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SEPTEMBER 2011 THE NEW BRUNSWICK ANGLICAN / 1 A SECTION OF THE ANGLICAN JOURNAL SEPTEMBER 2011 SERVING THE DIOCESE OF FREDERICTON Messy Church G O D R E V E A L E D a real church for busy families BY PATRICIA DRUMMOND Jesus Christ into their lives. It is not a stepping-stone into Sunday In 1871 the first bishop of the Dio- morning worship in the parent cese of Fredericton said: “If the church. It is church but just not Church is to make progress and churchy. There is no liturgy as to show such signs of life as to we know it. It looks and feels very make it worthwhile for any per- different from what most of us son to join her, she must meet the know as worship, but worship it want of the present generation.” is. It is fun, interactive, reflective, Bishop John Medley did not musical, creative, delicious and mean we must change the Gospel prayerful — families come and to meet modern ideas for the Gos- wanting to keep coming. pel cannot be changed. I believe In May the Rev. Amanda Long- he meant that we must present moore and I attended a one-day it in ways that engage the minds Messy Church Fiesta in Burling- and hearts of those who have ton, Ontario — that’s what Messy not yet heard it, or have not fully Church how-to workshops are received it. called. The presenters were Sue What does this mean for a Kalbfleisch, a Messy Church re- generation that, for the most gional coordinator and member George Porter, Diocesan Youth Action Director (centre) joined youth and leaders from the Parish part, is Biblically illiterate? What of the Fresh Expressions Canada of Chatham for part of their camp-out in Fundy National Park this past July. Among other things, does this mean for the young team, and the Rev. Nancy Rowe, the group considered the revelation of God through creation and nature. From left to right are: family struggling to find time who has led Messy Church in her Christina Arbeau, Jordan Wright, Venita Williston, Nicole Stevens, Samantha Stevens, George, to be together in increasingly parish in Georgetown, Ontario Brittani Cordova, Christopher, Melissa, Darlene and Mark Ketch. (Absent from the photo Laura busy and frenetic lives? What for four years. Ketch.) does this mean for those of us Hospitality is a core value of who are already a part of the Messy Church and we were cer- church who find it very difficult tainly greeted very warmly when to understand why attendance we arrived at St. Luke’s Anglican is dwindling and younger gen- Church. We were given name Synod to meet in Fredericton erations think church is archaic, tags and directed to choose one Diocesan Synod will celebrate the First afternoon and Saturday) Synod at the irrelevant and boring? of several craft/activity tables Fruits of the Nicodemos Project at its Fredericton Inn will hear reports and In many parts of England, and around which were gathered 131st meeting in Fredericton Oct. 28 and even see a video documenting the prog- increasingly in Australia, New other enthusiastic workshop par- 29. At Synod 2009 in Saint John there was ress made on this large and complicated Zealand, South Africa as well ticipants. Although there is an a clear call for transformational change project. as areas of Canada, the United advertised start time for a Messy in the diocese through spiritual, numeri- Many parishes throughout the dio- States and some European coun- Church gathering, people are cal and financial growth. Priorities were cese as well as diocesan groups and tries, Messy Church is proving to encouraged to come as they are set and actions prescribed. Delegates to organizations have embraced the chal- be a way to engage young fami- able. For that reason the gather- the upcoming one-and-a-half-day (Friday See “Project supports” on page 5 lies and bring the good news of See “Most messy” on page 2 Opportunities The Anglican Journal and the 23 diocesan newspapers that it carries form a vital for generosity communications link between parishes, dioceses, the national Church and the In this month’s New Brunswick worldwide Anglican Communion. These Anglican are two opportunities newspapers connect Anglicans to one to support important ministries through the sharing of stories, another in our diocese. Please read this ideas and opinions. complimentary combination of Please give generously to the Anglican inserts carefully and consider Journal Appeal. 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Your generous support is innovative, risk-taking projects for the making of disciples. greatly appreciated, Send your donation to ANGLICAN JOURNAL 80 Hayden St., Toronto, ON M4Y 3G2 • Tel: 416 924-9199 ext. 259 •[email protected] Ana Watts, editor A Foundation for Life c/o Diocese of Fredericton Charitable Registration #10808 2835 RR0001 The New Brunswick Anglican 115 Church St., Fredericton, E3B 4C8 Remittance-Envelope-FINAL.indd 4 11-07-05 3:16 PM 2 / THE NEW BRUNSWICK ANGLICAN SEPTEMBER 2011 P A R I S H N E W S Most Messy Churches meet monthly Continued from page 1 starting and running a Messy ing begins with an open-ended Church. activity that can be joined when Messy Churches usually meet participants arrive. monthly because, quite frankly, Amanda and I chose a table most parishes don’t have the because we liked the look of personnel or energy to have them the materials set out on it, but more frequently. They require we later discovered that there several teams of people each were activities available to suit with a leader for set-up, craft ac- younger or older children as well tivities, table discussions, music, as adults, and that a table or two kitchen duties and possibly other offered a skill challenge suitable aspects of the meeting time. Some for preteens and teens — think particularly enthusiastic people Win it in a Minute! serve on more than one team and Because the fiesta we attended the teams must be coordinated was held just before Pentecost, around the chosen theme. the theme was Here Comes the Messy Church meetings are Spirit. A banner to this effect was usually held weekdays after prominently displayed and was school/work — from around 5 part of the welcome. The crafts until 7. A parent picks up the reflected the theme — making a children, everyone meets at windsock or a windmill, printing Messy Church, has a great fam- the fruits of the Spirit on another ily time together exploring faith craft. A leader at each table was and enjoying a good meal none of available for assistance when nec- them has had to prepare. essary as well as to encourage con- We were told that this is defi- versation at the table around the nitely not baby church from theme so that learning went along which people graduate to the with the creativity. Even detailed big church — this is church for instruction sheets were supplied this group of people. Also Messy for the “craftily challenged.” Churches cost money for food Once everyone had arrived and craft supplies, and possibly Messy Church services often begin with an open-ended activity like crafts. There is a set start time but and spent some time at one of for the use of a central, kid- busy families can’t always arrive on time so this kind of activity can be joined as people arrive. the tables we were asked to sit friendly venue. By the year-two around a small table with a mark Messy Churches begin to of Canterbury. His words bear screen behind it for worship/ contribute to their own costs repeating: “If Church is what message/prayer time. Nancy and some may even exceed it. In happens when people encoun- asked what we had learned about Messy Churches that continue to ter the Risen Jesus and commit the Spirit in our craft activity to meet, adults and children have themselves to sustaining and initiate a group discussion and requested baptism. They have deepening that encounter in we sang a song about the Trin- also asked to have the Eucharist. their encounter with each other, ity to the tune “London Bridge.” Why start a Messy Church? there is plenty of theological Then she showed us a red bag. Because as a church we are room for diversity of rhythm “Inside this bag I have a sower, about “proclaiming the Gospel and style, so long as we have some seeds, a place awaiting, a of Jesus Christ for the making ways of identifying the same liv- gift and some people who are of disciples.” Messy Churches ing Christ at the heart of every waiting,” she said.