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INTREPID ADVENTURES IMAGINATION May 5, 6, 19 & 20 Children ages 5–12, their siblings and caregivers are invited to have fun and learn together as they explore the history and science behind the Museum’s TAKES FLIGHT exhibits. Free with Museum admission. FAMILY ASTRONOMY NIGHT Visit the Intrepid Sea, Air & Space Museum this spring to discover May 11 history and science in our exhibits and family-friendly programs. Join us for family-friendly talks by cutting-edge scientists, stargazing on the fl ight deck and shows This year marks the 75th anniversary of USS Intrepid’s commissioning. in our pop-up planetarium. All ages. Free. Register Throughout the year, the Museum will present engaging programs and in advance. events to commemorate and celebrate this triumphant ship.
May 23–28 Join us for a special lineup of events and interactive displays as we honor our service men and women. Enjoy hands-on activities, live performances by some of Broadway’s best, a free screening of Top Gun on the fl ight deck and more! Activities on the pier are free to the public. EXHIBITIONS
A VIEW FROM THE DEEP: THE SUBMARINE GROWLER & THE COLD WAR Opens May 11! Explore the history and design of USS Growler– one of America’s fi rst nuclear-missile submarines– in the context of the Cold War. Historical artifacts, oral histories and immersive experiences offer a behind- the-scenes look at life on board what was then a transformative new technology.
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Features columns 10 The Montessori mind 8 Short Stuff How this educational approach promotes mindful learning 24 Healthy Living By Malia Jacobson by Danielle Sullivan 14 Viva DIY! 38 New & Noteworthy Celebrate Cinco de Mayo with fun By Lisa J. Curtis craft ideas By Denise Yearian calendar 20 16 Double duty 30 May Events Bilingual children’s books entertain and teach kids some valuable skills By Shnieka L. Johnson special sections 30 20 Power mantras for 12 Montessori Directory mothers 18 Bilingual Education Positive self-talk for moms for the whole family’s sake Directory By Christina Katz 22 Arts Directory 26 Discussion vs. discipline 36 The Marketplace Five practical parenting tips about setting limits By Dr. Mark Bertin 28 ‘Autism Uncensored’ Mom tells her son’s story in new autobiography By Allison Plitt
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May 2018 • Manhattan Family 5 letter from the PublIsher The Mom factor s spring moves in and New York City kids are Being a Mom is being a part of a larger the days grow warmer, lucky! A mix of almost any- community. One of the great things about A there will be parks to thing you might think of is social media and media in general, ours for visit, ball games to play in available in our city. All kinds example, is that you don’t have to feel iso- and attend, and farmer’s mar- of educational opportuni- lated. You can be having dialogues, seek- kets to shop in. The role of ties and a diverse population ing advice, and enjoying a sense of being mothering our kids will move makes growing and living in a larger family that aids, instructs and from always indoors to often here loaded with languages, sometimes even comforts. outdoors and then we will all cuisines, cultures, and var- That said, we have begun a Mom to celebrate Mother’s Day. ied arts, all of which are pre- Mom Facebook Group with just that intent. Being an engaged Mom is sented throughout the bor- Check it out. a big job. Our kids are our kids even when oughs by not only terrific After school pro- Wishing all of you a very Happy Moth- they are grown, taller than us, and living grams, but also incorporated into many er’s Day! Happy Spring! Thanks for read- on their own, and maybe parenting their of our more interesting and challenging ing. own kids. But when they are new, little and academic institutions. young, the job is more than full-time. The The truth is that in New York City lots of importance of what we do, how we direct options are available and parents are wise them, what lessons of life we teach and to take advantage of them. A well-rounded what exposure we offer them to the world start in life is extremely important, and we Susan Weiss-Voskidis, around our families, can determine their need to give our kids all the positive expo- Publisher/Excutive Editor future to a large degree. sure they can absorb. [email protected]
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6 Manhattan Family • May 2018 ABOUT SOCCER SHOTS SUMMER SEASON Soccer Shots is an engaging children’s soccer program for ages 2-8, with a focus on character AND CAMPS development. Our caring team positively impacts children’s lives on and off the field NEAR YOU! through best-in-class coaching, curriculum and communication.
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ENROLL ONLINE AT NYCCENTRAL.SSREG.ORGMay 2018 • Manhattan Family 7 Short Stuff Getting kids ready for spring sports As the spring sports season kicks off, tic ointment, hand sanitizer, sunscreen, traveling to and from competition. This is parents of young athletes need to get insect repellent, gauze bandages, and especially important when playing with ready, too, to help their kids avoid injury water will be helpful if there is a minor travel teams that can keep you out of the and be ready to respond if there is an ac- injury on the field — and give parents house all day (and sometimes sitting in cident on the field. peace of mind even if there’s not. Make unplanned traffic jams). PM Pediatrics Senior Medical Advisor sure your cellphone is charged, and you 4. Bring your documents, too. If you Dr. Christina Johns has the following tips have things like your medical insurance don’t normally carry it, bring along your for parents: card with you in case a trip to the hospi- health insurance card and a copy of the 1. Prepare to play. After a winter tal happens. card of any children traveling with you. stuck inside, get young bodies 3. Remember your meds. Storing information on your phone like ready by heading to the park From prescriptions to epi- relevant medical history including health for an informal practice. pens, make sure you have conditions like asthma or allergies are Re-learning how to use the medications your also helpful. Healthcare apps can store muscles and reflexes that child might need while this information, too. might have gotten rusty you are at a game or 5. Arrive early for the game. Nothing over the colder months helps avoid injury more than properly will help kids avoid injury warming up with the team. Even and excel on the field. athletes as young as 5 years old 2. Pack your game need to stretch and prepare for bag. Injuries are rare, competition. Don’t arrive two but they happen. Pack- minutes before game time and ing a small bag with expect your child to be ready Band-Aids, antisep- to play. It’s also courteous to the coaches who have a whole team to look after. 6. Plan ahead. Try to not have your athlete “eat on the way” to the game. A healthy, balanced breakfast eaten two hours before play will boost en- ergy and won’t cause any stom- ach aches. Kids’ sports games are all about fun and skill-building. By making these simple preparations, parents can prepare for the unexpected and keep the focus on enjoying the game.
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May 2018 • Manhattan Family 9 The Montessori How this educational approach promotes mindful learning mind By Malia JacoBson ness and internal motivation. In a world This whole-body approach is part of filled with chaotic distraction, advocates the reason numerous studies show that oung children aren’t usually known of mindfulness say it can be a salve for the Montessori-educated children have an for intense concentration. To the conflict, impulsiveness, and stress plagu- academic edge over children educated in Y contrary, kids are expected to ing modern students and schools. traditional classrooms, he says. bounce from one activity to another with Dr. Steven J. Hughes, a pediatric neurop- the attention span of a gnat. That’s why sychologist specializing in attention, con- Happy work: Environment, parents are surprised by what they see centration, planning, and organizing — a schedule, and shared focus when they tour Eton Montessori School set of traits known as executive functions One way Montessori promotes focus in Bellevue, Wash.: Children as young as 3 — defines mindfulness as “sustained posi- is through a carefully-prepared environ- happily engaged in independent, focused tive engagement.” Other scientists refer to ment, a key component of Montessori work for long stretches. a “flow” state of prolonged, energized work learning. In Montessori classrooms, spe- Parents are just as surprised by what that produces both calm satisfaction and cially-designed materials — from child- they don’t see — no lecturing teachers profound joy in learning. size brooms to lacing cards to counting prodding reluctant kids to complete as- beads — are prepared to be aesthetically signed work. Whole body, whole mind appealing and accessible for young chil- “Our children are self-motivated. Our Maria Montessori didn’t coin the term dren; simplicity, beauty, and order are teachers don’t stand over them, telling “mindfulness,” but she was an early ad- paramount. them to be quiet and get back to work,” vocate for sustained focus and internal “Montessori environments are designed says Feltin, who founded Eton School in motivation. Her methods deliberately to be attractive and appealing, and to 1978. encourage intense concentration as the allow children to make a choice. Children This ability to focus at a young age is a best context for early learning. get to look around and choose what they hallmark of Montessori education, but it’s Montessori’s approach to motor devel- want to do,” says Feltin. revolutionary to parents who haven’t seen opment actually stimulates cognitive de- This important act of choosing one’s a Montessori classroom in action. velopment and deep concentration, says own activity promotes sustained engage- Montessori learning is hardly novel — Hughes. When children begin Montessori ment, says Dee Hirsch, president of the Maria Montessori’s first school opened its education at age 3 or 4, they work on mo- Pacific Northwest Montessori Associa- doors in 1907. But a trend toward mindful- tor-skills activities like sweeping, polish- tion and director of Discovery Montessori ness in education is sparking new interest ing silverware, and pouring. These aptly- School in Seattle. Montessori-taught chil- in this century-old style of education, and named “practical life” activities prepare dren choose their own work from a palette new science is showing how this type of kids for greater independence and self- of developmentally appropriate options learning benefits today’s young minds. reliance in daily tasks, but there’s some- that grow progressively more complex and thing bigger going on — the development challenging. Mastering mindfulness of higher cognitive functions essential to Montessori schools incorporate con- In the past decade, organizations like concentration and attention. crete learning goals into a child’s educa- Mindfulness in Education Network, Asso- Montessori tasks like wiping a table or tional plan, but children are free to choose ciation for Mindfulness in Education, and washing dishes develop fine-motor con- when and how to complete their work Mindful Schools have sprung up, training trol, but they also activate areas of the within a specified time frame. teachers, hosting conferences, and pro- pre-frontal cortex essential to executive “That act of choosing is what allows a ducing research aimed at helping chil- function, which paves the way for greater child to make a wholehearted commitment dren become more focused, motivated, concentration and focus, he says. to their work. It’s what makes Montessori and intentional in the classroom. “Dr. Montessori wrote about the close education child-centered,” says Hirsch. Just what is mindfulness, exactly, and relationship between cognitive develop- When children are motivated by their why does it matter? MindfulSchools.org ment and motor development in 1949. own interests, deep concentration is a paints mindfulness as a deep, in-the-mo- Fifty years later, scientists made the natural result, she says: “Kids are choos- ment focus, characterized by self-aware- same connection.” ing what they want to focus on.”
10 Manhattan Family • May 2018 Maria Montessori was an early advocate for The sustained focus and internal motivation. Her methods deliberately encourage intense Montessori concentration as the best context for How this educational approach early learning. promotes mindful learning mind During a 90-minute work pe- riod, children can take their By Malia JacoBson ness and internal motivation. In a world This whole-body approach is part of work through its beginning, filled with chaotic distraction, advocates the reason numerous studies show that middle, and end. Working oung children aren’t usually known of mindfulness say it can be a salve for the Montessori-educated children have an through this natural sequence for intense concentration. To the conflict, impulsiveness, and stress plagu- academic edge over children educated in promotes competence and mas- Y contrary, kids are expected to ing modern students and schools. traditional classrooms, he says. tery; children can repeat the ac- bounce from one activity to another with Dr. Steven J. Hughes, a pediatric neurop- tivity as many times as they want, the attention span of a gnat. That’s why sychologist specializing in attention, con- Happy work: Environment, without being told to hurry up and parents are surprised by what they see centration, planning, and organizing — a schedule, and shared focus move on to something else. when they tour Eton Montessori School set of traits known as executive functions One way Montessori promotes focus Though the terms focus and con- in Bellevue, Wash.: Children as young as 3 — defines mindfulness as “sustained posi- is through a carefully-prepared environ- centration conjure up images of a happily engaged in independent, focused tive engagement.” Other scientists refer to ment, a key component of Montessori child working alone, mindfulness is work for long stretches. a “flow” state of prolonged, energized work learning. In Montessori classrooms, spe- not always a solo pursuit. Mon- Parents are just as surprised by what that produces both calm satisfaction and cially-designed materials — from child- tessori-style learning helps kids they don’t see — no lecturing teachers profound joy in learning. size brooms to lacing cards to counting learn the fine art of shared con- prodding reluctant kids to complete as- beads — are prepared to be aesthetically centration by encouraging them signed work. Whole body, whole mind appealing and accessible for young chil- to engage in tasks with a class- “Our children are self-motivated. Our Maria Montessori didn’t coin the term dren; simplicity, beauty, and order are mate or two — a critical skill teachers don’t stand over them, telling “mindfulness,” but she was an early ad- paramount. in the age of teamwork. them to be quiet and get back to work,” vocate for sustained focus and internal “Montessori environments are designed says Feltin, who founded Eton School in motivation. Her methods deliberately to be attractive and appealing, and to Mindful together 1978. encourage intense concentration as the allow children to make a choice. Children How does this Montessori- This ability to focus at a young age is a best context for early learning. get to look around and choose what they style mindfulness benefit chil- hallmark of Montessori education, but it’s Montessori’s approach to motor devel- want to do,” says Feltin. dren? Greater confidence, longer revolutionary to parents who haven’t seen opment actually stimulates cognitive de- This important act of choosing one’s attention spans, and natural self- a Montessori classroom in action. velopment and deep concentration, says own activity promotes sustained engage- motivation are a few of the rich re- Montessori learning is hardly novel — Hughes. When children begin Montessori ment, says Dee Hirsch, president of the wards, according to Feltin. Maria Montessori’s first school opened its education at age 3 or 4, they work on mo- Pacific Northwest Montessori Associa- “What’s so wonderful is the confi- doors in 1907. But a trend toward mindful- tor-skills activities like sweeping, polish- tion and director of Discovery Montessori dence they gain. Their attention spans ness in education is sparking new interest ing silverware, and pouring. These aptly- School in Seattle. Montessori-taught chil- have been lengthened. They’re going to in this century-old style of education, and named “practical life” activities prepare dren choose their own work from a palette meet their academic goals, but they’ll do new science is showing how this type of kids for greater independence and self- of developmentally appropriate options it more naturally because their motivation learning benefits today’s young minds. reliance in daily tasks, but there’s some- that grow progressively more complex and comes from within.” thing bigger going on — the development challenging. But mindfulness isn’t something teach- Mastering mindfulness of higher cognitive functions essential to Montessori schools incorporate con- ers can achieve for students — like every In the past decade, organizations like concentration and attention. crete learning goals into a child’s educa- other outcome in Montessori learning, stu- Mindfulness in Education Network, Asso- Montessori tasks like wiping a table or tional plan, but children are free to choose dents have to work toward it themselves. ciation for Mindfulness in Education, and washing dishes develop fine-motor con- when and how to complete their work “They’re not going to reach that state Mindful Schools have sprung up, training trol, but they also activate areas of the within a specified time frame. of mindfulness unless they get there teachers, hosting conferences, and pro- pre-frontal cortex essential to executive “That act of choosing is what allows a themselves,” says Hirsch. “We ducing research aimed at helping chil- function, which paves the way for greater child to make a wholehearted commitment can’t take them there, but we can dren become more focused, motivated, concentration and focus, he says. to their work. It’s what makes Montessori go there with them.” and intentional in the classroom. “Dr. Montessori wrote about the close education child-centered,” says Hirsch. Malia Jacobson is a nationally Just what is mindfulness, exactly, and relationship between cognitive develop- When children are motivated by their published freelance writer special- why does it matter? MindfulSchools.org ment and motor development in 1949. own interests, deep concentration is a izing in parenting. She’s working on paints mindfulness as a deep, in-the-mo- Fifty years later, scientists made the natural result, she says: “Kids are choos- adopting Montessori-inspired prin- ment focus, characterized by self-aware- same connection.” ing what they want to focus on.” ciples of mindfulness at home.
May 2018 • Manhattan Family 11 The Montessori School Montessori of New York International Directory 347 East 55th Street (at First Avenue) Metropolitan communication and a healthy Montessori School exchange of ideas among Upper West Side students. Our goal is to help Wisdom 212-579-5526 children evolve into happy, www.mmsny.org curious and creatively rigor- through Our school offers the ideal ous young individuals who are combination of a small, car- secure in themselves, and open Knowledge ing community and a rigor- and empathetic to the needs ous academic setting. Serving of others. Ages 2 to 14 children 2 years and 8 months old to sixth grade, the mixed Montessori Summer age classrooms encourage Day Camp Where Learning Comes To Life! younger children to learn from Midtown East Nursery through Junior High • Summer Day Camp older children and in turn, older 212-223-4630 children learn to demonstrate www.montessorischoolny.com [email protected] • Partial and Extended Day for Working Parents (8am-6pm) respect, competency, and lead- • Excellent placement record for Specialized High schools ership to the younger ones. For children ages 2-1/2 to 14. Teachers guide each student Our program provides fun and gifted programs to grow to his or her fullest activities including swimming, • Accelerated Track for Gifted Children potential, develop a strong drama, yoga, arts and crafts, • Non-profi t educational, non-denominational moral compass, and a love of field trips and dance. There & non-discriminatory learning. The program offers is also academic tutoring and Call now for a brochure/appointment French and Spanish, visual arts, exam prep with our expert physical education, performing instructors. We offer a unique 212-223-4630 arts, including violin, and regu- combination of both indoor [email protected] | www.montessorischoolny.com lar trips to an upstate nature Montessori fun and outdoor preserve. camp activities. This choice of outdoor space lends itself to The Montessori free play and organized games Schools as well as Educational Field Trips. Flatiron/Soho 212-633-0600 www.themontessorischools. Renaissance Village Private/Independent org Montessori Providing an engaging early Washington Heights School Guide childhood education pro- 212-928-7855 gram built upon the classical www.renvillage.com methods of Maria Montessori. Our mission is to create and Our school puts children on sustain a community of happy, a path that embraces creativ- healthy families by providing ity, builds self-awareness resources that support parents and helps them develop the in their role as the child’s pri- academic skills, physical tools mary teacher and by preparing and personal confidence neces- beautiful, orderly environments sary for lifelong success. The that enable the child to learn SoHo campus serves children through self-discovery. The ages 18 months-6 years. The goals of Montessori education Flatiron school serves children are to foster independence, ages 2 years-6 years. We are respect for self and others, committed to teaching your and the natural love for learn- children in a supportive, whole- ing that all children inherently some and state-of-the-art possess. We offer classes for environment. Students work children 16-24 months and independently, as well as in preschool classrooms for tod- mixed age groups, to cultivate dlers (2-3 yrs) and primary (3-6 their self-esteem, self-discipline, yrs) aged children. Our newest time management skills, and initiative is Crucial Connections, problem-solving abilities. Each a class for mothers and their day, teachers encourage open infants ages 3-12 months.
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CRUCIAL CONNECTIONS: A Feldenkrais-Montessori Project 8 sessions for mothers and infants ages 3-12 months (non-walkers) Applications for both our Flatiron and Saturdays May 5-June 30, 2:30-4:00pm SoHo campus are available on our website Tuition $400 plus $25 registration fee and can be completed online. Learn How To: Please be sure to register for one of our • Become grounded and connected to your core and your baby Spring Tours as space is limited! • Hold your baby according to their preference A private interview will be scheduled • Know how to communicate effectively with your child • Learn how to create the optimal home environment for baby’s development when your application has been completed.
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Special Advertising Section May 2018 • Manhattan Family 13 Viva DIY! Celebrate Cinco de Mayo with fun craft ideas
By Denise yearian
inco de Mayo is a day set aside to celebrate Mexico’s monumental C victory over the French in 1862. On May 5, Mexicans celebrate with par- ties, parades, and other festivities. Even if you don’t have Hispanic heritage, you can celebrate with these activities:
Showy serape A serape is a colorful wool blanket or shawl worn by Mexicans. items needed: Large brown paper bag with flat bottom; scissors; pencil; ruler; old newspaper; paintbrushes; tempera paints (bright colors); hole punch; colored yarn cut in six-inch pieces. Directions: Open up the large bag and cut straight up the back seam. About two- thirds of the way up the bag, branch out into a “V,” gradually shifting to an arch shape when you reach the bottom of the bag so your head and shoulders can fit through. On both sides of the bag cut out armholes measuring approximately four-inches long by five-inches wide. Place used by Mexican Indians to remind them tie a knot in the back to secure, and push the paper serape over old newspaper and that God was watching over and protect- close to the center of the frame. Wrap the paint the outside with large, bright stripes ing them. free end of that piece of yarn around side using different colored paints. When dry, items needed: Two Popsicle sticks; 2, close to the center frame. Repeat this punch holes about one-half inch from the different colors of yarn; scissors; glue. step with sides 3 and 4, so the yarn is bottom edge, making them one-inch apart. Directions: Place Popsicle sticks to- back to side 1. Continue to wrap around String three pieces of yarn through each gether to form a “plus” sign, then glue each side, making sure you always wrap hole and tie in a knot. together to make the frame. Let dry. in the same direction and pushing the Working in order, assign a number (1, 2, yarn close together. After about 10 rota- Eternal eyes 3, 4) to each of the four sides. Take a long tions, tie off the yarn and change to a “Ojo de dios” is an ancient symbol piece of yarn and wrap it around side 1, new color, following the same procedure.
14 Manhattan Family • May 2018 Use three colors or more until the fullness and finish filling the bag. Fold frame is full. Fun factoid: Viva Mexico! down the bag opening and staple Some people think Cinco de Mayo is to shut. Punch two holes along the top. Paper posies Mexico what the Fourth of July is to Amer- Cut strips of tissue paper that fit all Items needed: Tissue paper (bright ica. But it’s not. Mexican Independence the way around the bag. Fringe strips colors); pipe cleaners; scissors; ruler. Day is actually celebrated on Sept. 15, to about half way up the width of the Directions: Cut tissue paper into when, in 1821, the Mexicans declared free- tissue paper. Starting at the bottom of rectangles measuring six- by eight- dom from Spanish rule. Forty years later, the bag, glue the tissue paper in place. inches. Stack eight pieces of tissue however, the country’s independence was Repeat with different colored tissue paper, then take the long side of the threatened when a French army of 8,000, paper, gluing from the bottom up until stack and begin making accordion under the rule of Napoleon III, came up the entire bag is covered. Tie a long pleats that are approximately three- against 4,000 Mexican soldiers. On May 5, string through the two top holes to fourths inch wide. Wrap one end of 1862, the Mexicans valiantly fought and de- hang the piñata. Glue long pieces of the pipe cleaner around the cen- feated the French at the Battle of Pueblo. crepe paper from the bottom. ter of the accordion-pleated Since that time, Cinco de Mayo has be- paper. Twist to secure in place. come a celebratory event amongst Mex- Reveling reads Carefully separate paper lay- icans and even Americans. Festivities • “ C i n co de Mayo” by Lola M. ers, pulling them up toward the include parades, parties, carnivals, Schaefer. center. Repeat to make more battle reenactments, cultural food, • “De Colores and Other Latin-Amer- flowers. mariachi music, and folk dancing. ican Folk Songs for Children” by Jose- The country’s col- Luis Orozco. Prize-packed ors — red, • “ H o r s e Hooves and Chicken Feet: pinata white, and Mexican Folktales” by Neil Philip. Items needed: Large green — • “Cooking the Mexican Way” by paper bag; wrapped candies, are also Rosa Coronado. small toys and coins; old news- an inte- • “Mexico & Central America: A Fi- paper; stapler; hole punch; string; gral part esta of Cultures, Crafts, and Activities tissue paper; glue; scissors; crepe of the for Ages 8–12” by Mary C. Turck. paper streamers. celebra- Directions: Fill the paper bag tion. Denise Yearian is the former editor of about one-third full of goodies. two parenting magazines and the mother of Crumble up old newspapers to add three children and grandmother of four.
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May 2018 • Manhattan Family 15 Double duty Bilingual children’s books entertain and teach kids some valuable skills
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ore than 41 percent of the students enrolled M in New York City public schools speak a language other than English at home, reported the city’s Department of Educa- tion in its 2013 report on Eng- lish language learners. Children’s “Little Maria” author Luz M. Mack. brains are primed for language- skill development, so it is encour- duce bilingual books? aged to start introducing bilingual- LM: It is important for me to pro- ism at an early age. Your child’s duce bilingual books to enhance school, like many in major urban my children’s understanding of centers, is home to large numbers my own childhood experiences, of children for whom English is a and to be able to share these second language. These children experiences with children from represent a variety of languages and other cultures. María is a child of often are the majority in a single the world that all children will be classroom. able to see in themselves. There are many theories and argu- SJ: How many languages? ments about bilingualism. However, learning a new language Will there be more? it is known that knowledge of multi- (or maintaining a home language) fun and LM: The book is available in an English ple languages aids cognitive development enjoyable for the whole family. and Spanish edition, English and Italian, in a positive way. According to the United Many children’s book authors have and English and French edition. I am work- States Department of Health and Human a passion for providing language skills ing on offering the book as an online appli- Services, there are many advantages that through fun stories in an educational cation. Children and their families will be benefit children who are raised bilingual way, and using a bilingual approach will able to, through this application, see and from an early age into adulthood. For bi- immerse kids in other cultures. I spoke hear María and her family’s experiences in lingual children, language skills are stron- to author Luz M. Mack about her first all the languages offered. ger in both their primary and secondary bilingual children’s book, “Little María.” SJ: Any other books in the works? languages, and early reading skills tend to It’s part of a series that is full of beauti- LM: Definitely! The next installment of come more easily. Also, bilingual children ful images, with a story centered on a the Little María books is “María the Super have a greater ability to focus on mental character that will help all curious kids Helper.” This book will show how exciting, tasks, like abstract reasoning — which better understand cultures around the fun, and rewarding it can be to be helpful comes in handy for test taking. world. Here’s what she had to say about around the home. I am also working on an- One way that parents can support bi- her approach: other book that will be called “Incredible lingualism is by adding bilingual books Shnieka Johnson: What was your in- You.” This book will be aimed at building to their home library, bookshelf, or book spiration? children’s confidence and self-love. corner. The ability for your child to read Luz M. Mack: My inspiration was trying Born and raised in the Dominican Re- in both English and another language to show my children about my childhood public, Mack now lives in New York with will strengthen his or her literacy in an experience. I also wanted to share with her husband, Tony, and their three chil- organic way. Reading bilingual books also them things that other children experi- dren: Andrea, Chloe, and Tony. Her books helps children increase their cultural ap- enced while growing up in another coun- (illustrated by Arjeanette Vivero) promote preciation for others — not only for those try, such as the Dominican Republic, as it an understanding of cultures, and they that share a language, but for those differ- is very different from what children experi- detail how childhood looks outside of the ent from them. ence growing up in the United States. That United States. The series is available in There are a variety of bilingual books is how the character María originated. Her multiple languages and can be purchased available for children — from board experiences are very similar to mine as a via Amazon.com. books with simple vocabulary to story child growing up, and she enjoys time with Shnieka L. Johnson is an education consul- books with text for English and another her family, friends, and community, which tant and freelance writer. She is based in Man- language. Starting with these books at an is something I believe that U.S. children hattan, where she resides with her husband early age will aid children on their path to will be able to relate to. and son. Contact her via her website: www. fluency. Colorful picture books will make SJ: Why was it important for you to pro- shniekajohnson.com.
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Special Advertising Section May 2018 • Manhattan Family 19 Power mantras for mothers Positive self-talk for moms for the whole family’s sake
By Christina Katz sometimes I say, “No.” leave home, too. Repeat: There is nowhere as precious n case of an emergency while in a 2. My health and as home. plane, we are instructed to put on energy matter I our own oxygen masks first, before Expect to feel happy and healthy 5. I keep in touch assisting our children. We hear this ad- every day. And if you don’t, seek solu- with my needs vice so often, it eventually becomes a tions and improvements immediately. If Are you feeling fuzzy and muddled, as mantra we repeat to ourselves as soon you are not feeling your best, don’t ig- though you are not really certain what as we board an aircraft. nore niggling symptoms. Maybe a small matters and what doesn’t? If you can’t re- But how often, in the midst of hectic adjustment in diet and exercise is all member the last time you did anything for times in our lives, do we jettison all the that is needed. Or maybe you need to yourself; then it’s time. Making space for healthy instructions we know we should consult with a healthcare professional. If yourself is not selfish; it’s necessary. When be repeating to ourselves right then, you carry invisible hurts from the past, you spend time doing things you enjoy, when we need it most? you owe it to yourself and others to seek your energy goes up. For caregivers, it For busy moms, the answer is too healing support. takes conviction to carve out time for self- often. Enter these 10 mom-power man- Repeat: I take care of health concerns expression, otherwise it inevitably falls to tras to help you remember the magic in a timely manner. the bottom of the priority list. words that can quickly restore order Repeat: I make regular time for myself. and sanity to your life no matter how 3. Oops, I am not perfect much hustle and bustle you are facing If you are putting yourself under too 6. My voice counts today. much pressure, or believe that others Sometimes we convince ourselves that So sit yourself down and commit these are holding you up to impossibly high our opinion does not matter before we phrases to memory. This list of notes-to- standards, you may have trouble accept- have even had a chance to share it. The self will remind you how to take care of ing yourself as you are. You are human, truth is that everyone’s opinion matters, you in the short run, so you can better so, naturally, you will sometimes make ours just as much as anyone’s. Some- take care of your whole family in the mistakes. Forgive yourself for past errors times it’s hard to share what you think, long run — and set a good example for a in judgment or action, make amends with especially if your opinion goes against the lifetime of healthy self-talk: others swiftly as needed, and resist the grain, and speaking up is a risk that’s al- tendency to be too hard on yourself. A ways worth taking. 1. I am allowed to penchant for self-recrimination will hurt Repeat: My opinion deserves to be ex- say ‘No thanks’ you in the long run. pressed and considered. If you feel harried and hectic, run- Repeat: I am human, therefore, I make ning from one family activity to the next, mistakes. 7. Acceptance is sanity you may have forgotten how to bow out Practice accepting situations and oth- gracefully. All you likely need is a little 4. Home is sacred ers as they are. When things don’t work practice in the “No, thank you” depart- Creating a safe, secure, stress-free out the way you’d like, remember that we ment. Once you get back in the habit home helps everyone in the family feel can’t ultimately control other people and of weighing and measuring before you more loved and loving. Undercurrents of situations. If you feel beholding to ev- commit, your schedule will calm down strife can undermine a family’s need for eryone and everything, maybe you have and you can better choose how to divide relaxation and rejuvenation. Try to make forgotten how to let the world spin on and conquer your time. Just remember, your home a relaxed respite where every- without your input. Sometimes we need in times of distress, the cure is often the one feels welcome and appreciated. Then to be reminded that the world will keep shortest word you know. family members can carry that feeling of spinning without our expert micro-man- Repeat: Sometimes I say, “Yes,” and sacred space out into the world when they aging. Today, just tackles what’s already
20 Manhattan Family • May 2018 on your plate. 9. Tomorrow is going as possible. But we never know how long Repeat: I am only responsible for what I to be great we are going to be here. Rather than choose to take on. Things don’t stay the same, so it’s im- worry about it too much, why not just portant to expect life to be an adventure in embrace today? Happiness in this mo- 8. My example inspires growth and change. If you have a very tradi- ment isn’t about how much money you You matter. Often we look for role mod- tional mindset and you like routine, it may make, what you look like, or what kind of els without remembering that we are all take courage to embrace the idea of life as an car your drive. It’s not about how clean setting an example, for better or for worse, continual evolution. But if you start by look- your home is, your waistline, or what every day. Sacrificing self is not a require- ing forward to tomorrow, and can simply grades your kids are earning. Enjoying ment; it’s an unhealthy habit that needs to let it be different from today, you will enjoy the moment is about finding something be broken. If you relentlessly practice self- the journey instead of resisting it. If you to appreciate right here, right now, and sacrifice, then that’s the legacy you pass want to raise brave, optimistic, adventurous sharing that joy with whoever is right in along. You are all called to be an example children, you are going to have to be brave, front of us. for someone. Start with what you want to optimistic, and adventurous yourself. Repeat: I surrender to the joy of this embody for your children and family and Repeat: I look forward to every day of moment. then move on to the rest of the world from the future. Author, journalist, and writing coach Chris- there. tina Katz tries to remember to slow down and Repeat: I strive to be a person I would 10. I appreciate this moment smell the roses in her own yard, but she can admire. Of course, we all want to live as long always use another reminder.
May 2018 • Manhattan Family 21 The Galli Theater New York Arts Live Theater for the Entire Family Birthday Parties • Camps • Classes Directory
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Special Advertising Section May 2018 • Manhattan Family 23 HealtH Six things to stop fighting about with your kids — now!
ver walk into a room to approach your spouse with something that HealtHy living E you know will set him off, some Danielle Sullivan subject that you have fought about before, and you know full well will fan the flames again the minute you bring it up? As with any relationship, the obvious thought is to change how you operate, because it’s pointless to keep having the same fight than when we were kids. The pressure to over and over again. A good therapist will keep up with academics, activities and advise couples on this. Did you ever con- clubs, social pressures, and the basics sider that the same goes for your kids? of sleeping and eating well can be over- Just because our children are in our whelming for any kid. And it only increases care and are not yet adults does not mean as children go to middle and high schools. that they don’t deserve the same respect Some kids handle it well, but many don’t. that your partner does, or that fighting If your child tells you he doesn’t want with them will cause any good to come to participate in an activity, take his con- out of the situation. We all have subjects cerns seriously. Maybe he just doesn’t like that need revisiting where our kids are the activity, maybe he prefers painting to concerned, and there are useful ways to sports, or vice versa. Have an honest con- stomp out the frustration. versation with no pressure, and together Here are six things to stop fighting around with bedtime. However, if your child figure out his needs. about right now: suddenly just cannot seem to sleep, it merits a physical exam. Many issues — from anxi- Personal preference Food ety to thyroid disorder — can impact sleep, Yes, your child might have different taste Of course, you want your kids to con- no matter how hard the child tries. than you in music, movies, television, and sume a healthy diet packed with vitamins, clothing. Kids need freedom to figure out designed to give them energy and a strong Homework who they are, not become your carbon immune system … and then you realize Like sleep, homework is a priority. copy. Everyone has the right to be them- that sweet-natured baby is an intensely Teaching children from pre-K that school selves, so, as long as what your child wants stubborn picky eater! Some kids only have is their job helps them understand this, to do or wear is not inappropriate, let it go. picky phases, while others remain selec- and that it is their responsibility. Fight- tive throughout childhood. ing over it is counterproductive. Let them Personal expression Food is one of the few things young know you are always there to help, but it is With all the news and politics at the fore- children have control over, and you sim- up to them to get it done. The majority of front of daily life, we each have our own be- ply can’t force anyone to eat something kids who learn this lesson as preschoolers liefs, and our kids are no different. Let them she just does not want. However, you can grow into teens that follow through. be free to support whatever beliefs and fill your kitchen with only healthy foods, causes they feel are important. Don’t put circumventing the fight and the constant Chores your own agenda onto them. Instead, feel struggle. Then you can rest assured know- Whether you consider chores part of proud that you are raising a kid who feels ing that whatever your child chooses will a functioning family or you pay your kids comfortable and close enough to you to have some nutritional value. for helping out, doing chores is not up for openly disagree and choose her own path. debate. Take a lesson from teachers. They There is always a balance that needs to Sleep don’t fight with their students. If the stu- be achieved between getting our kids to do Kids need sleep. Without sufficient dent doesn’t do what is expected, there is things they might not want while teaching amounts, they will slack in every area and a penalty: a bad grade or detention. Create them life lessons. Fighting and arguing never feel generally terrible and cranky (just like consequences and follow through every helps, so keep calm, knowing that doing so us!). Sleep should be non-negotiable. From single time, but don’t argue. teaches kids by example. You’re modeling the time a baby begins to sleep on his own, how to lead a calm and productive life. bedtime should be as consistent as possible. afterschool activities Danielle Sullivan is a writer living in New As he grows, he will know that you don’t play School is hard, and much more difficult York City. Follow her on Instagram @Deewrite.
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May 2018 • Manhattan Family 25 Discussion vs. discipline Five practical parenting tips about setting limits
By Dr. Mark Bertin doesn’t tie concretely to his earlier mis- Modeling good behavior. Conversely, from elementary ere is a typical child’s opinion of behavior school through high school, any student ice cream: I want it. I want it, be- A structured behavioral plan will enjoys hearing in the moment, “Great job H cause I see it. I want it when I don’t help you stay calm when children studying so hard for that test.” see it, too. I want it now, and I want more in push back. It’s like the ABC model Discipline does not only relate to mis- 10 minutes. Ice cream is good for breakfast for adults: behavior or a tantrum, it’s a way of mod- and even better for lunch or dinner. 1. First, there’s a trigger — your eling healthy relationships. It teaches Depending on your child, the same can child misbehaves. children to set boundaries on their own be said about video games. Or maybe 2. Instead of falling back on ha- behavior, to use language to express staying up late. Or not sharing. Or lots bitual behavior (I yell to control a anger, and to feel comfortable with in- and lots of other choices and behaviors situation, or I shut down and give tense feelings. When you’re compassion- that, in the end, just aren’t good for up), you have a mental checklist to ate and calm while maintaining appropri- them. manage the situation (I’m going to ate limits, you embody traits your chil- Fostering emotional attachment is not remind her about the reward sys- dren will, hopefully, emulate themselves. an excuse for a child to rule the house. tem, and then fall back on a time-out As close as you may be with your Children are not born with innate self- if that fails). child, you are a parent, not a friend. control; they cultivate this skill. They are 3. The consequence leads to a Adults make decisions, some of which impulsive by nature and have no time calmer household and well-behaved children may not understand. Even when window linking choices made now to the children — a reinforcement of your kids have a real reason to complain, you future. They also do not possess the full own behavior. should be treated with respect. You make ability to defer gratification: Ice cream the rules, you uphold them, and that’s tastes good. Why not eat it all the time? how children learn. A parent’s job is to teach through lim- ment skills — for even the brightest child Respond calmly, redirect, but don’t its while modeling healthy ways to deal often all the way into young adulthood. give in. It’s okay to be upset, but not to with any frustrations that come up in re- Discussion is discussion, and disci- act like that. It is normal for toddlers sponse. When enforced in a positive, lov- pline is discipline — they aren’t the same. and young children to test boundaries, ing manner, these limits build self-regula- Discussion represents a long-term path to get frustrated, or to cry. Ignore whin- tory skills that foster brain development. to collaboration and emotional under- ing, tantrums, and similar behaviors, and Setting clear, understandable boundaries standing. “It’s disrespectful to hit me, they disappear quicker — and you’ve does not need to feel punitive. Through please don’t do it again.” You explain the reinforced a message about managing limits, children develop patience and an “why” of your choices after the fact. Over emotions, too. ability to regulate emotions. Reasonable the years, you share your ideas about Young brains don’t necessarily under- limits increase the likelihood that chil- how to live. With teens, when possible, stand “why” a behavior is wrong. A child dren will manage challenges well and live you collaborate in decisions while offer- hitting or not treating other kids with a happy life as an adult. ing more independence. Even at that age, respect needs prompt, consistent disci- Here’s how young children learn be- a serious talk isn’t always useful disci- pline, limits, or alternatively rewarding haviorally, in a nutshell: Something hap- pline. Influencing behavior today means the opposite, appropriate behavior. Rea- pens, whatever happens next makes it tying whatever happened now to what- soning or rationalization isn’t enough — either more or less likely that behavior is ever happens next. kids don’t stop speaking nasty to peers in repeated. Discussion with children fosters Without the benefit of executive func- the short run because someone explains communication and explains our perspec- tion, young kids cannot fully tie now to it makes someone else feel bad. They tive, but acute behavioral management the past or future. “Wait until mommy gradually learn from discussion over the stems from immediate feedback. That’s comes home” doesn’t change behavior years, and open conversation over the the reality of executive function — the de- in a 4-year-old. He may seem upset when years shares your perspective and be- velopmental path related to self-manage- the punishment finally happens, but it liefs about how to live well. Discipline,
26 Manhattan Family • May 2018 Discussion vs. discipline Five practical parenting tips about setting limits Stephanie Diani
By Dr. Mark Bertin doesn’t tie concretely to his earlier mis- Dr. Mark Bertin, author of “How Children Modeling good behavior. Conversely, from elementary Thrive.” ere is a typical child’s opinion of behavior school through high school, any student ice cream: I want it. I want it, be- A structured behavioral plan will enjoys hearing in the moment, “Great job gain 20 more minutes of play while waiting H cause I see it. I want it when I don’t help you stay calm when children studying so hard for that test.” you out, they’ll continue playing. Wouldn’t see it, too. I want it now, and I want more in push back. It’s like the ABC model Discipline does not only relate to mis- you do the same? Children will learn that 10 minutes. Ice cream is good for breakfast for adults: behavior or a tantrum, it’s a way of mod- what you say and what you mean are two and even better for lunch or dinner. 1. First, there’s a trigger — your eling healthy relationships. It teaches different things. Depending on your child, the same can child misbehaves. children to set boundaries on their own 4. Remain empathetic but firm. Most be said about video games. Or maybe 2. Instead of falling back on ha- behavior, to use language to express infants, toddlers, and young children have staying up late. Or not sharing. Or lots bitual behavior (I yell to control a anger, and to feel comfortable with in- not yet learned how to express themselves and lots of other choices and behaviors situation, or I shut down and give tense feelings. When you’re compassion- emotionally. They may really, really want that, in the end, just aren’t good for up), you have a mental checklist to ate and calm while maintaining appropri- to stay downstairs two hours past bed- them. manage the situation (I’m going to ate limits, you embody traits your chil- time, and get really, really upset when Fostering emotional attachment is not remind her about the reward sys- dren will, hopefully, emulate themselves. told to go to bed. Getting upset is normal, an excuse for a child to rule the house. tem, and then fall back on a time-out As close as you may be with your healthy even, while learning to manage Children are not born with innate self- if that fails). child, you are a parent, not a friend. emotions and frustration. Tell them, “I control; they cultivate this skill. They are 3. The consequence leads to a Adults make decisions, some of which know you don’t want to leave, but we can impulsive by nature and have no time calmer household and well-behaved children may not understand. Even when play again tomorrow; now it’s time for window linking choices made now to the children — a reinforcement of your kids have a real reason to complain, you sleep.” As long as your child is happy and future. They also do not possess the full own behavior. should be treated with respect. You make living in a home full of affection and posi- ability to defer gratification: Ice cream the rules, you uphold them, and that’s tive feedback, you are not doing anything tastes good. Why not eat it all the time? how children learn. wrong if sometimes he gets upset. A parent’s job is to teach through lim- ment skills — for even the brightest child Respond calmly, redirect, but don’t 5. Model remaining calm yourself. its while modeling healthy ways to deal often all the way into young adulthood. give in. It’s okay to be upset, but not to Show children an appropriate way to re- with any frustrations that come up in re- Discussion is discussion, and disci- act like that. It is normal for toddlers spond when frustrated and how to recover sponse. When enforced in a positive, lov- pline is discipline — they aren’t the same. and young children to test boundaries, when you have a bad moment yourself. ing manner, these limits build self-regula- Discussion represents a long-term path to get frustrated, or to cry. Ignore whin- Habitual yelling teaches children that yell- tory skills that foster brain development. to collaboration and emotional under- ing, tantrums, and similar behaviors, and ing is the best response during confronta- Setting clear, understandable boundaries standing. “It’s disrespectful to hit me, they disappear quicker — and you’ve tion; it comes back at you one day. Don’t does not need to feel punitive. Through please don’t do it again.” You explain the reinforced a message about managing though, remains immediate. expect perfection of yourself, but do your limits, children develop patience and an “why” of your choices after the fact. Over emotions, too. Consider these five practical tips about 2. Create opportunities for children best and reconnect with honesty about ability to regulate emotions. Reasonable the years, you share your ideas about Young brains don’t necessarily under- setting limits and discipline: to be in control, make choices, explore, your own behavior (“I wish I hadn’t lost limits increase the likelihood that chil- how to live. With teens, when possible, stand “why” a behavior is wrong. A child 1. Steer behavior through immediate and be creative. Creating two acceptable my cool, let’s talk about what happened”) dren will manage challenges well and live you collaborate in decisions while offer- hitting or not treating other kids with feedback. Seek a balance between lovingly choices allows children to feel a sense of when you feel the need. a happy life as an adult. ing more independence. Even at that age, respect needs prompt, consistent disci- meeting a child’s needs, but firmly saying control, but still gets you, the parent, what Dr. Mark Bertin is a pediatrician, author, Here’s how young children learn be- a serious talk isn’t always useful disci- pline, limits, or alternatively rewarding “no” when appropriate. “That was great, you need. “Do you want to come inside professor, and mindfulness teacher special- haviorally, in a nutshell: Something hap- pline. Influencing behavior today means the opposite, appropriate behavior. Rea- nice job listening.” “That wasn’t okay at now or in five minutes?” feels a lot better izing in neurodevelopmental behavioral pe- pens, whatever happens next makes it tying whatever happened now to what- soning or rationalization isn’t enough — all, please go sit in time out.” Use verbal than “get inside this instant!” Especially in diatrics. He’s a regular contributor to Mindful. either more or less likely that behavior is ever happens next. kids don’t stop speaking nasty to peers in feedback to keep kids on track; praise younger children, that diversion may be org, HuffPost, and Psychology Today. He is the repeated. Discussion with children fosters Without the benefit of executive func- the short run because someone explains them just before they get distracted or enough to “enforce” your decision. author of “How Children Thrive: The Practical communication and explains our perspec- tion, young kids cannot fully tie now to it makes someone else feel bad. They upset and you help them hold themselves 3. Avoid empty demands. Limit the Science of Raising Independent, Resilient, and tive, but acute behavioral management the past or future. “Wait until mommy gradually learn from discussion over the together. Whenever possible, pause and number of rules when you can, but enforce Happy Kids”. stems from immediate feedback. That’s comes home” doesn’t change behavior years, and open conversation over the insist your child respectfully ask for what the ones you choose. If you bend the rules Dr. Bertin will be giving a talk at the Man- the reality of executive function — the de- in a 4-year-old. He may seem upset when years shares your perspective and be- she wants, even if you’ve already decided every time your children fuss, it makes hattan JCC on Tuesday, June 5. For more, visit velopmental path related to self-manage- the punishment finally happens, but it liefs about how to live well. Discipline, to say “yes.” sense for them to kick and scream. If they developmentaldoctor.com.
May 2018 • Manhattan Family 27 ‘Autism Uncensored’ Mom tells her son’s story in new autobiography
By Allison Plitt asked by one of the doctors, “Does [Zack] line up objects, or seem hitney Ellenby was a very fascinated by spinning objects?” driven child. She con- Ellenby responded, “Um yes … We W stantly studied and ex- have these little round stacking celled in school and college. Fearful cups and he actually takes my wrist of losing physical and emotional and directs my hand to spin them control, she abandoned parties to over and over while he watches.” return to her dorm room to chart “Does he point to direct your out her future. attention to favored items?” the With her life going as expected, doctor inquired. Ellenby embar- Ellenby graduated from Georgetown rassingly answers, “Zack has never University Law School and landed a pointed, not once.” job as a civil rights attorney with When asked what Zack’s general the U.S. Department of Justice in behavior was on a daily basis, El- Washington, D.C. Around this time, lenby barely whispered, “Flat.” Ellenby met her future husband, The doctor then asked if Zack Keith Reuben, another successful ever looked excited to see her after lawyer working at an esteemed law time apart. Without hesitation, El- firm. lenby shouted, “Yes!” Ellenby and Reuben fell in love Whitney Ellenby and her son Zack. Closing the door to his office, and got married. She had wanted the doctor said to Ellenby, “Zack more time to focus on her career be- meets the medical criteria for au- fore starting a family, but Ellenby unexpect- or walk, Zack preferred to crawl across tism spectrum disorder. Zack has autism.” edly became pregnant. During her tranquil the floor. Ellenby also witnessed her son’s At that moment, Zack was shuffling on pregnancy, her unborn baby passed every “seemingly flat affect and lack of anima- the floor to his shoes to rearrange the developmental and genetic test. When El- tion when others tried to engage him play- laces and then shuffling back to a cabinet lenby gave birth to a healthy, beautiful boy, fully.” door. Then he crawled back to his shoes she was ecstatic. She and her husband Zack would, furthermore, flutter his to adjust his laces again, like a structured named their first-born child Zack. hands at his food, expecting his mother routine he kept repeating over and over. Like most overachievers, Ellenby had to feed him as she observed his “genuine Speaking in a softer voice, the doctor high expectations for her child. She en- inability to execute the simple pincher explained, “There are many indicators of a visioned what his life would be like, just grasp.” The only thing Zack responded to developmental delay, but there’s a certain like the map she had created for her own at this age was music, but he still could not constellation of symptoms that warrant life, filled with hard-earned diplomas and respond to his own name. Assuming that a diagnosis of autism. They present what jobs. However, her perfectly controlled perhaps Zack could not hear her voice, we’ve classified as three categories: social world soon unraveled when she noticed Ellenby had his hearing tested. His ears deficits, language delay, and preservative that something with Zack was not quite worked, so what was delaying his devel- behaviors, which is what he’s doing now, right, as she describes in her riveting au- opment? that going back and forth in the identical tobiography, “Autism Uncensored: Pulling pattern. It’s an almost ritualistic mode of Back the Curtain” (Koehler Books). Not The evaluation behavior, what we call ‘self-stimulating,’ only does Ellenby’s book let other parents By the time Zack reached 19 months, which children with autism tend to engage of autistic children empathize with her he still could not speak and preferred to in, because it gives them a sense of com- experiences, it encourages all readers to crawl. Growing increasingly concerned by fort and predictability.” embrace the idea of inclusion of autistic his lack of maturation, Ellenby took him to After receiving the evaluation results, children and adults in our everyday lives. the pediatric neurology division at George- Ellenby fell to the floor in sadness and town University Hospital, where he was disbelief. What had upset Ellenby the Something is not right evaluated by “an entire team of therapists most was the mystery of autism. Nobody Although Ellenby had never had a baby — occupational, speech, physical.” knows what causes autism, and there before, she noticed abnormal behavior in As they coaxed Zack along to perform is no remedy for it. Although about one her child. Zack would nurse from her so simple tasks, Ellenby became distressed as percent of the worldwide population has vigorously that he didn’t seem interested she saw her son fail “early level motor and autism, less than 10 percent of the people in eating as much as in enjoying the physi- language assessments, shuffling across with the condition actually recover from cal sensation of mouthing. the floor with his peculiar crawl, refusing it. When Zack turned 1 year old, his de- to bear weight on his feet, slapping away While Ellenby’s husband felt respon- velopment seemed “sluggish.” He could books and turning his indifferent nose up sible for Zack’s condition, because he babble, but didn’t seem to vocalize any at educational toys.” thought he gave Zack a concussion, she distinct words. With no desire to stand After her son’s evaluation, Ellenby was reassured him, “What Zack has is innate
28 Manhattan Family • May 2018 What had upset Ellenby the most was the mystery of autism. Nobody knows what causes autism, and there is no remedy for it.
ing, “ABA etiquette is spelled out in author- itative pieces.” First, the therapists helped Zack identify “emotions, objects, people, or colors via flashcards and manipulative objects.” These drills were repeated over and over until Zack correctly answered the questions “without prompting.” As Ellenby explained, “Positive rein- forcement for correct answers is supplied to Zack continuously throughout the ses- sions in the form of food — M&Ms, Dor- itos, anything Zack is willing to work for.” Any self-stimulating behavior he used to calm himself down (such as hand flapping or staring up at lights for long periods of time), had to be suppressed. ABA also adhered to the concept of teaching by imitation as Ellenby and the therapists constantly told Zack, “Do this.” After six months of therapy, Ellenby was delighted that her son was finally be- ginning to succeed in the drills. While he became compliant to sit at the table, he still could not speak by age 3, although he and his mother had developed a physical connection by the exhaustive regimen of therapy. As Zack turned 4, his only verbal suc- cess had been in the phrase “I want,” which he did not use with its proper meaning. Ellenby began to lose faith in the program as her son’s eyes showed “a flatness, a dead stare, stoic obedience has replaced fierce resistance: we have beaten and developmental. It was there all along, him down and drained his fight.” but we didn’t know it.” Ellenby knew her son was no longer search and showing half of children with showing progress in the program. Every Applied behavioral analysis autism who receive this intensive treat- time she saw a child who was the same Following the recommendations of the ment becoming indistinguishable from age as Zack, she was amazed by their ver- doctors at Georgetown University Hos- other children on tests of cognitives and bal expressions. Comparing her son to his pital, Ellenby decided to create a home social skills by the time they completed peers, Ellenby fell into an isolated depres- therapy program for her son following first grade.” sion confined to the walls of the therapy applied behavioral analysis methodology. Because of the “dearth of professionals room in her home. She sadly abandoned all thoughts of re- trained to administer Lovaas,” Ellenby flew turning to work, as her husband would in a specialist from New York every month [Editor’s note: This is part one of a now finance this intervention program, to train her and four “in-house” therapists. two-part story about Whitney Ellenby and which would cost their family $80,000 an- In order for Zack to succeed in the pro- her new book “Autism Uncensored: Pulling nually — with not one expense covered by gram, he needed to sit in an isolated room Back the Curtain.” Look for the conclusion insurance. in his home 40 hours week. As Lovaas in our June issue.] According to the Lovaas Institute web- observed in his experimental groups, any- site (www.lovaas.com), the program was thing less than 40 hours a week would Allison Plitt lives in Queens with her 12-year- developed by psychologist Dr. O. Ivar result in failure. old daughter and is a frequent contributor to Lovaas and “is based on 40 years of re- Ellenby had a different perception, writ- this publication.
May 2018 • Manhattan Family 29 Calendarmay
Learning print-making Participants nurture their creative lored to the current show. Some past ac- side in this print-making workshop at tivities include pop-up books, silkscreen the International Print Center New York T-shirts, and intaglio on Styrofoam. on May 12. Print-making workshop on May 12, Students of all ages explore print-mak- from 1 to 4 pm. Free, reservations not ing techniques such as woodblock, etch- required. ing, engraving, and silkscreen, with a pre- International Print Center New York [508 sentation of print-making tools. The kid- W. 26th St. on Fifth floor in Chelsea, (212) friendly print-making activities are tai- 989–5090; www.ipcny.org].
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Thurs, May 3 In Manhattan Cross-Stitch Circle: New-York Historical Society, 170 Central Park West at W. 77th Street; (212) 873–3400; www.nyhistory.org/ childrens-museum/families; 3:30 pm to 5:30 pm; Free with museum admission. Drop in to try your skills at one of the old- Michael Blase est forms of embroidery in the world. Be- ginning cross-stitchers will learn the basic stitch and create a bookmark with their new A journey from Japan skill. More seasoned stitchers can continue working on their bookmark or branch into “Elsewhere” is the fantastic journey Godie was the first Japanese monu- more complicated designs – make a hand- of Japanese pioneer Omoto Tannaker, ment erected in England in the 19th crafted gift for someone! Younger kids may performing at Gibney Dance on May 24, century. also enjoy coming along and contributing to 25, and 26. “Elsewhere,” May 24, 25, and 26 at our community weaving using recycled fab- rics and ribbons. Please contact familypro- Vangeline Theater presents this 8 pm. Tickets are $15 in advance and [email protected] for more information story of migration and cultural encoun- $20 at the door. Suitable for teens and and pricing. ters celebrating the life of Tannaker adults. (1842–1916). Gibney Dance – Agnes Varis Perform- Fri, May 4 In 1860, the Japanese woman joined ing Arts Center [280 Broadway (enter at 53 the Great Dragon Circus on its tour A Chambers St.) in the Financial District, In Manhattan around the world, but in December (646) 837–6809; https://gibneydance.org/ Shababa Fridays: 92Y, 1395 Lexing- 1873, Omoto-san’s infant Godie died in event/pop-performance-vangeline-and- ton Ave. at E. 91st Street; (212) 415–5500; Sunderland, England. The tomb of Little yuka-c-honda/2018-05-24/]. www.92y.org; 9:30 am; $10. Get ready for Shabbat with a joyous and active musical experience! Children, par- ents, grandparents and nannies are all a winning Paul Fleischman and directed by tween E. Seventh and E. 10th streets; (212) part of our Shababa Friday family. Join us for Children’s Theatre Company Artistic Director 408–0296; https://www.nycgovparks.org/ this playful and soulful experience of sing- Peter C. Brosius, the many diverse characters events/2018/05/05/learn-to-ride3; 11 am to ing, dancing, jumping and celebrating as a of an immigrant neighborhood are brilliantly 2 pm; Free. community! brought to life by Ivey Award-winning ac- Bring a bike, a child, and a helmet for this free, fun event! Show your child, 5 years Open Studio: The Whitney Museum of tress Sonja Parks. Meet the fascinating folk of age or older, how to ride a two-wheeler American Art, 99 Gansevoort St.; (212) 570– of Gibb Street. From Ana, a crotchety old Ro- using the “balance first” method. Please pre- 3600; [email protected]; https:// manian woman, to Gonzalo, a feisty Latino register at https://www.bike.nyc/education/ whitney.org/Events/OpenStudioMarch2018; teenager, a fractured immigrant neighbor- programs/learn-to-ride-kids. For more infor- 4 pm to 6 pm; Free. hood comes together when spirited, young mation, please visit nyc.gov/parks or bike- Grab your friends and get creative! Teens Kim plants some precious beans in a nearby vacant lot. Some performances are audio- newyork.org or call 311. For accessibility in- are invited to a free drop-in art-making pro- formation, contact Sandy Requeno three days described performance and sign-interpreted gram at the Whitney on most Fridays. Bring before the event at (212) 408–0296. your works-in-progress or create something performance. Show’s running time is 60 entirely new. All supplies are provided and no minutes with no intermission, and is recom- “Seed Folks:” 11 am and 3 pm. The New previous art experience is required — every- mended for ages 8 and up. Victory Theater. See Friday, May 4. one is welcome. Urban Wildlife Festival: Highbridge “Seed Folks”: The New Victory Theater, Sat, May 5 Park, W. 172nd Street and Amsterdam Av- 209 W. 42nd St. between Seventh and enue; (212) 304–2277; Noon to 3 pm; Free. Eighth avenues; (646) 223–3010; www. In Manhattan Join us for an opportunity to get up newvictory.org; 7 pm; Tickets $16–$38. Learn to Ride: Multi Purpose Courts close and personal with the city’s wild resi- Based on the book by Newbery Medal- in Tompkins Square Park, Avenue A be- dents. Learn about squirrels, raccoons, coy-
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otes, skunks, deer, and more. Find out the best places in New York City and New York State to watch wildlife. There will be live ani- mals with educational speakers, kid’s activi- ties, and musical performances. Everyone is welcomed. “Addy & Uno”: Theatre Row, 410 W. 42nd St. (212) 239–6200; https://www.ad- dyanduno.com; Noon; $42.25. As Uno, a child with autism, faces the challenge of competing in his school’s math competition, his friends with varying disabili- ties rally in support. Through puppets and soaring music, “Addy & Uno” is a heartfelt and hilarious journey celebrating hope, big dreams and the beauty of differences. Central Park Discovery Walk for Families – Towering Trees: Charles A Dana Discovery Center, 110th Street between Fifth and Lenox avenues; (212) 310–6600; https://www.nycgovparks.org/ events/2018/05/05/central-park-tour-discov- Andrew Kist ery-walk-for-families-towering-trees; 1 pm to 2:30 pm; Free. Studio workshop for teens Take a hike through the North Woods and learn how to tell a maple from an oak! Dis- Teens get creative at the Open Stu- are provided and no previous art expe- cover how trees — from seeds and leaves to dio at the Whitney Museum of Ameri- rience is required. logs — contribute to the health of an urban park woodland community. Bring your fam- can Art on May 4 and May 18. Open Studio on May 4 and 18, from 4 ily for a guided walk and discover why Cen- Bring your works-in-progress or to 6 pm. Free. tral Park is a sanctuary for plants, animals, create something entirely new at this The Whitney Museum of American Art and humans alike. Learn about the architec- free drop-in art-making program at the [99 Gansevoort St. in the Meatpacking dis- ture, landscapes, and ecosystems of the park Whitney on most Fridays. All supplies trict, (212) 570–3600; www.whitney.org]. through hands-on exploration using Discov- ery Kits — rugged backpacks filled with kid- friendly binoculars, field guides, and hand lenses. Approximately 90 minutes. Space is authors share the story of their collabora- New-York Historical Society. See Thursday, limited, so registration is required. Families tion on a new novel. Two masterminds of May 3. middle-grade fiction, Wendy Mass (“The with children ages 5 and up only; no groups, “Selena” – Movies Under The Stars: Candymakers”) and Rebecca Stead (“Good- please. Please arrive at walk location 15 min- Highbridge Recreation Center, 2301 Amster- bye Stranger”), team up for the first time on utes before the start of the Discovery Walk to dam Avenue; (212) 927–2012; https://www. “Bob,” a magical story about growing up allow time for check in and to pick up Discov- nycgovparks.org/events/2018/05/10/selena- and the enduring power of friendship be- ery Kits. For weather cancellation and other movies-under-the-stars-best-dressed-con- tween a young girl and an unusual creature. ticket policies, please review our Tours Fre- test; 6 pm to 11:30 pm; Free. quently Asked Questions. Summer on the Hudson – Irish Arts Join us for the movie screening of Tejano The Princess and the Pea: Galli The- Center New York City Irish Dance legend Selena. Put on your best Selena outfit ater, 357 W. 36th St. #202; (212) 731–0668; Festival: Pier 1 at Riverside Park South, W. and participate in our Selena look-alike con- www.gallitheaternyc.com/shows; 2 pm; $20 70th Street and Riverside Boulevard; https:// test! You can be the winner of some special ($15 child; $35 one parent one child). www.nycgovparks.org/events/2018/05/06/ prizes. Bring a picnic, blanket, lawn chairs Prince Prince is looking for a princess. After summer-on-the-hudson-irish-arts-center- and enjoy the movie at Highbridge Park. The a failed attempt at speed dating, the right new-york-city-irish-dance-festival; 1 pm to 6 movie will start around 8 pm. Come ready to woman shows up at his door. Only the Royal pm; Free. have a great time! Pea Test will reveal if she is a true princess. Irish Arts Center kicks off Summer on the For children 3 and up. Hudson’s 2018 season with its annual day- long Irish Dance Festival featuring perfor- Fri, May 11 “Seed Folks”: 3 pm. The New Victory mances by hundreds of the best Irish danc- In Manhattan Theater. See Friday, May 4. ers, with opportunities for the whole family Diva Moms’ Mom Moguls Break- to join in. fast: Lord & Taylor, 424 Fifth Ave. 38th and Sun, May 6 “The Princess and the Pea”: 2 pm. Galli 39th streets; [email protected]; 9 am to In Manhattan Theater. See Saturday, May 5. 11:30 am; $75. For a busy mom, the work day never ends. “Seed Folks”: 11 am and 3 pm. The New “Seed Folks”: 3pm. The New Victory The- Victory Theater. See Friday, May 4. If you’re also growing your own business, it ater. See Friday, May 4. can feel as if you’re raising another child. Is it “Bob”: Symphony Space, 2537 Broad- really possible to juggle both home and work way at W. 94th Street; (212) 864–5400; Thurs, May 10 life successfully? At the 6th Annual Divamoms www.symphonyspace.org; 1 pm; $17 ($14 Mom Moguls Breakfast, you’ll hear from our members). In Manhattan esteemed panel of working moms who are A pair of New York Times best-selling Cross-Stitch Circle: 3:30 pm to 5:30 pm. managing it all. Their wisdom and tips will in-
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spire and empower, as they share their trials and tribulations. A percentage of ticket sales will be donated to the March For Our Lives Action Fund. [email protected], space is limited. Shababa Fridays: 9:30 am. 92Y. See Fri- day, May 4. Youth All Star Hoops Night: Tony Dapolito Recreation Center, 3 Clark- son St. and Seventh Avenue South; (347) 844–2763; https://www.nycgovparks.org/ events/2018/05/11/youth-all-star-hoops- night; 5 pm to 7 pm; Free. Show off your inner all star by compet- ing in our version of the NBA All Star Night. Youth are all welcome to take part in our three-point shooting contest, skills assess- ment, half court shooting competition and relays. “Seed Folks”: 7 pm. The New Victory Theater. See Friday, May 4. Jazz Land in Concert: HSA Theater, 649 St. Nicholas Ave. at 145th Street; www. hsanyc.org; 7 pm; $20 (at the door; $15 stu- dents and seniors). The Harlem School of the Arts presents this eclectic concert featuring The Dorothy Maynor Singers, the school’s Dance Ensemble and the Junior Dance Ensemble.
Sat, May 12 In Manhattan Central Park Discovery Walk for Families – Statues and Monuments: The beauty of differences Samuel F. B. Morse Statue in Central Park, E. 72nd Street and Fifth Avenue; (212) 310– “Addy & Uno” is at Theatre Row, Sat- a heartfelt and hilarious journey cel- 6600; 10 am to 11:30 am; Free. urdays now through May 5. ebrating hope, big dreams, and the Join us on a kid-friendly adventure as we As Uno, a child with autism, faces beauty of differences. Run time is ap- discover the secrets and mysteries of Central the challenge of competing in his proximately 50 minutes. Park’s most beloved children’s sculptures! school’s math competition, his friends “Addy & Uno,” Saturdays, now until Central Park Conservancy Guides will lead this wintery exploration, featuring some of with varying disabilities — attention May 5, at noon. Tickets are $42.25. Suit- the Park’s most popular statues for children. deficit hyperactivity disorder; visual, able for all ages. Highlights of this guided walk include Balto, hearing, and physical impairments Theatre Row [410 W. 42nd St. Midtown Alice in Wonderland, and Hans Christian — rally in support. Through puppets West; (212) 239–6200; www.addyandu Andersen. Meet in front of the Samuel F. B. and soaring music, “Addy & Uno” is no.com]. Morse statue (inside the park at 72nd Street and Fifth Avenue). Birding Bonanza: Little Hell Gate Salt nycgovparks.org/events/2018/05/12/high- (212) 358–6133; [email protected]; Marsh, Randall’s Island Park; (212) 830– bridge-rocks-community-festival; 11 am to 3 https://www.centerforarchitecture.org/fami- 7722; https://www.nycgovparks.org/ pm; Free. lyday; 11 am; $12 per child and $6 per adult. events/2018/05/12/birding-bonanza; 10 am Get to know your resilient 450-million- The Greenwich Village neighborhood to 2 pm; Free. year-old neighbors — the rocks of High- boasts many beautiful buildings with exqui- Randall’s Island Park is home to more than bridge Park. Discover their unique geologic site architectural details. In this workshop, 180 species of birds. Join us for a day of free, features, make art, and celebrate the park’s we’ll start with a neighborhood walk to find family-friendly bird watching! Learn about adventurous assets. Watch climbing dem- examples of different types of ornament, the amazing adaptations of birds as they onstrations by REI and then try bouldering then return to the center where families will thrive in the Island’s restored habitats. Binoc- yourself! Tour the Old Croton Aqueduct, hear create their own building detail designs out ulars and bird guides provided. Also features geology stories from the Urban Park Rangers crafts, games, and refreshments. Suitable for and Word Up Community Bookstore, make of clay. ages 7 and up (with an adult). rock rubbings with Creative Art Works, or Sou Sou: Caribbean Cultural Center African Highbridge Rocks Community Festi- create your own masterpiece with Sugar Hill Diaspora Institute, 120 E. 125th St.; cccadi. val: Adventure Playground, W. 164th Street Children’s Museum! org/sousou; Noon to 4 pm; Free. between Amsterdam Avenue and Harlem Family Day – Building Ornament: The family-oriented program is inspired River Drive; (212) 795–1388; https://www. Center for Architecture, 536 LaGuardia Pl.; by the savings clubs tradition of the African
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Diaspora with a twist — a culture savings club for the entire family. Attendees get to enjoy art, dance, music workshops, and many more activities that elevate the history and traditions of the African diaspora. This month it’s mama-and-me time with a presentation from Callaloo Kids theater. Summer on the Hudson – Baylander Billion Oyster Project Presenta- tion: On the Pier at West Harlem Pier, W. 125th Street; https://www.nycgovparks.org/ events/2018/05/12/summer-on-the-hudson- baylander-billion-oyster-project-presenta- tion1; Noon to 2pm; Free. Come see and learn about the Billion Oys- ter Project on the Baylander’s Jungle Deck. It’s the latest effort to restore our harbor! Summer on the Hudson – Play Dates: West Harlem Piers, 125th Street and Mar- ginal Street; https://www.nycgovparks.org/ events/2018/05/12/summer-on-the-hudson- David Gonsier play-dates; 1 pm to 4:30 pm; Free. Join us at this fun family-friendly outdoor Empowered performance party featuring a children’s entertainer, arts and crafts, and neighborhood fun! Ariel Rivka Dance is coming to New brates its 11th season under the helm Print-making workshops: International York Live Arts for a fantastic event per- of choreographer Ariel Grossman. Print Center New York, 508 W. 26th St. on formance empowering female expres- The program includes two world pre- fifth floor; (212) 989–5090; www.ipcny.org; sion in “Three Female Choreographers” mieres by Grossman, one by DaSilva, 1 pm to 4 pm; Free. on May 17, 18, and 19. and beloved repertory by both Gross- Participants explore print-making tech- Ariel Rivka Dance has collaborated man and Marshall. niques such as woodblock, etching, engrav- with the acclaimed Amy Marshall “Three Female Choreographers,” ing, and silkscreen, with a presentation of print-making tools and a kid-friendly activity Dance Company and choreographer May 17 and 18 at 7:30 pm, and May 19 tailored to the current show. and dancer Chanel DaSilva for a season at 2 pm. Tickets $15–$75; $1 children of provocative dance dedicated to em- under 18 at the Family Matinee Only Central Park Discovery Walk for powering female expression. (May 19). Families – Towering Trees: 1 pm to 2:30 pm. Charles A Dana Discovery Center. An audience favorite for its acces- New York Live Arts [219 W. 19th St. in See Saturday, May 5. sible, graceful signature style of move- Chelsea, (212) 924–0077; www.newyorkli ment, the all-female company cele- vearts.org]. Jazz Land in Concert: 7 pm. HSA The- ater. See Friday, May 11.
members of BHdos. New York Live Arts, 219 W. 19th St.; (212) Sun, May 13 924–0077; www.newyorklivearts.org; 7:30 Jazz Land in Concert: 3 pm. HSA The- pm; $15–$75. In Manhattan ater. See Friday, May 11. Ariel Rivka Dance collaborates with the ac- Mamita’s Day: United Palace, 4140 Broadway at W.175th Street; (212) 568– claimed Amy Marshall Dance Company and 1157; https://www.unitedpalace.org/upca- Mon, May 14 choreographer and dancer Chanel DaSilva calendar/eventdetail/5046/-/ballet-hispanico- In Manhattan for a season of provocative dance dedicated en-familia; 2 pm; $15–$25 (free for children to empowering female expression. Program NYC Autism Charter Schools Board 12 and younger). includes two world premieres by Grossman, Meetings: NYC Autism Charter Schools, Celebrate Mamitas’s Day with Ballet His- one by DaSilva, and beloved repertory by 433 E. 100th St. Manhattan; 977 Fox St., pánico. This is a fun-filled journey through both Grossman and Marshall. Bronx, (212) 860–2580; csecharan@nycacha- Latin American dance and culture featuring rterschool.org; www.nycautismcharter- a special appearance by Univision 41 news Fri, May 18 anchor Katiria Soto. Families can enjoy music school.org; 5:00pm; Free. and children’s crafts in the grand foyer. The The NYCA Charter Schools Board Meet- In Manhattan first 100 people to arrive may join Ballet His- ings are open to parents, staff and any other Shababa Fridays: 9:30 am. 92Y. See Fri- pánico Artistic Director & CEO Eduardo Vilaro members of the public. day, May 4. on stage for Baila Con Mami (Dance with Flower Garden Storytime: Mount Ver- Mommy) at 2:30 pm. Whether you want to Thurs, May 17 bring your mom as a special gift or your fa- non Hotel Museum & Garden, 421 E. 61st vorite dance partner, this class will get you In Manhattan St.; (212) 838–6878; [email protected]; www.mvhm.org; 10:30 am; Free. up, energized, and moving to the beat in no Cross-Stitch Circle: 3:30 pm to 5:30 pm. time! There will also be a flamenco perfor- New-York Historical Society. See Thursday, This month’s storytime will take place outside in our garden (weather permitting.) mance by students of the Ballet Hispánico May 3. School of Dance, as well as excerpts from Listen to stories about planting a garden, Ballet Hispánico repertory performed by “Three Female Choreographers”: and explore the different plants and flowers
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planted by the museum’s gardener. After- ward, make a paper flower to take home. For children 6 and under. Free. Open Studio: 4 pm to 6 pm. The Whitney Meet ‘Bob’ at the Thalia Museum of American Art. See Friday, May 4. Tweens and teens meet “Bob” at Jazz Land in Concert: 7 pm. HSA The- the Thalia Kid’s Book Club event at ater. See Friday, May 11. Symphony Space on May 6. Clubbers will interact with a pair of “Three Female Choreographers”: New York Times best-selling authors 7:30 pm. New York Live Arts. See Thursday, — Rebecca Stead and Wendy Mass — May 17. who will share the story of their col- laboration on a new novel, “Bob.” Sat, May 19 This magical story tells the tale In Manhattan about growing up, and the enduring Learn to Ride: Samuel Seabury Play- power of friendship between a young ground, E. 95th Street and Lexington Av- girl and an unusual creature. enue; (212) 408–0296; https://www.nycgov- This highly interactive author parks.org/events/2018/05/19/learn-to-ride3; and book event is produced in co- 11 am to 2 pm; Free. operation with Bank Street Book- Bring a bike, a child, and a helmet for this store and unites avid readers free, fun event! Show your child, 5 years with the authors, illustrators, and of age or older, how to ride a two-wheeler books that inspire their imagina- using the “balance first” method. tions. Participants will be treated Central Park Discovery Walk for to a creative writing project, an Families – Towering Trees: 1 pm to audience discussion, a perfor- 2:30 pm. Charles A Dana Discovery Center. mance from the book, and a See Saturday, May 5. book signing. “Three Female Choreographers”: 2 “Bob” Book Club on May 6 at pm. New York Live Arts. See Thursday, May 1 pm. Admission is $17 for non-mem- W. 94th Street on the 17. bers, $14 members. Upper West Side, (212) 864–5400; www. Summer on the Hudson – Sweet Symphony Space [2537 Broadway at symphonyspace.org]. Spot Festival: On the Pier at West Harlem Piers, W. 125th Sreet; https://www.nycgov- parks.org/events/2018/05/19/summer-on- Wed, May 23 Varis Performing Arts Center, 280 Broad- the-hudson-sweet-spot-festival; 3 pm to 9 way (53A Chambers St.); (646) 837–6809; pm; Free. In Manhattan www:gibneydance.org/performance/pop/ Summer on the Hudson and Kindred Arts Family Fun Fit Fusion: James J. Walker vangeline-and-yuka-c-honda-elsewhere; 8 invite you to a family-friendly gathering of Park, 1 Clarkson St.; (212) 242–5228; https:// pm; $15 in advance ($20 at the door). community, culture, and music lovers of all www.nycgovparks.org/events/2018/05/23/ Vangeline Theater presents this story of ages! Enjoy reggae, soulful house, disco, and family-fun-fit-fusion; 4 pm to 8 pm; Free. migration and cultural encounters celebrating Afro-beat spun by a rotating collection of Join us for our annual Fitness Festival the life of Japanese pioneer Omoto Tanna- North America’s most-renowned sound ar- now expanded to include family games and ker. In 1860, the Japanese woman joined the chitects. Rain date May 20. sports! Featuring soccer and pickleball, out- Great Dragon Circus on its tour around the door Spin, family crafts, bocce, and more. world, but in December 1873, Omoto-san’s Jazz Land in Concert: 7 pm. HSA The- infant Godie died in Sunderland, England. ater. See Friday, May 11. The tomb of Little Godie was the first Japa- Thurs, May 24 nese monument erected in England in the Sun, May 20 In Manhattan 19th century. In Manhattan Tony Dapolito Cops vs. Teens Bas- ketball: Tony Dapolito Recreaton Center, Fri, May 25 Kids ‘N Comedy: Gotham Comedy Club, 3 Clarkson St. and Seventh Avenue South; 208 W. 23rd St.; (212) 877–6115; www.kid- In Manhattan (646) 300–2271; https://www.nycgovparks. sncomedy.com; 1 pm; $18 plus a one item org/events/2018/05/24/tony-dapolito-cops- “Elsewhere”: 8 pm. Gibney Dance: Agnes minimum. vs-teens; 3 pm to 7 pm; Free. Varis Performing Arts Center. See Thursday, This turntable of talented teens and May 24. Tony Dapolito will be hosting our very own tweens from the tri-state area presents his/ cops vs. teens event with NYPD’s 6th Pre- Outdoor Movie Night at Randall’s her own material and is screened to be free cinct! Teens and cops will square off in a bas- Island Park – “Moana”: Filed 81 at of profanity and abrasive or cheap “low” ketball scrimmage. All teens are welcome at Randall’s Island, Randall’s Island Park; (212) humor (like fart jokes) and no knock-knock this free event. 830–7722; 8:30 pm to 10:30 pm. jokes. They do, however, venture into edgy Watch the journey of Moana (Auli’I comic terrain — politics, getting old, and Cross-Stitch Circle: 3:30 pm to 5:30 pm. Cravalo), a brave 16-year old girl, as she even death. New-York Historical Society. See Thursday, sets out on a daring adventure to save her May 3. Jazz Land in Concert: 3 pm. HSA The- people in this animated Disney film! Along ater. See Friday, May 11. “Elsewhere”: Gibney Dance’s Agnes for the ride on this action-packed journey is
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the once-powerful Maui (Dwayne Johnson), pet pig Pua, and rooster Heihei. Travel with Moana as she conquers obstacles, learns about her ancestors, and discovers her true Watch out for ‘Geniuses’ identity. They’re super smart and super tal- the world. ented — they are “Geniuses” at TADA “Geniuses,” now through May 20; Fri- Sat, May 26 Youth Theater, now through May 20. day, 7 pm; Satruday and Sunday, 2 pm In Manhattan TADA presents this original musi- and 4 pm; Wednesday, 10 am and noon. Summer on the Hudson – Baylander cal about two kids from a school for Tickets are $15 children, $25 adults. Billion Oyster Project Presentation: children who learn differently, who Reservations not required. Suitable for Noon to 2 pm. On the Pier at West Harlem sneak into an elite private school for all ages. Pier. See Saturday, May 12. students with exceptionally high IQs TADA! Youth Theater [15 W. 28th St. be- “The Princess and the Pea”: 2 pm. Galli and shake things up for the better tween Broadway and Fifth Avenue in Chel- Theater. See Saturday, May 5. — especially when they uncover one sea, (212) 252–1619 X 4; www.tadatheat “Elsewhere”: 8 pm. Gibney Dance: Agnes student’s evil plot to take control of er.com]. Varis Performing Arts Center. See Thursday, May 24. After you’ve learned about life in the sky, $16.50 Children. return to learn about the war on the ground! Take a deep dive into modern ocean explo- Sun, May 27 Meet American soldiers from WWII portrayed ration in this brand-new exhibition. Highlights In Manhattan by Living Historians — learn how day-to-day include a virtual ride in a submersible into the Living History Memorial Day: New- life was different for troops in the European shadowy depths and a magnetic sand table York Historical Society, 170 Central Park and Pacific campaigns, take a close look at where visitors can dig trenches and form is- West at W. 77th Street; (212) 873–3400; their uniforms, and explore all of their tools lands. There are also live marine animals such www.nyhistory.org/childrens-museum/ and equipment. as comb jellies, seahorses, pipefishes, and families; 11 am to 4 pm; Free with museum chain catsharks. admission. Thurs, May 31 Governors Island open: New York Har- Take flight to discover the daily life of mili- bor; https://govisland.com; Weekdays, 10 tary pilots and their crew 75 years ago. Living In Manhattan am–6 pm, Saturdays and Sundays, 10 am–7 Historians from the Army Air Forces Histori- Central Park Discovery Walk for pm, Ferries run from Manhattan and Brook- cal Association share stories about life on the Families – Gardens: Vanderbilt Gate lyn. Check website for schedules and fares. battle- and homefronts during World War II at Central Park, Fifth Avenue and E. 105th Entry to the island is free. alongside an interactive display. Explore au- Street; (212) 310–6600; 10 am to 11 am; This unique New York City destination is thentic uniforms, test your strength by try- Free. open for the season! The 172-acre island in ing on a heavy flak vest or helmet, and find Kid-friendly guided walk through thousands the heart of New York Harbor has something out how gunners kept warm at high altitudes of blooms in Central Park’s Conservatory Gar- for everyone, from biking, slides, play foun- when the windows were open. den. Discover the difference between the vari- tains, and hammocks to tours of historic Fort Summer on the Hudson – Mamapa- ous flowers and landscapes that make up the Jay and Castle Williams. looza: Pier 1 at Riverside Park South, W. Park’s only formal garden. Learn about its his- “Neverland – Peter Returns:” Swedish 170th Street; Noon to 5 pm; Free. tory, design, and what it takes to maintain a Cottage Marionette Theater, W. 79th Street Fierce feminist families celebrate all mamas healthy and beautiful garden through hands- and West Drive; (212) 988–9093; www. and the people who love them at our annual on exploration and guided activities in your cityparksfondation.org; Tuesdays – Fridays, festival featuring music, family-focused ven- complementary Discovery Journal. 10:30 am and 11:30 am, Saturdays and Sun- dors, wellness activities, face painting, art, Cross-Stitch Circle: 3:30 pm to 5:30 pm. days, 1 pm, $12 ($8 children). and activism. New-York Historical Society. See Thursday, The City Parks Foundation presents the original marionette play based on J.M. Bar- Summer on the Hudson – Sun Gaze May 3. rie’s iconic Peter Pan tales. This version is a Sundays: Pier 1 at Riverside Park South, W. spin on the beloved children’s classic. Leav- 70th Street; Noon to 4 pm; Free. Long-running ing their parents behind, the Darling children The Amateur Astronomers Association In Manhattan follow Peter Pan back home to Neverland for and solar-gazing return with solar telescopes the adventure of a lifetime. When the cun- specifically designed to safely look at the sun “Frozen” on Broadway: St. James The- ning Captain Hook turns Peter’s pals Tiger and see sunspots and prominences under a atre, 246 W. 44th St. (866) 870–2717; fro- Lily and Tinker Bell against him, the children summer sky. zenthemusical.com; $100 and up. team up with the Never Boys to save the “The Princess and the Pea”: 2 pm. Galli A musical worth melting for! If you loved day, learning the value of forgiveness and Theater. See Saturday, May 5. the movie “Frozen,” you’ll love seeing Anna, friendship. Elsa, Kristoff, and Olaf come to life on stage “Ice Age” in 4-D: Central Park Zoo 4-D to tell the timeless tale of two sisters who Theater, E. 64th Street and Fifth Avenue; Mon, May 28 are pulled apart by a mysterious secret. https://centralparkzoo.com; Daily, 11 am to 4 Of course, there’s the classic song “Let It In Manhattan pm, until Sat, June 30; Free with Total Expe- Go,” plus many new numbers for this new Living History Memorial Day: New- rience ($7 per person). production. York Historical Society, 170 Central Park An immersive experience featuring the vi- West at W. 77th Street; (212) 873–3400; Unseen Oceans: American Museum of sual drama of a 3-D film with a variety of www.nyhistory.org/childrens-museum/ Natural History, Central Park West at W. built-in sensory effects. It’s quite an adven- families; 11 am to 4 pm; Free with museum 79th Street; (212) 769–5200; www.amnh. ture. Please note, this experience is geared admission. org; Daily, 10 am–5:45 pm; $28 Adults, for children ages 6 and up, and is not recom-
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mended for children under age 4. teur Astronomers Association of New York to mage against other wheelchair basketball see rare celestial sights. In the event of rain, players from the NYC area. Fourth annual Scholastic Art & Writ- Stargazing on the High Line will be cancelled. ing Award Exhibition: The Metropoli- Summer on the Hudson – Locomo- tan Museum of Art’s Ruth and Harold D. That Physics Show and That Chemis- tive Lawn Live: Riverside Park South, W. Uris Center for Education, 1000 Fifth Ave.; try Show: The Playroom Theater, 151 W. 62nd St. and Riverside Blvd.; https://www. [email protected]; artandwriting. 46th Street, eighth floor; (212) 967–8278; nycgovparks.org/events/2018/05/10/sum- org; Daily, 11 am to 6 pm; until Tues, May www.sciencetheatercompany.com; Satur- mer-on-the-hudson-locomotive-lawn-live; 29; Free. days and Sundays, Noon and 3 pm, $59. Thursdays, 10:30 am to 11: 30 am, Thurs, The nonprofit Alliance for Young Artists The Science Theater Company, the newly May 10 – Thurs, June 28; Free. & Writers and The Metropolitan Museum of formed theatre company founded by Pro- Moosiki Kids Musical Storytime fosters a Art will hosting an opening reception for the ducer Eric Krebs, “uses the magic of theatre love of reading at a young age with musical fourth annual New York City Scholastic Art & to make science fun.” Now in its third year, stories and sing-along encouragement on our Writing Awards exhibition at The Met’s Ruth it delights, amazes, and educates audiences. comfy and danceable turf lawn by the big and Harold D. Uris Center for Education. The The shows are performed in repertory on locomotive. This event is great for kids aged exhibition features more than 600 original Saturday and Sunday. 5 years and under! Wear sunscreen or bring works of art and writing from New York City- shade. “Geniuses:” TADA! Youth Theater, 15 W. based Gold Key recipients in the 2018 Scho- 28th St. between Broadway and Fifth Av- “Aladdin:” Galli Theater, 357 W. 36th St. lastic Art & Writing Awards, the country’s enue; (212) 252–1619 X 4; www.tadathe- #202; (212) 731–0668; www.gallitheaternyc. longest-running and most prestigious award ater.com; Saturday, May 5, 2 pm and 4 pm; com/shows; Saturday, May 12, 2 pm; Sun- and recognition program for creative teens. Sunday, May 6, 2 pm and 4 pm; Friday, May day, May 13, 2 pm; Saturday, May 19, 2 pm; Little New-Yorkers: New-York Historical 11, 7 pm; Saturday, May 12, 2 pm and 4 pm; Sunday, May 20, 2 pm; Saturday, June 30, 2 Society, 170 Central Park West at W. 77th Wednesday, May 16, 10 am and noon; Sat- pm; Sunday, July 1, 2 pm; Saturday, July 7, Street; (212) 873–3400; www.nyhistory.org/ urday, May 19, 2 pm and 4 pm; Sunday, May 2 pm; Sunday, July 8, 2 pm; $20 ($15 child; childrens-museum/families; Tuesdays and Fri- 20, 2 pm and 4 pm; $15 ($25 adults). $35 one parent one child). days, 3:30 pm, Tues, May 1 – Tues, May 29; TADA presents this original musical about When Aladdin finds a genie in a lamp, he Free with museum admission. two kids from a school for children who learn can make magic carpets fly and his dreams of Held in the cozy Barbara K. Lipman Chil- differently, who sneak into an elite private riches come true. In order to win the love of dren’s History Library, this program intro- school for students with exceptionally high the princess and save the kingdom, Aladdin duces New York and American history to the IQs and shake things up for the better, espe- will need more than a genie’s magic! For chil- littlest New Yorkers with age-appropriate cially when they uncover one student’s evil dren age 4 and up. readings and engaging hands-on activities. plot to take control of the world. 2018 Fleet Week New York: Various lo- Ages 3 to 5 years old. Youth Wheelchair Basketball: Ger- cations around Manhattan; fleetweeknewy- Stargazing: On the High Line, 14th Street trude Ederle Recreation Center, 232 W. 60th ork.com; Free. and the Highline; (212) 206–9922; https:// St; (646) 632–7344; https://www.nycgov- Nothing says summer is approaching quite www.nycgovparks.org/events/2018/05/01/ parks.org/events/2018/03/04/youth-wheel- like New York’s Fleet Week! Ships are open stargazing; Tuesdays, 6:30 pm to 9:30 pm, chair-basketball-hosted-by-new-york-rolling- to public visitation and aviation events, mili- Free. fury; Sundays, 1 pm to 3:30 pm, Free with tary band concerts and exhibits are held Head to the High Line each Tuesday night center membership. throughout Manhattan and the other bor- for a romantic walk along the park and a Have you ever wanted to learn how to play oughs in this weeklong celebration of the chance to take a closer look at the stars. Peer wheelchair basketball and know the rules sea services. Plus, meet Sailors, Marines and through high-powered telescopes provided inside and out? Well, here’s your chance to Coast Guardsmen and thank them in person by the knowledgeable members of the Ama- learn from the best! Come out and scrim- for their service. theMarketplace
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