THE JEWISH FEDERATION OF LEE & CHARLOTTE COUNTIESPresents You are cordially invited to our A MUSICAL JOURNEY

Sunday, 10:00 A.M. Invitation to follow December 9, 2018

L’ www.JewishFederationLCC.org Vol. 41, No. 2 n October 2018 / 5779 INSIDE THIS ISSUE: Improving on the work we do 6 Our Community By Brian Simon, Federation President 8 Jewish Interest ’ve been meeting with friends in gogues. We have failed to get our mes- putting into action some of the ideas the Jewish community over the sage out so that everyone at least is that came from these meetings. I’m 12 Marketplace Ipast few weeks to talk about Fed- aware of what good we are doing. excited to see what happens. I’m very 14 Israel & the Jewish World eration. I went to them asking for input It’s exactly what I was hoping to pleased with the work that Executive – what they think of us, what we’re do- hear. I think there are actionable ideas Director Alan Isaacs, Programming 15 Commentary ing well, where that will come from these meetings. Director Debbie Sanford and all of our 16 From the Bimah we’re lacking. The board has identified three ar- staff and volunteers have done. I think The feedback eas where we concentrate our efforts: we’re all doing a tremendous amount 18 Focus on Youth has been honest. 1) Jewish cultural events, 2) Jewish of good in the community. 20 Organizations In the theme of Family Services, and 3) Israel advo- I’d like to ask for your continued the High Holi- cacy. help in improving on the work we do. 21 Community Directory days, the com- What I’m hearing is that people Please help us spread the word about ments read like want more opportunities to interact the programs you enjoy. Please help us 22 Temple News the confessional with other Jews in a non-religious, so- to identify people in need. Please share  Brian prayer “Al Het.” cial setting (Jewish cultural events). your feedback on what we’re doing Simon The Federa- People want more help from Jewish well – and not as well. You are wel- tion has missed opportunities to provide Family Services, and they want oppor- come to leave a message for me at the some of the services our community tunities to help others. These are good Federation office or send me an email needs. We have missed opportunities problems to have. at [email protected]. I look for- to be more integrated with the syna- In the coming weeks, we will be ward to hearing from you. 3 Federation’s Senior Lunch SAVE Bunch update THE DATE

5 PACESETTERS A year after Harvey AND – a JFNA report MAJOR GIFTS

November 14, 2018 ALON BEN-GURION

10 Falafel superstar – AN EVENING WITH ALON BEN-GURION recipe by Chef Dalia Hemed Join us as Alon shares historical and personal stories about his grandfather, the late Prime Minister David Ben-Gurion and the establishment of Israel.

SPECIAL FEATURE FILM: BEN-GURION, EPILOGUE 19 Temple Judea Preschool’s For more information contact Debbie Sanford new library 239.481.4449 or [email protected]

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social service philanthropy culture L'CHAYIM OCTOBER 2018 2 Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties OUR FEDERATION

To donate to By Jodi Cohen, Senior Outreach & Food Pantry Coordinator

 Don’t forget to sign up for my weekly Newsletter. the Federation’s Just send me your email address to get up to date Federation & Community information each week.

Annual Campaign,  Last month amazing volunteers helped pack and deliver 215 Rosh Hashanah gift bags to our senior community. Thank You!

call 239.481.4449  Ready to get your READ ON? We have 3 Read the Book; Skype the Author dates booked or visit which include dinner and a Q&A with the Author. Join us on Wednesdays, October 17, JewishFederationLCC.org December 19 and February 20. RSVP early so we have enough food. Speaking of which, thank you to our generous dinner sponsor, The Bagel Factory.

 Wednesday, November 14—PaceSetters and Major Gifts Event. “An Evening with Alon BenGurion”. Grandson of the late Prime o strengthen and enrih the ewish onit roiding and sorting Minister David BenGurion, Alon shares historical and personal stories hilanthroi edational and soial about the legacy of his grandfather and the establishment of the State serie rogras loall in srael and of Israel. Feature film, Ben-Gurion, Epilogue. throghot the world  Save The Date—Sunday, December 9, 2018. 10:00 A.M.—12:00 P.M. The Community Breakfast ewish onit that is ased on —A Musical Journey. You will not want to miss this. ewish ales sh as edakah A throwback of our favorite songs by Jewish Artists, (eneolene) ikkn la (reairing plus a delicious meal including good old fashioned the world) and K’lal Yisrael (taking Potato Latkes to celebrate Hanukkah. It is NOT too resonsiilit or one another) early to make your reservation, as space is limited.

 The Jewish Film Festival of Southwest Florida. Opening Day is Sunday, January 13, 2019. We start the afternoon with a VIP Sponsor Reception and will then be joined by Author Beverly Gray—Seduced by Mrs. Robinson followed by the screening of L’ The Graduate. Sponsorships are available. Please call me to Jewish news published monthly by learn about some great new sponsor benefits. Jewish Federation of Lee & Charlotte Counties 9701 Commerce Center Court, Fort Myers, FL 33908 (239) 481-4449 • Fax: (239) 481-0139 Debbie can be reached at: 239.481.4449 or [email protected] Online at www.JewishFederationLCC.org  October 2018 • Volume 41, Number 2  President: Brian Simon Board: Paul Bartrop • Jack Esformes • Karen Fine Carolyn Gora • Jerry Greenfield • Keith Grossman Andi Horowitz • Linda Idelson • Marsha Kistler Sara Krivisky • Michele Laboda • Rozzi Osterman Barbara Siegel • Sylvia Simko • Sherri Zucker Executive Director: Alan Isaacs Program Director: Debbie Sanford Executive Assistant: Lori Ramos Jewish Family Services: Jodi Cohen  Editor/Designer: Ted Epstein (239) 249-0699 Advertising: Jim Lewin (239) 634-6923  Sundays at 4:00 P.M. L’CHAYIM invites correspondence on subjects of interest to Jewish people. Partisan political opinions will not be published, but opinions on subjects affecting the Jewish community are 9/30, 10/14, 10/28, 11/4 and 11/11 welcome. All inquiries regarding copy for L’CHAYIM should be directed to the editor. All news material must be very clearly printed or typed (not in all-capital letters) and double-spaced. Electronic submissions encouraged. The editor reserves the right to edit for space and content. Photographs should be clear, black-and-white or color prints. If you wish a photograph returned, include a stamped, self-addressed envelope of appropriate size. The Jewish Federation of Lee & Charlotte Counties disclaims responsibility or endorsement of the views expressed by the writers and claims by advertisers. NOVEMBER ISSUE EDITORIAL DEADLINE: Jewish Federation Community Room Friday, October 5 9701 Commerce Center Ct., Fort Myers 33908 Grow your business All ages & levels of dance experience are with L’CHAYIM. welcome. Wear comfortable shoes, bring a Reach 5,000 local water bottle AND A FRIEND! Jewish residents

through this paper. RSVP a MUST to Marsha Kistler For more information [email protected] or to place an ad, call Jim at 239.634.6923 or send an email to For a continuously updated calendar of events, [email protected]. visit www.JewishFederationLCC.org. L'CHAYIM OCTOBER 2018 OUR FEDERATION Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties 3 Senior Lunch Bunch update By Jodi Cohen, Senior Outreach & Food Pantry Coordinator rookdale Independent Living with batteries, flashlights and lanterns. on College Parkway hosted its The Federation appreciates having Bsecond annual Jewish Federa- such a dedicated community partner tion senior luncheon in August. We are in Brookdale and would like to thank grateful for the warm welcome and at- Executive Director Randall Johnston tention to detail for our seniors, includ- Honest, caring and ing valet parking. knowledgable advice WINK meteorol- ogist Brooke Sil- about assisted verang was the and Marketing Director Susan Scott living options… guest speaker and for their support. shared informa- We continue to welcome new at no cost to you! tion about hurri- people to the Senior Lunch Bunch ev- Personal and professional cane preparation ery month, and it’s always a pleasure advice for you or a loved one and safety. The to watch the group widen the circle when you need it the most  Jodi Cohen Q&A following so that everyone is included. The free her talk was filled with questions as monthly luncheons are a chance for Bruce B. Rosenblatt, Owner well as stories about Hurricane Irma. Jewish seniors to be in community Senior Housing Expert Brookdale appropriately raffled off two together so they can socialize, have a hurricane preparation kits complete meal, make new friends and stay con- 239.595.0207 nected with old friends. www.SeniorHousingSolutions.net The vibe is friendly, from the moment you walk in and get your name tag, to the goodbyes at the end. While we rotate venues each month, the joy and camaraderie amongst ev- eryone remains steadfast. If you’d like to at- tend but don’t drive, we have volunteers who pro- vide rides. If you’d like to volunteer to help out at the luncheon, please contact Sherri Zucker at 239.980.5760 or sherriz [email protected]. NEXT SENIOR LUNCH BUNCH: Thursday, October 11 at noon Temple Beth Shalom, 702 SE 24th Ave., Cape Coral RSVP by October 8 to Jodi Cohen at 239.481.4449 x2 or [email protected]

UPCOMING FEDERATION EVENTS 2018/19 Sundays at 4:00 P.M. OCT. 17 Read the Book; Skype the Author - Author Martin Fletcher “Promised 9/30, 10/14, 10/28, 11/4 and 11/11 Land” Free and open to the community. A light dairy dinner will be served. OCT. 30 Community Leadership Event NOV. 14 Pacesetters/Major Gifts - An Evening with Alon Ben-Gurion, grandson of the late Prime Minister David Ben-Gurion. DEC. 9 Community Breakfast - “A Musical Journey” featuring your favorite music from Jewish Artists. DEC. 19 Read the Book; Skype the Author - Author Peter Golden, “Nothing is Forgotten” Free and open to the community. A light dairy dinner will be served.

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JAN. 13 2019 Jewish Film Festival Opening Day Event – Jewish Film Festival, Regal Cinemas at Bell Jewish Federation Community Room Towers Special Guest: Author Beverly Gray, “Seduced by Mrs. Robinson”. Feature film, “The Graduate”. Special VIP Sponsor Reception. Sponsorship Opportunities Available. 9701 Commerce Center Ct., Fort Myers 33908 JAN. 15 - Jewish Film Festival - Showings are Tuesdays & Thursdays.

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All ages & levels of dance experience are FEB. 18 PJ Library - Presidents Day Fun Day

welcome. Wear comfortable shoes, bring a FEB. 20 Read the Book; Skype the Author - “TBD” Free and open to the community. water bottle AND A FRIEND! A light dairy dinner will be served. FEB. 26 Author Event – Alyson Richman, Lakes Library MAR. 5 Lion of Judah - Program and Speaker TBD RSVP a MUST to Marsha Kistler MAR. 16 Queen Esther (Adults Only) Masquerade Ball [email protected] APR. 14 PJ Library - Pre-Pesach Party MAR. 28 Author Event - B.A. Shapiro, “ The Collector’s Apprentice” The Alliance for the Arts APR. 28 Yom HaShoah Event

MAY 8 Annual Meeting STAY TUNED. MORE INFO TO FOLLOW! L'CHAYIM OCTOBER 2018 4 Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties OUR FEDERATION

The Jewish Federation Annual Campaign provides the resources to strengthen and enrich our Jewish community locally, in Israel and around the world.

YOU MAKE IT HAPPEN This year please consider making an additional campaign contribution in honor or memory of a loved one. Because kindness is contagious, we would like to highlight your generosity in L’CHAYIM and notify personally those whom you honor. You may choose how your generosity is noted and how we share your mitzvah with the community.

TRIBUTES How the Jewish Federation of Lee & Charlotte Counties Serves Well wishes for a speedy recovery to Leah Warshaw from the Tuesday Mellow Mah Jong ladies Local Jewish Education and Culture  Communitywide Jewish Education and Culture Programs for Each month, L’CHAYIM will list your Tributes. all ages including the Jewish Film Festival, Jewish Author Events, Israel Celebration, Jewish genealogy, Israeli folk Please send them to Lori Ramos dancing, social groups, etc. at the Federation at [email protected].  L’CHAYIM published monthly to keep the Jewish community informed about local, national and international Jewish issues.  Community Relations activities include monitoring anti Thanks to the following supporters of L’CHAYIM Semitism and issues of separation of church and state in the community. for their contribution to help underwrite the cost of  Israel Advocacy and Initiatives to strengthen local Jewish bringing news of the local, national and international community ties with Israel. Holocaust Education through the Jewish community to your mailbox every month! Holocaust Museum of Southwest Florida to middle and high school students in the community.

EDITORS: REPORTERS: Overseas Jeffrey & Roberta Kushner Stan Zell  Funding to the Jewish Agency for Israel and the American Jewish Joint Distribution Committee (JDC) for full spectrum social services to Israel and Jewish communities in 60+ countries around the world.  Partnership 2Gether relationship with the HaderaEiron Region Like us on Facebook! in Israel.

Local Seniors Services  Holiday baskets and teen visits to seniors and senior facilities for Rosh Hashanah, Hanukah and Passover. ConneCt  Seniors & Volunteers Lunch Program. with your Jewish Community  Emerging and pressing needs related to senior housing, health and socialization.

Local Case Management Services www.facebook.com/  Nonsectarian, individual and family outreach, information and facebook.com/jfedsrq referral services. JewishFederationLCC  Individual life coaching and support services.

Local Emergency Services  Food Pantry.  Emergency financial assistance.  Education and aid associated with natural disasters.

The Jewish Federation thanks our Local Community Services  Support families of children with special needs. GENEROUS DONORS  SAT preparatory classes for high school students.  Volunteerism.  Organizational Collaboration.  Assessment and Planning. INDIGENT FUND Jewish Community Foundation L’CHAYIM delivers! Shalom Dancers Rheta Kanen  An endowment that ensures the longterm financial base of Marty & Judy Freling Stan Zell charitable, social and educational programs in our community. Introduce your business to a POWERFUL Jack & Ellen Esformes Jennifer Manekin  Needsbased college scholarships and study scholarships in demographic and reach 5,000 readers Paul & Sylvia Simko Israel. Charles & Rose Braidman Trust  Projects and programs aimed at Jewish community enrichment. each month for pennies per reader!

For ad rates and deadlines, contact Jim Lewin at 239.634.6923 or [email protected]. FOOD PANTRY Harvey & Jodi Cohen Temple Beth El Victor Gold Temple Judea Manekin Family Shalom Life Center Art Funk Mellow Mah Jongg Marlena Maisel Brian & Mindi Simon Jack Cohen Boni Raitt Arnie Obstein The Joseph Horowitz Israel Travel Grant is available Sylvia Wise Katie Keen through the Community Foundation of the Jewish Diane Karman Mickey Nathanson Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties.

The grant may be used for travel to Israel to participate in programs that are volunteer or educational in nature.

OUR HOPE is that these THIS GRANT is for Jewish programs will enhance residents of either county Jewish knowledge and who are 25 years old or identity in preparation for younger and can demon- participation in American strate a financial need. Jewish life. Academic standing and community involvement may also be considered.

Together we CAN Make a Difference! For more information or an application, visit our website at JewishFederationLCC.org. L'CHAYIM OCTOBER 2018 OUR FEDERATION Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties 5 The Jewish Federation Annual Campaign provides the resources to strengthen A year after Harvey and enrich our Jewish community locally, in Israel and around the world. Last summer saw Hurricanes Harvey, provided Houston with countless pack- America have given generously to and countless families are still displaced Maria and, here locally, Irma. Our Jew- ages of essential supplies, including air sustain Houston’s vibrant Jewish life. and struggling. Fundraising efforts con- ish community joined other communities mattresses, clothing and more. By helping with synagogue dues, tinue to support the ongoing needs that around the country to help hurricane In addition to their donations, summer camp scholarships, day school will arise as families and institutions victims. These funds were directed to Federation lay and professional leaders tuition and Israel experiences, no fam- work to make long-term decisions. our national agency, The Jewish Fed- from around North America also trav- ily in Houston has to choose between The Hurricane Harvey recovery erations of North America (JFNA) for eled to Houston in the storm’s aftermath rebuilding their home and investing in efforts are a remarkable example of the disbursement in distressed areas. JFNA to help the local Federation manage op- Jewish life. These efforts are critical and unstoppable power of Klal Yisrael, the works with relief organizations such as erations and fundraising during this time powerful investments that help ensure Jewish collective. That continued YOU MAKE IT HAPPEN the American Red Cross, Nechama and of great need, as well as to volunteer a bright Jewish future in Houston. support, which has endured over the This year please consider making an additional campaign contribution in honor or memory of a loved one. more to assess the needs of the victims with on-the-ground recovery efforts. “I never really appreciated that our millennia of Jewish history, remains Because kindness is contagious, we would like to highlight your generosity in L’CHAYIM and notify personally those whom you honor. and provide support to those who need it “You think of the immediate ramifi- Federation also gives to other cities and essential as Houston continues to work You may choose how your generosity is noted and how we share your mitzvah with the community. most. Here is JFNA’s report on Houston, cations of property damage and having a other places in need. And now, when to rebuild. one year later. place to go when the hurricane hits, but we’re asking for help, I get it. We’re “Donors ask ‘Why give to an um- ne year ago, on August 25, you don’t often think about the long- taking care of our own people,” said brella? Why not give directly to the 2017, Hurricane Harvey bore term damages people have to live with,” Lewis. “I understand the power of the institutions?’ The important efforts in Odown on Houston, unloading said Gail Norry, the Philadelphia-based community and the power that the Fed- Houston are what the national Federa- 19 trillion gallons of water on the city chair of JFNA’s Emergency Committee, eration has to support all of us.” tion system is all about,” Norry said. – more than a year’s worth of rain in who traveled to Houston to assist. Looking Forward “Kol Israel Arevim Zeh La Zeh – each just five days. One area of notable, ongoing need While Federation has helped the com- of us is responsible for one another. It The impact on the local Jewish has been mental health care. Even a munity come a long way, Houston is happened to Houston and it can happen community was devastating. More year later, an estimated 18 percent of far from fully recovered. Almost a year to anyone. I think we need to be mindful than 2,000 Jewish households flooded, Houston-area residents are still suffering later, the future of many of Houston’s and take care of each other.” and seven major Jew- Jewish institutions remains uncertain, ish institutions suffered extensive or catastrophic damage, including two of Introducing the Community the largest synagogues, a day school, the JCC Friends Program and a senior care center. By Jodi Cohen, Senior Outreach & Food Pantry Coordinator And Federation was o make a long story relatively and provide a resource where it was there. Communities from short, which is usually not my needed. It was a weekly commitment around North America Tstyle, I’d like to share my most of about three hours, it provided me sprung to action to help rewarding volunteer experience. some serious play time, and the people immediately following the Hurricane Harvey synagogue flood damage Back in Madison, Wisconsin, I was I was helping were deeply grateful. storm and throughout the rebuilding from post-Harvey psychological distress the newsletter editor at the congrega- It takes a village to raise a family, efforts that have followed. and each new storm that occurs brings tion I belonged to. One day when the run a monthly luncheon, and care for Repairing Homes, Restoring Lives these issues to the surface. rabbi came over to drop off an article, the elders in our community. As the “We were all raised with the value In response, local Federations con- I asked him what he did all day. I lis- monthly senior luncheon attendance that we should give back to the com- tributed to vital mental health recovery tened and several verbs later I asked grows, as the list of people who receive munity. But I never thought we’d be efforts in Houston. In the months since Rabbi Brian, “So when do you ever a holiday gift bag lengthens, the Fed- asking for help,” said Margaret Lewis, Harvey, grief and trauma counselors stroke your imaginary beard and study eration recognizes that the needs of se- whose home flooded during the storm. from the Israel Trauma Coalition have Torah?” – which is what I imagined niors in our community are also chang- Working with The Jewish Federa- been brought in to train hundreds of (male) rabbis did. Brian and his wife ing and growing. In order to address tions of North America, the Jewish school administrators and teachers, Debbie both worked part-time and those needs, the Federation is starting a Federation of Greater Houston set up first responders, firefighters and police they had a two-year-old daughter, so Community Friends Program. We will the Hurricane Harvey Relief Fund, officers on how to help those struggling he answered that there was no time. begin on a small scale to match volun- which has raised more than $22 mil- in their community. I had met his daughter one day when teers with people who would like a vis- lion to assist the community with both Supporting Jewish Life she was running around outside the itor, need help going grocery shopping, short- and long-term recovery needs. In addition to the immediate, life-saving synagogue in a pink tutu, and the next or perhaps need a ride somewhere, to This vital fund helped provide immedi- relief efforts Federation made possible, thing I knew we were running and hid- state a few examples. ate assistance to individuals and fami- it also continues to support the ongoing ing from someone together. We bonded If you are interested in volunteering lies after the storm, including financial rebuilding of Jewish institutions and immediately. I offered to spend time for the Community Friends Program, assistance, furniture and appliance continuity of Jewish life in Houston. with Liora on Wednesday nights so the please contact me at 239.481.4449 x2 grants, and much more. Federations also Individual Federations across North rabbi could study, go shopping, or even or [email protected]. You will be spend time with Debbie outside the asked to complete an application and house. I had the commodity of time to have a conversation so we can learn offer and I went over every Wednesday about you, your interests and what you L’CHAYIM delivers! night for one year. It was a triple mitz- would like to do. Introduce your business to a POWERFUL vah: I was supporting my rabbi, I was We will endeavor to honor the stat- supporting my community by giving ed vision of the Jewish Federation of demographic and reach 5,000 readers the rabbi time and space, and I created Lee and Charlotte Counties: “A Jewish each month for pennies per reader! bonds with three people who are still Community that is based on Jewish val- dear friends 19 years later. ues such as Tzedakah (benevolence), For ad rates and deadlines, Although my experience was Tikkun Olam (repairing the world) and contact Jim Lewin at 239.634.6923 about helping a young family, the prin- K’lal Yisrael (taking responsibility for ciple is the same: I saw a situation and one another).” or [email protected]. intuitively knew that I could help out This month’s Read the current and recent issues of L’CHAYIM advertisers online at www.JewishFederationLCC.org. This publication is brought to you each month thanks to the support of our advertisers. 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Community Free Synagogue B’NAI MITZVAH Holocaust Museum & Cohen Education Center update By Susan Suarez, President & CEO Benjamin Stanley Manekin, son of Jen- events and programs nifer and Lawrence Manekin, older brother Brown Bag Movie Night superior first-class hotel and kibbutz of Allison, will be called to the Torah as The next C.F.S. Brown Bag Movie guest house accommodations, nine a Bar Mitzvah on Saturday, October 6 at Night features Menashe (2017) at 6:30 breakfast buffets, a welcome dinner Temple Judea. Benjamin is a 7th-grader at p.m. on Thursday October 18 in the in Old Jaffe and farewell banquet in a Cypress Lake Middle School. Benjamin C.F.S. Community Hall, 10868 Metro 4-star Abu Gosh restaurant, in addition enjoys playing the bass in Chamber Or- Parkway, Fort Myers. to six other dinners on tour and even a chestra and is a member of the Southwest . This touching film, shot in Yid- Bedouin lunch after a camel ride near Florida Symphony Youth Symphony. Ben- dish, is the story of a Hassidic widower Avdat in the Negev! jamin’s interests are photography, fishing, in Brooklyn’s ultra-Orthodox com- Land services include 10 days of video games and everything related to na- munity battling for custody, trying to private touring with a premiere certi- ture and animals. Benjamin is thankful to raise a son on his own, and the many fied guide on a luxury Wi-Fi equipped Rabbi Marc Sack, Diane Seidenstein, Tab traditional obstacles he faces. “It is an air-conditioned coach. Scribner and his religious school teachers intimate exploration of faith and price This travel adventure, led by Rabbi in helping him prepare for this milestone. of parenthood” (imdb), and a close-in Bruce Diamond, is a lifetime opportu- He looks forward to sharing this special look at a community that often cloisters nity for a most moving and uplifting occasion with his family and friends. itself off from the surrounding world. religious, cultural and historical tour of Pack your dinner; admission and Israel. Mother and daughter Arlene and Samantha Gallentine will be called to read soft drinks are free. This tour is limited to 26 people from the Torah as B’not Mitzvah on Friday, October 19 during regular Shab- * * * and costs $3,250 per traveler plus air- bat services at The Community Free Synagogue. Originally from Maryland, June 2019 Israel Pilgrimage fare. If you are interested and would Arlene and Sam moved to Fort Myers four years ago. This an exceptional The June 4-15, 2019, C.F.S. 6th biennial like more information on the schedule, achievement for Arlene, Israel Pilgrimage is starting to fill up. costs, reservations and other details, who has recently been This acclaimed educational and spiri- please email Arnie Harris at arnieh@ designated legally blind. tual experience includes nine nights of embarqmail.com. She recently retired from retail work. Sam works at Lakes Regional Lib- What do you think? rary. They began their adult Hebrew education at Community Free Syn- L’CHAYIM wants to know! agogue’s Auxiliary Rab- Send your letters & comments to [email protected]. bi Tom Miess’ Hebrew Reading Ulpan and con- Letters Policy tinued their preparation Letters must include the writer’s full name, full address and daytime phone. Letters for this special moment should be no longer than 300 words. We reserve the right to edit for length and/ or accuracy. Letters do not necessarily reflect the viewpoint of L’CHAYIM nor its with C.F.S. Auxiliary Rabbi Terri Goldberg. They are very excited and would advertisers. We cannot acknowledge or publish every letter received. like to invite the community to share this experience with them.

Maya Renee Shuster, daughter of Anna and Adam Shuster, older sister of Zachary, will be called to the Torah as a Bat Mitzvah on Saturday, October 27. The Shusters have been Temple Beth El members since mov- ing to Fort Myers from Michigan in 2010. A seventh-grade honor student at the Canter- bury School, Maya enjoys singing and play- ing tennis and golf. Maya has been taking piano lessons since she was five years old. Stay connected @ www.JewishFederationLCC.org She loves spending time with her friends, family and dogs, and watching scary movies with them. Maya believes she is very fortu- nate and understands the importance of giv- ing back to the community. She volunteers at Saint Vincent de Paul. The Shuster family feels blessed and grateful to Dale Senior Outreach Program Cohen for all the hours of coaching and teaching in preparation for this special day, which could not have happened without her. Special thanks to Maya’s religious school teachers and to Rabbi Luna. The Shuster family is very proud Specializing in and thankful to be a part of Temple Beth El and this great Jewish community. outpatient hip and Maya is excited to celebrate this day with her family, friends from near and far, knee replacement her temple and her teachers.

Colin Narayan Taschner, son of Kavitha and Brian Taschner, brother to Aidan Taschner, will Come out for lunch, see familiar faces be called to the Torah as a Bar and meet new friends at Mitzvah on Saturday, Novem- our free monthly senior lunches ber 10. Colin is proud to follow

in the footsteps of his father Thursday, October 11th who became a Bar Mitzvah at 12:00 PM Temple Beth El in 1986, and Temple Beth Shalom his brother who became a Bar 702 SE 24th Ave. Mitzvah at Temple Beth El in Cape Coral 2015. Colin’s hobbies include RSVP by October 8

swimming, baking, playing Thursday, November 8th basketball and taking care of 12:00 PM his beloved dog, Teton. He is Temple Judea a seventh-grade student at Cy- 14486 A and W Bulb Rd. press Lake Middle school. He Fort Myers is a great student and is a mem- RSVP by November 5 ber of the math team. Colin’s mitzvah project is to volunteer at the Humane Society. He has a special way with animals and is looking for- ward to helping socialize kittens and puppies to help them become ready for Let us know if you will be driving or if you would like adoption. Colin is very excited to share this special day with his friends and a volunteer to pick you up. family. He would also like to thank Morah Dale and Rabbi Luna for all their help in preparing for his Bar Mitzvah. RSVP—Jodi Cohen 239-481-4449, ext. 2 or [email protected] Each month, L’CHAYIM will list your Life Cycle events – births, B’nai Mitzvah, engagements, weddings, anniversaries and obituaries. For B’nai Mitzvah, please include up to 150 words about your child. Submit your events to [email protected]. Photos are appreciated; please e-mail as JPGs at 300dpi. L'CHAYIM OCTOBER 2018 OUR COMMUNITY Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties 7 Holocaust Museum & Cohen Education Center update By Susan Suarez, President & CEO all greetings from the Holocaust None of this would have been possible and facilitate discussion around human An intimate yet major documentary Museum and the Janet G. and without your help! rights topics through film.” that goes behind the scenes to show the FHarvey D. Cohen Education The capital campaign for our future Four documentaries (described be- historic civil rights struggle that led to Center! We enter the new 2018-2019 home continues to make great progress. low) will be presented and moderated the legal battle before the U.S. Supreme season boosted by the record-breaking We will remain operating in our present by a recognized authority or guest panel Court. year just past! Beginning with the land- location until Spring 2019, when we on the film’s subject. An audience Q&A Film Sponsor: PFLAG Naples mark capital gift from lead gift donor will move into our new location at 975 will follow each film. Reservations John Lewis - Get in the Way – Tuesday, Janet G. Cohen and purchase of our new Imperial Golf Course Blvd., Naples. We are required. Screenings will November 13, 7:00 p.m. building, we also anticipate holding the formal dedication take place at different venues Sheffield Theater, Moor- reached two addi- ceremony during Fall 2019. throughout Naples. Sponsor- ings Park, 120 Moorings tional milestones. The special Museum benefit screen- ships and reserved seating are Park Dr., Naples Over 30,000 stu- ing of Operation Finale at the Paragon also available for the series. The first biographical doc- dents, teachers Pavilion Theaters was a great success! While there is no cost to attend, umentary of the legislator, and visitors were Proceeds benefitted the Museum’s Edu- donations help cover the costs activist and civil rights educated by our cation programs. Thanks to all who sup- of providing tickets to our com- leader considered by many outreach efforts, ported the event by purchasing tickets munity members, regardless of to be “the conscience of which means that and to those braved the stormy weather ability to pay. To RSVP, to make a dona- Congress.”  Susan since our found- to attend! tion, and for sponsorship and reserved Venue Sponsor: Moorings Park Suarez ing in 2001, over Our October calendar is already seating information, please visit www. Bending the Arc – Monday, December 200,000 people have now participated filling up with school programming, HolocaustMuseumSWFL.org and click 10, 6:00 p.m. in our Education and Museum program- both here at the Museum and onsite on the “Events” page. Please note that South Regional Library, 8065 Lely ming and events! at schools. We will also be hosting a donations will not be accepted at the Cultural Pkwy, Naples When you combine all the SWFL number of Group Tours. If your group South Regional Library venue. Here are The story of Dr. Paul Farmer and oth- students we’ve served with the visitors or organization is interested in infor- the films to be presented: ers who work on the frontlines of the from all 50 states and 45 countries, the mation on scheduling a private tour, I Am Jane Doe – Thursday, October global health crisis to prove the differ- ripple effect of our little Museum is please contact David Nelson at david@ 18, 6:30 p.m. ence that dedicated professionals can enormous. If each of them tells just one HolocaustMuseumSWFL.org. Temple Shalom, 4630 Pine Ridge Road, make in what may seem to be hopeless other person about the importance of We are excited to invite you to par- Naples situations. respect for others, thousands upon thou- ticipate this fall in the new Movies That A gripping tale chronicling the battle Venue Sponsor: South Regional Library sands of other people may be inspired to Matter SWFL series, a community-wide that mothers waged on behalf of their No donations accepted at this venue act against bigotry, hatred and violence. effort to raise awareness of human rights daughters who were victims of sex We will hold our annual Volunteer Thank you to everyone who has made issues. The Museum is a partner in the trafficking. Welcome Back event on Monday, No- this possible – our generous support- Human Rights Film Coalition of SWFL, Film Sponsor: Women’s Foundation of vember 5 from 10:00 a.m. to noon at ers, Museum members and volunteers. whose mission is to “Educate, engage Southwest Florida Skillets in the Bed Bath and Beyond Freedom to Marry – Thursday, No- Plaza in Naples. RSVP to info@Holo Conference for child survivors and their descendants vember 1, 7:00 p.m. caustMuseumSWFL.org. Thanks to our Temple Shalom, 4630 Pine Ridge Road, volunteers for all they do! to be held in Florida Naples The World Federation of Jewish Child Survivors of the Holocaust & Descendants will hold its 30th Annual International Conference of Child Survivors, Second ● Beit Midrash ● and Third Generations, Spouses and Families in Cooperation with the Kinder- Adult Jewish Learning at Temple Judea transport, and Generations of the Shoah, in West Palm Beach this year. 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[email protected] Each month, L’CHAYIM will list your Life Cycle events – births, B’nai Mitzvah, engagements, weddings, Wednesday, October 24, 2018 • 7:00 P.M. Temple Judea anniversaries and obituaries. For B’nai Mitzvah, 14486 A&W Bulb Rd. • Fort Myers please include up to 150 words about your child. Submit your events to [email protected]. To register please visit www.aipac.org/templejudea *This event is off the record and closed to the press. Photos are appreciated; please e-mail as JPGs at 300dpi. L'CHAYIM OCTOBER 2018 8 Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties JEWISH INTEREST Recounting how the ancient faith redefined itself in the 18th and 19th century United States Book review by Philip K. Jason, Special to L’CHAYIM The Chosen Wars: How Judaism where immigrant Jews could build a ents for a single brand of edited and published Became an American Religion, vibrant community. Judaism: Jewish Judaism rival Jewish newspapers by Steven R. Weisman. He examines the interplay between or American Judaism. He to promulgate their posi- Simon & Schuster. 368 pages. becoming an American with almost un- takes us through the many tions. They took turns Hardcover $30.00. imaginable rights and holding on to the conferences where at- praising and demonizing traditional responsibilities of Jewish life tempts were made, most- one another. In most cases, here’s the story of the rabbi who as it had existed in past centuries. Along ly with good intentions, these were giant person- went to a Jewish community cen- the way, Weisman explores the vying to bargain and to vote up alities; in many cases, they Tter mixer to welcome newcom- strands of Ashkenazi and Sephardic or down which pieces had giant egos. ers. When someone asked him what kind Jewish culture. of Jewish baggage to Weisman writes in a of rabbi he was, he answered, “Jewish. Part of the process of fitting in had unload. straightforward, accessible I’m a Jewish rabbi.” to do with imitating what Americans ex- Biblical Hebrew? style. His decisions about Was he making a joke? Didn’t pected in houses of worship. To that end, Longing for the restora- the major and minor divi- he know that the questioner wanted many synagogues echoed the grandeur tion of the Temple? The Mes- sions of his enormous body to know if he was Orthodox, Conser- of churches, particularly Presbyterian siah? The dietary laws (was the Trefa of material are effective. It is likely that vative, Reform, churches. Banquet a horrible mistake or misunder- readers will find themselves judging him Reconstructionist, But how did Jews make the transi- standing – or was it a purposeful, insult- to be consistently fair-minded. Hasidic or some tion from various corners of Europe, ing act of rebellion)? Observance of the The Chosen Wars is no doubt the other variation of where they were so often victims of Sabbath? Literal understandings of Old most significant contribution to writ- the religious spec- persecution, to an unaccustomed secu- Testament fables? The stigma of being ings about the Jewish experience in trum? Of course, rity and even prominence in the land a “chosen” people? And what about the the United States since Jonathan D. he knew. It was of the free? Weisman circumscribed traditional Sarna’s American Judaism: A His- a serious answer, presents the saga in its roles of Jewish women? tory (2004). It makes the issues come but with a bit of a many parts, drawing on Shouldn’t they be equals to life, especially the primary one: In wink. a series of fascinating in all respects? what ways can a people who strive to  Phil The story that characters and stressful Dealmakers came be part of wider society reconcile the Jason Steven R. Weis- crises. and went. Congregations historical reality – born of both choice man tells in The Chosen Wars is, among How did the Civil merged and separated. and coercion – of being apart from other things, the story of the search for War affect Jewish com- From it all, something it? a unified Judaism responsive to time munities and individual emerged that can be Originally published in the Washington and place and seeking to be confident Jewish lives? Weisman called American Juda- Independent Review of Books. Re- about a Jewish future. It’s the story of reveals the answers. ism. printed by permission. growing opportunities for Jews to enter How did the huge in- It was shaped by Philip K. Jason is Professor Emeri- cultural mainstreams and the costs and flux of Jews in the later people like Rabbi Isaac tus of English from the United States consequences of admission. It is a story 19th century impinge Wise, Isaac Leeser, Felix Naval Academy. He reviews regularly told with power and precision. upon Jews already here Steven R. Weisman Adler, David Einhorn for Florida Weekly, Washington Inde- After sketching the earliest arrivals for generations? Readers will find out. and scores of others. They fought over pendent Review of Books, Southern of Jews in New Amsterdam (1654) and Weisman also presents the key is- almost everything, including which Literary Review, other publications and examining Jewish life in the Colonial sues of the Jewish Enlightenment in prayers to be extracted from the new the Jewish Book Council. Please visit period, Weisman explores the peaks and Europe (the search for rational religion) Judaism’s prayerbooks and whether or Phil’s website at www.philjason.word valleys of migration – most often peaks and its parallels in the United States. not to continue the traditions of wearing press.com. – that occurred in the 18th and 19th centu- He shows readers how the major play- head coverings and prayer shawls. They ries. He details the early prominence of ers, spiritual leaders and lay leaders of Charleston, South Carolina, as a place congregations fought over the ingredi-

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The Germans On September 3, the Italian main- one another. In most cases, were carrying pre- land was invaded. The same day, these were giant person- pared lists of names General Giuseppe Castellano signed EVERY DAY. alities; in many cases, they and addresses, and an armistice agreement with the Al- had giant egos. knew exactly who to lies in Cassibile. The agreement was Weisman writes in a target. With only a made public on September 8, and the straightforward, accessible few minutes to pre- Germans, increasingly desperate to style. His decisions about pare themselves, the ensure that Europe’s southern flank be  the major and minor divi- Dr. Paul Jews who had been safeguarded – as well as to be done with sions of his enormous body Bartrop taken in the razzia vacillation regarding the implementa- 2674 Winkler Avenue of material are effective. It is likely that(roundup) were conveyed to the Col- tion of the Final Solution – hastened Fort Myers, FL 33901 readers will find themselves judging himlegio Militaire (Military College), there to fill the vacuum this created with a to be consistently fair-minded. to await their fate. full-scale invasion of Italy. 239-275-7800 The Chosen Wars is no doubt the At the outset of World War II, Italy There is little doubt that the Ger- most significant contribution to writ-had a population of over 44 million, mans felt frustrated over the fact that ings about the Jewish experience in of whom some 52,000 were Jewish. A the Final Solution had, as they saw it, the United States since Jonathan D. Jewish presence in the country dated been endangered by the actions of some Sarna’s American Judaism: A His-back well over 2,000 years, and with Italians. Italy was, after all, Germany’s tory (2004). It makes the issues come such longevity the community became closest ally in Europe, and it was in to life, especially the primary one: In completely integrated within Italian Europe that the war against the Jews what ways can a people who strive to society and culture. Italians in general was being played out. be part of wider society reconcile the did not exhibit open anti-Semitism, and The consequence was that the Ger- historical reality – born of both choice unlike National Socialism in Germany, mans now decided to impose a grinding and coercion – of being apart from Italian fascism was not predicated on occupation on the Italians overall – and it? theories of ethnic and racial hierarchies Italian Jews suffered accordingly. With Originally published in the Washingtonor anti-Semitism. Indeed, until the Ital- the raid on the Rome ghetto on October Independent Review of Books. Re-ian National Assembly passed a series 16, Jews were taken in regardless of printed by permission. There is little doubt that the age, sex or health. Some Philip K. Jason is Professor Emeri- managed to escape. In tus of English from the United States Germans felt frustrated over the days leading up to Naval Academy. He reviews regularly the razzia, officials in the for Florida Weekly, Washington Inde- the fact that the Final Solu- Vatican had learned of pendent Review of Books, Southern tion had, as they saw it, been the possibility of such an Literary Review, other publications and action and managed to the Jewish Book Council. Please visit endangered by the actions of persuade Pope Pius XII Phil’s website at www.philjason.word some Italians. to order the opening of press.com. Rome’s monasteries and of anti-Semitic laws in 1938, Jews were convents as sanctuaries. Several thou- even permitted membership in the Fas- sand were sheltered this way, which cist Party. only served to anger the Germans all As Italy’s dictator, Benito Musso- the more. On October 16, however, well lini, tied his nation closer to Germany, over 1,000 Jews were caught by the however, he came under increased pres- Germans, with others in succeeding sure to crack down on Italian Jews. The weeks. anti-Jewish laws of 1938, when they Building on this start, through- were introduced, were watered-down out October and November of 1943, versions of Germany’s Nuremberg German occupation authorities com- Laws: they excluded Jews from serving menced a roundup of Jews in all of in the military and from certain profes- Italy’s large cities. The plan was to sions; Jews were not permitted to hold concentrate them at several points and government positions or to work in then transport them to the death camps radio and journalism; marriage between in Poland, but in many cases Italian Jews and non-Jews was prohibited; civilians and officials warned Jews of and resident alien Jews were placed in the operation in advance. Sometimes, internment camps. 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Take an exercise class with your neighbors Italy entered World War II in June identified by author Robert Katz in a or start your day with our Coffee and Crosswords 1940, firmly allied with Nazi Germany. book of that title published in 1969, saw group. Our lifestyle is designed for the way you live. In pursuit of Mussolini’s grand visions the start of the great ordeal for the Jews of a new Roman Empire, Italy would of Rome, and then all Italy. Although DISCOVER: eventually establish military occupa- there had been a Jewish presence in Italy tions in southern France, Albania, since the days of the Roman Empire, it • Month-to-month rental community Greece and Yugoslavia. 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The fish gelatin. ducers now also make kosher wine: syrup of the wine kashrut, the strict Jewish dietary code, There are actually two categories classified Bordeaux châteaux Lafite- world: mostly classifies food into three categories: of kosher wine for consuming at re- Rothschild, Giscours and La Gaffe-New TV Shows: Jewish Connections Here are the new TV shows/mini- made from nasty naturally kosher foods such as fruit ligious ceremonies. The first must be lière; Champagne’s Laurent-Perrier; series that premiered in September, or Concord grapes and vegetables; foods not kosher by handled and served only by Sabbath- and Beaujolais vintner Georges Du- will start in early-to-mid October, that and often an- nature, but can be made so by process- observant Jews. The second variety boeuf. From the New World, Hagafen have a major Jewish connection. noyingly sweet. ing under strict supervision; and foods (called mevushal or boiled) can be Cellars in California and Rodrigues The Good Cop is a ten-episode com- Those of us who that aren’t kosher and can never be, handled by anyone and still maintain Markland Cottage Winery in New- edy/drama Netflix series that premiered are at a certain such as pork and shellfish. Packaged its integrity. foundland. Yarden, Israel’s premium on Friday, September 21. It is based age certainly re- food and drink that are certified kosher That spiritual robustness is due to kosher wine, has won medals at Vin- on an Israeli TV series. The American  Jerry member the old usually bear a U symbol (for Union of a process of flash-pasteurization: the expo, the annual wine Olympics held version (which may have a 2nd season if Greenfield Mogen David Orthodox Jewish Congregations) or a temperature of the wine is brought in France. viewers like it) was created by and Manischewitz of days gone by. But K (for Organized Kashrut Laborato- from 15°C to 90°C and back again, all Many of these wines are worth ANDY , 63. He was the creator today many kosher wines, made from ries). in about ten seconds. drinking, whether or not you keepBRECKMAN of Monk and it remains his biggest hit. classic grapes, are complex and full of The kosher process is exacting. It This is believed to strengthen the kosher. And be sure to raise a glass Tony Danza plays a disgraced former character. must be strictly supervised, usually by wine’s spiritual essence and to make with the traditional Jewish toast of NYPD officer who never followed the In fact, sales of kosher wines are a rabbi, and none of the work can be it impervious to any corrupting influ- “L’chaim” – to life! rules. Josh Groban (who isn’t Jewish) growing fast. While no one tracks done on a holy day. Only Jews who ob- ences. It was also done to scare off Jerry Greenfield is The Wine Whisper- plays Danza’s straight-arrow son, an buyer demographics, some producers serve the Sabbath can handle the wine, heathens so they wouldn’t use the wine er. He is Creative Director of Green- NYPD detective. The two become unof- claim that up to half aren’t even mem- and even after it’s poured into barrels in their own rituals. Unfortunately, it field Advertising Group, and Wine ficial partners and solve crimes. bers of the Jewish faith – they’re just and given a rabbinical seal, a shomer has also frightened away serious wine Director of the international Direct Emma Stone and , attracted to the wine’s quality and its (watchman) has to guard it. drinkers and given kosher wine a poor Cellars wine club. His book, Secrets JONAH HILL 34, co-star in Maniac, a Netflix limited preparation, which guarantees purity. Kosher wine is essentially made reputation. If the heating process is of the Wine Whisperer, is available series that premiered on Friday, Sep- Kosher wines, like fashionable organic the same way as other wine, except that done incorrectly, it can create an un- through his website. Read his other tember 21. They play two strangers with products, avoid pesticides and other no leavens, wheat or animal products wanted cooked character. However, writings at www.winewhisperer.com. mental problems who are drawn to the chemicals. And, as we all know, many can be used. The yeasts must be certi- with modern technology and correct late stages of a mysterious pharmaceu- Jewish holy day traditions include fied kosher. And though ordinary wines technique, some winemakers believe tical trial. They hope the drug used in the trial will cure their problems almost instantly. Appearing in recurring roles Falafel superstar – recipe by Dalia are JULIA GARNER, 24, (Ozark) and s the Jewish year comes to a and fluffy and soft on the inside. It’s idea of serving falafel in pita bread. JEMIMA KIRKE, 33 (Girls). close, let’s take a look at the that magical combination that makes it Although there are many influences Single Parents premiered on ABC Amost popular food of the year. craveable, too. from surrounding countries, let’s get on Wednesday, September 26. It’s a With the advent of a new year Falafel is a plant-based superstar serious…falafel will always be a ‘tra- comedy about Will Cooper (Taram comes the inevitable deluge of best- with a delightful texture, customiz- ditional’ Israeli dish! Today, you can Killiam), a single father of a young of and worst-of lists, and the culinary able flavor and endless versatility. It’s find falafel everywhere – from the Far daughter. His friends urge him to get world is no exception. Using reports relatively inexpensive and back in the dating game. BRAD GAR- released from the National Restaurant delicious to make at home, RETT, 58, (Robert on Everybody Loves Association, which surveyed more and chefs can create signature Raymond) has a regular role as Douglas, than 700 chefs, and the Food Network versions to keep customers a wealthy widower with two young twin Kitchen prognosticators, as well as a interested and satisfied. daughters. He urges Cooper to “hire a major supermarket chain, we find a Falafel is a Middle Eastern greater influence from Israeli cuisine dish that incorporates mashed that is rising to the top of the list of the chickpeas and spices. The food trends in 2018. Foods like hum- falafel is formed into balls mus, tahini, pita and shakshuka, and or fritters, fried (can also be spices like saffron, turmeric, harissa and baked) and usually pocketed za’atar are showing up on mainstream in a pita or it can be stuffed into a flour East to the Far West – because falafel menus. But the winner of the year, tortilla (or corn tortilla for those prefer- is so delicious regardless of where you Personal Chef Dalia Hemed ring a gluten-free option). Top- are from. pings paired with falafel include I have created a gluten-free, baked can be reached at hummus, Israeli salad (chopped recipe, trying to incorporate spices and [email protected]. tomatoes, cucumbers, onions), ingredients that are trending this year. 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However, Bloom knows that most people want to start New TV Shows: Jewish Connections babysitter” and get out there. with a limited search of one family line. Here are the new TV shows/mini- The Neighborhood, a comedy/ series that premiered in September, or drama, begins on Monday, October 1 on So here’s the deal: will start in early-to-mid October, that CBS. MAX GREENFIELD (Schmidt Write Bloom at [email protected] and enclose a phone number. have a major Jewish connection. on New Girl) stars as Dave Johnson. The Good Cop is a ten-episode com- Things get dicey when Johnson, who Nate will then contact you about starting a limited search. If that edy/drama Netflix series that premiered is described as the “nicest guy in the goes well, additional and more extensive searches are possible. on Friday, September 21. It is based Midwest,” moves his family to a tough The first search fee is no more than $100. No upfront cost. Also, on an Israeli TV series. The American L.A. neighborhood. Many people there version (which may have a 2nd season if don’t appreciate his extreme neighbor- several of this newspaper’s readers have asked Bloom to locate viewers like it) was created by ANDY liness. friends and family members from their past, and that’s worked out BRECKMAN, 63. He was the creator Star Wars: Resistance starts on the great for them. So contact him about this as well. of Monk and it remains his biggest hit. Disney Channel on Sunday, October Tony Danza plays a disgraced former 7. This series is set decades after the NYPD officer who never followed the events in the Return of the Jedi and six WEINER, 53. He gets historical details 41, and IONE SYKE, 47. Remember rules. Josh Groban (who isn’t Jewish) months before the events of The Force right and his new show may be great. her from the ’80s romantic classic Say plays Danza’s straight-arrow son, an Awakens. Resistance follows Kazuda Weiner was a major writer for The So- Anything? Her father is Donovan, the NYPD detective. The two become unof- Xiono, a pilot who is recruited to spy pranos and the creator and writer of Mad famous ’60s Scottish folk rocker. Her ficial partners and solve crimes. on the growing threat of the First Order. Men. Mad Men has to be ranked among mother is an American Jew. Her hus- Emma Stone and JONAH HILL, JOSH BRENER, 33, (Nelson “Big the best TV series of all-time. The en- band, rocker BEN LEE, 39, is Jewish. 34, co-star in Maniac, a Netflix limited Head” Bighetti on Silicon Valley) is a tire series is on Netflix. If you haven’t Last, but not least is The Con- series that premiered on Friday, Sep- series regular. seen it, stay with Mad Men for the first nors, which starts on ABC on Tuesday, tember 21. They play two strangers with The Romanoffs is an eight-episode season and you’ll be hooked. Stars in a October 16. It is the latest iteration of mental problems who are drawn to the anthology series that begins streaming Romanoff episode include PAUL REI- Roseanne, the TV series. The character late stages of a mysterious pharmaceu- on Amazon on Friday, October 12. It’s SER, 62, COREY STOLL, 42, NOAH Roseanne (Connor), co-star John Good- tical trial. They hope the drug used in about people around the globe who WYLE, 47, JON TENNEY, 56, and man recently disclosed, is supposed to the trial will cure their problems almost believe themselves to be descendants AMANDA PEET, 46. die in pilot episode (for reasons every- instantly. Appearing in recurring roles of the Russian royal family. The prem- Camping is a comedy that starts on body in America knows). The Jewish cast are JULIA GARNER, 24, (Ozark) and ise, on first read, made me think that Sunday, October 14 on HBO. It follows members include SARA GILBERT, 43, JEMIMA KIRKE, 33 (Girls). this series would romanticize the Ro- Walt (David Tennant), whose 45th birth- as Darlene, the younger daughter, and Single Parents premiered on ABC manoffs (as some documentaries do). day was supposed to be a delightful back MICHAEL FISHMAN, 36, as D.J., the on Wednesday, September 26. It’s a The Romanoff Tsars, collectively, had a to nature weekend. It was organized by Connors’ son. comedy about Will Cooper (Taram terrible record of anti-Semitism and a lot his aggressively controlling wife Kath- Killiam), a single father of a young of Jewish blood was/is on their hands. ryn (Jennifer Garner). Well, of course What do you think? daughter. His friends urge him to get Their cruel bigotry is often glossed-over everything that can go wrong does. back in the dating game. 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is a force for good. In the past, due to entitled beneficiaries – is simply- un education programs, Syrians perceived sustainable...The United States will no BRIEFS Israel as a demon that wants to expand, longer commit further funding to this and which poses many dangers. Today, irredeemably flawed operation...Pal- ISRAEL’S UNSUNG civil war. Israeli hospitals have treated the Syrian public knows that Israel is estinians, wherever they live, deserve HUMANITARIAN MISSION 4,800 Syrian civilians since 2011, half a power that tried to help it, at least on better than an endlessly crisis-driven SAVED THOUSANDS of them children. A separate field clinic the humanitarian level, during years service provision model. They deserve in the Golan Heights treated 6,000 Syr- of war. They know Israel provided to be able to plan for the future. OF SYRIAN LIVES ian civilians since last year. As the Assad regime completes its extraordinary care for the sick and “Accordingly, the United States Brig.-Gen. (res.) Yossi Kup­­ takeover of southern Syria, Israel is wounded near the border. And beyond will intensify dialogue with the United erwasser, former IDF Military Intel- winding down its humanitarian and that, that a variety of Israeli humanitar- Nations, host governments and inter- ligence research division chief, said medical operation that saved thou- ian organizations provided aid. That national stakeholders about new mod- the Syrians “are much more aware sands of Syrian lives throughout the will remain in the Syrian public aware- els and new approaches, which may than they were in the past that Israel ness.” include direct bilateral assistance from Syrian-Druze civilians living near the United States and other partners, the Israeli border have also become that can provide today’s Palestinian more friendly toward Israel, Kuper- children with a more durable and de- wasser assessed. “They see Hizbullah pendable path toward a brighter tomor- [which fought alongside the Assad re- row.” (U.S. State Department) gime] as hostile. There has been an at- tempt to force the Syrian-Druze in the U.S. DEPARTMENT OF southwest village of As-Suwayda to EDUCATION ADOPTS

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By David Harris, CEO of the American Jewish Committee (AJC), August 30, 2018 hy indeed? one group – the Palestinians – are treated UN-speak, the “proposed Arab State the world’s largest per capita aid re- News reports suggest the entirely differently. failed to materialize.” Had it been oth- cipients, much of that assistance has WU.S. administration is con- Indeed, the 1951 Refugee Conven- erwise, two states could have emerged, been siphoned off to line the pockets sidering a historic decision to redefine tion explicitly does not apply to Pales- and with any luck, learned to coexist. of Palestinian officials – who then turn who is and is not a Palestinian “refugee.” tinians, who fall within the purview of Apropos, to this day, that two-state con- around and seek more funds for their I hope the reports are true. A change is the UN Relief and Works Agency for cept remains the most feasible outcome. allegedly neglected people. long overdue and could actually help the Palestine Refugees in the Near East Instead, the Arab side went to war. It’s the same absurd logic that search for peace long-term. (UNRWA). Has there been any war without refu- Hamas deploys when it decries en- Tragically, there have been count- There is no equivalent UN body for gees? Yet, in a case of reverse causality, ergy shortages, while trying to shell the less refugees in the annals of history. anyone else in the world. Israel is blamed for the refugees result- Israeli power plants that provide elec- In the 20th century alone, tens of The definition of a refugee under ing from hostilities triggered by five tricity to Gaza. millions of refugees, if not more, were the UNRWA mandate is also unique. It Arab countries. The whole process is abetted by an compelled to find new homes – victims covers all descendants, without limit, Meanwhile, the Arab-Israeli conflict elaborate, well-funded UN apparatus, of world wars, border adjustments, pop- of those deemed refugees in 1948. This produced even more Jewish refugees encompassing more than just UNRWA, ulation transfers, political demagoguery helps explain why its caseload has quin- from the Arab world (and Iran). They, created by a majority of member states and social pathologies. tupled since 1950. however, resettled elsewhere with little to support the Palestinians. By contrast, The 1923 Treaty of Lausanne codi- Unlike UNHCR, UNRWA does not fanfare and no attention whatsoever among others, Kurds, who have a com- fied the population exchange of Greeks seek to resettle Palestinian refugees, but from the UN. pelling case for statehood, and Cypriots, and Turks, totaling more than 1.5 mil- rather provides social services while, in Then, by design, the Palestinian who have lived on a divided island due lion people. effect, keeping them in perpetual limbo. refugees, and their descendants ad in- to Turkish occupation, have no compa- Huge numbers of Hindus and Mus- And despite the crocodile tears finitum, were kept in UNRWA camps rable UN bodies to advance their causes. lims moved because of the partition of shed by Arab countries about the plight to serve as permanent reminders of the This is not to say that Palestinians the sub-continent into two independent of their Palestinian brethren, they have impermanence of their situation. Taught have had easy lives. They haven’t. It is nations – India and Pakistan. been among the most miserly donors to focus their hatred on Israel, and to be- to say that their leaders, with the com- Refugees by the millions, unable to to UNRWA. They assert that it is not lieve they will one day “return,” they’ve plicity of too many, have pulled off one return to their countries, were created their responsibility to care for refugees been denied chances for new lives. And of the most successful spin jobs in his- as a result of the 12-year Third Reich. created by the decisions of others. The they’ve been used to create the single tory. Rather than resettle the refugees, The exodus from Cambodia, Laos top five donors to UNRWA until now biggest stumbling block to achieving they have shamelessly exploited them and Vietnam after the victory of com- have been the U.S. and European gov- peace – the Palestinian fantasy of ending and their descendants. munist and rebel forces was massive. ernments. Jewish sovereignty in Israel. Therein lies the irreducible trag- Refugee flows from Africa’s civil By the way, I should hasten to Even now, 13 years after Israel edy – and the heart – of a decades-long and tribal wars have been constant. clarify that only those Palestinians seen totally withdrew from Gaza, astonish- conflict. Yemenis were kicked out of Saudi as victims of the Arab-Israeli conflict are ingly, over 500,000 Palestinians con- Arabia by the hundreds of thousands given this special treatment. tinue to live in UNRWA camps there. The AJC West Coast Florida during the first Gulf War due to Yemen’s During the first Gulf War in 1991, Why? Gaza is under Palestinian rule, office, located in Sarasota, can support for Iraq. when Kuwait sent packing 400,000 not Israeli. Countless Bosnian and Kosovar Palestinians for their alleged backing While the Palestinians are among be reached at 941.365.4955. Muslims fled, or were expelled, due to of Iraq’s Saddam Hussein, there wasn’t Serbian aggression. much reaction from the international outbreak in Cameroon has claimed at And this is just the tip of the refugee community. And more recently, while least a dozen lives and sent hundreds iceberg. thousands of Palestinians have been BRIEFS of people, many of them children, to hospitals since May. The World Health In fact, I don’t have to look far to dislocated by the Syrian civil war, again continued from previous page understand the unending refugee crises there’s silence. Arab violations of Arabs’ Organization says cholera is primarily of our times – or the trauma they have human rights are seemingly viewed dif- developing nations, is a portable crank- linked to insufficient access to safe wa- created. My mother, father and wife ferently, if they’re noticed at all. operated machine capable of taking ter and adequate sanitation. were all refugees. Yet, instead of wal- And in Lebanon, with its large water from a polluted source such as a “Our aim is to share our techno- lowing in victimization or becoming Palestinian population under UNRWA river and purifying up to 500 liters per logical advances in the domain of wa- consumed by hatred and revenge, they auspices, the government has long im- hour – enough to supply all the daily ter purification with our Cameroonian started anew, grateful to their adopted posed strict restrictions on Palestinians’ water needs of 300 to 400 people. partners,” said Gidor. “With simple, lands for making it possible. right to work in numerous fields. Where Last May, Israeli Ambassador to cheap Israeli technology we can assist This past May, the UN High Com- is the outcry? So, we are confronted by Cameroon Ran Gidor displayed NUFil- those communities in Cameroon that mission for Refugees (UNHCR) counted something unprecedented. tration’s portable unit at a public event have been afflicted by cholera.” 19.9 million refugees in its jurisdiction, Palestinians are not the world’s first showcasing innovative Israeli products UN-approved NUFiltration sys- with the largest populations being from refugee population, but their leadership for beekeeping and water purification. tems also are deployed in Ecuador, Syria, South Sudan, Somalia, Sudan and may be the first to resist a workable, Gidor worked with the Israeli Foreign Colombia, Peru, the Fiji Islands, Cam- the Democratic Republic of the Congo. long-term solution. Ministry’s MASHAV Agency for In- bodia, Vietnam, Ethiopia, Ghana, Ke- Over five decades, UNHCR estimates Think about it. In 1947, the UN ternational Development Cooperation nya, Tanzania, Mali and Nigeria. They that it has assisted 50 million refugees offered a two-state plan to address to arrange a donation of $15,000 worth function for three years before needing “to help restart their lives.” competing national claims. The Jews of NUFiltration equipment. new filters. (Abigail Klein Leichman, And yet, of all the world’s refugees, accepted it; the Arabs rejected it. Or in According to ReliefWeb, a cholera ISRAEL21c.org)

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Opinions and letters printed in L’CHAYIM do not necessarily reflect the views of the Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties, its Board of Directors or staff, or its advertisers. Seeds of gratitude Visitors to the synagogue t is traditional to eat a pomegran- things to be grateful for. Believe me, ere’s a regular occurrence in All of us want – and need – people ate on Rosh Hashanah. Our sages I could go on for several pages about the lives of rabbis and congre- to join our congregations. We want Ibelieved there were 613 seeds in how many wonderful things there are Hgations. A woman I’ve never people to be so touched by their expe- each pomegranate, thus equaling the to be grateful for. The trick, however, is seen before shows up at synagogue on rience at our synagogue that they want number of mitzvot (commandments) to become aware of each of these seeds a Friday night. After asking her name, I more, that they’ll come back, that some we observe. And, if you’re up for a of gratitude in our mind – and in our ask if she’s new to town. She’s not, she Jewish spark will grow to be a flame. challenge, try and heart. says. Is she saying But frequently that does not hap- count every seed in Brother David Steindl-Rast wrote: Kaddish for some- pen. What does happen is that some this fruit! Maybe “Everything is a gift. The degree to one or observing a Jew has a longing and feels some- there are even too which we are awake to this truth is a yahrzeit? She’s not. where in their soul that the synagogue many seeds to count measure of our gratefulness, and grate- She just wanted to be is their touchstone. It’s a place of com- and the rabbis gave fulness is a measure of our aliveness.” in synagogue. From fort. They show up at my synagogue or up at 613 so they So how alive are you? Whenever the pulpit, I saw the some other – perhaps for the first time could finish eating you spend a moment in gratitude, woman singing along in years. They sing the familiar words.  Rabbi the pomegranate? whether you are grateful for something  Rabbi with “L’kha Dodi.” Perhaps they talk to God. We fulfill a Michael J. But instead of small or large, it is as if you are sending Marc She remembered this. need. Schorin counting up our a “thank you” note to Hashem. Sack She picked up our There’s a Chasidic tale commonly mitzvot, maybe we could see each seed And Elie Wiesel, z”l, had this to Shabbat flyer and other material. Other told at High Holiday time. It’s about of the pomegranate as a seed of grati- say about gratitude: “For me, every people went up and spoke with her. the shepherd boy who finds his way to tude. What can we be grateful for? Join hour is grace. And I feel gratitude in “I’m glad you came here,” I said. “Let the synagogue on Yom Kippur but is me in enumerating what you and I can my heart each time I can meet someone us know how we can help you.” She illiterate. So, during the height of imagine: and look at his or her smile.” never came back. prayer, he whistles. It’s all he knows. ‹‹ For husbands, wives, children and As the month of Tishrei dawns Did we fail? Perhaps, but I doubt Everyone in the synagogue is angry parents who give our lives mean- upon us, I hope you will find a min- it. She seemed to genuinely enjoy the that the boy interrupted the service, but ing, context and love ute to be grateful for Rosh Hashanah experience of my congregation. She the rabbi quiets them, telling them that ‹‹ For homes that keep us dry from and the New Year. And I hope you will was one of the last to leave the Kid- the boy’s whistle was his prayer and rain and safe from wind be grateful for Yom Kippur and doing dush. that it was offered with the depth of ‹‹ For salaries, pensions and social well with your fast. And as we enter My synagogue is located on what sincerity. security, so that we can afford the the holiday of Sukkot, the holiday of has become a major thoroughfare. It’s Our synagogues regularly get visi- homes mentioned above pure joy, I hope you will feel the joy easy to know we are here. But, as a tors who come to us because they want ‹‹ For chicken soup, brisket and ru- of harvesting all of these seeds and newcomer to the synagogue, the wom- to pray. Being available to them is a gelach, so we can celebrate the fruits of gratitude. As Brother David an had to look at our website or call the great mitzvah. It’s one of the reasons holidays in style Steindl-Rast also said: “The root of joy synagogue to find out what time our we’re here. ‹‹ For our health and that of our loved is gratefulness. It is not joy that makes service would be. Her attendance was Rabbi Marc Sack serves at Temple ones, so that we can enjoy our lives us grateful. It is gratitude that makes us more than an impulse. Something drew Judea in Fort Myers. ‹‹ For belonging to the Jewish people joyful.” her to the synagogue that night. ‹‹ For temples and synagogues to at- Wishing you all a Happy, Healthy tend and Joyous New Year! ‹‹ For hot weather and beautiful Rabbi Dr. Michael J. Schorin, MAPC, Dealing with loss clouds BCC is a Chaplain in Lee Health’s ate last summer, Melinda and “champagne pool” in the courtyard ‹‹ And for the family of ducks I saw Department of Spiritual Services, and I were bicycling around The was set to 104°F, since it is used as a crossing the street this morning! ministers at the Gulf Coast Medical Forest when she noticed a tiny spa. As you probably know, as “cold I bet you can think of many more Center. L turtle hatchling entirely drawn in on blooded” reptiles, turtles have no way the hot pavement. We immediately of regulating their body temperatures, brought him home and Harvey was beyond what he could and placed him in endure. a small tub of prop- I fished him out, spent the day erly treated water nursing him as best I could, prayed at with a basking rock, lot and remained hopeful. I read every- filter and ultraviolet thing I could, tried everything I could, water sanitizer. (We and rejoiced whenever he showed a bit  Rabbi had this equipment of motion, which he was doing for a Bruce stored away from while. Diamond when we rescued an- That night I left him on his favor- other little Peninsula Cooter hatchling ite basking rock with a warming lamp we found on our step three years ago, to keep him comfortable. In my heart I aptly named Cooter, who is now eight imagined that the next morning I’d find FINEMARK NATIONAL BANK & TRUST IS PROUD pounds and thriving in a 75-gallon tank him scurrying around like his old self. in the courtyard.) When I went out to check on him early TO CONSISTENTLY EARN A 5-STAR RATING We named him Harvey, after the next morning, I found that he was cov- hurricane that was ravishing the Hous- ered by a blue wash cloth that Melinda FROM BAUER FINANCIAL, THE NATION’S ton area. Melinda soon pointed out to placed over him when she found him LEADING INDEPENDENT BANK RATING FIRM*. me that this little guy, no larger than dead on the bottom of the tank. a quarter, was missing his back left I took little Harvey out back and paddle but still had his leg. We fig- buried him next to Mau-Mau, an inter- We attribute our success to delivering unparalleled ured some bird had grabbed it by that esting black cat with whom I shared 17 service and putting our clients fi rst. paddle when he and his nest mates had years that I buried back there 14 years hatched, but dropped the hatchling ago. I then spent the rest of the day in when it broke off. Double lucky little bed since it was Labor Day. guy – first not being a meal and now Why am I sharing this with you? having others to care for him. First of all, I find that writing about this Having learned the ropes about makes me feel a little better, and maybe raising turtles with Cooter, Harvey had that’s enough of a reason. You’d think it made and eventually graduated to a I’d be better at dealing with this little 30-gallon container with all the “fix- loss considering what I do for work. As ins.” you might have heard, my people and Then, just last Shabbes morning I tend to have very close connections, before we went off to synagogue for some longer than 20 years. I try not to Torah study and breakfast, it occurred be too aloof or hide behind titles and to me that Harvey needed more swim- status. Most of all, when I am needed, I ming room, so I pushed his basking try to give everything I’ve got to give. rock (these turtles need to sun them- But, no matter how deeply I feel, I selves a lot to dry out and absorb Vita- can’t let myself properly grieve, espe- min D) to the side of the tank so he’d cially when people are passing on and have more room to exercise. I’m counted on to help hold things to- When we came home three hours gether. later, his tank was empty and he was in So I’m thinking it all gets stored up the pool, scarcely moving. Apparently, somewhere inside of me waiting for a he had used the rock to climb out the time to come out. Well, it’s coming out tank, dropped the 30 inches to the floor now. Thanks, Harvey. I was lucky to

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Opinions and letters printed in L’CHAYIM do not necessarily reflect the views of the Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties, its Board of Directors or staff, or its advertisers. Opinions and letters printed in L’CHAYIM do not necessarily reflect the views of the Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties, its Board of Directors or staff, or its advertisers. It’s a new year, so ask Caring for others All of us want – and need – people tzadik in peltz,” i.e., a righteous the entire world with a flood, saving to join our congregations. We want lots of questions “ person in a warm, fur coat. only Noah’s family. Yet, Noah did not people to be so touched by their expe-“ y mother made me a sci- to visit with residents, approaching his AThis is one way of describing argue with G-d. Instead, he withdrew rience at our synagogue that they want entist without ever in- room with trepidation. Noah, whose story we read about in into his own little world, building the more, that they’ll come back, that some tending it. Every other He was most gracious and he told this month’s Torah portion on Shabbat ark and continuing in his own personal Jewish spark will grow to be a flame. M Jewish mother in Brooklyn would ask me this story: “I am 85 years old,” he Noah. There are various ways to warm righteous ways. Only when people ap- But frequently that does not hap-her child after school: ‘So? Did you said, “and I have been studying Torah oneself when in a cold room. One way proached and asked what he was doing, pen. What does happen is that some learn anything to- my whole life. And yet I still feel like is to build a fire (or turn up the heat). did he tell them about the impending Jew has a longing and feels some- day?’ But not my I am at the beginning of my studies.” A second method is disaster. where in their soul that the synagogue mother. She always “How is that?” I asked. to bundle oneself up For these reasons, the flood is re- is their touchstone. It’s a place of com- asked me a different “When I was 6 years old, my teach- warmly. ferred to in the Bible as the “Waters of fort. They show up at my synagogue or question. ‘Izzy,’ she er handed me a Chumash (text of the If one builds a Noah.” Noah could have averted the some other – perhaps for the first time would say, ‘did you five books of the Torah in book form) fire, the entire room disaster if he had reached out to his in years. They sing the familiar words. ask a good question and said, ‘Read!’ So I read – in Hebrew becomes warm and fellow man. But he clothed himself Perhaps they talk to God. We fulfill a today?’ That differ- – the first words of the Torah: ‘In the all of the people in warmly in his righteous deeds, un- need.  Rabbi ence – asking good beginning, God created the heavens the room benefit. concerned with the bitter “cold” from There’s a Chasidic tale commonly Stephen questions – made me and the earth.’  Rabbi If, however, he just which his generation suffered. told at High Holiday time. It’s about Fuchs become a scientist!” “Then, I looked up and asked, ‘If in Yitzchok wraps himself up all When we see another Jew in the the shepherd boy who finds his way to– Isidor I. Rabi, Nobel laureate the beginning God created the heavens Minkowicz cozy and snug, he is cold, we must not just bundle ourselves the synagogue on Yom Kippur but is As we begin to read the Torah and the earth, then who created God?’ the only one who profits. up even more warmly. Rather, we must illiterate. So, during the height ofagain each year on Simchat Torah, I “And wham! I got such a slap The Zohar explains that one of invite him in and build a fire, helping prayer, he whistles. It’s all he knows. am reminded of my first rabbinical as- across the face that I still feel it, so I Noah’s greatest faults was that, though fan the spark within every Jew into a Everyone in the synagogue is angrysignment. always feel I am at the beginning of my his own behavior was righteous, he did burning flame. that the boy interrupted the service, but A first-year student at the Hebrew studies.” not try to influence others. In Noah’s Rabbi Yitzchok Minkowicz serves at the rabbi quiets them, telling them thatUnion College-Jewish Institute of Re- From my perspective, when study- generation, everyone except his own Chabad Lubavitch of Southwest Flor- the boy’s whistle was his prayer andligion’s Los Angeles campus, I con- ing the first portion of the Torah, “Who family, was totally immoral. G-d in- ida. that it was offered with the depthducted of Friday night Shabbat worship at created God?” is a most appropriate formed Noah that He would destroy sincerity. a convalescent home in the city. After question. Our synagogues regularly get visi-the service, I visited patients in their In traditional Jewish life, one who tors who come to us because they want rooms, earning $10 for each visit. has strayed from religious observance to pray. Being available to them is a One Friday night, not long after but returns to the fold is considered to great mitzvah. It’s one of the reasons I began, the home’s attendant greet- be hozer b’tshuvah (one who returns in we’re here. ed me with this: “Rabbi, you have a repentance), but the literal translation Rabbi Marc Sack serves at Temple new congregant. Rabbi Rosenfeld, an of the phrase is “one who returns with Judea in Fort Myers. 85-year-old Orthodox rabbi is with us answers.” and he will attend your service.” The late Rabbi Harold Schulweis “What?!” I thought to myself. “An taught that he felt greater admiration Orthodox rabbi is coming to my ser- for a sheh hozer b’she’elah (one who Dealing with loss vice! What will he think? How will he returns with questions). react?” Indeed, questions are the lifeblood These thoughts played on in my of learning, and there is no better time mind throughout the service as an alert to ask them than now, as we begin but impassive Rabbi Rosenfeld sat in anew, with fresh eyes, our annual cycle the congregation, a large black kippah of reading the Torah. on his head and a copy of the Union Rabbi Stephen Lewis Fuchs serves at Prayer Book clutched tightly and un- Bat Yam Temple of the Islands on Sani- opened in his hands. bel Island. After the service, I made my rounds Yom HaAliyah nce the High Holy Days are the letters tell of ordinary life events over you might think we have about children, jobs, etc., they also Ono Jewish holidays until Ha- give incredible insight into kibbutz life nukkah. This month in the Jewish cal- in early Israel. The very first letter de- endar, Cheshvan, is even traditionally scribes Israel as “in a state of becom- called Mar Cheshvan, meaning bitter ing.” There were certainly challenges: Cheshvan, because there are no ma- “a straw mattress, no pillow, wooden jor Jewish holidays. shacks without heating, strange food, But in the summer crowded tables of strangers speaking a of 2016, the Israeli strange language, tedious work wash- Knesset added a new ing dishes eight hours a day, and no holiday on the 7th real place of comfort to come to when of Chesvan – Yom work is finished.” But my great-aunt HaAliyah – Aliyah also describes the awe of visiting bibli- Day, a day recogniz- cal sites: “Climbing Mt. Gilboa where  Rabbi ing and celebrating Saul was murdered by the Philistines, Nicole immigration to the swimming in a Roman pool with the Make Your Vacation Luna land of Israel and water as clear as I’ve ever seen water honoring all those who made aliyah. in my life, and digging up some pottery The day falls during the week when and glass from the Byzantine period in Days Count we read the Torah portion Lech-Lecha, the ruins of a Roman theatre in Beit when God tells Abraham and Sarah to Shahn.” go forth to a new land, the Promised Yom HaAliyah falls this year on Located on the banks of the Caloosahatchee River near Sanibel Land. Yom HaAliyah is also celebrated Tuesday, October 16. May we all take Island, The Westin Cape Coral Resort at Marina Village is the perfect th in the spring, on the 10 of Nisan, when time on that day to honor those who destination for a relaxing waterfront vacation. Unwind and rejuvenate the biblical Israelites crossed over into built up the land of Israel and reflect in our gorgeously appointed suites with exceptional amenities the land of Israel. on how we can continue to support the including a fully equipped kitchen and screened in balconies for My great-aunt made aliyah on Jan- flourishing of Eretz Israel. basking in the Florida sun. Planning a special event? Enjoy our 30,000 uary 1, 1951, and I’ve been reading let- Rabbi Nicole Luna serves at Temple sq ft of indoor space or our stunning outdoor waterfront venues which ters that she and family members wrote Beth El in Fort Myers. to each other from 1951-1959. While provide a picture perfect setting.

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a.m. in the sanctuary TEMPLE BETH EL SCHOOLS with Morah Dale. This is Fort Myers a mandatory part of our curriculum for grades Dale M.Cohen, R.J.E. - M.A. Ed. 4-7. This is a wonderful opportunity Religious School Director to become familiarized with and pro- Dear Parents of the Religious School: ficient in the Saturday morning liturgy. Bar / Bat Mitzvah Specialist As I sit here in my office writing this Maya Shuster will be called to the article, I am thrilled to reflect upon Torah as a Bat Mitzvah on Saturday, Choosing the right photographer is an important decision. Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur. It October 27. We are so proud of Maya Michael Shapiro has more than 30 years experience in media was amazing to see so many of our and all of her accomplishments on one and journalism. He is able to capture images that are unique, Religious School students and families of the most meaningful days of her life. participating in our Ne’ilah Service. During this time in our country unexpected and spontaneous. It brings great joy to all of us here to and the world, it is extremely difficult have such active participation to con- to see the silver lining inside of the clude the Yom Kippur service. We are clouds, with all of the fires, weather so thankful and blessed to have our stu- tragedies, shootings, etc. Hopefully dents. We could not be more proud of they will bring to the forefront some you. very important conversations that need I must thank our exceptional Torah to happen. Perhaps these conversations readers during our Rosh Hashanah and will bring people closer together. Yom Kippur services: Zoe Sax, Jacob Performing mitzvot is crucial for Spiegel, Shayne Seiser, Jack Calder us as Jews. It is an integral part of who and Ella Laboda. Mazel tov to all of we are and how contributing and re- you on a job well done. Yasher koach. pairing the world (tikkun olam) is truly Todah rabah to Larry Schoenfeld one of our greatest attributes. On Sun- for his wonderful reading of the To- day, October 7, we will have a canned Other Services: Weddings / Family Portraits / Events rah for our students during their Junior food drive because we take seriously Congregations. We are blessed to have the mitzvah of feeding the poor. Our 239.770.6860 such wonderful teachers who lead our Confirmation class will deliver the do- Junior Congregations – Morah Amy nations to the Harry Chapin Food Bank [email protected] Shinbaum, Mackenzie Sax, Evan Ka- during the next few weeks. All of the www.shapiro-photography.com gan – and our wonderful volunteers. food will be distributed shortly before We are so grateful to all of you. the Thanksgiving holiday to help make Our next two Junior Congregations people’s celebrations more special. will be held on Saturdays, September Temple Beth El Religious School Candle lighting times: 29 and October 20, from 9:00 to 10:15 values creating Jewish adults! October 5: 6:52 Earn CAS Credits The Jewish Federation of Lee October 12: 6:44 and Charlotte Counties is interested in hearing from October 19: 6:38 teenagers in high school who might like to earn CAS credits October 26: 6:32 though various work in the Jewish community. If you are interested, please send the following information to [email protected]: Name Address DISCOVER Phone # Age THE FUN! Grade School Preferred volunteer hours P(e.g.J 2 L- 5P.M.IB Sundays)RARY RADIO LIVE! PJ LIBRARY RADIO LIVE! PJ L IBRARY RADIO LIVE! RECEIVE THE GIFT OF FREE JEWISH CHILDREN’S BOOKS MAILED TO Now PJ library families can listen to Jewish kids YOUR HOME Now PJ librarymusic families — anytime, can listen anywhere. to Jewish kids SHARE the experience EVERY MONTH! Now PJ library families can listen to Jewish kids Introducingmusic PJLibraryRadio.com — anytime, anywhere., an online of reading with your music — anytime, anywhere. children as they grow with Funded by the streamingIntroducing radio PJLibraryRadio.com station with more than, an 2,000 online songs

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Families can sign up for PJ Library at pjlibrary.org L'CHAYIM OCTOBER 2018 FOCUS ON YOUTH Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties 19 a.m. in the sanctuary tions. Additional guiding with Morah Dale. This is TEMPLE JUDEA SCHOOLS questions for classroom a mandatory part of our Fort Myers discussion are presented curriculum for grades for each prayer. It is not 4-7. This is a wonderful opportunityFor our kids, only the best enough to say the words. We want our to become familiarized with and pro-Tab Scribner, children to have an understanding and ficient in the Saturday morning liturgy.Director of Congregational Learning personal connection to the liturgy. The Maya Shuster will be called to theThe buzz at Temple Judea is all about children’s siddur is also aligned with Torah as a Bat Mitzvah on Saturday,our kids! On Sunday, August 26, we the congregational siddur to which the October 27. We are so proud of Maya“took flight” for the start of our school children will graduate as they prepare and all of her accomplishments on oneyear. With the call that we are “now for their bar or bat mitzvah. of the most meaningful days of her life.boarding” TJRS Flight 5779, students It’s a new year at Temple Judea Re- During this time in our countryand families assembled for a formal ligious School. We believe that our en- and the world, it is extremely difficultwelcoming and kickoff of activities. gaging revamped curriculum is a valu- to see the silver lining inside of the The concept of taking flight comes able first step toward acquiring Jewish clouds, with all of the fires, weatherfrom the notion that our religious life skills in preparation for committed tragedies, shootings, etc. Hopefullyschool is an immersion experience, Jewish adulthood. We offer a direct they will bring to the forefront somewhere our classroom spaces serve as a connection to, and involvement with, very important conversations that need Teacher graduate school to happen. Perhaps these conversations scholarship available will bring people closer together. Performing mitzvot is crucial for The Helen & Edward Brancati Teacher Development Scholarship Fund awards us as Jews. It is an integral part of who one $750 scholarship annually to a teacher who best exemplifies high professional we are and how contributing and re- standards and dedication to the teaching profession. pairing the world (tikkun olam) is truly The award can be used by classroom teachers seeking post graduate education, one of our greatest attributes. On Sun- or needing funds for required continuing education classes, workshops or confer- day, October 7, we will have a canned ences as well as for certification courses. Applicants may not use this scholarship food drive because we take seriously money for post graduate classes that will lead to an administrative position remov- the mitzvah of feeding the poor. Our ing them from the classroom. The award is available to any teacher employed by Confirmation class will deliver the do- an accredited school in the United States who is a U.S. citizen. nations to the Harry Chapin Food Bank We are pleased to announce that applications may be submitted electronically during the next few weeks. All of the or via the mail. Applications must be post marked by October 31, 2018. For more food will be distributed shortly before information or to apply, go to http://www.capecoralcf.org/offerings/scholarships/. the Thanksgiving holiday to help make people’s celebrations more special. Batya, Gabriela and Asher learn about Rosh Hashanah traditions Temple Beth El Religious Schoollittle slice of Israel. When students ar- the State of Israel with our kid-friendly Results of values creating Jewish adults! rive at TJRS, they are entering another shlichah, Zohar Ben Hamu. To support a recent place, surrounded by and engulfed in Hebrew language acquisition, we inte- national survey of Judaism and Jewish life. On Sunday, grate Hebrew into our Judaica instruc- 25,000 Earn CAS Credits as students arrived, we equipped them tion. With our post-bar/bat mitzvah families with their own “captain’s wings” and program, we ensure that our students conducted by their very own TJRS darcon, or pass- will be engaged with our community PJ Library port, that was stamped throughout the and the Jewish people long after b’nei day as the children engaged in learn- mitzvah. ing. The darcon will stay with the child Our high school program is truly a Parents in Lee PJ Library is throughout the year, marking their blending of generations. In addition to and Charlotte achievements, attendance, and partici- taking classes from our rabbi and con- counties whose making a pation in school activities, community gregational leaders, our high school- children are difference in the events and congregational services. ers also serve in the religious school enrolled in lives of families PJ Library In the classrooms (named after Is- as madrichim, partnering with a class raising Jewish raeli cities), it was a day of non-stop and bonding with a younger “buddy” participated in children.. engagement and learning, highlighted to help mentor throughout their stud- the survey. ies. We believe that the connection across generations is essential Joann Goldman, grandchildren and others visiting our to being part of a com- Temple Judea Preschool Director home about safety rules. It is a time to munity. Autumn will explode in our classroom remember the importance of learning In addition to during the month of October. We will and teaching fire safety. learning all the He- learn about the Jewish holidays through Young children are particularly brew, we will study in story time, discussions and creative art. vulnerable to the threat of fire, with chevruta (pairs) across We will also discover the colors of children under five suffering a fire age groups, to extract autumn through themes such as leaves death rate of more than twice the na- meaning and cultivate and pumpkins. tional average. We can help change inquiry using the week- As we celebrate the new year, the these frightening statistics by teaching ly Torah parshah and children will have a chance on working children about fire safety. Make an es- other Jewish texts. We together, sharing and helping others. cape plan with your whole family and will celebrate holidays We explain that we are like a colony choose a meeting place outside. PJ LIBRARY RADIO LIVE! and life cycle events just like the bees. We discuss how the We look forward to learning about David and Ari team up to find their Hebrew names in a word search as an extension of the bees make honey and how apples grow a variety of animals such as woodland by a schoolwide Hebrew name game home, with services, meals and, most on trees. We dip apples in honey to cel- animals and farm animals. We can’t celebrating their Hebrew names. Find- of all, the camaraderie of our Temple ebrate a new year with a sweet taste wait to get our hands inside of a pump- ing a new friend “who is named after a Judea family. This is where lifelong to it. We focus on others and how to kin and take out all the seeds. patriarch” or “who has a Hebrew name friendships will come to be. help the less fortunate, and how we can Our preschool has a brand new that is the same as their English name” If you missed our opening day, I improve relationships with friends and beautiful library that all our children and more, guided students into getting welcome you to “book your reserva- family. can enjoy. We are very grateful to our October is also Fire Safety Month. parents and the community that sup- Along with learning about firefighters ported us in creating this special room. and safety, we are eagerly anticipat- The children will be able to check out ing a visit from the local fire station. books each week and have a special We all need to remind our children/ reading time with their family. Now PJ library families can listen to Jewish kids music — anytime, anywhere. Introducing PJLibraryRadio.com, an online streaming radio station with more than 2,000 songs from hundreds of artists across the globe. Music is available 24/7 with special music blocks for Shabbat, Holiday and Bedtime. Morah Lee’s class enjoys a moment between activities to know others in the school who were tion” to join us by contacting me to dis- not in their same class. cuss your child(ren)’s religious educa- • Listen to the music online We also introduced new children’s tion needs. Of course, there’s more to siddurim. Written by Alex Weinberg, Temple Judea than education, although • Download the free app on ITunes, Google Play Siddur Sholom presents our prayers nothing more important. Our kids are or Tune In Radio in a kid-friendly, colorful context. Key our future. We welcome you to join us words are color-coded, matching the as we take flight. 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very moment, we are do- when I brought them out of Egypt. I the this to be reminded that sometimes all SHALOM LIFE CENTER ing all we can to bring a Lord am your G-d.” we have is our faith, the real founda- Fort Myers brighter future for our- We were vulnerable when we jour- tion upon which we rebuild. Our true (239) 218-3433 selves, our families and neyed out of Egyptian bondage, and dignity and worth comes from the Di- the entire world. only in this “letting go” and trusting vine spirit and not from our material Lawrence & Robin Dermer The sukkah calls us to the truth and G-d as our true guiding light were we possessions. Unlike the elaborate environment that the truth is material things will never able to see the promised land. By aban- In 5779 may the sukkah we dwell we’ve constructed for ourselves, the bring us lasting happiness. The stron- doning our dependence on the physical in remind us of what we can always sukkah creates no illusions. It gives gest buildings made of brick and steel we can come to realize that our great- count on. If our Jewish foundation is us a healthy dose of reality and shows will eventually crumble. The joy that est strength comes only from our faith strong and solid we can survive any us the truth. Its simple roof made of we experience being with friends and in G-d. storm. The Torah is our Tree of Life a canopy of leaves is open to the sky. family, the love we feel for each other Sukkot is the time of our rejoicing and G-d is our rock, our foundation and This frail and temporary “hut” calls us and our love of G-d is the only path to where we gather in our sukkah, eating, our salvation! to realize that a physical structure with lasting fulfillment. This is the mitzvah drinking, celebrating and learning to- We are thrilled to be entering into a roof can protect us but can also limit of being together in the sukkah. gether, giving us an opportunity to ex- our fourth season as one Shalom Life us. How often do we obsess about past Gazing through the open roof that ternally express our faith and renewed Center family and we promise to con- events or worry about what has not yet exposes us to wind and rain makes us commitment to G-d. Like the openness tinue to bring even more wonderful even occurred in the future? The “tem- vulnerable. This vulnerability is not of the sukkah, we are open to both and inspiring services, special events porary” status of the sukkah teaches us weakness. It can actually be our great- sunshine and rain, joy and pain, good and concerts during the 2018/2019 that each moment is precious. All we est power. times and times of great challenge. season. For more information, please really have is the present and this gift Our Torah teaches us: “For seven Every year, right after Yom Kippur visit www.shalomlifecenter.org, call should not be wasted living in the past days you must live in sukkot…that we rebuild this shaky and temporary 239.218.3433 or email info@shalom or trying to predict the future. By ap- your descendants may know that it was hut to remind ourselves that our lives lifecenter.org. preciating and making the most of this in booths that I made the Israelites live are fragile, fleeting and frail. We do

Ophthalmology Depart- them laugh and feel comfortable. information, contact Ayelet Tours at HADASSAH ment is 100 years old and Hadassah clowns have training in www.ayelet.com or 800.237.1517. If Collier/Lee Chapter each year it treats 45,000 certain medical procedures so they you are planning a trip to Israel, we can (239) 301-0509 patients! can make the hospital experience a arrange a tour of Hadassah Hospital for ÎÎWhat child would pleasant one for the children. you. Lynn Wilner want to be wheeled into the op- Why not see Israel for yourself? Are you looking for a book group, I hope you all enjoyed your summer erating room on a hospital bed if Hadassah has a variety of Missions to study group, evening activities, Knowl- and are ready for a wonderful season! instead he or she could arrive at Israel for you and your family. Mis- edge & Nosh, advocacy/volunteer/ Please mark your calendars and the operating room in Hadassah’s sions in 2019 include “Explore, Re- fundraising opportunities, luncheons, join us to meet your friends and make new ride-on car? Three-year-old joice & Experience Israel: Hadassah Annual Mahj, Card and Game Day, new ones at our Welcome Back Lun- Dan Synett did just that as he rode Purim Mission” (March 17-27), “The educational programs or just want to cheon on Tuesday, October 30 at 10:30 to surgery in style! Dan’s mother People, The Youth & The Future: Ha- have fun and get to know people? Then a.m. at Audubon Golf and Country said, “Dan received excellent care dassah Youth Aliyah Mission” (March Hadassah is the place for you! To learn Club. We will have a delicious lunch at Hadassah. Riding to the operat- 26-April 5), “Celebration Across the more about Hadassah, contact me at and hear from our guest speaker, Dr. ing room in a car like grandpa’s Nation: A Yom Ha’Atzmaut Mission” 239.598.1009 or lynninaples@yahoo. Karen Ezrine, National Vice Chair of definitely made the whole experi- (May 6-19), “Refresh & Recharge: Re- com, or Shelley at 239.301.0509 or Hadassah Medical Organization. We ence even better.” turn to Israel” (September 4-15), “Tak- shellskel@ gmail.com. will also be presenting and voting on ÎÎ Hadassah is honoring nurses as ing It Easy Mission” (October 30-No- If you would like to join Hadassah, our 2019 Slate of Officers. For details, part of the celebration of 100 years vember 10), “The Land, The Heart & upgrade to Life Membership or become contact Carol Finn at carolthompson@ of the Henrietta Szold Hadassah- The Soul of Israel: Interfaith Mission” an Associate (male affiliate of Hadas- mylegaledge.com or 708. 289.5181. Hebrew University School of (December 2-13) and “ Hadassah & sah), please contact Carol Hirsch at Here are some interesting facts Nursing. Jewish National Fund Israel Family 239.631.6828 or chirsch1951@gmail. about Hadassah you might like to ÎÎ On any given day you might see a Tour: Celebrating Hanukkah and Our com, or Donna Goldblatt at mom443@ know! clown at Hadassah Hospital work- B’nai Mitzvah in Israel” (December aol.com. ÎÎ Hadassah Medical Organization’s ing with a young patient to help 25, 2019-January 2, 2020). For more See you at Hadassah!

Education Center. Shoah will be holding its annual con- contacted for more information about GENERATIONS OF THE SHOAH The annual Kristall- ference in West Palm Beach this year. these programs and the information SOUTHWEST FLORIDA nacht Commemoration The 2018 conference will take place will be in Museum newsletters and the (239) 963-9347 will be held on Sunday, from Friday, November 9 to Monday, GenShoah monthly newsletter. Since November 4 at 2:30 p.m. November 12. For conference infor- GenShoah SWFL is an affinity group GenShoah begins 2018-19 season at Temple Shalom in Naples. All Sec- mation and registration, visit www. of the Holocaust Museum and does not with Movies That Matter ond Generation (2gs) are encouraged holocaustchild.org or call Susan at charge a membership, we have request- Ida Margolis to attend. If you are a 2g and are able 818.606.0793. ed that all those who receive the Gen- The GenShoah Steering Committee to attend, please email me at genshoah- Members of GenShoah SWFL will Shoah newsletter and are interested in has selected programs this year that [email protected]. discuss the book Violins of Hope at its GenShoah programs become members relate to all aspects of the mission of The World Federation of Jewish annual pot luck on Sunday, December of the Holocaust Museum. Contact GenShoah: promotion of Holocaust Child Survivors of the Holocaust & 16. Space is very limited for this event the Museum at 239.263.9200 or visit education and human rights, preserva- Descendants 30th Annual International and RSVPs to shirleybesikof@gmail. www.HolocaustMuseumSWFL.org. tion of the history and memories of the Conference of Child Survivors, Sec- com are required. For more information about GenShoah, Holocaust, connection of the Second ond and Third Generations, Spouses The Holocaust Museum will pres- email [email protected]. Generation to one another, and support and Families in Cooperation with the ent programs relating to Violins of Hope of the Holocaust Museum & Cohen Kindertransport and Generations of the in December. The Museum can be

humanistic celebration of ginning of adulthood. For Humanistic one in keeping both with humanistic HUMANISTIC JEWISH HAVURAH Jewish “passages” must Jews, the bar or bat mitzvah marks principles and with the meaning of the of Southwest Florida be able to embrace what the advent of adolescence, a period of occasion, is for the child to study of the (239) 495-8484 is good in these changes. searching for one’s identity and life life of a humanistic or Jewish hero, or The practice of call- path. Thirteen-year-olds can respond another appropriate topic. An adult tu- Jasper’s bar mitzvah ceremony ing a thirteen-year-old boy to read from to more challenging tasks than were tor, sometimes the student’s parent, su- Paula Creed the Torah is not prescribed in Jewish expected of them as children. They can pervises the research and the presenta- This summer our oldest grandchild, law and did not begin until the fifteenth demonstrate greater independence and tion of a paper and a speech summing Jasper, celebrated his bar mitzvah in century. Thirteen-year-old girls did not a depth of thought, competence and up its conclusions. Maryland, where his family maintains obtain this privilege until well into the commitment. This preparation for a Humanistic its membership in Machar, The Wash- twentieth century (since, in rabbinic A Humanistic bar or bat mitzvah bar or bat mitzvah gives a young per- ington Congregation for Humanistic Judaism, participation in Torah reading provides public encouragement and son the opportunity to grow intellec- Judaism (www.machar.org). was reserved for males). recognition of the development of tually, emotionally and spiritually; to Rabbinic Judaism and the informal Just as this coming-of-age ceremo- these capacities on the road to matu- develop skills and self-confidence and folk culture defined unique roles for ny has changed through the centuries, rity. It signifies a young person’s de- to experience a meaningful connection men and women, husbands and wives, Humanistic Judaism has adapted it to sire to become more responsible for to the Jewish people and to human- fathers and mothers, sons and daugh- the conditions of contemporary Jew- his or her own decisions and actions, kind. The event provides an opportu- ters. These rigid guidelines became ish life. Not only the ceremony but its and to identify with the many previous nity for family and community to join the heart of an ethical system that re- meaning is different. generations of the Jewish people who in celebrating and applauding those mained unchanged until modern times. In classical Judaism, before the have done so. For Humanistic Jews, achievements and to reaffirm their own The Secular Revolution, with its age of thirteen a boy was presumed to then, bar or bat mitzvah means “son or commitments. affirmation of personal dignity, has un- be under his parents’ control. After his daughter of responsibility.” Whatever its form, a Humanistic dermined those structures of the past. thirteenth birthday, the obligation to How do Humanistic Jews mark mitzvah ceremony is gender-neutral. It The new Jewish family, like most mod- obey the commandments of the Torah this rite of passage? One way is for represents a genuine expression of be- ern families, bears little relationship to was his own. He was considered part the young person to choose a Torah liefs and values, and reinforces a link the old paradigm. Humanistic Jews do of the adult community – a “son of the portion (not necessarily the prescribed to the celebrant’s Jewish roots. not resist these changes. They test both commandments.” portion of the week) and to read it, P.S. Jasper’s topic was “Jews dur- the old and the new with the measur- In modern American society, age along with an original interpretative ing the Black Plague.” ing stick of dignity. They realize that a thirteen no longer represents the be- address. A more radical departure, but L'CHAYIM OCTOBER 2018 ORGANIZATIONS Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties 21 this to be reminded that sometimes all which, as is well known about this event’s details to the Muse- employee, whose primary duties will we have is our faith, the real founda- JEWISH HISTORICAL SOCIETY now, was not a safe har- um or sign up for the JHSSWF email include the Virtual Museum. Please tion upon which we rebuild. Our true OF SOUTHWEST FLORIDA bor for Jews. Yet, just as list to be notified closer to the date. reach out to me if you are able to con- dignity and worth comes from the Di- (239) 566-1771 others before them, our The Society will be celebrating tribute or know someone who has this vine spirit and not from our material SWFL Jewish predeces- Annual Florida Jewish History Month skillset and is willing to become a vol- possessions. Between us Jews sors have weathered the storms. Some on January 28 at 3:00 p.m. at Sil- unteer. In 5779 may the sukkah we dwellMarina Berkovich of their history, I am very glad to re- verspot Cinema at Mercato with Na- Please note our contact informa- in remind us of what we can alwaysFrom the very beginning of the Jew- port, is continuing to be documented ples’ extraordinary longtime residents tion has changed: count on. If our Jewish foundation is ish Historical Society of Southwest and preserved, thanks to the efforts of Judith and Samuel Friedland, whose The Jewish Historical Society strong and solid we can survive anyFlorida journey, the organization re- everyone who already takes the eye- lives will move you to tears and whose of Southwest Florida storm. The Torah is our Tree of Lifeceived the encouragement and support witness historical preservation mission many achievements will most likely be 8805 Tamiami Trail North and G-d is our rock, our foundation andof the Jewish population of our region, seriously, as well as all future and po- an incredible discovery to many guests Suite # 255 our salvation! many of whom had been waiting to tential volunteers, members, sponsors attending this celebration, even if they Naples FL 34108 We are thrilled to be entering intoshare their own experiences. Soon the and donors. had known the Friedlands for years. 833-547-7935 our fourth season as one Shalom Lifenon-Jewish community found the So- We are looking forward to a fantas- We are continuing our work with [email protected] Center family and we promise to con-ciety’s mission interesting and impor- tic season and hope you will join us for the Virtual Museum of Southwest www.jhsswf.org tinue to bring even more wonderfultant, and joined in. I am very delighted as many of the fabulous programs we Florida Jewish History at http://jew- The Jewish Historical Society of and inspiring services, special eventsthat Florida’s Jewish history matters have prepared. ishhistorysouthwestflorida.org/. As our Southwest Florida is a section 501(c) and concerts during the 2018/2019to everyone, not only to the Jews, who On Sunday, October 28, at the collection expands, we are very short (3) charitable organization. Contribu- season. For more information, pleaseundoubtedly constitute the majority of Jewish Congregation of Marco Island, of volunteers who understand how to tions are deductible to the fullest extent visit www.shalomlifecenter.org, callour members, and whose support and the Society will present two important use modern technology. Alternatively, allowed by law. 239.218.3433 or email info@shalom membership are essential to the orga- stories in the Southwest Florida Jewish we are looking to find a sponsor for an lifecenter.org. nization. Pioneers series – When Destiny Calls Since the Roman War and the Jew- and The Greensteins of Marco Island, ish Diaspora that followed, Jews have about Elena Rosner, one of the JCMI’s both mingled with the local population founding members, and Lenore Green- ple Judea members who information, contact Ayelet Tours atof their destinations and tried to isolate stein, widow of a JCMI rabbi and best HAZAK 55+ CHAPTER traveled to Africa this www.ayelet.com or 800.237.1517. Ifthemselves from it and/or its influenc- known now as Director of WCA South. at Temple Judea year. you are planning a trip to Israel, we can es. That actually may be the common- The Jewish Congregation of Marco Is- (239) 433-0201 After the program arrange a tour of Hadassah Hospital for sense explanation as to why we still land (991 Winterberry Drive) is gen- join us for dinner at you. have Jews despite the well-document- erously sponsoring this event and the Jan Klein Sweet Tomatoes on US 41. Reserva- Are you looking for a book group,ed persecution our Jewish ancestors refreshments offered immediately fol- Join HAZAK on Sunday, October 7 at tions are required if you wish to sit study group, evening activities, Knowl-had endured for the last two millennia. lowing the screening. 4:00 p.m. in the Temple Judea Social with HAZAK. edge & Nosh, advocacy/volunteer/Of course, the more the Jews differed On Wednesday, November 7 at Hall to hear a wonderful presentation RSVP by Thursday, October 4 to fundraising opportunities, luncheons,from the local population, the more at- 6:00 p.m., Timeline of Southwest Flor- entitled “Best of Africa: South Africa, [email protected]. Annual Mahj, Card and Game Day,tention they drew to themselves. Many ida Jewish History will be presented by Zimbabwe, Botswana and Namibia.” All are welcome to attend the educational programs or just want towho had undergone assimilation tried invitation of the Collier County Mu- Our speakers are Marsha and Mike meeting, prior to the program, at 3:00 have fun and get to know people? Thento hide their Jewish identity. This was seum, located at 3331 Tamiami Trail Kistler and Andy Abrams, three Tem- p.m. to help plan future activities. Hadassah is the place for you! To learnoften the case in Southwest Florida, East, Naples. Kindly direct all inquiries more about Hadassah, contact me at 239.598.1009 or lynninaples@yahoo. com, or Shelley at 239.301.0509 or shellskel@ gmail.com. Send updates and changes to the Directory below If you would like to join Hadassah, upgrade to Life Membership or become to [email protected]. an Associate (male affiliate of Hadas- sah), please contact Carol Hirsch at 239.631.6828 or chirsch1951@gmail. TEMPLE BETH EL CHABAD OF CHARLOTTE COUNTY com, or Donna Goldblatt at mom443@ REFORM ORTHODOX aol.com. 16225 Winkler Road, Fort Myers, FL 33908 204 E Mckenzie St Unit B, Punta Gorda, FL 33950 Rabbi Nicole Luna Rabbi Simon Jacobson See you at Hadassah! Email: [email protected] Phone: (941) 8333381 Temple educator: Dale Cohen, Ma.Ed., R.J.E Email: [email protected] Preschool director: Jesyca Virnig Web site: www.chabadofcharlottecounty.com President: Ellis Rabinowitz IN LEE & CHARLOTTE COUNTIES Services: Saturday at 10 a.m. followed by Phone: 4330018 • Fax: 4333235 a kiddush Web site: www.templebethel.com Torah study: Wednesday at 8 p.m. Shabbat services: 7:30 p.m. Friday; Torah study 9:00 a.m. Saturday; B’nai Mitzah 10:30 a.m. Saturday CHABAD LUBAVITCH Religious School: 9:30 a.m.noon Sunday COMMUNITY FREE SYNAGOGUE Hebrew School: 5:006:30 p.m Wednesday OF SOUTHWEST FLORIDA REFORM ORTHODOX Judaica Gift Gallery 10868 Metro Parkway, South Fort Myers Affiliated: Union for Reform Judaism 5620 Winkler Road (The Southwest Florida Masonic Center) Fort Myers, FL 33919 P.O. Box 07144, Fort Myers, FL 33919 Rabbi Yitzchok Minkowicz TEMPLE BETH SHALOM Rabbi Bruce Diamond Phone: 4337708 • Fax: 4819109 REFORM ([email protected]) Email: [email protected] 702 S.E. 24th Ave., Cape Coral, FL 33990 Coordinator: Natalie Fulton Web site: www.chabadswf.org Rabbi Devora Buchen Adult Educator: Jessica Evers Services: Friday 5:15 p.m.; Saturday Kabbalah President: Arnie Schwartz Phone: (239) 4666671 class 9 a.m.; Shacharit 10 a.m.; Kiddush at Phone: 7724555 • Fax: 7724625 Email: [email protected] noon Minyan: Monday & Thursday 7:00 a.m. Email: [email protected] Web site: www.fortmyerssynagogue.com Web site: www.templebethshalomcc.org Community Sabbath eve dinner each Friday at 6:30 p.m. CHABAD JEWISH CENTER Services: 7:30 p.m. Friday OF CAPE CORAL Religious School: Thursday 4:00 6:30 p.m. Sabbath eve worship every Friday at 7:30 p.m. Torah study with Rabbi Buchen: Shabbat 10:30 a.m. Light breakfast and Torah study with the rabbi ORTHODOX Organizations: Brotherhood, Sisterhood, every Saturday morning from 9:30 11:30 a.m. 1716 Cape Coral Pkwy. W., Cape Coral, FL 33914 Family Service (1st Friday of the month at 7:30 p.m.) Rabbi Yossi Labkowski TEMPLE JUDEA Phone: 9634770 BAT YAM TEMPLE OF THE ISLANDS CONSERVATIVE Email: [email protected] 14486 A&W Bulb Road, Fort Myers, FL 33908 Web site: www.chabadcape.com REFORM Services: Friday Evening 7:30 p.m. Meets at Sanibel Congregational Church 2050 Rabbi Marc Sack Email: [email protected] Saturday morning 9:30 a.m. followed by Periwinkle Way, Sanibel Island Kiddush luncheon Rabbi Stephen L. Fuchs President: Dan Fox Sunday morning 8:00 a.m. President: Alan Lessack Director of Congregational Learning: Phone: 2395790296 (OctApr) Tab Scribner MondayFriday morning 7:00 a.m. 7732518862 (MaySept) Preschool Director: Joann Goldman JLI Courses: Monday evening at 7:00 p.m. Email: [email protected] [email protected] Weekly Torah Study: Tuesday evening 7:30 p.m. Cantor: Murray Simon Phone: 4330201 • Fax: 4333371 Hebrew School: Sunday 10:00 a.m.12:30 p.m. Web site: www.batyam.org Email: [email protected] Jgirls: Tuesday 6:007:00 p.m. Services: 7:30 p.m. Friday (OctApr) Web site: www.tjswfl.org 7:00 p.m. Friday (MaySept) Services: 6:15 p.m. Friday and 9:30 a.m. COMMUNITY ORGANIZATIONS Adult Education: Saturday Minyan: 9:00 a.m. Monday  Shalom Life Center Saturday, 9:00 11:30 a.m. (NovApr) Religious School: Sun. 9:30 a.m.noon; Lawrence Dermer, Spiritual Leader 2183433 Jewish Current Events: Saturday, 11:30 a.m. Wed. 4:306 p.m. • AIPAC (American Israel Public Affairs Committee): to 12:15 p.m. (NovApr) Early childhood education: Jacki Waksman (954) 6539053 Write: P.O. Box 84, Sanibel, FL 33957 Preschool, MF, ages 18 months5 years; • AJC (American Jewish Committee): Brian Lipton (941) 3654955 Affiliated: Union for Reform Judaism “Mommy & Me,” 12 months2 years Affiliated: United Synagogue of Conservative • AntiDefamation League: (561) 9882900 Judaism • B’Nai B’rith International: (941) 3024500 TEMPLE SHALOM CHARLOTTE • Chevra Kadisha: HARBOR AND THE GULF ISLANDS CHABAD OF BONITA SPRINGS/ Gene Sipe 8414615 REFORM • Generations of the Shoah SWFL: 9639347 23190 Utica Ave., P.O. Box 494675 ESTERO • Hadassah Collier/Lee Chapter: ORTHODOX Lynn Weiner 5981009 Port Charlotte, FL 339494675 • Hadassah Sharon Chapter (Charlotte County): Rabbi Solomon Agin 24850 Old 41 Road, Suite 20 (in the Bernwood Centre) Odette Port (941) 5051409 President: Gary Wein • Hazak 55+ Chapter: Phone: (941) 6252116 Bonita Springs, FL 341357024 Rabbi Mendy Greenberg Joyce Rosinger 4371566 Email: [email protected] • Humanistic Jewish Havurah: Web site: templeshalomfl.com Phone: 9496900 Web site: www.JewishBonita.com Paula Creed 4958484 Services: 7:30 p.m. Friday • Israel Bonds: Regional Headquarters: (800) 6228017 Religious school: Sunday 10 a.m. Services: Saturday at 10 a.m., followed by • Jewish Community Services: 4814449 Beginning Hebrew: Tuesday 4:15 5:15 p.m. a kiddush • Jewish National Fund: (727) 5365263 Advanced Hebrew: Thursday 4:15 5:15 p.m. Memorial Tree Planting in Israel 18005428733 Organizations: Sisterhood • Jewish War Veterans: Affiliated: Union for Reform Judaism Post 400: Commander Harvey Charter 2463151 • Mikvah Bashka of Southwest Florida: Nechamie Minkowicz 8222784 • ORT Gulf Beaches Chapter Marina Berkovich 5661771 L'CHAYIM OCTOBER 2018 22 Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties TEMPLE NEWS

all their undertakings to- University/Challey School of Music. is free and reservations are never re- COMMUNITY FREE SYNAGOGUE gether with all of Israel Brauer joins flutist Laurie McCon- quired. At 7:30 p.m., the Sabbath is TEMPLE BETH EL Fort Myers their people, and say we ville and vocalists Richard McConville welcomed with prayer and song. A cof- Fort Myers (239) 466-6671 all, Amen!” and Traci Pavel. fee hour follows worship. (239) 433-0018 The Community Free Torah Study is postponed on Sab- Every Saturday at 9:30 a.m., C.F.S. www.fortmyerssynagogue.com Synagogue is pleased to bath morning, October 6 while Rabbi offers a light breakfast followed bya www.templebethel.com welcome Joseph Brauer Diamond is the visiting scholar at lively discussion of the week’s Torah Heartfelt thanks to the very many to its Sabbath Eve musical ensemble Bethlehem Hebrew Congregation in portion until 11:30 a.m., when theFor children, Jewish learning can be an C.F.S. volunteers who transform our Yedid Nephesh. Brauer is a profes- New Hampshire. Mourner’s Qaddish is recited. exciting adventure, acquiring knowl- spacious Community Hall into a won- sional musician and actor who works The next C.F.S. “Brown Bag Mov- Now in its 14th year, The Commu-edge of Judaism’s values and traditions derful Days of Awe place of worship with Florida Repertory Theatre, Gulf- ie Night” takes place at 6:30 p.m. on nity Free Synagogue is an independentin a playful manner. It’s never too early for hundreds of worshippers, to those shore Playhouse, the Bonita Springs Thursday, October 18. It features Me- synagogue and valued community re-to start. “Knowledge acquired in child- who help with the hospitality at the Centers for the Performing Arts, and nashe (2017), the story of a Hassid in ligious resource. All of its events andhood is not soon forgotten.” – The Tal- Rabbi’s Rosh Hashanah open house TheatreZone. He is also the Director of Brooklyn trying to raise a son on his programs, including youth and adultmud and the break-the-fast at the end of Music for All Faiths Unitarian Congre- own and the many traditional obstacles Jewish education, are open to all and Two of Rabbi Luna’s programs, Yom Kippur, and to our inspired mu- gation. he faces. Pack your dinner; admission always free. “Babies and Bagels” and “Tot Shab- sicians and vocalists, both volunteer Joseph developed his diverse key- and soft drinks are free. The foundation of The Communitybat,” allow parents and their young- and professional, who help us take our board skill through Toronto’s Royal Mother and daughter Arline and Free Synagogue is “Study, Worship sters to share warm emotional experi- prayers to new heights. Conservatory of Music, as well as Samantha Gallentine will be called to and Benevolent Acts,” generally fol-ences while becoming familiar with Special thanks to Rosh Hashanah the Torah as adult B’not Mitzvah dur- lowing progressive Jewish traditions. prayers, songs and rituals in a safe and Torah readers Ashlie Clopein, Linda ing Sabbath eve worship on Friday, C.F.S.’s founder and leader, Rabbinurturing setting. Supporting a strong Shuster, Luba Grossman and Nancy October 19. They are graduates of Bruce Diamond, D.D., a distinguishedJewish identity, engaging young and Schwartz who read Torah for the con- Auxiliary Rabbi Thomas Miess’ He- ordainee of the Hebrew Union College-interfaith families with their young- gregation on Rosh Hashanah morning. brew Reading Ulpan and have gone Jewish Institute of Religion in Cincin-sters paves their way to future involve- All are graduates of C.F.S. Adult He- on to study with Auxiliary Rabbi Terry nati, marks his 21st year of leadershipment in synagogue life. brew Reading Ulpanim and had been Goldberg for this special occasion. in the Fort Myers Jewish community. Often, children’s love of music called to the Torah as B’not Mitsvah Our June 4-15, 2019, Israel Pil- He is also a Super Adjunct Professorleads them to attend Friday night ser- during the year. grimage with the Rabbi is starting to of Interdisciplinary Studies at Floridavices. Hannah, for example, has been We are also indebted to our skilled fill up (see the story in this issue). We Gulf Coast University, focusing onattending services since she was a sukkah builders and those who help or- limit our group size to 26 participants, community ethics and activism. baby. During services, her grandmoth- ganize our festive Feast of Tabernacles so please be sure to get your applica- Rabbi Diamond is assisted by Aux-er would pat her back as she fell asleep celebration that add just the right fin- tion in if you are planning to join us. iliary Rabbis Thomas Meiss and Territo Jewish music. Now nine years old, ishing touches to our sacred autumn For more details and to download your Goldberg, graduates of C.F.S.’s 3-yearHannah attends on Friday nights be- holiday season. Joseph Brauer application, visit the C.F.S. website Community Rabbi Program. cause, she says, “I love to see everyone Too numerous to name, so many playing with ensembles such as Ca- at www.fortmyerssynagogue.com or The synagogue meets at the South-and I enjoy being Jewish. My mom is delight in the mitzvah of creating an nadian Celtic folk band Crooked Jack email pilgrimage coordinator Arnie west Florida Masonic Center, 10868in the choir, and I like singing Jewish open, welcoming synagogue home for and North Dakota alt-rock band Books Harris at [email protected]. Metro Parkway in South Fort Myers.songs.” the entire region! As the traditional About Ships. Having grown up in Each Friday evening at 6:30 p.m., For more information, please visit Music influences and inspires our benediction puts it: “May the Holy One Northern Manitoba, Canada, he com- The Community Free Synagogue www.fortmyerssynagogue.com. Sunday school students. Morah Randy send abundant blessing and success to pleted his BFA at North Dakota State serves a traditional Sabbath dinner. It

order, the volunteers ron Frank, Helene Smith, Alan Smith, a great big thank you very much, “to- BAT YAM TEMPLE OF THE ISLANDS are: Alan Lessack, Edina Sandy Berke, Stuart Berke, Stan Zell, dah rabah” (Hebrew), “merci beau- Sanibel Lessack, Annette Pacy- Susan Rosenberg, Ken Gerson, Bluma coup” (French), “muchas gracias” (773) 251-8862 ga, Sue Danford, Peter Herman, Don Herman, Irene Skolnick, (Spanish), “danke schoen” (German), Danford, Susan Arnoff Leon Skolnick, Salessa Berk, Marvin “grazie mille” (Italian), “bol’shoye www.batyam.org Spohr, Barry Fulmer, Mi- Berk, Arlen Stein, Irwin Stein, Shir- spasibo” (Russian), “feichang ganxie chael Hochschild, Tanya ley Boscov, Andrea Smith, Jan Smith, ni” (Chinese), “tashakkor mikonam” As is customary with small Jewish or- Hochschild, Barry Epstein, Barbara Linda Edinburg, Joel Edinburg, Patti (Persian) and “dziekujebardzo” (Pol- ganizations, it is volunteers who make Epstein, Marcia Rudin, James Rudin, Levine, Stan Levine, Ed Greenberg, ish) to everyone. all the difference and keep the prover- Bob Schoen, Caren Schoen, Miriam Nancy Greenberg, Alan Parker, Linda Although those of you who live bial wheels of Temple Bat Yam turn- Bailey, Becky Kon, Esther Pokedoff, Parker, Phyllis Pachman, Ben Yokel, in Southwest Florida year-round don’t ing. Many of Bat Yam’s members serve Marty Pokedoff, Leonard Minsky, Bernie Lubetkin, Beverly Lubetkin, need a reminder, it was just over a year in multiple roles. There are volunteers Renee Minsky, Lois Lorsch, How- Adele Anish, Steve Anish, Mary Kay ago that Hurricane Irma struck the re- on the boards and committees. It is ard Lorsch, Garry Weiss, Beth Weiss, Sadighi, Parvis Sadighi, Sharon Bar- gion. This year, it is many colors of volunteers who put up the sukkah, plan Norma Kohn, Jack Kohn, Marty Pack- ton, Stan Barton, Linda Drasnin, Bar- toxic algae that are harming the envi- the community Seder, set up for Friday ard, Enid Packard, Tobi Mackler, Steve ry Roth, Ying Przybyszewski, Carol ronment and inhabitants of the Gulf of evening Shabbat services, make pre- Fischer, Jeanette Keyser, Al Kaplan, Schieber, Phil Schieber, Louise Free- Mexico and the Caloosahatchee River. sentations for Saturday morning Adult Mickie Kaplan, Paula Raboy, Paulette man, Deborah Gurman, Don Breiter, The Bat Yam Social Action Committee Education, conduct services from May Lotstein, James Lotstein, Kathy Zoss, Judith Adler, Louise Freeman, Judy seeks to help make a positive difference to September, compose the monthly Michael Samet, Elissa Karasin Samet, Wald, Michael Feingold, Ellen Fe- in the lives of those who struggle on bulletin, update the website, blow the Esta Berger, David Berger, Myra Klahr, ingold, Leah Friedman, Mickey Na- Sanibel and surrounding communities. shofar, provide delicious foods for the Mel Bleiberg, Allan Sacks, Sallie thanson, Gay Adelstein, Morton Levy, The High Holy Days, Sukkot and Onegs and holiday celebrations, orga- Sacks, Bonnie Kasdan, Renee Sugar, Roselyn Kraus, Margie Peppercorn, Simchat Torah are behind us. No mat- nize the break-the-fast, continue the Joel Sugar, Barry Litofsky, Barry Solo- Mark Peppercorn, Peter Saltz, Jocelyn ter whether you worshipped and cele- honey project, etc., etc. mon, Jay Solomon, Vickie Fuchs, Toby Saltz and others. brated with the Bat Yam family or your Recognition of those who help Simon, Peggy Siegel, Frank Siegel, Of course, Bat Yam flourishes with family and friends elsewhere, may the make Bat Yam such a vibrant com- Evelyn Clark, Herb Clark, Judith May- the guidance of Rabbi Stephen Fuchs year ahead be healthy and peaceful for munity is important. In no particular er, Howard Mayer, Shirley Frank, By- and Cantor Murray Simon. Therefore, all of us. Center for Judaic, Holocaust, STAY IN TOUCH and Genocide Studies Sign up for e-blasts! Dedicated to educating all sectors of society about Jewish civilization, the Holocaust, and genocide through: TEMPLE BETH SHALOM • scholarship GET THE LATEST INFORMATION ON UPCOMING COMMUNITY EVENTS, Cape Coral • outreach CULTURAL ACTIVITIES, (239) 772-4555 • inquiry BREAKING NEWS, www.templebethshalomcc.org • sharing knowledge UPDATES FROM ISRAEL & MORE. • preserving the record It seems strange, as you read this, that • helping teachers the holidays will soon be over, but • encouraging students as I write, they have just begun. We slowed down a little over the summer to catch our breath before going full c.org steam ahead as the new year begins. In jfedlc reality, members of the congregation dilla@ amypa didn’t just kick back over the summer mail to nd an e and relax. Many members met to plan Se Send an email to activities, make repairs on the building Visit www.fgcu.edu/hc/ and grounds, organize the High Holi- [email protected] day services, break the fast, create fun- Dr. Paul Bartrop, Director draisers and more. Just a sampling of our events: We have two Bar Mitzvahs coming up; our first social outing of the season was a For a continuously updated calendar of events, visit www.JewishFederationLCC.org. trip to the Broadway Palm to see Let’s L'CHAYIM OCTOBER 2018 TEMPLE NEWS Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties 23 is free and reservations are never re- Kashi teaches age-ap- coconut macaroons and cookies. A west Florida. Mantle changes were quired. At 7:30 p.m., the Sabbath is TEMPLE BETH EL propriate music for the meaningful Havdalah service was held made by mother-daughter teams plus welcomed with prayer and song. A cof- Fort Myers kids to sing, emphasizing just prior to the Selichot service. The new and established members of the fee hour follows worship. (239) 433-0018 songs their parents knew colorful everyday Torah covers were congregation. Preparation for Selichot, Every Saturday at 9:30 a.m., C.F.S. from their childhood so changed to the High Holy Days’ tra- the kickoff of the High Holy Days, offers a light breakfast followed bya www.templebethel.com families can enjoy sing- ditional white mantles, adorned with required the helping hands of many lively discussion of the week’s Torah ing together at home. freshly polished silver adornments. individuals to make it joyous and suc- portion until 11:30 a.m., when theFor children, Jewish learning can be an From finger games with the younger Why white? “White is seen as the color cessful. Todah rabah to the entire TBE Mourner’s Qaddish is recited. exciting adventure, acquiring knowl- ones to more traditional songs with of joy, and we rejoice on Erev Yom office and maintenance staff; Dottie Now in its 14th year, The Commu-edge of Judaism’s values and traditions older kids, they learn how to sing in Kippur, confident that our sins will and Bob Ruberto; Carolyn Gora; the nity Free Synagogue is an independentin a playful manner. It’s never too early front of the congregation and to lead be forgiven (~Responsa in a Moment, Torah mantle changers and Torah car- synagogue and valued community re-to start. “Knowledge acquired in child- services approaching their bar/bat Sept. 2015).” riers; Randy Kashi; Phyllis and Berny ligious resource. All of its events andhood is not soon forgotten.” – The Tal- mitzvah. They develop confidence for Temple Beth El is privileged to Aronson; Cantor Bessman; and Rabbi programs, including youth and adultmud chanting Torah before the congrega- own seven beautiful Torahs, several Luna. Extra special thanks to Jay Sax, Jewish education, are open to all and Two of Rabbi Luna’s programs, tion. For more information about these of which have been donated by TBE who removed all the Torahs from the always free. “Babies and Bagels” and “Tot Shab- programs and about Sunday school, families over its long history in South- Ark and then replaced them. The foundation of The Communitybat,” allow parents and their young- call Temple Beth El at 239.433.0018. Free Synagogue is “Study, Worship sters to share warm emotional experi- In Lee County, Temple Beth El is and Benevolent Acts,” generally fol-ences while becoming familiar with the largest congregation and the only lowing progressive Jewish traditions. prayers, songs and rituals in a safe and member synagogue of the Union for C.F.S.’s founder and leader, Rabbinurturing setting. Supporting a strong Reform Judaism. Temple Beth El is the Bruce Diamond, D.D., a distinguishedJewish identity, engaging young and oldest Jewish congregation in South- ordainee of the Hebrew Union College-interfaith families with their young- west Florida, established in 1954, and Jewish Institute of Religion in Cincin-sters paves their way to future involve- boasts the only ordained rabbi who is a nati, marks his 21st year of leadershipment in synagogue life. member of the Central Conference of in the Fort Myers Jewish community. Often, children’s love of music American Rabbis. Our ordained cantor He is also a Super Adjunct Professorleads them to attend Friday night ser- has lifelong cantorial training and is an of Interdisciplinary Studies at Floridavices. Hannah, for example, has been ACC (American Conference of Can- Gulf Coast University, focusing onattending services since she was a tors) member. The profound knowl- community ethics and activism. baby. During services, her grandmoth- edge and experience of our clergy is Rabbi Diamond is assisted by Aux-er would pat her back as she fell asleep the reason our members enjoy authen- iliary Rabbis Thomas Meiss and Territo Jewish music. Now nine years old, tic worship services, festivals and life Goldberg, graduates of C.F.S.’s 3-yearHannah attends on Friday nights be- cycle events. Community Rabbi Program. cause, she says, “I love to see everyone September 1 saw dozens of con- The synagogue meets at the South-and I enjoy being Jewish. My mom is gregants and guests gathered in the Du- west Florida Masonic Center, 10868in the choir, and I like singing Jewish bin Center (social hall) of Temple Beth Metro Parkway in South Fort Myers.songs.” El to partake of a festive, pre-Selichot For more information, please visit Music influences and inspires our assortment of mouthwatering cakes, www.fortmyerssynagogue.com. Sunday school students. Morah Randy pastries, home-made chocolate-dipped Temple Beth El’s seven beautiful Torahs

after the presentation. To of each month, will have its first get- East, will be the featured speaker. His TEMPLE JUDEA RSVP, email tjhazak@ together on Tuesday, October 9 at 7:00 topic is “Combating the Delegitimiza- Fort Myers gmail.com. p.m. at the home of Mindi Simon. It tion of Israel.” There is no cost to at- (239) 433-0201 Adult Education will be an evening of learning, laugh- tend. To register, please visit www. classes begin on Mon- ter and light refreshments. RSVP by aipac.org/templejudea. www.tjswfl.org day, October 8 and will Thursday, October 4 to Jan Klein. Rabbi Sack’s monthly lunchtime continue for eight weeks. Our shlicha, Zohar ben Hamu, will Torah study begins again on Thursday, The new year is off to a busy start at Rabbi Sack will teach two classes. lead a Young Leadership program for October 4 at noon at the offices of My- Temple Judea. On Friday evening, From 6:15 to 7:30 p.m. is his “Intro- high school students. The purpose of ers and Brettholtz and Company. It is September 28 the congregation will duction to Judaism.” It is a prerequisite the program is to prepare the teens to an hour of open discussion of Torah celebrate the Consecration of third- for anyone considering conversion, transition from the local Jewish com- and Judaism, where all levels of back- grade religious school students during but also open to those just wanting munity to college, to teach them about ground and all questions are encour- Shabbat evening services, followed by to learn more about Jewish practice, Israel and the Middle East, and to en- aged. Everyone is welcome and there a dinner in the sukkah. The service is thought and history. From 7:45 to 8:45 rich them with skills that will help them is no cost to attend. open to all; reservations are needed for p.m., participants will be reading and in their adult lives. The program will Our monthly serving of meals the dinner. Please call the synagogue discussing Letters to My Palestinian meet every two weeks on a Thursday at the Salvation Army’s Meals with office. Neighbor by Yossi Klein Halevi. from 5:00 to 8 :00 p.m. at the Federa- Compassion continues. Meals are now Temple Judea follows the Israeli That same night, Rabbi Michael tion building. There will be eight ses- served on Monday evenings and vol- calendar for festival observance. On Schorin will teach The Mystery of sions, with the last session being held unteers are need for Mondays, October Sunday evening, September 30, we Love by Marc Gafni, the x-rated side at the Israel embassy in Miami. It is an 8 and October 22. Please contact Linda will celebrate Simchat Torah with a of Jewish mysticism. Rabbi Schorin’s exciting and important program open at [email protected] to help. spaghetti dinner and then a lively and class will take place from 6:15 to 7:30 to all Jewish teenagers in the commu- Regular scheduled events: fun service. Music and dancing will ac- p.m. From 7:45 to 8:45 p.m., Herb nity. Please call the synagogue office • Friday evening Shabbat services company the end of reading the Torah, Fried will teach “Crazy Herb’s Hebrew for more information. at 6:30 p.m., preceded each week with the start of reading it again. The Words” – a memory system for learn- Zohar will also teach an Israeli with a wine and cheese reception following morning,Yizkor will be said ing Jewish culture and modern Hebrew. cooking class beginning on Thursday, starting at 6:00 p.m. during Simchat Torah services. The Adult Education classes are October 25. The class is sponsored by • Saturday morning Shabbat servic- Last year, congregants Marsha open to the community. If you are in- Chaverot. Call the synagogue office if es at 9:30 a.m. followed by a Kid- and Mike Kistler and Andi Abrams terested in attending, please call the you are interested in participating. dush luncheon went to Africa. They will share experi- synagogue office. There will be an AIPAC-sponsored • Lunchtime Torah Study with Rab- ences from their trip with HAZAK on Chaverot, Temple Judea’s Sister- program at Temple Judea on Wednes- bi Sack the first Thursday of each Sunday, October 7 at 4:00 p.m. at the hood, is beginning a monthly Rosh day, October 24 at 7:00 p.m. Asaf month temple. Participants are invited to join Hodesh program. This Holiday for Romirowsky, PHD, Executive Direc- • Morning minyan every Monday at everyone at Sweet Tomatoes for dinner Women that celebrates the beginning tor of Scholars for Peace in the Middle 9:00 a.m.

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