Jewish Community Federation | No One Builds Community Like Federation the OF RICHMOND in this issue RVolume 61 | Issue 11eflectorCheshvan/Kislev 5774 | November 2013 FEDERATION Community Learns How JDC ‘Repairs the World’ Wherever Jews are in Need n October 9, approximately 200 community members learned Oabout the American Jewish Joint Distribution Committee and how it assists Jews in need around the world. The 17th Annual Grand Event, sponsored by the JCFR, welcomed guest speaker Will Recant, assistant executive vice president of JDC, who provided a heartwarming picture on Super Sunday how the agency supports Jews from Argentina to the former Soviet Union. In 1963, JDC began helping a small group of Cuban Jews revitalize the nearly page 3 non-existent Jewish community and antiquated Synagogue. Members of the community felt their future was bleak and told Recant, “There will not be another AGENCIES generation of Jews on the island of Cuba.” When Recant visited Cuba in 2008 he was in a completely renovated Synagogue with more than 400 Jews attending Shabbat services (a full house). Over 20 years, the Joint sent visiting Rabbis to Cuba and provided resources to rebuild the (From left) Grand Event speaker Will Recant and Mark Sisisky, co-chair of the annual event. Grand Event More on page 9 Community Chanukah Gregg Davidson Celebration and Book Joins JFS as CEO Kids’ Place Growing Fair Finale Set for Nov. 17 FS welcomed Gregg page 6 JDavidson as its new CEO Department are partnering on Oct. 1. Davidson succeeds to present this exciting event Larry Jackson, who retired after SYNAGOGUES following the huge success of last 11 years of leading the agency. year’s celebration. “I am very excited to be Join members and guests for part of an organization that crafts, donuts, story time, pictures makes such a positive impact with your favorite fuzzy characters on those in need in the Jewish and a concert with Mama Doni and Richmond communities,” from 4-5 p.m. Bring the kiddos to said Davidson. dance, play and celebrate. “My family has experienced The celebration marks the final the quality of JFS care Gregg Davidson Eric and Doni Zasloff Thomas (aka day of book fair and gift shop, firsthand, with HomeCare Teens View World Mama Doni) which runs Nov. 7-17, during services after my mother’s back leadership capacities through PAGE 12 which the Center will host more surgery. I have great respect for the evolution of Wheat authors than ever – some of whom First Securities to Wachovia ark your calendars for the clients, staff, and volunteers are Richmond natives – Slash Securities, now Wells Fargo Sunday, Nov. 17 from 3-5 at JFS, and look forward to M Coleman and Jeff Rabhan. Advisors. As a managing p.m., and join the Weinstein JCC continuing and strengthening FEDERATION 2 A generous sponsorship from director, he led various for its Community Chanukah the agency’s long tradition of Sandy Sisisky, in addition to groups within administration, AGENCIES 5 Celebration. This also will be the service.” partnerships with the 5400 Men’s operations, and technology SYNAGOGUES 11 the final day of The Fife-Davis Davidson is an experienced Club, Jewish Women’s Club, support. He focused on service con te n t s Family Annual Jewish Book Fair and highly effective leader in COMMUNITY 13 Richmond Chapter of Hadassah delivery, quality improvements, of and Gift Shop. both the corporate and non- FOUNDATION 14 and Network JCFR continue to strategic planning, The Weinstein JCC Patrons profit sectors. For more than enable the Weinstein JCC Patrons organizational integration, and of the Arts and Early Childhood 20 years, he served in senior TABLE Chanukah More on page 10 JFS More on page 10

Federation happenings COMMUNITY CALENDAR• • Through Dec. 31 • Nov. 10 | 2 p.m. ‘Women of Ravensbruck’ Kristallnacht Memorial Service Virginia Holocaust Museum Emek Sholom Holocaust Memorial Cemetery Wishing you and your family a Joyous hanukkah • Nov. 3 | 10 a.m. • Nov. 17 | 3 p.m. Or Ami Chanukah Bazaar Community Chanukah Celebration Congregation Or Ami Weinstein JCC

• Nov. 7-17 • Nov. 21 | 5:30 p.m. Weinstein JCC Jewish Book Fair L’Dor V’Dor Woman of Valor Weinstein JCC Honoring Dorothy Wizer DeFazios/PickUps Plus

Visit jewishrichmond.org for a complete calendar of Jewish community events. Network JCFR Set for November etwork JCFR plans the following Looking ahead to December The officers, Board of direcTors and sTaff Nprograms in November. YAD Campaign Event, Dec. 4., 6 p.m. of The JeWish communiTy federaTion of richmond Latkes & Vodka, Thursday Nov. 14, 5:45 Home-Hosted Shabbat Dinner, p.m. Weinstein JCC. Come enjoy eating, Dec. 6, 6 p.m. drinking and schmoozing and hear Jeff Rabhan, For details and to RSVP, call Melanie TribeFest 2014 is Coming, Richmond native, Douglas Phillips, Federation Young Leadership Freeman graduate and director at (804) 545-8623 or email Will You Be There? music industry executive [email protected]. share his experiences about ant to take part in a gathering of his successful career in the Wmore than 1,500 Jewish young music business. He’s the the professionals from across the U.S. and author of “Cool Jobs in Reflector Jeff Rabhan North America? Looking to go to New the Music Business.” The Orleans? Interested in socializing, Network JCFR is co-sponsoring this Annual networking, learning and celebrating Jewish Book Fair event with the Weinstein JCC. How good & pleasant it is Purim all at the same time? $8 for Network JCFR participants and Patron for brethren to dwell in unity. Sponsored by the Jewish Federations of of the Arts members/$10 non-members. North America, Tribefest 2014 is the event The Reflector is published monthly by the Thanksgivukkah-Themed Shabbat Jewish Community Federation of Richmond. for you. On March 16-18, join Network Dinner, Friday, Nov. 22, 6 p.m. RSVP on Copy must be received two and a half weeks JCFR for this exciting event with many Facebook for address. prior to the date of publication. The Reflector passionate and inspiring speakers. At last year’s TribeFest (top row/from left are reserves the right to edit or refuse any copy or There will be breakout sessions, panel Aaron Brenner, Zach Brenner, Whitney Frost, Torah on Tap, Monday, Nov. 25, 6 p.m., advertisement submitted. Views expressed by guest writers and reader’s letters do not M’Lissa Levit and Matthew Miller. (Bottom) Shi- Mekong Restaurant, 6004 W. Broad St. discussions and ample time for networking necessarily reflect the opinion of the Jewish and discovering connections through the ra Futterman and Danielle Aaronson. Community Federation of Richmond. famous game of “Jewish Geography.” Typical topics include religion, limited subsidies of $450 to cover the cost Call for information about advertising in The social media, professional development, of registration. Reflector at 545-8655. Acceptance of advertis- ing does not endorse or guarantee kashruth. fundraising and much more. Subsidy applications are due to Melanie Phillips, Young Leadership director, by Through the Sam E. and Virginia V. Nathan Shor, President Binswanger Young Leadership Award Nov. 11. To reserve your spot now and Samuel H. Asher, Chief Executive Officer Fund of the Richmond Jewish Foundation, more details, call Phillips at (804) 545-8623 Matt Langsam, Assistant Executive Director the Federation is pleased to be able to offer or email [email protected]. Raymond (Skip) Kozakewicz, Editor Sara Rosenbaum, Director of Operations The Jewish Community Federation of Richmond Enterprise Circle December 19, 7:30 a.m. (From left) Ethan Litvin, Katie Atwood and Kat Weinstein JCC Sinclair enjoy chocolate fondue at the Oct. 15 Guest Speaker Steve Markel Network JCFR Happy Hour at The Melting Pot Restaurant. A group of young Jewish profes- Vice Chairman, Markel Corporation Jewish Community Federation sionals also tasted cheese fondue with drink OF RICHMOND For information, contact Matt Langsam at 545-8652 or specials as well as networking activities. For 5403 Monument Avenue • Richmond, VA 23226 [email protected]. details on other programs for young Jewish (804) 545-8620 professionals, contact Melanie Phillips at (804) Email: [email protected] 545-8623 or [email protected]. 2 | the Reflector | November 2013 . Chesvan/Kislev 5774 www.JewishRichmond.org focus on JDC, the 9-1-1 Help Line For Those in Need federation

relief and renewal of Jewish communities world- week of Oct. 21, we heard more about the humanitarian aid JDC is providing to Syrian wide and develops non-sectarian programs. Operation Solomon rescued twice the refugees in Jordan. With the escalating During the evening, he passionately described number of Jews than in Operation Moses the work of JDC over a period of some 100 years. violence in Syria, millions of desperate and Joshua, in a mere fraction of the “We were there to help in Argentina, Cuba, women, children, and families are fleeing for the Former Soviet Union and many other places time. Today, there are more than 120,000 their lives. The Jewish Coalition for Syrian Refugees in By Samuel Asher where there was a need,” Will told community Ethiopian Jews in Israel. In fact, the last Jordan, of which JDC is a leading member, has Chief Executive Officer, JCFR members. 450 left Gondar for final flights to Israel already provided more than $400,000 in aid to He spoke about the rescue of Ethiopian in August. our partners on the ground providing critical n October 9, the JCFR hosted the 17th Jews during Operation Solomon, which ended assistance to the most vulnerable children and Annual Grand Event at the Virginia almost as quickly as it began. Timing was crucial, O women. Jordanian nonprofits are providing Historical Society. Mark and Susan Sisisky he noted, since any delay by Israel could have Operation Solomon rescued twice the food and staples that come from JDC and other chaired their fourth Grand Event – it was a allowed the rebels to hold the Jews as bargaining number of Jews than in Operation Moses Israeli non-profits to refugees quietly. smashing success. We thank them for their long chips with Israel or the United States. and Joshua, in a mere fraction of the It is a life or death situation, the Times of and dedicated leadership in our community. While he was with the American Association time. Today, there are more than 120,000 Israel reports: “Here in Jordan, however, the NGO The guest speaker for the evening was for Ethiopian Jews, in May of 1991 he worked Ethiopian Jews in Israel. In fact, the last director says he is happy to work with Israelis, and the Will Recant, assistant executive vice president closely with the Special Israeli Envoy as liaison 450 left Gondar for final flights to Israel in refugees are simply eager to be fed. of the American Jewish Joint Distribution to the U.S. government in the planning and August. “Believe me, people are hungry and it doesn’t Committee. Will serves as senior staff person implementation of Operation Solomon. Will also spoke about emergency matter. They are not asking where the aid comes from,” regarding all of JDC’s non-sectarian and A total of 14,324 Ethiopian Jews were flown efforts in Haiti, sponsored by JDC. A 7.0 he says. “With the refugees, there is no problem. But the disaster relief programs. In this capacity, he out of Ethiopia in 36 hours and resettled in Israel, magnitude earthquake struck about 10 regime inside [Syria], they blackmail them if they know coordinates projects relating to the rescue, a modern exodus of the grandest design. miles southwest of the Haitian capital they are supported by Israel.” of Port-au-Prince in 2010. The worst Once again, as it has done for nearly earthquake ever experienced by Haiti left 100 years, JDC, is providing humanitarian Pomegranate Event Set for thousands dead and injured. Will related aid. “We want to help, because it is the how the IDF quickly and efficiently set right thing to do,” is an often heard JDC November 11 up a Israeli field hospital in Haiti a month statement. before any other aid would arrive. JDC he Women’s Division of the Jewish JDC truly is the 9-1-1 help line to provide provided greatly needed medical supplies Community Federation of Richmond the vital assistance in the Jewish and non- T and medical devices for the field hospital. will hold a Pomegranate program on Monday, Jewish world. It knows no boundaries. In Haiti, JDC also organized efforts to Nov. 11, at 5:30 p.m., at the home of Susan If you have not already done so please get the most basic need – water – to the Adolf. speak to a Campaign volunteer or visit people. Water towers sprung up around This program will focus on the Taglit- JewishRichmond.org to make your pledge to Port Au Prince with Jewish symbols on Birthright Israel program. the 2014 Federation Annual Campaign, them – showing that the Jewish people, Taglit-Birthright was born of a bold which supports JDC and its many programs. through JDC, were there to help. vision to make an educational trip to Israel As always, please give me a call at (804) As the Reflector was going to press the an integral part of the life of every young 545-8622 or email [email protected]. Jew, in an effort to generate a profound transformation in contemporary Jewish These Birthright students spell out VCU during culture and a connection between Israelis and their trip several years ago. Super Sunday, December 8 their peers in the Diaspora. Since its inception in 1999, Taglit- The gift of a Taglit-Birthright Israel trip is One Day to Come Together Birthright has sent nearly 400,000 Jewish made possible thanks to the generous support young adults to Israel. They have come from from many sources including The Jewish One Day to Touch the World 60 countries, all 50 U.S. states and Canadian Community Federation of Richmond. provinces, and from nearly 1,000 North For this special Pomegranate event, the n Sunday, Dec. 8, beginning at 9:30 the year. One phone American colleges and universities.. women will have the opportunity to hear Oa.m., we will come together in spirit conversation can In a country with so much to see, 10 days first-hand accounts of the transformative and in action as one community to make the make a difference in seem short, yet most participants say that their Birthright experience from several of our local world a better place. the lives of Jews in experience was “life-changing” and made young leaders as well as explore as a group Please answer our phone call, and our community, in them feel closer to Israel and their Jewish why Taglit Birthright Israel can be seen as a make a generous donation to the Jewish Israel, and around the heritage. true “game changer” in the future of diaspora Community Federation of Richmond’s world. One phone Independent research​ conducted by Judaism. Annual Campaign so that Jews in our conversation can Brandeis University’s Maurice and Marilyn Pomegranate is for women who give more community, in Israel and around the world help strengthen social Cohen Center for Modern Jewish Studies than $1,800 to the Annual Campaign. can receive the vital help they need. Your services and celebrate has found that more than two-thirds of For more information, contact Shoshanna support of Federation helps us fight poverty, Jewish life. Answering the phone has never participants said the trip made them feel “very Schechter-Shaffin at (804) 545-8626 or rescue and resettle Jewish immigrants, and been so important. much” closer to Israel, and more than half [email protected]. To RSVP, call strengthen Jewish life. To volunteer contact Sara Rosenbaum said that the trip “very much” influenced their Ellen Moncure at (804) 545-8625 or emoncure@ Volunteer with us at the Weinstein JCC at [email protected] or at (804) sense of connection to the Jewish heritage. jewishrichmond.org. as we make the most important calls of 545-8629. www.JewishRichmond.org November 2013 . Chesvan/Kislev 5774 | the Reflector 3 L’Dor V’Dor Woman of Valor INTERFAITH ISRAEL JOURNEY Event Will Be Held November 21 Still Time But Limited Space Available! Experience the roots of Judaism and Christianity he Jewish journey from the former Soviet Union TCommunity to Israel and then to America –all of January 20-29, 2014 Federation of Richmond which was made possible by you and the will hold its annual L’Dor Jewish community. V’Dor Woman of Valor The event will be held at DeFazios/ Event on Thursday, Nov. PickUps Plus, 2601 Tuckernuck Drive. 21 at 5:30 p.m. The L’Dor V’Dor event welcomes Longtime volunteer women who make a minimum gift of and community leader Ivan Goncharenko $365 to the 2014 Annual Campaign, or Dorothy Wizer will be $100 for those 35 and younger. honored with the Woman of Valor Award. For more information, contact In partnership with the First Presbyterian Church of Virginia Beach, Her active involvement in the Jewish Shoshanna Schechter-Shaffin at (804) experience the most important sites in Northern Israel, Jerusalem community has been a lifelong experience. 545-8626 or [email protected]. and nearby areas from a Jewish and Christian perspective. The Israel The guest speaker will be Ivan To RSVP , call Ellen Moncure tour is the perfect itinerary for interfaith couples, and for those who Goncharenko, an Israeli Fellow at Virginia at (804) 545-8625 or emoncure@ are interested in learning about mutual values and cultures. Tech, who will share the story of his incredible jewishrichmond.org. For details, contact: Matt Langsam at (804) 545-8652 YAD Campaign Hanukkah Event or [email protected] Set For December 4 he Federation plans to hold a Young he was also named TAdult Leadership Campaign Hanukkah a semi-finalist in program on Wednesday, Dec. 4, at 6 p.m. NBC’s “Stand Up Join young Jewish professionals for a night of For Diversity.” Advertise in The Reflector! cocktails with comedian Noah Gardenswartz. The event will be Gardenswartz was born and raised in held at DeFazios/ The Reflector is the most cost-effective way to reach Richmond’s most affluent, quality conscious families.the We deliver directly to approximately 3,500 households - Denver, but spent years cutting his comedy PickUps Plus, 2601 reaching about 10,000 people in the Richmond-Metro area. Noah Gardenswartz teeth in the diverse rooms of Atlanta. He now Tuckernuck Drive. Call forR rateseflector and publication dates: lives in Brooklyn and when he’s not touring, The cost is $36. Jewish Community Federation OF RICHMOND he performs several nights a week in New In addition, a gift to the 2014 Annual theRod Brinks (804) 545-8655 York City, and co-hosts a monthly show called Campaign is required. For details, contact [email protected] “Comedy Freaknik” at The Creek and the Melanie Phillips, Young Leadership Jewish Community Federation Cave. director at (804) 545-8623 or email the OF RICHMOND His credits include TBS’ “Today’s [email protected]. Riff,” Comcast’s “Trial By Laughter,” the To RSVP for all Campaign events, Reflector Charleston Comedy Festival, and the Laugh call Ellen Moncure at (804) 545-8625 or Jewish Community Federation Your Asheville Off Comedy Festival. In 2012, [email protected]. the OF RICHMOND issuein this Reflector

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PATRONS OF THE VCU has never had a Sukkah until this For details visit us year, and it certainly drew attention all over at weinsteinjcc.org campus. Faculty, staff and students made (From left) VCU students Jessica Skiles, Hannah or call 545-8608! positive remarks on the Sukkah, and enjoyed Piracha and Joseph Chasen with Hillel Director ARTS Ethan Litvin show their enthusiasm at the Sukkah Hillel More on page 7 erected at VCU this year for the first time .

6 | the Reflector | November 2013 . Chesvan/Kislev 5774 www.JewishRichmond.org Thanksgivukkah 2013 ... Once Every 75,000 Years Closing Event for The Fife-Davis grape juice, Kosher salad dressing) Annual Jewish Book Fair and Gift Monday, Nov. 25, 4-6 p.m. Shop: Community Chanukah ‘Latkes in the Lobby,’ Join the Celebration Weinstein JCC staff as they make delicious Sunday, Nov. 17 from 3-5 p.m. sweet potato latkes in the lobby. Fun for all ages with a live concert with 8 Days of Fitness: Weinstein JCC Fitness the Mama Doni Band, crafts, snacks, and staff will share a tip a day on Facebook to some favorite furry characters. Participants keep all members in shape during these are encouraged to bring nonperishable delicious holidays. food donations for the Weinstein JCC 8 Days of “Thanksgivukkah”: Check out Elmer Toth Food Pantry and the Central the Center’s Facebook page too as staff Virginia Food Bank (items needed: tuna and lay leaders talk about what they are fish, peanut butter, dried pasta, tomato grateful for. sauce, canned soup, canned fruits and For details, call (804) 285-6500 or visit his year the first day of Chanukah falls on As the Jewish calendar and the solar vegetables, Kosher Gefilte fish, Kosher www.weinsteinjcc.org. TThanksgiving! calendar slowly fall out of sync the next time Technically, it hasn’t been 75,000 years this will happen is in the year 79,811. since the last time the dates for Chanukah Each year the Weinstein JCC celebrates sending 11 students to Israel on the Taglit- and Thanksgiving have converged. In 1861, the Festival of Lights, but due to this year’s Hillel Birthright Israel Trip. Hillel Director Chanukah began on Nov. 28 just as it does holiday anomaly, the Center plans to do Continued from page 6 Ethan Litvin hopes that with the increasing this year – which is the earliest date that things a little bit differently. There are many interacting with Hillel students, as they numbers in attendance, membership and Chanukah can occur and the latest date that similarities between these two holidays and explained to them the meaning of a Sukkah new programs, the Richmond community Thanksgiving can occur. the staff wants to take the opportunity to focus and the importance of Sukkot. will want to become involved and invested in The convergence in 1861 would have been on Gratitude, or Hodayah, as it is said in The Sukkah was so beautiful that the the growing success of Hillel. a “Thanksgivukkah” too, but Thanksgiving Hebrew. As an act of ‘hodayah’ the Weinstein admissions department took photos that For more information about Hillel at didn’t officially become a holiday until 1863 JCC wants to share this once-in-a-lifetime they hope to put on their admissions website. VCU, contact Litvin at [email protected] when it was formally established by President occurrence with its members: Also this winter, the program will be or (804)-545-8609. Abraham Lincoln. Still the Best Kept Secret in Richmond!

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Join Dr. Jocelyn victims of Nazi Germany at the horrible Board president Mark Resnick updated Vorenberg and Richmond Symphony Ravensbruck camp north of Berlin – the one community members on the continuing friends as they present SS concentration camp built specifically for progress of the landscaping on the campus, the persecution of women prisoners. including the completion of Penn Park. The exhibit, “Women of Ravensbruck: Mark Finkel, president & CEO of Beth And Their Music Lives On Portraits of Courage” centers around 7 large, Sholom, spoke about upcoming changes in featuring the music of works by wooden panes with mixed media and photo health care for seniors. Alexander Zemlinsky, Gideon transfers or women, young and old, Survivors Several of the panels in the VHM exhibit. “We face an unprecedented challenge,” Klein, and Oliver Messiaen— and those who did not live. The collection said Finkel. “The number of people reaching composers whose music was Built and opened in the spring of 1939, suppressed by the Nazis during contains rare original artifacts including a retirement will double in number by 2030. To Ravensbrueck’s original cadre of prisoners the 1930s and 1940s handmade recipe book and gifts secretly have independence and dignity aging baby consisted of 867 German women transferred exchanged by the women in the camp. boomers will need a wide range of professional from makeshift camps and German prisons. The concentration camps of the Third health and social services. To meet these Designed to hold a maximum of 5,000 Parkside at Beth Sholom Reich were the indispensable centers of needs action by policymakers is required to 1600 John Rolfe Parkway inmates, the camp grew to hold many terror, persecution, and mass murder address the issues of recruitment, training, Sunday, November 3 thousands more – women from virtually every 3:30 p.m. upon which the totalitarian order of Nazi retention and improved compensation for European country and category considered Germany functioned. As facilities for the the professional and direct-care workforce.” Concert is free of charge * Reception to follow by the Nazis as fit only for slave labor or practice of inhuman brutality, they also Finkel also spoke about upcoming changes extermination. Jews, Gypsies, Communists became essential to the successful operation to the health care center including affordable and Socialists, Jehovah’s Witnesses, Catholics Dandridge-Spain, Deirdre Arnowitz, Robin of the European-wide policies of relentless assisted living, redesigned long term care (including Nuns), asocials, and other women Taylor, Eleanor Tyler, Joyce Whitlock, terror and deliberate genocide that remain accommodations and rehabilitation center. arrested in the German-occupied territories Jacquelin Green, Valerie Amrhein, Brenda the most familiar and authentic historic Rookies of the Year (employees with less for resistance activities. Owen, Mary Reese and Mary Lee, who has qualities of the Hitlerian era. than 1 year) were Akeena Parker, LPN, from When the war ended on May 8, 1945 worked at Beth Sholom for over 48 years. Built and operated by the SS and the Parkside and Melinda Campbell, CNA, from more than 130,000 women had been For details, visit www.bethsholom-lifecare.org. Gestapo, there were five major concentration the health care center. confined at Ravensbrueck with just only Beth Sholom Home is supported, in part, camps in operation when Hitler launched The “25 Year Club” was introduced. about 30,000 survivors when the camp was by a generous contribution from the Jewish World War II in September 1939; by the These are employees who have been at Beth liberated by the Red Army. This exhibit, the Community Federation of Richmond. conflict’s end there were hundreds of camps Sholom for more than 25 years. They are first of its kind available in America, opens everywhere the Germans had been, all of Jackie Washington, Denise Jones, Brenda for the visitor a window into the universe them of differing sizes and descriptions, of suffering the Nazis and the SS reserved spread across Europe and holding about especially for their women victims. seven hundred thousand victims of all ages For details, call (804) 257-5400 or visit and from every European nationality. www.va-holocaust.com. 5400 Men’s Richmond Hadassah Presents Club Events Blast from the Past! Hadassah Happenings

Bring a bag lunch or buy it from the café Nov. 4 - Heartstrings Singing Book Club: Nov. 10 he Hadassah Book Club will meet while you participate in a lively discussion Group. TSunday, Nov. 10 at 1 p.m. at the leading into Chanukah. For details, or if Nov. 11 - Jewish Book Fair Weinstein JCC to discuss “Superman, the you need a ride, contact. Carolyn Belgrad at

speaker, Stephanie Deutsch, High Flying History of America’s Most (804)798-7235. “You Need a Schoolhouse.” Dance to the music with DJ’s Don Wade and Freddy C! Enduring Hero” by Larry Tye. Hadassah Chinese Bingo: Dec. 5 (Note: speaker will be at 1 p.m.) Saturday November 16, 2013 This program is the Weinstein JCC Book oin us Thursday, Dec. 5 at 6:30 p.m. for an Nov. 18 - Dr. Rick Hurley, Weinstein JCC Israel November Auditorium Fair. 7-10PM, doors open at 6:30PM Jevening of great food, fun games and prizes president, University of Mary For details, contact Marilyn Townsell at at Nanking Restaurant, 7408 W. Broad St. Great Kosher Food, Door Prizes Galore (804) 467-7798 or [email protected]. Washington, “STEM Versus $25/person $45/couple by November 12 For $18, come enjoy a full Chinese dinner. Liberal Education.” $30/person $55/couple after November 12 or at the door We will provide all the supplies for fun Bingo, Gather your friends to reserve a table for up to 8 people Lunch and Learn: Nov. 13 for an additional $40 per table called by the incomparable Leslie Baron. Nov. 25 - Jim Nolan, reporter, ust in time for Chanukah (Thanksgiving), Prizes for the winners. Richmond Times-Dispatch, “The For Reservations: Send your check Payable to Hadassah to Julie Beck-Berman will enlighten Evelyn Windmueller, 8708 Holly Hill Road, J You must RSVP by Dec. 1 to attend. Off-Year Election.” members about “Queen Shalom-Zion of Henrico VA 23229 Send your checks to Evie Windmueller, the Maccabees (did you know there is a street For More Information, please call Marian Winer 804-270-7898 or 8708 Holly Hill Rd; Richmond, 23229. For Email Jenna Etters [email protected] in Jerusalem named after her) and Judith” at more information, contact Lynn Schwartz at Proceeds go to Hadassah’s projects Lunch and Learn on Nov. 13, from noon - 2 [email protected] or Robin Jackson at rocknrobn@ p.m. at the Weinstein JCC. comast.net.

www.JewishRichmond.org 8 | the Reflector | November 2013 . Chesvan/Kislev 5774 Grand Event Continued on page 1 synagogue. The community elders were wrong. Thanks to the Joint a community leader said, “We are thriving and doing better than ever in our history. There has been a complete renewal of Jewish life on the island of Cuba, and yes, there will be (From left) JCFR Board Member Adam Plotkin, For- (From left) Allison Weinstein and Carole (From left) Kevin Fine, Jason Cheslock, Jara future generations of Jews in Cuba.” mer JCFR President Hal Horwitz and Juan Villalona. Weinstein. Janulis, Ashley Noell and JCFR Board Member Recant also described how the Jewish Allisa Aronovici. community in Buenos Aries has been revitalized and is thriving thanks to the JDC. “If I was standing here 10 years ago, you might have asked, What’s the greatest need in the Jewish world. I would have said Argentina.” He said the Jewish community there had been doing well prior to 2003, until the banks closed and did not reopen for 10 months. (From left) Scott and Nathalie Gaeser and Jessica and Richard Samet. “The Jewish community nearly collapsed much like what would happen in Richmond if your banks closed for 10 months,” he said. The speaker outlined how JDC helped (From left) Robin Jackson and Va. Del. Eileen the Argentina Jewish community “stay above Filler-Corn from Northern Virginia. water.” At that time, there were 55,000 Jews out of a total of a quarter million that had dropped below the poverty line, he noted. Recant explained, “We were there with (From left) Susan Sisisky, Grand Event Co- food packages and more to help them to RTA President Brian Greene and his wife, Chair, and Linda Gary. become a thriving community once again.” Ruth Greene. He also described JDC efforts to rescue Jews during the Holocaust. “It was JDC that helped Oskar Schindler and Raoul Westbury Market/Pharmacy Wallenberg.” He said, “It was the JDC that 8903 Three Chopt Road provided the first hot meal to the Jewish refugees who resettled in Palestine after Richmond, Virginia 23229 World War II from displacement camps.” (From left) Former JCFR President Helen Hor- (804) 285-0962 witz, Sara Belle November, Former JCFR Presi- He noted in detail how JDC helped dent David Peck and Barbara Shocket. Ethiopian Jews come to Israel in several Open from 6 a.m. until 11p.m. every day different airlifts. FOR YOUR CHANUKAH - THANKSGIVING For 100 years the JDC mission has of the work you do in Jewish communal been rescue, relief and renewal of Jewish institutions. For your commitment and CELEBRATION communities outside of North America, he dedication, thank you,” he concluded. Kosher Turkeys - frozen - $3.39/lb told the community members. “For relief, Mark Sisisky, Grand Event chair, noted Empire Chickens (cut up) - $2.99/lb JDC provides food, medicine and basic how the Federation provides local financial assistance to 200,000 elderly Jews each week assistance and counseling. “We deliver meals Golden Potato Pancakes throughout the 11 time zones of the Former to homebound seniors through one of our $1.99 Box of 8 Soviet Union.” He noted, “These Jews have beneficiary agencies, Jewish Family Services. nothing and no one other than us and you. We help fund and sustain our community’s Hanover Sweet Potatoes - 69 cts/lb “It’s a privilege to work for JDC but its JCC, day schools and summer camp. We very, very difficult to go around the world help fund and sustain our community’s FOR YOUR HOLIDAY CELEBRATION today to see Jews that are going to bed seniors who require daily assistance. The hungry at night,” Recant said. money raised in our Annual Campaign is Rashi (Red or White) Wine – $8.69 (750 ML) “It’s because of you and the Jewish distributed to our other local beneficiary Gabriel Merlot - $7.99 (750 ML) Federation system that understands we are agencies -- Weinstein JCC, Beth Sholom Gabriel Pinot Grigio - $9.99 (750 ML) all responsible for one another,” he said. Home and Rudlin Torah Academy.” Baron Herzog White Zinfandel - $6.49 (750 ML) “Whether here in your own backyard, or in JCFR President Nathan Shor and Cuba, Lithuania or Siberia, we are there – we Campaign Chair Ellen Renee Adams Bartenura Moscato - $10.99 (750 ML) know who they are, we know where they are, updated the community members on X-LARGE EGGS $1.49 A DOZEN we know what they need. We have the ability the 2014 Campaign, which had reached to deliver assistance because of the dollars $1.6 million. As of Oct. 23, the total was Have a Healthy and Happy Chanukah you raise in your Federation, and because $1.981,830.

www.JewishRichmond.org November 2013 . Chesvan/Kislev 5774 | the Reflector | 9 Weinstein JCC Gift Shop JFT Presents ‘Hello Dolly!’ he Weinstein JCC convince Horace and make him think it was Introduces New Israeli Artisans TPatrons of the his idea. “Hello Dolly!” is a family friendly Arts and Jewish Family musical with numbers for all ages to enjoy here is something particularly special Meet Talila Abraham Theatre are thrilled to like “Elegance,” “Hello Dolly!,” “It Only Tabout receiving a gift that was made Metalace Art’s pieces are designed and present “Hello Dolly!,” Takes a Moment,” “Put on Your Sunday in Israel. The Weinstein JCC Gift Shop is crafted by Talila Abraham, an Israeli-born Dec. 12-22. Clothes” and more. Dolly and Horace excited to feature the exquisite work of close artist who has a M.Sc Through the years, are played artfully by JFT veterans Ruth to a dozen Israeli Artisans. in management design Carol Channing and McMahon and Fred Kaufman. They are Every year, the gift shop searches for from the Technion Barbara Streisand stared in this classic musical joined by many talented local performers in unique gifts for the annual Chanukah Gift Israeli institute of on stage and screen. this exciting show that is big on fun. Shop that coincides with The Fife-Davis Technology in Haifa The music and lyrics are by Jerry The annual dinner and show event will Annual Jewish Book Fair. This year, the and a B.Sc.T.E in Herman and the book is by Michael Stewart. be Wednesday, Dec. 18, with dinner at 6 gift shop will showcase the newest items industrial design The production will be at the Sara Belle p.m. and with the show beginning at 7:30. from familiar Israeli artisans including Yair from the Holon November Theater. Contact Lisa Looney at (804) 545-8608 Emanuel, Michal Golan and Adi Sidler, Academic Institute Dolly Gallagher Levi is a professional or [email protected] for tickets or to as well as introduce handmade items from of Technology in Israel. Her designs are matchmaker who decides she wants to marry become a Patrons of the Arts subscriber undiscovered Israeli artisans including Orit inspired from the work of unknown women miserly, half-millionaire hay and feed dealer, and receive tickets for all of the 2013 – 2014 Grader and Talila Abraham of Metalace and merge the unique personal and romantic Horace Vandergelder – now she just has to cultural arts events. Art. feeling of handcraft with contemporary Meet Orit Grader materials and advanced technology. Each Orit Grader lives in Haifa, Israel. Her piece is individually processed and hand- artwork is inspired by the rich interplay of treated for optimal shape and structure. Chanukah and Book Fair color and shapes that nature offers us. She Visit the gift fair during the book Continued from page 1 works with metals, hand colored patinas and fair on Nov. 7-17. For more information, paints in an effort to capture natural themes contact Leslie McGuigan, Special Events and then transform and incorporate them coordinator, at (804) 545-8659 or lmcguigan@ into creative artwork. An array of Grader’s weinsteinjcc.org. (See ad on page 6 for gift jewelry can be seen at the gift shop. shop hours.)

Nov. 7, 7 p.m. Nov. 9, 7 p.m. Nov. 12, 7 p.m. Nov. 14, 7 p.m. of the Arts to bring exciting authors and Contact Lisa Looney at (804) 545- innovative programming to this ten day 8608 or [email protected] to purchase Wishing you event. tickets or to become a Patrons of the Arts For more information about the book subscriber, and receive tickets for all of the fair events and authors, and gift shop exciting 2013- 2014 cultural arts events. & your family details, visit weinsteinjcc.org. a happy, healthy, JFS | New JFS CEO Continued from page 1

problem resolution. about JFS’ resettlement of Soviet Jews in & miraculous Davidson also has extensive nonprofit the 1980s. leadership and fundraising experience. A Long Island native, he graduated He served on the boards of JFS, the Cum Laude from the University of Wheat First Foundation, Richmond Richmond in 1982 with degrees in Hanukkah! Metropolitan Habitat for Humanity and economics and sociology. He and his the Alumni Board of the University of wife, Patti, a social worker with the State Richmond Sigma Phi Epsilon Fraternity. of Virginia, live in Richmond. Their son 6718 Patterson Avenue At the Positive Vibe Café, he volunteered Kyle, a recent college graduate, also works as a chef instructor and trained hundreds and resides in Richmond. Richmond, Virginia 23226 of students with cognitive and physical To contact, JFS and Davidson, call 804.282.5644 disabilities. Most notably, Davidson has (804) 282-5644. effectively co-chaired the current JFS/ Jewish Family Services is supported, University of Richmond collaboration in part, by a generous contribution from www.jfsrichmond.org • [email protected] to create a documentary film, museum the Jewish Community Federation of exhibitions, and academic symposium Richmond.

10 | the Reflector | November 2013 . Chesvan/Kislev 5774 www.JewishRichmond.org Synagogue happenings The Patrol Method A Month of Hesed at Beth-El and reviewed items they will need for their f the first month of religious school at camping trip. ITemple Beth-El was a month of holidays, On this campout, the younger boys will November is a month of Hesed. On Nov. focus on Tenderfoot requirements while the 3, Beth-El Religious School will join the older boys will be work toward gaining a synagogue’s Social Action committee for an Camping Merit Badge. afternoon of gleaning at Gallmeyer Farms. All To prepare for their campout, Assistant produce gleaned will be donated to local soup Scout Master Drew Alexander, with the kitchens and food banks. help of Assistant Scout Master Ben Melton, Beth-El also has started its annual food and The Wolverine’s practice their new patrol yell. reviewed fusing and whipping the ends of a (Bottom) Moshe Ackman; (Top) - Eliott Zedd and rope followed by learning useful knots like the toiletry drive in advance of the synagogue’s (From left) Baylee Huber-Cohen, Maytal Zasler, Mordechai Miller. two-half hitch and the taut line. week of CARITAS hosting. Also in November, Juliet Stein and Darryn Rubin. the fifth graders will visit Beth Sholom residents “The patrol system is not one method in which Joining the Boy Scouts on this camping trip for a winter party. Judaism’s most beloved prayers. Scouting for boys can be carried on. It is the only will be the youngsters from Cub Scout Pack The Religious School also is gearing up Interested in finding out what Temple method.” – Lord Baden-Powell, Scouting’s 613 and their fathers. This will be a great for it first-ever “Adon Olam” sing-off. Classes Beth-El Religious School has to offer your child founder opportunity for the older Scouts to share and family, call or email Hazzan Marian Turk some of their camping skills with the younger are competing for the most original tune and ichmond’s Jewish Boy Scout Troop 613 at (804) 740-0829 or hazzan.turk@bethelrichmond. boys. presentation of “Adon Olam,” and in the is growing. org. R This is Troop 613’s third year of Scouting, process, students get to learn all about one of With this growth, the Troop has split into and more fun is planned than ever before. two patrols – the Flaming Arrows led by Patrol In addition to camping, Troop 613 plans to Leader Jacob Zedd and the Wolverines led by include rifle and shotgun, archery and more. Patrol Leader Moshe Ackman. To take advantage of all that Scouting You cannot have a patrol without a patrol Or Ami’s Real Theology Set offers, contact: Boy Scouts: Russ Stein at yell so the Wolverine Patrol chose a fierce (804) 651-5825 or [email protected]; Cub growl to match their name. For November 17 Scouts: Yisrael Fletcher at (202) 288-5373 or Charlie Alexander is the senior patrol leader [email protected]; and Girl Scouts: Heni ongregation Or Ami’s Adult Learning The screening on Nov. 17 at 6 p.m., is for the second year. Under his guidance, the Stein at (804) 651-5359 or henibt18@comcast. Committee’s Reel Theology for free and open to the public. There will be patrols are planning for their first overnight C net. November presents “The Way,” starring an informal potluck before the movie, and a camping trip since their summer break. KBI is the charter organization for Cub Martin Sheen and his son Emilio Estevez. group discussion afterward led by Rabbi Ben The boys have separated into their Pack 613, Boy Scout Troop 613 and the A father heads overseas to recover the Romer. individual patrols and planned their menu body of his estranged son who died while Or Ami is located at 9400 Huguenot Sponsor for Girl Scout Troop 4613. traveling the “El Camino de Santiago,” and Road. For details, call (804) 272-0017, or decides to take the pilgrimage himself. email [email protected]. Or Ami Chanukah Bazaar his year marks the beginning of a new Join members and community guests for Ttradition and the first ever Chanukah breakfast, lunch or both; and shop for your Bazaar south of the James. holiday gifts. There will be a face painter Congregation Or Ami will hold a for the kiddies and a flat screen television Chanukah Bazaar on Sunday, Nov. 3 from will be raffled. 10 a.m. - 3 p.m. The organizers will have All proceeds benefit Or Ami. Contact unique vendors selling their wares that Evelyn Lampert with questions at include jewelry, henna items, fine art by [email protected]. local artists, pottery and more. MADE AND DELIVERED FRESH DAILY! Or Ami Jewish Book Fair To order, please call or visit: 804-323-7848 ad b’ Yad, a Congregation Or Ami support Or Ami and its religious school. So, 9736 Midlothian Turnpike Yauxiliary, invites the community to put down the Tablet; there’s nothing like attend its Jewish Book Fair, just in time holding a good book in your hands. Richmond, VA 23235 of Chanukah gift giving or shopping for The fair will be held at Or Ami, 9400 EdibleArrangements.com Kosher Certifi ed yourself. Huguenot Road, on Saturday, Nov. 16, 1-4 FRUIT FESTIVAL® The titles will run from childrens’ picture p.m.; Sunday, Nov. 17., 9 a.m. - 1 p.m.; books to adult fiction and non-fiction titles. Saturday, Nov. 23, 1-4 p.m.; and Sunday, The group will have 100s of books, Nov. 24, 9 a.m. - 1 p.m. with 1-2 copies of each, so come early for For details, call Meg Clark at (804) 334- Make life a little sweeter. Containers may vary. Arrangements available in a variety of sizes. Delivery not available in all areas. EDIBLE ARRANGEMENTS® & Design and all other marks noted are trademarks of Edible Arrangements, LLC. the best selections. This fundraiser will 2551 or [email protected]. ©2013 Edible Arrangements, LLC. All rights reserved. www.JewishRichmond.org November 2013 . Chesvan/Kislev 5774 | the Reflector | 11 Teens View Their World KBI and TLC Launch the Through a Jewish Lens Beginner’s Service By Jason Caplan ave you ever wanted to stand up in Hthe middle of services and shout, “Could you folks slow down a bit, and help me with this Hebrew?” And then follow by a quick, “Oh, and I read something in these prayers that is really bothering me, I need to ask the Rabbi right now!” Well, I am glad that you were able to demonstrate a large measure of self- restraint. I’ve been feeling this way for years and worked up the courage to speak to my friend and Rabbi, Rabbi Dovid Asher about starting a program so (From left) Jason Caplan, Rabbi Dovid Asher Photo by Zach Cohen in Western Virginia. I wouldn’t be blurting crazy things out and Rabbi Chaim Moskowitz. during services. It’s a win-win situation for everyone. attend. We start at 10 a.m., and make our Photo by Jessie Meyer at a Sukkah. a renowned Jewish photojournalist. KBI has a downstair’s chapel that way through the central sections of the Rabbi Asher said would be a good fit for Shabbat prayers. It’s a very meditative eens in Congregation Beth Ahabah’s Students took pictures of both Jewish and this program. Now, before you get the experience. I haven’t read these prayers Midrasha program participated daily life events and shared them during T feeling that he put me in the basement, I slowly in years. At 10:45 we break for this fall in a photography project with class-time for peer reviewing. must say, it’s a great looking chapel, with the Disco Kiddush. Are you picturing a their teacher and Director of Education Wonderful discussions evolved about an Aron Kodesh, and comfy chairs. big disco ball? Me, too. Its been a long Ramona Brand. The project asked the photos, and the meanings behind The 1st program was the Prayer time dream of mine. Right now, it’s a students to use their camera or cellphones them. Each student chose two of his or her Workshop. This is a highly interactive very happening assortment of cookies to document their Jewish life inside and own favorite pictures to be framed. These session, where I start with an idea from and cake from the Mixing Bowl and outside the synagogue. will be displayed during the Beth Ahabah Torah or Prayer and ask the group what recently made wine served in the KBI This project builds on a visit last year to Family Hanukah Party on Sunday, Nov. their thoughts are. The discussions are library. the “Families of Abraham” photo exhibit 24. lively, respectful, and open to any and all Then at 11 a.m., we begin the Prayer at the Visual Arts Center of Richmond, The teens have not only enjoyed the ideas. Workshop discussion group. The positive which a number of the students attended project, but were challenged to view the Earlier this summer, Rabbi Chaim response has been overwhelming and we with their religious school teacher. world around them with fresh connection Moskowitz launched his Torah Learning are looking forward to watching it grow During this fall’s elective class, students to their Jewish values. Connection program. We decided to in Richmond. were asked to think about what constituted This project was funded, in part, by team up and add a Beginner’s Service, For details, call me at (804) 282-4064 a “Jewish Photograph.” During the course, the Rachel B. Banks Youth Fund from the to go slowly through the prayers, or [email protected]. students learned about notable Jewish Richmond Jewish Foundation. highlighting their meaning and the key photographers including Ruth Gruber, For details, call (804) 358-6757. Jason Caplan grew up in Richmond. He is a Hebrew words to develop independence financial advisor with Merrill Lynch and leads from English. his blues trio, JJ Caplan and the Soul Seekers. Each week we have about 12 to 15 He and his wife, Michal, have two daughters, people of all ages and backgrounds Ariella and Devora. Or Atid Happenings

ongregation Or Atid once again Diane and Gina Girgente, Ben Lehman, Cparticipated in the CARITAS program Noah Sachs, Phyllis Ellenbogen, Ann with its hosting partner Welbourne Methodist Macharas, Sharon Story, Merle Kahn, Dana Church on Oct. 9-10. Barss-Weiss, Tomomi and Sam Rubin, Sonya HONORED PROVIDER Approximately 40 guests were served Brockstein, Ron and Sharon Fink, Barry and could not have happened if it wasn’t Green, Glenn Weiner and Fran and Bob Tradition for the congregants who volunteered. Their Resnick. selfless time and help with contributions Also, a thank you to Melissa Hart at Radio of food, shopping, serving meals and Station 103.7 Play, for donating the reusable WOODY FUNERAL HOME sleeping overnight night made the task and recyclable bags to each of the ladies. Or Atid SERVING RICHMOND SINCE 1905 experience a positive one. The women were will again host the group in the Spring of so appreciative with Or Atid’s effort and good 2014 and they hope more members will get food. a chance to participate in this worthwhile Parham Chapel Huguenot Chapel Atlee Chapel Woody Advanced Thanks to a wonderful crew – Jennifer program. 1771 Parham Rd 1020 Huguenot Rd 9271 Shady Grove Rd Planning Cohodas, Lisa Roday, Ruth Schoenhaut, For details, call (804) 740-4747. 804-288-3013 804-794-1000 804-730-0035 804-288-3013

12 | the Reflector|November 2013 . Chesvan/Kislev 5774 www.JewishRichmond.org Swansboro Celebrates 100 Years Community happenings

school year. The students and teachers were Whether you can come once a week or glad to have the group back in the building. once a month, the students need you! New mentors are needed to fill the needs For details, contact Claudia Biegler at of the school, so, consider joining RJCL – we [email protected] or Diane Munsey at are just getting started. No teaching experience the Federation at [email protected] or is needed - just a love of children, learning and (804) 545-8654. a passion for helping others.

(From left) JCFR CEO Samuel Asher with RJCL Mayor Dwight Jones gives a proclamation to mentors Miriam Davidow, Marci Linas, Phyllis Swansboro Principal Herman Mizell. Ellenbogen and Robin Jackson t was a glorious day on Oct. 4 when Public Schools Acting Superintendent Latkes. ISwansboro Elementary School celebrated Jonathan Lewis; 5th District School Board And everything else Hanukkah. its centennial year with a huge celebration, a Representative Mamie Taylor; 5th District year in the making. City Councilman Parker Agelasto; House Richmond Jewish Coalition for Literacy of Delegates Representative Betsy Carr; Stress-free entertaining mentors Robin Jackson and Katy Yoffy Federation CEO Samuel Asher; Federation served on the centennial committee, which Director of Operations Sara Rosenbaum; for all your Kosher occasions: also included administration from the and James Ukrop (a former student). Also Receptions school and representatives from Reveille attending were current and other former United Methodist Church. The afternoon students, teachers, parents, mentors, Bar and Bat Mitzvahs celebration included music from the school community members and faculty. Box Lunches (new) choir, filling a Centennial Time Capsule, Each class selected an item to put in the a Mayoral Proclamation, a hat fashion time capsule including current CD’s, books, All New Holiday Meals show with styles through the decades worn photographs, a telescope, computer disc and Party by the Pre-K students, refreshments and toys. One hundred facts about the school Shiva Meals 33 years Room! of Kosher a spectacular balloon release to end the were on display in the hall and are being read catering celebration. to the students each day this school year. experience Special guests and elected officials On Oct. 9, RJCL mentors attended a attended including the four former principals Back-to-School meeting and met their new since the reopening of Swansboro in 1986; or returning mentees. More than 35 current Richmond Mayor Dwight Jones; Richmond and new mentors were on hand to kick off the

Hadassah Will Honor Dr. Bill Kosher, Kosher-Style Moskowitz in May 2014 804.740.5200 ichmond Chapter of Hadassah will so graciously with her pickupspluscatering.com Rhonor Dr. William (Bill) Moskowitz with fellow mankind. The its Elinor Bloom Marshall Humanitarian honoree would need Award on May 4 at 5 p.m. to have involvement Moskowitz will be the second recipient and participation in of the award. He is the associate professor of both Jewish and local Women’s Room Programs Pediatrics, director of the Pediatric Cardiac community service; Nov. 4 - Heartstrings Singing Group. (Joint Nov. 18 - Dr. Rick Hurley, president, Catheterization Laboratory and director of selfless generosity of Program) University of Mary Washington, “STEM Pediatric Heart/Lung Transplantation at spirit, time, talent Nov. 11 - Jewish Book Fair speaker, Stephanie Versus Liberal Education.” (Joint Program) Dr. Bill Moskowitz VCU/MCV. He is an active member in the and resources; and a Deutsch, “You Need a Schoolhouse.” ( Joint Nov. 25 - Leah Skaist, teacher from RTA, Richmond-based World Pediatric Project, shared commitment Program/ Note: speaker will be at 1 p.m.) “Women’s Issues.” and a founder of Mended Little Hearts, to Hadassah’s mission of motivation and Virginia Chapter, a support group for inspiration in strengthening a partnership families with children with congenital heart with Israel and Hadassah Hospital. disease. He is a member of Klezm’Or’Ami’m “Bill ticked all of those boxes and more,” It’s Mah Jongg Card Order Time Klezmer band. He is a long-time associate noted a Hadassah committee person. ah Jongg Player unite! Once again A percentage of your check goes to member of Hadassah who has participated More details will be announced about Mit’s time to order 2014 cards. Two Hadassah that enables it to provide life- in many ot its programs. this event. Individuals who are interested in sizes are available. The regular size card saving help to patients in Israel, regardless In selecting the recipient, Hadassah working on fundraising or donating, contact is $8; the larger card $9. Designate which of their religious affiliation, national origin looked for someone who possessed the ideals co-chairs Robin Jackson at (804) 740-667 or size you want and mail a check payable or race. and values that reflect those which the late [email protected],) or Rebecca Young at to Hadassah to Toby Rosenthal, 4412 Your check must be received by Jan. 5, Elinor Bloom Marshall possessed and shared (804) 502-4812 or [email protected]). Bromley Lane, 23221. 2014 www.JewishRichmond.org November 2013 . Chesvan/Kislev 5774 | the Reflector | 13 Foundation happenings

From Generation to Generation, Saving on Year-End Taxes

By Robert Nomberg president & ceo, rjf

s December 31 nears I’m reminded of If you are interested in creating a Aone of my favorite times of the year. similar type of donor advised fund, now In the next few weeks I will meet with Lisa is a great time to do so. As the year closes, and Seth Kaplan, their teenage children, you probably have a clearer picture of your and their attorney. finances and goals. If you are like most This annual meeting only lasts an people, you are also looking for ways to save hour or so, but the six of us have a very on this year’s taxes. meaningful conversation about Tzedakah, With a DAF you can make a tax Tikkun Olam, and L’dor V’dor – all vital deductible donation now, but you don’t aspects of Richmond Jewish Foundation’s have to name the charities that will mission, vision and values. ultimately receive the grants until later. You The Kaplans created a donor advised have plenty of time to think about which fund at Richmond Jewish Foundation a charities will receive your gifts. few years ago to help facilitate an annual A DAF offers the opportunity to conversation with their children, Rachel create an easy-to-establish, low cost, and Joshua, about the importance of flexible vehicle for charitable giving as tzedakah. Rachel and Joshua are given an alternative to direct giving or creating the responsibility of recommending which a private foundation. You can enjoy charities will receive the fund’s annual administrative convenience, cost savings, distribution. While this “transaction” could and tax advantages by conducting your just as easily be handled using RJF’s online grantmaking through the fund. You can use DAF portal, the conversation is elevated to your fund to recommend grants to all non- a wonderful teaching moment. profit charities including local agencies and Their attorney begins the meeting and synagogues. I follow with information on the fund’s And, as the Kaplan’s know, it’s the balance, the amount available for the year’s perfect philanthropic vehicle for parents to distribution, and a review of the past grants encourage their children to be involved in from the fund. philanthropy. You can start your fund with The conversation concludes with Rachel cash or stock at a $5,000 minimum level. and Joshua not only naming the charities By donating appreciated stock you will of their choice, but also explaining why the avoid paying taxes on the capital gains, as charities are important to them. well as receiving a tax deduction. In just a few short years half a dozen For more information about donor charities have received grants from the fund. advised funds or any other planned giving This annual conversation is a very powerful needs visit http://www.rjfoundation.org/ exercise in Tzedakah, Tikkun Olam and donors-2/daf or call me at (804) 545-8656. L’dor V’dor all wrapped up together.

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T h a n k s g i v i n g &C h a n u k a h M e n u Cornelia Warmenhoven and Ulysses Avgeros will speak at the Kristallnacht One month of food vouchers anniversary , for a needy family One week of transportation$35 to doctor’s Come be Inspired On visits Tfor h a n a k ssenior g i v i n g &C h a n u k a h M e n u One month of Jewish camp for a child in Ukraine $75 November 10 One month of food vouchers for a needy family An independent living$100 skills workshop n Sunday, Nov. 10, at 2 p.m., Annie Bornstein will chant the One week of transportation$35 to doctor’s come hear the stories of three liturgy. The 2013 student winner for a disabledvisits for Israeli a senior O A one-yearOne month Hebrew of Jewish school campscholarship for a child for in a Ukraine child individuals who dared to defy the of Emek Sholom’s Never Again $180$75 Nazis and risked their own lives to award will present his or her essay An independent living$100 skills workshop Wheelchair for a nursing$400 home resident rescue endangered people during on specific ways to counteract for a disabled Israeli the Holocaust. genocide someplace in the world A one-year Hebrew school scholarship for a child $180 Six months of depression$500 counseling for a teen Each year, the community today. The service will conclude Wheelchair for a nursing$400 home resident gathers at Emek Sholom Holocaust with a candle-lighting ceremony $1,800 Memorial Cemetery on the by children and grandchildren of Six months of depression$500 counseling for a teen Sunday nearest to the anniversary Holocaust survivors. $1,800 of Kristallnacht – the wave of The event will take place at violent anti-Jewish pogroms that the Emek Sholom Holocaust took place on Nov. 9-10, 1938, Memorial Cemetery in the Forest known as “The Night of Broken Lawn Cemetery in Richmond, Glass” – to commemorate the Virginia. events of the Holocaust and to Everyone in the community honor the memories of its victims. is invited to attend this inspiring This year’s annual Kristallnacht program honoring the heroism of This Chanukah, serve an Memorial Service falls on the 75th these local Richmond residents, This Chanukah, serve an anniversary of Kristallnacht, and and to be a part of this unique will feature a special program Richmond tradition preserving extra helping of Thanks honoring the valor of Rescuers the memory of the Holocaust. extraThis year, for the firsthelping time ever, Chanukah starts on Thanksgiving. of BothThanks holidays are about gratitude and and workers in the Resistance, The Emek Sholom memorial Thisgiving. year, So as foryou theplan yourfirst holiday time meal,ever, please Chanukah give to thestarts Jewish on Federations Thanksgiving. of North America.Both holidays Even a are This year,aboutsmall for donation the gratitude first can time do and so ever, much giving. Chanukah for a Sograteful asstarts you person onplan inThanksgiving. genuine your holidayneed. Both As a meal holidaystoken (ofcheck ourare appreciation, about out gratitudeour website/we’ve and who put everything on the line at the Emek Sholom Holocaust asked the best Jewish cooks in the country to create a special Chanukah-Thanksgiving dinner menu just for giving. PinterestSo as you plan for yourmenus holiday & ideas meal,), pleaseplease give give to thean extraJewish helping Federations of thanksof North by America. making Even a a to save endangered people and to Memorial Cemetery is the second small donationyou when can you do give so an much extra for helping a grateful of thanks. person in genuine need. As a token of our appreciation, we’ve donation to the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond. Even a small donation oppose the Nazis. earliest Holocaust Memorial asked theDonate best at Jewish www.JewishFederations.org cooks in the country now,to create while ayou’re special thinking Chanukah-Thanksgiving about it. dinner menu just for canWe’ll dorush so you much your Chanukah-Thanksgiving for a grateful person menu in when genuine you do. need. Three local speakers will share in North America, a Virginia you when you give an extra helping of thanks. remarkable stories. Cornelia Historic Landmark, and is on DonateDonate at www.JewishFederations.org at www.jewishrichmond.org now, while whileyou’re thinkingyou’re thinkingabout it. about it. Warmenhoven will recount the National Register of Historic We’ll rush you your Chanukah-Thanksgiving menu when you do. her personal experiences as a Places. Resistance Worker in Holland This event is jointly sponsored Jewish Community Federation NO ONE BUILDS COMMUNITY www.jewishrichmond.org OF RICHMOND during WWII. Nicole Hylton’s by the Virginia Holocaust JFED-3_ChanukahAd_Large.indd 1 LIKE FEDERATION 804-285-6500 10/9/13 3:54 PM son, Dr. Raymond Hylton, will Museum, Emek Sholom discuss how Nicole and her Holocaust Memorial Cemetery mother, Madeleine M. deVizcaya, and the Jewish Community

JFED-3_ChanukahAd_Large.indd 1 10/9/13 3:54 PM worked with the Resistance of the Federation of Richmond. Underground in Paris. Ulysses Emek Sholom extends its Avgeros’ daughter, Vivi Avgeros, deep gratitude to the Richmond will share how Ulysses and his Jewish Foundation for its generous parents, George and Esthimia support and the Ipson Holocaust Avgeros, hid a Jewish family in Education Fund, the Henry and Greece during the Holocaust. Gertrude Kupfer Holocaust Additionally, Max Reinhardt Education Fund and the Herbert will speak about his grandparents, J. and Ruth B. Rubel Holocaust Simon and Emma Koch, whose Education Fund for also names are on the Holocaust partnering to make this program Memorial at Emek Sholom. possible. Rabbi Gary Creditor will For further information, visit officiate, and Rabbi Cantor www.emeksholomcemeteryrichmond.org.

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