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© 2021 St. James Properties, LLC. Obtain the Property Report required by federal law and read it before signing anything. No federal agency has judged the merits or value, if any, of this property. Void where prohibited by law. This product2 does not constitute an offer to sell real property in any jurisdiction where prior registration or advanced qualification is required but not completed. This is not to solicit property currently listed by another broker. CONTRIBUTORS Laurie Adams Nancy Adelis Editor's note Mary Baker FICE RE Ami Brown OF OP By Marilyn Rudolph Dave Campbell A EN Jim Carey IN I R N Out of curiosity, I looked back at the and mays? Well, maybe) include Joan Clemen A G May 2020 issue of Cat-Tales. The cover the following: dogwood trees and a Nora Dziuban was a compilation of photos related to dogwood festival; how artists approach Beth Erskine M - actions spurred by pandemic restrictions outdoor painting; and those pesky no- Dave Filios and guidelines. Photos included an see-ums that show up each spring. Kevin Hale S oversized facemask, walkers on St. James Victoria Hogan The song I previously mentioned was U golf courses, curbside pickup of takeout Jerry Iverson featured in a 1941 Disney/Mickey orders and a “just for fun” motorcade Diane Juda N Mouse short film, and coincidentally, I organized by the Regency neighborhood. Lorraine Kaufman there is a Disney-related article in this Beth A. Klahre A song, “While Strolling Through the issue. It’s not about strolling through O Vicki Hamilton Lauziere J Park,” popped into my head as I looked their parks, but the article does reveal Bett Lewis at that May 2020 cover. I started singing, how Disney World Resort controls John Muuss “While strolling through the park one mosquitoes and other insects. George O’Brien day/ In the merry, merry month of May” In addition to opening under Stuart Pike and realized at this time last year, most current pandemic guidelines, the St. Evie Pizer residents did a lot of strolling — through James Plantation Library has been Pat Powell parks, on sidewalks, at the beach and refurbished and filled with an influx Peter Riekstins on golf courses — even though last May of new books and puzzles donated Judy Rubin wasn’t exactly merry, merry. But, here St. James Properties Marina Office during the pandemic. Stuart Pike, our Marilyn Rudolph we are, a year later, and I believe this resident theater expert, took on a Diane Saullo May will be far merrier than last year. FRIDAY’S 9 - 11 AM new assignment and wrote about the Cheryl Serra Why? Because St. James residents remodeling of the library. He did a great Nancy Seyferth April 23 - May 28 stepped up to tackle the pandemic job on the article, so be sure to check it Linda Shaw during the past year and continue to do out, ha ha. Art Solomon so. Masks are on faces when needed, Flora Solomon Credit for another fun article goes to vaccines are being administered, Jean Toner all who submitted humorous quips and restrictions are easing and social activities Judy Wagner blurbs for the “Kids Say the Darndest are on the rise. Yep, that feels merrier Things” feature found in this issue. SJP Properties Listing Team than May of 2020, and I’m pleased to say Surely, chuckles and smiles will surface STAFF this issue of Cat-Tales has a few articles when reading them. Thanks to the editor that convey feel-good stories. moms, dads, grandmas and grandpas Marilyn Rudolph Recent issues of Cat-Tales included the who shared clever, cute and creative managing editor journey of Michael and Laurie Adams, remarks to validate that kids really Ami Brown Lisa Frye Lisa Nieves victims of COVID-19. In this issue, Laurie do say the darndest things, endearing photographic editor shares a rearview mirror perspective them to us all the more. John Muuss associate editors Gail Lendvoyi MaryGrace Mandaro on COVID-19, and she and Michael are Our staff would be remiss if we didn’t Bertie Belvin more than ready to move forward with acknowledge a most important May Pat Broady a positive attitude that’s filled with holiday, Mother’s Day. Thanks to Judy gratitude. Rubin, we’ve got it covered. Happy Jim Campbell Mother’s Day to moms everywhere, Bob Dziuban St. James Properties | (910) 253-0045 Articles that may have a month of Maggie Smith Roedema www.stjamespropertiesresales.com | [email protected] May feel to them in this May issue and a very merry, merry month of May to all. associate 2571 St. James Drive Unit 102A Southport, NC 28461 may (What? Did I use too many Mays photographic editor Judy Wagner

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MAY 2021 5 President's column Jerry Iverson / President, St. James Plantation POA

While not required by North Carolina statute, your St. On the revenue side we ended the year with a James Plantation Property Owners’ Association (POA) slight positive variance of $51,028, which means we contracts with an outside agency to do an annual collected more money than planned. A small increase comprehensive audit of our finances, and we have done in residential assessments and Architectural Control so for 25 years. The fundamental purpose of the POA Committee fees were the primary reasons for the annual audit is to provide independent assurance that slight positive variance. your board has presented a “true and fair” view of the association’s financial performance and position in its financial statements. “There was a positive variance We have just received the audited results for the year 2020 in a report issued by our audit company — Earney of $324,844 in our operating & Company, L.L.P. The report stated: costs for the year, meaning we “In our opinion, the financial statements referred to above present fairly, in all material respects, the spent less than planned.” financial position of St. James Plantation Property Owners’ Association, Inc. as of December 31, 2020, and the results of its operations and its cash flows for There was a positive variance of $324,844 in the year then ended in conformity with accounting our operating costs for the year, meaning we principles generally accepted in the United States of spent less than planned. The largest contributors America.” to this positive variance were a reduction in In other words, everything checked out. In addition, administrative costs, storm water repairs, security costs and landscape costs. there were no adjustments made to previously reported financial reports as a result of the audit. A special thanks The positive variance in revenue and the underrun to the Finance Committee and the POA staff for another in operating costs resulted in an overall positive successful financial year and audit. During the virtual variance of $375,872, which was transferred to the Annual Meeting in October of last year, I presented the reserve fund. 2020 budget and actual data based on eight months of data. Following are the audited details of our financial Reserve fund: Our reserve fund performance for the full 12 months of 2020. pays for major refurbishment

and replacement of our Operating budget: Our operating revenue and operating costs are included in the table below along infrastructure and for major with 2019 actuals for comparison. capital improvements approved by the Board of Directors. Reserve Revenue fund revenue normally 2020 Actual 2020 Budget Variance 2019 Actual includes road access $5,075,252 $5,024,224 $51,028 $4,897,168 fees, interest/ investment income and working capital. Costs 2020 Actual 2020 Budget Variance 2019 Actual In addition to the $4,084,599 $4,409,443 $324,844 $4,111,904 normal standard

6 revenue sources specified above, we also allocate a portion of the annual assessment to the reserve fund. This allocation varies from year to year and is based on the forecast operational revenue minus the forecast operational costs. For 2020 that amount was $614,781. As stated above, we also transfer any excess funds at the end of the year to the reserve fund. The total reserve fund income, including all sources, is shown below.

Revenue Allocation Transfer Total $595,798 $614,781 $375,872 $1,586,451

Actual reserve fund expenses for 2020 totaled $621,303. A breakout of major cost items is shown in the table below. The storm recovery category includes cleanup for Hurricane Isaias and other minor storms. Storm water pipe replacement was budgeted for $75,000, but for the first time, we had no actual costs associated with this account.

Project Cost ($1000) Project Cost ($1000) Roadways $434.1 Beach Club $23.7 Storm Recovery $134.6 Miscellaneous $28.9

We had projected an increase of $296,000 to the reserve fund in our 2020 budget, but as a result of a positive variance in the operating budget, an increase in reserve fund revenue and a reduction in reserve fund expenditures, we had a net increase in the reserve fund of $965,000. This resulted in a healthy balance in the reserve fund as shown below — much better than the 2019 budget year when we had a reduction in our reserve fund. That balance includes the $600,000 of North Carolina Department of Transportation funds required to replace the wall and landscaping outside the Main Gate after the widening of Highway 211.

Reserve Fund Balance EOY 2019 $4,338,495 Reserve Fund Income $1,586,451 TOTAL $5,924,946 Reserve Fund Expenditures $621,303 Reserve Fund Balance EOY 2020 $5,303,643

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8 St. James welcomes new community manager By Nancy Seyferth

The St. James Plantation Property Owners’ Association (POA) has hired John G. Thompson as community manager. He is from Florida and has a wealth of knowledge in managing private communities comparable to St. James Plantation. John has worked with communities in all phases of development but especially in those that have transitioned from developer to POA control.

“Critical aspects of John’s experience relate to disaster management and storm recovery.”

His work has taken him from Georgia to the Florida Keys. Highlights include working as executive director at Seabrook Island, South Carolina, for over nine years John Thompson will be the new St. James community manager and as general manager at Big Canoe in Georgia and beginning in May. (photo contributed) Vivante in Punta Gorda, Florida. John has expertise in financial planning and budgeting. evacuations, as well as manage rebuilding. He was He also has experience in managing departments such involved in developing volunteer response teams and as safety and security, lakes and wildlife, architectural educating residents about disaster preparation. review, facilities and infrastructure maintenance. John tells us: “I am thrilled to relocate to the beautiful John’s many years of managing at Seabrook Island North Carolina coast and become engaged in a rapidly mirror the St. James environment. The community is a expanding and successful community such as St. James town set in a similar coastal setting and has a POA. As Plantation. It is my pleasure to share in developing and in St. James, community volunteers in Seabrook are an maintaining the community in a collaborative manner, integral part of a successful working infrastructure. working with the many committees and volunteers.” Critical aspects of John’s experience relate to disaster His philosophy fits the St. James lifestyle. Be visible, management and storm recovery. Working near approachable, engaging and inquisitive, while Charleston, South Carolina, gave him plenty of celebrating successes and learning from mistakes. opportunity to coordinate hurricane preparations and

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10 Mayor's column Jean Toner / Mayor, Town of St. James

With the easing pandemic restrictions, the town During spring and summer, wildfires are a fact of reopened its office for walk-ins effective April 5. In life in North Carolina. To better understand and addition, although we have increased the capacity at reduce wildfire risks, the town created a Firewise the St. James Community Center, we remain cautious, Committee and became a “Firewise USA Community” retaining all safety and sanitation protocols. in 2003. We participate in the national Firewise program administered by the National Fire Prevention A successful Red Cross blood drive was held at the Association, the United States Department of community center on March 22 with 90 pints of Agriculture and the United States Forest Service. blood collected. If you visited the community center recently, you may have noticed the absence of the The St. James Firewise Committee works with the soft drink vending machine. It was removed by the North Carolina Forest Service, the St. James Fire contractor due to low sales volume and servicing Department and the St. James Plantation Property issues. We have replaced the vending machine with a Owners’ Association to identify and implement convenience station supplied with water, soft drinks practical measures to reduce fire risk. and coffee. Residents can help mitigate wildfire risk by creating a Please notify the town when a streetlight in your defensible space around the home. Mitigation actions neighborhood is malfunctioning. A bulb replacement include using mulch instead of pine straw around is a quick fix; however, if a part needs to be ordered, the perimeter of the home, removing pine straw and repairs may take two to four weeks. other debris from roofs and gutters, removing yard debris, clearing brush, thinning trees and shrubs and safely controlling fire sources such as fire pits, outdoor “Residents can help fireplaces and barbecue grills. Additional information, including a homeowner’s self- mitigate wildfire risk by assessment, is available on the Town’s website under creating a defensible Emergency Services. Hardcopy materials are available at the St. James Town Hall. The dedicated members space around the home.” of the Firewise Committee include Barbara Lemos, chair; Jeff Mount, council liaison; and Ken Adams, Steve Dillon, Joe Giese, David Goudy, Vickie Hamilton Lauziere, Jim Murray and Jim Parker. A request for the installation of a back shield may also take two to four weeks. You will need to provide the pole number when submitting a request. The pole number, a five-digit number followed by SJ, is located on the bottom third of the pole. Requests can be submitted by phone (910-253-4730), by email (tosj@ stjames.town) or through the Report an Issue quick link found on the Town’s website.

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Red fox pups By Bett Lewis

Many in St. James have reported daily sightings of a red fox, and I have seen the fox as well. A fox pair had been busy near the 18th green of the Members Club this spring. The foxes laid in nearby yards, hunted moles and voles and trotted over the green daily. Their den was originally behind a resident’s shed, then was sighted near Members Club Boulevard on Irwin Drive, behind bushes. Now, a litter of four pups and a mama fox are in the center island of Irwin Drive. I live across from the island on Irwin Drive and have enjoyed seeing them. They are adorable. Although adorable, do not feed them as feeding can promote aggression. Why do foxes live next to roads, in neighborhoods and move their dens often? Coyotes are their predators and are less likely to find fox pups in heavily populated, busy areas. Seeing foxes during the day does not indicate a possibility of rabies. Take pictures, but please give the little lady and her kits privacy. Also, when driving, A red fox and her pups venture out of their den on Irwin Drive. slowdown and give them the right of way. (photo by Evie Pizer)

MAY 2021 13 When approached by Fred Walters and Dave Campbell, Angela McGreevy was honored to provide wood carvings for the library shelf renovation project. Dave suggested that the carvings not be limited to just the logo. He gave her 3-foot-long boards and suggested that she, “Fill them with something interesting to look at“ and that was the inspiration for the final designs. Angela explained: "The board pictured here is called Springboard and was carved as signs of spring were blooming in my mind. The rosettes signify nature flourishing.” (photo by John Muuss)

14 Come check us out By Stuart Pike

Volunteering is a vital part of the culture within on the project and the rest is history — a newly St. James, perhaps never more than in these past renovated library. Inspired by the leadership and 12 months. For some, volunteering is as natural coordination of Dave Campbell and Fred Walters, as eating and sleeping, simply a continuation of the woodworkers began the task. activities pursued for many years in prior home The efforts of all involved stemmed from a simple cities. For others, it is a newly found activity born desire to help and share enthusiasm and interest simply from the sudden revelation that they have with the greater community. These varied interests a lot of time to fill now that work is a thing of led to the October crossing of paths, and ultimately, the past. Regardless of why someone decides to new shelving and a new look for the library. One volunteer, there are plenty of opportunities to choose never knows where willingness to pitch in and the right outlet for one's energy and enthusiasm. volunteer will lead. In this instance, two persons Hobbies and clubs are outlets for the active crossing paths was fortuitous. residents of St. James. Pick your leisure interest, With the pandemic keeping so many hunkered and St. James probably has a group already down, buying and reading books increased, and dedicated to that endeavor. Model boat, gardening, that led to a significant increase in book donations. wine enthusiast and various state and cultural/ Every corner, closet and cubbyhole in the POA office ethnic groups are a few within our gates. was filled with donated books and jigsaw puzzles Recently, two groups — library board volunteers intended for the library. The library renovations and St. James Woodworkers — joined forces increased shelf capacity by an estimated 60% so all with the St. James Plantation Property Owners’ donations can be accommodated in the library. Association (POA) to oversee a makeover of Kudos to the library volunteers, woodworkers and the St. James Plantation Library. The library POA for this joint effort. was established, along with the chapel, by the developer when St. James was in its infancy over 20 years ago. Eager volunteers took over the spartan space, added simple bracketed shelving, and that was the beginning of the library. Over the years, wear and tear from visitors created the need for new carpeting and paint, so the POA has undertaken that as well as installing new lighting. In October, during one of her weekly stops at the library to check supplies, Carol Pryse, library board co-chair, crossed paths with fellow volunteers, Christine Etti-Mlynek and Gary Mlynek, who were working at the library. Carol shared that library board members had talked with the POA about having more shelves installed. Gary, who is president of St. James Woodworkers, said he would approach their board about building Joe Zukowski and John Boughton helped organized the shelves. The board enthusiastically agreed to take woodworkers group to build and install the new shelves. (photo by Dave Campbell)

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COVID-19 journey By Laurie Adams

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Kids say the darnedest things

Cat-Tales staff sends a big thank you to everyone who submitted the personal anecdotes shared here. They validate that kids continue to say the darndest things, something Art Linkletter (pictured right) discovered many years ago.

Six-year-old Ellie Kaufman, granddaughter of Marilyn Rudolph, recently left this hand-written note and dress on the kitchen counter for her mom. The note reads: “Dear, mom I’m NEVER ganna wear this dress again! Im not becuse when I tried it on I Looked like a Big girl Puting on a BaBy dress. Love, Ellie" (photo by Lorraine Kaufman)

Are those slivers? By Joan Clemen In the summer of 1993, a neighbor had an old, wooden swing set that was no longer used by their grandchildren. Our neighbor knew we had a 3-year-old grandson and gave us the swing set. Todd loved the “new” swing set but ran into the house crying one day. He had slivers in his hands from the swing, and only Gramma could remove them. A couple of weeks later, our daughter, Melanie, and I were sitting at the kitchen table. Todd climbed into her lap, and in a very loud voice, exclaimed, “Mommy, mommy, you have slivers all over your legs.” Melanie and I burst into laughter, and when she was able to talk without laughing, she replied, “No honey, mommy just hasn’t shaved her legs for a few days.” Today, Todd Drew and Ellie Kaufman recently has a 3-year-old son, and I’m sure he has really cute stories to tell. enjoyed a day at their local zoo. (photo by Lorraine Kaufman)

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Double trouble First we'll go to By Judy Rubin the airport While driving to work one morning with my daughter, Allison, in the car, I was stopped by a police officer who thought my car wasn’t MyAmi registered. It was. Later, after work, now driving home with Allison, I was pulled over by a police By Nora Dziuban officer for speeding but did not receive a ticket — My father-in-law planned a reunion for the maybe because he noticed I was quite pregnant. Dziuban families aboard a cruise ship out of Miami, The nice police officer stuck his head inside my Florida. My husband, Bob, and I, and our three car to say, “Merry Christmas,” and my 3-year-old young sons were excited about the reunion cruise. promptly replied, “Will you guys stop stopping Every night, Bob recited to our boys, step by my mother and stop someone else?” I never step, how we would travel to Miami and board looked up, but I did wish the kind officer “Merry a big ship. Every night he used the same words: Christmas” as I put my car in gear. “First, we’ll go to the airport and get on a big plane. The plane will fly to Miami, and then we’ll meet Grandpa Dziuban and your uncles, aunts and cousins on the big ship. The ship will leave Miami” and so on. The excitement was building. Departure day finally arrived. We went to the airport and got on that big plane. While onboard, our 4-year-old-son asked for the story of the trip. Having heard it over and over, I recited the exact words I’d heard Bob use each night. When I got to, “and now we’re on the big plane on our way to Kindergarten woes Miami,” our son suddenly stopped me and cried By Mary Baker out: “No, mommy! We’re going to Daddy’s Ami!” It was 1980. We had just moved from Ohio to When it was time to choose my grandmother North Carolina, and my daughter was so excited name, what do you think I chose? I am now “Ami" about entering kindergarten. We went shopping to two beloved little grandchildren. because she really wanted designer jeans for school. The next day, she was thrilled to wear her new jeans to school. My boys came home from school, and I didn’t TV 24/7 By Diane Juda see my daughter, but I heard sniffling and crying Our young daughter was very unhappy about on the front porch. My daughter was crying having to accompany my husband and I on an her eyes out. I asked what the trouble was, and errand to replace worn end tables. After an hour choking back tears, she said: “The children all told of constant whining, I asked her what she would me that they were not my jeans. They said they rather be doing. She replied, "watching TV." I said, were Calvin Klein’s jeans!” I pulled her in for a "If we let you, you would watch TV 24/7." She said, hug and told her that was the designer’s name. "I don't even get that channel." You probably could have heard me laughing deep inside that day!

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Pops, did you used to be a grown-up?

So, Pops … By Judy Wagner Our granddaughter, Emma, was about 4-years- old when she asked her grandfather, “Pops, did you used to be a grown-up?” A bit confused, he replied, “Yes, what do you think I am now?” And David Wagner and his granddaughter, Emma, share a special Emma, with her innocent smile, said, “Old!” bond. (photo by Judy Wagner)

Girls just want to have fun By Art and Flora Solomon This is an email sent from 9-year-old Maria to her 12-year-old cousin, Rebecca, before their annual visit to see Nana and Poppy in St. James, without parents or little brothers. The girls are now 24 and 27. Where do the years go? “Rebecca, I can't wait till you come to my house and then we go to Nana and Poppy's house Close enough no parent's and we get the upstairs TV, the computer, the couch, the bathroom we are free By Mary Baker girls I tell you free girls! see ya, Maria” In the ‘70s, my son was just learning to talk. I stayed at home with the children, so game shows were always on, especially “The Price is Right.” when we go We subscribed to the TV Guide, and my son loved to look through it. One morning, I heard him to Nana and yelling “Bob Barker, Bob Barker!” I ran into the den, and he was pointing to a picture of Merv Poppy's house Griffin. I guess it was the white hair.

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Thrown under Does that mean ... the bus By Diane Saullo I was playing with my 3-year-old granddaughter, Maddie. We were reading “The Three Little Pigs” when my son came over to us and growled like I've got the fever a wolf. Maddie quickly pulled a blanket over our heads and said, “Nana, hide.” My son continued By Victoria Hogan to growl and shake the blanket. Maddie shouted, We have 3-year old twin granddaughters, Scarlett “Big bad wolf, eat Nana!” and Adeline. They read a book about a little girl who had scarlet fever. A few days later, Adeline wasn’t feeling well. She asked her daddy, “Does that mean I have Adeline fever?” It’s wine o’clock somewhere So, just how old By Nancy Adelis is Siri? By Nancy Adelis My grandson, Brett, at age 11 was visiting My 6-year-old granddaughter, Ava, was playing with overnight with a friend. While in the kitchen, his her mom's phone and talking to Siri. friend's mom said she feels like having a glass of Ava said, “Siri, how old are you?” wine. Her husband says, "Don't you think it’s a bit Siri responded, "I am old enough to early for wine?" Brett chimes in, “It’s never too be your assistant.” Next, Ava asked, early for wine!" "Mom, so what is she, like seven?"

Mixing it up with a 2-year-old By Ami Brown My daughter, Ashley, had a hard time putting two-syllable words together as a 2-year-old when she was learning to speak. She would sometimes mix-up syllables. One of her cutest mix-ups was, instead of saying toothpaste, she would say "pootaste.” Of course, we asked her say it on demand when we had company. Was that wrong? She soon outgrew it, but we still remind Trey, age 3, and Ashley, age 2, posed for their Easter photo in her of it today, and she's 26. 1996. (photo by Ami Brown)

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Look at the beauty of the renewal of spring. Colors Plein-air painting is practice painting. The best artists are vibrant and their variety is simply wonderful in put miles on their brushes. They do not paint to sell North Carolina. Beaches are booming with visitors paintings, but rather, to get painting experience who are enjoying amazing sunsets, and mountains quickly, and they do not usually paint detailed are bursting with color. works of art. This practice allows a quick painting to become a memory reference. Painting with more I hope you were inspired by last month’s Cat-Tales detail comes later. article about plein-air painting. Each spring, I feel excitement in the air, grab my easel and paints and Plein-air painting lets one capture large spaces with head outside to paint something, anything, and I don’t different values (lights and darks). Temperature (hue) have to go far. Neither do you. is what tells the eye the time of day the painting was done. All scenes and objects have values, shadows One of the simplest ways to begin plein-air painting is and temperature. The artistry of a painting comes by starting in your backyard. Look for a composition from the hue chosen. Remember, trees do not have to to paint and keep it simple, like a single flower or be green. Just paint what is seen and use lots of paint. tree. Look for interesting shapes, colors and shadows. These lights and darks are referred to as values and The focal point should not be centered or clear will create depth in your painting. to the edges. If something doesn’t add to the composition, ask, “Does it need to be there?” Avoid With proper art materials, you will soon be hooked placing objects that are the same size next to each on painting outdoors. Basic items for painting en other, and only blend a few colors at a time when plein air include an easel, table or tripod; a small mixing with a palette knife to prevent colors from stool; watercolor paper or a canvas; a plate for becoming mottled. mixing paint; acrylic, oil or watercolor paints; a bottle of water; brushes; a jar; a pencil; a small notepad; a The best time to paint en plein air is in the morning rag; a ruler; an eraser, a palette knife and linseed oil or late afternoon. At these times, the light is bright, if using oil paints. Personal items to consider include shadows are strong and there is less glare on the hat, sunscreen, bug spray, drinks, snacks and your painting. Remember, paint small until confidence is phone. I’d suggest also bringing a small frame to built up. And most of all, have fun and don’t be afraid view your composition. to fail. Just get out there and paint.

MAY 2021 25 Do it like Disney By Vicki Hamilton Lauziere

Growing up in Miami, Florida, in the 1950s was exciting and dangerous. Alligators, bobcats, panthers, snakes and poisonous insects thrived in the wet, swampy landscape. Air conditioning did not exist, so open windows and loud, roaring, attic fans kept the air circulating. Screens were taken out each year and scrubbed to ensure clean, fresh air flowed through the house. Staying cool was paramount and difficult. Mosquitoes were enemy No. 1, and getting bitten was a frequent occurrence. Dad drove us to Tamiami Trail so we could see the Miccosukee Indians wrestle alligators and to learn how they survived living outdoors. We followed Miccosukee Indian practices for surviving sharp pain and infections caused by Internet photo. mosquito bites. If you are bitten by a mosquito, follow these simple Disney not to kill bugs. Instead, Potter was in tips to help relieve the pain: favor of preventing mosquitoes from residing or breeding in the parks. His methods targeted the • Do not scratch the bite site. larvae and birthplaces of mosquitoes. He also • Quickly wash the area with soap and water. created environments that were not conducive for mosquitoes to lay eggs. • Apply ice for 10 minutes. Some of these methods included: • Apply a mixture of baking soda and water to reduce the itch. • Flowing bodies of water with fountains added for circulation. To prevent bites, Florida natives and pioneers created special repellants by using plants, rubbing • Drainage ditches to divert water and mud on their skin and making smokey campfires prevent damp soil. that stayed lit to help repel the mosquitos. • Use of plants with flat leaves so water did Imagine the heat and humidity in Florida with not pool on leaves. smokey campfires. • Application of an odorless garlic spray to Walt Disney, founder of Walt Disney World Resort, repel bugs naturally, without chemicals. faced a huge challenge in his search to create an environment that kept Disney World from being Disney World uses these same techniques today, accosted by mosquitoes from nearby swamps. resulting in a bug-free park. After many setbacks, in 1972, his magic world St. James has implemented many of the practices opened in the central Florida swamplands. used in Disney World. When searching for help, Disney read about Joe Awareness, knowledge and proper planning can help Potter, governor of the Panama Canal Zone. Potter to keep bugs at bay in your garden as you enjoy our was a Massachusetts Institute of Technology beautiful environment. graduate and engineering expert who taught

26 Wheels of PonDeRosa By Ami Brown

St. James resident, Peter Riekstins, borrowed his sister’s camera to snap a few scenic photos while in upstate New York back in 1978. Little did he know, he’d be coming home with a couple of antique wagon wheels.

Peter spotted them at an old dairy farm he was photographing and just had to have them for the wall The wagon wheels were loaded onto the back of Pete’s of his saloon-themed restaurant in Elmsford, New York. Corvette to get them from the farm to the restaurant. He loaded them on the back of his convertible and tied (photo by Peter Riekstins) them down with rope for the trip to their new home. The wagon wheels made a great wall accent for the

saloon. There they hung for 32 years, until a restaurant remodeling job landed them in storage in 1990. After moving to St. James, the wagon wheels found new life as garden décor beside a pond on Parkridge Drive. Peter cleverly named the garden area PonDeRosa since his wife’s maiden name is DeRosa and the wheel is near a pond, all in keeping with an old-west theme.

Peter sent a photo of the wagon wheel to Photo-Tales, The wagon wheels hung on the walls of Pete’s Saloon and and now it’s a Cat-Tales cover photo. Restaurant for over 30 years. (photo by Peter Riekstins)

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28 A special welcome for newcomers by By Judy Rubin

Tootie and Gary Tagtmeyer, residents of the Beaver Creek neighborhood since 1993, are the longest living residents in St. James. Their mantra is, “To have a neighbor, be a neighbor.” They recently helped organize a meet and greet for new Beaver Creek residents that included a warm welcome from Homer Wright, the developer of St. James. Homer arrived with little fanfare, spoke to the crowd about his early vision and thanked all of the residents for making St. James the showplace residents have come to enjoy and love. It was quite apparent that social gatherings such as this are what Homer envisioned. Gary spoke of contributions by people who have helped to make St. James a special place. He reminded Gary Tagtmeyer and Homer Wright welcomed new everyone that progress is only achieved through the homeowners. (photo by Kevin Hale) hard work of dedicated volunteers.

Saying goodbye to Dan By Ami Brown The Cat-Tales editorial team said goodbye to Dan Davis at their monthly meeting in April. The team met in Marilyn Rudolph's backyard to celebrate his retirement as POA community manager. Pictured from left to right are Ami Brown, Arthur Hill, Pat Broady, Marilyn Rudolph, John Muuss, Jim Campbell, Dan Davis and John Thompson. (photo by Cheryl Serra)

MAY 2021 29 Blooming Park Franklin Square Gallery sits among azalea blooms as they bring new life to Southport and to local businesses that have risen above the pandemic. See related article on page 35. (photo by Ami Brown) 30 Library remodeled Volunteers from the St. James Woodworking group recently built new custom shelves for the library. The shelves can now accomodate the many book donations from residents. (photos by John Muuss) All the books and shelves were removed and the walls were painted to prepare for the renovation. The newly installed shelves below show the special carvings done by Angela McGreevy.

The official library reopening and ribbon cutting ceremony was held in April. Pictured from left to right are Carol Pryse, Bonnie Tessa and Jerry Iverson.

Pictured above are some of the volunteers who attended the grand reopening ceremony. Front row: Dick Anderson , Dave Campbell, Fred Walters, Mark Lynch. Middle row: John Boughton, Bill Lanahan, Wayne Kruger, Angela McGreevy. Back row: Joe Steele, John Matter. Several other contributing woodworkers who could not attend the ceremony were Gary Mlynek, Warren Cox, Jim Murray, Joe Zukowski, Richard Stitcher, Bruce Williams and Marc Papillon.

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MAY 2021 33 34 When life gives you lemons By Judy Rubin

The pandemic that began in March 2020 forced the presentations to help people stay connected to town of Southport to close stores, restaurants and Southport. A special program reached across the pond museums and cancel all social activities including the to Southport, England, to exchange information between Fourth of July celebration. That was a huge blow, but the two towns that share the same name. committee improvised by providing a virtual program The Franklin Square Gallery shut down completely that looked back at the history of this celebration. at the onset of the pandemic to protect its volunteer Instead of lying down in defeat, this small, vibrant town staff, many of them retirees. This meant lost income made lemonade from lemons. Southport found the from fundraising events such as regional shows and silver lining brought on by an invisible predator. Virtual workshops. Fortunately, the gallery received grants programs replaced many annual events like car shows, from North Carolina Cares for Arts. Visitors missed the boat shows and Halloween and winter holiday events. high school art show, but the art of senior students appeared on large panels that decorated the exterior of the building. By June 1, the gallery reopened with shorter “The spirit of Southport hours under pandemic guidelines. has shone brightly with acts The North Carolina Maritime Museum at Southport shut of kindness, generosity, its doors on March 17, 2020, but its online programs grew exponentially. Live video presentations included creative alternatives and the Lower Cape Fear’s regional history and stories and on moments of solidarity in demand programs mirrored the flow of the museum like an actual visit. An online summer camp was created for this time of crisis.” little mariner participants. The Southport community building was retrofitted Before closing, the museum became a certified autism to adhere to safety protocols for limited in-person center, so the staff produced a myriad of activities that attendance, and board meetings were live-streamed included videos with captions and alternate ideas for on multiple platforms to reach a broader audience. crafts. When stories were read, the reader described the To keep in touch with the public, a communications pictures that matched the words. department was created and used videography to The museum reopened in September with restrictions on engage the community. in-person programs. Its ship may have rocked and rolled Southport businesses needed a boost in summer sales, last year, but its focus and programming dedication never usually provided by tourists, so more lemons were faltered. squeezed. Stores were creative with takeout menus, The St. James Service Club also stepped up to fill some of sidewalk cafes and daily specials. Many used online web the gaps caused by the pandemic. With annual Christmas pages, email connections and online ordering capabilities tours and events canceled, the club’s holiday raffle to engage customers. supported Southport businesses. People responded by In May, the library in Southport offered curbside purchasing $11,000 worth of gift certificates from local delivery for their customers. Online programs were merchants to fill gift baskets. also created, including a modified summer reading The spirit of Southport has shone brightly with acts of program for children. kindness, generosity, creative alternatives and moments The Southport Historical Society also made changes of solidarity in this time of crisis. Southport is a strong to help the community through this crisis. Virtual and resilient community and has learned, when life gives programming offered educational and entertaining you lemons, make lemonade.

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North Carolina has 486 species of birds according to the July 2020 Carolina Bird Club count reported by the North Carolina Wildlife Resources Commission. The blue heron is one of the largest birds in North America. Standing 4 feet tall with a 6 feet, 7 inch wingspan, the heron makes This painting by Bett Lewis illustrates the great blue heron a statement just by its size. in flight. Herons live throughout North America, as far north The female will produce three to seven eggs once a year. as Alaska and southern Canada in the summer. These Both parents incubate the eggs for 28 days. The male birds, east of the Rocky Mountains, are migratory to our will stay with his mate until the chicks leave the nest at southeast coastal areas in winter. They also migrate to approximately two months. The average life expectancy Florida, Mexico and South America. The good news is of a great blue heron is 15 years, however, more than herons live here, in the Coastal Plain, and in the Piedmont half die in the first year of life. Racoons and black snakes region of North Carolina year-round. are predators of the eggs and babies. The NCWRC completed a survey of great blue heron Nearly extinct in 1980, blue herons are now making nesting colonies within the Piedmont and Upper Coastal a great comeback. The great blue heron is protected Plain regions in 2012. More than 7,680 nests in 518 by a federal law enacted in 1980. The Migratory Bird colonies were documented. Herons nest in isolated Convention Act protects endangered blue herons. Killing areas in a colony, called a heronry, and occasionally nest a blue heron can result in a possible fine of $250,000. alone. Most nests are 3 to 4 feet wide and made of sticks Great blue herons have long, black to yellowish legs, in trees over inland waterways. long beaks and gold eyes. Their backs and wings are Blue herons have many mates during their lifetime. The bluish gray, and necks are mauve. Weighing 5 to 7 males attract a mate by snapping their bills, calling, twig pounds, the adult male birds have a beard and a plume shaking, crest raising and erecting their feather plumes. on their heads. Females are smaller. A wading bird, the heron stands in water like a statue then strikes like lightning to spear prey. Blue herons eat fish, lizards, frogs, toads, ducks, coots, mammals, insects and alligators up to three pounds. They snare prey sideways with their bills, then flip them around to swallow lengthwise. Herons feed in fresh and brackish waters and saltwater. The birds must preen the slime and oils from the fish off their feathers. They comb out special powder down feathers on their chest with a fringed claw on their middle toes, and also apply it to their underparts as they wade in swamps. In our area, there are many opportunities to watch the blue heron’s flight. Watch as their undulating, fully stretched wings lead to graceful flight and a swishing This great blue heron was photographed flying over the pond at sound as they rise over a pond. Seeing this bird in flight Woodlands Park. (photo by Linda Shaw) is simply breathtaking.

MAY 2021 37 Dogwood Festival By Ami Brown

You’ve probably never heard of Farmville, North face painting), street dances, a petting zoo, an outdoor Carolina. Located between Raleigh and Greenville, movie night, a car show, a BMW stunt show, a family/kid along the tobacco belt, Farmville was once a thriving bicycle parade and more. agricultural hub. Today, it’s a close-knit North Carolina While there, check out the free May Museum and Park. If community of about 4,500 residents, not unlike you have an extra hour or so and want to learn about the Southport or St. James. Although not nearly as scenic, impact of the tobacco industry and local history, it’s your it hosts an annual three-day street festival that attracts one-stop-shop. This venue also offers planned activities more than 30,000 people. Sound familiar? It’s the annual for kids year-round. The entire downtown area consists Farmville Dogwood Festival, of course. of four or five blocks of shops and restaurants, with flat Named for the state flower, the dogwood festival sidewalks that make it very walkable. celebrates 32 years of family fun and entertainment, On your way home, if you’re into scenic photography, usually during the last weekend of April. Although this Farmville’s surrounding rural landscape includes lots of year’s event was cancelled, as were many festivals, old tobacco barns and fields. the 2022 plan is already underway. If you are planning interesting day trips, or looking for somewhere to I’ve attended nine Farmville Dogwood Festivals and take the grandkids, put this on your radar. Only a little always had a wonderful time. Friendly people, great fun over two hours away, the festival offers plenty of free and family-oriented entertainment make this festival entertainment and activities. a hidden gem in my book, but I may be a little biased. I lived in Farmville for almost 10 years and raised my Amusement rides thrill the youngsters, and a huge children there many years ago. outdoor concert requires tickets, but the list of free, daily activities is long. The list includes a huge craft fair, For more information or updates on the festival, visit its a local talent stage (singers, dancers, clowns, magicians), Facebook page or website. free raffles, contests, interactive kid crafts (balloon art,

38 Dogwood days of spring By Beth A. Klahre

Did you know that North Carolina’s state flower Digging for more details? Jeanne recommends reviewing is really a tree? Yep, it’s the dogwood, designated the North Carolina Extension Gardener Plant Toolbox as the state flower in 1941 by the North Carolina that contains detailed descriptions, photographs, sound General Assembly. Our state is not alone in naming clips and videos of 4,453 plants that grow in and around the dogwood as a state symbol. The dogwood is also North Carolina. Missouri’s state tree, New Jersey’s state memorial tree Just so you don’t go barking up the wrong tree, the and Virginia’s state tree and state flower. dogwood is easily recognizable. It is a relatively So, what does the dogwood have to do with dogs? short tree with blooms of four white, or sometimes Well, probably nothing. However, one story states that pink, petal-like bracts (a modified or specialized leaf) the tree got its name because boiling dogwood bark surrounding a tiny, greenish-white, or sometimes results in a liquid that can be used to treat dogs with yellow flower in the center. The bracts have dark mange. Another theory is that the name dogwood indentations at their tips. The tree has simple, comes from the use of the wood for skewers or “dogs.” opposite, elliptical leaves that turn from green to red There is also a description of the fruit that says it’s to maroon in the fall. Flowering occurs in late April edible, but not fit for a dog. Probably the most popular and early May and often remains until winter. legend is from Christianity, and the story of the death Enjoy the beauty of spring. The dog days of summer are and resurrection of Jesus Christ, thus a beautiful fast approaching. symbol of Easter. Just begging for more dogwood facts? There are actually many native species of dogwoods in North Carolina. Three common species are Cornus alternifolia, an alternate-leaf dogwood that is common in the mountains; Cornus amomum, a silky dogwood that grows on the coast and is not very ornamental; and Cornus florida, a flowering dogwood that is common in the wild and the most popular ornamental. It is this variety that enchants people every spring. A chat with Jeanne Pavero, extension master gardener volunteer of Brunswick County, provided both practical and scientific information about the native dogwood. Jeanne said: “Dogwoods grow best underneath other trees. They need some shade, and the roots need moisture to thrive in our hot temperatures.” A passionate expert, Jeanne can talk about the ethnobotany (study of a region’s plants and practical uses) and the wildlife value of the dogwood. She shared: “The dogwood has been used for medicinal purposes, disinfectants and even to make handles for tools. The dogwood is a host plant for azure butterflies and a specialized variety of bees. And grouse love the red berries.”

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40 Better to never miss this Sunday holiday By Judy Rubin

Ah, Mother’s Day. It comes once a year, but no good can come of it if you forget this one. How did it begin? We owe its origin to Ann Reeves Jarvis, whose mother died in 1905. Jarvis wanted a way to honor the sacrifices mothers make for their children. Backed by a Philadelphia store owner, John Wanamaker, the first official Mother’s Day was held in May 1908 in Grafton, West Virginia. Judy Rubin and her mother celebrate her mom's 80th birthday in 1994. (contributed photo) By 1912, due to her persistent letters noting too many holidays favored men, many towns and churches More national recognition holidays were to follow. adopted the idea, and Jarvis established the Mother’s Father’s Day was started in Spokane, Washington, by Day International Association. In 1914, President Sonora Smart Dodd in 1910. Her father was a Civil War Woodrow Wilson declared the second Sunday in May veteran who raised six children in Arkansas as a single as Mother’s Day. parent. Father’s Day was not recognized nationally until 1972, under the Nixon administration, and is Sadly, after florists, confectioners and charities turned celebrated the third Sunday in June. Grandparent’s the day into huge revenue opportunities, Jarvis Day, the first Sunday after Labor Day, was suggested denounced her own holiday and tried to lobby the by 9-year-old Russell Capper in a letter to Richard government to remove it from the calendar. Nixon in 1969 and became an official day of After my daughter was born, I cross-stitched a quote recognition in 1977. by an unknown author and gave it as a Mother’s Day All three need to be honored — moms, dads and present to my own mother. She loved poetry and had grandparents — since they helped mold each of us always safely held my hand. Appropriately, it is titled with lessons carried into our roles as mothers, fathers “Mother, Hold My Hand.” and grandparents. Perhaps, Mother’s Day is the most cherished and the one you should never forget. There Yesterday, or so it seems, my small daughter are hundreds of poems honoring mothers, but here is sought to walk. The road was rough, she stumbled. my favorite by Helen Steiner Rice. I said, “Take my hand, it will be easier, together.” And together we walk toward the sunrise. A Mother’s love is something that no one can explain. Today, many years later, I seek to walk again. It is made of deep devotion and of sacrifice and pain. The road is rough, I stumble. It is endless and unselfish and enduring, My grown, tall daughter, now a mother, says, come what may. “Take my hand, it will be easier, together.” For nothing can destroy it or take that love away. And together we walk toward the sunset. Have a Happy Mother’s Day!

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No-see-ums are very small flies called biting midges. people more desirable targets. Researchers have also There are approximately 5,000 species of these determined that persons with blood type O may be nuisances and they range from the Arctic to the preferred targets for no-see-ums, but there isn’t much Antarctic. They are primarily a problem at dawn and one can do about that. Long pants and long-sleeved dusk, particularly if it is cloudy, damp and windless. shirts are good protection, and insect repellants may be effective in deterring the critters. Like other biting insects, no-see-ums are attracted to the carbon dioxide that humans and other mammals Probably the most interesting factoid regarding no- exhale. They feed on pollen but the females bite for see-ums is that they are the only insect that pollinates blood (no comment), which is needed to nurture the cacao tree. Without no-see-ums, no chocolate. their eggs. No-see-ums are extremely small, hence My wife claims she does not get bitten and surmises the name, and you don’t know they are present until that it might be because she eats so much chocolate. they bite. However, I can report that is not the case for me. The bites can be painful and itchy, and the effects No-see-ums are small enough to pass through size 16 can be long-lasting. No-see-ums often bite the back mesh screens. Smaller meshes are effective to keep of your legs because they are more protected from them out but tend to reduce air flow. Ceiling fans can the breeze when you walk. Antihistamines and help disperse the critters when used at high speed. topical creams can help ease the discomfort. People Two other tips for reducing susceptibility to no-see- have also reported success with wintergreen alcohol ums are to move away from low country — that is applied liberally over the area. probably not happening — and don’t get pregnant, Some people are pretty much immune to bites. since pregnant women exhale 20% more carbon Everyone’s body chemistry is slightly different, dioxide. Getting pregnant probably is not happening thus exhaled air is slightly different, making some much in St. James either.

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44 Building your brain with games By Beth Erskine

Use it or lose it is a familiar phrase that has nearly words. Creating a visual image of information is become a mantra for aging baby boomers. It helpful to recall words and concepts. usually conjures up images of diminished physical When planning your next foreign travel getaway, prowess, however, its application to brain power add foreign language study to your homework is equally important. agenda. Learning a few foreign phrases may According to the World Health Organization, prompt locals in far-off countries to be more numerous interconnected social and biological welcoming and make your visit more rewarding. determinants play a role in brain development and There are measurable benefits in teaching brain health. These determinants influence the way someone else a new skill or craft. Reconstructing our brains develop, adapt and respond to stress the steps or methods to others benefits your brain and adversity, giving way to strategies for both at the same time. promotion and prevention across the life course. Word games are some of the best brain The Brain Health and Wellness division of the stimulation activities. Two of the most popular are Cleveland Clinic identified a variety of activities crossword puzzles and Sudoku. Whether using old- to help maximize memory, brain health and school paper and pencil or online versions, start mental sharpness. The list includes physical with a beginner version, then advance. For iPhone exercise, social interaction, mental fitness, sleep, and Android use exclusively, download free apps relaxation, food, nutrition and medical health. Of such as Crossword, Word Search, Wordscapes, these, mental fitness may be the one that most Four Letters and Words With Friends Classic. stealthily deteriorates over time. The good news is that exercising your brain can improve memory, To boost brain power, engaging all your senses focus and daily functioning. simultaneously is highly recommended. I can't quite visualize how that might work but listening Doing jigsaw puzzles and playing board games to feel-good music while doing almost anything aren’t just for when grandkids visit. Learn a new else might boost creativity. game. Perhaps older persons who watched “The Queen’s Gambit” were inspired to learn how Although not the focus of this article, physical to play chess in their golden years. Commit to exercise is always beneficial. Exercise increases building your vocabulary; discover an unfamiliar blood flow to the hippocampus region of the word, look up its definition and use it five times brain that is associated with memory storage. It’s the next day. Building your word base also possible to achieve cognitive reserves for use on a improves chances of successfully completing future rainy day. crossword puzzles. Changing habits is hard, especially as we grow To gauge your memory baseline, try this exercise. older, but setting reasonable goals and meeting Create a list of eight unrelated words, set a timer them is rewarding at any age. Per the Brain Health and study them for one minute. Do something Guide, “You are your brain.” Keeping it healthy is else for 10 minutes and then try to recall the eight essential for your well-being.

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