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He editor’s Many of our favorite features with a commitment to the local is a journalist, remain—news pages, opinion communities we serve and those musician, filmmaker and fitness columns, Overheard, Shot on Site, talented individuals who entertain trainer who lives in NYC. He covers local news, politics and arts and us. entertainment for Watermark. with our new layout, things have True, we all want to read those shifted.Market Place and Gallery W. But big celebrity interviews that show Greg Burton, Erik Caban, Scottie Campbell, In this rebooted format, you’ll up in mainstream publications Kirk Hartlage, Rev. Phyllis Hunt, notice that our Letters to the Editor like People and US Weekly—and Steve Blanchard section and our editorial cartoon Joseph Kissel, Ken Kundis, Billy Masters, we will surely have some of those Mary Meeks, Scott Manning, EDITOR are directly across from this page, this year. 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RLANDO | Randy Ross is a name many LGBTs recognize in Central Florida. He was heavily Oinvolved with AIDS Walk Orlando and is known for his social media campaigning for a variety of causes. Orange County Mayor But now, the openly gay Orlando resident is on a new Teresa Jacobs path of recognition—he has announced his candidacy for Orlando City Council. Ross hopes to represent District 1, SEEING RED: LGBT supporters wore red and filled county chambers when a Human Rights Ordinance was before the Orange County Commission in 2010. Activists hope for a similar showing should the domestic partner registry make it onto the county’s agenda. International Airport and Lake Nona. Currently the an area that meanders from Delaney Park to the Orlando post to run for Mayor. district is served by Phil Diamond, who will resign his late December. Jacobs’ silence worries activists Ross’Ross will central face campaign Stephen Rayle, issue whois to create�iled paperwork new jobs in in
Orlando by proposing new programs like the “50 x 3” encouraging couples to tell the twoOrlando years. Job Fair Plan, which would require the City of Emergency meeting will discuss county how the registry would OrlandoRoss saidto sponsor the goal a ofjob his fair job every fair program90 days for would the nextto improve their lives and organizing put at least 150 unemployed Orlando residents back appearances by supportive to work every 90 days. When asked, how his job plans community members at county partner registry meetings. “We’re getting the impression might bridge the gap between af�luent neighborhoods next step on Orange Co. domestic from people inside the homeless,like Delaney he Park did not and have Lake a Nonasimple in solution. District 1 and Jamie Hyman administration that [Jacobs] is not impoverished“There is no communities easy answer,” like he Paramoresaid. “The orbest the thing that [email protected] countyconcerned employees, about the and same-sex she got really keen on going forward with we can do is get people back to work.” thatdomestic done partnerlast April,” bene�its said Randy for this,” Stephens said. “It’s time for RANGE COUNTY | Central the community to step up and we orientation is one of the last things he has considered Florida’s LGBT activists The (LGBT) Center. “Since then, whenWhile it comes he doesn’t to campaigning—something keep his sexuality a secret, he learnedhis a are calling an emergency weStephens, have been executive talking director to her about of muscles.” O needMeeks them said to start she thinks �lexing their as he campaigned for a seat on the Orange County School meeting to address the issue of the registry and she keeps putting a countywide domestic partner it off. First it was going to be by activists are “heading into the Board.lot about when he �irst sought public of�ice 12 years ago the end of summer, then by the home stretch” as far as a county “I saw the many challenges teachers faced and wanted they’re on schedule with the end of 2011.” domestic partner registry goes. to work to help make teachers happier in their jobs,” said proposal.registry, but county of�icials said There’s a Ross. Attorney and Orlando Anti- scheduled Despite his passion, Ross ran his School Board Discrimination Ordinance (OADO) meeting campaign in fear. committee member Mary Meeks “Nothing’s really changed, so I’m between LGBT “It was frightening, I was worried that people would not sure what the fuss is about.” leaders and County mayor Teresa Jacobs about Mayor Jacobs Ross came out at 36. Now at 46, he said he is more thesaid domestic she �irst metpartner with registry Orange —STEVE TRIGGS, JACOBS’ SPOKESPERSON on Jan. 26 to concerned�ind out that about I was issues gay,” said like Ross.unemployment, crime, in December 2010, after Jacobs discuss the pedestrian safety, elderly care, and disadvantaged youth. had been elected but before issue. Amid increasing concerns that “We’ve kind of been getting The Employment Guide in Orlando through Trader City of Orlando has approved a Jacobs has decided against moving rumblings that [Jacobs] doesn’t Ross has past experience with job fairs after launching domesticshe took of�ice. partner Since registry. then, Whilethe forward with the registry, the quite understand it or understand city’s largest job fairs to date during a time of relatively the city was engaged in the OADO has called an emergency the need for it, so we’re trying lowPublishing unemployment. Company in 1999. He says it was one of the process, Orlando mayor Buddy meeting at The Center for Monday, to ramp things up to make sure He claims creating more jobs will help deal with other Dyer reached out to Mayor Jacobs, Jan. 9 at 6:30 p.m. The meeting she does understand,” Meeks issues in Orlando like homelessness and crime. encouraging her to approve the is open to the public, with the said, adding that the emergency With a crime rate of 104 per 1,000 residents, Orlando registry alongside the city, but purpose of organizing a letter- meeting is to let the community also has one of the highest crime rates in America. Jacobs opted not to do so. writing campaign, educating the “[Mayor Jacobs] was more community about the registry, Continued on page 14 | | Continued on page 10 | |
JAN. 5 - JAN.18, 2012 // ISSUE 19.01 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. 9 in order and acts. If she decides in January of 2012 not to have a | | Teresa Jacobs from pg.10 registry, I don’t think we’re going | | Randy Ross from pg.10 Gay Christian Network coming to Orlando to have another shot.” churches should do more to However, Steve Triggs, a Ross helped start a Crime Watch Staff Report support gays; Jeremy Marks, an couple of weeks, ahead spokesperson for Mayor Jacobs, in his neighborhood after a string ofknow the thatJan. 26the meeting, next “is said “everything is progressing as of robberies and a neighbor was | The Gay who has reversed his position the critical time that our planned” on the county’s end. murdered. RLANDO Christian Network on“ex-gay” the issue organization and Justin founder Lee, community can either “The Mayor’s been meeting The community as a whole has Conference will be convince or not convince with legal staff and she’s sent common concerns, and embracing O Gay Christian Network. Online held Jan 5–8 at the Doubletree mayor Jacobs that we them back for more research,” diversity is key to bring everyone to by Hilton Orlando. The annual registrationthe executive is director closed, butof The $160 need a registry.” Triggs said. “Nothing’s really the same table, Ross said. He cited conference is open to both LGBT registration at the hotel is still Stephens said once changed, so I’m not sure what all his work with Title I school children, and LGBT-supportive Christians, available. the registry comes the fuss is about.” the Orlando Inner-City Games, The city of Orlando’s domestic and attracted more than 400 The Gay Christian Network
orlando before the Board of also known as the After-School All- attendees at its 2011 event in County Commissioners Stars, and his work with HIV/AIDS Nashville. Christians who happen to the registry will have partnership, outlines the fundraising. According to a release, is a nonpro�it ministry serving the necessary support, registrationpartner registry process de�ines and domesticprovides “There isn’t one particular speakers include: Misty Irons, a transgender, and those who care with at least four of an overview of protections answer to bridging our community,” straight Conservative who thinks aboutbe lesbian, them. gay, | bisexual, | or seven commissioners provided within a domestic said Ross, using his past success voting in favor. He partnership that has been of raising $20,000 for AIDS Walk said commissioners recognized by the City of Orlando. NEWS Scott Boyd, Jennifer Those protections include way to bring people to do a common Ex-partners to share parental rights Thompson, Ted Edwards hospital visitation, rights to health thingOrlando together.” as an example. “ou �ind a and Tiffany Moore Russell have care decisions, guardianship As he gears up for the campaign and the right for both domestic Wire Report The Fifth District Court committed to approving the season, he says being out empowers of Appeal in Daytona Beach domestic partner registry. partners to participate in the him to not only support LGBT education of their children. It was overturned a lower court decision “The problem is getting it equality, but also make a greater AYTONA BEACH | A that had been made in favor of the before them,” Stephens said. approved unanimously by city impact in the entire Orlando Florida appellate court commissioners Dec. 12. Couples birth mother. Meeks said it’s now or never. community with no fear only says two former lesbian The appellate court says the “I think she’s going to make can register beginning Jan. 12. freedom. D partners both have parental biological mother’s constitutional the decision now, because that’s To read more about the battle “2012 is a great time to be who rights to a daughter born with one for a countywide registry, read rights to equal protection and how Mayor Jacobs works,” Meeks you really are,” he said. mother donating the egg and the privacy were violated with the said. “She has an agenda. She lines Meeks’ opinion piece on page 17. City Commission elections are other mother giving birth. | | lower court decision. | | things up; she addresses things slated for April 3. | |
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AMPA | It’s a big election year, and the Florida GLBTA Democratic Caucus is wasting no time Tpreparing. The organization’s annual Winter Conference is the weekend of Feb. 10 at the Metro Community and Wellness Center in Ybor City. “We want to make sure that we show not only the state of Florida, but our country and the world that there Photo by Nick Cardello are progressive democrats and LGBT democrats here,”
huge in this election and we will have the national and said Sally Phillips, president of the caucus. “Tampa is is going to be here in August.” Out in the Open internationalDetails of the spotlight conference, on us calledbecause “Brick the GOP by Brick: convention gatheringPaving the will Path focus to Equality,” on strategizing were still and under how wrapsto support theat press group’s time, 13 but chapters Phillips stretched did say that across the the three-day state. “I was raised by a Catholic and a Michael Smith shares how he shed Southern Baptist,” Smith said. “I was is to host breakout sessions that focus on training that always taught in church that it as The purpose of the conference, according to Phillips, wrong to be gay and that something the year. It also serves as a fundraiser. Money raised at was wrong with anyone who was.” attendees can then practice out in the �ield throughout openly gay commissioner It wasn’t until after working closely on the successful campaigns “It’sthe conference important forwill us fund to be actions involved toward at every speci�ic level.” goals. “Everything politically affects LGBTs,” Phillips said. his fear and becamelong-time Largo’s incumbent �irst Mary Gray of Hillsborough County Commission- Details on the Winter Conference will be released on Steve Blanchard the group’s Facebook page. Visit FloridaGLBTDemocrats. [email protected] Black, who tried to leverage Smith’s City Councilman Steve Kornell that org for more information. | | meeting shortly before the election. er Kevin Beckner and St. Petersburg ARGO | Largo’s newest City sexuality against him at a town hall when it comes to seeking public Commissioner is all smiles incumbent and a move that Smith Smith saw that sexuality is irrelevant when he says hello during believesIt was a planhelped that him back�ired win. for the Tampa Bay sees L myself,of�ice. ‘What am I afraid of?’” Smith a recent interview at a Starbucks “Largo is seeing progress,” Smith said. “There’s a focus on arts, culture said.“After “It was that time experience to be myself.” I had to ask 30-year-old is fresh off a November and becoming a destination for Eventually Smith, who is a Senior 10% of state’s hate crimes Coffee shop in Pinellas County. The tourism. The city is evolving. It’s my Wire Report responsibilitywin to become he the takes city’s to �irst-ever heart. Library Assistant atcame the Pinellas out to his openly gay elected of�icial, and it’s a family,Park Library, friends “It’s a tough balance because the “I can show them that I’m a AMPA | Based on statistics released by the and co-workers. Both his parents for things and those on the other gay man and that doesn’t mean the hate crimes committed in 2010 were in sidegay community are watching expects everything you to you push were supportive, TFlorida Attorney General’s of�ice, 10% of the Tampa Bay area. While most of those crimes were do to make sure you’re not pushing I’m some scary monster.” he said. He soon wore through some agenda,” said Smith, —LARGO COMMISSIONER MICHAEL SMITH orientation. his rainbow motivatedThroughout by race, the 21%Tampa were Bay motivated area, law byenforcement sexual bracelet, which he knew would on his left wrist. “All I can do is be job to show the voters and residents agencies reported investigating 15 hate crimes in 2010. myself.who wears I can a bringrainbow things Pride up—like bracelet here that I’m just like everyone else. present opportunities to come out to the fact I don’t have the same ben- That stigma [of being a gay commis- more people, he lost more than 100 pounds and met Eric, his partner of sioner] will go away.” Of those,Hillsborough three were County based did on not sexual report orientation—two any hate crimes in because my relationship isn’t legally more than a year. Pinellas County and one in Pasco County. “This huge rock was lifted off my recognized.e�its as the straight I can show commissioners them that I’m will fade, Smith knows personally crimes motivated by race, the report said. shoulders,” Smith said about coming a gay man and that doesn’t mean I’m While he’s con�ident the stigma basedFor onmore sexual information orientation, on thebut state’sdid investigate hate crime three out. some scary monster.” statistics of 2010, see State News on page 16. | | Smith won the November elec- camehow dealing out only with three sexuality years ago— can take tion with 54% of the vote, unseating whentime. The he was Pinellas 27. County native Continued on page 14 | |
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| | Michael Smith from pg.13 you have higher crime and more injuries.and �ire department.I also want to Without protect thoseour The commissioner said parks.” he strives to be transpar- Smith also spoke of current low ent in all aspects of his interest rates, which he sees as an West appointed to life--including sharing his opportunity for structural improve- ments in the city. commissioner was diag- “Money is tight,” he said. “But if historical advisory board battle with dyslexia. The we don’t act now, rates will go up he was in grade school, and it will cost more in the fu- Staff Report economic story.” nosed with dyslexia when ture. Construction is cheaper now In July 2011, only two county because contractors are looking for commissioners signed the with that disability to en- AMPA | History lovers and uses his experience work and need the work.” proclamation celebrating GaYbor courage students to read. in Hillsborough County It’s a lot to juggle, but he’s Days, which highlights the “If a parent comes into have a new advocate the library looking for anything but intimidated. Rather, he T economic impact of the coalition in their corner. In December, sees an opportunity to continue the in the historic area of Tampa. books on disabilities, I’m GaYbor District Coalition West’s position on the board is quick to share my story president and MC Film Fest co- CAPTURING HISTORY: tampa bay years ago gained national attention a three-year appointment and Carrie West was appointed an advisory with them,” Smith said. owner Carrie West was named whenevolution then-commissioners of Largo, which just voted �ive Hagan credits the former City board to preserve Hillsborough’s history. “There are ways to handle to the Hillsborough Historical Council candidate’s historically disabilities if you have the Advisory Board by Ken Hagan, conscience past. right tools. I’m proof of chairman of the Hillsborough revealingto �ire City plans Manager to undergo Steve Stanton. gender appointed by commissioners. that.” County Board of Commissioners. reassignmentStanton was �ired surgery shortly and after become to you the importance the county ItsTerrace mission and is Plant to support City and and our Smith is committed to “I am pleased for the Susan Stanton. places“I cannot on your adequately participation,” express facilitate a uniform historical advancing LGBT rights appointment,” said West. “Just six
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After a year of rumors, Sarasota be veryBarnett popular expects and the details celebrates the opening of ‘Throb’ areclub’s available VIP bottle on Throb’sservice to new website, Throb.me. sarasota Steve Warne prayers have been answered, and “Anybody who wants to [email protected] Throb Nightclub is now open for have a fabulous time can do business. that here,” Barnett said. “If With a capacity of 1,000, upscale you want to celebrate your ARASOTA | Sarasota has birthday or anniversary on OMG FOR VIP: Throb’s VIP Services Manager Ronny Barnett stands in the lounge a checkered past when it Throb is everything Sarasota has a large scale, why not have area of Sarasota’s newest and only full-time LGBT night club. | Photo by Steve Warne Scomes to nightlife. Through wantedVIP lounges and more.and bottle service, it in a fabulous location the years, there have been bars, “Throb is a new creature for Sara- have soft pink walls and chandeliers.” Barnett said, “and we can do it on a like this? Have a great time lounges and clubs. But none have The name, Throb Nightclub, also grand scale and do it well!” without having to worry endured, and many have become seems to be edgy, but Barnett points On New Year’s Eve, Carmen about it. Let us worry about infamous after their demise with Managersota County—nothing at Throb. Located like this in an exists,” out, “Throb clearly goes with the beat it!” a few gaining infamy during their industrialsaid Ronny area Barnett, of North the VIPSarasota Services off of the music, and that’s what we are Drag Race made an appearance and Throb Nightclub’s short reigns in the limelight. of U.S. 301 (North Washington Blvd.) going to be known for—the music. hostedCarrera a from meet-and-greet Season 3 of beforeRuPaul’s her lounge area is for a 21-year- So when rumors of a new club at 2201 Industrial Blvd., Throb isn’t We have a sound system that will performance. old and up crowd and is started circulating in 2010, locals blow your mind.” open from 2 p.m.-2 a.m. held their breaths in anticipation, the midst of construction businesses daily. A $5 cover is required and many more started to hope and andwhat bike you’d shops. expect “We to were �ind nestledgoing for in instrumental for Throb, and special “At the moment we have two VIP on the weekends. pray that it would become a reality what we call an ‘edgy elegance’ kind eventsThe include�irst year appearances of business by will fa- be suites,” explained Barnett. “The maxi- More information is also available of a vibe,” Barnett said. “You know, mous drag queens, live performances mum capacity for our large VIP suite on a Throb Nightclub app available come to an end. Over a year after you pull up here and it looks indus- and celebrity host DJs. outis 23, in and the thelounge other seat VIP anywhere suite has from a on Android devices. | | theand rumors Sarasota’s began woes circulating, would �inally those trial, and then you walk in and you ‘There are a lot of things coming,” maximum of 10. The private booths
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JAN. 5 - JAN.18, 2012 // ISSUE 19.01 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. 15 BULLET POINTS STATE NEWS HEADLINES IN OTHER NEWS… HIV VACCINE APPROVED FOR Lake Worth fires Susan Stanton HUMAN STUDIES IN CANADA After two decades of research, a group of Canadian scientists has won approval to start testing an Wire Report experimental HIV vaccine on humans. The vaccine, Commissioners Christopher developed by researchers at the University of Western McVoythe decision and Suzanne to �ire Stanton. Mulvehill voted Ontario, has received a green light from the U.S. Food AKE WORTH, FLA. | Susan and Drug Administration for clinical human trials. This Stanton’s term as city $150,000 a year. Triolo cited a month the vaccine, called SAV001, will be given to manager has come to an senseagainst of �iring distrust Stanton, and anger who madeamong 40 healthy people with HIV to test its safety. Previous L abrupt end after 2½ years. Lake studies have shown the vaccine triggers a strong Worth commissioners voted 3-2 immune response and has yet to show any adverse Stanton. McVoy praised Stanton for effects or safety risks. According to the International theresidents professional before staffvoting she to brought �ire AIDS Vaccine Initiative, there are 30 HIV vaccines to city hall and criticized the abrupt currently being tested in phase 1 clinical trials around 2007to �ire from her in her December. longtime Stanton, job as city managerformerly Stevein Largo Stanton, after announcingwas �ired in the world. FIRED!: The City of Lake Worth plans to change her gender. this�iring. dropped on us and on the public unexpectedly voted to fire Susan Stanton NEW YEAR BRINGS SAME-SEX She was hired by Lake Worth, a without“I �ind advance it really notice,” out of line McVoy to have said. during its December meeting, outraging some citizens and disappointing her supporters. CIVIL UNIONS IN DE, HI 2009. Stanton made no comment reckless and irresponsible decision The dawning of the new year in Delaware and Hawaii city in Palm Beach County, in April forMulvehill the best called interests Stanton’s of the �iring city.” “a commission, Stanton said she found brought with it new laws allowing same-sex couples to was silent as she walked out of the Mulvehill praised Stanton for enter into legally recognized civil unions. In Delaware, during the discussion to �ire her, and clearing up many city problems. after she became city manager, the new law took effect at 10 a.m. Jan. 1, but most The vote included the immediate “It was absolutely mayhem in more problems than she expected same-sex couples had to wait until government offices appointmentcrowded chambers of Finance to exit Director City Hall. this city when I came on board in allowed departments to spend reopened Jan. 3 before applying for a license. The Steve Carr as acting city manager. 2008,” she said. “We have made moneyincluding not a approved�inancial system in the budget, that law authorizing civil unions was signed by Gov. Jack state, nation+world state, tremendous progress.” Markell in May before a cheering crowd of supporters in a lack of personnel policies and no has disagreed with Stanton over a downtown Wilmington. Further west, same-sex couples Stanton received a mostly payroll time-recording system. Vice Mayor Scott Maxwell, who in Hawaii began entering into civil unions after a new variety of issues for years, made the favorable evaluation by the “At times, it feels like everything state law went into effect on New Year’s Day. The new commission in April, though then- law allows same-sex and opposite-sex couples to Mayor Rene Varela criticized her Under terms of her contract, Stanton enter into a civil union with the same state rights and motion to �ire her at the beginning for poor relations with residents, needs to be �ixed,” Stanton wrote. responsibilities as traditional marriages. Commissionerof Tuesday’s meeting. Andy Amoroso, Maxwell bothwas employees and other government plus payment for accrued sick and ofjoined whom by wereMayor elected Pam Triolo on Nov. and 8, in leaders. In an April 4 memo to the vacationwill receive time. six |months’ | salary
NEWS CHURCH NATIVITY SCENE WITH GAY FIGURES VANDALIZED Sexual orientation motivated 21% of Florida’s 2010 hate crimes The Christmas Eve vandalism of a California church’s Nativity display that included depictions of gay and Wire Report hate crimes committed throughout orientation. The report states 19.5% lesbian couples is being investigated as a hate crime, Florida. resulted from religious beliefs and police said. The Claremont United Methodist Church 12.7% from ethnicity. display featured silhouettes of three hand-holding ALLAHASSEE | Florida’s Tampa says the hate crimes were Florida reported 148 hate couples—two men, two women and a heterosexual attorney general reports reportedThe �irst-term by local lawRepublican enforcement from crimes in 2009. That was the lowest pair. The vandal knocked over the depictions of the gay that 149 hate crimes were agencies throughout the state number since the state began and lesbian couples but left the straight couple alone, T that provide data to the Florida tracking them in 1990. Hate crime committed in the state in 2010. causing at least $3,000 worth of damage. Department of Law Enforcement. reports peaked in 1992 with 395 More than 46% of the hate cases | | SAME-SEX MARRIAGE weekAttorney of December. General The Pam information Bondi crimes were racially motivated BOOSTS GAY MEN’S HEALTH includesreleased detailsthe 2010 on �igures the types the of last Gay men who live in states where same-sex marriage and 21.5% resulted from sexual is legal are healthier, a new study published online Dec. 15 in the American Journal of Public Health finds. During the 12 months after the 2003 legalization of New group focuses on equality in Charlotte County same-sex marriage in Massachusetts, gay and bisexual men exhibited a significant decrease in medical care Steve Warne created a steering committee of in attendance. It’s Dec. 18 event visits, mental health visits and mental health-care nine volunteers in early 2011. By costs, compared to the 12 months before the law [email protected] organization has focused on social changed. “These findings suggest that marriage was formed and to large fundraisers events,maxed outbut atplans 130 on guests. publishing So far anthe equality may produce broad public health benefits launchedyear’s end, the Equality organization Punta Gordainto LGBT-friendly business directory by reducing the occurrence of stress-related health UNTA GORDA, FLA. | longevity. in Charlotte County and creating conditions in gay and bisexual men,” said author Mark Two Charlotte County Hatzenbuehler. residents determined to P two large “Gay-la’s” last year. For more information, visit do something about the lack of Equality Punta Gorda hosted fundraisers to bene�it non-pro�its. LGBT events in the community | | The �irst was in May and saw 54 EqualityPuntaGorda.org. 16 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. JAN. 5 - JAN.18, 2012 // ISSUE 19.01 watermarkonline.com view Orlando Mayor Buddy Dyer to work assist in any way possible. citizens opposed to the registry. Jacobs together on a registry, Jacobs is still said in a Watermark interview last year uncommitted and unenthused. vetted the proposed registry ordinance that, although she opposes marriage The envisioned countywide andThe reported Orange no County legal obstructions. Attorney’s of�ice The equality for gay people, she believes registry is slipping away because that gay couples should have all of the county leaders don’t think you need (which would implement and administer or want it. They don’t think you theOrange registry) County vetted Comptroller’s it and reported of�ice no suffer when you’re not recognized administrative or cost concerns, and concerningsame rights theas heterosexual registry, Jacobs couples. said to In a as your partner’s family member they worked with the Orlando City Clerk discussion that I had with her speci�ically during medical emergencies. They to help implement the City’s registry so should have those rights.” don’t care that state law prohibits it will be compatible with the County’s me,So “Those why on are earth important hasn’t rights.Teresa PeopleJacobs point you from planning your dead proposed registry. made the obvious right decision to partner’s funeral. They simply don’t support the registry? It’s because she respect your family enough to create media outlets have contacted Mayor hasn’t heard from you. Prominent people, organizations and injustices, and all it might take from We have been advised that to date Jacobs up to you now. Write Mayor Jacobs at youa countywide to change registrytheir thinking to �ix those is a hasJacobs received to express no communications support for the registry.from The next step towards| equality | is short letter, email or phone call. That’s it; and without that tiny Teresa.jacobs@oc�l.net. Mary Meeks effort from you, the Orange County
be denied. So I ask: what have you RAPHSODIC BAKERY doneDomestic today Partnership to make you Registry feel proud? will URBAN PASTRY ART HOUSE And if it’s nothing, if you have not yet made your voice heard, then please do something now before you regret it forever. Everyone in this community knows someone who has suffered because of the lack of these critical rights. I have written before about my friend Joyce, whose partner
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Another friend was not allowed HAT HAVE YOU DONE toabout see Claudia’shis partner expressed in the ER wishes. after today to make you feel he was admitted following a car accident. I asked one local attorney proud? if she could think of any clients who had these kinds of issues and I love that song by Heather Small, and now I’m W she immediately listed 19 couples. directing it your way because our community is at a In one instance, the local hospital critical moment. If there ever was a time for you to do denied a woman the opportunity to Allergy and special diet conscious: something meaningful that will make you feel proud, it is say goodbye to her dying partner We work hard to ensure that everyone, absolutely now. We need your help to persuade reluctant because visitation in ICU is for no matter their allergies or diet needs, “families only.” registry, before the opportunity slips away. Her partner had no other family, can enjoy sweet treats. OrangeOrlando County makes of�icials history to createthis month a domestic by becoming partnership the so she died alone in ICU, while her life partner sat alone in the waiting We make items domestic partnership registry. But Orlando’s registry We are: room. We cannot let this inhumanity that are intended applies�irst municipality only within in the Central city limits, Florida and to implementcreates disturbing a continue. Egg free to be: scenarios where people who live outside the city have I am a member of OADO, a group Dairy free Gluten free* of concerned citizens who have nearest hospital in a medical crisis, or to a distant been working with both the City of Honey free Soy free* hospitalto make dif�icultin the city decisions where they as to can whether be sure to that go to their the Orlando and Orange County towards relationship will be recognized. Corn free* implementation of a countywide registry. Orlando got on board Nut free* reasons to not implement a countywide registry that thanks to a very supportive Mayor wouldOrange provide County very leaders critical have rights been to our stalling, community— exploring Dyer. the right to visit our partners (and their children) in the RAPHSODIC.COM My colleagues and I have done hospital, the right to make medical decisions for our everything we can do to get Mayor *Please note that we do use these ingredients in our facility partners, the right to make funeral arrangements for our and while we strive to maintain exceptional standards, (407) 704-8615 Jacobs on board. We provided partners, the right to participate in the school activities cross-contamination may occur and can be beyond our 710 N Mills Ave. of our partners’ children. control. Those with allergies should always notify staff jurisdictions. Mayor Dyer provided and consume our products at their own risk. Orlando, FL 32803 After more than a year of talks with Orange County hisextensive staff research research and from offered other to Mayor Teresa Jacobs, and after an invitation from
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RLANDO | WHAT’S A GIRL TO DO WHEN A
German boy named Hansel with a Barbie doll Ocrotch andbotched an inch sex-change of useless operation scar tissue leaves and when an East lovers betray, abandon and steal from her? Why, what else but go from being a “slip of a girly boy” to an “internationally ignored song stylist” and front-woman of the band “The Angry Inch.” Hedwig and the Angry Inch, the gender-bending, off-Broadway musical returns to Orlando thisAfter month. almost This six re-imagined years, production starring acclaimed local thespians Joshua Eads-Brown and Janine Klein rocks onto to the stage Jan. 11 at The Abbey in Orlando. “You’ll laugh, you’ll cry, you’ll cringe,” says Eads-Brown “If
Orlando audiences may remember the wildly popular Davidthere’s Lee/Becky an emotion, Fisher you’ll production probably experience from the early it!”
Brown, who steps into the outrageous shoes of Hedwig. This2000s. is aBut completely don’t expect different the same interpretation show, says fromEads- director Bruce Costella and musical director Spencer Crosswell.
and those things are there, but there are also a lot of new surprises“There forare audiences certain things to enjoy!” that fans he says. of the show expect, And Eads-Brown’s co-star is quick to praise his contributions as well. GENDER BENDER: Joshua Eads-Brown stars in Hedwig and the Angry Inch. | Photo by Adam McCabe Continued on page 25 | |
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22 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. JAN. 5 - JAN.18, 2012 // ISSUE 19.01 watermarkonline.com The Adventures Sherlock Holmes: A of Tintin Game of Shadows
(Voices of Jamie Bell, Andy Serkis, Daniel (Starring Robert Downey Jr., Jude Law, Craig, Simon Pegg, Nick Frost) Noomi Rapace, Jared Harris) Tintin is a boy wonder, a Belgian There is no denying the chemistry reporter who, along with his dog, of the two lead actors, and director solves some of the world’s greatest Guy Ritchie has some fun with the mysteries. He was one of the most elaborate action sequences. Those popular comic book characters of the are some serious clues to the success last century. Yet Tintin could’ve been of a burgeoning Victorian franchise lost to modern audiences if it weren’t that still can’t weave a yarn without for Steven Spielberg and Nickelodeon getting tangled in travel and tangents. Screened Out creating a TV series and then this fun, Watson (Law) is about to begin his married life, when the Tintin (Bell) buys a brilliant, manic and drug- MOVIE REVIEWS silly computer animated �ilm. model ship that sails him RATINGS GUIDE addicted Holmes ensnares into a mystery about an the doctor in another old pirate battle and a mystery. This one involves Memories of Yesteryear modern-day family feud. Holmes’ famous nemesis, Overflowing the evil Dr. Moriarty with glittery last) introduces us to all the fabulousness (Harris). It also involves mainThis �ilm characters: (hopefully the not boy, the anarchists, gypsies, and a his dog, the famously drunk possible premature start to ITH EVERY TECHNICAL Captain Haddock (Serkis), Pretty damn WWI. the bumbling inspectors good, but it’s no Sure, there are some advance—in this case, the addition Sunset Boulevard Thompson and Thompson “gay” moments between The Artist the inspector and his best we lose something. Sure, we shake off much of It’s easy to love the An entertaining friend, but that’s not enough W old-school(Pegg and Frost).1930s action enough flick the cheesy hammingof sound thatto �ilm made in the Vaudevillians early 30s— sequences, which call to with perhaps gifted actors and locations Starring Jean Dujardin, Bérénice a few holes mind Spielberg’s Indiana allto carryover steampunka �ilm. Even Europe, with Bejo, John Goodman, Penelope such great silent screen actors. However, we series. starts Ann Miller, James Cromwell Jones Tintin this still managed to become quiet and small and builds Ever so slightly washed out, lifeless. to three great action watchable, just A good clue to how this sequences—on a pirate for that hot actor all goes wrong is Noomi As Gloria Swansonalso lose thehis beautiful star fades—again, subtlety like Valentino.of expression He self- boat, in Morocco, and Rapace’s character. (She’s famously said inand Sunset the experimentsdestructs and in only cinematography. her secret love and care Two hours of the wonderful, original Boulevard, “We didn’t need protects him. Well, that and the loyalty of his your life you’ll Lisbeth from the Swedish dialogue. We had faces!” awesome dog! are�inally memorable, back on the and streets their of never get back version of The Girl with the The Artist is a silent, animationLuxembourg. is well The rendered, characters Dragon Tattoo). She’s there were. Camera shots and background sets when they need her; she disappears takes us on a nifty journey of nostalgia. basicallyIt’s a pretty pound simple the story, themes but home silent in �ilms a fun always way. There is a subtle repetition to the when she doesn’t service the action. Stephen Miller black and white �lick that action.realistic Most but notkids waxworks won’t catch creepy. it, but it’s I say “action” and not “plot,” because style of Valentino with a little Errol sound effects give us a sense of what we gave up likely to delight adults. Sure, it’s not the story has so many impossibilities FlynnDujardin rakishness is a silent thrown �ilm in. actor, When in onethe withThe score the introduction prevails, but of small noise. experiments The Artist teaches in the deepest or most believable stuff, and holes of logic that it grows of his adoring fans, Bejo, accidentally us the power of faces and body language. but there’s delight in its silliness and tiresome. The effects even gets to be [email protected] The idea could’ve been gimmicky, but a deep implausibility. In fact, this is one of so loud and fast, they becomes static, the way to Hollywoodland stardom. duller than Sherlock’s mind on drugs. Shebumps becomes into him, famous she �inds in talkies, herself just on as behold. family can enjoy. | | respect for silent �ilms makes this �lick a joy to those light, fast kiddie �licks the whole JAN. 5 - JAN.18, 2012 // ISSUE 19.01 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. 23 WRATH: (L-R) Andrew Deeb and Norman Naudain star in SLOTH: (L-R) Dana Kovar, Jeffrey Klein and Gerald Ramsberger star in Psalm of Bernadette or Sloth. | Photo courtesy Andy Orrell Bedbugs or Wrath. | Photo courtesy Andy Orrell
they thought they wanted,” he said. answered so quickly, it’s really Both of the plays are one-act and intense,” he said. 50 minutes apiece. Their intelligence and humor to be advancing the work of a born- are what attracted Studio@620 Devin Jones added he was excited While spirituality and theology to bring in the entire series. areand-bred center St. stage Petersburg in Riordan’s playwright. plays, Modern Morality Producing“There’s Director always aBob surprise Devin in Jones the author says he still can’t return how the sin manifests itself,” said to church to practice his latent Devin Jones, who met Riordan when Catholic faith. THEATER he starred in the studio’s 2011 “The Catholic Church has production of The unleashed so Men. much terror on Sloth and Wrath take center stage Audiences will “I hope to open a the world, and be kept on their has been so this New Year at Studio @ 620 toes and the edge dialog in each play quick to judge of their seats says the actor who so the audience he said. “It’s not plays the hustler walks away okayhomosexuality,” and I can’t Joe Kissel The danger grows on stage, in Wrath. bring myself to heightened by the intimate setting “I guarantee asking questions.” overlook it.” [email protected] of Studio@620 in downtown Like Riordan, —PLAYWRIGHT what is going to STEPHEN RIORDAN the characters in unspools, so does Walter’s anger. happen,”no one will said expect his plays have a T. PETERSBURG | SIN IS IN ... ALL OF US, St. Petersburg,The second installmentand as the night of actor Andrew Deeb, who went to the strong voice. and erupting on stage Jan. 5-15 in Stephen American Academy of Dramatic Arts And it is their calling—like with Sloth, which isn’t nearly as dark in New York City with Riordan. ours, he said—to live a life that is Riordan’s Psalm of Bernadette or Sloth and asRiordan’s the evening’s “Seven concluding Deadly Plays” play. opens respectful of others and the best one Still applicable to today’s world, Catholic High School where Deeb can be. SBedbugs or Wrath. Sloth But it was at St. Petersburg “That’s whether or not you These savvy, modern morality offender in the play and how do they religious beliefs interfere with through drama teacher Joseph believe in sin,” Riordan said. | | tales distill their themes from one interact with each other?” Matthew,explores an overworked how dogmatic junior Stawski.met the “Seven Deadly Plays” author of the world’s earliest memes, These are just some of the Deeb still lives in NYC but MORE INFORMATION The Seven Deadly Sins, and raises questions audiences will ponder “Mathew’s most recent case has questions about what it means to be during , in which Walter, a himpartner questioning at a start-up the powerlaw �irm. of his and appear in Wrath as well as Greed Wrath WHAT: Sloth and Wrath moral in the world today. broken man dealing with the loss convictions and the strength of his earliermanaged in theto �ind year. time to rehearse “I hope to open a dialog in of his family, brings home a hustler character,” Riordan said. Riordan’s work prompts WHERE: Studio at 620, each play so the audience walks “He faces his faith, his future and questions, but Deeb says the St. Petersburg away asking questions,” said St. a mysterious visitor as Matthew and conclusion provides plenty of WHEN: Jan. 5-15 Riordannamed Paul says. Revere. “And he pegs Walter as his slacker roommate deal with the resolution, too. TICKETS: Studio620.org Stephen Riordan. “Who’s the worst an easy“Paul mark.” is also a damaged soul,” consequences of letting go of what “All the questions you have are Petersburg native and resident 24 watermark YOUR LGBT LIFE. JAN. 5 - JAN.18, 2012 // ISSUE 19.01 watermarkonline.com “[My parents] sparked my love for the theatre,” Klein says. “They owned their | | Hedwig from pg.21 “There’s a little piece of Hedwig in all of us: the own theatre company growing up. It was a wonderful world to escape to.” lust, the loathing, the tears, the fears, and the So, how do you follow up Hedwig? Eads- singing and acting the shit out of the part of Brown will squeeze in two performances of Hedwig,”“People boasts can expect Klein. Joshua Eads-Brown overwhelming desire to be loved.” Little Miss Parliament House, debuting later —JOSHUA EADS-BROWN ON PLAYING THE ICONIC ROLE. this month, and Klein will perform withTod between gender roles is pretty close to Eads- Brown,Playing who a charactermany may that recognize blurs the by lineshis drag is the creation of it. If you’re not creating they’re looking for. If you come to a comedy, party Feb. 27 at Hard Rock. | | alter-ego, Ginger Minj. ; a character, a costume, a Kimbro for the Fab Fringe Fundraiser VIP “One thing that ‘Hedwig’ has taught me is something painting, an ashtray, a macaroni portrait— to a drama, I hope I deliver the tears by that sometimes that line between person and MORE INFORMATION anything—you’re not living up to your true I hope you �ind the laughs. If you come persona gets blurry, and sometimes fantasy is potential.” something WHAT: Hedwig and the Angry Inch When asked what he hopes audiences theRaised bucketful. in the If Itheatre help you by �ind an actress and feel and I embrace and appreciate Ginger, I’m glad that WHERE: The Abbey, January 11-20 take away from his performances, Eads- a director, ,Klein I’m satis�ied.” has been onstage since she I’mmistaken equally for as reality,” respected he explains. as a legitimate “As much stage as TICKETS: InTheWings.org or AbbeyOrlando.com actor. Call it the Hannah Montana syndrome, Brown replied, “I just hope they �ind what was �ive. No matter which character you see, Joshua Eads-Brownbut I love experiencing is the man the who best walks of both into worlds!the building and Joshua Eads-Brown is the man who walks out at the end of the night.” Despite such a correlation, he revealed that he almost didn’t take the role of Hedwig. After some urging by his husband and forgetting everything he knew about the original story, he read the script. “This is a role that, on the surface, seems the last page and wiped the tears from my eyes, mylike minda strange was �itcompletely for me,” he blown—and says. “As I turned changed. I realized how much the character spoke to me. There’s a little piece of Hedwig in all of us: the lust, the loathing, the tears, the fears, and the overwhelming desire to be loved.” Klein shared the same sentiments. She plays Hedwig’s poor, put-upon, drag-queen-turned- husband, Yitzhak. “The role of Yitzhak frightens the hell out of and what I love about this production company isme,” that Klein they says. cast “Isolely �it a certainbased on type talent, and notmold type. I have to stretch outside of my comfort zone and that is a glorious blessing for a performer. yourself in the process.” YouBacked end up by �inding a four a piece whole band, other Klein level and of Eads-Brown play all of the characters swirling around inside Hedwig’s brain—all of the people who have touched her on her way to this stage in her life. “There’s a natural love and rapport between the two of us,” says Eads-Brown of his concomitant co-star. “She’s my favorite person to share the spotlight with.” “Side note,” adds Klein. “[The band] is all cute college boys. Do I know your demographic or what?” Both Eads-Brown and Klein have an arsenal of acting credits. Beginning with a role as a baby in community theatre production of Fiddler on the Roof, Eads-Brown has performed his whole life. His career has taken him from and back again. He attributes his passion for theschool arts plays to his to mother. Broadway, commercials to �ilm, “My mother always told me, ‘Artists aren’t created, they’re born,’ and she did her best to always push and support me in the decisions that I’ve made,” he recalls. “The beauty in all art
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and Carrie West ProSuzy.com, Stephen Warne ShotonSite TAMPA BAY 1 2 3 1- BREAK TIME: (L-R) Mark Bias and Melanie Minyon take a short break from the revelry of New Year’s Eve at Hamburger Mary’s.
2 - NEW YEAR’S TEASE: Amy DeMilo struts her stuff while performing at The Honey Pot in Ybor City on New Year’s Eve.
3- SIBLING SALUTE: The Twat Sisters celebrate New Year’s Eve at G. Bar in Ybor City.
4- BEER BUDDIES: This group of friends take a break from bowling while participating at a recent tournament at AMF Gulfgate Lanes in Sarasota. 4 5- A-WASSAILING: Carolers entertain during a special Holiday Light show at the Florida Botanical Gardens on Dec. 22.
6- YEAR OF THE DOG: Arthur Burnett spreads 7 the celebratory mood with ‘Miss Amber’ in Ybor City during the Outback Bowl Parade.
7- BOWLING BROTHERHOOD: Friends enjoy a fun night of bowling at the AMF Gulfgate Lanes in Sarasota during a ‘9-pin, no-tap’ tournament on Dec. 27.
8- INCOGNITO CELEBRANTS: These three women celebrated the New Year in style—and behind shades.
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Nightingale, who opened the on Sundays, opened on New sophomore year. The annual Disco Diva show and got the noticeably Another Gay Year’s Eve in the space formerly dance party spans three nights Diaries older crowd up on their feet Invasion of Ybor and coincides with Gasparilla, They may have been at the early on. By the time Sister Our friends Mark Bias and proprietors of MC Film Fest also Tampa’s version of Mardi Gras height of their careers more Sledge took over the stage, fans Carrie West, who always have toldoccupied us that by a Frankie’s new mega-dance Patio. The that “celebrates” the pirate than three decades ago, but were dancing in the aisle and club is coming to North Hyde invasion of Jose Gaspar. that didn’t stop an enthusiastic several were even welcomed what’s happening in Tampa, This year’s festivities begin crowd from enjoying the sounds up on stage to shake what their their �ingers on the pulse of called Mary-Go-Round. on Friday, Jan. 27, with “Havoc” mamas gave them. bars are coming to Tampa— Park,2012 and is it’s already rumored shaping to be at the Amphitheatre in Ybor City Sledge and Gloria Gaynor on Gaynor closed the show with andshared three that of a them �lood will of new open LGBT in up to be a huge year for LGBT featuring DJ Abel. The festivities Newof Maxine Year’s Nightingale, Eve. The Disco Sister Divas a 40 minute set that included Ybor City. The Liquid Lounge is entertainment in Tampa. continue on Saturday, Jan. 27 of the 1970s entertained a her re-imagined versions of relocating to the corner of 7th large—but not sold-out—crowd “Every Breath You Take” and Avenue and 15th Street and will The Return at Urban Body followed by the at the remodeled Mahaffey other hits. She wrapped things take over the old Blue Shark with the Gasparilla Parade Party Theater with their greatest up with a stirring rendition of location. That makes room for a of Gasparilla Ybor at 10 p.m. and biggest hits. The biggest her anthem, “I Will Survive,” new Leather/Levi Men’s bar, yet Gancho GanchoThings Dance wrap Party up on at Sunday, the Ritz crowd pleaser seemed to be before the crowd made its way to be named, to take over the Jan. 29, when DJ Oren Nizri spins former Liquid Lounge location at “Unleashed” at Rise. Details presented by the City of St. second Gancho party weekend and a full schedule is available outside to enjoy the �ireworks in TampaPlans are during �inalized the last for the on the Gancho Facebook page Barbarella, which will weekend of January—and featurenext door a new to the LGBT Laughing T-Dance Cat. and at GanchoTampa.com. | | Petersburg over Tampa Bay. it has shaped up to be a big
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Park, The Center ShotonSite 1 2 3 ORLANDO 1- SPARK THE NEW YEAR: (L-R) Erica Hopkins and Olivia Ariaudo rang in the New Year with flammable objects Dec. 31 at Vintage.
2- KEEPING IT BEAUTIFUL: Volunteers with The Center did their part to keep Orlando clean by picking up litter from the Center’s Adopt-A-Highway stretch on East Colonial.
3- PUCKER UP: (L-R) Raimund Liauw and Jeff Horn and rung in 2012 at a house party Dec. 31.
4- FRISKY FUN: (L-R) Tayeh Moore, Blue Starr and Peek Amateur 2011 winner Nicki Jay got frisky during 7 the latest Peek-A-Boo Revue at Stardust Lounge, which is held the third Wednesday of every month.
5- SEMINOLE PRIDE: FSU represented on Dec. 29 at the 4 Champs Sports Bowl Parade of Bands Dec. 29 on Park Avenue.
6- TRADING ART: Artists and art lovers packed the home of Amy Watkins and Alex Copeland for the couple’s annual art trade fundraiser party, which raised more than $1,800 for Second Harvest Food Bank on Dec. 31.
7- AULD LANG SYNE: (L-R) Megan Monesmith and Victoria Jackson toasted the near year at Vintage Lounge.
8- IN SIGHT: Selena Vyle (in red) gains on Amina Acid during an Orlando Psycho City Derby Girls practice scrimmage Jan. 2 at Semoran Skateway.
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to raise money for local LGBT in Florida and Disneyland in Miss’d America charities. The competition now California will stay open for a Parliament his business partner and stage Orlando’s own Chantel Reshae full 24 hours. Guests will be Progenies manager,Parliament Douglas House, White, Inc. with for has been chosen amongst the GLBT Alliance, which provides welcomed from 6 a.m. on Feb. 29 What would happen if the crowning of the 2nd Annual 15 hopefuls from across the economic,bene�its The social Greater and Atlanticpolitical City to 6 a.m. on March 1. The 24-hour everything that could possibly country for this year’s Miss’d advocacy of LGBT and LGBT- event is centered around 2012’s go wrong at a toddler pageant The rotating assortment of supportive business and citizens leap day and was announced on antagonistsLittle Miss Parliament and their mothers House. Atlantic City. More than 1,500 in the greater Atlantic City region. Dick Clarke’s New Year’s Rockin’ wrong and the 7-year-old girls will be portrayed by Carol Lee, America Pageant on Jan. 21 in Reshae can be seen every Tuesday Eve on Saturday night. Disney also wereactually played did go by horri�ically grown men? Doug Ba’aser, Gidget Galore, night at Banana’s Diner for launched OneMoreDisneyDay. Beginning Jan. 7, you’ll be able April Fresh, Addison Taylor, bypeople Carson are Kressley expected and to attend musical this Broadway night. For more info on com, where a Disney parks Chantel Reshae, Ginger Minj eleganza extravaganza hosted performances by Martha Wash. Miss’d America, visit Acglbt.org vacation will be given away Little Miss Perfect and Toddlers and Miss Sammy. No actual Reshae, a 17 year drag veteran, is daily. The website features a &to Tiaras�ind out! you If willyou’re certainly a fan of like toddlers will be harmed at any the only Florida-based contestant. 24 Hours with countdown to the event and asks this show. If you detest Little Miss of the performances of Little “I want to thank the committee visitors, “What would you do with Perfect and Toddlers & Tiaras, for allowing me to be a part of this the Mouse one more day at Disney?” The you will absolutely love this Del Frisco says about everything event,” Reshae says. The Miss’d Disney representatives promotion revolves around the madcap mockery. Join Orlando Miss Parliament House. As Mr. announced Jan. 2 they’re planning comedian and playwright Jeff middle name.” For tickets, visit 1991 the Sunday after the Miss a “marathon of fun” for their One theme parking in a leap year. Jones, who plays overly obsessive he does, “Perfection is| my | America Pageant was started in More Disney Day event on Feb. idea that there is an extra day of pageant owner and emcee Lionel to be held in Atlantic City) as a 29, when the Magic Kingdom Del Frisco who runs Little Miss WanziePresents.com funAmerica but very Pageant competitive (which usedway
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Flip the Fitness Script Five ways to reach your fitness goals in 2012
Photo courtesy David Marra T’S A NEW YEAR, WHICH MEANS AMBITIONS RESOLUTIONS have been made and it’s time to begin the work toward a new and Joe Kissel improved you. diabetes, chasing away fat, [email protected] protection from injuries, and I Fitness takes center stage every New Year, and 2012 is no different. in general studies say it’s a key ingredient in attaining a longevity However, to achieve your goals in this new year, it’s important to know a that’s actually desirable. (Ever notice 1. BREAD IS that as people “get old” they start
THE ENEMY and hopefully the rest of your life. mass? Or is it the other way around? Do yourself one favor in 2012 few basic truths as you work toward your goals over the next 12 months— Thislosing highly signi�icant avoidable amounts process of muscle starts and kick bread from your diet. around 40 and accelerates with Go right ahead ... unless of course maybe just eat your favorite half of “waiting around” and the result time.) crusade sometime in the 80s after (and freeze the rest). And those being eventual physique nirvana in So you need to be lifting weights. temple’s template. Admittedly, the the emergence of AIDS and the dinner rolls and “never ending” an hour of gym time if you’re doing How much? Enough to progressively doughthe Pillsbury boy is cute—especiallydoughboy is your when rising arc of straight supersizing that bread basket? Just forget it, at least it right. challenge all your muscles but not the gay bear community mirrored until you’re in a good place and That most likely means lots too much that you suffer a far-too- “You don’t see old fat people.” through the 90s and beyond. comfortable with a minor cheat day. of movement and sweat but not common overuse injury and sideline he’s a lesbian—but as Pappy says, Bread, one of the culprits of necessarily long, boring sessions of your workouts. wrong about the longevity of gay corpulence, trumps even sugary cardio to which your body quickly Because as important as diet is, in menWhether or just lookit’s to great prove and Ron be Paul drinks as the number one dietary 2. HIGH- adapts. healthy while doing it, too much mistake because wheat products are It’s about challenging your of ours, if you’re in a hole bodywise, fat—and all the health problems insidious in the way they’ve become INTENSITY muscles with moderate to this mechanized, de-exercised world it brings—is simply a matter of part of our dietary landscape and heavy weight (depending on the out of it. consuming too many calories. And our human tendency to horde and WORKOUTS circumstances and desired result) you’reYour going best tobet—even need exercise if it’s ato get it’s such an easy thing to do when graze. If there’s a freeway to the while maintaining a cardio-like pace pinch or on credit—is to hire wheat products are concerned. If you never digested another between sets; work contrasting a good trainer to show you the Consider protein sources and bread product—and by no means say high-intensity workouts could muscle groups (an upper-body vegetables the staples of your diet suggested here as it’s far too sinfully befountain the commuter-lane of youth, �itness there. researches to re-shape your body and learn delicious—your body would never Fast is the operative concept, one is one approach) and “resting” exercises and techniques necessary you can afford only occasionally. protest and only thank you. Cut that meaning your workout never stops shouldexercise involve followed nothing by a lower-body less than If you’ve also suffered injuries or andIt’s wheat the number products one a “luxury reason item”why stuff out and the puff covering your to even look at your phone—get an havehow toback love problems, exercise ifa youtrainer don’t. with so many people today—of any shrouded physique will shrink in knee raises, stretching, lunges and a background in physical therapy is orientation—are just plain heavier weeks. chatter with a gym slacker or any anythingconstant “�itness-�idgeting”else that keeps you like in a highly recommended. than they need be. Lose that big sub roll for a otherMP3 player! of the other—engage Seven in Deadlyuseless constant state of motion. Following the skinny and skeletal medium-sized or small tortilla. Sub Sins committed in the gym. High- As tacky and gauche as it is, Continued on page 34 | | ‘70s, America began its plumping the bagel for oatmeal and fruit or powered workouts are the antithesis
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