Mother-Son Relationships in Confessional and Post-Confessional Lyric
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"I AM MADE BY HER, AND UNDONE": MOTHER-SON RELATIONSHIPS IN CONFESSIONAL AND POST-CONFESSIONAL LYRIC HANNAH BAKER PHD THE UNIVERSITY OF YORK DEPARTMENT OF ENGLISH FEBRUARY 2011 11 TABLE OF CONTENTS Page Acknowledgments 111 Declaration v Abstract VI Abbreviations vii INTRODUCTION "When everything and anything suddenly 1 seemed material for poetry" CHAPTER 1 "and moreover my mother told me": Mother-son 26 Relationships in the Confessional Lyric I Introduction 27 11 On John Berryman's Song 14 31 111 On Robert Lowell's "Unwanted" 52 IV Conclusion 78 CHAPTER 2 "Freaked in the Moon Brain": Ginsberg and Bidart 84 Confessing Crazy Mothers I Introduction 85 11 On Allen Ginsberg's "Kaddish" 93 111 On Frank Bidart's "Confessional" 114 IV Conclusion 140 CHAPTER 3 "That was what I craved, to tell on her": Mother-son 144 Relationships in the Post-confessional Lyric i Introduction 145 ii On C.K. Williams' "My Mother's Lips" and 149 "The Cup" 111 On Robert Hass' "My Mother's Nipples" 163 IV Conclusion 183 CHAPTER 4 "I am made by her, and undone": Thorn Gunn's 185 Transatlantic Response to Confessional Poetry I Introduction 186 11 On Thorn Gunn's "My Mother's Pride" 196 111 Coda: On Thorn Gunn's "The Gas-Poker" 217 IV Conclusion 227 BIBLIOGRAPHY 231 iii ACKNOWLEDGMENTS Writing a dissertation would be grimly monastic if not for the support, generous feedback, and voices of my supervisors and thesis advisory panel. I can't thank enough Dr. Reena Sastri for guiding me from the beginning, providing thorough, rapid responses to my drafts, and modeling the rigor and precision the academic life requires of us. Reena made me feel like I was her only student. I am grateful to Hugh Haughton for my final two years of supervision during which he helped me cut 30,000 words from my loquacious dissertation. A special thanks to Adam Phillips for feedback on two chapters. I would also like to thank Dr. Trev Broughton for offering deft suggestions regarding the shape and scope of the dissertation. My admiration and thanks go to Dr. Julie Taylor for being a friend and colleague at York and beyond. When I returned to the States and continued my dissertation, many professors at my alma mater, the University of Maryland, supported me. I am indebted to Professor Joshua Weiner for reading my Gunn chapter and for making me want to chase after lucid critical prose. Grazie mile to Professor Michael Olmert, whose definition of writing stays with me: ''what you tell your grandma in the taxi on the way home from the airport." Thanks to Professors Michael Collier, Don Berger, Elizabeth Arnold, Sheila Jelen, and Stanley Plumly for teaching me their craft. I would like to give a shout-out to my students at the University of Maryland and at Xavier University of Louisiana; they have made scholarship interesting. There are many friends and poets, who have, by their very existence, let alone their loyalty, flair, and love, encouraged me; among them are Katherine DeB lassie, Lindsay Bernal, Sofi Hall, Gerald Maa, Meg Vesper, K.D. Doyle, Colleen Leary, Amber Vencion, Stacey Pyle, Bunni Warren, Mindy Rubinstein, Cocoa Williams, Biljana Obradovic, and Jules Chrzanowski. Finally, I have been inspired and sustained by the love of my family. I would never have completed this project without their confidence in me. Thank you to my parents, Phil and Mary Baker, for raising me and buying me plane tickets home. My father spent countless hours instilling in me a love for learning; from the time I started adding and writing, he was there correcting my math homework, typing up my final essays for me, and reading out loud to me Mark Twain's stories and the whole of Uncle Tom's Cabin. My mother, who went back to nursing school after having four children, and devoted her career to children and adolescents with psychiatric problems, has been an inspiration to me. My mother has always been my confidant, and has rescued me from despair many times! Thank you to my siblings and in-laws for supporting me: Lords Jason and Robbie Byron, Dave and Rae Baker, and Johnny Baker. Thanks to my two-year-old niece Maddy Baker for making me feel like a rock star whenever I visit. Appreciation goes out to my brother Dave for treating me to countless soy Chai Lattes over the course of my education. My grandparents, Jim and Betty Callen and Jane and K.J. Baker deserve recognition for their generosity, family pride, and breadth of experience. I am grateful as well to my second family: Linda Saltmarsh and Frank Jazab, Bill Saltmarsh and Nicky, Karen and Jeff LeBlanc, Kristin and Chris Pickett, Billy Saltmarsh, and Mary Douglas. I espec~ally wish to tJ:tank my fiance Jason Saltmarsh, whose enabling love, spirited support, SwedIsh-massage gIft card, and constructive criticism have made everything IV possible. He was there for me during those critical points when I needed a pusher, partner, lover, and colleague all in one! Jason's own work ethic, drive, intellectual prowess, voracious reading appetite, and marathon race times inspire me. I dedicate this work to him. v DECLARATION An adaption of the section on Allen Ginsberg in '''Freaked in the Moon Brain': Ginsberg and Bidart Confessing Crazy Mothers" was presented at two conferences: Pacific Ancient and Modem Language Association (PAMLA). Honolulu, Hawaii, November 2010; and Writings ofIntimacy in the 20th and 2 rt Centuries, Leistershire, England, Sept. 2010. Thorn Gunn's "My Mother's Pride" and "The Gas-poker" are reprinted from Boss Cupid by permission of Faber and Faber Ltd. Copyright © 2000 by Thorn Gunn. All rights reserved. John Berryman's "Song 14" is reprinted from The Dream Songs by permission of Faber and Faber Ltd. Copyright © 1969 by John Berryman, renewed 1997 by Kate Donahue Berryman. All rights reserved. VI ABSTRACT This dissertation offers close readings of a representative of poems by male confessional and post-confessional writers. I examine poems by men whose construction of the mother son relationship sheds light on the notions of confession and poetic identity. These readings are informed by psychoanalysis, primarily the work of Freud, D.W. Winnicott, Christopher Bollas, Jessica Benjamin, and Adam Phillips. I argue that the term "confessional poetry" although often critiqued is useful in highlighting the psychological dimensions of the mode and in locating the writers within a literary-historical period that begins with the publication of Robert Lowell's Life Studies (1959) and marks a shift towards a colloquial, personal, and deviant poetics. By looking at one aspect of confessional poetry, the writer's fundamental relationship to his mother, I argue for a rethinking of the seemingly masculine poetics of Robert Lowell and John Berryman and the gay sensibility of Allen Ginsberg. I discuss the ways in which male poets collaborate with their mothers, represent motherhood as transcending gender and biology, and suggest that mothers and ideas about mothers play into poetic self-fashioning. Examining cross gender relationships and alliances as represented in a handful of poems has implications on theories of poetic influence, which tend to highlight either same-sex collaboration or, in Harold Bloom's conception, father-son rivalry. This dissertation contributes to an understanding of confessional writing as self-exploratory, uncertain of its own status, and mediated by analysts, parents, and texts, rather than as titillating self-disclosure. Chapter 1 examines two mother poems by first-generational confessional poets, John Berryman and Robert Lowell, and applies Jessica Benjamin's model of intersubjectivity to explore the poet's identification with and differentiation from the mother figure. I consider Lowell's acknowledgment of his mother's identity prior to his own existence; in contrast, Berryman asserts the poet's need to banter with the mother and so discover the writing self as paradoxically reactionary and autonomous. In Chapter 2, I suggest that Allen Ginsberg'S "Kaddish" and Frank Bidart's "Confessional" represent the poet-son's desire to cure the mother's madness; both writers depict soul-making and soul searching as essential to identity and autobiography. As I consider the literary-historical place of these two poets, who anticipate and respond to Life Studies, I highlight their shared preoccupations with madness, crisis, and intertextuality. Chapter 3 explores poems by two post-confessional writers, Robert Hass and C.K. Williams, which revise the literary mode, and bring to the forefront the fictionality of autobiography, the trope of the maternal body, and the limitations of the child-parent, confessor-confessant, and victim-perpetrator dichotomies. In Chapter 4 and the coda, I discuss Thorn Gunn's transatlantic response to confessional poetry, and examine how his poems about his mother are at odds with his critical rejection of American confessional verse. vii ABBREVIATIONS BC Boss Cupid by Thorn Gunn CPAG Collected Poems ofAllen Ginsberg: 1947-1997 CPCK Collected Poems of c.K. Williams CPR Collected Prose ofRobert Lowell CPRL Collected Poems ofRobert Lowell CPTG Collected Poems ofThom Gunn DS The Dream Songs by John Berryman IWN In the Western Night: Collected Poems: 1965-90 by Frank Bidart SUW Sun Under Wood by Robert Hass 1 INTRODUCTION "WHEN EVERYTHING AND ANYTHING SUDDENLY SEEMED MATERIAL FOR POETRY" In a letter to Robert Lowell, Elizabeth Bishop remarks upon the major poetic shift seen in his "family group" of poems which would be published in Life Studies (1959): "They all also have that sure feeling, as if you'd been in a stretch... when everything and anything suddenly seemed material for poetry-or not material, seemed to be poetry, and all the past was illuminated in long shafts here and there, like a long-waited-for sunrise" (Words 246).