60 Sexuality & Culture / Winter 2004 GAYDAR: EYE-GAZE AS IDENTITY RECOGNITION AMONG GAY MEN AND LESBIANS Cheryl L. Nicholas University of Oklahoma 1310 W. Boyd, Norman, OK 73069 (
[email protected]) This paper examines eye-gaze associated with identity recognition among gay men and lesbians. Eye-gaze is argued to be crucial to forces that either trigger or reinforce one gay person’s perception of another person’s gay iden- tity during social encounters. “Gaydar” is the folk concept used within the gay and lesbian culture to name this identity recognition device. An ethnography on Gaydar conducted over a period of three years reveals that eye-gaze in relation to Gaydar includes two different variations of visual contact, the direct and the broken stare. These types of gaze can be accentuated by the presence of other forms of nonverbal communication such as posture, ges- tures, and smiles. Consciousness in relation to eye-gaze is also discussed to be a distinct trigger and reinforcer of gay and lesbian identity recognition. Gay identity lacks defining phenotypical characteristics. As such, gay and lesbian group affiliation is ascertained on the basis of the participative behavior around shared systems of meanings among group members. Along with verbal communication, non-verbal behavior acts as one of the primary tools of identity recognition within the gay community. The folk concept used within the gay community to name the recognition of verbal and non-verbal be- havior associated with gay identity is “Gaydar.” Originating as a pun borrowed from the term “radar,” the tag Gaydar suggests that members of the gay and lesbian culture along Sexuality & Culture, Winter 2004, Vol.