12 noon G. McCallum

Saturday, February 20 5:00 pm S. Cuccia

Sunday, February 21 8:00 am D. Scibilia


10:00 am J. Wiech

12 noon C. Desiderio

HELP NEEDED!

We are looking for any retired men or women interested in becoming altar servers for our funerals. You will be trained. This is a wonderful ministry, and your help is appreciated. Call Fr. Jim at the rectory office 6940540 if interested. Thank you!

PROLIFE





An unexpected pregnancy might be confusing along the way, but lifeNthough at times diffi- cultNis ultimately beautiful. 10 Tips to support a woman in her new journey of being a mother.
(Part 2)




4. Offer specific help.


Don’t be afraid to ask her if she needs help with anything or to make specific offers to help. For example, you might offer to help with cleaning, finding a good doctor, or running to the store to pick up the one food that won’t make her feel sick. But remember to read her cues, and make sure you’re not being overbearing.


5. Set up a support system.


In addition to the standard baby registry, you can help her get other kinds of support by lining up muchneeded, practical help. Think outside the box. Food = love, so take advantage of websites that allow friends and family to sign up to make meals, send food deliv- eries, or simply donate money. Some websites can even help organ- ize other assistance like rides to the doctor, babysitting other chil- dren she may have, or help around the house. You can also look into what programs and assistance may be sponsored by your local dioc- esan pastoral care or Respect Life offices.


6. Tell her she is beautiful.


She may be feeling physically, spiritually, and emotionally drained with this pregnancy. Take the time to reassure her of her beauty, both inside and out, especially when morning sickness might make her feel otherwise.



Diocesan Pro Life Office 7168472205 help during pregnancy
Project Rachel 7168472211 Confidential Hotline for postabortion reconciliation
Confidential Help 8884564673 or

www.hopeafterabortion.org

“It is with sincerest appreciation that we acknowledge your gener- ous contributions to the NT Inter
Church Food Pantry through the calendar year 2020. As always, your contributions are invaluable in our continuing effort to distribute food and personal care and toy items to the less fortunate in our area.”

The total contributions for 2020N298 bags/1 case of food and product.

Thank you!!!

Bonnie Shaffer coordinatorNNT Food Pantry

AREA ANNOUNCEMENTS

Queen of PeaceN4220 Seneca St., West Seneca invites you to their Lenten Fish Fry Dinners on Wed. Feb 17, Friday, March 5, Friday, March 19, from 47 pm. Drive thru dinners by Andrews BBQ. The cost is $12 for beer battered fish, macaroni salad, coleslaw, rye bread and butter. Preorder online  choose pick up time. Drive up with Cash/credit card accepted. Pre order at www.qofhcarnival.com/fish fry.
Wattengel Funeral Home Serving the Community since 1894 ~ 2 Convenient Locations 533 Meadow Dr., North Tonawanda • 693-0440 G 307 Oliver St., North Tonawanda • 692-0440 Owners: Joseph Mantione, Parishioner & Greg Wood G www.Wattengel.com

Commercial, Residential Service & Installation 1106 Sheridan Dr • Tonawanda, NY 14150 MADONNA COUNCIL Phone: 694-4900 #2535 DAVID MICHAEL HEIM Banquet Hall Available Attorney at Law BINGO Every Thursday - 7:20PM 3060 Niagara Falls Blvd. We are People Helping People ❤ North Tonawanda CALL NOW: 693-5470 2787 Niagara Falls Boulevard, Amherst 14228 Office: 694-2800 755 Erie Avenue, NT (716) 691-6727 Email: [email protected] Federally Insured by NCUA A member of our parish since 1978

St. Jude the Apostle Parish www.stjudetheapostleparish.org Contact Tim Weir • [email protected] or (800) 477-4574 x6568 TOM FEZER COLLISION INC. COLLISION REPAIRS 625 Walck Rd., N. Tonawanda Building Custom Homes Since 1951 (716) 693-7831 693-6013 www.rosalhomes.com Fretthold FUNERAL HOME, INC. Home of the Living Memorial Carl Evan Fretthold, President Family Owned Since 1947 692-2610 2141 Oliver Street, N. Tonawanda, NY B.P. Plumbing Licensed & Insured Sump Pumps Water Heaters 695-1479

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Sewer & Drain Cleaning Hot Water Tanks Bubblers & Sump Pumps Sewer Replacements Call Kevin 716-898-9818

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