“If My Daughter Runs Away, I Will Drink Poison” (In)Dividual Honour and the Gendered Nature of Child Marriage in Southern Rajasthan, India
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“If my daughter runs away, I will drink poison” (In)dividual honour and the gendered nature of child marriage in southern Rajasthan, India Jelena Johanna Kärki Faculty of Social Sciences Social and Cultural Anthropology Master’s Thesis August 2013 Tiedekunta/Osasto – Fakultet/Sektion – Faculty Laitos – Institution – Department Faculty of Social Sciences Department of Sociology Tekijä – Författare – Author Jelena Johanna Kärki Työn nimi – Arbetets titel – Title “If my daughter runs away, I will drink poison” – (In)dividual honour and the gendered nature of child marriage in southern Rajasthan, India Oppiaine – Läroämne – Subject Social and Cultural Anthropology Työn laji – Arbetets art – Level Aika – Datum – Month and year Sivumäärä – Sidoantal – Number of pages Master’s Thesis August 2013 94 Tiivistelmä – Referat – Abstract Child marriage is a practice that exists in all the states of India despite efforts by the government and non-governmental organisations to discourage and outlaw it. This thesis is a study about cultural meanings of Hindu child marriage in India’s southern Rajasthani block of Bijoliyā. The fieldwork was done in 2012 in 28 villages of Bijoliyā Block during a period of three months. The data consists of semi- structured interviews, informal discussions and observations. Primarily, this thesis is a holistic analysis about the local perceptions and practices relating to child marriage with the aim to make the custom intelligible. My thesis examines the constitution of child marriage in an intersection of relationships pertaining to caste, kinship, gender, economy, politics and religion. The purpose is not only to explain how child marriage is multiply constituted but also to show how the intersecting relationships themselves are locally constructed, naturalised and differentiated. Theoretically, this is a study about personhood and relatedness in northwest India. Personhood is examined through the indigenous concepts of ’honour’, ’shame’ and ’merit’ and analysed in the framework of child marriage. Carsten’s theory of relatedness, Marriott and Inden’s concept of the inherently moral dividual person as well as the notion, advocated by Busby and Daniel, of permeable or malleable persons, among others, guide my analysis of the informants’ constant preoccupations with honour and shame that are connected to female behaviour. The idea of an active, meaning-producing subject fashioned by discourse runs through this thesis. Mines’s theory of civic, contextualised individuality is applied in an effort to examine the interaction between private individuality and the interests of the social group. The concept of ’merit’ is analysed in the context of mass child weddings. It is shown how marrying off premenarcheal girls is a way to transform economic resources into spiritual assets, and thus, to enhance one’s civic individuality both in this life and the next. In this study, it is suggested that North Indian persons are malleable (in)dividuals. They are individuals in the world, and as such, their attributes and behaviour are always judged and valued socially. As (in)dividuals, they are agents of their own destinies entangled in the webs of social relationships. It is argued that child marriage is one of the means to regulate transactions between inherently moral malleable persons. Child marriage upholds both individual and group honour and is in concordance with the principles advocated by the political Hindu nationalist organisation Rāṣṭrīya Svayamsevak Sangh (RSS) that has a strong hold in theBijoliyā Block. Avainsanat – Nyckelord – Keywords Honour, India, Intersectionality, Kinship, Marriage, Personhood, Relatedness Säilytyspaikka – Förvaringställe – Where deposited Muita tietoja – Övriga uppgifter – Additional information 1 The International Alphabet of Sanskrit Transliteration (IAST) system is used in this thesis for the transliteration of Hindi and Mewari languages. There are some deviations from the IAST standard in the romanisation of nasal vowels and in the case of nuqtās, which appear mostly in Persian loanwords. Proper names of people, bigger cities and states appear in their usual English forms. 2 CONTENTS CHAPTER ONE | INTRODUCTION ........................................................................................................... 4 1.1 LEGAL PERSPECTIVES ON CHILD MARRIAGE ........................................................................................................ 6 1.2 ERADICATION OF THE ”SOCIAL EVIL” ................................................................................................................ 9 1.3 RESEARCH QUESTIONS ................................................................................................................................ 11 CHAPTER TWO | METHODOLOGICAL APPROACHES .............................................................................12 2.1 STUDYING CHILD MARRIAGE – ETHICAL AND PRACTICAL CONSIDERATIONS ............................................................. 12 2.2 METHODS AND MATERIALS .......................................................................................................................... 14 CHAPTER THREE | THEORETICAL APPROACHES AND CONCEPTS ..........................................................18 3.1 KINSHIP AS RELATEDNESS ............................................................................................................................ 18 3.2 FLUID PERSONHOOD................................................................................................................................... 20 3.3 POWER, INEQUALITY AND AGENCY ................................................................................................................ 26 CHAPTER FOUR | THE FIELD .................................................................................................................28 CHAPTER FIVE | GENDERED CONCEPTIONS OF HONOUR .....................................................................34 5.1 ARRANGED MARRIAGE ................................................................................................................................ 35 Monological voices – the authority of the elders ............................................................................ 36 Considering caste and kinship ......................................................................................................... 38 5.2 VEILED WOMEN AND GROUP HONOUR ........................................................................................................... 40 5.3 ”ARRANGED” DIVORCE – NOTIONS OF NATA PRATHA ........................................................................................ 44 CHAPTER SIX | THREATS TO HONOUR ..................................................................................................50 6.1 WHEN INCOMPATIBLE SUBSTANCES MIX ......................................................................................................... 51 6.2 LOCALITY-BASED HONOUR ........................................................................................................................... 58 6.3 CHILD MARRIAGE IN AN INTERSECTION OF COMPETING HIERARCHIES .................................................................... 62 CHAPTER SEVEN | TRANSACTING (IN)DIVIDUALS .................................................................................67 7.1 ’MARRIAGE SQUEEZE(S)’ AND THE COMEBACK OF BRIDE PRICE ............................................................................ 68 7.2 DHARMIK GIFTS, PROFANE TRANSACTIONS ...................................................................................................... 71 7.3 MASS WEDDINGS OF CHILDREN .................................................................................................................... 74 7.4 PREPUBESCENT MARRIAGE AND THE ACCUMULATION OF PUNYA ......................................................................... 76 CHAPTER EIGHT | CONCLUSIONS .........................................................................................................81 REFERENCES ................................................................................................................................................... 87 ELECTRONIC SOURCES ...................................................................................................................................... 93 3 chapter one | INTRODUCTION Lakṣmi, 16, and her husband Rakesh are the first Indians who legally got their child marriage annulled. The couple had been made to tie the knot in their infancy. Lakṣmi only came to find out about the marriage when her in-laws demanded her to move in with them. Her brother, Hanuman, told her that she had been married off in 1996 with the consent of her family’s elders. According to the gaunā tradition of Rajasthan, girls are married off in their childhood, but conjugal marriage life is not consummated before they reach their teens. This is when they are sent to live with their in-laws. Lakṣmi sought help from a non-governmental organisation, and by virtue of the Child Marriage Restraint Act 2006, she was granted divorce from her husband who agreed to revoke the marriage. (The Times of India, 23rd April 2012; The Times of India, 25th April 2012; Helsingin Sanomat, 26th April 2012) Like Lakṣmi and Rakesh, many girls and boys around the world are married off before the minimum legal age for marriage. Marrying off girls is most common in South Asia and Sub-Saharan Africa (UNICEF 2001, 2). According to a UNICEF