The Rivah Visitor’s Guide • June 2005 66 How do you know when you’re ‘there’? When then becomes now by Tom Chillemi Why does Friday seem to take so long to arrive, but the weekend goes by so quickly? And, have you ever noticed that it seems to take longer to get some place that you really want to be, like the Rivah; while the trip home seems to go much quicker? These are some of the conflicts of “here” and “there”—problems caused by anticipating goals, be they good or bad. “There” is the goal, where you want to be. “Here” is where you are. The “here and there conflict” is also evident in time goals— “now and then.” For instance Being “here” is not where most want to be. They’d rather be “there.” Fridays, or your vacation time at the Rivah, come too slow and your time “there” is over too fast. Getting ‘there’ Is there a way to combat this “here and there” conflict. was not my goal Hold onto that Rivah attitude! “There” always seems to be further away than it is, espe- anyhow. Being As you approach an unwanted goal or des- stop or turn, without notice. Tailgating puts cially when you really antic- tination, like Monday morning, time will you in a defensive mode; you must be pre- ipate getting there. (Are we ‘here’ on the seem to go faster. pared to stop—a four-letter word to racers. almost there yet?) But, if you really want to be some place, Slow down, don’t think about getting Even if “there” is good, after water was my time will seem to go slow and your trip “there.” Find something “here” to enjoy. you’ve been “there” for a while goal. And I was will seem longer. This all comes from being Look out the side window at the things it begins to feel like “here,” “here,” but wanting to be “there” (see related you’ve whizzed past for years. You never then it’s time to go “there,” already ‘there.’ story). know what you might see. A truly happy again. Anticipating goals can lead a tense internal person is one who can enjoy the scenery on a The cycle doesn’t end unless state. A balance must be struck. Here are a detour. you make it stop. And some few tips for relaxing at the Rivah. Once, faced with a long line of cars behind people are only happy a short est when floating on a boat. First, a few deep breaths of Rivah air can a school bus, I pulled into the tiny Cobbs time “here,” then they want Maybe that’s why we like rock- chase away your cares. Any air will do, but Creek Market in Mathews and found out they to be “there”—until they are ing chairs, swings, tri-cycles, Rivah air is best. And, the best part, the air is make homemade pies from scratch (make there—then it’s time to again boats, planes and go-go-going. free. mine coconut cream). You know what else, go somewhere . . . any where. Finding contentment This may sound crazy at fi rst, but in a that traffi c cleared. Let me out of here! It’s almost impossible to just stressful situation breathing becomes shal- The difference between hurrying and taking It springs from the hope that sit on a front porch and enjoy low. Some people even unconsciously hold your time is probably about three to fi ve min- things will be better “there.” the view, if something is both- their breath. (This goes back to when we utes, which is not worth getting your bowels And they will be, for a while. ering you. You can’t enjoy were hiding from tigers and didn’t want them in an uproar or stomach in a knot. Then it’s time to go. being “here” if your mind is to hear us.) Did you ever pass someone on the road, Even dogs want to go “there,” “there.” Remember to exhale the old air out. then stop to get gas and see them go cruising make the daily rounds and It’s easier to stay on the porch A cell phone can also ruin your day of lei- by? Who won that race, the tortoise or the socialize. In nature, movement if you want less. Chasing more sure at the Rivah. Try “forgetting” to charge hare? is necessary to find food and to of everything wears you down. the phone’s battery. Relax your goals before the trip. Don’t stay alive. And from the way “The more you have invested Here at the Rivah some people move, and make commitments; they put you in a time humans have created excuses in something, the more it owns drive, like it was 50 years ago. This slowing bind. Pad your ETA by 30 minutes, or even to move around, it seems essen- you, and your time,” said Jamie down is good for the nerves. an hour, to allow for delays that are either tial to our lives. Barnhardt who, incidentally, When you get behind an old truck, whose intentional or due to circumstances. Being How many forms of enter- owns a British sports car resto- driver has his hat cocked to one side, a dog early is never as much a problem as being tainment have evolved from ration business. on the seat, and going 15 mph below the late. that movement? Just about all It’s a good thing to have limit, drop back. Tailgating will do no good When leaving the Rivah, remember to shift of them. something to look forward to, on a two-lane road. These drivers are prone to gears—you are re-entering the fast lane. Here’s a clue about human so long as the future doesn’t nature. Our 5-month-old grand- invade the present. daughter Gabriella doesn’t like Remember, if you anticipate stop-and-go traffic and she the future too much you ruin “People ought to stay where Commitments place else. They’re not “here” cries in traffic jams. She likes the chance to enjoy and savor they are,” I said to the old Have you ever known people in their mind; they’re already the harmonic vibrations of a the moment—the here and now. waterman. who, the whole time you’re “there,” working towards a car moving at least 40 miles You will get so excited you “That’s what they said about trying to talk to them, look over goal, even wanting that goal to per hour. I’m told that while in can’t sit still. And, then it’s you when you came here,” he your shoulder or at their watch? be over. They stack up goals so the womb, she was the calm- goodbye to the front porch. replied. They have commitments some- (more on the next page) 67 The Rivah Visitor’s Guide • June 2005 Patriotic Art Show deadline is June 21 In an effort to honor our country, military and everyday heroes, the Bay School Cultural Arts Center invites all artists to exhibit in its fi rst annual Patri- otic Art Show. All mediums including, but not limited to, poetry, prose, sculpture, painting, works on paper, carvings, fi ber, jewelry, etc., will be welcome. They may not exceed 30 x 40 inches and artwork must be ready to hang. The subject matter must evoke feelings of patriotism and love of the USA. Artists will be allowed to dis- play up to three pieces. Dead- Getting “there” is half the fun. line for applications is June 21. Show dates are July 2-16. Pre- Getting there . . . . (from the previous page) view and reception will be July 1 from 6 to 8 p.m. at the Bay School. that no matter how hard they Making goals After weeks of the urban life, There is no fee to exhibit. try, they can only think about Between being here and there some of these people still in Please join us and show your the future, not the present. we create imaginary goals, such hyper drive end up “here” at A truly happy patriotic spirit. All the while, you dream of as getting through a traffic light the Rivah. But in their minds, For an application, contact the tomorrow, but when you get while it’s green. (Ding-dong! they are still “there.” person is one Bay School Cultural Arts Center “there,’ then it’s “here.” You win bonus time.) Things move slower at the at 804-725-1278 or visit our The conflict begins the How about this for a here and Rivah. The sooner you get used who can enjoy website at
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Essex taville. 776-6463. Gas and diesel, Milford Haven sewage pumpout, ship’s store, Rappahannock River • Gwynn’s Island Boatel, Route boatel, hull and engine repair, • Garrett’s Marina, 339 Catch 669, Hudgins, next to the Milford modern restrooms, boat ramp, Penny Lane at Bowler’s Wharf, at Haven Coast Guard Station. Gas swimming pool, laundrom at, con- Buoy 19 on Rappahannock River. and oil, depth at fueling dock, venience market, travel lift, forklift, 443-2573. Gas, ship’s store, engine 4 feet. Minor repairs and bottom Delta boat sales and brokerage. repair service, boat sales, launch- paint ing. Small ship’s store, ice, • Regatta Point Yacht Club Nep- ing ramp, restrooms, showers and bait and fi shing supplies. Dry stor- tune Lane, Deltaville. 776-8400, boat storage. age only. Sewage pumpout, show- open and covered slips to 70’, club • Harborside Storage at Garrett’s ers and restrooms. 725-9343. house,. ,meeting/conference room, Marina. 443-0190. Fully enclosed • Pulley’s Marine, Rt. 633, Grim- pool, wireless internet access, con- dry stack storage, covered boatel stead, Gwynn’s Island. 725-3814. crete fl oating docks. and covered wet slips. On Milford Haven (near marker #6) • Stingray Harbor Marina, end of • June Parker Marina, 531 Church north of the U. S. Coast Guard Sta- Route 33 near Stingray Point, Del- Lane, off Rt. 17, Tappahannock. tion. Repairs and service. Sales taville. 776-7272. Sail and power 443-2131. High/dry storage, ship’s of three boat engine brands. 6’ boat slips. store, boat ramp, and slips. The water depth. Ships store, fi shing • Walden’s Marina, Deltaville. marina is also the home of Rivah licenses, offi cial weigh station for 776-9440. 60 covered and open Marine. the Virginia Saltwater Fishing Tour- boat slips, ship’s store, gas and The Great Wicomico River Marina is in Northumberland nament, ramp nearby, no sewage diesel fuel, restrooms, pumpout Gloucester County. pumpout. facility, full-service boatyard, hull Glenns • Narrow’s Marina, Route 223, and en gine repair, bait, transient • Friday’s Marine, Routes 17 and Grimstead. Gas, diesel, oil, ice, space, railway, travel lift. 33, Glenns. 758-4131. Suzuki out- 642-4766. At mouth of Sarah’s Meyer Creek depth at fueling dock, 10 feet; Fishing Bay board engines sales and repair. Creek after green marker #9. Gas, • Yankee Point Marina, at the 27-ton lift and repairs. Motel, pool, • Deagle’s Boatyard Inc., 548 Most outboards serviced, marine diesel, 10 foot depth at fuel dock, end of Route 610 in Ottoman near showers and toilets. 725-2151. Deagles Rd, Deltaville. 776-9741. store. sewage pumpout, ship’s store, ice, the Merry Point Ferry. Gas/diesel, North River Ship’s store, hull and en gine Perrin River hull and engine repair, full service free sewage pumpout, ship’s store, • Mobjack Bay Marina, Route repair, restrooms, travel lift, rail- • B. R. Marine Service and Rail- yard or do-it-yourself. 35 and 60 repairs, slips, boat sales, rest- 617, North. On Green Mansion Cove way, dinghy sales, shedding tank way, 9417 Boatyard Lane, Bena. ton lifts, car rental nearby, show- rooms, launching ramp. 462-7018. on eastern side of North River near sales. 642-2282. On the Perrin River; ers, restrooms, pool and picnic yankeepointmarina.com. marker 2. Gas, diesel and oil, depth • Fishing Bay Harbor Marina, 519 ship’s store, hull and engine repair, area, transient slips. Home of Riv- at fuel dock, 4 feet at low tide. Pri- Deagles Rd., Deltaville. 776-6800. full service yard, railway. Rest- er’s Inn Restaura nt and Crab Deck. Mathews marily a sailboat marina. Repairs Gas and diesel, sewage pumpout, rooms. No transient slips. Severn River Cobbs Creek to hulls, electrical systems, minor ship’s store, modern restrooms, • Crown Pointe Marina, 9737 • Severn River Marina on Wil- • Ginney Point Marina, end of en gine repairs and bottom paint- swimming pool, laundromat, bicy- Cook’s Landing Lane, Hayes, let’s Creek near marker #4, 3398 Rt. 628, Cobbs Creek. 725-7407. At ing. 20-ton travel lift. Dockage, cles. 642-6177. On Perrin River off of Stonewall Road, Hayes. 642-6969. Piankatank River and Cobbs Creek; boat ramp, dry storage, sewage • Porpoise Cove Marina, from the York River at end of Route A new marina off Mobjack Bay. Full depth at fuel dock, 5.5 feet; gas, pumpout, showers and restrooms, Route 1102 turn right on Porpoise 1102. Gas, diesel, ice, pumpout, service repairs with 75-ton travel, diesel and oil; ramp, ice, toilets ice, ship’s store. 725-7245. Cove Lane, Deltaville. 776-6629 or ship’s store, 20-ton travel lift, wet and dry storage, ship’s store, and show ers, electric boat for char- Middlesex 1-800-936-2683. Located on cove restrooms, showers, ramp. Fishing transient facilities and other ame- ter. Nearby: groceries, bait, meals off Piankatank River, 52 slips cov- charters, two pools, 235 slips plus nities. and lodging. Engine, hull, elec- Broad Creek ered and open, transients welcome, transient slips. Lancaster trical and sail repairs; slip rental, • Chesapeake Cove Marina, Rt. water and electrical hookups, bath Piankatank River wet, dry, open and covered boat 1110, Deltaville. 776-6855. Gas house, transportation available, • Freeport Marina, off Route Carter’s Creek storage; limited marine supplies, and diesel fuel, sewage pumpout, beach. 198 at Route 673. 693-4217. Gas, • Irvington Marina, at the end one rental apartment. ship’s store, hull and engine repair, Jackson Creek paddleboat and rowboat rentals, of Carter’s Creek Road in Irvington. Davis Creek restrooms, Reel Joy & Finatic • Deltaville Boat Yard, Route bait, tackle and handicrafts. Store Gas/diesel, some repairs, masts and • Davis Creek Marina, one mile fi shing charters, travel lift. Prop 683, Deltaville, 776-8900. Hull and is a historic landm ark. Open 9 a.m. rigging, slips, restrooms, sewage from New Point Comfort Light- service and Chesapeake Electric engine repair, dry storage, fi ber- to 6 p.m. on Saturdays and 10 pumpout, haul-out. 438-5113. house, off of Route 689 in Bavon. (generator and alter nator repair). glass repair, carpentry work, travel a.m. to 6 p.m. Sundays starting • Marina at The Tides Inn, Gas, diesel, 10 ft. depth at fuel • Coastal Marine Inc. Route 33, lift, full service yard. Memorial Day. 480 King Carter Drive, Irvington. dock, ice, beer, bait, ship’s store Deltaville, 776-6585. Full service • Deltaville Marina, Route 683, Rowes Creek Gas/diesel, sewage pumpout, mini with snack foods, boat ramp, dry boatyard for power & sail, 50-ton Deltaville, 776-9812. Gas and • Holiday Marina, Severn Wharf ship’s store, showers, laundry, storage and wet slips for com- travel-lift, compete engine and diesel, sewage pumpout, ship’s Road, on Rowes Creek off the Sev- dining, lodging, slips, re strooms, mercial and pleasure boats, rest- me chanical shop, specializes in store, restrooms, swimming pool, ern River. 642-2528. Gas, diesel, access to golf, ten nis and rooms and showers. No repairs. repair of Mercury outboards. Laundromat. ice, showers, restrooms, transient swimming pools. 438-6400. 725-2452. • Deltaville Yachting Center, LaGrange Creek slips, marine parts, full service tidesinn.com Chesapeake Bay Rt. 33, Deltaville. 776-9898. Gas, • Remlik Marina Resort and ma rina, hull and engine repair, • Rappahannock Yachts/Sanders • Horn Harbor Marina, on Route ship’s store, clubhouse, pool, hull Mike’s Marine Services, 485 Burch 60-ton lift, ramp, sewage pump- Yacht Yard, at 70 Rappahan n ock 710, Port Haywood. 725-3223. and engine repair, rigging service, Rd, near Urbanna. 758-5450, (Fax) out Road in Irving ton. Ship’s store, Located north of New Point Com- forklift, travel lift, boatel, yard 758-3015. Full-service boatya rd, Sarah’s Creek slips, repairs, restrooms. fort on Horn Harbor, gas, diesel, storage, yacht service. Chesapeake hull and engine repairs, ship’s • Gloucester Point Marina, 438-5353. ice, six-foot depth. Pool, showers, Yacht Sales, dealer for Catalina store, pumpout, 30 ton travel lift, Gloucester Point. 642-2334 (24 Greenvale Creek restrooms, pumpout; 15-ton travel sailboats and Albin and Carolina swimming pool, restrooms, onshore hours). On Route 1228, Marina • Greenvale Creek Marina, on lift, 80-ton railway. Hull repairs for Classic power boats. win ter storage, gas, 99 covered Way, at Sarah’s Creek off the Fairweather Lane near the end of fi berglass and wood. Covered and • J&M Marina, Route 1112, slips. York River. Store, food, bait, ice, Rt. 624. Sewage pumpout, ship’s open slips. Deltaville. 776-9860. Launching Locklies Creek restrooms, showers, wet and dry store, repairs, slips, restrooms, East River ramps, travel lift, railway, boat • Locklies Marina, Route 621, storage, lift. Power wash and paint, launching ramp. 462-0646. • Zimmerman Marine, Rt. 650, repair, open and covered slips, new Topping. 758-2871 or 1-888- minor repairs. greenvalecreekmarina.com Car dinal. 725-3440.On the west and used boat sales, restrooms. 860-1014. Gas and diesel fuel, • Jordan Marine Service, Jordan Indian Creek side of the East River, about two • Norton’s Yacht Sales Inc., Del- ship’s store, dry storage, 18 char- Road, Gloucester Point, on Sarah’s • Chesapeake Boat Basin, 1686 miles from the Mobjack Bay at taville. 776-9211. Boat slips, gas ter boats moor at the facility, Creek off the York River, 642-4360. Waverly Avenue, Kilm arnock. Gas/ navigation marker 13: depth at and diesel fuel, sewage pumpouts, restrooms, two launching ramps, Sewage pumpout, 12-ton and diesel, complete ship’s store, dock 6.5 feet at high tide; engine, restrooms, 35-ton travel lift, new boat rentals, picnic tables. 60-ton travel lifts, paint and hull inboard/outboard engine repairs, hull, electrical and radio repairs; and used boat sales, dealer for • Regent Point Marina Inc., Top- repairs, wet and dry storage, show- Suzuki dealer, Triton boats dealer, can haul power boats up to 55’ Hunter sailboats and Jeanneau ping. 758-4457. Sewage pumpout, ers and restrooms. brokerage sales, slips, restrooms, and sailboats up to 60’ and 35 yachts, ASA sailing school and sail- clean restrooms and showers, boat • York River Yacht Haven, launch ing ramp, ice. 435-3110. tons. No dockage or marina ser- ing char ters, full service. Gloucester Point. 642-2156, Fax, chesapeakeboatbasin.com vices. • Norview Marina, Route 33, Del- (more on the next page) The Rivah Visitor’s Guide • June 2005 70 more Marinas in the Bay Region
(from the previous page) laundry room, restrooms/showers, boat and engines, travel lift. Route 3, West of Montross, A public water slips in protected harbor, boat with trailer storage, 200 cov- 394-9500. whelansmarina.com. boat ramp is located at the park. transients welcome. Ship’s store, ramp for lease holders, sailboats ered and open slips, transients Gas, ice, bait and fi shing supplies fuel, electric, laundry and modern only, playground for children, cov- wel come. 529-6868. Westmoreland are available for sale. Paddle- bath houses, slip rentals, boat ered picnic area, storage lockers, Great Wicomico River boats and rowboats can be rented ramp, sewage pumpout, pool, boatyard service including hauling • Great Wicomico Marine off Lower Machodoc Creek Memorial Day through Labor Day. laundry, picnic area, restaurant, and ground storage available. Route 200 at Burgess, gas, launch- • Branson’s Cove Marina, 284 Kayaking classes and tours are campground, lodging. Full ser- Urbanna Creek ing ramp, re strooms, showers. Bransons Cove Road, Coles Point, also held periodically. 493-8821 vice marina and boat yard. Home • Dozier’s Port Urbanna Yacht- 453-3351. Boat ramp, slip rentals, fuel, store, Yeocomico River of The Mooring Restaurant. ing Center, 1 Waterfront Street, Towles Creek snack bar and sewage pump-out. • Kinsale Harbour Yacht Club portkinsale.com or 472-2044. Ur banna. 758-0000. Hull and • Ingram Bay Marina at the end 472-3866 and Restaurant, Highway 203 in • White Point Marina, 175 en gine repair, restroom, outside of Route 609 near Wicomico Church. Mattox Creek Kinsale. Deep water slips, show- Marina Drive in Kinsale. Slip boat storage facilities, covered Gas/diesel, sewage pumpout, ship’s • Harbor View Marina, Route 664 ers, swimming pool, tennis court, rentals, fuel, sewage pumpout, slips to 70’, club house, 40 ton store, tackle/bait shop, fi shing and in Oak Grove, Slip rentals, show- and restaurant. Transients wel- showers, haul-out/railway facil- lift. cruise charters, private or party ers, pool, snack bar, boat sales come. 472-2514 ities, full service repairs. • Urbanna Bridge Marina, at boat charters, boat/canoe rentals, and repairs, fuel, sewage pump- • Port Kinsale Marina & Resort, whitepointmarina.com or foot of Watling Street adjacent to restrooms/showers, launching out. 224-9265 Route 608 in Kinsale, 96 deep 472-2977. Urbanna Creek Bridge. 758-8503. ramp. 580-7292. Monroe Bay 44 slips, transient dock, bath Yeocomico River • Nightingale’s Motel & Marina, and shower facilities, pumpout • Krentz Marine Railway on Route 101 Monroe Bay Ave.. Transient station, recreational area, restau- 622, Harryhogan Road. Sewage slips, restrooms, restaurant next rant access, apart ment complex pumpout, ship’s store (hardware door, motel accommodations. for yearly rental, mobile mechan- and ma rine supplies only), hull 224-7956 2UARK -ARINAS )NC ics, convenient to gas and diesel and engine re pair, restrooms, slip • Stanford’s Marina & Railway, pumps. rentals. 529-6851. 829 Robin Grove Lane, Working • Urbanna Yachting Center, foot • The Fishing Center at the boatyard, slip rentals, haul and &ISHING