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Looking beyond gender for modern wedding parties Couples are increasingly bucking long- Foregoing gender roles may make for a established trends to make weddings unique, customized wedding. However, it uniquely their own. One of today’s more does create the question of what wedding popular tradition-busting trends is not party members will wear. Again, there are adhering to gender lines when couples select no firm rules, but coordination can make friends and family members for their wedding for better photos. A woman standing on parties. the groom’s side can coordinate with the Until recently, the vast majority of wedding color of the bridemaids dresses, but wear couples selected members of the same sex a different style. Or she can wear a dress to fill the roles needed for the ceremony and that matches the color of the reception. For example, grooms would groomsmen’s suits. A man standing with choose fellow males to serve as their the bride can have accessories, such as groomsmen while brides choose other tie, vest and pocket square, that match females for their bridal parties. The wedding bridesmaid dresses. resource The Knot says the days of having One of the areas where mixing and men on one side and women on the other matching genders may get a tad sticky is are gone. Coed wedding parties enable with older, more traditional guests. They brides and grooms to have their favorite may not understand the freedom of choice people by their side, regardless of gender. in the wedding. However, couples can According to The Daily Mail, over the past discuss their bridal parties to select people Overcome wedding weather obstacles year, weddings across Australia and other who they think might prefer couples areas of the world have seen a rise in adhere to tradition. 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How to handle seating guests Receptions may be big or small, lavish or bridesmaids, best man, and maid of casual. But regardless of their size or style, honor. If much of the wedding party is receptions all share a common element: already married, couples may opt to have They will require couples set up seating the wedding party sit with their spouses arrangement for guests. Even though instead of at the dais. assigned seating isn’t mandatory, selecting • Organize family tables. Tables for seats for a sit-down dinner makes things parents, grandparents and immediate simpler and reduces confusion. Some family members of the bride and groom reception venues may even require assigned also are high priority. Both families can be seating so that catering staff can service combined at one table, or they can be tables accordingly. separated into two tables. These tables Seating guests can be tricky, but should be the closest to the employing a few strategies bride and groom. can make the process • Consider mobility go quickly and issues. Next seat guests smoothly. who have specific needs • Use a seating at tables. Elderly guests chart. A seating chart, may want to be away whether it’s venue- from the band, deejay or specific or one couples speakers. Guests in make themselves, is wheelchairs may need an essential. If you using accessible seat near the a self-made chart, exit. inquire with the venue • Get some help. Enlist about the shape of tables, the help of parents to seat how many guests each table can seat, and their friends and extended family the location of tables around the space. members. Parents may know best who Did you know? • Start with the wedding party table. gets along and who should be separated. The per person average couples spend on guests at their weddings has risen considerably Couples can ease themselves into the task of • Seat dancers near the dance floor. To since 2009, as more and more couples seek to provide unique guest experiences. According to seating by doing the easy tables first. The encourage dancing, place guests who The Knot 2017 Real Weddings Study, which surveyed nearly 13,000 U.S.-based brides and primary one is the wedding party table. This tend to be lively close to the dance floor grooms who tied the knot in 2017, per-guest spending increased from $194 in 2009 to $268 traditionally can be a dais or a sweetheart so others can see them getting up to in 2017. Some of that increase can be traced to couples wanting to provide memorable table flanked by the wedding party. According dance and join in. experiences, including customized entertainment, for their guests. Among the couples surveyed, to Martha Stewart Weddings, the table Couples can use apps, lists or self- 69 percent paid for photo booths for their guests, while 24 percent provided sparklers. Twenty- should be centrally located and the wedding made charts to plot their reception seating two percent of couples included selfie stations or video booths in the festivities, while 19 couple should sit in the middle. A male- arrangements. Create place cards or a percent provided games for guests during their receptions. The 2017 Real Weddings Study also female pattern follows on either side of the central chart so guests can find their seats found that customized entertainment options such as fireworks, cigar rolling stations, wine and couple, consisting of the ushers, promptly and easily. liquor tastings, and magicians were more popular in 2017 than in 2009.

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Wedding unity ceremony ideas Weddings celebrate the joining together of held in place by three pins, which symbolize hearts, families and homes. The unification of a the Father, Son and the Holy Spirit. During couple pledging vows to each other is the key this ritual, the bride, groom and officiant will component of the ceremony, and unity rituals each set a pin in place. are common during both traditional and • Tree planting: Planting a tree or shrub nontraditional weddings. that can grow with the marriage is a green Unity ceremonies represent the magic of two idea and one that takes unity rituals to a people coming together as one. Unity rituals different level. Couples can place the sapling may be built into certain religious or cultural in a decorative pot and then take turns weddings as a normal part of the festivities. watering it. Later the tree can be planted Couples seeking creative options for unity outside the couple’s first home. rituals as part of their wedding ceremonies can • Lasso ceremony: This ritual is traditional explore these clever ideas. in many Spanish- and Filipino-speaking • Candle lighting: The lighting of a unity countries. After vows are exchanged, the candle is one of the more recognizable and officiant wraps a floral garland or rosary traditional unity rituals. During this ritual, the around the couple. At the end of the bride and the groom each light an individual ceremony, the garland is saved as a symbol candle and then together light a larger candle, of unity and love. which celebrates them coming together as one. • Handfasting: This ritual comes from an • Sand pouring: The pouring of sand into a ancient Celtic tradition that bounds the bride vessel also is a popular unity ritual. In this ritual, and groom’s right hands together during the couples choose two sands of different colors wedding ceremony. Handfasting symbolizes and then pour their respective colors into a couples’ commitments to one another. vessel, allowing the different hues to mix • Flower ceremony: In this ritual, couples together. This ritual can be expanded to include can exchange roses or a favorite flower and other family members, with a rainbow of colors then place them in a vase or basket. All blending for a now unified joining of families. members of the family also are invited to • Unity cross: Christians may enjoy a unity place a single flower into the vessel, which cross ritual at their ceremony. A unity cross is a ultimately results in a beautiful floral display. decorative cross with a holder, and the cross is Living centerpieces set receptions apart Weddings are special occasions for all Spring and summer weddings can be involved. Guests may look forward to the enhanced by miniature rose bushes. Winter ceremony and festivities to follow, and couples weddings may be dressed up with small who are hosting do not want to disappoint. evergreen trees or potted holly. Brides and grooms often look for new and • Marine life draws attention. Couples can innovative ideas to set their weddings apart opt for inexpensive freshwater fish to add Factors to consider before including Fido in your wedding from ones they may have attended in the past. ambiance and a focal point for the reception Pets are full-fledged members of many one-on-one time with their owners. Dogs While budget often determines what couples tables. Small goldfish bowls can be decorated families and even, apparently, families-to-be. that are sociable and unaggressive may can and can’t do at their wedding receptions, with gravel that matches the color of the In its 2016 American Wedding Study, Brides make perfect additions to wedding brides- and grooms-to-be can prioritize certain wedding theme. One lucky guest at each magazine found that 8 percent of wedding ceremonies, while animals that exhibit components if they are looking to impress. table can take home the miniature aquarium ceremonies included pets. While the couples anxiety around strangers or seem Centerpieces are one aspect of the reception after the festivities. of yesteryear might have left Fido at home, uncomfortable in noisy settings should be where couples can get creative without breaking • Butterflies are whimsical. Some cultures many of today’s couples want their four- kept out of the ceremony. the bank. Flowers are popular centerpieces at or religions view butterflies as a symbol of legged friends to be there on their big day. weddings. But even with cost-cutting measures, endurance, change, hope, and vitality. Though no studies to date have examined He a l t h such as choosing in-season blooms, bumping Incorporating butterflies into reception which animals are most likely to make an Dog owners also must consider their up the filler-to-flower ratio and opting for low- centerpieces can make guests feel like they appearance at couples’ nuptials, it’s fair to pets’ health when deciding whether or not profile centerpieces instead of towering are stepping into a living garden. Small, assume that dogs, which tend to get out of to include them in the wedding ceremony. alternatives, couples can expect to pay around mesh-lined cages filled with foliage and the house more than most other types of Couples who bonded over a love of their $2,000 on wedding flowers. But opting for the butterflies might add that special touch. pets, are the most common furry dog may really hope to include their furry following clever living centerpiece alternatives Living centerpieces offer something different bridesmaids, groomsmen or ring bearers. friend in the festivities, but should not do might not only impress guests, but also do so from floral centerpieces. However, because live Before including dogs in their wedding plans, so at the expense of the animal’s health. on budget. plants and animals may be part of the display, couples may want to consider a few factors Outdoor wedding ceremonies under sunny • Choose potted plants. Potted plants can couples need to account for their welfare. This to ensure asking Fido to be there come the skies may produce potentially unhealthy serve as both favors and reception centerpieces. means ensuring they will be cared for after the big day is what’s best for couples, their conditions for certain breeds or older Couples tying the knot in the autumn can place wedding, or in the event of butterflies, released guests and, of course, their beloved pooches. dogs. Dogs that have difficulty getting mums inside of a hollowed pumpkin or gourd. into the evening sky. around may need a red wagon (and

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Wedding unity ceremony ideas Weddings celebrate the joining together of held in place by three pins, which symbolize hearts, families and homes. The unification of a the Father, Son and the Holy Spirit. During couple pledging vows to each other is the key this ritual, the bride, groom and officiant will component of the ceremony, and unity rituals each set a pin in place. are common during both traditional and • Tree planting: Planting a tree or shrub nontraditional weddings. that can grow with the marriage is a green Unity ceremonies represent the magic of two idea and one that takes unity rituals to a people coming together as one. Unity rituals different level. Couples can place the sapling may be built into certain religious or cultural in a decorative pot and then take turns weddings as a normal part of the festivities. watering it. Later the tree can be planted Couples seeking creative options for unity outside the couple’s first home. rituals as part of their wedding ceremonies can • Lasso ceremony: This ritual is traditional explore these clever ideas. in many Spanish- and Filipino-speaking • Candle lighting: The lighting of a unity countries. After vows are exchanged, the candle is one of the more recognizable and officiant wraps a floral garland or rosary traditional unity rituals. During this ritual, the around the couple. At the end of the bride and the groom each light an individual ceremony, the garland is saved as a symbol candle and then together light a larger candle, of unity and love. which celebrates them coming together as one. • Handfasting: This ritual comes from an • Sand pouring: The pouring of sand into a ancient Celtic tradition that bounds the bride vessel also is a popular unity ritual. In this ritual, and groom’s right hands together during the couples choose two sands of different colors wedding ceremony. Handfasting symbolizes and then pour their respective colors into a couples’ commitments to one another. vessel, allowing the different hues to mix • Flower ceremony: In this ritual, couples together. This ritual can be expanded to include can exchange roses or a favorite flower and other family members, with a rainbow of colors then place them in a vase or basket. All blending for a now unified joining of families. members of the family also are invited to • Unity cross: Christians may enjoy a unity place a single flower into the vessel, which cross ritual at their ceremony. A unity cross is a ultimately results in a beautiful floral display. decorative cross with a holder, and the cross is Living centerpieces set receptions apart Weddings are special occasions for all Spring and summer weddings can be involved. Guests may look forward to the enhanced by miniature rose bushes. Winter ceremony and festivities to follow, and couples weddings may be dressed up with small who are hosting do not want to disappoint. evergreen trees or potted holly. Brides and grooms often look for new and • Marine life draws attention. Couples can innovative ideas to set their weddings apart opt for inexpensive freshwater fish to add Factors to consider before including Fido in your wedding from ones they may have attended in the past. ambiance and a focal point for the reception Pets are full-fledged members of many one-on-one time with their owners. Dogs While budget often determines what couples tables. Small goldfish bowls can be decorated families and even, apparently, families-to-be. that are sociable and unaggressive may can and can’t do at their wedding receptions, with gravel that matches the color of the In its 2016 American Wedding Study, Brides make perfect additions to wedding brides- and grooms-to-be can prioritize certain wedding theme. One lucky guest at each magazine found that 8 percent of wedding ceremonies, while animals that exhibit components if they are looking to impress. table can take home the miniature aquarium ceremonies included pets. While the couples anxiety around strangers or seem Centerpieces are one aspect of the reception after the festivities. of yesteryear might have left Fido at home, uncomfortable in noisy settings should be where couples can get creative without breaking • Butterflies are whimsical. Some cultures many of today’s couples want their four- kept out of the ceremony. the bank. Flowers are popular centerpieces at or religions view butterflies as a symbol of legged friends to be there on their big day. weddings. But even with cost-cutting measures, endurance, change, hope, and vitality. Though no studies to date have examined He a l t h such as choosing in-season blooms, bumping Incorporating butterflies into reception which animals are most likely to make an Dog owners also must consider their up the filler-to-flower ratio and opting for low- centerpieces can make guests feel like they appearance at couples’ nuptials, it’s fair to pets’ health when deciding whether or not profile centerpieces instead of towering are stepping into a living garden. Small, assume that dogs, which tend to get out of to include them in the wedding ceremony. alternatives, couples can expect to pay around mesh-lined cages filled with foliage and the house more than most other types of Couples who bonded over a love of their $2,000 on wedding flowers. But opting for the butterflies might add that special touch. pets, are the most common furry dog may really hope to include their furry following clever living centerpiece alternatives Living centerpieces offer something different bridesmaids, groomsmen or ring bearers. friend in the festivities, but should not do might not only impress guests, but also do so from floral centerpieces. However, because live Before including dogs in their wedding plans, so at the expense of the animal’s health. on budget. plants and animals may be part of the display, couples may want to consider a few factors Outdoor wedding ceremonies under sunny • Choose potted plants. Potted plants can couples need to account for their welfare. This to ensure asking Fido to be there come the skies may produce potentially unhealthy serve as both favors and reception centerpieces. means ensuring they will be cared for after the big day is what’s best for couples, their conditions for certain breeds or older Couples tying the knot in the autumn can place wedding, or in the event of butterflies, released guests and, of course, their beloved pooches. dogs. Dogs that have difficulty getting mums inside of a hollowed pumpkin or gourd. into the evening sky. around may need a red wagon (and

El i g i b i l i t y attendant) to make the rounds at the Some venues do not allow pets that are wedding. not documented assistance animals on the

premises. Confirm a venue’s pet As s i s t a n c e policy before purchasing any wedding Couples will be busy on their wedding day attire for your dog. Couples who are days, so they may need to arrange for a intent on including their pets in their caretaker to look after their dog during wedding ceremonies should only consider and after the ceremony. Asking a guest or pet-friendly facilities, which may be guests to play this role may be asking too hard to find. Couples who plan to take much, as guests will no doubt want to a limousine to and from celebrate without having to take care of a their wedding also dog. A professional pet sitter might work, should confirm that but that can be costly, as couples must the cars allow pets pay for the sitter and will likely need to pay before booking. for the sitter to have a seat and a meal during the reception.

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Serious wedding style for short-haired brides

On a day when all eyes and cameras will Br a i d s a nd p l a i t s be trained on them, it’s natural for brides Braids can add whimsy to shoulder- and grooms tying the knot to want to look length or shorter hair. In addition, braids their best. As a result, many couples invest a can anchor short locks when an up-do is portion of their budgets into spa and beauty desired. Braids can be placed into the treatments, with many even hiring salon front or rear crown of the head to look like stylists to ensure their wedding-day looks are a hair halo or crown. flawless.

Women with short hair may lament that Us e e mb e l l i s h me n t s they do not have many options when styling If short hair cannot be gathered into a their hair for their wedding days. Some may braid or bun, you can opt for adorned even consider growing out their locks. pins, barrettes or headbands to add a However, plenty of creative styles exist for touch of sparkle to the look. Ask a stylist ladies without long locks. to tease the crown of your hair to achieve a little more height and impact.

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One way to “tress to impress” is to Ha l f - u p s t y l e experiment with some color. Well-placed Many women with short hair find that highlights, balayage treatments, ombre, or using bobby pins to pin up select areas of peek-a-boo underlights can add an extra their hair can help achieve a partial up-do spark to a bride’s normal hairstyle. Speak look without the need for longer locks. with a qualified stylist about what you plan to Experienced stylists will know how to achieve with a wedding-day look, so color manipulate hair effectively to create this can be applied correctly. look. Small tendrils of hair can be left free and curled for a less structured, more

Re t r o g l a mo u r natural effect. Brides may want to harken back to an era Brides-to-be with short hair do not when glamour reigned supreme. Replicate need to fret nor make drastic changes to one of the short styles of the 1940s or their hairstyles to look beautiful on their 1950s, paying homage to Audrey Hepburn, wedding days. Short hair can be Marilyn Monroe, Lauren Bacall, or Judy manipulated into many camera-ready Garland. creations. Is airbrushed makeup the way to go? Hair and makeup is an important part of applied correctly by a professional, wedding day planning. Brides and grooms airbrush makeup can have a number of want to look their best on their wedding days, perks. when they will no doubt take dozens of Understanding airbrush makeup can photos, if not more. Men may apply some help brides determine if it’s the best oil-absorbing powder to tone down shine on choice for them. 54804 W. Hwy 275, Nor f ol k , NE their skin, but women tend to pull out all the Airbrush makeup is comprised of a very (4 0 2 ) 3 7 1 - 9 9 5 9 stops when selecting bridal makeup — often thin liquid makeup that is applied with the hiring professional makeup artists to create a use of an air gun. This produces a thin, signature look. even layer of foundation, often creating a Airbrush-applied makeup is an option matte finish. Makeup artists can women may want to explore. The wedding custom-blend shades to get the right resource The Knot says that makeup match for their customers’ skin tones. And airbrushing is quite popular in the world of because the fine mist of airbrush makeup movies and modeling and is now becoming enables true skin tone to show through, it more popular among brides-to-be. When can appear much more natural. Many airbrushed formulations are silicone-based, enabling long-lasting wear and water-resistant properties. This is advantageous when hugging and kissing on one’s wedding day. Some airbrush makeup can last up to 16 hours. 143558 Some airbrush formulations are water- or alcohol-based. Alcohol-based options can be used to cover tattoos or birthmarks. Touchups are minimal with airbrush makeup, and the formulations can be layered to cover blemishes. Airbrush makeup also creates a pristine finish for applying other makeup. Airbrush makeup is compatible with well-moisturized skin and takes to it well, but dry skin may flake, crack and look flat, advises Essence Designs. Brides who end up shedding tears of joy on their wedding days might find that airbrush makeup can streak, which can be difficult to cover up. Because it requires a certain skillset and equipment, airbrush makeup tends to be more expensive than traditional makeup when done by a professional. Airbrush makeup can create a flawless look and may be an option for brides to consider. Created for free by https://foxyutils.com 14 2 8 3 1 12-A NORFOLK DAILY NEWS, TUESDAY, JANUARY 22, 2019

Tips for a good bridal gown shopping experience By Lizz Cornett look you are going for, be sure you are bride, so the bride shouldn’t have to worry while others will have several huge dressing [email protected] prepared for some restriction. about making everyone happy. Minimize rooms and comfortable couches. Just Go with your gut the number of people you bring, you can because one store looks better than the Most women look forward to the day their You shouldn’t have to talk yourself into always bring them to an alterations other doesn’t mean the experience will significant other asks them the big question, your dress. When you put it on, you will appointment. mirror that appearance, though. Ask other “Will you marry me?” know. You might not cry, but you will have As a side note, children at an brides where they went and where they had And when that day finally arrives, the the feeling of total satisfaction and feel appointment may make it more difficult to the best experiences. Also, be sure to call wedding planning begins. like yourself. Nine times out of 10, you maintain focus on the bride. Children can ahead to see if appointments are required. Brides-to-be can easily seek out opinions won’t end up with the dress you pictured get fussy or want to run. This can cause Ask if you will get one consultant to on who the best DJ is or where to get flowers yourself in, so be patient and trust your stress on the parent, the bride and other yourself. If you are wanting the one-on-one arranged, but when it comes to the dress, no feelings. people in the store. Try to find a babysitter time with a consultant, tell the store ahead one can actually tell you the best designer or Be prepared to cry — in frustration or bring someone who can give attention to of time. Some places might have after- style for you. Most of the time, things will not work the children when they start getting hours appointments when they can give One bride might love the sleek mermaid out the way you expected them to. rambunctious. you undivided attention. fit, but another might want the dramatic Meaning, the first 10 minutes of your Not every store is going to be like the The dress is one of the most important ballgown. And sometimes what you want and appointment will be stressful. You will be movies parts of the wedding to the bride, so make how you picture yourself doesn’t work out. So able to choose from a lot of different Some stores will have three dressing the shopping experience all about her, too. where do you start when its time to look for styles and colors, so this may lead to rooms made of curtains and folding chairs the dress? overwhelming feelings of frustration and Consult the experts excitement. It may happen when you are The most knowledgeable people you can in the room trying on a dress. It might not talk to about gowns are bridal consultants. be “the” dress, but it might hit you that Most brides — and their mothers — start by this is all real, that you are engaged. At looking on Pinterest or buying the latest any point during your appointment, feel bridal magazine. While this is a good place to free to take a breather. Say you need to start, most of the looks will be different on use the restroom or just be blunt and say you. Having a style in your head is always a you need five minutes to compose good idea, but be open to suggestions from yourself. This is a happy, yet stressful time your bridal consultant. for everyone and, sometimes, taking time Bridal consultants see hundreds of brides alone is best. a year. They know what will look good on Also, be prepared to cry tears of joy your body type. If you want a blinged-out While not every bride cries when she ballgown, be sure to try on the more simple, finds her dress, someone in your bridal fitted dresses, too, because you might be party will. It is natural for this to happen. surprised how you look and how you feel. Emotions will run high, so brace yourself The dress should not make you feel self for all kinds of emotions. conscious in any way. It’s OK to want to look Schedule enough time your best and lose a few extra pounds, but If you are making a day out of bridal don’t get a dress that makes you look at only shopping, allot time to unwind in between your problem areas. Your entourage might appointments. Stop at a coffee shop to tell you that you look fantastic and such, but have a drink or do other shopping. This if you don’t feel it, then it isn’t the one. allows your brain time to refresh before Photoshoot-looks and reality you try on the next round of dresses. If you are wanting the mermaid dress, be Your seamstress knows what she is prepared for a little puckering in the mid- doing section. This puckering won’t show in Whether the seamstress works for the magazines because it is fitted perfectly to the bridal shop or owns a separate business, ‘Plus one’ etiquette for weddings model’s body and she doesn’t have to move. trust her. If you are nervous about the In reality, the puckering is there to allow seamstress, look up reviews or ask other Couples tying the knot typically want to share can ask single friends whether they plan to movement in the mid- and hip section. It can brides what they thought of the their excitement with as many friends and family bring a date to the wedding and who their be flattened for pictures by tugging on the seamstress. Some seamstresses may have members as possible. Preliminary wedding guest dates might be. bottom layer of fabric, but when you walk up photos to show you so you can see the lists can be quite extensive, but many couples Number of si ngl e f r i ends the aisle or move at all, the puckering will work done in the past. ultimately shorten such lists in adherence to Another consideration is how many single show up. Your entourage is important their budgets. people will be invited to the wedding. If it’s a Or, as beautiful as an off-the-shoulder or a People can make or break your One fuzzy area in regard to guest lists is small number, a blanket plus-one rule can be long-sleeve dress looks in magazines or shopping experience. If you have an whether or not to include a “plus one” on the established. However, if many guests are Pinterest, neither is realistic for the bride who opinionated bridesmaid or someone who invitation for single friends or family members. A single, which tends to happen when young is full of energy and likes to “bust a move.” will have their feelings hurt if you don’t “plus one” refers to single guests’ dates. Party couples are getting married, the cost can be Long sleeves and off-the-shoulder straps can listen to them, don’t bring them to your planners may extend the courtesy of giving single prohibitive. Single friends and family can be restrict movement in the arms. If this is a appointments. This day is all about the guests the choice of whether they would like to seated together so that they can converse bring someone along to the event or attend solo. and have fun.

The rules concerning plus ones are flexible, and Fo r t h e g u e s t s … ultimately, it may be up to the couple to create It’s important for people on the receiving their own plus-one rules. The following tips can end of a wedding invitation to understand help couples determine which way to go. some key plus-one rules as well.

Lengt h of r el at i onshi p • If the invitation does not say “plus one” One way to set limits on plus ones is to look or “and guest,” that means you have been at invitees on a case-by-case basis. Think about invited alone. It is rude to bring a guest unmarried guests and the type of relationship unexpectedly. status they currently claim. For example, a • Avoid asking to bring someone to the Tux Rental Starting at $89.95 cousin who has been dating someone for several wedding if you were not originally given the months can be encouraged to invite this serious option. Skeffington’s Formal Wear & Savvi boyfriend/girlfriend. • If you were given plus-one status, be Recently divorced or widowed guests may not sure to respond with your guest’s name. If you Tux Rental - Pi ck 2 that sui t you!* feel comfortable bringing a date along, but can’t confirm who you will be bringing or don’t Free Groom’s Tux - Free Ringbearer’s Tux because this person was in a committed know if you will have a date for the evening, it 50% off 2 Father’s Tuxes - 10% off entire wedding party relationship so long, it may be well worth the is better to come alone. *Register by Mar. 31, 2019 courtesy to allow these types of guests to bring • Don’t use the plus one as a chance to Monday - Friday 9:30 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. someone along so they can feel more bring a friend only for the free food and Thursday 9:30 a.m. - 7:00 p.m. comfortable. drinks. Saturday 9:30 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. www.roxisbridal.net Etiquette experts at The Knot say that, Weddings can be complicated to plan, and whenever possible, all guests should be negotiating plus ones for single guests is part

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Maintain honeymoon beauty According to TripSavvy, 99 percent of couples • Eye cream: There may be a few late who choose to have traditional weddings take a nights while you’re enjoying romantic, honeymoon. Around 1.4 million couples in the candlelit meals or hitting up the hot spots United States depart for honeymoons around around a resort. Ensure honeymoon photos the world each year, spending an average of do not show tired eyes with an eye cream $4,466 on the trip. that can reduce puffiness and dark circles. Though not nearly as pressure-filled as • Tinted moisturizer or BB cream: A high- wedding planning, honeymoons do require quality tinted moisturizer or BB cream will some planning to ensure a fun and memorable hydrate skin and add just a sheer wash of trip. In a Bridal Guide survey, wedding couples color to even out skin tone. Pair with lip balm indicated they were most likely to worry about and a waterproof mascara and your wardrobe, swimsuits, sunglasses, sunscreen, honeymoon face will be ready. and luggage when getting ready to depart. • Teeth whitening treatment: Couples who Couples who want to look their best on their invested time and money into achieving honeymoon and in their honeymoon photos whiter teeth for their weddings don’t want to should not forget to pack the following items. let all of that hard work go to waste. Brush • Sunscreen: Sunscreen is a must whether on whitening product after eating and you’re traveling to the pink beaches of a tropical drinking to prevent stains and freshen breath. island or the slopes of a ski resort. Choose a • Blotting papers: Humid climates may product that protects against both UVA and UVB cause perspiration and oils to leach out of rays, and be sure to reapply every 80 minutes the skin. Tame shine and that greasy feeling or so, especially after perspiring or swimming. with blotting papers purchased from a Sunscreen will help prevent damaging and cosmetics retailer. painful sunburns that can adversely affect a trip. • Light fragrance: Heavy perfumes have Did you know? • Makeup-remover wipes: Even high-end no business on breezy honeymoon escapes. resorts may not provide the correct face bar for Find a light, flowery scent or something tied One of the more popular tourist attractions in the United States is also a popular place to tie removing makeup and refreshing skin. Makeup- to nature, like citrus in a travel-sized atomizer. the knot. The bright lights of the Las Vegas strip and the surrounding area have drawn visitors removing wipes can offer deep cleaning in a few • Stick-on bra cups: To feel more stylish for decades. Las Vegas also is home to more than 100,000 weddings per year, according to convenient swipes. and comfortable in strapless and/or backless Clark County Clerk marriage license records. Weddings may be performed at local churches or • Hair refresher: Brides who want to get a dresses on their honeymoons, brides can use other houses of worship, inside lavish casinos, or at the bevy of small chapels in and around Las few extra days out of a wedding day hairstyle stick-on bra cups that offer support and lift. Vegas. Las Vegas is sometimes referred to as “The Marriage Capital of the World” thanks in part should pack a hair refreshing spray to tame • Travel brow kit: Keep brows tamed and to the ease of acquiring a marriage license in the city and the minimal costs involved to tie the static and add UV protectors that keep locks looking great with mini-tweezers, brow filler knot. But Las Vegas is more than just a popular place to tie the knot. According to data pampered until they’re ready to wash. Dry and gel. gathered by Facebook in 2014, when the social media service compiled data from users “check shampoos also allow for a little refreshing of Honeymoon beauty is easy to achieve if ins,” Las Vegas also has grown into a popular honeymoon destination. In addition, Las Vegas hair between daytime adventures and evening the right supplies are brought along on the also has evolved into a popular spot to celebrate one last hurrah before the big wedding day. dinner. trip. Individuals frequently plan bachelor or bachelorette party weekends that incorporate all of the fun Las Vegas has to offer. Tips for choosing a wedding reception menu Weddings are memorable for a host of While specialty entrées might not be a great reasons. While couples remember their choice, especially at large receptions where weddings because they mark the day they lots of mouths must be fed, a couple who officially tied the knot, guests may remember has a favorite food that’s symbolic of their weddings for other reasons, including the food relationship should not hesitate to offer it served at the reception. during the cocktail hour. For example, a Some wedding venues are known for their couple who met in Thailand may want to offer T HE P ERFECT P LACE stunning landscapes, while others build their a favorite Thai dish. reputations on unique interiors that provide • Offer an elaborate dessert. The last bite unforgettable ambiance. But regardless of guests will take is dessert, so couples who To Toast Your Future Together where weddings take place, guests are liable to want their guests to go home raving about discuss the food served at the reception. 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engagement length in 2017 was 14 months, Re c r e a t i o n and many couples are no doubt ready for a Couples also may want to consider the getaway after spending more than a year accessibility of local recreational activities planning their weddings. Whether couples before choosing a honeymoon destination. are working with shoestring budgets or have Some couples may just want to spend the some financial flexibility, it’s wise to consider duration of their honeymoons unwinding various factors before choosing a honeymoon on a beach, while others may want to mix destination. relaxation with exploration. All-inclusive resort packages may or may not include

Di s t a n c e off-site resort activities. Couples who want A remote, exotic island might sound like to do some exploring away from their the perfect place for couples to visit on their resorts should investigate both the honeymoons. However, couples who spent accessibility and safety of doing so. more than a year planning their weddings

may prefer somewhere less remote than an Bu d g e t exotic isle that requires multiple flight If budgets were stretched for the transfers and possibly even days of travel to wedding, couples should not discount the get to. Couples should discuss how much benefits of planning a post-wedding travel they’re willing to endure during their weekend getaway and then saving some honeymoons, and then find somewhere that money for a more traditional honeymoon both partners are excited about. down the road. This option still affords couples a chance to spend a

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Created for free by https://foxyutils.com NORFOLK DAILY NEWS, TUESDAY, JANUARY 22, 2019 15-A Merging finances after tying the knot Happy couples experience various Some couples want to maintain their full changes after tying the knot. One of those financial independence. But combining changes concerns couples’ finances. accounts can help couples avoid According to an analysis of data from the arguments about secrecy and concerns National Survey of Families and Households, about partner spending. Combining arguments about money are a frequent accounts also affords couples a clearer concern with married couples. Furthermore, picture of their spending and saving there is a higher correlation between the risk habits. of divorce and the prevalence of financial • Assess debts as a team. One person disagreements. While fights about money do may be bringing more debt to the not necessarily cause divorce, they can marriage than another. It’s important for create rifts in relationships. all cards to be on the table and to work Even couples who have plenty of money together to eradicate debt. If a person will may have disagreements about their be coming to the marriage with poor finances. Arguments may stem from couples credit, it may be worth it to keep things not understanding how their partner views separate until a spouse works on money or the disparities in spending habits remedying his or her finances, according among partners. Couples who make early to Credit.com. efforts to get on the same page concerning • Decide how to split expenses. One finances may have smoother waters ahead partner may make more money than the than those who delay such discussions. other, and one may spend more time • Establish goals together. Couples should handling household needs or future define their financial goals together. Is it a childcare responsibilities. Couples need to goal to save for early retirement? Is a house agree whether one person pays for certain in the immediate future? Is frequent travel a bills exclusively, whether they spend from Did You Know? desire? Are we planning to contribute much one salary and save the other, or combine to future children’s educations? These finances completely and spend equally, Frosting-free cakes the latest trend questions and more need to be addressed offers NerdWallet. They’re called “naked cakes,” and these simplified desserts showcase the texture of the early on. By creating a financial plan Engaged couples who develop a post- cakes and their fillings. Pastry chefs and bakers are hopping on the naked cake bandwagon, wedding financial plan may find their with the trend being highlighted by the likes of Martha Stewart and the respected wedding together, couples can more clearly map out resource The Knot. their financial futures. transition to being married much easier Just because these cakes may be short on exterior buttercream doesn’t mean they fall flat on • Combining accounts may be easier. than those who delay such discussions. flavor or visual appeal. Cakes can be embellished with fresh blooms, gum paste-molded flowers, edible pearls and gems, fresh berries, and much more. The Knot notes many naked cakes are garnished with flavors that are included in the cake, such as chocolate chips, crumbs, cookie dough, or candy sprinkles. Live wedding music Couples who are stripping down their weddings to include more basics and natural effects may be drawn to these naked cakes. They’re also an option for those who find frosting, Booking a live band for a wedding or musicians play, the more they’re likely to buttercream and fondant too sweet for the palate. Naked cakes enable the interior flavors to another special event can be a great idea. cost. Work with musicians to develop a really shine. The atmosphere live musicians can provide is schedule that suits your budget. unmatched. Live musicians offer a level of • Discuss the theme. Make sure excitement that may not be met by other musicians understand the type of musical options. But some couples may find atmosphere you’re hoping to create. A the prospect of booking live entertainment a band that customarily plays swing or big- bit challenging, especially if they’ve never band era songs may not fit in at weddings hired musicians for an event before. Here are with more modern themes. some tips to make the process go smoothly. • Understand the fees. Musicians may • Get recommendations. Just like you have fees related to their agents, cartage might before booking other vendors, seek (extra given to musicians who carry large advice from friends or family members who equipment), mileage costs, travel time, have recently gotten hitched or had live lighting, and other factors that affect the performers at their events. They may have overall price. Discuss these fees before wonderful things to say about particular signing any agreements. bands or performers. Individuals also can • Be sure the venue fits. Live consider a resource such as musicians are great but not if the space is HireLiveMusicians.com, a global musician too small. Otherwise, the music can be database that can help couples narrow down too loud and overpowering, or the band their options. will not have adequate space to set up. • Decide on when the musicians play. Live Consider these factors before making any musicians can entertain guests throughout decisions. the ceremony and reception, but the longer

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