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Bayit BULLETIN Hebrew Institute of Riverdale Bayit BULLETIN September 9 - 16, 2016 6 - 13 Elul, 5776 3700 Henry Hudson Parkway, Bronx, NY 10463 718-796-4730 www.thebayit.org Steven Exler, Senior Rabbi: Mazal Tov To: Tamar Cohen & Gary Holmgren on the Bar Mitzvah of their son Kobi. Mazal tov to [email protected]/ x108 brother Noah and to grandparents Naomi & Ben Cohen and Diane & Lou Holmgren. Ari Hart, Associate Rabbi: [email protected]/ x124 Roberta & Bernie Horowitz on the birth of a granddaughter, Katherine Irene, and to the proud parents Andrea & Yudi Horowitz. Anat Sharbat, Associate Rabba: [email protected]/ x106 Rachel Federman & Hillel Greene on the birth of a boy. To big brother Abe, grandparents Esther Federman Ramie Smith, Prog. Dir., Asst. Rabba: and Karen & Rabbi Kenneth Greene. [email protected]/ x119 Sara Hurwitz, Rabba: Harriet & Joseph Sassoon on the Bat Mitzvah of their granddaughter Tehila Sassoon. To parents Jenny & [email protected]/ x107 Robbie and siblings Noam, Hadassa and Nechemia. Mazal tov also to grandparents Agnes & Isaac Kerber. Avi Weiss, Rabbi in Residence: Shani & Yaakov Greenman on the birth of a girl. To grandparents Liz & Dov Mintz and Betty & Rabbi [email protected]/ x102 Arnold Greenman and to great-grandmother Rachel Kempe and great-grandfather Rabbi Paul Greenman. Richard Langer, Executive Director: [email protected]/ x104 Condolences To: Roberta Kraus on the loss of her father, Wilhelm Kraus. Shiva will be observed until David Fain, Youth Director: Thursday Shacharit, September 15th, at the Kraus residence, 1142 E. 5th St, Brooklyn NY 11230. [email protected]/ x240 Bryan Cordova, Facilities Manager: Welcome New Members: Tali Schaum & Yechiel Broder [email protected]/ x121 Ariel Meiri, Synagogue Administrator: This Shabbat @ The Bayit [email protected]/ x101 Guest Speaker Rav Yair Silverman. Phyllis Newsome, Bookkeeper: Shabbat Morning Drasha: "A Deed Knocks: The Line Between Belief and Action” [email protected]/ x103 Between Mincha Ma'ariv: "Just As the Faces Are Different So Are Their Opinions: Yael Oshinsky, Program Associate: Prioritizing the Jewish Ideal of Diversity” [email protected]/ x116 Motzei Shabbat: “If You Will It, It Is Not a Dream: Dreaming Big for Israel’s Jewish Identity” at 8:30pm Shuli Boxer Rieser, Assistant to R’ Weiss: at the home of Dr. Rachel Yehuda & Mitch Rothschild, 4515 Waldo Avenue, Bronx, NY. [email protected]/ x102 This Sat. Night - Women and Children's Clothing Swap | 8:30pm-10:00pm | SH Kiddush: In the Social Hall. Use driveway entrance. Donations and volunteers needed. All seasons. All sizes. Maternity, Kiddush this week is sponsored by nursing and baby wearing items welcome. No toys, gear or furniture please. Stroller parking and nursing room Tamar Cohen & Gary Holmgren available. Children must be supervised. All leftover items will contribute to the clothing drive on Sunday. in honor of Kobi’s Bar Mitzvah. Contact Kathy Goldstein ([email protected]) or visit www.thebayit.org/swap. BAYIT CHESED DAY - SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 11TH This Shabbat: Parshat Shoftim 9:00am-3:00pm: Give Blood, the Gift of Life: Candle Lighting: 6:56pm HIR's 9/11 Fifteenth Anniversary Commemorative Blood Drive: Our area blood supply Mincha/Kabbalat Shabbat: 7:00pm is in life-threatening crisis. A Blood Emergency for certain blood types has been declared. Please honor 9/11 on this 15th anniversary by donating blood. The New York Blood Center is a proud Shalom Bayit: 7:00am partner of the Magen David Adom so your donation is a double mitzvah. Donors must be Shacharit Main Tefillah: 8:30am healthy, aged 17-75 (16 with NYBC parental consent form) & have photo or signature ID. If Learning Service: Resumes 10/29 you have a blood donor card please bring it with you. Walk-ins welcome! Appointments take Sof Zman Kriat Shema: 9:42am precedence. Questions/reserve a time? Call Blood Drive Coordinator, Seryl Ritter at (718)549-8152 or email [email protected]. Volunteers Needed!! Please call or email Seryl to volunteer. Listening Room: 5:25pm Parsha Shiur: 5:55pm 9:00am-2:00pm: Gift of Life Bone Marrow Registry: Swab a Cheek, Save a Life! Mincha (Main/Sephardic): 6:40pm Have your cheek swabbed and be registered in the Gift of Life Bone Marrow registry. To volunteer or to learn more contact Bone Marrow Drive Coordinator: James Lapin at Maariv/Shabbat Ends: 7:57pm [email protected]. Weekday Times 9:30am-12:30pm: HIR's Semi-Annual Clothing Drive: Please sort and separately Shacharit: bag men's, women's and children's clothing in sturdy garbage bags. We are also collecting gently used sheets, Sun: 8:30am blankets, quilts, and towels. Please bag those separately. Deposit donations at the truck that will Mon/Thur: 6:40, 8:00am be stationed outside the HIR. Volunteers are needed. To volunteer or learn more, contact Clothing Tues/Wed/Fri: 6:45, 8:00am Drive Coordinators: Steven Pretsfelder or Barbara Gochberg at Mincha/Maariv: [email protected] or 718-601-3586. Sun - Thur: 6:50pm 10:00am-12:00pm: NEW CHESED OPPORTUNITY THIS YEAR: We will be making cards and decorating cupcakes for the local firefighters and police officers. Next Shabbat: Parshat Ki Teitzei Learn more at www.thebayit.org/chesed. Candle Lighting: 6:44pm Next Shabbat @ The Bayit Mincha/Kabbalat Shabbat: 6:45pm Between Mincha Ma'ariv: “On Hearing and Transformation of Self in the Hebrew Bible” w/ Iyov Jindo. Shacharit Main Tefillah: 8:30am Upcoming Guest Speaker @ The Bayit Mincha (Main/Sephardic): 6:30pm SEPTEMBER 24TH: Guest Speaker Rav Brad Hirschfield. Maariv/Shabbat Ends: 7:45pm Shabbat Morning Drasha: "Turning God's Prayer Into Our Lived Lives” THE BAYIT BULLETIN This Week’s Classes @ the Bayit CHESED OPPORTUNITIES Joe Hoch z"l Memorial Daf Yomi Shiur with Rabbi Dov Linzer meets RIVERDALE FREE LOAN GEMACH: The Gemach of Riverdale is a 7:30am - 8:30am Sun. - Fri and Shabbat after Mincha in Room 3-7. non-profit organization providing interest-free loans to those with cash flow Open and accessible to all. You are invited to join at any time! challenges, with dignity and respect. For further info contact Rabbi Moshe Drelich (917-408-3035, [email protected]). Shabbat 8:05am - Midrash Hashavua with Rav Steven CITY HARVEST FOOD DRIVE Sunday, September 11th - Wednesday, October 19th 5:25pm - Listening Room with Myra Estelle. 5:55pm - Parsha Shiur with Rav Steven Food Needed: All types of kosher canned or nonperishable, sealed After Mincha - Mila Ba’Parasha at Beth Aharon: Basic (and love of) or packaged food are acceptable for collection. Non-kosher food will Shotrim" not be accepted for this food drive. All food donated must have one - ש ֹֽׁטְרִ ים“ :Hebrew is sufficient. This week of the following Hashgachot: O-U, O-K, Chof-K, Star-K. Pre-High Holiday Class Series Prepare for the spiritual peak of the year with 1 hour learning Most Needed Foods: Shelf-stable, Kosher sessions with the Bayit Rabbinic team throughout Sept. sources of protein, such as: tuna, salmon, sardines, peanut butter, beans, soy products. Tuesdays at 10am. Main Lobby. Collection boxes will be in the coat room. 9/13 - Rabba Anat “Teshuvah Preceded the Creation of the World” 9/20 - Rav Ari “The History, and Mystery, of Selichot” SOCIAL WORKER @ THE BAYIT: 9/27 - Rabba Ramie “Broken Ain't Always Bad” Questions about an aging loved one, financial pressures, Classes with Rav Avi concerns about children? Contact HIR social worker Anna Monday: 7:30pm - “Book of Joshua” Kirshblum for guidance, information, referrals and a sympathetic ear. Tuesdays in Sept.: 11:00am - “Reflections on the Yamim Noraim” There is no fee and all conversations are strictly confidential. Tuesdays starting Nov.: 10:00am - "The Story of the Golden Calf" Anna can be reached on Mon. 8:00am - 7:30pm, Please note: Tues. 8:00am - 7:30pm and Thurs. 8:00am - 4:00pm Rav Avi’s classes will be on hiatus for the entire month of October. at 718-601-9714 or e-mail her at [email protected]. Hebrew Classes with Sara Kinberg* (In partnership with UJA & JBFCS). Monday: 7:30pm - Advanced Hebrew Ulpan (at the Atria) Alternative # 718-601-2280 ext 740248. Wednesday: 7:30pm - Intermediate Hebrew Ulpan (Lobby) Jewish Caregivers Support Group: Share experiences, Thursday: 7:30pm - Biblical Hebrew and Siddur Study (Lobby) benefit from mutual support and gain practical advice. Group READ HEBREW AMERICA: Once again in meetings are held once a month on Tuesday at the Beatman Center. conjunction with NJOP we are offering a free Crash Jewish Bereavement Group - Spousal Loss Course in Hebrew reading. This course will take place (for older adults): The Shira Ruskay Center of Riverdale invites on Wednesdays in the Main Lobby, 7:00pm - 7:45pm. you to share the journey of loss while gaining strength from each Upcoming dates are: 9/14, 9/21, 9/28. other. The group will meet for six sessions at the Beatman Center Questions? Please contact the teacher Sara Kinberg at 718-548-2461. from 10:00 - 11:30am. Final Session Date: 9/15. *Sara Kinberg is an experienced Hebrew teacher. For info and guidance on Shoulda, Woulda, Coulda: An interactive high holiday program placement, please call Sara at 718-548-2461 Payment made directly to focusing on growth and moving forward in life. Please join us as we the teacher. explore the connection between regrets, forgiveness and redemption. Torah Lishma Begins a New Year on Sept. 13 and 15 Wednesday, September 21st at 7:30pm. Lower Level BM. RSVP to Anna or to Rav Steven (718-796-4730 x.108) Come and Learn Bible, Talmud, Parshat HaShavua and Responsa Literature with Rav Steven Exler of HIR, The Bayit; Rabbi Jeff Fox of Do you know someone who needs any of the following? Yeshivat Maharat; and Rabbi Dov Lerea of Yeshiva Chovevei Torah Would you like to volunteer for any of these committees? (YCT).
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