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October 2010 www.LeaderExcel.com Empty Your Cup Mastery at Work Marianne Williamson Consultant Love in Action Be Open to the Possibilities Personal Excellence Personal Excellence The Magazine of Personal Leadership “Personal Excellence is the only reading you’ll need to do for continual self-improvement both personally and professionally!” —Sharlene Hawkes, Former Miss America, award-winning ESPN broadcaster INSPIRATIONAL• ACTION Part of Your Love in Action Set personal development goals. Plan and by Marianne Williamson Performance System HEAR A LOT OF PEOPLE SAY WE HAVE TO WAKE square miles. Tiny shacks are home to eight to Ipeople up—convince them of the urgency ten people. There is one latrine for every 400 of this moment . make them realize that the people. Filth is everywhere—along with kind- planet is headed for disaster! ness and dignity and beautiful smiles. I don’t see it that way. Anybody who needs What I realized is that the existence of such to be woken up at this point is so deeply asleep slums—home to millions of people worldwide that they’re not the target audience for activism. —is a deep obscenity. People are not dogs, and We don’t need to wake the sleeping so much as they should not live that way. And I learned for we need to harness the energy of those who are myself what people in the slums keep saying: already awake. Enough people know we’re in that just because someone lives in a slum, that trouble; what they want to doesn’t mean that they are stu- know is what to do about it. pid or are not good people. We live at a time when The most beautiful little chil- whole systems break down, dren are everywhere in these calling for a whole systems slums, walking around radiat- response—not just outer ing joy—for they do not yet change but also inner change. know where they are. And It’s not just that this is wrong, when they see such people as or that that is wrong. The myself walk by, they practically entire direction of civilization sing the phrase, waving joyful- is wrong, as we’ve placed eco- ly as they do: “How are you!? nomic principles before How are you!? How are you?!” humanitarian values and thus As I left the Kibera slum, the put our very survival at risk. gentleman next to me and I Human civilization is like the Titanic head- discussed how lucky we were that we got to ed for the iceberg, whether the iceberg be leave. When I entered my high end Nairobi nuclear, environmental, or terrorism-related. hotel room an hour later—emotionally and The probability vectors for the next 20 years physically exhausted as well as covered in are grim, and our job is to turn the probability dirt—I threw myself on the luxurious mattress vectors into possibility vectors. We have to turn of a clean and well made bed, relishing the this ship around. thought of a hot shower to follow. And then it When a lioness, tigress or mama bear sens- hit me, like a ton of bricks. The people I had es a threat to her cubs, she exhibits fierce pro- been with all day in the Kibera slums would tective behavior. The fact that the adult human not be lying down now on a luxurious mat- female is so relatively complacent before the tress, nor had they ever. They would not be tak- collective threats to the young of our species ing a long hot shower, nor had they ever. They bespeaks a lack of proactive intention for the would not be eating a good hot meal tonight, human race to survive. nor had they ever. Recently, I visited a slum in Nairobi, where And like others I know who have visited two million people inhabit a space of two the slums of Kenya, I wept. I defy anyone to INSIDE JEAN VAN RENSSELAR TOMMY SPAULDING SCOTT FEHER Mastery at Work...............................3 Grow Relationships ..........................8 Family Finances..............................12 LAURA LOPEZ MARTI MACGIBBON JOELLE JAY The Blame Game...............................4 Attitude of Gratitude........................8 Be of More Service..........................13 SIMON BAILEY LAVINIA RODRIGUEZ M.S. RAO Personal Accountability ...................4 Body Image Blues .............................9 Empty Your Cup.............................14 JAMES E. MAPES RAYMOND FRANCIS TOM SANT Accentuate the Positive ....................5 Avoid Getting Sick .............................10 Be of Service....................................14 BRENT BRADSHAW SARAH LURIE JONES LOFLIN AND TODD MUSIG Strategy of Success.............................6 The Weight Is Over ........................10 Multitasking...................................15 JAY FORTE HUBERT RAMPERSAD WENDY KAUFMAN Your Masterpiece..............................6 Four-Point Survival Guide.............11 Enjoy Your Life...............................16 The Magazine of Life LeadershipROBERT WHIPPLE ALAN COHEN October 2010 LISA EARLE MCLEOD Personal Excellence I’m OK..............................................7 One Digit to Wealth.......................12 Good vs. Great ..................................16 go through this experience and be the same What Can You Do? person on the other side of it. I know that I So what can you do? Here are four ideas: Volume 15 Issue 10 will not be. 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