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From the Warden Sir Marrack Goulding KCMG SSiiiil iiflli 29 September 1999

His Excellency Mr Kofi Annan Secretary-General of the United Nations NEW YORK New York 10017, USA

Thank you for giving me the honour of delivering your message to last night's~c^l^5mfWTrorffie7ife and~w"6Tk"H"Mrchaer^^SIs^H^elFO^blrHlaTthe Sheldomari Theatre where you yourself spoke earlier in the year). The ceremony was extremely well attended by Michael's acquaintances from all walks of life and all parts of the world. I read out your message before delivering my own statement. It was the only message that was read out at the ceremony. Its warmth and eloquence made a strong impression, particularly the reference to Michael as "an exemplary citizen of the world".

I enclose copies of the programme and of my own remarks.

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Marrack Goulding REMARKS BY MARRACK GOULDING AT A CELEBRATION OF THE LIFE AND WORK OF MICHAEL VAILLANCOURT ARIS

Sheldonian Theatre, Oxford, 28 September 1999

Per Kvaerne has spoken about Michael the Scholar. Robin Chnsu^. :i "^ sneak about Michael the Friend. I will try to build a bridge between them by speaking aix,u.. •," -1 *he Fellow - in the University sense of the word but also in the wider sense of, to quote the o.-.. a little selectively, 'a colleague, companion, associate, comrade'.

Michael was a Fellow of St Antony's College for less than a decade, having previously been a Fellow at St John's and Wolfson. But his connexion with St Antony's had begun long before he became a Fellow. Since 1981 he had been helping to manage our Asian Studies Centre. The Centre is not actually a Centre in the physical sense. It is an association of kindred academics which exists in spirit but as yet has no premises. Its stubborn survival in that state may owe something to Michael's conviction that the spiritual is more important than the physical.

As a College Fellow Michael was exemplary, the personification of what is good about this University: profound and original scholarship; a desire to share that scholarship with the students who flocked to him; a warm and unassuming personality; patience, discretion and fastidious judgement; loyally tu his College; vigorous defence of ib n^.,. in> an independent academic institution to study whatever it chooses to study; disdain for the petty squabbles and consuming bureaucracy which can so disfigure Academia.

I did not meet Michael face-to-face until I came here two years ago. But as a UN official in New York I had received telephone calls from him, usually on a Sunday morning, and had come to know well that quiet and persuasive voice, that voice which proposed the impossible on a rising note of interrogation that implied you were less than a man if you did not at least attempt the impossible. The calls were of course about Burma and Daw Suu, and the proposals were for tougher action by the UN in Rangoon. My reply was usually that the impossible could not be attempted. I shudder now to recall the UN-speak in which that reply was conveyed. But Michael's calm politeness never wavered.

For the newly arrived Warden, he was a generous guide and mentor, full of good advice about the need to build consensus before proposing changes in the College's established ways of doing things. Time spent on consultation, he rightly said, was rarely time wasted. He was also a consummate peacemaker - compassionate, discreet, consistent, firm. He would say very clearly that one was in the wrong and ought to back down; and he had the knack of doing this without causing offence. All these skills made him a most valuable Fellow of the College. The obituary by Peter Carey in the St Antony's College Record rightly describes him as 'a much loved figure' there.

So much for Michael as the College Fellow. What about Michael as the all-purpose fellow with a small f - the colleague, companion, associate and comrade? One of the things that surprised me after Michael's death was how many people considered him to be their colleague, companion, associate or comrade. Their number was evident at his funeral, in spite of its having been billed as an occasion for the family only. It is even more evident in this packed Sheldonian this evening. Did Michael's discretion and natural modesty perhaps cause him, like a careful secret agent, to organize his life in separate cells or compartments, with only the closest and most privileged having access to all of them?

During his life, my access was to the College compartment, to the international relations compartment, to the Burma compartment. But just before his death he convened the Steering Committee to which Per Kvaerne referred. Suddenly one became aware of a host of other compartments - his family, Tibetan Studies, Bhutan, his students, the benefactors who funded his Fellowship, his library, his love of art and music, his affinity with the contemplative religious, his correspondence with Carmelite nuns.

Anthony has let me quote from a letter he once wrote to one of the nuns. She had just spent three months in the Carmelite community at Lisieux:

'I can see the wonderful attraction of Lisieux', wrote Michael. 'I wish I could spend some time there, not in the guest quarters but right in the community- Unheard of (exclamation mark)! Breaking the rules (exclamation mark)! A scandal (exclamation mark)! But what bliss to be there, with a few books and the company of angels. I would even offer to help with the washing up'.

In his approach to international relations, Michael combined idealism with realism, even cynicism. He was all in favour of an ethical dimension to foreign policy. But he was healthily sceptical about whether, when the crunch came, the ethical dimension would have much chance of prevailing over the national interest dimension.

As we all know, his principal concern in this field was to promote respect for human rights in Asia - above all in Burma, of course, but also in Tibet, in China, in East Timor.

Wonderful bonding took place last year between Michael and the Chinese dissident, Wei Jingsheng, when Wei dined at High Table at St Antony's. It was not only human rights that caused the bonding. Nicotine did too. As we went down to dessert, Michael took Wei firmly by the arm, marched him into one of our smaller dining rooms and proclaimed it to be a liberated zone for smokers. Wei blossomed with the weed and told fascinating tales to a rapt audience of smokers and non-smokers alike.

Subsequent efforts to persuade Governing Body to make the liberation permanent have not yet succeeded but, as they say in East Timor, 'a luta continua e a vitoria e certa' ('the struggle continues and victory is assured'). Michael shared the dogged optimism of that slogan. He was convinced that, in the end, right would prevail in Timor and elsewhere. But, realist that he was, he knew how much suffering might have to be endured before freedom was achieved.

Michael himself had more than his fair share of suffering during his 53 years - the long separation from his wife, the constant fear that some new ordeal was being planned for her, the stress of bringing up their boys without her, the pain of his final illness. Of all the achievements that we are here to celebrate tonight, of all the virtues that will cause us to remember Michael, of all the reasons that make us proud and happy to have known him, the rarest surely is that calm and cheerful fortitude in adversity. SHELDONIAN THEATRE OXFORD

A Celebration of the Life and Work of MICHAEL VAILLANCOURT ARIS

27 March 1946 - 27 March 1999

Tuesday 28 September 1999 at 8 pm

OXFORD UNIVERSITY CHAMBER ORCHESTRA

John Beswick Conductor

Priya Mitchell David Golby David Goode Violin Leader Organ KINDLY RESERVE APPLAUSE FOR THE END OF THE PROGRAMME

music before the programme

JOHAJNN SEBASTIAN BACH Choralvorspiele (organ solo): Kommst du nun, Jesu, von Himmel herunter; Wachet auf, ruft uns die Stimme PROGRAMME

ANTONIO VIVALDI (1678-1741) The Four Seasons First movement, allegro, from Autumn, Concerto in F

WELCOME given by Alexander Aris

ADDRESS given by Professor Per Kvserne

READING given by Anthony Aris

Cities and Thrones and Powers Stand in Time's eye, Almost as long as flowers, Which daily die: But, as new buds put forth To glad new men, Out of the spent and unconsidered Earth

The Cities rise againD .

This season's Daffodil, She never hears What change, what chance, what chill, Cut down last year's But with bold countenance, and knowledge small Esteems her seven days' continuance To be perpetual. So Time that is o'er kind To all that be, Ordains us e'en as blind, As bold as she: That in our very death, And burial sure, Shadow to shadow, well persuaded, saith, 'See how our works endure!'

Cities and Thrones and Powers Rudyard Kipling (1865-1936)

JOHANN SEBASTIAN BACH (1685-1750) Concerto in D minor for two violins, strings, and continue Second movement, Largo ma non tanto

ADDRESS given by Sir Marrack Goulding KCMG

READING given by Karma Phuntsho on behalf of Suu Kyi

The teacher is like a great ship carrying us across the perilous ocean of existence, an unerring navigator guiding us to the dry land of liberation ... To make any connection with him, whether seeing him, hearing his voice, remembering him, or being touched by his hand, will lead us towards liberation. To have full confidence in him is the surest way to progress towards enlightenment. The warmth of his wisdom and compassion will melt the ore of our being to release the gold of the Buddha-nature within.

In honour of Dilgo Khyentse Rinpoche (1910-1991) and Michael's other teachers from Journey to Enlightenmejit by Matthieu Ricard READING by Arabella and Roderick Aris with Kate and Julian Phillips

As I went to beg counsels of the mind From a lama with all the right signs My attention could not hold But slipped off to the loved one. * * * The lama's face I contemplate Will not appear in my heart But the uncontemplated face of the loved one Shines again arid again in my heart. * * * If my mind could move to religion As it always goes to her Then in just one life and one body I would attain buddhahood.

Love Songs of the Sixth Dalai Lama Tsangyang Gyamtso (1683-1706) Translated by Michael Aris, from Hidden Treasures and Secret Lives

READING by Lucinda Phillips

Everyone suddenly burst out singing; And I was filled with such delight As prisoned birds must find in freedom, Winging wildly across the white Orchards and dark-green fields; on — on — and out of sight.

Everyone's voice was suddenly lifted And beauty came like the setting sun; My heart was shaken with tears; and horror Drifted away ... 0, but Everyone Was a bird; and the song was wordless; the singing will never be done.

Everyone Sang Siegfried Sassoon (1886-1967) RALPH VAUGHAN WILLIAMS (1872-1958) The Lark Ascending

ADDRESS given by Robin Christopher

JOHANN PACHELBEL (1653-1706) Canon

READING given by Kim Axis

Look to this day. For it is life. The very life of life. In its brief course lie all The realities and verities of existence. The bliss of growth. The splendour of action. The glory of power. For yesterday is but a dream, And tomorrow is only a vision: But today, well lived, Makes every yesterday a dream of happiness, And every tomorrow a vision of hope. Look well therefore, to this day.

The Salutation to the Dawn based on a Vedic Hymn

music at the end of [he programme

GEORGE FRIDERIC HANDEL (1685-1759) solo arranged from the Organ Concerto in BJlat major A Concert will be held at St. Antony's College

on ' Wednesday 5 July 2000 at 7.30 pm

in support of

The Michael Aris Memorial Trust for Tibetan and Himalayan Studies

Patron: HRH The Prince of Wales

as part of The First Oxford International Chamber Music Festival Michael Aris in Bhutan 1970 3-8 July 2000

Artistic Director: Priya Mitchell

The Michael Aris Memorial Trust 10 Parkfields, SW15 6NH Tel: 0181 785 6313 Fax: 0181 7850999 Email: [email protected] Web: www/serindia.com/aristrust

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