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Friday, September 21, 2018 | www.cadillacnews.com Cadillac News - Brides in the KNow 3 Should You Purchase Wedding Insurance? The Bride and Groom “The average wedding across the USA is over $25,000.” Steve Lauro Vice president of Aon Affinity

says she wishes couples would ask about wedding insurance By Renee Lee Wege more often. “Wedding insurance tends to be one of the least thought of You’ve surely heard of insurance in terms of home insur- questions, in my experience, unless the venue requires it,” ance, health insurance or car insurance, but how about wed- Bogs says. ding insurance? Just as those types of insurance help protect The founder of Marcella Camille Events, which offers wed- you against paying tons of money out of pocket for unfore- ding planning services in multiple states including Colorado seen circumstances, wedding insurance can give you peace and California, even posted an article aptly titled “Should I of mind for one of the biggest days of your life. Buy Wedding Insurance?” on her website, looking to shed If wedding insurance is new to you, you’re probably not light about something that can add a layer of security to alone. Marcella Bogs, founder of Marcella Camille Events, wedding planning.

4 Brides in the KNow - Cadillac News www.cadillacnews.com | Friday, September 21, 2018 “When you choose not to insure something, you are essentially assuming that risk on your own.”

Steve Lauro Vice president of Aon Affinity

To decide whether wedding insurance is something you “The average wedding across the USA is over $25,000,” need, it’s important first to understand what types of things Lauro says. “When you choose not to insure something, you might be covered under the wedding insurance umbrella. are essentially assuming that risk on your own. Would you According to WedSafe, a wedding insurance specialist, go without insurance on a car of that price?” there are generally two types of (very different) wedding Bogs agrees that insurance is worth looking into, espe- insurance. The first, often referred to as Wedding cially if a couple’s vendors don’t include any (some venues Cancellation/Postponement Insurance, covers exactly what and vendors will have their own liability insurance, so it’s it sounds like. If heaven forbid something happens that good to check). causes you to postpone or cancel the wedding (your venue While Bogs hasn’t experienced any wedding horror stories burns down in a fire, you or your beau are suddenly too ill (where insurance would have come in handy) first hand, she to get married), this type of insurance helps protect any has heard about instances where people are injured while money you might otherwise lose from deposits or pay- dancing on, say, an alcohol-soaked dance floor. ments. The second type, Liability Insurance, protects you Because something can arise that causes a couple to against financial liability arising from your wedding, and reschedule or cancel a wedding (note though that wedding as hinted by Bogs, is often required by venues. This pro- insurance typically doesn’t cover when a couple has a change tects you if a guest was injured, the venue was damaged, or of heart) and because liability in incidents involving alcohol if there’s any sort of alcohol-related incident that leads to a could fall on the newlyweds, Bogs says it’s always a good bill. idea to look into insurance. According to Steve Lauro, vice president of Aon Affinity “It is never a bad decision to add that little bit of extra cov- (the company that provides WedSafe insurance), there’s been erage to protect yourselves and your family on one of the a trend of more couples purchasing policies as education most important days of your life,” she says. about wedding insurance spreads. © CTW Features Wedding Party Specials! • Bridal Up Do’s $10 & Up • Pedicures $20 A Perfect Size Tuxedo • Manicures $5 • Haircuts $5 • Spa Facial $10 with Makeup $17 for Everyone!

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Friday, September 21, 2018 | www.cadillacnews.com Cadillac News - Brides in the KNow 7 Plan Accordingly

Feeling overwhelmed by wedding planning? Ensure you stay on track and don’t let anything fall through the cracks with this vendor timeline

By Carley Lintz easy to forget something,” says Amanda Felsman, Wed- ding Stylist and Director of Coordination for Tailored Engagements in Milwaukee, Wisc. “Using a checklist Your new fiancé may have spent weeks (or even can help make sure you aren’t paying for costly mis- months) deciding how to pop the question, but now takes.” is when the real planning starts. Before you dive into the deep end of Pinterest, though, you need a One of the biggest mistakes you can make is waiting game plan to give you structure in the midst of chaos too long to hire vendors. This can lead to extra rush fees, and prevent you from becoming completely over- settling for subpar service because your dream vendor is whelmed. unavailable or, at worst, going without a vendor at all. “There are so many details that go into planning a Wedding planning has no room for procrastination, wedding. The time it takes to plan is like having a part so to help you get started, here is a typical timeline, ac- time job and with all of the items to juggle it can be so cording to industry experts.

8 Brides in the KNow - Cadillac News www.cadillacnews.com | Friday, September 21, 2018 12+ Months Book your priority vendors

The average engagement lasts 12 to 18 months in the U.S., so there are vendors who get booked a year or more in advance. “You want to book the vendors that there are only one of as early as you can so you have the most options,” advises Sarah Agee, Owner of Indianapolis-based event company Plum and Poppy. “Bakeries can make dozens of wedding cakes so that doesn’t need to be as high of a priority as the photographer for example.” Top priority vendors should include the venue, photographer, videographer and planner. If you have a favorite vendor in mind for other services, such as catering or hair, you should also go ahead and secure the booking for your date. “I tweak the timeline depending on the couple and what is most important to them but the earlier you book vendors the more variety you have to pick from,” adds Felsman.

9+ Months Plan the reception Next on your list should be many of the major players for the reception, such as the florist, caterer and entertainment (band, DJ, etc.). Before you meet with potential candidates, though, ask your venue what their requirements are for vendors. You don’t want to book a caterer who needs access to an on-site kitchen or a band who needs plenty of outlets if your venue can’t accommodate it. Also, when interviewing any candidates, be sure you know exactly what you’re getting before you pay the deposit. “You want to make sure you understand the services you’re purchasing, such as the number of hours of their services you are purchasing or how you’ll receive the product after the wedding,” says Agee.

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Friday, September 21, 2018 | www.cadillacnews.com Cadillac News - Brides in the KNow 9 continued from page 9 8+ Months Choose your gown Finding your dream dress takes time, so ensure you say yes to the right one by starting early. Plus, you’ll avoid rush fees for tailoring if you choose one early. If you are on a time crunch, your best bet is buying a sample size or from a resale website......

6+ Months Select the bridal party attire

By the six-month mark, you’ll want your bridesmaids and groomsmen (and, of course the groom), to have ordered their wedding attire. Like with the bridal gown, waiting too long runs the risk of not receiving something on back order or paying extra for last minute tailoring. 4+ Months Finalize your vendors

Approximately four months out from the big day, you should be finalizing any other vendors on your list, including the hair stylist, makeup artist, baker and transportation. Of course, other details can still be made closer to the wedding, such as purchasing guest favors or ordering place cards, but you should aim to have all your actual vendors hired at this point. Not every couple takes a whole year to plan a wedding, though. “We have planned weddings in as little as 3 months so it can be done,” says Felsman. “The average is about a year but if you are planning in 8 months or less you will have to be more flexible with your choices.” If you’re planning your wedding on a time crunch, be prepared to compromise. Less time means you might not have access to your first venue choice or favorite photographer. And once you find a good option, you have to be ready to pull the trigger. “You’ll have to be decisive. You need to make decisions and stick with those choices. You don’t have time to change your mind,” advises Agee. “Use vendors your friends have had good experiences with. This can save you time on the re- searching end of wedding planning.”

10 Brides in the KNow - Cadillac News www.cadillacnews.com | Friday, September 21, 2018 Wedding videos that truly capture your special day

By Mardi Suhs them on film. Since Jeff Baas made his first wedding “I have a really good time video three years ago, word of mouth has hanging out with these caused his business to explode. couples,” Baas said. “My goal Now, what was once a hobby is a is to always make something thriving business, Montage Media Films, that I would want to watch. a Cadillac production company that I’m constantly trying to get provides quality, affordable videography for unique, cinematic shots that are businesses and special events. really nice. And 95 percent of the time, we pick the music “There’s no better job than having a career doing what based on that couple and the feel of their day.” was once your hobby,” Baas said. “I really, really love it. I am Although he started as an amateur, posting “fun, short passionate about making videos. And my goal is to make a videos” on social media, people noticed and began to wedding video like I wish I had for my own wedding, the hire him for special projects. Last September, he was so same way I would want to relive my own wedding day.” busy producing videos that he quit his job in sales and His clients have posted rave reviews like these on his now works full time doing what he loves the most. And website, montagemediafilms.com. all along, he’s been investing in equipment upgrades to “If I could post more than five stars I would! Our improve his product. wedding video is absolutely amazing and so much more “I have invested a lot of money to have all the than I could have ever imagined.” equipment I need,” he said. “That’s made the biggest “Amazing!! These guys really know how to capture the difference between my work and the others. That has unforgettable and incredible moments.” allowed me to have things like great audio equipment to One reason his wedding videos are so popular is that capture the vows. We always want to capture that audio he’s all in and hangs out with the couple and the families. and use it in the video. It’s really important.” His brother Craig Baas, his “second shooter,” joins in as To learn more visit: montagemediafilms.com or call well, sharing the joyous moments of the day and capturing (231) 878-2891.

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Friday, September 21, 2018 | www.cadillacnews.com Cadillac News - Brides in the KNow 11 The ‘Social’ Guide for Brides and Grooms

How to set and enforce digital rules for your wedding

Privacy, Please Brittny Drye, editor-in-chief of Love Inc., says to By Kristen Fischer convey that some couples want to preserve that moment when they’re first seen. This is why it is Your wedding, your rules. But not everyone important to request that wedding party partici- knows what you want – and don’t want – posted pants do not post it online. online. Want to set the social media boundaries “The first look is a really emotional moment for firmly to ensure your big day goes off without a a couple, whether that happens right before pic- reveal that you don’t want? Think about your tures or as you make your way down the aisle,” wishes, and then find a way to let guests know. Drye says. “Make sure that moment is fully Otherwise, you could have some inadvertent spoil- savored by communicating a strict no-posting rule er alerts spoiling the event. as you get ready with everyone who sees you and have your wedding party reinforce it.”

12 Brides in the KNow - Cadillac News www.cadillacnews.com | Friday, September 21, 2018 “If you want an unplugged ceremony, there are some really cute messaging options to put on a sign for guests to see as they enter.”

Brittny Drye, editor-in-chief of Love Inc.,

Hashtags: A How-To Another digital rule is to use a hashtag for your big day. Make sure you pick one that’s completely unique and let wedding guests know what it is, so your pictures aren’t filed under multiple hashtags. When people are not on board, pics can get lost in the mix and live online forever without being properly filed. That’s why a handy sign posted when people enter the ceremony and reception space can be “If you want an unplugged ceremony, there are some really such a benefit. cute messaging options to put on a sign for guests to see as “Before creating a hashtag, search for it on Instagram to they enter,” Drye says. One example she likes: “Oh Snap! make sure it’s not already in use so when you search, only There’s plenty we don’t want you to miss…please NO photos photos from your wedding weekend will pop up,” Drye says. until after the first kiss!” Got the perfect hashtag in mind for your big day? You have Keith Phillips, a photographer with Classic Photographers, to then let guests know before they start posting under has another sign idea: “Unplugged Ceremony, Please reframe another hashtag. from using your phone during our ceremony, we want every- “Share your wedding hashtag with guests via your wedding one to be present and in the moment with us. Thank you!” website, on treats in the welcome bags, a custom Snapchat He also has seen couples place a small disclaimer on their filter, or signage décor,” Drye says. You can even specify the programs to get the point across. hashtag prior to the big day, she added. “It’s also a good idea to have the officiant make a statement at the beginning of the ceremony to politely reiterate your Unplugging request,” Drye added. Want to skip hashtags and social media posts all together? “Once your ceremony is over, you can let everyone know it Some couples are opting for a wedding day – or at least a is okay to use their phones by putting signs around the ceremony – that is not broadcasted online. The key to that is reception venue,” Phillips says. letting guests know ahead of time, because they may not know about your wishes for a private affair. © CTW Features

Friday, September 21, 2018 | www.cadillacnews.com Cadillac News - Brides in the KNow 13 The Wex offers couples plenty of space

By Kris Verhage

The Wexford Civic Center plays host many types of shows and expos annually, but did you know you could host a wedding there? Its 20,000-square-foot auditorium can seat up to 800 people. That means couples have plenty of room to create their ideal wedding locale. Both the ceremony and the reception can be held in The Wex’s auditorium. “It’s a lot of space for a good price,” says Brynn Givens of Boon Sports Management, which operates The Wex. Couples use the auditorium space to create a celebration suited to their tastes. “They have the choice to come up with different themes,” Couples are responsible for supplying their own reception Givens says. décor, setting up and taking down the tables and chairs, the For example, one couple with a country theme brought in catering, and bar service. hay bales that surrounded the dance floor, she recalls. The Wexford Civic Center is located at 1320 N. Mitchell St. In addition to the space, the Wex offers table and chairs free in Cadillac. For more information, call 231-779-9520 or visit of charge, public address system and a kitchen. thewex.com. Bring your party outdoors with A & C Tent Rental

By Rick Charmoli various types of tables and chairs,” Griffiths said. A & C Tent Rental in Cadillac has all A & C Tent Rental serves an area that’s in a the corners covered when it comes to 50- to 60-mile radius of Cadillac and includes weddings and other outdoor affairs. Wexford, Missaukee, Lake and Osceola This business offers rental tents in a counties. variety of sizes, as well as chairs and Griffiths said it is best to reserve your tent, tables, said owner Michael Griffiths. tables and chairs as soon as you have a date The company has been in business for picked out as there are limited resources. He more than 15 years and Griffiths has added he already has events booked for the been owner since 2005. summer and has been receiving reservations “Everything is delivered and set up, since the first of the year. including the table and chairs,” Griffiths said. he adds. Smaller tents also can be attached to “Even if we have a date already booked, I “It’s not just a drop-off service.” larger ones if additional room is needed. will try to get what you need through They’ll also take down and remove those A & C Tent Rental also brokers with a subcontracting with reliable companies,” he items. Tent sizes at A & C Tent Rental include downstate tent rental company to provide said. “It’s never too late.” 20 x 30 square feet, 20 x 40 square feet and tents in larger sizes such as 40 x 100 square A & C Tent Rental is located at 1867 S. Lake 30 x 60 square feet, he said. The larger size feet and 60 x 60 square feet, Griffiths says. Mitchell Drive in Cadillac. For more can accommodate up to 150 people “No matter how large a wedding you have information or to reserve tents, table and comfortably and still have room for amenities, in mind, we can offer any size tent as well as chairs call, 231-779-0932.

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By Kristen Fischer of the correct information upfront and able to meet all of The person who performs your wedding can be as impor- the requirements,” Sullivan says. That means going along tant as finding the right dress or venue. What are the rules with their rules for paperwork, whether it is proof of baptism for choosing an officiant? or divorce. Be sure to work with the church coordinator and under- To Find and to Hold stand what other rules may be in effect such as photography Not sure who should marry you? Ask the other wedding and who is in charge of ordering the ceremony. Some offici- professionals that you’ve clicked with and hired, as they ants will take charge of how your processional enters, while likely know folks who would be your right fit, suggested others will let you take the lead. Bethel Nathan, an officiant based in San Diego. Regardless of where you tie the knot, Sullivan says that “You can also ask your friends who have gotten married many officiants will customize the ceremony for you. recently in your area about who they found, especially if they were looking for a ceremony style and priority similar Tailor Your Event to yours,” Nathan says. Mandy Canfield, an officiant from Virginia, says to meet No matter whom you choose, it should be a fit that the with a few officiants once you know what kind of ceremony couple is comfortable with. you want. “Remember that the ceremony is the ‘why’ of the Ask if their ceremony style is more on the spiritual side or wedding,” Nathan says. “It’s what makes that wonderful the secular side. See if they use a standard script, or if they’re party into a wedding – and often sets the tone for the open to letting you personalize one. You should go online to whole rest of the party.” confirm that the person is, in fact, a registered officiant and legally allowed to sign your marriage license. Well-Defined Wishes “If you have specific expectations for your ceremony be Emily Sullivan, an event planner from New Orleans, says sure to make that clear to the officiant and confirm that most of her events are at churches were the couple are not they can accommodate before booking,” Canfield says. members. Also, let your officiant know whether you want them to “The first question to ask is whether or not you want your conduct and coordinate your rehearsal or if you would like ceremony to have a religious or civil tone as officiants typi- them to attend your rehearsal dinner or wedding reception. cally lean towards more than the other,” she says. Not in for “It is nice to have a clear line of communication of your a religious ceremony? That doesn’t mean you can’t get mar- expectations and theirs,” she says. ried in a church – but you’ve got to follow their rules. © CTW Features “The most important thing is to be sure that you have all

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Ceremony Location fee, officiate fee, marriage license, ring pillows, ceremony decorations Reception Reception room rental, food, drinks, cake, favors, decorations Attire Dress, headpiece/veil, undergarments and hosiery, shoes, accessories, alterations, jewelry, hair and makeup, groom's tuxedo or suit, shoes, tie, cuff links, studs Rings His and her rings, engraving Flowers Ceremony decor, bride's and bridesmaids' bouquets, corsages and boutonnieres, reception centerpieces, flower-girl basket. Music Ceremony musicians, band and/or DJ, coctail hour musicians Photography/ Videography Photographer and videographer's fees, albums, additional prints, disposable cameras for candid photographs Transportation Transportation for wedding party, guest shuttle and/or parking attendants Stationery Invitations, save-the-date cards, response cards, thank you notes, postage, calligraphy, guest book Gifts Bridesmaids and groomsmen, parents, welcome baskets for out-of-town guests

Friday, September 21, 2018 | www.cadillacnews.com Cadillac News - Brides in the KNow 19 Wedding Checklist A wedding should be planned in stages with every decision made as early as possible. Begin by setting deadlines, then check off each task as you complete it. 6-12 months before your wedding 2 months before your wedding ¨ Choose the kind of wedding you will have, date and time. ¨ Choose wedding bands and engraving. ¨ Announce your engagement in local newspapers. ¨ Check marriage license requirements. ¨ Discuss the budget. Take time to talk with your fiancé ¨ about the budget and style of your wedding, reception Plan ceremony, reception, menus, master of ceremo- and wedding-related parties, and who pays for what. nies and music. ¨ ¨ Make arrangements with the officiator. Plan rehearsal dinner and bridesmaids’ luncheon. ¨ ¨ Reserve the wedding and reception locations. Complete guest list and address invitations. ¨ ¨ Select your wedding dress, veil and accessories. Make arrangements for lodging for out-of-town guests. ¨ ¨ Choose the bridesmaids, groomsmen, Purchase gifts for attendants and groom. ushers and honored roles. ¨ Plan reception seating if necessary. ¨ Send announcements of your engagement to bride’s and groom’s local and hometown newspapers. ¨ Meet with the florist, photographer, caterer, videographer 1 month and DJ or entertainment to discuss budgets and options. before your wedding ¨ Draw up the guest list with fiancé and families. ¨ Confirm all arrangements and contracts. ¨ Plan reception music and reserve band or orchestra. ¨ Mail invitations so they will arrive three weeks before ¨ Contact rental coordinator for equipment reservations. the wedding. ¨ Discuss honeymoon and reservations. (Traditionally the ¨ Pick up wedding rings. groom makes all the honeymoon arrangements.) ¨ Arrange for transportation to ceremony and from cer- ¨ Arrange for time off work if necessary. emony to reception. ¨ Buy a good, sturdy notebook to store brochures and notes. ¨ Attend final fittings. ¨ Develop record-keeping system for invitations, RSVPs, ¨ Have your hair and makeup done as your would like to gifts and thank-you notes. have it on your wedding. ¨ Schedule any tanning, manicures, etc. ¨ Purchase guest book and keepsake album. 6 months ¨ Contact your insurance agent about naming your before your wedding fiancé as beneficiary on your life insurance, will and ¨ Plan new living arrangements and home furnishings. auto policies, and about buying homeowners’ and ¨ Select and register wedding gifts and patterns. floater insurances to protect wedding gifts. ¨ ¨ Select color scheme. Open joint checking and savings accounts. ¨ ¨ Order dress and accessories. Decide on a budget and savings program. Discuss them with your financial representatives. ¨ Order bridesmaids’ dresses, shoes and accessories. ¨ Write thank-you notes as gifts are received. ¨ Contact men’s formalwear specialist for men’s attire. ¨ Have parents select attire. ¨ Order wedding cake. ¨ Order invitations, announcements, programs, napkins, matchbooks and thank-you notes.

20 Brides in the KNow - Cadillac News www.cadillacnews.com | Friday, September 21, 2018 2 weeks before your wedding ¨ Get marriage license. ¨ Give caterer final guest count. Don’t forget the wedding party, photographer and DJ. ¨ Arrange to have your own gown pressed and delivered. ¨ Arrange to change your name on driver’s license, Social Security card, credit cards, bank accounts, insurance, etc. ¨ Make arrangements for moving into your new home. 1 week before your wedding ¨ Pack for honeymoon. ¨ Give bridesmaids’ luncheon/party, give attendant gifts. ¨ Confirm directions, housing, timetables with attendants. ¨ Brief head usher of any special seating arrangements. ¨ Arrange for rental returns. The day before your wedding ¨ Pack the “going-to-church” bag and “emergency” bag. Floral CHecklist ¨ Attend rehearsal and rehearsal dinner. Have fun! ¨ Find a quiet moment to give your fiancé his wedding gift. Bouquets Boutonnieres Bridal Groom ¨ Turn in early for a good night’s sleep. Bridal Throw Groomsmen Bridesmaids Father-of-Bride Other Father-of-Groom Usher(s) The wedding day Corsages Ring Bearer(s) ¨ Have a nice, relaxed breakfast. Mother-of-Bride StepFather(s) ¨ Allow plenty of time for dressing, makeup and hair styling. Mother-of-Groom Grandfathers Grandmothers Other ¨ If you plan on photography before the ceremony, allow Hostess ample time so you’re not rushed. StepMother(s) Reception Other Head Table ¨ Relax, and remember: This is your Family Table special day, the result of all your careful planning. Misc. Flowers Buffet Table Now it’s time to enjoy. Take a deep breath. Refuse Bridal Hair Cake/Cake Table to let any glitch get to you. Savor every moment of Bridesmaids’ Hair Guest Tables this sacred day. Let your joy and happiness shine Flower Girls’ Hair Centerpieces through. Best wishes! Flower Girls’ Petals Favors Aisle Petals Other Other

Friday, September 21, 2018 | www.cadillacnews.com Cadillac News - Brides in the KNow 21 Groom’s Checklist

12 months before your wedding ¨ Select engagement ring. ¨ Discuss wedding plans and budget with fiancée and all parents. ¨ Select attendants and at least one usher for every 50 guests. ¨ Decide on ceremony and reception with fiancée. 9 months before your wedding ¨ Arrange a visit with clergymember or justice of the peace to discuss ceremony. 6-8 weeks ¨ Start compiling your guest list. before your wedding ¨ Discuss honeymoon destinations with fiancée; ¨ Help fiancée with thank-you notes for gifts. consult travel agent. ¨ Get legal and religious papers in order. ¨ Pick up wedding rings; check engraving. 6 months ¨ Buy gifts for fiancée and ushers. before your wedding ¨ Arrange to pay for bride’s bouquet; order boutonnieres and corsages. 2 weeks ¨ Visit gift registry with fiancée. before your wedding ¨ Complete honeymoon plans. ¨ Go with fiancée to get marriage license. ¨ For travel abroad, update passports, visas and ¨ Arrange for transportation from the reception to inoculations. the airport, if applicable. ¨ Arrange transportation to ceremony and ¨ Attend bachelor party. reception for wedding party. ¨ Double-check honeymoon reservations. ¨ Arrange to move belongings to new home. 3 months before your wedding 1 week ¨ Complete guest list; give to fiancée. before your wedding ¨ After consulting fiancée, order wedding attire ¨ for yourself and ushers. Remind ushers of rehearsal dinner details (give them the gifts that night). ¨ Shop for honeymoon clothes. ¨ Put officiant’s fee in a sealed envelope and give ¨ Order wedding rings. it to best man to deliver after the ceremony. ¨ After consulting fiancée, reserve a block of ¨ Explain any special seating arrangements for hotel rooms for out-of-town guests. family members, etc., to ushers. ¨ Plan rehearsal dinner with parents. ¨ Pack for honeymoon.

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Friday, September 21, 2018 | www.cadillacnews.com Cadillac News - Brides in the KNow 23 An affordable Up North wedding destination Catering By Mardi Suhs Brides searching for an affordable Up North wedding destination are choosing Evergreen Resort in Cadillac, not just for its beautiful To You for location, but for the flexibility offered by dedicated staff members. “Our staff has the willingness to go above and beyond to make the Let us provide a tasteful menu for your wedding very personal,” said Phil Himes, GM. “Evergreen is one-stop. special day. Offering a full selection of If people come from out-of-town, they don’t have to drive after the Overtraditional favorites, 25 we Years pride ourselves reception. We are all inclusive.” on preparing a celebration of food that Evergreen Resort offers couples an all-inclusive experience: a exceeds your expectations. place to hold the ceremony and reception, a place where guests can Menu Selection Available at: stay and dine and also enjoy a round of golf. www.ebelsgeneralstore.com

Couples may choose between indoor and outdoor venues and multiple wedding packages designed to meet their needs and budgets. Plated dinner and buffet options are available. The couple can be married on the golf course and host their reception in an event tent on the Terrace on the Green, with sweeping views of the golf course and Lake Cadillac. The resort also features two indoor reception locations for up to 100 and 130 guests. The event tent can accommodate up to 200 guests. Evergreen Resort sits on 327 acres of forest and lush greens and has undergone major renovations in the last few years. All meeting rooms have been renovated and the exterior now includes a porte-cochere. In addition, almost all of the rooms have been beautifully updated. A number of amenities are available to guests staying at the resort. There are two onsite restaurants; Passage North: The Grill at Evergreen; and Curly’s, The Pub at Evergreen. The resort features two golf courses, a driving range and putting green; an indoor pool, Jacuzzi and sauna; a fitness center and tennis courts; a 24-hour business center; and more. Ebels Family Center Inc. Evergreen Resort is located at 7880 Mackinaw Trail, a short 420 E. Prosper Rd., P.O. Box 69 distance from the Business Route and U.S. 131 interchange. Falmouth, MI 49632 • 231.826.3333 For more information, visit evergreenresortmi.com or call www.ebelsgeneralstore.com (231) 942-7040.

24 Brides in the KNow - Cadillac News www.cadillacnews.com | Friday, September 21, 2018 Second Chance Tips for the second wedding

Taking a chance on love and marriage for the second (or guest lists tend to be smaller and couples tying the knot again third) time is certainly worthy of celebration. The Pew Research may prefer more intimacy and less hustle and bustle. But cou- Center reports that at least four in 10 new marriages now ples should not avoid inviting people simply because second include at least one partner who has been married before, a weddings are typically small affairs. Invite as many friends and trend that is on the rise. family as you want and as your budget allows. Planning a second wedding can be challenging, as individuals Set up a registry. Established couples may may be worried about proper etiquette, superstitions or meeting have the household basics already in place, but registries can the expectations of others. But there are no hard rules governing include fun or entertaining gifts that speak to couples’ interests. second weddings. Now that couples are older and a bit more These may include home theater systems, fancy cookware, ath- experienced, wedding planning may be met with greater enthu- letic equipment, or even funds for travel. siasm and patience. These tips can help the process along. Involve the children. Couples who have Dress it up. Brides need not eschew white if they children can make them a special part of their second wedding prefer to wear it for their second weddings. White, cream, ivory, celebrations. Kids can play any role in the ceremony, depending or other shades are perfectly acceptable. Also, brides can make on their age. If the second marriage comes after an amicable their gowns as lavish or as simplistic as they desire. The length divorce, couples can invite their former spouses to provide sup- and style of the dress should reflect the formality and scope of port to their children so they can feel comfortable in the wed- the event. ding. Make it unique. Couples who have been married B e prepared. The marriage application process is before may want to set this new occasion apart from their previ- similar the second time around, but additional documents, such ous weddings. Brides magazine experts suggest discussing previ- as a divorce decree or death certificate, may be necessary. These ous celebrations and what can be done differently this time legal documents also will be needed for men and women who around. Couples can use this opportunity to get to know each intend to change their last names after getting married. other more intimately by personalizing their festivities. A second marriage deserves as much celebration as the first Don’t feel beholden to intimate and gives couples an opportunity to express their love for each affairs. Second weddings tend to be more intimate, as other and their appreciation to their friends and families.

Friday, September 21, 2018 | www.cadillacnews.com Cadillac News - Brides in the KNow 25 Book Smarts

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By Matthew M. F. Miller looking around 12 months before the Don’t ignore the details, even big day, but some companies may not 8. down to what the driver will be Make sure you know exactly book that far in advance. wearing (typically and ideally, a 1. what you’ll be getting for the uniform or dark suit). Can you quoted price. Most companies charge Some limos can fit more than a consume alcoholic beverages in the by the hour, with a three-hour 4. dozen people, some cap out at limo? Can you hang a “Just Married” minimum. This can range anywhere around 10. Make sure your potential sign or other decorations on the from $250-$500 for a full-sized luxury ride is right for your group. vehicle? car to $1,000 or more for a stretched- out specialty model. Is the driver’s Check out the company’s fleet Finally, be sure to read the gratuity – usually 10 to 20 percent – 5. first-hand. Don’t rely on 9. rental contract thoroughly included in the cost? pictures or words to represent what before signing. It should denote the you’ll be riding around in on the big make, model and year of the vehicle, Sketch out the day’s itinerary so day. the date of service, pick-up times and 2. you know how many hours you locations, all costs involved (including will need transportation for. Most Get a signed contract. You’ll the deposit) and, heaven forbid, the companies require a three-hour mini- 6. want all your potential services company’s cancellation policies. mum, and an even longer minimum in writing, as to avoid any problems may be required based on your vehicle, down the road. Do your homework now and when such as an SUV limo. Remember, idle your big day comes you’ll be able to time still counts toward your overall Be sure to inspect the vehicle just sit back and enjoy the ride. total. you’ll be renting to ensure that 7. © CTW Features it’s in good shape and includes the It’s not bad to start looking for a amenities you’re promised. And be 3. limo around six months out sure there’s enough room for all riders from your wedding. You can start to fit comfortably.

26 Brides in the KNow - Cadillac News www.cadillacnews.com | Friday, September 21, 2018 DJ says providing music for weddings isn’t just a job, it’s an ‘honor’

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September 21, 2018 | www.cadillacnews.com Cadillac News - Brides in the KNow 27 The Gift Plan Hot registry trends for 2018

as Blue Apron subscriptions, cruises, Many couples are registering for or wine club memberships. getaway vacations, which wedding By Renee Lee Wege Target has recently jumped aboard guests contribute to in lieu of gifts. the non-traditional registry route, an- Registries are certainly nothing new nouncing a partnership with Honey- – according to many accounts, Macy’s fund, a “Shark Tank”-banked registry invented the concept of gift registries company that helps couples finance in the 1920s. Needless to say, a lot has their honeymoons through their wed- cards, which brings us to our next changed since then. ding registry. trend. Gone are the days where wedding “Wedding registry expectations have registries only included gifts like fine changed over time,” Dawn Block, Tar- MORE ADVENTURES & china or kitchen towels. get senior vice president of digital said. Here are some of the top ways “Guests are looking for a complete TRAVELS registries will continue to evolve this registry experience, including product Brides and grooms are looking for wedding season. and honeymoon options, and Target more than just kitchen towels. There’s is the first retailer to be able to offer all a reason why more wedding registry of this in one place.” start-ups are including ways to gift GOING NONTRADITIONAL couples experiences and honeymoons. WITH REGISTRIES At Zola, the company is seeing a Wedding registries were once ALL HAIL MIX MASTERS “huge surge” in adventure and travel. typically relegated to a few big name While Zola offers a variety of experi- Items like tents, backpacks, or gift retailers like Macy’s or Bed, Bath, and ential gifts, there’s one very traditional cards for Delta or Southwest are being Beyond. Today you’ll hear a number registry gift that never seems to go out added to registries “like gangbusters.” of new names (Zola, Blueprint, and of style: the KitchenAid Mixer. Airbnb gift cards, that number two WeddingWire Registry to name a few) That’s so much so that Zola’s direc- item of most-wanted wedding gifts, is of companies dedicated solely to creat- tor of brand and newlywed-at-large exclusive to Zola. ing a one-stop-shop wedding registry Jennifer Spector says that there are “Registering for Airbnb lets couples for couples. three things you can count on in life: live like locals on their honeymoon, Zola, which has helped over 500,000 “death, taxes and that the KitchenAid their first anniversary, or even a quick couples to date, allows couples to add Stand Mixer will always be the top romantic getaway,” says Spector. “To- just about anything to their wedding registry gift.” For 2017, the number day’s couples crave adventure just as registry, from Le Creuset pans to one and number two most-wanted much as they do gifts.” Waterford Crystal drinkware to what wedding gifts were the KitchenAid the company calls “experiences” such Mixer, as always, and Airbnb gift © CTW Features

28 Brides in the KNow - Cadillac News www.cadillacnews.com | Friday, September 21, 2018 It’s the perfect outdoor setting Mardi Suhs Manistee National Golf & Resort has a reputation as one of the finest golf resorts in Michigan. Located just south of Manistee and nestled among the pines of the Manistee National Forest, the resort is often called “the hidden gem” of Northern Michigan, a special place that offers golf…and much more! The resort offers two unique choices for passionate golfers of all skill levels. The Canthooke Valley course features traditional-style golf with rolling fairways planted in Kentucky bluegrass. The layout meanders through hardwoods and a white pine forest. With a totally different personality than it’s sister course, Cutter’s Ridge is a bent grass course, both fairways and greens. Major distinctions are the marsh and wetlands on this site. Architect Jerry Matthews is the course designer blending beauty of the site into one of solid surface for dancing, the clubhouse facility next door, and on a the states most outstanding courses. Accomplished golfers long to play this warm summer night, when the tent sides are down, people can enjoy course because it has one of the highest slopes in Michigan. Shorter hitters the outdoors. It’s the perfect location for a multitude of events, including can relax, however, as there are five sets of tee boxes here - One sure to match graduation celebrations, reunions and holiday parties. their skills. “It’s a very modern design with large, wide fairways and more Here are some recent customer testimonials: bunkers than are on Canthooke.” said Doug Bell, PGA Director of Golf and “Manistee National is one of those places that from the minute you get General Manager. “ The greens and tee boxes are slightly larger, and usually there, you know you have found someplace special.” there is more elevation change from hole to hole.” “I think Canthooke is the finest course that Gary Pulsipher ever designed, “ As golfers rave about the 36 holes of golf, brides also posted reviews, said Doug Bell, general manager. confirming that Manistee National is the perfect outdoor setting for Wanagan’s Grille, a clubhouse restaurant with an outdoor patio overlooking a wedding reception or ceremony. 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September 21, 2018 | www.cadillacnews.com Cadillac News - Brides in the KNow 29 Sharp Dressed Man A Men’s Style Guide Planner

By Renee Lee Wege wedding, would you?), couples should look at the style of their wedding before deciding whether to go suit or tux. While brides have seemingly endless sources of wedding Carmen Ramundo, owner of Cincinnati’s Peppe Ramundo inspiration, from bridal magazines to Pinterest boards Menswear & Black Tie, says he always starts with asking galore, there’s not too much for the other important piece of customers about their wedding venue. He also looks at the the newlywed puzzle – the groom. bride’s dress as an indication of the big day’s formality. That’s where guides like this come in. Make sure your “If the bride is wearing a long, formal dress and it’s a formal groom looks like the dashing, handsome prince he is with event, it’s a question of, ‘do you want to stay with formal for this lowdown on every part of a groom’s wedding style. the groom too, or go more casual?’ Casual would be a suit, and if you want to go more formal, you go with a tux.” Kamau Hosten, a New York City-based blogger and First Off, The All-Important fashion brand consultant, says that when going through Question: Suit or Tux? through options for wedding attire, grooms should consider When it comes to men’s wedding wear, there’s one big the formality level, venue, and location as the most crucial question that’s always looming. Will it be a suit or a tuxedo? factors in determining what to wear. Just as brides take their wedding venue into consideration Level of formality on its own, however, may not mingle when picking a wedding dress (you probably wouldn’t wear well with other factors such as time and location. a short, polka dot tea-length dress for a black-tie ballroom “I know a tuxedo is de rigueur at many weddings since

30 Brides in the KNow - Cadillac News www.cadillacnews.com | Friday, September 21, 2018 “Jewelry should be, in the most general terms, simple and tasteful. Nothing should stand out on its own, but rather work together as a story.”

Kamau Hosten, New York-based blogger, consultant

it’s regarded as the most formal a man can look, but I find Speaking of groomsmen, there is such thing as being too black tie to be severe for, say, an 11 a.m.garden ceremony,” matchy-matchy. Hosten says that groomsmen should echo, Hosten says. Instead, if formality is called for at something not match, the groom -- after all, it’s his day (and doing a like a beach wedding, a white dinner jacket is a smart op- slightly different tie color is a perfect small touch for him to tion. For other more relaxed settings, a two or three-piece stand out). In that same vein, the groomsmen should also suit would suit well, according to Hosten. With a three- echo, but not match, the bridesmaids. Things can come piece suit, a groom can leave his jacket hanging on a chair off “prom-y” when everything is over-coordinated. Opt, during the reception yet still look put together. instead, Hosten says, for a more organic look, such as a When it comes to suit options, Hosten recommends pocket square that ties the ensembles of the two supporting grooms lean toward fabrics with texture, like a nailhead casts together. or birdseye and steer clear from anything you’d find in a boardroom. If The Shoe Fits “Pinstripes can feel very banker-esque, and less special and Grooms are increasingly adding their own personality with warm,” Hosten says. “Remember, you’re not closing a deal accessories like shoes -- just look at all of the Pinterest posts on your wedding day.” of grooms wearing Converses or Nikes. For a more tradi- Hosten, who knows his way through all things men’s tional look, Hosten recommends going with a plain loafer fashion (the founder of fashion blog The Ideal Pursuit won (with socks, he adds, because showing a bare ankle disrupts Vanity Fair’s International Best-Dressed Challenge June the clean line from trouser to shoe) or a simple oxford. At Users’ Choice award in 2013), suggests that if a tuxedo is Ramundo’s shop, he’s seeing grooms going beyond black the route, a classic two-button look with a peak (pointed shoes, instead pairing tan or brown shoes with trendy gray upward) or shawl (curved) lapel, are “dashing” choices. or navy ensembles. Now That I’ve Got My Suit Topping Off The Look With Jewelry (or Tux) and Tie … … Yes, Jewelry Once you’ve got the big decision out of the way, it’s on Jewelry may not be the first thing men think of for their to the details. While most brides opt for a white wedding wedding look, but don’t underestimate the power of acces- dress, grooms have much more color to play with. Ramun- sories like cufflinks or a classic timepiece. A french cuff, or do, who’s seen many fashion trends come and go during his one that folds over, is the most elegant choice for a groom, tenure at Peppe Ramundo (the eponymous menswear shop says Hosten, and the look can be personalized with heir- opened by his father in 1967), says over the past few years, loom cufflinks that can be a nice touch (so long as they’re it’s been all “gray, gray, gray” along with navy blue for suits subtle and elegant). and tuxes. “Jewelry should be, in the most general terms, simple and To go along with the ensemble, Ramundo is seeing tasteful,” Hosten says. “Nothing should stand out on its grooms opt for the more sleek look of having a black bow own, but rather work together as a story. The same is true of tie, no vest, and no cumberbund. That’s in contrast to the the timepiece a man opts for on the day of his wedding. It more traditional, maybe more old-fashioned look of grooms should be on the dressier side; today isn’t the day for a mas- and groomsmen with long ties and vests that match the sive diving watch with subdials and helium release valves.” color of the bridesmaids dresses. © CTW Features

Friday, September 21, 2018 | www.cadillacnews.com Cadillac News - Brides in the KNow 31 Flexible catering with a homestyle flare

By Nick Green For 29 years, Dawn Fresh Catering at Ebels General Store has provided event catering using homestyle recipes and a down home feel. The company caters weddings, graduation parties, company banquets and just about any event in need of good food. From basic meat and potatoes to stuffed pork loin and chicken breast, Dawn Fresh Catering provides something anyone can enjoy. Main dishes include upscale fresh meats like steaks, chicken, ribs, pork loin, brats and burgers. In addition to their main dishes, they also provide homemade salads, appetizers, hors d’oeuvres, desserts and gluten-free and vegan options. Dawn Ebels loves to cook, and that passion is what eventually led All Michigan grown pork is used, and beef and chicken are bought her to start the catering business. and prepared fresh for each special event. Desserts are homemade and “A lot of these recipes have been handed down through our family, can range from simple to extravagant depending on the needs of the customer. some I’ve picked up along the way and others are things people have “We enjoy serving people and making their day a special event,” wanted us to prepare for them throughout the years,” Ebels said. “We Ebels said. “We pride ourselves on doing a good job, we enjoy are willing to make almost anything to make an event special for the working with the public and cooking is something we have done all host and guest.” of our lives.” Flexibility is what Dawn Fresh Catering prides itself on. They can Dawn Fresh Catering is located at 420 E. Prosper Road in grill on-site, are mobile and can accommodate large groups. Usually, Falmouth. For more information, visit http:// ebelsgeneralstore. events are a buffet-style, but Ebels said she is willing to work with com/departments/dawn-fresh-catering, call 231-826-3333 or email people to fit their needs. dawnscatering@ebelsgeneralstore.

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This hall is ready to meet all your party needs! It offers a full kitchen, lots of tables, chairs and is heated for colder months and A/C for the warmer months! Please call us today for pricing and availability at 231-824-6655. The Lutke Rental Hall 9290 E 14 1/4 Rd, • Manton• Facebook: @thelutkerentalhall • (231) 824-6655

32 Brides in the KNow - Cadillac News www.cadillacnews.com | Friday, September 21, 2018 Hall lets you plan your wedding your way

By Kris Verhage during the event, both heat and air The Lutke Rental Hall in Manton conditioning, men’s and womens can accommodate a variety of handicapped-accessible restrooms, and events, including wedding a large parking lot. The room has an area receptions and bridal showers. to hang photos, banners and other Kim and Jason Lutke purchased decorations, and hosts can decorate the building in 2014 from the tabletops. The venue features white and Manton-Buckley Masonic Lodge. maroon chairs, round tables, as well as Since then, they’ve remodeled the 8-foot-long banquet tables. kitchen and painted the building, Couples will need to provide their says Tiffany March, who works own décor, linens, silverware and with the Lutkes. dinnerware. The full kitchen features both a Alcohol can be served at the hall, but freezer and refrigerator, stove and party hosts must have a specific event double oven, microwave and two rider added to their homeowner’s policy, large coffee urns. Couples will March says. have to provide their own food or The Lutke Rental Hall is located off Old contract with a catering company. U.S. 131 at 9290 E. 14 ¼ Road in Manton. The venue has WiFi, a television For more information, call (231) 824- if someone wants to play a photo slideshow 6655 or visit its Facebook page.

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Friday, September 21, 2018 | www.cadillacnews.com Cadillac News - Brides in the KNow 33 Timeless Dress Planning How to work with a dress shop to find your style – and make sure it’s a style that’s both on-trend and timeless

“You should feel beautiful and confident while also remaining true to your personality.”

Melissa Russell, co-owner of Aisle Chic

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“You should feel beautiful and confident while also By Renee Lee Wege remaining true to your personality,” Russell says, adding that a gown should help turn bride into the bridal version When it comes to wedding dresses, it’s all about striking of themselves (and not feel like a costume). balance. There’s finding that balance between allowing And the best part about wearing a dress that brides feel just a tad of wiggle room in your budget and completely great in? Unlike bridal trends, which are always changing, blowing it, balancing a look you feel “you” in while also she says “confidence will always stand the test of time.” looking like a bride, and balancing what’s “in” today with what you hope will still be “in” 10 or 20 years from now. Stay Away From While it might sound like an oxymoron, with the help of a few pointers, brides can find a dress that combines Anything Too Trendy the best of both worlds – today’s and tomorrow’s, with a Sure, it’s great to be trendy, but what happens when dress that’s both modern and timeless. trends fade into fads? Kpoene’ Kofi-Nicklin, custom dress designer and owner of Chicago’s Mignonette Bridal, regularly cautions brides What Stands The Test about following trends too closely, finding its best to of Time? Confidence avoid trends. At Aisle Chic in Chicago, consultants work one-on-one If you keep seeing a certain dress style in magazines, with brides (and their entourages, of course) to pair brides Kofi-Nicklin says, it might end up feeling dated when you with the dress of their dreams. The shop, which opened in look back on it in wedding photos 20 years from now. 2016, is strictly sample dresses only, featuring a variety of “We do a lot of heirloom gown revamping so we see a designer dresses available for a discount for savvy brides. ton of puffy-sleeved, high-necked dresses that are all from When it comes to finding a dress that brides will love for the same period, the 70s and 80s, and it’s because brides the rest of their lives, Melissa Russell, one of Aisle Chic’s shopped for what was trendy,” the dress designer says. owners, says the most important thing brides should note is how they feel in a dress. Continued ON 36

34 Brides in the KNow - Cadillac News www.cadillacnews.com | Friday, September 21, 2018 Continued from 35 the test of time — and might horrify Grandma!” Kofi Nicklin says. Incorporate classic elements Aisle Chic’s Russell agrees that lace elements have always that never go out of style been in style. “From the wedding day looks of Grace Kelly Mignonette, which Kofi-Nicklin opened in 2011, offers to Kim Kardashian, lace can be styled very differently, but brides a variety of options when it comes to dresses: choose it will always feel bridal,” she says. from a collection of gowns including the latest designs and perennial Mignonette favorites that brides can try on in- Breathe Modern Life Into A Classic store; work with Kofi-Nicklin to create a unique gown To create a dress that’s a literal interpretation of modern made just for you; or go with heirloom revamping to mod- yet classic, brides can look at restoring and customizing ernize a dress that’s been in the family. mom or grandma’s wedding dress. Working with heirloom No matter the route, Kofi-Nicklin starts by having brides gowns is the best because the dress is already special to the try on a variety of shapes and styles. For those looking for bride and her family, says Kofi-Nicklin. While wedding classic elements, she says dresses are always special, shes says, an heirloom gown is a A-line gowns are always a timeless shape while details like symbol of even more than that -- it’s a piece of family his- tulle skirts, and fabrics like Chantilly or Alencon lace, or tory. To modernize a vintage dress, Kofi-Nicklin says it can silks like satin, chiffon, or organza never go out of style. often be as simple as removing a puffy sleeve (goodbye, 80s “Anything with strategic sheer panels, super-tight mer- look) or lowering a neckline to bring a gown back to life. maid skirts, or anything too boho will probably not stand © CTW Features

Perfect Styles for Bridesmaids and the Mother of the Bride Don’t forget about the special women in your life when creating a vision for a modern, yet classic wedding. There’s always that stereotype of bridesmaids being forced to buy a dress they’d never be caught wearing again, but that doesn’t need to be a reality. Because current bridesmaid dress trends like jewel tones and mismatched dresses could go out of style, focus on finding a look that both you and your girls can see loving in photos for years to come. For mothers of the bride and groom, there are also a variety of looks that can help moms look trendy and timeless. At Mary’s Designer Bridal Boutique in Annapolis, Maryland, mother of the bride dresses are the specialty. Mary’s notes that modern mother of the bride dresses “are not YOUR mother’s dresses.” Any rules about wearing only sleeved dresses have gone out the window, with Mary’s instead recommending that like any other special occasion it’s best to go with whatever a mom is most comfortable in. In working with brides, Mignonette Bridal’s Kofi-Nicklin says that when it comes to moms, it seems dresses by designers like Tadashi Shoji, Adrianna Papell or Escada never fail. Esma Wedding Dress by Devotion Dresses Jenny Packham Bridesmaid Collection

Friday, September 21, 2018 | www.cadillacnews.com Cadillac News - Brides in the KNow 35 All About the Dress Words You Need to Know to Dress Shop

By Matthew M. F. Miller

During your search you may hear the old adage that the more dresses you try on, the more you look the same. So instead of tackling the gown project for months and months, you may be best served by attacking a small window of time. Like everything else wedding, your budget is vital to crossing the dress off of your planning list. If you have a budget of $1,000 for your gown, there’s no sense in spending your time trying on a $3,000 gowns when you’re not going to purchasing one and, more importantly, you could be trying on a dress that fits your budget and style. Stay focused till you find that perfect one. Some dress shops may require appointments, so be sure to schedule your shopping extravaganza if needed. FYI, “closed shops” keep the dresses in a storage area off- limits to shoppers; a sales associate brings the gowns to you in a private fitting area. “Open shops” display the dresses on the sales floor. Chic Styles It’s easy to get misguided by the models you see in magazines. But remember: What looks good on another woman might not be the best look for you. This is the time to play up your strengths! Here’s a look at some of the modern styles and fabrics that brides are going for:

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36 Brides in the KNow - Cadillac News www.cadillacnews.com | Friday, September 21, 2018 Strapless gowns Consider these Paired with a swooping neckline, these perennial fabrics: favorites give any bride a slimming silhouette. These Organza: A thin, sheer, plain weave dresses work well for brides fabric made from silk, its lighter feel with sloping shoulders, makes it ideal for summer-style weddings. which may cause spaghetti Taffeta: A crisp, smooth woven fabric made straps to fall. from silk or synthetics that is known for its slight sheen and lightweight. Thin enough for ruching, taffeta can add texture without A-line gowns bulk. Tulle: A lightweight, fine netting that Taking the place of the can be made from silk, nylon and rayon, princess ball gown, these which gives gowns stunning, flowing modern gowns hug the skirts. body through the bodice then flare out below the Charmeuse: A lightweight fabric hip, accentuating the waist. usually made from silk or polyester. It’s smooth, soft and drapes beautifully. Chiffon: A plain, sheer woven Sheaths & Columns fabric with a soft drape. It can be With narrower silhouettes in made from silk, polyester or rayon. vogue, brides are embracing these Dupioni: A plain weave using looks that drape the female form yarns to create a fabric with surface in sophistication. This style begs slubs. In silk, it has a distinctive for vintage-inspired lace overlays, rustic and sleek luster. such as corded or Chantilly lace. Georgette: A lightweight fabric usually made from silk or polyester that’s heavier and less trans- Short Gowns parent than chiffon. The fabric’s Designers are rolling out higher fibers are twisted, which gives it a hemlines for a fun, fresh look, springy quality. which work great on their own or Peau de Soie: Made from silk as a second, “reception” dress. or polyester, this fabric is medium Designer Amsale even has a to heavy. Its dull luster is more flat- whole collection of “little white tering to curvier women than high- dresses.” luster satins. Polyester peau de soie Price is dependent upon intri- also doesn’t water-spot as easily as silk. cacy. The more lace, beading And don’t think you have to default to and embroidery a dress has, the white, either. Shades of ivory and cham- pricier it will be. Today’s trends pagne are popular among brides looking are gearing toward clean lines for a nonwhite option, and they flatter and minimal but dramatically most skin tones. placed details; ornaments, White sometimes draws attentions to mainly crystal and embroidery, veins or makes certain skin tones appear are concentrated on bodices jaundiced, which is why a bride might opt for one of the neutral tones, or even and hems. light pastels like pale yellow and pink. Colorful sashes and embroidery are another way for brides to add a splash of Top: Image courtesy Micah Sedmak Pho- brightness to the big day. tography; Middle and bottom: Images courtesy Samantha James Photography © CTW Features

Friday, September 21, 2018 | www.cadillacnews.com Cadillac News - Brides in the KNow 37 CK’s Place offers an award-winning experience

By Kris Verhage An experienced, knowledgeable staff. No hidden costs. No “that’ll be extra.” And, an unforgettable day at a venue that offers both outdoor and indoor settings. CK’s Place in Big Rapids is an award- winning venue that helps ease the stress for couples planning their big day, whether it’s a casual party or a formal reception. larger receptions. “We allow you on Friday to come in and “We are a moderately priced, semi-all- CK’s Place offers appetizers and dinner decorate and get the hall exactly the way you inclusive banquet facility,” says owner Colin through Kelly’s Catering, which has been want it,” Kelly says. P. Kelly. around since 1979. Both the banquet All costs and fees are discussed up front, CK’s Place has two sites on its property for facility and the catering company have and the bill is paid before the event, so there’s the big day. Couples can get married in the won numerous local awards in recent no surprise charges at the end of the party. open air or under the Sunset Pavilion, which years, including Mecosta County’s 2006-09 “You end up with zero bill at the end,” he seats 80 people. People’s Choice Award winner and Leadership says. “It offers a nice, country setting for the Mecosta’s “Taste of Mecosta” People’s Choice In addition, Kelly’s wife, Eugenia, owns ceremony,” Kelly says. and Best Display awards. Eugenia’s Tuxedo & Alterations, which also is Afterward, the couple and their guests can CK’s Place provides event staff, including located in Big Rapids. Between event planning celebrate at the pavilion. Couples will need to chef, bartenders and security, as well as and catering events, 40 years of experience is contract with a tent rental company if they chairs, table linens, set up and clean up, a at work, Kelly says. wish to have a larger reception outdoors on bridal dressing room and more. CK’s Place is located at 11515 Northland the property. Couples will have to purchase alcohol Drive in Big Rapids. For more information, The banquet facility itself seats up to 300 and supply their own décor, cake and other call (231) 796-5414 or visit cks-place.com guests and can accommodate ceremonies and services. or its Facebook page. Where Country weddings are held

By Kris Verhage or bring in their own alcohol. The Barn Hall in Manton can help those The Barn Hall couples who are envisioning a country provides lightweight wedding. round and rectangle It’s a reception hall with a down-home, tables, as well as chairs. rustic atmosphere. Also, tables and chairs The Barn Hall can seat up to 224 can be arranged outside guests comfortably and at “The Patio.” An can accommodate family outdoor play area also is reunions, graduation parties, located on the grounds benefit dinners and other for young guests. events. Couples can either set The Barn Hall is owned by up the tables and chairs Randy and Brandi Shepler and and do the cleaning The kitchen features two is managed by their sister-in- themselves or hire the Barn Hall staff to do so. ovens, two refrigerators law, Molly Shepler. Those who rent The Barn Hall will have and a large sink. The Barn Hall provides access to it from noon Friday through Sunday A small bar that can 40 x 80 square feet of space, morning. hold two kegs and a excluding the kitchen and The Barn Hall is located at 3888 N. small attached sink also restrooms. Couples can have the Old U.S. 131. For more information, visit is available. Couples can food for the reception cooked thebarnhall.com or contact Molly Shepler at hire their own bar service or catered in the full kitchen. [email protected] or at 231-394-0311.

38 Brides in the KNow - Cadillac News www.cadillacnews.com | Friday, Sepember 21, 2018 Congratulations on your upcoming nuptials. What an exciting time! The Wex is a 20,000 square foot facility that can host both your wedding and reception in one location. Let us help with planning your wedding by offering you access to our multitude of vendors in our network to provide the wedding of your dreams. Please contact us to discuss your ideas and we will be able to walk you through theprocess and planning. Then you can experience “Happily Ever After” like every girls dreams ofl We provide the following: • Round Tables • Head table, cake table and gift table • Stage with skirting • Set up of all tables and chairs

We look forward to you hosting your wedding reception with us! Please call (231) 779-9520 for reservations

Friday, September 21, 2018 | www.cadillacnews.com Cadillac News - Brides in the KNow 39 White Wedding Tent 30’x60’ Big Top Windowed Side Walls • Decorative Lighting

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