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Address Service Requested ONEWSLETTER FROMa OAKWOODk FRIENDS SCHOOL • CELEBRATINLG OVER e210 YEARS OaF FRIENDS EveDUCATION IN THE HUDSOsN VALLEY 2017-2018 Fall/Winter School Calendar October 24 Work Share Day October 27 Parents’ Weekend Reception at Oakwood Celebrates New Solar Array Head’s House, 4:00pm November 8 Breakfast with the Head, 8:30am leave eventually, and hopefully have found won- and application of Quaker meeting process, November 10 Parent Dinner, 6:00pm derful new nesting sites elsewhere on our campus. the board wholeheartedly chose to proceed. November 10-11 Fall Production, 7:30pm It is that kind of long-term, forward think- December 3 11th Grade College Planning & Chad talked about the tangible benefits of this ing that creates and sustains great institutions. Family Dinner project – reducing Oakwood’s energy costs and, consistent with our Quaker-based com- Thank you all for coming.” December 12 Holiday Concert, 7:00pm mitment to stewardship, dramatically reduc- January 5 Winter Reunion ing Oakwood’s carbon footprint. I would January 11 Breakfast with the Head, 8:30am like to talk about this project as a living January 27 Wine Dinner & Auction, 6:30pm demonstration of Quaker decision process. Thank you for your support! February 23 Parent Dinner, 6:00pm Our solar array represents a twenty-five year 2016-2017 Annual Fund February 23- 24 Winter Production, 7:30pm commitment with our commercial partners. Giv- Exceeds Goal! en the long-term implications, Oakwood’s board See Annual Gifts Report Visit us at www.oakwoodfriends.org deliberated in depth about this project over sev- eral meetings, true to the Quaker principle of In center section. avoiding haste when making a decision of great import. In the end, through careful consideration Student Clerk, Mimi Taariq ’17 16 Summer 2017 NEWSLETTER FOR ALUMNI AND MEMBERS OF THE OAKWOOD FRIENDS COMMUNITY On May 12, 2017, Oakwood Friends School cele- brated the official launch of its solar array. Student Jonathan Flaccus ’58 Endows clerk Mimi Taariq ’17 welcomed board members, Oakwood’s Commencement on June 9, 2017 faculty, students, parents, alumni and guests rep- resenting Dutchess County, the Town of Pough- Native American Fund keepsie, New York State (NYSERDA), Central A leadership donor to Oakwood Friends School Hudson, and Earthkind Energy. Don Spencer, over many years, Jonathan Flaccus, class of 1958, president of the board, shared these remarks: decided he wanted to do more to support Oak- wood’s diverse student body. Inspired by the “Welcome everyone. Creating this magnificent so- School’s celebration of Lakota Culture and the lar array required collaboration by many people activism of rising senior, Shai Black Bird, Jona- and constituencies, including the Oakwood board. than found a way to combine his life-long in- terest and concern for the rights of indigenous I would especially like to thank Phil Richmond people with support for the Oakwood com- ’67, who was the architect of this project, and munity by creating the Native American Fund. Fred Doneit, who sweated the details every Income from the fund will provide scholar- step of the way. I would also acknowledge the ship for Native American students at Oakwood tireless help we received from Troy Alexander, and support programming about the culture husband of board member Mary Alexander, and heritage of indigenous people. Last April, who performed our legal review and explained Jonathan joined his friend, Professor John Wil- the multi-section contract with Solar City in lis of Marlboro College, for a visit to campus on ways that the board could readily understand. Earthshare Day where they participated in the raising of an 18’ tipi and discussion of Lakota Chad Cianfrani is too modest to acknowledge his symbols and cosmology. Professor Willis gave own contributions, so I’ll do it. Chad immersed a presentation to the school community about himself into every aspect of this project, from his work as a photographer and the program he scheduling the work, winning favorable intercon- founded, The Exposures Cross-Cultural Youth nect terms from the local utility, securing zoning Creative Arts Exchange. Each year, John brings approvals from the Town of Poughkeepsie, and Brandace Ryles, Jiayu Xu, Yicheng (Mark) Shen, Chujun (Olivia) Qiu, Zo Phia DiSanto, Yanling (Connie) Huang, Malachi (Mac) Hales, students and volunteer staff to the Pine Ridge Bottom Row: amicably and respectfully addressing questions Asha Amberslie Jingyi (Peter) Chen, Moss Sherman, Aminah (Mimi) Taariq, Enid Swatson, Basira Daqiq, Sophie Poux, Siwen (Tanya) Wang, Reservation in South Dakota where they col- 2nd Row: and concerns from our neighbors. What im- Tingjing (Komi) Tong, Xinzhe (Kimi) Jiang Max Newman-Henriquez, Liam Crannell, Phing Ngyuen, Bianca Luna-Lupercio, Jabreel Harrell, laborate with schools and organizations on the 3rd Row: pressed me the most was Chad’s remarkable pa- Alice Flanagan, Mahak Varma, Renjie (Jerry) Shao, Sumara (Sumi) Cruz, Ada Liang, Yuerong (Lydia) Tang, Hunter Ortreger Robert Cheng, reservation to share photography and life stories. 4th Row: tience when we learned that we had to delay site Professor John Willis, Shai Black Bird ’18, and Yinou (Spark) Kong, Cade (CJ) Nutting, Eisei Maeyama, Alexandria Weinraub, Junzhi (Cowley) Chen Owen Sullivan, Khari Wilmore, Top Row: clearance until the bats nesting in our trees left to We are grateful to Jonathan Flaccus for his generosity Jonathan Flaccus ’58 on Earthshare Day in April. Lisandro Chihuahua, Melina Sefuku, Dylan Bimka-Wintrob, Nai'lah Taariq, Matthew Voorhees, Alexander Gribas, Guoqing (James) Zhang, Benjamin go hibernate in caves somewhere. The bats did and care of Oakwood Friends School students. Hrong Not pictured: Zirui (Erwin) Fang, Zaneta Soumbounou and Yumin (Michael) Zhu 2 Summer 2017 NEWSLETTER FOR ALUMNI AND MEMBERS OF THE OAKWOOD FRIENDS COMMUNITY CELEBRATING OVER 210 YEARS OF FRIENDS EDUCATION IN THE HUDSON VALLEY Summer 2017 15

Looking Up and Looking Forward Chris Ishimwe ’18 Remembering by Chad Cianfrani, Head of School New Clerk A giddy kid was running around campus Susannah (Sukey) Stone Eldridge ’59 a few weeks ago sharing pairs of two- dollar solar glasses with anyone he could A memorial service will be held to cele- (Midge) Stone Leavitt ’62, and her step-moth- IN MEMORY find. Pulling co-workers off tractors and brate the life of Susannah Stone Eldridge on er, Jeannette Stone. She is survived and loving- lawnmowers, interrupting the stone mason Saturday, November 25th, 2:00 pm, in the ly remembered by her older sister, Deborah Shirley Baumbusch Bergmann ’39 pouring a new sidewalk, grabbing faculty, Meeting Room at Oakwood Friends School. Stone ’58, her nephew, Erik Nelson ’82, and October 27, 2016 administrators and parents who were pick- many other family members and friends. ing up children from summer camp; ev- Susannah passed away on July 28, 2017. Arik Brissenden ’43 eryone had a similar awed reaction when She retired several years ago from teaching January 6, 2016 viewing the 75% eclipse for the first time. at The Children’s Preschool in New Haven, From the crescent shaped shadows cast to where she drew on her love of children and George Kouri ’46 the visible dip in the solar array produc- families and her deep understanding of child tion to the live footage from multiple cit- May 19, 2017 development. Previously she had taught at ies across the country, we took a few mo- the Yale Divinity Nursery School and di- ments to pause in that collective experience. Eleanor Teidemann Betts ’53 Looking up at the solar eclipse on August 21st rected Leila Day, a preschool also located in New Haven. Before coming to New Haven October 31, 2016 from Philadelphia, Susannah was co-director occasionally caught in the currents and ed- of Hall Mercer Hospital’s Center for Children Mary Barnard Homans ’53 dies of these waters. Although sometime as- and Families, an innovative program to sup- June 12, 2017 sociated with chaos and unrest, turbulence Chris Ishimwe ’18 with his brother port parents with young children at risk. also acts as a powerful agent of change at Parfait Bizimana ’16 Michael Heningburg ’55 points of instability. Agitation promotes Sukey (as her family and childhood friends August 23, 2016 mixing of ideas, dissipates energy and tends Chris Ishimwe ’18 has been selected by knew her) was a voracious reader and an towards a state of order. The same holds the school community to serve as student enthusiastic traveler and was a loving fam- Susannah ‘Sukey’ Stone Eldridge ’59 true whether that turbulence arises from clerk for 2017-2018. In a first for Oakwood, ily member and friend. She will long be July 28, 2017 vortex shedding off a wingtip or from con- Chris is following in the leadership foot- remembered for her sweet kindness, her flicting viewpoints on the national stage. In steps of his older brother, Parfait Bizimana, love of theater, her wonderful sense of Deborah Stone ’58 with her sister who served as student clerk in 2015-2016. Linda Smith Quandt ’67 either case, I see the Oakwood faculty as humor and skill as a joke and story teller, Susannah Stone Eldridge ’59 June 28, 2017 uniquely positioned to help our communi- for her abhorrence of unfairness and cru- ty question, engage, reflect, learn and act. Chris is an international student from Ki- elty, her passionate engagement with life. gali, Rwanda, and Oakwood is his home Barbara Beasley Sorlien ’56 Those few moments running around sharing As new families join returning families, we away from home. In addition to his rigorous April 5, 2017 She grew up in Poughkeepsie, NY, where glasses with anyone I could find reminded me draw on our collective strengths and talents, academic schedule, he is fully immersed in her father taught at Vassar College and her of the joys, possibilities and responsibilities listening deeply to one another and learn- the life of the school. From his first days on “Friendships, including those going back Ariana Stirling Withers ’60 mother taught at Poughkeepsie Day School, to our years at Oakwood (and before!), are associated with being part of the Oakwood ing together. A deliberate focus on intel- campus, he felt glad to be part of a friendly which she and her sisters attended. After May 21, 2015 surely one of life’s chief delights. They have community. Just as we gathered to look sky- lectual curiosity, engagement, acceptance, community where everyone knows everyone graduation from Oakwood Friends School ward that day, our students have once again light and love help guide our vision and pro- else, and he quickly took on leadership roles: in 1959, she went to Swarthmore College, been an enduring source of loving-kindness, Daniel Herzog ’70 gathered on campus bringing with them a vide a strong foundation for the year ahead. co-clerk of the sophomore class, captain of graduating in 1963. She also held a mas- of hilarity, and of the courage to go on.” May 30, 2017 diversity of talents, experience, cultures and This fuels my optimism and fills me with the boys’ cross-country team, service on the ter’s degree in Early Childhood Education. dreams. Each day begins with the entire every confidence as we take the first steps judicial committee, proctor in the dorm, and Susannah Stone Eldridge Laura Louise Noland ’77 community in the meeting room. A few mo- into this new academic year together. student ambassador for the admissions office. Sukey was predeceased by her parents, L. in the 1959 class reunion booklet November 16, 2016 ments of silence are followed by announce- Joseph and Beatrice Stone, by her husband, ments, some light and celebratory, others In his application to serve as clerk, Chris de- Donald Daley, by her younger sister, Miriam emotional and reflective. This short time to- scribed his expectations: “The student clerk John Streetz gether frames our day, strengthens our com- is a leader in the school and a good ambas- March 18, 2017 munity and centers us for the work ahead. sador outside of it. I believe that the clerk is Former Faculty the voice of the student body and a bridge And so, we begin this year with a great through which students can communicate Meeting Minutes continued from page 10 sense of optimism and excitement. As we with faculty. The clerk has the responsibility to lead daily and weekly school events such think critically across disciplines, we also in Brooklyn, N.Y. Additional gatherings Najah introduced head of school, Chad Send us your class notes & photos challenge ourselves to think inclusively. as collection and community meeting. The and service days were hosted by the Young Cianfrani. Chad spoke about initiatives at the When our middle school students study clerk should be kind, affable, and respect- Alumni Committee in New York City. She school during the last school year and then [email protected] sustainable practices in the greenhouse, ful to everyone in the community, whether also recognized journalist Juan Williams presented the Distinguished Alumni Award they are challenged to discuss the impact young or old. The clerk sets the mood for ’72 who presented the Dash Davis Gleiter to Lewis Weinstein ’57. He also recognized of food scarcity and distribution within the the day at Collection, and represents the Lecture on Social Justice; Emily Atkin ’07, a the 60th, 50th, 30th and 25th reunion classes Hudson Valley. When upper school stu- school in a positive light off campus.” Chris political reporter in Washington, D.C., who and reviewed the schedule of the day. Oak Leaves dents study economics and international re- feels comfortable interacting with his class- was the guest speaker at winter reunion Special recognition was given to F. Stewart Summer 2017 lations, they benefit from a global perspec- mates, faculty and guests. He’s a thoughtful in January; and Joseph Jankovsky who Stover ’42 on the occasion of his 75th reunion. tive with classmates from five continents. listener and values the opinions of others. presented the Herzog Lecture on Innovation, The meeting closed with silent worship. a series initiated by Daniel Herzog ’70. ELAINE MILES This year our students will be asked to fo- “I am very eager for the upcoming school year Director of Development & Alumni Affairs cus not only on our classroom learning, but and excited about my new role as clerk. I will She concluded her remarks with the roll on our responsibility as a Friends school Chad touring the campus with guest speaker get the opportunity to express my gratitude Julie Okoniewski out of a new mentoring initiative for Thank you to six generous alums who and our place within the larger commu- Juan Williams ’72 on May 2nd toward the Oakwood community through Associate Director of Development & alumni and current students. She encour- made donations to the Ruth Craig nity. Friends schools have a long history this role. I am sure we will work to make aged alumni to fill out a survey showing Alumni Affairs Scholarship Fund following the meeting, of navigating turbulent waters. In the aca- the 2017-2018 academic year a great one. I interest in the program after the meet- demic year to come, we may find ourselves wish success to everyone whether it be in the ing. The goal is to have 10 mentee/men- adding $1,150 to the Fund. WENDY GIANGRASSO classroom, on the fields, on the courts, or in Assistant Director of Development & tor pairs working together by May 2018. Alumni Affairs any of our individual pursuits. Thank you!” 14 Summer 2017 NEWSLETTER FOR ALUMNI AND MEMBERS OF THE OAKWOOD FRIENDS COMMUNITY CELEBRATING OVER 210 YEARS OF FRIENDS EDUCATION IN THE HUDSON VALLEY Summer 2017 3

2016 Jacky Jin – and his parents were vacationing in Bar My Experience as a Sseko Designs Fellow My Interview with Juan Williams ’72 Harbor and Acadia National Park, and stopped by By: Caroline Brevetti ’07 for a visit with Bill & Nancy Doolittle in Naples. By: Bianca Luna-Lupercio ’17 Jacky is very happy at Boston University where [email protected] he is studying Computer Engineering. Sseko Designs is a footwear and accessories When I met Juan Williams, I was taken company based in Uganda with a special mis- aback by his casual swagger. I didn’t think sion to create opportunity for women glob- someone - let alone a nationally known ally. The company provides employment and journalist, author, political analyst, and re- scholarships to women in Uganda who are porter - who had interviewed distinguished working to pursue their dreams and overcome figures such as Barack Obama, Bill Clinton, poverty. I became a Fellow at Sseko Designs George W. Bush, and George H.W. Bush, in January 2016. At first, I became a Fellow could be so mellow. The formal interview because it gave me a chance to give back to I thought I was going to conduct soon be- a community – a value instilled in me at Oak- came a casual conversation as we shared our wood. Since then, I have realized how strong- immigrant family background, reminisced ly I feel about education being offered to all about our hometowns (his being Brooklyn, and how an education for one young woman mine being Los Angeles), and drew paral- can have an impact on an entire community. lel Oakwood experiences, involving ath- letics, the arts, and our academic interests. Sseko employs high potential young women The questions I wanted to ask Juan were in Uganda during the 9 month gap between Caroline Brevetti ’07 making sandals with Omega not Google questions, in the sense where Friends & Faculty News high school and university. The gap is de- Congratulations: one could simply search on the internet for Faculty & Friends: signed so that high school graduates can get the answer. Rather, they were questions of Rex and Karen Butt for receiving the Volunteers of jobs to pay for their education. However, taught us how to make the beautiful sandals depth - of genuine curiosity - about how Juan Williams speaking with Bianca Luna-Lupercio ’17 Congratulationsthe Year: award at the Pride Center in Burlington, Uganda is a patriarchal society so the jobs go they make every day. We laughed and we Rex and Karen Butt for receiving the Volunteers of the Year award at the Pride Center in Oakwood still played a role in his life, even VT, their new home. to men before women, and therefore most cried and I got to see their hard work and Burlington, VT, their new home. with the glitz and glamour of national fame. women do not continue on to university. determination in person. I can now say that I because that’s the framework - that’s the of a good basketball team (shooting guard). Former boardFormer members board Eleanor members and Martin Eleanor Charwat and(parents Martin of Rebecc Chara Owens- '94)Sseko on hires university bound women who have friends in Uganda, who I keep in touch paradigm of race in America, you’re black At that time, Oakwood didn’t have a great receivingwat the Li(parentsfetime Achievement of Rebecca Award Owensfrom Family ’94) Services on inreceiving Poughkeepsie onwork April 27, for the 9 month gap and then are giv- with, and who I cheer on from afar. We are Although a graduate of the class of ’72, much or you’re white, especially at that time. reputation in sports. But we had a few years, 2017. of what Juan said resonated with me in pres- a good run at basketball. I think all of those the Lifetime Achievement Award from Family Ser- en a scholarship for university. The company half a world away from each other, but what ent terms, such as what Oakwood offered vices in Poughkeepsie on April 27, 2017. also employs older women from all walks of connects us is that we are dreamers and do- I think now with Latinos being the second things were life opening opportunities for Oakwood Music Director Ted Messerschmidt and wife, Rosemary, on their recent wedding!life. These women are the backbone of the ers who believe that “be brave” are words him, how he grew through the Quaker testi- largest majority, there’s much more varia- me in terms of, “I can do this” and “I can Oakwood Music Director Ted Messerschmidt and workshop and mentor the young women. All to live by and “like a girl” is a compliment. monies, and how he came to find his voice tion and gradation of, “Oh yeah, this is a La- play in the larger world,” if you will, on the wife, Rosemary, on their recent wedding! the women are given a dignified workplace, here. As a member of the class of 2017, I tino, not a black person.” But there’s a big di- larger stage. It opened my mind to the idea health benefits, maternity leave, and edu- After university, these women will bring back can sincerely echo the sentiments that Juan vide still in the country between being white of what I could do in the larger world, who cational courses on such topics as computer their new skills to their communities, many shared during his last visit to campus - “Oak- and being non-white. And, so for me, it was I could be. Oakwood opened my eyes, but skills, resume writing, and personal finances. of which are small rural villages. This is how wood is where I got a sense of life’s poten- like, I identify with the black experience as a then I think, opened windows and doors that change begins. These women will one day tial and where I learned the Quaker spirit of black person, even though I come from this I could go through and say, “I can do it.” In April, I was given the opportunity to go to be lawyers, doctors, engineers, politicians, caring.” Excerpts from my interview follow. Latin country. My dad was born in Jamaica It wasn’t one specific experience, it was be- Uganda to meet my co-workers in Kampala, and most importantly, leaders in their com- and my mother in Panama and so, there’s ing here. People took time, worked with me, who are truly extraordinary. They welcomed munities. Working for Sseko has reignited a How did your passion for civil rights begin, this whole West Indian aspect to the Latin believed in me. It’s not that there weren’t us into their homes and cooked us delicious fire within me to use my voice and my privi- and what part did Oakwood play in it? experience. I remember, once reading in the teachers like that in public schools, but be- meals, they shared their life stories, and they lege to help others in whatever way I can. “Growing up in Brooklyn, until I came to New York Times, a story about two friends cause this is a smaller place and there’s Oakwood, was growing up in a very tu- who fled Cuba - one was black and one was such an emphasis on community, I think multuous time, in terms of racial relations white in terms of skin color. They were the there was more attention to me and I just drank it up. I was like a sponge for that.” in the United States. I was 10 years old in best of friends from childhood, but when they Libby Moroff Leadership Program 1964. That was the year the Civil Rights Act got to the United States, the racial difference Rumor has it that you had an afro back in the was passed, 1965 the Voting Rights Act, 1968 proved too large that they were accepted in day when you attended Oakwood. Obviously, a Margaret Moroff and Diane Moroff, daugh- Dr. King’s assassination. Even before that, in different communities, in different times, lot has changed. What have you seen or felt that Former board member Jim Olson received the ters of Saul and Libby Moroff ’54, visited ‘63, Malcom X is assassinated. So, there’s a in different places, and they grew apart. 2017 Arnold Goodman Life-time Achievement campus on June 1st for lunch and conver- lot going on, but I’m not of age to be an activ- is still the same here at Oakwood? Award from the United Nations Association Na- “The students. I think we’re more multicul- sation with members of the 2017-2018 co- ist or involved. But, being in a working class And, so, I think for me it was learning how tional Council. The award was presented to Jim hort of The Libby Moroff Leadership Pro- tural today, but, what I notice is - and I don’t black neighborhood in Brooklyn, New York, to be - how to accept me in this other frame- at the Leadership Summit in Washington, D.C. on gram. The program was initiated last year know if it’s from meeting you, or even the you’re also dealing with the black Muslims work. It was just black or white, and then middle school students down by the chicken June 12, 2017 and recognizes outstanding volun- through a grant from the Phyllis and How- standing on the street corners, with the bean Former board member Jim Olson who received the 2017 Arnold Goodman Life-time dealing with being black in this society, and coop, or the baseball players I ran into yes- teer leadership among the chapters and divisions ard Schwartz Philanthropic Fund and gener- pies and the “Muhammad Speaks.” You’re Achievementof UNA-USA. Award from the United Nations Association National Council. Theous award gifts was from family and friends to create a in that Brooklyn, urban, big city context. terday - that there still is this sense of small presented to Jim at the Leadership Summit in Washington, D.C. on June 12, 2017 and dealing with a lot of the organized church And then, keeping those thoughts about, community, where everyone is of value and permanent tribute to Libby’s life and work. community, coming together around Civil recognizesFormer outstanding Oakwood volunteer Music leadership Director, among the chapters and divisions, of UNA-USA. what does it mean to be racially aware? Part people are engaged. There are people who Vince Vincent The program will specifically focus on em- Rights issues - that was the news, that was is working as the Assistant Head of School for the Margaret Moroff and Diane Moroff of this ongoing effort to change America for are struggling here, I would imagine, but Former Oakwood Music Director, Vince Vincent, is working as the Assistant Headpowering of School for students through hands on ex- the temperature of the time! Even the music the WoodhallWoodhall School School in Bethlehem, in Bethlehem, CT. Congratulations, CT. Vince! with Chad Cianfrani the better. I really think that is the seedbed in my little time here, all I’m saying is that ploration of issues related to leadership, - if you’re listening to Motown, so much of of my interest which has become a lifelong young people that I’ve run into, strike me social justice, civic engagement and service both in and outside of the classroom en- it is about what’s going on. If you’re listen- interest in Civil Rights and race, and how as young Juan Williams. They’re engaged, “The single most important result of a Quaker learning. In the classroom, all 10th grad- vironment. The group will meet regularly ing to Bob Dylan’s “The Times They Are A we deal with racial difference in America.” they’re in place, they have a certain cyni- ers at Oakwood will participate in a semes- outside of class hours like many of our stu- Changin’,” that was the moment. And for education is to provide each student a sense of cism about them that young people have - but ter long Leadership & Social Justice course dent led organizations. Group meetings will me, to try to understand what it meant to How did Oakwood give you a sense of life’s there’s much more. I think this sets Oakwood self and self-worth. Such an understanding of designed to increase their understanding include guest speakers and discussions as be coming from a Central American coun- potential? apart from other places - there’s much more one’s self is vital for having a perspective on of their own leadership style and potential well as time for social justice project devel- try, with mom and brother and sister, speak- “I had many experiences. As I said earlier, of the sincerity about trying to be yourself in relation to a myriad of social justice is- life and where we might fit into the opment. Program participants will also be ing Spanish at home and all that. Then, in things like being student body leader, and and trying to be of value to a community, sues. After completing the course, students encouraged to advocate for issues impor- the American context to be black. In other editor of the paper, and learning that I was and believing in community and believ- “the now” and “the future.” will be able to request to be a part of the tant to them through correspondence and words, in Panama, I would’ve been a dark a good cross country runner, and having ing in the idea of progress and positivity. program. Once selected, they will have meetings with elected officials, as well as skin Panamanian. But here, I was black the opportunity and becoming the captain That’s the Oakwood experience for me.” Bob Hidell, former faculty an opportunity to learn about these issues visits to Albany and/or Washington, DC. 4 Summer 2017 NEWSLETTER FOR ALUMNI AND MEMBERS OF THE OAKWOOD FRIENDS COMMUNITY CELEBRATING OVER 210 YEARS OF FRIENDS EDUCATION IN THE HUDSON VALLEY Summer 2017 13

1974 2007 2011 Barrett Nnoka visited with Artie Washburn in Phil- Congratulations to Sarah Robbins on her marriage Lucia O'Barr has been accepted to the University Sports adelphia. Art served on Oakwood’s board to Jasen Weers on May 28, 2017. Sarah graduated of Copenhagen for a Master's degree in Anthro- By: Charlie Butts, Athletic Director of managers and was a member of the Oakwood from Michigan State University College of Human pology, specializing in Anthropology of Health. 1974 faculty along with his wife Parker. Medicine and will begin a Family Medicine resi- Her intention is to continue the research she Looking back at the 2016-17 athletic year, Barrett Nnoka visited with Artie Washburn in Philadelphia. Art is a former teacher and served on the Oakwood Board of Managers. dency at Sparrow Hospital in Lansing, MI. started in South Africa during her year abroad at we had a total of 18 interscholastic teams 1976 Smith. and 12 of them were at the varsity level. It Bill Bogle Jr. ’76, wife Carol and son Justin Bogle was a busy year as we had a total of 270 1976 Bill Bogle’11 Jr. ’76 celebrating, wife Carol and the son Justinmarriage Bogle ’ 11of celebrating Emily Bogle the marriage '07 to of Emily Bogle Eli Nobiletti has joined the staff of the Woodhall games, matches, and meets. All upper class ’07 in April.Tom Sciotto in March. School in Bethlehem, CT and will be teaching students at Oakwood Friends are required Chemistry! to be on an interscholastic team for at least one of our three terms. Our students, how- 2013 ever, chose to exceed this requirement. Al- Congratulations to our recent college graduates: most 57% played on two teams and 23% Ana He Gu from University of Virginia; Henry played all three terms. This commitment by Harms from Allegheny College; and Heather our student athletes led to some great re- Stratica from Worcester Polytechnic Institute. sults. At the varsity level, 8 of our 12 teams Girls Varsity Basketball made it to the Hudson Valley Athletic League Alyssa Spencer graduated from Clark and is (HVAL) championship finals and two won the Assistant Director for Stewardship in Clark championships. Now for some highlights: playoffs. Advancing to the championship Chad Cianfrani were excited to see the co- game against Storm King, the Lady Lions ran ed squad run hard and play with spirit. The University’s Development office. up a big lead at the half and then coasted varsity dominated the league with the ex- 2008 In the fall, Girls Cross Country captured the Angela Cuneo – On July 8th I gave birth to a HVAL championship and this was covered in to a 38-22 win. It was the second straight ception of our rival Marvelwood, who won season that the team was undefeated in both the championship match in a hard fought happy and healthy baby boy Leonardo Giovanni our last Oakleaves. For the second straight weighing 6lbs 9 oz. I am now a stay at home the HVAL regular season and playoffs. Also contest. Girls Varsity Tennis also made it to year, Girls Varsity Soccer made it to the HVAL mom to my wonderful son. championship game. To get there, they had for the second straight year, the team was the championship, besting Marvelwood in 1993 1993 one of 8 schools selected to play in the New the semi-finals before falling to Storm King. to go on the road and beat #2 seed Marvel- Congratulations to Sakima Brown on her wedding wood 1-0 in a tense defensive struggle. In the England tournament. As the #5 seed, we had to Kyle McClinton on April 24, 2017! Congratulations to Sakima Brown on her wedding to Kyle McClinton on April 24, 2017! championship final, the defending champs to play #4 seed Covenant Christian Acade- One other spring team must be mentioned. lost to a very strong, undefeated Storm King my of Peabody, MA. At neutral site Loomis For many years, our baseball team has been squad. Throughout the season, senior lead- Chaffee, we played our best game of the struggling to find wins. This year, things ership led the way. Captains Bianca Luna- year beating CCA 46-28. Unfortunately, we turned around with a 5-5 record. We had Lupercio and Nai’lah Taariq were both first then lost to #1 seed Dublin School who sim- some strong returners in seniors Jabreel Har- 2008 ply had too much firepower. Throughout the rell and Mac Hales, along with 8th grader team HVAL all-stars and Bianca was named graduated from Vassar and has year, we had strong rebounding and scor- Philip Stephens. To the mix were added Rachel Plotkin the team’s MVP. Zo DiSanto also earned first Jessica Cuneo - On July 8th I gave birth to a happy and healthy baby boy Leonardojoined Giovanni the staff of the Woodhall School in Bethle- ing inside from juniors Briana Uket and Shai sophomore Xiao Kirchner, junior Trevor team HVAL honors while Enid Swatson and weighing 6lbs 9 oz. I am now a stay at home mom to my wonderful son. hem, CT and will be teaching Spanish. Black Bird. They were both selected as first Mooney, and senior Eisei Maeyama. The po- Asha Amberslie were selected to the second team. These seniors will be sorely missed. team HVAL all-stars, New England all-stars, tential for wins was evident from the begin- and they were the co-MVPs of the team. In ning and the enthusiasm spread through- Rui Ma (Skylar) visited campus with her husband, a great honor, Briana was also selected as out the entire team. We gave out two Most Naizhen, in June. She will be moving to Brussels In the winter term, Boys Varsity Basketball shortly to pursue a graduate degree in math. and Girls Varsity Basketball continued to the HVAL Player of the Year. They were not Improved Player Awards this year and Mac Rachel Plotkin graduated from Vassar and has joined the staff of the Woodhall School in alone however on the first team as they were was one of them. An average hitter in past 2009 play at a high level. The boys finished sec- Congratulations to Bethlehem,on her marriage CT and will be teaching Spanish. joined by senior forward Mimi Taariq. Mimi seasons, he evolved into one of our best Erin Paterson ond in the HVAL and made it to the cham- to Wesley Buley ’07. pionship game for the second straight year. was a potent scorer and stout defender so hitters. In our signature game of the season Rui Ma (Skylar) visited campus with her husband, Naizhen, in June. She will be moving to our opponents often had trouble scoring in- against Faith Christian, we came back from In this game, they lost to Storm King who has been namedBrussels to the shortly Dean’s to pursue a graduate degree in math. Congratulations Skylar! side. Named to the second team was senior three deficits and, in extra innings, Mac de- Peter Zimmermann were undefeated in the league and defend- List at NYU Tisch School of the Arts for the 2016- Bianca Luna-Lupercio who was able to hit the livered the two out, run scoring hit that tied ing New England champions. Despite the 2017 academic year! After several gap years spent three point shot and play aggressive in-your- the game. Trevor later scored for the win. 2009 loss, the team still earned a spot in the pres- working and taking courses in NYC, Peter trans- face defense. Two others were honorable The Coaches Award went to Xiao. He was Congratulations to Erin Paterson on her marriage to Wesley Buley ’07. tigious New England tournament. After a ferred from Sarah Lawrence College to NYU. He’s mention HVAL all-stars. Senior Nai’Lah Taariq a terrific team member and constantly im- very long bus ride, they had to play Bancroft majoring in dramatic writing, with a specialization had an accurate outside shot and also used proving catcher. He competed with a steady 2004 School on their home court and fell 82-66. in screen Peterwriting Zimmermann for television has been namedand tofilm. the Dean’s He Listis at NYU Tisch School of the Arts for the her speed to beat her defenders to the bas- energy that was a grounding influence on Sasha Skulsky started a new position as Director Three team members earned HVAL all-star 2004 now in his2016 senior-2017 yearacademic and year scheduled! After several to gap graduate years spent working and taking courses in NYC, ket. Another senior, Alex Weinraub was the some of his more hot tempered teammates. of Student Life & Student Health and Counseling honors. Senior Jabreel Harrell used his quick- Congratulations to Sasha Skulsky on her new position as Director of Studentin May Life & 2018.StudentPeter transferred from Sarah Lawrence College to NYU. He’s majoring in dramatic writing, with best pure shooter on the team and she was One other player to mention was our other at HealthWest and Nottingham Counseling at WestAcademy Nottingham in AcademyMaryland. in Maryland. a specialization in screen writing for television and film. He is now in his senior year and ness and all around play to gain a spot on not afraid to take, and make, the clutch shot. Most Improved Award winner. Senior Alex scheduled to graduate in May 2018. the first team. Senior Dylan Bimka-Wintrob 2005 2010 Gribas, with little prior baseball experience, 2005 was 3-point threat and was selected to the Jessica Cuneo with Sam, the son of Oakwood’s In the spring term, three of our teams made evolved into a respectable hitter and went 3 HesterHester Sachse recently recently bought bought a house in aChestertown, house in MD Ches where- she works in the loca2010l wine second team. Joining Dylan on the second Associate Director of Development and Alumni it to the HVAL finals. Girls Varsity Softball, for 4 with 4 RBI's in our playoff win against tertown,and cheese MD shop, where and is starting she aworks new position in the as Executive local wineManager at the Church Hill Theatre 2014 team was talented newcomer Trevor Mooney in nearby Church Hill, MD. She also spends a good deal of time volunteeringAffairs with the Julie Okoniewski, in Washington, DC, Xuanye Zhang (DanDan) came to visit her advisor Coed Varsity Ultimate, and Girls Varsity Ten- Storm King. Finally, two other gratifying and cheese shop, and is starting a new position as Jessica Cuneo with Sam, the son of Oakwood’s Associate Director of Development and Alumni who led the team in scoring from both in- Chestertown Harry Potter Festival (October 6th and 7th this year). Congratulationswhere she Hester! lives and works with fellow alum, Jon Bill Doolittle on May 14th before she went back to side and long range. Jabreel and Trevor nis all played for the championship, but wins were against Storm King, another team Executive Manager at the Church Hill Theatre in Affairs Julie Okoniewski, in Washington, DC, where she lives and works with fellow alum, Jon Pike ‘11 . ’11. China for the summer. were selected as co-MVPs of the team. Fi- in each case they lost going up against an who had handled us easily in prior years. nearby2007 Church Hill, MD. She also spends a good 2014 nally, two others received HVAL honorable undefeated team. The softball team battled The first win was a regular season win and deal of time volunteering with the Chestertown Xuanye Zhang (DanDan) came to visit her advisor Bill Doolittle on May 14th before she went mention recognition. Sophomore Yifeng some injuries, but it started to come togeth- the other was our first playoff win in years. Harry Potter Festival (October 6 and 7 this year). back to China for the summer. Qian displayed a deft scoring touch from the er at the end of the season. After losing to baseline, and senior Mac Hales tormented PDS twice in the regular season, we hand- The coach of both Boys Varsity Basketball “The education my sons received at Oakwood the opposition with his relentless defense. ily beat them 20-6 in the HVAL semi-finals. and Baseball was Ted Lonczak who gradu- In this game, sophomore Caitlin Amann ated from Oakwood Friends in 2008 and was not limited to academics. Girls Varsity Basketball started their season pitched a 4 hitter and struck out 10 in 5 in- then returned to work here 4 years ago. He They learned to think critically, communicate with a tense, one point overtime win at Faith nings of work. Senior Sumi Cruz was the has been an important and integral factor in thoughtfully, and have respect for the world Christian. After that nail biter, the team did hitting star of the game going 5 for 5 with the success of our athletic program, but has and all of its inhabitants.” not have another close game in the league. 8 RBIs. Ultimate Frisbee entered its 15th now chosen to move on. Everyone here will They finished the HVAL regular season un- season of HVAL play this season. Despite miss Teddy and we wish him the best.. Amy Grice, parent, defeated and were the #1 seed in the HVAL a rebuilding year, coaches Jon Pesner and Sam ’09 and Jacob Leach ‘11

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Lucia O'Barr has been accepted to the University of Copenhagen for a Master's degree in Anthropology, specializing in Anthropology of Health. Her intention is to continue the research she started in South Africa during her year abroad at Smith. Congratulations to Eli Nobiletti who has joined the staff of the Woodhall School in Bethlehem, CT and will be teaching Chemistry!

2013 2016 Congratulations to our recent college graduates: Ana He Gu from University of Virginia; Henry Jacky Jin - and his parents were vacationing in Bar Harbor and Acadia National Park, and Harms from Allegheny College; and Heather Stratica from Worcester Polytechnic Institute. stopped by for a visit with Bill & Nancy Doolittle in Naples. Jacky is very happy at Boston

Alyssa Spencer graduated from Clark and is the Assistant Director for Stewardship in Clark University where he is studying Computer Engineering. University’s Development office. Congratulations Alyssa! 12 Summer 2017 NEWSLETTER FOR ALUMNI AND MEMBERS OF THE OAKWOOD FRIENDS COMMUNITY CELEBRATING OVER 210 YEARS OF FRIENDS EDUCATION IN THE HUDSON VALLEY Summer 2017 5 1959 Susan Stein Stephens – Hello Oakwood!

Class Notes A memorial service will be held on Saturday, November 25th, in the Meeting Room at Oakwood Friends School to celebrate the life of Susanna Stone Eldridge '59. You may contact Debbie Music Stone '58 for details: (845) 505-2338 or [email protected]. By: Ted Messerschmidt, Music Director 1963 Betheda Rosenfeld Shuman – After a 9 month fight against liver and kidney cancer, my husband died on December 14, 2016. My children and grandchildren have been so helpful and Oakwood music students had another try to visit often. I’m so glad that they live close by. My Oakwood friends have been in contact busy and successful year, participating in and that means so much to me. Those friendships are as close as they were when we were at Oakwood in the sixties! nearly twenty performances, not to men- tion informal events and other concerts 1965 Wilson Sheldon Jr. - I retired December 31 2016 after 34 years at Friends Homes in Greensboro outside of the school's purview. Aside NC as the CEO. It provided a good life for my family and me and I feel fortunate to have had from the usual winter and spring con- such a positive work environment for the bulk of my career. As a result of my retirement I have spent my summer on Birch Island on Upper Saranac Lake in NY. Birch Island has many Oakwood certs, the students provided music for 1943 “A teacher may not know on the spot just how connections.Alexander My parents "Sandy" bought itRoca in 1955 along– Regret with 4 other I families.have Onenot family been was Bill Clark former Headmaster at Oakwood, Bill Butterfield former teacher and coach at Oakwood, Tom special events, including Parents' Day, the 1943Gloria Bogle with her granddaughter Emily Bogle to recent Alumni Weekends, but I have been much of the subject he teaches is “sinking in.” Smith neighbor in Kingwood Park whose 2 children, Donna and Craig, went to Oakwood and my Black History Month celebration, the Par- Gloria’07, Bogleat Emily’s with her granddaughter wedding Emily March Bogle ‘07 11,, at Emily’s2017. wedding in April 2017. familyfighting who has aa long bad history thing with Oakwood. in myIt has beenbone a beautiful marrow, summer in thenow Adirondacks ent fundraising dinner at Locust Grove, and But I did have some feedback a few years ago (althoughinto fifth a little rainy)year. and theMy first timetherapy in my life I havehas spent been more thanto 2 weeksphoto here.- My best to anyone I knew while attending Oakwood from 1961-1965. the dedication of the school's solar array. from an Oakwood student. He said he has graph, curate and build things, when I can. See Alexanderbelow. "Sandy" Best Roca wishes - Regret I haveto notall been and to recent ride Alumni safe! Weekends, but I have been those two –volume American Lit texts on his fighting a bad thing in my bone marrow, now into fifth year. My therapy has been to In the fall, Elias Fredericks ’20 provided photograph,Instagram.com/Sandy_a.k.a_jake curate and build things, when I can. See below. Best wishes to all and ride safe! living room bookshelves, and takes them down Instagram.com/Sandy_a.k.a_jake incidental music for the fall production to read and talk about them to his teenage Willow Bennison ’20 of Dracula. He also performed with Yan- son. I was glad to hear that.” ling "Connie" Huang ’17 at Parents' Day.

Nicky Bailey, former faculty Students played a wide variety of selections Visual Arts ranging from classical works to Chinese pop songs at the Winter Festival Concert Stockholm Syndrome 1958 By: Elizabeth Meyer, Art Teacher in December. Also in the winter term, the From Bottom: Willow Bennison ’20, Alli DeCola- Melissa Gatling Kaufmann Buhler – Busy, Busy This spring, we started a new Glaze Community Service through the Arts class Judge ’18, Lily Schaeufele ’18, Claudia Sicher- living in Westminster Shores Active Independent 1967 Laboratory in the former ceramics basement performed for community groups through- man ’18, Elias Fredericks ’20, Melina Sefuku ’17 Adult Community in St. Petersburg, Fl. Life and Steve Jones – Thanks to Lydia, Janet, Phil & Chris studio. In the Glaze Lab ceramics students out the Hudson Valley. In a particularly 1945 health are good on the balmy shores of Tampa for their work on the 50th reunion. Sorry I can’t will learn about glaze chemistry and recipes, poignant moment for the class, residents at with several of his original compositions. Susan Davis Doderer – I am hanging in there. Just Bay. Writing, volunteering, supporting communi- be there in person, but I am there in spirit. I will 1945 and will have greater creative freedom the Manor at Woodside Retirement Home Later, Will Dambra ’19 and Elias Fredericks Susanturned Davis 90!!Doderer – I am hanging in there..Just turned 90!! ty events including planning. Would love to hear always be grateful for the generous support and to research and mix their own glazes, in were so moved by Zo di Santo ’17 and Wil- ’20 participated in the NYSSMA solo from my classmates in the area. friendship I found at Oakwood. 1946 addition to using stock favorites. The lab was low Bennison's ’20 rendition of "I Can't Help festival, earning superior ratings for Chad1946 Cianfrani visited with Debbie Scheer in Sausalito, CA in March. partially funded through a $1,000 Teacher Falling in Love with You" that they began their interpretations of works by William 1950Chad Cianfrani visited with Debbie Scheer in Sau- 1959 Nancy Leopitzi-Wawrla – The number of class- th Appreciation Month Grant competition singing along. Another highlight from the Gillock, J.S. Bach, and Fritz Kreisler. Joansalito, Guzy GoldCA –in I’m March.keeping very busy here at Friends House in Santa Rosa, CA. Being Susannear Stein Stephens – Hello Oakwood! mates attending our 50 reunion appears to be by the crowd funding site GoFundMe. winter term was the selection of Middle Finally, students capped off the year with the kids (daughter and grandson & his family) is so much better than taking planes. Thinking of around 50%. Not bad. I will deeply miss our retiring? If you like the Oakwood style of living in a caring and supportive community, you will Schooler Trudy Poux to the prestigious performances at the Middle School Moving 1950 1963 classmates who have “passed on” as well as those feel at home here. The Visual Arts department published All-Dutchess County Junior High Chorus. Up ceremony and graduation. Youyin Joan Guzy Gold – I’m keeping very busy here at Betheda Rosenfeld Shuman – After a 9 month fight who, for whatever reason, “passed up” this gath- 1955 the third volume of "Oakword" in June, "Benna" Su ’19 provided piano music for the Friends House in Santa Rosa, CA. Being near against liver and kidney cancer, my husband died ering. For the latter, I wish a speedy recovery, Richard Wood – I enjoy living in Gettysburg, PA. which featured the visual and literary In the spring, Oakwood hosted a rock middle school students and their families, the kids (daughter and grandson & his family) is on December 14, 2016. My children and grand- safe travels home, and hope that we get to see/ work of thirty upper school students. festival, which featured student bands and the Oakwood Orchestra performed 1956so much better than taking planes. Thinking of children have been so helpful and try to visit visit with you at a future date. Know that you David White – Still playing tennis in Houston. Finally an art exhibition installed spring from the greater New York Metropolitan at the upper school ceremony along retiring? If you like the Oakwood style of living often. I’m so glad that they live close by. My are loved. term in Collins Library featured work area, including Willow Bennison's ’20 with a joint student-faculty choir, which in a caring and supportive community, you will Oakwood friends have been in contact and that by Drawing students from winter term, critically acclaimed group, Harsh Crowd. performed Beyoncé's hit song "I Was Here." feel at home here. means so much to me. Those friendships are as 1969 as well as by Portfolio Art students. The following month, a cast of twelve Although quite a few skilled musicians close as they were when we were at Oakwood – I felt AWOL when Anne Micheaux Akwari, M.D. students performed my own new musical, graduated that day, the future looks bright 1955 in the sixties! I saw my friends Adelia Greer and Bill and Jim 1967 Stockholm Syndrome, which combined the as the music department begins looking Richard Wood – I enjoy living in Gettysburg, PA. Howe in the winter Oak Leaves without thme! So, Steve Jones – Thanks to Lydia, Janet, Phil & Chris for their work on the 50 reunion. Sorry I music of the Swedish rock group Roxette ahead to the 2017-2018 academic year. 1965 can’t be therehere in person,I am but with I am there my in spirit.two I willgrandsons, always be grateful Austin for the generousand 1956 Wilson Sheldon Jr. – I retired December 31, 2016support andCameron. friendship I foundFortunately, at Oakwood. they live only an hour David White – Still playing tennis in Houston. after 34 years at Friends Homes in GreensboroNancy Leopitziaway-Wawrla with – Themy number son, of classmatesChidi, attendingand his our 50wife,th reunion Anna. appears to be NC as the CEO. It provided a good life for myaround 50%.Our Not daughter, bad. I will deeply Christiana, miss our classmates is a whopediatrics have “passed intern on” as well at as those 1957 family and me and I feel fortunate to have hadwho, for Seattlewhatever reason,Children’s “passed up Hospital,” this gathering. a Forgreat the latter, place, I wish buta speedy too recovery, 1957 th safe travels home, and hope that we get to see/visit with you at a future date. Know that you Diane DeMask Lyonsth – Sorry to miss the 60 . such a positive work environment for the bulk far from us! My work of the past 15 years has Diane DeMask Lyons – Sorry to miss the 60 . Hard to believe it’s been 60 years. I’ve just are loved. returned from aHard South American to believe trip. Easter it’s Island been was especially 60 years. interesting. I’ve just re- of my career. As a result of my retirement I have been coaching physician colleagues around their turned from a South American trip. Easter Island spent my summer on Birch Island on Upper Sara - 1969 professional lives and communication. Onye is was especially interesting. nac Lake in NY. Birch Island has many OakwoodAnne Micheauxwell andAkwari, remains M.D.- I felt AWOLon the when surgical I saw my friends faculty Adelia Greerat Duke. and Bill and Jim connections. My parents bought it in 1955 alongHowe in Ithe am winter active Oak Leaves in Quaker without me! meeting. So, here I am Much with my twogratitude grandsons, forAustin and Cameron. Fortunately, they live only an hour away with my son, Chidi, and his wife, Anna. Our Hugo Sonnenschein visited with Eric Golden in with 4 other families. One family was Bill Clarkdaughter, Oakwood Christiana, is a pediatricsintroducing intern at Seattleme to Children’s Quakerism! Hospital, a great I hope place, but too Hugo SonnenscheinWashington visited with Eric D.C. Golden in Washington D.C. former Headmaster at Oakwood, Bill Butterfieldfar from everyoneus! My work of beginsthe past 15 yearspreparing has been coaching to attend physician our colleagues 50th(!) around their professional lives and communication. Onye is well and remains on the surgical faculty at Duke. former teacher and coach at Oakwood, TomI am activereunion. in Quaker meeting. I would Much love gratitude for for usOakwood all to introducing return. me to Quakerism! I Smith neighbor in Kingwood Park whose 2 chilhope- everyone begins preparing to attend our 50th (!) reunion. I would love for us all to return. dren, Donna and Craig, went to Oakwood and my family who has a long history with Oakwood. It has been a beautiful summer in the Adiron- dacks (although a little rainy) and the first time in my life I have spent more than 2 weeks here. My best to anyone I knew while attending Oakwood from 1961-1965.

“ Oakwood taught me the value of introspection and meditation.”

Orion “Skip” Ayer, Jr. ’65 Middle Schoolers visit the Storm King Art Center

1958 Melissa Gatling Kaufmann Buhler – Busy, Busy living in Westminster Shores Active Independent Adult Community in St. Petersburg, Fl. Life and health are good on the balmy shores of Tampa Bay. Writing, volunteering, supporting community events including planning. Would love to hear from my classmates in the area. 6 Summer 2017 NEWSLETTER FOR ALUMNI AND MEMBERS OF THE OAKWOOD FRIENDS COMMUNITY CELEBRATING OVER 210 YEARS OF FRIENDS EDUCATION IN THE HUDSON VALLEY Summer 2017 11

on the theme of Westward The Best of Times Expansion, an By: Annmarie Callan, original role Middle School Director playing game, “Surviving the I didn’t set out to become a middle school Ice Age”, that, administrator. I thought for sure I’d spend worthy of note, the rest of my career in elementary educa- drew the at- tion. But when I set foot in the classrooms of tention of the 11, 12, and 13 year olds, some ten or more NYS Museum years ago, I knew I would never look back. in Albany, a As Charles Dickens observes in A Tale of PEMDAS “ Nerd Two Cities: "It was the best of times, it was Graffiti! ses- Middleschoolers at work the worst of times, it was the age of wisdom, sion with side- it was the age of foolishness. ….” A good walk chalk on exterior walls of the math As we look to the 2017/18 school year, the paradox is ever compelling to those called building, and a presentation of a collab- middle school team will continue the Sus- to work in middle schools: We know, for orative film, “A Superman Made of Kryp- tainable Practices program beyond the stu- sure, its potential to be the best of times. In tonite” starring the 8th grade, and written dent/teacher run, four season greenhouse. order to develop the resilience, confidence, and directed by Tillie Schneiderman ’18. We plan to expand the already impressive and practical problem-solving skills needed compost program, to participate as vendors for success in this ever-changing era, ado- At the newly designed 8th grade Mov- in local farmers markets and to provide lescents simultaneously require security and ing Up! Ceremony in June, our graduates outreach to local food-security non-profits. independence; structure and creative con- took center stage as social justice warriors trol. It’s a paradox, yes, but entirely doable. while they presented well developed values On November 15th, we’ll celebrate the success within the personal narrative format. Fami- of this year’s bounty with a 100% Locavore, This is where the Oakwood Friends Middle lies and teachers alike listened attentively middle school family dinner in the green- School shines. Our talented group of teach- while students presented themselves as house. With lights, lamps, and live music, it’ll ers create a learning community that re- advocates and allies for a variety of social be a harvest celebration to write home about. sponds to the unique needs of our students. justice causes, from the personal to societal. Last spring, they provided a very successful Most of the time, when I mention I work Academic Showcase for parents and facul- The four season greenhouse, just beyond with middle-school students, I get the same ty. It included a lively musical production the walls of the middle school, provided basic reaction: “Tough age.” I smile and nod, ample opportunity for students to observe, knowing that tough doesn’t begin to cover like scientists, the miracles and hardships it. One word could never quite capture the Mother Nature provides. Their appreciation smart, ridiculous, stubborn, fragile beauty for the fresh herbs, greens and vegetables of our wonderful, paradoxical students. the greenhouse provided was evident as they prepared a substantial meal of fresh kale and garlic scape pesto and homemade pasta with CIA chef, Scott Swartz. When kids grow kale, they eat kale: a detail we’ll keep in mind as we further develop our Healthy Middleschoolers at play Bodies, Strong Minds curriculum in the fall. Adventures in Beekeeping In March of 2016 Oakwood embarked Drawing on his past life experiences in on a new adventure in keeping with the Medicine (retired physician), Aviation (mili- school’s mission of sustainability and en- tary & Alaskan bush pilot & air traffic con- vironmental stewardship – beekeeping. troller) - Dan has developed and presented Under the guidance of local honey bee- a flexible engaging honey bee curriculum. keeper, beekeeping teacher, mentor and He has successfully presented his program honey bee enthusiast, Dan Girton, Oak- at different venues around the Hudson Val- wood is now the proud home of two ley to students ranging from 3 years old Dan with the Oakwood hives hives housing approximately 70,000 bees. - on up to active senior life-long learners. nectar during peak summer hive activ- Oakwood’s bees are housed in the former ity to last them through the winter months. llama pen in the southwest area of cam- pus behind the dining hall, an ideal loca- Oakwood is thrilled to partner with Dan tion because they can be viewed from afar and is proud to play a role in preserving but the fencing that is in place keeps peo- the honey bee population locally. Dan ad- ple at a safe distance. The bees hail from vises those interested in beekeeping to do Olivarez Apiaries in Northern CA which is so with a sense of caution and responsibil- at the same latitude as the Hudson Valley. ity. “Human beings want to save the bees so people buy them with great intentions Each hive box holds ten frames which even- but are inexperienced and cause more tually fill with honey over time. The bees harm than good. Those pursuing bee- Dan Girton thrive on local trees such as Willow, Red keeping must continuously educate them- Maple, and Tulips and will deposit enough selves as it’s a super responsibility.” 10 Summer 2017 NEWSLETTER FOR ALUMNI AND MEMBERS OF THE OAKWOOD FRIENDS COMMUNITY CELEBRATING OVER 210 YEARS OF FRIENDS EDUCATION IN THE HUDSON VALLEY Summer 2017 7 Distinguished Alumni Award Summer at Oakwood Oakwood Friends School, Saturday, May 13, 2017 Oakwood hosts a wide variety of camps Today it is my privilege to honor Lewis J. immersed in community service, as a member during the summer months serving kids SAM (Science and Weinstein, class of 1957, on the occasion of of the Harding Township planning and zon- from elementary school through the teen his 60th reunion. While a student at Oak- ing boards, as a volunteer with Rotary Inter- years, exploring science, nature and activ- Math) Camp wood for only a year and a half, Lew has national and the United Way of Morris County, ism through the arts. is a week-long science and math day camp served the school with vigor and passion among other organizations, and as an active that inspires girls with thought-provoking and a spirit of generosity in all things. As a member of the local Republican Committee. Camp Growing Green and hands-on projects. Now in its 7th year, member of Oakwood’s Board of Managers, celebrated its second year with activi- the camp’s goal is to make science and math Lew brought his direct style and forthright In retirement, Lew increased his involve- ties ranging from cooking and eating food fun and inviting and to instill confidence as voice to every discussion, always keep- ment with Oakwood alumni activities, and from the garden, building water pumps campers tackle challenging activities. Camp- ing the best interests of the school in mind. welcomed committee members to his Mor- and Mason Bee Houses, and visiting a lo- ers solder circuits, decode math cyphers, drill Lew served on the Development, Executive, ristown home. After he remarried, at 66, he cal farm and the Dutchess County Fair. holes to seed mushroom logs, sculpt ceramic Finance and Personnel committees, bring- and his wife, Drue, hosted several alumni The camp is designed for children enter- art and build edible racecars. Workshops are SAM campers discovering how many drops ing his keen analytical mind and sense of gatherings in their beautiful home in Florida. ing 3rd through 5th grades to discover what led predominantly by local women eager to of water will fit on a penny as they learned humor to each issue. With Lew’s participa- Warm and gracious hosts, they made every- Lew and Drue Weinstein at their home in it takes to grow their own food and make share their passion about math and science. about surface tension and surfactants. tion, every possible concern and contingency one feel at home and eager to hear about Atlantis, Florida their own products in a fun and engaging was considered in the Board’s deliberations. Oakwood news and future plans. When way. Through hands-on experiences in our Summer Youth asked for his reason for his service to the our drive down AIA last spring after be- new sustainable gardens, children work in A long-time resident of New Jersey, Lew school, he said: “It’s an opportunity to give ing treated to a lovely dinner on the water. a small camp setting with counselors and Advocacy Program graduated from Rutgers School of Law, fol- a little for the lot he received as a student.” discover what it takes to live on the land. lowing his undergraduate years at Transylva- When asked about his upcoming 50th In keeping with the school’s Quaker mis- nia University in Kentucky and a short stint Lew and Drue enjoy their life in retirement, reunion ten years ago, he said: “Do you sion of service and social justice, Oakwood in the Air Force. As a lawyer, he was a sole balmy Florida weather, lots of time on the remember what you thought as a student Friends School once again hosted the Sum- practitioner for 25 years, before he was ap- golf course and wonderful opportunities to when the “fossils” showed up? I’m glad to mer Youth Advocacy Program (SYAP) for pointed Judge of the Superior Court of New visit with their combined families of children be a fossil and look forward to our reunion.” area and NYC teens. SYAP is a free summer Jersey in 1993. He wrote to the Alumni Of- and grandchildren. And, of course, there program for economically disadvantaged, fice on that occasion: “I am thankful to ev- are the cars. Lew’s passion for antique cars Lew, we are so grateful for your philan- racially diverse teens between the ages of 13 ery level of my education which has enabled has never abated. From a ’56 Packard to a thropy and service to Oakwood. I am and 18 that increases understanding of civic me to achieve the success of reaching such a ’67 Mercury to his newest Mustang Shelby honored to present you with the Dis- engagement, teaches the tools of advocacy prestigious and honored position.” Lew and GT to name a few, Lew has been an avid tinguished Alumni Award for 2017. through the arts, and fosters an early inter- his first wife, Doris, who passed away in 2001, collector for decades. Although we did not est in and commitment to civic participation. raised two sons during this time. Lew was also ride in one (this time) I thoroughly enjoyed Chad Cianfrani, Head of School The annual service learning project, a plant- er bench and picnic table that were donated to the City of Poughkeepsie were unveiled Minutes of the Annual Meeting of the Alumni Association this year at Mural Square Park. The group worked in partnership with Councilwoman Oakwood Friends School Camp Growing Green campers showing off Saturday, May 13, 2017 Ann Perry and the Rotary E-Club of District their blackberry harvest 7210 on these projects. Thank you to our half of Myra Koutzen ’70. As of March 31, The slate of candidates for officers of the generous donors: The Dyson Foundation; M 2017, the value of the Ruth Craig Scholar- Alumni Council were presented and ap- & T Bank; the Rotary E-Club of District 7210; ship Fund was $455,013.99. The net value proved: Najah Muhammad ’10, president, as well as local businesses and individuals. SYAP bench project of the Fund has increased $5,507.99 or 1.2% Myra Koutzen ’70, treasurer, Rita James in the past year. The value of the Fund on ’52, secretary. New Council members June 30, 2015 was $449,506.00. There was were also approved: Rebecca Gnessin a change in value of the Fund with a total ’01, Caroline Brevetti ’07, and Nick Currie increase of $29,822 (+6.6%) attributable to ’07. Returning members of the Council Oakwood Friends School Eagle Scouts capital gains. There was one distribution of were approved as well: Deborah Scheer $24,314.00 paid to Oakwood Friends School ’46, Henry Brecher ’51, Ben Dent ’53, Ja- Congratulations to Matthew Colalillo ’18 and to be used for scholarships. The amount was net Tenney ’67, Christopher Ware ’89, Lo- C.J. Nutting ’17 for earning the rank of Eagle determined by the formula agreed to at the ren Talbot ’91 and Jessica Kimelman ’93. Scout, the highest achievement attainable in 2016 meeting of the Alumni Association. the Boy Scouts of America scouting program. Najah thanked alumni for the many ways they Only four percent of Boy Scouts are grant- The treasurer proposed the traditional for- support the school. She reported that we have ed this rank after a lengthy review process. mula for determining the donation to Oak- raised $227,271 so far for the Annual Fund wood to be used for scholarship for the from 435 donors, 266 of which are alumni. C.J. Nutting chose Oakwood Friends School 2017-18 school year: 5% of the average val- She encouraged all who have not yet made as the site for his final project. Last winter, he ue of the past three years of the Ruth Craig a gift to do so. Another $72,729 is needed Camp Growing Green with Middle School began building a fence enclosure for our 4 Najah Muhammad ’10, president of the season greenhouse to help prevent animals C.J. Nutting ’17 and Matthew Colalillo ’18. Alumni Association Scholarship Fund, approximately $22,859. to reach the budgeted goal of $300,000. science teacher Miriam Straus. A spirited discussion followed regarding Najah also acknowledged Jonathan Flaccus from entering. With support from his family, the importance of scholarship assistance ’58 for generously initiating a new Native friends and Oakwood’s Middle School sci- ence teacher and greenhouse coordinator, Najah Muhammad ’10, president of the for our students with financial need and American Scholarship Fund and for his help Miriam Straus, C.J. built an impressive fence Alumni Association, opened the meet- the importance of maintaining and grow- in arranging for Professor John Willis from that will serve the school for years to come. ing with silent worship. She welcomed ing the corpus of the Fund for the future. Marlboro College to speak at the annual Arts The group agreed to increase the amount to Lecture, generously supported by Marsha and alumni and guests and thanked ev- Matthew Colalillo, an 8 year Boy Scout eryone for attending the Meeting. 5.5% for next year, approximately $25,145. Jonathan Talbot ’57. She recognized those Alumni were encouraged to make dona- who have opened their homes for regional veteran, was very busy this summer build- ing a fence for the American Legion Club Najah asked for and received approval of tions to the Fund to cover the additional alumni gatherings this year: Lydia Micheaux $2,286 in scholarship. The actual donation Marshall ’67 in Washington, D.C. and in Yorktown, NY. He is also a member the minutes of the Annual Meeting of May of the Scouts’ “Order of the Arrow” 14, 2016. She introduced Deb Wood ’56 amount would be calculated after June Diane Moroff, daughter of Libby Moroff ’54 who presented the Treasurer’s report on be- 30, 2017 using the fiscal year end amount. continued on page 15 8 Summer 2017 NEWSLETTER FOR ALUMNI AND MEMBERS OF THE OAKWOOD FRIENDS COMMUNITY CELEBRATING OVER 210 YEARS OF FRIENDS EDUCATION IN THE HUDSON VALLEY Summer 2017 9 Alumni Weekend 2017

Class of 1972 Class of 1982 and friends Courtney Gabrielson & David Lyons ’71 2nd Row: Martha Wright, Sharon Marr Alexander, Jamie Elvin O’Neil Front Row: Akiko Tamura ’80, Dawit Zeleke ’81, Susanrachel Balber Condon ’80, Erik Nelson, Tamela Sloan ’80

Class of 1942 Class of 1947 and friends F. Stewart Stover and his son Dwight Stover Marian Finch ’48, Peter Silveston, Tom Renouf ’48, Irene Csordas ’48

Class of 1987 and friends Class of 1992 2nd Row: Laura Fast Smith, Max Gaenslen, Peter Davidson ’86, Thembi Dube ’85, Julia Wilson and Christina Caughlin Kraeher Class of 1952 Class of 1957 Sheena Kang Wilt ’85, Beth Porter (with Jacob & Meredith Wilson and Ryan Kraeher) 2nd Row: Art Hartwig, Nancy Saltford 2nd Row: Beth Sonnenschein, Debbie Stone ‘58, Clara Urioste Front Row: Jonathan Grant, Steve Brentari, Annette Ruswick Engler, Arthur Smith, Roger Bullard, Jean Taylor Hartwig, Peter VanKleek, Mike Twining, Jonathan Talbot, Marty Betts Shaw, Hugo Front Row: Front Row: Justin Brown ’86, Jeremy Soule Art Saltford Sonnenschein

Class of 1967: 50th Reunion 2nd Row: Barry Smith, Phil Richmond, Sabina & Carl Tannenbaum, Robert Thrun, Sue Sartori Spatara, Pat & Bob Saling, Class of 2007 Maryjean Tocco ’69, Daniel Shurman, Pat Swartz, Don Badgley, Bob Swartz, Peg Keiser 2nd Row: Richard Distel, Ben Shenkman, Julia Patten, Scott Surrette, Ella Maslin Front row: Linda Wild Kondor, Jeffrey Mandel, Janet Tenney, Bill Lynch, Patience Killen, Lydia Micheaux Marshall, Christine Herrick, Front Row: Mauro Parra, Egon Gabrielson ’06, Josie Trefz (with Cal), Caroline Brevetti, Sierra Suris-Kruppa, Christine Pitner Surrette (with Suzanne Greene, Nancy Leopitzi Wawrla, Norm Keiser Adeline), Lillian Shad (with Laila)

8 Summer 2017 NEWSLETTER FOR ALUMNI AND MEMBERS OF THE OAKWOOD FRIENDS COMMUNITY CELEBRATING OVER 210 YEARS OF FRIENDS EDUCATION IN THE HUDSON VALLEY Summer 2017 9 Alumni Weekend 2017

Class of 1972 Class of 1982 and friends Courtney Gabrielson & David Lyons ’71 2nd Row: Martha Wright, Sharon Marr Alexander, Jamie Elvin O’Neil Front Row: Akiko Tamura ’80, Dawit Zeleke ’81, Susanrachel Balber Condon ’80, Erik Nelson, Tamela Sloan ’80

Class of 1942 Class of 1947 and friends F. Stewart Stover and his son Dwight Stover Marian Finch ’48, Peter Silveston, Tom Renouf ’48, Irene Csordas ’48

Class of 1987 and friends Class of 1992 2nd Row: Laura Fast Smith, Max Gaenslen, Peter Davidson ’86, Thembi Dube ’85, Julia Wilson and Christina Caughlin Kraeher Class of 1952 Class of 1957 Sheena Kang Wilt ’85, Beth Porter (with Jacob & Meredith Wilson and Ryan Kraeher) 2nd Row: Art Hartwig, Nancy Saltford 2nd Row: Beth Sonnenschein, Debbie Stone ‘58, Clara Urioste Front Row: Jonathan Grant, Steve Brentari, Annette Ruswick Engler, Arthur Smith, Roger Bullard, Jean Taylor Hartwig, Peter VanKleek, Mike Twining, Jonathan Talbot, Marty Betts Shaw, Hugo Front Row: Front Row: Justin Brown ’86, Jeremy Soule Art Saltford Sonnenschein

Class of 1967: 50th Reunion 2nd Row: Barry Smith, Phil Richmond, Sabina & Carl Tannenbaum, Robert Thrun, Sue Sartori Spatara, Pat & Bob Saling, Class of 2007 Maryjean Tocco ’69, Daniel Shurman, Pat Swartz, Don Badgley, Bob Swartz, Peg Keiser 2nd Row: Richard Distel, Ben Shenkman, Julia Patten, Scott Surrette, Ella Maslin Front row: Linda Wild Kondor, Jeffrey Mandel, Janet Tenney, Bill Lynch, Patience Killen, Lydia Micheaux Marshall, Christine Herrick, Front Row: Mauro Parra, Egon Gabrielson ’06, Josie Trefz (with Cal), Caroline Brevetti, Sierra Suris-Kruppa, Christine Pitner Surrette (with Suzanne Greene, Nancy Leopitzi Wawrla, Norm Keiser Adeline), Lillian Shad (with Laila)

10 Summer 2017 NEWSLETTER FOR ALUMNI AND MEMBERS OF THE OAKWOOD FRIENDS COMMUNITY CELEBRATING OVER 210 YEARS OF FRIENDS EDUCATION IN THE HUDSON VALLEY Summer 2017 7 Distinguished Alumni Award Summer at Oakwood Oakwood Friends School, Saturday, May 13, 2017 Oakwood hosts a wide variety of camps Today it is my privilege to honor Lewis J. immersed in community service, as a member during the summer months serving kids SAM (Science and Weinstein, class of 1957, on the occasion of of the Harding Township planning and zon- from elementary school through the teen his 60th reunion. While a student at Oak- ing boards, as a volunteer with Rotary Inter- years, exploring science, nature and activ- Math) Camp wood for only a year and a half, Lew has national and the United Way of Morris County, ism through the arts. is a week-long science and math day camp served the school with vigor and passion among other organizations, and as an active that inspires girls with thought-provoking and a spirit of generosity in all things. As a member of the local Republican Committee. Camp Growing Green and hands-on projects. Now in its 7th year, member of Oakwood’s Board of Managers, celebrated its second year with activi- the camp’s goal is to make science and math Lew brought his direct style and forthright In retirement, Lew increased his involve- ties ranging from cooking and eating food fun and inviting and to instill confidence as voice to every discussion, always keep- ment with Oakwood alumni activities, and from the garden, building water pumps campers tackle challenging activities. Camp- ing the best interests of the school in mind. welcomed committee members to his Mor- and Mason Bee Houses, and visiting a lo- ers solder circuits, decode math cyphers, drill Lew served on the Development, Executive, ristown home. After he remarried, at 66, he cal farm and the Dutchess County Fair. holes to seed mushroom logs, sculpt ceramic Finance and Personnel committees, bring- and his wife, Drue, hosted several alumni The camp is designed for children enter- art and build edible racecars. Workshops are SAM campers discovering how many drops ing his keen analytical mind and sense of gatherings in their beautiful home in Florida. ing 3rd through 5th grades to discover what led predominantly by local women eager to of water will fit on a penny as they learned humor to each issue. With Lew’s participa- Warm and gracious hosts, they made every- Lew and Drue Weinstein at their home in it takes to grow their own food and make share their passion about math and science. about surface tension and surfactants. tion, every possible concern and contingency one feel at home and eager to hear about Atlantis, Florida their own products in a fun and engaging was considered in the Board’s deliberations. Oakwood news and future plans. When way. Through hands-on experiences in our Summer Youth asked for his reason for his service to the our drive down AIA last spring after be- new sustainable gardens, children work in A long-time resident of New Jersey, Lew school, he said: “It’s an opportunity to give ing treated to a lovely dinner on the water. a small camp setting with counselors and Advocacy Program graduated from Rutgers School of Law, fol- a little for the lot he received as a student.” discover what it takes to live on the land. lowing his undergraduate years at Transylva- When asked about his upcoming 50th In keeping with the school’s Quaker mis- nia University in Kentucky and a short stint Lew and Drue enjoy their life in retirement, reunion ten years ago, he said: “Do you sion of service and social justice, Oakwood in the Air Force. As a lawyer, he was a sole balmy Florida weather, lots of time on the remember what you thought as a student Friends School once again hosted the Sum- practitioner for 25 years, before he was ap- golf course and wonderful opportunities to when the “fossils” showed up? I’m glad to mer Youth Advocacy Program (SYAP) for pointed Judge of the Superior Court of New visit with their combined families of children be a fossil and look forward to our reunion.” area and NYC teens. SYAP is a free summer Jersey in 1993. He wrote to the Alumni Of- and grandchildren. And, of course, there program for economically disadvantaged, fice on that occasion: “I am thankful to ev- are the cars. Lew’s passion for antique cars Lew, we are so grateful for your philan- racially diverse teens between the ages of 13 ery level of my education which has enabled has never abated. From a ’56 Packard to a thropy and service to Oakwood. I am and 18 that increases understanding of civic me to achieve the success of reaching such a ’67 Mercury to his newest Mustang Shelby honored to present you with the Dis- engagement, teaches the tools of advocacy prestigious and honored position.” Lew and GT to name a few, Lew has been an avid tinguished Alumni Award for 2017. through the arts, and fosters an early inter- his first wife, Doris, who passed away in 2001, collector for decades. Although we did not est in and commitment to civic participation. raised two sons during this time. Lew was also ride in one (this time) I thoroughly enjoyed Chad Cianfrani, Head of School The annual service learning project, a plant- er bench and picnic table that were donated to the City of Poughkeepsie were unveiled Minutes of the Annual Meeting of the Alumni Association this year at Mural Square Park. The group worked in partnership with Councilwoman Oakwood Friends School Camp Growing Green campers showing off Saturday, May 13, 2017 Ann Perry and the Rotary E-Club of District their blackberry harvest 7210 on these projects. Thank you to our half of Myra Koutzen ’70. As of March 31, The slate of candidates for officers of the generous donors: The Dyson Foundation; M 2017, the value of the Ruth Craig Scholar- Alumni Council were presented and ap- & T Bank; the Rotary E-Club of District 7210; ship Fund was $455,013.99. The net value proved: Najah Muhammad ’10, president, as well as local businesses and individuals. SYAP bench project of the Fund has increased $5,507.99 or 1.2% Myra Koutzen ’70, treasurer, Rita James in the past year. The value of the Fund on ’52, secretary. New Council members June 30, 2015 was $449,506.00. There was were also approved: Rebecca Gnessin a change in value of the Fund with a total ’01, Caroline Brevetti ’07, and Nick Currie increase of $29,822 (+6.6%) attributable to ’07. Returning members of the Council Oakwood Friends School Eagle Scouts capital gains. There was one distribution of were approved as well: Deborah Scheer $24,314.00 paid to Oakwood Friends School ’46, Henry Brecher ’51, Ben Dent ’53, Ja- Congratulations to Matthew Colalillo ’18 and to be used for scholarships. The amount was net Tenney ’67, Christopher Ware ’89, Lo- C.J. Nutting ’17 for earning the rank of Eagle determined by the formula agreed to at the ren Talbot ’91 and Jessica Kimelman ’93. Scout, the highest achievement attainable in 2016 meeting of the Alumni Association. the Boy Scouts of America scouting program. Najah thanked alumni for the many ways they Only four percent of Boy Scouts are grant- The treasurer proposed the traditional for- support the school. She reported that we have ed this rank after a lengthy review process. mula for determining the donation to Oak- raised $227,271 so far for the Annual Fund wood to be used for scholarship for the from 435 donors, 266 of which are alumni. C.J. Nutting chose Oakwood Friends School 2017-18 school year: 5% of the average val- She encouraged all who have not yet made as the site for his final project. Last winter, he ue of the past three years of the Ruth Craig a gift to do so. Another $72,729 is needed Camp Growing Green with Middle School began building a fence enclosure for our 4 Najah Muhammad ’10, president of the season greenhouse to help prevent animals C.J. Nutting ’17 and Matthew Colalillo ’18. Alumni Association Scholarship Fund, approximately $22,859. to reach the budgeted goal of $300,000. science teacher Miriam Straus. A spirited discussion followed regarding Najah also acknowledged Jonathan Flaccus from entering. With support from his family, the importance of scholarship assistance ’58 for generously initiating a new Native friends and Oakwood’s Middle School sci- ence teacher and greenhouse coordinator, Najah Muhammad ’10, president of the for our students with financial need and American Scholarship Fund and for his help Miriam Straus, C.J. built an impressive fence Alumni Association, opened the meet- the importance of maintaining and grow- in arranging for Professor John Willis from that will serve the school for years to come. ing with silent worship. She welcomed ing the corpus of the Fund for the future. Marlboro College to speak at the annual Arts The group agreed to increase the amount to Lecture, generously supported by Marsha and alumni and guests and thanked ev- Matthew Colalillo, an 8 year Boy Scout eryone for attending the Meeting. 5.5% for next year, approximately $25,145. Jonathan Talbot ’57. She recognized those Alumni were encouraged to make dona- who have opened their homes for regional veteran, was very busy this summer build- ing a fence for the American Legion Club Najah asked for and received approval of tions to the Fund to cover the additional alumni gatherings this year: Lydia Micheaux $2,286 in scholarship. The actual donation Marshall ’67 in Washington, D.C. and in Yorktown, NY. He is also a member the minutes of the Annual Meeting of May of the Scouts’ “Order of the Arrow” 14, 2016. She introduced Deb Wood ’56 amount would be calculated after June Diane Moroff, daughter of Libby Moroff ’54 who presented the Treasurer’s report on be- 30, 2017 using the fiscal year end amount. continued on page 15 6 Summer 2017 NEWSLETTER FOR ALUMNI AND MEMBERS OF THE OAKWOOD FRIENDS COMMUNITY CELEBRATING OVER 210 YEARS OF FRIENDS EDUCATION IN THE HUDSON VALLEY Summer 2017 11

on the theme of Westward The Best of Times Expansion, an By: Annmarie Callan, original role Middle School Director playing game, “Surviving the I didn’t set out to become a middle school Ice Age”, that, administrator. I thought for sure I’d spend worthy of note, the rest of my career in elementary educa- drew the at- tion. But when I set foot in the classrooms of tention of the 11, 12, and 13 year olds, some ten or more NYS Museum years ago, I knew I would never look back. in Albany, a As Charles Dickens observes in A Tale of PEMDAS “ Nerd Two Cities: "It was the best of times, it was Graffiti! ses- Middleschoolers at work the worst of times, it was the age of wisdom, sion with side- it was the age of foolishness. ….” A good walk chalk on exterior walls of the math As we look to the 2017/18 school year, the paradox is ever compelling to those called building, and a presentation of a collab- middle school team will continue the Sus- to work in middle schools: We know, for orative film, “A Superman Made of Kryp- tainable Practices program beyond the stu- sure, its potential to be the best of times. In tonite” starring the 8th grade, and written dent/teacher run, four season greenhouse. order to develop the resilience, confidence, and directed by Tillie Schneiderman ’18. We plan to expand the already impressive and practical problem-solving skills needed compost program, to participate as vendors for success in this ever-changing era, ado- At the newly designed 8th grade Mov- in local farmers markets and to provide lescents simultaneously require security and ing Up! Ceremony in June, our graduates outreach to local food-security non-profits. independence; structure and creative con- took center stage as social justice warriors trol. It’s a paradox, yes, but entirely doable. while they presented well developed values On November 15th, we’ll celebrate the success within the personal narrative format. Fami- of this year’s bounty with a 100% Locavore, This is where the Oakwood Friends Middle lies and teachers alike listened attentively middle school family dinner in the green- School shines. Our talented group of teach- while students presented themselves as house. With lights, lamps, and live music, it’ll ers create a learning community that re- advocates and allies for a variety of social be a harvest celebration to write home about. sponds to the unique needs of our students. justice causes, from the personal to societal. Last spring, they provided a very successful Most of the time, when I mention I work Academic Showcase for parents and facul- The four season greenhouse, just beyond with middle-school students, I get the same ty. It included a lively musical production the walls of the middle school, provided basic reaction: “Tough age.” I smile and nod, ample opportunity for students to observe, knowing that tough doesn’t begin to cover like scientists, the miracles and hardships it. One word could never quite capture the Mother Nature provides. Their appreciation smart, ridiculous, stubborn, fragile beauty for the fresh herbs, greens and vegetables of our wonderful, paradoxical students. the greenhouse provided was evident as they prepared a substantial meal of fresh kale and garlic scape pesto and homemade pasta with CIA chef, Scott Swartz. When kids grow kale, they eat kale: a detail we’ll keep in mind as we further develop our Healthy Middleschoolers at play Bodies, Strong Minds curriculum in the fall. Adventures in Beekeeping In March of 2016 Oakwood embarked Drawing on his past life experiences in on a new adventure in keeping with the Medicine (retired physician), Aviation (mili- school’s mission of sustainability and en- tary & Alaskan bush pilot & air traffic con- vironmental stewardship – beekeeping. troller) - Dan has developed and presented Under the guidance of local honey bee- a flexible engaging honey bee curriculum. keeper, beekeeping teacher, mentor and He has successfully presented his program honey bee enthusiast, Dan Girton, Oak- at different venues around the Hudson Val- wood is now the proud home of two ley to students ranging from 3 years old Dan with the Oakwood hives hives housing approximately 70,000 bees. - on up to active senior life-long learners. nectar during peak summer hive activ- Oakwood’s bees are housed in the former ity to last them through the winter months. llama pen in the southwest area of cam- pus behind the dining hall, an ideal loca- Oakwood is thrilled to partner with Dan tion because they can be viewed from afar and is proud to play a role in preserving but the fencing that is in place keeps peo- the honey bee population locally. Dan ad- ple at a safe distance. The bees hail from vises those interested in beekeeping to do Olivarez Apiaries in Northern CA which is so with a sense of caution and responsibil- at the same latitude as the Hudson Valley. ity. “Human beings want to save the bees so people buy them with great intentions Each hive box holds ten frames which even- but are inexperienced and cause more tually fill with honey over time. The bees harm than good. Those pursuing bee- Dan Girton thrive on local trees such as Willow, Red keeping must continuously educate them- Maple, and Tulips and will deposit enough selves as it’s a super responsibility.” 12 Summer 2017 NEWSLETTER FOR ALUMNI AND MEMBERS OF THE OAKWOOD FRIENDS COMMUNITY CELEBRATING OVER 210 YEARS OF FRIENDS EDUCATION IN THE HUDSON VALLEY Summer 2017 5 1959 Susan Stein Stephens – Hello Oakwood!

Class Notes A memorial service will be held on Saturday, November 25th, in the Meeting Room at Oakwood Friends School to celebrate the life of Susanna Stone Eldridge '59. You may contact Debbie Music Stone '58 for details: (845) 505-2338 or [email protected]. By: Ted Messerschmidt, Music Director 1963 Betheda Rosenfeld Shuman – After a 9 month fight against liver and kidney cancer, my husband died on December 14, 2016. My children and grandchildren have been so helpful and Oakwood music students had another try to visit often. I’m so glad that they live close by. My Oakwood friends have been in contact busy and successful year, participating in and that means so much to me. Those friendships are as close as they were when we were at Oakwood in the sixties! nearly twenty performances, not to men- tion informal events and other concerts 1965 Wilson Sheldon Jr. - I retired December 31 2016 after 34 years at Friends Homes in Greensboro outside of the school's purview. Aside NC as the CEO. It provided a good life for my family and me and I feel fortunate to have had from the usual winter and spring con- such a positive work environment for the bulk of my career. As a result of my retirement I have spent my summer on Birch Island on Upper Saranac Lake in NY. Birch Island has many Oakwood certs, the students provided music for 1943 “A teacher may not know on the spot just how connections.Alexander My parents "Sandy" bought itRoca in 1955 along– Regret with 4 other I families.have Onenot family been was Bill Clark former Headmaster at Oakwood, Bill Butterfield former teacher and coach at Oakwood, Tom special events, including Parents' Day, the 1943Gloria Bogle with her granddaughter Emily Bogle to recent Alumni Weekends, but I have been much of the subject he teaches is “sinking in.” Smith neighbor in Kingwood Park whose 2 children, Donna and Craig, went to Oakwood and my Black History Month celebration, the Par- Gloria’07, Bogleat Emily’s with her granddaughter wedding Emily March Bogle ‘07 11,, at Emily’s2017. wedding in April 2017. familyfighting who has aa long bad history thing with Oakwood. in myIt has beenbone a beautiful marrow, summer in thenow Adirondacks ent fundraising dinner at Locust Grove, and But I did have some feedback a few years ago (althoughinto fifth a little rainy)year. and theMy first timetherapy in my life I havehas spent been more thanto 2 weeksphoto here.- My best to anyone I knew while attending Oakwood from 1961-1965. the dedication of the school's solar array. from an Oakwood student. He said he has graph, curate and build things, when I can. See Alexanderbelow. "Sandy" Best Roca wishes - Regret I haveto notall been and to recent ride Alumni safe! Weekends, but I have been those two –volume American Lit texts on his fighting a bad thing in my bone marrow, now into fifth year. My therapy has been to In the fall, Elias Fredericks ’20 provided photograph,Instagram.com/Sandy_a.k.a_jake curate and build things, when I can. See below. Best wishes to all and ride safe! living room bookshelves, and takes them down Instagram.com/Sandy_a.k.a_jake incidental music for the fall production to read and talk about them to his teenage Willow Bennison ’20 of Dracula. He also performed with Yan- son. I was glad to hear that.” ling "Connie" Huang ’17 at Parents' Day.

Nicky Bailey, former faculty Students played a wide variety of selections Visual Arts ranging from classical works to Chinese pop songs at the Winter Festival Concert Stockholm Syndrome 1958 By: Elizabeth Meyer, Art Teacher in December. Also in the winter term, the From Bottom: Willow Bennison ’20, Alli DeCola- Melissa Gatling Kaufmann Buhler – Busy, Busy This spring, we started a new Glaze Community Service through the Arts class Judge ’18, Lily Schaeufele ’18, Claudia Sicher- living in Westminster Shores Active Independent 1967 Laboratory in the former ceramics basement performed for community groups through- man ’18, Elias Fredericks ’20, Melina Sefuku ’17 Adult Community in St. Petersburg, Fl. Life and Steve Jones – Thanks to Lydia, Janet, Phil & Chris studio. In the Glaze Lab ceramics students out the Hudson Valley. In a particularly 1945 health are good on the balmy shores of Tampa for their work on the 50th reunion. Sorry I can’t will learn about glaze chemistry and recipes, poignant moment for the class, residents at with several of his original compositions. Susan Davis Doderer – I am hanging in there. Just Bay. Writing, volunteering, supporting communi- be there in person, but I am there in spirit. I will 1945 and will have greater creative freedom the Manor at Woodside Retirement Home Later, Will Dambra ’19 and Elias Fredericks Susanturned Davis 90!!Doderer – I am hanging in there..Just turned 90!! ty events including planning. Would love to hear always be grateful for the generous support and to research and mix their own glazes, in were so moved by Zo di Santo ’17 and Wil- ’20 participated in the NYSSMA solo from my classmates in the area. friendship I found at Oakwood. 1946 addition to using stock favorites. The lab was low Bennison's ’20 rendition of "I Can't Help festival, earning superior ratings for Chad1946 Cianfrani visited with Debbie Scheer in Sausalito, CA in March. partially funded through a $1,000 Teacher Falling in Love with You" that they began their interpretations of works by William 1950Chad Cianfrani visited with Debbie Scheer in Sau- 1959 Nancy Leopitzi-Wawrla – The number of class- th Appreciation Month Grant competition singing along. Another highlight from the Gillock, J.S. Bach, and Fritz Kreisler. Joansalito, Guzy GoldCA –in I’m March.keeping very busy here at Friends House in Santa Rosa, CA. Being Susannear Stein Stephens – Hello Oakwood! mates attending our 50 reunion appears to be by the crowd funding site GoFundMe. winter term was the selection of Middle Finally, students capped off the year with the kids (daughter and grandson & his family) is so much better than taking planes. Thinking of around 50%. Not bad. I will deeply miss our retiring? If you like the Oakwood style of living in a caring and supportive community, you will Schooler Trudy Poux to the prestigious performances at the Middle School Moving 1950 1963 classmates who have “passed on” as well as those feel at home here. The Visual Arts department published All-Dutchess County Junior High Chorus. Up ceremony and graduation. Youyin Joan Guzy Gold – I’m keeping very busy here at Betheda Rosenfeld Shuman – After a 9 month fight who, for whatever reason, “passed up” this gath- 1955 the third volume of "Oakword" in June, "Benna" Su ’19 provided piano music for the Friends House in Santa Rosa, CA. Being near against liver and kidney cancer, my husband died ering. For the latter, I wish a speedy recovery, Richard Wood – I enjoy living in Gettysburg, PA. which featured the visual and literary In the spring, Oakwood hosted a rock middle school students and their families, the kids (daughter and grandson & his family) is on December 14, 2016. My children and grand- safe travels home, and hope that we get to see/ work of thirty upper school students. festival, which featured student bands and the Oakwood Orchestra performed 1956so much better than taking planes. Thinking of children have been so helpful and try to visit visit with you at a future date. Know that you David White – Still playing tennis in Houston. Finally an art exhibition installed spring from the greater New York Metropolitan at the upper school ceremony along retiring? If you like the Oakwood style of living often. I’m so glad that they live close by. My are loved. term in Collins Library featured work area, including Willow Bennison's ’20 with a joint student-faculty choir, which in a caring and supportive community, you will Oakwood friends have been in contact and that by Drawing students from winter term, critically acclaimed group, Harsh Crowd. performed Beyoncé's hit song "I Was Here." feel at home here. means so much to me. Those friendships are as 1969 as well as by Portfolio Art students. The following month, a cast of twelve Although quite a few skilled musicians close as they were when we were at Oakwood – I felt AWOL when Anne Micheaux Akwari, M.D. students performed my own new musical, graduated that day, the future looks bright 1955 in the sixties! I saw my friends Adelia Greer and Bill and Jim 1967 Stockholm Syndrome, which combined the as the music department begins looking Richard Wood – I enjoy living in Gettysburg, PA. Howe in the winter Oak Leaves without thme! So, Steve Jones – Thanks to Lydia, Janet, Phil & Chris for their work on the 50 reunion. Sorry I music of the Swedish rock group Roxette ahead to the 2017-2018 academic year. 1965 can’t be therehere in person,I am but with I am there my in spirit.two I willgrandsons, always be grateful Austin for the generousand 1956 Wilson Sheldon Jr. – I retired December 31, 2016support andCameron. friendship I foundFortunately, at Oakwood. they live only an hour David White – Still playing tennis in Houston. after 34 years at Friends Homes in GreensboroNancy Leopitziaway-Wawrla with – Themy number son, of classmatesChidi, attendingand his our 50wife,th reunion Anna. appears to be NC as the CEO. It provided a good life for myaround 50%.Our Not daughter, bad. I will deeply Christiana, miss our classmates is a whopediatrics have “passed intern on” as well at as those 1957 family and me and I feel fortunate to have hadwho, for Seattlewhatever reason,Children’s “passed up Hospital,” this gathering. a Forgreat the latter, place, I wish buta speedy too recovery, 1957 th safe travels home, and hope that we get to see/visit with you at a future date. Know that you Diane DeMask Lyonsth – Sorry to miss the 60 . such a positive work environment for the bulk far from us! My work of the past 15 years has Diane DeMask Lyons – Sorry to miss the 60 . Hard to believe it’s been 60 years. I’ve just are loved. returned from aHard South American to believe trip. Easter it’s Island been was especially 60 years. interesting. I’ve just re- of my career. As a result of my retirement I have been coaching physician colleagues around their turned from a South American trip. Easter Island spent my summer on Birch Island on Upper Sara - 1969 professional lives and communication. Onye is was especially interesting. nac Lake in NY. Birch Island has many OakwoodAnne Micheauxwell andAkwari, remains M.D.- I felt AWOLon the when surgical I saw my friends faculty Adelia Greerat Duke. and Bill and Jim connections. My parents bought it in 1955 alongHowe in Ithe am winter active Oak Leaves in Quaker without me! meeting. So, here I am Much with my twogratitude grandsons, forAustin and Cameron. Fortunately, they live only an hour away with my son, Chidi, and his wife, Anna. Our Hugo Sonnenschein visited with Eric Golden in with 4 other families. One family was Bill Clarkdaughter, Oakwood Christiana, is a pediatricsintroducing intern at Seattleme to Children’s Quakerism! Hospital, a great I hope place, but too Hugo SonnenscheinWashington visited with Eric D.C. Golden in Washington D.C. former Headmaster at Oakwood, Bill Butterfieldfar from everyoneus! My work of beginsthe past 15 yearspreparing has been coaching to attend physician our colleagues 50th(!) around their professional lives and communication. Onye is well and remains on the surgical faculty at Duke. former teacher and coach at Oakwood, TomI am activereunion. in Quaker meeting. I would Much love gratitude for for usOakwood all to introducing return. me to Quakerism! I Smith neighbor in Kingwood Park whose 2 chilhope- everyone begins preparing to attend our 50th (!) reunion. I would love for us all to return. dren, Donna and Craig, went to Oakwood and my family who has a long history with Oakwood. It has been a beautiful summer in the Adiron- dacks (although a little rainy) and the first time in my life I have spent more than 2 weeks here. My best to anyone I knew while attending Oakwood from 1961-1965.

“ Oakwood taught me the value of introspection and meditation.”

Orion “Skip” Ayer, Jr. ’65 Middle Schoolers visit the Storm King Art Center

1958 Melissa Gatling Kaufmann Buhler – Busy, Busy living in Westminster Shores Active Independent Adult Community in St. Petersburg, Fl. Life and health are good on the balmy shores of Tampa Bay. Writing, volunteering, supporting community events including planning. Would love to hear from my classmates in the area. 4 Summer 2017 NEWSLETTER FOR ALUMNI AND MEMBERS OF THE OAKWOOD FRIENDS COMMUNITY CELEBRATING OVER 210 YEARS OF FRIENDS EDUCATION IN THE HUDSON VALLEY Summer 2017 13

1974 2007 2011 Barrett Nnoka visited with Artie Washburn in Phil- Congratulations to Sarah Robbins on her marriage Lucia O'Barr has been accepted to the University Sports adelphia. Art served on Oakwood’s board to Jasen Weers on May 28, 2017. Sarah graduated of Copenhagen for a Master's degree in Anthro- By: Charlie Butts, Athletic Director of managers and was a member of the Oakwood from Michigan State University College of Human pology, specializing in Anthropology of Health. 1974 faculty along with his wife Parker. Medicine and will begin a Family Medicine resi- Her intention is to continue the research she Looking back at the 2016-17 athletic year, Barrett Nnoka visited with Artie Washburn in Philadelphia. Art is a former teacher and served on the Oakwood Board of Managers. dency at Sparrow Hospital in Lansing, MI. started in South Africa during her year abroad at we had a total of 18 interscholastic teams 1976 Smith. and 12 of them were at the varsity level. It Bill Bogle Jr. ’76, wife Carol and son Justin Bogle was a busy year as we had a total of 270 1976 Bill Bogle’11 Jr. ’76 celebrating, wife Carol and the son Justinmarriage Bogle ’ 11of celebrating Emily Bogle the marriage '07 to of Emily Bogle Eli Nobiletti has joined the staff of the Woodhall games, matches, and meets. All upper class ’07 in April.Tom Sciotto in March. School in Bethlehem, CT and will be teaching students at Oakwood Friends are required Chemistry! to be on an interscholastic team for at least one of our three terms. Our students, how- 2013 ever, chose to exceed this requirement. Al- Congratulations to our recent college graduates: most 57% played on two teams and 23% Ana He Gu from University of Virginia; Henry played all three terms. This commitment by Harms from Allegheny College; and Heather our student athletes led to some great re- Stratica from Worcester Polytechnic Institute. sults. At the varsity level, 8 of our 12 teams Girls Varsity Basketball made it to the Hudson Valley Athletic League Alyssa Spencer graduated from Clark and is (HVAL) championship finals and two won the Assistant Director for Stewardship in Clark championships. Now for some highlights: playoffs. Advancing to the championship Chad Cianfrani were excited to see the co- game against Storm King, the Lady Lions ran ed squad run hard and play with spirit. The University’s Development office. up a big lead at the half and then coasted varsity dominated the league with the ex- 2008 In the fall, Girls Cross Country captured the Angela Cuneo – On July 8th I gave birth to a HVAL championship and this was covered in to a 38-22 win. It was the second straight ception of our rival Marvelwood, who won season that the team was undefeated in both the championship match in a hard fought happy and healthy baby boy Leonardo Giovanni our last Oakleaves. For the second straight weighing 6lbs 9 oz. I am now a stay at home the HVAL regular season and playoffs. Also contest. Girls Varsity Tennis also made it to year, Girls Varsity Soccer made it to the HVAL mom to my wonderful son. championship game. To get there, they had for the second straight year, the team was the championship, besting Marvelwood in 1993 1993 one of 8 schools selected to play in the New the semi-finals before falling to Storm King. to go on the road and beat #2 seed Marvel- Congratulations to Sakima Brown on her wedding wood 1-0 in a tense defensive struggle. In the England tournament. As the #5 seed, we had to Kyle McClinton on April 24, 2017! Congratulations to Sakima Brown on her wedding to Kyle McClinton on April 24, 2017! championship final, the defending champs to play #4 seed Covenant Christian Acade- One other spring team must be mentioned. lost to a very strong, undefeated Storm King my of Peabody, MA. At neutral site Loomis For many years, our baseball team has been squad. Throughout the season, senior lead- Chaffee, we played our best game of the struggling to find wins. This year, things ership led the way. Captains Bianca Luna- year beating CCA 46-28. Unfortunately, we turned around with a 5-5 record. We had Lupercio and Nai’lah Taariq were both first then lost to #1 seed Dublin School who sim- some strong returners in seniors Jabreel Har- 2008 ply had too much firepower. Throughout the rell and Mac Hales, along with 8th grader team HVAL all-stars and Bianca was named graduated from Vassar and has year, we had strong rebounding and scor- Philip Stephens. To the mix were added Rachel Plotkin the team’s MVP. Zo DiSanto also earned first Jessica Cuneo - On July 8th I gave birth to a happy and healthy baby boy Leonardojoined Giovanni the staff of the Woodhall School in Bethle- ing inside from juniors Briana Uket and Shai sophomore Xiao Kirchner, junior Trevor team HVAL honors while Enid Swatson and weighing 6lbs 9 oz. I am now a stay at home mom to my wonderful son. hem, CT and will be teaching Spanish. Black Bird. They were both selected as first Mooney, and senior Eisei Maeyama. The po- Asha Amberslie were selected to the second team. These seniors will be sorely missed. team HVAL all-stars, New England all-stars, tential for wins was evident from the begin- and they were the co-MVPs of the team. In ning and the enthusiasm spread through- Rui Ma (Skylar) visited campus with her husband, a great honor, Briana was also selected as out the entire team. We gave out two Most Naizhen, in June. She will be moving to Brussels In the winter term, Boys Varsity Basketball shortly to pursue a graduate degree in math. and Girls Varsity Basketball continued to the HVAL Player of the Year. They were not Improved Player Awards this year and Mac Rachel Plotkin graduated from Vassar and has joined the staff of the Woodhall School in alone however on the first team as they were was one of them. An average hitter in past 2009 play at a high level. The boys finished sec- Congratulations to Bethlehem,on her marriage CT and will be teaching Spanish. joined by senior forward Mimi Taariq. Mimi seasons, he evolved into one of our best Erin Paterson ond in the HVAL and made it to the cham- to Wesley Buley ’07. pionship game for the second straight year. was a potent scorer and stout defender so hitters. In our signature game of the season Rui Ma (Skylar) visited campus with her husband, Naizhen, in June. She will be moving to our opponents often had trouble scoring in- against Faith Christian, we came back from In this game, they lost to Storm King who has been namedBrussels to the shortly Dean’s to pursue a graduate degree in math. Congratulations Skylar! side. Named to the second team was senior three deficits and, in extra innings, Mac de- Peter Zimmermann were undefeated in the league and defend- List at NYU Tisch School of the Arts for the 2016- Bianca Luna-Lupercio who was able to hit the livered the two out, run scoring hit that tied ing New England champions. Despite the 2017 academic year! After several gap years spent three point shot and play aggressive in-your- the game. Trevor later scored for the win. 2009 loss, the team still earned a spot in the pres- working and taking courses in NYC, Peter trans- face defense. Two others were honorable The Coaches Award went to Xiao. He was Congratulations to Erin Paterson on her marriage to Wesley Buley ’07. tigious New England tournament. After a ferred from Sarah Lawrence College to NYU. He’s mention HVAL all-stars. Senior Nai’Lah Taariq a terrific team member and constantly im- very long bus ride, they had to play Bancroft majoring in dramatic writing, with a specialization had an accurate outside shot and also used proving catcher. He competed with a steady 2004 School on their home court and fell 82-66. in screen Peterwriting Zimmermann for television has been namedand tofilm. the Dean’s He Listis at NYU Tisch School of the Arts for the her speed to beat her defenders to the bas- energy that was a grounding influence on Sasha Skulsky started a new position as Director Three team members earned HVAL all-star 2004 now in his2016 senior-2017 yearacademic and year scheduled! After several to gap graduate years spent working and taking courses in NYC, ket. Another senior, Alex Weinraub was the some of his more hot tempered teammates. of Student Life & Student Health and Counseling honors. Senior Jabreel Harrell used his quick- Congratulations to Sasha Skulsky on her new position as Director of Studentin May Life & 2018.StudentPeter transferred from Sarah Lawrence College to NYU. He’s majoring in dramatic writing, with best pure shooter on the team and she was One other player to mention was our other at HealthWest and Nottingham Counseling at WestAcademy Nottingham in AcademyMaryland. in Maryland. a specialization in screen writing for television and film. He is now in his senior year and ness and all around play to gain a spot on not afraid to take, and make, the clutch shot. Most Improved Award winner. Senior Alex scheduled to graduate in May 2018. the first team. Senior Dylan Bimka-Wintrob 2005 2010 Gribas, with little prior baseball experience, 2005 was 3-point threat and was selected to the Jessica Cuneo with Sam, the son of Oakwood’s In the spring term, three of our teams made evolved into a respectable hitter and went 3 HesterHester Sachse recently recently bought bought a house in aChestertown, house in MD Ches where- she works in the loca2010l wine second team. Joining Dylan on the second Associate Director of Development and Alumni it to the HVAL finals. Girls Varsity Softball, for 4 with 4 RBI's in our playoff win against tertown,and cheese MD shop, where and is starting she aworks new position in the as Executive local wineManager at the Church Hill Theatre 2014 team was talented newcomer Trevor Mooney in nearby Church Hill, MD. She also spends a good deal of time volunteeringAffairs with the Julie Okoniewski, in Washington, DC, Xuanye Zhang (DanDan) came to visit her advisor Coed Varsity Ultimate, and Girls Varsity Ten- Storm King. Finally, two other gratifying and cheese shop, and is starting a new position as Jessica Cuneo with Sam, the son of Oakwood’s Associate Director of Development and Alumni who led the team in scoring from both in- Chestertown Harry Potter Festival (October 6th and 7th this year). Congratulationswhere she Hester! lives and works with fellow alum, Jon Bill Doolittle on May 14th before she went back to side and long range. Jabreel and Trevor nis all played for the championship, but wins were against Storm King, another team Executive Manager at the Church Hill Theatre in Affairs Julie Okoniewski, in Washington, DC, where she lives and works with fellow alum, Jon Pike ‘11 . ’11. China for the summer. were selected as co-MVPs of the team. Fi- in each case they lost going up against an who had handled us easily in prior years. nearby2007 Church Hill, MD. She also spends a good 2014 nally, two others received HVAL honorable undefeated team. The softball team battled The first win was a regular season win and deal of time volunteering with the Chestertown Xuanye Zhang (DanDan) came to visit her advisor Bill Doolittle on May 14th before she went mention recognition. Sophomore Yifeng some injuries, but it started to come togeth- the other was our first playoff win in years. Harry Potter Festival (October 6 and 7 this year). back to China for the summer. Qian displayed a deft scoring touch from the er at the end of the season. After losing to baseline, and senior Mac Hales tormented PDS twice in the regular season, we hand- The coach of both Boys Varsity Basketball “The education my sons received at Oakwood the opposition with his relentless defense. ily beat them 20-6 in the HVAL semi-finals. and Baseball was Ted Lonczak who gradu- In this game, sophomore Caitlin Amann ated from Oakwood Friends in 2008 and was not limited to academics. Girls Varsity Basketball started their season pitched a 4 hitter and struck out 10 in 5 in- then returned to work here 4 years ago. He They learned to think critically, communicate with a tense, one point overtime win at Faith nings of work. Senior Sumi Cruz was the has been an important and integral factor in thoughtfully, and have respect for the world Christian. After that nail biter, the team did hitting star of the game going 5 for 5 with the success of our athletic program, but has and all of its inhabitants.” not have another close game in the league. 8 RBIs. Ultimate Frisbee entered its 15th now chosen to move on. Everyone here will They finished the HVAL regular season un- season of HVAL play this season. Despite miss Teddy and we wish him the best.. Amy Grice, parent, defeated and were the #1 seed in the HVAL a rebuilding year, coaches Jon Pesner and Sam ’09 and Jacob Leach ‘11

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Lucia O'Barr has been accepted to the University of Copenhagen for a Master's degree in Anthropology, specializing in Anthropology of Health. Her intention is to continue the research she started in South Africa during her year abroad at Smith. Congratulations to Eli Nobiletti who has joined the staff of the Woodhall School in Bethlehem, CT and will be teaching Chemistry!

2013 2016 Congratulations to our recent college graduates: Ana He Gu from University of Virginia; Henry Jacky Jin - and his parents were vacationing in Bar Harbor and Acadia National Park, and Harms from Allegheny College; and Heather Stratica from Worcester Polytechnic Institute. stopped by for a visit with Bill & Nancy Doolittle in Naples. Jacky is very happy at Boston

Alyssa Spencer graduated from Clark and is the Assistant Director for Stewardship in Clark University where he is studying Computer Engineering. University’s Development office. Congratulations Alyssa! 14 Summer 2017 NEWSLETTER FOR ALUMNI AND MEMBERS OF THE OAKWOOD FRIENDS COMMUNITY CELEBRATING OVER 210 YEARS OF FRIENDS EDUCATION IN THE HUDSON VALLEY Summer 2017 3

2016 Jacky Jin – and his parents were vacationing in Bar My Experience as a Sseko Designs Fellow My Interview with Juan Williams ’72 Harbor and Acadia National Park, and stopped by By: Caroline Brevetti ’07 for a visit with Bill & Nancy Doolittle in Naples. By: Bianca Luna-Lupercio ’17 Jacky is very happy at Boston University where [email protected] he is studying Computer Engineering. Sseko Designs is a footwear and accessories When I met Juan Williams, I was taken company based in Uganda with a special mis- aback by his casual swagger. I didn’t think sion to create opportunity for women glob- someone - let alone a nationally known ally. The company provides employment and journalist, author, political analyst, and re- scholarships to women in Uganda who are porter - who had interviewed distinguished working to pursue their dreams and overcome figures such as Barack Obama, Bill Clinton, poverty. I became a Fellow at Sseko Designs George W. Bush, and George H.W. Bush, in January 2016. At first, I became a Fellow could be so mellow. The formal interview because it gave me a chance to give back to I thought I was going to conduct soon be- a community – a value instilled in me at Oak- came a casual conversation as we shared our wood. Since then, I have realized how strong- immigrant family background, reminisced ly I feel about education being offered to all about our hometowns (his being Brooklyn, and how an education for one young woman mine being Los Angeles), and drew paral- can have an impact on an entire community. lel Oakwood experiences, involving ath- letics, the arts, and our academic interests. Sseko employs high potential young women The questions I wanted to ask Juan were in Uganda during the 9 month gap between Caroline Brevetti ’07 making sandals with Omega not Google questions, in the sense where Friends & Faculty News high school and university. The gap is de- Congratulations: one could simply search on the internet for Faculty & Friends: signed so that high school graduates can get the answer. Rather, they were questions of Rex and Karen Butt for receiving the Volunteers of jobs to pay for their education. However, taught us how to make the beautiful sandals depth - of genuine curiosity - about how Juan Williams speaking with Bianca Luna-Lupercio ’17 Congratulationsthe Year: award at the Pride Center in Burlington, Uganda is a patriarchal society so the jobs go they make every day. We laughed and we Rex and Karen Butt for receiving the Volunteers of the Year award at the Pride Center in Oakwood still played a role in his life, even VT, their new home. to men before women, and therefore most cried and I got to see their hard work and Burlington, VT, their new home. with the glitz and glamour of national fame. women do not continue on to university. determination in person. I can now say that I because that’s the framework - that’s the of a good basketball team (shooting guard). Former boardFormer members board Eleanor members and Martin Eleanor Charwat and(parents Martin of Rebecc Chara Owens- '94)Sseko on hires university bound women who have friends in Uganda, who I keep in touch paradigm of race in America, you’re black At that time, Oakwood didn’t have a great receivingwat the Li(parentsfetime Achievement of Rebecca Award Owensfrom Family ’94) Services on inreceiving Poughkeepsie onwork April 27, for the 9 month gap and then are giv- with, and who I cheer on from afar. We are Although a graduate of the class of ’72, much or you’re white, especially at that time. reputation in sports. But we had a few years, 2017. of what Juan said resonated with me in pres- a good run at basketball. I think all of those the Lifetime Achievement Award from Family Ser- en a scholarship for university. The company half a world away from each other, but what ent terms, such as what Oakwood offered vices in Poughkeepsie on April 27, 2017. also employs older women from all walks of connects us is that we are dreamers and do- I think now with Latinos being the second things were life opening opportunities for Oakwood Music Director Ted Messerschmidt and wife, Rosemary, on their recent wedding!life. These women are the backbone of the ers who believe that “be brave” are words him, how he grew through the Quaker testi- largest majority, there’s much more varia- me in terms of, “I can do this” and “I can Oakwood Music Director Ted Messerschmidt and workshop and mentor the young women. All to live by and “like a girl” is a compliment. monies, and how he came to find his voice tion and gradation of, “Oh yeah, this is a La- play in the larger world,” if you will, on the wife, Rosemary, on their recent wedding! the women are given a dignified workplace, here. As a member of the class of 2017, I tino, not a black person.” But there’s a big di- larger stage. It opened my mind to the idea health benefits, maternity leave, and edu- After university, these women will bring back can sincerely echo the sentiments that Juan vide still in the country between being white of what I could do in the larger world, who cational courses on such topics as computer their new skills to their communities, many shared during his last visit to campus - “Oak- and being non-white. And, so for me, it was I could be. Oakwood opened my eyes, but skills, resume writing, and personal finances. of which are small rural villages. This is how wood is where I got a sense of life’s poten- like, I identify with the black experience as a then I think, opened windows and doors that change begins. These women will one day tial and where I learned the Quaker spirit of black person, even though I come from this I could go through and say, “I can do it.” In April, I was given the opportunity to go to be lawyers, doctors, engineers, politicians, caring.” Excerpts from my interview follow. Latin country. My dad was born in Jamaica It wasn’t one specific experience, it was be- Uganda to meet my co-workers in Kampala, and most importantly, leaders in their com- and my mother in Panama and so, there’s ing here. People took time, worked with me, who are truly extraordinary. They welcomed munities. Working for Sseko has reignited a How did your passion for civil rights begin, this whole West Indian aspect to the Latin believed in me. It’s not that there weren’t us into their homes and cooked us delicious fire within me to use my voice and my privi- and what part did Oakwood play in it? experience. I remember, once reading in the teachers like that in public schools, but be- meals, they shared their life stories, and they lege to help others in whatever way I can. “Growing up in Brooklyn, until I came to New York Times, a story about two friends cause this is a smaller place and there’s Oakwood, was growing up in a very tu- who fled Cuba - one was black and one was such an emphasis on community, I think multuous time, in terms of racial relations white in terms of skin color. They were the there was more attention to me and I just drank it up. I was like a sponge for that.” in the United States. I was 10 years old in best of friends from childhood, but when they Libby Moroff Leadership Program 1964. That was the year the Civil Rights Act got to the United States, the racial difference Rumor has it that you had an afro back in the was passed, 1965 the Voting Rights Act, 1968 proved too large that they were accepted in day when you attended Oakwood. Obviously, a Margaret Moroff and Diane Moroff, daugh- Dr. King’s assassination. Even before that, in different communities, in different times, lot has changed. What have you seen or felt that Former board member Jim Olson received the ters of Saul and Libby Moroff ’54, visited ‘63, Malcom X is assassinated. So, there’s a in different places, and they grew apart. 2017 Arnold Goodman Life-time Achievement campus on June 1st for lunch and conver- lot going on, but I’m not of age to be an activ- is still the same here at Oakwood? Award from the United Nations Association Na- “The students. I think we’re more multicul- sation with members of the 2017-2018 co- ist or involved. But, being in a working class And, so, I think for me it was learning how tional Council. The award was presented to Jim hort of The Libby Moroff Leadership Pro- tural today, but, what I notice is - and I don’t black neighborhood in Brooklyn, New York, to be - how to accept me in this other frame- at the Leadership Summit in Washington, D.C. on gram. The program was initiated last year know if it’s from meeting you, or even the you’re also dealing with the black Muslims work. It was just black or white, and then middle school students down by the chicken June 12, 2017 and recognizes outstanding volun- through a grant from the Phyllis and How- standing on the street corners, with the bean Former board member Jim Olson who received the 2017 Arnold Goodman Life-time dealing with being black in this society, and coop, or the baseball players I ran into yes- teer leadership among the chapters and divisions ard Schwartz Philanthropic Fund and gener- pies and the “Muhammad Speaks.” You’re Achievementof UNA-USA. Award from the United Nations Association National Council. Theous award gifts was from family and friends to create a in that Brooklyn, urban, big city context. terday - that there still is this sense of small presented to Jim at the Leadership Summit in Washington, D.C. on June 12, 2017 and dealing with a lot of the organized church And then, keeping those thoughts about, community, where everyone is of value and permanent tribute to Libby’s life and work. community, coming together around Civil recognizesFormer outstanding Oakwood volunteer Music leadership Director, among the chapters and divisions, of UNA-USA. what does it mean to be racially aware? Part people are engaged. There are people who Vince Vincent The program will specifically focus on em- Rights issues - that was the news, that was is working as the Assistant Head of School for the Margaret Moroff and Diane Moroff of this ongoing effort to change America for are struggling here, I would imagine, but Former Oakwood Music Director, Vince Vincent, is working as the Assistant Headpowering of School for students through hands on ex- the temperature of the time! Even the music the WoodhallWoodhall School School in Bethlehem, in Bethlehem, CT. Congratulations, CT. Vince! with Chad Cianfrani the better. I really think that is the seedbed in my little time here, all I’m saying is that ploration of issues related to leadership, - if you’re listening to Motown, so much of of my interest which has become a lifelong young people that I’ve run into, strike me social justice, civic engagement and service both in and outside of the classroom en- it is about what’s going on. If you’re listen- interest in Civil Rights and race, and how as young Juan Williams. They’re engaged, “The single most important result of a Quaker learning. In the classroom, all 10th grad- vironment. The group will meet regularly ing to Bob Dylan’s “The Times They Are A we deal with racial difference in America.” they’re in place, they have a certain cyni- ers at Oakwood will participate in a semes- outside of class hours like many of our stu- Changin’,” that was the moment. And for education is to provide each student a sense of cism about them that young people have - but ter long Leadership & Social Justice course dent led organizations. Group meetings will me, to try to understand what it meant to How did Oakwood give you a sense of life’s there’s much more. I think this sets Oakwood self and self-worth. Such an understanding of designed to increase their understanding include guest speakers and discussions as be coming from a Central American coun- potential? apart from other places - there’s much more one’s self is vital for having a perspective on of their own leadership style and potential well as time for social justice project devel- try, with mom and brother and sister, speak- “I had many experiences. As I said earlier, of the sincerity about trying to be yourself in relation to a myriad of social justice is- life and where we might fit into the opment. Program participants will also be ing Spanish at home and all that. Then, in things like being student body leader, and and trying to be of value to a community, sues. After completing the course, students encouraged to advocate for issues impor- the American context to be black. In other editor of the paper, and learning that I was and believing in community and believ- “the now” and “the future.” will be able to request to be a part of the tant to them through correspondence and words, in Panama, I would’ve been a dark a good cross country runner, and having ing in the idea of progress and positivity. program. Once selected, they will have meetings with elected officials, as well as skin Panamanian. But here, I was black the opportunity and becoming the captain That’s the Oakwood experience for me.” Bob Hidell, former faculty an opportunity to learn about these issues visits to Albany and/or Washington, DC. 2 Summer 2017 NEWSLETTER FOR ALUMNI AND MEMBERS OF THE OAKWOOD FRIENDS COMMUNITY CELEBRATING OVER 210 YEARS OF FRIENDS EDUCATION IN THE HUDSON VALLEY Summer 2017 15

Looking Up and Looking Forward Chris Ishimwe ’18 Remembering by Chad Cianfrani, Head of School New Clerk A giddy kid was running around campus Susannah (Sukey) Stone Eldridge ’59 a few weeks ago sharing pairs of two- dollar solar glasses with anyone he could A memorial service will be held to cele- (Midge) Stone Leavitt ’62, and her step-moth- IN MEMORY find. Pulling co-workers off tractors and brate the life of Susannah Stone Eldridge on er, Jeannette Stone. She is survived and loving- lawnmowers, interrupting the stone mason Saturday, November 25th, 2:00 pm, in the ly remembered by her older sister, Deborah Shirley Baumbusch Bergmann ’39 pouring a new sidewalk, grabbing faculty, Meeting Room at Oakwood Friends School. Stone ’58, her nephew, Erik Nelson ’82, and October 27, 2016 administrators and parents who were pick- many other family members and friends. ing up children from summer camp; ev- Susannah passed away on July 28, 2017. Arik Brissenden ’43 eryone had a similar awed reaction when She retired several years ago from teaching January 6, 2016 viewing the 75% eclipse for the first time. at The Children’s Preschool in New Haven, From the crescent shaped shadows cast to where she drew on her love of children and George Kouri ’46 the visible dip in the solar array produc- families and her deep understanding of child tion to the live footage from multiple cit- May 19, 2017 development. Previously she had taught at ies across the country, we took a few mo- the Yale Divinity Nursery School and di- ments to pause in that collective experience. Eleanor Teidemann Betts ’53 Looking up at the solar eclipse on August 21st rected Leila Day, a preschool also located in New Haven. Before coming to New Haven October 31, 2016 from Philadelphia, Susannah was co-director occasionally caught in the currents and ed- of Hall Mercer Hospital’s Center for Children Mary Barnard Homans ’53 dies of these waters. Although sometime as- and Families, an innovative program to sup- June 12, 2017 sociated with chaos and unrest, turbulence Chris Ishimwe ’18 with his brother port parents with young children at risk. also acts as a powerful agent of change at Parfait Bizimana ’16 Michael Heningburg ’55 points of instability. Agitation promotes Sukey (as her family and childhood friends August 23, 2016 mixing of ideas, dissipates energy and tends Chris Ishimwe ’18 has been selected by knew her) was a voracious reader and an towards a state of order. The same holds the school community to serve as student enthusiastic traveler and was a loving fam- Susannah ‘Sukey’ Stone Eldridge ’59 true whether that turbulence arises from clerk for 2017-2018. In a first for Oakwood, ily member and friend. She will long be July 28, 2017 vortex shedding off a wingtip or from con- Chris is following in the leadership foot- remembered for her sweet kindness, her flicting viewpoints on the national stage. In steps of his older brother, Parfait Bizimana, love of theater, her wonderful sense of Deborah Stone ’58 with her sister who served as student clerk in 2015-2016. Linda Smith Quandt ’67 either case, I see the Oakwood faculty as humor and skill as a joke and story teller, Susannah Stone Eldridge ’59 June 28, 2017 uniquely positioned to help our communi- for her abhorrence of unfairness and cru- ty question, engage, reflect, learn and act. Chris is an international student from Ki- elty, her passionate engagement with life. gali, Rwanda, and Oakwood is his home Barbara Beasley Sorlien ’56 Those few moments running around sharing As new families join returning families, we away from home. In addition to his rigorous April 5, 2017 She grew up in Poughkeepsie, NY, where glasses with anyone I could find reminded me draw on our collective strengths and talents, academic schedule, he is fully immersed in her father taught at Vassar College and her of the joys, possibilities and responsibilities listening deeply to one another and learn- the life of the school. From his first days on “Friendships, including those going back Ariana Stirling Withers ’60 mother taught at Poughkeepsie Day School, to our years at Oakwood (and before!), are associated with being part of the Oakwood ing together. A deliberate focus on intel- campus, he felt glad to be part of a friendly which she and her sisters attended. After May 21, 2015 surely one of life’s chief delights. They have community. Just as we gathered to look sky- lectual curiosity, engagement, acceptance, community where everyone knows everyone graduation from Oakwood Friends School ward that day, our students have once again light and love help guide our vision and pro- else, and he quickly took on leadership roles: in 1959, she went to Swarthmore College, been an enduring source of loving-kindness, Daniel Herzog ’70 gathered on campus bringing with them a vide a strong foundation for the year ahead. co-clerk of the sophomore class, captain of graduating in 1963. She also held a mas- of hilarity, and of the courage to go on.” May 30, 2017 diversity of talents, experience, cultures and This fuels my optimism and fills me with the boys’ cross-country team, service on the ter’s degree in Early Childhood Education. dreams. Each day begins with the entire every confidence as we take the first steps judicial committee, proctor in the dorm, and Susannah Stone Eldridge Laura Louise Noland ’77 community in the meeting room. A few mo- into this new academic year together. student ambassador for the admissions office. Sukey was predeceased by her parents, L. in the 1959 class reunion booklet November 16, 2016 ments of silence are followed by announce- Joseph and Beatrice Stone, by her husband, ments, some light and celebratory, others In his application to serve as clerk, Chris de- Donald Daley, by her younger sister, Miriam emotional and reflective. This short time to- scribed his expectations: “The student clerk John Streetz gether frames our day, strengthens our com- is a leader in the school and a good ambas- March 18, 2017 munity and centers us for the work ahead. sador outside of it. I believe that the clerk is Former Faculty the voice of the student body and a bridge And so, we begin this year with a great through which students can communicate Meeting Minutes continued from page 10 sense of optimism and excitement. As we with faculty. The clerk has the responsibility to lead daily and weekly school events such think critically across disciplines, we also in Brooklyn, N.Y. Additional gatherings Najah introduced head of school, Chad Send us your class notes & photos challenge ourselves to think inclusively. as collection and community meeting. The and service days were hosted by the Young Cianfrani. Chad spoke about initiatives at the When our middle school students study clerk should be kind, affable, and respect- Alumni Committee in New York City. She school during the last school year and then [email protected] sustainable practices in the greenhouse, ful to everyone in the community, whether also recognized journalist Juan Williams presented the Distinguished Alumni Award they are challenged to discuss the impact young or old. The clerk sets the mood for ’72 who presented the Dash Davis Gleiter to Lewis Weinstein ’57. He also recognized of food scarcity and distribution within the the day at Collection, and represents the Lecture on Social Justice; Emily Atkin ’07, a the 60th, 50th, 30th and 25th reunion classes Hudson Valley. When upper school stu- school in a positive light off campus.” Chris political reporter in Washington, D.C., who and reviewed the schedule of the day. Oak Leaves dents study economics and international re- feels comfortable interacting with his class- was the guest speaker at winter reunion Special recognition was given to F. Stewart Summer 2017 lations, they benefit from a global perspec- mates, faculty and guests. He’s a thoughtful in January; and Joseph Jankovsky who Stover ’42 on the occasion of his 75th reunion. tive with classmates from five continents. listener and values the opinions of others. presented the Herzog Lecture on Innovation, The meeting closed with silent worship. a series initiated by Daniel Herzog ’70. ELAINE MILES This year our students will be asked to fo- “I am very eager for the upcoming school year Director of Development & Alumni Affairs cus not only on our classroom learning, but and excited about my new role as clerk. I will She concluded her remarks with the roll on our responsibility as a Friends school Chad touring the campus with guest speaker get the opportunity to express my gratitude Julie Okoniewski out of a new mentoring initiative for Thank you to six generous alums who and our place within the larger commu- Juan Williams ’72 on May 2nd toward the Oakwood community through Associate Director of Development & alumni and current students. She encour- made donations to the Ruth Craig nity. Friends schools have a long history this role. I am sure we will work to make aged alumni to fill out a survey showing Alumni Affairs Scholarship Fund following the meeting, of navigating turbulent waters. In the aca- the 2017-2018 academic year a great one. I interest in the program after the meet- demic year to come, we may find ourselves wish success to everyone whether it be in the ing. The goal is to have 10 mentee/men- adding $1,150 to the Fund. WENDY GIANGRASSO classroom, on the fields, on the courts, or in Assistant Director of Development & tor pairs working together by May 2018. Alumni Affairs any of our individual pursuits. Thank you!” Nonprofit Org. US POSTAGE PAID Summer 2017 Permit No. 259 Newburgh, NY

Address Service Requested ONEWSLETTER FROMa OAKWOODk FRIENDS SCHOOL • CELEBRATINLG OVER e210 YEARS OaF FRIENDS EveDUCATION IN THE HUDSOsN VALLEY 2017-2018 Fall/Winter School Calendar October 24 Work Share Day October 27 Parents’ Weekend Reception at Oakwood Celebrates New Solar Array Head’s House, 4:00pm November 8 Breakfast with the Head, 8:30am leave eventually, and hopefully have found won- and application of Quaker meeting process, November 10 Parent Dinner, 6:00pm derful new nesting sites elsewhere on our campus. the board wholeheartedly chose to proceed. November 10-11 Fall Production, 7:30pm It is that kind of long-term, forward think- December 3 11th Grade College Planning & Chad talked about the tangible benefits of this ing that creates and sustains great institutions. Family Dinner project – reducing Oakwood’s energy costs and, consistent with our Quaker-based com- Thank you all for coming.” December 12 Holiday Concert, 7:00pm mitment to stewardship, dramatically reduc- January 5 Winter Reunion ing Oakwood’s carbon footprint. I would January 11 Breakfast with the Head, 8:30am like to talk about this project as a living January 27 Wine Dinner & Auction, 6:30pm demonstration of Quaker decision process. Thank you for your support! February 23 Parent Dinner, 6:00pm Our solar array represents a twenty-five year 2016-2017 Annual Fund February 23- 24 Winter Production, 7:30pm commitment with our commercial partners. Giv- Exceeds Goal! en the long-term implications, Oakwood’s board See Annual Gifts Report Visit us at www.oakwoodfriends.org deliberated in depth about this project over sev- eral meetings, true to the Quaker principle of In center section. avoiding haste when making a decision of great import. In the end, through careful consideration Student Clerk, Mimi Taariq ’17 16 Summer 2017 NEWSLETTER FOR ALUMNI AND MEMBERS OF THE OAKWOOD FRIENDS COMMUNITY On May 12, 2017, Oakwood Friends School cele- brated the official launch of its solar array. Student Jonathan Flaccus ’58 Endows clerk Mimi Taariq ’17 welcomed board members, Oakwood’s Commencement on June 9, 2017 faculty, students, parents, alumni and guests rep- resenting Dutchess County, the Town of Pough- Native American Fund keepsie, New York State (NYSERDA), Central A leadership donor to Oakwood Friends School Hudson, and Earthkind Energy. Don Spencer, over many years, Jonathan Flaccus, class of 1958, president of the board, shared these remarks: decided he wanted to do more to support Oak- wood’s diverse student body. Inspired by the “Welcome everyone. Creating this magnificent so- School’s celebration of Lakota Culture and the lar array required collaboration by many people activism of rising senior, Shai Black Bird, Jona- and constituencies, including the Oakwood board. than found a way to combine his life-long in- terest and concern for the rights of indigenous I would especially like to thank Phil Richmond people with support for the Oakwood com- ’67, who was the architect of this project, and munity by creating the Native American Fund. Fred Doneit, who sweated the details every Income from the fund will provide scholar- step of the way. I would also acknowledge the ship for Native American students at Oakwood tireless help we received from Troy Alexander, and support programming about the culture husband of board member Mary Alexander, and heritage of indigenous people. Last April, who performed our legal review and explained Jonathan joined his friend, Professor John Wil- the multi-section contract with Solar City in lis of Marlboro College, for a visit to campus on ways that the board could readily understand. Earthshare Day where they participated in the raising of an 18’ tipi and discussion of Lakota Chad Cianfrani is too modest to acknowledge his symbols and cosmology. Professor Willis gave own contributions, so I’ll do it. Chad immersed a presentation to the school community about himself into every aspect of this project, from his work as a photographer and the program he scheduling the work, winning favorable intercon- founded, The Exposures Cross-Cultural Youth nect terms from the local utility, securing zoning Creative Arts Exchange. Each year, John brings approvals from the Town of Poughkeepsie, and Brandace Ryles, Jiayu Xu, Yicheng (Mark) Shen, Chujun (Olivia) Qiu, Zo Phia DiSanto, Yanling (Connie) Huang, Malachi (Mac) Hales, students and volunteer staff to the Pine Ridge Bottom Row: amicably and respectfully addressing questions Asha Amberslie Jingyi (Peter) Chen, Moss Sherman, Aminah (Mimi) Taariq, Enid Swatson, Basira Daqiq, Sophie Poux, Siwen (Tanya) Wang, Reservation in South Dakota where they col- 2nd Row: and concerns from our neighbors. What im- Tingjing (Komi) Tong, Xinzhe (Kimi) Jiang Max Newman-Henriquez, Liam Crannell, Phing Ngyuen, Bianca Luna-Lupercio, Jabreel Harrell, laborate with schools and organizations on the 3rd Row: pressed me the most was Chad’s remarkable pa- Alice Flanagan, Mahak Varma, Renjie (Jerry) Shao, Sumara (Sumi) Cruz, Ada Liang, Yuerong (Lydia) Tang, Hunter Ortreger Robert Cheng, reservation to share photography and life stories. 4th Row: tience when we learned that we had to delay site Professor John Willis, Shai Black Bird ’18, and Yinou (Spark) Kong, Cade (CJ) Nutting, Eisei Maeyama, Alexandria Weinraub, Junzhi (Cowley) Chen Owen Sullivan, Khari Wilmore, Top Row: clearance until the bats nesting in our trees left to We are grateful to Jonathan Flaccus for his generosity Jonathan Flaccus ’58 on Earthshare Day in April. Lisandro Chihuahua, Melina Sefuku, Dylan Bimka-Wintrob, Nai'lah Taariq, Matthew Voorhees, Alexander Gribas, Guoqing (James) Zhang, Benjamin go hibernate in caves somewhere. The bats did and care of Oakwood Friends School students. Hrong Not pictured: Zirui (Erwin) Fang, Zaneta Soumbounou and Yumin (Michael) Zhu