Newsletter, Summer 2008
Summer 2008•2551/2552 Volume 13, Number 2 During the ceremony out at the Cool Oaks today, Bennett who, in recol- lecting Todd, was certainly missing his friend, was also remembering the good qualities of his generosity, curiosity, and humor. It is the quali- ties that we remember of each other as we think about our friends. It’s the qualities that are important, and those are the things that are actually carried on—various qualities. So, for ourselves as well, trying to recollect what kind of qualities to bring into our own lives. How do we want to associate with others? And how are we able to relate to each other in ways of friendship? In particular, in Buddhist teachings, the Buddha places a great importance on spiritual friendship or admirable friendship, Kaly€namitta. When we have noble friends or have Nathan, Steven, Sunny, Faith and Brandon, and Bennett good friends, those are the things that help support us in our own life and in our own aspiration for living skillfully. There is a very famous discourse Friendship or teaching where the Buddha was By Ajahn Pasanno. approached by his attendant, šnanda. A Saturday night talk, Abhayagiri Monastery, April 26, 2008 šnanda had spent the day in solitude. Today we have had a very special ceremony for Todd Tansuhaj, a young boy who When he was meditating during that died about two years ago and who was a novice here just prior to his hospitalization day, he had an insight and was really for an illness. His parents and friends have come for a memorial service.
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