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THE CHURCH OF JESUS CHRIST OF LATTER-DAY SAINTS • OCTOBER 2004 Liahona Strengthening the Family, p. 48 Love for Eternity, p. 34 My Gospel Standards, p. F8 THE CHURCH OF JESUS CHRIST OF LATTER-DAY SAINTS • OCTOBER 2004 Liahona FOR ADULTS 2 First Presidency Message: Teaching Our Children President Thomas S. Monson 8 Raising a Child with a Disability Marleen S. Williams 16 The Only Survivor Joeli Kalougata 20 Establishing Eternal Patterns Elder Earl C. Tingey 25 Visiting Teaching Message: Feeling the Love of the Lord SEE “FEELING THE ON THE COVER LOVE OF THE Photography by Robert through Humility LORD THROUGH Casey, posed by models. HUMILITY,” P. 25 26 Latter-day Saint Voices I Was an Atheist Nicole Germe A Flight in the Snow W. Ward Holbrook Upheld by His Hand Terri Free Pepper 48 Strengthening the Family What Is a Family? The Family: A Proclamation to the World FOR YOUTH 13 A Gathering in Ghana Michael and Marged Kirkpatrick SEE “A GATHERING IN GHANA,” P. 13 30 Questions and Answers: Why Doesn’t the Lord Take Away THE FRIEND COVER Temptations I Have Resisted for Years? I Wonder When He Comes Again, by Nancy Seamons 33 Poster: Dream Date Crookston, may not be 34 Love for Eternity Janet Thomas copied. 39 Planning Your Temple Wedding 42 Make Dating Smooth Sailing Susan W. Tanner 47 Did You Know? THE FRIEND: FOR CHILDREN SEE “THE ONLY SURVIVOR,” P. 16 F2 Come Listen to a Prophet’s Voice: Sacred Priesthood Blessings President James E. Faust F4 Sharing Time: Follow the Prophet Sheila E. Wilson F6 From the Life of President Heber J. Grant: Hard Worker F8 My Gospel Standards F10 Friend to Friend: Righteous Desires Elder Clate W. Mask Jr. F12 The Primary Quilt Chelsey and Wendy Ellison F15 Special Witness: Honesty Elder David B. Haight F16 Song: Repentance Sylvia Knight Lloyd and Robert P. Manookin October 2004 Vol. 28 No. 10 USING THE LIAHONA LIAHONA 24990 Official international magazine of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints The First Presidency: Gordon B. Hinckley, Thomas S. Monson, James E. Faust Family Home Evening Quorum of the Twelve: Boyd K. Packer, L. Tom Perry, David B. Haight, Neal A. Maxwell, Russell M. Nelson, Dallin H. Oaks, M. Russell Ballard, Joseph B. Wirthlin, Richard G. Scott, Robert D. Hales, Jeffrey R. Holland, Ideas Henry B. Eyring Editor: Jay E. Jensen Advisers: Monte J. Brough, W. Rolfe Kerr Managing Director: David Frischknecht Planning and Editorial Director: Victor D. Cave “The Family: A Proclamation “Sacred Priesthood Blessings,” Graphics Director: Allan R. Loyborg to the World,” inside back p. F2: If you have a magnifying Magazines Editorial Director: Richard M. Romney Managing Editor: Marvin K. Gardner cover: Originally published glass, use it as an object les- Editorial Staff: Collette Nebeker Aune, Susan Barrett, Shanna Butler, Ryan Carr, Linda Stahle Cooper, LaRene Porter Gaunt, Jenifer L. Greenwood, R. Val Johnson, Carrie in the January 1996 Liahona and son. Show your family how it magni- Kasten, Melvin Leavitt, Sally J. Odekirk, Adam C. Olson, Judith M. Paller, Vivian Paulsen, Don L. Searle, Rebecca M. the November 1995 Ensign, this proc- fies things. Explain that priesthood Taylor, Roger Terry, Janet Thomas, Paul VanDenBerghe, Julie Wardell, Kimberly Webb, Monica Weeks lamation from the First Presidency blessings work the same way—they can Managing Art Director: M. M. Kawasaki and Quorum of the Twelve Apostles enlarge our talents and understanding. Art Director: Scott Van Kampen Production Manager: Jane Ann Peters expresses Heavenly Father’s doctrine “Hard Worker,” p. F6: Read Design and Production Staff: Kelli Allen-Pratt, Howard G. Brown, Thomas S. Child, Reginald J. Christensen, Kathleen regarding families. Review the procla- together this story from the life of Howard, Denise Kirby, Tadd R. Peterson, Randall J. Pixton, Kari A. Todd, Claudia E. Warner mation with your family, and discuss President Heber J. Grant. Ask your Marketing Manager: Larry Hiller Printing Director: Craig K. Sedgwick goals you might set to bring your fam- children what kinds of things they can Kris T Christensen Distribution Director: ily more completely in harmony with do in your home and neighborhood to For subscriptions and prices outside the United States and Canada, contact your local Church distribution center or ward or branch leader. the guidance outlined in this divinely be hard workers like President Grant Send manuscripts and queries to Liahona, Room 2420, inspired document. was. Tell about someone who is a hard 50 East North Temple Street, Salt Lake City, UT 84150-3220, USA; e-mail: [email protected]. “Establishing Eternal Patterns,” worker, and talk about blessings that The Liahona (a Book of Mormon term meaning “compass” or “director”) is published in Albanian, Armenian (East), p. 20: Elder Earl C. Tingey discusses come from doing a job well. Bulgarian, Cambodian, Cebuano, Chinese, Croatian, Czech, Danish, Dutch, English, Estonian, Fijian, Finnish, six patterns young people should French, German, Haitian, Hungarian, Icelandic, Indonesian, Italian, Japanese, Kiribati, Korean, Latvian, establish to obtain the rich blessings Lithuanian, Malagasy, Marshallese, Mongolian, Norwegian, Polish, Portuguese, Romanian, Russian, the Lord would give us. Talk about Samoan, Sinhala, Slovenian, Spanish, Swedish, Tagalog, Tahitian, Tamil, Telugu, Thai, Tongan, Ukrainian, and these ideas with your children. Ask TOPICS IN THIS ISSUE Vietnamese. 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One might Children are born each day—even each Psuppose that His birth was so revo- hour—to mothers who have, with their hand lutionary in its magnitude as to dominate in God’s hand, entered the valley of the accounts of His boyhood. We marvel at the shadow of death that they might bring forth T FREDERIKSBORG IN HILLERØD, DENMARK T FREDERIKSBORG IN HILLERØD, mature wisdom of the boy who, leaving a son, a daughter, to grace a family, a home, Joseph and Mary, was found in the temple, and in a way a portion of the earth. “sitting in the midst of the doctors,”1 teach- Those precious days of infancy bond ing them the gospel. When Mary and Joseph mother and father to son or daughter. Every We marvel at the TIONAL HISTORIC MUSEUM A TIONAL HISTORIC expressed their concern about His absence, smile is noted, every fear comforted, every mature wisdom of He asked of them the penetrating question: hunger abated. Step by step the child grows. the boy who, leaving “Wist ye not that I must be about my The poet wrote that each child is “a sweet, Joseph and Mary, was Father’s business?”2 new blossom of Humanity, / fresh fallen from found in the temple, The sacred record declares of Him, “Jesus God’s own home to flower on earth.”5 “sitting in the midst of increased in wisdom and stature, and in The child grows in wisdom and also in the doctors,” teaching favour with God and man.”3 An obscure pas- stature, ideally with the help of righteous them the gospel.