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BY KATE SOSIN force youth of color out of the neighborhood, setting of the week. off a debate that nearly exploded at the Lakeview CAPS “Respect for the friendliness in the neighborhood is While Lakeview residents and concerned youth have meeting on July 6. lacking and really what all involved want. Any ordinary been vocal on the perceived increase in crime in Boys- We asked LGBT leaders and their organizations to citizen is easily intimidated by the growing population freedom town, LGBT community leaders, organizations and bar comment on recent violent incidents in Lakeview, the of wandering and aimless underage folks who are drawn from fear owners have been slower to speak on recent contro- July 6 CAPS meeting, and the birth of the “Take Back to North Halsted Street‘s welcoming and diverse na- versies. Boystown” Facebook page: ture. Most of these individuals do not feel welcome to honorees Problems started at this year’s Pride Parade, where —Jim Ludwig, owner of Roscoe’s Tavern: “The en- “be themselves” in their own neighborhoods. Friendly, page 7 a lack of crowd control resulted in brawls all over thusiastic participation and staggering number of citi- respectful social behavior is what is attractive to our Lakeview. In the wake of parade, Lakeview residents zens at the CAPS meeting was clearly indicative of the neighborhood, but anti-social, confrontational, and in- created a Facebook page to discuss crime called “Take community’s concern for safety on our streets and the timidating behavior has no place in our shared commu- Back Boystown.” Residents reported violent incidents frustrations we all encounter. This emphasized our need nity. Very, very few of these people cause any trouble, on that page, including a July 3 stabbing that was for a dedicated entertainment district police tactical but their presence on the street is clear indication of caught on video. presence similar to that assigned in the ‘Rush Street their thirst for involvement and acceptance. However, the “Take Back Boystown” page has also Area’ is clearly needed to handle the huge numbers of been plagued by a perception that its members want to visitors to our area seeking entertainment every night Turn to page 10
Surrogacy company includes many same-sex couples Jeanne White- Come Part of a series Grinder on By Charlsie Dewey her son, Ryan The 2008 comedy Baby Mama, starring Tina Fey white and Amy Poehler, may have seemed like a cau- page 16 to her tionary tale for couples desiring to start a family with the help of a surrogate, but for thousands of women and men who have turned to in vitro fertilization (IVF) technology through aParent window IVF and Fertility Centers of Illinois, the process has been a wonderfully fulfilling experience. Lesbian icon Melissa For more than 20 years, Dr. Brian R. Kaplan, Etheridge weighs in on M.D. at FCI, and Colleen Coughlin, aParent IVF everything from her owner and laboratory director, have worked to- fans to Dolly Parton. gether to assist couples and single individuals Photo by Lester Cohen in starting the family they have always dreamed of having. The pair have a unique partnership. page 34 Coughlin’s lab serves all of Kaplan’s patients as well as patients from other physicians within the practice group. Coughlin also has direct contact with the patients throughout the process. RIDE FOR AIDS The second largest practice in the country; FCI takes place has 11 physicians and multiple offices through- PAGE 42 out the city and suburbs of Chicago. Kaplan said that the practice treats approximately 3,000 IVF cases per year. He said the average center in the U.S. treats 250 cases annually. Kaplan and Coughlin have built their reputa- tions as being inclusive and hands on in helping their clients become parents. They have worked with single men, single women, heterosexual couples and LGBT couples both nationally and internationally, believing that it is everyone’s right to have a baby. “Most of our patients are heterosexual cou- ples, but we do see a significant number of gay couples, both male and female, compared to most other centers,” said Kaplan. “The number of patients I’ve treated of this population, prob- ably the numbers of babies born is in the thou- POP MAKING sands.” SENSE WITH LGBT couples have unique needs when it BEYONCE comes to starting a family and Coughlin said page 29 Turn to page 13 2 July 13, 2011 WINDY CITY TIMES Have a sizzling summer! Work out at World Gym!
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—Clinic of Michele and their children Bachmann’s (left) spouse in ex-gay snit by Dana Rudolph United Church of Christ in Chicago from 1988 Keen News Service until 2008, when inflammatory political com- —Kentucky city doesn’t ments by the minister, Rev. Jeremiah Wright, change anti-gay policy The United Church of Christ (UCC), the denomi- Jr., caused him to choose to leave the congre- nation to which President Obama belonged for gation. —Univ. of South Fla. two decades, resoundingly approved two resolu- In related news, a measure took effect in the offers transgender tions on July 5 in support of civil rights for LGBT Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.) on July 10, allow- housing options people—including the first-ever resolution by a ing non-celibate, openly gay men and lesbians major Christian denomination affirming the right to be ordained as clergy, one of the few denom- of LGBT parents to adopt and raise children. inations—including the UCC and the Episcopal Some say the UCC’s actions could have a sig- Church—to do so. nificant impact in widening support for LGBT ©2011 by Keen News Service. All rights re- equality in other denominations and among leg- served. islators. The parenting measure passed in a rare unani- In its order lifting its stay, a panel of 9th mous vote by representative delegates to the ‘Don’t Ask, Circuit judges said: “[A]ppellants ... do not UCC’s biannual General Synod, said Rev. Mi- contend that [DADT] is constitutional. In ad- chael Schuenemeyer, UCC executive for health dition, in the context of the Defense of Mar- and wholeness advocacy, making it “about as Don’t Tell ‘ riage Act ... the United States has recently strong a statement as you can get from a church taken the position that classifications based body.” dies again: on sexual orientation should be subjected The resolution says care of children is “a moral to heightened scrutiny. ... (‘gay and lesbian responsibility for families, the church and the Court lifts stay by REX WOCKNER individuals have suffered a long and signifi- community.” It calls on the church “to defend cant history of purposeful discrimination’) ... the rights of all children to have loving parents The Rev. Geoffrey Black, the UCC’s general The 9th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals on July (‘there is, regrettably, a significant history without regard to sexual orientation or gender minister and president. Photo from the UCC’s 6 lifted its stay of a federal District Court rul- of purposeful discrimination against gay and expression, and to recognize a family to be any press room on its website ing that found the Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell mili- lesbian people, by governmental as well as loving, nurturing, ethical relationship between a tary gay ban unconstitutional. private entities’). Appellants ... state that child and one or more parents.” stream Christian denomination has approved a As a result, DADT no longer can be enforced the process of repealing [DADT] is well un- In addition, it calls on all states “to evalu- resolution similar to that of the UCC on adoption anywhere in the world, it’s OK to be openly derway, and the preponderance of the armed ate prospective adoptive parents solely on the and parenting by LGBT people. In 1993, how- gay in the military, and openly LGB people forces are expected to have been trained by basis of their individual character and ability ever, the Union for Reform Judaism (then called can sign up to join the military. mid-summer. The circumstances and balance to parent, not on their sexual orientation or the Union of American Hebrew Congregations) The Pentagon said July 8 that it had halted of hardships have changed, and appellants ... gender identity, and to grant second-parent or approved a more limited resolution stating that all DADT separation proceedings and is ac- can no longer satisfy the demanding standard joint adoptions when it is in the child’s best “individual lesbian or gay parents have been ad- cepting applications from openly gay pro- for issuance of a stay.” interests.” judged unfit to raise their own children because spective recruits. “We won,” said R. Clarke Cooper, executive More than 460,000 children in the United they are lesbian or gay” and calling on all levels The U.S. government could appeal the lift- director of Log Cabin Republicans, the plain- States live in group or foster homes, nearly one of government to enact legislation to stop such ing of the stay, but there has been no in- tiff in the case. “DADT cannot be enforced or quarter of them wait five years or more before judicial bias. dication it plans to do so. Congress’ repeal applied! Hooah!” being adopted, and nearly 20,000 turn 18 each Sharon Groves, director of the Religion and of DADT will be implemented in three-or-so The legal director of Lambda Legal, Jon Da- year without ever having had an adoptive home, Faith Program of the Human Rights Campaign, months under a cumbersome process laid out vidson, called the 9th Circuit’s order “a quite the resolution notes. said it is “absolutely huge” for legislators who in the repeal legislation that President Barack stunning development.” The resolution also observes that many states are LGBT allies to have religious backing like Obama signed last December. “It shows just how important it is that the do not permit same-sex couples to adopt, ei- the UCC’s resolutions. Legislators are “regularly Department of Justice now recognizes that ther as a couple or as individuals, even though bombarded by the religious right,” who have sexual-orientation discrimination should be 65,500 adopted children are already living in “used religion consistently as a way to oppose presumed to be unconstitutional and that LGBT households nationwide, and several major us. It’s really critical for our legislators to both courts should examine such discrimination medical associations support the right of LGBT feel the support and understand that no one carefully, as the Department of Justice force- couples to adopt. owns religion.” fully argued in its brief filed last Friday in our The resolution requests the church’s Justice For anti-LGBT legislators, she added, religious Golinski case [see page 5], which today’s 9th and Witness Ministries “communicate this reso- support of LGBT equality is “a wake-up call that Circuit order expressly referenced,” Davidson lution to local, state and national legislators.” they can’t just assume that the religious com- said. Local UCC congregations are largely autono- munity is a monolith against LGBT issues.” He added that gay members of the military mous and are not required to follow resolutions “The UCC has been the leader in the Chris- considering coming out might hold off until of the General Synod. However, Schuenemeyer tian faith world around LGBT issues,” Groves it’s crystal clear that the government isn’t go- said, “That doesn’t mean it’s not paid attention said. “They have had enormous impact politi- ing to appeal the 9th Circuit’s order. to” and “doesn’t mean there isn’t a strong con- cally in terms of changing what’s happened in National Center for Lesbian Rights Execu- sensus in the life of the church that supports other denominations.” For example, she said the tive Director Kate Kendell commented: “(This) the right of LGBT people to adopt,” as evidenced phrase “open and affirming,” meaning a church is the latest in a stunning series of victories by the unanimous approval of the measure. He that welcomes LGBT people, was a concept de- in the struggle to end government discrimi- said he expects church leaders will speak out veloped by the UCC that has been taken up by nation against LGBT people. On the heels of as needed at the state and federal levels about other denominations. last month’s vote to end marriage discrimina- LGBT parenting rights as they have done for mar- The UCC was the first mainline Protestant de- tion in the state of New York and the Depart- riage equality in Maine, Maryland, Vermont and nomination to ordain an openly gay minister (in ment of Justice’s filing last week of a historic elsewhere. 1972); an openly lesbian minister (in 1977); brief urging the court in Karen Golinski’s case A second resolution passed the same day also and to approve a resolution supporting marriage to strike down the federal Defense of Mar- calls for the UCC to advocate at all levels of for same-sex couples (in 2005). riage Act [see separate story], this ruling is government for the application of human rights In its latest resolutions, Grove said, the UCC is another powerful sign of a much larger trans- principles to prevent “international instances of “again leading the way and providing a kind of formation. For the first time in our nation’s systematic discrimination, violence and abuse vocabulary and an urgency of concern that will history, we are within sight of a time when targeting persons based on their sexual orienta- have an impact in other denominations.” LGBT people can participate in all aspects of tion or gender identity.” That resolution passed The UCC has nearly 5,300 member churches society without fear of being singled out for with a 98 percent favorable vote. and over a million members, according to the stigma and discrimination by their own gov- While other denominations, such as the Epis- National Council of Churches’ 2011 Yearbook of Kate Kendell. Photo by Rex Wockner ernment.” copal Church, have issued statements similar American & Canadian Churches. to the human rights resolution, no other main- President Obama was a member of the Trinity WINDY CITY TIMES July 13, 2011 5 LGBT teaching bill passes Calif.; You owe it to yourself to visit... governor’s position unknown Bob Rohrman’s by REX WOCKNER Alliance Network, called the bill—known as the Fair, Accurate, Inclusive, and Respectful (FAIR) Arlington Kia is the The California Legislature passed a bill July 5 Education Act—“a victory not only for the LGBT that amends the state Education Code to require youth in California who have been fighting to that schools teach about LGBT people’s contri- be heard in Sacramento and represented in their butions to the economic, political and social de- history classes, but also for all California youth velopment of California and the U.S. who deserve to learn a fair and accurate account The bill also prohibits classroom instruction of California and U.S. history.” and school-sponsored activities that promote a According to Leno, the bill rights a long- discriminatory bias on the basis of sexual orien- standing wrong. tation, and requires that newly acquired social- “We are selectively censoring history when sciences textbooks and other social-sciences we exclude LGBT Americans or any other group instructional material used in California adhere of people from our textbooks and instructional to the bill’s requirements. materials,” he said. “We can’t tell our youth that Sponsored by Sen. Mark Leno, D-San Francis- it’s OK to be yourself and expect them to treat co, the measure cleared the Assembly July 5 in a their peers with dignity and respect when we 1 49-25 vote. It passed the Senate 23-14 on April deliberately deny them accurate information 14. about the historical contributions of Americans The bill requires “schools to fairly and accu- who happened to be LGBT.” STORE IN ILLINOIS rately portray the LGBT civil rights movement The bill is now on the desk of Gov. Jerry Brown, and the historic contributions of the diverse who has until July 19 to sign, veto or ignore it. LGBT community in social-science instruction,” If he takes no action, the bill would become law. Brand New 2011 Kia said Equality California. 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I was out policy makes way it is. from the start,” she said, “even if it meant that The Presbyterian Church’s democratic system I reached the point where I could go no further, of governance appeals to Oakes, she said. “It’s I felt it would be completely dishonest in who I for lesbian Chicagoan really a community where the elders have peo- am and what my call is to be closeted.” ple power to the pastors where in a lot of other Sure enough, Oakes experiences the July 10 by Chuck Colbert churches that’s not the case.” lifting of the official church ban on openly LGBT
Oakes also appreciates the academic emphasis ordination as “a joyous occasion,” she said. A new policy that opens the door to ordination that Presbyterians place on theological educa- Even before the landmark change in Presbyte- of openly gay deacons, elders, and ministers in tion and training of pastors, “getting back to rian policy, Fourth Presbyterian endorsed Oakes’s the Presbyterian Church (USA) took effect July the biblical languages so that ministers are able decision to enroll in McCormick Theological 10, with prayer vigils and liturgical celebrations to interpret scripture from the original words,” Seminary, where she is completing ordination to mark the historic occasion held across the she said. prerequisites, including language requirements nation from Pittsburgh to Nashville to Denver In addition, “Our church is a confessional or in Greek and Hebrew, along with course work and beyond. creedal church,” Oakes explained, referring to in reform theology and church polity, or gover- Closer to home, the landmark change means written statements of beliefs, which have to do nance. that Andersonville resident Jeannine Oakes’ with the different ways God operates in other Overall, “I hope that this type of policy dream of becoming an ordained minister of word cultures and periods of time. change now in effect, will let the [LGBT] com- and sacrament—in a church she dearly loves— “I appreciate that that the Presbyterian Church munity know that Presbyterian Church (USA) is may very well come true after all. is not super fixated on theology or confessions,” becoming more accepting,” she said. “Certainly, “I am still in the early stages of the process, she said, explaining that when change in think- having a gay pastor in the pulpit, I would hope, with a lot of requirements to go,” Oakes said ing comes along, “We accept new creeds and is a sign of welcome to all people.” during a telephone interview last week. new constitutions, but we don’t get rid of the Currently, Oakes is an “inquirer,” a denomina- old ones, we add to them.” tional term for a one-year period in which a per- son “discerns”—or figures out—what it means to be an ordained pastor. State cuts ties with policies that include civil unions. The next stage is “candidate,” a one-to-two- In a statement issued July 11, The Civil year period when prospective ministers complete Catholic Charities Rights Agenda Executive Director Anthony divinity degrees and take ordination exams. The state of Illinois has decided not to re- Martinez said, “We are very pleased to hear of Once that process is complete, a committee new its foster care and adoption contracts the State’s decision on this matter. Not only certifies that a candidate is ready to receive a with Catholic Charities, according to the Chi- is Catholic Charities trying to work around “call.” cago Tribune. the Civil Union law, by not providing services Before being ordained, Presbyterian policy re- Jeannine Oakes. Photo courtesy of Oakes However, attorneys for three of the Catholic to a certain group of people, they are also quires that a congregation call—or seek out—a Charities agencies planned to seek an injunc- trampling all over the Human Rights Act and pastor to ministry. tion from a Sangamon County judge July 12. ignoring constitutional protections. That is coming and inclusive of LGBT persons. “There, I Like many LGBT people of faith, Oakes strug- In a letter sent recently to Catholic Chari- unacceptable, and it is appropriate that the started to recognize that God is accepting of all gled to reconcile her sexuality and spirituality ties in the dioceses of Peoria, Joliet, Spring- state of Illinois agree that it is unaccept- people,” Oakes said. Not raised a Presbyterian, she grew up in Aurora, field and Belleville, the Department of Chil- able. After college, she worked for the Chicago Park Ill., and attended a non-denominational evan- dren and Family Services (DCFS) said that the “Catholic Charities is acting on behalf of District, liked her job, but could not see a career gelical bible church. state could not accept its signed contracts the state when they provide these services, as a supervisor and gymnastics instructor for the By junior high school, Oakes and her brother for the 2012 fiscal year because “your agency and it is guaranteed by the laws of Illinois city. found their way to a nearby Presbyterian church has made it clear that it does not intend to that when you accept public funds as an Initially, Oakes considered a career teaching that had lively youth group. comply with the Illinois Religious Freedom agent of the state you must treat those you in academia and enrolled at Yale Divinity School Still, “that church was pretty conservative and Protection and Civil Union Act.” serve equally, period.” where she earned a master of divinity degree in so not a lot different from a bible church,” she Windy City Times reported in its June 1 is- 2008. “I had hoped to continue on and earn a said. sue that the Rockford diocese announced that Ph.D.,” she said. “In a heavy academic environ- Correction Both at home and in church, the message was it would halt state-funded adoption and fos- ment, however, I realized that I missed being in In the July 6 issue of Windy City Times, Ticia clear: It’s not okay to be openly gay and Chris- ter-care services at Catholic Charities rather church, so I started to discern a call.” Coleman should have been quoted in the Gay tian in the same breath. “I felt quite oppressed than comply with state anti-discrimination However, for years, Oakes said, because of the in the Life section as saying, “We chose the in my sexuality—still closeted,” Oakes said. laws. At the time, officials from the Belleville, ban on non-celibate LGBT persons in ministry, church—the First Congregational Church of A 2001 graduate of from the University of Illi- Joliet, Peoria and Springfield dioceses had she “pushed away” any Presbyterian calling, La Grange—because, as a whole, it ordained nois-Chicago, Oakes first began attending Fourth not yet indicated what they would do. wondering why she should have “to fight” for the first gay male minister, the first African Presbyterian Church while in college. Located Last month, the Springfield, Peoria and Jo- ordination. American and the first woman.” along Chicago’s Magnificent Mile, Fourth Presby- liet agencies sued the Illinois attorney gen- Oakes even came to the brink of “seriously Windy City Times regrets the error. terian is a progressive congregation, fully wel- eral and DCFS for threatening to enforce new consider switching to another denomination,”
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Hundreds pack Boystown violence forum
BY KATE SOSIN Tunney started the night by reading a state- der JUST charged that response efforts around the signs. ment he released earlier in the day, confirming crime in Lakeview will result in increased racial “It’s not a race issue,” said one man who re- In the midst of a community uproar over violent his request for a special police “entertainment profiling of youth. ceived a standing ovation. “It’s a behavioral is- crime in Lakeview, the much-anticipated July detail” for the neighborhood. “What are you taking back?” asked Joshua Mc- sue.” 6 CAPS (Community Alternative Policing Strat- “I firmly believe that because we are an enter- Cool, at a Gender JUST press conference before Many agreed and said they felt the meeting egy) 2324 and 2331 meeting drew nearly 800 tainment destination, it is important that the the event. “You own Boystown. There are no should be addressing stabbings and muggings people, generating a debate so heated that it police districts serving the 44th Ward have the spaces for queer youth of color.” that have occurred over the weekend, not race often turned into a screaming match across au- number of officers assigned to them appropriate McCool argued that white Cubs fans are given issues. ditorium aisles. to the influx of people we see daily and nightly, leeway when drunk and out of control, but that A young man stepped up to the mic and told Nearly everyone who attended the meeting not just geared to the number of residents,” Tun- youth of color are implicated as a whole when the crowd he was homeless, and someone yelled seemed to leave the Inter-American Magnet ney said. “It is unrealistic to expect beat officers one youth does something wrong. He also ar- “get a job” back at him. Another young speaker School bleary-eyed and exhausted hours later. to cover areas where there are high concentra- gued that Lakeview was one of the lowest-crime advocated putting less money into extra police The CAPS meeting, which is held regularly, tions of entertainment and hospitality venues.” areas in the city and asked why more was not on Halsted and more money towards homeless was widely attended due to a string of recent However, among the attendees were several being done for other communities. shelters and schools and a man shouted back violent attacks that have increasingly concerned queer youth who claimed that the organized Gender JUST protested a recent “positive loi- “we spent $30 million to put the Center on Hal- residents who say that the neighborhood is un- response to crime in the neighborhood was un- tering” walk organized by the same residents sted.” safe. The most recent attack, a July 3 stabbing, fairly scapegoating them for the attacks. The who organized massive turnout at the CAPS One young transgender woman claimed the drew national attention because it was caught “Take Back Boystown” Facebook page, which has meeting. The group has since taken heat from behavior problems went both ways. “There’s a on video. drawn attention to community fear about crime, “Take Back Boystown” activists who say that reason why the youth are lashing at everybody,” Residents called on 23rd District Command- has also served as a space where people aired they are distracting from solutions to crime. she said. “Because you all look down on us.” er Kathleen Boehmer and 44th Ward Ald. Tom frustrations about LGBT youth who come to the Gender JUST youth were not the only ones At times, the conversation became so strained Tunney to address what they said was a rise in neighborhood for social services. Some on that present in protest of recent conversations. Older that people were jumping out of their chairs and crime. page blamed queer youth for noise and violence community members as well youth who access screaming across the auditorium. Several people “Boystown is a danger zone,” said Kevin in the neighborhood, setting off a community services at Broadway Youth Center also came to were booed away from the mic, and police on O’Brien, a Lakeview resident, who also chastised discussion about race. speak their disapproval, many of them arguing hand stepped forward repeatedly to beg civility Boehmer and Tunney for what he called an inad- One man who spoke at the meeting said that that the conversation had become racist. from the room. equate public response to the issues. some youth who come to the neighborhood are Organizers of the meeting distributed 200 Tensions between Lakeview residents and Several other residents, including Tunney perpetrating violence. “Sometimes people just signs that read “Diversity is Welcome. Crime is visiting youth are hardly new. Residents raised himself, told stories about how they had been need to be told how to act in this neighbor- Not.” similar issues at a 2009 neighborhood CAPS victims of crime in the neighborhood in recent hood,” he said. When young people argued that those orga- meeting that drew approximately 200 people. years. Organizers from LGBT youth organization Gen- nizers were being racist, many people held up Additionally, both Boehmer and Tunney fielded a
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mixture of anger and praise from residents over “They have a specific agenda,” said Christo- seemed palatable to all arose. their responses to crime. pher Urban, a Lincoln Park resident who lives Facebook comments on the “Take Back Boys- Complaints about loitering youth in the neigh- on the border of Lakeview. “They wanted to put town” page suggest that residents concerned borhood date back decades, but in recent years, out a message of social economic injustice … about safety in the neighborhood left feeling many residents have pointed a finger at the Cen- but the point of the CAPS meeting was specifi- that many of their issues had not been ad- ter on Halsted, which opened in 2007. cally for addressing crime and public safety in dressed at all, while comments from young ac- Just a few days after the “Take Back Boys- the Lakeview entertainment district.” tivists suggested that they found the commu- town” Facebook page was created, another page Urban, however, said he walked away from the nity’s response to them disheartening. called “Center on Halsted FAIL” surfaced. That meeting feeling optimistic. He thinks that the Boehmer reasserted her belief that crime is page advocates the discontinuation of youth meeting will prompt many older LGBT people to not on the rise in Lakeview, but said that there services at the Center because, its description volunteer in local youth programs and address was an uptick in robberies since June. argues, those services bring “displaced youth youth issues as part of the response to crime. Suggestions at the meeting have led police to from troubled backgrounds into the community” Rob Sall, the activist who created the “Take look into a few small-scale solutions to crime, and does not mentor them. Back Boystown” page and shot the video of the which they say will be addressed at another Very few advocated the end of youth services stabbing, said the meeting was a positive start meeting to be scheduled soon. Those solutions at the Center, but comments about the number despite frustrations. “I think that everybody in include call boxes, more youth programs, peace of visitors to the neighborhood from the South the room understands the points that Gender walks, and a greater number of police bike pa- and West sides of the city for youth services un- JUST was making,” he said. “But the purpose of trols. derscored sentiments that some youth are disre- the CAPS meeting was to address crime, not to James Cappleman, alderman of the 46th Ward, spectful guests. fix the problems of the world.” was also at the meeting. Cappleman did not Still, others argued that the city had failed Still, official organizers of the meeting and speak extensively at the CAPS meeting but told to provide LGBT youth services in other parts of Gender JUST seemed to miss each other on a few Windy City Times that residents in his ward are the city, and that young people without other key issues. While many residents said they want- preparing a report on five crime “hot spots” in resources were being forced into a neighborhood ed more police to protect the entire community the neighborhood, the worst of which he said hostile to them. including youth, Gender JUST has historically remains Wilson and Broadway. Cappleman said Aisha Truss, a well-known LGBT youth advo- campaigned against the police, advocating for that he will be working on bringing more busi- cate and Lakeview resident, said that the real alternative strategies to violence. Also, while a nesses with unobstructed windows to the area, problem causing violence was economic injus- few did complain that the Center on Halsted was which has been shown to cut down on crime. tice. “I am ashamed of being a Chicagoan right attracting trouble to the neighborhood, Gender Cappleman also said that he is committed to now because of the way people are disrespecting JUST also doesn’t support the Center because it working with a diversity of people to make the young people,” she said. Truss was eventually claims that it is unwelcoming to youth. ward safer. “I believe that if we’re going to go drowned out by boos and ushered off stage. The divide signaled a difference in values be- forward in this, we have to focus on our shared Boos came from all sides, however. After the tween many in the room. As a result, many who values,” he said. “And our shared values are meeting, several residents expressed frustration stepped up to the mic seemed to be having dis- safety for all.” over what they said was a hijacking of the meet- parate conversations about the very definitions Photos by Tim Carroll. More online at http:// ing by Gender JUST. of community and safety. Few suggestions that www.windycitymediagroup.com 10 July 13, 2011 WINDY CITY TIMES REACTION from cover
“The mob mentality is not appreciated or wel- comed even by most of those from other neigh- borhoods. The bottom line for me is there really is no justification for defending any criminal acts. Halsted Street has a large number of very enthusiastic customers and residents who great- ly appreciate the efforts to keep our safety as- sured. We have never had a more competent and attentive set of public servants holding elected offices and positions of authority in our neigh- borhood, including the aldermen, police com- manders and officers.” —Paul Cannella, owner of Scarlet bar and Taverna 750: “There are two things that should have a zero-tolerance policy on Halsted Street. The first is racism and the second is crime. Aside from that, they have nothing in common. The past is the past, so all we should do is learn from it. There is no reason to rehash it, be rude, call people names, etc. Move forward. I am confident the police department and our alderman will get Scarlet/Taverna 750 owner Paul Cannella. Amigas Latinas president Rosa Yadira Ortiz. Equality IL CEO Bernard Cherkasov, Esq. this under control. Photo by Ross Forman “They are extremely hard working and dedicat- ed people, but they need our support and help. name calling and racial profiling in the name adult voices being central. This process must in- Project-Chicago (SWOP): “We at SWOP-Chicago Together, we can put a stop to crime. Once this of protecting their neighborhood. Should those clude youth, young adults, Lakeview residents stand in solidarity with all people involved in, or is resolved, then we can turn towards some long who commit violence against another person be and community-based organizations, queer or- perceived to be involved in, street economies, term solutions such as increasing programs for held accountable? Absolutely. But this does not ganizations of color, youth-led organizations, referred to as ‘sex-trades’—and feels the LGBT youth at the Center, more shelters for the home- mean targeting all youth of color, nor should it LGBT community centers and businesses, and community in Chicago should do the same. As less, etc. First and foremast, we do have to take mean agitating for the removal of programs de- transgender and gender-variant focused organi- many in the LGBT community may recall, it isn’t back Boystown – from the criminals. Then we signed to serve the most marginalized members zations. The Alliance has worked with schools easy ‘coming up.’ The bigotry, stigma and even can get back to welcoming with open arms any of Chicago’s LGBTQ community. and communities throughout the state in pri- violence faced by LGBT people, especially youth, member of LGBT community, or others that seek “In a year marked by ‘It Gets Better’ cam- oritizing youth voices through a process of people of color, and trans-persons, or those per- our assistance as giving and caring people.” paigns, we must ask: for whom? Can we look our addressing very complex situations involving ceived to be such, are still very real. —Bernard Cherkasov, Esq., chief executive youth in the eye and say it gets better, knowing violence and oppression and know we can move “As the ‘capital of the Midwest,’ Chicago and officer of Equality Illinois: “I am shocked and that homelessness is on the rise for queer youth forward together. its predominantly LGBT neighborhoods is a saddened by the recent wave of attacks in the of color? Knowing that joblessness for Black and “In order to begin this process, youth leaders natural mecca for LGBT people from all over— Boystown neighborhood of Chicago. Our commu- Latino youth in Chicago is at an all-time high? at the Alliance are committed to participating many of whom are fleeing toxic intolerance or nity cares greatly about keeping the neighbor- Knowing that agencies and organizations provid- in a real conversation with other youth of color violence at home. Many even have been turned hood diverse, welcoming, and safe. At the same ing services to queer youth are facing increasing and allies to ensure youth voices are heard and out of their homes, and turned away from by time, I am disappointed in the scapegoating cuts in funding? And knowing that those LGBTQ are leading the efforts to move past vitriol into their relatives and relations. In the past, as well of the already marginalized and disadvantaged persons who have the most economic privilege, solutions that put forward the lived realities of as today; the police often end-up functioning as members of our community. This is something racial privilege, and economic clout prefer to young people oppressed by a combination of the mechanism through which the violence of that impacts the entire LGBT community, and organize around the removal of youth of color factors including race, sexual orientation, class, racism, transphobia and homophobia operate— we must all come together to figure out a solu- rather than working for increased resources for age, immigration status and gender identity. We ESPECIALLY when these people are, or are char- tion.” queer youth city wide? seek to engage other groups in and outside of acterized, as sex workers. For these people, the —From the Join the Impact-Chicago official “Amigas Latinas joins organizations across the the LGBT community who want to push past the sex trade can be the one place where what up release: “The series of events that have unfolded city in asking that supporters of the ‘Take Back name-calling and shouting and move to a space until then had been a hindrance becomes an as- in Boystown have been tragic. Violence is wrong, Boystown’ movement re-examine the language where we can hold each other and our commu- set. but so too has been the overt racism, dismissal and tactics they currently employ, and we hope nity centers accountable to meeting and exceed- “Often the only asset they and the LGBT com- of youth issues and hostility towards the most that the debate around this issue will inspire a ing the needs of those often seen as the most munity have in the first place is a sense of com- vulnerable groups that live within our commu- move towards inclusivity, rather than exclusiv- vulnerable. For us, it is a struggle to seek and munity. SWOP-Chicago maintains that what at- nity. We see the racist and ageist behavior that ity.” retain our humanity in the face of inhumanity risk LGBT people need is outreach, advocacy and was exhibited [July 6] at the CAPS meeting as —Modesto Tico Valle, chief executive officer through violence, racism, greed, and oppres- “a seat at the table” in the community—NOT not only bigoted, extreme and exclusive, but of Center on Halsted: “To be clear, we condemn sion.” further marginalization and increased criminal- also as one of the gravest threats to equality violence in all its forms including physical vio- —Crash Crawford, Sex Workers Outreach ization.” for LGBTQ people everywhere. The racist, age- lence or abusive language. I think this is a feel- ist, sexist display brought shame to the LGBTQ ing shared by most members of our community. community. We plan to join other groups in or- We must work together to build a safe and in- ganizing and activism to confront this behavior clusive community for all people. We’re working and to demand youth needs be met, with safer with community members and organizations to schools, more shelters, and economic assistance find better ways to ensure the safety and secu- that address the core sources of unrest in our rity for everyone. Also, Center on Halsted serves streets. Action on this would stand in the tradi- the entire community—more than 1,000 people tion of everything our movement has fought for. come through our doors every day. Neutrality is not an option for us.” “We provide job training and professional de- —Lisa Marie Pickens, board president and velopment, community and cultural programs, co-founder of Affinity Community Services: “Af- and comprehensive health and wellness services finity would ask what is meant by ‘Take Back for the entire community. Just as a small ex- Boystown?’ We suggest that now is the time for ample, more than 150 people participate in our a very measured, strategic and intentional con- LGBT senior programs every week, 5,000 people versation to take place among a broad based of attend our arts and cultural events, five recre- concerned stakeholders so that understanding ational sports leagues are housed here, and we can occur and real strategic solutions can be offer free HIV testing to more than 2,500 people mapped out that are inclusive of all.” every year. “ —Rosa Yadira Ortiz, president of Amigas Lati- —Illinois Safe Schools Alliance official state- nas: “Amigas Latinas has been working to build ment: “At the Illinois Safe Schools Alliance (the community and support for LGBTQ Latinas for the Alliance), a youth organizing group committed past 16 years. We believe that an important part to ensuring Illinois schools fully address sexual of our mission is to create networks of solidarity orientation and gender identity, we are commit- between diverse LGBTQ populations—something ted to participating in a process that seeks to that can only be accomplished if we recognize surface the issues of ageism, racism, classism the differential impact of racism, classism, age- and transphobia inherent in the violence and ism, transphobia and xenophobia on the lives of community reactions. LGBTQ persons across the city. “We propose a format where individuals and “For this reason, we are deeply disturbed to organizations that are committed to community see how quickly supporters of the Take Back dialogue on these issues come together with Roscoe’s owner Jim Ludwig speaking at the July 6 Lakeview CAPS meeting. Boystown movement have resorted to racist middle and high school-aged youth and young Photo by Tim Carroll. WINDY CITY TIMES July 13, 2011 11 on the city’s South Side, told ABC 7 news that Man charged he suffered five stab wounds after a heated ex- with July 3 change of words led to his attack. Robinson has said that his attackers, whom he didn’t know, Lakeview stabbing insulted him on the street. When he spoke back, BY KATE SOSIN they attacked him. Robinson told the Sun-Times that he had been A Hammond, Ind., man is in police custody, at Black Pride events earlier in the day, and that charged with knifing a Chicagoan in a highly be believes his attackers were gay men. publicized July 3 knifing in Boystown in Chi- The incident is not currently being investi- cago’s North Side Lakeview neighborhood. gated as a hate crime, said police. Police announced the arrest during a July 8 Hayes stands charged of four counts of aggra- press conference and said the online posting of vated battery and felony mob action. According a video of the attack, as well as tips from the to police, Hayes has no prior arrests and is co- public, help lead to the arrest. operating with police. Darren Hayes, 24, of Hammond was taken into “He definitely made us aware of the fact that custody after police identified him by compar- he was there,” said Sergeant Debra DeYoung. ing his Facebook photo with his image on video. “He identified himself.” Two knives were also recovered. Young would not say if Hayes had identified The video prompted outcry from Lakeview resi- others involved in the attack. dents who say the neighborhood is increasingly Police said they are looking for other suspects unsafe. In it, a large group of people is depicted who participated in the attack. They believe attacking two people who are on the ground. that others at the scene took photos and videos Prosecutors alleged that Hayes threw the first with their phones and are asking those residents punch and said they will him with attempted to come forward with information. murder before a grand jury. Hayes is being held 44th Ward Ald. Tom Tunney responded to the LOOK BACK in Cook County in lieu of $700,000 bond. news in a press statement. “I’d like to personally The stabbing occurred just before midnight at thank the Chicago Police Department for their 3312 N. Halsted. Police said that two groups got diligent pursuit of this case and to our residents into a verbal altercation that turned physical. for assisting in the ongoing investigation,” her Police said that the stabbing victim, a 25-year- said. “The video footage and anonymous tips WITH PRIDE old gay man, has been released and is recover- assisted detectives in identifying and locating ing at home. the individual who police believe led the attack. CBS 2 identified the man as Rubin Robinson. The offender has been charged with three counts Parade walkers gather in Lincoln Park for the Pride Parade in 1986. In that report, Robinson said he was happy to of aggravated battery and felony mob action. I be alive. “These things need to stop. They need understand that police will continue to work to to stop in Boystown. They need to stop every- identify the other individuals involved and make where,” he said, adding that he hoped that the additional arrests. I will continue to work with Discover the city through the lens of gender, sexuality and nonconformity attack would not lead to discrimination against public and private institutions on providing ad- African- American gay men. Both the victim and ditional resources and security in Lakeview dur- at Out in Chicago — a groundbreaking exhibition that explores 150 years the alleged attacker are African-American. ing the late night hours.” of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) Chicagoans and their Robinson, who is from the Englewood area quests for self-identity, family, community and political action.
Taking it to the streets: OPEN THROUGH MARCH 26, 2012 Pink Angels GENERAL ADMISSION $14 FREE FOR MEMBERS By TRACY BAIM In the 2000s, the murders continued, in- cluding the slaying of Chicagoan Kevin Clewer, The following is from the book Out and Proud a 2004 mystery that remains unsolved, and of in Chicago: An Overview of the City’s Gay Com- young gay and trans youth across the coun- munity, edited and co-written by Tracy Baim, try. published in 2008 by Surrey Books. One group that caused a particular spark was the Pink Angels Anti-Violence Project. Chicago’s activist tradition helped build the Started in 1991 by Alyn Toler (like Adams, Tol- gay movement in the 1970s and 1980s, in- er was a former winner of Gay Chicago Maga- cluding the women’s Take Back the Night anti- zine’s Mr. Windy City contest), the Pink Angels violence marches. At the end of the 1980s, were modeled on the Guardian Angels, which gays started to march against hate crimes assisted Toler’s group. While it lasted only a Clark Street at North Avenue 312.642.4600 www.chicagohistory.org because of an increase in attacks from simple few years (Toler died of AIDS complications), assaults to murders, locally and nationally. Pink Angels took control of the streets and Transgender people were especially vulner- gave confidence to a generation of activists, able. training them in self-defense and encourag- PRESENTING SPONSORS: Annual anti-violence marches were or- ing them to report hate crimes. ganized and sponsored by individuals and groups, including Chicago Anti-Bashing Net- work; It’s Time, Illinois (now Illinois Gender Advocates); Horizons Community Services (now Center on Halsted); and many other groups. LEAD CORPORATE SPONSOR: Key anti-violence leaders were Paul Adams (who died of AIDS in 2000), Andy Thayer, and Lisa Tonna, who died in 2008 of cancer. The fight against violence had many targets, not just anti-gay attacks, but also domestic vio- lence and police harassment. The rallies would increase in size when highly visible crimes were documented, including the shootings of Ron Cayot, who was shot while leaving a gay bar on Halsted; Adrian “Pebbles” Perez, GO BEHIND THE SCENES who was shot in 1999 by intruders who left SCAN THE TAG her friend Buretta Williams dead and Perez se- verely injured in a South Side apartment; or QR Tag by EventCode.info the killing of Wyoming college student Mat- Alyn Toler with Curtis Sliwa of the Guardian thew Shepard. Angels. Outlines newspaper archives. 12 July 13, 2011 WINDY CITY TIMES
People interested in speaking at the me- GLSEN reports anti-LGBT Youth Pride morial should email Tracy Baim at editor@ Services windycitymediagroup.com. Those attending are also asked to bring photos, memorabilia harassment throughout receives jobs grant or even written memories of Hanover. Illinois schools BY KATE SOSIN Illinois Gov. Pat Quinn has awarded LGBT orga- Illinois receives BY KATE SOSIN numbers are not surprising. nization Youth Pride Services (YPS) a $48,000 “Schools for the most part are significantly $178M from HUD grant for summer jobs for young people. CHICAGO—U.S. Housing and Urban Devel- If a recent Gay Lesbian and Straight Education hostile environments for these young people,” The Illinois Youth Recreation Corps grant opment (HUD) Secretary Shaun Donovan an- Network (GLSEN) research brief has it right, she said. “That 94 percent [of students] are allows YPS to hire between 15-20 youth to nounced that Illinois will receive more than nearly every Illinois student is hearing anti-gay hearing homophobic remarks… that should work at local businesses for six weeks, start- $178 million to support community develop- language in school. alarm people, and the fact that it doesn’t is a ing July 18. ment and produce more affordable housing in The June 27 brief, based on a 2009 national mystery.” According to Frank Walker, YPS founder, the the state, according to a press release. GLSEN survey, shows that 98 percent of Illinois Sullivan thinks that part of the problem is a organization will be focus its summer efforts HUD’s annual funding will also help find students hear “gay” used in a negative way lack of school leadership. She feels that who in its ongoing “Be Great” campaign, which homes for individuals and families living on while 94 percent hear homophobic remarks. In want to interrupt homophobia often hesitate aims to prepare LGBT youth of color for life the streets and provide permanent housing addition, 88 percent of students reported hear- because few other teachers do, and they worry after age 21. YPS youth will also be working for individuals living HIV/AIDS. ing abusive remarks about gender expression. that speaking up will make colleagues think on its youth-produced publication, F maga- The funding includes: “LGBT students face disturbing levels of vic- they themselves are gay. zine. —$112,116,134 in Community Develop- timization in Illinois,” said Dr. Joseph Kosciw, Still, the GLSEN report notes that 95 percent Through the summer internship program, ment Block Grant (CDBG) funds; GLSEN senior director of research, in a press re- of Illinois students could identify at least one youth of color will have the opportunity to —$51,847,376 in HOME Investment Part- lease on the findings. “Students are clearly say- educator supportive of LGBT students. Sullivan test out different jobs all summer, ranging nerships (HOME) funding; ing educators and policymakers are not doing thinks that is an encouraging number. from restaurant work to photo archiving and —$6,707,357 in Emergency Shelter Grant enough to stop anti-LGBT bullying and harass- Overall, Sullivan said, Illinois does not differ writing with Windy City Times. (ESG); and ment.” greatly from other states when it comes to anti- YPS has already received over 50 applica- —$7,386,881 for Housing Opportunities for There is more in the report. While 34 percent LGBT bullying in schools. However, statistics tions for the program, which pays youth Persons with AIDS (HOPWA). of students said they had been physically as- specific to Illinois are useful when LGBT youth $8.50 an hour. Chicago is receiving more than $114 million saulted because of their perceived sexual ori- advocates lobby school boards for LGBT student Walker said he is hoping that at least half of the funds, with the Illinois State Program entation (and 19 percent for their gender ex- protections and gay-straight alliances. of the summer’s hires will be homeless youth. getting almost $55 million. Other grantees in- pression), fewer than one in five reported that Illinois schools generally collect limited data He said that he thinks the program can have clude Aurora, McHenry County, Moline, Mount their schools had an anti-harassment policy that about the experiences of LGBT students. Chicago a positive impact given recent controversies Prospect, Oak Park and Peoria. included sexual orientation and gender identity. Public Schools, for example, administers the na- in Lakeview. Shannon Sullivan, the executive director of tional Centers for Disease Control and Preven- “I think it’s perfect timing for what’s going the Illinois Safe Schools Alliance, said those tion survey to students (The Youth Risk Behavior on with youth of color in that area,” he said, Children’s Place Survey), which tracks everything from dietary adding that he thinks young people who don’t habits to drug use. That survey has collected have access to jobs or other services are more Assn. dev. some data on LGBT students in Illinois over the likely to get into trouble. director returns past couple of years. The Illinois Youth Recreation Corps awarded The Children’s Place Association—a Chica- Sullivan said that the GLSEN survey offers a 100 organizations grants this year. The pro- go-based nonprofit committed to providing wider range of information on Illinois students. gram aims to offer youth summer internship support to children and families suffering That information coupled with recent media at- opportunities and recreational activities. from HIV/AIDS or other life-changing health tention has changed the playing field, she said. On the list of 100 awardees this year is also conditions—announced that Dan Dever has “There has been an impact in awareness build- Project SYNCERE (Supporting Youth’s Needs returned to the organization as director of ing,” said Sullivan. Still, she added, that aware- with Core Engineering Research Experiments), development. Dever originally held the posi- ness has yet to significantly impact the day-to- a Chicago-based non-profit that works to in- tion from 1991 to 2002. day experiences of LGBT students, who continue crease the number of under-represented peo- Dever brings more than 23 years of industry to be bullied in school. ple in the fields of math and science. experience to the position. During his tenure The GLSEN Illinois brief is at http://www. he has held director positions at Chicago’s glsen.org/binary-data/GLSEN_ATTACHMENTS/ Renee Hanover SGA Youth and Family Services; The Family file/000/001/1833-2.pdf Institute at Northwestern University in Ev- memorial July 16 anston; and Howard Brown Health Center in The family and friends of longtime lesbian Chicago. Beyondmedia event attorney and activist Renee Hanover has been July 17 set for Saturday, July 16, 1-4 p.m., at 1900 S. Beyondmedia Education will hold a “Field Day Prairie Avenue in Chicago. Daniel Fiesta Fun(d)raiser” Sunday, July 17, 3-9 p.m. at Hanover was a significant leader in Chica- Dever. 6119 N. Hermitage. go’s LGBT movement from the 1960s until she Photo from There will be food, music, an open-mic con- moved to California a few years ago. She also Jen test, a drum circle, raffles and more. defended important legal cases and clients. Sampson Tickets are $20 (sliding scale) at the door. Call She died Jan. 5, 2011. 773-857-7300 or visit http://www.Beyondme- Her obituary is at http://www.windycity- Shannon Sullivan. Photo from Sullivan dia.org. mediagroup.com/gay/lesbian/news/ARTICLE. php?AID=30130.
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(left) and Colleen “My laboratory is actually opening a satellite Coughlin (right). office [this summer] at the Center on Halsted,” said Coughlin, referring to the most recent effort in enhancing customer service to LGBT couples. “It will be 100 percent geared towards LGBT pa- tients. “The main reason is that no matter how well you train your staff we are a large program and it’s always been a pet peeve of mine when the forms or the language that you use with a pa- tient is the same for all of your patients. For example, a lot of programs it would be, ‘will your husband be coming with you to the appoint- ment,’ that type of thing. That’s always bothered me.” Coughlin sees the new office, which she be- lieves is the first of its kind, as a way to break down any remaining barriers that LGBT couples for LGBT patients is the same as that for hetero- Patients and donors go through a thorough wanted them to at least know where they came might face and to provide information earlier on sexual patients. Kaplan and Coughlin both meet screening, medically and psychologically, as well from. That’s one of the things I think I struggled about IVF technology and options. with the patients to discuss their desires and as provide a detailed medical history. The U.S. with was that I know nothing about my genetic “All of the initial gathering of information, of options for pregnancy and to map out a treat- Food and Drug Administration has created rigor- history. I don’t know anything about where I costs, initial blood work, I wanted to provide ment plan. ous guidelines that must be strictly adhered to. came from.” those services in an environment that is more “Being able to have individual discussion with Patients should know that the process could For other couples, particularly international sensitive to their unique needs,” she said. each of the couples that comes in is something be long and sometimes heartbreaking. Some same-sex couples, laws in some countries pro- Both Coughlin and Kaplan agree that one of that is a real important part of the process for couples have to try several cycles before getting hibit them from adopting. Many countries also most important factors for a successful IVF pa- us,” said Coughlin. pregnant and miscarriages are a risk. It is also prohibit the use of surrogacy either directly or tient is the age of the eggs, because fertility Although they take pride in the relationship costly. by making it illegal to pay a surrogate, which is drops dramatically with age. They have worked they build with each couple they are aware that Without insurance, IVF costs approximately why more international couples are turning to to try and educate women to consider freezing for many couples email and phone calls are of- $15,000 per try or $25,000 for the egg dona- practices within the states. eggs for later use, but often LGBT couples don’t ten an easier way to stay engaged, especially tion, and a surrogate is anywhere from $50,000 In his final thoughts, Kaplan said, “I think the receive that information early on. The new of- for international couples. For instance, many to $100,000. Patients need to make sure they key emphasis is that there are options. There’s fice should help them to disseminate informa- international couples stay in contact with their are fully informed about all the costs associated no reason you can’t have a baby, it’s just a mat- tion more widely to the LGBT population. surrogate via Skype, and their visits to Chicago with the procedures and external to the preg- ter of what technology. Age is the most impor- Because they’ve worked with LGBT patients for can usually be limited to three trips. nancy, such as lawyer fees for drawing up neces- tant factor and they need to see a physician many years both organizations do have a solid The process is dependent on the procedure se- sary legal documents. much sooner than later.” framework in place for helping patients seek out lected. A male same-sex couple has to find both Despite the costs, many couples long for a Part two of the series—the international insurance information, locate lawyers for nec- a surrogate and an egg donor, which cannot be child that is biologically theirs. Ashley Hemp- journey to family through surrogacy—will run essary legal documents and to help with other the same person. There are agencies that recruit hill, who has had two children through IVF pro- in next week’s issue. unique needs. surrogates and egg donors and assist patients in cedures and was adopted herself said, “I guess Aside from those unique needs, the process finding a match. as different as my kids’ life is going to be, I
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Ten years ago, Bruce Lindstrom and Carl Strick- land began the Point Foundation using a budget of less than $250,000 and only eight scholars. Since then, Point has awarded more than $12 million to dozens of scholars. According to its mission statement, Point “provides financial support, mentoring, leadership training and hope to meritorious students who are marginal- ized due to sexual orientation, gender identity or gender expression.” Lindstrom grew up in a very conservative household in Orange County, Calif. Upon coming out, his family threw him out of the home. Lind- strom then worked hard to put himself through school. Shortly after completing his college degree, Lindstrom befriended Sol Price and his EUROLUXE family. Price became not only a very dear friend but also a mentor. Later, Price and Lindstrom would found Price Club, which is better known INTERIORS today as Costco. It was Lindstrom’s life experi- ence and his relationship with Price that became the framework for Point’s unique scholarship program. That program includes a service proj- Jorge Valencia. ect as well as a mentor program that has been 3066 N. LINCOLN AVE. emulated by other organizations. Jorge Valencia—Point’s executive director, Foundation will help me to become a successful, CHICAGO and CEO and originally the executive director of out professional who can provide mentorship The Trevor Project—said that Point is “different and hope to LGBT youth who, like me, are on the from other funds. Some have called it the ‘gay cusp of blazing their own trail in academia and Rhodes Scholarship.’” Valencia noted that in ad- the workforce.” Hanson added that he hoped “to dition to being highly competitive, Point also run for political office back in [his] birth state 773-270-0030 offers scholars awards on a siding scale amount of Wisconsin.” He aimed “demonstrate that LGBT every year they are in school. This makes the individuals can bring about positive bipartisan fund more adaptable to the needs of the indi- change in this time period of political party www.euroluxeinteriors.com vidual student. “Point is there to support the feuding.” scholar through the duration of their degree,“ Muztako pointed out that having a mentor said Valencia. “makes me more confident in the possibilities In order to be eligible for a Point Scholarship, for my future as well; having a successful queer individuals must have at least a 3.3 grade point adult aid me in my activism and artistic work
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B dents apply for a Point Scholarship each year; and national) while remaining uniquely autono- GENERATION this year, only 34 were selected. mous to serve local communities effectively.” However, it is not the prestige of the award Chicago is to play host to two of Point’s larg- or even the money that attracts the majority of est events this year. On July 22 at the Chicago TO FIND A VACCINE TO point scholars. “Ninety-five percent of scholars Field Museum, Point is hosting the Chicago Sum- said the aspect that interested them most was mer Gala. Valencia said that “this will be the the mentorship program that we offer,” added first ever Point Foundation fundraising event at Valencia. The mentorship program, like the which all of our current Point Scholars and many PREVENT scholarship itself, is highly selective. Each po- of our Point alumni will be in the same place at tential mentor must fill out an application and the same time.” be subjected to numerous interviews and screen- Immediately following the dinner is Point’s ings before a final selection will even be deter- “Scholar and Alumni Leadership Conference” be- mined. ginning July 22 at the Oak Brook Hyatt, where “The mentors are paired based on their geo- Point scholars and alumni from across the nation HIV graphic proximity to the scholar as well as with will gather to participate in educational semi- the scholar’s proposed field of study,” said Va- nars moderated by influential leaders within lencia. “The mentor is also there to help the the LGBT community. The conference brings to- scholar through their own community service gether not only this year’s scholars and mentors project. Each mentee is allowed the opportunity but also brings back the numerous alumni of
FIND OUT HOW YOU CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE AT to find out what they perceive from the mentor- the award. This year’s speakers include Academy ship, whether that be career advice, networking Award Winner Bruce Cohen and another who is www.bethegeneration.nih.gov or guidance in general,” added Valencia. Alan not yet named publicly, but Valencia added that Cumming is one noted mentor, among others, the individual “is a well-known actor.” in the field of the performing arts. “The men- Valencia said he “saw a lot of room for growth, tors, despite their own wisdom and successes especially for organizations associated with oftentimes learn a lot from their mentees,” said education. We hope to offer resume building Valencia. seminars, professional behavior classes and in- This year, four of the 32 scholars have Chi- ternships in the future.” He added, that “this is cagoland connections. Emily McWilliams, from our ten year anniversary and we could not do it Prairie du Chien, Wis., and Chris Hanson, from without the support of people and corporations Longwood, Fla., are both pursuing degrees at who have helped raise so much money. We would Northwestern University Law School. Abbey Mu- be dumb to think we did this on our own.” zatko, from Green Bay, Wis., pursuing a B.A. in The Point Foundation is hosting its summer fine arts, attends the School of the Art Institute gala Friday, July 22, at the Field Museum, of Chicago. Lastly, Carl Streed, Jr., who hails 1400 S. Lake Shore, at 6 p.m. To find out more from Zion, Ill., is pursuing an M.D. at the Johns about The Point Foundation or the gala, or Hopkins University School of Medicine. to make a donation, visit http://www.point- McWilliams said that she hoped “that the Point foundation.org. WINDY CITY TIMES July 13, 2011 15 a GAYin the Beef ‘n Brandy Sustainability specialist Restaurant and Bar LIFE Jose Benito Rodriguez Text and PHOTOS CHOW BY Ross Forman DOWN In his native Panama, Jose Benito Rodriguez played a form of baseball as a youngster with many of his 17 cousins. They’d play under the mango trees, with a stick as the bat, no gloves and hand- TOWN 2IBS s 3EAFOOD s 3ALADS s 3TIR &RY