Conference Programme 1st Non-Monogamies and Contemporary Intimacies 2015, Lisbon | FCSH-UNL

Sept. 25th  Room: T12, Chair: Maria Silva e Silvério 9:30 - 10:30 - Registration Opens (Auditorium 1) o Antonio Cerdeira Pilão, FROM POLYGYNY TO : AN 10:30 - 11:00 - Opening Ceremony (Auditorium 1) ANTHROPOLOGICAL STUDY ON NON-MONOGAMY IN BRAZIL 11:00 - 13:00 - First Keynote Speech (Meg John Barker & Ana Cristina Santos) (Auditorium 1) o Fernanda Branco Belizario, BRAZILIAN TRAVESTIS AS QUEER POSTCOLONIAL «Non/monogamies: Rewriting the Rules», Meg John Barker SUBJECT: THEORETICAL INSIGHTS ON INTIMACY AND BORDER THINKING «Normalizing the slut? Relational citizenship, care and the daily management of intimacy», Ana o Dardo Lorenzo Bornia Junior, VIEWS ON JEALOUSY FROM NON- Cristina Santos MONOGAMOUS PEOPLE LIVED EXPERIENCES AND EMOTIONALITIES IN Lunch Break SOUTHERN BRAZIL 14:30 – 16:00 18:30 – 20:00  Room: T09  Room: T09 o Maria Silvério, Justyna Sempruch, Joanna Iwanowska, Alejandro Cervantes- o Edward Manuel Fernandes, Jessica Wood, WE DO IT OUR WAY! THE SWINGING Carson, POLYAMORY, SWINGING, AND NEW FORMS OF FAMILY: PARADIGM: EVALUATING A POSSIBLE PARADIGM CHANGE IN THE TRANSGRESSIVE SUBJECTIVITIES, BONDS OF LOVE, CARE, AND DESIRE EMOTIONALLY MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIPS.  Room: T10, Chair: Beatrice Gusmano  Room: T10, Chair: Erin Taylor o Pepper Mint, THE ACCEPTIBILITY TACTICS OF POLYAMORY o Mara Clemente, MINORS’ PROSTITUTION EXPERIENCES IN THE DOMINICAN o Lisa Poole, "POLY POLITICS": ARE WE NORMAL YET? REPUBLIC. EXPLOITATION, WORK AND GAME. o Dawn Marie Davidson, A DISCUSSION OF GENDER, LABELS, AND NMCI o Paula Sánchez Perera, ALTERNATING GENDER ROLES IN SEX WORK  Room: T11, Chair: Inês Rôlo o Alexis Bartlow, HEALING TOGETHER: EMOTIONAL INTIMACY IN MODERN o Leehee Rothschild, COMPULSORY MONOGAMY AND THE POLYAMOROUS INDOOR SEX WORK EXISTENCE  Room: T11, Chair: Mercedes Pöll o Karin Wandrei, POLYAMORY, LESBIANISM AND SEXUAL FLUIDITY: o David Hampson, THIS, AND OTHER INTIMACIES: A PSYCHOSEXOLOGICAL POLYAMORY AS A CHOICE FOR LESBIAN-IDENTIFIED WOMEN REVIEW OF MONOGAMY AND ITS DISTRACTIONS. EXPLORING SEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS WITH MEN o Manja Visschedijk, DODGING DOMINANT, DE-HUMANISING NARRATIVES: IN o Panik Escenik, “LIBREMENTE JUNTAS? REFLEXIONES, EMOCIONES Y LIFE AND IN THERAPY. VIVENCIAS” o Chun Yang, 90-MIN INTIMACY: THE CONSUMPTION OF INTIMACY IN  Room: T12, Chair: Maria Pallotta-Chiarolli MODERN SOCIETY o Monica B Pearl, KINSHIP, CONVERSATION, AND CRISIS: AIDS AND THE  Room: T12, Chair: Pablo Perez Navarro PERSISTENCE OF QUEER COMMUNITY o Jessica Joan Kean, RACE, CLASS AND MARGINAL INTIMACIES IN o Boka En, WE ARE FAMILY? NEGOTIATING INTIMATE INTERPERSONAL AUSTRALIAN PUBLIC CULTURE RELATIONSHIPS IN SOCIAL RESEARCH o Ana C Pires, INTERSECTIONAL ME: A PERSONAL REFLECTION ON o Thomas Hendriks, FUCKING KINSHIP: PROCREATION, MARRIAGE AND THROUGH NON-MONOGAMY QUEER DESIRE IN URBAN CONGO o Sabiha M.A. Allouche, AS SELF-HARM OR AS 16:30 – 18:00 CONTINUUM: JUXTAPOSING THE DISCOURSES OF THE ‘4 WIVES’ AND THE  Room: T09 ‘POLYAMOROUS’ o Juliette Siegfried, Victoria Rosa, Folami Bayode, WHY POLYAMORY? PANEL DISCUSSION AND Q & A  Room: T10, Chair: Beatrice Gusmano Sept. 26th o Mercedes Pöll, DEFINING “SEX” IN RELATIONSHIPS WITHOUT 9:00 - 11:00 - Second Keynote Speech (Brigitte Vasallo & Nathan Rambukkana) (Auditorium 1) o Rita Alcaire, ABSENCE OF SEXUAL ATTRACTION AS COUNTER- «Dismantling monogamy, far beyond the exclusivity issue», Brigitte Vasallo HEGEMONIC: THE POLITICS OF ASEXUALITY «Monogamy Must Be Protected: Biopolitics, Intimate Privilege and Canadian Anti-Polygamy o Patricia Macleod, THE ASEXUAL SLUT: WHEN COMPULSORY MONOGAMY Laws from 1892 to 2092», Nathan Rambukkana MEETS COMPULSORY SEXUALITY 11:30 – 13:00  Room: T11, Chair: Tatiana Motterle  Room: T09 o Hadas Marion Goldman, CHANGING THE GAME TO BREAK THE RULES- o Victoria Rosa Sturley, Folami Bayode, INTERACTIVE WORKSHOP: CREATING RADICAL FINANCIAL STRUCTURES AS A BASIS FOR NEGOTIATION SKILLS (DILEMMAS, TOOLS, AND STRATEGIES) LIBERATING RELATIONSHIPS  Room: T10, Chair: Daniel Cardoso o Cornelia Schadler, COLLECTIVE PARENTHOOD: POLY NETWORKS AND o Jessica Joan Kean, MEANING AND MONONORMATIVITY: INCOHERENCE, PARENTING PRACTICES FLEXIBILITY AND RELATIONSHIP ‘SIGNIFICANCE’ o Pierre-Yves Wauthier, SOCIAL CHANGES AND THE TRANSFORMATIONS OF o Pepper Mint, THE CONCEPTUAL ENFORCEMENT OF COMPULSORY KINSHIP PRACTICES. AN ETHNOGRAPHIC APPROACH OF NON- MONOGAMY MONOGAMOUS FAMILY IN CONTEMPORARY FRENCH SPEAKING EUROPE. o Mona Röhm, RULES OF THE GAME IN MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIPS

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 Room: T11, Chair: Teresa Furtado o Edward Manuel Fernandes, George Gaither, AN EVALUATION OF THE STI o Katarzyna Grunt-Mejer, Weronika Chańska, PSYCHOLOGIZATION AND PROFILES AND SAFE SEX PRACTICES OF A SAMPLE OF SWINGERS PATHOLOGIZATION OF POLYAMORY IN POLISH MEDIA  Room: T11, Chair Nikò Antalffy o Megan Hurson, POLITICS OF LOVING MANY: THE ROLE OF ALTERNATIVE o Andreu Ballús Santacana, LOVE AFTER SCARCITY MEDIA IN POLYAMORY DISCOURSES o Giorgia Lorenzetti, POLYAMORY: A QUALITATIVE ANALYSIS OF AN o Rita Alcaire, MÉNAGE À MOI – A STUDY ON THE REPRESENTATION OF EMERGENT SOCIAL PHENOMENON MASTURBATION ON MAINSTREAM TELEVISION AND FILM  Room: T12, Chair: Dawn Davidson o Nataša Pivec, “THREE (IS NOT A CROWD)”: A CRITICAL ANALYSIS OF TOM o Fábio Mariano Borges, POLYAMORY: ACCIDENT OR PURPOSE? THE PROCESS TYKWER'S POLYAMOROUS FILM THREE OF DISCOVERY OF POLYAMOROUS IDENTITY  Room: T12, Chair: Sara Henriques o Michel Raab, POLY-CARE BETWEEN ASPIRATION AND REALITY o Nikò Antalffy, POLYAMOROUS LIVES IN AUSTRALIA AND THE US o Victoria Rosa, CONSIDERATIONS WHEN CHOOSING AN OPEN o Sina Muscarina, Thomas Slunecko, POLYAMORY. LOVING MORE THAN ONE. A RELATIONSHIP STYLE BIOGRAPHICAL PORTRAIT OF NON-MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIP 18:30 - 20:00 - Book Launch Session (Auditorium 1) CULTURES Maria Pallotta-Chiarolli Lunch Break  Border Sexualities, Border Families in Schools, New York: Rowman 14:30 – 16:00 & Littlefield, 2010 // Love You Two, Sydney: Random House, 2008  Room: T09 Maria Silvério o Hannah Darvill, Meg-John Barker, TRAIN-THE-TRAINER WORKSHOP:  Swing: Eu, Tu... Eles, Lisboa: Chiado Editora, 2014 CONSENSUAL RELATIONSHIPS Marlene Wasserman  Room: T10, Chair: Rita Alcaire  Cyber Infidelity: The New Seduction, Human & Rosseau, 2015 o Teresa Furtado, CHALLENGING THE HETEROSEXIST DICHOTOMIST LOGIC: Nathan Rambukkana BESTIALITY IN CAROLEE SCHNEEMANN AND JOANNA RYTEL VIDEO  Fraught Intimacies: Non/Monogamy in the Public Sphere, PIECES Vancouver: UBC Press, 2015 o Nollie Joy Nahrung, LOVING DE/COMPOSITIONS: NON-MONOGAMOUS LOVE COLLAGES Sept. 27th o Agnese Sile, Aine Larkin, RELATIONALITY AND INTIMACY IN LISA 9:00 - 11:00 - Third Keynote Speech (Pepper Mint & Maria Pallotta-Chiarolli) (Auditorium 1) LINDVAY’S PHOTOGRAPHIC SERIES HOLD TOGETHER «Who Is Not Here? Addressing Power and Diversity in Research and Organizing», Pepper Mint  Room: T11, Chair: Tatiana Motterle «Poly and MOREs go to the Movies: Analysing Polyamorous and Mixed-Orientation o Artyom Anikin, HISTORICAL EUROPEAN NON-MONOGAMIES Relationship Representations in film», Maria Pallotta-Chiarolli o EJE KIM, “ANCIENT FUTURE” FOR FEMINISTS: NEW IMAGINATIONS ON 11:30 – 13:00 MARRIAGE FROM MINANGKABAU MATRILINEAL SOCIETY IN SUMATRA,  Room: Auditorium 1 INDONESIA o Ana Cristina Santos, Beatrice Gusmano, Tatiana Motterle, Pablo Perez Navarro, o Giazú Enciso, NOT A RECIPE, BUT CONDITIONS OF POSSIBILITY FOR Luciana Moreira, INTIMATE PANEL: REFRAMING COUPLEDOM THROUGH POLYAMORY HEALTHY PRACTICES: FROM FEMINIST TO BEYOND SAME-SEX RELATIONAL CITIZENSHIP IN SOUTHERN EUROPE  Room: T12, Chair: Boka En  Room: T10, Chair: Chair: Leehee Rothschild o Aoife Sadlier, ‘I’M NOT THAT BISEXUAL. I’M THE OTHER ONE.’ QUEERING o Marta Mazanek, WAYS OF LIVING POLYAMORY STRAIGHTNESS ON MATCH.COM. o Dita Bi Teese, Patrícia Louro Gomes, LIVES BEFORE A WORD. THERE IS NO o Maria Pallotta-Chiarolli, BI MEN BY WOMEN: WOMEN IN RELATIONSHIPS ROAD BUT THE ONE YOU CREATE AS YOU WALK. WITH BISEXUAL MEN o Juliette Siegfried, LIVING IN A SUCCESSFUL POLY FAMILY o Ryan Scoats, “I DON’T MIND WATCHING HIM CUM”: HETEROSEXUAL MEN,  Room: T12, Chair: Jessica Joan Kean THREESOMES, AND THE EROSION OF THE ONE-TIME RULE OF o Janet Bennion, IS POLYGAMY THE NEXT MARITAL RIGHTS ISSUE? HOMOSEXUALITY o daniela danna, WHAT IS A FAMILY? SEXUAL AND DEPENDENCY TIES IN 16:30 – 18:00 LAW AND UTOPIA  Auditorium 1 o Lisa Poole, POWER AND PRIVILEGE: CONSENT AND ABUSE IN o Isabelle Broué, «LUTINE», A 96 MINUTES-LONG DOCU-COMEDY ON POLYAMOROUS RELATIONSHIPS AND COMMUNITIES POLYAMORY, BY ISABELLE BROUÉ  Room: T10, Chair: Luciana Moreira Lunch Break o Agata Stasińska, Joanna Mizielińska, ALWAYS ALREADY (NON)MONOGAMOUS AND (CON)FUSED? – QUEER INTIMACY IN POLAND 14:30 – 16:00 o Jingshu Zhu, NON-MONOGAMOUS EXPERIENCES IN CHINESE QUEER  Room: T09 COMRADES’ MARITAL LIFE o Klit Ters, SCI-FI CRUISING: ALTERNATIVE INTIMACIES THROUGH HYBRID SPACES

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 Room: T10, Chair: Ana Lúcia Santos  Room: T10, Chair: João Manuel de Oliveira o Francisco Hertel Maiochi, PORNOGRAPHY AND PSYCHOANALYSIS o Patrícia Monteiro Pascoal, Daniel Santos Cardoso, Rui Henriques, SEXUAL o Andrea García-Santesmases, YES, WE FUCK! DOCUMENTARY: FOR A QUEER- SATISFACTION AND DISTRESS IN SEXUAL FUNCTIONING IN A SAMPLE OF CRIP SEXUALITY THE BDSM COMMUNITY: A COMPARISON STUDY BETWEEN BDSM AND o Ann Antidote, THERE ARE VULVAE AROUND IF YOU CHOOSE TO SEE NON-BDSM CONTEXTS  Room: T11, Chair: Inês Rôlo o Rita Alcaire, THE MINORITY REPORT: THE ASEXUAL COMMUNITY o Inês Ribeiro, Daniel Santos Cardoso, AT THE CROSSROADS OF DEVIANCE: DISCUSSES ITS STRUGGLE TO FIND ACCEPTANCE GENDERED EXPERIENCES OF POLYAMOROUS WOMEN o Joseph De Lappe, “ASEXY AND WE KNOW IT”: THE EMERGENCE OF o Darja Lyzenko, THE CONSTRUCTION OF CONSENSUALLY NON- ASEXUAL ACTIVISM AS A CONTEMPORARY SEXUAL AND GENDER MONOGAMOUS DIFFERENT-SEX RELATIONSHIPS IN LITHUANIA SOCIAL MOVEMENT.  Room: T12, Chair: Christine Campbell  Room: T11, Chair: Inês Rôlo o Marlene Wasserman, CYBER INFIDELITY: THE NEW SEDUCTION o Helena Lüdert, PEACE RESEARCH VILLAGE TAMERA MODEL o Shahin Payam, Panteá Farvid, Deborah Payne, 'INFIDELITY', 'CHEATING' OR A o Leehee Rothschild, POLYAMORY IN ISRAEL 'BIT ON THE SIDE'? EXAMINING CONSTRUCTIONS OF CONTEMPORARY o Roos Reijbroek, BRICK BY BRICK; DEBATES AND PRACTICALITIES YOU WESTERN EXPERIENCES OF EXTRA-RELATIONAL SEXUAL ENCOUNTER WHEN BUILDING A NON-MONOGAMOUS COMMUNITY. INVOLVEMENT. 20:00 – Closing Session and Remarks (Auditorium 1) o Myrte Esther Hamburg, NO FLIRTING ALLOWED! THE ASSOCIATION BETWEEN RELATIONSHIP NORMS AND RELATIONSHIP SATISFACTION 16:30 – 18:00  Room: T09 o Dawn Marie Davidson, KISSABLE AGREEMENTS: CREATING EMPOWERING RELATIONSHIP STRUCTURES FOR NMCI  Room: T10, Chair: Dave Doleshal o Linda Kirkman, CONTEMPORARY INTIMACY RESEARCH AND ASSOCIATED ACTIVISM: RESEARCHING AND TALKING ABOUT BABY BOOMERS IN FRIENDS-WITH-BENEFITS RELATIONSHIPS IN AUSTRALIA. o Maria Silva e Silvério, SWINGING IN PORTUGAL: REFLECTIONS ON SEXUAL NON-MONOGAMY AND EMOTIONAL MONOGAMY AMONG COUPLES o Edward Manuel Fernandes, I DO IT MY WAY: THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN SELF-DETERMINATION AND SWINGING SATISFACTION  Room: T11, Chair: Teresa Furtado o KIM DAVID, THE LOVE STORY OF KIM & DAVID o Mad Kate, POLY-HOME-FULL  Room: T12, Chair: Ana Cristina Santos o Redfern Jon Barrett, THE FUTURE LOVES A THREESOME: POLYAMORY AND THE RADICAL POTENTIAL OF SCIENCE FICTION o John Button, NON-CONVENTIONAL RELATIONSHIP CHOICES FOR THE OVER-SIXTIES 18:30 – 20:00  Room: T09, Chair: Paulo Jorge Vieira o Ofer Fein, Nave Rappaport, SEXUAL JEALOUSY AND SATISFACTION WITH SEXUAL AGREEMENTS AMONG ISRAELI GAY MALE COUPLES o Peter Hörz, “WHEN I BUY A ROUND OF DRINKS FOR OTHERS IN A BAR, A DOZEN ATTRACTIVE AND SUCCESSFUL MEN FLATTER ME... BUT IF THEY KNEW HOW I EARNED THE MONEY FOR THE DRINKS, THEY WOULD MOST LIKELY REGARD ME AS SCUM”. SOME ETHNOGRAPHIC NOTES ON THE COSMOBILE GAY ESCORT

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