How to Talk to Men
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New York Times Best-Selling Author Matthew Hussey How to Mentalk to 59 Secret Scripts To Melt His Heart, Unlock What He’s Thinking, And Make Him Want To Be With You Forever CONTENTS My Techniques Worked for These Women, and They Will Work for You Too! . 1 Introduction - Speaking of Men… . 11 Part 1: How to Talk to Men... To Create Uncontrollable Attraction 1 – How to Get Men to Approach You Every Time: Body Language Secrets . 19 2 – How to Start Talking to a Guy (With Zero Chance of Rejection) . 24 3 – How to Approach a Guy Via Social Media . 30 4 – How to Flirt With a Guy You Just Met . 35 5 – How to Tell If He’s Into You . 37 6 – How to Guarantee a Guy Swaps Numbers With You . 41 7 – How to Know Who Should Text First . 46 8 – How to Get Him to Ask You Out . 50 9 – How to Make Fascinating First Date Conversation That Keeps Him Coming Back for More . .53 10 – How to Blow it on a Date (What NOT to Say) . 58 11 – How to Tease a Guy to Create Uncontrollable Desire . .61 12 – How to Use Touch to Drive Him Wild . 70 13 – How to Flirt With a Work Colleague . 72 14 – How to Text Him the Perfect Amount to Keep Him Wanting More . 78 15 – How to Charm Him With Your Texts . 82 16 – How to Use Fun Texts to Get Him Thinking About You Non-Stop . 90 17 – How to Get Him to Stop Texting and Just Call You Instead . 92 18 – How to Get Him to Stop Just Texting You and Actually Ask You on a Date . 100 Part 2: How to Talk to Men… To Build a Deep Connection 19 – How to Make Yourself the Woman He Wants to Do Everything With . 105 20 – How to Have Great Conversations That He Doesn’t Want to End . 108 21 – How to Get Him to Open Up . 113 22 – How to Make a Man Fall in Love With Impressing You . 120 23 – How to Be the Woman Who Endlessly Fascinates Him . 125 24 – How to Make Him Feel Like a Man in 5 Simple Phrases . 132. 25 – How to Get Him to Express His Emotions to You . 136 26 – How to Make Him Feel More at Home With You Than Any Other Woman . 143 27 – How to Make Your Man Feel Amazing With Compliments . 147 28 – How to Make Him Feel Needed By You (So He Won’t Ever Need Any Other Woman) . 155 29 – How to Make Him Melt With This Clever Bragging Technique . 159 Part 3: How to Talk to Men… So They’ll Change Their Bad Behavior 30 – How to Respond to the Late Night Booty Call in a High Value Way . 165 31 – How to Respond to His “Sexting” . 169 32 – How to Slow Down His Sexual Advances and Make Him Even More Attracted to You in the Process . 174 33 – How to Respond to Last Minute Date Requests . 177 34 – How to Get Him to Change His Bad Behavior: 6 Powerful Techniques . 181 35 – How to Rekindle His Interest After He Disappears . 198 36 – How to Get Him to Pay Attention to You When He’s “Too Busy” . 200 Part 4: How to Talk to Men… The Hard Questions 37 – How to Ask if He’s Single (Without Looking Desperate) . .209 38 – How to Show You’ve Got Options (and Make Yourself Even More Desirable) . 214 39 – How to Know When (and How Much) to Open Up About Your Past . 220 40 – How to Answer When He Says: “How Many Men Have You Slept With?” . 224 41 – How to Answer The Question: “Why Are You Still Single?” . 231 Part 5: How to Talk to Men… About Sex 42 – How to Have the Condom Conversation (Without it Being Awkward) . 237 43 – How to Get Him to Have Sex the Way YOU Want . 242 44 – How to Keep the Sexual Spark Alive (So He Doesn’t Look Anywhere Else) . 253 45 – How to Turn Him On Even When You’re Apart . 257 Part 6: How to Talk to Men… In an Argument 46 – How to Approach Serious Topics With a Man Without Coming Off as Threatening . 261 47 – How to Express Your Frustrations to a Man . 264 48 – How to Communicate that You’re Unhappy With His Behavior . 268 49 – How to Have Arguments That Strengthen (Instead Of Ruin) Your Relationship . 271 50 – How to Diffuse an Argument: 7 Foolproof Techniques . .276 Part 7: How to Talk to Men… About Commitment 51 – How to Ask if He Is Seeing Other Women . 285 52 – How to Answer if He Asks Whether You’re Dating Someone Else . 288 53 – How to Know if You Are a Couple . 291 54 – How to Show Him You Are in Demand: 3 Simple Techniques . 295 55 – How to Use Sneaky Psychology to Raise Your Value in His Eyes . 300 56 – How to Make Yourself His Partner, Not Just His Hookup: 5 Powerful Phrases . 305 57 – How to Ask Him if You Are Exclusive . 315 Part 8: How to Talk to Men… in a Relationship 58 – How to Get on His Mom’s Good Side . 321 59 – How to Handle the ‘Other Women’ In His World . 325 60 – How to React When He Says He “Needs Space” . 336 61 – How to Deal With His Bad Habits at Home . 342 62 – How to Know When to Say “I Love You” . 349 63 – How to Bring Up Marriage . 357 Final Thoughts . 363 Glossary . 365 Key for Colours: Blue – Key idea or concept Green – Script to use Red – Don’t say this You’re In Good CompANY… Since 2009 I have been fortunate enough to have become the go-to relationship expert for celebrities, royalty, TV, radio, magazines and newspapers, and millions of women just like you . Rest assured, what you have here is the most trusted dating advice to get you the love life you deserve, fast! MY TECHNIQUES WORKED FOR THESE WOMEN, AND THEY WILL WORK FOR YOU TOO! ‘We’re Engaged!’ “You gave me so much confidence because I felt like you really understood me and the mistakes I was making . After a few weeks I worked up the courage to start a conversation . I just have to tell you I was so tickled with myself for not overreacting and immediately planning out our future!! I focused myself in the here and now and just being my awesome sexy self I always wanted to be . As it turns out, we had a lot in common and in three conversations he asked me out . I used the tips for the areas I knew I needed help with, but while I was focusing solely on date to date, it turned out HE was the one thinking about our future . We’ve now been together for 7 months and engaged for two of those!!!!!! :) And of course you’re invited to our wedding if you can make it!” - Amanda ‘The Texts Worked!’ “I tried your texts . .the “yawwwwwn” one when he only talks about being busy at work . .the “this burger almost tasted better than sex!” . They work! Matthew Hussey 1 How To Talk To Men 59 Secret Scripts I am happily dating the best guy ever! We met on Match .com and you helped me get things to the next level!!! Best thing so far this year was discovering the great relationship perspectives of Matthew Hussey!” - Genevieve ‘I Have 3 Dates Within 1 Week Of Using Your Skills’ “I’m 54 and have 3 jobs so I thought I had no time for men and so had no men around . Then as my last child was 17, I wanted to get back into the scene and had no idea how . You showed me how to make time to look in the right places . So, within one week of using the skills I learned and actively used, this weekend I have 3 dates and had to turn 2 away . So I went from 4 years with nothing, to more than I can see . To other women out there I would say, give the advice in the program a try . Try to believe in yourself and approach guys with the skills learned - it gets easier as you work with your own voice and confident body language ”. - Polly ‘A Common Sense Approach’ “Just wanted to say a big thank you for all of your advice . In truth, there are dozens of sources out there that claim to know what they are talking about, but your program has been really beneficial . I am a psychologist that has worked with various people with various issues, but it has taken me a while to sort out the romantic relationships in my own life . 2 Matthew Hussey My Techniques Worked for These Women, and They Will Work for You Too! Your common sense, practical approach has helped me to be in an amazing relationship that I have been in for four months now . He is great and different from any other relationship I have ever been in, in a good way . Your advice to never settle helped me with this ”. - Corina ‘I Met My Mr. Right’ “So there I was clock ticking and me going into my 36th year with no clue as to how I was going to attract the next love in my life and, better yet, how to attract Mr . Right . I started out doing what most women do . I hit the dating sites and went on endless coffee-dates meeting nice guys and a couple of dogs too (even married ones looking for excitement - a fact they only disclose after the fact) .