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NOHO PRIDE SEEKS LOCAL ENTERTAINMENT p. 8 Photo by: Joe Oppedisano 2 • Jan. 3 - February 6, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Opinions The Controversial Couch Best TRT stories of 2007 & more Lie back and listen. Then get up and do something By: Nicole C. Lashomb/TRT Editor-in-Chief at the State House, and brought you the up-to- By: Suzan Ambrose*/TRT Columnist Americans and are thus entitled to all the-minute historical news, updated every 15 things hetero-granted? To be so can- 2008 – A New Year begins – And rom our LGBTQI family to yours, we minutes on TRT's website. When the vote was did may cost the politician their polit- it’s a year I, for one, have been wait- Fsend you our best wishes for a Happy finally reached, the website was updated ical lives. ing a long time for. It starts off with a bang and Safe Holiday Season! As the year ends, immediately and The Pony Express was sent This is a vein of politics I find downright with the Presidential primaries, a few which we look back at TRT's first issue and our cov- to everyone alerting you of the historical pre- hypocritical. will have already concluded by the time of erage throughout this year. Our March 2007 cendent. Our site received the highest num- And yet, what are we offered on the other Inauguration Party was a success, and we had bers of hits during that week and we thank this printing. side? The Republican party has stood firmly many community members share that joyous you for that! With all the media attention on the candi- against the “gay agenda” (like all gays wake event with us. But, when it comes to news sto- The Visible Vote 2008 was a story that dates so far, one may feel they’re already sat- up with the same list of “Things-To- Do- ries, we also have our pick of the most impor- brought about change because it was the first urated on what this election and these particu- Today”? But no matter … ) and “gay tant TRT news coverage of 2007. time in the history of the U.S. that the 2008 lar candidates can offer. But is that really the lifestyle.” And because of that, it’s hard to Our feature on The Uncountable: An epi- Presidential Democratic candidates (or any case? Are perspective voters being corralled find a friendly advocate in that crowd. demic of Homeless LGBT youth was, by far, candidate, for that matter) met to discuss the into a very narrow view of what’s out there? Rudy Guliani, when he was mayor of New one of the most important three-part series issues that solely pertained to the LGBT com- Are we being asked to vote on the merits of York, he was considered pretty friendly to the addressed by TRT. Another important story munity. The Rainbow Times delivered to you one issue, then hold our noses, vote, and hope LGBT community, even to the point of cross was the news that the first U.S. military mem- our opinion and complete coverage of the it all comes out in our favor in the long run? dressing in public on occasion. But, no more. ber wounded in the Iraq war came "out", and Visible Vote 2008, which we called The Torn For the LGBT community, the issues may Mitt Romney, when running for governor of so did the news from former basketball star Vote '08. appear to be clear; the candidates we can sup- Massachusetts, couldn’t speak warmly and HRC spokesperson, Joe Amaechi. Other Our special supplements: the Wedding port to represent us, maybe not so much. enough about all that needed to be done for important news of support from our straight Supplement 2007-2008, the Back to School Let’s take, for example, some of the gay rights, and if elected, he’d be the one to allies came in the April 1-15th issue, which Issue and the Best Gay Holiday Gift Ideas Democratic contenders in a recent LOGO tel- do it. But, no more. showcased the Episcopal Church's solidarity Section showed LGBT community members evision debate. Most of them said they sup- These two are bigger flip floppers than John to our community by not conducting any mar- the support of the local companies catering to port civil unions but wouldn’t cross over the Kerry ever dreamed of being (but have we riages for one year until/unless they could them/us. We have learned this year, and so politically incorrect line that gay marriage heard from the ‘liberal media’ on that, hmm- marry lesbian and gay couples too. have the many companies who are not paying was a definitive right we were entitled to. In mmm?) It seems the Republican party is The news that we consider the most impor- attention to our market, that it does pay (or fact, although they said they were all for equal “open and affirming” when it comes to tant 2007 news event in MA took place on not) to advertise to us. rights for gays and lesbians, they stopped chameleons or charlatans. Or the Larry June 14th when the Massachusetts Our series Queer Justice became very pop- short of going all the way with marriage Craig’s of this world. Legislature voted down a discriminatory anti- ular during this year, and so did our LGBT And now, let’s focus on the upcoming gay, anti-marriage Constitutional Amendment equality. Health and Auto columns. Is that political smarts in 2008? Probably. Republic primary leader at this time – Mike by a vote of 151 to 45. The Rainbow Times See TRT on Page 4 Huckabee, former governor of Arkansas. proudly had a correspondent on site in Boston But isn’t it (the unfortunate) kind of politics we’ve come to expect? And we accept it Governor Huckabee has soared in the polls, at because we know no one can really say they least with evangelicals, the true base of the Love, Rights…and the Rest of It support gay marriage, even if they do, as it Party. A Baptist minister who loves to rock By: JM Sorrell*/TRT Columnist of history. I don’t believe would be political suicide? No one can “come out on guitar, Huckabee can even seem lik- such doubts make me a bad out of the closet” and say gay Americans are able and personable on first greeting. But Love is the thing, no? Rights are the pur- once you look a little closer, it’s obvious this ported foundation of the modern era of this Christian.” Huh?!? This gobbly gook makes country, right? Letters to the Editor See Couch on Page 22 This time of the year, many people are more Senator Hillary Clinton open about counting their blessings, sharing seem consistent! She sup- Dear Editor, gifts, and being spiritually connected to some- ported “In Defense of Where can I find your newspaper in The Rainbow Times thing greater than themselves. J.M. the JP Marriage,” which sounds as Albany? I’ve looked for it, but cannot find 351 Pleasant St., #322 Something is off here. Must be the rest of bad as it is; however, today, Clinton says that it. Northampton, MA 01060 it. she believes in the “full equality of benefits— Joe C. , Albany, NY www.therainbowtimesnews.com All but one Democrat/Republican presiden- nothing left out,” and that a strategy of civil Dear Reader, [email protected] tial candidate use religious (Christian) bond- union or domestic partnership language is the [email protected] best strategy to achieve it.” She covers her You can find the newspaper in various ing with the masses to intentionally or unin- Phone: 413-204-8959 • Fax: 866-310-8512 tentionally support oppression. bases by noting the “moral, historical nature locations in Albany. For a list of some of The former Arkansas governor, Mike of traditional marriage.” those locations, please visit: Publisher Columnists: Huckabee, once advocated for the “plague” of Former Senator John Edwards opposes http://www.therainbowtimesmass.com/dis- Gricel M. Ocasio Dr. Renee Lang AIDS to be contained by quarantine. In a same-sex marriage, but is okay with civil tribution.html Editor-In-Chief Jennifer Dexter recent interview with GQ, he stated, “There’s unions. Nicole Lashomb Jack/ie Kennedy The one person we can trust on this is the Dear Editor, Suzan Ambrose never been a civilization that has rewritten Sales & Dist. Representative Dennis Kucinich. He boldly I didn’t care for the “Is there a gay gene” Writers: what marriage and family means and sur- Ben Peterson vived.” With this blatant ignorance, he supported same-sex marriage back in 2003, story. I’ve read plenty of research that sup- Lindsay Wilson believes that same-sex marriage will end and he chastised any candidate who did not ports this theory, yet Dr. Lang seems to Sales Associates: J.M. Sorrell support “the right to marry the person of your western civilization. He neglected to address unsupport it. I felt that more investigation SJ Seymour Webmaster: older standards of marriage, including choice” as equal opportunity for all needed to go into it. Just my opinion. Jarred Johnson Americans. He has not waivered on the issue polygamy and wives as property. Rose S., Easthampton, MA The Rainbow Times is published by The Rainbow Times, In September, Mitt Romney took out a radio at all. LLC. The articles written by the writers, columnists, and ad in Iowa, called “traditional,” and he stated Clinton seems to be the viable bet here, but Dear Editor, correspondents express their opinion, and do not repre- that “we must oppose discrimination and I find it as difficult to forget her history as I do Your Holiday Party Rocked! The food, sent the endorsement or opinion of The Rainbow Times, LLC or its owners. To write letters to the editor, please defend traditional marriage: one man, one with Al Gore (don’t get me started on how he drinks, and door prizes were awesome. One did little for the environment and much for send your letters, with your name, address and phone woman.” He was responding to the judge question, though, what’s with the absence of number to: The Rainbow Times (address shown above), corporate interests during his eight years in there who gave the green light for equality. gay men to the event? A group of lesbians or e-mail any comment/s to the editor at: the White House. Frances Crowe is far more Yes, read his sentence again. It’s a fine were asking that question when I joined in [email protected]. All submissions example of compact contradiction. deserving of the Nobel Peace Prize). will be edited according to space constraints. The I may write to Kucinich to ask him what I the conversation. Is it that the boys only Rainbow Times, LLC reserves the right not to print any Senator Barack Obama is a huge disap- wanna play with the boys, or are they not or all content, or advertisements for any reason at all. pointment. He not only denounces same-sex should do. Will keep you posted. supportive of our community? It sickens me TRT is not responsible for advertising content. To marriage, but he had the audacity to defend receive The Rainbow Times at your home via regular to think that, but their support is truly lack- himself in advance if he is wrong! On Meet * J.M. Sorrell is a Justice of the Peace. She mail, or through electronic delivery, please visit our the Press, he stated, “In years hence, I may be believes in her civic duty to vote and in her ing. As a lesbian from MA I think that website. The content and graphics (photos, etc.) are the seen as someone who was on the wrong side ethical obligation to refrain from a so-called sucks! Theresa M., West Springfield, MA sole property of The Rainbow Times and it cannot be strategic approach to it. reproduced at all without TRT’s consent. www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Jan. 3 - February 6, 2008 • 3 More Opinions & News GLAAD’s best and worst of national news 2007 THE BEST today to them and say, 'You're gay...and we building. In addressing this story, co-host 1.) The New York Times Spotlights the don't want you here anymore,' and there's not Sean Hannity quickly took sides by asserting Struggle Against Anti-LGBT Hostility in a leg to stand on for it." Additionally, Tinsley that the Boy Scouts “talk about God, faith, Newark. explored the consequences of the removal of family, and country. And that’s their views, In the New York region, media coverage of gender identity protections from ENDA by and they’re keeping kids out of trouble. Why the LGBT community often focuses on interviewing Rochelle Evans, a young trans- would people just get involved to try and just Manhattan and other affluent areas where gender woman facing workplace discrimina- destroy the organization?” While the pro- many gay people can seek out accepting tion. By giving a human face to the debates gram featured two Boy Scouts representa- communities. In a much-needed wake-up surrounding ENDA, Tinsley educated read- tives to defend their organization, it failed to call, New York Times reporter Andrew ers about the significance of this legislation include a guest who could illustrate the harm Jacobs opened readers' eyes to the intense to thousands of lives. caused by the Scouts' policy of barring or homophobia that continues to pervade Read the story: removing gay scouts who want to be open Newark, New Jersey. In his Dec. 2 article "In http://origin.dfw.com/mld/dfw/18077467.h and proud about who they are. Though co- a Progressive State, a City Where Gay Life tm host Alan Colmes briefly argued against the Hangs By a Thread," Jacobs detailed the Take action: city's financial support of the Boy Scouts, physical violence, the lack of community GLAAD encourages you to contact Anna this unbalanced program lacked any discus- resources and the police hostility that LGBT M. Tinsley and thank her for sharing the sto- sion about the message that this national people must face on a daily basis in Newark. ries of LGBT people impacted by workplace organization's policy of anti-gay discrimina- More importantly, Jacobs took time to sensi- discrimination. tion sends to young people across the coun- tively showcase the efforts of LGBT Newark Contact: [email protected] try. residents to live openly in the face of vio- Read the transcript: THE WORST lence and harassment. Jacobs made it clear http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,31 inclusive retirement communities have final- Fox News's Hannity & Colmes Lack that much more education and activism is 2425,00.html ly provided gay seniors with an environment Balance in Boy Scouts Story needed before LGBT people in Newark can Take action: where they can be open and where they can Television debate programs can serve as live openly without fear. This sobering reali- GLAAD encourages you to contact share their histories with others. "People perfect forums for people on both sides of an ty was underscored by the article's conclu- Hannity & Colmes with your views about who have been isolated for years are coming issue to argue their case. Fox News' Hannity sion, which featured a quote from Willie their unbalanced coverage of the Boy Scouts here," said RainbowVision Vice President & Colmes failed to provide this kind of bal- Harden, a homeless gay man. Harden issue. Joyce Bogosian. "We have people who are ance on a Nov. 20 segment about the City of explained, "It sounds crazy, but one day I'd Contact: just coming out." Philadelphia's demand that its chapter of the like to walk down the street holding my E-mail [email protected] or e-mail Read the story: Boy Scouts end its policy of anti-gay dis- boyfriend's hand with nobody saying one [email protected] http://www.denverpost.com/news/ci_7550 crimination or else lose its city-subsidized bad word." 872 Read the story: Take action: http://www.nytimes.com/2007/12/02/nyre- GLAAD encourages you to contact Lisa gion/02newark.html?ref=todayspaper Kennedy and thank her for thoughtfully Take action: spotlighting the lives of LGBT elders. GLAAD encourages you to contact Contact: [email protected] Andrew Jacobs and The New York Times to thank them for addressing the continuing 3. The Fort Worth Star-Telegram Educates problem of anti-LGBT violence and harass- Readers About LGBT Lives Affected by ment in American cities. Workplace Discrimination Contact: [email protected] When the House of Representatives passed the Employment Non-Discrimination Act 2. The Denver Post Shares the Rich Stories (ENDA) in a historic vote in November, of LGBT Elders many media outlets covered the story by Too often, journalists overlook the stories quoting lawmakers and non-profit spokes- of the thousands of LGBT seniors who con- people. The Fort Worth Star-Telegram went tinue to seek acceptance and community. further by telling the stories of LGBT people Luckily, Denver Post reporter Lisa Kennedy affected by workplace discrimination and found an occasion to address this topic by revealing the importance of ENDA to their penning an exceptionally rich and engaging livelihoods. In the Dec. 4 article "Workplace story about the residents of RainbowVision Measure Faces Tough Road," Star-Telegram Santa Fe, one of the first planned enclaves reporter Anna M. Tinsley told the story of for aging LGBT people. Weaving a remark- Fort Worth resident Lynn Johnson, who had ably in-depth discussion of gay history into a been fired for being openly gay and who tour of the facilities and inhabitants of now works for a company with a non-dis- RainbowVision, Kennedy's Nov. 25 story crimination policy. "There are some people "Living Out The Golden Years" revealed that whose occupations don't have that comfort," many LGBT elders are still hesitant to come Johnson explained. "Someone could walk in out to their heterosexual peers because they grew up in an era when LGBT people lacked positive representations in education and in Biz Feature Story? Showcase the media. Kennedy concluded that LGBT- your business in TRT (p. 7). To feature your business, sim- Remember, ply call our newsline in MA & you saw it CT: 413-204-8959 TRT In NY, please call: here first! 518-391-2617 4 • Jan. 3 - February 6, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com In ‘The Name of God’ Church leaders at odds over gay marriage, unite against gambling By Jay Lindsay/AP Writer generate 20,000 jobs and $400 million in bling in the Commonwealth of Massachusetts BOSTON (AP)—Religious leaders who annual revenue. .” took opposing sides in the state’s turbulent But clergy say the price is too high. Their The Episcopal Diocese is part of the gay marriage debate have found something to stand isn’t based on moral objections to gam- Massachusetts Council of Churches, an ecu- bring them together again: Casino gambling. bling which aren’t shared by all faiths, includ- menical group which has taken a lead in Gov. Deval Patrick’s proposal to bring three ing a Catholic church that reaps significant organizing the anti-casinos push. casinos to Massachusetts has united religious profits from bingo games. Executive Director Rev. Jack Johnson said groups who were once entrenched foes. It was Instead, clergy say a huge expansion of more pastors forums are planned. Meanwhile, just six months ago that one of the toughest gambling will lead to a spike in addiction its Web site offers sample sermons, bulletin gay marriage battles—over a ballot question which will hit the poor hardest because inserts and tips on writing state legislators as that would have banned the marriages— they’re most likely to gamble to escape finan- part of a coming push to engage local congre- ended when lawmakers killed the question. cial strain. They predict statewide increases in gations in grassroots opposition. “You would like nothing better than to hold numerous social ills, including personal bank- The Catholic Church, by far the state’s grudges. But in government you can’t do ruptcy, spousal abuse, divorce, desertion and largest church, has so far said little in opposi- that,” said Kris Mineau of the Massachusetts crime. tion to Patrick’s plan, which House speaker Family Institute, a leading anti-gay marriage The shared opposition to casino gambling Sal DiMasi said lawmakers won’t formally lobbying group whose mission statement says has something in common with the sharp dif- consider until sometime next year. Edward its committed to affirming the Judeo- Church and believes allowing gay marriage is ferences over gay marriage because it’s all Saunders of the Massachusetts Catholic Christian values. a “matter of justice and compassion.” And rooted in what clergy think is best for fami- Conference said to expect the church to step “They’ve extended the right hand of fellow- Bishop Gilbert Thompson, senior pastor at lies, said Rev. William Bradbury, pastor of up efforts once that date gets closer. ship to me, and likewise, and we’re moving Jubilee Christian Church in Boston , opposes Grace Episcopal Church in New Bedford. “Timing is all part of this,” he said. on,” Mineau said. gay marriage and has said, “to say there is “There’s a common thread there,” said Johnson said religious groups and secular Mineau already has worked closely with such a thing as a gay Christian is saying Bradbury, who supports gay marriage. “We casino opponents will be far outspent by casi- pastors who disagreed with him on gay mar- there’s an honest thief.” just both look at the gay marriage issue from no advocates. But he said a united religious riage, speaking at two Massachusetts Council They found common ground in fighting to different perspectives.” community can be a formidable force in the of Churches forums this month to educate keep casinos out of state. Fernandez said their Bradbury was among several Episcopalian coming debate. clergy on how to fight expanded gambling. differences on gay marriage are irrelevant. clergy from southeastern Massachusetts — “I mean, we have thousands of churches,” The council’s recent newsletter also brought “He is entitled to his opinion,” she said. where a casino is proposed in Middleborough he said. together two leaders who disagreed on gay “That’s the way he thinks and I leave him to —who sponsored an anti-casino resolution Such unity is rare on a volatile social issues, marriage in jointly written column against God.” that passed the Convention of the Diocese of and can be short-lived. casino gambling. Patrick’s proposal would bring one casino Massachusetts last month. The convention, “There will be another day for the marriage The Rev. Aida Fernandez leads the Metro each to the western, southeastern, and Boston made up of lay people and clergy, declared its agenda,” Mineau of the Massachusetts Family Boston Hope District of the United Methodist regions of the state. He says the casinos would “opposition to any further expansion of gam- Institute promised. “That’s not over yet.” TRT from page 2 expanded its coverage to the Capital District of NY (Albany, Schenectady & Troy), thus We added the daring page "In the Name of making it a 4-state (MA, CT & VT) LGBTQI God" to showcase the lengths into which peo- newspaper printed out of Western ple go to "do" things to others "in the name of Massachusetts. TRT is also now proudly God." Also, our Featured Business Page, fea- working with Albany Pride to sponsor this tures LGBT-owned businesses and what they wonderful week-long Pride celebration in '08. so "proudly" offer to our community, our fam- From Albany too we also proudly support, ilies and allies. and continually showcase Libby Post's From a business standpoint, TRT was thought-provoking column Lesbian Notions. Northampton's Pride 2007 Main Sponsor and Most importantly, our commitment to the maker of the Northampton Pride Guide. always remain vigilant to disseminate the TRT was also one of the main media sponsors LGBTQI news that matters to you is a contin- of Hartford Pride '07 and the maker of uous promise that we will continue to renew Hartford Pride's 2007 Guide. This year we in this upcoming year. We have published also sponsored The Rays of Hope, to join in LGBT news throughout the year, and we will the fight against Breast Cancer. continue to do so in the years to come. The original bi-weekly newspaper became a We cannot thank you enough for your sup- monthly by the Fall of 2007 (due to increased port! We could not keep doing it without your demand for more news and content). We also faith in us, and without your loyalty. Happy increased TRT's number of pages to 24 and Holidays and enjoy your New Year! www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Jan. 3 - February 6, 2008 • 5 6 • Jan. 3 - February 6, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Queer Cover News Colton Ford: Feel the difference By: Michael A. Knipp* Colton Ford: First, let me clarify something. and pursue a music career? orn is a hard act to follow. Literally. But I've been a recording artist for about 25 years, CF: My musical endeavors have been a con- Pformer skin-flick actor Colton Ford, and I've been performing and making music stant in my life. I got everything out of my whose foray into filmed fornication gained all of my life. I did porn for 10 months. What porn experience that I was going to get, so him underground notoriety in 2002, is trying I'm doing now with my music is a continua- when it was time for me to move on, it was to put his penis-bearing past behind him. tion of a long journey for me. The opportuni- time for me to move on. It just so happened Two years ago he allowed cameras to fol- ty to do porn came to me six years ago that things started opening up again with my low his transition from porn star to pop star in through my partner at the time, Blake Harper. music right around the time I was getting out the documentary film "Naked Fame." And MK: How old were you when you started of the adult industry. next year, the fruit of that years-long labor making adult films? What were you doing MK: How is it going for you so far? will come to fruition as Ford prepares to drop before you turned to porn? Why did you CF: It's going great! Things are really starting his debut album, Tug of War, a glistening, gut- decide to go that route? to move now that we are getting closer to the ter-rich release that gives his chops a shot at CF: I was 39 when I did porn. Before that, I release of the album. The business of music professional redemption. was in a jazz quartet, had two major label is, by its nature, unstable and out of control. I The question is, will anyone accept his shift deals, was signed to Denise Rich, paired up just try to stay focused on the things that I can from tight-abed top to talented troubadour? with Frankie Knuckles, basically just doing control and enjoy all that is happening now. Or will the cocksure crooner forever be the my musical thing. In between my deals, I had MK: Are you dealing with any resistance well-hung hunk who played "Head Games"? a corporate job. The corporate experience was within the music industry because of your In a recent interview, Ford attempts to always a means to an end, and it had to end. previous profession? untangle that tawdry web—in anticipation of An opportunity to do porn came to me CF: As you would probably expect, there are Tug of War's February release—by detailing through my partner at the time, and after some people that are having difficulty view- how he became an adult-film A-lister, the rea- thinking about it I decided to go for it. It ing my project as a credible one but that's OK. son he has no regrets, why his new career enabled me to get out of corporate America, They'll come around. I'm getting a tremen- makes perfect sense, and why he thinks you experience a fantasy with my partner and cre- dous amount of support outside of that small should bank on him. ate Colton Ford, which I've used to draw group. Because, if all goes well, there truly won't attention to my other endeavors. Colton Ford MK: I've heard some of your songs and be a check his a%% can't cash. MK: What was it like filming sex and getting As for getting paid for it, I wouldn't have done they're not bad. But, it's probably gonna take Michael A. Knipp: There's no point in beat- paid for it? Did it demean your intimate it otherwise. It in no way demeaned anything a lot more than a good song for people to take ing around the bush, so let's get right to it. encounters in any way? in my mind, but it does require that you dili- you seriously. How do you plan to combat the Before you embarked on your new career as a CF: It was work. Sure, there were moments gently separate the whole porn thing from haters? recording artist you were a porn star. How did of pleasure, but the priority was to get the your every day experience. CF: Well, I would encourage any "hater" to you fall into that career? shots needed for the scene. Very mechanical. MK: Did you ever feel morally bankrupt? listen to the whole album before they form How did your family take it when the first their opinion. There's a lot in there musically film came out? that I think speaks to a wide audience. CF: For me, the whole preoccupation with Beyond that, I try not to personalize shit. the porn experience is kind of funny. I mean it Love the "Four Agreements!" I keep my eye is what it is, and [it] has the weight that you on the prize, push forward, and continue to give it. I would feel morally bankrupt if I was represent my intentions through my work. somewhere shooting at people, you know MK: How do you think mainstream America what I mean? This is just consensual sex. will accept your music, or are you specifical- Everyone does it, and some people share it ly targeting the GLBT demographic? with others. It's that simple. My family has CF: Mainstream America is Gay America, been cool. They know who I am and recog- Black America, Hispanic American, Asian nize that the experience didn't change me. America, etc. I'm targeting anyone who is THE HONORABLE MK: Any regrets? open to what I think is great music. I'm look- ing to reach people of all types, ages and J. MARY SORRELL CF: No regrets. It was a very unique experi- ] ence and adventure. backgrounds. Now, I am fully aware that A MEMBER OF OUR TRIBE JM the JP MK: With that behind you, now you're break- music is a subjective thing. What one person ing out as a pop artist. You've been perform- feels is hot, another person may not necessar- ing music on and off for 25 years, but why ily like. I just try and please myself musically Have you met the and get my work out there for people to hear. now did you want to leave the adult industry See Colton on Page 15 LOVE of YOUR LIFE? All couples, odd and beautiful, deserve to be recognized.

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413-569-0000 8 • Jan. 3 - February 6, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com QueerJustice The next legal steps to your LGBT divorce By: Jennifer Dexter*/TRT Law Columnist the disposition of mar- remarry. to see if you can come to an agreement. K, so you have filed your complaint ital property. If you filed under section 1B your first court If mediation fails, you will have to go to for divorce, now what? As I stated Thirty days after the date will be what is called a case management trial. At trial both of you will present evi- Olast month the court will send you court has made the conference. You will determine what time dence to the Judge. The final decisions lie something in the mail letting you know what determination of irre- frame is needed to complete the discovery with the Judge. After the Judge makes his/her to do next and when you need to be in court. trievable breakdown, it process. During a divorce you are entitled to findings and enters a judgment, the same prin- If your complaint was filed under 1A, your will enter what is “discovery”. Discovery is the term used to ciples apply as stated above. next court date will be an uncontested hearing called a “judgment of describe the disclosure of information or *Attorney Jennifer L. Dexter earned a B.A. in date. On that date both parties must appear. divorce nisi.” This is a physical evidence that can be used at trial. Psychology from The University of Central When the Court Officers call your case, you preliminary judgment Once the case management conference is Florida. She moved to Massachusetts to attend will go into the Court room and stand before that the Judge enters Atty. Jennifer Dexter completed the court will schedule a pre-trial law school at The Western New England College the Judge. After a hearing on the separation after trial or hearing. conference. When you appear on that day you of Law in Springfield, Mass. She is a member of agreement, the court, within thirty days of the In some instances the judge will enter the will discuss with the Judge what issues you the Massachusetts Bar and has a Solo General hearing, will make a finding as to whether or judgment immediately. A Judgment of both agree on and what issues you don’t agree Practice in the Pioneer Valley Area. not an irretrievable breakdown of the mar- Divorce Absolute is the final judgment that on. The Judge may discuss with you the pos- The information contained herein is intended for riage exists and whether or not the agreement enters automatically 90 days after entry of the sibility of going to mediation before you go to educational purposes only and does not repre- has made proper provisions for custody, for judgment of divorce nisi. Until the final judg- trial. The purpose of mediation is to get you sent legal advice. Should you need legal advice, support and maintenance, for alimony and for ment is issued, you are not legally free to and your spouse to talk about the divorce and please contact an attorney. HRC & Showtime co-host ‘The L Word’ premiere events WASHINGTON—The Human Rights in its fifth season. It airs on SHOWTIME on ness of the fight for equality.” nominee Marlee Matlin, Katherine Moennig, Campaign and SHOWTIME are teaming up Sundays at 9:00 p.m. (ET/PT), a new time slot “The show’s goal is to entertain and we are Laurel Holloman, Mia Kirshner, Leisha to host more than 43 premiere parties to cele- for the show. gratified if, at its best, it also challenges view- Hailey, Rose Rollins, Pam Grier, Rachel brate the new season of THE L WORD in “For four seasons, THE L WORD has ers to examine people’s differences as well as Shelley and creator and executive producer, communities across the country, primarily on brought loving, honest portrayals of GLBT what makes us alike,” said Ilene Chaiken, cre- Ilene Chaiken. Actress Jane Lynch will emcee Sunday, Jan. 6, 2008. Three large-scale pre- lives into millions of homes. This visibility is ator and executive producer of THE L WORD. the event, and music acts Lisa Dewey & The miere events will be hosted in Los Angeles, crucial to opening hearts and minds,” said “In the interest of achieving equality for all Lotus Life and The Start will perform. The CA, and New York, NY on Sunday, Jan. 6, HRC President Joe Solmonese. “We’re proud Americans, I am honored to partner with New York party will feature MTV reality star 2008, at 9:00 PM (ET/PT), and in Atlanta, GA to work with SHOWTIME to toast the begin- HRC to get that message to millions of peo- Dani Campbell of “A Shot at Love with Tila on Thursday, Jan. 3, 2008 at 7:00 PM ning of the fifth installment of the series. Not ple.” Tequila” and musician Bitch. All event atten- (ET/PT). THE L WORD, a groundbreaking only is this a chance for communities to come Special guests at the Los Angeles premiere dees will receive an advanced copy of the sec- series about the lives, careers and relation- together around great entertainment, but it include HRC President Joe Solmonese, THE ond episode on DVD along with other give- ships of a group of women in Los Angeles, is also provides an opportunity to raise aware- L WORD series regulars Jennifer Beals, Oscar aways and prizes. FMI: www.hrc.org www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Jan. 3 - February 6, 2008 • 9 Queer Local & Health News Standards of Care: A witty view of a trans-formation By: Lindsay Wilson/TRT Reporter Disorders” by the that are also true to life and enjoyable for peo- here, but I feel that there are not a lot of rea- How would you feel if your mother, a gen- Harry Benjamin ple who are transgendered. sons [to get together] that are not political or der therapist, could not accept that you were International “There’s not a lot of theatre about trans peo- intellectual.” transgendered? That was the issue posed to an Gender ple, there aren’t a lot of stories being told and According to Davis, he has always been audience crowded into a classroom in Smith’s Dysphoria I think that our community has a lot of really drawn to theatre. McConnell Hall on recently during a reading Association, a good stories,” Davis said. “I think there’s something that sets it apart of “Standards of Care,” a play by Tobias K. handbook used Davis has written plays such as Crossing, a from other media because you and the actors Davis. by mental health one act play which poses the question, What if are breathing in the same room,” he said. “I Davis, 26, a Smith graduate and current professionals to Jesus were F2M? and The Naked I: think that in terms of gender theory, the whole employee, presented the play which follows help diagnose the Monologues from Beyond the Binary, a trans- concept of gender as a social construct and as the life of Nancy, a gender therapist, who does TOBIAS K. DAVIS characteristics gendered version of the Vagina Monologues. something that you sort of put on and perform not want to believe that her daughter “Jessica” and treatment of (In September of 2003, The Naked I was lends transgender material very well to the would prefer much rather to be called transgendered patients. selected to be a part of the first ever stage.” “Jason.” The play interweaves the interac- The play progresses as Jason goes to the Transgender Theatre Festival in New York The play was sponsored by the Smith tions between Nancy and Jason, and Nancy local LGBT youth center where he coinciden- City.) College Staff Council Diversity Community and her patient “David,” a 34-year-old Female tally meets David, who volunteers at the cen- “I think there is this sense that there is a forum and is open to the public. The play will to Male (F2M) who is in therapy seeking a ter talking with teens about his trans experi- desire for a community,” said Davis. “Usually be fully produced by the 20% Theatre recommendation for “bottom” surgery. ence. A few scenes later, Nancy and David when a bunch of trans people get together it’s Company Twin Cities in Minneapolis this Davis said he wanted to explore what it begin a relationship that crosses the doctor- the Day of Remembrance, or Pride, or it’s a June. might be like for a gender therapist with a patient line. Eventually, the play comes to a conference. ... There is a community around transgendered child and to “raise the stakes dramatic end as the connections between the and make it even more dramatic.” The play’s three are realized and Nancy is forced to look NH civil unions: Boom for businesses, tourism conflict was loosely based on a similar situa- at the hypocrisy within her relationships with By:Beverly Wang/AP Writer Two New Hampshire couples have agreed to tion had by a trans person that Davis met David and Jason. BETHLEHEM, N.H. (AP)—If the rain- get civil unions during the inn's annual New through a trans circle. According to Davis, he tries to write plays bow-painted deck chairs, fluttering rainbow Year's Eve dance after the clock strikes 12. The play’s title is derived from “The that are accessible to those who do not have flag and purple shutters don't make it clear, From the North Country to the Statehouse Standards of Care for Gender Identity any experience with transgendered people but the Highlands Inn's toll-free number, 877- steps, other gay couples are making similar LES-B-INN, leaves no doubt as to whom this plans. White Mountains resort caters to. Beginning in 2008, five of six New England Surgeon performs first colorectal procedure in Innkeeper Grace Newman began hosting states will provide some form of legal recog- commitment ceremonies at this self-pro- nition to same-sex couples: marriage in Western Ma. using new robotic technology claimed "lesbian paradise'' in the 1980s. Massachusetts; civil unions in Vermont, New Newman says she has lost track of the number Hampshire and Connecticut; domestic part- NORTHAMPTON, MA—Cooley Since then, the da of commitment ceremonies that have hap- nerships in Maine. Rhode Island does not Dickinson Hospital-affiliated general surgeon Vinci S has been used pened there; she estimates about 300 couples allow same-sex marriages, but does not Holly K. Michaelson, MD, has performed the to perform 34 surger- have honeymooned at the inn after getting explicitly ban them, making the state one of first robot-assisted partial colectomy in ies; most of those sur- civil unions in Vermont or marriages in only a few whose gay residents can legally Western Massachusetts. geries have been radi- Quebec, Canada, both short drives away. marry in Massachusetts. In 2008, the inn's 25th anniversary coin- As ceremonies for gay couples go main- Michaelson performed the procedure on a cal prostatectomies cides with another milestone: legal recogni- stream in New Hampshire, some innkeepers, local woman in mid-December at the new (surgical removal of tion of civil unions by New Hampshire begin- hotel managers and tourism marketers are Kittredge Surgery Center using the da Vinci® the prostate.) ning Jan. 1. Newman, veteran host and over- working to get some of the expected upswing S Surgical System, a surgical robot that com- For more informa- seer of many a union, isn't wasting any time. in business. bines the most up-to-date advancements in Holly K. Michaelson tion about the minimal- robotics, computer technology, and the skill MD ly inva- of the surgeon. The advantage of the robotic sive sur- system includes less pain, faster recovery, gery and robotics program at smaller incisions, minimal scarring, and less Cooley Dickinson Hospital loss of blood. visit www.cooley- “This is an example of Cooley Dickinson dickinson.org. having the best technology available in a Cooley Dickinson Hospital, a community hospital setting, performed at a member of the Dartmouth- brand new state-of-the-art facility,” Hitchcock Alliance, is an acute- Michaelson says. care hospital located in western The da Vinci system accurately interpreted Massachusetts. Cooley the surgeon’s hand, wrist and finger move- Dickinson Hospital seeks to ments on instrument controls into correspon- become a model for health care ding movements of the surgical instruments delivered at our nation’s com- positioned inside the patient through small munity hospitals. puncture incisions. In November, Cooley “Robotic assistance allows for greater tech- Dickinson Hospital was award- nical accuracy and maneuverability,” ed the 2007 Betsy Lehman Michaelson adds. Patient Safety Award at the A colectomy is the partial removal of the fourth annual Betsy Lehman colon. The procedure using the da Vinci last- Patient Safety Conference in Boston. The only western ed about two hours. The patient was able to Massachusetts hospital to take eat a meal the same night and return home top honors, Cooley Dickinson two days following the procedure. According was praised for implementing to Michaelson, if the procedure had been per- improvement initiatives that, formed using invasive methods, the post- over time, have eliminated hos- operative hospital stay would have been about pital-associated infections such one week. as central line blood stream Cooley Dickinson Hospital surgeons began infections and ventilator-associ- using the da Vinci S Surgical System in July. ated pneumonia. 10 • Jan. 3 - February 6, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Inglañol Latin Beat Epoca de Fiestas, lo que podemos hacer, y agradecimiento a nuestros líderes Por: Wilfred Labiosa* dimos importancia. En la última convención de estas edúcate. Sigue trabajando para educarte sobre constitucional estuvimos presentes y los leg- elecciones y temas importantes en la política estatal y l pasado año ha sido uno de muchas isladores se dieron cuenta y votaron en contra la próxima local. Es importante que nos eduquemos Eoportunidades para nuestras comu- de una enmienda constitucional que hubiera vez no leyendo información en el portal de Oíste, en nidades latinas y GLBT. Algunas de estas retrocedido el movimiento para derechos pongamos los periódicos o en las organizaciones como la oportunidades las hemos usado hasta el máx- GLBT como lo es la legalización de matrimo- excusas y Coalición de Somos Latin@s LGBT de imo pero otras han sido olvidadas o no les ha nios “gay”. En la política, lo/as transgéneros votemos. El Massachussets. Vota en el 2008 ya que estarás sido dada la importancia que ameritan. Estas recibieron el apoyo de legisladores y comen- voto es un votando por temas como la emigración, la oportunidades que se nos presentaron o se nos zaron un importante movimiento político para derecho que From left to right: Wilfred Labiosa, guerra, la economía y por nuestro futuro. Tu están presentando no tienen precedentes. que se incluyan los derechos de todo/as sin tenemos que Council Felix Arroyo, and Diego voto cuenta, así que úsalo. Aprovechemos estas oportunidades para así importar nuestra expresión de genero. usar y que Sanchez. Picture by Eric Hess. Este año transcurrido ha sido uno muy crecer unidos en el 2008. Es importante cele- En el 2007 no usamos nuestro voto, como lo puede traer importante para la comunidad GLBT Latina brar que tengamos a un hombre de color como pudimos haber usado. Perdimos a unos de cambios. En el 2008, va a hacer un año que ya que la organización nacional para nuestra gobernador en Massachussets, que tengamos nuestros más importantes aliados en el conce- tenemos que votar en las primarias y en las comunidad llamada Unid@s se esta fortale- legisladores que nos apoyan. Sin embargo, al jal municipal de Boston, Felix Arroyo. elecciones. No podemos pensar que otro/as ciendo. También localmente ya celebramos celebrar también pensar en maneras de poder Mucho/as no fueron a votar y fue el año con van a votar y que van a haber suficientes cuatro años de la celebración de Orgullo unirnos aun más para ser una comunidad con menos votos en todas las elecciones. Es votos para el candidato que uno quiere que Latino. En el 2008 estaremos celebrando nue- ideales, sueños de fraternidad y libertad de increíble, pero hemos perdido a una de las gane. En vez, haz tiempo de tu diario vivir y stro quinto aniversario así que prepárense expresión. únicas voces latinas en la política de la ciudad ve a votar. para celebrar y para aprender. De las oportunidades políticas que se nos de Boston. Ahora hay que esperar hasta las Algunas veces pensamos que no sabemos (To read the rest of this article, please visit presentaron, algunas las usamos, y otras ni le próximas elecciones. Espero que aprendamos por quién vamos a votar. En vez de decir esto, www.therainbowtimesnews.com) Time for celebration, what we can do as an ethnic group, and gratitude to our leaders By: Wilfred Labiosa* would have diminished the legalization of gay Instead we must make a commitment to take eants with our transgender Latino beauties in marriages and our movement. In other poli- a moment of our lives and vote. the states of Rhode Island, Massachusetts, and he past year has been one of many tics, the transgender community received sup- Sometimes we think that we lack the Connecticut. Also we participated in two opportunities for our Latino and port from legislators to put forward an impor- knowledge to vote for the right reasons but national contests giving recognition to our TGLBT communities. Some of these tant legislation towards the trans-movement instead we must recognize this and educate local talents nationally. In 2008, many more opportunities have been utilized well, but oth- that would provide rights based on gender ourselves on the topics and candidates. Oíste positive things will be forthcoming for our ers have gone unnoticed or no importance has expression and trans-rights. continues working on educating us on the drag queens and our transgender movement, been given to them. All of these opportunities Also in 2007 we did not use our right to important subjects and policies in local city so educate yourself on these matters and help do not have any precedence; we must take vote. We lost one of our most important allies and state politics. It is important that we are your trans-brothers and sisters. advantage of these opportunities by uniting in the Boston City Council, Felix Arroyo. educated reading information in the website It is necessary to celebrate in the three states ourselves more in the 2008. It is important Many did not go to vote; this past year was of Oíste, in newspapers or from organizations with greater number of Latino GLBT inhabi- that we celebrate that we have a man of color the year with less Latino votes in all local as Somos Latin@s LGBT Coalition. The elec- tants that there are leaders who have a com- as a governor in Massachusetts; that we have elections. It is astonishing that in 2007 we tions in 2008 are of importance as we will be mon denominator: to work by our culture and legislators that supports us; but while we cel- lost one of our important political Latino voting for immigration rights, for the war, the our rights as a Latino GLBT community. ebrate, it is important that we think of ways to voices in our city. Now we have to wait until economy and our future. Your vote counts so These leaders and members of the communi- get more opportunities to be together in order the next elections. I hope that we learned from use it! ty speak, are united in the ideals of and for to become a stronger force with ideals, these elections and that next time we do not This past year has been one very important equality, and advocate/work for us. Thanks to dreams, and fraternity and to celebrate our make excuses and instead go to vote. The for our Latino GLBT community as the Jarett Barrios, Osvaldo Mondejar, Officer liberties. right to vote is a right that we must use. In national organization called Unid@s fortifies Javier Pagan, Diego Sanchez, Luis Urizandi, We have utilized well some of the political 2008, is going to be an important year for pol- itself. Also locally, we have celebrated for the Marco Torres, Gricel M. Ocasio, Charito, opportunities in 2007 yet others we haven’t. itics were we must vote in the primaries and fourth year Latino Pride. In 2008, we will be Vanessa Love, Orlando Colon, Manuel Sorto, In the last constitutional convention, we were general elections. We cannot think that others celebrating our fifth year anniversary so pre- Local Lamothe, Tisha, you, me and all of us present and the legislators realized it and are going to vote and that there will be suffi- pare yourself to celebrate while educating who have continued to work for the advance- voted against a constitutional amendment that cient votes for the one that we want to win. yourself on important topics. This is a pioneer ment of the Latino GLBT community in 2007. event as it is the incubator for new and posi- In advance, thanks for the work that is coming tive ideas for our community. Let us celebrate ahead and that will be completed in 2008. Queer Cinema You Can’t Miss! as well that this column just completed two Bob and Jack's 52-Year Adventure (GAY) for change, but Paul is stuck in his ways. When years of publication and that our (your) organ- * Wilfred Labiosa is a local and national Genre: Documentary; Rating: Not rated they take in Tasha, a Romany Czech refugee ization, Somos Latin@s LGBT, has been rec- activist. Edited by Carmen Oquendo. To contact Distribution: Limited Release (Sirene), new life is breathed into their house and ognized locally and nationally as the only them: [email protected] Director: Stu Maddux; Release Date: 00/00/00 a relationship develops between the two women. organization for and by our community and Synopsis: A documentary about the 52-year rela- The Believers (TRANS) that it organizes activities for our community tionship between two men who met in the Army, Genre: Documentary; Rating: Not yet rated on a monthly basis. fell in love, left their wives, and moved to the Distribution: Limited Release Also in 2007, we continued celebrating pag- Pacific Northwest to spend the rest of their lives Director: Todd Holland; Release Date: TBA together. Notes: Recipient of the Frameline 30 Audience Finding You the RIGHT One, Not Just Anyone Cruel and Unusual (TRANS) Award for Best Documentary Genre: Documentary; Rating: Not yet rated Synopsis: This feature documentary tells the per- Director: Janet Baus, Dan Hunt, Reid Williams sonal stories behind the Transcendence Gospel Release Date: 00/00/00; Notes: Premiered at Choir, the world's first transgender gospel choir.. We understand ... 2006 South by Southwest Film Festival • It’s hard to meet the right Boys Life (Gay) person. Synopsis: This documentary looks at transgender Genre: Comedy, Drama; Rating: Not rated prisoners who are jailed according to the sex they Distribution: Limited Release • You are busy and want were born, not the sex with which they identify. Director: Various; Starring: Various • Personal, Discreet, matches chosen just for you. Respectful Gypo (Lesbian) Distributor: Strand Releasing; Notes: The five dif- Lanie & Bud, Company Founders • You might not want to meet Genre: Drama; Rating: Not yet rated ferent compilations were released in 1995, 1997, • People are who they say they “We met through a dating service.” someone in a bar or at work. are ... Distribution: Limited Release; Director: Jan Dunn 2000, 2003, and 2006. Synopsis: The "Boys Life" • You don’t want your personal Distributor: Lions Gate Films films are a series of compilations of gay-themed • We welcome Singles of all info for all to see on the Starring: Pauline McLynn, Chloe Sirene, Paul short films. Among the more notable shorts the Lifestyles series has included are Lane Janger's "Just One Internet. McGann, Rula Lenska; Release Date: 00/00/00 • An affordable service Synopsis: Helen (McLynn) and Paul (McGann) Time," Eytan Fox's "After" (aka Time Out) and have been married for 25 years. Helen is looking Peggy Rajski's academy award winning "Trevor." (413) 665-3218 • massmatch.com • [email protected] www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Jan. 3 - February 6, 2008 • 11 QEducation It's still elementary: Talking about gay issues in schools By: Debra Chasnoff/TRT Special than only schools movement, small but highly vocal made. Today, as we re-issue It's Elementary through fright- minorities of homophobic activists continue for a new generation of educators, we call hen we released our film, It's ening statistics to pressure educators in numerous areas upon the LGBT community to help us realize Elementary—Talking About Gay about disease across the country to backtrack on their our vision of schools as caring communities Issues in W and death. progress and to abandon their LGBT-inclu- for all youth and families, regardless of sexu- Schools, a decade ago, the teachers featured This evolution sive curricula. al orientation or gender identity. in the documentary were breaking new is directly relat- In April, for example, a journalism teacher In the face of increased right-wing resist- ground by finding ways to talk to their ele- ed to a positive in Indiana was fired after allowing one of her ance, LGBT people, parents, and allies must mentary and middle school students about les- shift in attitudes students to write an article asking her peers to be vocal about their support for LGBT-inclu- bian, gay, bisexual and transgender people. toward LGBT stop anti-LGBT harassment. In August, mem- sive curricula. LGBT parents can write their The educators we found were rarities. Most people, the rapid bers of a conservative church in New Jersey school boards, attend PTA meetings, and teachers had never considered having such growth of fami- hijacked school-board meetings and success- influence their school district by advocating conversations, and those that did lacked the lies headed by fully pressured a local school district into for their own children's best interests. The necessary support and skills. Today, educators same-sex par- removing its LGBT-inclusive family diversity wider LGBT community and its leaders must across the country are increasingly aware that ents, and the lessons. That same month the Philadelphia also recognize the efforts of LGBT-headed such omissions are professionally irresponsi- expansion of a School District was forced to omit families in the school system, and be vigilant ble. That's progress. But for this progress to stronger and 'gay and lesbian history month' from this in providing support for the resistance they continue, it will take the support and advoca- vibrant high year's school calendar, following outrage face. Whether or not you have children, you cy of not only LGBT parents who have chil- DEBRA CHASNOFF school age LGBT from conservative parents. can lobby for inclusive curricula and support dren who are directly affected by what hap- population and their friends. In many states, In all of these situations, the vocal minority school districts that proactively address anti- pens in the classroom, but the entire LGBT legislative and school board policies now of the religious right flooded school offices LGBT bias. Because reaching youth with community and all of our allies. mandate teaching about diversity and address- with letters and phone calls. As importantly, anti-bias education that includes our commu- During the 1990's, schools typically limited ing bullying, with a specific focus on prevent- their relentless attacks went largely unan- nities is not optional for cultural change. discussions of homosexuality to health class ing anti-LGBT harassment. Curriculum swered by local LGBT community members It's elementary. lessons and focused on preventing the spread guides now exist to help teachers of all grade and allies. Lacking necessary visible support of HIV or suicide. Today, as more and more levels have conversations about LGBT people from constituents in their own school dis- * Debra Chasnoff is the director of It's elementary schoolteachers include LGBT and issues in age-appropriate ways. tricts, school administrators' good intentions Elementary-Talking about Gay Issues in people within their curricula, the context of Nevertheless, motivated educators need the were dwarfed by the pressure to cave into School, which will be re-released on DVD in such discussions is changing from disease and encouragement and backing of local citizens homophobic activists. These incidents reflect December along with the companion docu- depression to culture and history. Youth are supportive of LGBT-inclusive education in more than coincidence. They are part of a mentary, It's STILL Elementary. She is the now receiving information about LGBT peo- order to be able act on their commitment. concerted effort on the part of the religious executive director of GroundSpark, ple through discussions about families, media Because, despite the steady growth of the safe right to turn back the crucial progress we have www.groundspark.org. personalities and historical leaders, rather 12 • Jan. 3 - February 6, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com QPolitics 2008 Dem. and Rep. presidential candidates’ positions By: Calvin Woodward/AP Writer Opposes constitutional amendment to ban it. employers to share costs of insuring workers affordable coverage. As governor, he signed WASHINGTON (AP)—The stands of these _Romney: No. Amend Constitution to ban it. and by offering coverage similar to that in health care law aimed at ensuring universal 2008 presidential candidates on a selection of Also opposes same-sex civil unions. plan for federal employees. Says package coverage through a mix of subsidies, sliding issues: _Thompson: No, but stops short of supporting would cost up to $65 billion a year after scale premiums and penalties for those who Democrats: New York Sen. Hillary Rodham a constitutional amendment that would out- unspecified savings from making system do not get insurance. Clinton, former North Carolina Sen. John law it. Favors federal action to protect states more efficient. Raise taxes on wealthier fami- _Thompson: “Market-driven” expansion of Edwards, Illinois Sen. Barack Obama and that prohibit gay marriage from having to lies to pay the cost. affordable coverage, but no mandate. New Mexico Gov. Bill Richardson. honor same-sex marriage allowed in another _Richardson: Tax breaks for businesses and TAXES: Republicans: Former New York Mayor state. for people who pay for their own coverage. DEMOCRATS would let some of Bush’s tax Rudy Giuliani, former Arkansas Gov. Mike Lower the eligibility age for Medicare to 55 cuts expire in 2010 as scheduled, in effect HEALTH INSURANCE: Huckabee, Arizona Sen. John McCain, former and expand programs for poor and children. raising taxes on wealthier people to help pay DEMOCRATS: Massachusetts Gov. Mitt Romney, and former Package could cost up to $110 billion a year. for programs. Additionally: _Clinton: Mandatory universal coverage in Tennessee Sen. Fred Thompson. Claims savings from expanded spending on _Clinton: Tax proposals focused on universal first term. Tax credits for working families to GAY MARRIAGE: Support same-sex preventive care would help achieve mandato- health care plan, including tax credits to make make insurance more affordable—ensuring marriage? ry universal coverage without tax increases. insurance more affordable. Also, would tax a premiums do not exceed a percentage of DEMOCRATS support recognition of same- ___ portion of health insurance benefits provided income. Business would be required to offer sex civil unions short of marriage: REPUBLICANS: to workers making more than $250,000. insurance to employees or pay into a pool for _Clinton: Would let states decide whether to _Giuliani: Income tax deduction of $7,500 Maintain estate tax on the richest tier. people without it. Expand Medicare and fed- recognize same-sex marriage. Opposes con- per taxpayer to defray insurance costs. Tax Increased tax breaks for college. $1 billion eral employees’ health insurance plan to cover stitutional amendment against it. credit for poorer workers to supplement paid family leave program to be financed by those without adequate workplace insurance. _Edwards: No. Opposes constitutional Medicaid and employer contributions as part eliminating some tax shelters. Raise taxes on wealthier families to help pay amendment against it. of “market-driven” expansion of affordable _Edwards: For middle and low-income peo- estimated cost of $110 billion a year. Also, _Obama: Would let states decide. Opposes coverage. Expanded use of health savings ple, set up tax-free savings accounts and have raise taxes on a portion of “very generous” constitutional amendment against it. accounts. No mandate for universal coverage. government match the first $500 in savings, plans covering people making more than _Richardson: No, but has supported recogni- _Huckabee: Favors market solutions, state expand earned-income and child and depend- $250,000. tion of same-sex civil unions. innovation. “We don’t need universal health ent care tax credits, and exempt the first $250 _Edwards: Mandatory universal coverage in ___ care mandated by federal edict or funding of investment income from capital gains first term by expanding system of federal REPUBLICANS: through ever-higher taxes.” Spend more on taxes. Tax cuts to cost $25 billion a year. health insurance and family tax credits, and _Giuliani: No, but says he sees no need to prevention and research. Raise rate on capital gains tax to 28 percent by imposing requirements on employers, amend Constitution to ban it. Has supported _McCain: $2,500 refundable tax credit for from 15 percent for those making over insurance companies and individuals. domestic partnership benefits for gay couples individuals, $5,000 for families, to make $250,000. Increase taxes on wealthier families to pay for _Huckabee: No. Amend Constitution to ban health insurance more affordable. No man- _Obama: About $80 billion in tax breaks program’s cost of up to $120 billion a year. it. date for universal coverage. In gaining the tax mainly for low-income workers and the elder- _Obama: Mandatory coverage for children. _McCain: Would let states regulate it. credit, workers could not deduct the portion ly, including tax credit worth up to $500 a per- Aim for universal coverage by requiring of their workplace health insurance paid by son to offset payroll taxes and elimination of their employers. _Romney: Incentives for states to expand See Campaign on Page 20 Federal Domestic Partnership Benefits and Obligations Act WASHINGTON—The Human Rights provide domestic partner benefits to their Campaign lauds Senators Joseph Lieberman employees. 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Old Fashioned Service for same-sex domestic partners of federal Recently Michael Guest, former ambassador since 1950! civilian employees on the same basis as to Romania, cited the lack of family benefits spousal benefits. These benefits would as his reason for retiring from the Foreign STORE HOURS: include participation in applicable retirement Service. “The federal government’s failure to Mon. - Fri.: 8 a.m. - 8 p.m. programs, life and health insurance benefits, provide these benefits impairs its ability to Sat.: 8 a.m. - 7 p.m. and family and medical leave. compete for the best and the brightest,” said WE DELIVER “This legislation would allow the federal Solmonese. WE DELIVER Sun.: 8 a.m. - 1 p.m. government to keep pace with other top The Human Rights Campaign is America’s employers,” said Human Rights Campaign largest civil rights organization working to president Joe Solmonese. “It is not only a achieve gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgen- matter of equal pay for equal work, but also der equality. By inspiring and engaging all the best way to insure that the government has Americans, HRC strives to end discrimina- 65 State Street • Northampton, MA access to the top talent on the same basis as tion against GLBT citizens and realize a the nation’s leading corporations,” he added. nation that achieves fundamental fairness Phone: 413-584-2633 • Fax: 413-585-9756 The majority of Fortune 500 companies and equality for all. www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Jan. 3 - February 6, 2008 • 13 QEntertainment The Return of Miss Soul: Angie Stone on homophobic issues n 2001 Angie Stone was coined “Miss Q: There were those rumors a few years ago to find out who I am. That did it for me Soul”, which is an understatement for about homophobic comments you supposedly because it was like in the twinkle of an eye Ithe R&B diva with the powerful voice made at a concert in New Jersey, which you they were ready to abandon, jump ship and and thought-provoking lyrics. Now, Angie cleared up in The Advocate saying it was create all this drama over something, in my returns with her fourth studio album, appro- completely false. What was your initial, per- opinion, they had no real idea of how priately titled The Art of Love and War. sonal reaction when you heard Angie Stone engrossed I was into that community. Angie’s daring attitude and raw talent gar- doesn’t think gay men are real men? Q: In closing, anything you would you like to nered a huge following in the gay community, A: I took it personally because the song that say to your gay fans? especially with the infectious dance remixes was out, a gay person had written, which was A: Stay focused, stay encouraged—I would of Wish I Didn’t Miss You. Many of us were Wish I Didn’t Miss You. You have to under- encourage you all to listen to my song, Happy shocked by the controversial 2002 rumors stand my gay friends that heard that were furi- Being Me. That is a dedication to my gay claiming Angie made a homophobic comment ous. They were like, “They don’t even know community because you are in control as an during a concert in Newark, NJ. Word spread her, and “How can they be so judgmental? individual of your own life. Don’t allow the that the soul diva asked only “real strong I’m with her everyday; she is not against gay next man to judge you when God has to judge black brothas” to put their hands in the air, people.” It kind of hurt my feelings because I us all. I love you all. I got your back and let's versus “homos”. felt like for the moment, the entire gay com- go all the way to the finish line! Although Angie has denied making the munity was turning on me and here I was the For more information about Angie comment, she opens up in this interview— Angie Stone "The Art of Love & War" biggest advocate of integrity saying, "Look, I Stone,visit her website at www.angiestoneon- expressing her hurt, shock and surprise that (Stax/Concord Music Group). don’t care what people think, you're writing a line.net. the gay community nearly turned on her. www.angiestoneonline.net song for me and that's all it is." [On] every The Art of Love and War (Stax) is in stores Angie also dishes on homophobia in R&B, album I’ve had a gay person [who] has now. going to touch you, no matter whether you are the new album and more. worked on my project with me because I’m straight or gay. That's what I think the draw Q: Tell me about the new album The Art of not judgmental. I’m not doing it for kudos, is. It's almost like they have a synergy to pick Love and War. but because I strongly believe in looking out Women’s up the realness in people. A: The songs are very strong, lyrically and for my friends. I had a slew of friends that Q: Do you think an artist could be openly melodically. I won’t say your typical Angie kept me sane during that time. Was I pissed? Bowling gay in R&B and be successful? Stone album, but I covered a vast variety of I was totally pissed! When I heard they were I would love to answer that question yes, League subject matters. One being My People, which burning CDs—I'm like, give me a break but I’m going to say no because so much of is reminiscent of Brotha—I went back to that already! You're going to tell me you're going society is dictated in judgmental views. Any women who might like bowling, or vibe and another anthem. Also, Make It Last, to take something like this and run with it Along with gay people, along with sometimes want to have a "league of their own" then which is about a woman who broke a man's when you know me as a person? If you don’t black, sometimes unattractive—there's this heart for the second time and now it's obvious know anything else about me, just take a few please join our women's bowling league, thing that people just can’t get with. They are that it's over. moments and ask around. It wouldn’t be hard FMI, please contact: [email protected] just programmed to think otherwise. I think Q: When did you know you had a gay follow- this whole world is programmed to be judg- ing? mental. I’ll give you an example—Rahsaan A: I’ve always known that. In every album, Patterson. The minute they found out that he I’ve always had gay songwriters. Wish I was gay, it was almost like the whole commu- Didn’t Miss You was written by a gay person, nity turned on him. I just didn’t appreciate it. one of my biggest records to date. My assis- They're forgetting the art form because they tant is gay, my travel assistant is gay and my are judging him as a person and they are not best friend is gay. So, I’ve always known that looking at the gift. I’ve got a problem with I’ve had the support. I find a loyalty in their that. commitment to me as a person and my mes- Q: How do you feel about some people in the sage. They don’t judge me, they actually give gay community who feel those who are clos- me a lot of support and I’m eternally grateful. eted in R&B or hip-hop should be outed? I’ve never had friends like I’ve had in the gay A: Well, I’m going to be honest with you. community, just as loyal as they are. They're Because gay people are so loyal, so commit- the best. ted to what they believe—I’m going to say Q: Why do you think gay audiences, especial- this and hope it doesn’t cause a repercussion, ly gay men, are so attracted to R&B, female but if you're going to be that way, you can’t be soul singers? judgmental yourself. The reason why I’m say- A: They're human beings, at the end of the ing that is if a person is not ready to come out day we're all human beings. I’ve had so many of the closet because they have their own gay people come up to me and say, "Oh girl, fears then allow them that. It's a struggle you were talking about me! I'm going within him/herself for that individual already, through that same thing." If you are real and dealing with the fact that they are either going deal with the real issues then the realness is to be accepted or rejected.

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ACCOUNTING and TAX SERVICES 4 Stanley Street Easthampton, MA 01027 Phone/Fax: (413) 529-0889 • E-mail: [email protected] 14 • Jan. 3 - February 6, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Gay Traveling Out of Town: Cape Town, South Africa By: Andrew Collins* thoroughfare, Long Street. Rooms are comfy Photo by Andrew Collins he undisputed gay and spacious, and some have small balconies capital of the overlooking the street. There's an excellent TAfrican continent, restaurant, Veranda, on the second floor. Cape Town has something Among the city's best guest houses, consid- of the progressive vibe, er 4 on Varneys, a luxurious six-room inn with stunning coastal scenery, a lushly landscaped courtyard and sleek, mod- and sunny disposition of ern rooms; or the Charles, an intimate new similarly appealing seaside cities, such as property in the heart of De Waterkant. The 12 Sydney, San Francisco, and Vancouver. Part rooms and four cottages are done with swank of a peninsular region that juts into the furniture and have deep tubs and separate Atlantic Ocean along South Africa's south- showers. A top choice for lesbians is Colette's western coast, Cape Town has become B&B, an affordable and tastefully done two- increasingly popular with visitors from North room inn for women in a suburb just outside America, offering travelers a small but vibrant of the city center (close to good hiking and gay business district and wonderful opportu- wine-tasting). nities for day-tripping along the coast and The Winelands wine country makes for an inland to the lush vineyards and swank coun- Spectacular views from the bluffs at Cape of Good Hope Nature Preserve, an easy day trip from Cape Town. enjoyable day trip, but if you have time, try to try inns of the Winelands regions. modations. Other gay-oriented or gay-friend- Glencairn (on the road between Cape Town spend a night or two out this way. This ver- There are some logistical issues to consider ly tour companies offering trips to South and Cape of Good Hope preserve). These fas- dant, sunny region east of Cape Town is dot- when planning a trip to this city, which is Africa include New York-based Gay 2Afrika cinating tours led by experienced guides take ted with engaging towns, the most scenic and about 6,000 miles from London, 8,000 miles and Vermont-based Hermes Tours. you right into a habitat of relatively tame and sophisticated being Franschhoek, from New York City, and 10,000 miles from No matter how you organize your trip, plan approachable baboons. Stellenbosch, and Paarl. The area is known for Los Angeles. It takes up to two days to get to spend at least half your time in and around Back in the city of Cape Town, you'll find a distinctive red wine called Pinotage, but it here and again to return home, and airfares are Cape Town. Right in the city, there are sever- that much of the gay scene revolves around also produces excellent Shiraz, Chardonnay, quite steep, generally $1,000 to $1,500 from al attractions of note, including Iziko South De Waterkant, a compact district of cobble- and many other vintages. One winery worth North America. The good news is that North African Museum, Iziko South African stone streets on the northeastern edge of checking out is Fairview, noted not just for its American and European currency are relative- National Gallery, and Table Mountain, the downtown, not far from the V&A Waterfront. stellar wine but also for its fantastic gourmet ly strong against South African currency, the looming geographical feature that defines the In this little quadrant you'll find several excel- cheeses and garden-side restaurant. For a Rand, meaning that you'll generally encounter city skyline—you can take an aerial cableway lent restaurants and cafes, including atmos- more intimate experience, drop by Muratie good values in hotels, restaurants, and shops to the top of this 3,500-foot behemoth. It's pheric Anatoli for excellent Turkish cuisine, Winery, an small vineyard producing first-rate once you're here. also worth spending an afternoon strolling Andiamo Deli and Restaurant for contempo- Pinot Noir and Shiraz. Another thing to keep in mind when travel- around the V&A Waterfront, with its shops rary Italian fare with attractive patio seating, As is often the case in wine regions, the ing such a long distance is that it's prudent to and restaurants, Two Oceans Aquarium (an and Cafe Manhattan, which has live music Winelands has plenty of urbane restaurants plan a trip of at least 10 days, and ideally 15 excellent facility with more than 8,000 sea some nights and is as much a gay bar as a gay and gourmet food and cheese shops. Of par- days. South Africa is famous not just for Cape creatures), and the South African Maritime restaurant. A more upscale choice on the edge ticular note is Le Quartier Francais, a foodie Town and the surrounding area, but also for Museum. You can also take the ferry from of De Waterkant is the Showroom, a slick, mecca for its restaurant, which has made the safari lodges that proliferate in the here to Robben Island, where Nelson white-on-white space known for some of the more than a few "best in the world" lists; this wildlife-rich Kruger National Park, in the Mandela was jailed for 18 years. It's now a most creative modern South African cuisine Relais & Chateaux country inn also boasts northeast part of the country. Many visitors UN World Heritage Site and museum (with in the city, plus great people-watching. Stop stunning rooms with giant soaking tubs and plan a trip that includes a week or so in tours led by former prisoners). by Origin for some of the best coffee plenty of cushy amenities. Also in greater Cape Town, and another week in Allow at least one day to make the drive around—a bohemian atmosphere prevails at Franschhoek, Mont Rochelle Hotel & Kruger or at a safari camp in a nearby coun- south of the city along the coast, past such this lively cafe. Mountain Vineyards offers plush accommo- try, such as Botswana, Namibia, or ritzy residential neighborhoods as Camps Bay Cape Town excels when it comes to dining, dations and excellent food, and nearby Zimbabwe. (with its views of the ocean on one side, and with other notable options including Fork, a Cabriere ranks among the town's top wineries. If you're going this route, your best strategy the Twelve Apostle mountains on the other) sexy tapas restaurant and lounge, and Jardine, If you're on a bit of a budget, try is to book your vacation through a reliable and Clifton, with its lavish seaside and cliff- which turns out such dazzlingly innovative Franschhoek's gay-owned Maison Chablis, a tour operator. Consider the highly regarded top homes. Stop in the bustling, if somewhat fare as confit of roasted guinea fowl with warmly furnished seven-room country house and very gay-friendly Premier Tours, which is touristy, fishing village of Hout Bay (where orange-braised endive. In the V&A with a pool and serene, landscaped grounds. based in Philadelphia and run by South Africa you can take excursion boats out to the mas- Waterfront, try gay-friendly Belthazar, a Stellenbosch, a historic university town native Julian Harrison. Premier offers a wide sive seal colony on Duiker Island, or to view sprawling steakhouse and seafood eatery. with numerous 18th-century buildings done range of preplanned itineraries to South whales), and continue south through For nightlife, De Waterkrant is again your in the region's enchanting "Cape Dutch" style, Africa and several other African nations, but Simonstown to see Boulders National Park, best bet. Head to the Bronx, a cruisy guy's also has a number of excellent restaurants, they can also design a custom itinerary for home to 3,000 jackass penguins (named for bar; Bar Code, the city's top venue for men in plus great shopping. Consider staying at the you. Sales Associate Steve Gleba is Premier the braying, donkey-like noises they make). A leather and uniform; and the Loft Lounge, a charming D'Ouwe Werf 1802, South Africa's Tours' LGBT travel specialist and can help boardwalk down along the beach affords up- hip spot for hobnobbing and cocktails. For oldest inn - it also has a fine restaurant. design a trip that's geared especially toward close encounters with these fascinating ani- lesbians, there's Lush, a roving Saturday night Another good choice is gay-friendly Villa staying in gay-friendly or gay-owned accom- mals. party that was, as of this writing, taking place Exner, a bit south of Stellenbosch along the Farther south, a spectacular at the Junction Cafe—the Lush website has region's scenic "Garden Route." This posh drive leads to the Cape of details. Also in de Waterkant you'll find Cape country estate has spacious rooms with flat- Good Hope Nature Preserve, Town's popular gay sauna, the Hothouse, an screen TVs and DVD players, a large outdoor which has good hiking, lofty attractive and rather upscale spot with a pool, and a restaurant serving acclaimed peaks, spectacular beaches, restaurant, bars, and spotless cabins and com- country fare. At this property, you're close to and interesting wildlife. mon facilities. Of particular note is a sundeck the three elements that make this part of the Beware of the baboons here, affording superb views of the city. world so special: prolific vineyards, turquoise who sometimes behave aggres- Greater Cape Town abounds with gay- seas, and emerald mountains. (To see the sively toward people. If you're friendly inns and B&Bs - there are plenty of Complete Black book, see TRT’s website). curious about these clever ani- worthwhile options in a variety of price * Andrew Collins is the author of Fodor's Gay mals, take a walking tour with ranges. The Metropole is a modern boutique Guide to the USA and eight additional travel Baboon Matters, an animal hotel in the heart of downtown, close to the guides. He can be reached care of this publication advocacy organization in many restaurants and shops along the main or at [email protected]. www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Jan. 3 - February 6, 2008 • 15 Queer Organization News Straight people for LGBT equality and rights The Night Owl The best LGBTQ Clubs in our In the New Year, make a resolution that Gayborhoods! Check ‘em out! 168 York Street counts with PFLAG’s work on GLBT rights Central & Western, MA New Haven, CT traight for Equality is an outreach Blu Bar and education project that empow- 105 Water Street Worcester, MA 254 Crown Street Sers straight people in supporting New Haven, CT and advocating for gay, lesbian, bisexual, Club Car and transgender (GLBT) people. 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Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG)as we expand tions to GLBT people. our work for GLBT equality. As part of • Become informed about the realities, challenges and issues affecting the lives of Colton from Page to get ahead of myself here. Now that's not to PFLAG’s mission of support, education say that I haven't thought about the future gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender MK: What do you hope to accomplish with and advocacy, this new project will and the possibilities. I have, of course. I just (GLBT) people’s lives through websites, your debut disc? embrace an increasing number of straight don't want to get stuck there and distracted. books, documentaries, and educational CF: I hope to reach as many people as I can people who are ready to lend their invalu- My being present now and attentive to the materials. with my music, and put myself on the map in able voices and perspectives to bring the business that I currently have on my plate • Be open about having GLBT friends, a way that affords me the luxury of living straight and GLBT communities together, will put me in a much better place with my family or acquaintances that you value, comfortably off of my art. Anything beyond straight for equality. career on down the line. If I was consumed respect, and are grateful to have in your that would be icing on the cake. HE TRAIGHT FOR QUALITY LEDGE with and caught up in my fears about the T S E P life. When you talk about them, don’t omit MK: I'm not trying to jinx you in any way future, I would be missing out on all the As a straight ally committed to support- the fact that they are GLBT. because I certainly admire your determina- good things that are happening now. ing and advocating for gay, lesbian, bisex- • Speak up when you hear derogatory tion and the hurdles you'll metaphorically MK: What's the one thing that you want peo- ual and transgender (GLBT) people, I will: slurs or jokes and don’t use them yourself. have to jump as you try to make a name for ple to know about that they don't? Come out. yourself in the music industry, but what will • Ask if you are unsure how a GLBT CF: I'm actually straight. I just did the gay I will acknowledge and work on any you do if this project doesn't work out as well friend, family member or acquaintance thing for my career. [laughs] uncertainties I may have in “coming out” as you hope? Will you try again? Will you would like their significant other to be * Michael A. Knipp is a freelance writer and as a straight ally, and, as I grow in confi- return to adult films? referred to or introduced, rather than avoid- founder of Line/Byline Communications. He dence, I’ll increasingly let my family, ing acknowledgment of the relationship. CF: Quite honestly, I'm trying diligently not friends, and colleagues know that I support can be reached at [email protected]. equality for GLBT people. • Help your kids learn about and appreci- ate all different kinds of families. Be mind- www.glma.org/ Speak up. ful of the day-to-day messages that they are Whenever I have an opportunity, I’ll say receiving about GLBT people and issues in something supportive of GLBT people, school, from friends, and on TV and talk whether I’m responding to a homophobic about what they encounter with them. joke or remark, commenting positively GLMA’s mission is to ensure equality in healthcare for lesbian, gay, about a current event, or making the case • Quit or don’t join organizations that bisexual and transgender individuals and healthcare providers. for equality in a discussion. overtly discriminate. Let them know why you are leaving or not joining in the first GLMA and the Human Rights Campaign have launched a new nationwide survey of the Join in. place. healthcare industry that will provide a quality indicator for healthcare related to LGBT I will review the many recommended people and will identify existing policies that may be used as models for other healthcare actions provided through Straight for • Support GLBT-owned and GLBT- Equality that will help me create change in friendly businesses. organizations. The first report provides aggregate statistics from the survey to create the big and small ways and incorporate those • Encourage and support company poli- baseline for future progress. For more information, www.glma.org. 16 • Jan. 3 - February 6, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesmass.com LGBT Announcements TRT PRIDE Calendar from MA, NY, CT & VT! (MA) UNITY is a Transgender support group from newly ended relationships, struggling with more. will be held by appointment only. FMI: PRAY, LOVE. which meets at 7 p.m. on the 2nd Thursday of depression or just women needing the support of 518.432.4188. (NY) PROGRESSIONS CONCERT SERIES: each month at Baystate Hospital, 3300 Main their peers. Meet at CDGLCC at 332 Hudson (VT) GAYME NIGHT: January 5 , 7pm, Menspace, January 19, CDGLCC, 332 Hudson Ave., Albany, Street in Springfield, Ma.; and on the 4th Avenue in Albany. FMI: Q Diamond at (518) 462- 50 Elliot St., Brattleboro VT. Gayme night is at the NY, 8:00 p.m. Doors 7:30 p.m., $10/$8 students - 6138. Thursday at the Blue Moon Coffee Roaster locat- Menspace this month. Come join us for snacks All ages! FMI: Carrie at 518.462.6138, x.11. and socializing, and lots of laughs. ed at 715 Sumner Avenue, Springfield, MA. FMI: (NY) Youth Group; Friday nights; 7 p.m.; 332 (VT) WINTER PARTY POTLUCK: January 19, 2 Deja 860-604-6343 or Keri 413-364-1749. Hudson Ave. in Albany; Group offers peer support (MA) 19TH ANNUAL FRIENDS OF THE FINE p.m. outdoor fun; 5 p.m. dinner. Thom Chiofalo’s to LGBT& questioning individuals ages 13-19. A ARTS CENTER BENEFIT AUCTION ONLINE; (MA) SOCIAL GROUP FOR LESBIANS; We in Rowe, MA. Bring a dish to share and join the supportive environment for LGBTQ youth and January 7th through Midnight, February 2nd; winter fun, with plenty of lovely land to snowshoe always meet on the first and third Friday's of the their straight allies to discuss issues of coming Auction online in advance of the gala. The auction and x-country ski, and a roaring fire in the fire month. For information call 413-687-2065 out, family, school, work, and relationships among goes live at 8 a.m. January 7th and closes at mid- place. (Bring your own snowshoes, skis and (MA) EMERGENCY CONTRACEPTION (EC) is their peers. Another group meets in Saratoga night February 2nd, the night of the gala. To poles) Not a Men’s Program sponsored event. Springs at 624 Broadway every other access the online auction: www.umassfinearts- NOW available without a prescription at all FMI: [email protected] for directions. Wednesday, a group in Hudson at 742 Warren St. center.cmarket.com. Price for the Gala event is Tapestry Health Services sites. (413) 586-2539. (VT) TRANSGENDER SUPPORT: January 20, every other Wednesday, and a group in $100 p/p and includes a $25 tax-deductible con- 5:30-8:30 p.m. Meeting in Brattleboro the third (MA) MATURE LESBIAN SUPPORT GROUP; Schoharie County that meets twice per month. tribution. FMI: 413.545.3671. For tickets: Sunday of every month. Open to anyone whose FMI: Q Diamond (518) 462-6138. 413.545.2511 or online at fineartscenter.com. Group for women 55+ meets monthly at the identity or expression doesn't fit neatly into the Northampton Council on Aging at 240 Main St., at (NY) Confidential HIV Testing; first Wednesday (VT) BOWLING: January 7; 7 p.m, at gender binary, including transpeople of all sexual 6 p.m.; second Monday of each month. of each month; 6-8:30 p.m.; Provided by Project Brattleboro Bowl, Brattleboro VT. Join bowlers at orientations/ identities. Not a Men’s Program Brattleboro Bowl on Putney Road. You’ll rent your (MA) DISCUSSION GROUP FOR LESBIANS H.O.P.E., a program of the AIDS Council of event. FMI: Benjamin Robin: robin@benjamin- Northeastern New York. Testing offered at the own shoes, and we split the lane costs between robin.net 40+ meets every Wednesday from 6 p.m. to 8 CDGLCC, 332 Hudson Ave., Albany. FMI: 518- all attendees. p.m. at the Stonewall Center at UMass. Topics (VT) CONNECTIONS MAILING FUN: January 462-6138. (VT) BEAR NIGHT: January 9, Doors open at 5 chosen by group consensus the previous week. 22, 6 p.m. at the APSV office, 67 Main Street, 4th p.m., the Ceilidh House, Westmoreland NH. The This is a warm and welcoming group of intelligent LGBTQ TEA DANCE AT DANCE NORTHAMPTON. Floor, Brattleboro. Fold, stuff, seal, stamp, laugh. Second Sunday of every month; 3-6 PM; Ceilidh House holds BEAR NIGHT every second Pizza provided! Directions at the top of the next women. Information email to: $8 (includes lesson at 3:00) Wednesday. The Pub is not normally open on column. [email protected] Wednesdays, so this is a private gay night. Doors FMI: www.dancenorthampton.com . (VT) COMEDY IMPROV: January 25, 7 p.m., (MA) OLDER LESBIAN DISCUSSION GROUPS; open at 5 p.m., DJ music begins at 7:30 p.m., and (NY) Out Dancing (for the LGBTQ community); the pub will be open until midnight. www.ceilid- Michael Gigante’s, 31 Frog Hill, Brattleboro, VT. Amherst/NoHo Area. New members accepted on every Wednesday evening; 7 to 8 p.m.; Saratoga hhouse.net Not a Men’s Program event. Back by popular demand! Improv is easier than space-available basis. If enough interest, new SAVOY, 7 Wells St, Saratoga Springs, NY. FMI you think… it’s all in the prompts. Everyone can (VT) CORE GROUP: January 10, 6pm Potluck, groups may form. FMI: 413-247-3257 or 413-253- call: 518-587-5132. http://saratogasavoy.home- do it. With your hosts Michael Gigante and 6:30 p.m. Group Discussion, at the Menspace, 50 3049. stead.com/files/outdancing.html Brandon Peterson, come join in the silliness. Elliot Street, Brattleboro VT. Help guide the Men’s Both hosts are skilled, trained improv instigators (VT) MEN'S SUPPORT GROUP; Any male 18 or (CT) Every Sunday; ALL LGBT YOUTH to the Program. Join us for a great potluck and then conductors, and make this event comfortable and older; an opportunity for men to share their expe- Rainbow Room; at the Hartford Gay & Lesbian conversation about the program. Actively seek- hilarious for all. riences, thoughts, and feelings about life's jour- Health Collective; from 3-6 p.m.; 1841 Broad ing new members. Street, Hartford, CT; for LGBT youth and allies. (NY) MELISSA FERRICK WITH SPECIAL ney. Support group not a therapy group. Free. (VT) BOOK GROUP: January 10, 7 p.m., at the The Rainbow Room is a drop-in space for LGBT GUEST CHRIS PUREKA THE LINDA: January Every Tuesday, 6:30-8:30 p.m., Brattleboro, VT. Menspace, 50 Elliot Street, Brattleboro VT. The youth up to 21 years old … Come hang out at 26, WAMC's Performing Arts Studio, 339 Central book for January is HOTEL DE DREAM, Edmund FMI: 802-258-3914. Rainbow Room. Ave, Albany, NY. $23. Call 518.465.5233 to order (MA) JOIN EMAIL GROUP FOR LGBT PAR- White’s new book. FMI: Curtis, 802-254-2400. tickets. This Event is supported by: The New York ENTS in the Pioneer Valley area at (MA) TransForming Families – Transgender (Yes, there are two events on Thursday, January State Music Fund, established by the New York http://groups.yahoo.com/group/lgbt_parents_pio- Support Group; Parents, partners, children and 10, at the Menspace. We have two rooms.) State Attorney General at Rockefeller their transgender loved ones. neer_valley/ for exchanging information, chatting (NY) MOVIE NIGHT: January 11, “The Philanthropy Advisors; and by the Capital District Topic/discussion/support group meets twice a about our families, and organizing get-togethers Watermelon Woman;” CDGLCC, 332 Hudson Gay and Lesbian Community Council. month; Wednesdays, 7:30 – 9 p.m. in Hadley. and play-dates. Ave., Albany, NY, 7:00 PM, FREE! FMI: www.transformingfamilies.org or 413-522- (VT) LEATHER GUY POTLUCK: January 26, (MA, NY, CT & VT) DISCRIMINATION 0522 (VT) BEAR POTLUCK: January 12, 6:30pm, at 6:30pm, Menspace, 50 Elliot Street, Brattleboro, BECAUSE YOU ARE QUEER? Call The the Menspace, 50 Elliot Street, Brattleboro VT. VT. If you’re into or interested in Leather/BDSM, (MA) Free Breast Cancer Services; Cooley Rainbow Times, 413-204-8959; 518-391-2617. The bears have decided to get together again. come meet with guys who share that interest. Dickinson; Women can select therapy services Bring a dish to share and come with ideas about (NY) Bisexual Brunch; First and third Sundays Bring a dish to share, whether you’re a fancier or such as acupuncture, aromatherapy, therapeutic how and where this group might continue to get of the month, 11 a.m. - 1 p.m. at the Rainbow a bear. touch, healing music, healing touch, Reiki, Reiki, together. Cafe, 332 Hudson Ave., Albany. FMI: Viktoria Peggy Huddleston’s Prepare for Surgery, Heal (MA) TRANSCEND: A SUPPORT GROUP FOR 518-438-6315. Faster™, self-hypnosis/guided imagery and ther- THE TRANS COMMUNITY; January 13, 7-8:30 (VT) LET’S TALK “HEALTH & WELLBEING”: January 30, 7-8:30 p.m.; Menspace, 50 Elliot (NY) Bagel Bunch; Tuesdays; 10:30 a.m.; Older apeutic massage by CD employees that hold cer- p.m.; South Congregational Church, 110 South Street, Brattleboro VT. gay men’s social and discussion group. tifications in these therapy techniques. FMI” 413- Street, Pittsfield, MA; Transcend is an informal Bruegger’s, Hannaford Plaza, Central Ave., 582-2424. place for trans people to come together and share (NY) MOVIE NIGHT: February 8, “Get On the their experience. BSCC will provide facilitators Albany. (MA) EAST COAST FEMALE-TO-MALE Bus,” CDGLCC, 332 Hudson Ave., Albany, NY. and light refreshments. Confidential, free and GROUP (ECFTMG); 2nd Sunday of every 7:00 p.m., FREE! (NY) Capital Pride Singers; Mondays @ 7 p.m.; open to any trans person who wishes to come. month from 3:00 to 6:00 p.m. All meetings are LGBT/LGBTaffirming; mixed chorus; St. FMI: BSCC Infoline: 413-822-7268 (MA) BENEFIT EVENT FEATURING THE Andrew’s, Episcopal Church, 10 No. Main St., held at Bet's house: FMI: 413.584.7616 or email: ILLUSTRIOUS KATE BORNSTEIN; Feb. 8 2008; Albany, 12203; FMI: 435-4636. betpower@yahoo. com; FTMs or SOFFAs who (MA) COMING OUT TRANS TO PEOPLE 7 p.m.; Weinstein Auditorium at Smith College; have never come to one of the meetings should CLOSE TO US; January 13; 3:00 to 6:00 p.m. Tickets: $3/Smith College students, $5/ students, (NY) Capital District Prime Timers; Provides call and introduce themselves to Bet before How has coming out as transgender, transsexu- $10/general public. Benefit for Bet Power, social, cultural, and recreational opportunities for attending. Meetings are open to ALL masculine- al, or gender queer or starting your transition founder and facilitator of the East Coast Female mature gay and bisexual men. Open to men age identified, female-born personsour significant process (however you define that) affected peo- to Male Group. FMI: [email protected] 21+. FMI: [email protected] or CDPT 595 others, family, and allies. ple close to you?Come share your experiences New Loudon Rd #202 Latham NY 12110 and resources or tools that may have helped (NY) GAY BINGO: Feb 9, 7:30 p.m.; Hartford Marriott Rocky Hill, 100 Capital Boulevard; Rocky (NY) Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Men (VT) Third Sunday of Every Month; in Brattleboro, you in coming out trans. FMI: 413.584.7616 or Hill, CT; $20; Over $500 in cash and prizes; 6:30- Support Group; Mondays; 7 p.m.; Support group Open to anyone whose identity or expression email: betpower@yahoo. com doesn't fit neatly into the gender binary, 7:30 p.m. Cocktail Hour; Cash Bar/Concessions. for GBT men to talk about coming out, sex, reli- (NY) PRIDE PLANNING COMMITTEE MEETING: including transpeople of all genders and sexual (MA) GLBT INSPIRATIONAL SEMINARS: gion, dating, relationships, and other issues January 15, CDGLCC, 332 Hudson Ave., Albany, orientations. FMI: Benjamin Robin: robin@ben- February 16, Inspirational seminars honoring our affecting men in the GBT Community; CDGLCC NY 6:00 p.m. FMI: [email protected] or just jaminrobin.net community. Join us on February 16th for our one @ 332 Hudson Avenue in Albany. FMI: Q come to the next meeting if you are interested in day 'reclaiming your connection' seminar in Diamond at (518) 462-6138 or (NY) Ask-A-Lawyer Legal Clinic: Serving the helping to make Capital Pride 2008 bigger and Sherborn, MA. FMI: Sue Call 978-257-8003 or e-mail [email protected]. LGBT community Geri Pomerantz, Esq. and Anne better than ever! [email protected] (NY) Lesbian and Bisexual Women's Support Reynolds Copps, Esq.; 5:00 - 7:00 p.m.; FREE legal consultations to the LGBT community on (VT) SPIRITUALITY: January 18, 7pm, the Group; every other Tuesday; 7 p.m.; Designed Menspace, 50 Elliot Street, Brattleboro VT. Open MORE CALENDAR OF EVENTS ON PAGE 17 for multi-cultural lesbian and bisexual women domestic disputes, orders of protection, name changes, wills, family law, discrimination, and discussion of men’s spirituality/practice. This who are questioning their sexuality, recovering month we’ll read and discuss a chapter of EAT, Submit your non-profit calendar event/s* to [email protected] or [email protected] *Certain restrictions apply. Small for-profit events/groups, 35 words or less, are considered for a small fee. Large/for-profit events are not considered. All submissions appear online. www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Jan. 3 - February 6, 2008 • 17 Connecticut Connection

Planning underway for New England’s HELP WANTED IN HARTFORD, CONNECTICUT first Transgender Pride March & Rally NORTHAMPTON, MA—Transgender people “We hope that the march and rally will help and their allies from Massachusetts, educate others about the lives and experiences Connecticut, Vermont, New Hampshire, of transgender people and the need for protec- Rhode Island, Maine, and eastern New York tive legislation,” added Robyn Laferriere, state have announced plans to hold the first another steering committee member. New England Transgender Pride March and According to the mission statement, the Rally. The event will take place on Saturday, organizers “seek to educate and build aware- June 7, 2008, in Northampton, Massachusetts. ness of the movement against gender-based The rally will assemble at 11:00 a.m. at the discrimination” and “promote self-acceptance Bridge Street School. Marchers will step off and acceptance of our whole identities and at noon and proceed down Main Street for a lives.” It states, “We gather to celebrate and rally at 1:00 p.m. at Veterans Field. affirm our individuality, diversity, and “We feel a march and rally are necessary strength.” because transgender people are often misun- Hundreds of transgender people and sup- Looking for LOVE? Turn to the PERSONALS on page 23 derstood and denied basic civil rights in much porters from throughout New England and of society,” states Bet Power, a member of the beyond are expected to attend the event. One CT Neighborhood Organizations Transgender Pride steering committee. Power of the rally speakers will be Leslie Feinberg, a AIDS Testing: www.guardinhealth.org Runaway Switchboard: (773) 880-9860Connecticut noted that Massachusetts and Connecticut do pioneering transgender activist and the author Gay Father’s Group: (203) 938-2881Hartford Women's Education and Legal Fund (CWEALF): 135 not have laws that prohibit discrimination in of a number of influential books, including Community Center: (860) 724-5542CT Freedom to Marry Broad Street, Hartford, CT 06105 - 860.247.6090 Info. and employment, housing, and public accommo- Stone Butch Blues, Transgender Warriors, and Coalition: (203) 791-9553Love Makes a Family: www.lmf- Referral program: (800) 479-2949 or Greater Hartford dations based on an individual’s gender iden- Drag King Dreams. Other speakers and enter- ct.org (860) 525-7777Married Lesbian Support Group: 524-0601 - Statewide women's rights organization working tity or expression. In part, the rally will call tainers will be announced in the next few [email protected] (203) 430-9227 to end discrimination and hate crimes; provides free legal attention to gender rights bills making their months. Married Men’s Bisexual Support Group of Hartford: information and referral to the LGBT community. way through the two state legislatures. (860)264-5605Metropolitan Community Church of New XX Club (Twenty Club): Rev. Cannon Jones - 45 Church Haven: (203) 397-2312New Haven Gay & Lesbian Street Hartford , CT 06141-0387 - (860)646-8651 - Povides Center: www.nhglcc.org; (203) 387-2252 knowledgeable info., and ongoing peer support to trans- More Jan. & Feb. Calendar of Events from page 16 PFLAG Danburry: www.pflag.org; (203) 797- sexuals. 2nd and 4th Saturdays of the month, 2 -5 p.m. (MA) January 2; BSCC POTLUCK DINNER; All are welcome. 4743Connecticut ’s Kids: (203) 256-8414 connecticuT View (cTView): A Transgender social and Senior Lesbians Happily at Play (SLAPHAPS): Kathy support club, for the TV, TG, TS, CD, both male and 7:00 p.m.; Unitarian-Universalist Church;175 (MA) February 5;BSCC POTLUCK DINNER; (203) 929-8113 female. Monthly meeting in New Haven as well as e-mem- Wendell Avenue, Pittsfield, MA. Open to the 7:00 p.m.; Unitarian-Universalist Church,175 True Colors CT: www.ourtruecolors.org; (888) 565- bership, and more. A no dues club, with all the frills; GLBTQI community and friends. Bring a main Wendell Avenue, Pittsfield, MA. Open to the 5551National www.transgender.org/ctv/ dish, salad, veggie or dessert to share. GLBTQI community and friends. Bring a main Beverages provided. PLEASE NOTE: We now dish, salad, veggie or dessert to share. have a sign-up sheet for volunteers to help set Beverages provided. Again, volunteers are Meet new friends in CT, have a great time, see page 24 up, host (welcome newcomers), serve and clean needed to set up, host, serve and clean up. See up after the potluck. Jan. 2 for details. (MA) January 13; "TRANSCEND" MEETING; (MA) February 10; "TRANSCEND" MEETING; 7:00 - 8:30 p.m.; South Congregational Church, 7:00 - 8:30 p.m.; South Congregational Church, Pittsfield, MA. Monthly support/social group Pittsfield, MA. Monthly support/social group meeting for the Trans community. Sponsored by meeting for the Trans community. Sponsored by BSCC. FMI call the Infoline: 413-822-7268 (new BSCC. FMI call the Infoline: 413-822-7268 (new number!). number!). (MA) January 19; HIKE/CROSS-COUNTRY SKIING, SNOWSHOE TREK; Meet at noon at (MA) February 23. HIKE. Noon; Meet at back of the Allendale Parking Lot, Pittsfield, MA for car- Price Chopper parking lot in Lee and car pool to pooling to the Dorothy Wright Sanctuary in Peru. hike in Monterey. Dress for the weather and con- ditions. All are welcome.

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1764 Litchfield Turnpike • Woodbridge, CT 06525 • www.ippi.org 18 • Jan. 3 - February 6, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com QReviews Struggles continue: From the closet to the courts By: Marcia M. Gallo, Ph.D*./TRT Special and she is unsparing in her criticism of any strategies changed over time from its incep- Five years later, despite the huge increase person or institution whom she believes holds tion as a small secret club in San Francisco in by 1977 in lesbian publications, books like ctivist, educator, writer, public rela- any of us "minorities" – sexual noncon- 1955 to its growth as a national lesbian rights From the Closet to the Courts were still tions professional—former formists, women, people of color, immi- organization with more than a dozen chapters unique. In addition to telling her own story, ADaughters of Bilitis leader Ruth grants, civil rights and peace activists—back. throughout the U.S. by the late 1960s. DOB Simpson was courageous in publishing a Simpson has packed a lot of living into the "How do we fight the battles we must wage New York, founded by legendary gay rights scathing critique of societal bigotry against last four decades, and she gives us the benefit against the burgeoning tide of right-wing nut- activist Barbara Gittings along with Marion gay people and women that extended to racial of her experiences and insights in From the tery, the apathy and seeming disinterest of Glass in 1958, usually was one of the most and ethnic minorities. She also did not hesi- Closet to the Courts, 30th Anniversary political moderates, and the un-invigorated action-oriented of DOB's local groups during tate to expose government Edition (Take RootMedia 2007). interference—from name-and-badge-number First published in 1977 by The Viking As a I am to my ; as a accounts of harassment on the part of the New Press, Simpson's updated first-person account homosexual obligated own people York Police Department to disruptive tech- of "The Lesbian Transition" from the late woman I am responsible to feminist principles; as a human niques that were traced to the highest levels of 1960s through the 1970s is bracketed and the F.B.I. and other federal agencies. Her embraced by commentary showing its contin- being I am dedicated to the basic right of human dignity. political sensibility is that of a lifelong activist uing relevance. Heralded both by past path- with a worldview expanded by decades of breaking lesbian and feminist leaders Ti- —Ruth Simpson, Author, From the Closet to the Courts struggles with the powers-that-be: "(W)hen Grace Atkinson, Bella Abzug and Kate DOB began to transform from a social gather- Millett, as well complacency of way too many 'others?'" she its two decades of lesbian organizing; under ing place into a politically active organization, as current peo- asks. Her response, in part, is central to our Simpson's leadership, however, DOB New it became the target of intensified harassment, Gay Best Sellers* ple's journalist LGBT movement, now as in the past: "... York became part of the upsurge of street especially when it organized activity in con- Amy Goodman what works best is never accepting others' actions, protests, and media confrontations junction with other groups," she observes; she 1. A Very Serious Person and gay advo- negative image of you and rather, with pride that followed the queer Stonewall Inn anti- then applies this essential lesson to progres- 2. East Side Story cate Cheryl and minority smarts, show people what a police riots in Greenwich Village in June, sive political activism in general. 3. Boy Crush Jacques, good person you are." But that's not all. 1969. “As a homosexual I am obligated to my 4. Naked Boys Singing! Simpson charts Simpson has never been one to rely solely on Her book—a primer on lesbianism, empha- own people; as a woman I am responsible to 5. Surveillance 24/7 a course for individual personal responses to institutional sizing the many myths masquerading as feminist principles; as a human being I am lesbian libera- and political issues. homophobic "facts" that surround female dedicated to the basic right of human dignity," 6. Bam Bam & Celeste tion that situ- As leader of the New York Daughters of same-sex love – came at a time when women she began her book in 1977. In 2007, she con- 7. Rock Haven ates our strug- Bilitis (DOB), she helped mobilize the who loved other women—or thought they cludes, "(A)s was true more than thirty years 8. Outing Riley gles within the homophile-era women's social and education- might—had very few reliable, reaffirming ago, achieving dignity and justice is still up to 9. The Bubble broader context al network during the fiery days of lesbian sources of information available to them. us, So let's do it." I can only hope that, for 10. Boys Love of progressive and gay militancy in the early 1970s. Lesbian activists' first-person accounts were decades more, Ruth Simpson will be fighting international Although DOB always saw its mission as rarer still; founding Daughters Del Martin and the good fight—on as many fronts as neces- * By wolfevideo.comhuman rights, inclusive of social change, its tactics and Phyllis Lyon had written Lesbian/Woman in sary—and spurring us all onward. 1972, and New York DOB leader Kay (Tobin) * Marcia M. Gallo, Ph.D. is the author of Lahusen edited The Gay Crusaders with Different Daughters: A History of the Randy Wicker the same year. Both of these Daughters of Bilitis and the Rise of the works wove personal "coming-out" stories Lesbian Rights Movement (Carroll and Graf, and tales of early gay movement organizing 2006) , and an Assistant Professor of History, into a narrative of lesbian and gay— and, for Lehman College, Bronx NY. Martin and Lyon, feminist liberation. First openly gay president of Black Journalists group dies NEW YORK (AP)—Thomas Morgan III, gled with how to represent NABJ without the first openly gay president of the National embarrassing the organization but while also Association of Black Journalists and a long- being true to myself. I was elected as a black time newsman at The New York Times, has journalist, not a gay one.'' died. He was 56. After graduating from the University of The Brooklyn resident died early Monday Missouri and completing his service with the morning, possibly of a heart attack, while vis- U.S. Air Force in 1975, Morgan worked at iting the family of his partner, Thomas Ciano, The Miami Herald and The Washington Post. in Southampton, Mass., Ciano said He then joined the Times, where he rose to Wednesday. assistant metro editor and also received a “He was a man of many different qualities Nieman Fellowship at Harvard University in and talents,'' Ciano said. ``He cared a lot about 1989. educating young journalists and the preven- He retired from the newspaper in 1994, tion of AIDS. Working to house and care for “largely to concentrate on his personal fight homeless people. Pottery. Gardening. Politics. against AIDS,'' according to the profile. Those were his passions.'' “Tom was a man of passion and compas- Morgan was NABJ's president from 1989 to sion,'' NABJ President Barbara Ciara said on 1991. Even though he won the election hand- her organization's Web site. ``He had the abil- ily, it was somewhat heated, according to a ity to walk into a room divided and help those 2004 profile of Morgan on the NABJ's Web who held opposing viewpoints find common site. ground. His loss is not only a personal one for “It was painful,” Morgan recalled. ``I strug- me, but a great loss for NABJ.'' www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Jan. 3 - February 6, 2008 • 19 Holiday Open House Highlights 20 • Jan. 3 - February 6, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com QueerWood Deep Inside Hollywood: New projects under way By: Romeo San Vicente* shows (House, Monk), but will renegotiate his love. No word on how explicitly sexual this image in the dark indie comedy Chronic one will be, but “very” seems a likely possi- Sarah Jessica Parker Town. Reported to be a character study (with bility. a title appropriated from an R.E.M. album) Thinks Smart Shades of Rex Lee about a lonely cab driver in Fairbanks, Anyone unfamiliar As Lloyd, Jeremy Piven's assistant on Alaska, the film features Butler in a support- with the modern phe- Entourage, gay actor Rex Lee has carved out ing role as a character named Blow Job. What nomenon that is gay a hilarious niche for himself. His character this all means, exactly, is anyone's guess, but male worship of Sarah stuck around and gained a higher profile it certainly can't make a guy's life easy to have Jessica Parker need thanks to Lee's wicked comic timing and pop- that name on his driver's license. The film only check out the queer blogs' frenzied chat- ularity with fans. Soon, though, he'll jump debuts at Sundance in January with a theatri- ter about the impending Sex and the City from the small to the big screen, appearing in cal release to follow. movie or the squealing, tear-filled reception the independent feature Shades of Ray. A seri- the actor received when she popped in unex- La Bruce Sees Dead People ocomic romance, Shades stars Chuck main pectedly as guest judge on Bravo's Project Look up “iconoclast” in the dictionary and man Zachary Levi as Ray, a mixed-race, Runway. It's safe to say that her comings and you might just find a photo of bad-boy American-born son of a Pakistani father and goings are must-see media events for lots of Canadian director Bruce La Bruce. Coming Caucasian mother. As his parents separate and gay guys. And her fans will have more rea- along at the time of the rise of the so-called his father moves in with him, Ray must deal sons to squeal when she stars in another "New Queer Cinema" in the early 1990’s, La with his own romantic and racial issues. upcoming feature, Smart People. Due to pre- Bruce was considered an outsider even from Sounds heartfelt and sincere, but Romeo's miere at January's Sundance Film Festival, that movement. His hilarious and deliberately guessing that Lee's job will be to pop up from the film stars Dennis Quaid as a widowed pro- raw, profane films (Super 8 ½, Hustler White, time to time with just the right punchline for fessor who finds new love with Parker and Raspberry Reich) guaranteed him notoriety an awkward moment. As HBO audiences reunites with an adopted brother, played by and gave film geeks plenty to discuss, but also know, he's an expert at that. Thomas Haden Church (Sideways). Ellen placed him squarely outside the mainstream. Page (Juno) co-stars as Quaid's daughter. SARAH JESSICA PARKER That's a place he seems to revel in as he * Romeo San Vicente's own entourage is hot- Smart Parker fans won't have long to wait for professionally back in the 1990’s when it was moves back and forth between art films and ter than anything on TV. He can be reached the 2008 release. still an iffy career move. That he played it gay pornography, often overlapping the two care of this publication or at Butler Moves to Chronic Town super-straight as "Bulldog" on that show was genres. The evidence? His latest project, Otto: [email protected]. Dan Butler was always a welcome sight on an even cooler move. Since Frasier, the Up With Dead People, is about a gay zombie episodes of Frasier. The gay actor came out actor's been seen in guest spots on other roaming the land of the living in search of www.therainbowtimesnews.com Campaign from Page 12 tax-filing requirement for older workers mak- $7,500 per taxpayer to defray health insur- ing under $50,000. A mortgage-interest credit ance costs. Seek spending caps of 5 percent or could be used by lower-income homeowners more on civilian agencies; slash bureaucracy who do not take the mortgage interest deduc- by rehiring only half the number of employ- tion because they do not itemize their taxes. ees who retire. Raise corporate taxes and the top rate on cap- _McCain: Opposed some of Bush’s tax cuts ital gains and dividends to pay for the cuts. because they were not wedded to spending _Richardson: Has supported cuts in income cuts, but now says the tax cuts should be made and capital gains taxes as governor. permanent. Eliminate alternative minimum ___ tax. REPUBLICANS would generally extend _Huckabee: Replace system of taxing income Bush’s tax cuts, which could cost $2.3 trillion and investment with 23 percent national sales to keep in tax on goods and services, cushioned for place until lower-income people and with rebates for 2017. essential purchases. Additionally: _Romney: Tax breaks to those earning less _Giuliani: Cut than $200,000, including eliminating capital corporate tax gains, interest and dividend taxes for most. rate to 25 per- Estimated cost of $32 billion a year to be paid cent from 35 in part by cutting growth of federal spending. percent, elim- Eliminate estate tax. inate estate _Thompson: Let people choose between cur- Lesbian Best Sellers* tax. Hold the rent system or one with flat rate of 10 percent line on mar- on first $50,000 of individual income or 1. The Gymnast ginal tax rates $100,000 of joint income, and 25 percent on 2. When Night is Falling or reduce income above those amounts. Exempt family 3. She Likes Girls 2 them, and of four from tax on first $39,000 of income, 4. Loving Annabelle establish a and more than double standard deduction. The 5. The L Word: Season 4 permanent simplified option would contain no other tax 6. Mango Kiss child tax cred- credits or deductions, and would retain 15 7. Personal Best it. Index the percent tax rate on capital gains. Also, end the 8. Desert Hearts 2-Disc alternative estate tax and cut the top corporate tax rate to 9. For The Bible Tells Me minimum tax no more than 27 percent from 35 percent. So to inflation. 10. Sonja Income tax Happy New Year from our deduction of TRT family to yours! * By wolfevideo.com www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Jan. 3 - February 6, 2008 • 21 Trans Talk & More East Coast FTM Group FAQs Q Puzzle: “The Golden Rule” n a recent interview with Bet Power, houses the Sexual founder of the East Coast FTM Group, Minorities Archives) in Ihe speaks out about what it means to be Northampton, MA. FTM, the legacy of support groups for the ECFTMG was the very transgender poplulation and the need that first support group solely such a group fulfills. for female-to-male trans- Q. What is ECFTMG? gender [people] on the A. ECFTMG is a free, peer support group east coast. since 1992 for the full spectrum of masculine- In the past 15 years, identified, female-born persons: female-to- BET POWER ECFTMG has inspired male transgender, transsexuals, cross- the formation of many dressers, gender-queers, dual gendered, gen- other support groups and organizations for der blended, questioning, and our significant FTMs throughout MA, VT, NH, NY, and CT. others. We are all-inclusive, safe, confiden- Q. Is ECFTMG therapy and is there a fee to tial, and nonjudgmental. We respect the right participate? of each of us to decide our individual path, A. No, it is a confidential peer support whatever that may be. We don’t believe that group focused around a topic discussion and there is any one “right way” to move forward there is no charge. and live happily; rather, our diverse situations Q. Is ECFTMG open to SOFFAs (signifi- can be joined together in united community. It cant others, family, friends, and allies of is this community that we build and for this FTMs)? community that we exist. A. Yes, most meetings – except when spec- Q. Why did you start ECFTMG? ified for FTMs only – are open to SOFFAs. A. Prior to 1983, I had lived for a decade as And male to females (MTF’s) are welcome to a stone butch in the lesbian community, all the meetings except those for FTM’s only. while knowing I felt like a man inside. In Q. Are FTM’s under 18 permitted to attend 1983, I received from Louis Graydon Sullivan meetings? in the mail his groundbreaking booklet, A. Yes, if they have a signed permission let- Information for the Female-to-Male ter from a parent or legal guardian and should Crossdresser and Transsexual. Lou had sent it be accompanied by an adult. to the Sexual Minorities Archives with a note Q. Besides the monthly ECFTMG meetings, saying that perhaps some visitors to the is the organization involved in the trans com- Archives would like to read the information. I munity in other ways? Across Down read the booklet in a few hours, then called A. Yes, ECFTMG frequently sponsors or 1 Spartacus and others 1 What a pair of drawers does 2 One who has come out Lou, and soon flew out to San Francisco to co-sponsors activism and events in the trans 6 Checks for STDs 11 Wine region of Michelangelo's land 3 Tongue of Tehran meet him. Lou Sullivan was the first female- community, including the annual Transgender 15 Porn director Chi Chi 4 Circumcision performers, e.g. to-male transsexual I had ever met. Meeting Day of Remembrance and the upcoming New 16 Veronica's Closet star 5 One who looks into crystal balls him told me that I wasn’t the only one on the England Transgender Pride March & Rally. 17 Ian McKellen and Elton John 6 Powder for bottoms planet. Lou also was the father of the FTM Also, after the support group meets, people 18 Like an ACT UP protester 7 Top community in the U.S. and eventually interna- who want to continue to talk and network 19 They have tricky tongues 8 Side at Hamburger Mary's tionally, with his formation of his FTM sup- with each other, or form friendships, go out to 20 Sphincter opening? 9 Hatcher of Desperate Housewives port group in SF in the early 1980s. dinner or make plans to connect. 21 With 31-Across, Jane Rule novel 10 Part of DOS (abbr.) 11 Nutty ___ fruitcake Lou and I had a friendship through corre- I also spend a good deal of time sending out 24 Gardner of Show Boat 25 One-time Arthur Ashe rival Nastase 12 Singing Nancy spondence and phone calls after that, from news, announcements, and information about 26 Expected to come soon 13 Commits a foul a la Sue Wicks 1984 until his death from AIDS in 1991. events of interest to the trans community 27 Moth tail? 14 Word after Virgin Before he died, Lou asked me if I would con- through the ECFTMG email listserv. In addi- 29 Where they say "Ooh! Long!" 22 Much ___ About Nothing tinue his FTM group, something I couldn’t do tion, I frequently answer questions that come 31 See 21-Across 23 Cut since I had a career in the Boston area and a to me by email and phone about local area 34 Gaydar, e.g. 28 ISP invested in PlanetOut Partners relationship there, too. Leadership of Lou’s practitioners and resources for transgenders. 35 Direction in a James Beard cookbook 30 Ref. for Lytton Strachey FTM group was taken on by Jamison Green We are currently working on building a 36 Barrie's Wendy, e.g. 31 Legal matter 32 Single, to Glenn Burke and continues to grow to this day as FTM website for ECFTMG, which will be located 37 With 51—Across, Jane Rule novel 41 They're good for tricks 33 "Can't Get It Out of My Head" rock gp. International. But upon Lou’s death, I felt at www.ecftm.org (it is under construction 45 Tin Woodman's concern 35 Rupert Everett's The Next ___ Thing alone again, not knowing any other FTMs in and not yet live). The website will provide 46 Become husband and husband on the fly 38 Bill written by Alice Paul my local area. I needed a place where I could information about the monthly ECFTMG 51 See 37—Across 39 Kerouac's Big ___ regularly meet and talk with guys just like me. meetings, regional events and announcements 53 Novelist Peter 40 Butch's mate So, in early 1992, I started ECFTMG, and of interest to the trans community, links to 55 King in Jesus Christ Superstar 41 Button or Bean we originally alternated the meeting between resources, and a New England transgender 56 Some sex-toy batteries 42 The Wapshot Chronicle author Watertown, MA (Boston area) and 57 Lie alongside 43 Most like a Kevin Williamson movie 44 The L Word network Northampton, MA. Eventually, meetings con- 58 Non-Judy garland See East Coast on p. 22 59 Jane Rule novel 47 Greenery tinued to be held only in my home (which also 64 Eater of forbidden fruit, and others 48 Uranus, to the sun 66 Your place or mine 49 Come down hard 67 Language that may be vulgar 50 Threesome of England, France, and Russia 68 New Age composer John 52 Childcare writer LeShan Support the advertisers who 69 Bert's longtime companion 53 One of Ours novelist Willa 70 One who often screws actors 54 It hangs from your butt support our communities! 71 Ziegfeld Follies costume designer 56 Clarinet-blower Shaw 72 Gay rodeo target 60 Some escorts want them up front Are YOU paying attention? 73 Come together 61 Pastry with fruit, perhaps 62 Sea eagle 63 Cowboy actor Jack TRT now also in NY! 65 Cho's Pink as the Day ___ Was Born Solution of Puzzle on Page 22 22 • Jan. 3 - February 6, 2008 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Queer Voices from NY Lesbian Notions: Moving Beyond 2007’s Top Stories By: Libby Post* 6. The _Grey's Anatomy_ drama-rama What all this really said to me was that 777,000 same-sex couples living together in s a member of 5. Gays are nonexistent in Iran, according to those 350 groups now need to step up to the the United States are really no different from the National the country's president, Mahmoud plate and educate, educate, educate the public the country's millions of married, straight ALesbian and Ahmadinejad and the politicians on trans issues. Now, if couples. We're demographically and geo- Gay Journalists' 4. We're declared immoral by Joint Chiefs of that really happened next year, it would be a graphically diverse, just like they are. Other Association, I got to Staff chairman General Peter Pace (he's now top story for 2008. similarities? Both types of couples are active- vote on the top LGBT the former Joint Chief - although he didn't The LOGO presidential forum gave us just ly involved in the economy, have similar eco- stories for 2007. step down because of furor around his a taste of what is to come. For me, the big nomic resources, and are raising children. The guys over at CBS remarks) story is how early the race started and how When the media start focusing on the reali- News on LOGO asked us our opinions, com- 3. The LOGO presidential forum fatigued voters may be when we actually get ty of our lives rather than focusing on how piled the info, and then released their findings 2. ENDA drama-rama-rama-rama to November 4, 2008. There's no clear radical we're different, the story of who we are will on December 8 during their "2007 Year in 1. Larry Craig's toe-tapping Christian right candidate. The GOP seems to finally be written. But the big story will come Review" special report. Looking at this list, most are stories that be in disarray. If we, as a community, keep when there's no story at all - when we will be From a purely news point of view - what got impacted us negatively, not stories that really our priorities straight (no pun intended) and considered equal to heterosexuals in all facets the most play on broadcast, the most column tell what we as a community are doing to work for whomever the Democratic nominee of our lives, and when being lesbian or gay is inches in print, the most pixels on blogs - the move ahead. is, we're bound to elect the next president of a nonstory. top 10 stories weren't that surprising. A quick The ENDA catastrophe showed just how the United States. I don't know about you, but that's the story run-down reads like this: fractured our activist community really is. We did it in 1992 when Bill Clinton came I'm waiting to read. 10. Gay Pride violence The Human Rights Campaign was painted as into office. We can do it again in 2008. Now, 9. Susan Stanton fired from her job as city a big, bad liar, while 350 or so other LGBT I'm no Pollyanna. I know the Dems aren't per- * Libby Post is the founding chair of the manager of Largo, Fla., after transitioning groups banded together to kill legislation that fect. The failure of the Matthew Shepard Act Empire State Pride Agenda and a political from a male to a female didn't include the transgender community. is indicative of how fragile their majority in commentator on public radio, on the Web, 8. Elizabeth Edwards breaks with husband Various polls have shown we're all over the both houses really is. So, one of our top sto- and in print media. She can be reached care John and supports same-sex marriage map on this one - some of us want to wait ries in 2008 should be the work we did as a of this publication or at 7. Jerry Sanders, San Diego's Republican until the political climate is right for trans community to widen that majority. [email protected]. mayor, tearfully comes out in favor of our inclusion, some say to pass the legislation Just imagine the stories that will be written marriage rights - seems his daughter is a dyke now. when a Democratic president comes into office and our legislation is passed and signed East Coast from p. 21 Couch from Page 2 into law. calendar of events and organizational meet- man tows the party line against gays and les- split in the psyche of America. As a country, Larry Craig's toe-tapping has once again ings. bians. It’s frightening to think he could be we have become more and more fragmented, painted the community as just a bunch of sex- All of this volunteer work helps to build the doing this well, and may go on to clench the forgetting the very essence of what America focused guys who would do it anywhere just transgender community and a transgender nomination. is and has always supposedly been. Liberty to get off. Not the kind of picture I want for rights movement that will hopefully become While running for US Senate in 1992, and justice for all. All men created equal. our community, and not the kind of picture a strong force for positive change in the near Huckabee wrote in an Associated Press ques- Give us your poor, your huddled masses. that reflects the diversity of who we are - and future. tionnaire: “I feel homosexuality is an aber- Freedom from tyranny. A refuge for all those that many of us just want a comfortable life Q. How can someone contact ECFTMG to rant, unnatural, and sinful lifestyle, and we in need. with the person we love. learn more, come to a meeting, or get now know it can pose a dangerous public We are all one people. Immigrants, and The Williams Institute at UCLA, the think involved? health risk.” those who have descended from immigrants; tank that is helping to write the real story A. They may email me at Just being gay poses a public health threat? that would be practically all of us. about the LGBT community, has taken a good [email protected] or call me at 413- Oh no, Mr. Huckabee was referring to his We have a responsibility to become politi- look at U.S. Census data and found that the 584-7616. more personal feelings about people with cally active, to achieve the goals the Framers * Bet Power is the Director and Curator of AIDS. He said: “If the federal government is of the Constitution set up for us. Q Puzzle Solution from P. 21 the Sexual Minorities Archives, a national truly serious about doing something with the If you’re interested in a politician who collection of LGBTI literature, history, and AIDS virus, we need to take steps that would cares about the Constitution, check out art since 1974, located in Northampton, MA. isolate the carriers of this plague.” RonPaul.com. Yeah he’s a republican. And He is also the founder of the East Coast And, just in case you didn’t get the full sen- he’s not a supporter of gay marriage. But he FTM Group, monthly peer support for the timent expressed in the abovementioned stands firm on matters that protect us all from full spectrum of masculine persons in the quotes, he goes on to complain about the fanaticism and fascism. transgender community. Bet moved to the money being spent on AIDS research as com- And ultimately, if we don’t have the Pioneer Valley from Chicago, IL in 1979 pared to other diseases, like cancer and heart Constitution, this most precious document, to after earning a Master of Arts degree in disease. He said, “In light of the extraordi- protect us, we won’t be able to discuss any Socio-Cultural Processes. A published nary funds already being given for AIDS social issues we care about in the future. Gay writer, Bet has given presentations about research, it does not seem that additional fed- concerns or not. ‘Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’? transgender issues to groups of faculty, staff, eral spending can be justified. An alternative Won’t matter. Gay marriage? Won’t matter. and students at Hampshire College, would be to request that multimillionaire ENDA? Won’t matter. University of Massachusetts/Amherst, Smith celebrities, such as Elizabeth Taylor, So, if you haven’t bothered to study the College, Mt. Holyoke College, and the Madonna and others who are pushing for positions of the people running for President University of Connecticut/Storrs, and has more AIDS funding be encouraged to give of the United States yet, I say shame on you. spoken about local LGBTI out of their own personal treasuries increased We’re at war, people – not overseas, not over history at the Historic amounts for AIDS research.” oil or weapons of mass destruction. America Jennifer L. Dexter Northampton Museum. Bet is Yeah, Liz Taylor and Madonna. Let the is struggling for its identity and the future Attorney at Law & Notary Public a female-to-male transsexual gays find their own money. Because it’s not depends on us. Every single one of us. who has chosen not to med- like the GLBT community is made up of Get involved. Get educated. And then, get Specializing in: Real Estate, Family ically transition. first-tier Americans, right? out and vote. Law, Wills, Education Law & It’s this kind of extreme prejudice that * Suzan Ambrose can be heard on her radio Criminal Law should make people like Mike Huckabee, and program, The Naked Truth, every Monday 95 State St., Suite 724 the party that accepts him, frightening and evening at 8 pm on 103.3 FM, or streaming on Single in NY? Springfield, MA 01103 dangerous. Perhaps we should quarantine the web at www.valleyfreeradio.org. For more NY Local Listings! people who think like this. Just kidding. of Suz’s thoughts, check out her website at: [email protected] Check out p. 15 And what I find most disturbing is this www.nakedtruthshow.com 413-214-7626 www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • Jan. 3 - February 6, 2008 • 23 Queer Sports & Q Classifieds GLBT Athletics: GLAF supports acceptance for all By: Dan Woog* experience, that gay athletes have, in order to a conference on counseling athletes, at his fall, Mac help others." Springfield College. Chisaboon That help was on display when former That's a lot of work for a group run entirely Tfielded an National Basketball Association player Tim by volunteers. GLAF has no directors, no anguished e-mail Hardaway spoke derisively of John Amaechi's staff, and no fund-raising. "We're strictly an sent to the Gay & coming-out. GLAF fired back with a press educational organization," Chisaboon says. Lesbian Athletics release. NBA commissioner David Stein's "It's all about giving athletes an opportunity to Foundation decision to bar Hardaway from participation network and connect with each other." (www.glaf.org). As in All-Star Weekend activities was, GLAF Recently, a basketball player e-mailed founder of the organ- said, "an appropriate 'first step' toward ridding Chisaboon. She wanted a job in the gay sports ization, which pro- the league of such inexcusable ignorance world. He told her that no such position is motes the visibility within its ranks." However, GLAF advised, available yet - but one might be in the future, and acceptance of GLBT athletes at the pro- "the NBA and others should actively speak up and it could be with GLAF. "She has the fessional, amateur, and recreational levels, he against such overt homophobia at every mindset and experience to help take us to the was used to queries from closeted players. opportunity, whether it occurs in an interview, next level," Chisaboon says. But this was different. in the locker room, or on the court." A real estate developer and broker and for- It came from the father of a gay rower. His GLAF continued: "We often look to sports mer consultant to the Young Presidents' 17-year-old son was applying to college, and stars as heroes and role models, particularly Organization, Chisaboon knows his way the man wanted to know how he could help. when they have overcome substantial barriers around a company boardroom. "Corporations He was very supportive of his son; he recog- to their success. GLAF hopes that today's are open to sponsorship," he insists. "They nized that whether the young man was out to youth can see beyond Hardaway's hateful know the importance of aligning themselves his teammates or not was a personal decision. rhetoric and instead make sport a better meri- with something like this." Something, that is, But he wanted to make sure that wherever his tocracy where we all can play according to that reaches not only GLBT athletes, but folks son went, the environment would be safe and one's ability, regardless of other factors. This, like the father of a 17-year-old rower who he could be himself. after all, is the very thing we love about wants to be sure that, in college, his gay son Chisaboon—a rower himself—forwarded sport." can be himself. the email to GLAF’s advisory board. That Chisaboon notes that "sports has huge ram- MAC CHISABOON * Dan Woog is a journalist, educator, soccer eclectic group included activists, professors, ifications on how people - including youths - tion. A second event was held a year later. In coach, gay activist, and author of the "Jocks" triathletes, an HIV-positive gymnast, Gay see the world. If GLAF can utilize our knowl- the summer of 2006, GLAF sponsored panels series of books on gay male athletes. Visit his Games organizers, a wrestler, swimmers, an edge base, we can help become a mechanism at the Outgames in Montreal and at Chicago's website at www.danwoog.com. He can be equestrian, tennis players, football players, of social change." Gay Games. reached care of this publication or at administrators, extreme sports competitors, It's taken eight years for Chisaboon to GLAF also ran a train-the-trainer session at [email protected]. skiers, business executives, and even a former develop that mechanism. In 1999, as an MBA Major League umpire. (Full disclosure: It also candidate at the Massachusetts Institute of PERSONALS includes me.) Technology, he joined students from Harvard Maybe more. Contact: Ashley at Advisory board members leaped to respond. and Boston Universities to form the Boston Women 4 women [email protected] A Brown University graduate contacted a for- Bay Blades, a gay and lesbian rowing group. Looking to meet women in the mer fraternity brother about his alma mater's As the Blades met GLBT squash players, ten- Springfield/Northampton MA area for friendship Men 4 Men program. He told the rower's father that nis players, flag football players, and bowlers, and fun! Diva's, Oz, dinner/coffee/drinks in NoHo GWM, 37, seeks companionship in the Brown was "almost assuredly" welcoming; as they formed PrideSports Boston, an umbrella or Springfield. Movies, the beach, you name it let's Northampton area. Contact: Martin at 413-527- far back as the early 1970s, there were gay group. get together and do it! Contact Kris at dolphin- 1533. Around that time, a panel discussion at [email protected] rowers, even a gay assistant coach. Someone Hey, 18 yo looking for a man in Western MA, for else offered to call college coaches directly. Harvard on the topic of gay sports drew a Looking for other women for outdoor activities; romantic relationship... under 20 ONLY. Thanks. Other respondents passed along names of gay packed house. Chisaboon and others decided biking, hiking, and cross country skiing. I like to Contact: Josh at [email protected] rowers and coaches for the father and son to to build on the energy created by organizing a cook, especially coming up with healthy tasty contact themselves. New England-wide group. Their board soon BiCurious recipes. Walks in the woods, sitting by a cozy fire, To Chisaboon, the quick, insightful replies mushroomed beyond the region. By 2003, SWBiF looking for friendship and possibly more in enjoying all life has to offer. Contact: were "a good example of how we can lever- when they hosted their first conference at Springfield/Noho area. Very new to scene and test- age the great talent, the years of personal MIT, GLAF had become a national organiza- [email protected] ing the waters. Great sense of humor and kind Hey. just checking it out - I am new to boston and heart. College educated and intelligent. Contact looking to meet some friends who like to have fun!! Ashley at [email protected] or call

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