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Charles Eugene Forque June 26, 1930 - July 30, 2005

Charles Eugene Forque, 75, former director of bands Robert E. Lee High School, Baytown, TX (1952-1978) and Plano Senior High School, Plano, TX (1978-1990) went home to be with his Lord and Savior after a five year holding pattern of Alzheimer’s. Charles loved flying, golf, his bands, NASA, and his grandchildren. Charles was inducted into Phi Beta Mu, Alpha Chapter, Texas Bandmaster’s Hall of Fame (2001). He held professional memberships in TMEA, TBA, Phi Beta Mu, and TSTA. He was choir director at First Christian Church, Baytown, and later, First Presbyterian Church, Baytown. He was a member of First Christian Church, McKinney. Charles held a Bachelor of Science and a Master of Arts in Music Education from Sam Houston State University. Charles’ bands earned 34 Sweepstakes Awards in 36 Years of U.I.L. competitions, numerous other awards and championships, and were privileged to have “Doc” Severinsen perform 43 concerts with the bands over the years. Charles was born to Lillian Davis Forque and Asa Lee Forque on June 26, 1930 at Cedar Bayou, TX near present day Baytown. He was raised by his maternal grandparents, Martha Peveto Forque and Seymour Lee Forque after his mother’s death when he was six years old. He was preceded in death by his beloved sisters, Agnes Marie Forque, Emma Forque Lain, and his brother, Asa Lee Forque, Jr. Charles is survived by his wife of 53 years, Ednajo, who patiently cared for him at home until his last day, his only child, Cheryl, and her husband, Samuel B. Melton, of Wilmington, North Carolina, his only grandson, Patrick B. Melton, of Charleston, South Carolina, and his only granddaughter, Colleen Denise, of Wilmington, North Carolina. He is also survived by his sister, Judy, and her husband, Patrick O’Brian of Oceanside, Doris and her husband, Joe Rountree of Deer Park, TX, and Becky and her husband, Jim Brawley of Channelview, Texas, and sister-in-law, Juanita Akagi of Rusk, TX. Funeral services will be held at First Christian Church, McKinney, TX at 10:00 a.m., Tuesday, August 2, 2005. Graveside services will be held at Forest Park Lawndale, 6900 Lawndale, Houston, TX at 2:00 p.m., Wednesday, August 3, 2005. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the capital campaign at First Christian Church, McKinney or to the high school band programs at Robert E. Lee High School, Baytown, TX, or Plano Senior High School, Plano, TX.

Memorials Lovingly remember Charles Forque band director. HERBERT JAMES KOUDELKA, OCTOBER 12, 2019 I knew Charles Forque when he taught me the Trumpet at Crosby High School at Crosby, Texas, then again at Robert E. Lee High School 1957 to 1959 where I graduated. Then again when I took flying at Humphrey Airport in Baytown. I particularly remember when I owned a Piper Cherokee Arrow and he could also fly planes. We went up to 10,000 feet (two miles up) to see Baytown and surrounding areas. He was a wonderful Trumpet player and he was a friend of Doc Severinsen, probably the greatest Trumpet player of our generation. May God Bless his soul as I had many fond memories of him a very good man. I miss him. HERBERT KOUDELKA, OCTOBER 12, 2019 I remember Charles Forque as a man who believed in miracles! He believed that with lots of hard work, we could be a band of excellence. I will never forget his inspiring and passionate talks about what he expected from us -- nothing short of our very best. He gave us opportunities that were amazing -- performing on TV on "Salute to Youth" and performing with Doc Severinson. Most of all, though, he was used by the Lord to unite us into a wonderful community -- something I was very blessed to be part of. I played clarinet in the Symphonic Band and graduated in the Robert E. Lee class of 1967. I'm very grateful for Charles Forque, and I pray God's richest blessings on his family. PATRICIA WIMMER STREETER, APRIL 22, 2010 Edna Jo & Cheryl, Here it is a yr later, and I did not know that Charles had this dreaded disease and had passed on. I am so sorry for your loss. I remember being your next door neighbor for yrs on Grantham, and babysitting Cheryl on numerous ocassions druing my jr and sr high yrs. I must say Charles was always an inspiratiion to me. Although I was not in band at REL, I thought I was mighty big stuff at school knowing and being the neighbor and personal friend of Charles. Thanks for being a friend and neighbor to my parents, my brother, and myself. I lost my mom (Lorraine) in '93 and my dad (Bill) in 2003. Even though it is a yr later, I am sure the loss is still great, but thank God for all the wonderful memories we all have of your beloved husband and father. Many blessings to you both. Barbara (Beardmore) Roquemore BARBARA BEARDMORE ROQUEMORE, AUGUST 20, 2006 Charles Forque had a tremendous musical and personal impact on my life. I was in the Plano band from '97-'99 so I wasn't under his leadership but you can tell that his spirt was still there when he guess conducted several of our concerts. I went on to play in the Collin County Community Band under his direction and enjoyed playing for him. He'll always be in my memories and God Bless Him. DAVID MAUGHAN, FEBRUARY 8, 2006 One More thing... Remember, IT NEVER RAINS ON THE PLANO BAND! KEITH BROWN, NOVEMBER 26, 2005 Today is November 25th, 2005. After a fattening day of giving thanks, My family and I discussed High School Playoff Football. As a graduate of PSHS Class of '88 and a PROUD member of the Marching Wildcat Band I just had to relive some memories. I watched our Band Video and laughed at the times we had! The greatful pleasure I had to be a part of it. I had to look up to see what the mastermind of all of our halftime shows had his hands into after his retirement.... my laughter ended. Even know my eyes are still damp. It was summer of 1996 and I had not played my sax for two years, and I wanted to play again. With a hand shake and a smile Mr. Forque found a place for me in his "Little Band". From that instant on I would come to know the gift that God had given everyone who met the man. Pine-ap-ple pine...pickpoints, forever ingrained into my head. Thank you Mr. Forque for allowing all of us to talk you into scatter drills, thank you for the Pre-game march around the field to Grandioso, and for your teachings. Not only music but Fellowship! I know that my heart is a better, you have allowed me to give people a chance too! So the next time I hear someone reading from the phone book... To the family of Mr. Forque, my heart felt simpathy. Our loss his our Father's gain. And I will look forward to the day where he can stand on the podium and direct me again. [email protected] KEITH PHILLIPS, NOVEMBER 26, 2005 Jeff and I are sorry for your loss, but we have pleasant memories of the years we knew Charles. We were privileged to play under Charles for several years in the Plano Community Band. After reading all the earlier memorials, I certainly wish I had been one of Charles' high school band members! In addition to the good qualities that many others have already mentioned, we especially appreciated Charles allowing us to bring our young children to weekly rehearsals. We tried to ensure they were well-behaved, but there were occasional exceptions. If it bothered him, he certainly didn't show it and it was obvious how much he enjoyed being around children. LINDE AND JEFF LYNN, AUGUST 25, 2005 I could never forget Mr. Forque and how much of an influence he was in my high school years (1968-1970). I still play my flute, but I miss the flying conductor's baton that often was "accidently" aimed at the flute section. And, as always, Lee Band Rules! SUSAN HAINES HALL, AUGUST 23, 2005 Cheryl and Mrs. Forque, I was saddened to learn of your loss. Mr. Forque was a positive influence in my life and I was proud to be one of his students and a member of the Famous Robert E. Lee Band. The concerts with Doc, the marching and concert contests, the Corpus trips, the many practices until we "got it right" - are all memories I will cherish forever. I am still amazed how he inspired a high school band to play "Carmina Burana" as well as we did, and it remains one of my favorite pieces of music. May God bless you and your family. "Lee Band Rules!" Band Reporter - Class of 1970 Cyndi Johnson - San Antonio, TX CYNDI JOHNSON, AUGUST 14, 2005 Dear Cheryl & Family, I was so sadden to hear of your loss. Not a day goes by that I don't think back of the good old days as a proud member of "The Famous Robert E Lee Band”. To this day, I have never seen any high school band come close to obtaining the perfection as we did under his leadership. I remember so fondly the sound of the Drum Major’s whistle and remember how nervous but at the same time so extremely proud I felt to be a part of such a great legacy. When I have viewed various marching bands over the past years I find myself comparing their performance to ours and it makes me even more proud to have studied under such a fine person as Mr. Charles E. Forque. Just today after church I stopped off and bought a turntable to hook up to our stereo just to listen to the old “Doc Severinson” performances with “The Band”. It brought back very good memories. Cheryl, I also remember how nervous I was when your family would come to our restaurant for dinners knowing I would be the one to spill coffee, tea or something on your dad. Thank God I never did. My condolences along with my family’s thoughts and prayers are with you. I will never forget, “LEE BAND RULES!” Jonathan Lee, REL Class of ’77 Oklahoma City, Oklahoma [email protected] JOHN EDWARD LEE, AUGUST 14, 2005 Teachers have always had an impact on their students, but few have had such a long-lasting influence as Charles Forque. He will always enjoy an iconic position in the hearts and minds of the few who had the honor of being a member of the "Robert E. Lee Band" when it was under his leadership. He didn't just demand excellence; he inspired the members of the band to challenge themselves to, not just achieve goals, but to excel as a group far beyond what the members could achieve on their own. The lessons learned in the band hall and on the practice field, not only brought success for the band during marching and concert competition, but served to form a foundation for success throughout the lives of each band member who had the honor to perform under Charles Forque's baton. He was a great inspiration, a challenging task master and an eternal inspiration for those that knew him. He will always be remembered and his memory never forgotten as the Robert E. Lee Band continues to march into the future. May the Lord receive him into his everlasting care. Larry E. Kluck, Lt Col, USAF (ret) Robert E. Lee Class of 1970 LARRY EDWIN KLUCK, AUGUST 10, 2005 I was a senior and band captain 79-80. I enjoyed being around and working with Mr. Forque a lot. I'm sorry he's gone. SHAWN W. IRISH, AUGUST 9, 2005 I had the pleasure of being in PHSH band with Charles Forque his last 2 years of teaching at Plano. He always made each student feel special. There was no doubt in each of our minds when he had his last heart attack at Sam Houston Marching Contest that we were marching for him. He will be missed. Melissa (Miles)Robinson MELISSA (MILES) ROBINSON, AUGUST 8, 2005 Dear Ednajo and Cheryl - My thoughts are with you at this time. Jane Roberts JANE D. ROBERTS, AUGUST 8, 2005 I have been late making my entry because I wanted to make the time to do it right! Charles Forque had known me since I was a small child, when he played golf with my dad together with a well-known Baytown citizen, Doc Satterwhite. When I signed up for band at Horace Mann Jr. School in Baytown for sixth grade, I quickly figured out that it was going to be my niche and that one day this man who seemed bigger than life was going to be my teacher. I sold soft drinks at the Robert E. Lee football games in Baytown during my middle school years, but the customers had to wait while I watched Charles’ “Famous Robert E. Lee Band” march into Stallworth Stadium to “Are You from Dixie?” The band was so big and it sounded so good! I would go into a trance as I watched and listened with goose bumps all over me. After I sold a few more soft drinks, I would stop again to listen to the Star Spangled Banner and the Robert E. Lee alma mater. I remember listening to the Lee Band euphonium (my instrument) section play the beautiful melodic eighth notes written for that instrument as the alma mater went from one phrase into the next. I would play those same eighth notes soon! I would take the place of Mike Wallace and the euphonium players several years ahead of me in the Lee Band! Then, my day to play in this wonderful band indeed came. My experience was not what I expected; it was somehow even better than I expected! During my four years in Charles Forque’s band, he taught me about music and about life. He taught me about pride and dignity. Charles motivated the other band members and me to practice so hard! He taught us that “there is a price to be paid for success” and that “excellence is its own reward.” He taught us to believe in ourselves by explaining that “there is a fine line between confidence and conceit.” How much talent the members of the band had (including me) really was not an issue. We were going to do what it took to live up to Charles’ high expectations. Another important lesson from Charles was that “if you waste every Monday just because it’s Monday, then you have wasted 1/7 of your life!” Charles taught us that “the sun’s gonna rise tomorrow.” I learned that Charles practiced what he preached when I was in his band. During my four years in his band, almost all of our performances matched our high standards. During my senior year, we did have a bad day when we didn’t perform nearly as well as what was normal for us. Immediately after this performance, Charles had us gather around him when he told us that we were not allowed to hang our hands, that we would hold our heads up high, and that “the sun’s gonna rise tomorrow.” I remember the look of approval on his face as he could see that we were taking his words to heart. Charles also taught us not to give up. A good example of how he taught me this was during a marching rehearsal when the weather had gotten really bad. There wasn’t lightning, but dark, ominous clouds had blown in and the wind was so strong that we could barely stand up, let alone march. We were in block band and Charles was drilling us in these conditions. I still recall him yelling “Don’t give up!” as we continued to march, keeping our ranks, columns, and diagonals straight as the wind was gusting to large levels. No, we didn’t give up! We kept right on marching until the rain finally set in and the woodwinds had to be dismissed in order to protect their instruments from the water. Such training was so useful! One year at U.I.L. marching contest it didn’t bother us at all when we had to perform while it was sleeting. I still recall the sleet hitting my euphonium bell. Such was the training that we needed for life! I don’t think Charles knew how profound his lessons were to us. We learned how valuable each student was when we were in Charles’ band. I remember a student who was probably the worst player in the band. But I also remember how Charles bragged on him to the entire marching band about how good his attitude was and how much he contributed as a result. All of Charles’ students were important; they all mattered. Charles continued to mentor me after I entered the band directing profession. He was influential with regard to me being hired in the Plano I.S.D. where he was teaching when I graduated from college. And even after he “retired,” he would clinic my bands in Plano at Bowman Middle School. He taught my students just as if they were his students. In a way, that was indeed the case. Many times he would tell them from the podium, “Just like I told your director when he was my student…” Subsequent to Charles working with my band after such a time, I was so thrilled when he once said to me, “I’m proud of you, Tommy!” Yes, Charles was indeed a great man. He was my hero. Most importantly, those of us who have lived enough years to gain the needed wisdom know that one of the reasons that Charles was such a great man was due to the love and devotion of his wonderful wife, Ednajo. In this day of 50% divorce rates, Charles and Ednajo modeled how God intends for a husband and wife to be devoted to each other. If you were around Charles very much, you could count on hearing from him about his beloved Ednajo. I also want to express how fortunate that I am to have gone all the way through public school in Baytown with Charles’ daughter, Cheryl. We started fist grade together, went to middle school together, and graduated high school together. Cheryl was an oboe player in our band and she demonstrated some of her father’s leadership qualities as one of our drum majors during our senior year in the Lee Band. Cheryl and her husband Sam have two wonderful children: Patrick, who is a trombone player and a phenomenal young baritone singer, and Colleen, a skilled twirler and fine euphonium player. Charles was so proud of and devoted to Ednajo, Cheryl, Sam, Patrick, and Colleen. He had every reason to be! I would like to thank each of them for sharing their husband, father, father-in- law, and grandfather with all of us. I’m starting my 22nd year as a band director. I continue to strive to pass on to my students many of the things that I learned from Charles Forque. I love you Ednajo, I love you Cheryl, and I love you Charles. Charles, I can only hope that God has chosen you to lead the band once again; this time in heaven. I hope one day to again to have the opportunity to play under your baton! Thank you, God, for bringing Charles and his family into my life! As a result, I am, without a doubt, a better person! - Tommy Fain, Robert E. Lee Class of 1976 TOMMY A. FAIN, AUGUST 7, 2005 My heartfelt condolences to all of Mr. Forque's family. I pray that you receive comfort from the memories that so many have shared. Mr. Forque was one of my teachers who impacted my life, and my memories of high school are full of the hours spent on the practice field, the football field and, especially, the band hall. We had a tremendous time cheering on the Plano Wildcats to two state championships, with special halftime shows all the way the Christmas. To this day, I can't watch a band perform at halftime without thinking "their lines could be straighter". Plano Senior High School, Class of 1988 MANDY (INNIS) TSCHOEPE, AUGUST 7, 2005 Charles, you were a wonderful friend and colleague. God bless. LARRY TUCKER, AUGUST 7, 2005 Losing a loved one is always tough. To lose someone who was a real icon in Texas music history is even more so. I was never in Mr. Forque's band. But I taught some of the students from that fine Baytown Robt. E. Lee band of his, and they were special people. Still are! Lamar University didn't get many students from Lee high school as they went to so many different schools after leaviing Baytown; usually schools much larger and with much bigger names than Lamar University. Getting an outstanding player from Mr. Forque's band, like Tommy Fain, was always considered to be a prize "catch." Luckily, Lamar had a man very similar in many ways to Mr. Forque in our own Charles A. "Pete" Wiley. Dedicated to his students, teaching life lessons as well as music, and with a love for God and country. I used a text book on charting for marching band in my college marching methods classes, and he was kind enough to sit down me on several occasions to explain his system of teaching. That was very much appreciated by this then young and inexperienced college band director. I didn't have nearly the knowledge that Mr. Forque possessed. He was an amazing man. There isn't a day goes by that I don't think of my dad who died in 1988, or of my mentor and colleague Dr. C.A. "Pete" Wiley. And now they are joined in heaven by another... a man who touched people's lives. Rest in Peace, Charles Forque, and my deepest sympathies to the family and friends you leave behind. --Wayne Dyess Lamar University Beaumont, Texas WAYNE DYESS, AUGUST 7, 2005 Charles was our childern's (Randy Dunn, REL class of 76 and Rommi class of 78) teacher. The name teacher was the same name given to Christ. Charles was always helpful and had a parents love for our childern that still last even until today. ALLEN & JUDY DUNN, AUGUST 6, 2005 My memories of high school have so much to do with the times I spent in the PSHS band hall and on the practice field. Mr. Forque taught me so much; more than how to work together as a band, but more importantly, how to work together period. He helped instill strong values in me, both through explicit teaching and modeling those values himself. He holds a strong place in both my head and my heart as a wonderful teacher and mentor. I hope that I am able to instill similar values in students with whom I work. My thoughts and prayers are with Mr. Forque's family. Margaret Hale PSHS - 1984 MARGARET HALE, AUGUST 6, 2005 My deepest condolences to the Charles Forque family. I cant tell you how many times I have thought of Mr. Forque over the years. He was one of those educators that made a difference in each life he touched. He instilled in me the love of music that I carry with me to this day. I will never forget my time in the Plano Band or the pride I felt under the leadership of Mr. Charles Forque. My prayers will continue to be with his family. Pam Tolar-Crabtree McCaughan PSHS class of '81 PAMELA TOLAR-CRABTREE MCCAUGHAN, AUGUST 5, 2005 I've been out of town and so I'm late to sign this registry. As it happens, I had been thinking about Mr. Forque recently because I pulled out some old Lee High School Band contest albums as part of a project to convert all of my old albums to CDs. I hadn't listened to that music in years, and it reminded me all over again just how great that band was, and how great a leader Mr. Forque was. We had a sense of pride and belonging that was truly phenomenal - and it was all due to his energy, personality, and absolute commitment to excellence. You changed our lives, Mr. Forque! My thoughts are with you and your family. Mark Warnack Lee High School Band Class of 1974 MARK WARNACK, AUGUST 5, 2005 I first knew Charles the summer before my sophmore and Charles' senior year at Robert E. Lee. We were among about twenty band students who attended a week-long band camp at Hardin Simmons U. in Abilene, Texas. After graduation our paths did not pass frquently until my two daughters, Kathy and Connie Branscome, were in the Lee band. I can give a big "amen!" to all the kind and true accolades already expressed about Charles. He was truly outstanding in his field and as a person. Jerilyn W. Novosad JERILYN WILBURN NOVOSAD, AUGUST 5, 2005 I met Charles later in life while he was the conductor for the Plano Community Band. I remember the first time I met him, I was a freshman in college practicing my freshman recital and he came in to set up for band rehearsal. He sat down and started listening and we started talking and I joined his band. I miss talking to Charles before and after rehearsals, and I just remember the watching the joy on Charles's face everytime he would conduct. He was always prepared, knew what he wanted out of his ensemble, and knew how to get it. I also remember several years later Charles inviting myself and several others out to dinner with Norman Brantly before a Community Band concert. It was fun to see Charles goof around with Norman, and it reminded me that Charles could be so youthful. There was so much that I learned musically and just plain "life" stuff that Charles had told me that I actually wish more of it would have stuck instead of me learning things the "hard way". I will never forget Charles, and I miss him. He was taken from all of us too soon, and I know one day that i'll be able to play under his baton again in heaven and be able to share the joy of music again with him. STEVE A HALL, AUGUST 5, 2005 Charlie - thank you for all you've meant to music education in Texas and nation-wide. I'm honored to have shared a little of Baytown and Lee HS history and honor with you. ROBERT P. MCELROY, AUGUST 4, 2005 Dear Mrs. Forque,Cheryl,and family, I am so sorry to hear of Mr. Forque's passing. I have many fond memories of band at R.E.L., twirling with Cheryl, and your family as a whole. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time of loss. SHERRI POOL MELEAR, AUGUST 4, 2005 This is a tribute to Mr. Forque that I wrote to be read at his memorial service: Tribute to Charles Forque TO: Ednajo and Cheryl, family and friends From: Thomas Lipscomb, Class of 1978 I wish I could be there with you to honor Charles’ life; my family and I are on a mountain in Colorado as I write this. When I was in 8th grade at Baytown Junior High School, I knew enough to know that Charles Forque was an icon – a legend in Texas band lore. I didn’t know him yet, but I certainly knew of him. I am sure that in some administrator’s office, records would say that Mr. Forque was a high school teacher and that the Lee Band was an elective music class. Those may be the facts, but the truth is that Mr. Forque and the Lee band were larger than life. The first time I set foot in the Lee band hall I knew I was in a very special place. And Mr. Forque – it was almost as if his golden hair produced light! Was it o.k. to look directly at the man? Who was this person that drew greatness out of ordinary boys and girls? And he piloted his own airplane… And he drove the nicest car I had ever seen….( Boy, could he drive!) His silk shirts were pretty special, too…He always looked good, smelled good, and that golden hair – it never moved. Did this man excel at everything? Charles Forque was larger than life… As a freshman saxophonist in the Lee Band, I was at first intimidated by this legend before me. That is, until I actually met him. He was kind… He was interested in me… Before long, he began to give me helpful advice – about music and about life. “Girls like it when you dress nice, Thomas. You should try it…” he coached. And he encouraged me, “Thomas, you can do anything you set your mind to…” And he meant it; I could tell. “Thomas, you can achieve greatness if you want it and if you work at it…” How many hundreds of students did he encourage in the same way? And did he ever realize the impact of his words? He believed in me, and therefore, so did I. He believed in us, and therefore, so did we… Mr. Forque transformed me, transformed us. Mr. Forque believed the Lee Band was special, and it was. The Lee Band stood for something, and “Lee Band Rules” meant something. Mr. Forque lived the Lee band – we all did – and he cared about every student, and we knew it. Mr. Forque didn’t teach us about band music – he taught us about life. Don’t get me wrong, we were an excellent band, an awesome band – I am blown away to this day by our recordings with Doc Severinsen from the 70’s and 80’s. That a high school band! But what Mr. Forque taught transcended music. Who can count the life’s lessons learned from Mr. Forque? I may be a product of lots of things, but much of who I am is because of that man. And so it is for many of us. Mr. Forque taught us: Seek excellence Work hard Little things make all the difference Pay attention There’s a price to pay for success Don’t move at attention – “I said ‘don’t move you gourdhead.’” If you’re on time, you’re late. It’s easy to play triplets if you think “pineapple, pineapple pie.” There are consequences to your actions (anyone remember “old Goldie?”) It’s possible to learn an entire half-time show in 42 minutes with Mr. Forque’s system. Freshman shouldn’t draw undue attention to themselves for risk of a flushing (…best not to ask…) You can achieve whatever you set your mind to, if you’re willing to work for it. Be passionate (did you ever meet anyone more passionate about anything, than Mr. Forque?) Impacting others is your legacy I can think of few who have touched so many as Charles Forque. How many has he transformed? Thousands? Impacting others is Mr. Forque’s gift to all of us who have been touched by him. Impacting others, who in turn impact others, is his legacy. It’s not an exaggeration to say that the world’s a better place as a result of the life of Charles Forque. And Ednajo, you are the unsung hero in this picture. Behind every great man is a great woman – and you’ve been the wind beneath Charles’ wings for so long. I admire you so much for your strength, your character, your loving faithfulness to Charles, and your steadfastness in the face adversity. It’s clear that Mr. Forque knew that he couldn’t make it without you, and that he loved you very much. I am forever grateful that I was given the opportunity to know Charles Forque. His influence and impact on my life is among my life’s greatest blessings – and I know that’s true for so many others… I thank Our Lord in Heaven above for such a gift as the life of Charles E. Forque. My contact info is: [email protected] & phone (wk) 913-676- 8020 THOMAS LIPSCOMB, AUGUST 4, 2005 I met Mr. Forque right when he got to Plano. No coincidence that he came here right after we won the state championship! We went to the playoffs every year back then and I’m sure he loved having so many shows. Fortunately for him Plano did win championships before he retired. I was in Stubb's band and the band president and a trumpet player so we all hit it off right away. He took me down to a band contest and I watched him judge. Later, he let me design a marching routine based on what he taught me. While on that trip he introduced me to Ninfa's and how to make a queso al Parilla. ( I just went there about a month ago and called him to tell him about it, that was the last time we talked).He also took me for a ride in his plane showing me what he knew was going to happen in Plano (this was in 1978 or 1979). Because of Mr. Forque I got to travel to Minnesota (where we froze), to St. Louis, and have the concerts with Doc Severinson. We always played some great and interesting music. What a great time we had! Sometimes we wanted to have too great of a time. We were pretty wild then and caused him a lot of grief as well as made him laugh. I still wish I had thought of putting all of the plastic forks in his yard. Mr. Forque was a great teacher, but not just of music. I can still hear some of his life lessons in my head even though at that age I didn’t want to hear them. For instance: Charles said,” David, being late is going to cost you a lot someday.” Of course, he was right. He gave all of us many lessons that I hope to pass on to my kids. Musically, I have an inner rhythm because of Mr. Forque and his pulse philosophy. I am still using it to enjoy playing and listening to music. I can remember his eternal optimism and attention to detail (I think I caught some of that virus from him). As an adult, I saw him some around town. I was very proud to show him my kids last year. I enjoyed fixing some of his roofs and he made me feel like an expert in his usual uplifting way. He had a way of making you feel special and that you were good at things. I am totally certain Mr. Forque would have been a huge success in business and yet he did just fine where he ended up. Mr. Forque made a difference in my life and I am glad I got to know him. David Snitzer (Plano Band 79-81) and Plano Community Band DAVID SNITZER, AUGUST 4, 2005 Mr. Forque- I thank you for your dedication to the students at Plano Senior High. I was a member of your band 1980-1981. I have been in education for the past 17 years and many of my ideals and standards are a result of the discipline, expectations, and goals that you demanded from your students. Thank you for your committment to excellence. SUSAN SWEANY WRIGHT, AUGUST 4, 2005 How sad I am to hear that Mr. Forque has passed away. So many memories in my life in high school are of the Famous Robert E. Lee Band and as his "Drum Major" in the class of '61. And the memories are very vivid to this day. My prayers are with Mrs. Forque and Cheryl (who was just a baby then) in these dark days. May all the memories of everyone that has signed this book warm your heart. What a great man. CONNIE CALLAM SEEGMILLER, AUGUST 3, 2005 Mr. Forque was my band director at PSHS (82-84). I didn't realize until I'd moved on to college how much better my high school band memories were than kids' who had gone to other schools. That was due in large part to the way Charles approached teaching and making music. Please accept my deepest sympathy in his passing. BILL FRANKLIN, AUGUST 3, 2005 On behalf of myself and my fiance, Elizabeth Hebel Lumus, we would like to extend our most sincere condolences to the Forque Family. Mr. Forque was truly an inspiration, and a loving, respected taskmaster who daily strived to make us "The Best That We Could Be," both on and off the field. We could not wait to get to band practice, and hated to leave, even in Baytown's late summer and fall heat...and the one great Friday night deluge in Memorial Stadium when Mr. Forque took off his raincoat because the rest of us were soaked in those 100 pound wool uniforms. Would'nt have missed it for the world. We both will look forward to being in his band again one day. To borrow a line from Bob Hope, "Mr Forque, Thanks for the Memories!" Chris Buckner & Elizabeth Hebel Lumus CHRIS BUCKNER, AUGUST 3, 2005 My son, Stuart, played clarinet in the Plano Senior High School Wildcat Band under Mr. Forque from Fall 1989 until Mr. Forque's retirement. I was priviledged to discuss with Charles his becoming director of the Plano Community Band in 1991. When our board of directors made an offer that Charles accepted, I looked forward to growth and excitement for the Plano Community Band. During the ten years that Charles was our director/conductor, the Plano Community Band performed so many successful concerts, all of which I have on cassette tape or CD. Charles invited wonderful solisits to perform with us just as he did in his public school career. The band improved so much during those years that our founders were amazed. We were all saddened when Charles had to retire a second time several years ago. All of us in the Plano Community Band owe Charles Forques a debt we cannot repay; he gave us spirit, music, humanity, and grace. May God keep Charles Forque forever in peace. WARREN RUBIN, AUGUST 3, 2005 The last time I visited with Charles was about two years ago. He was his usual upbeat self, and a little bit slow, but I did not think anything of it at the time other than his age. His appearance never seemed to change. He looked exactly the same he did over 20 years ago when I was in high school. Prior to that I would often see him as I performed my City COuncil duties. Often they crossed the path of the Plano Community Band. Many times I was graced to be able to share the stage with him as an adult by knowing him as a good friend for nearly 25 years. Later as GOP COllin COunty Chairman I still use many of the ideals of regiment, intensity and fairness that he taught me 1979- 1981. Every time he saw me he would say "Rick, when are you going to run for Congress?" He was truly one of the gentle giants of a man. The older I get the more I appreciate what he taught me as a teenager at PSHS. We all have 2 or 3 teachers that truly shaped our lives. He was one of them. Our Lord is marching hashmark to hashmark hand in hand with Charles. He will be deeply missed. RICK NEUDORFF, AUGUST 3, 2005 We offer our condolences and appreciation for a truly remarkable gentleman who so positively influenced the lives of our children and many, many others JERRY&SHARON MCGREGOR, AUGUST 3, 2005 Other than my father Mr. Forque taught me more about responsibilty, pride, and dedication than any coach or other teacher could. I just wish the kids of today had the benefit of learning from him like we did. Wonderful teacher, mentor, and freind he will be dearly missed. MARK DOUGLAS FUQUA, AUGUST 3, 2005 Mr. Forque instilled pride in his band members, whether you were first chair or last. As he always said, "Lee Band Rules" and HE ruled it. What would have the REL high school football experience been without "Dull Razor Blues" or his rain-inspired yell of "Gander Weather Gander Weather, Quack Quack Quack" without Mr. Forque's leadership, contagious enthusiam, dedication, and love for his students? Exactly. He will be missed and remembered fondly by so many. God Bless You, Mr. Charles Forque. THOMAS K GIDLEY, AUGUST 3, 2005 Dear Mrs. Forque and Cheryl, I extend my heartfelt and sincere condolences to you and yours on the loss of your dear Mr. Forque. I'm so sorry to hear of his illness beforehand and wish him peace. Mr. Forque was truly an extraordinary gentlemen and I was very fortunate to receive so many great lessons from this great man. I admired his fine leadership, musical genius and discipline. We were extremely blessed to have his talents and energy at Robert E. Lee where he made an invaluable contribution. May God bless Mr. Forque and grant him eternal rest. I extend every wish for the comfort of you and your family. May God bless you. ARISTIDES AMADEO TRIFILIO JR. , AUGUST 3, 2005 So very sorry to hear of your loss. Mr. Forque will alwys be a LEGEND in Baytown. I pray for your strength and peace. God's Speed. REGEANA AINSWORTH MITCHUM, AUGUST 3, 2005 I was influenced by Charles Forque from 1965-1968 and was honored to be a part of three of his Sweepstakes winning bands at Robert E. Lee High in Baytown. The concerts with Doc were amazing, and Mr. Forque was totally responsible for that experience. This is my 25th year in the classroom, and I owe the memory of Charles Forque for my ability to be a team player at work and in society. Judy Rowe Reidy JUDY ROWE REIDY, AUGUST 3, 2005 Dear Cheryl, I'm so saddedned to hear of your dad's passing. The memory of our time in junior high at HM as twirlers is still a special one for me. Your parents were so wonderful to the 5 of us and I will never forget them taking us to the Galleria ice skating. It was a first for me! Your dad's contribution to the youth of Baytown is unmatched and has been a topic of conversation over the years and will continue to be in the years to come. My thoughts and prayers are with your mom, you and your children in this time of loss. ROBIN PERKINS STOERNER, AUGUST 2, 2005 I would like to express my deepest condolences to Ednajo and Cheryl. My prayers are for you at this time, that you might find comfort knowing that your husband and father had a well-lived life. I have spent 23 of my 44 years in school. At each stage of my development and career, there have been exceptional and influential teachers. But no teacher has had a greater influence on me than Charles Forque. He believed in his students so much that we had no choice but to believe in ourselves. He preached hard work with a smile on his face. He stressed discipline measured with fairness. I remember several hot-afternoon marching rehearsals when Mr. Forque wanted desperately to keep us longer in order to work out some frustrating problem, only to release us saying, "We start on time and we get out on time." We respected him for that. I have so many great memories of high school because of band: a band made extraordinary because of Charles Forque. He was not afraid to show his emotions, barking when one of us wasn't trying their best, but more often, letting the band know how much he loved us. By holding his students to high standards, he challenged us to grow and succeed. And when we did succeed, he gave us full credit, keeping none for himself. Thank you Mr. Forque for teaching this kid from the wrong side of the tracks to reach for the stars. Michael J. Kubelka, DDS, MS MICHAEL J. KUBELKA, AUGUST 2, 2005 Ms. Forque and Cheryl, My thoughts and prayers are with you. I am so sorry for your personal loss. None of us have to tell you what a great man Mr. Forque was - you, as his family, know that better than any of us. But, for me, he was a great influence. He was not just our band director, he was our friend, our leader, our teacher of life, our "Dad" away from home. He could make me laugh and cry all at the same time. He worked us hard and proved to us that it "could" be done. He taught me to be proud of myself, to be the best at whatever choices I made, and he stood beside me. I am so honored to have been under his leadership of the "Famous Robert E. Lee Band". May God Bless your family and may Mr. Forque rest is peace. Love, Linda LINDA L. (ANDREAS) THOMPSON, AUGUST 2, 2005 Mr. Forque was a great band director and teacher. He demanded excellence and got it. My brother, Mike, and I were both members of the Plano Senior High Band (1977-1979/1981-1983) and as tough a teacher as Mr. Forque was, there was no doubt that he truly cared about his students. I still remember how every halftime show he would stop on his way to the press box and say hello to my parents in the stands, and he continued to do so well after I was out of school. What a special man he was. BECKI ARNOLD DENETZ, AUGUST 2, 2005 As a mediocre sixth-grade trumpet player at the 1965 Sam Houston Summer Band Camp I wanted sooooo much to be in Charles Forque's band, but alas, I had to settle for the second tier level, and of course Mr. Forque had the "top group". But I loved band, despite my lack of serious talent, all thru high school, and college. Then more than 25 years later as an adult amateur I was thrilled to find Charles again as conductor of Plano Community Band in 1990. At last, I made it into "Charles' band". Now, 40 years since that first summer at band camp, I, along with my husband, who plays trombone in PCB, send our warmest wishes to Ednajo and family as they begin this new chapter in their lives! Brenda Shaddox BRENDA SHADDOX SHADDOX, AUGUST 2, 2005 He influenced so many of us, emphasizing both teamwork and individual excellence. I ended up in an Army band during the late '60s, thanks to his requirements for discipline and order, and his determination to get the most out of each of us. He was the ultimate teacher, coach, team leader, and friend. RICK RAWLEY, AUGUST 2, 2005 My deepest sympathies to the members of the family. I remember Charles as we were both in TMEA , TBA and both worked for a while in the same prt of the world, the Gulf Coast of Texas. If I remember correctly we both attended Sam Houston and worked on our Masters about the same time. It was always a pleasure getting to see Charles at the meetings because he always had a kind word to say anmd just seemed to make yu feel better having been around him. He will me missed by a large number on individuals, both in the band world and outside. Respectfully, Bob Curtis, Bay City, TX BOB CURTIS, AUGUST 2, 2005 I was indoctrinated into Mr. Forque's world in 1979, when my oldest sister Susie joined the PSHS band. My sister Barb followed the next year. I finally got my chance 4 years later. I already knew about pi-na-ple pie, pin wheels towards the hot house, and how to march. I even knew how to be punctual (remember "If you're 5 minutes early, You're on-time. If you're on-time, you're 5 minutes late."? CHarles went deeper. He taught me about perfection. About how a single moment of perfection in time makes all of the hard work pay off. He wanted all of us to experience that moment at least once in our lives. He also taught me that we can see that moment 2 times a day: sunrise and sunset. Charles taught me to embrace sunrises and sunsets, and to find the perfect moment in each one. I've seen them from every angle you can imagine: from airplanes, the tops of mountains, from a volcanoe, and coastlines all around the US. He was right: I've never seen the same one twice, and each one has been perfection in its own right. Carpe' diem, Charles BRIAN PATRICK MCGREGOR, PSHS '87, AUGUST 2, 2005 As a member of the Famous REL Band from 1959-1962 I can say I will never forget Mr. Forque. As band members we would have followed him to the end of the earth. PATRICIA NELSON FITCH, AUGUST 2, 2005 Please know that a Plano Community Band member has fond memories of Charles and his contributions to our group. What a lasting legacy he has left to so many of his former students. JULI FERRARO, AUGUST 2, 2005 My favorite lesson Mr. Forque taught me was "If you let Monday automatically be a bad day, you have wasted 1/7 of your life." God bless you, Charles. DONALD EDGAR ROGERS, AUGUST 2, 2005 Mr. Forque had such a profound influence on my life, and on the lives of all of his band students. The dedication he had to his students was unsurpassed. While he always demanded that his students work hard, he made sure we were having fun too. Mr. Forque was truly a gift to all who knew him. LYNN CAMPANARO GROSS, AUGUST 2, 2005 I was a member of the Robert E. Lee High school symphonic band from 1970- 1974. At that time, the Lee Band was one of the top bands in the country and for one reason only --- Charles Forque. He was a perfectionist, a hard worker and an inspiration to be the best that you can be. He brought out the best in his students and taught us how good it feels to succeed by virtue of hard work. Being a member of his band for 4 years gave me a pride and memories that I cherish to this day. He was a remarkable man and positively affected the lives of so many young men and women during his lifetime. His legacy will live on long after these days of sorrow. My condolences to his family. It is so sad to hear that a man of his nature had to endure the suffering of Alzheimers. At least, now, he's at peace. My prayers are with you at this time of sorrow. God bless you. DEBRA MARTINEZ MILLER, AUGUST 2, 2005 (Remember the time we went to see, "The Last Picture Show" but Cheryl told her father we went to see "Willie Wonka's Chocolate Factory"?) So many lives are fuller today and more complete, due to the music education offered us by Gene Stephenson, Fred Parker, Jim Cunningham, Doug Wallace, and Charles Forque. Under their instruction, we - their former students - learned to play and love music. And we collected many wonderful memories of those lamb-white days, when we were rose-lipped maidens, and light-footed lads, green and golden in the sun that is young once only. Those memories, and the music teachers Charles inspired and helped to train, are Charles Forque's priceless legacy. We are his fortunate heirs. W LEE ROBERTS, AUGUST 2, 2005 I just learned of Mr. Forque's death. My thoughts and prayers are with his wife and family. I'm sure he's up in heaven directing the band. I remember he always got after me for being goofy! He expected maturity and responsibility from his students. Because of my experience in band, I encouraged my children to participate in music. REL Band Member 1967-1971 JO ANN ROGERS, AUGUST 2, 2005 Our sincerest condolences to the family of Charles Forque, Ednajo & Cheryl. As a former colleague of Charlie in the band directing business, I have many great memories. For our undergraduate years at Sam Houston State, I recall being in band with him and sharing a burning desire to learn the business of band directing. We were fraternity brothers in Kappa Kappa Psi, honorary band fraternity. We were mutually in Phi Beta Mu and both of us are members of the Texas Bandmasters Hall of Fame. I recall our early days as band directors; Charlie at REL in Baytown, myself at Brazosport in Freeport and later at Brazoswood. My family enjoyed going to Baytown for the Severinson concerts. My son, Wade, who is presently the director of the Dickinson High School band played trumpet in my band at Brazoswood and looked forward to hearing his trumpet playing idol, "Doc" Severinson. I worked with the jr. high band festivals in Baytown several times and worked with Charles at the Summer band camps in Huntsville where a few years your daughter, Cheryl played oboe and my son, Wade played trumpet. On a very personal note, Charlie liked to tell everyone that he was present with me when I proposed to my wife Alice in Orange, Texas. This is true! He was sitting on the other end of the couch when I popped the question!! Ednajo, when we all get to heaven, we're going to have a great reunion! I look forward to that day. In God's Love and Ours, Fred & Alice Joyce McDonald, Sweeny, Texas FRED MCDONALD, AUGUST 2, 2005 Charles Forque was not only a Great Leader, but also a Great Friend. I was in the Lee Band from 1962-1965. He taught us to walk the line, a Straight Line. He never let us give up and say "I can"t do it." Charles Forque made us the Best Band in the Country and all better people because he was our Friend-not our Judge. SUSAN LYNN ANDERSON BANKSTON, AUGUST 2, 2005 My prayers are with you. Mr Forque touched many lives and will be greatly missed. I am honored to have known him; he gave so much to all the students he taught. He was truly a talented band director and wonderful person! PATTI MCCLURG GILCHRIEST - REL'78, AUGUST 2, 2005 My love and most sincere condolences to the Forque family. JEANNE HILL OWEN, AUGUST 2, 2005 Charles was a wonderful friend and colleague during the time we taught together at Plano Senior High School. He welcomed me in 1988 to the music faculty and was most supportive as the Plano Senior High Symphony Orchestra program began its growth and dedication to excellence over the following years. I admired his dedication to the Plano Senior High Band program and his wonderful musicality as he worked with year after year of students in that program. He was an outstanding musician, teacher, and friend whose legacy continues through the generations of young people who have participated in the Plano and Baytown band programs. He was my colleague and friend. My sincere condolences go to his beloved Ednajo and family. Love, Kathy DeBerry Brungard KATHY DEBERRY BRUNGARD, AUGUST 2, 2005 I was in Mr. Forque's Famous Robert E. Lee Band in the late 1960's, and it was the highlight of my high school life. He had such an impact on my life and those of my friends that I cannot think of high school without thinking of him. He drove us hard and taught us to be the best. He made us proud of ourselves and where we came from. I learned a great deal from him, and even though both he and I had moved in different directions, I will miss him. My sympathies go out to Mrs. Forque, Cheryl and all of his family. Cindy Wilson Bowen Houston CINDY WILSON BOWEN, AUGUST 2, 2005 My thoughts and prayers are with you Mrs. Forque and your family. Although I have not been back to the PSHS campus since I graduated in 1985, my memories of that time revolve around Mr. Forque and the Wildcat band. As President of the band and a teenager trying to discover my path in life, Mr. Forque and I did not always see eye to eye. If there is one thing that I take from my too brief encounter with Mr. Forque is that whatever you choose to do in life, be excellent at it. Thank you, Charles, for all that you taught your students and family. You will be missed. John Chapman PSHS 1985 JOHN CHAPMAN, AUGUST 2, 2005 to a fellow graduate of R E Lee high 1948. well remembered OTHELLO OSCAR HARE, AUGUST 2, 2005 Let us all give thanks for the love Charlie shared with life and music. Knowing Charlie at Sam Houston State was a joy. We pray for God's peace for his family. DON AND BERNICE MORGAN, AUGUST 2, 2005 Mr. Forque changed lives of so many students including myself. There was always assurance from Mr. Forque that no matter who you were, what instrument you played or where you came from that you were part of his family. The blessings of the presence of his life on my family is everlasting. A few years ago I ran into Mr. Forque at a UIL marching contest and was blessed with the opportunity to spend a few hours with him talking about old times how much life had changed. He loved his bands, he loved his students and most of all he love his family. Thank you Mr. Forque for your inspiration, your dedication and your love. CHRIS BOND, AUGUST 2, 2005 With sincere love and sympathy. I was a member of the Robert E. Lee band, Class of 1963. Paula Osborne Sturrock PAULA JOAN STURROCK (OSBORNE), AUGUST 2, 2005 Mr. Forque made such a positive influence on us during our band years at R.E.Lee Hi.Sch. He made time for individual praise as well & I loved his positive energy. After all these years (grad 1962), I wanted you to know he had such an impact on me. Cheryl (Glaw) Williamson CHERYL GLAW WILLIAMSON, AUGUST 2, 2005 My deepest sympathy to his family. Charles was a real "leader of the band". It was my great fortune to have been one of his many students. He has been an inspiration for me all these years. Lee Band Member 1963-1966. STEVE HOLMES, AUGUST 2, 2005 Family Reunions discussing family and stories. DANIEL & JERRIE FOX, AUGUST 1, 2005 So very sorry to hear about Mr. Forque. He was a legend to Robert E. Lee. What a wonderful man he was. My thoughts and prayers are with you. CAROLYN KAY BAKER, AUGUST 1, 2005 I learned a great deal about teaching, relationships, responsibility, and most of all, a love of music from Mr. Forque. I number him as one of the most influential people of my life. I hope I am half the teacher he was -- my students are better prepared for my having worked with him at a young age. He will indeed be missed. KST, PSHS '84 KRISTEN STAUFFER TODD, AUGUST 1, 2005 I cannot tell you how sad I am to hear of Mr. Forque's passing. He was definitely one of my favorite teachers at Plano Senior High School. I was probably one of his more shy students over the years, and he always made me smile and blush. Please accept my deepest sympathy and know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Mr. Forque is definitely in a better place now. -from Claudia Harris, Paris, TX CLAUDIA SAMPLES HARRIS, AUGUST 1, 2005 Our daughter was in the PSHS band for two years under Charles. As a mentor to band kids, he did more than teach them music. He instilled in them some of life's great values which they carry with them today. He was a gifted leader. HELEN & MERV STAUFFER, AUGUST 1, 2005 As a former Plano Band student, I have very fond memories of Mr. Forque. My memories of high school center around band - Mr. Forque, his leadership, the fun we had, and the friends I made and continue to see after 20 years. Mr. Forque was such a strong, positive influence in my life. It was always a comfort to know that someone believed in me in those difficult teenage years. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with Mrs. Forque (my former history teacher) and the rest of the family. He will surely be missed for his leadership and his legacy in Texas. Deanna Hicks, Ph.D., Class of 1985. DEANNA (MITTERER) HICKS, AUGUST 1, 2005 I was a member of the Plano Senior High band 1980-1982. I will always remember Mr. Forque for his leadership, high ideals, and dedication to excellence. He expected a lot of those around him. After spending the many hours of rehearsals and performances with him, a part of him stays with you. Like many who have written the same thing, he is one of the educators that I will fondly remember forever. JOE NEELY, AUGUST 1, 2005 Ednajo: Our deepest symphathy to you and your family. He was the best!!!! Crockett High Class of '57 HAROLD & ANNA (GIBSON) ROBERTSON, AUGUST 1, 2005 Doug and I are so saddened by the news of Mr. Forque, but at the same time we cannot forget what such a wonderful man has done for our family. All three of our children (now married) had the honor and privilege of playing in the Plano Senior High Band. We will never forget all the pride he instilled in all our children and especially making them "stop and smell the roses" which of course they were too busy to do if they were in band. Our hats go off to Charles and all the wonderful concerts and halftimes that we were able to share with him. Charles will certainly be missed but never frogotten by the Gilmore family. MARILYN AND DOUG GILMORE, AUGUST 1, 2005 They say that all teachers emulate their own most memorable teachers. For me Charles Forque was that teacher. Band at REL was the one memory of high school that will never fade away! I know that I was somewhat of a pain as a student and at the band banquet in 1961 they willed "my dirty looks to someone else other than Mr. Forque". I still have the long letter he wrote to me in my yearbook. He knew me well! I never thought that my life would be spent as a teacher but somehow it was. I have just retired from 35 years of teaching music, the last 25 of which was as a high school choir director. I missed it so that I went back to work part time today. The one teacher I have chosen to pattern my classroom methods after is Charles Forque. I truly believe that the only joy in learning can come from hard work and persistence. He not only showed us how to work hard but he left us with the belief that we could achieve anything if we just tried. I am glad I got to know you Charles! Mary Gail Webber (Land)class of 61 MARY GAIL WEBBER, AUGUST 1, 2005 We all had nothing but respect and admiration for this man. He taught us an appreciation for so many different styles of music. Band was the best part of my high school experience, and judging from many conversations at the class of '61 reunions, I was not alone. He was at times demanding, but it was just what we needed, and he earned all our respect and love. Shelley SHELLEY SHEFFIELD GRIFFIN, AUGUST 1, 2005 I know the last few years have been hard for the family. I was in the Plano Community Band when Charles was director the first time. Then I moved to San Diego and started another community band. I will always remember pin- ap-ple for triplets that he used. He was definitely a plus in the music word. We will miss you Charles. Love, Jan Turnage JAN TURNAGE, AUGUST 1, 2005 I was honored to not only be Mr. Forque's 1985 Senior Drum Major, but also Ednajo's history student. As I grew up in Plano, I came to respect and admire the Forque's. Throughout my life I have often reflected back to the lessons and truths that both Ednajo and Charles taught me through instruction and example. Many of our Nation's youth are now more productive adults because of them. I know this time is sad for you Ednajo, but I also know Charles is in a much better place. My most sincere condolences to you and all your family. LtCol Steve Primm, U.S. Marine Corps STEPHEN W. PRIMM, AUGUST 1, 2005 Charles Forque and Don Muery were great teachers, encouragers, motivators and, of course, musicians. I am thankful for all the things I learned being in the band. We learned that working very very hard could also be fun! PAUL SHEFFIELD, AUGUST 1, 2005 I grew up across the street from the Forque family,1949-1966. I have very fond memories of the many many weekend family get-togethers. I was even at their house the day Beckey, Charles sister, was brought home from the hospital. Charles and his entire family are some of the most descent, Christian people I have ever met. My condolences to them ALL. ALLAN DOUGLAS HILL, AUGUST 1, 2005 When I get to that "big hangar in the sky"...I hope there is a Lee Band with Mr. Forque directing . Lee Band 71' KIM POWELL, AUGUST 1, 2005 Cheryl and EdnaJo, I am so very sorry for your loss! He will be missed by many. I know I have great memories of band and all of our accomplishments under his direction. It was some of the best times in high school. He was a great influence and he encouraged all of us to do our very best. Thank you for sharing him with us. Please know you have my deepest sympathy. I lost my father to this horrible disease so I know your road has been quite bumpy. May he rest in peace and I hope you know how very special he was to a lot of students. Love, Carolyn CAROLYN MCLAIN BICKLE, AUGUST 1, 2005 Mr. Forque was a wonderful teacher who worked well with students and enabled them to achieve to their fullest potential. We were fortunate to have two students in the Plano Band in the eighties who were under his direction. You have our condolences, The Walters THE WALTERS, AUGUST 1, 2005 My thoughts are with your family during this sad time. Being a part of the "Famous Robert E. Lee High School Band" from 72 thru 76 was definitely one of the highlights of my high school years. Mr. Forque will truly be missed. LIZ MORELOCK RUSSELL, AUGUST 1, 2005 My thoughts and prayers are with you Ednajo and Cheryl in this time of sorrow. He will truly be missed by everyone that knew him and loved him. I am praying for strength and Peace to carry you through your difficult days. I am so truly sorry for the loss to your entire family. May God Bless You All, MARK SHERRON REL '78 MARK DAVID SHERRON, AUGUST 1, 2005 Charles was the band director at REL when I transferred from Conroe High School in 1958. Little did I know then that I would return as choral director at REL and have Charles as a colleague. I fondly remember the good times at REL as a student and as a teacher. Charles asked me to emcee many of the band concerts, particuarly when Doc Severinson would come for a performance and I also announced the REL Marching Band's halftime performances at high school games as well as the frequent performance at the then Houston Oilers games in the Astrodome. I learned much about teaching music in the schools from him and will cherish the fond memories I have of him. Jack Walton Class of 1960 Colleague 1967-1971 JACK WALTON, AUGUST 1, 2005 I am sorry to hear about Mr. Forque and his illness. What great memories I have about the years that he taught me in the Famous Robert E. Lee Band. My thoughts and prayers will be with you during this time. PATI HOWELL CANON, AUGUST 1, 2005 Our condolenes THERESA,LOGAN,LISA N/A MOORE, AUGUST 1, 2005 I was in the Band at Lee and graduated in 1960. I have such wonderful memories of Mr. Forque and the fun times we had. KAY MORROW WRIGHT, AUGUST 1, 2005 Bobby Franks for Neal Franks(deceased)one of his REL band students FRANKS C ROBERT, AUGUST 1, 2005 It was my pleasure to sing in the First Presbyterian Choir which Charles conducted for many years. My son, David, was a member of the Robert E. Lee Band when it was at it's greatest under Charles'direction. We are sad at his passing and will remember him fondly. LOWELL WESTERMAN, AUGUST 1, 2005 Mr. Forque was and still remains an incredible influence in my life. The few years I was physically in his band are dwarfed by the decades that he has continued to be a driving force for me. His "tough love" was what I needed in my life at that crucial time, and I thank him for having the strength to deliver it. LEE BAND RULES! Cheryl, I am so sorry for your loss...please hug your mom for me, and assure her that his legacy will live for so many of us forever. God Bless You both. Sincerely, Robert Van Natta-Baytown, Texas 281.428.2486 ROBERT G. VAN NATTA, AUGUST 1, 2005 Below is a copy of an email story that I had sent to friend and former Lee band member Tommy Fain and a mutual friend who is a college music professor on June 12, 2005 that exemplifies my memories of Charles Forque's outstanding character and excellent teaching abilities. The REAL No Child Left Behind: Tommy, Without a doubt, as a teacher, the greatest thing that I ever learned from being taught by Charles Forque is the importance of valuing each student that you teach, regardless of what chair they are or what disabilities or challenges that they might face. Charles was always determined to help EVERY SINGLE ONE of his students to achieve their own personal full potential, and I can think of so many stories to support that, such as the two that you mentioned. I don’t ever actually recall Charles saying that this was important, but rather, I simply learned this by observing his actions and seeing him support his students. As a matter of fact, my own personal story is as good of an example as any. My freshman year in high school, I totally sucked on the trumpet (or rather, “cornit”, as Charles called the cornet). I was in the third (i.e., bottom) band and was as lame of a player as anyone there. Charles kindly began working with me one-on-one, showing me what to practice and how to practice it to become good. He also taught me a lot about musicianship along the way. Well, as a result of all of Charles’ help and inspiration, when we had band auditions for the next school year at the end of my 9th grade year, I jumped all the way from third band to well up into the top (Symphonic) band. After hearing me play the audition, I can remember assistant band director Don Murey saying “Wow, Randy sounds GREAT! It’s hard to believe that when he first came to this school, he didn’t hardly even know which end of his horn to blow on!” When Charles first started helping me when I was in the ninth grade, I doubt that he had any idea that I would one day go on to earn a music degree, become a band director and music teacher and also become one of the top freelance professional trumpet players in Houston. That’s just the way he was—he went above and beyond to help everybody. He was wise enough also to realize that a strong “third string” helped to make your entire team (or band) strong and successful. When we had a band “reunion” of people who were in Charles’ band during approximately his last ten years at Lee High School, it was nice to discover how our former band mates had each gone on to successful careers (in various fields and occupations) and were living happy lives. And many of them attributed their success to being a result of their experiences in the school band. --Randy Dunn RANDY GLEN DUNN, AUGUST 1, 2005 Mr. Forque was a great musican and teacher with very high expections. There are many pleasant memories of his time in Baytown and Lee HS. I particularly enjoyed our personal association during my senior year (1959-60) when I served as band president. VIRGIL TIEMANN, AUGUST 1, 2005 Our thoughts and prayers are for you and your family. DON MUERY, AUGUST 1, 2005 The Forques at First Christian Church in Baytown. Those were the good years. May God walk with you in the weeks ahead. In deepest sympathy, Edra EDRA HANSEN SCHUTZE, AUGUST 1, 2005 "Lee Band Rules!!" Mr. Forque inspired me to do my best at whatever I choose to do. A very great motivator. I cannot remember the name of a single teacher I had in grades K-12 except for Mr. Forque. I remember him well because of the great influences he had on me while in High School at Robert E. Lee. TRACY GOLDEN, AUGUST 1, 2005 Charles was one of my favorite Directors of the Plano Community Band.I believe I learned the most during that time.I pray for the Family during this time. GEORGE O TILLOTSON, AUGUST 1, 2005 May you rest in peace, Dear Uncle Charlie. The best Teacher and Friend I have ever had. You were the BEST! for all of us. SHEILA SUE YANKIE/SALMI, AUGUST 1, 2005 I was Charles' first drum major (1959), and we had a wonderful year with The Famous Robert E. Lee Marching Band. Al and I did not know about his health problems, and we are so sorry. We know you took excellent care of him, and our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. I have often thought of him and the fun times we had. Love, Al and Paula AL AND PAULA (STRICKLIN) DENNIS, AUGUST 1, 2005 Robert E. Lee Senior High Class of 1960 PEGGY MULLINNIX HARRISON, AUGUST 1, 2005 Charles was such an outstanding band director, frient but most important, a leader and role model for our high school students. My wife Mary and I enjoyed working with him when we were members of the band boosters of Plano Senior High School. Charles was an inspiring an respected teacher. I know because I still hear my children and their friends from band talk about 'Mr. Forque'. He will certainly be missed. May God comfort Ednajo and everyone else in his family. RAY LENART, AUGUST 1, 2005 He will be remembered dearly by all those REL Band members forever. The love and caring for each of us helped all of us to be teachers and leaders in our communities. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I lost my Daddy to the same diease 5 years ago. GEORGANNE THOMPSON, AUGUST 1, 2005 I was a member of the "Famous Robert E. Lee" from 1959 thru 1962. I will never forget the friendship that I had with Mr. Forque. He was an inspiration to me and that is the main reason I was in the band because of him being the director. Those years were the best years of my life. JUDITH LEAH (RILEY) FOSTER, AUGUST 1, 2005 Both of my sons were fortunate enough to be in the band program at Plano Senior High. Charles was the consumate teacher, mentor, role model and friend to our family for several years. PAT RIEHN, AUGUST 1, 2005 Charles hired me for my first teaching job in Goose Creek CISD 31 years ago as an orchestra director. I always admired Charles as a fellow music educator and mentor. I ended up in Clear Creek ISD and I currently serve as the Director of Fine Arts there. I continued to see and visit with Charles at the TMEA convention and I am greatly saddened by his passing. He was a wonderful teacher, author, and friend. I will hold his family in my prayers. DEBORAH ROGERS KIDWELL, AUGUST 1, 2005 Though I was not in the band--I was in the Brigadiers--Mr. Forque was one of the teachers at REL that impacted my life. My older brother, Steven Sanders, was in the band and I remember Steven and his coharts speaking fondly of Mr. Forque. Mr. Forque's dedication and caring for students helped to establish an enviroment that encouraged excellence. The environment at REL was stable and secure thanks to men like Mr. Forque. We need more men like him in our schools today. I'm saddened to know that Alzheimers compromised his and his family's last years. ...but there are better days ahead for him and all who love the Lord. May God bless all of you as you grieve your loss. Barbara Sanders Tyer BARBARA TYER, AUGUST 1, 2005 I was President of the 1960 Sophomore Band. Mr. Forque was a great band director, motivator and friend. Some of my fondest memories of RELee are of the Famous RELee marching band under the direction of Charles Forque. He was very special and we were priviledged to have had Mr. Forgue in our lives. God Bless. Duke Waldrop, Winter Haven, FL. DUKE WALDROP, AUGUST 1, 2005 I was in Mr. Forque's band at REL from 1957 till 1960...we thought once Mr Burkett retired, no one could take his place.....we were WRONG....Mr.Forque took our band to new heights... He was a good director and fine person and will be missed. MIKEL CASEY CAUSEY, AUGUST 1, 2005 I am sorry for your loss. May God bless his soul as well as the rest of your family. RYAN BRAWLEY, AUGUST 1, 2005 I have always said that I had two teachers at Robert E. Lee High School that had an impact on my future. One was Charles Forque. I certainly wasn't a great musician and in fact I was probably a real pain to him. But he, along with my parents, always taught that if you want to be good, you have to work at it. Nothing is easy but if you are willling to put in the effort, good things will come. The ability to affect a young person's life is indeed a gift, and Charles Forque had it. GORDON EDWARD SCHUTZE, AUGUST 1, 2005 I have wonderful family memories. Mostly of the family gatherings on the front porch of our home in Channelview. That happen several Sundays a month after Church. I remember the wonderful concerts with Doc Severinson. I will remember his great love for his family and what a great caring person he was. I am sure he is happy with Grandma, Grandpa, Daddy and Aggie. BECKY & JIM BRAWLEY, AUGUST 1, 2005 Mr.Forque...my band director for 3 years...I truly felt that he cared for me, as did all his students. I remember his temper tantrums! He worked so hard to make us great. I still the album we had made of a concert with Doc Severinson...the symphonic band of 1965 & 1966. He made me stand up straight...I had the habit of standing with one hip stuck out, and he'd pop that hip with a drumstick!! WITH my mother's permission, I might add! He comforted me and gave me advice when my heart was broken. He was a fine man and made my school days better. To his family...my condolences. Mary Spear MARY AMIDA SPEAR, AUGUST 1, 2005 Mr. Forque was my band director at Lee from 1962-1965. I will miss him. He always made us strive to do our best. GAY D. PATRICK, AUGUST 1, 2005 Mr. Forque, may you always remember all of us who loved being in your bands. May God hold you in His arms and grant you peace forever. REL '60 JUDY BOWERS, AUGUST 1, 2005 Hello, Edna Jo and Cheryl I am so sorry to hear about Charlie (BOY)... I know you have lost a great loved one and Charlie will missed by all. I will see you at the grave side service. See you then. Until then I will pray for you both. Betty BETTY JO (FORQUE) MORGAN, JULY 31, 2005 He was part of my childhood in Channelview, living across the street from his father, Asa, and his baby sister, Becky, and her Mother, Ola. They were my second family, and Charlie was ALWAYS good to me and always offered me encouragement and laughter. I will never forget Charlie and Ednajo, nor Sheryl. I know God will take good care of him and his family left behind. Much love, Stuart Hill, Deming NM STUART L HILL, JULY 31, 2005 My deepest sympathies to the Forque family and their extended family. Having grown up in Baytown, Charles' name was a house hold name since I was a little boy. Many of my relatives were under his baton and they admired him deeply. Although Charles was already well established in Plano by the time I entered the band programs at REL, he was somewhat responsible for planting the seed for me to become a band director, which I have been doing for 16 years now. I made it a goal that I wanted my bands to sound like Charles' bands and to teach my students through music. I met Charles for the first time at an honor band clinic while I was attending McNeese State. We had remained in touch and he would often send me his recordings with Doc. In 2000, while I was taking seminary courses in Waxahachie, Charles invited me to bring my horn and sit in on a reading rehearsal with the Plano Community Band. It was a highlight because it was my first time to be under his baton. The rehearsal itself is something I'll never forget. He introduced me as a former student, knowing that I had never had him as a band director. Later that evening he told me that anyone from the REL band, as far as he was concerned, was a former student. What an incredible human being he was! 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