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By Lorraine LaFemina FEMINIST THE ARTIST CRITICS LOVE TO HATE "Yes" IMMIGRATION By Rebecca Shugrue ON THE COVER POLICY 35 A detail from "The By Arlene Raven "No" 22 By Carolyn Gage Holocaust Project: From By Eleanor Pam Darkness Into Light" by IT'S NOT EASY Judy Chicago and BEING BAD Donald Woodman 41 A Visit to the Bad Girk Art Show By Suzanne Messing ON THE ISSUES • SUMMER 1994 ^VOLUME III NUMBER THREE FRONT LINES JSSUE• umiinSi VOL III NO.3 SUMMER 1994 Publisher/ Editor in Chief MERLE HOFFMAN Editor RONNISANDROFF RONNI SANDROFF Executive Editorial Consultant GOOD FENCES LINDA CUTSTEIN Editor at Large MAKE PHYLLIS CHESLER Special Projects Advisors GOOD FEMINISTS ANNE MOLLECEN SMITH JOHN STOLTENBERC Assistant Editors KAREN AISENBERC he was as bubbly as a park water foun- SUZANNE LEVINE tain—chatty, confiding, not much older than myself. I felt so relaxed Contributing Editors around my first female boss. We communed about our menstrual cramps, JILL BEIUDERLY CHARLOTTE BUNCH our quarrels with our husbands, our self-doubts. I told her all my trade VINIE BURROWS S IRENE DAVALL secrets. I confessed that my job made me yawn. BELL HOOKS After just a few weeks, I was shocked to discover that she was not what she FLO KENNEDY seemed. She had deceived me into accepting a salary that was less (much less) FRED PELKA ELAYNE RAPPINC than her budget allowed. And she treacherously passed along my admission of HELEN M. STUMMER job boredom to the big boss, who never let me forget it (as in: "Are we boring CAROL WHEELER you around here, Sandroff?"). Designers I was aghast. I had survived similar foul play from male bosses. But this woman BOB CIANO JOSEPH PASCHKE was a friend, a pal, an ally, a SHE... and I was naive enough to think that her Photo Editor conversation style somehow obviated the boss-worker relationship. 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