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New Era THE MONTHLY YOUTH MAGAZINE OF THE CHURCH OF JESUS CHRIST OF LATTER-DAY SAINTS September 2013 Volume 43, Number 9

10 All-American Examples 20 Keep Cool at a New School

30 Moments after the Accident Read how the Holy Ghost inspired a young man at the scene of a car wreck.

33 A Prayer of My Heart Learn about one young person’s ex- perience in raising music standards. 36 Fulfilling Your Duty to God through Scouting Steps to Happiness The Accident In this 100th year of Scouting in the 22 30 Church, see how it helps young men come unto Christ. 42 The Challenge The missionaries asked one young € FEATURES woman and her family to read the Book of Mormon and pray to know if it’s true. Why was it so hard? 4 What’s So Great about the 20 Keep Your Cool at a Great and Spacious Building? New School The more attention we pay to These five tips can help you face the world, the more tempting its a new and unfamiliar place. lifestyle is. 22 Steps to Happiness 10 All-American Examples Elder D. Todd Christofferson These brothers are much more than If we understand the essence of the All-American lacrosse players. commandments, we want more. Be a Light to Your Friends (* Check out this article for support for this 12 month’s Sunday lesson theme.) Elder Benjamín De Hoyos Make decisions now so that you can be a light to your friends. 24 Nephi’s Bows The bows Nephi used can show us a 16 Citrus Warriors lot about how to solve problems. What can an orange peel teach us about the armor of God? 26 Finding Peace in a Troubled World 18 No Matter How Early Prophets have taught us at general One young woman was inspired by conference—and youth have experi- 16 Citrus Warriors her mother’s weekly temple visits. enced—how to find peace.

September 2013 1 THE MESSAGE

By Elder Neil L. Andersen Of the Quorum of Four Questions to Ask the Twelve Apostles Think how you would respond to the following questions: 1. Could you tell me the names of the three members of the First Presidency and the names of each of those who belong to the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles? These are LEARNING FROM the 15 men you and I sustain as prophets, seers, and revelators. 2. If we were to hold up a picture of these Brethren, would you recognize each of LIVING them? We rarely pay close attention to someone we do not recognize or know. 3. Could you share with me the counsel PROPHETS given by the First Presidency and the Could our attention to the counsel and the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles from the teaching of the Brethren be more active, last general conference? And could you identify the concerns of President Monson, searching, and responsive? President Eyring, and President Uchtdorf in the First Presidency Messages of the f course we love President Thomas S. Monson, Ensign this year? the two counselors in the First Presidency, and the 4. Perhaps more importantly, could you OQuorum of the Twelve Apostles. But in acknowledg- share with me a recent decision where ing our love and our loyalty, I would ask, Could our attention you changed something in your life to the counsel and the teaching of these Brethren be more because of counsel received from one active, searching, and responsive? of these 15 men?

The Lord’s Pattern The reasons our answers to these ques- tions are so important rest in the calling and responsibility of the First Presidency and the Twelve Apostles. Whenever the Lord’s Church has been established, the Lord has called prophets and apostles. The Savior said, “Ye have not chosen me, but I have chosen you, and ordained you” ( John 15:16). To these men, that ordination brings a spiritual power and a solemn responsibility—a power

The First Presidency—Henry B. Eyring, President Thomas S. Monson, Dieter F. Uchtdorf to know and to testify and a responsibility PHOTOGRAPHS BY CRAIG DIMOND © IRI; BACKGROUND ISTOCKPHOTO/THINKSTOCK

2 New Era A CONSTANT STREAM OF REVELATION “We have the Bible, the Book of Mormon and the Book of Doctrine and to teach and to bless. It also brings a and endows them with the keys and power Covenants; but all these responsibility and a promise to us all. to guide and direct us. We are not forced books, without the living We have the responsibility to listen and to obey; there is no compulsion. But if we oracles and a constant to follow, and we have a promise that will be attentive to their words, if we will be stream of revelation blessings will come as we believe and responsive and willing to change our behav- from the Lord, would not lead any people into act on their words. ior as the Holy Ghost confirms their counsel, the Celestial Kingdom of When the Lord called twelve disciples we will not be moved out of our place— God. . . . in the Americas after His Resurrection, He meaning we will hold fast to the iron rod and “Of course, these taught the people: “Blessed are ye if ye shall will forever remain safely on the path leading records are all of infinite give heed unto the words of these twelve to the tree of life. NE value. They cannot be whom I have chosen from among you to From a Church Educational System fireside given on March too highly prized, nor minister unto you, and to be your servants” 4, 2007. can they be too closely studied. But in and of (3 Nephi 12:1). In our day, in a very difficult NOTES 1. Boyd K. Packer, “The Twelve Apostles,” Ensign, Nov. themselves, with all the time, the Lord promised the Saints, “If my 1996, 6. 2. Relative to the importance of living prophets, light that they give, they people will hearken unto my voice, and President Wilford Woodruff said: “If we had before are insufficient to guide us every revelation which God ever gave to man; if unto the voice of my servants whom I have we had the Book of Enoch; if we had the untrans- the children of men and appointed to lead my people, behold, verily I lated plates before us in the English language; if to lead them into the we had the records of the Revelator St. John which presence of God. To be say unto you, they shall not be moved out of are sealed up, and all other revelations, and they were piled up here a hundred feet high, the church thus led requires a living their place” (D&C 124:45). and kingdom of God could not grow, in this or any Priesthood and constant This is the Lord’s pattern. He calls 15 other age of the world, without the living oracles of God” (Teachings of Presidents of the Church: Wilford revelation from God to 1 men from “the ordinary pursuits of life” Woodruff [2004], 198). the people according to the circumstances in which they may be placed.” 2 The Quorum of the Twelve Apostles President George Q. Cannon (1827–1901), First Counselor in the First Presidency, Gospel Truth: Discourses and Writings of George Q. Cannon, comp. Jerreld L. Newquist (1987), 252.

Boyd K. Packer L. Tom Perry Russell M. Nelson Dallin H. Oaks M. Russell Ballard Richard G. Scott

Robert D. Hales Jeffrey R. Holland David A. Bednar Quentin L. Cook D. Todd Christofferson Neil L. Andersen

September 2013 3 What’s So GREAT about the GREAT and SPACIOUS BUILDING?

By Dennis C. Gaunt

bby is excited about going to the described in Lehi’s vision of the tree of a while they appear to run parallel prom but wishes her new dress life. In that vision, we learn that two to the gospel path. Some are glamor- A were just a little more like the of the main reasons people leave the ously carpeted in red and echo with dresses her friends will be wearing. strait and narrow path are that they applause. Others appear to be paved She thinks her friends will look more are blinded by the allure of temptation with gold and jewels. glamorous and sophisticated in their (see 1 Nephi 8:23; 12:17) and that they The appeal of the great and spa- sleeveless dresses than she will in her are embarrassed by the mockery from cious building itself is very similar. modest dress, and she worries she’ll those in the great and spacious build- After all, some of the richest, most stand out. ing (see 1 Nephi 8:26–28). Let’s exam- popular, most attractive, and most Nate is hanging out with his friends ine these two parts of Lehi’s vision powerful people in the world live one evening when one of his bud- to see if we can not only understand there! Who wouldn’t want to hang dies brings out some cans of beer them better but also learn from them out with, act like, and dress like those and passes them around. When Nate to find the strength to stand up and people? They often appear to be refuses at first, saying, “I can’t,” his stand out for what is right. having a much better time than the friends begin to laugh and tease him. rest of us who are trying to stay on the Nate doesn’t want his friends to think Walk This Way gospel path. he’s not cool, so he considers taking a The problem with the temptations Much like our friend Abby, the few sips of beer just to get his friends of the world is that they’re just so more attention we give the residents to stop laughing. tempting, aren’t they? As President of the great and spacious building, the Do these situations feel familiar? Spencer W. Kimball (1895–1985) said: more we might feel jealous or frus- Like Abby and Nate, we each come to “Whoever said that sin was not fun? trated or even angry. We might think crossroads in our lives where differ- . . . Sin is attractive and desirable. . . . it doesn’t seem fair that they should ent choices are laid out before us like Sin is easy and has a big company of have so many nice things while we’re pathways. At these difficult and impor- pleasant companions.” 1 trying to stay on the path to the tree tant decision points, sometimes we’re As much as we hate to admit it, of life. afraid to stand up for what we believe many of those other paths often look Satan knows that one of the best because we’re afraid we’ll stand out. appealing. Some paths veer off sud- ways to get people to leave the Abby and Nate are experiencing denly in exciting directions, while gospel path is by tricking them into

firsthand some of the difficulties others curve away so subtly that for believing that it’s too hard, boring, or BY STEVE KROPP ILLUSTRATIONS

4 New Era When the world tells you that its way is better, have the courage to stand up and live the truths of the gospel. old-fashioned to stay on the path. He doesn’t we’re helpless victims of an impersonal God care which of the other paths we take— who has locked us up so that we don’t have any path will do—so long as it’s not the any fun. STANDING gospel path. This tactic is very, very old. In fact, Satan FOR WHAT has been using it from the very beginning. WE BELIEVE “How Does That Fruit Taste?” When God placed Adam and Eve in the To watch a video about Mocking the faithful is a favorite activity Garden of Eden, He told them, “Of every tree standing up for what we at the great and spacious building. President of the garden thou mayest freely eat” (Moses believe and to listen to Thomas S. Monson has said: “Increasingly, 3:16). Do the words “every tree” sound like a youth explain why they some celebrities and others . . . in the public restriction to you? While God told Adam and choose to keep their eye have a tendency to ridicule religion in Eve that there were specific consequences standards, watch “Dare general and, at times, the Church in particu- for eating of the tree of knowledge of good to Stand Alone” (lds. lar. If our testimonies are not firmly enough and evil, He never physically restricted them. org/go/93Alone) and rooted, such criticisms can cause us to doubt They had the whole garden to themselves “I Choose to Be Pure” our own beliefs or to waver in our resolves.” 2 and were told, “Thou mayest choose for (lds.org/go/93Pure). It seems as though no matter where we thyself, for it is given unto thee” (Moses 3:17). go in life, whether in person or online, there That sounds like freedom to me! will be an open window from the great and So it’s interesting that when Satan comes spacious building nearby with someone ready along later he says, “Yea, hath God said—Ye to point a finger and laugh at the things we shall not eat of every tree of the garden?” value. We have probably all experienced (Moses 4:7). Essentially, Satan was asking, this mockery at different times, and it can “Why can’t you eat the fruit of that tree?” in be very painful. We know we should react the same mocking tone that comes from the in a Christlike manner, but it’s not always windows of the great and spacious building. easy. Nobody likes to be laughed at or have Satan focused on the one thing that God deeply held beliefs belittled. Like Nate, we had attached consequences to, and he made might sometimes respond with a phrase like “I it sound as though God wanted to deprive can’t—I’m Mormon,” only to hear others laugh Adam and Eve. Satan twisted God’s words, even harder. adding lies in the effort to convince them to follow him instead of God. In the end, “I Can’t . . .” partaking of the fruit had been part of the Have you ever noticed how mockers plan all along. And God provided a Savior to always tend to focus on the word can’t? As in, give Adam and Eve and all their children the “Why can’t you drink that?” “Why can’t you chance to grow and return home. go shopping with me on Sunday?” or “Why can’t you have sex before you’re married?” “I Won’t!” This focus on the word can’t may cause us And what is it we’re really saying when to feel powerless. It may feel as though we’re we say, “I can’t—I’m Mormon”? Are we weak and spineless. It may feel as though really saying, “I wish I could, and if I weren’t

6 New Era THE POWER TO CHOOSE “Because [the children of men] are redeemed from the fall they have become free forever, knowing good from evil; to act for themselves and not to be acted upon” (2 Nephi 2:26).

Mormon, I totally would”? I once had Using “I won’t” instead of “I can’t” is the gospel path truly do stand out. a friend who used to joke about all also a monumental act of courage. It But they are not alone. As President the things he’d like to do if he weren’t doesn’t take any courage to follow the Thomas S. Monson has invited us, a member of the Church. The problem crowds down the various paths of the “May we ever be courageous and was, I couldn’t always tell if he was world. Anyone can do that. Standing prepared to stand for what we believe, joking. up for the truth shows real faith. and if we must stand alone in the Rather than focusing on can’t and Standing out from the world takes real process, may we do so courageously, don’t, we would be much better off courage. It shows that we are truly strengthened by the knowledge that if we used the word won’t. As in, “I using our agency and really thinking in reality we are never alone when we won’t—I’m Mormon.” Using won’t for ourselves. The people in the great stand with our Father in Heaven.” 3 NE instead of can’t changes the focus and spacious building are always Dennis C. Gaunt lives in Utah, USA. of the phrase and shows that we are referred to as a nameless crowd, a empowered to choose for ourselves. faceless mob. In the end, their words By saying, “I won’t,” we’re saying, “I’m are hollow and meaningless. By faith- choosing not to do that, not because fully exercising our agency, we can I’m a blind follower or because I’m find the courage to say, as did Lehi restricted but because I believe in and the brave and faithful members agency and accountability and I want of his family, “We heeded them not” NOTES 1. Spencer W. Kimball, Faith Precedes the to do what’s right. I am choosing (1 Nephi 8:33). Miracle (1972), 229. to act and not be acted upon” (see Amid an increasingly wicked 2. Thomas S. Monson, “Dare to Stand Alone,” Ensign, Nov. 2011, 60. 2 Nephi 2:14, 26). world, those who stand up and walk 3. Thomas S. Monson, “Dare to Stand Alone,” 67.

September 2013 7 FROM THE MISSION FIELD

Through THIN WALLS

We didn’t realize until later and feelings freely. She had fallen in When he had a successful day, he would that as we taught one family love and run away from home with buy food and, sometimes, small gifts for the gospel, we were also teach- Oscar, even though her parents didn’t the children. But when sales were poor, approve. Neither she nor her husband he would often return home depressed, ing their neighbor next door. had any education or a job, and their angry, and drunk. future was bleak. She wondered if We felt challenged to help them deal By Monica Garcia Adams God had abandoned her and if He with so many temporal concerns. But we s sister missionaries, we were was punishing them for the poor also felt urged by the Spirit to continue sharing the gospel with a choices they had made. loving and teaching them, even though A woman who lived in modest Oscar peddled trinkets door to door at times their progress was disappointing. circumstances at the bottom of a large in an effort to help his family survive. After several more visits and after praying hill near a small city dump on the outskirts of Asunción, Paraguay. Soledad and her husband, Oscar, lived in one room of a long, narrow house that was actually a series of connected rooms, side by side, with very thin walls. Each room was a tiny residence with one window, one door, one table, and one bed. There were several such buildings in this area, constructed of wood, with a thatched roof and dirt floors. Clay that had been pushed into the crevices kept out some of the cold.

Soledad Listened Soledad was the mother of three young children, and she was young herself—and overwhelmed. It was all she could do to take care of her home and the daily demands of her children. But she seemed to welcome our visits and to recognize a need for God in her life. Soledad expressed her thoughts

8 New Era sincerely, we finally felt we needed Juan Listened Too Book of Mormon for the next two to give them some time to consider Unknown to us, however, the days. Soledad also prayed earnestly what we had taught, study the Book neighbor next door, Juan, had been and talked with Oscar. Together they of Mormon, and pray by themselves. listening through the wall to what we began reading the Book of Mormon. We explained our concerns to had been teaching. He was young, Soledad, and she was upset. She felt curious, and painfully shy. As he had And Heavenly Father Listened we were abandoning her family. She listened, he’d had many questions Two days after the storm, as my also told us they were expecting a about the plan of salvation, the Book companion and I knelt in prayer, fourth child and didn’t know how of Mormon, and repentance. He had we felt compelled to return to the they would survive. In anger she told even been borrowing Soledad’s copy tiny little homes at the bottom of

ILLUSTRATION BY SAM LAWLOR ILLUSTRATION us to leave and never return. of the Book of Mormon, reading it, the hill. We went immediately, and and praying regarding all that he had when we arrived, we were greeted been quietly learning. with happy tears and excitement by Days passed. Juan began to worry Soledad, Oscar, their children, and when we did not return to teach Juan. They told us all that had hap- Soledad and Oscar. Then one night, pened, and from that time on, all of as a heavy winter storm was brewing, them were eager to learn about the he asked Soledad where we lived gospel. It wasn’t long before Juan and how he could contact us. She said was baptized, and Soledad and Oscar she didn’t know, and he began to cry. soon followed. He bore his testimony to her of the I remember wondering why we truthfulness of our message and ran were so strongly impressed to keep out into the stormy night to look for teaching even when Soledad and us as rain poured down, turning the Oscar weren’t responding well. I streets into muddy rivers. remember wondering why we felt Hours later, tired and cold, he such an urgency to return when we continued to search. He began to had been chased away in anger. pray as he made his way through But as I saw the joy that came into the darkness, promising his Father Juan’s life and then into Soledad in Heaven that if He would help him and Oscar’s family, I knew that not find us, he would be baptized and only was Juan listening through serve Him all the days of his life. In thin walls but that Heavenly Father the meantime, Soledad, impressed by was listening to prayers from each Juan’s testimony, started praying that of us in turn, prayers that came we would return. Juan came home from the heart. NE but continued to pray and read the Monica Garcia Adams lives in Utah, USA.

September 2013 9 ith a playing position The two brothers are widely rec- Kevin and Brandon were fortunate named “attack,” lacrosse ognized for their athletic accomplish- enough to play on the same varsity is anything but a slow- ments. Yet Brandon and Kevin are team for two years before Brandon paced sport. Watch a few minutes of a each quick to attribute their success graduated. They decided in younger lacrosse match and you’ll soon realize not just to practice but also to keeping years that they’d always keep the there really isn’t any downtime. the commandments. Word of Wisdom as outlined in “I enjoy the speed of the game,” says Doctrine and Covenants 89. As two of Kevin C., a senior from Georgia, USA, Run and Not Be Weary only a few members of the Church in who plays the position of attack for If you were listing sports where their school, they were in the minority his high school’s varsity lacrosse team. you needed to “run and not be weary” of young men who lived such high “Lacrosse is a blend of so many sports, (D&C 89:20), lacrosse would fit the health standards. like football, soccer, and hockey.” description. This sport requires stam- “One of the biggest downsides Kevin was recently awarded the ina, strength, solid hand-eye coordina- of the sport is the atmosphere,” says status of All-American in lacrosse, tion, and in some cases, more moves Kevin. A lot of the players would party a national honor given to only a than a ballroom dance competition. hard outside of practice, including handful of high school athletes from You have to be able to bob and some smoking and drinking. When each state. Even more remarkable, weave, catch and throw, and run and it came time to pull off a six-mile run perhaps, is that his older brother turn on a dime—all while dodging for practice, those same players often Brandon—now serving a full-time a flurry of lacrosse sticks coming at had a harder time keeping up. The mission in Salt Lake City, Utah—was you from every direction. Getting into brothers’ commitment to the Word also given the same award for lacrosse shape for lacrosse requires intense of Wisdom and good health “really

one year earlier. training and conditioning. showed during our play on the field OF BRANDON AND KEVIN C. PHOTOGRAPHS COURTESY

10 New Era Brandon C. Kevin C.

and during practice,” says Kevin. Setting an Example Brandon, in an email from his Both Brandon and Kevin have mission, says, “I have no doubt proven their skills and talents on that a huge part of [our success in the field time and again. In addition lacrosse] was because God blessed to being named All-American, they us with health because we lived the have each served as captain on the Word of Wisdom.” varsity lacrosse team. Captains are chosen by votes from the players Keeping the Sabbath on the team. And yet their contribu- Day Holy tions on the field are only part of the Kevin and Brandon had also overall picture. made a firm commitment to keep The other students in their school the Sabbath day holy. For them, that look up to these brothers not only meant no practices or games on because of what they have accom- Sunday. “No exceptions,” Kevin says. plished (including earning Eagle This particular decision was tested Scout awards) but also because of who they are and how they treat oth- ers. “These young men are so kind,” says Meagan M., an older ward mem- ber who has watched Brandon and Kevin over the years. “They are very well respected.” When Brandon was leaving for his regularly. But they never faltered. mission, he invited all the players on “Like most sports, lacrosse has his lacrosse team to attend sacrament a lot of tournaments on Sunday,” meeting to hear him speak. Many Kevin explains. “I’ve missed count- teammates attended, most of whom less tournaments.” had never been to an LDS Church Brandon and Kevin helped each meeting before. Brandon spoke other keep that resolve. “Once we about the importance of obeying the made the decision, it was simple,” Word of Wisdom and keeping the Kevin explains. Over the years, coaches Sabbath day holy. and teammates have grown to respect Lacrosse is a demanding sport, the brothers’ commitment. Sometimes for certain. However, Kevin and their team had to play without one or Brandon met those demands well two of its star players, but Brandon and while continually choosing to center Kevin know where their priorities lie. their lives in the gospel. “Our faith is “We really do believe in the command- much stronger than our love of the

PHOTOGRAPHS COURTESY OF BRANDON AND KEVIN C. PHOTOGRAPHS COURTESY ments,” says Kevin. game,” says Kevin. NE

September 2013 11 Be a LIGHT to Your Friends 12 New Era By Elder Benjamín De Hoyos Of the Seventy When my friends and I became teenagers, things began to change between us.

grew up with the same friends One of the things that helped me When I was in high school, one of for the first 12 years of my life. get through this hard time was going my friends invited me to a party and I We were neighbors. We went to every week to Church activities, said, “Let’s go ask my father if we can the same schools and attended each including Mutual. I also kept myself borrow his car.” His father did not other’s birthday parties. I sometimes busy with dancing, sports, and youth want to let him borrow the car. Then, ate at their homes, they came to conferences. when his father saw me, he said, “OK, mine, and we had fun together. But I made a new friend who was I’ll let you borrow the car, but only if when we became teenagers, things not a member of the Church, and Benjamín will drive.” began to change. They were not he sometimes invited me to go to This man knew that my family and members of the Church, and they parties. These parties were the same I were members of the Church, that swore, they smoked, and they drank day as Mutual, so I told him, “I’m we didn’t drink alcohol, and that I alcohol. They had a completely sorry. I would like to go, but I have would be a safe driver. different view of the law of chastity other plans.” The reaction of my friend’s father than I did. He asked what I was doing. I told helped me appreciate my parents’ I thought about the problem him, “I’m going to Mutual.” teachings and the example they set. carefully, and then I talked to my “What’s Mutual?” he asked. At home we had family home evening father about what to do. He said, I explained that we had a lot of and family prayer. Sunday was a day “You have to decide. These good fun activities at Mutual and that I was of rest for us. These types of things friends are different from you. serving as a counselor in the presi­ were the gospel in action for us, and Before you couldn’t tell, but now dency. After I turned down three we enjoyed it a lot. My father often there’s a very big difference.” invitations to his parties, he said, invited other members of the Church I trusted my father’s counsel. My “Invite me to Mutual.” to come to our house to talk about the friends knew I was a member of the So he came with me, the mis- gospel on Sunday afternoons. We ate Church, so when I decided not to sionaries taught him, and he was together, we talked about the gospel, always go everywhere they went, they eventually baptized. and we shared a close friendship. understood. Eventually, we spent less I invite you to make decisions Prepare now to build your own and less time together even though now so that you can be a light to strong future families. You do that we were still friendly. your friends. One thing you can do when you are active in learning It was a trial for me to leave is attend seminary. Your seminary about the gospel. Remember that my friends, but I knew that it was teachers do their part; they put forth if you will put your trust in God; important to maintain the principles a lot of effort in preparing lessons for have daily, fervent prayer; read the of the gospel in my life. I thought you. Seminary will be even more of scriptures; keep yourselves clean; about Alma’s counsel to his sons a blessing to you when you do your and work on your Duty to God when he taught them to have faith part: read the assignments, pray and or Personal Progress, you will be LIGHT in God. He said, “Whosoever shall fast, receive and accept the teachings. protected from harm, will be a light put their trust in God shall be Learning takes place when both parties to your friends, and will find joy in to Your Friends BY SCOTT GREER ILLUSTRATION supported in their trials” (Alma 36:3). do what they need to do. your life. NE September 2013 13 QUESTIONS & ANSWERS

“Some of my friends Invite the Spirit This can be a very hard have questions about situation, especially when you want to share the Church, the gospel. The most but it seems they important thing to remember is that the Spirit cannot just want to argue. reside where there is contention. The best way to share the gospel is to bear How can I avoid an testimony, and when you bear testi- mony, the Spirit can and will be there. When I am confronted with a situation argument like this, I remain calm and simply turn this bear testimony that I know the gospel is true or that the answer I give to a into an and particular question is what I believe. As I approach situations in this man- ner, people are more open and opportunity respectful because they feel the Spirit. Allison A., 18, Rhineland-Palatinate, to share?” Germany

he Savior taught, “Behold, this is not my doc– Don’t Give Up trine, to stir up the hearts of men with anger, If they are asking ques- one against another” (3 Nephi 11:30). Christ does tions about the Church not want us to argue, and He certainly does not and they just want to want us to argue about His gospel. argue, then they proba- TSo when you’re speaking with friends who want only bly don’t really want to argue about the Church, it might be wisest to exit to know more about the Church. the conversation as soon as possible. You can tell them However, don’t give up. Pray and ask you would love to answer their sincere questions, but for inspiration from God. He will tell because the gospel is important to you and your friends you what to do and give the Spirit to are important to you, you don’t want to fight with them help reach their hearts if they open about it. Bear a sincere testimony and invite them to them. If you do it His way, good will learn more. come of it. You could also try to focus on what you have in James D., 15, Utah, USA common. Ask them about what they believe and then explain how your beliefs are similar or dissimilar. Explain Don’t Demand the Last Word that regardless of what either of you believes, you are It’s easy to let others’ argumentative friends first. NE approach trigger a defensive attitude

14 New Era in you. Calmly state the facts and use anyone on the spot. Remain a peace- friendly, cheerful language. Patiently maker and stay respectful. SHOW CHRISTLIKE explain that you can see where they Katrina H., 16, California, USA LOVE are coming from, but explain the “We should appre- truths and why you believe them. Stay Positive ciate and approach Being defensive or arguing back will This situation can be [faith-centered] only invite more anger and fighting. awkward, but what I’ve conversations with Christlike love. Our If you’ve tried to be patient and calm discovered is pretty tone, whether speaking or writing, and they’re still not listening, then it simple: stay positive! should be respectful and civil, regardless of the response of others. We should be may be best to just let them have the Even if your friends are honest and open and try to be clear in last word. Remember it’s not going to trying to argue, then they are still what we say. We want to avoid arguing be your last word that touches them asking questions! Answer their ques- or becoming defensive in any way.” most—it’s going to be the Holy Ghost. tions with a smile on your face. More Elder L. Tom Perry of the Quorum of the Mary Ann C., 18, Missouri, USA often than not, this attitude will rub Twelve Apostles, “Perfect Love Casteth Out Fear,” Ensign, Nov. 2011, 43. off, and you will be able to finish your Stand Up for What You Believe discussion in a calm environment Probably the best way to respond is where you can both feel the Spirit. It by listening to the Spirit for guidance. can be nerve-racking, but just remem- Responses are intended for help and perspective, not as official pronouncements You can pray to know what to say ber to “be strong and of a good cour- of Church doctrine. either before people ask or quickly in age; be not afraid, neither be thou your heart after they ask. Be honest dismayed: for the Lord thy God is Read More Find additional ideas in “Answering and remember Paul’s conviction: “For with thee whithersoever thou goest” Difficult Questions about the Church” by I am not ashamed of the gospel of ( Joshua 1:9). Young Men general president David L. Beck in the September 2012 New Era or online at Christ: for it is the power of God unto Amberly L., 18, Arizona, USA lds ​.org/​go/​93Answer. salvation to every one that believeth” (Romans 1:16). Stand up for what you believe in; the gospel is valuable to you and everyone you meet. UPCOMING QUESTION Nicholas J., 20, Utah, USA “How can I learn Send your answer and photo by October 15, 2013. Be a Peacemaker to show Go to newera.lds​ ​.org and click “Submit Your Work.” If they start to argue, respect You can also write to us at newera@ldschurch​ .org​ or then try saying some- New Era, Q&A, siblings thing like, “This is what and love 50 E. North Temple St., Rm. 2420 Salt Lake City, UT 84150-0024, USA my religion believes, for my younger Responses may be edited for length or clarity. and it’s OK if you don’t siblings when agree. I respect your beliefs, so please they sometimes seem respect mine.” It’s our job as Church members to share the gospel truth, to be so difficult?” not to prove anyone wrong or convert

September 2013 15 WARRIORS What can you teach your family about ancient battle armor? Plenty.

By David Dickson Church Magazines

our parents have asked you to give the family home evening lesson. But you’re not quite sure what Y might keep everyone in your family engaged. Have no fear. An amazing lesson is a mere suit of armor away! First, get your hands on a complete set of medieval armor. Make sure you find a full assortment. We’re talking helmet, breastplate, shield, sword, the works. Next, you . . . what’s that? Your local thrift store is clean out of medieval battle armor? Hmm. Well, in that case, there’s another suit of “armor” you can use for an object lesson instead.

A Different Kind of Warrior For this particular object lesson, all you need is a set of scriptures, a large clear vase or pitcher, and two oranges (keep one hidden at first). The orange will represent your medieval warrior. Fill the pitcher or vase three-quarters full with water before the lesson begins. When it’s time for the lesson, carefully place one orange in the water. What happens? (Hint: It floats!) The peel is like armor that protects the orange, just as the armor of

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God protects us. That same armor of God also holds us up and keeps us from sinking in the waters of life. Next, pull the orange out of the water and remove the peel. Place it back in the water and watch with a sigh of sadness as your not-so-protected warrior now sinks like a rock. (Singing ballads of your citrus warrior’s brave deeds would be entirely appropriate at this point.) What connections do you see between this activity and the gospel? That’s where your object lesson can turn into a great discussion. Here are a couple of teaching ideas you might use to help you and your family learn together.

Staying Afloat in a Troubled World As you start your lesson, consider discussing the armor of God mentioned in Ephesians 6:10–18. While chatting with your family, you could talk about different ways armor provides protection—including the armor of God. You could ask questions such as “How can faith be a shield?” or “Why do you think righteousness is the breastplate?” Don’t forget that you can refer back to your citrus war- rior. Think about what we learn from the orange that sank when the “armor” was removed. What can happen in our own lives if we decide not to follow the commandments? LESSON RESOURCES It’s like choosing not to put on the armor of God. Share teachings from living prophets, such as this one from President Thomas S. Monson: “What will protect Suiting Up Again you from the sin and evil around you? I maintain that Remember, we never have to stay like that orange with- a strong testimony of our Savior and of His gospel will out a peel. Repentance lets us put back on the armor of help see you through to safety” (“Priesthood Power,” God at any time. You may want to find a quote or scripture Ensign, May 2011, 66). about repentance to share. This would also be an appro- Review what Elder Robert D. Hales of the Quorum of the priate time to bring out your second orange and place it in Twelve Apostles taught about the armor of God in his April the water to represent what repentance can do for us. Yes, 2013 general conference talk “Stand Strong in Holy Places” your citrus warrior is ready to fight again. at lds.org/go/93Strong. To download a poster of the illus- Finish your lesson by bearing testimony about the prin- tration from his talk, see the June 2013 New Era (page 49) ciples you’ve discussed. or lds.org/go/93Armor. And that’s it! Remember, this is only one object lesson you Listen to the seminary song “The Whole Armor of God.” could share. Family home evening lessons don’t need to be Go to lds ​.org/​youth/​music and search for the song by title. long or complex to be awesome, memorable, and effective.

PHOTO ILLUSTRATIONS BY NATE GINES; PHOTOGRAPHS BY WELDEN C. ANDERSEN AND TOP PHOTO GROUP/THINKSTOCK BY NATE PHOTO ILLUSTRATIONS So, should you have a treat? Fresh oranges, anyone? NE

September 2013 17 No Matter No By SierraStites many years ago. her promiseever sincemyfamilymoved closetoatemple would (for gooften her, onceaweek), andshehaskept Heavenly Fatherthatifsheever lived nearatempleshe the earlySaturday templesession. morning Shepromised as IcanrememberI’ve seenmy momcominghomefrom long timeago. I’mtheyoungest of12kids, andfor aslong week?” Myanswer thishabita isthatmyfamilystarted one forces metogo—it’s mychoice. andattendthetemple. morning I stillgetupthenext No Seeing herexample mademewant togoinsidethe People have asked me, doyou dothisevery “Why

school ontime. Even ifIgotobedlateMonday night, get upat4:00a.m. togothetempleandmake itto go tothetempleevery Tuesday morning. Ihave to My mom’sMy examplemademewanttovisitthetempleregularly. temple somuch. acountdown to Istarted my 12thbirthday whenIwas only4!My mom would take mysiblingsandme to thetemplegrounds, andthisonly made my desire to go inside the made mydesiretogoinsidethe temple grow even more. took me to the temple! The took metothetemple! The temple workers were sonice and treatedmelike aprincess. For my12th birthday, mymom I’d never experienced anything How Early How Sierra Stites livesinUtah,USA. Sierra the temple, nomatterhow earlywe have togetup. good example. Itestifythatblessingscomewhen we goto I feel morelove for othersandanincreaseddesiretobea different light. Myfaithandtestimonyhave increased, and I’ve donebetterinschool, andIseemytemptationsina It’s notalways easytowake upthatearly, butit’s worth it. idea, andwe have beengoingtogetherever since. and asked ifshewould take me. Shethoughtitwas agreat I wanted togothetempleevery week before school felt like somethingwas missinginmylife. Itoldmymom thanked herfor herexample. I wipedtearsfrommyeyes asIhuggedmymomand will never forget thepeace mymomandIfelt. Afterward like thetempleinmylife, andtheSpiritwas sostrong. I Temple—a BeacontotheWorld,” Ensign, I’ve received manyblessingsfromgoingtothetemple. That year Icontinued togoonyouth templetripsbut “My belovedbrothersandsisters, maywe THE SPIRITOFTEMPLE attend the temple and to have the spirit of attend thetempleandtohave spiritof the templeinourheartsand homes.” make whateversacrificesarenecessaryto President Thomas S. Monson, “The Holy Holy President Thomas S.Monson,“The May 2011, 94. NE

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LAUNCH & CARNEHAN BY DRAVOT ILLUSTRATION YOUR FUTURE Fuel up with knowledge and see how far your learning will take you. By Mindy Raye Friedman Church Magazines

our alarm goes off, and as you reach to KEEP YOUR COOL turn it off you suddenly remember, “Oh no, it’s my first day at a new school!” As at a Y tempted as you are to pull the covers over your head and go back to sleep, you know NEWNEW you’ve got to face the day. But what if nobody likes you? What if you can’t make friends or if people make fun of you when they find out you’re a member of the SCHOOL SCHOOL Church? Relax! You’ve got this covered. Remembering these 5 principles can help you face an unfamiliar place. Remember these five gospel principles and let your worries fade away.

REMEMBER WHO YOU ARE LET THE GOSPEL LIFT YOU You are a child of God and He loves you. You The gospel provides answers and guidance for the can rely on Heavenly Father when you need com- situations you face every day. For example, a young man fort. Even if you don’t make friends at school right from Nigeria found comfort when he needed to take an away, He will not leave you alone. Sister Elaine S. exam for school but didn’t have the required money (read Dalton, former Young Women general president, “A Test to Take Tests” on page 47). In every situation, think taught: “When you make a transition, you are about how the gospel can help you. For example, if you’re never alone. Our Heavenly Father knows exactly struggling to keep up in your new classes, read Doctrine where you are, and He will be with you” (“How and Covenants 88:118 and you’ll find that you can get help to Dare Great Things,” New Era, Mar. 2012, 48). from the Lord as you learn. If you’re surrounded by bad For more information on God’s love and com- things at school, study the life and teachings of Moroni—he fort, read John 3:16, John 14:18, 2 Nephi 1:15, had great insight on living in a world full of wickedness and Alma 26:37. (see Mormon 8 and Ether 12, along with his father’s coun- sel in Moroni 9).

20 New Era PHOTO ILLUSTRATION BY JOHN LUKE; PENCIL AND PAPERS FROM ISTOCKPHOTO/THINKSTOCK watch thevideo “A True Friend” at make ahugedifference inyour life. For moreonthistopic, you andhelpyoufriends whosupport live thegospel—they’ll that thepeopleyou spendyour time with arethekindsof Friend” on pages 46–47 ofthisissue. Friend” onpages46–47 also read “My FriendStoodUpwithMe” and “An Unexpected the “Friends” inFor section the ofYouth. Strength You can SEEK OUTGOODFRIENDS Be friendlytoeveryone atyour new school, butmake sure g/ lds ​.or ​go/ ​93T rue and read read blessing you witheachday. record ofthem, tohelpyou focus onallthethingsGodis try countingyour blessings,try perhaps even keeping adaily Stand Alone” at then watch President Thomas S. Monson’s video “Dare to your standards, readJoshua1:9and2 Timothy 4:7, and beliefs. (To moreabouthaving learn tokeep courage who admireyou whenyou have tolive thecourage your same standardsyou have, butyou willfindsomepeople immediately. Noteveryone atyour schoolwillhave the although you may notalways recognizethoseblessings we keep the commandments (see D&C 130:20–21), we keep thecommandments(seeD&C130:20–21), you believe, becausegreatblessingscomewhen greater peaceofmindwhenyou standupfor what keeping your standards, rememberthatyou’ll have FOCUS ONYOURBLESSINGS and SpaciousBuilding?” onpage4ofthisissue. You canalsoread “What’s SoGreataboutthe Matthew 5:16, and Covenants andDoctrine 115:5. more aboutbeinganexample, read1 Timothy 4:12, Rather than worry ifpeoplewilljudgeyou thanworry Rather for always pretendingtobesomeoneelse. To learn being around someone who is genuine and not being aroundsomeonewhoisgenuineandnot knowledge. Your friendsandpeerswillappreciate and act inawayand act that’s consistentwithyour gospel about doingwhat’s right. Justbewhoyou are is notaboutcallingattentiontoyourself—it’s you stickouteven more. Butbeinganexample announcing you’re aLatter-day Saintwillmake out by beingthenew kidinschoolandthat BE ANEXAMPLEANDYOURSELF You may beworried thatyou’ll alreadystick g/ lds ​.or ​go/

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21 By Elder D. Todd Christofferson Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles

STEPS to Happiness

Commandments are not given to restrict but rather to make possible what we truly desire and what our Heavenly Father, who loves us, wants for us.

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This Month’s Topic: The Commandments

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t times, some people get Father who loves us gives unto confused, thinking that the us according to our desires. If we A commandments are restrictions desire it, He is going to give us more or limitations that complicate life, that commandments in order to facilitate take away opportunities or happiness our progress. or the pleasures of life. In reality, the So, young people, please don’t commandments protect us and guide complain about the commandments. us to happiness. They are not to Don’t say, “I don’t want any more,” hroughout September you’ll be restrict but rather to make possible— but rather say, “Yes, more, more. Tstudying about the commandments to allow us to achieve in this life and I want to progress. I want to be in your priesthood quorums and Young in the next—what we truly desire and happy. I want to be like my Heavenly Women and Sunday School classes. what our Heavenly Father, who loves Father. And the commandments show You may want to think about some us, wants for us. me how to do so. They open up the commandments that your peers often They are like a flight of stairs. Each pathway before me and also protect struggle with. What blessings have you step may represent one command­ me from evil and the things that or others received by following those ment, and with each commandment destroy happiness—and sometimes commandments? Think about ways you that we obey, we can move upward. they even protect life itself.” could testify of those blessings to people Then, if we understand the essence I hope that you’re convinced. We around you, and follow the Spirit to know of the commandments, we want have to do all things necessary to keep what to say and when to say it. You could more. We don’t feel resentment the commandments, even if it seems role-play some examples during a family regarding the commandments; we we are all alone as we do so. NE home evening or share your testimony

want more in order to be able to From an address given to youth in Salta, during a Sunday School lesson. progress more. And a Heavenly Argentina, in November 2011. Consider sharing your experiences at lds.org/go/93Steps. You can even send your story to the New Era at newera. For more information on this topic, see President Thomas S. Monson, “Obedience Brings Blessings,” Ensign, lds.org (click “Submit Your Work”) or by

ILLUSTRATION BY DAVID HABBEN; PHOTO ILLUSTRATION BY ROBERT CASEY © IRI HABBEN; PHOTO ILLUSTRATION BY DAVID ILLUSTRATION May 2013, 89; and Elder L. Tom Perry, “Obedience to Law Is Liberty,” Ensign, May 2013, 86. You can also emailing [email protected]. read or watch these addresses at conference.lds.org. September 2013 23 single piece Type of bow: We can’t be sure, but Why it broke: Again, we can’t be sure, of wood Nephi tells us that it was “made of fine but increased heat and changed humidity steel” (1 Nephi 16:18). This mention of (going from Jerusalem to the southwestern metal as part of the bow’s construction Arabian Peninsula) may have weakened implies that it was strong and probably had the bow. This may also explain why Laman a good draw weight (the energy built up and Lemuel’s bows “lost their springs” when the arrow is drawn back) and thus a (1 Nephi 16:21). good range and force for each shot.

Some larger animals found in the Nephi’s new bow was probably a southwestern Arabian Peninsula that different size (most likely longer) Nephi and his brothers could have and had a different draw weight hunted include the nubian ibex (a kind (probably weaker) than his first one. of goat), oryx (a kind of antelope), This may have required making a new, and mountain gazelle. Several smaller customized arrow so that it would fly animals also inhabit the area. straight and far. And, by the way, it says he made “an arrow” (1 Nephi 16:23). Just one? Now that’s faith.

ibex azelle more complex an x in g bi ry a steel bow u o nt n u o m

24 New Era The story of the weapon Nephi built in order to solve a problem may hold lessons for you. Type of bow: Nephi says he “did make out of wood a bow” (1 Nephi 16:23). A bow made of a single piece of wood is called a self bow. How it was made: Nephi would have had to carve a piece of wood long enough, thick enough, straight enough, and flexible yet strong enough to draw back with great force without breaking it. Suitable wood in the area may have It had to be made. Unlike the Liahona (see included olive, pomegranate, acacia, or juniper. 1 Nephi 16:10), the new bow did not miraculously How it compared to the first bow: Bows made appear one morning. It took someone with learn- only of wood are generally weaker than those that combine ing, skill, ingenuity, and determination to make it. various materials, having less range and force. So Nephi may We should prepare ourselves to be the ones who have had to work harder to hunt the animals. can do what needs to be done. It wouldn’t have been easy to make or use. The problems we face aren’t always easily solved. Doing hard things is part of life. Nephi built it on his own initiative. Nephi chose to act. He did what he could to fix a bad situation. He didn’t wait to be “compelled in all things” but decided to be “anxiously engaged” and do something “of [his] own free will” (D&C 58:26–27). The Lord then blessed his efforts by helping him have a successful hunt (see 1 Nephi 16:30–31). Nephi built the bow while others complained (see 1 Nephi 16:18, 20, 22). Elder Jeffrey R. Holland of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles has said, “Speak encouragingly, including about your- self. Try not to complain and moan incessantly. . . . No misfortune is so bad that whining about it won’t make it worse” (“The Tongue of Angels,” Ensign, May 2007, 18).

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ILLUSTRATIONS BY BETH JEPSON; TEXTURES FROM ISTOCKPHOTO/THINKSTOCK ILLUSTRATIONS From Jerusalem, Lehi’s family traveled to “the borders “Have the determination to make the effort, the near the shore of the Red Sea” (1 Nephi 2:5) and then single-mindedness to work toward a worthy went in “nearly a south-southeast direction, . . . keeping goal, and the courage not only to face the challenges that inevitably come but also to in the most fertile parts of the wilderness, which were in make a second effort, should such be required.” the borders near the Red Sea” (1 Nephi 16:13–14). This President Thomas S. Monson, “Living the Abundant Life,” would place them somewhere in the rugged mountainous Ensign, Jan. 2012, 5. areas of the southwestern Arabian Peninsula.

September 2013 25 FINDING PEACE in a Troubled World

During the April 2013 general conference, prophets reminded us that through the Savior we can—and should—be of good cheer.

PEACE to Overcome Fear and Sorrow

ometimes when “We live at a time in the world’s history when there are many difficult chal- we listen to the lenges but also great opportunities and reasons for rejoicing. There are, of Snews or deal course, those times when we experience disappointments, heartaches, and with the day-to-day even tragedies in our lives. However, if we will put our trust in the Lord, He challenges of life, we will help us through our difficulties, whatever they may be. The Psalmist provided this assurance: ‘Weeping may endure for may wonder where to Watch or read turn for comfort and a night, but joy cometh in the morning (Psalm 30:5).’” the full talk at g/lds ​.or President Thomas S. Monson, “Until We Meet Again,” Ensign, ​go/ hope. Fortunately, May 2013, 114. ​93Trust . we are blessed with prophets and apos- tles who give wise hen the phone call came, I could hear Although I was just a sophomore in high counsel on how we Wmy mother in another room, talking school, this wasn’t the first time our family can find hope through quietly with her doctor—the tone of her had received news that our mom’s health the Savior. And as voice steady but concerned. I instantly felt was in jeopardy. When I was just four years the following experi- worried. I needed to find out what was hap- old, my dad sat me down during our evening pening, and something inside me told me storytelling time to explain that my mother ences show, we can, the news wouldn’t be good. had breast cancer. indeed, find peace in “The cancer is back, and this time it’s in my Since then, she’d undergone rounds of our lives as promised liver,” my mom told me when she got off the surgery, chemotherapy, and radiation. The in conference and in phone. “The doctor wants me to come in for treatments had always seemed to work, but the scriptures. more tests to see how far it’s spread.” with each new discovery of cancer in her

26 New Era body, her chances of survival grew dimmer. I instantly felt a comforting feeling wash Over the next few weeks after this most over me. The scripture on the Mormonad recent phone call, I started to feel hopeless was a simple statement, but it seemed to as I watched my mother struggling to cope pierce my heart. The Savior’s promise that with her illness. Despite doing all the things He would always be by my side lifted my I knew I should be doing, like going to spirits and increased my faith. From then PEACE THROUGH seminary, reading my scriptures, praying, on, I knew that no matter what happened, THE SAVIOR and fasting, I still felt a looming cloud of I would be watched over through my trials. “Peace comes from knowing despair hang over me. My prayers to find comfort during a trou- that the Savior knows who we are and knows that we Peace seemed to elude me, until one bling time had been answered. My testi- have faith in Him, love Him, morning when I was getting ready for school. mony that I am a daughter of God and that and keep His command- I was eating cereal at our kitchen table in my He knows me personally was strengthened ments, even and especially usual hurried fashion and was running late that day. Since that morning I have known amid life’s devastating trials to try to catch the school bus. Suddenly I that I will truly never be alone because the and tragedies.” looked up and saw a painting of the Savior’s Savior is always with me. Elder Quentin L. Cook of the Quorum of the face with the words “You Are Never Alone” Jonelle M., Utah, USA Twelve Apostles, “Personal printed in bold letters above it. It was a Peace: The Reward of Righteousness,” Mormonad poster that my mom and I had Ensign, May 2013, 33. taped to the side of the fridge a few months

earlier. I took a closer look and read Watch or read the full talk, the scripture at the bottom of the poster: where Elder Cook provides additional counsel for finding “I will not leave you comfortless: I will peace, at lds ​.org/​go/​93Reward. come to you” ( John 14:18).

See the Mormonad at lds ​.org/​go/​93Peace. ILLUSTRATIONS BY JENNIFER TOLMAN; BACKGROUND ISTOCKPHOTO/THINKSTOCK ILLUSTRATIONS PEACE TO BRING CHEER “I invite you to walk con- fidently and joyfully. Yes, PEACE to Overcome Temptation the road has bumps and detours and even some “By anchoring our lives to Jesus Christ and to His Atonement and by hazards. But don’t focus carefully following His plans for our happiness, including daily prayer, daily on them. Look for the scripture study, and weekly partaking of the sacrament, we will be strength- happiness your Father in Heaven has prepared for ened, we will experience real personal growth and a lasting conversion, we you in every step of your will be better prepared to successfully withstand the storms and calamities journey. Happiness is the of life, we will experience the joy and happiness promised, and destination, but it’s also we will have the confidence that our lives have been built the path. ‘Peace in this Watch or read upon a sure foundation—a foundation that will never fall.” the full talk at world, and eternal life Bishop Dean M. Davies, Second Counselor in the Presiding Bishopric, g/ lds ​.or ​go/ in the world to come’ is “A Sure Foundation,” Ensign, May 2013, 11. 93Sure. ​ what He promises (D&C 59:23). That is why He commands us to ‘be of am in seventh grade. Where I live, there to read my scriptures every day and keep a good cheer’ (D&C 78:18; aren’t a lot of members of the Church, and journal about what I’m reading. I pray every see also John 16:33; 3 I Nephi 1:13).” some of the people cuss and wear immod- morning and night and when I need help. est clothing. As the environment around Every Sunday I listen in church so that I can President Dieter F. Uchtdorf, Second Counselor in the me started to become worse, I realized that learn as much as possible and do my best to First Presidency, “Your Wonderful Journey Home,” if I didn’t strengthen my testimony and my absorb the teachings of prophets and apos- Ensign, May 2013, 129. relationship with God, then the worldly tles that are shared there. things would swallow me up. I noticed that My life is much happier now, and I Watch or read the full I needed to become closer to God and that I can feel the Spirit every day. I don’t know talk, where President needed to do it now. why I was so driven to become closer to Uchtdorf provides a “map” for navigating through life, I decided that I would choose to be around Heavenly Father, but it may be because of at lds ​.org/​go/​93Cheer. people who would respect my standards and the feeling I got from doing good things or that I would work harder in school and on the blessings that were promised. I’m so my talents. On top of that, I helped prepare glad I took the extra leap to become closer family home evening lessons so our family to my Heavenly Father. I know He loves could be closer, and we started reading the me so much and blesses me so greatly. scriptures together every night. I also decided Daniel N., Virginia, USA

28 New Era PEACE to Remove Bitterness

“President Heber J. Grant described the Savior’s peace this way: ‘His peace Peace Comes will ease our suffering, bind up our broken hearts, blot out our hates, from the Lord engender in our breasts a love of fellow men that will suffuse our souls with As we have trust calm and happiness’ (Teachings of Presidents of the Church: Heber J. Grant in the Lord, turn to [2002], 226). . . . prayer for comfort “. . . We all participated in the councils of heaven that provided for moral and guidance, keep agency, knowing that there would be mortal pain. . . . We understood that this the commandments, could leave us angry, bewildered, defenseless, and vulnerable. But we also and serve others, we knew that the Savior’s Atonement would overcome and compensate for all will know for ourselves of the unfairness of mortal life and bring us peace.” Watch or read what the Savior meant the full talk​go/ at ​ Elder Quentin L. Cook of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, “Personal Peace: The Reward of ​.or lds g/ Righteousness,” Ensign, May 2013, 33–34. when He said, “Peace 93Reward. I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: ne year at youth conference, my ward and help me let it go. I learned not as the world giveth, Ospent a day doing service. I volun- that service will scrape away give I unto you. Let not teered to help at the town’s high school the blackness of anger and your heart be troubled, (even though I didn’t have the best memo- bitterness, help us gain a love neither let it be afraid” ries there), because a janitor needed help for those we once disliked, (John 14:27). NE moving lockers. As my friend and I helped and help us draw closer to move the lockers, I thought about the our Heavenly Father. school where we were serving. I remem- Robert S., Idaho, USA bered a sporting event there where I felt the referees had not called a fair game. For my team, that game was still a sore spot, and I realized that I had let anger and bitterness stay in my heart. I began to feel sorrow as I thought about the grudge I held, and I prayed for forgiveness. As I prayed and kept serving, I felt the anger and bitterness melting away and began to see the high school as it was: a great school facing some tough times. I began to feel gratitude for God guiding me to where I needed to serve and work through my problems. Through my service, the Lord was able to open my eyes to the grudge I’d harbored

September 2013 29 30 New Era A SEVERE CAR CRASH TAUGHT ME ABOUT THE IMPORTANCE OF BEING READY TO SERVE.

By Blake Mullinex side of the road, and we both rushed to the had just turned 18 when a member of scene. Inside the crumpled car, we found my bishopric, Mark, hired me to help a young boy and girl in the backseat, with I him transport some business supplies. their babysitter behind the wheel. All of them It required a lot of driving, so I was often left were unconscious. alone with my thoughts. During that time Mark had been a volunteer firefighter for I wrestled with a couple of big questions, years, and I was a lifeguard trained in emer- especially “Should I serve a mission?” and gency rescue. As we assessed the wreck, we “What should I be when I get older?” These noticed that others were stopping to help the questions became a burden because I was couple in the truck, so we focused on the unsure and needed to decide soon. three people in the car. One day as Mark and I drove around a Mark went to the driver, and I opened corner, we came upon an accident. A truck the back door to check on the children. The had just smashed into the side of a small boy, who was in a car seat, began to move. I car, and both vehicles were still sliding to a unbuckled his seat belt and quickly checked halt. The accident looked severe. When the for injuries. Miraculously, he was unhurt.

ILLUSTRATIONS BY SCOTT JARRARD ILLUSTRATIONS vehicles stopped sliding, Mark pulled to the I set him down next to the driver, whom

September 2013 31 BE READY AND WORTHY Mark had just helped out of the car. On the popped free. I was astonished, and I was “Not every prayer is crushed side of the car, the little girl was even more surprised to see that her leg was answered so immediately, still unconscious. She eventually started to unharmed. I pushed and pulled again and and not every priesthood wake up, and relief swept through me. That her second leg came free, also in seemingly declaration can command relief was short-lived, however. I looked good shape. The paramedics and I fitted her the renewal or the sustain- ing of life. Sometimes the down and saw that her legs were caught onto a backboard and loaded her into an will of God is otherwise. But, in the twisted wreckage of the car. I stifled ambulance, which rushed her to the hospital. young men, you will learn if my tears and the lump in my throat as I Afterward I sat on the curb and reflected you have not already, that thought, “Even if this girl survives, she will on what had happened. A paramedic patted in frightening, even perilous never be able to walk again.” me on the back and said, “That was quite the moments, your faith and As the girl regained consciousness, she miracle.” As his words sank in, I thought of your priesthood will demand started to realize what was happening and what Elder Jeffrey R. Holland of the Quorum the very best of you and the best you can call down began to go into shock. She screamed in of the Twelve Apostles once said: “Young from heaven. You Aaronic fear and then struggled to free her legs. I men, you will learn if you have not already, Priesthood boys will not use knew that because her legs were probably that in frightening, even perilous moments, your priesthood in exactly severely injured, moving them was one of your faith and your priesthood will demand the same way an ordained the worst things she could do. I had to calm the very best of you and the best you can call elder uses the Melchizedek, her down, but I didn’t know how. down from heaven. . . . You must be ready but all priesthood bearers 1 must be instruments in the Suddenly the thought entered my mind, and clean, worthy to act.” hand of God, and to be so, “Did you think to pray?” (see Hymns, no. I now have a burning testimony of the you must be ready and clean, 140). I took a deep breath and held the girl’s principle he taught. The Lord hears and worthy to act.” head close to mine. As I closed my eyes, I answers our prayers. The accident that day

Elder Jeffrey R. Holland of quietly prayed, “Father in Heaven, please reminded me that Heavenly Father loves the Quorum of the Twelve help. Please, let Thy daughter live. And if it every one of His children. He needs our Apostles, “Be Ready and Worthy,” New Era, May 2006, 4. be Thy will, let her legs be freed.” As soon help, especially in “perilous moments.” This as the words left my lips, the girl stopped experience strengthened my desire to be a screaming. I could see calmness in her eyes. missionary and faithful priesthood holder so The paramedics arrived and started that I will always be ready to help others get preparing to cut the girl free. But instead through the “perilous moments” of life. NE of leaving, I felt that I should try to free her Blake Mullinex lives in Oregon, USA. by positioning my hands in a certain way between the girl’s legs and the passenger Struck by Lightning; seat, which was trapping them. I didn’t Renewed by the Priesthood know how it would work, but I followed Watch a short video about another young man, one who had just turned 18 and received the Melchizedek Priesthood and the prompting, and, under the supervision was ready and prepared to serve, in “Sanctify Yourselves” at of the paramedics, I pushed and pulled lds ​.org/​go/​93Sanctify. as hard as I could. Nothing happened. I pushed and pulled again. I was about NOTE 1. Jeffrey R. Holland, “Be Ready and Worthy,” New to give up when her right leg suddenly Era, May 2006, 4.

32 New Era A PRAYER OF My Heart Raising my standards for the music I listen to helped me love it even more.

By Ma. Consuelo Nuevo love music, and my day doesn’t seem complete I know that each of us can have the same courage in those unless I’m listening to it or singing. Lately, my love situations. And at times when people may not change the for music has grown in a different way, and I’ve music for us, we still have another option: we can go some- learned some things that have changed how I think about where else. and use music. I know that through good music we can draw closer to It started when I read the scripture where the Lord says, our Heavenly Father. Music can edify us, inspire us, invite “For my soul delighteth in the song of the heart; yea, the the Holy Ghost to be with us, move us to righteous actions, song of the righteous is a prayer unto me, and it shall be and help us withstand the temptations of the adversary answered with a blessing upon their heads” (D&C 25:12). (see For the Strength of Youth [2011], 22–23). When I read that verse, I remembered something my mom Remember that when we are singing the song of had taught me. Once, when I was singing the hymns in an the righteous, we are actually praying to our Father inappropriate manner, she reminded me that hymns can be in Heaven. NE prayers and that I need to sing them properly. I think this Ma. Consuelo Nuevo lives in Metro Manila, Philippines. verse refers not only to hymns alone but also to any songs we sing with a righteous desire. Imagine what blessings CHOOSE GOOD MUSIC will come upon us, as the scripture says, when we sing “Music has a profound effect on your mind, spirit, and behavior. songs unto the Lord. “Choose carefully the music you listen to. Pay attention to how I also learned the importance of listening to good music. you feel when you are listening. Some music can carry evil and After reading this scripture, I started scanning my list of destructive messages. Do not listen to music that encourages immorality or glorifies violence through its lyrics, beat, or intensity. songs and deleting those that were not in harmony with Do not listen to music that uses vulgar or offensive language the standards in For the Strength of Youth. or promotes evil practices. Such music can dull your spiritual I also had to make decisions about music beyond what I sensitivity.” had in my own collection. One day when I was in school, For the Strength of Youth (2011), 22. a classmate started playing a bad song. I didn’t feel good

ILLUSTRATION BY STEVEN KEELE ILLUSTRATION about the song, so I asked him to change it, which he did.

September 2013 33 FOR THE STRENGTH OF YOUTH

By Rosemary M. Wixom Primary General President

The INFLUENCE of MUSIC An experiment with mice shows us how much the music we listen to can affect us.

hen I ask someone, “What do inspire, and unite. However, music can, by you remember most about its tempo, beat, intensity, and lyrics, dull your Primary?” the answer is often, spiritual sensitivity. You cannot afford to fill W 2 “The music.” The words to Primary songs your minds with unworthy music.” And it never leave us—they are embedded in our may not matter if you listen carefully to the hearts. Take, for example, the following words or not; words that are put to music are Primary songs. Can you complete each often easily learned and easily remembered. 3 phrase? No wonder we are cautioned to “choose “I’m trying to be . . .” carefully the music [we] listen to.” 4 “Heavenly Father, are . . . ?” “Book of Mormon . . .” Mice, Music, and Learning As you completed each sentence, did Your choice of music can also affect your you find yourself singing the melody? ability to accomplish tasks or to learn. Two If so, it’s probably because music researchers explored this relationship by enhances our senses, touches our emotions, studying the effects of music and rhythm on and creates memories. So it’s no wonder the nervous system of mice. For eight weeks, that we celebrate temple dedications with one group of mice constantly listened to a cultural event where youth participate in Strauss waltzes (highly organized and orderly uplifting music and dancing. These events music), while a second heard disharmonious let us “make a joyful noise unto God” sounds in the form of continuous drumbeats. and “sing forth the honour of his name” A third group was raised in silence. (Psalm 66:1–2). After eight weeks, the mice were placed in a maze to find food. The mice in the Music Always Affects Us second group wandered off with no sense For the Strength of Youth teaches that of direction—“a clear indication they were “music has a profound effect on your having trouble learning”—and took much mind, spirit, and behavior.” 1 Music can longer to find the food than they had at the enrich your life in so many ways, but beginning of the study. The mice exposed it can also be dangerous. President “to discordant sounds not only developed Thomas S. Monson said: “Music can difficulties in learning and memory, . . . but help you draw closer to your Heavenly they also incurred structural changes in their Father. It can be used to educate, edify, brain cells.” The researchers’ diagnosis is

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very interesting: “We believe that the mice were trying to compensate for this constant bombardment of dishar- monic noise. . . . They were struggling against the chaos.” 5 What could be the “chaos” in some of today’s music—things that might keep you from learning effectively? be more intended to agitate than to We need the Holy Ghost with us at It may relate to the rhythm and beat pacify, more to excite than to calm.” 6 all times. For that reason, we should of the music (as with the mice) or choose carefully the music we listen with the words used or messages Matters of Time and the Spirit to and the dances we attend. Let the presented. President Boyd K. Packer, It is not only the rhythm and the Spirit be your guide, and when you President of the Quorum of the lyrics of jarring music that are detri- have doubts about the music you are Twelve Apostles, said: “Society is mental. By listening to such music, listening to or the circumstances you undergoing a subtle, but powerful, we also prevent quiet moments that are in, have the courage to act so the change. It is becoming more and allow us to think clearly and listen to Spirit can remain with you. NE more permissive in what it will accept the Spirit. In The Screwtape Letters, a in its entertainment. As a result, much popular Christian novel, a character of the music being performed by named Screwtape represents Satan popular entertainers today seems to and tries to lead good souls to his cause. Screwtape says, “It is funny how mortals always picture us as put- ting things into their minds: in reality NOTES 1. For the Strength of Youth (2011), 22. our best work is done by keeping 2. Thomas S. Monson, “Preparation Brings things out.” 7 In essence, Satan knows Blessings,” Ensign, May 2010, 66. 3. See Jack R. Christianson, quoted in “Author’s that he does not always have to fill criterion for picking music: does it encour- age a proper life style?” Church News, May 6, our minds with bad thoughts if he can 1989, 5. just keep us from focusing on things 4. For the Strength of Youth, 22. 5. Richard Lipkin, “Jarring Music Takes Toll of the Spirit. “If you listen to music on Mice,” Insight, vol. 4, no. 14, April 4, 1988, 58. constantly, you may not have the quiet 6. Boyd K. Packer, “Worthy Music, Worthy time you need for thinking, feeling, Thoughts,” New Era, Apr. 2008, 9. 7. C. S. Lewis, The Screwtape Letters (1982), 20. 8 PHOTOGRAPHY; M. WIXOM © BUSATH THINKSTOCK/ISTOCKPHOTO; PHOTOGRAPH OF ROSEMARY FROM LEFT: THINKSTOCK/COMSTOCK; BACKGROUND: THINKSTOCK/ABLESTOCK.COM BY ROBERT CASEY; PHOTO ILLUSTRATION and receiving spiritual guidance.” 8. For the Strength of Youth, 23.

September 2013 35 Fulfilling Your Duty to God through SCOUTING

By Mark R. Francis Director of LDS-BSA Relationships

Scouting provides a great way to invite young men to come unto Christ.

issionary work has been an important part of Scouting in the Church for the past 100 Myears. In fact, back in 1913, one reason the general leaders of the young men first recommended that the Church participate with the Boy Scouts of America (BSA) was because of “the missionary work of our boys associating with their fellows.” 1 The spirit of brotherhood and inviting others to join with our Scout troops continues today as “young men of other faiths who agree to abide by Church standards [are] welcomed warmly and encouraged to participate in youth activities.” 2 Inviting your friends to Scouting activities is a great opportunity to share the gospel and help you fulfill your Aaronic Priesthood duties. Young Men general president (continued on page 38)

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100 YEARS OF SCOUTING IN THE CHURCH Scouting activities were first established as part of the Young Men’s Mutual Improvement Association in 1911 with the formation of the MIA Scouts (see an early troop at lower left). Two years later, in 1913, the Church offi- cially joined the MIA Scouts with the Boy Scouts of America. May 21, 2013, marked the 100-year anniversary of the Church’s affiliation with the BSA. On October 29, 2013, a special broadcast will commemorate 100 years of Scouting in the Church; for details, visit lds.org/go/93100. Snowshoes and Scouting

yoming can be a cold and snowy Wplace in the wintertime. That’s why one troop decided to make snow- shoes. During the fall they were looking ahead to the Klondike derby coming up in January. They wanted an activity that could prepare them for winter camping. Under the direction of their Scoutmaster and deacons quorum adviser, the young men went online to the ward’s 11-year-old Scout patrol and By January, the snowshoes were find a pattern and instructions for mak- earned his religious award. He was then finished and each young man had a pair ing snowshoes out of rawhide and wood. presented with the award at his own to use during the Klondike derby. Aiden “We realized this project was going to church service. H. said what they all felt about making take a long time,” says Sam F., deacons While the young men and leaders snowshoes: “It was fun because we PHOTOGRAPHS COURTESY OF GREAT SALT LAKE COUNCIL, BOY SCOUTS OF AMERICA, LDS-BSA RELATIONSHIPS OFFICE, LAKE COUNCIL, BOY SCOUTS OF AMERICA, LDS-BSA RELATIONSHIPS SALT PHOTOGRAPHS COURTESY OF GREAT AND © IRI LIBRARY AND CHURCH HISTORY quorum president, “but we were all worked, they made religious connections got to use them!” excited, and we had a plan.” between wrapping the rawhide tightly “We learned a lot about enduring to As the young men worked on their and bringing their quorum together. the end on a project and about strength- snowshoe frames, they discussed how Jacob D. started coming regularly to ening our quorum through Scouting,” they could help others in the quorum the Scout meetings. His mother, Heather Sam says. “My snowshoes will last a who were less active, and they made P., later thanked the troop for welcoming long time, and whenever I see them a plan to visit them. “We visited every her son and their family. Other young men I’ll remember this experience, as well boy on our list and invited them to come who had never attended church came to as the great friends we made in our to Scouts,” Sam says. “We told them the Scout meetings to make snowshoes. troop and quorum.” we were making snowshoes for the winter campout coming up.” Having a clear goal was helpful in drawing other boys to the troop. As the snowshoes progressed, so did the quorum. Six young men started the snowshoe project, but soon others joined in, including one of another faith. John B.’s friend, Timothy N., was active in his church, but it didn’t have a Scout troop, so he started coming with his friend. His brother, Thomas, even joined

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PROPHETS AND SCOUTING David L. Beck calls this work “real growth through Scouting.” When young men of other Did You Know? faiths join Church-sponsored Scout troops, two Many prophets Joseph F. Smith things happen: (1) Latter-day Saint Scouts have participated (1838–1918) was the an opportunity to share the gospel through their prophet when Scouting testimonies and actions and prepare for their in Scouting. was organized as a part full-time missions by inviting others “to come of the Young Men’s unto Christ” (D&C 20:59), which is one of your Mutual Improvement Association. Aaronic Priesthood duties; and (2) Scouts of other faiths then have an opportunity to participate in Scouting activities under the direction of priest- hood leadership. Heber J. Grant Here are some of the ways you can encourage (1856–1945) others to join with you in Scouting: attended the 1937 World Scout • Talk about your Scouting activities with friends, Jamboree in Holland. classmates, and neighbors. • When you’re studying a particular merit badge, share your excitement with your friends and ask if they’re interested in learning about that George Albert Smith (1870– topic with you. 1951) was the • Help plan quality troop and patrol activities first Church mem- so that other youth will want to attend. Have ber to serve on a calendar of upcoming activities to share. the BSA National Executive Board. • Invite other young men to attend unit meetings, activities, and courts of honor with you. Ezra Taft Benson • Look for ways to expand your Scouting activi- (1899–1994) was commissioned as an ties to include others. assistant Scoutmaster • Use Scouting as a tool to involve less-active of his Whitney, young men who may not be interested in Idaho, ward Scout attending Sunday meetings. troop at age 18.

As you invite your friends to participate with you in Scouting, they can begin to understand what it means to do their duty to God (see the Scout Oath), Howard W. David O. McKay (1873–1970) Hunter (1907–95) and all of you will be blessed in the effort. NE was the prophet when Cub Scouting was the second boy and 11-year-old Scouts were made in Idaho to receive his part of the Primary association. Eagle Scout award.

Gordon B. Thomas S. Monson Hinckley has served on the BSA (1910–2008) National Executive was a Boy Scout Board longer than in his youth. any other member.

NOTES 1. Adapted from a letter to the General Superintendent and General Board of YMMIA, Feb. 19, 1913; see also Century of Honor: 100 Years of Scouting in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints [2013], 30. 2. Handbook 2: Administering the Church [2010], 8.17.3. i [experience] COME, FOLLOW ME THE JOY of coming closer to

Focus on the Blessings THE SAVIOR When you think about the word “commandments” for and of his coming your Sunday learning this month (see lds ​.org/​youth/​ learn), your first thought may be something like, CLOSER TO ME “Commandments give me lists of things I shouldn’t do,” most often through because that’s how a lot of the world thinks. But that thinking overlooks the fact that command- simple acts of ments also provide a lot of things we should do, such as “be of good cheer” (D&C 68:6), “seek learning” (D&C obedience to the 109:7), and “seek . . . the best gifts” (D&C 46:8), and that commandments. commandments are designed to help us. By keeping the commandments, we become better people and find peace

President Henry B. Eyring, First Counselor in and happiness beyond anything the world offers. the First Presidency, “‘Come unto Me,’ ” April 2013 general conference That’s why it’s important to remember that Heavenly Father gives us commandments so He can bless us in incredible ways through our obedience (see page 22). For example, here are some promised blessings of obedience talked about in the April 2013 general conference: • An unfailing guide, a knowledge of truth, and the answers to our greatest questions (see President Thomas S. Monson, “Obedience Brings Blessings”) • Joy of you coming closer to the Savior—and Him to you (see President Henry B. Eyring, “‘Come unto Me’”) • Happiness and well-being (see Elder L. Tom Perry, “Obedience to Law Is Liberty”) • Power from God to do more than we can do by ourselves; expanded insights, talents, and abilities (see Elder Richard G. Scott, “For Peace at Home”) • Protection and preparation to do God’s work (see Elder Robert D. Hales, “Stand Strong in Holy Places”) • Increased happiness and progression in eternity (see Elder David A. Bednar, “We Believe in Being Chaste”)

Find many more promised blessings in these and other talks at conference​.lds​.org.

Share These Cards Online As you talk about the commandments this month, consider using these cards in Church lessons, with family, or on social media. Or hang them in your bedroom or locker to remind you about your study of the commandments. Download or share them at lds ​.org/​go/​93Obey. Elder David A. Bednar of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, “We Believe in Being Chaste,” April 2013 general conference

September 2013 39 TO THE POINT

Where I live, you’re considered his is a significant challenge for many Latter-day Saint youth all boyfriend/girlfriend after one date. Taround the world. They are counseled to “avoid going on fre- How can a person quent dates with the same person” so that they do not develop serious relationships at a young age (For the Strength of Youth [2011], 4). But casually date in the culture of much of the world, the invitation for a boyfriend/girl- friend relationship often comes even before a first date; and likewise, different people just one date can imply an exclusive relationship with an expectation without getting a reputation of commitment. In such a culture, going on dates with different people as a promiscuous or appears to violate the “relationship” and can give you a reputation as a dishonest person? promiscuous or dishonest person. So what should you do? First of all, make sure everyone knows your belief in and commit- ment to the Lord’s standard of chastity and sexual purity so that there is never any doubt about your character and behavior. Next, you can actively work to change the dating culture around you for the better by speaking up for the Church’s guidelines. If people question you about your dating standards, ask them why, if they aren’t looking to get married anytime soon, they feel the need to have such emotionally and physically intimate and exclusive relationships at such a young age. Invite them to join you on a group date so that they can see the fun they can have while avoiding the needless moral dangers and emotional drama of teen romance. And let them know about the guidance and counsel we have been given by living prophets and apostles. NE

40 New Era Why do young men start When should home teaching I start paying fast when they’re 14 but young women offerings start visiting teaching and making other when they’re 18? donations?

n a revelation given at the time the Church was organized in 1830, the Lord f you have a source of income and Ideclared, “The teacher’s duty is to watch over the church always, and be with Ia willing heart, you can start giving and strengthen them” (D&C 20:53). Besides teachers in the Aaronic Priesthood, fast offerings at any age. Of course, this duty is shared by priests and by those who hold the Melchizedek Priesthood when you earn money, the Lord (see D&C 20:45–52). Home teaching is one way they fulfill this duty by accept- has commanded that you pay tith- ing specific assignments from priesthood leaders. Visiting teaching, although ing on your earnings. In addition, “a similar, has a slightly different purpose, providing an opportunity for Relief proper fast day observance includes Society sisters to strengthen and teach one another through assignments from . . . giving a generous fast offering the Relief Society presidency (as approved by the bishop or branch presi- to help care for those in need” (For dent). Young women (especially class presidencies) should, of course, seek the Strength of Youth [2011], 39). Just to strengthen and support one another in a variety of ways, but they are not because your parents pay for your assigned to make monthly visits to specific people.NE family’s food doesn’t mean you can’t make a contribution of your own if you feel prompted when your What are the physical fitness family fasts each month. Remember, requirements although you are young, regardless of to serve a full-time mission? the amount of the contribution, what matters most is the fact that you are obeying the Lord’s commandments erious physical challenges or medical limitations can prevent some people and selflessly helping to bless others. Sfrom performing missionary duties effectively and can negatively affect You as well as others will be blessed their companions’ service as well. Such people do not normally serve full-time through your sacrifice. And if you feel missions. For example, those who need a wheelchair or crutches or cannot inspired and are able to do so, you perform daily tasks without the aid of others are not recommended for full-time may also consider consulting with missionary service (though they may be able to serve a Church-service mission; your parents and making donations see lds.org/csm). And being significantly overweight can cause a person to to other Church funds listed on the have serious difficulty with the daily rigors of a mission, so priesthood leaders Tithing and Other Offerings slip. NE may ask some people to lose weight before they recommend them for service. Regarding general fitness, one guideline might be that you should be able to

PHOTO ILLUSTRATION BY MATTHEW REIER; COINS © ISTOCKPHOTO/THINKSTOCK BY MATTHEW PHOTO ILLUSTRATION walk about six miles (9 km) a day without difficulty. If you have any questions about any of these matters, your bishop or branch president can give you answers and guidance. NE

September 2013 41 My heart ached because I wasn’t getting an answer, but I kept trying.

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“ W challenge withoutthinkingmuchofit. and challenge toreadtheBookofMormon is true. Ibelieved itwithallmyheart, butI ing onme. dinnerwithourfamily, After had never known thatwhatIbelieved was pray toknow ifitwas true. Iacceptedthe ally prayed tofindout for myselfiftheChurch and Ipray every night. ButIhadnever- actu they left us with a spiritual message and the they uswithaspiritualmessageandthe left I’m an ordinary girl, life, I’m anordinary withanordinary true. Ithoughtaboutthisfor awhile and then committed myself to take the and thencommittedmyselftotake the missionaries’ challengeseriously. prayed, and Ididn’tgetanykind of confirmation. Ibegantothink, “Be patient, Rachael, theLordwill ill you acceptthischallenge?” the missionaries asked. By Rachael Lauritzen On Monday nightIreadand reveal Hisanswers whenitis pleasing toHim.” The missionarieswere focus- weary eyes. Iputmynameintothescrip- was gettingnoanswer. would endmyday by mybedside, whereI Rachael livesinUtah, USA. Lauritzen I was worn outandcouldhardlykeep my I shalltellthee.” Bynow myeyes were as I feel. HewantstoHim. allofustoreturn I Lord hadheardmyprayers. Father was listening toHisdaughterhereon call your attention, for Ihave somewhat challenge blessedmylife. So Icontinuedpraying, andIpouredoutmy ings ofgreatjoy. unto me:Awake, andhearthewords which filled myentireroom. Iknew. Iknew without more tospeakuntoyou. . . . Andhesaid hath judgedofthyrighteousness, andhath was filledwiththeSpirit.heart “For behold,I read. AsIread, theverses quicklycaughtmy knelt down andprayed. Nothinghappened. am cometodeclareuntoyou thegladtid- may callitluck, butIknow myHeavenly live thegospelandtobeanexample, yet I eyes opentoread. sohardto Iwas trying read andprayed for ananswer. BySaturday, efforts wereefforts worth it. listen tothescriptures. Ikept readingasmy know this Churchistrue. The missionaries’ a doubtthatthisChurchwas true, for the earth. I know He knows my heart and what earth. andwhat Iknow Heknows myheart est rejoice” (see Mosiah3:1–4). TheSpirit face, to IopenedupmyBookof Mormon big asapples. Iwas beingtoldtoawake and soul tomyHeavenly Father. began Myheart so Ididwhathadalways beentaught. I sent metodeclareuntotheethatthoumay- the third chapter of Mosiah and began to the thirdchapterofMosiahandbeganto to achebecauseIwanted toknow ifallmy tures andreadaloud, “My [Rachael], Iwould “For theLordhathheardthyprayers, and With tearsstreamingdown my worried These feelings begantoweigh medown, This went onfor aweek. Every nightI Some may callitcoincidence, andothers NE

ILLUSTRATION BY DILLEEN MARSH THE EXTRA SMILE "No, Brother Jacobsen, lowering the missionary age does not mean they are going to lower the dating age."

JON CLARK "Yeah . . . this is gonna take some getting used to."

RICK + RYAN GOLDSBERRY

"On the bright side, Elder, you're halfway to a broken heart and a contrite spirit." "My mom is allergic to dogs, so I had to eat my own homework."

ARIE VAN DE GRAAFF RANDY GLASBERGEN

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Wrapped in the Warmth of Testimony Conference Connection ayleena N., 17, of After planning her design, Washington, USA, loves Kayleena contacted friends and As we draw closer to and follow Christ, we can find peace Ktestimonies. She loves family to ask if they’d be willing and hope despite the challenges in this world. Here’s what bearing her testimony, she loves to write their personal testimony several Church leaders had to say about this during the April listening as others share them, on one of the 192 pastel squares 2013 general conference. and now the testimonies from of fabric she planned to use in nearly 200 of her friends and the quilt. Her own testimony is relatives help keep her warm at on a square as well. “In moments of fear or doubt or troubling night. “I feel really blessed that I The final quilt required the times, hold the ground you have already know so many people who know help of many friends and over won, even if that ground is limited” (Elder the gospel is true,” Kayleena says. 200 hours of work. Yet she Jeffrey R. Holland of the Quorum of the For years, Kayleena has doesn’t regret a single minute. Twelve Apostles, “‘Lord, I Believe,’” Ensign, wanted to create a large patch- “It’s my favorite thing ever,” May 2013, 93–94). work quilt. However, she didn’t Kayleena says. “Anytime I’m not want merely a colorful blanket. feeling happy, I can read the “We earnestly hope and pray for universal She wanted an heirloom she testimonies and it lifts me up. It’s peace, but it is as individuals and families could show to her children and more than a warm blanket. It’s a that we achieve the kind of peace that is

grandchildren. And she wanted comfort to my soul.” N. PHOTOGRAPHS COURTESY OF KAYLEENA the promised reward of righteousness. This the whole thing tied together peace is a promised gift of the Savior’s with testimonies. mission and atoning sacrifice” (Elder Quentin L. Cook of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, “Personal Peace: The Reward of Righteousness,” Ensign, May 2013, 33).

“If we exercise faith in the Lord Jesus Christ, the enabling power of His Atonement strengthens us in our moment of need” (Elder Craig A. Cardon of the Seventy, “The Savior Wants to Forgive,” Ensign, May 2013, 15).

During those times when challenges seem to be all around us, we can still find “hope through the atonement of Christ and the power of his resurrection” (Moroni 7:41). Read more at conference.lds.org.

44 New Era Hymn Vocabulary Do you know the meaning of all the words in the last hymn you sang? Choose the correct defi- After the Flood nition for each of the following words that can be found in one ometimes a tasty sand- or more of our hymns. wich can make even the darkest day brighter. S 1. Clad (Hymns, no. 4) When floodwaters slammed into Calgary, Alberta, Canada, A. Barring entry in June, spring rains and moun- B. Clothed or adorned tain runoff forced over 100,000 C. A carpentry tool people out of their homes. D. Showing remorse or The flood left behind a sadness massive mess—along with a 2. Fain (Hymns, no. 233) massive need for volunteers. A. Unyielding Church members of all ages from B. To pretend wards and stakes in the Calgary C. A sudden thunderstorm area responded immediately. D. Gladly “There was rubble everywhere,” 3. Rapture (Hymns, no. 26, 286, says Brigham S., a deacon who 289, 337, 339) volunteered. A. A state of overwhelming emotion

PHOTOGRAPHS COURTESY OF KAYLEENA N. PHOTOGRAPHS COURTESY OF KAYLEENA Some youth knocked down the youth volunteering with him PHOTOGRAPHS COURTESY OF BRIGHAM S. AND ANNA T. PHOTOGRAPHS COURTESY OF BRIGHAM S. AND ANNA T. drywall, carried away ruined asked this family if they wanted B. To puncture or tear furniture, or raked up mud and some lunches. “They were so C. Speaking with rhythm debris. Other youth, such as happy!” Brigham says. “They D. The stern of a seafaring Brigham’s group, made and gave us hugs.” vessel delivered sack lunches to work- Volunteer efforts went on 4. Gallantly (Hymns, no. 340) ers, volunteers, and families for many weeks. “Faith and A. Sharply returning to their homes. prayers can’t do everything,” B. Acting in haste Brigham remembers one Brigham explains. “Sometimes C. Bravely particular family pumping muddy you need to get up and go help D. Demonstrating great water out of their house. He and somebody.” optimism 5. Azure (Hymns, no. 294) A. A rare stone, turquoise in color My Favorite Scripture B. Praiseworthy John 14:6 “Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no C. Folded or pleated man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” D. The blue color of the This is my favorite scripture because when I first read it, I wasn’t unclouded sky trying to find an answer of some sort. I just found it, and it gave me a quiet revelation that I belong to the true Church.

Anna T., 15, Arizona, USA 5:D 4:C; 3:A; 2:D; 1:B; Answers:

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MY FRIEND STOOD UP WITH ME have a lot of good friends. Some I stood up again, but this time go to church, and some don’t. One my LDS friend stood up with me. AN day a group of us, including one We grabbed our lunches and moved Iother LDS young woman, was eating somewhere else. It felt good to leave UNEXPECTED lunch when a few of my friends the table when they were doing that. began to use the Lord’s name in vain. As I walked away, I felt the Spirit. FRIEND No one else seemed bothered by it, I’m glad my friend left with uring my sophomore year of and soon other students at the table me. It reminded me of the song high school, I became friends started saying the Lord’s name in vain “We’ll Bring the World His Truth” with Courtney. Initially I’d too. At first I thought, “Just let it slide; (Children’s Songbook, 172–73) and Dknown her only by her reputation as they don’t know any better.” But then how “we must do as the Lord com- “the cool party girl,” but then she was it started to really bother me. They mands.” While I may not have had in my math class and we had many kept saying it, and I felt a pit in my an “army of Helaman,” my friend mutual friends. I was surprised when stomach. So I stood up. I said firmly, showed me that I am not the only she took an instant liking to me and “It really bothers me when you talk person trying “to bring the world was so willing to become my friend. like that. Please stop.” [H]is truth.” Because of my standards, I didn’t They laughed and kept going. Brooke P., Oregon, USA attend the high school parties she did,

46 New Era ILLUSTRATION BY CRAIG STAPLEY; PHOTOGRAPH BY ISTOCKPHOTO/THINKSTOCK Brooke W., Idaho,USA of baptism. as shecameoutofthewaters forget the smileonherface be baptized, andIwillnever did whenIwatched Courtney I’ve never felt anyfeeling like I ourmathclasstogether.after was eventually baptizedfive years to beanexample toCourtney, who us. for I’mgrateful myopportunity 18:9), becausepeoplearewatching nesses ofGodatalltimes” (Mosiah Church, we shouldall “stand aswit- feel thesameway abouther. I found thisfunnybecauseIusedto didn’t thinkIwould want tobehers. wanted tobemyfriend, butshe how happy Iwas allthetime. She was impressedby mylifestyle and forget whenshetoldmethat lifestyle, soIasked her. Iwillnever her tomake thesechangesinher the Church. was thirstyfor knowledge about thrilled! IcouldseethatCourtney with myfamilyandme. Iwas would occasionallyattendchurch coming over tomyhouse. She lessandinsteadbegan to parties best friends. begangoing Courtney knew it, we were quicklybecoming simple conversations. Before I at thetime. and Ididn’tfitinwithherlifestyle I believe thatasyouth inthe I wondered whathadprompted afewBut thingschangedafter

A TEST TO TAKE TESTS W wanted tocontinuestudyingdespite Because ofthis, shedidnothave any Church memberinmyfamily, Iwas I knew Iwould have ahardtime costs ofliving, andafailingeconomy, crushed toheartheirresponse. crushed Saints” (Hymns, finding the money necessary totake finding themoney necessary hymns, especially “Come, Come, Ye have faith. Ifound inthe comfort money over. left her employer hadnotpaidhersal- her aboutthenew fees. Iexplained denounced myfaith. Astheonly me they would helpmeonlyifI pay myexam fees. Sadly, they told decided toasksomerelatives who my upcomingtests. dismayed. With littlemoney, rising ary insixmonthsandthatshe was ary lived nearby ifthey couldhelpme broke whenmymomtoldmethat struggling toprovidestruggling for ourfamily. the money Ineeded. nearly Myheart that despitemyefforts, Ididnothave the new hardshipfacingme. I ofeducation, the importance andI to pay afee totake anyexam, Ifelt Our Church leaders emphasize Our Churchleadersemphasize I did my best to continue to I didmybesttocontinue I then called my mom and told I thencalledmymomandtold istrator announced that announcedthat istrator hen anew schooladmin- students would have no. 30)and “Let Us All PressOn” (Hymns, we topay rushed thefee. was leaving mytrialinHishands. I Heavenly Fatherprovided amiracle Him know thatIbelieved Hecould I missedmyfirsttwo exams. The Father. Iexpressed toHimmydesire I pouredoutmysoultoHeavenly ising. money, Without thenecessary instantly felt like ahugeburdenwas months ofwages shehadnotyet my mother. Shetoldmethatshe’d my studying. Iwas surprisedtosee happened andIwas abletotake an night before mythirdexamination, not know whatmoreIcoulddo, I prepare away andthatbecauseIdid matter how manytestsImissed. Ilet mination toeventually graduate, no exam, Iwould beready. some After of peaceandhappinessfell over me. remaining exams. Iknow that lifted off ofmyshoulders, off lifted andaspirit examination. I’d decidedtonever future, however, didnotseemprom- been paidfor! shoutingfor After joy, just received apaycheck for thesix stop studying so that if something stop studyingsothatifsomething time, aknockonthedoorinterrupted that day. Hewants us alltosucceed. to getaneducationandmydeter tinued myhabitofpreparingfor the Heavenly Fatherreallydoeswatch Sometimes this requires us to Sometimes thisrequiresusto Michael U.,Nigeria humble. Iknow thatourtrialscan over us. face adversity sothatwe become strengthen our testimonies and that ourtestimoniesandthat strengthen The next dayThe next Iawoke andcon- I was abletotake allofmy

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in moments of great challenge or He can trust you. temptation. That is when it is intended • Sensitivity to the quiet prompt- By Elder to be used. ings of the Holy Spirit. Richard G. Scott Your exercise of faith in true prin- • Courageous implementation of Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles ciples builds character; fortified that prompting. character expands your capacity to • Patience and understanding exercise more faith. As a result, your when God lets you struggle to grow HOW TO capacity and confidence to and when answers come a piece at a conquer the trials of life is enhanced. time over an extended period. The more your character is fortified, Your consistent exercise of faith BUILD the more enabled you are to benefit builds strong character. A secure from exercising the power of faith. foundation for your growing character FAITH AND You will discover how faith and is laid by making Jesus Christ and His character interact to strengthen one teachings the center of your life. A FIND JOY another. Character is woven patiently consistent, righteous life produces an hen faith is properly under- from threads of applied principles, inner power and strength that can be stood and used, it has doctrine, and obedience. permanently resistant to the eroding Wdramatically far-reaching We exercise faith by doing. We influence of sin and transgression. effects. Such faith can transform become what we want to be by consis- If you have determined to live an individual’s life from common tently being what we want to become righteously, don’t become dis- everyday activities to a symphony of each day. couraged. Life may seem difficult joy and happiness. Neither Satan nor any other power now, but hold on tightly to that The exercise of faith is vital to can destroy or undermine your grow- iron rod of truth. You are making Father in Heaven’s plan of happiness. ing character. Only you could do that better progress than you realize. Your But true faith, faith unto salvation, is through disobedience. Strong moral struggles are defining character, disci- centered on the Lord Jesus character results from consistent pline, and confidence in the promises Christ, faith in His doctrines and correct choices in the trials and of your Father in Heaven and the teachings, faith in the prophetic guid- testing of life. Such choices are made Savior as you consistently obey Their ance of the Lord’s anointed, faith in with trust in things that are believed commandments. May the Holy Ghost the capacity to discover hidden char- and when acted upon are confirmed. prompt you to always make decisions acteristics and traits that can trans- What are some of the empower- that fortify your character and yield form life. Truly, faith in the Savior is a ing principles upon which faith is much joy and happiness. NE principle of action and power. based? Adapted from an October 2010 general conference Faith and character are intimately • Trust in God and in His willing- address. related. Faith in the power of obedi- ness to provide help when needed, ence to the commandments no matter how challenging the Share Your Experiences will forge strength of charac- circumstance. Share your experiences in applying this of God principle and read the experiences of other ter available to you in times of urgent • Obedience to His command- youth by going to lds ​.org/​go/​93Faith. need. Such character is not developed ments and a life that demonstrates that

48 New Era we need NOT FEAR THE FUTURE, nor falter in hope and good cheer, because God is with us. . . . WHEN OUR ONLY DESIRE IS TO PLEASE HIM, WE WILL BE BLESSED WITH A DEEP INNER PEACE. \

Elder Bruce D. Porter of the Seventy, “Beautiful Mornings,” April 2013 general conference

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