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Many people believe “big fish” rule the Second, identify your best personality dating pond, meaning only the guys and trait. Are you good at making people feel girls who are very physically attractive go included in a group? Do people say you on dates. That doesn’t have to be true. should try out for Divine Comedy? Choose With effort, realistic goals and a bit of a positive personality trait you already courage, you can become the best version have and refine it. People like to be around of yourself and swim confidently in the people who make others feel good. So, if dating waters. you can learn to do that, dates will come your way. MASTER MASTER First, identify your best physical quality. Whether it’s your eyes, your smile, your hair Finally, accept and embrace who you are. or even your ankles, choose something you You may not always be the prettiest girl in feel confident about and emphasize it. 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