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LENDING A HAND IN NOLA LEARNING CENTER A Reflection of Temple Sholom & FAMILIES EXPERIENCE A J-Teen Leadership’s Service Trip by Rabbi Chaya Bender VIRTUAL TRIP TO ISRAEL On Sunday, January 13, Temple Sholom Learning Center (TSLC) students were joined by their parents to participate in a unique and interactive virtual trip to Israel as part of this year’s family education programming. Families kicked-off the experience by “boarding” an El Al flight before travelling through four parts of Israel. Highlights of their trip included: a visit to Tzfat in the Galilee to create mystical craft projects; a stop at the Dead Sea to learn about salt water and meet desert animals; completing agricultural work at Kibbutz During Martin Luther King, Jr. weekend, I accompanied Sholom; exploring tunnels and archaeology in Jerusalem; and several teens from Temple Sholom and J-Teen Leadership of writing notes at the Kotel. The program ended with a lesson in Westchester on an immersive service trip to New Orleans, LA. Israeli dancing. The mission of the trip was to make a direct impact on “Teaching about Israel—its geography, history, culture, and people communities that are still struggling in the aftermath of —is done in every grade at TSLC,” said Barry Gruber, Director of Hurricane Katrina. Congregational Learning. “But by creating a virtual trip to Israel, we took learning to a whole new level. Each activity brought Israel Our weekend of service began with cleaning and organizing at to life for our families and now many students are asking if they the Adinkra NOLA School (a Louisiana home study program for can visit Israel soon!” Pre-K through 12th graders), as well as a visit to the Poydras Home to spend quality time with their senior residents. On Sunday, we assisted the non-profit SBP (formerly known as SELMA MAISEL NURSERY SCHOOL the St. Bernard Project), in finishing to build two homes that TO SEND TWO TEACHERS TO will be sold to victims of Hurricane Katrina. Our group covered 1,400 square feet of touch-ups on walls, moldings, and caulking, INTERNATIONAL EARLY CHILDHOOD and 500 square feet of cleaning, leveling and installing flooring. EDUCATION CONFERENCE Additionally, $1,000 worth of gift cards collected by the teens were donated to the future homeowners. Full-day pre-school teacher Our trip concluded with a visit to the Lower 9th Ward. We Jane Zeitler (left) and part-day volunteered with the Lower 9 Resilient by weeding 9,000 2’s teacher Kim Schweber square feet of community gardens, and also gave them (right) will represent the donated gift cards to support the local residents and the Temple Sholom Selma Maisel success of the community gardens. Nursery School this April at In addition to participating in the above community service the 2019 World Forum on projects, our group also enjoyed Shabbat services and dinner Early Care and Education in at the historic Touro Synagogue; connected with J-Teen Macao, China. Leadership alumni at the Tulane Hillel, decorated masks at

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Senior Rabbi Mitchell M. Hurvitz

Assistant Rabbi/Youth Director Chaya Bender FROM OUR RABBI Rabbi Emeritus Hillel E. Silverman

Cantor Sandy Bernstein

Hazzan Sheni/Ritual Director Ezra Konigsberg In the Book of Esther, we read: “And these • Rosh Hashanah celebrates our New Year and days of Purim shall never cease among the Yom Kippur our Day of Atonement. Executive Director Jews, and the memory of them shall never Eileen Robin But the preeminent Jewish holiday that most perish among their descendants.” commands us to do acts of kindness for others Associate Executive Director The Chazal (Sages of Blessed Memory) is Purim. This special emphasis is to note that Lori Baden asserted that when the world finally enters Purim is an especially poignant reminder to Director of Finance into a Messianic era the only Biblical holiday humanity for how it is that we are to lead our Nori Goldsmith that will still be observed will be Purim. religious lives. The Rambam (Moses Maimonides) We are specifically told that on Purim we are Nursery School Director reiterated this teaching when he wrote in to give gifts to the poor (matanot l’evionim) David Cohen the 12th century that “Purim will never be and send gifts to our fellow community Nursery School Director abolished. Even at the End of Days, when all members (mishloah manot). commemorations of our travails will not apply, Emeritus Purim—this fun, carnival-like holiday—actually the Book of Esther will be like the Five Books Phyllis Lyons is the most sacred holiday of all because it of Moses and last for all eternity.” captures the essence of what it is to be a Director of Biblical holidays have important historical religious person; to take care of those in need, Congregational Learning implications and sacred rituals that remind us and truly love your neighbor as yourself. Barry Gruber to pursue Godliness while further anchoring If these two religious principles were completely ourselves in Judaism and the Jewish People. Congregational Coordinator followed, then the world would in fact enter its Alice Schoen • Passover reminds us of our redemption from messianic era. Egyptian bondage. Manager of Communications Let’s make every day Purim—a day of joy and and Program Coordinator • Shavuot reminds us of our receiving the celebration and a day by which we assure we Gina Pernicano Torah at Mount Sinai. live our lives by the Golden Rule. • Sukkot reminds us of the booths we dwelled Chag Purim Sameach! President in while we wandered in the wilderness Ben Kriegler for forty years, making our way to the Rabbi Mitch Sisterhood Co-Presidents Promised Land. Phyllis Shapiro Randi Weingarten “Politics, Peace and Jewish IN CASE OF AN Survival in the Middle East” EMERGENCY with Yishai Fleisher, Israeli Broadcaster and International Spokesperson for RABBI MITCH CAN BE the Jewish Community of Hebron REACHED ON THE AFTER HOURS PHONE Thursday, March 28 at 7:00 pm BY CALLING Free and open to the community. Light refreshments will be served. Registration required to Alice Schoen at 203-542-7165 203-869-7191, EXT. 3 or [email protected].

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In just a few weeks, Passover will begin at sundown on Friday, • the state of being physically unrestricted and able to April 19, and end on Saturday evening, April 27. Jews throughout move easily. the United States will sit down at their Seders and recount the But after all the talk of personal freedom, religious freedom, Exodus from Egypt, the liberation of our ancestors from slavery. political freedom, etc., it is important not to forget at Passover Living in the “land of the free” makes it all the more difficult for the significance of spiritual freedom. 21st century Jews to fully grasp this experience (in addition to the In the 21st century, recognizing the benefits of the Torah’s law 3,000 years of history that separate us from the event), and yet is often made more difficult by the very freedom in which we the sages (already 1,500 years distant from Egypt) who compiled live. In the quest for multi-cultural freedom, laws that have the Haggadah insist that we must relate to the events of the strengthened the Jewish people for thousands of years are Exodus as if we ourselves had experienced them. This is the cast aside as archaic and traditions that have enriched Jewish meaning of Avadim Hayinu, the beginning of Maggid, the section generations are denounced as irrelevant. that begins the response to the four questions. Inherent in the Torah and in Jewish tradition, however, is a With this in mind, many Seder leaders use the poetry of Avadim guideline for attaining spiritual freedom. Depending on each Hayinu to open up a discussion on the meaning of freedom person, this can be a long journey or a short one. In Judaism, the to each of the participants, perhaps giving each person an greatest importance is placed on continuing to grow and to learn. opportunity to explain how they view freedom. No matter where your Seder is held, remember to take hold of the The common definition is understood: opportunity and discover the great freedom inherent in accepting • the power or right to act, speak, or think as one wants the “yoke” of Torah. And know that the doors of Temple Sholom without hindrance or restraint are always open and all are welcome to pray, learn, volunteer and • the absence of subjection to foreign domination or belong to and be part of a greater community. despotic government B’Shalom • the state of not being imprisoned or enslaved Ben Kriegler, President IN THIS ISSUE… 1st Night Interfaith From Our Rabbi ...... 2 Musical Seder Note from Our President ...... 3 Winter Programming Highlights . . . . . 4-5 Sponsored by March Calendar ...... 6 Sisterhood April Calendar ...... 7 May Calendar ...... 8 Friday, April 19 Mazel Tov to our B‘nai Mitzvah . . . . . 9-11 Donations . . . . 12-13 6:00 pm New Members ...... 13 Join Rabbi Mitch and special musical guest Sheldon Low Simcha Corner ...... 14 for a traditional Passover seder for people of all faiths. Bereavement Notices ...... 14 The cost to attend is $54 per adult and Kol Nidre Donations . . . . 15-17 $18 per child (12 and under). Yahrzeits . . . . 18-19 Reservations are required by Friday, April 12 to Alice Schoen at 203-542-7165 or [email protected]. Astronaut Dr. Jeffrey Hoffman . . Back Cover 4 MARCH•APRIL•MAY 2019

WINTER PROGRAMMING HIGHLIGHTS

8th-12th graders cooking Thanksgiving meals for those less fortunate in our community

Sisterhood Membership Dinner: A Conversation on Bioethics with Barbara Epstein, J.D. & Naomi Tamerin, M.D.

Dreidels, Donuts and DJ Chanukah Celebration, Hosted by the TSLC Parent Association

Toys collected to support David’s Treasure Tree Closet K-4th Grade “Summer Camp in Winter” Youth Program

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2019 Party Planning Showcase & Mitzvah Project Fair SMNS Tu B’Shevat Seder

Night of Amazement with Mentalist Ken Salaz Club FiveSixSeven Hangout

Project Ezra Senior Luncheon

Women’s Paint Night, Hosted by JEWEL

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1 24 Adar I 2 25 Adar I 6:30 pm 9:00 am Services Shabbat Study 10:00 am Services B’nai Mitzvah 5:15 pm Harrison Heiman In Israel Bennett Klein 5:27 pm 8:00 pm Candle Lighting BBYO Dance Parshat Vayakhel (off-site) 3 26 Adar I 4 27 Adar I 5 28 Adar I 6 29 Adar I 7 30 Adar I 8 1 Adar II 9 2 Adar II 8:30 am 7:30 pm Noon–1:00 pm 10:30 am–11:30 am 7:00 pm–9:30 pm 5:30 pm–6:30 pm 9:00 am Minyan Board of Trustees Lunch ‘n Learn Itsy Bitsy JEWEL Presents PJ Shabbat Shabbat Study Meeting Playgroup Author Georgia 5:30 pm–6:30 pm 10:00 am Services Hunter (off-site) Shalom Shabbat 6:00 pm–7:00 pm 6:30 pm B’nai Mitzvah Club FiveSixSeven Services 10:00 am Hangout 5:35 pm Ava Herzog Candle Lighting 5:45 pm Parshat Pekudei Seth Low 10 3 Adar II 11 4 Adar II 12 5 Adar II 13 6 Adar II 14 7 Adar II 15 8 Adar II 16 9 Adar II 8:30 am 5:30 pm–7:00 pm Noon–1:00 pm 10:30 am–11:30 am 6:30 pm 9:00 am Minyan Social Action: Special Lunch ‘n Itsy Bitsy Musical Shabbat Shabbat Study Inspirica Women’s Learn with Batya Playgroup with BANOT 9:00 am–10:00 am Shelter (off-site) Shmueli Learner’s Minyan 7:30 pm 10:00 am Change your smoke 7:00 pm–9:15 pm 7:00 pm Sisterhood Rosh Sisterhood & carbon monoxide Sisterhood A Discussion Chodesh Women’s Shabbat & detector batteries. Game Night with Batya Program Luncheon For longer-lasting Shmueli B’nai Mitzvah SMNS Full-Day 5:15 pm detectors, please Closes at Jordan check they are in 1:00 pm for 6:43 pm Sternschein working order. Professional Candle Lighting 5:30 pm March 10–Spring Ahead 1 hour March Development Parshat Vayikra Harrison Wolfe 17 10 Adar II 18 11 Adar II 19 12 Adar II 20 13 Adar II 21 14 Adar II 22 15 Adar II 23 16 Adar II 8:30 am Noon–1:00 pm Fast of Esther Purim 6:30 pm 9:00 am Minyan Lunch ‘n Learn Erev Purim Services Shabbat Study 11:30 am–1:00 pm 10:30 am–11:30 am 10:00 am Services Purim Carnival, Itsy Bitsy Playgroup 5:30 pm Bar Mitzvah Toddler Purim Purim Puppet Show Zone and Middle 10:00 am 6:00 pm Samuel Cohen School Purim Pizza Dinner & Carnival Hamantaschen Bake 7:00 pm 6:51 pm Megillah Reading Candle Lighting & Shpiel Parshat Tzav 24 17 Adar II 25 18 Adar II 26 19 Adar II 27 20 Adar II 28 21 Adar II 29 22 Adar II 30 23 Adar II 8:30 am Noon–1:00 pm 10:30 am–11:30 am 7:00 pm 6:30 pm 9:00 am Minyan Lunch ‘n Learn Itsy Bitsy “Politics, Peace Services Shabbat Study Playgroup and Jewish 10:00 am Services Survival in the B’not Mitzvah Middle East” with 10:00 am 6:58 pm Brooke Sosin Guest Speaker Candle Lighting 5:15 pm Yishai Fleisher Parshat Shmini Lauren Resnick 31 24 Adar II 8:30 am Minyan 11:30 am–1:00 pm “Sports, Arts & Israel” Youth Program (K–4th Grade) Table of Contents a www.templesholom.com 7

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1 25 Adar II 2 26 Adar II 3 27 Adar II 4 28 Adar II 5 29 Adar II 6 1 Nissan 1:30 pm–6:30 pm Noon–1:00 pm 10:30 am–11:30 am Pre-Passover 9:00 am American Red Lunch ‘n Learn Itsy Bitsy Food Drive Begins Shabbat Study Cross Blood Drive Playgroup 6:30 pm 10:00 am Services Services 7:30 pm B’not Mitzvah TSLC Parent Association 10:00 am Mom’s Night Out 7:05 pm Maya Green (off-site) Candle Lighting 4:45 pm Parshat Tazria Danielle Braver 7 2 Nissan 8 3 Nissan 9 4 Nissan 10 5 Nissan 11 6 Nissan 12 7 Nissan 13 8 Nissan 8:30 am 6:30 pm–8:30 pm Noon–1:00 pm 10:30 am–11:30 am 5:30 pm–6:30 pm 9:00 am Minyan Teen Prep for Lunch ‘n Learn Itsy Bitsy PJ Shabbat Shabbat Study Midnight Run Playgroup 5:30 pm–6:30 pm 10:00 am Services 5:30 pm–7:00 pm Shalom Shabbat Bat Mitzvah Social Action: 6:30 pm 10:00 am Inspirica Women’s Services Shelter (off-site) Kate Friedman 6:00 pm–7:00 pm Club FiveSixSeven Hangout 7:00 pm Wine Tasting, 7:13 pm Hosted by Candle Lighting Sisterhood Parshat Metzora 14 9 Nissan 15 10 Nissan 16 11 Nissan 17 12 Nissan 18 13 Nissan 19 14 Nissan 20 15 Nissan TSLC Closed for 7:00 pm–9:15 pm Noon–1:00 pm Pre-Passover Erev Passover Passover 2nd Seder Spring/Passover Sisterhood Lunch ‘n Learn Food Drive Ends 1st Seder Break. Reopens Game Night 7:30 am 9:00 am Shabbat Study April 28 7:30 pm Fast of the First 8:30 am Board of Trustees Born Siyyum 10:00 am Minyan Meeting 9:30 am Passover/Shabbat Burning of the Services Chametz 6:00 pm 1st Night Interfaith Musical Seder 7:20 pm Candle Lighting 8:29 pm Parshat Pesach Candle Lighting 21 16 Nissan 22 17 Nissan 23 18 Nissan 24 19 Nissan 25 20 Nissan 26 21 Nissan 27 22 Nissan 10:00 am SMNS Closed for Noon–1:00 pm Temple Offices 9:00 am Passover Services Passover Break. Lunch ‘n Learn Closed Shabbat Study Reopens April 29 10:00 am 10:00 am Passover Services Passover/Shabbat 6:30 pm Services w/Yizkor Services 7:28 pm 7:27 pm Candle Lighting Candle Lighting Parshat Pesach 28 23 Nissan 29 24 Nissan 30 25 Nissan 8:30 am Noon–1:00 pm Minyan Lunch ‘n Learn 9:00 am TSLC Dads & Bagels 3:00 pm Astronaut Dr. Jeffrey Hoffman Table of Contents a 8 MARCH•APRIL•MAY 2019

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1 26 Nissan 2 27 Nissan 3 28 Nissan 4 29 Nissan SMNS Part-Day Yom HaShoah 6:30 pm 9:00 am Closed for Parent (Holocaust Services Shabbat Study Conferences Remembrance 10:00 am Services Day) 10:30 am–11:30 am Bat Mitzvah Itsy Bitsy 6:30 pm Playgroup Heather Daum 7:35 pm Candle Lighting Parshat Achrei 5 30 Nissan 6 1 Iyar 7 2 Iyar 8 3 Iyar 9 4 Iyar 10 5 Iyar 11 6 Iyar 8:30 am 7:30 pm Noon–1:00 pm Israel Memorial Israel 5:30 pm–6:30 pm 9:00 am Minyan Sisterhood Lunch ‘n Learn Day (Yom Independence PJ Shabbat Shabbat Study Bar Mitzvah Rosh Chodesh 5:30 pm–7:00 pm Hazikaron) Day (Yom 6:30 pm 10:00 am Services Social Action: Ha’atzmaut) Rock Shabbat 10:30 am 10:30 am–11:30 am Bar Mitzvah Inspirica Women’s with Sheldon Alexander Cohen Itsy Bitsy 10:00 am Shelter (off-site) Low, followed by Playgroup Hayden Winig a dessert Oneg to honor Barry 8:00 pm Gruber Midnight Run to New York City 7:42 pm 8:00 pm Candle Lighting JNYC Trivia & Parshat Kedoshim Tequila (off-site) 12 7 Iyar 13 8 Iyar 14 9 Iyar 15 10 Iyar 16 11 Iyar 17 12 Iyar 18 13 Iyar Mother’s Day 6:45 pm Noon–1:00 pm 10:30 am–11:30 am 6:00 pm 9:00 am Annual Meeting Lunch ‘n Learn Itsy Bitsy TSLC 3rd Grade Shabbat Study 7:30 pm 5:45 pm Playgroup Kabbalat Siddur 10:00 am Services 8:30 am & Dinner Minyan Board of Trustees TSLC 7th Grade 7:00 pm B’not Mitzvah Meeting Celebration JEWEL’s Kick-Off 6:30 pm to a Healthy Services 10:00 am Summer Isabella Crasto 7:49 pm 5:00 pm Candle Lighting Heidi Faherty Parshat Emor 19 14 Iyar 20 15 Iyar 21 16 Iyar 22 17 Iyar 23 18 Iyar 24 19 Iyar 25 20 Iyar 8:30 am 7:00 pm–9:15 pm 8:15 am –5:00 pm 10:30 am–11:30 am Lag B’Omer 6:30 pm 9:00 am Minyan Sisterhood Sisterhood Annual Itsy Bitsy Services Shabbat Study Game Night Lag B’Omer Trip Playgroup 10:00 am Services Last day of TSLC Noon–1:00 pm B’nai Mitzvah Lunch ‘n Learn 11:00 am–12:30 pm 12:30 pm TSLC Parent Phoebe Porigow Assocation 7:56 pm 5:30 pm Last Day BBQ Candle Lighting Max Deckinger Parshat Behar 26 21 Iyar 27 22 Iyar 28 23 Iyar 29 24 Iyar 30 25 Iyar 31 26 Iyar 8:30 am Memorial Day Noon–1:00 pm 6:30 pm Minyan Lunch ‘n Learn Services Temple Offices, SMNS Closed

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March 2, 2019 March 2, 2019 Harrison Heiman Bennett Klein Son of Marc Son of John and Jenny Brother of Brooke Brother of Warren and William Harrison is a 7th grader at Central Middle School. He is very Bennett is a 7th grader at . He loves playing much into sports and plays for Greenwich in basketball and sports especially squash, tennis and golf. He is also an avid baseball. In addition, he enjoys watching many other sports. Michigan fan! During the summer, Bennett attends Camp Harrison will be taking a trip to Israel after his Bar Mitzvah Androscoggin in Wayne, ME. Bennett’s Bar Mitzvah will be in with his grandparents, where they will visit many cities, Israel which will be a very special and memorable experience for including Tel Aviv, where his grandfather was born. Harrison him and his family. For his mitzvah project, Bennett is working spends his summers at a sleep away camp in the Adirondack with Squash Haven, an organization that provides coaching mountains. For his mitzvah project, Harrison will be working and tutoring for squash and academics to underprivileged kids. with children in need who are located in Israel. For Harrison, For Bennett, becoming a Bar Mitzvah means taking on a more becoming a Bar Mitzvah will bring him to adulthood, along active role in the Jewish community and finding opportunities with the Jewish traditions that he has grown up with. to give back to people who are in need.

March 9, 2019 March 9, 2019 Ava Herzog Seth Low Daughter of Kenny and Sharon Son of David Sister of Jack and Jordan Brother of Allison Ava is a 7th grader at Rye Country Day School. Her passions Seth is a 7th grader at Blind Brook Middle School. His interests include dancing, cooking and traveling to see her cousins. In include soccer, basketball, reading and playing trumpet. To Seth, her free time, she enjoys playing tennis, skiing and spending becoming a Bar Mitzvah is the recognition of his hard work and time with friends and family. Ava spends her summers at camp is an opportunity to take responsibility for his actions. Iroquois Springs in Rock Hill, NY. For her mitzvah project, Ava has become involved with Neighbor to Neighbor. Since the start of the school year, Ava has been baking and wrapping individual treats which she brings to Neighbor to Neighbor every Saturday and distributes to those in need. After Ava becomes a Bat Mitzvah, she hopes to continue with philanthropic services and become an active adult member of the Jewish community.

March 16, 2019 March 16, 2019 Jordan Sternschein Harrison Wolfe Daughter of Jesse and Marisa Son of Eric and Jessie Sister of Ellie Brother of Charlotte Jordan is a 7th grader at Blind Brook Middle School in Harrison is a 7th grader at Central Middle School. He is very Rye Brook. She enjoys playing soccer, dancing, snow and involved in music, school and tennis. For his mitzvah project, water skiing and spending time with her friends. During he chose to do a tennis racket drive for underprivileged the summer, Jordan attends Camp Wayne for Girls in children through Grass Roots Tennis & Education. Becoming Pennsylvania. For her mitzvah project, Jordan is collecting a Bar Mitzvah is very important to Harrison, as he has now sports equipment to donate to the after school program at learned a significant amount more about his religion and has the Carver Center in Port Chester, NY. To Jordan, becoming reached a new level of spiritual maturity. He is proud that he a Bat Mitzvah means achieving a meaningful milestone and reached this goal and is able to celebrate his success. carrying on the Jewish traditions and values that are a part of her everyday life.

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March 23, 2019 March 30, 2019 Samuel Cohen Brooke Sosin Son of Robert and Ella Daughter of Lee and Michelle Brother of Joey and Matty Sister of Rachel and Daniel Sammy is a 7th grader at Eastern Middle School in Riverside, CT. Brooke is a 7th grader at Blind Brook Middle School. She In his free time, he enjoys playing football, basketball, water loves to dance, play soccer and travel. She also enjoys polo, fishing and spending time with his family. Sammy spends spending time with her family and friends. Over the his summers at Camp Weequahic in Pennsylvania. For his summer, Brooke attends Long Lake Camp for the Arts in the mitzvah project, Sammy will be setting up a food drive for Adirondacks. For her mitzvah project, she is volunteering at Neighbor to Neighbor, a charity that provides food and clothing The Nathaniel Witherell nursing home in Greenwich, where to people in need. To Sammy, becoming a Bar Mitzvah means she plays games, engages in conversation and spends time taking on more responsibility, tackling harder challenges and with the residents. For Brooke, becoming a Bat Mitzvah becoming a member of the Jewish community. means carrying on the Jewish traditions of her family.

March 30, 2019 April 6, 2019 Lauren Resnick Maya Green Daughter of Jeff and Cheryl Daughter of Daniel and Shannon Sister of Annabelle and Grant Sister of Owen and Clara Lauren is a 7th grader at Central Middle School in Greenwich. Maya is a 7th grader at Greenwich Country Day School. Her She enjoys spending time with family and friends, and “summer home” is with her friends at Raquette Lake Girls most sports. She is very passionate about basketball. For Camp. Maya is passionate about performing arts, culinary her mitzvah project, she is volunteering at Adopt-A-Dog arts, fine arts and all things related to the Harry Potter book in Armonk, NY, as she loves animals and has two dogs of series. She also loves all water activities, especially sailing her own. Lauren is excited to become a Bat Mitzvah and and waterskiing. She has a strong moral compass based on to become a woman in the Jewish community, as well as Jewish values. Maya’s connection to her family and Judaism is celebrate her achievements and take on more responsibility. at the center of who she is. To Maya, becoming a Bat Mitzvah means being more engaged with the Jewish community and strengthening her connection with Eretz Israel.

April 6, 2019 April 13, 2019 Danielle Braver Kate Friedman Daughter of Andy and Marcie Daughter of Jacques Friedman Sister of Matthew and Allie and Carolyn Surgent Sister of Josie Danielle is a 6th grader at Hackley School. She loves to play soccer, sing and ski, and is interested in photography and Kate is a 7th grader at . In her free time, traveling. Danielle spends her summers playing soccer and she enjoys playing softball, the violin and basketball, traveling with her family. For her mitzvah project, she is and is also a passionate videogamer. Kate’s summers are volunteering at Adopt-A-Dog and Nathaniel Witherell. Danielle spent on the field with her travel softball team and at her loves animals and enjoys spending time with seniors and beloved summer camp, URJ Six Points Sci-Tech Academy in playing games with them. To Danielle, becoming a Bat Mitzvah Massachusetts. For her mitzvah project, Kate worked with means becoming a Jewish woman and having a responsibility Adopt-A-Dog, assisting furry friends in many capacities at to give back to the community. their Armonk location. To Kate, becoming a Bat Mitzvah is an important symbol of growing up and becoming more connected to Judaism.

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May 4, 2019 May 5, 2019 Heather Daum Alexander Cohen Daughter of John and Debbie Son of Ira and Susan Sister of Kayla and Ryan Brother of Ethan and Charlotte Heather is currently a 7th grader at Rye Country Day School. Alex is a 7th grader at Rye Country Day School. He is interested In her spare time, she enjoys reading graphic novels, watching in sports, including soccer and squash. He also enjoys hanging Dr. Who, and fawning over her three cats. Heather is also out with his friends and family in his free time. For his mitzvah obsessed with hedgehogs. For her mitzvah project, Heather project, Alex will be volunteering at Nathanial Witherell nursing has raised money for the Cure JM Foundation by making and home. For Alex, becoming a Bar Mitzvah means having adult selling bracelets, and participating in several walks for a cure. responsibilities and giving back to your community. To Heather, becoming a Bat Mitzvah means accepting more responsibility as a Jew.

May 11, 2019 May 18, 2019 Hayden Winig Isabella Crasto Son of Cory and Jenny Daughter of Pradeep and Rena Brother of Hannah and Abigail Sister of Hannah and Sophia Hayden is a 7th grader at Central Middle School in Greenwich. Isabella is a 7th grader at Western Middle School in Greenwich. He likes music and sports, and is very active throughout the Her mitzvah project is “Big Life” and is concerned with the year with piano, baseball, flag football and skiing. Hayden safety and preservation of elephants and other wildlife friends. enjoys spending time with family and friends locally, as well She finds interest in golf, field hockey and tennis as her main as in Lake George, NY, where he has spent summers since he sports. Isabella enjoys travelling and her favorite destination was young. For his mitzvah project, Hayden will be playing so far is Florence, Italy. To Isabella, becoming a Bat Mitzvah is the piano and spending time volunteering with the elderly the most significant stage in her Jewish life. She also believes at the River House in Greenwich. To Hayden, becoming a it is a time when she can reflect on her Jewish identity and her Bar Mitzvah means keeping the family tradition and becoming transition into becoming a mature and responsible adult. part of the Jewish community.

May 25, 2019 May 25, 2019 Phoebe Porigow Max Deckinger Daughter of Lance and Debra Son of James and Anna Sister of Chloe and Sophie Brother of Micah Phoebe is a 7th grader at Central Middle School in Greenwich. Max is a 7th grader at Rye Neck Middle School. He enjoys art, She is a dancer at Connecticut Ballet Center where she practices including origami, ceramics and wire-sculpture. He has been ballet, lyrical and modern dance. She has enjoyed performing honored for his costume design work at the Rye Arts Center. The Nutcracker on stage at The Palace Theater with professional He is known for his big heart, and shows great kindness to dancers. Phoebe has spent the last five summers at Camp Walt children and animals. He regularly babysits his little cousins, Whitman in New Hampshire. For her mitzvah project, she is who love spending time with him. He is an animal lover volunteering with Adopt-A-Dog and at Nathaniel Witherell and regularly dog-sits, cat-sits and rabbit-sits for friends nursing home. For Phoebe, becoming a Bat Mitzvah is becoming and neighbors. For his mitzvah project, he is volunteering a Jewish adult and making time to help others. at the Humane Society of Westchester. To Max, becoming a Bar Mitzvah means being an active member of the Jewish community and committing to tikkun olam.

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Lending A Hand In Nola (Continued from cover) TSLC Sholom Games Update Below are the team totals at the time the bulletin was printed:

Mardi Gras World; ate beignets in the French Quarter; and T T T explored downtown New Orleans. ea ee e n e v m Galil am Gola am Nege It was a whirlwind experience for all of us. In just four days, we helped to foster relationships—both among trip participants and NOLA locals—and were able to show NOLA that we are still here to lend a hand, and to continue to share their story. 310 326 357 If you are interested in participating in future community service Points Points Points trips, please email me at [email protected].

DONATIONS We gratefully acknowledge the following contributions to Temple funds:

RABBI HURVITZ’S In Memory of: Steven Brett z’l CANTOR’S MUSIC FUND Marcia Kaplan DISCRETIONARY FUND Viola Proner z’l In Appreciation of: In Appreciation of: Deborah Brand Grace Kaplan Galton z’l Barbara Hindman Cantor Sandy Bernstein’s Rabbi Mitch Genevieve Feldman z’l participation in our Festival Ellen & George Elkowitz Sally Feldman Esther Coleman z’l of Light Concert Hillary & Michael Rosenthal Joyce Hurvitz z’l Jane Wolansky Congregation Beth El, High Holiday Services Sally Feldman In Support of: Fairfield CT Annette & Jonathan Eliot Black z’l Community Interfaith In Honor of: Goldstein Margie & Steven Black Programming Rise Mattler Naomi Oberweger’s In Honor of: Walter Primoff & Margaret Bat Mitzvah Carol & Al Lampke z’l Neubart Foundation Willow & Timothy Naomi Oberweger’s The Lampke Family Bat Mitzvah Jewish Theological Seminary Oberweger Willow & Timothy Gloria Silverstein z’l Emunah Afula Debbie Simon’s Birthday Oberweger Ken Silverstein Sally Feldman Felice Robinov Irwin Hochberg z’l Charles Allard’s Bar Mitzvah ASSISTANT RABBI’S In Memory of: Ora Navok Jonathan Hochberg Debby Roth z’l DISCRETIONARY FUND Cathy Glickstein z’l Mitchell Goldstein’s Stanley Glickstein Bar Mitzvah Brian Roth In Honor of: Annette & Jonathan Sabina Beinstein z’l Naomi Oberweger’s THE NORMA PERLSTEIN Leonard Beinstein Goldstein Bat Mitzvah SOCIAL ACTION FUND Danielle Penn’s Bat Mitzvah Rita Hertz z’l Willow & Timothy Jill Oberlander & Larry Penn Marc Hertz Oberweger In Honor of: Isaac Neuman’s Bar Mitzvah Edward B. Elkowitz z’l In Memory of: Eileen Robin Beth Kallet-Neuman & George Elkowitz Ronna Sussman Viola Proner z’l Mark Neuman Norma Perlstein Deborah Brand

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PROGRAMMING FUND Alex Hugon’s Bar Mitzvah William Kneller z’l Andrew Simmons z’l Carrie & Gary Rattner Rita Edelston Steven Simmons In Support of: In Memory of: Melvin Bittman z’l Stuart Levine z’l TSLC Dads & Bagels Laurie Nelson Arnold Levine Hillary & Michael Rosenthal Jacob Abramsky z’l Anna Abramsky z’l Alexander Nelson z’l Anita Shapiro z’l In Memory of: Abraham Maisel z’l Solomon Siegel z’l Carolyn Bonheim Norman Perlstein z’l Selma Maisel Jonathan Nelson Bernard Raider z’l Ida Golden z’l Marcella Dickstein z’l Shirley Seinfeld z’l Nancy Raider Anne Dube z’l Judith Jones z’l Irving Seinfeld z’l Morris Ellenbogen z’l Norma Perlstein Laurie Siegel Meri Goodman Richard Ellenbogen Grace Kaplan Galton z’l Robert Fields z’l David Schiffman z’l Emanuel Shemin z’l Paula Grossman Kate Osman Adele Schiffman z’l Rhoda Shemin Joel Schiffman SISTERHOOD FUND Presley Klein z’l Arthur Gold z’l Lisa & Wayne Klein Joseph Musayev z’l Amy Socher Eugenia Musayev In Memory of: Alfred Gottschalk z’l Grace Kaplan Galton z’l Bernard Gilbert z’l Gloria Gottschalk Frances Kleinhandler z’l Paula Grossman David Kleinhandler Lauren Wels Ada Sheinhaus z’l Terry Rickler z’l Susan Africk Amy Low z’l Phyllis Alexander TEMPLE SHOLOM Merle & Fabrice Hugon Lee Krupnick z’l Craig Goldsweig z’l LEARNING CENTER Caren Muto Carol Lampke z’l Phyllis Berger Rhoda Shemin In Support of: Pauline Mack z’l Richard Golden z’l Ledicia Sabbag z’l Music and Community George Mack Anne Ivanhoe Ralph Sabbag Cultural Education Programs Leanore Rosen z’l Hilda Rothenberg z’l Walter Primoff & Margaret Ellen Wolfson Bernard Mounty z’l Barnett Rothenberg Joel Mounty Neubart Foundation Cesia Ritter z’l Rita Ruchman z’l Neil Ritter Minna Belfor z’l Allan Ruchman TEMPLE SHOLOM Meg Russell Gideon Oberweger z’l Leon Ruben z’l In Appreciation of: Timothy Oberweger Beatrice Green z’l Dana Rogers Judy Blumberg Temple Sholom Evelyn Lilienthal z’l Harry Kallman z’l Hilary Glassman & Elsa Lilienthal z’l Peter Blumberg z’l Irwin Kallman James Kimmel Robert Lilienthal z’l Lily Blumberg z’l Louis Schall z’l Peter Lilienthal Joel Blumberg In Honor of: Joan Orlovitz Barbara Sider z’l Bellina Vitale z’l Belle & Michael Goldstein Melvin London z’l William Sider Emanuele Vitale z’l Andrew Kemeny z’l Carol & Herbert Gross Samuel Vitale Eliot Black z’l Lillian London Avery Hirsh’s Bat Mitzvah Ellen Keats & Irv Goldstein Jack Weiner z’l Elaine Bergman z’l Dana Doctorow & Gary Weiner Dan Stellenberg Jacqueline & Joe Roe

WELCOME TO OUR NEWEST MEMBERS Joshua & Heather Benn Sean & Ariel Meyer Carl & Irene Zelinsky

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SIMCHA CORNER Mazel Tov to: Ella Leferman and her family Charles Allard and his family Steve and Sindy Steinberg and family on the occasion of her Bat Mitzvah on the occasion of his Bar Mitzvah on being honored at the BBYO Barry Gruber, Director of Bruce Lunder and his family Connecticut Valley Region 80th Congregational Learning on the occasion of his Bar Mitzvah Anniversary Celebration on receiving his honorary doctorate in Ava Frankel and her family Lauren and Michael Goodman pedagogy from JTS on the occasion of her Bat Mitzvah on the birth of their son, Bradley, brother of Rebecca Judah BBYO Daisy Stuart and her family with special thanks to Community on the occasion of her Bat Mitzvah Lauren and Joshua Benenson Service VP Marcus Mann, for winning on the birth of their daughter, the Community Service Shield Award Alex Hugon and his family Francesca May, sister of Beatrice on the occasion of his Bar Mitzvah at Fall Convention for excellent Alexandra and Christopher Saltis chapter community service Harrison Goldenberg and his family on the birth of their son, Theodore Rebecca and Jonathan Tipermas on the occasion of his Bar Mitzvah Shia, brother of Evie on the birth of their son, Zachary, Owen Hoffman and his family Penelope Brody and her family brother of Eva, Jacob and Nathan on the occasion of his Bar Mitzvah on the occasion of her Bat Mitzvah BEREAVEMENT NOTICES We extend our deepest condolences to: Steven and Marjorie Black Barbara Hindman on the loss of their uncle, Eliot Black z’l on the loss of her mother, Grace Kaplan Galton z’l, Jane Wolansky mother-in-law of Steve, and grandmother of Evan, Halley on the loss of her mother, Esther Coleman z’l, mother-in- and Dana Hindman law of Paul, and grandmother of Sara, Natania and Sam JoAnne Shapiro Arlene Fleischman on the loss of her uncle, Alex Wendrow z’l on the loss of her sister, Marcia Schwartz z’l Marcia Kaplan Ken Silverstein on the loss of her husband, Steven Brett z’l, father of Harris on the loss of his mother, Gloria Silverstein z’l, mother-in- and Eric, and father-in-law of Allison Prieston law of Becky, and grandmother of Dana and Julie George Elkowitz Scott Bellin on the loss of his brother, Dr. Edward B. Elkowitz z’l, on the loss of his mother, Brenda Rosen Bellin z’l, mother- brother-in-law of Ellen in-law of Michelle, and grandmother of Jordan and Zachary Michael Goldstein Dan Aaron on the loss of his brother, Jeffrey Goldstein z’l, brother-in- on the loss of his mother, Diane Aaron z’l, mother-in-law of law of Belle, and uncle of Jonathan and Stephen Andrea, and grandmother of Ross, Eric and Reed Marilyn Schwartz Linda and Stephen Goldstein on the loss of her sister, Lillian Beck z’l on the loss of their aunt, Pearl Leibman z’l The family of Phyllis Berger z’l The Family of Carol Lampke z’l Phyllis was the wife of Michael Berger z’l, mother-in-law of Carol was mother of Peter, Michael, and Marianne, mother- Pamela and Emily, daughter of Sophie Briskman, sister of in-law of Cheryl and Lisa, and grandmother of Miranda Susan Goldsweig, and grandmother of Jaden, Noah, Lila, Benjamin, and Andrew Kristin Luntz on the loss of her mother, Diane D. Staab z’l, mother-in-law Ginger Heller (Don Heller) of David, and grandmother of Olivia and Brian on the loss of her son, Jonathan Carr Ochsner z’l, husband of Barbara McLaughlin, father of Eric, Emily and Alexandra, Michael Delikat son-in-law of Peter and Noreen McLaughlin, and brother of on the loss of his father, Otto Delikat z’l, father-in-law of Noah Heller, Elizabeth and Daniel Lynch, and Warren and Alice Delikat, grandfather of Stacey and Rob Marmor and Amy Heller Jonathan and Sabrina Delikat, and great grandfather of Noah Marmor Emery Kafka on the loss of her father, Warren “Russ” Miller z’l, father-in- Marc Hertz law of Oded, and grandfather to Max and Leo on the loss of his cousin, Debbie Rachel Hertz z’l (Devora Rivka) May you be comforted among the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem. Table of Contents a www.templesholom.com 15

KOL NIDRE DONATIONS Each year, we ask our congregation to contribute meaningfully to the Kol Nidre Appeal. The funds raised from the Kol Nidre Appeal is a vital portion of our operating budget, comprising 20% of our overall annual expenditure. It is because of your generosity, year after year, that Temple Sholom continues to serve our community so successfully. Guardian Chai Benefactor Richard & Rissa Grossman Howard & Amy Finkelstein Warren & Allison Kanders Alan & Marlene Gilbert Kevin & Jill Plancher Robert Rosen & Dale Atkins-Rosen Benefactor Major Patron Cliff & Laurel Asness Seth & Alexandra Bergstein Derek & Leora Kaufman Jacques Friedman & Carolyn Surgent Clifton & Debbie Robbins Stuart & Roni Stein Randal & Lizabeth Sandler Jordan & Susan Yarett Peter & Alisa Savitz Leonard & Stefani Shavel Steven & Lisa Tananbaum Patron Chai Builder Chai Supporter Brad & Carol Asness Peter & Stephanie Appleby Andrew & Marcie Braver James & Nancy Better Norma Asness Richard & Laura Brounstein John Daum, Jr. & Deborah Morris-Daum Marc & Beth Cutler Michael & Debra Clain Gregg & Marla Felton Scott & Peggy Kalb Robert & Hiroko Davidow Lonny & Randi Henry Mitchell & Anne Katcher Jay & Esta Feinsod Irwin & Judith Kallman Marc Katz & Candee Chusid Douglas Fishkin & Eve Teich Leonard & Sylvia Marx Shoney & Shelby Katz John Freiberg Andrew & Melanie Milgram Craig & Suzanne Packer Marc & Toby Gordon Henry & Barbara Miller Barnett & Myra Rothenberg Henry Gunders David & Julie Nadasi Eric & Natalie Stein Jason & Carey Halio Laurence Penn & Jill Oberlander Steven & Sindy Steinberg Sharon & Kenny Herzog Steven & Angie Sall Samuel & Joyce Vitale Michael & Lisa Josephson Joel & Sindie Schur Daniel & Rosanne Wichman Jonathan & Bryanna Kallman Donald & Pamela Shassian Anonymous Doug & Betsy Korn Mark & Rosalind Shenkman Andrew & Amy Kramer Laurie Siegel Andrew & Deborah Kramer Robert & Meryl Sobel Builder Spencer Lampert Rita Edelston Naomi Tamerin Steven & Leora Levy Steven & Terri Gelbstein Jeffrey & Celeste Wecker Richard Lipton & Susan Greisman Kenneth & Ali Goldstein Alexander & Renata Weiss Bart & Kate Osman Theodore Herman Peter & Wendy Wright Noah & Sheera Prawer Robert & Anne Ivanhoe Gregory & Dana Rogers Steven Katz & Sarit Orlofsky-Katz Alan & Deborah Simon Stuart & Suzanne Katz Donald Snyder & Alma Rutgers Michael & Jennifer Patchen Lee & Michelle Sosin Lloyd & Jane Sprung Vitaly & Abby Vorobeychik Jeffrey & Jill Weiss Paul & Jane Wolansky Anonymous Anonymous

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Major Supporter Supporter (continued) Double Chai Sponsor Phyllis Berger z’l Adam & Lisa Beth Savitz Nelson & Carolyn Bonheim David & Deborah Brand Jed & Alana Selkowitz Daniel & Laura Botoff Michael & Alice Delikat David & Sheryl Sorbaro Peter & Jacqueline Braunthal Alec & Pamela Ellison Gary & Sissy Stein Mark & Lindy Camel Martin Flashner & Phyllis Shapiro Howard & Deborah Steyn Daniel & Jill Ciporin Daniel & Shannon Green Ronna Sussman Michael & Jodi Drutman Arthur & Janet Hershaft Michael Weinberg George & Ellen Elkowitz David & Alexandra Hochman Gary & Madeleine Weiner Marc & Stephanie Esquenazi David & Rachael Leland John & Lisa Winston Alan & Jennifer Freedman Jeff & Hannah Mensch Ross Zelman & Jennie Friedman Erik & Heather Friedman John Tamerin & Susan Penry-Williams Glenn & Ann Zorn Peter & Susan Furth Jonathan & Jill Weiner Mark Goldenberg & Sarah Zeegen Steven Gordon Mitzvah Sponsor Matthew & Jessica Greenberger Neil & Travis Azous Supporter Bruce & Karyn Greenwald Paul & Marlene Adelberg Louis & Frances Berrick Steven & Deborah Handler Robert Applebaum & Kenneth Bloom & Abby Meiselman Peter & Karen Hirsh Susan Seligman-Applebaum David Fein & Liz Oestreich Randy & Julie Leeds Seymour Askin Morris & Deborah Finkelstein Steven Leifer Stuart & Bran Berni Keith & Elizabeth Fleischman Gila Lewis Steven Bierman & Jerrilyn Fleisher Scott & Robin Gelbs Brian & Robin Linder Jason & Wendy Block Mark & Cynthia Goldstein Sohier & Elaine Marks Sanford Buchsbaum Robert & Meri Goodman David & Jill Mintz Brian & Dayna Cohen Arnold & Francesca Gordon Neal & Aletha Myerberg Robert & Ella Cohen Gary & Marilyn Hellinger Mark Neuman & Beth Kallet-Neuman Matthew & Julie DesChamps Marc & Elaine Hertz Sheldon & Helene Newman John Freiberg Geoffrey & Nancy Jacobs Miriam Preminger Michael & Belle Goldstein Jan & Roni Kaplowitz Andrew & Karen Richard David & Virginia Hoffman Shane & Sarah Leahey Allan Ruchman & Amy Horbar David & Marjorie Kaufman Ethan & Rebecca Levine Stewart & Meg Russell Scott & Sheila Lager Richard & Barbara Levy Morris & Sheryl Sachs Richard & Rachel Latto Robert & Ilysa Mann Richard & Andrea Saperstein Arnold & Belle Levine Robert & Joan Mann Michael & Annette Schuster Jay & Tammy Levine Steve & Alexandra Marks Stephen & Marsha Scott Peter & Nan Levy Ben & Ellen-Jane Moss Marc & Debra Shore Robert Lichtenfeld Timothy & Willow Oberweger Howard & Cynthia Silverbrand Warren & Lindy Lilien Curtis & Cheryl Probst David & Joline Stemerman Steven & Michelle Litt Eileen Robin Bill Weiss & Marcia Landman Donald & Shelley Meltzer Myra Schubin Andrew & Lauren Wels Jesse Meyers Peter & Deborah Shabecoff Gerald & Margaret Mintz Harold & Vicki Tananbaum John & Leslie Moriarty Jonathan & Rebecca Tipermas Joel & Aideen Mounty Ari & Charlotte Weinberg Donna Nives David & Lisa Yarnell Norma Perlstein Neal & Amy Polan Edwin & Beverly Robbins Felice Robinov Brian & Beth Allyson Rothschild

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Major Sponsor Chai Sponsor (continued) Double Chai Contributor Leonard Beinstein Joanne Rosenthal Robert & Susan Africk Michael & Lisa Benjamin John & Harriet Roughan Terri Afromowitz Haim & Elizabeth Bodek Andrew & Vera Sachs Arthur & Jeanne Bass SD & Judy Deutsch Dale & Lois Schreiber Loren Castro Meera Drelich Jonathan & Danit Schreiber Adam & Allison Cohen Robin Elkowitz Kenneth & Becky Silverstein Robert & Marjorie Dashow Brian & Rachel Gingold Milton Sutin Peter & Jane Drittel Howard & Susan Gordon Adam & Jodi Vickers Peter Eytel & Suzanne Levy Eytel Robert & Kristy Harteveldt Martin & Patricia Whalen Richard Frostig & Gloria Gottschalk Howard & Beth Juster Michael & Ellen Wolfson Priscilla Gross Stanley Moskowitz Mugs Zales Andrew & Lori Grossman Ora Navok Audrey Kahn Neil Ritter & Susan Zuckerman Wayne & Lisa Klein Michael & Elizabeth Rosen Friend Marc & Susan Leferman Kenneth & Jennifer Burstiner Ralph Sabbag Lillian London Herbert & Marilyn Cantor Kurt & Sandra Schaffir Michael & Jennifer Lowitt Jerome & Susan Davis Neal & Adrienne Schamberg Ariel & Ilene Manacher Robert & Iris Driesen Brian & Alison Wolfe PJ & Debbie Moses Kevin Ertel Mark & Julia Musayev Barbara Ezrol Michelle Peacock Phil & Stephanie Fischer Chai Sponsor Gianpiero & Marci Peru Ishak & Anne Akyuz Deborah Fisher Simon & Pamela Plummer Michael & Julie Bear Stephen & Linda Goldstein Nancy Raider Ira & Phyllis Bernstein Sylvia Gordon Arthur & Cynthia Ribak Frances Blaustein Paula Grossman Howard Richman Joshua Brain & Laurie Josephs Edward & Carol Halpern Robert & Barbara Rosenthal Richard & Mary Brauer Zeena Hine Marcelle Sands Cary Brody Fabrice & Merle Hugon Laurence & Sally Schneider Scott & Ellen Chasanoff Bert Klebanow Marilyn Schwartz Jay & Phyllis Clement Jonas Knoll & Silvina Skverer Vitaly & Valentina Tropp Clifford & Teddi Delman Aneta Kunis Mark Weingarten Graydon & Pam Garner Stephen Lessnick Andrew & Mariam Wind Alan & Gail Goldman Sharon Milbank-Holmes Stephen & Janice Wolpo Joseph & Roslyn Gorovitz Rose Anne Nadel Michael & Sheri Zarkower Lloyd & Abbe Hascoe Walter Primoff Anonymous Ellette Hirschorn Phyliss Rakowitz Scott Kesselman David & Florence Resnick John & Jennifer Klein William & Laurie Roloff Chai Contributor Jane Kramer Christopher & Doris Sambuco Vitaly & Eugenia Berenbaum Scott Kramer Gary & Adele Saunders Judith Bring Kenneth & Lori Lewis Dorothy Shapiro Jonathan & Deborah Michals Richard & Wendy Lubkin Jonathan & Rosalind Shapiro David & Gina Mullen Gary & Caren Muto Leta Smith Joan Orlovitz Jonathan & Laurie Nelson James & Lisa Striar Jay & Phyllis Schondorf Jeffrey & Cheryl Resnick Paul & Stacy Sygall Michele Seligmann Alan & Hilary Rifkin Ruth Waitz Gary Silberberg Evelyn Rogers Irving & Francine Winick Randi Weingarten

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WHAT IS A YAHRZEIT? Meaning “Time of Year” in Yiddish, this anniversary commemorates the death of a loved one. It is symbolized by the recitation of the Kaddish prayer and reading of the names of those dearly departed in the Temple. At home, a candle is lit on the eve of Yahrzeit to represent the soul and burns for 24 hours. Tzedakah, a Hebrew word for righteousness and signifying charity, is offered to the family in the form of gifts, donations, or simply emotional support. In this way, we remember our beloved. Yahrzeit Candles are available for a small donation in the main Temple office.

YAHRZEITS • March–April 2019 • Adar I–Adar II–Nissan 5779

3/1/2019 (24 Adar I) 3/9/2019 (2 Adar II) 3/31/2019 (24 Adar II) 4/11/2019 (6 Nisan) Rosa Kosaya Judith Youngwood Frank Dickstein Robert S. Barrocas Wilma Erlichson 3/2/2019 (25 Adar I) 3/10/2019 (3 Adar II) 4/2/2019 (26 Adar II) Florence Hershaft Benjamin Brown Susan Beal Peter Castro Mildred Richter Norman Goldberg Norton Stein Simon Cohen Michael Robbins Melvin Maisel Joyce Hurvitz Estelle Turtil 3/11/2019 (4 Adar II) Leopold Presser Daniel Yowell Julius Schaefer Max Sayah 4/3/2019 (27 Adar II) Gilbert Sheinhaus Haim Cohen 4/12/2019 (7 Nisan) 3/12/2019 (5 Adar II) Sybil Cohen Menahem Ackos 3/3/2019 (26 Adar I) James Jeffries Arthur S. Friedman Karl Aronsson Barry Asness George Meyer 3/14/2019 (7 Adar II) H. Marvin Camel Judith Keller Lee Miller Irving Kirschner Gloria Bittman 4/5/2019 (29 Adar II) Norman Brown Stephen Russell Zelda Manacher Esther Bierman Paul Waitz Norman Perlstein George Buchsbaum Sadie Friedland Beth Greller Stella Zola 4/6/2019 (1 Nisan) 3/4/2019 (27 Adar I) Mollie Rosen 4/13/2019 (8 Nisan) Solomon Klausner Mortimer Slotnick Greg Rosen Dorothy Halpern Raymonde H. Polly 3/17/2019 (10 Adar II) 4/7/2019 (2 Nisan) Robert Lager Estelle Sussman Philip Rosenberg Celeste Weissman Ila Levy Stephen Floersheimer Jack Rudick Samuel Heller Sol Schwartz Gilberte Yowell 3/5/2019 (28 Adar I) Michael Warner 3/18/2019 (11 Adar II) Murray Levine Perla Wainberg 4/8/201t9 (3 Nisan) 4/14/2019 (9 Nisan) Roslyn Eytel 3/6/2019 (29 Adar I) Leo Baikovitz 3/21/2019 (14 Adar II) Doris Keilson Carver Michael Hoffman Albert Conway Fay Zablowitz Hedy Conway Francine Lenore Wexler Bruce Howard Fishler Max Marshall Loomis Grossman 3/22/2019 (15 Adar II) 4/15/2019 (10 Nisan) Lenore Weidberg Paul Gunders Robert Ezrol Norman Cooper Belle Frank Kurzman 4/9/2019 (4 Nisan) Richard Freid Dora Lowin 3/23/2019 (16 Adar II) Hortense Marks Brenda Herman Valerie Furth Loretta Varon Lewis 3/7/2019 (30 Adar I) David Orlovitz Miriam Siegel Jacob Rastegar Esther Glickstein 4/10/2019 (5 Nisan) Eva Liebman 3/24/2019 (17 Adar II) 4/16/2019 (11 Nisan) Beatrice Miller Herb Bloom Donald Mondschein Irving Driesen Fred Kahn Shirley Zelman Anne Kessler 3/8/2019 (1 Adar II) Martin Juster Benjamin Clement 3/28/2019 (21 Adar II) Muriel Kanow 4/18/2019 (13 Nisan) Solomon Goldstuck Rose Wendrow Miller Nechama Neizni Alan Goldstein Alan Taffet William Schubin Ruth Jacobs Gail Yarnell 3/30/2019 (23 Adar II) Irving Waitz Albert Sherwyn

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YAHRZEITS • April–May 2019 • Nissan–Iyar 5779 4/19/2019 (14 Nisan) 5/2/2019 (27 Nisan) 5/13/2019 (8 Iyar) 5/23/2019 (18 Iyar) Nathan Camhy Dorothy Bennett Miryam Brand Rosalyn Finkelstein Stuart Disick Helen Cohen Florry Jablow Walter (Wally) Robbins Claire Maiman Carole Kramer 5/3/2019 (28 Nisan) Doris Nelson 5/24/2019 (19 Iyar) 4/20/2019 (15 Nisan) Phyllis Brand Gertrude (Gloria) Rabkin Rhoda Goldman Lillian Berni Mark Kunis Sarah Bennett Potash Olga Mack Rose Papkin 5/14/2019 (9 Iyar) Lyn Simmons Leonard Shatz Edith Delit Alchek Jack Stein 5/4/2019 (29 Nisan) Dewey Carver 4/21/2019 (16 Nisan) Rose Klausner Eugene Levy 5/25/2019 (20 Iyar) Shirley Fox Erik James Marks Bernard Wolfson Arnold Allen Lilien Debbie Friedman Martha Thaw Evelyn Sutin Louis Meyers 5/15/2019 (10 Iyar) 5/5/2019 (30 Nisan) Stephen Feuerstein 5/26/2019 (21 Iyar) 4/22/2019 (17 Nisan) Jerad Doran Browdy Hyman Levine Joseph Gorovitz Mollie Orlovitz Evelyn Hindman Muriel Koeppel Hammer Max Schumann Henry Robert Kaplan 5/16/2019 (11 Iyar) Donald Lockwood Kay Warner Pauline Bernstein Leslie Merker 5/6/2019 (1 Iyar) Robert Penn 4/23/2019 (18 Nisan) Helen Nelson Berger 5/17/2019 (12 Iyar) Mary Rosensweig Bernard “Beryl” London Michael Berger Florry Black Philip Shulman Jerome L. Green 5/27/2019 (22 Iyar) 4/24/2019 (19 Nisan) Sidney Levy Barnett Hurvitz Maurits Ernst Edersheim 5/7/2019 (2 Iyar) Harold Schantz Jules Jacobs Jeanette Fatoullah Rose Behrman Joan Sachs Shassian Ljerka Nadasi Lavall Ml Fetner Alfred Tananbaum 5/8/2019 (3 Iyar) 5/18/2019 (13 Iyar) Patricia Watson 4/25/2019 (20 Nisan) Irving (Isidore) Block Doris Halpern Seymour Chasanoff Carol Hershaft Geta Konigsberg 5/28/2019 (23 Iyar) Jack Richman Mitchell Porigow Pauline Miller Karl Aaron Kraut Freida Shapiro Gertrude Sturchio Zishle Resnick 4/26/2019 (21 Nisan) Therese Shisslak Alex Friedman 5/9/2019 (4 Iyar) 5/19/2019 (14 Iyar) Morton Meyers Jacob Baikovitz Frank Furth 5/30/2019 (25 Iyar) Karen Shinkman Pearl Delikat Roberta Merker Rosen Marcia Gill Arthur Dubin 4/27/2019 (22 Nisan) Ruth Flaks 5/20/2019 (15 Iyar) 5/31/2019 (26 Iyar) Victoria Pressner Alvin Meyer Goldman Molly Chanesman Shigetoshi Nakata Lena Sigler Lola Schaffir Mary Hershkowitz Cory Wein Johanna Schumann Pauline Wolinsky Shapiro Diana Blitz Stein 4/28/2019 (23 Nisan) 5/10/2019 (5 Iyar) William Ullman Reinhold Jablow Rubin Davidson Philip Van Leeuwen Melvin Stein Edward (Eliazer) Kaufman Theda Teddy Wels Angelo Peru 4/30/2019 (25 Nisan) Jared Ian Sambuco 5/21/2019 (16 Iyar) Harry Bennett Lester Botoff Sidney Fetner 5/11/2019 (6 Iyar) Howard (Chaim) Knobel Fred Gold Jeffrey Katcher Marcia Saretsky Donald Janush Irving Levine 5/12/2019 (7 Iyar) 5/22/2019 (17 Iyar) Sally Maletzky Gary Gould Lawrence Arthur Lawrence Richman Helen Penner George Koppelman Gerardo Rosenkranz Ethel G. Levy 5/1/2019 (26 Nisan) Harold Teich Gerald Lipton Irwin Hausman Jacques Charles Tunick Paul Nadel Howard Neu Barry Schaefer

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“An Unusual Jewish Journey Out of this World” A Discussion with Astronaut Dr. Jeffrey Hoffman The first Jewish American man in space Sunday, April 28, 3:00 pm Discussion • Q&A • Meet & Greet • Photos Dr. Hoffman has completed 5 missions into space. Each time he brought a Jewish artifact with him and even read from the Torah while passing over Jerusalem. If you are interested in sponsoring this program, please contact Lori Baden, 203-542-7172, [email protected].

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