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Contents ® Publisher/Editor 03 From the Editor Susan C. Nieman Chai There 20 Art Director Dustin Green 04 Contributors Art Assistant 06 Health, Body & Soul Laura Ehrhardt Living Beyond Breast Cancer Rebecca Lynn Miller The organization’s Sharing Wisdom, Web and Social Media Director Sharing Strength conference, in Rebecca Lynn Miller Memphis this October, offers the 20 - 22 Up Close with Memphis latest information on treatments and Photography Contributors managing the disease’s effects while Jewish Federation Annual Ronnie Booze building a community of support. Campaign Co-Chairs Anthony Morrison, Cindy Trey Clark Breezy Lucia 7 - 17 Guide to Jewish Memphis Finestone and Eileen Synagogues, Education, Posner Editorial Assistants Organizations and Eateries Ready, able and eager to Reach Bettye Berlin Chaier to support Memphis, Israel Emily Bernhardt and 70 countries around the Rae Jean Lichterman 10 Feature world. Memphis, A CommUNITY of Kindness Bette Shornick Ahavat Achim (Brotherly Love) Advertising Sales Director Challenge builds bridges, strengthens L’Chayim 23 Larry Nieman existing bonds and makes a Festive Season is Ripe for Kosher Wines bold statement of mutual caring and Great Picks by Great Wines to Sales Executive interdependence in the Memphis accompany those mouth-watering Martin Greenberg Jewish community. family meals. Chief Financial Officer Donald Heitner 24 Feature Lights, Camera, Action: Indie Volume 11 Number 1 Memphis Film Festival Celebrates October 2017 20th Anniversary Tishrei / Cheshvan 5778 Let’s just say they’re rolling out the red carpet for this milestone. Jewish Scene magazine must give permission for any material contained herein to be 26 Senior Living copied or reproduced in any manner. Manuscripts and photographs submitted for Memphis Jewish Home publication are welcome by Jewish Scene, but 90 Years of Caring For Generations… no responsibility can be taken for them while 25 Years of Rehabilitation in transit or in the office of the publication. Editorial content does not necessarily reflect 27 Senior Living the publisher’s opinion, nor can the publisher Client-Caregiver Compatibility Is be held responsible for errors. The publication Crucial To Quality Caregiving of any advertisement in this issue does not Finding the right fit ensures the constitute an endorsement of the advertiser’s client, his/her family and the product or services by this publication. 06 caregiver are all happy. Jewish Scene is published by Jewish Living of the 28 Senior Living South, Inc. Subscription rates for the U.S.: single 18 Feature issues $5, annual $18. Canada and foreign: PJ Library Creates a Cultural Senior Services Collaborative single issues $10, annual $36. Community Ensuring that seniors and their The Jewish book club is more about families have all the information Susan Nieman receiving a free read in the mail necessary to access needed 901.827.7244 each month. Activities bring kids and information and services. [email protected] parents together in a variety of settings across the city. jewishscenemagazine.com 29 Scenes JCP, Live at the Garden, Memphis 19 Feature Rabbis, MHA/FYOS Stronger Together, Security Partners The Jewish Community Security Council For home delivery, send $18 to: unites Memphis Jewish organizations On The Cover to ensure the safety of the entire Memphis Jewish Federation Campaign Logo: Jewish Scene Magazine community. Art by Rebecca Lynn Miller 1703 Tamhaven Ct. Jewish Scene is dedicated to creating awareness among the Jewish community; and promoting and Cordova, TN 38016 supporting the religious, educational, social and fundraising efforts of Jewish agencies and organizations.
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Dear JSM Readers,
Eleven years and counting! Business may have ebbed and flowed, customers have come and gone, and come back again. But Jewish Scene Magazine has remained faithful to our original mission: to connect Jewish communities in Memphis and around the world. We’ve shared stories of local programs, celebrities and ordinary people who make a difference, and highlighted the amazing work of communal organizations in the hope that you’ve integrated some of these into your own agencies. In this annual Guide to Jewish Memphis, we’ve featured a few amazing programs. Several of these were 60 YEARS OF generated in response to a community needs assessment that was conducted by Jewish Community Partners in 2014. Read how the Memphis Jewish community rallied SERVING CLIENTS to create and participate in outstanding programs such as the Jewish Community Security Council (page 19) and the Senior Services Collaborative (page 28). Then there’s Memphis Jewish Community Center’s Rabbi WITH INTEGRITY AND Mordechai Harris, who launched the Ahavat Achim (Brotherly Love) Challenge, getting all of the agencies to purposefully perform good deeds for each other during DEDICATION a secret exchange. The reveal luncheon gathered many happy participants (page 10). If you haven’t signed up your youngsters for free monthly Jewish books and CDs, TO EXCELLENCE. check out PJ Library on page 18. Anniversaries abound this year. Mazel Tov to Memphis Jewish Home & Rehab on its 90th anniversary (page 26). They are also celebrating 25 years of providing rehabilitative services. Indie Memphis Film Festival is celebrating a milestone with an incredible line up for its 20th anniversary (page 24). Be sure to check out the upcoming Memphis conference on Living Beyond Breast Cancer on page 6. Speakers, yoga classes, fashion and more, promise to connect those living with breast cancer to services and information. • Business Entities Cary Rotter shares some crucial information about client-caregiver compatibility. Check out his list for a • Bankruptcy good match on page 27. • Corporate and Business On the cover of our Annual Guide to Jewish Memphis, we are happy to share Memphis Jewish Federation’s Transactions er recently launched REACH CHAI in 2018 Annual • Employment and Labor Campaign. This year, more than ever, the needs are Harkavy growing within the Memphis Jewish community • Estate Planning and Probate and abroad. Did you realize that every organization benefits from the Federation’s annual campaign? From SHainberg • Health Care toddlers in early childhood centers at all Memphis • Land Use Planning and Zoning Jewish organizations, to teen programs at synagogues, kaplan & BBYO, and Teen Israel trips, Hillels at the University of • Landlord/Tenant Law Memphis and Rhodes College, young adults in ConnecTI or YAD (the Young Adult Division of MJF) to seniors who DunStan PLC • Litigation eat hot meals every day at the MJCC, Plough Towers or • Personal Injury Memphis Jewish Home & Rehab, and those whose needs attorneyS at law are met each day through programs at Jewish Family • Real Estate Service, every gift to the campaign touches all. | Meet Memphis Jewish Federation Annual Campaign Closing Leasing co-chairs Anthony Morrison, Cindy Finestone and Eileen Lending | Foreclosure Posner Up Close beginning on page 20. Their passion and commitment to Jewish and other non-profit institutions • Taxation are an inspiration to all. Happy 11th Anniversary to us! Thank you for keeping the Jewish Scene flame alive. 6060 Poplar Avenue Suite 140 L’Shana Tovah and Shalom, Memphis, TN 38119 901.761.1263 www.harkavyshainberg.com
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Joel Ashner is director of Philanthropy and Gila Golder is associate, Community Community Engagement for Memphis Jewish Development for Jewish Community Partners. Home & Rehab (MJHR). She received her B.S. in A native of Baltimore, she holds a B.A. in Business Administration with a concentration Creative Writing from Brandeis University and in Marketing from Washington University in enjoys writing about programs and events in St. Louis. She recently celebrated 12 years with the Memphis Jewish community. She and her MJHR and was named the 2017 Association husband, Rob, moved to Memphis in 2015 from of Jewish Aging Services (AJAS) Professional upstate New York. They are members of Young of the Year. She and her husband, Dub, have Israel of Memphis. three adult children. She can be reached at [email protected].
Shoshana Cenker, a native Memphian, Catherine L. Ormerod, MSS, MLSP is the vice is the chief editor and head writer for a president, programs and partnerships media content production company, as of Living Beyond Breast Cancer. She is well as a freelance writer, proofreader and responsible for overseeing the implementation marketing consultant. Shoshana was one of all direct service and partnership initiatives of Jewish Scene Magazine’s first writers in support of Living Beyond Breast Cancer’s when it began. She and her husband, mission. This includes leading efforts Dovid, who’s a kosher caterer and licensed that increase public awareness of LBBC’s massage therapist, have twin boys, Aiden mission, overseeing the development and and Akiva, and a daughter, Lyla, plus pups implementation of educational programs and Dreidel and Memphis. She can be reached services for those affected by breast cancer, at [email protected]. and helping to cultivate and develop LBBC’s relationship with new and existing partner companies. She also helps manage LBBC’s medical advisory board.
Cary Rotter is the president of WeCare Matt Timberlake is the communications Services, Inc. d/b/a Comfort Keepers, in manager at JCP Memphis. Matt writes business since 2001. He is a native Memphian about the people and places of Memphis, and has been heavily involved in the with particular interest in non-profit community at multiple levels from board organizations. He’s an amateur musician, memberships to speaking and writing on the gardener, chef, photographer and community senior care industry. He can be reached at activist. He lives in East Memphis with his 901.752.1515 or at wife and two daughters. [email protected].
Lauren Luskey Taube is the manager of Vick Patel is the owner of Great Wines & Engagement and YAD Campaign at Jewish Spirits located at 6150 Poplar Avenue in Community Partners, where she oversees PJ Regalia, Memphis, Tenn., 38119. Contact Library, B’nai Tzedek, YAD and newcomers him at 901.682.1333 or vikalp.patel@ initiatives. As a Jewish educator, she has greatwinesmemphis.com. worked at Temple Israel and Facing History and Ourselves in Memphis, in addition to congregations throughout the country. She and her husband, David, live in Memphis with their six-month-old son.
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Living Beyond Breast Cancer’s Fall Conference In Memphis
By Cathy Ormerod
Living Beyond Breast Cancer (LBBC), the “Before I got involved with Living Beyond national organization serving more than half a Breast Cancer, I had never met anyone else According to the Centers for Disease Control and million people a year with trusted information diagnosed with stage IV breast cancer,” said Prevention, one in 40 Ashkenazi Jewish women has a and a community of support, will hold its annual April Hines, 36, a Hear My Voice advocate with BRCA gene mutation. conference on Oct. 6-8, 2017, at the Peabody Living Beyond Breast Cancer of Chattanooga, Hotel in Memphis. Tenn. “Coming together with other people By bringing together more than 500 people experiencing breast cancer gives you a sense of affected by breast cancer from across the safety and community unlike any other. I am country, as well as caregivers and medical thrilled that the Annual Conference is coming to professionals, Living Beyond Breast Cancer’s Memphis so that people in this region can learn Sharing Wisdom, Sharing Strength conference first-hand about the incredible resources and will offer the latest information on treatments support that this organization has to offer.” and managing the disease’s effects while building a community of support. African American women more likely The conference will feature a broad range of diagnosed with Triple Negative Breast Cancer sessions highlighting the latest breast cancer Triple-negative breast cancer is a subtype feels uninformed or alone—and we are putting research and treatment options, addressing key of breast cancer that is not responsive to the that vision into action by partnering with topics including breast reconstruction, faith and most common hormone-based treatments. leaders in Memphis to do just that.” spirituality, nutrition, and caregiving. Additional Among African-American women who develop activities will include Reach & Raise, an inspiring breast cancer, there is an estimated 20 to 40 For a full conference schedule, outdoor, all-levels yoga class on Sunday that percent chance of the breast cancer being visit: www.lbbc.org/2017conference builds community in support of people impacted triple-negative. Living Beyond Breast Cancer by breast cancer, and Shimmer & Shine, a Friday partners with the Triple Negative Breast Cancer night kickoff event where conference partners Foundation (TNBCF) at this conference to offer Living Beyond Breast Cancer will offer fashion and beauty advice specific to the highest quality and most useful information LBBC’s mission is to connect people with trusted people affected by breast cancer. to people diagnosed with this type of cancer. breast cancer information and a community of support. Keynote speakers Jacci Thompson-Dodd, MA, “Sharing Wisdom, Sharing Strength” is like National conferences, Breast Cancer 360s, the Guides MSSS, LASW, OSW-C, author and founder of a conference within a conference for people to Understanding Breast Cancer and a toll-free Breast “WeSpeakLoudly,” and Stacy Kennedy, MPH, with triple-negative breast cancer,” said Hayley Cancer Helpline are just a few examples of the services RD, CSO, LDN, chief wellness officer at AVA Dinerman, executive director of TNBCF. “It can that are provided, always at little or no cost. For more Nutrition Coaching and senior nutritionist at be difficult for this group to find information information, visit lbbc.org or call 855.807.6386. the Dana-Farber Cancer Institute/Brigham and support specific to their needs. This & Women’s Hospital; will present strategies conference allows these women to connect with Registration is now open for the conference. for living a healthy life with breast cancer. each other while being a part of the larger breast Thanks to their partnership with the Patient Advocate Presenters from the Memphis-area health cancer community.” Foundation, the full conference weekend is being systems include Sonia Benn, MD, medical “The conference is the focal point of our oncologist and hematologist at West Cancer outreach to the Memphis community in 2017, offered at a $25 fee. Travel grants are available for those Center; Marcia Kirby, WHNP-BC, of Baptist but it’s not the only initiative,” said Jean who qualify and fee waivers are also available. More Memorial Health Care Corporation; and Jeremy Sachs, CEO of Living Beyond Breast Cancer. information is available at lbbc.org/2017conference and R. Sanders, MPA, cancer program specialist at “We are working with cancer centers, support by following the Twitter handle @LivingBeyondBC. Methodist Le Bonheur Healthcare. organizations, houses of worship and others to As in past years, conference attendees will find make the community aware that LBBC is a 24/7 workshops focusing on their unique experiences, resource that is there for them. Our vision is a whether by cancer stage or type of breast cancer. world where no one affected by breast cancer
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JCP manages Memphis Jewish Federation and Jewish Foundation of Memphis with the goal of developing a vibrant and sustained Jewish community in Memphis, Israel and throughout the world. Through Federation and Foundation, JCP partners with individuals and families to help them achieve their philanthropic goals. JCP also partners with Jewish agencies in Memphis and Jewish communities around the world to meet urgent needs through Federation’s Annual Campaign and Foundation’s funds and endowments. February 11: Super Sunday April 12: Yom HaShoah Observation June (TBD) Annual Meeting June/July (TBD) Israeli Scouts
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Baron Hirsch Congregation 400 S. Yates Rd. Memphis, TN 38120 901.683.7485 Rabbi Binyamin Lehrfield Assistant Rabbi Dov Winston Director: David Fleischhacker Cantor Ricky Kampf President: Morris Thomas [email protected] • baronhirsch.org
Baron Hirsch is a vibrant, modern Orthodox Zionist congregation that seeks to engage its membership in experiencing all aspects of Jewish life with a strong commitment to the Jewish people, the State of Israel and our Torah. Our educational Institute offers learning opportunities for all backgrounds in a comfortable setting. Our youth department offers programs from toddlers to collegiate ages to experience a deeper, richer Jewish life. Baron Hirsch seeks to build community on every level. Our Building Relationships initiative to create stronger bonds focuses on both major events for everyone as well as small clubs for people with similar interests. Religious services form the core of synagogue life. Our services are warm and spirited, and everyone is made to feel welcome. Many events during the year bring many members together such as: a holiday kumsitz, multiple scholar-in-residences, 100 man minyan, Purim Seudah, and an artists ascending concert. NCSY holds monthly events and Shabbatonim for Teens, Kola Rena So-Shuls also holds monthly luncheons with entertainment for seniors. There is something for everyone here at Baron Hirsch.
Hillels of Memphis 3581 Midland Ave. Memphis, TN 38111 901.452.2453 Director: Rabbi Jeremy Simons [email protected] www.hillelsofmemphis.org
Hillels of Memphis serves the academic, social and spiritual needs of Jewish college students through the Morris S. Fogelman Center at the University of Memphis and Rhodes Hillel. Both Hillels provide a spiritual home for Jewish students, faculty and administrators as well as a Jewish resource for the larger campus communities. Programs are open to all Memphis-area students.
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Memphis Jewish Home & Rehab Executive Director: Bobby Meadows 36 Bazeberry Road, Cordova, TN 38018 901.758.0036 [email protected] memphisjewishhome.org
Memphis Jewish Home & Rehab provides quality care for seniors seeking rehabilitation services or long-term care. With 90 years of experience serving seniors in the Memphis community, our professionally trained staff provides compassionate care to people of all faiths in a beautiful, warm and supportive environment. During a patient’s rehab stay from initial evaluation to regular assessments to a personalized transition plan, our goal is to restore a patient’s confidence in his or her ability to live as independently as possible. For our residents who are no longer able to care for themselves, we provide the care they need in a comfortable home-like setting with stimulating activities including outings, social events, musical entertainment, and art therapy. October 17, 2017: 90th Anniversary Speaker I: Dr. Timothy Ihrig • January 25, 2018: 90th Anniversary Speaker II: Dr. Scott Morris March 4, 2018: 90th Anniversary Speaker III: Dr. Danielle Ofri • April 29, 2018: 90th Anniversary Spring Festival September 2018: Annual Golf Tournament
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By Shoshana Cenker
Everyone benefits from a little kindness – given or received. To spread some kindness across Jewish Memphis, the Memphis Jewish Community Center launched the MJCC Ahavat Achim (Brotherly Love) Challenge, led by Rabbi Mordechai Harris, Director for the Center for Jewish Living and Learning. The goal: to build bridges, strengthen existing bonds and make a bold statement of mutual caring and interdependence in the Memphis Jewish community.
Rabbi Harris carefully planned this program Local Jewish agencies were involved on a to coincide with the Three Weeks – the 17th of larger scale within the Ahavat Achim Challenge. The SAGE project brought our staff the Hebrew month of Tammuz to the 9th of the Fourteen Jewish organizations participated in Hebrew month of Av is a period of mourning the Secret Agency Gift Exchange or ‘SAGE.’ The together in such a fun way! We all met in recalling the destruction of the Jewish Temples. agencies were randomly paired with a secret the afternoon to open the gift and read Rabbis teach that these tragedies were a ‘buddy’ agency, and each was asked to perform the ‘Ode’ that went with it. Everyone consequence of needless Jewish infighting or gifts of kindness, with a firm $100 limit on total Sinat Chinam – ‘baseless hatred.’ To counteract expenses, for their partner agency throughout helped plan and decide what our Secret and correct these flaws, we are taught to foster the three-week period in late July and the Agency would receive. The Revealing Ahavat Chinam – ‘unconditional love.’ beginning of August. was great; we never suspected that we “The MJCC encouraged members to make “As organizations thought of ways to give to a special effort during this time to perform their SAGE beneficiary, we advised them to keep had each other! The project promoted unprompted deeds of kindness toward one in mind the unique mission and needs of that interagency thoughtfulness as well as a another, and in particular, on behalf of organization, as well as the many types of people real team spirit. others who inhabit different social circles who may be involved as staff, lay leadership and and demographics,” says Rabbi Harris. “We members/participants,” explains Rabbi Harris. ~ Leigh Hendry, Plough Towers (Buddy, Baron Hirsch) wanted members to apply their creativity to “The goal was to help the people who comprise enhance feelings of appreciation, warmth the organization to feel valued as part of the and interconnectedness among our diverse larger Memphis Jewish community.” discussion on productive discourse between community during the period of mournful During the program, Rabbi Harris posted diverse Jewish groups. It was wonderful to be introspection, in hopes it would serve as pictures and updates on social media about able to project such a positive image of our great the catalyst for a happier, healthier, more inspiring moments from the secret gift community and to inspire other communities to connected community.” exchange. It was clear everyone really got into follow suit.” Rabbi Harris also points out that the the spirit of giving kindness and sharing love. While the plethora of thoughtful and fun kind deeds and giving weren’t limited to a “I received emails and Facebook messages from secret gifts were far too many to list, here monetary value or material items. “It’s the around the U.S., the UK and Israel, with people are a few of the lovely acts of kindness: pizza gift of kindness, of compassion, of caring and sharing how touched they were or how cool they lunch at MJCC; flowers to Temple Israel with appreciation that builds love through all its thought the project was,” says Rabbi Harris. and a note that read: “Thank you for all you diverse expressions,” he says. “You could hold “One person from Seattle asked permission do to help the community blossom;” Baron the door, smile and share greetings or pay to use my invitation letter at a Limmud event Hirsch Congregation received lottery tickets; something forward.” as an example during an introduction to her snack baskets sent to Memphis Jewish Home &
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and a more profound work for the roles others Everyone was so inspired by the SAGE play in our community. To me, this program is project and brought unique and fun proof of our capacity to unite, and I’m hopeful that the bridges built will naturally lead to more ideas to our brainstorming sessions. collaboration and warmer hand-offs between Our favorite part was probably getting agencies as the people we serve move freely the kids involved, and teaching them between us. “The inspiration and positive energy we about the value of giving without the created together during this three-week SAGE expectation of receiving something project is something we can all be proud of, was an added bonus! he continued. “Together, we helped build a strong and united Jewish community in ~ Melinda Lejman, Beth Sholom Memphis, one we can model to a broader world, which desperately needs it. I know that I will personally draw on those good vibes in the Rehab; plants to Bornblum Jewish Community weeks and months ahead.” School; and Margolin Hebrew Academy received yummy donuts. Participating organizations include: The SAGE program culminated on August 7, Anshei Sphard Beth El Emeth Congregation which was Tu B’Av – the Jewish holiday of love Baron Hirsch Congregation and rebirth – with a reveal luncheon party where Beth Sholom Synagogue the participating agencies found out who their Bornblum Jewish Community School secret partner had been. “The sentiment was Chabad Lubavitch of Tennessee universally one of gratitude and appreciation Hillels of Memphis for what we had done together,” says Rabbi Jewish Community Partners Harris. “People shared endearing stories of Margolin Hebrew Academy their planning and process, as well as reactions Memphis Jewish Community Center of sincere appreciation to the generosity of Memphis Jewish Home & Rehab others. Plough Towers [representatives] even Or Chadash Conservative Synagogue brought one last gift for their mystery agency – Plough Towers their self-published cookbook. Seeing how the Temple Israel thoughtful exchanges put smiles on people’s Young Israel of Memphis faces and totally transformed their day was priceless. While I may have organized [the program], the bulk of the credit goes to everyone We were elated to join this beautiful who participated.” The SAGE program was so successful that “giving” program. Creating gifts and Rabbi Harris plans to organize it again next having them delivered to our recipient year. “It was neat to watch from my unique gave us great pleasure knowing perch as different organizations in town strove to learn more about another organization, not they would soon receive a happy just about their mission, but about the people surprise! Such a great way to bring the behind it, “ he says. “A lot of thought went into community together! the different gifts, cards and activities. No one simply went through the motions, and that ~ Suzanne Back, ASBEE investment of energy yielded positive feelings
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Margolin Hebrew Academy/Feinstone Yeshiva of the South Head of School: Rabbi Benjamin Owen COO: Dr. Bradley Karasik 390 S White Station Rd., Memphis, TN 38117 901.682.2400 www.mhafyos.org
Located in the heart of the vibrant Jewish community of Memphis, TN, the Margolin Hebrew Academy/Feinstone Yeshiva of the South is a warm, community-centered Orthodox Day School committed to instilling within its students a love of Judaism, the State of Israel, and the Jewish people in the context of an academically rigorous educational environment. Since its inception in 1949, MHA/FYOS has fostered passion and commitment for Torah learning and for a Torah lifestyle, while imbuing its students with derech eretz communal responsibility, and the tools for a lifetime of success.
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Plough Towers Senior Housing 6580 Poplar Ave., Memphis, TN 38138 901.767.1910 Director: Leigh A. Hendry President: Diane Mendelson [email protected] www.ploughtowers.org
Plough Towers is a 150-unit apartment community, which provides safe, HUD subsidized, independent housing and services for seniors. Nestled in the heart of east Memphis, Plough Towers is convenient to shopping malls, grocery stores, the Memphis Jewish Community Center, movie theaters and doctors’ offices.
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Memphis Jewish Community Center 6560 Poplar Ave., Memphis, TN 38138 901.761.0810 President/CEO Larry Skolnick [email protected] jccmemphis.org
The Memphis Jewish Community Center (MJCC) is an inclusive and compassionate community built on Jewish values, heritage, and culture, where people of all ages, lifestyles, ethnicities and levels of observance come together to pursue personal fitness, team sports, the arts, youth programming, early childhood education, and social services through Jewish Family Service. You’ll find state-of-the-art facilities and equipment, and trained, certified staff in all areas. We offer a range of activities, classes, and schedule options to fit your personal needs, interests, and goals. Through Jewish Family Service we provide an array of compassionate social services and connections to any additional service needed for your entire family. MJCC is a place for everyone, with nearly everything you need, near you. The MJCC is committed to enhancing the lives of each and every person we touch. As a non-profit organization, the MJCC works with the United Way of the Mid- South and the Memphis Jewish Federation to build and maintain a strong, vibrant, and caring community.
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Memphis Jewish Community Center COMMUNITY ORGANIZATIONS 6560 Poplar Avenue, 38138 901.761.0810 President/CEO Larry Skolnick BBYO (B’nai B’rith Youth Organization) [email protected] 6560 Poplar Avenue, 38138 jccmemphis.org 901.259.9300 Director: Jacob Klaven MRJ - Temple Israel Brotherhood [email protected] President: Danny Mansberg bbyo.org 1376 East Massey Road, 38120 901.761.3130 ConnecTI [email protected] Temple Israel Crosstown timemphis.org 1350 Concourse Avenue, Suite 457, 38104 Director: Cara Greenstein New Jewish Neighborhood House connectimemphis.org Sarah Newstok [email protected] [email protected] newjewishneighborhoodhouse.org Hadassah, Memphis Chapter Brona Pinnolis Prime Timers: A social group for Temple members 65-90+ [email protected] 1376 East Massey Road, 38120 facebook.com/groups/HadassahMemphis 901.761.3130 timemphis.org Jewish Community Partners Managing organization of: TI Fellowship Memphis Jewish Federation 901.270.3857 Jewish Foundation of Memphis Director: Ashley M. Tobias 6560 Poplar Avenue, 38138 [email protected] 901.767.7100 tifellowship.org President/CEO: Laura Linder [email protected] WRJ-Temple Israel Sisterhood jcpmemphis.org President: Nancy Shainberg Kline 1376 East Massey Road, 38120 Jewish Family Service at the Memphis Jewish Community Center 901.937.2790 6560 Poplar Avenue, 38138 [email protected] 901.767.8511 tisisterhood.org jccmemphis.org/jfs
Jewish Historical Society of Memphis & the Mid-South SYNAGOGUES 6560 Poplar Avenue, 38138 Memphis, TN 38138 [email protected] Anshei Sphard Beth El Emeth Congregation (O) 120 E. Yates Road N., 38120 JYG: Junior Youth Group 901.682.1611 901.937.2794 Rabbi Joel Finkelstein 1376 East Massey Road, 38120 Cantor Aryeh Samberg Director: Marisa Baggett Director: Alan Goldkin [email protected] [email protected] timemphis.org asbee.org
MeFTY (Memphis Federation of Temple Youth) Baron Hirsch Congregation (O) 901.937.2794 400 S. Yates Road, 38120 1376 East Massey Road, 38120 901.683.7485 Director: Marisa Baggett Rabbi Binyamin Lehrfield [email protected] Assistant Rabbi Dov Winston timemphis.org Director: David Fleischhacker Cantor Ricky Kampf Memphis Friends of Israel [email protected] [email protected] baronhirsch.org memphisfoi.org
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PJ Library Creates a
Cultural Community By Lauren Luskey Taube
PJ Library is having an amazing impact upon community, but the reality is each family’s Jewish and interfaith families across the Mid- level of engagement in Judaism is different,” South. The Jewish children’s book program is said Laura Linder, President and CEO of Jewish helping to preserve the richness and vibrancy of Community Partners, the Harold Grinspoon Jewish culture, one book at a time. Most Mid- Foundation’s Memphis partner in the PJ Library South PJ Library families say the books help them program. “Getting these books and CDs in the have conversations about Jewish traditions, values mail every month connects families to their and customs with their children. culture, and provides an excellent way for “Our 8-year-old twins have been receiving families to experience Judaism in their homes.” books and other fun items from PJ Library since In the Memphis community, 100% of they were six months old,” said Joe Pierce. interfaith families who participate in PJ Library “They are a part of our family’s library of said the program has increased their confidence children’s books. Our kids love them.” in engaging their children around Jewish PJ Library sends books and CDs to more than traditions, values and customs, according to PJ 300 children in the Memphis area thanks to a Library’s Triennial Family Survey, which was gift from the Billie and Joe Pierce Family and by conducted in December. In the Mid-South, donors’ gifts to Memphis Jewish Federation’s 26% of families participating in PJ Library are Annual Community Campaign, in partnership interfaith families, while 26% have a family book readings. Eighty percent of the parents with the Harold Grinspoon Foundation. Every member who is Jewish by choice. who went to these events say they connected month, children ages six months through eight “We look forward to our PJ Library books,” socially with other adults they met. years receive a book carefully selected for high- said Natalie Lieberman, whose 5-year-old “My kids look forward to the organized quality content and age-level appropriateness. daughter is a PJ Library kid. “As the non-Jewish events with all of their friends from shul and “PJ Library provides an organic segue into mother of a Jewish child, sometimes I think school,” said Brooke Lubin, mother of three Jewish conversations between children and their the books help me connect with the Jewish PJ Library kids, aged 2 to 6. “PJ Library has parents, grandparents or whoever is reading holidays more than they do my daughter. created another group of social peers, both for with that child,” said Billie Pierce. “Whether the We read together nightly, and the books are kids and for parents.” book is a timely tale about Rosh Hashanah, a fun always relevant to the time of year. It helps In addition to creating connections between story inspiring kids to create their own tzedakah cue me to prepare and engage my daughter in families, PJ Library is fostering communal ties, box, or a CD of Jewish songs to sing along with acknowledging or celebrating the event. If you with 78% of participating Mid-South families in the car, PJ Library fills a void and a need for didn’t grow up Jewish, the minor holidays aren’t saying the program has made them interested in the relaxed dialogue that occurs upon finishing on your radar, so it’s great that I can rely on our getting more connected to local Jewish activities, a book or listening to a fun song. PJ Library monthly PJ library book.” organizations and people. In the last year, Mid- demonstrates how to live a Jewish life without PJ Library also provides participants with South PJ Library events have further nurtured preaching to kids.” the opportunity to connect with other families the cohesion of a plugged-in community. These A newly released survey measuring the in their community through events for events give families opportunities to interact impact of PJ Library finds that the program younger children. and have recently pulled more than 25 new plays an important role in the lives of Jewish Forty-seven percent of PJ Library families families into the program. families regardless of background. However, attended events in Memphis for Jewish families it’s more likely to influence interfaith families with young children hosted by PJ Library or To sign-up for PJ Library or to learn more than in-married families when it comes to another organization in the past year. The about the program, visit jcpmemphis.org/pj- celebrating Jewish holidays and learning more events, which families say they usually attend library or call 901.767.8522. about Judaism. a few times a year, provide chances to socialize “Memphis is famous for our tight-knit Jewish and participate in arts and crafts, cooking or
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Memphis Police Director Michael Rallings (second from left), Deputy Chief Terry Landrum (center), and Mayor Jim Strickland (back row, right) met with Jewish community leadership, part of coordinated efforts to maximize security across Jewish Memphis. Stronger Together: Security Partners
By Matt Timberlake
Working with experts, assessing vulnerabilities, gathering resources, forming partnerships, improving communication, training staff and leadership.
This is the work of the Jewish Community Security Council that was formed Partnering with the community nearly four years ago to improve the security posture of the Memphis Beyond funding and granting, JCP’s council holds regular training sessions Jewish community. Convened by Jewish Community Partners (JCP), the and leverages relationships to boost community security. “The council has council includes representatives from every Memphis Jewish organization, a wonderful relationship with the FBI and local law enforcement, which synagogue and school. is of great benefit to the Memphis Jewish Community Center (MJCC) and our Jewish institutions in general,” said MJCC President and CEO Larry “Security is something we take seriously,” said JCP’s Coordinator of Special Skolnick. “Knowing we have partners to consult with on protocols or Projects Mark Wender. “As the umbrella organization for the entire Jewish upgrades, to have people that are reaching out to us when there are issues community, JCP is the organization to take the lead.” that we need to be aware of, is a huge asset.”
Working with experts The web of law enforcement agents and officers, professional security “Several years ago, Jewish community leaders who have a deep consultants, and lay leadership fortifies the Security Council with a broad understanding of what is going on approached me about security,” said perspective and fresh ideas to tackle issues of security. Combined with the Stuart Frisch, a security consultant who has worked with the Security fundraising might of MJF and JFOM, this community-wide collaboration Council from its inception. “We brought together every Jewish organization continues to fulfill its obligation to keep Jewish Memphis safe for everyone. and put everyone at the same table. The understanding was clear, our task was to address security, and security only. “Our greatest weapon against threats is unity,” said Michael T. Gavin, Special Agent in Charge of the FBI’s Memphis branch. “Unity is built Starting with a broad community assessment, the Council began its work on information sharing and coordination among our partners in the law to make our community safer. Vulnerabilities were identified and a plan of enforcement and the intelligence communities. It is built on partnerships action formulated. with the private sector and effective outreach to the public as our eyes and ears. It is built on the idea that, together, we are smarter and stronger than Gathering resources we are standing alone.” JCP operates the Memphis Jewish Federation (MJF) and the Jewish Foundation of Memphis (JFOM), both of which are sources of important resources for filling gaps in community security.
From MJF’s Annual Campaign, a grant is awarded each year to support “Knowing we have partners to consult with on ongoing security such as JCP’s emergency text alert system, RAVE. This provides a way that Jewish agencies can alert each other instantaneously protocols or upgrades, to have people that are through group texts and emails. In addition, when assessments identified major vulnerabilities, JCP reached out to targeted donors and raised more reaching out to us when there are issues that we than $250,000 for capital improvements such as shatterproof window film on school windows, access control and improved fencing. need to be aware of, is a huge asset.”
And just recently, in response to the current unsettling environment, a new Jewish Foundation Fund was created specifically for ongoing security needs in our local Jewish community.
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Eileen Posner, Cindy Finestone and Anthony Morrison co-chairs of the 2018 Reach Chaier Annual Community Campaign.
Up Close with Anthony Morrison Co-Chair 2018 Memphis Jewish Federation Annual Community Campaign
JSM: When and why did you first become involved with Memphis JSM: What does your volunteerism mean to you? Jewish Federation? Anthony: Everything really. It has allowed me to connect with like-minded Anthony: Fifteen years ago at the age of 35, it hit me that I needed to do people who inspire me, to help those who are less fortunate, and hopefully I something for our community. I felt like the annual campaign impacts have modeled to my children the importance of helping others. more agencies and people in need than any other organization. JSM: Who most influenced your volunteer involvement? And how? JSM: Have you served in other roles within MJF? Anthony: That’s an easy one. My parents and my stepparents, as well as my Anthony: I initially co-chaired several YAD campaigns. Then I headed up two older sisters, were/are so involved in charitable endeavors, so the path engagement, community relations, allocations, and now, co-chairing the was paved nicely for me. past four campaigns. JSM: What do you consider the most important issue(s) the Memphis Jewish JSM: Why serve again on the 2018 community campaign team? community faces today? Anthony: It’s a habit! Campaign is the heartbeat of our organization, and Anthony: Over the last several years, our community has really ramped it’s what I always aspired to do with Federation. up its efforts to bring in young adults and families. Our challenge is to find leaders from this group who can help sustain, and even grow, all that we do JSM: Do you serve in other volunteer roles? and have here in the Memphis Jewish community. Anthony: In the past, I was involved with Jewish Foundation of Memphis and Bornblum Solomon Schechter School and was on the boards of Beth Sholom and the MJCC; however, currently I am focusing most of my efforts on Jewish Community Partners (JCP).
JSM: Why are those organizations important to you? Anthony: They are all key components of what makes Jewish Memphis so special.
JSM: Does your professional expertise/background play a role in your volunteer activities? Anthony: Being a Financial Advisor does translate really well to charitable fundraising through legacy and current gifts, and I have used my investment expertise in serving on the investment committees of Jewish Foundation and now JCP over the past 10+ years.
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Cindy with son Edward, daughter Deborah and husband Mark. November / December Up Close with Tzedakah (Charitable Giving) Tikkun Olam (Repairing the World) Cindy Finestone Hot Hanukah Finds Co-Chair 2018 Memphis Jewish Federation Annual Community Campaign January / February Simcha Scene Weddings, Bar/Bat Mitzvahs JSM: Why did you first become involved with continues to be very active in her community. My Memphis Jewish Federation? dad is now very involved with their temple and Cindy: Several years ago, my husband, Mark, was other civic organizations. asked to be on the allocations committee but due to his work schedule was unable to, so I filled in JSM: What does your volunteerism mean to you? for him. I had recently left the work force in public Cindy: It is important to give back whether it accounting and was looking for an organization is with your time or donations. Based on the where I could bring my skills and fill my day. amazing programs I’ve seen in Poland, Israel, the Being involved with MJF has allowed me to better Ukraine and locally, we have to be involved to connect to the Memphis Jewish community, work ensure the sustainability of our communities both with amazing lay and professional staff and be here and worldwide. Attending national programs inspired by going to the General Assembly and and mission trips has introduced me to new various mission trips abroad. friends who live where we travel and spend time. It is all about making connections. JSM: Have you served in other roles within MJF? Cindy: After serving on the allocations committee, JSM: Describe the most impactful Jewish moment I was asked to head a committee and co-chair the for you. campaign with Anthony. I also served as treasurer Cindy: One of most impactful Jewish moments for Jewish Community Partners. occurred later in life while on a Temple Israel trip to Israel for our son’s bar mitzvah. We were JSM: Why did you want to serve on the fortunate to travel with Rabbi Micah Greenstein, Campaign Team? my parents, Rick Recht and Abby Strauss. The Cindy: Serving on the allocations committee was experience being in Jerusalem over Hanukah and very beneficial for me. In 2014, we conducted a overlooking the wall for his bar mitzvah, along community-wide assessment study that led to with these amazing singers and family, was truly the creation of Fedovation Grants – a funding special. I have been fortunate to travel to Israel opportunity for new and innovative grants to twice since but always remember that first trip. meet identified priority needs. Money from the annual community campaign is crucial to JSM: What do you consider the most important continue these programs. issue(s) the Memphis Jewish community faces today? JSM: Do you serve in other volunteer roles? Cindy: There are challenges and opportunities Cindy: I volunteer at Jewish Family Service and here. We need to help those who are vulnerable Temple Israel and have been involved in the past and connect those that are young and new to at Bodine School and Lausanne Collegiate School, Memphis. We also need to be creative in reaching serving on both of these organization’s boards. Jews in every area of Memphis and making them feel connected, inspired and involved. JSM: Who most influenced your volunteer involvement? And how? Cindy: My parents, Max and Lynn Levin, have always been my role models. My mother, in particular, was involved with various organizations back in the day with PTA and was my Girl Scout leader for many years. She was and
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JSM: Have you served in other roles within MJF? JSM: What does your volunteerism mean to you? Eileen: I have served minor roles when Eileen: It is part of who I am, and gives me asked, but have never been as involved purpose in life. This is my way of giving back! as I have become in the 2018 campaign. I am very excited about serving MJF in my JSM: Describe the most impactful Jewish current campaign role, and hope we exceed moment for you as a child. expectations in the results. Eileen: I was greatly impacted by the DRY Holocaust. My parents talked about it over JSM: Why did you want to serve on the 2018 dinner, I saw the early movies based on the Community Campaign Team? Holocaust, and I have been privileged to know Eileen: As a fundraiser for MJF over the last many Holocaust survivors throughout my 20 years, I have often thought of greater life. In 1948, I actually tutored a boy in my 4th EYES? involvement but was preoccupied with grade who had survived the Holocaust. other volunteer activities. I have handled Turn to the TearWell Advanced Dry Eye Treatment fundraising from newest givers to the level of JSM: What is your earliest memory my Lion of Judah sisters, so I am well aware of of Tzedakah? Center™ for our state-of-the-art technology and the how this aspect of Federation functions. Eileen: I collected money for the new state of Israel in 1948 by going door-to-door with a JSM: Are you involved with other volunteer blue box! latest in treatment options to help patients like you. organizations? Eileen: I am on the Board of Trustees of the JSM: Who most influenced your volunteer Margolin Hebrew Academy/Feinstone Yeshiva involvement? And how? of the South, President of the Baron Hirsch Eileen: My parents were involved in Sisterhood, and an ex-officio member of the volunteering from my earliest memories. My Board of Trustees; a volunteer with Reach to father was an Air Raid Warden during World WE’VE MOVED! Recovery of the American Cancer Society, on War II, my mother was president of a large the planning committee of Making Strides chapter of Women’s American ORT (now Check out our new location in the Against Breast Cancer of ACS, serve on the WORLD ORT). I started a group called the FocalPoint at Crosstown! West Cancer Center/UT Advisory Council “Helpful Girls Club,” and in 1950-51, we made (formerly the Wings Cancer Foundation and sold potholders, and presented the March Board), and serve as a Surrogate Parent for of Dimes with a check for $1,000. Memphis/Shelby County Schools. JSM: What do you consider the most JSM: Why are those organizations important important issue(s) the Memphis Jewish 901.252.3670 to you? community faces today? tearwell.com | [email protected] Eileen: I believe that every Jew in Memphis Eileen: We have two serious issues: the has a responsibility to volunteer and give first is intermarriage, and the second is the 1350 Concourse Avenue | Suite 264 financial support to what will ultimately difficulty of getting young adults involved in Memphis, TN 38104-2023 maintain and grow the basics of a strong the community! Jewish community. I am passionate about causes related to cancer patients, since I have
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By Shoshana Cenker Photos by Breezy Lucia and Trey Clark
Looking for a new movie to see, but want something different than the blockbusters playing in theaters? Look no further than the Indie Memphis Film Festival presented by Duncan-Williams, Inc., which is celebrating its 20th anniversary November 1–6, 2017.
“More than 50 people are prepping the weather holds up. for the six-day festival and a “We’re hosting receptions, 100+ volunteers too,” says Indie parties and Q&As after the films Ridgeway in East Memphis,” Memphis stand out among other Memphis Executive Director Ryan are shown – over 100 filmmakers says Ryan. “On the weekend, movie festivals.” Watt. “The week of the festival, are coming in to interact with everything moves to the Overton And, it’s already working. Some we’re all working nonstop. We audiences,” adds Ryan. “This year, Square Theater District plus Malco highly influential players in the have lots of corporate sponsors, local bands will perform inside Studio on the Square.” film industry are taking notice and such as Amazon Studios and in- theaters before each movie – like Six movies will be showing at talking about the Indie Memphis kind help. In honor of our 20th a mini music festival within our all times throughout the weekend Film Festival including Filmmaker anniversary, we’re planning more movie festival. John Miller is – more than 200 films and videos. Magazine, Brooklyn Magazine and outdoor public aspects.” booking acts that musically match No matter your interest, the Indie The Independent (UK). Let’s just say they’re rolling out the movie themes. Audience Memphis Film Festival has a film If you can’t wait for the Film the red carpet for this anniversary members will be entertained, not genre for everyone. Festival in November, Indie milestone. For the first time, stuck watching commercials.” “Our films touch all areas,” Memphis has you covered. While Indie Memphis acquired a city Indie Memphis Film Festival is explains Ryan. “We have an the Film Festival is their biggest permit to shut down a block and a featured at seven locations across opportunity to program a bunch event, they actually provide a half of Cooper Street in Midtown, Memphis. On weeknights, films of films that appeal to different range of other film programs right outside several theaters – will be shown at the Halloran groups and various ages. Each throughout the year to create Playhouse on the Square, Circuit Centre for Performing Arts and movie has its own audience. We are community through independent Playhouse, Hattiloo Theatre and Education in Downtown Memphis becoming more diverse, which is film and support the development Malco Studio on the Square. Panel next to the Orpheum Theatre. And happening in film fests in general of filmmakers. discussions will be held in tents for folks who may not want to – it’s a challenge. For example, our “Because Memphis doesn’t have outside the theatres along with schlep too far, “we’ve also added a Civil Rights section will become a a true art house theater, we host food trucks, music and screens – if second weekday location at Malco permanent festival fixture, helping a weekly Indie Wednesday Film 24 October 2017 I www.jewishscenemagazine.com Feature
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Lynne Sachs on the set of “Tip of My Tongue.”
Series,” explains Ryan. “This program seeks to festival one of the top events of the year.” The Memphis Premiere of Lynne Sachs bridge this gap by bringing movies that wouldn’t For a complete list of the 2017 Indie Film otherwise play in Memphis for one night.” Festival movies and schedule, including an new documentary, “Tip of My Tongue,” Indie Memphis does more than just show encore day of screenings the week after the will be shown on closing night, Nov., 6, films. Shoot and Splice is a free monthly artist festival wraps up at Malco Collierville Towne networking and development opportunity Cinema, check out: IndieMemphis.com. at the Halloran Centre at the Orpheum. offering technical and fun workshops and Now living in New York, part of the guest speakers. The Youth Film Society, for kids in grades film touches on her childhood days in 7-12, just held its second film festival. The Most tickets are $10 each for Memphis. Lynne’s brother, Ira Sachs, members created short films, screened them for audiences and had the chance to attend movies. Higher-profile movie has been a great supporter of Indie free workshops by industry professionals. Memphis. Last year, his film, “Little “This new program has exceeded all tickets are $15 including a expectation!” boasts Ryan. “It’s the biggest Men,” premiered at Indie Memphis. area of growth for our organization. reception. Or you can buy a “In the future, we hope to add more programs pass for $100, which allows and workshops,” he continues. “We want to For more information about Lynne provide the opportunities for audiences to see you to see 12 movies and movies they wouldn’t see otherwise and include Sachs and to view a trailer visit the film scene here.” access into the hospitality http://www.lynnesachs. Spring-boarding from all the incredible programing throughout the year and last year’s tent. A VIP pass for $250 com/2017/04/25/tip-of-my-tongue/ successful Film Festival with record attendance gets you unlimited movies of nearly 11,500 people, final preparations are underway for the 20th anniversary celebration. and perks including priority “We’ve hit record attendance two years in a row,” says Ryan proudly. “For the 20th seating. anniversary, we’re hoping to continue that trend. We want Memphians to consider this
Nov 1 - 6 - Indie Memphis Film Festival presented by Duncan-Williams, Inc.
Wed., Nov 1 - Halloran Centre & Malco Ridgeway
Thur., Nov 2 - Halloran Centre & Malco Ridgeway
Fri., Nov 3 - Playhouse on the Square, Circuit Playhouse, Hattiloo Theatre, Malco Studio on the Square
Sat., Nov 4 - Playhouse on the Square, Circuit Playhouse, Hattiloo Theatre, Malco Studio on the Square
Sun., Nov 5 - Playhouse on the Square, Circuit Playhouse, Hattiloo Theatre, Malco Studio on the Square
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Sat., Nov 14 - Collierville Encore at Malco Collierville Towne Cinema
Jewish Scene I October 2017 25 Senior Living
Memphis Jewish Home & Rehab 90 Years of Caring For Generations 25 Years of Rehabilitation
By Joel Ashner
It was Nov. 6, 1992, when Memphis Jewish Home & Rehab (MJHR) sent home its first resident after a stay on what was then called the Restorative Care Unit. Up until then, seniors only came to MJHR to live permanently. Bertha Diamond was celebrated with a “Bon Voyage” party. According to The Home Edition, Bertha was quoted as saying, “I know that coming here made it possible for me to go back home and be able to take care of myself.” Bertha came to the Home 42 days earlier on a stretcher from the hospital after a spinal fracture. She worked with the physical and occupational therapists to get stronger every day. She was walking with a cane by the time she went back to her home. Bertha’s story was unusual for the early 1990s. The Home was not doing much in the way of rehabilitation then. But as the demand for this type of treatment increased, MJHR was able to enhance this service to meet the needs of the community. The first rehab gym was located on the second floor, but by 2008 that space was just too small, and the rehab facilities moved downstairs into two larger spaces at the north end of the building. Fast forward to 2017. MJHR now looks forward to an even larger space for Rob Tucker rehab with an addition to its building. (More details about that addition will be coming soon.) Because many more seniors are in need of a place to get the therapies required to get stronger after an illness, injury, or surgery, MJHR is committed to adapting to their needs. Stories of rehab graduates continue. There’s Rob Tucker, a mechanical engineer, who was in agonizing pain and unable to walk when he came to MJHR. And John Wheeler, who was determined to escort his daughter down the aisle at her wedding even after he had a devastating stroke just weeks before the big day. And Nathan Goto who came to MJHR after an injury left him partially paralyzed, unable to walk or eat on his own. Watch their success stories on YouTube by scanning the codes below or going to www. youtube.com/user/MemphisJewishHome. There are thousands more stories just like these from both the Jewish and broader Memphis communities. Just like the faith-based community hospitals, MJHR serves people of all faiths. But it is the facility’s commitment to providing the Jewish environment including celebration of all Jewish holidays and keeping strictly kosher, that ties the facility to its rich history and those who wanted to fulfill the needs of Jewish seniors back in 1927 when the Home was founded. MJHR still provides the long-term care with which the community is John Wheeler familiar. But through the rehab services, it is able to serve so many more Jewish and non-Jewish people, and in turn, their families, helping them to get back home. Whether their stay is for a week, three months, or 10 years, patients, residents and their families can rest assured that the Home will provide the care they need in a facility that the Jewish community can be proud of supporting.
Nathan Goto
26 October 2017 I www.jewishscenemagazine.com Senior Living
Client-Caregiver Compatibility Is Crucial To Quality Caregiving
By Cary Rotter
One of the essential challenges of caregiving agencies is assigning the right caregivers to each case. The temptation to fill a case quickly often supersedes the careful thought and due consideration each assignment merits. This challenge should be addressed from seven perspectives.
Personal care and homemaker services. Personality and judgment. 1 Does the client need help with personal care (bathing, dressing, etc), 5 Clients need caregivers with personalities that mesh with their own. homemaker services (meal preparation, shopping, taking medicines, For instance, a client who enjoys calm and limited conversation etc.), or both? Clearly the caregiver must have competence in would quickly resent a caregiver who loves to talk. Judgment in the area or areas of need. While this is the first consideration of interpersonal relationships, job execution, and decision-making assignment, there is a corollary. A superior agency will assign its is critical to exemplary caregiving. There is no scientific formula best caregiver(s) available for every case. The best caregivers should to this element of caregiver assignment. Knowing one’s caregivers always take precedence in client assignments. is of paramount importance. Agency staff must consider caregiver performance from other cases and use intuition influenced by in- Client needs relative to family needs. home client assessments. 2 Caregiving agencies serve both clients (end users) and their families. Caregivers must be able to work with both and resolve issues that 6 Role of provider, caregiver, and family. frequently arise. A good agency recognizes and respects the differing Caregivers are accountable to three parties: clients, client families, sensitivities and expectations its clients may have relative to their and their agency. The best caregiving agencies give their caregivers families. The best caregivers must be comfortable and adept at much latitude to serve their clients optimally. A caregiver’s first job navigating the murky waters of challenging family dynamics. is to serve their clients and their families and to use their training and skills to best represent their agency. Everything a caregiver does Essential skills. or fails to do can impact the caregiver agency, its other caregivers, 3 There are essential skills beyond those requisite to personal care and and the agency’s standing in the community. Caregivers ultimately homemaker services. How well does the caregiver communicate? Are determine the business viability of their agencies. their interpersonal skills suited to the client (and family) needing service? If cooking or transportation is of particular importance, 7 Site considerations. how do the caregiver’s skills measure up? Every case is unique, Where a caregiver delivers service influences what they can and and elements of service in a plan of care have different values. cannot do. In a private home setting they are free to exercise the The validity of assignment choices will quickly become manifest full array of their talents and skills in serving clients. In senior in the field, with adjustments made depending on client/family communities, hospitals, and long-term care facilities, caregivers are assessment of performance. restricted in what services they can deliver. In some cases caregivers may only provide companionship and alert site staff to address all 4 Passive vs. active approach to care. personal care issues. Good agencies always consider the site of care Some clients need a caregiver who will direct them (active approach), in making caregiver assignments. Caregivers are often better in while others need one who knows how to stay in the background but some settings than others. still accomplish their job (passive approach). In some cases both approaches are required, depending on circumstance and time. The best caregiving agencies consider the approach of care best suited to each client.
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Happy residents at Plough Towers Photo Credit Ronnie Booze Seeing the Big Picture
By Gila Golder
Seniors. Special Needs Families. Midtown/ would help seniors connect with the services Janet Rubin, Intake, Referral, and Volunteer Downtown Jewish residents. they needed,” said Bluma. With representatives Coordinator for Jewish Family Service at the from each organization sitting around a table MJCC. “A lot of people come in to ask about These important segments of our Memphis together, it was easy enough to talk about what navigating the process of moving their loved Jewish community, according to Jewish each organization does. The next step was to ones to Memphis, and they want to know what Community Partner (JCP) 2014 Community bring that information together into a single services will be available once they make that Needs Assessment, are among several groups digest of community-wide senior services. transition. I give them the directory, which whose needs were not being fully met by a makes it easy for them to follow up as needed Jewish community organization. The SSC was able to address this issue by with the appropriate service providers.” designing, printing and distributing a Senior Choosing seniors as the first area to tackle, JCP Services Directory, a large-print, glossy, quad- Building on its first success, the SSC also applied convened the Senior Services Collaborative (SSC) fold brochure with a comprehensive listing of for a “Fedovation” grant from Memphis Jewish and brought together agency representatives senior services provided by the Memphis Jewish Federation to hire a Roving Jewish Activities and community members who would address community, broken down into categories such as Coordinator who would provide Jewish content senior needs from a more global perspective, Vital Needs, Companionship, Transportation and and engagement opportunities to Memphis sharing resources and generating strategies to Wellness. This information is also available in Jewish seniors currently isolated from Jewish improve ease of access to senior services. digital form at www.memphisjewishseniors.org. engagement. The grant was approved enabling The costs were covered by a grant from Jewish the SSC to move forward with the hiring process. “The Senior Services Collaborative (SSC) is one Foundation fund holders Patti and Bill Weiss. Recently Hillary (Hilly) Safier was offered of the gems of our community,” said Bluma the position and is eagerly connecting with Zuckerbrot-Finkelstein, JCP staff coordinator The printed brochure and website were community seniors. of the SSC. “It is comprised of individuals who finalized in March 2017, with brochures are passionate about and committed to the mailed directly to seniors’ homes. Extra “When we first began talking about forming wellbeing of Memphis Jewish seniors. And, the copies of the brochure are available at the the Senior Services Collaborative a year and Collaborative knows how to get things done. It JCP office, Memphis congregations, and local a half ago, I never would have imagined how is a privilege to be part of a group making a real agencies serving Jewish seniors, as well as much we’d have accomplished in such a short difference and impact in our community.” at independent and assisted living facilities, time!” said an enthused Joel Ashner, Director of geriatric medical offices and hospitals. Community Relations for Memphis Jewish Home The SSC’s first task was to create a more & Rehab and chair of the SSC. efficient process for seniors to find out what “The senior directory and website have been was going on in the community. “We needed very helpful to me as a resource to provide Here’s to more good work to come. one central number or information point that both to seniors and to their caregivers,” noted
28 October 2017 I www.jewishscenemagazine.com Scenes
Thank you to Rabbis Lehrfield and Winston of Baron Hirsch Synagogue for hosting the Community Rabbi Gathering on August 16, 2017. Photo Courtesy Temple Israel
Margolin Hebrew Academy Middle School boys enjoy an afternoon of bowling.
Margaret and Shep Fargotstein enjoy Seal at Live at the Garden.
Jewish Community Partners hosted a Wine Tasting for women to hear details about an upcoming Heart to Heart Mission that is being held in Israel in February 2018.
Melinda Lejman, JCP’s “Israel at 70” coordinator, is popping up all over asking Memphians to sign a Happy Birthday Israel banner to present to our partner city, Shoham, Israel.
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