A Small Victory
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July, 2021 Volume 52, Issue 7 Experience, Strength, and Hope in Orange County A Small Victory As I was only ready to turn over a few of my character defects to my ments, anger, and selfishness was a small victory, allowing for less Higher Power at the end of Step Six, I was aggression and better relationships. Each surprised—and frustrated—when those victory was not mine; it belonged to the defects that I held onto kept popping up. program of Alcoholics Anonymous and my My fear of change seemed to give my Higher Power. Slowly, my practice of turn- selfishness free reign. I was plagued by ing these negative feelings over to my my defense mode of aggression. I was Higher Power grew into trust and faith emotionally immature. My emotional that He was looking after me. pain fed my mental and physical pain, and my lack of trust in my Higher Power Truthfully, my character defects have nev- kept me in turmoil. Sharing in meetings er left me. They hide until they get the was my only outlet. This provided a brief opportunity to jump out. During my jour- period of relief, perhaps a couple of ney in sobriety, my Higher Power has prov- hours if I were lucky. en that He can quiet these negative feel- ings, emotions, and the thoughts that ac- My tour of duty on Okinawa was drawing company them. When a defect pops out to a close around this time, and I was Continued on page 15 getting ready to go home on leave before my next assignment. I was exchanging letters with a man in my hometown who had twenty-two years of sobriety, and I told him about the struggles I was having with my character defects. In the Inside This Issue last letter I got from him before I returned home, he asked me what A Small Victory 1,15 I was going to do about it. What was I going to do about it? What I Service Board Information 2 was doing certainly was not working. I had a sudden realization that Step Ten: The Reflection and Admission 3 I was unable to do anything about my defects myself. Our Principles 4 Support Central Office/Birthdays 5 Out of options, I began to ask (instead of demanding, like I usually Central Office Activity/Web Stats 6 did) my Higher Power for relief of the emotional, mental, and physi- The Shopping Cart Mental Attitude 7 cal stress my character defects were causing me. Those negative Message to a Newcomer 8 feelings and thoughts were not removed, but I found that different solutions became available as those feelings lost their power. I be- What AA Does/What AA Does Not Do 8 gan asking for help with these issues each day, in addition to asking July Pamphlet of the Month 9 for help to stay sober. Each day I was able to overcome fear, resent- Meanwhile, In Cleveland . 10 My Seventh Step Prayer 11 Each day I was able to overcome fear, resentments, Letting-Go 11 anger, and selfishness was a small victory, allowing for May Donations 12, 14 less aggression and better relationships. Each victory Speaker Meetings 13 was not mine; it belonged to the program of Alcoholics Upcoming Events 13 Anonymous and my Higher Power. Statement of Income and Expense 15 Word Search 16 July, 2021 Volume 52, Issue 7 Welcome 2021 Public Information Committee: Meets the 4th Tuesday of the month at SERVICE BOARD 6:00PM via Zoom (ID: 957 0962 0011, Password: publicinfo) Chair, Chris R. [email protected] Group Relations Committee: Meets the 2nd Wednesday of the month at Purpose: The Lifeline Committee is a 6:30PM (30 minutes before the Inter- group of AA members charged with the Vice Chair, Marti H. group meeting) via Zoom (ID: 913 4366 responsibility of producing and distrib- [email protected] 3535, Password: ocaa) uting the Orange County Lifeline. The Lifeline Committee: Meets the 1st Lifeline is published monthly and is sup- Treasurer, Mike R. Thursday of the month at 7:00PM via ported solely through contributions from [email protected] Zoom (ID: 964 0964 3295, Password: the AA groups and members of Orange lifeline) See page 3 for more details. County. The Lifeline proposes to meet Secretary, Rosie G. the following needs of the Orange County Special Events Committee: meets the [email protected] 2nd Wednesday of the month at AA membership: to inform AAs of service 6:00PM via Zoom (ID: 959 5011 4705) opportunities, events, and announce- Central Office, Courtney R. ments; to share experience in recovery, [email protected] South Orange County H & I meets the unity, and service; and to report the ac- 3rd Wednesday of the month at 7:00PM (new members’ orientation) and tions, finances, and meetings of the Or- Group Relations, Melissa A. 7:45PM (business meeting), Laguna Beach ange County Intergroup Association and [email protected] Canyon Club, 20456 Laguna Canyon Road, other Central Office committees. Laguna Beach Lifeline, Lisa B. Lifeline Editor: Jennifer J. Orange County H & I meets the 2nd [email protected] Sunday of the month at 4:00PM and [email protected] 6:00PM via Zoom (ID: 819 0493 8488, Public Information, Cynthia V. Password: 788615) Orientation starts at ORANGE COUNTY PublicInformationCommittee@oc- 5:00PM sharp; the room will be locked from 5:05 until 5:40. The Committee Meet- CENTRAL OFFICE aa.org 1526 Brookhollow, Suite 75 ing is at 6:00, meeting opens around 5:40. See page 14 for more details. Santa Ana, CA 92705 Special Events, Gabe C. Phone: (714) 556-4555 [email protected] The Central Office Committee meets E-mail: [email protected] the 4th Tuesday of each month at Website: Orange County AA - HOME (oc- 6:00PM, Central Office, 1526 Brookhol- aa.org) Hospitals & Institutions, low, Suite 75, Santa Ana Office hours: Mon-Fri: 9AM-7PM; Michelle R.and Tara E. Saturday & Holidays: 9AM-1PM [email protected] The OCAA Technology Committee meets the 1st Monday of the month at 6:00PM via Zoom (ID: 933 6844 2432, SOUTH COUNTY OFFICE Password: ocaatech) Technology, Brian P. 30011 Ivy Glenn Drive, [email protected] The Orange County Intergroup Assoc. Suite 104 meets the 2nd Wednesday of the Laguna Niguel, CA 92677 NOTE: IF YOU HAVE A SITUATION month at 7:00PM via Zoom (ID: 913 4366 Phone: (949) 582-2697 THAT REQUIRES AN IMMEDIATE 3535, Password: ocaa) E-mail: [email protected] ANSWER, PLEASE CALL OR Office hours: Mon-Fri: 10AM-5PM EMAIL CENTRAL OFFICE. For more information on any of the above committees, please contact For information about General Service, please go to the Area 9 website, Orange County Central office at Welcome to Area 09 - Mid Southern Califor- (714) 556-4555. nia Area 09 (msca09aa.org) . Thank you to our board and committee members. 2 July, 2021 Volume 52, Issue 7 Step Ten The Reflection and Admission I’ve addressed all my issues and made my amends. I’m working my program, upon which my sobriety depends. In everything I do, I must be accountable for my actions, Managing my defects, so they aren’t unhealthy distractions. I know I’m not perfect and will slip here and there. But I must promptly admit it and then handle it with care. Being the best version of myself is of the utmost importance. At day’s end, I will look inward and analyze my performance. Did I treat those around me with compassion and affection? Share Your Thoughts on When I made a mistake, was I honest and offer redemption? Sobriety with the Lifeline If someone happened to wrong me, did I forgive and forget? I don’t want to hold a grudge, because it’s something I’ll regret. If you’d like to submit an article, poem, or cartoon Did I contribute to society in all ways that were kind? to be considered for publication, please send all Was I patient with my coworkers in the middle of a grind? submissions to the email address below by the Did I come home to my family and burden them in any way? 15th of the month for the following month (e.g., Au- Or did I hold them in my arms as I asked about their day? To the driver who cut me off, did I react with the bird, gust 15th for the September issue). The best arti- Or just smile and wave, not knowing what had made him perturbed? cles are under 600 words and are usually much It’s not up to me to be the world’s judge and jury. shorter. If you are unsure of what to write, you can God grant me the patience to not react in a fury. think of a great share at your favorite meeting. You To those I may have harmed, I did immediately atone. can write on a topic like how you chose your spon- From bad habits and reactions, so much growth I have shown. sor, your concept of a Higher Power, or tell your My inventory is complete and now I lay my head to rest. story. Not a writer? A committee member can inter- To the promises manifesting, I can now truly attest. view you and write your story. You will have final approval on anything published. Please email Sue S. [email protected] for more information. Want to join the Lifeline Committee? Lifeline Com- mittee members can help read, write, edit, create, design or simply offer suggestions for the Lifeline.