Off the Grid and Back to the Land Local Families Have Something to Teach Us About Self-Sufficiency
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’cause parenting is a trip! Off the grid and back to the land Local families have something to teach us about self-sufficiency unplugged on the peninsula Camping, hiking, biking and more 27 A BREWING A GUY GOES WHEN GRANDMA GET TO KNOW JUNE 2016 BATHROOM BATTLE TO DAD SCHOOL HAS DEMENTIA DYLAN TOMINE Families mobilize to support Can teen daughters How to preserve bonds and How one dad fished and transgender youths 13 be a piece of cake? 41 help the kids understand 38 foraged to find closeness46 Recover ______________________________________Strength. Eating disorders become the number one priority. When you su er from an eating disorder, it takes over your life. You can become isolated and emotionally detached, losing interest in friends, and activities you used to enjoy. If you think you or someone you love may have an eating disorder, get help at Eating Recovery Center of Washington. And take back your life. #RecoverLife Locations: Bellevue, WA Programs: Residential, Partial Hospitalization and Intensive Outpatient levels of care Focus: Eating disorders as well as co-occuring and related conditions including: EatingRecoveryCenterWA.com BELLEVUE, WA Anxiety disorders, Trauma, Substance Abuse, Exercise Compulsion, Diabetes, Medical/Psychiatric (425) 608-9828 Complications Populations: Adults and adolescents, male and female inside JUNE 2016 27 46 18 WILL AUSTIN WILL AUSTIN FACEBOOK / KAYAK BRINNON Feature Ages + Stages Regulars 18 OFF THE GRID AND 38 4–10 Don’t let dementia 6 DEAR READER BACK TO THE LAND close the door How to Counter hate with love Local families have something preserve the bond between 11 PARENT FUEL to teach us about self-sufficiency kids and grandparents Family news, snack-sized 41 10–14 What I learned Parenting at dad school: Don’t worry 4 PARENTMAP.COM about hormones and periods — Father’s Day DIY, Dr. Universe, just be a dad getting crafty, explore Redmond 8 FULL PLATE Restaurateur Ethan Stowell dishes about fatherhood 13 WELLNESS Washington’s brewing bathroom battle: Families support transgender youths to stop Initiative 1515 46 SOMEONE YOU SHOULD KNOW ? Dylan Tomine: Father, forager Out + About 27 UNPLUGGED ON THE Advertising Sections OLYMPIC PENINSULA 16–17 Schools + preschools Camping, hiking, biking, kayaking, 33–37 Camps + activities beachcombing and more low-tech Youth resources adventures 41 43–45 Birthdays 24 JUNE CALENDAR 13 COVER: OFF THE GRID: EELLS FAMILY PHOTOGRAPH BY WILL AUSTIN parentmap.com • June 2016 • 3 ParentMap navigate great stuff daily! June 2016, Vol. 14, No. 6 PUBLISHER/EDITOR Alayne Sulkin EDITORIAL EXECUTIVE EDITOR Natalie Singer-Velush OUT + ABOUT EDITOR Elisa Murray ASSISTANT EDITOR Elisabeth Kramer CALENDAR EDITOR Nancy Chaney PROOFREADER Sunny Parsons CONTRIBUTORS Prepare the Bryony Angell, Will Austin, Brad Broberg, Jennifer Johnson, thinking caps Tiffany Pitts, Kristen Russell, Angela Stowell, Lukas Velush Why do we get brain PARENTMAP.COM freezes? Can you hear SOCIAL MEDIA + DIGITAL PRODUCTS MANAGER Rory Graves in space? What exactly PUBLISHING ASSISTANT Nicole Persun is a booger? 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Her helpers Mason and Bailey choose which vegetables to use in Super Salads, starting with fresh young salad greens they pick themselves. Find the video and recipe at pccnaturalmarkets.com/ healthykids. SCAN THE QR CODE TO WATCH THE VIDEO Uncle Matt’s Organic Orange Juice Cascade Cuts salad bowls There’s no better way to store lettuce than as living plants! Pull off a few leaves and let the kids top these fresh greens with their very favorite fruits and veggies, then drizzle on a delicious fresh orange juice dressing. TEN NEIGHBORHOOD LOCATIONS & DELIVERY: PCCNATURALMARKETS.COM INTRODUCING A NEW WAY TO PLAY dear reader INTRODUCING A NEW Counter hate with love WAY TO “ And I said to my child, ‘You are beautiful and perfect, and you can be a girl.’ PLAY And she said, ‘Really? I can?’ And I said, ‘Yes, you can, and I will help you.’” — Vlada Knowlton, mother, filmmaker and activist in opposition to Initiative 1515 o you ever find yourself scratching your head, wondering what year we’re living in? The current Republican presidential candidate has the Dsupport of white supremacists. Violence against Jews is at an all time post-Holocaust high. Jewish students on American college campuses have come under attack, French Jews are targeted in grocery stores and neo-Nazis shout TAKE GAMING Hitler slogans in the streets of Europe. Many of my family members perished in OUTSIDE & the Holocaust and to me, it seems more like 1933 than 2016. MAKE IT Activism is personal: Our hearts open wider when it is our child or family who ACTIVE! is suffering, threatened by hatred, discrimination or bullying. Enter stage left: Washington state’s bathroom battle (p. 13). I-1515 seeks to repeal Washington’s decade-old non-discrimination law that, among other things, COME FOR A FREE TEST JUMP IN SEATTLE! allows transgender people to use the bathroom that matches their gender identity. 1875 NW Poplar Way, Issaquah • (425) 654-1306 Our friend and filmmaker Vlada Knowlton inspired our reporting. She shares facebook.com/springfree twitter.com/springfree the painful and powerful moment when her 4-year-old said, “I don’t want to be springfree.com/tgoma ©2016 Springfree™ Trampoline Inc. ©2016 tgoma™ Inc. born. Please, put me back.” Hear how that moment inspired her to became a leader opposing I-1515. As Vlada shows, we as parents play a pivotal role in our children’s lives, in moments of both suffering and joy. Your father may be the greatest on earth, but who wouldn’t want to be adopted by Seattle’s restaurateur extraordinaire Ethan 0616_spring_free_1-4.indd 1 5/11/16 9:13 PMStowell (p. 8) or “fish-maniac, food foraging” Dylan Tomine (p. 46)? These dads understand that our kids are expressions of how we raise them, and they make conscious efforts to build their kids’ confidence with each new skill, from pancake flipping to mushroom hunting. Speaking of foraging, my jaw dropped learning about the local families in our feature, “Off the grid and back to the land” (p. 18). While their lives, though impressive when measured by their carbon footprints (or lack there of), won’t change my unwrap the gift electricity and car-addicted family, I urge you to consider some unplugged fun for yourself (p. 27). My family n un een n had a particularly memorable n ue unen nu unen and hilarious adventure at Sequim’s n eu en en (when necessary) lavender fields and the Olympic Game n neenn ee un e e Farm, which we will never forget. 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