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Engagement rings are often lavender-hued stone can be • Sapphire: While sapphire sizable investments. Money breathtaking when cut the correct stones often are blue, they can also magazine reports the average way. Purple shades have long be yellow, green, pink, and white. costs around been associated with royalty, Sapphires are the third hardest $5,800. An engagement ring making an amethyst fitting for mineral. A white sapphire can be symbolizes the start of a lifelong such an occasion as special as an the perfect replacement. commitment and may even set the engagement. Because amethysts, tone for a couple’s wedding day. which are less expensive than • Garnet or ruby: Red is Jewelry styles are personal, and , are a seven on the Mohs the definitive color of . A grooms-to-be should carefully scale for gemstone hardness, they Valentine’s Day proposal can research their significant others’ can be very durable. be made even more special by preferences in terms of precious presenting an engagement ring metals, colors and gemstones. • Knot rings: These rings do with a red gemstone. Even though tradition holds that not have a center stone. Rather, a diamond gemstone is classic they’re designed to be a tied knot • Moissanite: The jewelry for engagement rings, these or infinity symbol. These rings source Brilliant Earth says precious stones are not the only can be particularly sentimental moissanite is a gemstone first options. In fact, before World War as they represent true, unbroken II, just 10 percent of proposals love. discovered in 1893 by Henri involved diamond engagement Moissan in a meteorite that fell rings. That number jumped to 80 • Opal: Gemstones, like to earth. It is remarkably similar percent by 1990. However, many flowers, have been assigned to a diamond in appearance and modern couples now lean toward certain meanings. Tying the strength. Moissanite also has other offerings not only for the engagement ring to one of them heightened brilliance, with a uniqueness they provide, but also can infuse more symbolism refractive index higher than that for the potential cost savings. into the relationship. Opal, of a diamond. Those seeking something for example, represents love, Couples have many beautiful unique can embrace these , creativity, spontaneity, alternatives to diamonds that they engagement ring options. and inspiration. Those traits seem can explore when shopping for Many modern couples now lean toward other offerings not only for the uniqueness they provide, but also for the • Amethyst: This vibrant, tailor-made for surprise proposals. engagement rings. potential cost savings. Those seeking something unique can embrace these engagement ring options. Secrets to at-home Many couples preparing for general rule is six- to 10 square- Learn if it’s legal their trip down the aisle follow feet of floor space per guest for Certain municipalities may the sentiments expressed row seating. You’ll probably need by Dorothy in “The Wizard of even more space for buffet tables, require permits for parking on Oz.” Such couples feel “there’s seating and a dance floor. street, noise past a certain hour, no place like home” when hosting You will likely need to closing of streets, and much more. a wedding ceremony or reception. temporarily move furniture to Do your research. 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Homes often hold couples’ most cherished memories, have to be made when drawing perform ceremonies outside of a unique opportunity for couples and hosting a backyard celebration or an intimate indoor ceremony at your own home or the abode of a loved up the guest list. The wedding place of worship. who love the comfort and one can be a cost-effective way to have a good time. resource The Knot advises the familiarity of their homes. the most out of bridal shows and wedding events

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Couples about to embark on • Cocktail hour: Typically an lieu of straight buttercream. Gettheir wedding journeys willschooled likely hour-long interlude between the on• Handle wrap: wedding Ribbon or fabric terminology learn a thing or two about party wedding ceremony and the main that wraps around the stems of a planning once their dinner of the reception. Guests bouquet the and wedding are over and they are newly have time to arrive and mingle party carries. married. Wedding planning can before being seated. • Maid/matron of honor: The seem overwhelming and a tad • Corkage fee: A fee some title given to the woman who confusing at times, but a crash establishments charge to allow assists the bride and stands closest course in wedding terminology guests to bring their own wine. to her at the . “Maids” are can help couples make more • Dais: A podium or platform those who are unmarried, while informed choices along the way. raised from the floor where the “matrons” are women who are. • Blusher: A short, single-layer bride and groom are seated. • Master of ceremonies: An veil that covers the bride’s face • Deposit: A percentage of the individual who will work with before the ceremony. total cost of service given to a the DJ or band to announce • Boutonnière: A single flower vendor to secure a date for their the various components of the bud worn by the men in the bridal services. . party. • Dragées: Round, small edible • Nosegay: A small bouquet • Canapés: Bite-sized appetizers balls of sugar that appear on or flower arrangement typically served during the cocktail hour of wedding cakes. given to the mothers of the bride a reception. • Escort (seating) cards: Printed and groom before the ceremony. • Civil ceremony: A cards that direct reception guests • Processional/Recessional: ceremony conducted by a council to their seats. Musical pieces that mark the key people in the wedding who including invitations, programs of centerpiece designs. official or justice of the peace at a • Fondant: A sweet, plyable entrance and exit from the welcome and greet guests. and enclosures. Learning some basic wedding municipal location rather than in a product used to decoratively cover wedding ceremony. • Stationery: All of the paper • Tablescape: A word that terminology can simplify house of worship. layered cakes. It can be used in • Receiving line: A line of the products used at the wedding, describes the multiple components wedding planning. Let Us Be Part of Your Special Day! Your Event Is Our Business! Book Your Venue Now For Your 2019/2020 Event! Our state of the art Event Center boasts 20,000 square feet of entertainment space. Our facility has a spacious veranda, a full sized catering kitchen, bridal room, an expansive main hall. As well as several meeting rooms perfect for meetings, classes, small baby showers and birthday parties. Our board room is also available if you need a formal meeting space. Why Choose Us... This 20,000 square foot facility is perfect for: Weddings, Quinceañeras, Reunions, Holiday Parties, Baby/Bridal Showers, Birthday Parties, Fundraisers, Awards Banquets, Business Meetings/Expos and so much more…

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Naturally, brides- and grooms-to-be are anxious to share the good news with others and include family and friends in the festivities. One way couples exemplify inclusion is by asking their closest acquaintances to be part of their wedding parties.

Making the important decision However, the larger the wedding the wedding party and vice versa. parties. Do couples want their to get married can fill couples party, the more people couples • Consider your expenses. loved ones to be very hands-on with joy and excitement as they have to coordinate and the more Wedding party members may or waiting in the wings? For those imagine spending the rest of their personalities they must manage. be asked to spend considerable who want a lot of input from lives together. Naturally, brides- While large wedding parties are amounts of money to be in the and grooms-to-be are anxious to in style, there isn’t any one-size- wedding, but the couple will their wedding parties, asking share the good news with others fits-all formula to decide which have certain expenses tied to the distant friends or family to be and include family and friends in size party is right for a particular wedding party as well. These included may be impractical. the festivities. One way couples situation. Trends vary based on can include limousines to ferry • Select reliable, easygoing exemplify inclusion is by asking geography and culture. These people between the ceremony people. Wedding party members their closest acquaintances to tips can help couples decide on and reception, photography should be people couples can rely be part of their wedding parties. the size of their wedding parties. costs to arrange and photograph Being asked to serve as a • Match it to scope and style. large wedding parties, the cost on, and it only helps if wedding or is Wedding planners may use a of boutonnieres and bouquets, party members are not prone to an honor. Some couples may standard ratio for a proportion attendants’ gifts, as well as extra overreacting. Choose a wedding be tempted to ask every friend, of guests to wedding party mouths to feed at the rehearsal party that can be trusted and or they have to members. That ratio is one dinner. Small wedding parties people with whom you get along. be in their wedding parties, and pair of wedding attendants for can be easier on couples’ budgets. some do. In fact, ancient Roman every 50 guests. This creates a • Know your expectations. Wedding party sizes law required 10 witnesses to be balanced feel where the more Couples should discuss what are up to the couple, but part of the wedding ceremony. people in attendance, the larger they expect from their wedding bigger isn’t always better.

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Each year, millions of couples length of a couple’s engagement, be dictated by the availability of around the world tie the knot. and couples should not feel as if their favorite venues. But before couples walk down they need to hurry down the aisle. Military deployment, work the aisle, the proposal to get For example, couples who will commitments, medical issues, married must take place. Many be financing their own weddings or travel responsibilities also couples mutually agree to get may need a longer engagement may affect the length of an engaged, while the experience than those whose parents will be engagement. may be a surprise for others who chipping in. In such instances, Some couples may feel that have thought about it, but may longer engagements give couples an especially lengthy engagement not have been sure when one more time to save and may help diminishes their excitement partner or another would “pop them ensure their weddings are about getting married. That “new the question.” everything they hoped for. engagement shine” can wear off Upon getting engaged, Others may prefer a shorter as family and friends wait months couples may ponder how long engagement if they are financially or years for the wedding to take their engagement should last. stable and prepared to tie the knot. place. There is no perfect answer, and Couples in their late 30s may feel Couples generally are advised engagement length typically the tug of a biological clock and to stick with what feels right to depends on personal preference want to ensure there is ample them regarding the length of their and the needs of the couple. time to get married and have engagements. Just like all aspects In fact, according to The Knot children. A shorter engagement of the wedding, couples can 2017 Real Weddings Study, the can facilitate that. weigh the opinions of others but average length of an engagement Some couples may have little follow through with what works is 14.5 months. choice in the matter, as the best for them. Upon getting engaged, couples may ponder how long their engagement should last. There is no perfect answer, A number of factors affect the length of their engagements may and engagement length typically depends on personal preference and the needs of the couple. Toned arms = wedding ready

Shopping for a wedding gown Weddings agree, saying that University of Connecticut, the backs, bench dips and triangle is a tradition that follows shortly roughly 75 percent of wedding upper arms are a part of the push-ups can really activate after the engagement has taken are strapless, although female body where fat tends to these muscles and cause them to place and the ceremony date is set. some alternative necklines are be stored, along with the hips and become stronger and more toned. Some women have very clear ideas starting to become more popular. thighs. Toning this area may take a Strengthening and elongating of which type of silhouette and With so much attention directed combination of diet and exercise. shoulder muscles may take a features they desire in a wedding their way, brides might look Begin with the biceps, which combination of exercises that work gown, while others are open to for ways to tone their upper are the front muscles of the not only the deltoids (muscles suggestion. Most brides-to-be bodies in advance of the big day. arms directly above the elbows. surrounding the shoulders), but hope to look their most radiant Arm-, chest- and shoulder- Biceps are one of the stronger arm the chest and back as well. Arm in this custom-tailored creation. toning exercises can be part of muscles, and bicep curls can help raises, both with arms extended According to Kim Forrest, a strong fitness regimen. The strengthen biceps further. Shape to the side and in front of the the editor of WeddingWire, an upper arms and the shoulders magazine suggests performing 12 body, can work these areas well. online marketplace for wedding- have no fewer than nine primary repetitions of three hand positions, Brides who want to tone related items, strapless dresses muscles that will need firming palms up, palms down and thumbs up can speak with a fitness are the standard for wedding for brides to make an impact to the side, to really work this area. instructor at a nearby gym to attire, and that trend is unlikely while walking down the aisle. The triceps are a single muscle learn the various ways to firm top change anytime soon. Style Tame flabby areas with that have three sections, according their arms, chests and backs in directors for Martha Stewart exercise. According to the to Fitness. Doing triceps kick- advance of their wedding days. Did you know? Wedding Should a person hear that bond, which is why they have long a couple “tied the knot,” it’s been associated with marriage. immediately known that they In one unity tradition, couples got married. But just when and may braid or knot together three where does the term “tying the strands, with one representing registry tips knot” come from? The phrase the bride, one symbolizing the “tying the knot” is steeped in groom and the third representing tradition, though the origins Building a is a register with at least one national God as they join together in faith. of the phrase remain open for task unlike any other couples may chain so guests who live in Similarly, the phrase “getting debate. One origin story states encounter during their lifetimes. different regions can shop for gifts hitched” is associated with knot- that tying the knot can be traced Wedding registries are invaluable in-person if they prefer to do so. tying as well. The saying implies back to the Roman empire, when that two people are being tied resources that provide engaged • Make a large list. Some brides wore girdles that were tied couples’ loved ones with couples are hesitant to make large together just like a horse is tied, or in knots, and the groom had to hitched, to a wagon. suggestions. In spite of that value, wedding registries, feeling that eventually untie those knots to A song at the couples may find it daunting and doing so gives the impression that consummate the marriage. Tying wedding reception often sets the even a little uncomfortable to they’re asking for too much. But the knot also may be traced to tone for the upcoming festivities build their wedding registries. large registries simply give guests the custom of . The and can exemplify just how Building a wedding registry more options to choose from. marriage was established feel about each other. can feel like walking a tightrope. Many industry insiders advise between a bride and a groom by Couples may agonize over which Couples likely won’t want to registering for two to three gifts joining their hands together and song to choose, but there are many ask for too much or for gifts that per guest. That might seem like tying them. Although accounts gone, discount registry items that and from the wedding can still different resources available that are too expensive, but a poorly a lot, but guests will appreciate vary as to whether the hands were weren’t purchased. So even if no purchase gifts without digging too tied only during the ceremony can help couples narrow down built registry can be a major having all of those options. their options. Spotify, the popular one purchases the more expensive much deeper into their pockets. or later, this is believed to be an inconvenience for guests. The • Don’t hesitate to include streaming music service, has following tips can help couples expensive items on your registry. items, including them on a • Periodically update the ancient Renaissance or Celtic tradition. Others speculate that the compiled a list of the most popular build adequate registries that Couples also may be hesitant registry may significantly reduce registries. Periodically update phrase traces its origins to songs for 2018, based on benefit them without asking too to include especially expensive their cost for couples who want to your registries to remove items weddings in which brides and global respondents. Their top pick much of their guests. items on their wedding registries. buy such items themselves after you have already received and grooms tied a necklace of flowers was “Perfect,” by Ed Sheeran, a • Register with more than one However, the couples’ parents tying the knot. to add items if many of the less as part of wedding tradition. Yet song that many might suspect was store. It’s important to register and other close relatives may • Vary the prices of items on the expensive ones have already been another theory suggests that the composed with wedding dances with more than one store. Doing be honored to purchase more list. In addition to including more purchased. This also makes things phrase can be traced back to the in mind. Sheeran’s “Thinking so makes things as convenient as expensive items, so couples expensive items on the registry, Out Loud,” Etta James’ “At more convenient for guests. knotted string that supported possible for guests and increases should not feel embarrassed make sure to include moderately beds prior to the use of metal Last,” John Legend’s “All of Building a wedding registry the chances they will be able to to include them on their lists. priced and inexpensive items. springs. Therefore, in order to Me,” and Elvis Presley’s “Can’t shop at stores they’re familiar It’s also important to note that This gives guests more options is a unique task that couples can make a marriage bed, couples Help Falling in Love” filled out with. Unless your guest list many retailers, after couples’ and ensures guests who might embrace as their wedding day first needed to tie the knot. Knots the remaining top five spots on is predominantly local, try to wedding days have come and be spending a lot to travel to draws near. also represent a difficult-to-break Spotify’s list.

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Many men and women like to travel for their bachelor/bachelorette parties, and cost-conscious bridal party members may be concerned about how expensive such parties can be.

Engagement photo shoots can be a unique way for couples to commemorate and enjoy the months preceding Affordable bachelor and their weddings. Engagement photos memorialize the engagement and provide many additional benefits as well.

During their engagements, can be filed away and help make anxieties prior to the wedding. couples will make many decisions wedding day photos look better. ideas An engagement shoot also can be in regard to their weddings. Similarly, spending time with the a great time for couples to speak Wedding planning can sometimes photographer gives the couple an with their photographers about Weddings can be expensive. these types of parties will be more for friends to share a few laughs seem like a runaway train of opportunity to develop a rapport Various sources estimate the enjoyable than simpler soirées. together. Participants need not be angles or styles they prefer or appointments, schedules and with their photographer. If couples average cost of weddings is Taking steps to control costs can professional singers to join in on dislike. deadlines. As a result, some and their photographer don’t anywhere from $26,000 to help cost-conscious couples and the festivities. 4. The bride and groom have couples do not take the time to click, scheduling an engagement $31,000. Couples and their parents their friends. The following are • Camp out: Get in touch with enjoy being engaged, which is a shoot well in advance of the save-the-date or social media may bear the brunt of wedding some affordable ideas that can be nature by enjoying a camping trip, special and unique time in their wedding gives couples a chance photos. Engagement photographs expenses, but those who have fun for all involved. complete with a campfire and a lives. to find someone else to take their can be used for save-the-date Engagement photo shoots photos. accepted a role in the wedding • Bar or winery crawl: Partygoers few brews. Spending time in the can be a unique way for couples 2. An engagement photo shoot cards or social media postings party also can expect their share of typically want to enjoy a night out wilderness can restore focus and to commemorate and enjoy the gives couples time to spend (check with the photographer for expenses. on the town, and traveling from one let stress melt away. months preceding their weddings. together. An engagement photo licensing agreements). This can be Taking into account gifts, establishment to another can be a • Poker or game night: Groups Engagement photos memorialize shoot is an ideal time to spend a great way to spread excitement wardrobes, makeup, bridal fun way to do just that. Everyone can gather around the poker table the engagement and provide many an afternoon in a special location about the upcoming nuptials. showers, and travel, including invited can set themselves apart to test their skills in poker and additional benefits as well. focusing on each other without 5. Photo shoots provide a getting to and from the bachelor/ with a signature item (hat, T-shirt, other card games. With some free- 1. Engagement photo shoots wedding planning taking up your chance to experiment with bachelorette party, bridal party or colored clothing), and make the flowing beverages and snacks give couples a chance to connect time. members are on the hook for a lot rounds. galore, games can get pretty vivid backdrops. Engagement with their photographers. Booking 3. Photo shoots provide a of money when their friends or • Attend a group event: Group animated. photography gives couples plenty an engagement photo shoot chance to get comfortable in family members tie the knot. Many events include sporting events, • Dinner party: Hire a chef to provides helpful information front of the camera. Professional of opportunities to experiment men and women like to travel for concerts, theater shows, or a night visit your house and prepare a to both the couple and the photographs taken before the with different locales, which may their bachelor/bachelorette parties, at a comedy club. Investigate meal for guests. Serve a signature photographer. The photographer wedding enables couples to view not be possible come the wedding gets to see how the couple how they will appear in pictures. and cost-conscious bridal party discounted tickets for large groups. cocktail and let the conversation day. interacts in front of the lens and Seeing these photos might help members may be concerned about • Belt out the tunes: Open flow. can determine any insecurities couples grow more comfortable in Engagement photography can how expensive such parties can mic nights at restaurants, bars Bachelor and bachelorette or strengths and weaknesses front of the camera. This practice be a worthwhile inclusion in pre- be. Pulling out all the stops can be and other establishments around parties can be affordable without couples may have. These lessons can help couples temper their wedding celebrations. exciting, but there’s no guarantee town may make for a fun way sacrificing fun. planning pointers

Rehearsal dinners are • Confirm who is paying bridal party members’ dietary customarily held after couples for dinner. Tradition once restrictions. Couples may and their bridal parties walk suggested that the groom’s not want to book a seafood through the wedding ceremony. parents pay for the rehearsal restaurant if a handful of guests Rehearsals may occur one or dinner while the bride’s have shellfish allergies. So two nights before the actual parents foot the bill for the before booking a restaurant for wedding, depending on the wedding. But perhaps due to the rehearsal dinner, couples availability of the wedding the rising cost of weddings, can ask members of their bridal venue. many couples no longer feel party and other attendees if beholden to such traditions. If they have any food allergies. couples are financing their own • Emphasize location. Rehearsal dinners weddings, parents of both the Couples whose bridal party tend to be less bride and groom may want to includes out-of-towners should pay for the rehearsal dinner. If look for a restaurant that’s formal than wedding parents are splitting the cost close to the wedding hotel receptions, but of the wedding, then couples and/or the ceremony site to themselves may want to pay for host their rehearsal dinner. couples should still the rehearsal dinner. Confirm Ideally, one that’s within prioritize planning who is paying and if there is walking distance of both a budget to work with before makes getting to and from a lot Rehearsal dinners are customarily held after couples and their bridal parties walk through the wedding ceremony. to ensure their booking a restaurant. This way easier. Regardless of where the Rehearsals may occur one or two nights before the actual wedding, depending on the availability of the wedding dinner goes off there is no confusion once the restaurant is located, make sure venue. Rehearsal dinners tend to be less formal than wedding receptions, but couples should still prioritize bill is brought to the table. to arrange for transportation planning to ensure their dinner goes off without a hitch. without a hitch. • Give consideration to for any out-of-town guests who are not planning to drive to the wedding. • Inform guests about the dress code. Rehearsal dinners tend to be laid back , but members of the bridal party may be uncertain about what to wear. Couples should inform rehearsal dinner guests well in advance of the wedding if the dinner will be casual, semiformal or formal. This gives guests the time to shop for and pack their attire for the night, and saves couples the trouble of answering wardrobe inquiries in the busy final days before the wedding. • Toast the guests. Brides and grooms are toasted at their wedding receptions, but rehearsal dinners afford happy couples the chance to thank their closest friends and family members for their love and support. Plan to give a brief toast to loved ones at the dinner. Grooms may also want to use this opportunity to toast their brides-to-be, thanking them for all their efforts planning the wedding. Rehearsal dinners typically are fun, less formal affairs. But even the least formal dinners require some planning. Wedding Guide FEBRUARY 2019 - Wedding website Wedding unity ceremony ideas dos and don’ts Weddings celebrate the joining together of hearts, cross with a holder, and the cross is held in place by Technology continues to and homes. The unification of a couple three pins, which symbolize the Father, Son and the infiltrate all areas of life. So it pledging vows to each other is the key component of Holy Spirit. During this ritual, the bride, groom and should come as no surprise that the ceremony, and unity rituals are common during both officiant will each set a pin in place. apps and digital organization traditional and nontraditional weddings. • Tree planting: Planting a tree or shrub that can grow play a prominent role in many Unity ceremonies represent the of two people with the marriage is a green idea and one that takes unity couples’ weddings. Couples coming together as one. Unity rituals may be built into rituals to a different level. Couples can place the sapling in may now feel it is necessary to certain religious or cultural weddings as a normal part of a decorative pot and then take turns watering it. Later the design a wedding website to the festivities. Other couples may want to embrace the idea tree can be planted outside the couple’s first home. keep their guests up-to-date. of a unity ceremony to add something extra special to their • Lasso ceremony: This ritual is traditional in many Though they’re useful when ceremonies. Spanish- and Filipino-speaking countries. After vows are planning a wedding, websites Couples seeking creative options for unity rituals as exchanged, the officiant wraps a floral garland or rosary are not a must-have, according part of their wedding ceremonies can explore these clever around the couple. At the end of the ceremony, the garland to bridal etiquette experts. ideas. is saved as a symbol of unity and love. • Candle lighting: The lighting of a is one • Handfasting: This ritual comes from an ancient Celtic However, those who choose to of the more recognizable and traditional unity rituals. tradition that bounds the bride and groom’s right hands delve into the world of wedding During this ritual, the bride and the groom each light an together during the wedding ceremony. Handfasting websites can keep these pointers individual candle and then together light a larger candle, symbolizes couples’ commitments to one another. in mind when navigating. which celebrates them coming together as one. • Flower ceremony: In this ritual, couples can exchange DO use the wedding website as • Sand pouring: The pouring of sand into a vessel also is roses or a favorite flower and then place them in a vase or a central hub for putting pertinent a popular unity ritual. In this ritual, couples choose two basket. All members of the family also are invited to place information about the wedding sands of different colors and then pour their respective a single flower into the vessel, which ultimately results in a that may not be covered on colors into a vessel, allowing the different hues to mix beautiful floral display. invitations or save-the-date cards. together. This ritual can be expanded to include other Couples can create their own unique unity ceremonies. DON’T ignore the potential family members, with a rainbow of colors blending for The blending of any two materials, such as wine, tea, for identity theft and privacy. a now unified joining of families. glass beads, or paint, or even the traditional tying of Wedding websites can put quite a • Unity cross: Christians may enjoy a unity cross knots will convey the symbolism of joining as one. deal of personal information out ritual at their ceremony. A unity cross is a decorative for public consumption. Not only will the website advertise when the wedding takes place (when your home and the homes of all your guests will be empty), but also it could include birthdays, Rustic bouquets add natural maiden names, and other information that would normally be more difficult to track down. DO use a wedding website flair to wedding celebrations provider that gives you the option to password protect your website. Couples opting to get back to food to favors to flowers should Another way rustic bouquets Urge guests not to share this basics, streamline their nuptials be. In fact, one way to describe set themselves apart is with the protected information with others. DON’T caption engagement and create more intimate and less rustic weddings — and especially introduction of other elements superficial affairs often gravitate the floral arrangements that adorn photos, bachelorette party into the arrangements. Not merely photos and more with dates and toward rustic celebrations to them — is “purposely imperfect.” blooms and greenery, rustic pieces names on the wedding website showcase their ideals. Rustic Rustic wedding bouquets may may feature twigs, vines, berries, and on other social media. weddings also may appeal to seem like they were plucked DO skip the wedding website scabiosa pods, ivy, and feathery environmentalists and men and right out of the garden or grabbed if you are strongly opposed to women who want their weddings through a stroll in a meadow. ferns. The heights of elements in it. When properly composed, a to be as eco-friendly as possible. They’re rarely symmetrical or the bouquet are varied, and the will convey all Rustic weddings may include feature the customary flowers of bouquets will not have an overly the pertinent details. A group email or phone calls can alert guests those ceremonies and receptions more formal wedding celebrations. uniform shape. Rustic bouquets that take place outdoors or in to any changes after the fact. When designing rustic are far from pretentious, and DON’T forget to abodes, such as barns, wineries, bouquets, florists may keep the brides shouldn’t feel that these link to gift registries. castles, or converted silos or stems of wildflowers or other bouquets are delicate or will fall DO use the wedding website town factories. In fact, Bridal blooms untethered for a relaxed to collect responses and then apart when handled. Guide says that barn weddings feel. Long stemmed arrangements make a table seating arrangement have never been more popular When planning a rustic are quite popular, and trends point online. This will help you stay — among both urban and rural more organized and streamlined. toward bouquets that are loosely wedding, couples can work with Couples opting to get back to basics, streamline their nuptials and create couples alike. Wedding websites are more intimate and less superficial affairs often gravitate toward rustic tied with raffia, twine, vines and their florists to create bouquets Coordinating a rustic wedding yet another tool couples celebrations to showcase their ideals. Rustic weddings also may appeal other natural materials rather than and arrangements that fit with can use to stay organized as may mean letting go of perceived to environmentalists and men and women who want their weddings to be more refined ribbon. their visions. they plan their weddings. as eco-friendly as possible. notions of how everything from Various ways to preserve wedding memories Share Your Big News!! Place your Wedding Announcement in your local or hometown paper

Elements from the wedding can be preserved in a shadow box and put on display.

Couples’ wedding days are the gown and enclose it in the bracelet or earrings. momentous occasions, and locket. Jewelry designers also • Frame the invitation. couples want their memories may be able to convert a section Call us! Display the wedding invitation of the day they tied the knot to of the gown pattern into metal in a beautiful frame with custom endure long after the final guest through a casting process. matting. Small, Reasonable Rates Apply. has departed. • Have guests sign the label. • Revisit the site. On their Weddings can be amazing, Purchase a special bottle of wine anniversaries, couples can visit but they only last a few hours. or champagne and ask guests to their ceremony site or have Memories can be forever if they sign the label or the bottle itself. are effectively documented. Store the bottle until a special brunch or dinner at the venue The Mexia News The Fairfield Recorder The following are some ways occasion, such as a memorable where the reception took place. for couples to permanently anniversary, and then toast to a Take an “after” picture to display 214 N. Railroad, Mexia 101 E. Commerce, Fairfield memorialize their wedding days. happy marriage. with the “before” shot from the • Dry the bouquet. Wedding • Make a cake replica. Ask wedding day. (254) 562-2868 (903) 389-3334 bouquets can be freeze-dried an artist to make a miniature • Make an invitation ornament. and/or chemically preserved replica of the out Cut the wedding invitation into so that the colors, textures and of pottery. Put the clay cake out strips and place it inside of a the volume of the blooms can for display or ask for it to be hollow glass ornament. Seal the The Groesbeck Journal The Teague Chronicle appear just as vibrant as they made small enough to serve as a top and hang with a ribbon. were on couples’ wedding days. Christmas tree ornament. • Design a greeting card After preservation, the bouquet • Teddy bear transformation: scrapbook. Turn all of those 115 N. Ellis, Groesbeck 319 Main Street, Teague can be displayed in a vase or in Have tuxedo fabric or wedding special handwritten messages a specially prepared shadow box gown material turned into a and well-wishes into a scrapbook (254) 729- 5103 (254) 739-2141 with other mementos. keepsake teddy bear. Bowman • Create a custom locket. Brides Bears produces such bears, which so that memories can be revisited can wear a piece of their wedding can be passed down to future time and again. gown day after day with a custom generations. The planning may take months necklace or locket. All they need • Create bouquet jewelry. and the wedding mere hours, but to do is trim a small piece of the Encapsulate favorite wedding well-documented wedding day lace or other embellishment from flowers into a resin pendant, memories can last forever. 8 - FEBRUARY 2019 Wedding Guide

Springfield Events will host a Bridal Fair on Sunday, May 5th at Springfield Hall. Watch our social media pages for more details to come!

Springfield Hall is an easily accessible property located at the corner of State Hwy. 14 and Park Road 35. The venue is close to • Family Reunions beautiful Limestone County Historic Sites: Confederate Reunion Grounds, Ft. Parker State Park and Old Ft. Parker. • Graduation Parties The venue features a grand, intimate, heated and cooled hall with • Birthday access to a full kitchen and plentiful restrooms. The hall has a large attached uncovered front porch and a covered patio with open Celebrations seating accessible to the outdoor restrooms.

• Class Reunions By April, an open pavilion will add to the versatility of the venue acreage. The pavilion will be delightfully finished and offer an • Retreats additional outdoor space that Texans love to enjoy.

• Memorial Meals Farmhouse tables are handcrafted by local craftsmen with a choice of benches, x-back chairs and traditional white chairs available to and Services complete what you have in mind for your celebration. All chairs, • Private Interest tables and décor are included with the rental. Group Meetings Springfield Hall caters to what we know and love best, and that is Texas, Texans and the values that we hold • Retirement Parties dear. • Quinceanera Pricing is locally competitive and contingent on the party size and the event type. We are happy to show • Bridal Showers our venue and answer any and all of your questions. • Baby Showers Please contact [email protected] Springfield Hall is available for public lease for all • Weddings events and occasions.

Current Vendor list:

Catering Service: Billy B’s Sale Barn Coffee Cabaret Joe Friday’s Diner Kurbside Coffee

Photographers: SindraRae Photography Smith Family Photography Photo Trappings – Brandi Garza Twenty 98 – Megan Holub

Florist: Rusty Rose

DJ Services: R&R DJ Service Jonathan Price SPRINGFIELD HALL • 199 Park Road 35 Groesbeck, Texas 76642, Limestone County • [email protected]