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P a g e | 1 Welcome to the 2020-2021 True Colors Resource Guide! Updated annually, the Guide offers an extensive array of resources across a wide range of sexual and gender minority youth issues and services in Connecticut, regionally, and in some cases, nationally. In addition, the Guide provides a wealth of information on such topics as risk and protective factors, talking with children about gender, impact of family response, etc. True Colors works to create a world where LGBTQ+ youth thrive. Our mission is to ensure LGBTQ+ youth — of all backgrounds — are safe, valued, and able to be their authentic selves. We do this by providing education, advocacy, and support to LGBTQ+ youth, their families, communities, and those who work with them. Our work is supported by a volunteer Board of Directors, five full-time staff, numerous student interns, scores of volunteers, donors, private and corporate funders—and people just like you! Although the True Colors Resource Guide is offered at no charge, donations to cover postage or printing are always welcome. The Guide is also available electronically at www.OurTrueColors.org. True Colors, Inc. Programs Include: One-on-One Mentoring Program True Colors provides Connecticut’s only LGBTQ+ Youth Mentoring Program, bringing the benefits of mentoring directly to LGBTQ+ youth in out-of-home care since 2005. In addition to One-on-One Mentoring, this program provides weekly group activities giving youth the opportunity for healthy peer interactions. Annual Conference Our flagship program, the annual True Colors conference, began in 1994 and is now the largest and most comprehensive LGBTQ Youth issues conference in the world! Each year, more than 3,500 youth, educators, social workers, clinicians, family members and clergy participate in 250+ workshops, films, activities and events over the course of the two-days. Youth Leadership Development When we began working with schools in 1994, there were only four Gay/Straight Alliances in Connecticut. Now, there are more than 250. True Colors played a role, directly or indirectly, in the development of many of them. We’ve conducted dozens of GSA Summits, forums and trainings for youth, empowering them to launch, grown and maintain programs in their schools. We also offer many leadership development opportunities for our organizers and volunteers. Safe Harbors Task Force True Colors collaborates with the State Department of Children and Families to identify and meet the needs of LGBTQ+ youth in out-of-home care through policy, programming and advocacy work. In addition, we recruit foster parents for adolescents. Cultural Competency Training Our nationally recognized Values Clarification and Cultural Competency Training Curriculum stands as the only curriculum ever published by the Child Welfare League of America. Each year, we train approximately 6,000 youth-serving professionals, who in turn touch the lives of countless youth and families. The True Colors Resource Guide is an expanding, evolving resource, and many of the topics included have been requested by its users. If there is something you’d like to see added to the next addition, please let us know. For more information about our programs or to get involved with making a difference for LGBTQ+ Youth: 860- 232-0050 | OurTrueColors.org | 30 Arbor Street, Suite 201A, Hartford CT 06106 TABLE OF CONTENTS FOUNDATIONAL INFORMATION Genderbread Person ................................................................................................................................. 1 FAQs About Gender .................................................................................................................................. 2 Talking to Your Kids About Gender ............................................................................................................. 3 FAQs About Romantic & Sexual Orientation ................................................................................................. 4 Talking to Your Kids About Orientation ........................................................................................................ 5 FAQs About Intersex Conditions ................................................................................................................. 6 Talking to Your Kids About Intersex Conditions ............................................................................................ 7 How to Be an Ally to Transgender Youth ..................................................................................................... 8 Reconsidering Linear Models of Coming Out ................................................................................................ 9 Coming Out Questions & Worksheet .................................................................................................... 10-11 Risk Factors & Protective Factors for Sexual Minority Youth ......................................................................... 12 Impact of Family Response: Outcomes for Affirmed vs. Rejected Youths ....................................................... 13 Homeless Youth Risk Factors and Concerns ............................................................................................... 15 Updated Summary of LGBTQ Rights, Policy, & Current Issues on the Federal & State Levels (2018) ........... 16-17 Steps for Filing a School Discrimination Complaint ..................................................................................... 18 Making a Difference: Immediate Individual, Environmental & Agency Level Action Steps ........................... 19-20 Regional & National LGBTQ Organizations ................................................................................................. 21 REGIONAL RESOURCES General Support Services: Helplines, & Peer Support .................................................................................. 22 Homelessness & Anti-poverty Resources ................................................................................................... 23 Resources for Mental Illness, Substance Abuse, Suicide, & Self-injurious Behavior Support Services ................ 24 Trauma, Abuse, & Sexual Assault Support Services .................................................................................... 25 Regional Community & Health Centers................................................................................................. 26-27 Sexual Health, HIV/AIDS Services, & Harm-Reduction Programs Support Services ......................................... 28 Health/Wellness & Transition Services ...................................................................................................... 29 Regional Family Resources (Birth Centers, Cryobanks, Fertility/Surrogacy, Foster Care, Adoption, etc.) ...... 30-32 Resources for Parents of LGBTQ+ Youth; Resources for LGBTQ+ Parents ...................................................... 33 Regional Therapist Directory ............................................................................................................... 35-36 Substance Abuse Issues & Regional Substance Abuse Resources ................................................................. 37 Regional Open & Affirming Spiritual & Faith Communities ........................................................................... 38 Social Groups & Events for LGBTQ Adults ............................................................................................. 39-40 Community-Based Adult Support Groups .................................................................................................. 40 Social and Support Groups for LGBTQ+ Youth ...................................................................................... 42-47 GAY/STRAIGHT ALLIANCES, STUDENT, & EDUCATOR RESOURCES School-Based GSA Directory ............................................................................................................... 48-54 CT College & University Group Directory ................................................................................................... 55 LGBTQ and Allied Student Scholarships, Athletes, Youth & Family Service Bureaus, and Job Resources ....... 56-57 GLSEN, getting a GSA Started, Activities, and GSA Leader Tools & Tips ................................................... 59-62 INTERNET RESOURCES Internet Safety Tips ............................................................................................................................... 64 National On-line Organizations................................................................................................................. 65 Resources for Trans Adults ...................................................................................................................... 66 Resources for Transgender & Non-Binary Youth ......................................................................................... 67 Intersex Resources, Asexual & Aromantic Resources .................................................................................. 68 Resources Specific to LGBTQ People of Color ............................................................................................. 69 BIBLIOGRAPHY (ORGANIZED BY AUDIENCE) ...................................................................................................... 70-81 GLOSSARY ............................................................................................................................................................. 82-84 REFERENCE