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Sklaven-Fragebogen Dieser Fragebogen Dient Dazu, Meinen Sklaven Besser Kennenzulernen Sklaven-Fragebogen Dieser Fragebogen dient dazu, meinen Sklaven besser kennenzulernen. (Vielleicht lernt der Sklave dabei auch etwas über sich selbst dazu!?) Dies ist allerdings kein Bestellzettel! Ich werde die Wünsche des Sklaven berücksichtigen und die Tabus respektieren, jedoch nach meiner eigenen Lust und meinem Ermessen die Session gestalten! Wie lange hast du SM-Erfahrung? Mein erstes Mal Ich bin Anfänger Ich hatte bereits ein paar Sessions Ich habe mehrere Jahre Erfahrung Mein/e erste/s oder eindrücklichste/s Erlebnis/Phantasie Ich denke ich bin in erster Linie: Masochist Devot Diener Fusssklave Stiefellecker Objekt/Gegenstand TV-Zofe/Hure Haustier Klinikpatient Latexobjekt Rollenspieler NS-Toilette KV-Toilette Weiß nicht Fetischist für: Sonstiges: Mein bevorzugtes Outfit im Spiel: Normal bekleidet Total nackt Ledermanschetten Enges Halsband und Leine Masken (diverse vorhanden) Knebel Cockring (eigener) Schwanzriemen und Leine Abgebundene Hoden Frauenkleidung (eigene Kleidung) Frauenschuhe (vorhanden in Gr. 42/43) Halterlose Strümpfe / Strumpfhosen Strumpfhosen KG (eigener) Glänzendes Latex/Lack (eigene Kleidung) Gummikleidung (eigene Kleidung) Duftendes Leder (eigene Kleidung) Ganzkörperanzug (eigene Kleidung) Wünsche an meine Herrin bezüglich Kleidung: Duftendes Leder Glänzendes Lack Anschmiegsames Latex Sexy Business Abendkleid Streetware Sporty Schuhe (Barfuss / Heels / Stiefel / Overkneestiefel / Pumps) Bestrumpft (Strapse / Halterlose Strümpfe / Strumpfhosen) Rollenspiel (Krankenschwester, Polizistin, Lehrerin etc. bitte im Feld unten ausführen): Wünsche zur Frisur (kann jedoch leider nicht immer beachtet werden!): Offen Pferdeschwanz Hochsteckfrisur Ich mag es gedemütigt zu werden: wegen (Un)fähigkeiten wegen Körperlichkeiten mit beschämenden Strafen / Aufgaben mit befohlenen Körperhaltungen durch Vorführung vor anderen Ladies / Personen in der Öffentlichkeit Spuren der Session: Bitte keinerlei Spuren Spuren für ein paar Stunden Spuren für ein paar Tage Langanhaltende Spuren sind als Erinnerung ok und erwünscht Ich stelle mir dass Ende der Session wie folgt vor: Das überlasse ich ganz der Gunst meiner Herrin Ein Orgasmus wäre toll: Masturbation Zwangsentsamung Kein Orgasmus, das Spiel soll über die Session hinaus weitergehen Ein Orgasmus mitten in der Session, die Session wird danach weitergeführt Ich werde gezwungen, mein eigenes Sperma zu schlucken Bei mir bestehen folgende gesundheitliche Risiken: insulinpflichtiger Diabetes hoher Blutdruck früherer Herzinfarkt und/oder Schlaganfall Rückenprobleme, allgemein schnelle Schmerzen in Gelenken, Knien etc. Herzschrittmacher Einnahme von Blutgerinnungs-Medikamenten Asthma Wichtige Allergie (z.B. Latex, Silikon...bitte im Feld unten ausführen) Kreislaufprobleme Sonstiges: Meine Vorlieben, Tabus und bevorzugten Praktiken: Fülle aus: Vorliebe / besondere Vorliebe / Tabu / Vielleicht/ Praktiken unterstreichen oder umkreisen (Mich erregt der Gedanke an folgende Praktiken, aber ich weiß nicht, ob ich diese real erleben möchte mit „Vielleicht“ markieren, dann sprechen wir darüber) (Leer lassen, wenn die Praktik für dich keine Rolle spielt) Ausgeliefertsein Bondage mit Seilen Bondage mit Manschetten Hand und Fussschellen Kopfüber aufhängen Mumifizierung mit Folie Käfighaltung Strafknien Sinnesentzug (Sehen / Hören) Atemreduktion (Masken / Bodyparts / Folie) Kitzelfolter Keuschhaltung (eigener KG vorhanden?) Prostatamassage Analplug Aufpumpbarer Plug Figging (Ingwer) Vibrator Strapon anal Anale Vergewaltigung Strom anal Fisting Elektroplay Ballbusting Brustwarzenbehandlungen Klammern an den Brustwarzen Klammern an den Hoden Gewichte Genitalzuchtpeitsche Nadelrad Wachsspiele und Eisspiele Auspeitschungen Reitgertenzüchtigung Schläge mit Paddel Ohrfeigen Bastonade Mit Teppichklopfer versohlen Schläge mit der Hand Rohrstockzüchtigung Trampling mit nackten Füßen Trampling mit High Heels Fußerotik Facesitting Looning Tease and denial Rollenspiele Feminisierung/ TV / Hurenausbildung Strapon blasen Petplay (Hund, Pony etc.) Spiel mit anderen Sklaven (aktiv / passiv) Bei der Session anderer Sklaven zusehen Langzeitspiele über 12h Outdoorgames Body worship / Anbetung der Lady Leckdienste (Schuhe / Füße / Latex) Leckdienste schmutzig/verschwitzt (Schuhe / Füße) Dominakuss Anspucken Mund mit Seife auswaschen Natursekt (NS) Kaviar (KV) Klinikspiele (soft) Peinliche Untersuchungen Zwangsenthaarung (Wachs / Rasur) Harnröhrendehnungen Einlauf Bemerkungen zu den Vorlieben / Tabus / Praktiken Das Wichtigste ist für mich: Vom Ablauf her wünsche ich mir: Safeword Mein gewünschtes Safeword : Ampelsystem: grün (ok), gelb (grenzwertig), rot (stopp) Sonstiges: .
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