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t. of de p t. Photo: LGBTQ Youth in foster care p4 • September 8, 2011 - October 5, 2011 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com You thought Pride Season was over? Think again! In remembering 9/11, we should also acknowledge By: Nicole Lashomb/TRT Editor-in-Chief wife, girlfriend or just your friends for an eve- those that continue to suffer in ongoing war efforts right rainbow flags, after parties, ning of fun and laughter, all gay day all day festivals, rallies, celebrations and long! The entertainment line-up includes: Ju- By: Jason Lydon/TRT Columnist ries of how Japanese- Bjust about everything in between juBee, Miss Kitty Litter & Sabrina Blaze, Derek ept. 11, 2011, marks 10 years after the plane American organiza- weren’t only for the summer months, at Hartley, Khris Francis & Sherry Vine. hijackings that were seen around the world. tions joined together least not in New England. In Septem- SMany of us watched on our televisions as with Muslim Ameri- cans remembering inion ber alone, we are preparing for several RAINBOW RIVERFEST the World Trade Center buildings crumbled to the events where you can be out and proud. Holyoke, MA, Sept. 24 ground and parts of the Pentagon building were the realities of the in- p As you peruse this issue of TRT, you TRT will also produce the 2011 Rainbow Riv- severely damaged. Thousands of people died that ternment of Japanese will notice distinctive Prideful activities erFest Guide, which is the LGBT Coalition of day in a great tragedy. Many families will never Americans in 1942 o happening throughout the month. Western MA’s main fundraiser. Rainbow get to hold, kiss, teach or learn from the loved ones during WWII. When In the center pages of this month’s issue, you RiverFest will take place at the Holyoke Canoe they lost that day. violence comes to can check out the Latino Pride Supplement, Club in Holyoke, Massachusetts. Crystal Waters The loss, tragically, did not stop on that devas- the shores of the Jason Lydon Connecticut Pride Guide and Rainbow River- will be the main headliner of the event. Check tating day. Through the month of September we United States we Fest Guide, all proudly produced by TRT. And, out Waters’ one-on-one interview with TRT in will be bombarded with stories and claims that have a pattern of targeting anyone who looks like dispersed throughout, you can find even more this issue. we were attacked that day because some faceless those who caused us harm. As LGBTQ people we detailed information about other annual festivi- people “hate our freedom.”We will hear the heroic know what this is like. We know that our society ties you don’t want to miss! I’ve summarized 2011 LATIN@ PRIDE story of Mark Bingham, the openly gay man who creates judgements and tries to force all of us into them here too for your convenience. Boston, MA, Sept. 28-Oct. 2 was one of those who helped to crash flight 93 be- their particular boxes of what it means to be gay, We have it for you! Sanctioned by Latin@ fore it could hit its intended target. We will not, lesbian, bisexual and/or transgender. Connecticut Pride Pride, the 2011 Latin@ Supplement has all the however, hear much about the Muslim families The death and destruction that occurred on 9/11 Hartford, CT, Sept. 17 Latino Pride info you need. Be sure to check who were torn apart after that day. We will forget continued when President George W. Bush sent TRT will proudly bring you the 30th Anniver- out the schedule of events and other relevant to tell the stories of how young Muslim men, and bombs and troops to Afghanistan. There were sary CT Pride Guide, which will be inserted in news. TRT is a proud media sponsor of Latino non-Muslims whose families were from the Arab many people who filled the streets of New York TRT’s September 8th, 2011 issue. And, don’t Pride, donating partial proceeds of the Supple- world, were forced to register with the government with tears on their faces as they called out, “our miss out on CT Pride’s great entertainment line ment to Latino Pride. More details inside! and then often deported. grief is not a cry for war.”The violence did not stop up! According to the U.S. Attorney General’s of- with the attacks on Afghanistan, it was then jus- AIDS Walk for Life: fice, over 15,000 people were “detained and tified to start an internationally decried war with AIDS Walk/5K Run & Festival Providence, RI, Oct. 2 arrested”shortly after 9/11. The Immigration and Iraq. The world’s largest protests occurred on Feb. Springfield, MA, Sept. 10 The 26th annual AIDS Walk for Life will Naturalization Services (now renamed Immigra- 15, 2003, and troops still were marched off to war TRT will cover the AIDS Walk/5K Run & take place at the State House lawn on Sunday, tion and Customs Enforcement) along with the and a “shock and awe”attack rained down on the Festival, with 100% of the proceeds going to October 2. Participate, volunteer or sponsor this FBI, began surveillance and and targeted attacks people of Iraq. Thousands of people tragically and fund the AIDS Foundation of Western Massa- important event. The theme of this year’s walk on Arab and Muslim communities, a practice that maliciously died on 9/11, yet over a million have chusetts’ projects. Mark your date, Sept. 10 at is “Take Charge! Get Tested!” The goal is to continues right here in Massachusetts with the died since as a result of U.S. attacks in the Middle 11 a.m. in Forest Park, Springfield, and Walk promote HIV testing among all Rhode Islanders prosecution of Dr. Tarek Mehanna. See Remembering 9/11 on page 4 for HIV/AIDS. TRT is a proud media sponsor who may be at risk for HIV. The mainstream press will neglect to tell the sto- of the AIDS Walk! Have a safe September, Six Flags New England “OUT IN THE PARK” Letters to the Editor The Rainbow Times Agawam, MA, Sept. 18 Nicole Lashomb The Freshest LGBT Newspaper On September 18th, 2011 all roads take you Dear Editor, in New England to Out in the Park, Six Flags New England *Nicole Lashomb is a seasoned journalist Mike Ruiz and Hector Fonseca on the cov- www.therainbowtimesnews.com Gay Day! TRT is also a proud media sponsor and graphic designer. She holds an MBA from er! Yeah! I do appreciate how diverse your Marylhurst University and a Bachelor’s degree content and cover are. It shows that you try to [email protected] of Out in the Park and we will have fun that [email protected] day with you! Don’t forget, the Park is OURS from SUNY Potsdam. To send a letter to the edi- give us all what we want. In my case, please that day, so bring your better half, your hubby, tor, email [email protected]. can you set me up with Hector? ;) Phone: 413.282.8881, 617.444.9618 —Adrian Gomez, Somerville or Fax: 888-442-2421 Dear Adrian, With Fall fast approaching, it’s Back to Business! Thank you for your words. I wish I had the Publisher Columnists power to be able to introduce you to Hector Gricel M. Ocasio Lorelei Erisis By: Jenn Tracz Grace*/CABO’s Executive Director also gearing up for our an- Fonseca. Good luck, however! I hear he is Editor-In-Chief Deja N. Greenlaw ell, it’s September and everyone is nual business expo and an- lovely to deal with. Nicole Lashomb Paul P. Jesep niversary event, which will heading back to school, back to work The Editor Assistant Editor Jason Lydon and back to business. The summer be on October 18th at the W Brianna Snyder Tynan Power months bring about a relaxed nature in the work- Inn at Middletown on Main Dear Editor, Sales Associates Jenn Tracz force and now that fall is rolling in we can all Street in Middletown, CT. I was really impressed with Mr. Jason Ly- Chris Gilmore John Verlinden expect to be back to business very soon! CABO is able to provide don’s story on Amy Winehouse. It made me Liz Johnson CABO has had an exciting summer being services to its member in think about the double standards that we have Reporters large part due to our cor- Lead Photographer named the 2011 Chamber of the Year recepient as a country and how we are harder on women. Glenn Koetzner Chuck Colbert by the National Gay & Lesbian Chamber of Com- porate partnerships, which I was watching a show in which Kristin Da- Clara Lefton merce at the annual Out for Business Conference include; Aetna, Foxwoods, Webmaster Jenn Tracz Grace vis, the Sex and the City star, spoke about the Jarred Johnson Christine Nicco in Las Vegas last month. We are still reeling a bit Murtha Cullina LLP, Com- importance of empowering women because about this award. The Rainbow Times, one of our cast Business Class, Bearingstar Insurance, Nut- Lead Designer Tynan Power women have such a crucial role in children’s Jim Curran Joe Siegel proud Print Media Partners did a Q&A with our meg State Federal Credit Union, Clear Channel lives. If, she said, there were the right empow- Radio and The Rainbow Times. Each of these board president, Dena Castricone and myself. I erment given to women without men feeling The Rainbow Times is published monthly by hope you check it out – it is in this issue! businesses has something great to offer and their threatened, then society as a whole would The Rainbow Times, LLC. TRT is affiliated with the We are in the throws of putting together our commitment and support to the LGBT commu- improve. It is sad, as Mr. Lydon says, how National Gay & Lesbian Chamber of Commerce, 2012 printed member directory and CT LGBT nity is what separates them from the rest. We women and men show sexism toward women. CABO - The Connecticut Alliance for Business buying guide. If you have been thinking about highly encourage you to do business with one It should embarrass us as the democratic and Opportunity, and QSyndicate. The articles written joining CABO but have been on the fence now is or all of them. advanced country that we are to still deal with by the writers, columnists, and correspondents express the time to join to take advantage of being in the their opinion, and do not represent the endorsement women is such a way. After all, there were or opinion of The Rainbow Times, LLC or its owners. directory for the 2012 year! The new directory will * In her role as Executive Director, Jenn is re- no drugs found on Amy Winehouse’s body. sponsible for maintaining and growing member- To write letters to the editor, please send your letters, be released in October at our anniversary event. Shame on those of you who judged! with your name, address and phone number to: The With the summer dying down CABO will be ship, developing strategic business partnerships —Valerie Roth, Cambridge, MA Rainbow Times (address shown above), or e-mail back to our regular meetings in Westport at the and overseeing the day-to-day operations of any comment/s to the editor at: editor@therain- Westport Country Playhouse on the 2nd Thurs- the organization. In addition to being CABO’s Dear Editor, bowtimesnews.com. All submissions will be edited day of the month in the morning. We will also executive director, she also is a small business Your account about your FaceBook experi- according to space constraints. The Rainbow Times, continue to be in the Hartford area on a regular owner specializing in planning, branding, social ence is something I have experienced too. It is LLC reserves the right not to print any or all content, basis on the 1st Thursday of the month. We are media and design services. or advertisements for any reason at all. TRT is not sad to know that friends of friends and fam- responsible for advertising content. To receive The ily members are homophobic and express so Rainbow Times at your home via regular mail, or via social networks. I think it is the religious through electronic delivery, please visit our website. right with their bull crap who deserve to be The whole content and graphics (photos, etc.) are the sole property of The Rainbow Times, LLC and they therainbowtimesnews.com See Letters on page 4 cannot be reproduced at all without TRT’s consent. www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • September 8, 2011 - October 5, 2011 • • September 8, 2011 - October 5, 2011 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Fear v. Justice: Love is the measure of justice Remembering 9/11 from page 2 um? What do these statements say to LGBTQ people here in the United States who can’t get By: Matt Ashby*/Special for TRT and equality of LGBT people as the foundation East. As we grieve the loss of life that occurred 10 years ago we must do so with attention to access to their HIV medication or who are not Justice Antonin Scalia is the U.S. for the legitimacy of continued discrimination. In his dissent from the ruling of Lawrence v. the continuing suffering. getting access to HIV prevention education as Supreme Court’s most outspoken and, The LGBTQ press has an opportunity to join funding gets cut? We need to recognize the many say, persuasive voice against pro- Texas, Scalia writes: “It seems to me that the societal reliance on in the conversation here. Bumper-sticker slo- tragedy of 9/11 within the context of U.S. im- tecting the rights of Lesbian, Gay, and gans are already being thrown around in prepa- Transgendered people. In two LGBT the principles confirmed in Bowers and dis- perialism. If we simply say that “they”hate our carded today has been overwhelming. Countless ration for anniversary commemorations. “Free- freedom, we will not find the justice we need discrimination cases, Romer v. Evans dom isn’t free.”“United We Stand.”“God Bless (1996) and Lawrence v. Texas (2003), judicial decisions and legislative enactments for the world to heal. I hope that our LGBTQ have relied on the ancient proposition that a America.”“These Colors Don’t Run.”What do Scalia wrote scathing dissents from the these statements say to our LGBTQ family family can honor the lives that were lost on Court’s ruling and, with much chagrin, governing majority’s belief that certain sexual that Tuesday 10 years ago without allowing behavior is immoral and around the world? What do these statements predicted the ar- say to the Iraqi queer young people who are the suffering that has gone on since then to be imelight rival of Perry v. unacceptable consti- Is sexuality simply a way of tutes a rational basis for drinking water poisoned with depleted urani- forgotten.

L Schwarzenegger (the California acting, a choice, or, more deeply, regulation.” Tradition might pro- Marriage Equal- an immutable component to our what is the message sent to others through the ity case that is vide acceptable legal Letters from page 2 reasoning, but should questioned. Talk about perverts! Let’s check mistrial? That the lives of LGBT people are not expected to be humanity and way of being? This important. We are expendable and the system, appealed all the that truly rational rea- the church first. Oh, excuse me, we have and is the controversial question soning? Throughout the there are tons of perverts there and pedophiles. our society, says so in so many ways. To heck way to the Su- with it all. Mr. Jesep, you are a great person and preme Court). upon which rests—in the eyes history of the U.S., we Also, I am always glad to see that the Times have had laws promot- I thank you for your story, but I am not so posi-

n the the n I’ve read Sca- always touches on civil rights on most of its of many and the law—the ing genocide, promot- tive about the future of our community. Thanks I lia’s opinions stories. It reminds me of right and wrong and for your columns. I always enjoy reading them on the matter of LGBT ing slavery and slave you guys shine at it. Thanks for giving us the legitimacy of same-sex intimacy. trade, establishing the and they lift me up often. rights, and I don’t find Times! —Carl Summers, West Hartford, CT him to be an extremist bigot. He merely has a inequality of women, immigrants, people of —Olga Beltran, Springfield, MA run-of-the-mill homophobia so common it’s in- color, LGBT people, establishing the disen- Dear Editor, visible to most and insidious to all. Regardless franchisement of most of the population, etc. Dear Editor, I’m sure Scalia could presently make a case for I was happy to see an article on the hate of Perry v Schwarzenegger’s outcome, it will Mr. Jesep’s story and his comments on Judy be Justice Scalia’s voice that resonates with the why most of these laws were unconstitutional crimes that are happening in PR. The island, but, at the time these laws were originally chal- Sheppard and Sister Jeannine Gramick were where my cousins are from, is not a good place worst kind of discrimination, eloquence armor- right. These women have not lost their faith ing ignorance. Although it would be foolish to lenged, few people did and it’s hard to imagine for LGBT people to go. It is scary and the po- he would have either. At the time, just as Scalia and do not blame God for these other abusers lice seems to do nothing. A recent New York try to make a legal argument with a Supreme (who called themselves Christians) who do Court Justice, I want to examine his opinions to has done now, many relied on what they call a Times article mentioned that people are scared “rational-basis” review of traditional principles use God’s name in vain and hurt others just over the wave of crimes happening, especially determine how and what causes one to use the because they live and are protected by a sys- law to perpetuate discrimination. to formulate their views on the way things are the hate crimes against the LGBT community. (in this case, as perceived by the majority). tem that lets them. For instance, look at what I am glad that you had someone cover this Justice Scalia believes that Lesbians, Gays, happened with the mistrial of Lawrence King’s Bisexuals, and Transgendered people are dis- important story because hatred needs to be criminated against lawfully. He repeatedly cites To continue this story, please visit us online at: case. That other kid had thought of killing King known, even if it happens abroad. the Nation’s tradition of curtailing the liberty www.therainbowtimesmass.com/2011/09082011/scaliaoped. many times prior to him actually doing it. And, —Michael Samuels, Providence, RI

Saturday, September 10, 2011 Forest Park · Springfield, MA For more information about this year’s Walk, & how you can fundraise online, please visit: aidsfoundationwm.org FESTIVAL IMMEDIATELY FOLLOWING THE AIDS WALK! Live Music & Performers, Prizes, Food, Kids’ Games, Auctions, On-site HIV Testing, Local Vendors, & Much More! Special thanks to our dedicated sponsors: www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • September 8, 2011 - October 5, 2011 • Walk for Life: Take Charge! Get Tested! 2011 Momentum Report: A milestone for PROVIDENCE, RI— Hundreds of people will LGBT rights that keeps on evolving today participate in the Walk Obama administration praised by MA organization leaders for for Life, one of the big- gest annual fundraisers highlighting the many issues regarding LGBT health disparities for HIV/AIDS. This By: Chuck Colbert/TRT Reporter tions for LGBT employees. And 29 states lack year’s event will be Four decades after the Stonewall Rebellion ig- non-discrimination laws prohibiting discrimina- held at 9:00 on Sunday, nited gay rights and liberation, how is the LGBT tion in employment and housing based on sexual October 2 on the State movement doing? orientation and gender identity. Those states House lawn in Provi- It’s “making considerable progress” but “still include some populous ones — Pennsylvania, dence, RI. is a long way from its goal” of ensuing full Texas, Florida, Ohio, Georgia, and Arizona. The purpose of the Morse Silva of NBC 10 will serve as emcee. equality for LGBT Americans. Overall, movement towards greater LGBT Walk for Life is to raise awareness about HIV/ According to Dr. Michelle Lally from The That’s the bottom-line conclusion from a new equality is most pronounced in the Northeast, AIDS as well as money, which allows AIDS Miriam Hospital, “The need for stepping up study, The 2011 Momentum Report, by an inde- upper Midwest, and West coast, with the rest Project Rhode Island to continue to provide our HIV testing efforts is more important than ever. pendent think tank that provides in-depth analysis of the country lagging behind. In large measure, community with the vital services and education There are many people in Rhode Island who are and research to help speed up LGBT equality. equality depends on where you live. needed to combat HIV/AIDS. infected with HIV and don’t know it. These peo- The 28-page report, released in early August In another important finding from The 2011 This year the theme of our event is Take ple would greatly benefit by knowing their status by the five-year-old Denver-based Movement Momentum Report: “The 10 largest anti-LGBT Charge! Get Tested! and our goal is to promote and receiving medical care so that they can lead Advancement Project (MAP), is available on organizations have a combined revenue of $337 HIV testing among all Rhode Islanders who long and healthy lives. The Walk for Life is a line (www.lgbtmap.org/momentum-report). million, almost four times the total revenue of the may be at risk for HIV. We plan to reach out to great opportunity to spread this message. The The MAP report tracks LGBT movement 10 largest LGBT advocacy organizations ($94.3 all Rhode Island communities to ensure that we sponsors of this event should be proud of their progress using four key indicators. They are million).” And “fewer than 3.4 percent of LGBT have full representation of all individuals poten- contributions to this important cause.” changes in cultural, social and political climate; adults have donated” to advocacy organizations tially impacted by HIV/AIDS. progress on key issues for LGBT Americans; in the movement. In sum, the LGBT movement The Co-chairs for the event are Guy Abelson To register or create a team, please follow this improvements in the lived experiences of LGBT is disadvantaged by under funding. and Josiah Rich, MD, MPH. Honorary chairs link: http://bit.ly/kE8OTE Americans; and the strength and capacity of The report also included a short section on are Governor and Mrs. Lincoln Chafee Barbara LGBT movement organizations. Health and HIV/AIDS, noting that no states Recent advances include repeal of “don’t ask, have legislation addressing health disparities don’t tell,” a shift in public opinion toward major- that LGBT people face. ity support for same-sex marriage, important fed- Additionally, after the first 30 years of AIDS, thanks to you, eral court rulings against the Defense of Marriage HIV infection “is still a significant and growing Act, and marriage equality in New York state. problem” among men who have sex with men. But significant inequalities also exist. For ex- In 2009, 75 percent of new HIV infections were we’ve reached 7K ... ample, committed same-sex couples in 30 states among men — up from 59 percent in 2000. have no legal protections. Thirty-two states lack HIV/AIDS also disproportionately affects meet us now on our fan page! safe school laws that prohibit bullying and ha- communities of color — Latino/as and African rassment based on sexual orientation, with 35 states lacking similar laws based on gender iden- To continue this story, please visit us online at: search the rainbow times to join us! tity. No federal law provides workplace protec- www.therainbowtimesmass.com/2011/08242011/healthdisparities

therainbowtimesnews.com • September 8, 2011 - October 5, 2011 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Never doubt God’s unconditional love and Famed Restaurateur set to open at Mohegan Sun acceptance of you, no matter who you are Joins Celebrity Owners Bobby Flay, Michael Jordan and Todd English By: Paul P. Jesep*/TRT Columnist questions or share your experiences. UNCASVILLE, CT—John J. Tunney III, a res- specialty BALLO cocktails and freshly prepared Much of popular culture today still accepts taurant maverick who is best known for his high- Italian fare from the open pantry while sitting in o matter the support from peers, profile, always-packed creations in New York, a cathedral-like room replete with, Italian fixtures, colleagues or straight friends, some form of hell that involves eternal punish- ment of the worst kind. This stems, in part, from Connecticut, Las Vegas and Atlantic City, will fabrics and dramatic lighting. Move further into Nthere can remain in the LGBT open a 16,000 square foot masterpiece at Mohe- BALLO and visitors to Mohegan Sun can sit at the stunning depictions of damnation by extraor- and Searching Community, consciously gan Sun, to be named BALLO Italian Restaurant one of the largest carrera marble bars ever built or or subconsciously, a feeling of sin, guilt, dinarily talented artists of yesteryear. Although the art is fascinating, it’s not accurate. Hell is and Social Club this month. This will be Tunney’s have dinner in the main dining area. Arches, stone, shame and unworthiness. Priests, rabbis 12th restaurant and his latest after receiving three sensual draperies and bold materials will accent and other spiritual guides have made the not pitchfork-poking demons, caverns of fire and smoke, large meat grinders that grind sin- consecutive New York Times “excellent” reviews this exuberant dining experience. But the food at case intellectually and theologically for for his current properties. BALLO is the real celebration. Tunney is many years that to love and be loved dif- ners up for eternity. These punishments can’t be found in the Hebrew Scriptures nor the New Tunney’s Besito Mexican Kitchen committed to fresh, locally grown ferently is not a sin. and Agave Lounge, with three produce and innovative Italian Despite research, scholarship and reli- Testament. Colorfully written descriptions of hell are the locations in New York and staples you can eat from gious affirmations that members of the Connecticut, was recently noon to midnight, LGBT and Searching Community are ramblings of illiterate monks who drank bad mead, ate funny mushrooms before bed, or were named the #1 Mexican “I’ve always loved the loved and accepted unconditionally by restaurant in the tri-state idea of a pantry; a place God as families and individuals, there delirious with food poisoning. In other cases, talented writers like Dante penned his Inferno area by Open Table. Open where you are watching is doubt. Doubt festers in the deep re- Table also lists Besito the freshest ingredients cesses of the soul. It’s a daily, tortuous and John Milton wrote Paradise Lost, which provided nightmarish descriptions. They’re not West Hartford as the #1 being prepared with the and emotional struggle for some to be- most reserved restaurant least amount of touch by the lieve they are accepted accurate. The Birth of Satan, by T.J. (of any cuisine) in the state of best pair of hands -- and deliv- unconditionally. Connecticut. This is no doubt due ered in an open area as if you’re in I’ve been e-mailed Doubt festers in Wray and Gregory Mobley, The Origin of Satan by Elaine Pa- to Tunney’s ability to immerse himself someone’s kitchen,” he said. many times by LGBT the deep recesses in the culture of the cuisine and craft a property The culinary team of Executive Chef Matthew and Searching Com- gels, and A History of the Devil of the soul. It’s a by Gerald Messadie are among that embodies the spirit of that particular culinary Adler and Chef de Cuisine Shaun Golan will ex- munity members who experience. ecute the creative inspiring menu at BALLO. in the name of god of name the in regularly attend church the books that offer excellent in- daily, tortuous sights into the historical develop- BALLO Italian Restaurant and Social Club will Once you’ve eaten like a high-roller, let the Bac- or temple. Sometimes they wor- bring Tunney’s same passion to the Italian experi- chanal begin. At 11 p.m. on the dot, a rehearsed set ship in a place where they admire and emotional ment of Lucifer. I don’t believe in Satan’s existence. Hence, I don’t ence with intense design combinations, exception- of servers at BALLO will carry out a portion of the and respect the spiritual leader, al service and a fresh, authentic menu of Italian fa- dining room furniture and guests will literally be but who will marginalize their struggle for some believe in vampires and were- wolves. If Satan existed, why vorites and new creations. BALLO, which means able to “dance on tables” -- Italian night life style. personhood or dismiss their lov- to believe they dance in Italian, will also be home to one of the BALLO will be located in Mohegan Sun’s Casino ing, monogamous union by con- couldn’t other monsters? Many are accepted Christian conservatives contend most innovative late-night concepts in the United of the Earth and is set to open this month. demning gay, lesbian, bisexual States. BALLO at Mohegan Sun was inspired by “We’re very excited about this new offering,” or transgender “behavior” in ge- that Satan’s greatest strength is unconditionally. the denial of his existence. Based San Galgano – a Gothic abbey built in the 12th said Mitchell Etess, President and CEO of Mohe- neric terms before the congrega- century and located in the hills of Tuscany. The gan Sun. “Ballo is a unique concept that will fur- tion. If it comes from the spiritual leader who is on this logic the same could be said of lycans and bloodsuckers. sheer magnitude of the project fits perfectly with ther enhance the experience we offer our guests. liked, it is especially painful. the evolving grandeur and elegance of Mohegan We’re thrilled to welcome John Tunney to our Folks also have e-mailed me that they’re It’s been said, written and reinforced that joy, beauty and union with God make the person com- Sun and its connection to nature. group of outstanding restaurateurs.” content with their spiritual family at a church “San Galgano represents all that is spectacular or temple that completely embraced them. De- plete. An absence of joy and beauty hinder unity with God. This is real hell. Unwanted, relentless, about Italy – the history, the passion, the fortitude For more information about BALLO please spite the warm welcome, however, some harbor of the country. What better place to worship the visit www.mohegansun.com/dining/ballo.html. doubt about God’s acceptance. and undeserved feelings of sin, guilt, shame or unworthiness that may exist among members of food of Italy than in a place that replicates their To learn more about Mohegan Sun and its Although there are similarities in the many ex- mastery” says Tunney. wide array of guest amenities, including exclu- periences shared, no two are identical. There’s the LGBT and Searching Community could be a call for a deeper relationship with God. It could Once in the high-impact, high-energy abbey, sive events for the gay community, please visit no one answer or solution to the unique personal guests can enjoy a massive by-the-glass wine list, www.mohegansun.com. spiritual journey. Religion, life experiences and be God’s way of saying there’s always room for social upbringing are among the factors that you at the table. Come as you are. make each journey different. I welcome specific questions sent to the e-mail below. Your expe- *Paul is an author, attorney, and a seminary- NOH8 Campaign adds 200 faces in Provincetown riences can help others not because you have trained ordained priest in greater Albany, N.Y. Provincetown, MA—The NOH8 answers for others or that I can offer any when He is author of Credit Card Usury and the Chris- (No Hate) Campaign held its first you share questions, but each journey provides tian Failure to Stop It — A Call to Social Justice, ever Provincetown open photo perspective. Regardless of your religious beliefs, available on Amazon.com. He may be reached shoot at the Boatslip Resort last if the “spirit” moves you, please e-mail me your at [email protected]. month. Over 200 individuals and 20 volunteers had their photo taken with the NOH8 temporary tattoo on their cheeks and duct tape on their mouths to add their faces to the international anti-discrimination media campaign. The NOH8 (No Hate) Campaign, created by celebrity photographer Adam Bouska and his partner Jeff Photo: courtesy of Wendell Marketing, LLC Parshley, started as a photograph- Adam Bouska, Co-Founder of the NOH8 Campaign, pho- ic silent protest to the passage of Proposition 8 in California and tographing the NOH8 Provincetown Volunteers has grown into an international recognized 501(c)3 charity and campaign bringing awareness all funds raised goes toward to marriage equality and anti- promoting and raising aware- discrimination. Photos feature ness for marriage equality and subjects with duct tape cover- anti-discrimination through its ing their mouths, symbolizing interactive media campaign. the silencing of their voices by The photos taken in Provinc- anti-marriage equality legisla- etown will be edited and made tion, and NOH8 painted on one available for free download at cheek. www.noh8campaign.com in Since the campaigns incep- approximately 8 weeks. Prints tion in 2008, it has grown will also be available for pur- to over 10,000 faces in over Photo: courtesy A. Bouska/NOH8 Campaign chase. For more information 15,000 photographs, including Cape Cod Philanthropist & AIDS on the NOH8 Campaign, visit many well-known celebrities Fundraiser, Nathan Wagner www.noh8campaign.com or and political figures. The NOH8 Campaign is a www.facebook.com/noh8campaign. www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • September 8, 2011 - October 5, 2011 • TRT Heroes: Bobby Rodriguez inspires as LGBT mentor at Baystate Health By: Gricel Martínez Ocasio*/TRT Publisher people to understand that the LGBT community the real heroes (Stephanie Houle, Kimberly Wil- that employees and patients know that we firmly

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Such dedication is also BR: Recently, I’ve seen a sig- transgender patients, and how to better look forward to continuing on and facilitating representative of Baystate’s nificant increase in public edu- serve their specific needs. I have been able to a greater understanding of, and connection with, commitment to LGBT rights. cation through media in a very work with leadership to change policies to ensure the LGBT community. Recently, the Human Rights real way. I think this is a great Campaign, HRC, recognized way to increase the dialogue 9 of Baystate’s health facilities about this important issue and as leaders in “LGBT Health- encourage folks to get tested care Equality.” and be informed. Funding for In this one-on-one interview HIV/AIDS is important and with The Rainbow Times, the certainly needs to increase. Puerto Rican native and Bay- One of the ways I think that state Officer shares his passion will happen is by breaking and commitment to the LGBT down the persistent stereotype community and the origin of that HIV/AIDS is only a “gay such a personal and profes- Photo: Todd Lajoie issue.” sional pledge. Bobby Rodriguez TRT/GMO: What can be done about teen suicides that happen TRT/Gricel Martínez Ocasio: What motivates as a result of bullying or anti-gay sentiment? your work within this community? BR: Bullying is a disease that affects every com- Bobby Rodriguez: First and foremost, my moti- munity. We need to continue educating and vation comes from my friend David. For a very creating communities of respect and inclusion. long time, David was afraid to come out to me for We cannot be complacent or tolerant of such fear of rejection. When I learned that, I couldn’t abuses. Bullying behavior should be confronted believe that someone would be so willing to bury and bullies should be held accountable for their who they are and their happiness than to lose their behavior. friends and family. I had a hard time believing TRT/GMO: How can the average member of that his fear of this had such a major impact on the LGBT community and/or ally make a differ- his life. Because of this, and combined with my ence in our struggle? work as a diversity prac- BR: I think that it makes titioner, I strive to en- Bullying behavior should be a huge difference when sure that LGBT people members of the LGBT are met with equality, confronted and bullies should community and their respect, and inclusion. allies share their stories TRT/GMO: What are be held accountable for and educate others. Sto- the top three issues that their behavior. …but equality rytelling is powerful and affect our community helps others understand the most? is something that you work where a person is com- BR: (1) Communica- towards forever. To use another ing from. Educate those tion. The doors for around you in whatever communication should struggle as an example, women way is comfortable for be opened so that we still are not seen as equal to men you – to one other per- can continue to under- son at a time or to a stand each other across in many realms and still do not group of people. It’s the walls of our respec- have equal pay. also important to speak tive communities. (2) out against injustice Representation. The LGBT community needs when you see it. Don’t stand on the sidelines. to continue to have an increased level of visible TRT/GMO: Will full LGBT equality be representation in leadership positions – organi- achieved in this country during the next 10 years? zationally, politically, socially, etc. (3) In-group 20 years? competition. Like most communities, it seems BR: No. Things might look a lot better than they that the LGBT community spends a great deal of do now in 10 or 20 years, but equality is some- time competing against one another rather than thing that you work towards forever. To use an- coming together for a common goal. other struggle as an example, women still are not TRT/GMO: What is the best advice you have seen as equal to men in many realms and still do ever been given to do the proactive things you do not have equal pay. There will always be a gap today for our community? and we will continue to strive for true equality. BR: When I was growing up, my mother and my TRT/GMO: Do you think that there are special grandfather always encouraged me to understand needs in the Hispanic LGBT community that do the importance of differences. They always en- not exist in the mainstream LGBT community? couraged me to help those who didn’t have the BR: I believe that there are cultural differences advantages that I do and to treat people with re- that make the struggle by Hispanic LGBT indi- spect. I carry those messages with me today as viduals different than that of other communities. 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The evening’s “I was bullied as a kid and NAGLY,” Lauletta said. “I emcee will be Boston’s own when Coco told me that was so flattered to be asked and Fast Freddy from CBS Radio- this was an organization said ‘yes!’ on the spot.” WBMX mix, and will feature Freni stressed the impor- an assortment of savory and that helped kids who tance for youth to know that sweet refreshments and cash were bullied just for they are not alone and that they bar. Other entertainment will being themselves, I was have a safe place and family include: DJ Marc Anthony, available to them, regardless Photo: joseph smileuski ON Jazz singer, Athene Wilson, on board in an instant” of where they are in their lives. Scott Herman Comedy Centrals, Jim Laulet- —Scott Herman This event is considered to be dedicated himself to the organization and urges ta, The Upasana Indian Clas- an integral part in reaching out others to get involved too. sical Dancers and nAGLY youth presentations to others who may not know nAGLY exists. “I was bullied as a kid and when Coco told and awards ceremony. “I am proud to be part of hardworking and me that this was an organization that helped kids nAGLY’s President, of the Board of Direc- dedicated team which includes our youth, board who were bullied just for being themselves, I tors, Kirsten Freni explains that “nAGLY is the and many volunteers who strive to make a differ- was on board in an instant,” Herman said. “Sup- North Shore gathering place that welcomes all ence,” she said. “This is our 4th Annual Event, porting nAGLY is very important to me because THE GLBTQ youth, ages 14 to 23. Meetings provide and each year it grows bigger, and I am so grate- our youth holds the keys to our future and these a safe, open and affirming atmosphere, where ful to all who have made this night a success.” kids need to be able to establish themselves in a teens explore positive ex- nAGLY has been around positive way in our everyday society.” amples of GLBTQ identity, for 19 years and has offered Today, 50-60 youth gather weekly. Advance peer support, safe relation- 19 years of support services tickets for the event can be purchased for $35.00 ships and workshops on to youth, according to Coco at www.nagly.com via PayPal, via e-mail at na- health and wellness.” Alinsug, the organization’s [email protected] with the subject line of Boston-born comedian/ Executive Director. “Tickets,” or by calling 781-913-3747. Tickets actor Jim Lauletta speaks about the significance “nAGLY has reached over 2,000 North Shore price at the door will be $40.00. All proceeds GO! of having organizations like nAGLY. GLBT Youth,” said Alinsug. “More than 40% from the event will go to support NAGLY youth “When I was a teenager, there was nothing of youth are youth of color. Many youth [that programs and outreach. like this around and I feel that it is something nAGLY has served through the years] are now You can also find nAGLY via the organiza- very helpful to our gay youth today in order to in their 30’s and 40’s.” tion’s FaceBook page at: www.facebook.com/ find self-acceptance early on in their develop- Heatlh and fitness guru Scott Herman has also northshoreglbtyouth. www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • September 8, 2011 - October 5, 2011 • 10 • September 8, 2011 - October 5, 2011 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Sir Elton, Glee, and Young Carrie Bradshaw Chronicles Crystal Waters set to headline Rainbow By: Romeo San Vicente* /Special for TRT Elton John ditches RiverFest fundraiser, an intimate portrayal gnomes for trolls By: Christine Nicco/TRT Reporter CW: Fun, a little to the left, full of energy and Elton John’s movie From a young age, Music was no stranger to love. producing arm, Rock- Crystal Waters’ home. Junior Waters, her father, CN: Tell me something about you that your fans et Pictures, scored was a well-known jazz musician and her great would be surprised to know. a solid hit with this aunt, Ethel Waters, was one of the first African- CW: I’m not dead! (Laughs.) Oh let me think, spring’s Gnomeo & American vocalists to appear in mainstream I’m big time into metaphysics, I meditate every Juliet, an animated Hollywood musicals. day, burn sage, light candles and send love to reworking of Romeo A Philly native, Waters first majored in com- them every day. and Juliet featuring puter science at How- CN: In 2007, you em- talking, singing gar- ard University and barked on a world tour. den gnomes. Filled later launched what What was your best ex- to the brim with John’s classic hit singles, could be perhaps the perience on that tour? the film made almost 2$ 00 million world- greatest musical ac- What was your worst wide. And because it’s a short leap from complishment of her experience? gnomes to trolls, that’s where Rocket’s career when she landed CW: The best is al- going next. Will Gallows and the Snake- Photo: Andrew Macpherson/Miramax one of 1991’s Bill- ways when the crowd Bellied Troll, a live-action/CGI-animated Elton John board hits with “Gypsy seems to really enjoy Woman (She’s Home- the show. I love being feature based on the first in a series of mission opens Off Broadway this fall, audiences kid-aimed books by author Derek Keilty, less).” The song, an on stage [and] my only can expect to see a side of Jonathan Groff (Spring creative amalgamation desire is that everyone is already in production with Gnomeo’s Awakening/Glee) they might not have experienced writer/director Kelly Asbury. The story of anger, irony, and is having a good time. before. The Tony nominee will be joined by True humor garnered her in- I got a lot of love. combines elements of Wild West cowboy Blood star Rutina Wesley (as a woman who be- adventure and, well, trolls from a fantasy ternational household The worst is having to comes involved in Groff’s hoax) as well as by recognition. Since then sue people who think universe. There’s no voice cast set up just Eddie Kaye Thomas (American Pie) as Groff’s inside hollywood inside followed her debut LP, you’re stupid. yet, but it’s safe to expect that John will boyfriend, with directing duties handled by Tony contribute in some way to the film’s score. Surprise, Storyteller in CN: What is the most p winner Walter Bobbie (Venus In Fur/Chicago) So No gay troll jokes please. 1994, and a self-titled important lesson if you’re planning a New York theater trip this fall, album in 1997. you’ve learned in life put it at the top of your to-see list; serious drama This year, Water’s will or the music industry? Glee’s Jonathan Groff and True Blood’s – especially serious drama about touchy issues like Rutina Wesley join The Submission be headlining the stage CW: …To love your- race – never sticks around as long as the ones with at Rainbow RiverFest, self first and believe in dee When a gay white male playwright pos- catchy songs and cat costumes. es as an African-American female in order the annual fundraising yourself. When you do event for the LGBT that, so will others. to pen a story about an alcoholic black mother, Are you ready for The Young Carrie Bradshaw only to be discovered in that lie, the consequences Coalition of Western Photo: Courtesy of t-besttalentagency.com CN: For all the young Chronicles? Mass, a Northamp- LGBT kids who want aren’t going to be the stuff of fluffy musical the- From this summer’s X-Men: First Class to the Crystal Waters ater. So when the non-musical drama The Sub- ton-based 501 (c)(3) to make it in the indus- upcoming The Amazing organization dedicated to improve and preserve try, what piece of advice can you give them? Spider-Man, youthful re- the well-being of LGBT and Queer-identified CW: Well to add on to what I said, don’t wait boots are all the rage – but people of all races and ethnicities through edu- for someone else to validate you. Know who prequels aren’t just for su- cation, advocacy and outreach programs. you are, believe in yourself and the others will perheroes anymore. And In a pre-performance interview, TRT caught follow. Always be humble. You never know while first there were just up with Water’s and chatted with her about her whose hand you’re shaking. They may not help rumblings, there are now sensational career and a few other tidbits you you today but who knows how they will be in more definite plans for never knew about this acclaimed pop diva. three years. They might just be the one. On the HBO’s developing series technical side, study songwriting/song structure. (that would probably air Christine Nicco: Your father, Junior Waters You don’t have to go to school for that. Listen elsewhere, most likely the and great aunt, Ethel Waters, were extremely closely to the music you like, break it down, and CW) focusing on younger successful in the music industry. How has your hear how it’s built. When you hand your music versions of the Sex and family legacy in music affected your drive in the to a label person all they want to hear is how the City quartet. Imagine business? they are going to make money with you. Is your something along the lines Crystal Waters: Well, I think growing up music radio friendly—College, Country, Jazz, of Smallville, only with around music and around people who think etc.? If they can’t place you in category where Carrie, Miranda, Charlotte in the terms of music was very helpful. I can’t they can make money, no matter how great you and Samantha instead of imagine being in a family [that didn’t] really un- are, they won’t help. Clark Kent. With two re- derstand my music aspirations. But on the other cent “Teen Carrie” books hand, I saw some of the mistakes that were made To learn more about Crystal Waters and her by Candace Bushnell, The and how to deal with the business side of things. upcoming performances, please visit: www. See Hollywood this page It was very nice to have that support behind me theoneandonlycrystalwaters.com. To find about when I first started out. more about the Rainbow RiverFest, the LGBT CN: At eleven years old, you started writing po- Coalition of Western Mass.’ annual fundraiser, etry and were later inducted into the American please visit: www.rainbowriverfest.org. Poetry Society as the youngest person to ever receive that honor. Have you used any of your poetry as lyrics to your music? If so, which songs? Hollywood continued from this page CW: When I started out, I used some of my po- Carrie Diaries and Summer in the City, fresh- etry. On the first album, there was a song called ly ready for adaptation, this could all get mov- Deepest of Hearts which was a poem. Writing ing quickly. Early casting news buzzing about poems is a bit different structurally than writ- Blake Lively has now grown to include talk of ing songs so as time went on, I morphed into Emma Roberts. Who knows, maybe Selena Go- a songwriter. I haven’t written any poems in a mez is looking to change her image; if so, then while but i do jot down emotional ideas, like in a there’s your Charlotte. And if the show wanted poem, and use that to create a song. to incorporate a genuine element of the surreal CN: Do you have a favorite song or record? into the proceedings, they could just let Kim Which one and why? Cattrall keep playing Samantha. OK, maybe CW: Do I have an all-time favorite song? Samantha’s slutty grandmother. 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ra a prog m of The Latin@ Pride 2011 details inside! Supplement Producer & Media Partner 14 • September 8, 2011 - October 5, 2011 • Latin@ Pride 2011 Supplement • www.therainbowtimesnews.com 2011 LATINO LGBT PRIDE CELEBRATION: Fostering diversity in Boston & Beyond! Events announced for Wed., Sept. 28 – Sun., October 2 Boston, Ma—Latin@ Pride, now a program of Committee, “It’s going to be a high-spirited, parent organization Boston Pride, is extremely fun, friend and family-filled week.” proud to announce the calendar of events for The Community Awards Reception, a corner- the 2011 Latino LGBT Pride Celebration. Event stone of the Latino LGBT Pride Celebration, will and activities range from their annual Commu- take place on Saturday, October 1 at the Foun- nity Awards Reception and a panel discussion dation Room on Landsdowne St. Tix $50 at the presented in collaboration with the Hispanic door/$35 in advance online at www.boston- Black Gay Coalition to a Pageant at Fran’s Place pride.org/support/donate. Additionally, tickets in Lynn and a Family picnic in the Jamaica Plain for the Miss & Mister Latino of Massachusetts neighborhood. Pageant are $10 at the door. Proceeds from Co-Chairs Marta Perrupato and Paul Carnes both events benefit Latin@ Pride. For full calen- are steering the Latin@ Pride Committee and dar, visit www.bostonpride.org/latinopride. working closely with Keri Aulita, Deputy Direc- tor of Boston Pride, to produce the five-day Boston Pride produces events and activities series of events. Says Perrupato, “Our goal is to achieve inclusivity, equality, respect, and to present a calendar of events that appeals awareness in Greater Boston and beyond. Fos- to everyone. You want to dance, we have club tering diversity, unity, visibility, and dignity, we nights. You want to talk about issues affect- educate, communicate, and advocate by building our community, we have discussions. You ing and strengthening community connec- want to spend the day with your family and re- tions. To that end, the Boston and Latin@ Pride ally good food, we’ll meet together at the park Committees merged in April 2011 with the goal for a picnic.” of expanding Latin@ Pride’s reach and bringing Echoes Carnes, who is new to the Latin@ Pride communities together. Meet the 2011 Latin@ Pride Co-Chairs Marta Perrupato has been a queer activist in the Boston area for the past fifteen years, collaborating with groups such as the Lesbian Avengers, MTPC and Somos Latin@s. Currently a community health worker at Fenway Health Center, Marta provides valuable resources to connect people with affordable health care. Marta’s identities as a queer and as a Cuban-Ameri- can inform her activism and her connections in her communities. Recipient of last year’s Somos Latin@s GLBT Latin@ Community Member Award, Marta is excited to be co-Chairing this year’s Latin@ Pride. Marta currently resides in the Pegasus house in Jamaica Plain and is proud to call Boston home.

Paul Carnes is an engineer, author, and entrepreneur. He comes to us from the southern state of Alabama, where he spent much of his time fighting for equal rights. He is serving his second term on the Alabama State Executive Committee and was the Southeast coordinator for Equality Alabama. He has also served in the board of the Equality Fund of Alabama and as director of fundraising. Paul was an important force in getting the first openly gay politician in Alabama elected. Paul moved to Boston to attend Harvard Business School. 2011 Latin@ Pride Committee Members Co-Chairs: Marta Perrupato & Paul Carnes H Deputy Director: Keri Aulita Committee Members: Zulma Acosta H Katherine N. Adams H Patricia Arevalo Isabella Cavallier H Peter Costanza H Daniela De Sousa H Lisa Harrison Joel Marshall H Henry Paquin H Kryzia Salgado H Jeffrey Stott H Hana Tauber Adrienne Thomas H Lina Torres H Corey Yarbrough Latin@ Pride Celebration Wednesday, Sept. 28 - Sunday, Oct. 2 Important Information to remember: · Boston Pride’s Latino Committee · All meetings will be held is hard at work planning the at the Boston Pride Office in 2011 Latin@ Pride Celebration. The Non-Profit Center · The Latin@ Pride Committee (www.nonprofitcenterboston.org) meets the 1st and 3rd Monday at 89 South Street, Boston 02111. of each month at 6PM, · If you’re interested in joining beginning on July 18th. the committee, email [email protected]. www.therainbowtimesnews.com • Latin@ Pride 2011 Supplement • September 8, 2011 - October 5, 2011 • 15 Latino/Hispanic facts that you may not know: The 2011 ¿Sabía usted que ... • Did you know that … Latin@ Pride of · Latinos tend to support corporations and · According to surveys, almost all adult chil- Latin@ Pride, but are not as diverse in the activi- Massachusetts businesses which specifically reach out to dren of Latino immigrants are really comfort- ties they hold, according to one of its founders. them, i.e., support the causes they are involved able with English, but their parents frequently Pageant currently with or close to? As a general rule, these spe- are not (only 23% report being skilled English- · In April 2010, Boston Pride took over Somos cific LGBT Latino friendly venues are where La- speakers) – making it even more important Latin@s LGBT Coalition to add more diversity accepting tinos most often interact with advertisers and for Spanish-language media to be inclusive to the organization’s long-lasting support of read specific LGBT programming editorial in a in order to change hearts and minds in Latino other race and ethnic groups? Boston Pride contestants bilingual/bicultural manner. ** communities.* mission is to produce events and activities to achieve inclusivity, equality, re- The 2011 Latin@ Pride is currently accept- · TRT is the most read LGBTQ spect, and awareness in Greater ing contestants’ applications (to enter visit: newspaper by Latinos in New · As of 2007, Latinos became the largest Boston and beyond. Fostering http://bit.ly/nRmpVz) for the titles of Miss England? With a 12.2% of the diversity, unity, visibility, and and Mister Latin@ Pride of Massachusetts! Latino LGBTQ readership in New ethnic minority in the United States dignity, Boston Pride educates, To apply, complete and submit the appli- England, according to a media (50 million people), surpassing African communicates, and advocates by cation by September 14th. For more info, survey conducted by an inde- building and strengthening com- email: [email protected]. pendent third party agency (CMI, Americans? A CMI, Inc. research found munity connections. The 2011 Latin@ Pride of Massachusetts Inc.), TRT holds a loyal place in the Pageant will take place on Sunday, Octo- hearts and minds of Latino LG- that proportionately, LGBT Latinos are · The former Somos Latin@s ber 2, 2011, from 8-10 p.m. It will be held BTQ readers. LGBT Coalition held an annual at Fran’s Place (www.gofrans.com) located also the second largest demographic event recognizing Latino/His- at 776 Washington St. Lynn, Ma 01901. · Latin@ Pride’s former organi- panic LGBT community members The door admission is $10. The event will zation name was Somos Latin@s in the LGBT community.** for their outstanding job in their be hosted by Boquita, with other special LGBT Coalition, which ran the only community? The site lists the performances. Prizes include cash prize, Latino Pride event in the country? Founded in · TRT runs a Spanish-language page called recipients of the awards (http://www.somos- crown, sash, and more to come. 2003, some of Somos Latin@s fore founders Latin Vision? Latin Vision is written by Wilfred latinoslgbt.org/id1.html) since 2004 and their The Boston Pride Committee developed this are Wilfred Labiosa along with Diego Sanchez, Labiosa, current CASPAR Executive Director advocacy work since then. pageant for entertainment purposes. Con- Evelyn Rivera, and Emely Ortiz. and former Boston Pride vice-president. Wil- testants can enter into whichever category fred has served in various capacities in many * Excerpts for some of this information came they’d like to, based on their own defini- · As of 2007, Latinos became the largest eth- organizations, some of them are: Group of La- from GLAAD: http://bit.ly/nhMsCj tion/display of their gender identity or what nic minority in the United States (50 million tino Gay Men of Boston, Proyecto LUNA (proj- **From CMI’s 5th Annual LGBT Community they’re in the mood for that day! people), surpassing African Americans? A CMI, ect for the young Latino LGBT youth), Latinas Survey™ (http://bit.ly/mVtp7g) Inc. research found that proportionately, LGBT Lesbianas, member of the National Coalition Latinos are also the second largest demo- of LGBT Health, member and organizer of the graphic in the LGBT community.** Pa’Fuera Pa’Lante Conferences and meetings, reach out to a dedicated readership & informed community... National LLEGO, member of the Board of Di- · Hispanic Buying Power is projected to reach rectors of Boston Pride, Boston PFLAG, Ryan advertise today @ therainbowtimesnews.com $1.3 Trillion by 2015? According to Census Bu- White Title I Planning Council, New England reau, Hispanic business ownership is growing Association of LGBT Psychologists, etc. three times as fast as the national average. · According to a Harris Interactive Survey com- · There is only a handful Latino LGBTQ news- missioned by GLAAD, Hispanics were often more paper publishers in the U.S., one of which is supportive around key issues facing the LGBT The Rainbow Times’ Publisher Gricel Martínez community than Whites and African Americans, Ocasio? Gricel Martínez Ocasio is one of the co- even showing the most support among all seg- founders and co-owners of TRT. ments on allowing openly gay military person- nel to serve in the armed forces (76% Hispanic, · Latin@ Pride (Orgullo Latino) was first cel- 63% White, 61% African American).* ebrated in Boston in 2004? A few of their fore founders are Wilfred Labiosa, Lisbeth Melen- · Latin@ Pride of Boston was the first celebra- dez, Evelyn Rivera, Diego Sanchez, Cristian Pi- tion of its kind, the oldest, in the nation and the mentel, Tish Sterling, Orlando Colón, Luis Uri- one with the longest duration (from a weekend zandi, Javier Pagan, and many more from the to a whole week)? Currently, there are other La- Latino LGBT and ally communities. tino Pride celebrations, modeled after Boston’s

he advertisers in this Latin@ Pride 2011 TSupplement show their support to the Latino LGBTQ Community and embrace the diversity of it. Please, take a moment to peruse through this Special Supplement to TRT and thank them for their support, or visit their establishments/offices. They will thank you for it, and so will we at TRT!

therainbowtimesnews.com 16 • September 8, 2011 - October 5, 2011 • Latin@ Pride 2011 Supplement • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Memorable Calendario de Eventos Quotes by Important Latino H de Orgullo Latino H Leaders & Allies: “I feel confident in saying yes; there are often specific challenges for a person who Latin@ Pride Calendar is holding these two identities. One example is how the historically deep-seated homophobia and transphobia that exits HHH of Events HHH within the Latino community may make it ¿Qué es la difficult for LGBTQ Latinos to turn to their families in times of need, such as when The Foundation Room HBGC y qué they experience discrimination out in the Wednesday, Sept. 28 15 Lansdowne Street, Boston • 7-10PM world, or when they simply want to share Tickets are $50 at door, $35 advance and hace en la the joys of a new love.” Opening Event: – Marta Perrupato, Co-Chair, Latin@ Pride Details coming soon! Stay tuned to includes light fare and admission to EPIC www.bostonpride.org/latinopride for all Saturdays at the House of Blues directly comunidad “To me, it feels as though the Hispanic the details!! after the event • 21+ community is decades behind in terms of To purchase tickets: Latina LGBTQ? their willingness to discuss LGBT issues and Latin@ Night at Rumor www.bostonpride.org/support/donate accept that a person’s identity is part of Get the party started early with Boston’s (please indicate names so that we can add La organización HBGC (Hispanic who they are.” longest running Latin night. you to the paid guest list at the door) Black Gay Coalition) de Boston está – Bobby Rodriguez, Chief Diversity Officer, Rumor Nightclub All proceeds benefit Latin@ Pride. dedicada a servir y unir a la comuni- Baystate Health 100 Warrenton Street, Boston dad LGBTQ Afro Americana y Latina. $20 • 21+ Trabajamos para inspirar y fortalecer “We should all be welcoming of the Epic @ the House of Blues diversity within our community, whether it A portion of the door benefits Latin@ Pride. Presented by Chris Harris Presents and Rafael individuos de la comunidad LGBTQ relates to racial, ethnic, sexual orientation Sanchez/Gay Mafia •21+ Afro Americana y Latinos, para me- jorar sus vidas a través del activismo, or gender identity differences. Segregation The House of Blues educación, y consejería. of any type will only hurt our struggle and Thursday, Sept. 29 15 Landsdowne Street, Boston El enfoque de HBGC es: our quest towards universal human rights.” GENERACIONES: · Servicios de apoyo al salir del “clóset” – Gricel Martínez Ocasio, Publisher, Nuestro Pasado, Sunday, Oct. 2 · Consejería y prevención de las Enfer- The Rainbow Times Presente y Futuro medades de Transmisión Sexuales “Many times Hispanic/Latino members of Un panel de discusión sobre la ubicación de Family Picnic (ETS) y VIH the LGBT community face an additional lo que la comunidad Boston Latino/Latina and Potluck in the Park · Apoyo de crecimiento espiritual layer of discrimination because of their LGBTQ fue, lo que es hoy, donde la vemos · Oportunidades de servicios a la Bring your friends, families, loved ones, comunidad race. This can result in ostracism not just mañana y lo que podemos hacer para games to play, and good food to share at within the Hispanic community, but also seguir adelante. · Oportunidades de Construcción y our potluck in the park. Let’s celebrate our Contactos de la comunidad the LGBT community.” GENERATIONS: Our Past, fabulous and diverse families and food – Bernadette Stark, partner, Visite nuestra página cibernética: Dinsmore Stark, Attorneys At Law Present & Future while having some outdoor fun! www.hbgc-boston.org A panel discussion about where the Boston Some games will be provided for the little o www.facebook.com/hbgcboston “While belonging to two communities may Latino/Latina LGBTQ community was, where and not-so-little kids! There will also be seem like a blessing ... more to celebrate, it is today, where we see it going tomorrow tabling by local community organizations, cultural rites and passages to practice, a and what we can do to move forward. so get ready for the freebies. • All ages double sense of belonging, a richness that Harriett Tubman House Location TBD • 12-4PM comes from blended identity, the flip side Lincoln House Room What is HBGC is also true. LGBT people of color, including 566 Columbus Ave., Boston • 6-8PM Miss and Mister our Latino/a brothers and sisters, run the Free and open to all Latin@ Pride of & what does risk of being ostracized by both communi- Hosted by the Hispanic Black Gay Coalition ties to which they belong. Too often we (HBGC) in collaboration with Latin@ Pride. Massachusetts Pageant it do in the hear stories of LGBT people of color not Hosted by Boquita with special performanc- feeling welcome in LGBT circles or being GlamLife @ Estate es by Alexis J-Matrix, Matt Leonard (Boston Boston’s #1 Thursday night Hosted by Ju- LGBTQ Latino told that they’ve disgraced their family Pride King 2011) Lakia Mondale (Boston name. THIS is why we celebrate and honor JuBee with special guest star Alexis Mateo, Pride Queen 2010) and many more. from RuPaul’s Drag Race community? the Latino LGBT Community, to assure that Plus, music by DJ Double D. Come out Latino/a LGBT people can be all of who Estate Nightclub and watch the crowing of Miss and Mister 1 Boylston Place, Boston • 10:30PM–2AM Founded in 2009, the Hispanic Black they are.” Latin@ Pride of Massachusetts and, when Gay Coalition (HBGC) is one of new – Keri Aulita, Deputy Director, Boston Pride $10 • 21+ it’s all over, stay to dance at Fran’s long-run- non-profit organizations in Boston A portion of the door benefits Latin@ Pride. ning Latin Night. dedicated to the unique and complex “They [young poor LGBTQ people of color] Fran’s Place needs of the Hispanic/Latino and are having a really different experience Friday, Sept. 30 776 Washington Street, Lynn • 8-10PM Black LGBTQ community. HBGC coming out. There is really no place for $10 • 18+ works to inspire and empower them to go.” Details coming soon! Stay tuned to If you are interested in being a contestant, Hispanic/Latino and Black LGBTQ – Nelson Román, Holyoke Para Todos, www.bostonpride.org/latinopride for all complete and return the application at individuals to improve their liveli- Board President the details!! www.bostonpride.org/pageant by Sept. 14 hood through activism, education, “We as a Latino LGBT community should or contact [email protected]. outreach and counseling. take the initiative to educate others in the All proceeds benefit Latin@ Pride. Services HBGC offer includes: Latino community about the diversity, and Saturday, Oct. 1 · Coming Out Support issues affecting the LGBT brothers and Latin@ Pride Community Hot Mess Sunday... · HIV & STI Prevention and Counseling sisters.” · Spiritual Growth Support – Wilfred Labiosa, Executive Director, CASPAR Awards Reception Latino Style! · Community Service Opportunities Join us for the annual celebration to honor Close out the week with Destiny and DJ · Community Building and Network- “We need to stand up to bullying and hate- outstanding contributors to the Latin@ Richie LaDue at Underbar. ing Opportunities speech with every opportunity-not just LGBT community and celebrate another Underbar For more information visit: [LGBTQ] community members, but allies year of Pride. Mix, mingle, and party while 275 Tremont Street, Boston www.hbgc-boston.org too. Maybe even more importantly allies.” paying tribute to our do-good community $10, 21+ or www.facebook.com/hbgcboston – Glenn Koetzner, Owner, Crazy Dog members and allies. A portion of the door benefits Latin@ Pride. Photography & Lead Photographer, TRT www.therainbowtimesnews.com • Latin@ Pride 2011 Supplement • September 8, 2011 - October 5, 2011 • 17 Éxito LGBT en Cuba se debe a CENESEX y Mariela Castro Espín Transexual se casa con hombre gay el día del cumpleaños de Fidel Castro Por: Camilo García/Especial para TRT hace un par de años Marilyn Solaya realizara el y con gran valentía para desterrar prejuicios y ran revuelo ha causa- documental “En el cuerpo equivocado”. estigmas contra las personas trans en el país. he Rainbow do en la prensa inter- Pero la cacareada boda no hubiera tenido A la celebración asistieron artistas y personali- nacional, alrededor tanto revuelo internacional si Ignacio no se dades de mucho prestigio … y también estaba Times is a G autoproclamara “disidente” del gobierno revo- la prensa internacional acreditada en Cuba. Sin T del 13 de agosto, la boda entre Wendy e Ignacio, su- lucionario. De ahí que embargo, llamó la aten- proud sponsor of puestamente “la primera los invitados de lujo a ción la ausencia de cobe- the 2011 Latin@ boda gay” en Cuba, en la esta boda, declarado rtura, salvo alguna que que ella es una transexual por ellos mismos, han otra aislada mención y a Pride celebration. operada con cambio de sido Yoani Sánchez y propósito de la public- wilfred labiosa wilfred E identidad—o sea, legal- su esposo, las Damas itada boda. TRT takes all of mente mujer—y él es de- de Blanco y los funcio- Sin contar el ansia de hoto: hoto: p claradamente gay. narios de la Sección de protagonismo que so- the diversity Mucho se ha dicho—y demostrado—del pa- Intereses de los Estados bresale en esta historia, el pel de los medios en crear una imagen alrededor Unidos en La Habana. hecho de que una mujer of our LGBTQ de un hecho … y mucha mentira se ha tejido Sin olvidar que, de- transexual operada y con también alrededor de esta historia. Porque, a mi jando a un lado las cambio de identidad se communities entender, ni esto ha sido una “boda gay” —real- ingenuidades, pesa case en la más tradicional seriously and izada en el más estrepitoso estilo de revistas del mucho el anuncio de la de las ceremonias nup- corazón, entre un hombre y una mujer—ni es la propia administración ciales lo que demuestra advocates for those primera transexual que se casa en Cuba. estadounidense de es que la Revolución El calificativo de “primera boda gay” es muy haber aprobado $300 cubana, y el CENESEX without a voice. relativo porque, en todo caso, sería muy sim- mil dólares este año en particular, han hecho bólica. Desafortunadamente, el matrimonio en- para organizar un mov- un sistemático y exitoso Thank you for tre personas del mismo sexo todavía no es legal imiento LGBT “indepen- trabajo para el respeto en Cuba y muchas personas lo habrán hecho diente” en Cuba. ¿Inde- y reconocimiento de los reading TRT! así en la privacidad de su casa, con mayor o pendiente de quién? derechos de las personas menor revuelo. Recuerdo que en 2007 fue muy Leyendo claramente: LGBT. Y hacerlo el 13 de conocida la ceremonia simbólica de Elizabeth y para desacreditar el agosto, día del cumplea- Mónica, en las instalaciones del CENESEX y con trabajo institucional del ños de Fidel, no puede el auspicio del grupo de mujeres lesbianas y bi- CENESEX, liderado por Photo: Wilfred Labiosa ser más que un recono- sexuales “Oremi”. Mariela Castro Espín. Wendy Iriepa posa con un amigo de la cimiento a ello. Por otra parte, la primera transexual que fue Precisamente en esos comunidad. operada en Cuba en 1988 (Mavi Susset) ya se ha días, más exactamente Para más información therainbowtimesnews.com casado en dos ocasiones anteriores, sin que la el 12 de agosto, se celebró en el CENESEX una sobre esta polémica, lea “El Desafío de una Tran- prensa haya prestado atención y en medio de fecha importante: el 10mo aniversario del Grupo sexual Vestida de Novia” por Dalia Acosta que se la discreción que ha tenido su vida—hasta que TransCuba, que ha trabajado sistemáticamente encuentra en: http://bit.ly/oUQqYp 18 • September 8, 2011 - October 5, 2011 • Latin@ Pride 2011 Supplement • www.therainbowtimesnews.com Sylvia Rivera: ¡Una mujer activista para la historia! Por: Wilfred W. Labiosa*/Columnista de TRT (“Nuyorricans”) como mu- uestros pa- jer Latina. La conocemos dres y abue- más por su participación en los siempre las protestas de Stonewall N y su trabajo a favor de los hablan de la historia y de los “buenos derechos humanos para tiempos”. Ya que personas transgéneros, ni- vamos a celebrar ños desamparados, jóvenes LGBT y mujeres violadas.

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hoto: hoto: más vieja y larga p celebración en su to transgénero”. índole en esta Nación, quise buscar En sus últimos años de alguien LGBT de esos “buenos tiem- vida, habló sobre la nece- pos”. De los tiempos cuando se hacían sidad de unificar la comu- protestas en las esquinas en contra de nidad Latina y transgénero Photo: Kay Tobin Lahusen Did you latin vision latin alguna norma injusta o en contra de para educar a otros/as so- Sylvia Rivera bre la riqueza de nuestra alguna situación política. Me vino a la mente es tan malo como la furia de una draga – ‘Hell know that la protesta de Stonewall y me recordé de Syl- historia LGBT. Ella siempre habló del legado histórico de las transgéneros de Stonewall. hath no fury like a drag queen scorned.’” via Rivera, una de las pioneras en la comunidad Hablé con otros/as que conocían a Sylvia LGBT en los Estados Unidos y el Mundo. Nació y Ella participó en la Marcha del Milenio en Ita- Fenway lia donde fue venerada como la Madre de los y todos/as me dijeron que era una persona se crio en la ciudad de Nueva York, de descen- excepcional. Sylvia fue parte de la historia de dencia Puertorriqueña y Venezolana. Nació Rey Gays. En el 2001, renovó su compromiso con la comunidad formalizando la organización lla- Stonewall ya que fue una de las únicas Lati- Health pero murió una Reina del activismo – una de las nas que estuvo allí y abogó por la inclusión de primeras activistas contemporáneas y la única mada Las Transgeneros Revolucionarias de la Calle en Acción – STAR por sus siglas en inglés, Transgéneros a través de los años. En la historia has a en sus tiempos, Latina y transgénero. Nació y LGBT en los Estados Unidos se habla de Stone- fue una niña huérfana pero falleció alrededor Street Transgender Action Revolutionaries. Esta organización, aún existe y aboga por la acep- wall pero no de Sylvia – es tiempo que reconoz- de todas sus hijas adoptivas y familiares. Desde camos que Sylvia estuvo allí y que ella abogó Spanish el cuarto grado comenzó su transición a mujer. tación de personas transgéneros en la sociedad y por la igualdad de derechos. Desde su cama por todos/as nosotros/as como comunidad La- Por muchos años vivió en las calles de Nueva tina GLBT. Su legado no murió de cáncer en el York pero falleció en los corazones de mucho/ y antes de morir se reunió con legisladores y information activistas para que organizaciones y la legisla- 2002, sino que creció. La Organización Proyecto as en el mundo entero, ya que hizo la diferencia Sylvia Rivera fue formalizada en su honor para en nuestras vidas como activista transgénero tura incluyeran a personas trans en leyes y en line? el movimiento. Ella siempre quiso incluir a las seguir abogando por la libre expresión de gé- Latina. nero e identidad, sin discriminación ni violen- Desde la Guerra de Vietnam hasta su muerte, transgéneros en todo y nunca se dio por venci- do. Aunque fue rechazada por muchos/as en la cia. Ella fue incluida en el primer tomo de La fue activista para un sinnúmero de causas. Par- Historia Lesbiana y Gay; también la esquina de ticipó en los grupos Black Panthers y gangas comunidad Gay y Lesbiana ella nunca decayó o To reach se bajó de “la tribuna”. Ella decía: “El infierno no las calles de Christopher y Hudson (dos bloques de Stonewall) en Manhattan fue renombrada como La Esquina Rivera en su honor. Esta esqui- someone na fue a donde Sylvia comenzó el movimiento transgénero tirando sus zapatos (y botellas) a in Spanish, los policías en aquel día de Junio 28—las protestas de Stonewall. En el 2007, escribieron un musical, obra de teatro y un sinnúmero de call: artículos y libros en su honor. Además su familia LGBT e hijas adoptivas siguen el trabajo de su 617.927.6460 mamá, de nuestra mamá. Sobre su participación en la Protesta de Stonewall ella dijo que en ese momento ella se dijo a sí misma, “No voy a perder un minuto de esto, esto es la revolución que esperaba … Nos han tratado como mierda todos estos años. Ahora es nuestro turno”. Es tiempo de aprender de nuestra historia, de esos “buenos tiempos” y celebrar nuestro Orgullo Latino LGBT! *Escrito y editado por Wilfred Labiosa, psicólogo y representante local de Unid@s: La Organización Nacional Latina LGBT. www.therainbowtimesnews.com • Latin@ Pride 2011 Supplement • September 8, 2011 - October 5, 2011 • 19 racias por leer el periódico Gpredilecto de la comunidad he Rainbow Times holds 12.2% of the Latino LGBTQ Latina/Hispana. The Rainbow Times Treadership in New England (independent third party es el periódico que la comunidad ¡Saludos! Latina/Hispana LGBTQ lee más. ¡No De parte de Lambda Legal, felicitámos a research). If you want to reach the Hispanic/Latino LGBTQ Massachusetts por este exitoso festival de or- community, TRT is the best vehicle to do so! The Rainbow te sientas incomunicado! Tenemos gullo Latino. Lambda Legal es la organización las noticias LGBTQ que te interesan sin fines de lucro nacional más grande y más Times is 50% Hispanic owned and proud to be so! y en español. antigua de defensa legal para la comunidad lesbiana, gay, bisexual y transgénero (LGBT) y para aquellos viviendo con el VIH. Cuando personas LGBT y personas con el VIH son discrimi- nadas nosotros presentamos demandas para asegurar que sus derechos sean respetados. Estamos cambiando la ley para todas personas LGBT y personas viviendo con el VIH. Quisieramos compartir contigo no sólo las therainbowtimesnews.com demandas exitosas y los derechos que se han sostenido, sino también las historias verídicas de nuestros clientes. 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According to a 2008 report released by the abuse to be more willing and capable of taking on financially, so moving out of their home is not a “There are a lot of underlying factors,” Gor- National Coalition of Anti-Violence Programs their abuser in a physical way. viable option. man said, noting the violence perpetrated was not (NCAVP), 67 percent of the reported incidences “In a heterosexual relationship, the female is The average survivor of domestic abuse leaves necessarily hatred for the one being abused. “It’s of domestic abuse in the gay community came physically a lot weaker and is not able to fight their partner a total of seven times, said Gorman. about control, power, and dominance.” from lesbians or gay men. back, but in some lesbian relationships you don’t The majority of clients at Sojourner House are Gorman believes abusers can learn to change “While overall reports of domestic violence, have that dynamic. Both partners are equally ca- in heterosexual relationships. However, Gorman their behavior so they don’t commit violence which have grown steadily in the past decade, ap- pable of exerting physical control over the other,” hopes to provide more resources for GLBTs. against their partners, but it depends on whether or pear to be maintaining at the DeBare said. Internalized homophobia often plays a role in not they are willing to do the work. same rate, the violence has DeBare said it is difficult abuse between same-sex partners, according to Domestic violence is not about race or gender, increased dramatically and to know if the rate of domes- Gorman: “(The abuser) is expressing their self-ha- Gorman explained. Entire communities are im- interactions with the police tic abuse among same-sex tred on their partner.” pacted by the abuse of a group of people. appear to be compounding couples has increased the past The abuser may have been abused themselves “It affects everyone,” Gorman added. issues of violence. Programs few years. She notes there at one point in their lives. Gorman said a “mu- Sojourner House is at 386 Smith Street, Provi- have also reported an increas- have been more reports of tual unhealthiness” exists in abusive relationships. dence. Their web site is www.sojournerri.org. ing demand from LGBTQ incidences of abuse due to the Abusers may be seeking someone to take their ag- They also have a Facebook and a Twitter page. communities of color, young increase in services as well as and elder, disabled, and im- the efforts to reduce the stig- migrant victims of intimate ma of people who do come partner violence,” the report forward and seek help. said. The Rhode Island Coalition “With increased violence at Against Domestic Violence the hands of intimate partners Photo: Joe Siegel is made up of six agencies and of the police, and increas- The Sojourner House in Providence which provides counseling, ingly diverse communities provides counseling services for shelter and counseling to seeking services, increased women who have been battered by victims of domestic abuse. A cultural competency in main- their spouses. 24-hour helpline is available stream institutions and the (800-494-8100). continued presence of LGBTQ-specific anti-vio- One of the Coalition’s member agencies is So- lence programs are needed now more than ever.” journer House in Providence. The organization Deborah DeBare, the executive director of the provides counseling services for women who have Rhode Island Coalition Against Domestic Vio- been battered by their spouses and provides tran- lence, told _The Rainbow Times_ her agency re- sitional housing. corded 22 cases of same-sex domestic violence The reasons why women stay in abusive rela- within the past year. Of that number, 20 involved tionships vary wildly, Erin Gargurevich-Gorman, women and 2 involved men. However, DeBare a bilingual advocate at Sojourner House, told _The notes those are only the incidents that have been Rainbow Times_. reported. Some victims feel they have nowhere to go, “To me, what that shows is there probably is a while others stay with their partners for economic much greater comfort level (among) lesbians coming forward and seeking services than men who may not feel traditionally comfortable going to a mainstream domestic-violence program,” DeBare noted. DeBare said the need for one partner to maintain power and control are the causes of domestic violence in both same-sex relationships and heterosexual relationships. However, what makes abuse in same-sex relationships unique is the atmosphere of homophobia, DeBare explained. The partner who is being abusive to their spouse may threaten to “out” them to friends, family or co-workers. “That provides an additional barrier to the vic- tim to seek help,” DeBare said.

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I do get around some! style players. of excitement at the thought of living as it while others will One of the questions I get when out and about Although at any your true gender and you know that there think you are crazy and handing my card to folks is this: given time of the year will probably be some problems. But you and headed down the “So, Lorelei, I understand the ‘Pageant Queen’ you will find a warm are gung-ho and ready to finally begin to wrong path. They just and ‘Improviser’ bit. But what exactly do you and welcoming house live your life as yourself! Now it’s time don’t understand how mean by calling yourself an ‘Adventurer’?” full of the most unex- to tell your family and friends, the people or why you want to live Well, I’m glad you asked. If I have any sort pected delights, the at work, the people at your church, the as the other gender. It’s pulse of La Domaine Deja Nicole Greenlaw of fetish that I can really pin down, it’s that I re- Lorelei Erisis people in your golf league, bowling team, really very hard to try ally, really like to say “yes” to any kind of new centers on a number book club, rock band or whatever your to explain being trans- experience or fresh adventure. I like to go places of special parties and events held throughout activities are. They are all going to know gender to these folks. If they could only see that it I’ve never been before and meet all kinds of new the year. There are regular “play parties” fea- about you and you are hoping for the best. is what it is, we are who we are, and we need to be turing well-known and highly respected visit- trans news trans folks. In fact, I also have a penchant — which Look out, world, here you come! who we are, maybe then they would understand. ing mistresses. It is in this capacity that Widow Recently, I was with a group of about a dozen has occasionally gotten me in trouble over the Having been through this process and talking years — of wanting to be in places I’m not sup- and I first had occasion to visit. There are also with others who have been there too, let me tell you transpeople and a couple of allies. During our con- dinner parties and drink tastings with some of versations, one of the allies, I will call her Linda posed to be. Like, for instance, the roof of my old that not everyone will react the same. As a matter high school for a midnight stroll. Or the decay- the tastiest food and palate-pleasing, expertly of fact, some people who you thought would be (not her real name), posed a question to the group. chosen liquors I have had the pleasure of expe- Linda asked: If there were a pill or a shot that ing hallways and tunnels of the old Northampton receptive to your transition may not accept it at all. State Hospital before it was torn down. riencing. R and Collette are both supremely tal- And some people who you think will never accept transgenders could take that would turn us back ented cooks. They are also skilled mycologists into our birth genders, would we take it? We all I’ve hung out with old-school hackers and you will do so without even batting an eye. You Irish mobsters. I’ve gone alone to strange coun- and though I normally despise mushrooms of think that you know someone and can predict their said we would not take that pill or shot. Linda any kind, the freshly picked wild mushrooms I reactions? You will probably be surprised no mat- responded, “but your lives [would] be so much tries where I did not speak the language, and I once lived for a couple of months in a storm- have had served at their table were hands-down ter how sure you are of others’ reactions. easier.” We all tried to explain that it is just who heavenly! Some people will be very OK with your plans to we are. We are trans. That is us. damaged movie studio near New Orleans’ lower 9th ward, post-Katrina. I absolutely love visiting Master R and Mis- transition, and they will tell you that they think it’s To help her understand, I asked Linda if she was tress Collette at their home! At the door I am wonderful, and that they will support you totally. a Boston Red Sox fan. She said, emphatically, “Oh, Over the past seven years, I have shared many of these adventures with my girlfriend, the fabu- greeted by the sight of naked, often smiling, Some of these people already know you were yes.” I asked her if there were a pill or a needle she slaves and a comfy, welcoming living room with headed in this direction, and this may surprise you. could take that would turn her into a New York lous Widow Centauri. Yankees fan, would she take it? Not surprisingly, Honestly, I’m a sucker for anything that’s go- a view of well-attended bird feeders and green “How did they know? Did I give off clues?” are woods. In winter, a stately old black iron wood- some of the thoughts you might have about these Linda said “No!,” again quite emphatically. I said, ing to make a good story. “You are a Red Sox fan and you do not want to be As it happens, I am right this very moment in stove radiates warmth and the full bay windows intuitive souls. It’s all good with this group! reveal a landscape peacefully blanketed in thick, Of course, there will be people who do not like a Yankee fan. I am a woman who does not want to the midst of another rollicking adventure with be a man. And neither one of us wants to take that Widow and I wanted to tell you about a place white snow. this idea at all, and they will tell you so in no un- R, Collette and their extended family are al- certain terms. Some of these people may never, pill or that shot. It really is the same thing. You are we just left, a place my adventures have occa- who you are and we are who we are.” sionally brought me to several times in the past. ways welcoming and wonderful. Hugs abound ever speak to you again. Maybe further on down when greeted by friends both old and new. the road they will come to terms with your transi- A place called “La Domaine Esemar.” tion, but some may not. You have lost them for- *Deja Nicole Greenlaw is a local transwoman Among other things, Widow is a famous dom- Whether you are newly exploring the boundaries ever. I’m sorry, it’s awful. But that’s just the way who has three grown children and works at a lo- inatrix (and also a stand-up comedian!) and my of your sexuality and totally new to the world of it is sometimes. cal Fortune 500 company. She can be contacted at close association with her has brought me many SM or you have been in and around “the scene” Some people will think that you are kidding and [email protected]. places that not very many people get to see. La for years, there is a place for you and you will be Domaine is one of those places. made to feel both comfortable and welcome. Their website announces them to be the Make no mistake by my warm fuzzy senti- Queeries: Have you set a date for your wedding? “world’s oldest SM training chateau,” and I ments, though. If you read Story Of O, Venus In have very little doubt of the authenticity of that Furs, or Anne Rice’s Exit To Eden, know that By: Steven Petrow*/Special for TRT A: Well, it’s true that nothing says “married” many places like the ones in those stories actu- quite like a gold band on your left ring finger. But statement. When are you getting married? In many ways, La Domaine is one of the last ally existed. There was an entire underground this is another straight wedding tradition that gay world and culture that is sadly disappearing in Q: We’re going out of our minds. Ever since couples have been known to play around with, remaining vestiges of a quickly disappearing old New York passed the law allowing same- guard of the BDSM community. It’s located in the post-Madonna, SM-as-fashion world. And in this case by wearing our commitment rings La Domaine Esemar is one of the very few sex couples to get married there (no matter on our right hands to symbolize (and protest) a private home somewhere in the woods of up- where they live), every straight person we state New York. There is a fully equipped dun- houses left in the entire world in which those the fact that we couldn’t get legally married. For fantasies you only dreamed about are actually know wants to know when we’re getting some, it’s a bit of an inside joke, a queer varia- geon, private outdoor space and a whole com- hitched (and a lot of our gay friends, too). munity of folks with an interest in BDSM that made real. advice tion on an overwhelmingly straight convention. As I said, it’s old-guard SM and there are It’s become oppressive. Help! For others it’s an explicit political statement. ranges from the neophyte to folks who live the A: You, too? I’ve joked to some friends that I lifestyle 24/7. rules. Still, you are in good hands with Master Now that six states and the District of Colum- R and Mistress Collette. But why take my word feel like Mary Tyler Moore in her eponymous bia have adopted marriage equality, the era of The Chateau is run by a couple of absolutely sitcom: the world wouldn’t be quite right until wonderful folks. Master R, who founded La for it? Have an adventure yourself! They gladly using our rings to make in-jokes and political welcome guests! Go to LaDomaine.com. Your she got married (even though she never did). statements is coming to an end. Not surprising- Domaine Esemar some years ago and who has Anyway, hurrah that we’ve won the right to been immersed in the BDSM community longer most secret dreams can be made real. ly, some couples plan to move their rings from Slainte! marry in the Empire State, but let’s hold on just right to left when they officially tie the knot. Ac- than many of us have been alive. And the lovely a New York minute and remind our well-inten- tor Neil Patrick Harris, who has been engaged Mistress Collette, the skillful and charming tioned friends that marriage isn’t mandatory. to his partner for five years, once joked that his headmistress of Esemar. It is their home and the *Lorelei Erisis, former Miss Trans New Eng- But how do we say it? Oddly, it’s easier to be right hand had become calloused during the long center of their family, which includes a range of land, can be contacted at: loreleierisis@ther- snarky to a blatantly rude person than to a friend wait. “It’d be nice to move the ring over here house and personal slaves as well as masters and ainbowtimesmass.com. with foot-in-mouth disease. Still, there are a someday,” he said, indicating his left hand. number of ways you can answer the altar call: The bottom line is that whichever hand is right • “You’ll be the first to know, after we decide for you is the right one. Either way, your rings it’s tweet of you who has to propose in a gay relationship – but symbolize the lifelong commitment you’re don’t hold your breath.” making. to follow us... • “We’re talking to our accountant to figure out whether this makes sense for us financially. It To continue this column, please visit us doesn’t for everyone.” online at: http://bit.ly/qBQexm. • “It ain’t broke, so we ain’t fixing it.” Which hand do we wear our rings on? *Steven Petrow is the author of Steven Q: My boyfriend and I are planning our wed- Petrow’s Complete Gay & Lesbian Manners ding, and I heard that gay couples often wear and can be found online at www.gaymanners. their rings on their right hands instead of their com. Got your own question? E-mail it to him at twitter.com/ thanks! left. Is that true? [email protected]. therainbowtimes 24 • September 8, 2011 - October 5, 2011 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • September 8, 2011 - October 5, 2011 • 25 HIV infections remain high among gay/bisexual men, Series of misleading radio ads in Massachusetts who appear to make up the majority of those infected compromise a pending transgender-rights bill By: Joe Siegel/TRT Reporter have a unique role to play in ensuring that gay/bi- By: Chuck Colbert/TRT Reporter lets men use women’s bathrooms … to somehow The rate of HIV infections remains dispropor- sexual men are equipped with the knowledge and For more than a month now, the Massachu- help transgender people. ... Public bathrooms just tionately high among gay and bisexual men in skills to prevent HIV. This has to be done at an setts Family Institute (MFI) has run radio ads won’t be safe anymore.” New England. individual and community level to raise awareness slamming a bill in the legislature that would add A male voice then says the bill “will open all According to the Rhode Island Department of and equip gay men with the ability to talk to their “gender identity and expression” to the state’s public restrooms and school locker rooms to any- Health, there were 54 new cases in the men having partners about their HIV status, negotiate safe sex, civil-rights laws, outlawing discrimination in em- one of either sex.” The narrator urges listeners to sex with men (MSM) population in 2010. That fig- and get tested for HIV regularly.” ployment, housing, education, credit and access to call their legislators and tell them to “vote no on ure represents 51percent of the total of infections. The rate of HIV infections may actually be sig- public accommodations. The measure would also the Bathroom Bill,” adding, “visit www.nobath- That number has been steadily increasing within nificantly higher among MSM, according to Ber- expand the state’s hate-crimes statutes to include roombill.com.” the past five years. In 2009, there were 59 cases trand: “Among reported cases that have risk-factor transgender-related offenses. MFI spokesperson Lisa Barstow said in recent of HIV infection among gay and bisexual men. data, gay and bisexual men represented about 73 The proposed legislation, “An Act Relative telephone interview, “We’re scared. We think The percentage for that year percent of the new HIV infec- to Transgender Equal Rights,” is still before the citizens should be scared.” was 47. In 2008, the percentage tions in 2010 in Rhode Island, legislature’s Joint Committee on the Judiciary, She went on to explain: “But when people was 41. so I would expect that three which held a hearing on June 8 at the State House. hear about and understand what the bill will do Similar findings have been out every four prevention dol- The committee can recommend a yes or no vote, to public restrooms, the chaos it can create in K- reported in neighboring states. lars are spent on programs to or set aside the bill for further study, a move that 12 schools, the opportunity for shenanigans in In Connecticut, 46 percent of prevent HIV in gay and bisex- in effect kills the measure, at least for the current the school, legitimate threats in school, we’re not HIV/AIDS diagnoses in 2009 ual men, with a focus on adult legislative session that runs into 2012. willing to take the chance that a sexual predator were gay and bisexual men. Of men.” The radio ads are an attempt to keep the bill will not misuse this bill.” that total, 67 percent were white Education has to play a major bottled up in that committee. And yet, Suffolk County District Attorney Dan- men. 34 percent were black. role in preventing HIV infec- MFI Action launched its ad campaign on July 12 iel F. Conley says such concerns are unfounded. From 2007 to 2009, 744 of tions, according to Mark Forry, with radio spots on Greater Boston news and ra- In an Aug. 10 letter to the joint Judiciary Commit- the individuals diagnosed with assistant director at The Male dio talk shows. The 30- and 60-second radio spots tee, he wrote, “Were there any real merit to these HIV infection in Massachu- Center in Boston. The MALE christen the nondiscrimination legislation “The fears, as a public safety official, I would say so. setts were exposed through (Men’s Action Life Empower- Bathroom Bill,” stroking fears of sexual predators The reality does not support the claim.” male-to-male sex, accounting ment) Center is a community and child molesters in women’s restrooms. Attorney General Martha Coakley also sent a for 41 percent of all cases and resource and wellness center Dialogue in the minute-long ad goes like this: letter, dated July 20, to the committee, voicing 55 percent of HIV infections for gay and bisexual men. One woman to a mother: “You know, pretty support for the transgender bill and decrying de- among men. An additional “I think the first piece is mak- soon, you won’t want [your daughter] to go into a tractors’ public safety scare tactics. 58 men were reported to have ing sure people have informa- bathroom by herself anymore.” Still, Barstow said, “Our hearts go out to trans- been exposed through male-to- tion that they need to navigate Taken by surprise, the mother asks, “Oh. Why?” gender people. That does not mean, however, male sex and injection-drug use the choices regarding their “You will have to worry about who could be in (that) because there is a minority group that needs (MSM/IDU), accounting for 3 Photo: Joe Siegel sexual health,” Forry told The there with her.” certain kinds of provisions, that the rest of every- percent of all cases and 4 per- Tom Bertrand, Executive Director Rainbow Times. “I also think “What?” body else has to be turned upside down.” cent of HIV infections among of AIDS Project Rhode Island it’s important to make sure that “You haven’t heard about the Bathroom Bill?” men. we have prevention tools and “No.” To continue this story, please visit us online at: On December 31, 2010, there were 6,252 men materials widely available to people, things like “Yeah. Beacon Hill is about to pass a bill that www.therainbowtimesmass.com/2011/09012011/radioad. living with HIV/AIDS in whom HIV infection condoms and lube that are going to reduce the risk was attributed to male-to-male sex, representing of an HIV transmission.” 35 percent of all people living with HIV/AIDS in Forry says the goal is to target HIV-prevention top 10 best seller videos Massachusetts and 50 percent of men living with programs for specific populations. P-Town’s Carnival Courtesy: wolfevideo.com HIV/AIDS. An additional 575 MSM living with “We want to make sure that the services we HIV/AIDS were reported to have also used injec- provide to (clients) really are going to be acces- Lesbian Top 10 tion drugs, accounting for 3 percent of all people sible and digestible for folks so it doesn’t present seeks designers living with HIV/AIDS and 5 percent of men. another barrier as far as getting folks information,” 1. Big Lesbian Love According to the Centers for Disease Control Forry explained. for 2012 Theme Collector’s Set There are many factors that explain why gay and (CDC), by risk group, gay, bisexual and other 2. Leading Ladies MSM of all races remain the population most im- bisexual men do not take greater precautions when Provincetown, MA—In preparation for pacted by HIV. engaging in sexual activity. Forry said trauma, a the Provincetown Business Guild (PBG) Car- 3. The Real L Word MSM account for more than half (53 percent) history of violence, and low self-esteem may play nival 2012 themed “P-town, A Space Odys- Complete Second Season of all new HIV infections in the U.S. each year, a part. sey”, the PBG is reviving its Annual Carnival as well as nearly half (48 percent) of people liv- “Not everyone is able to prioritize their sexual Poster Contest. All artists interested in creat- 4. The Fish Child (El Niño Pez) ing with HIV. While CDC estimates that MSM health,” Forry said, adding the statistics in Mas- ing a poster depicting this coming years “P- 5. Gigola sachusetts reveal a high percentage of homeless account for just 4 percent of the U.S. male popula- town, A Space Odyssey,” are asked to com- 6. Elena Undone tion aged 13 and older, the rate of new HIV diag- youth identify as LGBT. plete and submit a design by March 1, 2012. noses among MSM in the U.S. is more than 44 Forry noted that homeless teens are more con- The Guidelines are as follows: Size 11 X 7. The Lovers & Friends Show times that of other men and more than 40 times cerned with meeting basic needs of survival, such 17; Must be original artwork; Signed letter Season 4 that of women. as finding food and shelter, than with protecting of Artist Approval to use; Appropriate for all Members of the AIDS community are alarmed themselves from HIV. ages; Deadline is March 1st, 2012. 8. 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The MALE Center is located at 571 Co- returned and become the sole property of the Bertrand is the executive director of AIDS Project lumbus Ave., Boston, MA 02118. You can call Provincetown Business Guild (PBG). 2. Big Gay Love Collector’s Set R.I., which is based in Providence. “I think CBOs 617.450.1987, and e-mail [email protected]. 3. Latter Days 4. Unhappy Birthday All of us here at The Rainbow Times would like to extend a 5. Eating Out 4: Drama Camp warm thank you to all our Partners in Pride - Boston Pride, 6. Leading Ladies Noho Pride, CT Pride, & Rainbow Riverfest - for their trust in us as their official Pride Guide producer. We’d also like to 7. Mulligans thank all of our official Pride Guide advertisers who made 8. Queer as Folk UK: these productions possible. We couldn’t do it without all of The Complete Collection your support. Here’s to building a stronger community! 9. Undertow (Contracorriente) Have a Safe & Happy Pride! —Cheers, TRT therainbowtimesnews.com 10. The Green 26 • September 8, 2011 - October 5, 2011 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com CABO wins LGBT Chamber of the Year Award Talk to students and staff early in school year about By: Christine Nicco/TRT Reporter award shows the power and strength of the Connecti- what it means to be transgender, and that it’s OK NEW HAVEN, CT—Merely four years since its cut LGBT community, which is something we can launch, the Connecticut Alliance for Business Op- all be proud of.” By: Tynan Power*/TRT Columnist might picture Christine Jorgenson, the American GI portunity (CABO) has made a big splash, to say the Like much business development, CABO was born ven though I’ve been who had one of the first sex changes in 1952. They least. Under the direction of executive director Jenn out an inherent need and Castricone took the lead. out of school for years, might picture the more current image of Chaz Bono Tracz Grace and founder and President Dena Cas- “In looking for a local LGBT chamber, I discov- Ethe school session still posing with his mother, Cher. They might even have tricone , the Connecticut-based LGBT Chamber of ered that no such organization existed,” she said. “I governs my calendar. This a plan of action in mind of what they could do to sup- Commerce was awarded one of the highest awards attended the National Gay & Lesbian Chamber of year, as school begins, both of port such a student. in the nation—Chamber of Commerce Out for Busi- my two sons head to college The trouble is, many transgender youth don’t look the Year from the National ness conference in Montreal and my partner prepares to like “transgender youth.” Imagining a young trans Gay and Lesbian Chamber where I met several chamber start another year of teaching. person, most people don’t imagine the young George of Commerce (NGLCC), leaders and learned about My sons’ minds are consumed Jorgensen or a tiny, blond Chastity on the “Sonny & a business advocate and the chamber movement – it with the excitement of new Cher” show. When I think back on my own youth, was so much more than pro- I know there were few signs that I would someday direct link between LGBT koetzner glenn hoto: classes and their extracurricu- business owners, corpora- viding networking oppor- p lar engagements, my partner is transition. While many trans men go through their tions and government. tunities for LGBT profes- thinking about seating charts and lesson plans, and teen years and early adulthood looking like tomboys “This award is an incred- sionals. It was about social I’m thinking: I wish the Speakers Bureau panel at the or butch lesbians, some — like me — seem to fit the ible honor for CABO, and change through economic high school came at the start of the year Barbie-doll heels assigned at birth. a tribute to the businesses impact. I was inspired and instead of the end. What’s more, for as many trans peo- across Connecticut who are decided to start a chamber Each year, the Stonewall Center at ple there are in the world, there are an united in publicly support- in Connecticut.” the University of Massachusetts gets exponential number of family members ing LGBT people and lever- Founded in 2007, CABO numerous requests for LGBTQ speak- and friends impacted by how the world aging the community buy- has achieved impressive ers to speak at schools in the area. The views us. You couldn’t tell by look- Photo: Shadari Moon 2011 growth in the past year, ing at me in high school that I would ing power of lesbian, gay, (From left to right) Sam McClure, NGLCC need is so great and the Speakers Bureau with a rapidly growing so valuable that requests come from as someday identify as FTM, but you also bisexual and transgender Director of AffiliateR elations, and CABO’s people,” said Tracz Grace. membership base across far as New York and Connecticut. I’ve couldn’t tell by looking at my sons in Castricone added that this Dena Castricone and Jenn Tracz Grace. the state. Currently, the spoken at a number of schools over the high school that their mother is now a honor has not only affected her, but has also added to chamber has over 150 members and has focused on years, including a local high school that man. membership benefits. developing significant corporate relationships with often has a Speakers Bureau panel visit It’s true that LGBTQ people seem “Words cannot describe how proud I am of the business members of all sizes to give an economic as Northampton Pride approaches in to be coming out younger these days. amazing work of our board of directors and execu- edge to those who support equality and justice for early May. Each year, I wish it came in There is a lot more support inside and tive director,” she said. “Of course, our members are gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people in the September. For that matter, I wish ev- Photo: Tynan Power beyond our schools. Yet that doesn’t at the center of all we do and I am most happy for our state. According to Tracz Grace, this honor will pro- ery school had a Speakers Bureau panel The author at 20. guarantee people will come out, pub- members because I know that this award increases pel CABO’s initiatives forward. in September — maybe not for the stu- licly or even privately, to themselves. the value of membership.” “This award will give us additional footing to grow dents, but at least for the staff. Adolescence is a time of self-discovery in many According to Tracz Grace, being recognized with the organization in other areas of Connecticut and be- There are many teachers and administrators whose ways. Self-knowledge doesn’t come overnight. Plus, this award puts CABO on the national map. yond our 4 borders,” she said. “We’ve expanded quite hearts are in the right place — teachers who want sex and gender identities can change, emerging or “… all of the hard work that we put in on the local rapidly in the almost 4 years we have been around. school to be safe for all, principals who want LGBTQ evolving later in life. My partner tells a story of overhearing a teacher level is being recognized nationally,” she said. “This See CABO on page 29 students to be treated, like any other students, with dignity and respect. Yet even among those with the talking to a class about different kinds of identity that best intentions, there can be a lack of information and are “changing” or “unchanging.” Gender was labeled hazy understanding — especially about transgender. “unchanging.” A student shouted out “Unless you I think most teachers could give a rough definition have a sex change.” Instead of grabbing that teach- of transgender and could picture in their mind’s eye able moment, the teacher laughed and said that was what a “transgender youth” might look like. They a ridiculous thing to say. Later, when asked why, she November 12, 2011 said transgender wasn’t something the students needed to know about 4PM-8PM — it wasn’t their issue. Yet sitting in that classroom, there Garden House might well have been a young George Jorgensen, a Chastity Bono, or a Tara at Look Park Power. There’s no way any of us, looking around the room, could ever 330 N Main Street, know. There’s no way to begin to estimate the impact of LGBTQ invis- Florence, MA ibility in schools, but talking about it from day one — in September Just $5 per couple! — would be a good place to start. To learn more about bringing a Speakers Bureau panel to your A gathering of gay friendly and/or gay owned local businesses in one school or organiza- space to assist you in the planning of your wedding/union/ceremony. tions, or to become a speaker, email stone- Tanya Costigan of Bowties and Butterfl ies Event Planning is proud to [email protected]. announce the very fi rst gay wedding expo in western Mass! edu. *Tynan Power is Registration required. 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He can ainbow imes be reached at tynan- The Freshest Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & TransgenderT Newspaper in New England R [email protected]. www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • September 8, 2011 - October 5, 2011 • 27 28 • September 8, 2011 - October 5, 2011 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • September 8, 2011 - October 5, 2011 • 29 Lesbians seeking pregnancy assistance 2011 Miss Trans New England Pageant encounter discrimination at local hospital set for September 10th in Northampton By: Abigail Levy*/Special for TRT drive is worth it because we are treated with re- The 2011 Miss Trans New England Pageant keep doing this event if it hasn’t brought in mon- I have been trying to get pregnant with a known spect and dignity. It has re-instilled hope that we will be held at Northampton High School located ey, well the answer is simple and it is because I donor’s sperm for almost two years. We, as many can have the family we want. at 380 Elm Street, Northampton, Mass 01060 on love my community and to see what this pageant couples struggling with infertility, didn’t expect it I became aware of how much we felt disenfran- Saturday, Sept. 10th from 7 p.m. - 9 p.m. The has done for many of the girls makes it all worth take this long. We recently decided to take more chised by this institution when speaking to my Pageant’s mission, according to its CEO, Christa it.” aggressive steps from our midwife-assisted IUIs mom in between conversations with Dr. L. My Hilfers, is to “allow trans women to compete But, some funds do support community activi- (Intrauterine Inseminations) and consult with the wife and I were worrying about what we could for a title that honors their beauty and their tal- ties and a new consignment store has opened to reproductive medicine center at a local hospital. say or do that would allow us to move to IVF. ents-while recognizing them as both women and alleviate contestants’ costs on gowns and other We met with Dr. L, who immediately told us My mom reacted strongly, “You are acting as transgender.” accessories they purchase for what our health insurance would cover before if you need these people’s permission to raise a “Contestants must be Male to the Pageant. laying an eye on me. We told family. You have every right Female Transgender/Transsexu- “Contestant also will do a her we had a known donor to create a family the way you als from New England and New fundraiser for their chosen plat- who had been tested for STIs It is when we want and you don’t need their, York City,” Hilfers said. “The form to which the non-profit and HIV and with whom I had feel oppressed, or anyone else’s permission.” It Miss Trans New England Pag- will be given the monies raised. been inseminating with for 20 is when we feel oppressed, dis- eant also provides personal and This is our way of giving back,” months. She commented, “You discriminated criminated against, and helpless professional opportunities for she added. “I recently opened a know we don’t like that here.” that we forget what is a right as trans women and promotes their thrift and consignment store and She did not look at my charts, against, and a human being. (This is why we voice in culture, politics and the all contestants and members of my cycles, my medical history, need allies to remind us!) community. The Program em- the new court will get discounts or my wife in the eye. She told helpless that we I chose to marry a woman, powers trans women to achieve on gowns. I am also going to help us to go right to IVF (In Vitro but I didn’t choose to be dis- their personal and professional cloth some of the girls who are in Fertilization) and switch to an forget what is a criminated for it. I just think that goals, and provides a forum in financial difficulty and were con- anonymous donor because it Dr. L could have been kinder. It which to express their opinions, sidering having to drop out due to would be more efficient. As if right as a human was so clear we made her un- talents, and intelligence.” it. I don’t want any of the girls to our donor decision has not been being. (This is why comfortable, but I’m a human To be a contestant, interested drop out due to financial issues. well thought out and emotion- and like many others that she participants need to pay $15 I know it firsthand as for the first has helped get pregnant, I want ahead of time for entering the year I lived in Mass. I was home- ally involved, Dr. L stated nu- we need allies to Pageant, or $20 at the door. less. I know the struggle.” merous excuses as to why they a child. She wasn’t thinking of remind us!) what my experience was be- This year’s contestants are: Talents range from singing to would not work with us with a Krystal Rash of Palmer, MA; Julia Tresvant of stand up and puppet based comedy known donor unless we quaran- cause she was too stuck in her own discomfort to see past it to ours. New York, NY; Krista Ramos of Chicopee, MA; and will all be on display at the Pageant. Contes- tined the sperm ($) at a sperm bank ($$) for six Syndi Miller of Holyoke, MA; Nicole Hamidi of tants will be scored in the categories of interview, months to test it twice ($$$) for STIs, and then *Abigail Levy, a pseudonym used by the au- Pelham, MA; Samantha Cornell of Worcester, presentation, evening gown, and talent. Lorelei freeze the sperm and ship it ($$$$) to their facil- MA; Ashley Rogers of Chelmsford, MA and Erisis, Miss Trans New England 2009, will be ity. Dr. L explained that due to the guidelines that thor to protect her identity, is a psychotherapist and has been married to her spouse for 5 years. Jada Sparkz of Springfield, MA. featured as a special guest judge. Toni Olin-Mi- the hospital follows, while a heterosexual couple Funds collected at the event, according to Hil- gnosa holds the title of Miss Trans New England could move immediately to IVF, a lesbian couple They reside in the Pioneer Valley of Western Massachusetts. fers, go back into the pageant to pay for the space 2010. The Rainbow Times is a proud sponsor of has to quarantine the sperm for six months, even and for events throughout the year. the Miss Trans New England Pageant. if the individual has been exposed to the sperm “As to date the Pageant has not made any funds prior to IVF. CABO from page 26 as I have put all monies out of my own pocket, For more information about the Pageant and Dr. L claimed that their program could not We started off with a heavy focus in New Haven with the exception of a few donations the first to get tickets, contact Christa Hilfers (C.E.O.) at separate the social (my state-recognized mar- year,” Hilfers explained. “You may ask why I www.misstransnewengland.com. riage) from the medical (my inseminations with County and over the past 1-2 years we’ve made the donor) because they had a “moral obligation.” a sizeable impact in both Fairfield and Hartford She explained this with an example of a family in Counties. While we are active in these 3 counties which children had been removed from the home there are still 5 others that we haven’t tapped into and how the hospital would have a moral obliga- yet. With a national chamber of the year win under LGBT Aging Project Healthy Resource: tion not to offer that couple IVF. We, as two wom- our belt, it gives us the strength and confidence to en with a known donor, were being compared to move into other areas of the state and do it suc- Community Meals for LGBT older adults a family in which children were removed from cessfully, creating opportunities for our members the home for abuse and/or neglect. This was Dr. involved.” L’s attempt to have a “mutual agreement” as to In addition to a solid infrastructure and vision The LGBT Aging Project is pleased to have a South Shore: why the hospital would eventually deny us equal that Castricone created, she credits much of CA- whole section dedicated to the different LGBT Monthly Brunch for LGBT Seniors & Friends services that would have been offered had I been BO’s success to Tracz’s efforts. Community Meal Programs that are starting When: Last Sat. of every month, 10AM-12PM a married heterosexual woman, a single woman “Her passion, dedication and drive are the reason to emerge across the state. The organization Where: All Souls Unitarian Church, 196 Elm with a male partner, or had I simply just come in that CABO experienced such incredible growth in now has a variety of offerings from weekly lun- Street, Braintree, MA the past two years,” Castricone said. with the donor and said that we wanted to have a cheons, monthly brunches, a monthly women’s RSVP: Maryanne Ryan 781-848-3939 x 325 Despite difficult economic times, Tracz Grace child (a.k.a. lied—kind of like we are forced to do program and two monthly supper programs. or email [email protected] for more info. said that there are still many business opportunities on our federal tax forms, etc.). Dr. L instructed us According to the LGBT Aging Project, there is Sponsored by: South Shore Elder Services to seize. CABO and its members have capitalized to go to counseling to deal with our “issue.” I in- also a nice diversity in the location for each of on that philosophy. quired about the subject of “issue”—my infertility Somerville/Cambridge: “Many of our member businesses are hiring and the five programs. or the way we are choosing to make our family Cadbury Cafe: Somerville & Cambridge’s thriving in a down economy and CABO is serving and was told the latter. My wife stated that we felt Boston/Back Bay: First LGBT Monthly Dining Program as a driving force in helping promote those oppor- discriminated by her actions and Dr. L merely re- Cafe Emmanuel: “The Original LGBT Meal Site!” When: 4th Wed. of every month, 6-8PM tunities to other members,” Tracz Grace said. “We When: Every Thursday 11AM-1PM Where: Cadbury Commons, 66 Sherman plied, “It’s okay for you to feel that way.” have a job board available on our website where While Dr. L claimed they were not discrimina- Where: Emmanuel Church, 15 Newbury Street, Cambridge, Ma. our members can share opportunities with one an- Street Boston, MA RSVP: by calling SCES (617) 628-2601 ext. tory because “we have been treating same-sex other and we are often asked if we know of the right couples as long as there have been donors,” her RSVP: to [email protected] or 605 or email [email protected] people for the job when one becomes available. If call (617) 477-6610 Sponsored by: Somerville Cambridge Elder actions speak otherwise. Dr. L has made no at- you are with an LGBT chamber of commerce and tempt to bridge understanding, practice compas- Sponsored by: Ethos & The LGBT Aging Project Services, Cambridge Council on Aging and you are providing value to your members, even Music Program: 1st & 3rd Thurs every month Cadbury Commons. sionate care, offer us a referral, explain with sound in a down economy your members will see your medical reason as to why they can’t offer services, value and want to be a part of something greater.” Roslindale: North Shore: send us the hospital’s policies that we requested, Tracz Grace and Castricone accepted the award Out to Brunch: Monthly Brunch & Social Over The Rainbow Supper Club or even apologize (which left me no other choice on behalf of CABO at the NGLCC National Busi- than to write this column for others to know.) In for Older LBT Women & Their Friends When: 2nd Tues. of every month, 6-8PM ness & Leadership Conference in Las Vegas, Ne- When: First Sat. of every month 11AM-1PM Where: House of Seven Gables, 115 Derby addition, it seems that the guidelines they fol- vada last month. low (that are written by the American Society of Where: Roslindale House, 120 Poplar Street Street, Salem MA “CABO has far exceeded my expectations,” said Roslindale, MA RSVP: (978) 624-2261 Reproductive Medicine) are not providing equal Castricone. treatment same-sex couples as they would for het- RSVP: to [email protected] or call Sponsored by: The Old and Bold Coalition, erosexual couples in the same situation. (617) 522-6700 x306. North Shore Elder Services’ outreach to the For more info about CABO or to join the success- Sponsored by: Ethos & The LGBT Aging Project LGBT Community on the North Shore. On a more positive note, we have found another ful organization, please visit: www.thecabo.org. center to work with. It is two hours away, but the 30 • September 8, 2011 - October 5, 2011 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com www.therainbowtimesnews.com • The Rainbow Times • September 8, 2011 - October 5, 2011 • 31 The OutField: Austin Snyder’s long run Destinations: Traveling First Class All the Gay! By: Dan Woog* /Special for TRT tin Snyder. The track star was entering his senior By: Jorge Treviano/Special for TRT here are three year at California’s Berkeley High School. (The If Housewives of NY’s queen of luxury Sonja keys to docu- other three athletes were already in college.) He Morgan were a gay travel agent, she would be Tmentary film- had a great, supportive family. He was smart, pop- Dane Steele Green. making: a good sub- ular and embraced by his teammates. Green’s travel tour company, Steele Luxury ject, a good story line Snyder’s story would provide a counterpoint Travel, specializes in meeting the needs of a high and good luck. to Brenner Green, a Connecticut College runner end, fabulously gay clientele. He says vacations orts Scott Bloom found whose father had a hard time accepting his son’s should be intriguing, inspirational, educational

p all three. sexuality, and who stopped being invited to team and most of all, indulgent. His goal in making dinners after coming out in high school; Good- His trips are tailored with the gay traveler in man, who had difficulty coming out to teammates; s Out for the Long Run mind. Steele’s most popular summer travel ex- – a movie about gay and Liz Davenport, a soccer player from Maine perience, The Mykonos Island Villa Escape, fea- q high school athletes whose love for sports was undermined by the bul- tures a sea-front villa with live-in chefs, a clean- – was to go beyond “the regular coming out sto- lying she endured. (She ended up “probably the ing staff, and two gorgeous house boys. ries.” Bloom, a former closeted wrestler who had most heroic,” Bloom says, “after struggling and Note to Sonja: don’t allow The Countess to plan been terrified of being outed, ostracized or beaten maturing the most.”) your next trip abroad. Call Dane. He’ll give you Snyder, a very articulate teenager, lives through Photo: Gustavo Monroy up, knew there were “extraordinary individuals” the extravagantly first class vacation you deserve. Dane Steele Green of Steele Luxury Travel out there. He wanted to highlight their accom- what is in many ways a typical high school year. The Rainbow Times caught up with Mr. Green plishments, and provide hope to LGBT people of He desperately hopes to get into Brown University to discuss Steele Luxury Travel and what makes DSG: Our company’s slogan is Live Your Indul- all ages, everywhere. – but an injury causes both physical and emotional this handsome young entrepreneur tick … gence. When travelling abroad, explore the land The first problem was finding those young ath- stress. The usually self-confident runner wonders the way you like. If you want to taste every type letes. The second was convincing them – and their if he is being punished for his sexuality. The Rainbow Times: Where are the hot gay des- of gelato in Italy, do it. If you want to visit every parents – to be filmed for a documentary. It’s not easy being a senior – especially when tinations this fall? bathhouse around the world, indulge yourself. He asked organizations like GLSEN and you’re gay. “I’m a big romantic,” Snyder says. Dane Steele Green: Aside from the staples - Rio, It’s your time to be free and leave all of life’s PFLAG for help. But although he’d produced one “High school is all about the guys getting the girls. Mykonos, Ibiza and Barcelona – gay men are stresses behind. film on Metropolitan Community Church founder Running helps take away the hurt of not having flocking to more obscure destinations around the TRT: How did you get into travel? Rev. Troy Perry, and another on the “oldest gay someone.” globe, including South Africa, Courchevel (for DSG: Travel has always been my passion. I organization in the world” (a motorcycle club), he Then Snyder gets the news: He’s into Brown. winter snowboarding), and Asian cities like Hong worked for several airlines and tour companies admits he was “an unknown quantity.” He goes from “the lowest low to the highest high.” Kong and Shanghai. before launching my own company. The project stalled. Then Bloom saw a Facebook In a scene repeated in homes across the country, he TRT: What destination tops your list? TRT: DNA Magazine called you “the luckiest page for gay athletes. With permission from cre- is giddy with excitement. DSG: Thailand is full of energy, culture and deli- gay bastard.” ator Lucas Goodman, a Massachusetts Institute of But as graduation approaches, Snyder says, “All cious food. DSG: My most recent “Oh my God, look where Technology rower, Bloom asked for volunteers. my friends are happy and dating. I want that!” TRT: There is a trend in destinations defining I am” moment was at the Life Ball in Vienna. I He got a dozen or two responses. But some of He creates a Facebook group for cross country themselves as gay-friendly. was inside the most beautiful palace and I their parents objected. Blurring faces or filming and track athletes heading to Brown. He joins an- DSG: The gay dollar is powerful. During this eco- literally got a sense of what heaven must be like. in shadows would undercut the idea of openness. other group for all admitted students where, he nomic crisis, the gay travel sector is the only one Plus, Bloom hoped to include the parents’ stories says, “all the gay men have found each other.” that has remained constant in the industry. Cities Wanna escape New England during the cold too. In the end he settled on four athletes, with a Suddenly, Snyder finds someone special: a would be foolish not to open their doors to us. winter months? Book a trip now to Rio de Ja- cross-section of experiences. swimmer from North Carolina. Online they flirt, TRT: Tell us your travel philosophy. neiro for New Year’s at http://steeletravel.com/. When he began shooting, some of Bloom’s old then talk seriously for weeks. Then, in a plot twist fears resurfaced. “I worried all over again about that would sound unbelievable in a real movie being ‘thrown out of the locker room,’” he says. – except it’s true – Snyder qualifies for a national “But everyone was very gentle to me.” race. In North Carolina. He learned that today’s gay youth “have fewer Bloom films their meeting. It’s a truly sweet hang-ups than my generation did. They define scene. Later, his new boyfriend gives him a tender sexuality more fluidly. That’s refreshing. It gives pre-race kiss. me hope. I was definitely not as self-aware at that age.” To continue this story, please visit us online at: Bloom’s lucky break came when he found Aus- www.therainbowtimesmass.com/2011/09082011/qsports. To Cook is To Love: A Foodies Journal Kitchen as Classroom offers Teachable Moments By: John Verlinden*/TRT Cuisine Expert facilitates thoughtful discussions regarding ethical o i n g behavior, geopolitics, social justice and more.

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hoto: rachel rachel hoto: – they’ll likely fuss and complain about having p like a second new year’s celebration to help and they’ll probably make a big mess of and ritual for me. your kitchen. But hey, it’s important and it’s worth No matter how the investment! You’re not just teaching a valu- old I get, early able life skill – how to cook, you’re sharing your September still values about some of the most complicated issues means a new start, in the world around us. There’s also a bonus in it another chance, new resolutions. There is for you. You’ll learn more about what’s going on something rejuvenating about it. in your children’s lives in the process. Sometimes This year “back to school” is my re- gathering even the scantest intelligence regarding minder to get back in touch with the kids what they are up to, even when it is only minutes in my life. And, there’s no better way to before they actually do the really bone-headed reconnect than to do a project together in thing they’ve been planning, can help you avoid a the kitchen. huge disaster. So, you see, this is actually going to mucho gusto! mucho Whether it’s baking cookies, grilling fish save you time in the long run. ¡ or chopping vegetables, cooking with kids Until next time – ¡Mucho Gusto!, ¡Muchas Gra- is an opportunity to talk with them about how the cias! y ¡Buen Provecho! world works and doesn’t—where our dinner was grown, who’s involved in its production, harvest- *Tells us about a teachable moment in your life, ing and processing, how it’s shipped, and what goes share your experience cooking with kids, ask a into its marketing and sale. Cooking is a great way question or suggest a topic for a future article – to reinforce school curriculum – geography, his- contact me: [email protected] or visit www. tory, science, math; they’re all there. And food also muchogusto.com and join our food forum. 32 • September 8, 2011 - October 5, 2011 • The Rainbow Times • www.therainbowtimesnews.com