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How to Lay Girls Guide HOW TO LAY GIRLS GUIDE HTTP://WWW.PICKUPGUIDE.COM/LAYGUIDE 1 2 Contents GENERAL RULES ...............................................11 3s Rule .................................................................................................................... 11 Be the Alpha/Dominant male ................................................................................. 12 Do my looks matter? .............................................................................................. 13 The Iranian from Hell ............................................................................................. 13 Nice guys vs jerks................................................................................................... 14 Good traits to have/develop to be a successful player ........................................... 15 It all comes down to satisfaction ............................................................................ 16 Women want good sex and romance ...................................................................... 16 Should you express or contain your sexual desires?.............................................. 16 Wanna play the dating game? Um let's see .................................................... 17 The rules with your wingman................................................................................. 18 GETTING STARTED ............................................ 19 On confidence and getting started with approaching girls .................................... 19 Experiment! ............................................................................................................ 20 Casual meetings vs pick-ups .................................................................................. 20 At a party ................................................................................................................ 21 Just say "Hi" ........................................................................................................... 21 Talk to girls everywhere ......................................................................................... 22 How to initiate a conversation................................................................................ 22 Talking to her = echoing her .................................................................................. 23 Fluff talk ................................................................................................................. 23 The don'ts of fluff talk ............................................................................................ 26 Reading body language .......................................................................................... 26 Mirroring ................................................................................................................ 30 Kinaesthetics (aka kino) - have kino with your female friends/acquaintances ..... 32 APPROACHING AND MAKING THEM INTERESTED.35 Where to meet girls ................................................................................................ 35 If she seems unapproachable .................................................................................. 38 General guidelines on approaching ........................................................................ 39 Demonstrate value and personality ........................................................................ 41 The importance of a first impression...................................................................... 42 Pace and lead .......................................................................................................... 42 APPROACHES .................................................... 44 Simple approaches.................................................................................................. 44 The cold approach .................................................................................................. 47 The collision approach ........................................................................................... 47 3 The available chair approach ................................................................................. 48 The crappy sketch-artist approach ......................................................................... 48 The dramatic approach ........................................................................................... 49 The cellular approach ............................................................................................. 51 The familiar approach ............................................................................................ 51 Pez opener .............................................................................................................. 52 You look stunning approach................................................................................... 52 Pacing the ongoing reality...................................................................................... 54 Buying her a drink .................................................................................................. 55 Should I ask for her name?..................................................................................... 56 Leech off someone else's crash and burn ............................................................... 57 If she's working ...................................................................................................... 57 If you just have to use a pick-up line ..................................................................... 58 "I like " game as an opener.................................................................................. 61 Mr Smooth technique ............................................................................................. 63 The questions game ................................................................................................ 66 GIMMICKS ........................................................ 67 Use a gimmick to get going.................................................................................... 67 Palm-reading - why should you use it? .................................................................. 67 The three major lines in the hand ........................................................................... 68 Reading the line of Fate ......................................................................................... 70 Reading her love-life .............................................................................................. 71 Reading the line of Heart ....................................................................................... 72 Reading the mount of Venus .................................................................................. 74 A sample reading routine ....................................................................................... 75 NIGHT-CLUBS AND DANCING .............................. 77 Night-clubs vs other places to meet girls ............................................................... 77 How to switch to the right mindset ........................................................................ 78 Asking for a dance.................................................................................................. 78 About dancing ........................................................................................................ 79 Slow dancing .......................................................................................................... 80 Fast dance to slow dance ........................................................................................ 81 After the dance ....................................................................................................... 83 GROUP TACTICS ............................................... 84 If she is with a friend / a group of friends .............................................................. 84 Approaching a group of many girls ....................................................................... 86 How to have her leave the group............................................................................ 86 NEGHITS ........................................................... 88 Neghits explained ................................................................................................... 88 Neghits expansion pack.......................................................................................... 90 4 ELICITING VALUES............................................ 92 Eliciting values explained ...................................................................................... 92 Trance words explained.......................................................................................... 95 Calibrate the girl ..................................................................................................... 95 Eliciting values - introducing the questions........................................................... 97 Eliciting values - the answers................................................................................. 99 The perfect relationship........................................................................................ 100 GM STYLE ..................................................... 102 GM style explained .............................................................................................. 102 GM style lines....................................................................................................... 103 SEXUAL
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