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February 2019 Congregation Sons of Israel Page 1 Congregation Sons of Israel THE MYERS FAMILY CAMPUS Continuing The Vision - Building the Future February 2019 26 Shevat — 23 Adar I Sunday, 2/3 at 9am. With musicians Oren Neiman and Ivan Barenboim. Join us on Sunday, 2/10 from 1pm - More information on page 11. 3pm for an informative program about current issues in the LGBTQ+ Shabbat morning, 2/9 we community. welcome Alex Carciente, Flyer on Page 2. AIPAC Associate Director, Westchester & Riverdale. Mr. Carciente will speak about “How To Keep Israel A Bi-Partisan Issue.” SAVE THE DATE: The Annual Event at CSI will be on Sunday, April 7th from 5- 8 pm. Honorees: Bob & Marilyn Margolies Volunteer of the Year: Robin Ginsberg Music, Food, Entertainment & Celebration! See Page 4 Page 2 Congregation Sons of Israel February 2019 Congregation Sons of Israel 1666 Pleasantville Road AIPAC POLICY CONFERENCE—March 24 - 29 Briarcliff Manor, NY 10510 Join Rabbi Kane, CSI members and thousands of other Phone: (914) 762-2700 Pro-Israel activists for three of the most important days of Fax: (914) 941-3465 impact for Israel’s future. www.csibriarcliff.org Those signing up the week of 2/10 will receive a $100 [email protected] discount from AIPAC. An additional $100 from CSI OUR MISSION STATEMENT for first-time attendees The AIPAC Policy Conference is the (adopted 1999, revised 2007): pro-Israel community’s preeminent annual gathering. Congregation Sons of Israel is Over three jam-packed days, Policy Conference participants choose from hundreds of an egalitarian, Conservative informative sessions and participate in the pro-Israel community’s largest and most important synagogue dedicated to advocacy day. imparting Jewish values and traditions from generation to www.aipac.org/at/attend-events/policy-conference generation in a welcoming participatory environment. We are a caring community committed to lifelong Jewish learning, the observance of mitzvot, meaningful prayer and charitable deeds. We promote spiritual, cultural and social connections within our community, to the State of Israel, and to Jews worldwide. Rabbi Steven C. Kane [email protected] Cantor Jeffrey Shiovitz [email protected] Educational Director: Roni Shapiro Ben-David [email protected] Synagogue Director: Ellen Green Johnson [email protected] OFFICERS: Steven Bender, President [email protected] Lois Gimpel Shaukat, VP Jill Greenstein, VP Fred Schulman, VP Eric Wrubel, VP Bob Margolies, Treasurer [email protected] Marc Auslander, Secretary Mike Kirsch, IPP February 2019 Congregation Sons of Israel Page 3 FROM THE RABBI Steven C. Kane In the spring of 1993 I received a phone call from Bob agreed; they felt it was a text we should struggle with and Davis. I had applied for the position of rabbi at his not dismiss), while others felt we should read the "alternate" synagogue, Congregation Sons of Israel in Briarcliff reading of Leviticus 19, on holiness. After a few years Bob Manor (a place I had never even heard of!). At the time began to say every year that "I'm pretty sure we read Bob was the head of both the Ritual Committee and the chapter 18 last year, so let's read chapter 19 this year". And Rabbi Search Committee at CSI and I was one of the 10 so it happened that every year we now read Leviticus 19 on or so rabbis with whom the committee had decided to holiness. conduct a phone interview. After what turned out to be a successful interview, Bob invited me on behalf of the When Bob became single again, he assumed the status of committee to come to CSI for a full meeting in front of what is known as a ben bayit, a member of our household. the whole committee. When I arrived for the interview, Many times on Friday afternoons he would just "drop in" Bob was the first person I met. It turned out we had a and watch TV while we prepared for Shabbat around him. connection -the law professor he had interned for at the Frequently he stayed for dinner, and had an open invitation Yale University Law School was very active at the shul I for every holiday. His presence was always a welcome was then serving. Bob and I hit it off immediately and addition to our home, especially on Pesach and Rosh Ha- what ensued was a strong friendship and collaboration Shannah. that lasted more than 25 years. After a very difficult, debilitating and long illness, Bob Bob was a wonderful chair of the Ritual Committee. passed away a few weeks ago. Bob had suffered from There was never a topic or issue that was brought up to Frontotemporal Dementia, a disease that slowly robbed him the committee that he and I (and Cantor Shiovitz) had of his abilities to function. Yet up until the very end, Bob not discussed and come to an understanding about before was able to recognize many people (including me), sing the committee met. We did not always agree, (though songs and interestingly participate whenever parts of the mostly we did), but our discussions were always well Shabbat or holiday service was being sung. If one would informed and respectful. Indeed Bob not only had great begin a reading from the Torah that he recognized, such as respect for the clergy at CSI, he also had great respect for the Song at the Sea (Ex. 15:1-18) he could also join in with Jewish tradition. Although Bob claimed to be an atheist, the reading. he loved to read Torah and lead services, especially on the High Holidays. More than once I said to him, "Bob, I In June of 2015 we made a special kiddush in Bob's honor. wish others had the same lack of faith that you think you At that point he was still officially chair of the Ritual don't have." Then I would repeat to him something I had Committee, and could attend services. We wanted Bob to first heard from Rabbi David Hartman, "You know the know how much the entire congregation appreciated his same God you don't believe in, I don't believe in either". dedication and years of service, something the congregation had already recognized when he was given our highest One of his favorite stories was to tell how he had once honor in 2000 Pesichas Neilah, the Ark opening at the end of attended the Safra Synagogue on Shavuot. It is a Sefardi Yom Kippur. In Pirke Avot we read the following: "Rabbi Orthodox synagogue in the city. As a guest, he was given Shimon taught: There are three crowns - the crown of the an aliyah. As he walked up to the Torah, he turned to the Torah, the crown of the Cohein, and the crown of Royalty. gabbai and said in Hebrew "ani yachol likro (I can read (However) the crown of a good name, (keter shem tov), is this portion)". The gabbai looked at him in disbelief, but superior to them all." (Pirke Avot 4:17). Bob proceeded to read the special holiday portion, which he had read many times at CSI, perfectly. Bob Davis had the crown of a good name. May he always be remembered at CSI for a blessing. Bob was a principled person, but one who was open to compromise. When we discussed adding the imahot to the amidah prayer (Sarah, Rivkah, Rahel and Leah), some Lhitraot, people were adamant about the change while others objected to it. So Bob suggested we compromise, adding them in the later musaf service, but not in shacharit, a compromise that worked for many years (everyone was unhappy that way!). Another example occurred when I first came to CSI. We were alternating the Yom Kippur afternoon Torah readings from year to year. The "traditionalists" wanted to read the traditional reading of Leviticus 18, which contains references to homosexuality as an abomination, (not that they FIVE THINGS YOU ALWAYS WANTED TO KNOW…With Rabbi Kane - Five moral and ethical issues in Judaism. The next session is on Monday, 2/11 at 7:30pm Jewish Views on Organ Donation Page 4 Congregation Sons of Israel February 2019 Annual PURIM IS COMING! The CSI Sisterhood is once again making it possible for us to send Event Mishloach Manot (Purim bags) to our friends at CSI. Letters will be mailed with all the details on how to participate. These letters include YOUR special code for online ordering. It’s fun, it’s delicious and it’s so easy to participate! OUR ANNUAL PURIM CARNIVAL IS ON SUNDAY, 3/24 DONATIONS NEEDED! 300 kosher hot dogs * 300 kosher pareve hot dog rolls 300 water bottles @20 oz. size * 400 napkins * 100 eggs * 200 potato knishes 200 Snack size chips (pareve) * 400 small plates * 400 forks 3 bottles of Heinz ketchup * 3 bottles of Heinz mustard * 6 cans black beans 6 cans of chickpeas * 4 bottles of salad dressing * 4 large bags of ice 12 English cucumbers * 6 club size containers of cherry tomatoes These items are available at all major shopping clubs BJ’s, Costco & Sam’s Club and all major grocery stores. Remember: All food must be marked kosher. If you don’t have a club card but would like to donate, you are welcome to borrow our card or drop off money for us to shop with! Contact [email protected] February 2019 Congregation Sons of Israel Page 5 CANTORIAL NOTES Hazzan Jeffrey Shiovitz I have always loved to sing. I know, no big secret there! I In Israel today, the hottest night out is a chance to sing led the whole service for my Bar Mitzvah as well as old songs with 1,000 or 12,000 of your closest friends! I reading the Torah.