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Kenneth R. Haslam, MD Collection

Filed Under: Finding aid is saved on the “P” drive at: P:\LIBRARY LIBRARY\FindingAids\Haslam\Haslam.Polyamory.Finding Aid

Full Name: Kenneth R. Haslam, MD

Date(s) Materials Received: 2005-2013

Status: Finding aid in process. Started by Leigh Lafosse, continued by Lauren Patton, Erin Dobias, and Taylor Dean under supervision of Liana Zhou.

Description: Paper, audio-visual materials, computer files, and photographs contained in 10 boxes.

Provenance: Materials were donated to the by Dr. Ken Haslam in December 2005, February 2006, May 2007, June 2007, October 2008, February 2009, November 2010, March 2011, January 2012, February 2012, January 2013, . Contributions from donors sent from 2006-2009, additional can be found in “Polyamory list of donors” saved in P:\LIBRARY\LIBRARY \Polyamory Collection\Polyamory list of donations 2.08.doc

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Subject Listing: Polyamory, non-, relationships, , swinging, behavior research

Abstract: The Kenneth R. Haslam, MD collection at The Kinsey Institute contains materials related to polyamory. It consists of conference materials, resources, media coverage, and research articles, as well as Dr Haslam’s personal correspondence and papers originally delivered at poly-oriented meetings, sex research and conferences. Additionally, there are materials from several other donors relating to research, media response, and community and publications. The bulk of the collection represents the work of Dr. Haslam and other poly-activists from 2000 to the present, with contributions from earlier polyamory writers and activists from the 1970’s. Dr. Haslam’s decision to develop the polyamory collection at The Kinsey Institute reflects his interest in providing information and educating the public about polyamorous relationships. The collection includes biographical information about Kenneth Haslam, who has been a leader in organizing and documenting the polyamory community, and in introducing polyamory into the academic sphere. Dr. Haslam’s presentations, featured in this collection, are geared towards educating professionals,

1 practitioners, the public and the poly-community; they form a framework for understanding polyamory, along with snapshots of the lifestyles and communities. Many different polyamory groups and communities are represented in the collection, including the 1970’s Kerista Community and the Church of All Worlds in the U.S., and international materials, such as Dutch language publications from The . The collection also contains newsletters that were the precursors of Loving More magazine, a complete collection of Loving More magazine. The vast array of Internet community resources includes list-servs, and journals, and websites. Examples are archives of the website “Polyamorous Percolations,” “Swingercast,” the swingers’ , Unitarian Universalists for Polyamory Awareness materials, and archives of various web-based discussion groups. There is a polyamory bibliography containing a variety of materials, including books on the subject that are held by the Kinsey Institute.

Collection Scope and Content: The Ken Haslam collection is contained in nine boxes. Series I – III consist solely of items donated by Kenneth R. Haslam, MD, including polyamory research collected by Dr. Haslam, which includes articles, media coverage, and subject specific materials within polyamory research (See appendix 1, 2, and 3 for a complete inventory of computer files); Series IV – VII are comprised of collections from donors all on the subject of polyamory. Series VIII consists of two boxes of audiovisual materials on the subject of polyamory donated by Kenneth R. Haslam, MD and Dr. Deborah Anapol. Series IX includes other miscellaneous items including oversized items in mailing tubes donated by several members of the polyamory community. Series X consists of all materials received after 2010. Series I) Biographical Series II) Presentations, Research, and Writings on Polyamory Series III) Correspondence Series IV) Media Coverage Series V) Diaries and Personal Items Series VI) Community Resources Series VII) Publications Series VIII) Audio-Visual Materials Series IX) Miscellaneous and Oversized Series X) Additional Materials

Biography: Ken Haslam, MD is a retired anesthesiologist who for the past ten years has been living and teaching about responsible, ethical, and consensual multi-partnering or Polyamory. He is a founding member and currently Vice President of Unitarian Universalists for Polyamory Awareness, a board member of the Institute for 21st Century Relationships and a past board member of his Unitarian fellowship. He has presented many workshops, sermons, and lectures on Polyamory, such as “Kinsey and the Roots of Polyamory” at Loving More and “Polyamory Enters the Mainstream at AASECT. He is both a practicing Poly and a Poly activist.

Box 1 Series I) Biographical This series contains biographical information of Kenneth R. Haslam, MD and other donors involved in the polyamory collection.

A. Biographical Folder 1:

2  Contains multiple biographical summaries of Kenneth R. Haslam, MD and curriculum vitae. Folder also includes itinerary and description of Dr. Haslam’s visit to the Kinsey Institute in April 2006. (ca. 15 pages)  Biographical information and publication information for Dr. Maria Pallotta-Chiarolli (ca. 8 pages)  Biographical and publication information about Dr. Joy Davidson (3 pages.)

B. Interviews and AV The Kenneth R. Haslam MD Collection currently contains two video recordings of KI interviews with Dr. Haslam in Feb. 2006 (interviewed by Raina Polivka) and Dec. 2006 (interviewed by Leigh Lafosse).

Also includes a video recording of the lecture delivered by Dr. Haslam to the Kinsey Institute in Feb. 2006. (recorded by Raina Polivka) All of these materials are located with the KI Oral History Project.

Series II) Presentations, Research, and Writings on Polyamory This series contains presentations, lectures, notes, workshops, articles, and other writings related to polyamory and sexuality. Folders 4 and 5 contain hard copies of materials that were found on the CDs donated by Dr. Haslam, located in Folder 1.

There is a large blue binder labeled “Polyamory Survey August 2001” containing data on a polyamory survey conducted for Loving More by International Communications Research in August 2001. This data is also available electronically via http://www.kinseyinstitute.org/resources/Nearing.html

See Appendix 1 for a complete listing of files located on “Haslam CD 12/7/05.” See Appendix 2 for a complete listing of files located on “Haslam CD 2/13/06.” See Appendix 3 for a summary of files located on “Haslam 2007 part 1 misc. poly documents.”

Folder 1: Contains three CD’s. One is dated as 12/7/05 (donation date) and is organized with the exact structure of the Ken Haslam computer files. The second CD is dated 2/13/06 (donation date) and contains updates from the Haslam computer files. The third was donated in 2007 and contains updated Haslam computer files.

Folder 2: Lectures, presentations, and notes created and collected by Kenneth R. Haslam, MD.  AASECT presentation: Confessions of a Polyamorous Geezer: (May 2004) and notes  AASECT presentation: (Nov 2005: 22 slides)  AASECT pre-con (first polyamory workshop) details in Contemporary Sexuality v. 40, no. 3 Mar 2006  AASECT annual conference (June 2006) abstract presentation: “Polyamory Enters the Mainstream”  AASECT conference (Jul 2006) presentation powerpoint slides: “Beyond Monogamy: Varieties of Loving and Committing” by Nan Wise, Margaret Nichols, Michael Shernoff  AASECT conference (Jul 2006) presentation powerpoint slides: “Polyamory and other forms of negotiated non-monogamy: a crash course for the curious” by Nan Wise  Are SOR’s for you? (Fleckerstein: SSSS, April 24, 2003: 37 slides)  Beltaine Lecture: (May 2001)  Confessions of a Failed Serial Monogamist (12 slides)

3  Del otro la’O in Mayaquez, Puerto Rico (Mar 2006) presentation: “Polyamory: Having Your Kate and Edith Too”  Correspondence regarding presentation at Del otro la’O between Dr. Haslam and Isabel Rios Torres, 2/2/2007  Del otro la’O (Mar 2006) program/schedule  ER Presentation-Hall: (Hall;Fleckenstein, Keeton. SSSS-ER Meeting, April 2003: 12 slides)  ERPresentation2 (Hall: 30 slides)  Everything I Know I Learned in Kindergarten (20 slides)  General Assembly (June 2005)  Heretic Lecture (2003: 96 slides)  Introduction to OWL program at Davies Memorial  Loving More West (June 2006) presentation: “Lovespeak: Making the Connection”  Loving More West (June 2006) Keynote Address power point slides: “Kinsey and the Roots of Polyamory”  Mainstream (7 slides)  Polyamory Lecture (Mar 2003)  Poly Living 2005 Conference discussion topic: “Balancing Individuality and Partnership”  Poly Living (Feb 2005) program  Poly Living West schedule (June 2006)  Poly Living program, Philadelphia, PA (Feb 2006)  Poly Living (Feb 2006) presentation: “Resolving jealousy in Polyamorous Relationships”  Random thoughts on Poly 1 (7 slides)  Religion (7 slides)  Sermon 2003  Seven Pillars of Polyamory (14 slides)  Swingers Polys and Swolys (8 slides)  Swingers Presentation 2 (74 slides)  Swingers Presentation-Final Draft (62 slides)  UUCR 1997  WinterFire – Dark Odyssey (Dec 2005) presentation: “Avoid the Pitfalls and Reap the Rewards of Non-Traditional Relationships” by Anita Wagner  What do Polyamorists Believe (14 slides: Derek McCullough and Dave Hall. Feb 2003 of Sexuality.)  Poly Presentation – A Random WalkSept 2004 (99 slides)  Adventures in Polyamory Activism

Folder 3: Presentations, lectures, workshops, etc. donated by other contributors. Arranged in no particular order.  Esfandiary, F.M. (1985, Feb. 11). Intimacy in a Fluid World. From a lecture delivered at UCLA. (6 p.)  Article: Francoeur, Robert T. “ Relationships in the 21st Century: Foreshadowings of a Cultural Collapse Labor Pains of new Integration.” Paper from 14th World Congress The International Sociological Association Meeting, Montreal, July 26-August 1, 1998.  “Polyamory and : A Workshop by and Andrew (Bean) Hoerner  “Sex, , and : bringing the body into real joyful pleasure” a workshop with Jack Painter by the International Center for Release & Integration; 6 items donated by Dr. Anapol  “Creating peaceful relationships in a dominator culture” workshop with Bill Moyer, donated by Dr. Anapol

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Folder 4: Research, Academic Papers, Articles donated by Ken Haslam (Arranged chronologically)  Rubin, Arline M. (1982,Winter). Sexually open versus sexually exclusive : a comparison of dyadic adjustment. Alternative Lifestyles 5(2): 101-108.  “What Happened to Kerista?” Eve Furchgot. Communities Journal #80/81, 1993. (7 pages)*  “How is Polyamory Different from Swinging?” By Stef Jones. April 1995. (2 pages.)  Landman, Howard A. (1998). “Books on polyamory and non-monogamous relationships.” (16 p.)  “When Three is Not a Crowd. Polyamory as a responsible .” By Elizabeth Barrette. 1999. (5 pages.)  “What professionals should know about polyamory: The lifestyles and mental health concerns of polyamorous .” By Geri Weitzman. (Based on paper presented at 8th Annual Conference, Mar 12, 1999. 11 pages.)  “Scenes From a (Group) Marriage” by John H. Richardson. Esquire May 1999. (7 pages.)  “Henry & Mary & Janet &…” by John Cloud. Time South Pacific Iss. 47, 11/22/99. (2 pages.)  “The of .” Eric Raymond. 2001 (3 pages)  “What’s all this NRE stuff, anyway?” Zhahai Stewart. Loving More #26, 2001. (4 pages)*  Electronic Journal of Human Sexuality, Vol. 5, April 16, 2002. “Working with polyamorous clients in the clinical setting.” By Joy Davidson. (4 pages.)  Electronic Journal of Human Sexuality, Vol. 6, Feb. 27, 2003. “Polyamory- What it is and what it isn’t.” By Derek McCullough and David Hall, PH.D. (11 pages.) includes bibliography.  “The challenge of post-modern : considering polyamory.” By Maura I. Strassberg. 2003. (125 pages)*  “25 Questions about Polyamory from the Matters Task Force.” Responses prepared by the UU’s for Polyamory Awareness Board of Trustees, Jan. 2, 2004. (13 pages.)  : Public Law and Legal Theory Working Paper No. 58. “Monogamy’s Law: Compulsory Monogamy and Polyamorous Existence.” By Elizabeth Emens, Feb. 2004.  “A Humanist Looks at Polyamory” by Valerie White. Humanist vol. 64, iss. 6 Nov/Dec 2004. (3 pages.)  “Intimacy, negotiated non-monogamy and the limits of the couple.” Lynn Jamieson. From The of : Explorations in and Commitment, 2004. (22 pages)*  The State of Affairs: Explorations in Infidelity and Commitment, 2004. “Intimacy, negotiated non- monogamy and the limits of the couple.” By Lynn Jamieson. (10 pages)  “Commitment in polyamorous relationships.” By Elaine Cook. 2005 (95 pages)*  Journal of Constructivist Psychology, Vol. 18, No. 1, 2005. “This is my partner, and this is my partner’s partner: Constructing a polyamorous identity in a monogamous world.” By Meg Barker. (Contains abstract and bibliographic citation.)  “In Defense of Pagan Polyamory” by Raven Kaldera. Letter, accessed 11/24/2005 from http://www.cauldronfarm.com/writing/polyletter.html (5 pages.)  “Influence of the Fiction Writings of Robert A. Heinlein on Polyamory” by Cherie L. Ve Ard. Polyamorous Percolations March 21, 2005. (4 pages.)  “ and the PIB Argument.” John Corvino. : April 2005, Vol. 115. (33 pages)*  Journal of Contemporary , Vol. 34, No. 3, June 2005. “Polyamorous Women and Sexual Subjectivity.” By Elizabeth Sheff.  “Monogamy: Here Today, Gone Tomorrow” by Jacques Attali. Foreign Policy September/October 2005. (2 pages.)

Folder 5: Research, Academic Papers, Articles donated by Ken Haslam (Arranged chronologically), cont.  “Are you Open to an ?” by Kathy Labriola. Provides information on ethical non- monogamy. (4 pages.)

5  “What is Loving More? A New Vision of Relationship.” By Brett Hill. (5 pages.)  “On My Polyamory.” By Joe. (3 pages.)  “Covering.” Kenji Yoshino. (14 pages)*  “How Do Social Movements Decide to Move? Polyamorous Relationships and Legal Mobilization.” By Hadar Aviram, of . (20 pages)  Biology Daily: Encyclopedia-like information regarding many facets of Polyamory including terminology, forms and values of polyamory, criticisms and related links. (8 pages.)  “Encyclical Letter of the Supreme Pontiff Benedict XVI to the , , and Deacons, Men and Women religious, and all the lay Faithful on Christian Love” (33 pages.)  “Primetime Fantasies: Marriage, Monogamy, and a Bit of Feminist Fanfiction on ABC’s The Bachelor” Katherine Frank. (dated 1/3/06, book chapter – 34 pages.)  “Theorizing Sex in Heterodox : Postmodernity, Late Capitalism and Non-monogamous Sexual Behavior” by Richard Coon, PhD. Electronic Journal of Human Sexuality, Vol. 9 Apr. 18, 2006. (18 pages.)  “Progressive Polyamory: Considering Issues of Diversity” by Melita J. Noel. Sexualities, vol. 9, no. 6, pp. 605-623 (20 pages)

Folder 6:  “Polysexuality: When One Partner Isn’t Enough: Discovering Your Polysexual Orientation”. Typed draft dated November 2006, copyright by [email protected], contains 11 chapters and questionnaire.

Folder 7: Several papers and articles on polyamory and other research materials from various donors, primarily Watson and Robins.  Casey, Nancy and Ona Bergman. (1989). “ in women: theory and practice implications” (13 p.)  Polyamory: An Exploratory Study of Responsible Multi-partnering  A History of the First Unitarian Church of Louisville, Kentucky 1830-2005  Paper: Author Unknown—possibly Hutchins/Hoerner. “Poly : Lessons from Liberation”  Paper: Hutchins, Loraine. “Building Erotic Communities.” 3/20/02 final draft  Hall, David. “Selected Research on Monogamy and Nonmonogamy, from the Psychological Literature, sorted by year An Incomplete List.”  Article: Francoeur, Robert T. “Challenging Common Religious/Social Myths of Sex, Marriage, and Family.” Journal of Sex and Therapy. [In Press Version]  Articles: Francouer, Robert T. and Rami Shapiro. “Recognition of Alternatives to Traditional Monogamy in New Religious and Civil Rituals –a 1979 article.” Reprinted from Journal of and Therapy. 1(5):17-20. & Francoeur, Robert T. “Covenants, Intamacy and Marital Diversity.” Reprinted from Journal of Humanistic . Winter 1994.  Information about The International Encyclopedia of Sexuality, edited by Francoeur. Includes lists of authors for each chapter.  Paper: Francoeur, Robert T. (Project Director) and Levis, Wilson (Project Coordinator) with the Lifesyles Studies Group, Biological and Allied Health , Fairleigh Dickinson University. “Proposal for A Descriptive Glossary of Contemporary Intimate Relationships (working title).”  Paper: White Dove, Linda. “Relationships Can Equal Oneness.” With notes.  Glossary: Poly Lexicon, Polyamory 10  Article: Anapol, Deborah M. “The Future of the Family and the Fate of Our Children.” Reprinted from The Seeker. , CA.  Bibliographic records from search terms “sexual” and “jealousy”

6  “Establishing and Being a Considerate Play Partner” by Dr. Joy Davidson  “Long-term ” by Dr. Joy Davidson, column article  “A Crazy Little Thing Called…” by Eric Francis. Planet Waves Feb. 2000  “” excerpts from book: Love and Limerence by Dorothy Tennov.  “” by Eve Furchgott. Sexuality.org (3 pages)  “’Free Love’: on Neo-Pagan ” by Otter Zell, Church of All Worlds. (1 long print out ca. 9 pages)  “A Bouquet of : Strategies for Responsible Open Relationships” by Morning Glory Zell from Green Egg v. 23, n. 89 1990 (2 pages)

Folder 8: Kinsey Institute Staff searches for polyamory materials in IUCAT and general Internet searches, 2005-2006. Also includes statistical materials found. The following listed items are from Dr. Haslam’s files and were found on the Internet around the same time as the KI Staff searches.  Books on Polyamory and Non-monogamous Relationships. Maintained by Howard Landman. (16 pages.)  Poly Matchmaker: Off site articles (about polyamory.) (2 pages.)  Polyamory-Related children’s books. (4 pages.)  Poly Glossary. Contains guide to many terms heard in polyamorous communities. (32 pages)*

Folder 9: Publications of Maria Pallotta-Chiarolli  “We’re the X-Files”  “Take Four Pioneering Poly Women”  “Polyparents Having Children, Raising Children, Schooling Children”  “Only Your Labels Split the Confusion: Of Impurity and Unclassifiability”  “On the Borders of Sexuality Research”  “’Outside Belonging’: Multi-sexual as Border Marriages”  “Choosing Not to Choose: Beyond Monogamy, Beyond Duality”

Folder 10: Polyamory and religion: donated by Dr. Haslam (No particular order)  Unitarian Universalists for Polyamory Awareness Home Page  “Introduction to Polyamory for UUs” 1999 by George Sherouse, Ph.D.  The Institute for 21st Century Relationships Home Page  Polyamorous Spiritual Network- Links to spiritual communities.  “After Polygamy was made a sin.” By John Cairneross. A review of book by Samuel Chapman. (11 pages)  “3076 UUism and Polyamory: Many Traditions, Many Loves.”  “Multiple Intimate Relationships: A Summary of Liberated Christians’ Views.” 1999. (4 pages.)  “Religious Declaration on Sexuality , and Healing.” Jan 18, 2000. Speech presented by Rev. Dr. John A. Buehrens.  “UUA President Supports Religious Declaration on Sexual Morality, Justice and Healing.” 2000, discusses previous speech. (2 pages.)  “Polyamory and the Prairie Vole.” Feb. 6 2005, Rev. Roger Fritts. (4 pages.)  “A Pagan Polyamory.” 1999, Issac Bonewits. Includes links and suggested reading. (4 pages.)  Electronic Journal of Human Sexuality, Vol. 8, Oct 2, 2005. “Sex and Shame: Authenticity in Adult Education.” By Charles Glickman. (Only the abstract, table of contents.)  “I’m pseydonymed…even quoted. The Final Closet: Polyamory and .” 12/19/05.  “UUs for Polyamory Awareness” Board of Trustees pamphlet  “Unitarian Universalists for Polyamory Awareness” General Assembly workshop flyer  Southeast Unitarian Universalist Summer Institute (SUUSI) booklet for 2003, “Simple Gifts”

7  “Unitarian Universalists for Polyamory Awareness: Speakers Guidelines: 3rd draft, June 20. 2005”  “Text of Bedford Lyceum Polyamory Presentation” presented by Valerie White (UUPA) 1/29/2006 (8 pages)  Unitarian Universalist Association. Articulating Your UU Faith handouts (9 items)

Folder 11: Polyamory and religion: donated by Dr. Anapol, materials regarding Rev. Michael Dowd of St. Paul’s United Church of Christ. Materials include articles written by and those about Rev. Dowd, book chapters, correspondence, and other religious materials he collected. (ca. 16 items) Materials donated by Dr. Anapol: the writings of Dave Hutchinson of Liberated Christians. (5 items) Research materials and correspondence regarding Biblical polygamy. (ca. 5 items)

Folder 12: Brochures, correspondence, and schedules for the 18th Annual International on Lifestyles, Sexuality, Relationships and the Joy of Living, 1992. Correspondence and information regarding the Fellowship for International Community “Celebration of Community” Conference, 1993. Materials for the National Bisexuality Conference 1990, the Bisexual Conference Western Region 1993, and the International Conference to Celebrate Bisexuality 1994 Program, correspondence, and schedule for The Celebration of : A Conference on Sacred Sexuality 1998 Materials , notes, and speech by Dr. Anapol from the Loving More Conference 2000 Also includes information on other seminars and presentations. Donated by Dr. Anapol. (ca. 15 items)

Folder 13: Correspondence, programs, and other information surrounding Cauldron Productions : “The Union of Sex and Spirit”, 1993. Donated by Dr. Anapol. (ca. 25 items) Correspondence, programs, schedules, and etc. for the National Sexuality Symposium, 1992-1993. Donated by Dr. Anapol. (ca. 20 items) Attendee materials from Building Bridges: Conference of the Institute for 21st Century Relationships, 2001.

Folder 14: Presentations and other writings on polyamory donated by Dr. Anapol. This includes materials for the Love Without Limits apprenticeship and notes for an article in In Context from 1985. Research materials regarding bisexuality and the . Questionnaires, notes, correspondence and other research materials regarding poly donated by Dr. Anapol

Folder 15: Booklets of portions of the book Love Without Limits by Dr. Anapol. (faded)

Folder 16: All materials pertaining to the production, publication, and promotion of editions of the book Love Without Limits by Dr. Anapol, including reviews of the book.

Polyamory: The New Love Without Limits by Deborah Anapol Galley proofs, pre-publication copy.

Folder 17: Outlines, drafts, and other elements for a book by Dr. Anapol.

Folder 18: Drafts of book chapters and articles by Dr. Anapol.

Folder 19: Materials collected from research subjects, donated by Dr. Anapol.

Folder 20: Media coverage used for research and various notes, donated by Dr. Anapol

8 Box 2 Folder 21: Permissions and use agreements for Dr. Anapol’s use of others’ work; ca. 20 items Permission for Tina Tessina to use Dr. Anapol’s work; ca. 6 items Standard personal releases for Intinet Resource Center; ca. 20 items

Folder 22: Others’ writings on polyamory and relationships, donated by Dr. Anapol. Includes two thesis proposals; (ca. 10 items)

Folder 23: Materials from the Institute for 21st Century Relationships and Burning Bridges conferences donated by Dr. Haslam.

Folder 24: Presentations and conference materials donated by Dr. Haslam, also includes critiques from students following a polyamory presentation.

Folder 25: Research, academic papers, and articles donated by Ken Haslam; ca. 25 items.

Folder 26: Research, academic papers, and articles donated by Ken Haslam, includes “Compersion: meditations on using jealousy as a path to ” by Dr. Anapol; ca. 4 items.

Folder 27: Emens, Elizabeth F. (2004, Feb.) “Monogamy’s law: compulsory monogamy and polyamorous existence”. Chicago public law and legal theory working paper, no. 58

Folder 28: Others’ writings on polyamory, donated by Dr. Haslam; ca. 8 items.

Folder 29: Podcast: Dr. Ken Haslam on Polyamory, as part of “Sex and Sensibility with Jill McDevitt.”

Folder 30: Conference materials, correspondence, and information on Helen and Stan Dale Workshops. Ca. 50 items.

Folder 31: Alternatives in Marriage and Family, the Journal of AMARCUS. 5 items.

Folder 32: Research, Academic Papers, Articles donated by Melita J. Noel. Arranged by donor. Subject: Bisexuality. 15 items.

Folder 33: Research, Academic Papers, Articles donated by Melita J. Noel. Arranged by donor. Subject: Politics of Race, , Class, & Sexuality. 6 items.

Folder 34: Research, Academic Papers, Articles donated by Melita J. Noel. Arranged by donor. Subject: Feminism. 5 items.

Folder 35: Research, Academic Papers, Articles donated by Melita J. Noel. Arranged by donor. Subject: . 10 items.

Folder 36: Research, Academic Papers, Articles donated by Melita J. Noel. Arranged by donor. Subject: Focus. 3 items.

Folder 37: Research, Academic Papers, Articles donated by Melita J. Noel. Arranged by donor. Subjects: Poly: Classic Authors; Poly: Media; Poly: Psychology; Poly: Research; Non-monogamy/Monogamy. 23 items.

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Series III) Correspondence This series is for correspondence to and from the donors who have contributed to the Polyamory collection, it is arranged by donor.

Folder 1: Kenneth R. Haslam, MD Correspondence  Correspondence with various individuals, includes correspondence with Dr. Anapol and correspondence regarding the Polyamory Collection at the Kinsey Institute Library (14 items)  Unitarian Universalists for Polyamory Awareness correspondence; primary from the listserv. (10 items)

Folder 2: Dr. Deborah Anapol Correspondence with family, friends, and Online; (this folder contains only e-mail correspondence;) ca. 45 items.

Folder 3: Dr. Deborah Anapol Correspondence via e-mail and forum, primarily concerning Extended Family Online circa 1993; ca. 50 items.

Folder 4: Dr. Deborah Anapol Correspondence via e-mail circa 1993; ca 50 items. Folder 5: Dr. Deborah Anapol Correspondence via e-mail circa 1993; ca. 50 items.

Folder 6: Dr. Deborah Anapol Correspondence via e-mail circa 1994; ca. 45 items.

Folder 7: Dr. Deborah Anapol Correspondence with Robert Francoeur, 1992; ca. 25 items. Dr. Deborah Anapol Correspondence with Richard Sutphen, 1992; ca. 10 items. Also includes materials from the piece Sutphen wrote using information from Love Without Limits.

Folder 8: Dr. Deborah Anapol Correspondence with Dr. Jim Ramey and a bibliography produced by Ramey, 1985-1991; ca. 15 items. Dr. Deborah Anapol Correspondence with Phoenix and writings by members, 1985-1987; ca. 18 items. Dr. Deborah Anapol Correspondence with Rev. Michael Dowd and family, 1992-1994; ca. 15 items.

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Folder 9: Dr. Deborah Anapol Correspondence with Robert Rimmer as well as some of his manuscripts, 1992-1995. (ca. 45 items)

Folder 10: Dr. Deborah Anapol-ZEGG Correspondence, 1993-1995; ca. 20 items. (Some correspondence in this folder is on early computer paper and has faded terribly.) Dr. Deborah Anapol Correspondence with TLC: Tender Loving , 1991; 2 items. Dr. Deborah Anapol Correspondence with Beyond Monogamy, Inc. in Perth, Australia, 1992; ca. 20 items.

Folder 11: Dr. Deborah Anapol Correspondence with various individuals, 1985-1989; ca. 75 items

Folder 12: Dr. Deborah Anapol Correspondence with various individuals, 1989-1993; ca. 50 items.

Folder 13: Dr. Deborah Anapol Correspondence with various individuals, 1992-1993; ca. 50 items.

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Folder 14: Dr. Deborah Anapol Correspondence with various individuals, 1990-1992; ca. 65 items.

Folder 15: Dr. Deborah Anapol Correspondence with various individuals, 1992-1994; ca. 50 items.

Folder 16: Dr. Deborah Anapol Correspondence with various individuals, 1994; ca. 70 items.

Folder 17: Dr. Deborah Anapol Correspondence with David Kennedy and other individuals, 1995-1997; ca. 65 items

Series IV) Media Coverage This series contains polyamory material received from different donors. Many of the donations have individual inventories located on the library/library server. More information regarding the individual collections is located on the library/archive server under Polyamory.

Folder 1: Media Coverage of polyamory donated by Dr. Kenneth R. Haslam. (Arranged chronologically)  Cromwell, Kathleen. (1995, Aug. 1). “ lives!: pleasures and perils of polyfidelity”. Village Voice, p. 25-26.  Potter, Alicia. (1998, Oct. 15-22). “Free love grows up”. Boston Phoenix . Retrieved Nov. 30, 2005 from http://www.bostonphoenix.com/archive/features/98/10/15/POLYAMORISTS.html (8 p.)  Gerard, Jim. (1999, Jul. 17). “Three’s company; so is four or five”. Salon Urge. Retrieved Feb. 15, 2006 from Haslam CD. (6 p.)  Mathieu, Jennifer. (2000 Nov. 30). “Meet Mr. and Mrs. and Mrs. Jones”. Houston Press. Retrieved Jan. 13, 2006 from Haslam CD. (9 p.)  Staudenmaier, Peter. (2001, Feb. 26). “Slipping the ties that bind”. Lip Magazine. Retrieved Mar. 10, 2001 from http://www.lipmagazine.org/articles/featsaudenmaier_10.htm (6 p.)  Schwartz, Deb. (2002). “Mes cheris amours”. New York Metro. Retrieved Oct. 16, 2002 from http://www.newyorkmetro.com/nymetro/urban/features/n_7833/index.html  CBS News: Boston, July 8, 2003. “Responsible Non-Monagamists.” (Associated Press, 2 pages)  Associated Press: Aug 3, 2003. “Massachusetts News: Practitioners of polyamory look for support at Unitarian convention.” By Martin Finucane. (2 pages)  The Weekly Standard: Aug 4/11 2003. “Beyond Marriage.” By Stanley Kurtz. (11 pages)*  August 25, 2003. “Some gay activists want church to accept multiple partners as ‘holy’.” By Mark Tooley. (4 pages.)  Brune, Adrian. (2004, Apr. 16). “Anthropologists debunk ‘traditional marriage’ claim Group claism Bush’s arguments don’t reflect history”. Washington Blade.  Milwaukee Journal Sentinel Online, Sept 12, 2004. “Whole lotta love: ‘Polyamorists’ go beyond monogamy.” By Reid Epstein. (2 pages)  University Daily Kansan: Feb 24, 2005. “The more the merrier. If love is what makes the world go ‘round, polyamory might be what’s keeping the world turning.” By Paige Worthy. (4 pages)*  NRO National Review, Mar 23, 2005. “Rick Santorum Was Right. Meet the future of marriage in America.” By Stanley Kurtz. (5 pages)  Washington Blade: May 6, 2005. “Are we not polyamorists?” By Jennifer Vanasco. (2 pages)*  Elliott, Stephen. (2005, Sept. 4). “Three men and a ”. New York Times, 9.  MSNBC: Sept 7, 2005. “Is monogamy dead?” By F. Birchman. (4 pages)*  Kahn, Howie. (2005, Oct. 23). “The third half of a couple”. New York Times, 1, 13.  The Observer, Nov 13, 2005. “Forget monogamy and swinging. We’re seriously polyamorous.” (6 pages.)  University Star: “Relationship views swing both ways.” LeAnne Matula. Dec. 5, 2005.

11  UTNE: Dec 8, 2005. “Polyamory? Your how-to guide in loving more than one.” By Franklin Veaux. (1 page)*  The Oakland Tribune: 12/11/05. “Hayward mom bored by ’s alternative lifestyle.” By Michelle Beaver. (1 page)*  Inside Bay Area: 12/11/05. “Two , make love stew.” By Michelle Beaver. (1 page)*  Allafrica.com: Dec 21, 2005. By Gregory Gondo: Harare. (3 pages)*  The New Online: Dec 23, 2005. “The weekly standard’s absurd case against gay marriage.” By Rob Anderson. In response to previous Kurtz article (3 pages)*  National Review Online: Dec 23, 2005. “Triple-Dutch Wrong.” By Stanley Kurtz. (2 pages)* In response to previous Anderson article.  The Weekly Standard: Dec 26, 2005. “Here comes the bride.” By Stanley Kurtz. (14 pages)  “Term of Endearments” by John Woestendiek. Baltimore Sun. Accessed 1/14/2006 from http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/endearments.html. (5 pages.)  Leonard, Mike. (2006, Jan 19). “Beyond monogamy: local group to explore polyamory”. Herald Times. (2 p.)  Columbia Spectator: Jan 23, 2006. “Thoughts for another day: Sexplorations.” By Miriam Datskovsky. (2 pages)*  Southern Voice: Jan 27, 2006. “A marriage of many?” By Ryan Lee. (4 pages)*  Viva: Feb. 2006. “The More the Merrier” (4 pages)  Viva: Mar. 2006. “Safeguarding Fidelity,” reader response to previous article (1 page)  New York Magazine: Feb 6, 2006. “The Cuddle Puddle of Stuyvesant High School.” By Alex Morris. (ca. 13 pages.)  “Big Love, from the ” Stanley Kurtz. National Review, Mar. 13, 2006. (8 pages.)  (2006, Apr.) Utne – Long Term Love (4 articles)  KUTV: Polyamory: A Twist on Polygamy. Mark Koelbel. April 30, 2006.  “There Were Four in the Bed” Marie Claire Australia May 2006. (4 pages, includes cover.)  Online Edition. “Open relationships: One lover is never enough.” June 11, 2006.  Baptist Press News. “First Person: A stunning admission about polygamy” by Kelly Boggs. Jun 16, 2006. (2 pages)  Jacobs, Ethan. (2006, Aug. 3). “Activists call for a shift in priorities”. Bay Windows  CBS 4 South Florida: “Husbands and Wife.” Ileana Varela. 11/15/06.

Folder 2: Media coverage of polyamory donated by Dr. Haslam, cont.  New York Magazine: November 2006. “The New Monogamy: Until death do us part- except every other Friday.”  Tri-Valley Herald. “East Bay- Big polyamorous region.” By Michelle Beaver. (1 page)*  Student Printz (University of Southern Mississippi). “Pillow Talk: Polyamory: A Build-Your-Own- Love Kit” by Glory Fink. (6 pages)  “Positive sexuality leads to healing and justice, says Disciples minister” by Heidi Bright Parales. Disciples World, 7/11/2007. (2 pages.)  Hesse, Monica. (2008, Feb. 13). “Pairs with spares”. Washington Post, C, C10.  Coverly, Dave. “Speed Bump”. (comic)  Brown, Mackenzie. (2008, Jun). “The state of our unions”. Redbook, pp. 154-164.  Williams, Alex. (2008, Oct. 5). “Hopelessly devoted to you, you and you”. New York Times, 9.

Folder 3: Media coverage of polyamory from various donors.  Brundage, Sandy. (2002, May 8). “People who love (lots of) people”. The Wave. (3 p.)  “Love the Ones You’re With” by A.D.Amorosi Feb. 17-23, 2005 (2 pages)  Reijs, Linda. Hoe is het nu met…? Mijn Geheim, p. 57 (1 page)

12  “Nederlandse modeder pleit voor liefde met meerdere mannen ‘Ik Redde Mijn Huwelijk Door Een Minnaar Te Namen’” (Ageeth Veenemans) Mar. 13, 2007 (2 pages)  “Hopelessly Devoted to You, You, and You” by Alex Williams Oct. 5, 2008 (2 pages)

Folder 4: Media coverage of polyamory donated by Dr. Deborah Anapol (Arranged chronologically)  (1985, Sept. 23). “Nuclear ->cellular networks”. New Options, p. 3  Talbot, David. (1986, Feb). “Unspeakable pleasures: erotic adventures in the 80’s”. Journal, p. 26-31, 82-83.  Ehrenreich, Barbara. (1986, Jul/Aug.) “Two, three, many husbands”. Jones. (2 p.)  Anapol, Deborah. (1986, Aug/Sept). “Welcome to our family”. Utne Reader p. 3  Casey, Kathryn. (1990, Feb.). “An American harem”. Ladies’ Home Journal. (6 p.)  Detweiler, Margit. (1990, May 18-25). “Beyond monogamy”. Philadelphia City Paper. (2 p.)  Alman, Isadora. (1993, Sept. 29). “Ask Isadora: Are we really happy?”. Bay Guardian. (1 p.)  (1993, Dec. 4). “Morning report: Television: of the year?: Tom and Roseanne Arnold”. Los Angeles Times, F2. (1 p.)  (1993, Dec. 21). “Incredible untold story behind the bizarre Roseanne & Tom baby”. National Enquirer, p. 36-37.  (1993, Dec. 21). “Roseanne’s wacky ‘’”. Star, p. 37.  Evans, Greg. (1994, Apr. 5). “Luann”. Minneapolis Star-Tribune. (1 p.)  Goodman, Ellen. (1994, May 3). “These days, American kids should be raised in a three- family.” Minneapolis Star-Tribune. (1 p.)  Fioravante, Janic. (1993, May 30). “A Co-op on Staten Island that’s really cooperative”. New York times Sunday, 4.  Cromwell, Kathleen. (1995, Aug. 1). “Whole lotta love”. The Village Voice, XL(31): 25-28 (4 p.)  Piraro. (1996, Sept. 11). “Bizarro”. San Francisco Chronicle. (1 p.)  (1997, Feb. 16). “Relationships: they call it polyluv”. Magazine. (1 p. – original + photocopy)  Macklin, William R. (1997, Jun. 29). “Three’s company”. Philadelphia Inquirer. Retrieved Jul. 1, 1997 from http://www2.phillynews.com/inquirer/97/Jun/29/lifestyle/POLY29.htm (4 p.)  Hines, Emily. (1998, Aug.). “Ménage à… lot”. Jane, p. 119-121. (4 p.)  Larsen, Elizabeth. (1998, Nov.-Dec.). “Poly sex for beginners: swinging makes a comeback among GenXers”. Utne Reader, p. 20-21. (2 p.)  Searles, John. (1999, Feb.). “Is monogamy enough?” Out, p. 57-59. (3 p.)  Alman, Isadora. (1999, Feb. 10). “Ask Isadora: double your pleasure”. San Francisco Bay Guardian. (1 p.)  Goddard, Mary Jo. (1999, Spring). “Alternatives to the white picket fence: polyamorous relationships”. The Student Body, 10(2). (3 p.)  King, Jennifer. (1999, May). “Love the ones you’re with”. Bikini. (3 p.)  Richardson, John H. (1999, May). “Scenes from a (group) marriage”. Esquire. (8 p.)  Kuriansky, Judy. (1999, Aug.). “Smart sex”. Penthouse. (1 p.)  Cloud, John. (1999, Nov. 15). “Henry & Mary & Janet &…” Time, 154(20); p. 90-91. (+ photocopy)  Begley, Sharon. (2000, Aug. 14). “Sex and the single fly”. ; p. 44-45.  Marech, Rona. (2001, Feb. 9). “Multiply your love: polyamorists swear the more, the merrier when it comes to relationships”. SFGate. Retrieved Feb. 9, 2001 from http://www.sfgate.com/cgi- bin/article.cgi?file=/chronicle/archive/2001/02/09/EB166621.DTL (5 p.)  (2001, May 14). “Five equal huge lawyer’s fee: first polygamy trial in decades”. San Francisco Examiner, A1, A11.  Singh, Ajay. (2001, May 17). “When 3 (or more) is not a crowd”. Los Angeles Times, E1, E10.

13  Voas, Jeremy. (2002, Feb. 13). “Loves leap: penetrating the polyamory ”. Metro Times Detroit. Retrieved Feb. 14, 2002 from http://www.metrotimes.com/editorial/story.asp?id=2967 (19 p.)  Morton, Carol Cruzan. (2003, Feb. 17). “Recent research challenges notion of monogamy”. San Francisco Chronicle, A4.  Meadow, James B. “’My let my lover move in”. Originally published in Rocky Mountain News. (2 p.)  Daum, Meghan. “Husbands and wives”. Nerve? Pp. 76-85.

Folder 5: Media coverage of donated by Dr. Anapol, 1994, 1998; ca 10 items. Media coverage of Polygamy, donated by Dr. Anapol, ca. 7 items. Media coverage of swinging and/or fidelity issues donated by Dr. Anapol; ca. 28 items. Media coverage of extra-marital sexuality donated by Dr. Anapol; ca. 14 items. Media coverage of marriage and marital issues donated by Dr. Anapol; ca. 10 items.

Folder 6: Materials from Dr. Deborah Anapol’s appearance on the Donahue show in 1984. Includes complete transcript of the show, details surrounding the air date and time of the show, transcript availability, itinerary, and viewer response in correspondence. (ca. 40 items)

Folder 7: Correspondence in response to Dr. Anapol’s appearance on the Donahue show and Sally Jesse Raphael, 1992-1993; ca. 100 items.

Folder 8: Correspondence and drafts of scripts for an episode of : The Next Generation, 1991- 1992.

Folder 9: Additional materials for Star Trek: The Next Generation: script treatments, episodes w/one script, correspondence, floppy disk, and initiation of treatment

Folder 10: Media coverage of sexuality and the law donated by Dr. Anapol; ca. 9 items. Media coverage of family donated by Dr. Anapol; ca. 5 items. Media coverage of gender roles and differences donated by Dr. Anapol; ca. 8 items. Media coverage of singles and other “solo lovestyles” donated by Dr. Anapol; ca. 7 items. Media coverage and notes of family and relationship trends donated by Dr. Anapol; ca 20 items. Media coverage of business and love (relationships in the work place) donated by Dr. Anapol; 7 items

Folder 11: Media coverage, correspondence, and notes on family, , motherhood and working donated by Dr. Anapol; ca. 42 items. Media coverage and some correspondence regarding family structures donated by Dr. Anapol.

Folder 12: Media coverage of marriage, relationships, and infidelity, donated by Dr. Haslam; ca. 4 items.

Box 4 Series V) Diaries and Personal Items There is a collection of computer files in various formats, mostly Word documents, available on the CD “Ravenhearts” and also on the library server. The files contain information regarding the Ravenheart family and their correspondence with others, the Church of All Worlds, and various instances of polyamory in the media that they have collected, such as in newspaper articles and television shows.

14 The Chantley Collection is an electronic collection. These materials are artifacts of a legal matter concerning polyamory and include a text introduction, e-mail correspondence, legal documents, research documents, and web documents. This collection is restricted.

 “Journal of the Eye of the Hurricane.” (Peter Benson) June 2006. 2 volumes, ca. 900 pages. Diary of experiences in “quad” relationship; all entries by Pete Benson unless otherwise specified. Dates range from 1971-1972. Includes explanatory letter from Peter Benson in first volume.

Folder 1: Personal accounts of polyamory, ephemera, and family materials  Milberg, Andy. “A Typical Day in My Lifestyle”  “What is the Harmony Family?” information sheet  “Social Control for the Harmony Family”  Letter: Authorization to Publish – agreement made between Francoeur and Susan Robins  Letter: Addressed to Bob re revisions to unknown paper  Letter: “Rejoining Sex and Spirit: Personal Adventures in Redefining Marriage and Intimacy.” From Francouer to Sex/Spirit Story Teller.  Invitation: for Rejoining Sex and Spirit: Stories of , stories sent to Francoeur.  “Sexual Inclusivity Guidelines” Andy and Amrita Jan. 1991  “Qualifications for partnership” Marilena and Paul (ramanda das) Sibley  “Coming Out Poly Practices” questionnaire.  Solstice brochure.  Relationship agreement, 2001.

Folder 2: Personal materials from Rev. Michael Dowd and the Aluna (6 items)  Personal materials from the Ravenhearts and Church of All Worlds donated by Dr. Anapol (4 items)  other personal materials from the collection of Dr. Deborah Anapol.

Folder 3: Weiss, Gerald. “Tell Me Stories of Three”: Erotic Fantasies (A Journal of One Year, One Love Triad). 155 p.

Folder 4: Dr. Deborah Anapol’s 1992 calendar and other schedules for events, mostly with the Intinet Resource Center.

Series VI) Community Resources

Folder 1: Printouts of “Polyamorous Percolations” website for 2006 and CD with electronic archive of “Polyamorous Percolations.”

Folder 2: Materials from Swingercast.com: written history about the creators and the show, audience demographics, comments, and CDs containing 16 episodes.

Folder 3: Materials found by KI Staff 2005-2006 regarding polyamory Internet communities as well as local communities and events, introductory information and definitions of terms. The following listed items are from Dr. Haslam’s files and were found on the Internet around the same time.  Poly links from the Poly Matchmaker page. Includes organizations, networks, dating services, etc.  Organizations concerned with non-monogamous relationships. (6 pages)  Poly-Friendly Professionals. (Lists counselors, therapists, etc.)

15  Polyamory News’ Journal: Livejournal group posting media coverage of polyamory.

Folder 4:  “Welcome to Trials of Triads” workshop packet  EFN presentation letter, 1991  “Sexuality and Spirituality” retreat invitation  Several community pamphlets  “Triangle Theory of Love” Cherie’s Journal: Finding New Perspectives. Oct. 20, 2005  Materials from the group Loving Alternatives; ca. 7 items  Materials from the Human Awareness Institute; ca. 15 items.  “Polyamory – an interesting way of loving more – without deception or guilt” from the Poly Ring owned by Wunderkind, includes links to other poly sites, donated by Dr. Haslam  Midwest Polyamory Conference music list, donated by Dr. Haslam  Polyamory mailing lists and networking resources nationally and internationally, donated by Dr. Haslam  Sexual Freedom League meeting information, calendar, and organization information May 1973  Free Spirit’s Sacred Sexuality Beltrane festival pamphlet, 2006

Folders 5 and 6: 2 folders of messages from Poly Speakers group, 2003-2008.

Folder 7: Correspondence, notes, presentations, schedules, and etc. from the Kirkridge Retreat, 1994-1995. Donated by Dr. Anapol. (ca. 30 items) Materials from Loving More 1994; ca. 10 items. Materials from PEP and Ryam Nearing 1987-1991; ca. 15 items. Mailings and events materials from Live the Dream, 1992-1993; ca. 7 items.

Folder 8: Church of All Worlds materials; 1994-1995; ca. 6 items. Deleware Valley Synergy newsletters, events, and member information, 1991-1994, 1999-2005; ca. 20 items.

Folders 9, 10, 11: Family Synergy (California) materials: Fact sheet, newsletters (1979-1985), directories, statement of purpose, membership information, convention & conference information

Folder 12: newsletter and other related items from 1990-1995; ca. 15 items.

Folder 13: Dreamtime: A Journal of Healing and Vision Expanded Family Network materials FullHouse News newsletter and calendar of events from 1993-1994; ca. 10 items. New York Synergy Newsletter PALS: Potomac Area Life Styles Newsletters The PolyLog newsletters The Ponderosa Village materials TLC: Tender Loving Couples newsletter from 1991-1994, events, objectives, policies and guidelines. More University catalog and registration materials

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Folder 14: Correspondence, newsletters, and other materials from the bisexual community. Includes issues of the Bay Area Bisexual Network Newsletter and : Beyond the Myths of Bisexuality (1991-1993)

Folder 15: All materials surrounding Intinet Resource Center, including newsletters, correspondence, and promotions, including “A Resource Guide for the Responsible Non-Monogamist” compiled by Deborah M. Anapol, Ph.D., Intinet Resource Center. Donated by Dr. Anapol.

Folder 16: Community resources from World Synergy Institute, The Macro Monthly, More University, Sacred Fire, and The Xanthyros Foundation.

Folder 17: Loving More materials, including conference and retreat information (2006-2009).

Folder 18: EBPP (East Bay Poly Potluck) newsletters (2007-2008).

Folder 19: National Polyamory Leadership Summit Oct. 5, 2008 meeting notes Poly Oct. 2008 Pictures and Notes (DVD).

Folder 20: 21st Family materials. Includes newsletters and correspondence. Choice Relationship Services materials, The Celebration of the Spirit and the Body, Life Course Options, and other community materials from John Ullman.

Folder 21: Polyamory Potluck, Seattle, WA newsletter and correspondence. Other poly community resources and articles. Ca. 20 items.

Folder 22: 4 issues of Die Krake, “The Octopus,” a German feminist underground magazine. Includes notes from donor.

Series VII) Serial Publications Arranged in alphabetical order by title or group affiliation

Folder 1: Arizona Swinger Scoreboard. Ravenna, Ohio: R.L. Lindsey, Inc.  Iss. 128 Sept.-Oct 2003 Beyond Monogamy. Denver, Col.: Beyond Monogamy, Inc. Subscription letter, book order letter, flyer for group meetings  V. I, n. 1 Jun 1980  V. I, n. 2 Jul. 1980  V. I, n. 3 Aug. 1980  V. I, n. 4 Sept. 1980  V. I, n. 5 Oct. 1980  V. I, n. 6 Nov. 1980  V. I, n. 7 Dec. 1980  V. II, n. 1 Jan. 1981  V. II, n. 2 Feb. 1981  V, II, n. 3 Mar. 1981  V. II, n. 4 Apr. 1981  V. II, n. 5 May 1981  V. II, n. 6 Jun. 1981

17  V. II, n. 7 Jul. 1981  V. II, n. 8 Aug. 1981  V. II, n. 9 Sept. 1981  V. II, n. 10 Oct. 1981  V. II, n. 11 Nov.-Dec. 1981  V. III, n. 1 Jan. 1982  V. III, n. 2 Feb. 1982  V. III, n. 3 Mar. 1982  V. III, n. 4 Apr. 1982  V. III, n. 5 May-Jun. 1982  V. III, n. 6 Jul.-Aug. 1982  V. III, n. 7 Sept.-Oct. 1982  V. III, n. 8 Nov.-Dec. 1982  V. IV, n. 1 Jan.-Feb. 1983

Folder 2: Beyond Monogamy, Inc. Perth, Australia  Issues of newsletter and pamphlet.

Folder 3: Compersion. Scottsdale, Ariz.: Center for Experimental Cultural Design Associated materials: pamphlet, interview  V. 1, iss. 1  Special issue: “Interview with workshop participants”  V. I, iss. 2  V. I, iss. 3  V. I, iss. 4  V. I, iss. 5  V. I, iss. 6  V. I, iss. 7  V. I, iss. 8  V. I, iss. 9  Iss. 10 Contemporary Sexuality. Ashland, Vir.: AASECT  V. 41, n. 4 Apr. 2007 Contra Mundum: an occasional journal of theological reflection. (formerly Underground Report) New York: Raymond J. Lawrence, Jr.  N. 42 1993  N. 45 Nov. 10, 1993  N. 46 Dec. 15, 1993  N. 47 Feb. 14, 1994  N. 49 Apr. 20, 1994  N. 51 May 23, 1994  N. 52 Jul. 15, 1994 Critique. Santa Rosa, Calif.: Critique Publishing  no. 29 1989 Folder 4: Enlighten. Soquel, CA:  Vol. 1, No. 6, Nov./Dec. 1981

18  Special Edition, 1981  Vol. 2, No. 1, Jan. 1982  Vol. 2, No. 2, Mar. 1982  Vol. 2, No. 3, May 1982  Vol. 2, No. 4, July 1982  Vol. 2, No. 5, Sept. 1982  Vol. 2, No. 6, Nov. 1982  Vol. 3, No. 1, Jan. 1983  Vol. 3, No. 2, Mar. 1983  Vol. 3, No. 3, May/June 1983  Vol. 5, No. 2, April/May 1985  Vol. 5, No. 3, June/July 1985  Vol. 5, No. 3, Aug./Sept. 1985 [enumeration error]  Vol. 5, No. 5, Oct./Nov. 1985  Vol. 8, No. 2, April/May 1988 “Enlighten Journal” starts here  Vol. 8, No. 3, June/July 1988  Vol. 8, No. 5, Oct./Nov. 1988 Enlighten Journal. San Mateo, CA:  Vol. 10, No. 1, 1990  Vol. 10, No. 1, Apr./May 1990 Equinox. Colorado Springs, Col.: Equinox Publications  V. 1, iss. 1 Spr. 1994  V. 1, iss. 2 Sum. 1994

Folder 5: Family Tree, 1996 – 1998  Correspondence  Family Tree o Vol. XVII, No. 1, January 1996 o Vol. XVII, No. 2, February 1996 o Vol. XVII, No. 3, March 1996 o Vol. XVII, No. 4, April 1996 o Vol. XVII, No. 5, May 1996 o Vol. XVII, No. 7, June 1996 [sic] o Vol. XVII, No. 7, July 1996 o Vol. XVII, No. 8, August 1996 o Vol. XVII, No. 9, September 1996 o Vol. XVII, No. 10, October 1996 o Vol. XVII, No. 11, November 1996 o Vol. XVII, No. 12, December 1996 o Vol. XVIII, No. 1, January 1997 o Vol. XVIII, No. 2, February 1997 o Vol. XVIII, No. 4, April 1997 o Vol. XVIII, No. 7, July 1997 o Vol. XVIII, No. 8, August 1997 o Vol. XVIII, No. 9, September 1997 o Vol. XVIII, No. 10, October 1997 o Vol. XVIII, No. 11, November 1997 o Vol. XVIII, No. 12, December 1997 o Vol. XIX, No. 1, January 1998

19 o Vol. XIX, No. 2, February 1998 o Vol. XIX, No. 3, March 1998 o Vol. XIX, No. 5, May 1998 o Vol. XIX, No. 6, June 1998 Folder 6: Floodtide. San Rafael, Calif.: Intinet Resource Center  Folder: Floodtide drafts, originals, and other materials, 1986, 1987 1991-1992.

Folder 7: Floodtide. San Rafael, Calif.: Intinet Resource Center  Floodtide drafts, originals, and other materials, 1993.

Folder 8: Floodtide. San Rafael, Calif.: Intinet Resource Center   V. 2, iss. 2 Aug 1986  V. 2, iss. 3 Sept 1986  V. 2, iss. 4 Oct 1986  V. 2, iss. 5 Nov 1986  V. 2, iss. 6 Dec 1986  V. 2, iss. 7 Jan 1987  V. 2, iss. 8 Mar 1987  V. 3, iss. 1 Sept 1987  V. 3 iss, 1 Fall 1991  V. 3, iss. 2 Win 1991  V. 3, iss. 4 Summer 1992  V. 4, iss. 1 Fall 1992  V. 4, iss. 2 Winter 1992  V. 4, iss. 3 Spr. 1993  V. 4, iss. 4 Sum. 1993  V. 5, iss. 1 Fall 1993  V. 5, iss. 2 Winter 1993  V. 5, iss. 3 Spr. 1994  V. 5, iss. 4 Summer 1994  V. 6, iss. 1 Win. 1994

Green Egg. Ukiah, Calif.: Church of All Worlds  Vol. 21, No. 81, 1988  Vol. 22, No. 86, 1989  Vol. 22, No. 88, 1990 (2 varying copies)  Vol. 23, No. 90, 1990  Vol. 23, No. 91, 1990  Vol. 24, No. 92, 1991  Vol. 24, No. 93, 1991  Vol. 24, No. 94, 1991  Vol. 24, No. 95, 1991  Vol. 25, No. 96, 1992  Vol. 25, No. 97, 1992  Vol. 26, No. 100, 1993

20  Vol. 26, No. 101, 1993  Vol. 26, No. 102, 1993  Vol. 27, No. 104, 1994  Vol. 27, No. 105, 1994  Vol. 27, No. 106, 1994  Vol. 27, No. 107, 1994-95  Vol. 28, No. 109, 1995  Vol. 28, No. 110, 1995  Vol. 29, No. 112, 1996  Vol. 29, No. 113, 1996  Vol. 29, No. 114, 1996  Vol. 29, No. 115, 1996  Vol. 29, No. 116, 1996  Vol. 29, No. 117, 1997  Vol. 29, No. 118, 1997  Vol. 29, No. 119, 1997  Vol. 29, No. 120, 1997  Vol. 29, No. 121, 1997  Vol. 30, No. 122, 1998  Vol. 30, No. 123, 1998  Vol. 30, No. 124, 1998  Vol. 30, No. 125, 1998 Box 6  Vol. 31, No. 126, 1999  Vol. 31, No. 127, 1999  Vol. 31, No. 128, 1999  Vol. 31, No. 129, 1999  Vol. 31, No. 130, 1999  Vol. 32, No. 132, 2000  Vol. 32, No. 133, 2000  Vol. 32, No. 134, 2000  Vol. 32, No. 135, 2000

Folder 9: Heeb. New York, NY: Heeb Media, LLC.  Iss. 12 Spr. 2007 “The Love Issue” Holyearth Journal. Monte Rio, Calif.: Holyearth Foundation  V. 1, n. 1 Sum. 1982 In Context. Sequim, Wash.: In Context  No. 10 Sum. 1985 Indiana/Illinois Connection. Cleveland, Ohio: Connections magazines  no. 140 Aug. 2004 Issues in Cooperation & Power. Berkeley, CA: ICP .  Issue 5, Spring 1981. “The Omnigamy Issue.”

Folder 10: Kerista Commune  The Storefront Classroom: The Future of San Francisco. Vol. 1, No. 1. Undated.

21  The Storefront Classroom: A Utopian Newspaper. Vol. 2. No. 3. 1974.  The Storefront Classroom: A Utopian Newspaper. Vol. 4. No. 1. 1976.  The Storefront Classroom: A Utopian Newspaper. Vol. 4. No. 2. 1976.  The Storefront Classroom: A Utopian Newspaper. Vol. 4. No. 3. 1976.  The Storefront Classroom: A Utopian Newspaper. Vol. 4. No. 4. 1976.  The Storefront Classroom: A Utopian Newspaper. Vol. 4. No. 5. 1977.  The Storefront Classroom: A Utopian Newspaper. Vol. 5. No. 1. 1977.  The Storefront Classroom: A Utopian Newspaper. Vol. 5. No. 2. 1977.  The Storefront Classroom: A Utopian Newspaper. Vol. 5. No. 3. 1977.  The Storefront Classroom: A Utopian Newspaper. Vol. 5. No. 4. 1977.  The Storefront Classroom: A Utopian Newspaper. Vol. 5. No. 5. 1978.  The Storefront Classroom: A Utopian Newspaper. Vol. 5. No. 6. 1978.  The Storefront Classroom: A Utopian Newspaper. Vol. 6. No. 1. 1978.  The Storefront Classroom: A Utopian Newspaper. Vol. 6. No. 2. 1978.  The Storefront Classroom: A Utopian Newspaper. Vol. 6. No. 3. 1978.  The Storefront Classroom: A Utopian Newspaper. Vol. 6. No. 4. 1978.  The Storefront Classroom: A Utopian Newspaper. Vol. 6. No. 5. 1979.  The Storefront Classroom: A Utopian Newspaper. Vol. 6. No. 6. 1979.  The Storefront Classroom: A Utopian Newspaper. Vol. 7. No. 1. 1979.  The Storefront Classroom: A Utopian Newspaper. Vol. 7. No. 2. 1979.  The Storefront Classroom: A Utopian Newspaper. Vol. 7. No. 3. 1979.  The Storefront Classroom: A Utopian Newspaper. Vol. 7. No. 4. 1979.  The Storefront Classroom: A Utopian Newspaper. Vol. 7. No. 5. 1980.  The Storefront Classroom: A Utopian Newspaper. Vol. 7. No. 6. 1980.  The Storefront Classroom: A Utopian Newspaper. Vol. 8. No. 1. 1980.  The Storefront Classroom: A Utopian Newspaper. Vol. 8. No. 2. 1980.  The Storefront Classroom: A Utopian Newspaper. Vol. 8. No. 3. 1980.  The Storefront Classroom: A Utopian Newspaper. Vol. 8. No. 4. 1980.  The Storefront Classroom: An Ecotopian Newspaper. Vol. 8, No. 5. 1981.  The Storefront Classroom: An Ecotopian Newspaper. Vol. 8, No. 6. 1981.  The Storefront Classroom: An Ecotopian Newspaper. Vol. 9, No. 1. 1981.  Utopian Eyes: A Journal of Futuristic Social Psychology. No.1 1975.  Utopian Eyes: A Journal of Futuristic Social Psychology. Vol. 1. No. 2. 1975.  Utopian Eyes: A Journal of Futuristic Social Psychology. Vol. 1. No. 4. 1975.  Utopian Eyes: A Journal of Futuristic Social Psychology. Vol. 2. No. 3. 1976.  Utopian Eyes: A Journal of Futuristic Social Psychology. Vol. 2. No. 4. 1976.  Utopian Eyes: A Journal of Futuristic Social Psychology. Vol. 4. No. 3. 1978.  Utopian Eyes: A Journal of Futuristic Social Psychology. Vol. 5. No. 3. 1979.  Utopian Eyes: A Journal of Futuristic Social Psychology. Vol. 6. No. 4. 1980.  Utopian Eyes: A Journal of Futuristic Social Psychology. Vol. 7. No. 1. 1981.  Utopian Eyes: A Journal of Futuristic Social Psychology. Vol. 7. No. 2. 1981.  Utopian Classroom: A Journal of Do-It-Yourself Mental Health. Vol. 10, Iss. 4. 1983.  Utopian Classroom: A Journal of Do-It-Yourself Mental Health. Vol. 12, Iss. 1. 1984.  Utopian Classroom: A Journal of Do-It-Yourself Mental Health. Vol. 13, Iss. 1. 1985.  Utopian Classroom: A Journal of Do-It-Yourself Mental Health. Vol. 14, Iss. 2. 1986.  Utopian Classroom: A Journal of Do-It-Yourself Mental Health. Vol. 15, Iss. 2. 1987.  Utopian Psychology. Vol. 16. Iss. 2. 1988.  Other Kerista material

22 Kerista: Journal of Utopian Group Living. San Francisco, Calif.  V. 2, iss. 4 Spring 1986  V. 3, iss. 1 Summer 196  V. 3, iss. 2 Autumn 1986  V. 3, iss. 3 Winter 1987  V. 3, iss. 4 Spring 1987 Life Inside the Kerista Neotribal Microculture. San Francisco, Calif.  V. 1, book 2 Autumn 1984  V. 1, book 3 Winter 1985 Kerista: Scientific Utopianism & the Humanities. San Francisco, Calif.  V. 1, iss. 4 Spring 1985 Kerista: Advanced Practical Scientific Utopian Theory. San Francisco, Calif.  V. 2, book 1 Summer 1985  V. 2, book 2 Autumn 1985 Kerista: Journal of the U.S. Utopian Movement & the International Kibbutz Movement. San Francisco, Calif.  V. 2, book 3 Winter 1986 Kerista: Lifestyle Package & Design Experience. San Francisco, Calif.  V. 1, book 1 Summer 1984

Folder 11: Liberated Christians. Phoenix, Ariz. Introductory letter (donated by Dr. Anapol)  Jan. 1995 newsletter  Fall 1996 newsletter  Sum. 1997 newsletter  Special Report: AIDS & STD 1997 update Lifestyles. Anaheim, Calif.: David Valentiner  iss. 12 2006

Loving More  Issues of Loving More available in the Serial Vertical File

Folder 12: New Culture. Tucson, Ariz.: New Culture  V. 11 Fall 1995  V11A Oct. 1995 ()  V. 11B Nov. 1995 (Quickie)  V. 12 Spr. 1996  V. 13 Jan. 1996 (New Culture Quickie) The New Relationships. Pacific Palisades, Calif.: Experimental Cities, Inc.  V. 1, n. 1 Oct 1983  V. 1, n. 5-6 Sum 1984  V. 1, n. 7-8 Win 1985 Passionate Living Magazine. Santa Cruz, CA: NSS Seminars, Inc. More issues available in the Stacks at J162.45 P37  V. 3, n. 4 1993  V. 4, n. 1 1993  V. 4, n. 2 1994

Folder 13: PepTalk for the Polyfidelitous

23 PEP Subscription/order form  Win. 1984  Spr. 1985  Sum. 1985  Aut. 1985  Win. 1985  Spr. 1986  Sum. 1986  Aut. 1986  Win. 1986  Spr. 1987  Sum. 1987  Aut. 1987  Win. 1988  Apr. 1988  Jul. 1988  V. 5, iss. 3 Oct. 1988  V. 5, iss. 4 Jan. 1989  V. 6, iss. 1 Apr. 1989  V. 6, iss. 2 Jul. 1989  V. 6, iss. 3 Oct. 1989  V. 6, iss. 4 Jan. 1990  V. 7, iss. 1 Apr. 1990  V. 7, iss. 2 Jul. 1990  V. 7, iss. 3 Oct. 1990  V. 7, iss. 4 Jan. 1991 Polyfidelity Primer. First ed. Relating: The Newsletter of the Insitute for 21st Century Relationships. May/June 2002. The Spotlight. Wet Spot. Jun-Jul 2001 Spirituality & Sexuality. Iss. 4 Spring/Summer 2003 Standard Deviations: the CARAS Newsletter. CARAS  Iss. 1 Fall 2006  Iss. 6 Fall 2008  Iss. 11 Winter 2010

Folder 14: Touch Point. Chloride, Ariz.: Major Publications Touch Point Originals  V. 1, n. 2/first issue?  V. 1, n. 3 Jul. 1988  V. 1, n. 4 Oct. 1988  V. 2, n. 1 Jan. 1989  V. 2, n. 2 Apr. 1989  Vol. 2, No. 3. July 1989  Vol. 2, No. 4. Oct. 1989  Vol. 3, No. 1. Jan. 1990  Vol. 3, No. 2. April 1990  Vol. 3, No. 3. July 1990  Vol. 4, No. 1. Jan. 1991

24  Vol. 4, No. 2. April 1991  Vol. 4, No. 3. July 1991  Order blank  Vol. 4, No. 4. Oct. 1991 Folder 15: Touch Point. Chloride, Ariz.: Major Publications Touch Point Originals, cont.  Vol. 6, No. 2. April 1993  Vol. 6, No. 3. July 1993  Vol. 6, No. 4. October 1993  Vol. 7, No. 1. January 1994  Vol. 7, No. 2. April 1994  Vol. 7, No. 4. October 1994  Vol. 7, No. 3. July 1994 Folder 16: Touch Point. Chloride, Ariz.: Major Publications  V. 3, n. 3. July 1990  V. 3, n. 4. Oct. 1990  V. 4, n. 1. Jan. 1991  V. 4, n. 2. April 1991  V. 4, n. 3. July 1991  V. 4, n. 4. October 1991  V. 5, n. 1. January 1992  V. 5, n. 2. April 1992  V. 5, n. 3. July 1992  V. 5, n. 4. Oct. 1992  V. 6, n. 1. January 1993  V. 6, n. 2. April 1993  V. 7, No. 2, April 1994  V. 7, No. 4, October 1994  V. 8, n. 1 Jan. 1995  V. 8, No. 2, April 1995  V. 8, No. 3, July 1995  V. 8, No. 4, October 1995  V. 9, No. 1, January 1996  V. 9, No. 2, April 1996  V. 9, No. 3, July 1996  V. 9, No. 4, October 1996  V. 10, No. 1, January 1997  V. 10, No. 2, April 1997  V. 10, n. 3 Jul. 1997

Folder 17: Truth Seeker. San Diego, Calif.: Truth Seeker, Co, Inc. Other issues from volume 1 of Truth Seeker available in VF  V. 117, n. 5 Fall 1990

Folder 18: Zegg and related materials (issues of Zegg in German)

25 Miscellaneous Zegg materials donated by Suzanne Robins and Dr. Anapol.  N. 0 Sum. 1992  N. 15 May/Jun. 1994  N. 16 Jul/Aug. 1994  N. 17 Sept/Oct. 1994  N. 18 Nov/Dec. 1994  N. 19 Dec/Jan. 94/95  N. 20 Feb. 1995  N. 21 Mar/Apr. 1995  N. 22 Apr/May 1995  N. 25 Oct/Nov. 1995 Zendik Farm. Boulevard, Calif.: Zendik Farm Arts Foundation; no. 43

Box 7 Series VIII) Audio-visual Materials This series is comprised of two boxes of audio and visual materials, most of which were donated primarily by Dr. Haslam and Dr. Anapol.  Dr. Phil Trashes Polyfidelity – Feb. 2, 2006 (VHS & DVD)  Strange Universe – Hosted by Emmet Miller – w/ The Ravenhearts (DVD)  JAG: The Witches of Gulfport – 4/25/2000 & A&E:“The Love Chronicles: Love in the ‘60s” (w/Ravenhearts) – 4/27/2000 (DVD)  The Basics of Loving More – Brett Hill “Loving More” (DVD & Master ¾” Tape)  L.A. Freedom ‘91 (VHS & DVD)  Women and Polyamory with Deborah Anapol, Ph.D. & Ryam Nearing – Early (VHS & DVD)  Women Who Run With More Than One Lover or Mate: Women and Polyamory with Deborah Anapol & Ryam Nearing (VHS – Same film as above)  Phil Donahue Show – Kiersta Village & Today Show & People Are Talking – Kiersta Village (VHS & DVD)  ‘Til Do Us Part – Fox Channel 5 News – 5/25/99 – Chesapeake Polyamory Network (2 VHS copies & DVD)  Geraldo ’97 (not aired?) (VHS & DVD)  Sally Jesse Rafael Show: Torn Between Two Lovers – 3/11/1991 (VHS & DVD)  Community to Community: The Here & Now Video Newsletter – Summer 1983 (VHS & DVD)  Ryam Nearing Talks to Pali Paths – January 1995 – Shown on Oleo (Oahu/Ch. 24) aired? (VHS & DVD)  Women on Sex IV: Sex Without Jealousy – Show #26 – Michael Trikilis Productions, Inc. – May 29, 1985 (VHS & DVD)  Sytony – 1983 (VHS & DVD)  Phoenix : Episode from “People are Talking” – Hosted by Tom Bergeron – 10/9/86 (DVD)  Poly Keynote Address ’04 presented by Nancy & Darrell Casey (DVD)  Group Marriage – Poly/Swing – Oprah TV – Sex Lives (DVD)  CNN: Marriage Meltdown – Interview featuring Nancy & Darrell Casey – 2/10/07 (DVD)  C.A.T.: Coital Alignment Technique: The Key to Simultaneous – Edward Eichel / A Marriage Science Production (VHS & DVD)  Jerry Springer Show: Non-Monogamous Relationships & Real Personal: Open Marraiges & Open Relationships – With Suzanne Robins (VHS & DVD)  When Two Won’t Do – 2001 Galafilm (VHS & DVD)

26  “Building Bridges” – 2nd Annual Conference of The Institute for 21st Century Relationships – Arlington, VA – October 11-13, 2002 - Consensual Monogamy: Polyamory, Swinging or You Call It – David S. Hall, Ph.D. (VHS & DVD)  “Building Bridges” – 2nd Annual Conference of The Institute for 21st Century Relationships – Arlington, VA – October 11-13, 2002 – Opening a Marriage: A Personal Journey – Liz Lipman- Stern, MSW & Ken Lipman-Stern, M.Ed. (VHS & DVD)  Leeza Show – Polyamory – 12/15/99 – Anapol (VHS & DVD)  CBS: 48 Hours – Sex in America (VHS & DVD)  Real Sex – Anapol – Polyamory (VHS)  The John Walsh Show – Polyamory (VHS & DVD)  The Lifestyle – 1999 (VHS & DVD)  Tyra Banks: Is Monogamy Natural? – November 2005 – With (VHS & DVD)  Inside Edition: Polyamory (VHS & DVD)  Oprah: Swinging – November 2004 (VHS & DVD)  Sexual Intelligence – HBO – December 2005 (VHS & DVD)  Polyamory – Love, , & Lies – Michael Barsden Radio Trask, Fleckenstein – Jan 2005 (CD)  ABSTRACTS: 2006 SSSS Annual Meeting – Las Vegas Hilton, Las Vegas, NV – November 9-12, 2006 – Sexual Fantasies Versus Sexual : Implications for Sexual Research and Practice – Brief Abstract by Leana Wolf- Friday PM (CD)  A Couples Guide to Polyamory Dr. Joy Davidson. 15 min. 2 copies, DVD-R (Windows Media file) and DVD  Belgian documentary about polyamory, Ageeth Veenemans March 7th, 2007 in Dutch (DVD)  Belgian documentary about polyamory, Ageeth Veenemans June 6th, 2007 in Dutch (DVD)  Family: The Web Series: An Episodic Tale of Alternative Love – 21 Episodes – 2009 (DVD)  Family: The Web Series: An Episodic tale of Alternative Love – 1-21, Copyright 3 Dog Pictures, LLC – 2009 (DVD)

Box 8  Future Sex, Thirty Minutes TV Richard Rubacher, 114 Whaler, Hercules, CA 94547. 510/799- 2392 One-hour unexpurgated edition (VHS)  Paul, Deborah & Susan – Donahue Show 4/22/92 (VHS)  Joan Rivers Show 7/13/92 (VHS)  Leeza Show – 2/4/94 With Dr. D. + Anna & Achille Plus Hot Bi Poly Biker Babes on Montel – 2/4/94 (VHS)  Brazilian Community – Nitxama (VHS)  Infidelity – The Delicate Business of Betrayal (VHS)  Look Who’s Talking (VHS)  Real Personal 9-26-94 (VHS)  DEB WLE 4-28-96 + CA’s + U+D WS (VHS)  PepCon ’95 WD (VHS)  Effective Alternatives 5.21.92” “‘Love Without Limits’ Deborah Anapol Ph.D. (VHS)  IASHS 10/94 Deborah Anapol “Love Without Limits” (VHS)  A New for Love With Deborah Taj Anapol (VHS)  Hi Deborah Ten Years Ago! But Still Valid and Thanks to you and Ryam a 21st Century possibility, Bob [Rummin] (VHS)  WLE ’91 Lovestyles (Hi-8)  PC 7 (Hi-8)  James Prescott – Introduction 6-16-90” “Interview by Deborah Anapol (Hi-8)

27  Jim Prescott Interview (Hi-8)  PC 5 Way’s Disc. Grp #2 TV Terrorism (Hi-8)  PC 6 Deborah & Paul “Come Out Poly” (Hi-8)  PepCon 9.12.92 PC 3 Heidi & Steven 110 Min. (Hi-8)  PC 4 Way’s Poolside Discnidion (Hi-8)  PepCon #1 Ryam 20 min hits PT. B (Hi-8)  PepCon 9.12.92 Heidi Steven #2 PT.A (Hi-8)  Star Trek Brainstorm II (Hi-8)  WLE 9/1/93 (Hi-8)  Whole life Expo Panel Lovestyles for 21st C 4/27/90 (Hi-8)  TLO Aug 1992 (Hi-8)  Star Trek Brainstorming Tape 1 9/2/91/Sting Brainstorming 9/2/91 (Hi-8)  Lovestyles 4/91 (Hi-8)  PepCon 91/Coming Out (Hi-8)  1992 WLE (Hi-8)  Deborah Taj Anapol 8/29/02/ Everett 415-641-5614 (Mini Dig Cassette)  “Living the Dream” Original music by Kath Marr (Cassette)  Living the Dream by Kathy Marr (Cassette)  Armond & The Symptoms “Infinite Heart” (the polyamory song) (Cassette)  It’s A Wild Ride 1994 Liza Gabriel Braude (Cassette)  What does “Open & affirming of persons of all sexual orientations” mean? Michael Dowd 11/7/93 (Cassette)  NSS91-32 1991 National Sexuality Symposium Multi-adult Family Relationships, Anapol, Elderberry, Kiehn & Pursglove (Cassette)  Lovestyles for the 21st Century: Sharing & Caring, Deborah Anapol (Cassette)  Deborah Anapol PhD Let Jealousy Be Your Teacher’ S.F. Expo 4/98” (Cassette)  Intro to Polyamory 5-29-98 (unedited) (Cassette)  Panel of Presenters Lovestyles for the 21st Century S.F. Expo 90 (Cassette)  Celebration of Community 1993 – Olympia, WA Panel on Polyfidelity Kozeny, Mentzel, Nearing, Anapol” (Cassette)  Celebration of Community 1993 – Olympia, WA Multi-Adult Intimacy: Poly Lovestyles and International Community Dr. Deborah Anapol, Paul Glassco (Cassette)  Celebration of Community 1993 – Olympia, WA – How to Love More Successfully: Polyfidelity – Ryam Nearing (Cassette)  Effective Alt Xtra Love Without Limits Deborah 3-24-92 (Cassette)  KOA/WCCC Radio Interviews/Spring 92 (Cassette)  Radio Interviews WMBU (NH), KCIN CA/“KLSW Seattle, KZON Chicago (Cassette)  Bob Rimmer 7/92 (Cassette)  Deborah Anapol Let Jealousy Be Your Teacher S.F. Expo 10/95 (Cassette)  Anapol/Nearing What do women really want S.F. Expo 4/95 (Cassette)  Deborah Anapol Why Monogamy is not what women want S.F. Expo 4/94 (Cassette)  WMFX Boston 5/12’/’WCCC Hartford 5/12 (Microcassette)  KOA George 8/92 (Microcassette)  All Things Considered – National Public Radio – 6/5/97 (Cassette)

Phantom as of November 2010  Deborah Anapol Appearing on Sally Jessy Raphael April 28, 1993 (VHS)  A Book of Truth, A Book of Lies by Mikhail Dvortsov. Metafilm productions c2007. 112 min.

28  Mailer containing a USB drive of approx. 250 episodes of the podcast, “Polyamory Weekly” and a letter from Minx to Liana Zhou regarding donation. o Description of “Polyamory Weekly” from Itunes podcast description: “Minx and listeners discuss loving more and polyamory, the lifestyle of being involved in more than one committed, lont-term, loving relationship with the full knowledge and consent of all parties involved. In this community-driven show, each week Minx talks sex, relationships, , family, , psychology, and anything else that comes up in the ins and outs of the daily polyamorours lifestyle.”  My Wife Got Married (Foreign language).  “Polyamory”, The Morning Show with Mike & Juliet, Fox National, October 1, 2007.  Polly & Marie.  “20/20 ABC, 2012 TV program. Kinsey copy.”  “Polly Wolly Polyamory Sative! Kinsey copy.”  “Sex with benefits, swing & poly combine. Life on the swingset. Open SF Conference, June 2012.”  “Hi, I’m Minx and I’m polyamorous. .MP4. Play in computer. From Youtube.”  “Poly (official -clean version), Bobby Joe Ebda. 25, May 2012. A polyamory song that caused some controversy in the Poly community. Kinsey copy.”  “Interview Jennifer Leigh Wesp by Ken Haslam, 2008? Jennifer is credited by Oxford English Dictionary as having invented the word ‘polyamory.’ .MP3. Transcribed to disc, June 2012.” 2 copies.  “A life on the swingset podcast from Open SF Conference, 6,2012, on alternative sexuality. Title: Sex with benefits, progressive swinging. Note: 10 sec of silence at beginning. Documents joining swinging and polyamory communities. Kinsey copy. .AIFF recording.”  Life on the swingset podcast from Open SF Conference, June 2012 on a hemative sexuality. Title: Sex with benefits, progressive swinging. Joining of swinging and poly communities. Note: 10 seconds of silence at beginning. .MP3.”  Skin Deep: Polyamorous Love Songs by Penelope Swales.  Mediatique: La Polygamie au . “In French. 2006? Donated by Nan Wise, June 2007.”  “Penn & Teller: Beyond Monagamy. Alan & John Wise.”  “Polyamory interview, M&J Morning show. Kameala Devi & Michael McClure. .MP4. Play on Computer. Recorded to Disc, 1 Sept, 2012. Morning Show with Mike and Juliet—Fox Network, probably 2009. Kinsey copy.”  My ’s by Must Be Tuesday.

Box 9

Series IX) Miscellaneous and Oversized Folders 1-8 contain miscellaneous Polyamory items. It is arranged in no particular order. Folders 9-23 contain items donated by David D. Lewis in March 2011. Some materials have been added to the library stacks, and appear in a separate list.

Folder 1:

29  Several Materials from Florida Poly Retreat 2006  Printout of Myspace page for “Alicia” 1/19/2007  Program celebrating the life of Alan G. MacDiarmid 2/2/2007  Documentation of the use of the word “swolly”  Holiday Inn postcard  Ken Haslam label  Photocopy of newspaper article: “Dr. Kinsey Is To Speak in Capital” 4/22/1954  “Polyamory: A Dialog Between a Monogamous Person and a Polyamorous Person” (42 pages)  “ and sex therapy” postcard with handwritten note  “Writers’ colony: getting to know the prolific literati of Concord” book review by Roger  “Poly Communication Survival Kit” by Robert McGarey (ca. 50 pages)  “Relationship Agreements for House Weirdness” (example of polyamory relationship agreement)  “Relationship Vectors Polygraphs summary sheet  “With Open Hands: a handbook on open relationships” 1995/1996. (11 pages)

Folder 2: Materials donated by Dr. Haslam on the specific theme of jealousy.  “Unmasking the Green-Eyed Monster: Managing Jealousy in Open Relationships.” By Kathy Labriola. (7 pages.)  “Jealousy.” Definitions, descriptions. (6 pages.)  Journal of Humanistic Psychology, Vol. 23, No. 2, 1983. “Jealousy and the Abyss.” By William Pennell Rock.(12 pages.)  Wagner, Anita. (2003, Sept. 23). “Resolving jealousy in polyamorous relationships”. (12 p.)

Folder 3: Miscellaneous materials donated by Dr. Deborah Anapol.

Folder 4: Polyamory in art, donated by Dr. Anapol.

Folder 5: Erotica, donated by Dr. Haslam.

Folder 6: Photocopy of cover of Black Bart Brigade magazine, “Divine Marriage” pamphlet, Sexual Well- Being Vol. 2, No. 9, Nov. 1986

Folder 7: The Helper. Palo Alto, CA: American Social Health Association. “A Program Service of the American Social Health Association.” Virus Disease Survey Research Project, addressed to HELP member Letter to help member, 2/25/81 Genital Herpes pamphlet Herpes Simplex program Plain Talk About Venereal Disease pamphlet Defining Tomorrow pamphlet Renewal Notice Envelope with several Social Health Association items

Folder 8: Summary of Poly History Scroll. Spreadsheet-format timeline of a history of Polyamory, compiled at Polyamory Leadership Network Meeting 2009 in Fort Washington, PA. See also: Original scroll compiled in 2009. Timeline is divided into “Self,” “Group,” “Movement,” and “Culture” columns, and ranges from Ancient Greece to the present, with particular focus on the 20th century. Donated by Ken Haslam in 2010.

30 Folder 9: “Polyamory Survey August 2001” There is a large blue binder labeled “Polyamory Survey August 2001” containing data on a polyamory survey conducted for Loving More by International Communications Research in August 2001. This data is also available electronically via http://www.kinseyinstitute.org/resources/Nearing.html

Folder 10: Dr. Anapol’s correspondence and research materials A large green binder, unlabeled, donated by Dr. Anapol that contains pieces of correspondence (1985-1986) and Intinet data sheets.

: The Practice of One Woman Marrying a Number of Men, ca. 50 pages  Van der Steen, Henri. ‘Monogamie is een misverstand’ Dagblad van het noorden, zaterdag 10 februari 2007 (3 pages)  Van der Steen, Henri. Een goed huwelijk met z’n vieren. Brabants Dagblad, maandag 12 februari 2007 (2 pages)  Van der Voort, Armanda. [Twe]e mannen houden, mag dat wel? Your Style, weoensdag 21 februari 2007 (2 pages)  Afscheid van de monogamie. Opzij de vrouwelijke opinie, Juli/Augustus 2006 (2 pages)  Reijs, Linda. Wij zijn gelukkig, met z’n vieren. Mijn Geheim. (2 pages)  Van Loon, Luc. In een driehoek: 1 vrouw woont samen met 2 mannen. Feeling. (4 pages)  Van Hoorick, Kari. Nederlandse schrijfster over de nieuwe liefdestrend: polyamorie” Gazen Van Antwerpen, dinsdag 13 Maart 2007 (1 page)  Polyamorie: houden van twee mensen tegelijk. Hart & Ziel. (1 page)  2x2=liefde2. Vriedin 13. (2 pages)  Verstraete, Johan. Ageeth Veenemans maakt geen geheim van haar dubbele relatie ‘mijn liefde voor twee mannen heft mijn huwelijk gered!’ Primo. (3 pages)  Siekerman, Liesbeth. Interview with Ageeth. Margriet. (4 pages)  Sterker, Monique. Soms is er genoeg liefde voor meer partners” TTT Weekend: Persoonlijk. (2 pages)  ‘Ik he been relatie met twee mannen, en dat heft mijn huwelijk gered.’ Sante, Juni 2007 (2 pages)  Zevenhuizen, Marloes. Polyamorie: Als je van twee mensen tegelijk houdt. Psychologie Magazine, juli/augustus 2007. (3 pages)  Haveman, Susan. ‘Ik volg simpelweg mijn hart’ Midi 9/2007 (4 pages)  Walker, Courtney. (2002, Feb.) “Tantric sex: bumpin’ and grindin’ your way to enlightenment”. Revolt, p. 17-18. (2 p.)

Folder 11: Tri State Polyamory Materials,  including various correspondence, ca. 50 pages Folder 12: ICCB 1994  including notes and materials, ca. 70 pages Folder 13: Loving Alternatives, PEPCON ’92 & ‘94  Loving Alternatives materials and correspondence with Karry Koon, ca. 15 pages  PEPCON 1992 materials and notes, ca. 30 pages  PEPCON 1994 materials and correspondence, ca. 20 pages Folder 14: BiPac materials, early 1990s  Chicago materials  New York matierals Folder 15: Bi-Men Anthology Letter Folder 16: Loving More 1997 Materials, 6 pages

31 Folder 17: Kirkridge 1993 Conference  Notes and materials distributed there, ca. 80 pages Folder 18: Poly Music Award  Materials for award sponsored by Lewis, including correspondence, ca. 40 pages Folder 19: Rowe 1994 Conference & Poly Music Award, ca. 50 pages  Notes and correspondence  Items distributed at conference Folder 20: Biunity (Philadelphia) Materials 1994, ca. 20 pages  BiFocus for the Philadelphia Bisexual Community, No. 10, Summer 1994  BiUnity brochure Folder 21: Loving More Newsletters 1992 – 1994  Postcards from Ryam and other mailings  East and West conference schedules for 2002

Folder 22: Equinox  Personal Correspondence  Equinox o Vol. 1, No. 1, Spring 1994 o Vol. 1, No. 2, Summer 1994 Folder 23: IntiNet Resource Center  Brochure for Love Without Limits  IRC Brochure  IRC Letter

Folder 24: Misc. Items from Various Poly Groups  Returned card to PALS, 1993  Ad for books by Miss Tubby Owens  Returned postcard from Kerista, 1992  Business card for poly potluckers  Returned postcard from Expanded Family Network, 1992  CPS (Coalition for Positive Sexuality) donation acknowledgement, 1994  Correspondence with Alternatives to Monogamy (Wheaton, IL), May 1994  Aquarian Alternatives newsletter, April 1995, #206 and correspondence  Chicagoland Discussion Group flier, circa mid-1990s  Form letter from Delaware Valley Synergy, 1994  Homesharing (Cherish Unlimited) newsletter, August 1993  Passionate News, Vol. 1, No. 2, Fall 1992  Delaware Valley Synergy mailing, 1994  Different Drummer newsletter, April 1995  East End Swingers (personal ad newsletter), Vol. 2, No. 2, March/April 1993  Village Voice ad for East End Swingers  Form letter from Family Synergy, mid 1990s  Newsletter from Family Synergy, October 1992  Mailing from Family Synergy, early 1990s  FullHouse News, Vol. 2, No. 5, August 1994  Hi Tech Gays Newsletter, January 1993  HAI (Human Awareness Institute) handwritten note, 1992  HAI mailing, 1992  HAI mailing, February 1993

32  HAI mailing, May 1991  International Relationships Salon brochure, 1992  Live the Dream brochure, 1992  Saturday Afternoon with Sally announcement, early 1990s  Mutant Massage announcement, early 1990s  Body Electric School brochure, 1994  International Community Celebration announcements, 1993  Multiplexity announcement, early to mid 1990s  New Jersey Lesbian and Gay Coalition materials, 1993  NOGLSTP (National Organization of Gay and Lesbian Scientists and Technical Professionals) materials, 1992  The Sexual Enthusiasts newsletter, No. 5, Winter 1992 from The National Organization of Sexual Enthusiasts  Not Naughty Network letter, 1993  NYABN (New York Area Bisexual Network) materials, 1993  OGLA (Ocean County Lesbian-Gay Alliance) Newsletter, June 1994  Omnific Designs materials (swingers group), 1992  OUT-side, Vol. 1, No. 3, October – November 1993  Letter from Phoenix Intentional Community, early 1990s  Rainbow Guide, 1993  The Right Stuff ad, early 1990s  Letters from John Santerineross, early 1990s  Singles Bon Vivant newsletter, Spring 1993  Ad for A Guide to Open Relationships, early 1990s  Brochure from Tender Loving Couples, 1994  Ad for Together (dating service), 1994  Giant Ass Publishing ad, 1990s

Folder 25: Poly Serials, Newsletters, and Articles  CFP for The Body Sacred IV, May 1997  Reprint: Toufexis, Anastasia. “Bisexuality: What is It?” Time. August 17, 1992, pp. 49-51.  Correspondence with Paula Rust  Reprint: Rust, Paula C. “The Politics of : and Behavior Among Lesbian and Bisexual Women.” Social Problems. Vol. 39, No. 4, Nov. 1992.  Reprint: Roy, Rustum and Della. Honest Sex.

Articles added to KI Stacks  Fleischer, Matthew. “All Together Now: A Kibbutz Grows in Staten Island.” Village Voice, pp. 35- 41, Dec. 1994. 162.45  Rust, Paula C. “Preliminary Findings from ‘A Study of sexual/bisexual identities, communities, and politics.’” Clinton, NY: Hamilton , Dept. of , 1994. 162.45  Cromwell, Kathleen. “Whole Lotta Love.” Village Voice, pp. 25-28, August 1995. 162.45  Insel, Thomas R. and C. Sue Carter. “The Monogamous Brain: Or, what a Small Midwestern has Taught Us about the Chemistry of Mammalian Love.” Natural History 8 (95), pp. 12- 14, August 1995. 162.4

Series X) Additional Materials

33 Items were donated by Dr. Kenneth Haslam on February 14, 2012. Some materials have been added to the library stacks, and appear in a separate list.  Folder 26: “Poly demography”.  Folder 27: “Loving more miscel.”

o Loving More East and West Conference information, 1999 o Loving More 2000 East Conference schedule o Loving More 22nd Annual, 2008 East Coast Polyamory Retreat schedule o Presentation by Anita Wagner and Alan M., Loving More Poly Living Conference, 2010. Pp 10. o Loving More 23rd Annual, 2009 East Poly Living Rereat schedule . Dr. Ken Haslam’s conference name badge o Loving More Poly Living Conference program & schedule, 2011 o Loving More financial material . “Loving More NP 2009 Profit & Loss, January through March 2010” . 990 Form, 2009 . Correspondence from Kenneth Haslam o “FAQ for Open Relationships & Polyamory: What is Polyamory?” brochure o Wagner, Anita. “Making Lemonade: The Poly/Mono Journey” with attachments, pp. 30. o M., Alan. “A History of Loving More.” Loving More. Pp.5, January 5, 2010, from http://www.lovemore.com/historywip.php. o M., Alan. “Loving More History.” Loving More. Pp.5, January 28, 2010, from http://www.lovemore.com/history.wip.php. o Loving More subscription reminder, pp. 2  Folder 28: “Second National Polyamory LeADERSHIP Summit Meeting, May 1-2, 2009”  Folder 29: “ and polyamory” o “Conflict between Unitarian Universalists for Polyamory Awareness and the Unitarian Universalist Association” . “Did polyamory get the pagans (and everyone else) kicked out?” . “Starting a discussion about multi-partnered relationships”  Folder 30: Publications o Relating: The Newsletter of the Institute for 21st Century Relationships, May/June 2002 . Related correspondence, 5 pages o Spirituality & Sexuality, Issue IV, Spring/Summer 2003 o Standard Deviations, Issue 11, Winter 2010 o Synapse, Volume XXIII, Issue 1, Spring 2005 . Contains the article “Polyamory and new family structures” by Kenneth R. Haslam, MD. Page 19.  Folder 31: Misc. poly organization materials o “Polyamory society” . Misc. items relating to Haslam’s creating of the Polyamory Society, pp.20 o “On permission” o Deb Burns o “Florida Social presents Atlanta Poly Weekend, 2011” . Photograph labeled, “Fritz Heuamann, Ken Haslam (center), Cherie VeArd; Florida Poly Retreat, 2006.

 Folder 32: Misc. articles and correspondence o Fallowfield, Mel. “I’ll spend Xmas in bed with my married lovers…and their wives!”. Closer, no.422, December 18-31, 2010, pp.3.

34 o Van Anders, Sari M, et. al. “Multiple partners are associated with higher in North American men and women”. and Behavior, pp.51, 2007. o Anderson, Eric. “At least with there is an at monogamy: Cheating and monogamism among undergraduate heterosexual men”. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, pp.21, 2010. 27.7 o Weitzman, Geri, et. al. “What Psychology professionals should know about Polyamory”. National Coalition for Sexual Freedom, pp. 29, 2010. o Cardoso, David, et. al. “Polyamory, or the harshness of spawning a substantive ”. Polyamory History, pp.20, 2011. Original Portuguese with English translation. o Cherry, Jason M. “Law and non-monogamy: addressing inequity within the law”. John F. Kennedy University, thesis, pp. 20, 2011. o Kurian, George Thomas, ed. Encyclopedia of the Future, chapter Sexual Codes. 1990’s? o “From PEPtalk to Loving More”, pp.1. o “A Sampling of Prominent Figures With Consensual Non-exclusive Relationships”. Prominent Practitioners of Alternative Lifestyles. Pp. 2, December 23, 2009. http://www.lovethatworks.org/famous.html o Email correspondence on PolyResearch listserv. “[PolyResearchers] Polyamory Self- Help Books”, pp.21, May 30, 2011. o Email correspondence on PolyResearch listserv. “[PolyResearchers] 2 in 5 bisexuals poly? (Sources)”, pp.9, October 30, 2010. o Email correspondence on AASect listserv. “Teaching Polyamory and Swinging in MFT schools??????”, pp.8, March 11, 2010. o “Polyamory Meetup Groups”. Pp.7, March 23, 2010. o “Media Information”. Polyamory Media Association. Pp.4, March 2, 2010. http://www.polymediaassociation.com/media.html o Email correspondence between Anita Wagner and Ken Haslam, “Common Misconceptions about Polyamory”. Pp.3, March 22, 2010. o Britton, Dennis A. “Romer admits 16-year relationship”. Denver Post Online. Pp.7, July 21, 2011. http://www.polyamorysociety.org/NEWS2105.htm o Alan. “ ‘Polyamory’ enters the Oxford English Dictionary”. Polyamory In the News. Pp. 6, October 9, 2009. http://polyinthemedia.blogspot.com/2007/01/polyamory-enters-oxford- english.html o Navuri, Angel. “ ‘Come we stay’ system isn’t the best for finding the right partner”. IPP Media. Pp.2, May 22, 2011. http://www.ippmedia.com/frontend/index.php?l=29360 o Stevens, Angi Becker, et al. “Critique of Pure Relatonships: On Consent and Compulsory Monogamy”. OFS. Pp.12, January 4, 2011. http://www.afreesociety.org/crique -of-pure- relationships/ o Cook, Elaine. “Counseling Mixed Polyamorous/Monogamous Relationships”. ’s Web. Pp.13, May 2, 2011. http://aphroweb.net/papers/poly-mono.htm o Mehan, G. Tracy III. “Cultures Monogamous and Polyamorous”. The American Specator. Pp.4, January 8, 2010. http://spectator.org/archives/2010/01/08/cultures-monogamous- and-polyam o Cardoso, Daniel. “Polyamory, or the difficulty of giving birth to Meme Noun”. Interact. Pp.8, March 1, 2011. Original Portuguese with English translation.

35 o Email correspondence. “There’s no such thing as polaymory”. Pp.5, August 20, 2010. o Relationship chart. o Email correspondence between Valerie White and Ken Haslam. “My Bi Love”, pp.3, September 13, 2010. o Klein, Marty. “Sexual Diversity”. CAMFT’s Professional Exchange. Pp. 5, February 23, 2010. o Nelson, Tammy. “The New Monogamy”. Psychotherapy Networker Magazine. Pp.17, July 18, 2010. o Email correspondence between Deborah Taj Anapol and Ken haslam. “South Pacific, U.S.”, pp.2, August 7, 2008. o Email correspondence on Loving More listserv. “[LovingMore_lovelist] Digest Number 1493”, pp.4, June 30, 2009. o “Points From Alan’s Talk at the Poly Pride Rally, New York, Oct.4, 2008”, pp.4. o “AASECT letter”, pp.2.

 Folder 33: Misc. articles and email correspondence, continued o Zell, Morning Glory. “A Bouquet of Lovers: Strategies for Responsible Open Relationships”. CA Web Articles, pp.5, July 28, 2003. http://www.caw.org/articles/bouquet.html o “Acronyms used on the Poly list (and elsewhere on the Net)”, pp.6, July 8, 2010. http://www.polyamory.org/~joe/ o “Polyamory Leadership Network Third Summit Meeting, February 22, 2010 in Fort Washington, PA”, pp.15. o Fleckenstein, James R. “Polyamory and Alternative Non-monogamy”, from Continuum Complete International Encyclopedia of Sexuality by Robert Franoeur and Raymond Noan, 2004. Pp.9. o Email correspondence. “First mention of word ‘polyamorous’ by Jennifer Wesp in talk.. Misc.” pp.11, July 16, 2009. o “Find ‘will smith polyamory’ on Tribe.net” Famous poly couples? – The Ethical . Pp.9, February 17, 2010. o Pepper Mint. “Border Wars: Swinging and Polyamory”. Paper presented at The Building Bridges IV Conference, October 16, 2004. Pp.11. o “Relationship Circle”, pp.1. o “Acronyms Used on the Polyamorous E Mail List”. Polyamorous Language Page. Pp.18, July 18, 2010. http://www.polyamorysociety.org/language.html o Cavanaugh, Maureen, et al. “The Future of Marriage and Non-traditional Relationships”, pp.21, March 20, 2010. o Email correspondence between Ken Haslam and Karen Henninger. “Re: Here’s one”, pp.16, July 1, 2009. o Bennett, Jessica. “Only You. And You. And You.” Newsweek.com. pp.23, July 31, 2009. Article and user comments. http://www.newsweek.com/id/209164 o Cardoso, Daniel, et al. “Polyamory As a Possibility of Feminine Empowerment”, pp.16. o Veaux, Franklin. “Some Thoughts on Polyamory, Agreements, & the World We Make”. Open Salon. Pp.5, July 2, 2009.

36 o “Polyamory Contract”, pp.7. o Email correspondence between Ken Haslam and Joreth. Pp.3. o “Multiple-partnerships Throughout History”. Polyamory. Pp.17, July 20, 2009. http://www.theinnbetween.net/ppolyhistory.html o “Late Twentieth Century Polyamory Organizations: Collection of John S. Ullman”, pp.3. o Fagan, Patrick. “Family Diversity and : How Can People With Different Approaches To Family Life Live Together In Free ”. From the Podium, . Pp.8. o Email correspondence on the Polyamory Leadership Network. “[PLN] Canadian Polyamory Advocacy Association”, pp.4, February 2, 2010. . Canadian Polyamory Advocacy Association “Constitution” attachment, pp.3. o Ferrer, Jorge N.. “Monogamy, Polyamory, and Beyond”. Tikkun Magazine, pp.8, Dcember 10, 2009. o “Loving More Sanford Press Release”. Practical Polyamory, pp.7, December 3, 2009. o “ In a Strange Land is of SF”. io9, pp.4, January 31, 2010. o Email correspondence on the Loving More listserv. “[LovingMore_lovelist] Digest Number 1584”, pp.3, January 31, 2010. o Hutchins, Loraine. “Honoring the Body Sacred”. BiNet USA Newsletter Online, Fall 1999. Pp.5, January 26, 2010. o Hutchins, Loraine. “Sexuality/Spirituality Conference Forms New ‘Body Sacred’ Coalition”. Poly Conference Report, pp.5, January 26, 2010. o Hutchins, Loraine. “Why Queer Feminist Multi-Cultural Family Values Are Important To Us All”. Speech to the 1998 East Coast Loving More Polyamory Conference at GROW II in upstate New York, pp.5, January 6, 2010. o Fagan, Patrick F. “Domestic Disturbances”. Touchstone: A Journal of Mere , pp.9, January 8, 2010. o Brandon, Marianne. “The Challenge of Monogamy: Bringing It Out of the Closet and Into the Treatment Room”. Pp. 12. “This manuscript submitted to Sex & Marriage Therapy”.  Folder 34: Materials from various donors o Items donated by David D. Lewis arrived at KI on July 18, 2011 . "Footlights" brochure w/program for "All My Love", 2009 . Postcard ad for "All My Love", 2009 o Artwork donated by Bitsy Elisabeth Ruth Perlman of Stasia Burnington Illustration, August 11, 2011. . Signed print. “Double spoon”. o Items donated by Oberon Zell arrived at KI on February 24, 2012. . Personal correspondence 1972-1975, pp. 40

Items were donated by Dr. Kenneth Haslam on January 2, 2012. Some materials have been added to Series VII Serial Publications or to the library stacks, and appear in a separate list.  Folder 35: “UUPA-GA Notes” o “Designer Relationships.” General Assembly 2005 rough draft. (6p.)  Folder 36: Loving More 2007 East Coast Polyamory Retreat o Retreat Schedule

37 o Greeting card with photograph of retreat participants. o Loving More brochure.  Folder 37: Loving More 2010 East Coast Polyamory Retreat o Retreat Schedule o “Loving More NP 2009 Profit & Loss”, 2p. o Ken Haslam’s retreat information and confirmation package.  Folder 38: Valentines Day Lecture and Kinsey UUCR Lecture o Alan. “The Non-Monogamous Male Couples Study”. Polyamorous Percolations. Retrieved July 31, 2010 from http://polyinthemedia.blogspot.com/2010/03/non- monogamous-male-couples-study.html (7p.) o Kort, Joe. “Monogamous Ever After?: 10 Smart Things Gay Male Couples Can Teach Other Couples About Sexual Non-monogamy.” Therapist, and Associates. Retrieved November 1, 2010 from http://www.joekort.com/articles33.htm (6p.) o Lunscombe, Belinda. “Who Needs Marriage? A Changing Institution.” Time. Retrieved November 21, 2010 from http://www.time.com/time/nation/article/0,8599,2031962,00.html o Sexpositiveactism. “Relationship Questions: Lessons From Polyamory.” Sex Positive Activism. Retrieved November 21, 2010 from http://sexpositiveactivism.wordpress.com/2010/11/21/relatioship-questions-lessons-from- polyamory (4p.)  Folder 39: Polyamory Leadership Network Definition of Polyamory o Google Group “Defining Polyamory” discussion (Approx. 50p.)  Folder 40: Unitarian Universalist Polyamory Awareness o 501©3 documentation o “Polyamory and the UUA and Purposes.” (4p.) o “Regulations of the Association of Unitarian Universalists for Polyamory Acceptance.” (21p.) o “Greater Washington Area Unitarian Universalists for Polyamory Awareness Brainstorming Sessions, June 10, 2006.” (4p.) o “Speakers Guidelines for Authorized UUPA Speakers, 1st Draft, February 10, 2005.” (14p.) o “Unitarian Universalists for Polyamory Awareness, Speakers Guidelines 3rd Draft, June 20, 2005.” (8p.) o “Unitarian Universalist Association 44th Annual General Assembly Program, June 23-27, 2005.” o “UUPA Annual Meeting, June 24, 2006, St. Louis, Missouri.” (13p.)  Folder 41: Unitarian Universalist Polyamory Awareness, Cont. o Pamphlets . “Polyamory: Romantic Relationships Involving More Than Two People.” . Unitarian Universalists and Responsible Multi-partnering Pamphlets  “Understanding Polyamory”  “Our Mission”  “Are We Ready For This?”  “Polyamory In Liberal Religion”  “Introduction to Polyamory For UU’s”  “Polygamy and Polyamory” o “Minutes of First Organizational Meeting, Unitarian Universalists for Polyamory Awareness.” (1p.) o Letter dated September 16, 2001 to Charter member from Harlan R. White, Secretary UUPA. (1p.)

38 o “Agenda, Annual Membership Meeting, Unitarian Universalists for Polyamory Awareness, Saturday, June 22, 2002” and notes. (11p.) o Letter dated August 13, 2002 to Charter member from Harlan R. White, Secretary UUPA. (1p.) o “Unitarian Universalists for Polyamory Awareness Annual Membership Meeting June 27, 2003.” (4p.) o “Unitarian Universalists for Polyamory Awareness Annual Membership Meeting June 27, 2004.” (5p.) o “Polyamory and the Unitarian Universalist Association Principles and Purposes.” Polyamory and the UUA. Retrieved January 27, 2004 from http://www.uupa.org/polyprinciples.html o Haslam, Kenneth. “New Family Structures and Polyamory.” Draft, 1st revision, October 20, 2002 with notes and correspondence. (10p.) o Polysyllables . Vol. 1. No. 1. 2001. . Vol. 3. No. 1. 2004. . Vol. 4. No. 1. 2005. o “Unitarian Universalists for Polyamory Awareness Membership Form.” (1p.) o “Unitarian Universalists for Polyamory Awareness Mission and Principles.” (1p.) o “World Polyamory Association New to Group.” (1p.) o Woods, Gretchen. “From to Polyamory.” Retrieved August 20, 2006 from http:/www.uu.corvallis.uua.org/sermons/05_0508-- From%20Abstinences%20to%20Polyam...(4p.) o “GA 2005 Theme: Ministering to Families in Today’s World.” UUA General Assembly. Retrieved January 23, 2005 from http://www.uua.org/ga/ o “Russell Funds” advertisement with handwritten notes. (1p.) o “Remarks delivered to Debra Haffner’s January Intensive class on Sexuality and Ministry, Meadville Lombard Seminary, January, 2004.” (7p.) o UUPoly-Org message board posts dated October 31, 2004. (7p.) o UUPoly-Org message board posts dated November 16, 2004. (2p.) o Belletini, Mark. “Polyamory: The End of the World?” Speech presented February 29, 2004. (15p.) o 2 audio cassette tapes . “Unitarian Universalist Association of Congregations. 4048 UUism and Polyamory: Many Traditions, Many Loves.” . “3076 – UUism and Polyamory: Many Traditions, Many Loves. Valerie White, Tom Stevens.”  Folder 42: General Assembly, Nashville June, 2006 o Travel information and receipts dated 2000. (14p.) o Logo stickers. (1p.) o “Guidelines for Church Electronic Newsletters.” (6p.) o “Sexually Competent Clergy.” (2p.)  Folder 43: Delaware Valley Synergy o “Delaware Valley Synergy Member Handbook.” o “Delaware Valley Synergy Member Handbook.” Revised September 1, 1999. o Delaware Valley Synergy Newsletter. (10p.) o “Synergy is Alive and Well and Living in Delaware Valley.” (16p.) o “Delaware Valley Synergy, a Social Club Supporting Open Relationships, Membership Handbook and Bylaws, Revision: May 2001.” (27p.) o Collection of correspondence regarding Steering Committee issues, November-December 1998. (17p.)

39 o “New Business & Membership” correspondence. (2p.) o “Statement of Ethics.” (2p.) o Delaware Valley Synergy Directories March 1981-March 2000 . “Delaware Valley Synergy Directory, March 1981.” (4p.) . “Delaware Valley Synergy Directory, October 1981.” (4p.) . “Delaware Valley Synergy Directory, December 1982.” (2p.) . “Delaware Valley Synergy Directory, September 1983.” (2p.) . “Delaware Valley Synergy Directory, December 1984.” (2p.) . “Delaware Valley Synergy Directory, June 1985.” (2p.) . “Delaware Valley Synergy Directory, February 1986.” (3p.) . “Membership Directory, 15th August, 1986.” (2p.) . “Delaware Valley Synergy Directory, September 1988.” (2p.) . “Delaware Valley Synergy Directory, February 5th, 1989.” (2p.) . “Delaware Valley Synergy Members Directory, June 17, 1989.” (2p.) . “Delaware Valley Synergy Members Directory, Fall 1990.” (2p.) . “Delaware Valley Synergy Members Directory, August 25, 1992.” (2p.) . “Delaware Valley Synergy Members Directory, July 20, 1996.” (2p.) . “Delaware Valley Synergy Members Directory, June 29, 1997.” (2p.) . “Delaware Valley Synergy Members Directory, September 30, 1997.” (2p.) . “Delaware Valley Synergy Members Directory, January 24, 1998.” (2p.) . “Delaware Valley Synergy Members Directory, May 20, 1998.” (2p.) . “Delaware Valley Synergy Members Directory, June 24, 1999.” (4p.) . “Delaware Valley Synergy Members Directory, March 20, 2000.” (4p.) o RESTRICTED ACCESS: Delaware Valley Synergy Restricted Lists December 1982- January 2000 . “Delaware Valley Synergy Restricted List, December 1982. (3p.) . “Delaware Valley Synergy Restricted List, September 1985. (2p.) . “Delaware Valley Synergy Restricted List, April 1986.” (2p.) . “Restricted Name and Address List 5th May, 1986 For Steering Committee Eyes Only!” (3p.) . “Delaware Valley Synergy Restricted List, January 19, 1987.” (2p.) . “Delaware Valley Synergy Restricted List, April 23, 1992.” (3p.) . “Delaware Valley Synergy Restricted List, December 5, 1995.” (4p.) . “Delaware Valley Synergy Restricted List, April 1, 1996.” (4p.) . “Delaware Valley Synergy Restricted List, February 5, 1997.” (4p.) . “Delaware Valley Synergy Restricted List, April 2, 1997.” (5p.) . “Delaware Valley Synergy Restricted List, May 6, 1998.” (5p.) . “Delaware Valley Synergy Restricted List, April 7, 1999.” (5p.) . “Delaware Valley Synergy Restricted List, January 4, 2000.” (9p.) o Untitled, undated directory. (19p.)  Folder 44: Publications o Contemporary Sexuality, Vol. 44. No. 10. 2010. o The First Unitarian, Vol. 75. No. 4. 2002. o Now Chelsea, Vol. 2. No. 2. 2007. o UU World, Vol. 14. No. 5. 2000. o Utopia 2. Vol. 4. No. 1. 1987. o Utopia 2. Vol. 4. No. 2. 1987. o The Node For Hackers With . Vol. 6. No. 3. 1992. o Prospectus: The New School of Utopian Psychology at Harbin Hot Springs, Weekend Seminar/Workshop Program. o Rockhead For Rockers With Brains. Vol. 16. No. 3. 1988.

40 o Bethesda. July/August 2007. o Dark Odyssey: Winter Fire. o History of the Kerista Tribe: Part One. o Bite, Suzi. The Nine “P’s” of Great Cunnilingus. Utopia Publications. 1991. o Sex Kult Song Book.  Folder 45: Misc. articles and correspondence o Alan. “Polyamory, Robert Heinlein, and His New Definitive Biography.” Polyamorous Percolations. Retrieved May 27, 2012 from http://polyinthemedia.blogspot.com/2010/08/polyamory-robert-...(12p.) o “Anglia Ruskin Student Explores World of Polyamory.” Anglia Ruskin University. o Asylum Staff. “’s Dirty Past—How Polyamory Birthed the First Female ”. Asylum. Retrieved May 23, 2012 from http://www.asylum.com/2010/08/12/wonder-woman-sexy-past... o Axel-Lute, Miriam. “And Baby Makes Four.” Babble. Retrieved November 19, 2007 from http://www.babble.com/content/articles/features/personalessa...(4p.) o Bloomquist, Eric. “Responsible Non-monogamy: A Brief Introduction to Polyamory.” . Retrieved May 27, 2012 from http://web.archive.org/web/20000520093720/http://www.bireso... o Coverly, Dave. “Why You Rarely See a Female Polygamist.” Speed Bump. o Cummings, Michael. “Tale of Two Communes: A Scholar and His Errors.” Intentional Communities. Retrieved March 13, 2008 from www.ic.org. (13p.) o Davidson, Dawn. “A List of Poly Symbols…With a Little Bit of Their History.” Hevanet. Retreived May 11, 2002 from www.hevanet.com. (6p.) o Dawnd. “Montel Ep. w/Robyn Trask Airs Today, 5/8.” Dawnd. Retrieved August 30, 2012 from http://dawnd.dreamwidth.org/278688.html. (8p.) o Fausto. “Poly and UU: Where’s the Connection?” The Socinian. Retrieved January 30, 2008 from http://socinian.blogspot.com/2007/07/poly-and-uu-where’sconnectio... o Jaffe, Jody. “Significant Others.” Bethesda Magazine. July/August 2007: 100-104. o Klein, Marty. “Sexual Diversity in Clinical Practice—It’s More Than GLBT.” California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists. (7p.) o Faerie. “The Polyamory Scale//What Would Dr. Kinsey Say?” London Faerie. Retrieved February 1, 2011 from http://londonfaerie.co.uk/2010/12/poly-scale/. (11p.) o Marquardt, Elizabeth. “Two Mommies and a .” Christian Century. July 25, 2006 (4p.) o “Marriage, the Courts, and the Amendment.” Tindings Online: Viewpoints. Retrieved August 18, 2006 from http://www.the-tidings.com/2006/0818/difference.htm. (3p.) o Mullen, William. “Here’s a Hot News Flash: Researchers at Brookfield, Lincoln Park Zoos Confirm Menopause in Gorillas.” Chicago Tribune 12 February 2006: 1, 14. o Pepomint. “Jealousy, Monogamy, and Power.” Freaksexual. Retrieved August 9, 2011 from http://freaksexual.wordpress.com/2010/08/11/jealousy-monogamy-and-power/. (29p.) o “Polyamory.” . Retrieved November 20, 2007. (26p.) o Sellars, Stephanie. “When One Box Closes.” New York Press. Retrieved October 1, 2007 from http://www.nypress.com/20/39/news&columns/feature4.cfm. (3p.) o Sheff, Elisabeth and Corie Hammers. “The Privilege of Perversities: Race, Class and Education Among Polyamorists and Kinksters.” Psychology & Sexuality, 2, no.3 (September 2011): 198-223. o “Showtime® Presents, ‘Polyamory: Married and Dating’ on July 12th at 11pm ET/PT.” The Futon Critic. Retrieved June 27, 2012 from http://www.futoncritic.com/news/2012/06/27/showtime-pres... (2p.)

41 o Smith, Jeremy Adam. “Freer, Messier, Happier.” Yes! Magazine. Retrieved December 15, 2010 from http://www.yesmagazine.org/issues/what-happy-families-know-freer- messier-happier. (4p.) o Stevens, Angi Becker. “Why I’m Out of the Poly Closet.” Openly Poly. Retrieved December 15, 2010 from http://www.openlypoly.net/2010/12/why-im-out-of-the-poly- closet/. (7p.) o Sundaram, Anjan. “Loving Apes Vanishing Into Stomachs.” Chicago Tribune 6 March 2006: 2. o Tooley, Mark. “Going Beyond Same-Sex Marriage.” The American Spectator. Retrieved August 15, 2006 from http://www.spectator.org/dsp_article.asp?art_id=10223. (3p.) o Trask, Robyn. “Polyamory Movement Headed for Rough Seas as the Wave Crosses Into the Mainstream.” Loving More. Retreived June 19, 2012 from http://www.lovemore.com/blog/?p=1391. (5p.) o Tweedy, Ann E. “Polyamory As a .” Research Network. Retrieved August 27, 2011 from http://ssrn.com/abstract=163265. (58p.) o Email correspondence regarding Rachel Robbins’ dissertation, “Relationship Factors In Polyamorous Women.” (4p.) o Polysouljourney.com information packet. (6p.) o “[LovingMorePolyactive] Digest Number 354” email correspondence digest retrieved August 3, 2006. (10p.) o Letter dated March 7, 2012 from Nanette M. Downing, Director, EO Examintions, IRS to Kenneth Haslam regarding the of Polyamory Society’s 501©3 status. (5p.)  Folder 46: Materials from various donors o Correspondence and enclosure from white envelope labeled, “Polyamory agreement contract” from Brice Bock. (8p.) . Drab, Kevin and Samantha. “Relationship Agreement: Some Basic Assumptions.” August 15, 2001. (7p.) o Personal correspondence 1971-1975 from white envelope labeled, “Correspondence between Oberon Zell and Robert Heinline, 1971.” Photocopies. (40p.)

Articles added to KI Stacks  Robbins, Rachel. “Relationship Factors In Polyamorous Women.” Diss. Alliant International University, 2005. 132p. o Shelved in KI Stacks, call number 522.7

Mailing Tubes  Poly History Scroll. Compiled at the Polyamory Leadership Network Meeting 2009 in Fort Washington, PA. Timeline is divided into “Self,” “Group,” “Movement,” and “Culture” columns, and ranges from Ancient Greece to the present, with particular focus on the 20th century. Entries are hand-written by several different people. Donated by Ken Haslam in 2010.  “Poly Web” large handmade tree made by contributors at Florida Poly Retreat 2008. Laminated butcher paper.  National Polyamory Leadership Summit, March 1-2, 2009 poster. Laminated. Includes sponsors Loving More, Polyamorous NYC, and Unitarian Universalists for Polyamoroy Awareness.

Appendix

42 Materials added to KI collection.  West Coast Video Movie Guide, Summer 1989.  Kolesar, Akhila Elizabeth Ann. "Spiritual Identities of Multiply Partnered People." Institute of Transpersonal Psychology, 2010, pp.225.  Beaulieu, Dylan. "An Examination of the Polyamorous: Going Beyond Demographics." University of Saskatchewan, 2009, pp.29.

43 The Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender, and Library Morrison Hall 313, 1165 E. 3rd St. Bloomington, IN 47405 (812)855-7686; Fax (812)856-6063 [email protected]

This bibliography has been compiled from the research collections of The Kinsey Institute Library and/or index sources, drawing upon diverse viewpoints and research approaches. This bibliography should not be interpreted as either a comprehensive literature search or a recommendation of specific items. Updated October 2012.

Polyamory

"Poly Politics: Lessons from Queer Liberation." ( "Polysexuality: When One Partner Isn't Enough: Discovering Your Polysexual Orientation." ( "The Trials and Tribulations of Being a ''--Ethical, Psychological and Political Thoughts on Polyamory." Sexualities 9, no. 5 (643-50. (Editor). Sexual Fidelity: , Polyamory, Adultery, , Adultery in Literature, Swinging, , , of Passion. General Books LLC, 2010. Book. ———. Sexual Orientation: Bdsm, Lesbian, Sexual Orientation, , Polyamory, Affectional Orientation, , LaVergne, TN: Ingram Book Company, 2010. Book. ———. Sexuality and Society: , Group Sex, Sex and Sexuality in Speculative Fiction, Polyamory, Sex Education, Concubinage. General Books LLC, 2010. (Editor), Books LLC. Polyamorous Culture: Terminology within Polyamory, Church of All Worlds, Values within Polygamy. General Books LLC, 2010. Book. Alexander, Lydia L. Iconoclast in the Mirror. Texas: University of North Texas, 2005. Thesis. Alan. “Polyamory, Robert Heinlein, and His New Definitive Biography.” Polyamorous Percolations. Retrieved May 27, 2012 from http://polyinthemedia.blogspot.com/2010/08/polyamory-robert-.(12p.) Allan, Graham, and Karen Harrison. "Marital Affairs." Inappropriate Relationships: The Unconventional, the Disapproved, and the Forbidden (2002): 45-63. Allen, Gina, and Clement G. Martin. "Swapping and Swinging." Intimacy: Sensitivity, Sex, and the Art of Love (1971). Aluna, Michael Dowd. "Panfidelity and the Birth of the Aluna Clan." (May 5, 1995). Anapol, Deborah. Polyamory in the 21st Century: Love and Intimacy with Multiple Partners. Lanham, MD: Rowman & Littlefield Publishing, 2010. Book. Anapol, Deborah M. "The Future of the Family and the Fate of Our Children." The Truth Seeker 1, no. 6 (November/December 1989). ———. Love without Limits: The Question for Sustainable Intimate Relationships. San Rafael, CA: InitNet Resource Center, 1992. Correction copy.

44 ———. A Resource Guide for the Responsible Non-Monogamist. Mill Valley, CA: IntiNet Resource Center, 1989. Anderlini-D'Onofrio, Serena. Gaia and the New Politics of Love : Notes for a Poly Planet. Berkeley, Calif.: North Atlantic Books, 2009. ———. Plural Loves: Designs for Bi and Poly Living. New York: Routledge, 2005. “Anglia Ruskin Student Explores World of Polyamory.” Anglia Ruskin University. Asylum Staff. “Wonder Woman’s Dirty Past—How Polyamory Birthed the First Female Superhero”. Asylum. Retrieved May 23, 2012 from http://www.asylum.com/2010/08/12/wonder-woman-sexy-past... Atkins, David C., Sona Dimidjian, and Neil S. Jacobson. "Why Do People Have Affairs? Recent Research and Future Directions About Attributions for Extramarital Involvement." Attribution, Communication Behavior, and Close Relationships: Advances in Personal Relations (2001): 305-19. Avery, Paul, and Emily Avery. "Some Notes on 'Wife Swapping'." Sex in America (1965). Axel-Lute, Miriam. “And Baby Makes Four.” Babble. Retrieved November 19, 2007 from http://www.babble.com/content/articles/features/personalessa...(4p.)

Bag, K., and C. Legassie. "Liberation and Sex: A Summer Guide to Polyamory." New Socialist ( Banfield, Sophie, and Marita P. McCabe. "Extra Relationship Involvement among Women: Are They Different from Men?". Archives of Sexual Behavior 30, no. 2 (April 2001): 119-42. Barker, Meg. "This Is My Partner, and This Is My...Partner's Partner: Constructing a Polyamorous Identity in a Monogamous World." Sexualities 18, no. 1 (2005): 75- 88. Barker, Meg, and Darren Langdridge. Understanding Non-Monogamies. Routledge Research in Gender and Society. New York: Routledge, 2009. Bartell, Gilbert D. "Group Sex among the Mid-Americans." Journal of Sex Research 6, no. 2 (1970): 113-30. ———. Group Sex: A Scientist's Eyewitness Report of the American Way of Swinging. New York: Wyden, Inc., 1971. Beaulieu, Dylan. "An Examination of the Polyamorous: Going Beyond Demographics." University of Saskatchewan, 2009. Beigel, Hugo G. "In Defense of Mate Swapping." Rational Living 4, no. 1 (1969). Bell, Robert R. "'Swinging': The Sexual Exchange of Marriage Partners." Sexual Behavior 1, no. 2 (1971): 70-79. Benson, Peter J. The Polyamory Handbook: A User's Guide. Bloomington, IN: AuthorHouse, 2008. ———. The Polyamory Handbook: A User's Guide. Bloomington, IN: Authorhouse Publishing, 2008. Book. Bergstrand, Curtis, and Jennifer B. Williams. "Today’s Alternate Marriage Styles: The Case of Swingers." Electronic Journal of Human Sexuality (October 10, 2000). Bettinger, Michael. "Polyamory and : A Family Systems Approach." An Introduction to GLBT Family Studies (2006): 161-81.

45 Biblarz, Arturo, and Delores N. Biblarz. "Alternative Sociology for Alternative Life Styles: A Methodological Critique of Studies of Swinging." Social Behavior and Personality 8, no. 2 (1980): 127-44. Bjoerklun, Mats, and Bjoern Westman. "Adaptive Advantages of Monogamy in the Great Tit (Parus Major): An Experimental Test of the Threshold Model." Behavior 34, no. 5 (October 1986): 1436-40. Blake, Adriana. Women Can Win the Marriage Lottery: Share Your with Another Wife (the Case for Plural Marriage). Newport Beach, CA: Orange County University Press, 1996. Block, Jenny. Open: Love, Sex, and Life in an . Berkeley, CA: Seal Press, 2008. Bloomquist, Eric. “Responsible Non-monogamy: A Brief Introduction to Polyamory.” Wayback Machine. Retrieved May 27, 2012 from http://web.archive.org/web/20000520093720/http://www.bireso... Blumstein, Philip, and Pepper Schwartz. American Couples: Money, Work, Sex. 1st ed. New York: William Morrow and Co., 1983. Boekhout, Brok Alan. "Relationship Exclusivity and Extrarelationship Involvement: Perceptions, Determinants, and Consequences." Dissertation Abstracts International 61, no. 7-B (February 2001). Brecher, Edward M. The Sex Reseachers. 1st ed. New York: Little, Brown and Company, 1969. Briffault, R. "Will Monogramy Die Out?". Review 16 (1932): 207-08, 23. Britton, Paula J., Oneida H. Levine, Anita P. Jackson, Stevan E. Hobfall, James B. Shepherd, and Justin P. Lavin. "Ambiguity of Monogamy as a Safer-Sex Goal among Single, Pregnant, Inner-City Women: Monogamy by Whose Definition?". Journal of Health Psychology 3, no. 2 (April 1998): 227-32. Buunk, Bram P. "Sex, Self-Esteem, Dependency and Extradyadic Sexual Experience as Related to Jealousy Responses." Journal of Social and Personal Relationships 12, no. 1 (February 1995): 147-53. Buunk, Bram P., Alois Angleitner, Viktor Oubaid, and David M. Buss. "Sex Differences in Jealousy in Evolutionary and Cultural Perspective: Tests from the Netherlands, , and the ." Psychology Science 7, no. 6 (November 1996): 359-63. Buunk, Bram P., and Pieternel Dijkstra. "Extradyatic Relationships and Jealousy." Close Relationships: A Sourcebook (2000). Calta, Paxis. With Open Hands: A Handbook on Open Relationships. Louisa, VA: Fingerbook Project. Web document. Carden, Maren Lockwood. Oneida: Utopian Community to Modern Corporation. New York: Harper Torchbooks, 1969. Casey, Nancy. "Bisexuality in Women: Theory and Practice Implications." (April 20, 1989). Chapman, M. What Does Polyamory Look Like? Bloomington, Ind.: iUniverse, Inc., 2010. Book. Charles, Marilyn. "Monogamy and Its Discontents: On Winning the Oedipal War." American Journal of 62, no. 2 (2002): 119-43.

46 Chernus, Linda A. "Sexual Mate-Swapping: A Comparison of 'Normal' and 'Clinical' Populations." Clinical Social Work Journal 8, no. 2 (Summer 1980): 120-30. Clanton, Gordon, and Chris Downing. Face to Face to Face: An Experiment in Intimacy. New York: E.P. Dutton and Co., 1975. Clinton, T., Laaser, M. The Quick-Reference Guide to Sexuality and Relationship Counseling. Ada, Mich.: Baker Publishing Group, 2010. Book. Cloud, John. "Henry and Mary and Janet And...". Time 154, no. 20 (November 22, 1999): 90-91. Cole, Charles L., and Graham B. Spanier. "Co-Marital Mate-Sharing and Family Stability." Journal of Sex Research 10, no. 1 (February 1974): 21-31. ———. "Induction into Mate-Swapping: A Review." Family Process 12, no. 3 (September 1973): 279-90. ———. "Mate Swapping: Participation, Knowledge and Values in a Midwestern Community." Midwest Sociological Society (1972). ———. "Mate Swapping: Perceptions, Orientations, and Participation in a Midwestern Community." Archives of Sexual Behavior 4, no. 2 (March 1975): 143-59. Colton, Helen. "Group Sex." Sex After the Revolution (1972). Comfort, Alex. Sexuality in a Zero Growth Society. Center Report, 1972. Consiglio, Carlo. L'amore Con Piu Partner. 2nd ed. Rome, Ita.: Tipographia Pioda Imaging, 2009. Constantine, Larry L. "Open Family: A Lifestyle for Kids and Other People." The Family Coordinator 26, no. 3 (April 1977): 113-21. Constantine, Larry L., and Joan M. Constantine. Group Marriage: A Study of Contemporary Multilateral Marriage. New York: Macmillan Company, 1973. Cook, Elaine. Commitment in Polyamorous Relationships. Denver, CO: Regis University, 2005. Coon, Richard. "Theorizing Sex in Heterodox Society: Postmodernity, Late Capitalism and Non-Monogamous Sexual Behavior." Electronic Journal of Human Sexuality 9 (April 18, 2006). Cornfield, Noreen. "The Success of Urban Communes." Journal of Marriage and the Family 45, no. 1 (February 1983): 115-26. Coverly, Dave. “Why You Rarely See a Female Polygamist.” Speed Bump. Cummings, Michael. “Tale of Two Communes: A Scholar and His Errors.” Intentional Communities. Retrieved March 13, 2008 from www.ic.org. (13p.) Davidson, Dawn. “A List of Poly Symbols…With a Little Bit of Their History.” Hevanet. Retreived May 11, 2002 from www.hevanet.com. (6p.) Dawnd. “Montel Ep. w/Robyn Trask Airs Today, 5/8.” Dawnd. Retrieved August 30, 2012 from http://dawnd.dreamwidth.org/278688.html. (8p.) De Lissovoy, Vladimer. "Open Family: Ask Who Owns One: Comments on Constantine." The Family Coordinator 26, no. 3 (April 1977): 122-26. Del Vera, Anne. "The Polyamory Quilt: Life's Lessons." Journal of Lesbian Studies 3, no. 1/2 (1999). DeLora, Joann A., and Jack R. DeLora. Intimate Life Styles: Marriage and Its Alternatives. Pacific Palisades, CA: Goodyear Publishing Company, 1972.

47 Denfeld, Duane. "Dropouts from Swinging." The Family Coordinator 23, no. 1 (January 1974): 44-49. ———. "How Swingers Make Contact." Sexual Behavior 2, no. 4 (April 1972): 60-63. Denfeld, Duane, and Michael Gordon. "The Sociology of Mate Swapping: Or the Family That Swings Together Clings Together." Journal of Sex Research 6, no. 2 (May 1970): 85-100. Desdenberg, Bernard N. "Home Sex Education and Monogramy." Marriage and Family Living 9 (1947): 89-92. Dixon, Dwight. "Perceived Sexual Satisfaction and Marital of Bisexual and Heterosexual Swinging Husbands.". Journal of Homosexuality 11, no. 1-2 (Spring 1985): 209-22. Dixon, Joan K. "The Commencement of Bisexual Activity in Swinging Married Women over Age Thirty." Journal of Sex Research 20, no. 1 (1984). Dove, Linda White. "Relationships Can Equal Oneness." ( Duckworth, Jane, and Eugene Levitt. "Personality Analysis of a Swingers' Club." Lifestyles 8, no. 1 (Fall 1985): 35-45. Easton, Dossie, and Catherine A. Liszt. The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities. San Francisco, CA: Greenery Press, 1997. Eisenber, David A. "Personality Characteristics of Married Swingers." Dissertation Abstracts International 46, no. 3-B (September 1985): 957-58. Ellis, Albert. The Case for Sexual . Vol. 1, Aurora, NY: Seymour Press, 1965. ———. The Civilized Couple's Guide to Extramarital Adventure. New York: Pinnacle Books, 1973. Esfandiary, F.M. "Intimacy in a Fluid World." (February 11, 1985). Fang, Betty. "Swinging: In Retrospect." Journal of Sex Research 12, no. 3 (August 1976): 220-37. Fausto. “Poly and UU: Where’s the Connection?” The Socinian. Retrieved January 30, 2008 from http://socinian.blogspot.com/2007/07/poly-and-uu-where’sconnectio... Felton, Judith R. "A Psychoanalytic Perspective on Sexually Open Relations." Psychoanalytic Review 71, no. 2 (September 1984): 279-95. Franceschi, Grant J. Women Maintaining a Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationship: A Qualitative Investigation. San Diego, CA: Alliant International University, 2006. Dissertation. Francoeur, Robert T. "Challenging Common Religious/Social Myths of Sex, Marriage, and Family." Journal of Sex Education and Therapy 26, no. 4 (2001): 281-90. ———. "Covenants, Intimacy and Marital Diversity—into the 21st Century." Journal of Humanistic Judaism (Winter 1994). ———. Eve's New Rib: Twenty Faces of Sex, Marriage, and Family. 1st ed. New York: Delta Book, 1972. ———. "Human Relationships in the 21st Century: Labor Pains of a New Integration." 14th World Congress--The International Sociological Association meeting (1998). Francoeur, Robert T., and Anna K. Francoeur. The Future of Sexual Relations. Englewood Cliffs, NJ: Prentice-Hall, 1974. ———. Hot and Cool Sex: Cultures in Conflict. New York: Harcourt Brace Jovanovich, 1974.

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