Bring Back Our Boys – Jared Feldshreiber
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WEEKLY BRING BACK Candle-lighting/Shabbos ends Friday, June 27: 8:12/9:21 OUR BOYS Vol. III No. 18 (#67) June 26, 2014 • 28 Sivan 5774 Free Lakewood Rabbanim Visit Community Unites New York City Offi cials Queens On Behalf Of At Prayer Gathering For Stand In Solidarity With Beth Medrash Govoha Kidnapped Boys In Israel Israel After Kidnapping Of Three Jewish Teenagers SEE STORY ON P. 55 SEE PHOTOS ON 36/37; ARTICLE ON P. 52 SEE STORY ON P. 39 Shabbos Inbox Blue And White Op-Ed Politics And Ethics Hooked On Healing (D)Anger Tragedy Helplessness Situational To Give Management Brings Unity By Betsalel Steinhart Awareness Or Not To Give Is Derech Eretz By Eytan Kobre By Shmuel Sackett hat can we do in the By Caroline Schumsky face of helplessness? By Abe Fuchs o goes the well-known hy do we do this to W This question is ooo… You want to give joke: ourselves? Why do being asked so many times, somehow, some way. S Husband to Wife: Wwe fi ght like dogs and over the last few days, as our and another person were SYou want to dedicate When I get mad at you, you cats until tragedy strikes? Why darkest fears take shape, as waiting on line at a bank the or allocate, but not so sure never fi ght back. How do you does it take the kidnapping of three boys sit who-knows- Iother day when there was how or where or how often? control your anger? three precious boys to bring us where, as three families lie only one teller available. The Well, let’s just jump right Wife: I clean the toilet bowl. together? It tears my heart that devastated, and as the entire customer at that window was into it, shall we? 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Rav Meir Shapiro zt”l, the and retention of the textual materi- Lubliner Rav and a Jewish delegate al, and hence, not enough time could to the Polish Parliament (Sejm), had be spent on attention to profundity a dream of creating a yeshivah of re- in the study and comprehension in nown in Poland, to rival and even ex- depth. This, said Rav Meir, was the ceed the Lithuanian prototype. But historical reason for the formation before doing so, he felt the need to and development of what came to be travel to Lithuania and meet with known as Polish pilpul. many of the venerable roshei yeshiv- In general, the Lubliner Rav ah there to talk the matter through brought back with him a very favor- with them. With thoughtful consul- able impression of Talmud study in tation and wise counsel, he believed Lithuania, with its characteristics of he would fi nd the right way of study strong discipline, persistent, assidu- to implant in his yeshivah, Yeshivas ous study, and an essential inner love Chachmei Lublin. of the Torah for its own sake. In its own way, Rav Meir’s jour- One day, though, he was asked to de- ney throughout the yeshivah world tail the basic characteristic differences proved to be a triumphal procession in the ways of study between Poland for the great rav. At every destination, and Lithuania. Can the Rav defi ne and he was welcomed with the utmost pinpoint the deviations between a Pol- enthusiasm, even by the character- ish scholar and a Lithuanian scholar. istically less expressive Lithuanians. “Of course,” he replied with his charis- “Why have you suddenly become so thoughtful?” There were those who initially had matic twinkle and facetious wit. “It’s various doubts and misgivings, ques- quite similar to the basic differences tions and misconceptions, about the that exist between a chasid and a mis- grandiose scope of his projected ye- naged (one who rejects the chasidic shivah, but after they met him, they style). Let me explain what I mean accepted it – and his dynamic person- with an illustrative example. ality – wholeheartedly. “One day a chasid and a misnaged He started in Radin, with the were sitting together and studying holy Chofetz Chaim zt”l, and from a portion of Maseches Sukkah, and there he traveled on to Baranovitch, they duly came to the well-known Mir, Kletzk, and Slabodka. It was a account: It is told about the holy fulfi lling trip and Rav Meir learned Tanna, Rav Yonasan ben Uziel, that a great deal, as well as imparted a when he would sit and become deep- fl avor of Polish chasidic Jewry. All ly involved in his Torah study, any who met him were impressed with bird that fl ew over his head would be his profound Torah knowledge and burned up immediately. charisma. When he was fi nished, he “At that, the study partners fell si- returned home and gave a historical lent, each lost in thought. After a mo- survey of the formation of the two ment or two, the misnaged turned to groups of yeshivos in the two lands: his friend, the chasid, and asked, ‘Tell Poland and Lithuania. me, what are you thinking about? He described the substantive differ- Why have you suddenly become so ences between the two, and showed thoughtful?’ how variations in their lifestyles had “Replied the chasid, ‘I was just med- arisen out of the differences in the itating about the extraordinary, para- conditions of life between Poland and Lithuania. In Poland, he main- CONTINUED ON P. 28 Rabbi Dovid Hoffman is the author of the popular “Torah Tavlin” book series, fi lled with stories, wit and hundreds of divrei Torah, including the brand new “Torah Tavlin Yamim Noraim” in stores everywhere. You’ll love this popular series. Also look for his book, “Heroes of Spirit,” containing one hundred fascinating stories on the Holocaust. They are fantastic gifts, available in all Judaica bookstores and online at http://israel- bookshoppublications.com. To receive Rabbi Hoffman’s weekly “Torah Tavlin” sheet on the parsha, e-mail [email protected] 28 Sivan 5774 QueensJewishLink.com • 917.549.6145 • [email protected] 9 10 QueensJewishLink.com • 917.549.6145 • [email protected] June 26, 2014 Shabbos Inbox Eytan Kobre (D)Anger Management CONTINUED FROM P.