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$3 OCTOBER - DECEMBER 2016 CENTRETHE MAKING CHRIST THE CENTRE Free booklet CCc Celebrates 20 Years thanksgiving MARRIAGE BUSINESS FAMILY HEALTH APPRECIATING BUSINESS IN MY FAITH AND OUR BANTING EACH OTHER ZIMBABWE MOTHERHOOD JOURNEY C h u r c h Affordable Freedom One Church | Two Sites | Five Meetings | All Welcome! Why pay From only more? $44 per day E a s t l e a Greystone Park Older models in excellent condition. River of Life Greystone Park 8:30am (Eng) 1:30pm (Shona) 6:00pm (Eng) Bulawayo • Harare • Vic Falls cnr Gaydon & Quinton Rd, Greystone Park River of Life Eastlea 9:30am (Eng) 12:00pm (Shona) zimcarhire T1 + 263 783 496 253 11 Inverness Rd, Eastlea [email protected] T2 + 263 9 230 722 zimbabwecarhire.com For more info: www.riveroflifechurch.co.zw CONTENTS Editor’s NotE 4 GOSPEL Your Kingdom Come 5 THANKSGIVING TESTIMONIES The Goodness of God 6 Be Glad of Life 8 From Victim to Thanksgiving 10 Getting Out of The Pit 12 Released to be Me 14 8 SPIRITUAL GROWTH 18 What’s In Your Heart? 16 Will You Do Something? 18 Happy Faces 19 COUNSELLING Perfectionism 20 MARRIAGE Appreciating Each Other 22 FAMILY My Faith and Motherhood 24 TESTIMONY Gogo Boots 26 20 YOUTH The Ferrari and You 27 EDUCATION The Boy Done Good 28 BOOK REVIEW Raising Grateful Kids In An Entitled World 29 PARENTING Helping Your Child Choose a Career Path 30 What Do You See? 32 Parenting with No Fear 34 SPORTS Fight The Good Fight 36 COUNSELLING CENTRE NEWS 38 BUSINESS 24 27 Interview With Sean Waller 40 Business in Zimbabwe 42 PROJECTS Introducing Operation Mobilization 44 Makomborero 46 SOCIAL RESPONSIBILITY Disability Awareness 48 RECIPE Pumpkin Pie 49 HEALTH Our Banting Journey 50 Healthy Herbs 51 SHORT STORY 50 The Power of Mercy 52 KIDS CORNER 54 THE CENTRETHE • CENTRE CHRISTIAN • CHRISTIAN COUNSELLING COUNSELLING CENTRE CENTRE 1 Chronicles 16:8 Oh give thanks to the Lord; call upon His name; make known His deeds among the peoples! 3 EDITOR’S NOTE Editor’s Note Dear Readers Birthdays and anniversaries offer the perfect opportunity to pause and reflect on the past year. I find that by doing this I become more aware of the blessings in my life and all the reasons I have to be grateful. This year is the 20th anniversary of the Counselling Centre and as you will read in the free booklet, the journey has provided many instances of God’s faithfulness. He has never failed to deliver on His promises. What a privilege to see His goodness first hand, both in the story of the Centre and in our own lives. We decided it would be appropriate to focus on the theme of ‘Thanksgiving’ this issue. I have heard it said, “It is not the happy who are thankful but rather the thankful who are happy.” I couldn’t agree more. The articles and testimonies we have received have been truly uplifting and I can’t wait for you to dive in and enjoy them as I have. On the theme of gratitude: in our last issue we placed an appeal for donations to support the magazine. We would like to thank Rosemary Rowe, Barbara and Jeff Kockott and others for their generosity that has enabled us to ‘keep the light burning.’ We continue to need financial support and if you think you could help, we would be truly grateful. Praying you are blessed by this publication and that, like the Psalmist, you will be able to Give thanks to the Lord for He IS good! (Psalm 106.1) Editorial Team Ian & Adie Wilsher Happy Reading! Sheila Yeatman Sheila Margi Grobbelaar Tava Gwanzura Bobbie Rapson Graphic Design About The Christian Counselling Centre Kirsty Venter We are a Registered Trust. Our team of counsellors, drawn from many [email protected] denominations, are all trained to an Advanced Level in Biblical +263 779 479 175 Counselling. Counselling is open to anyone (whatever their religion) who would like to talk confidentially to a counsellor.T he counselling Please send all correspondence to costs $15 a session, payable in advance. To see a counsellor, please phone the numbers below. If you would like to attend any of our Address: No. 8 Coltman Road seminars, courses, etc. please register and make payment at the Centre. Mt. Pleasant, Harare Our Trustees: Email: [email protected] Tava Gwanzura, Tony Roberts, Davison Kanokanga, Scott Marques, Tel: +263 4 744 580 Ian and Adie Wilsher Our Contact Details: Web: www.thecentremagazine.wordpress.com 8 Coltman Rd, Mount Pleasant, Harare (offT he Chase) : The Centre Magazine P O Box MP 1129, Mt Pleasant. Tel: 744580 / 744212 / 0773 547544 / 0712 719626 The views expressed in this publication E-mail: [email protected] don’t necessarily reflect those of the Website: www.christiancounsellingcentre.net Christian Counselling Centre. THE CENTRE • CHRISTIAN COUNSELLING CENTRE 4 1 Corinthians 15:10 But by the grace of God I am what I am, and His grace toward me was not in vain. On the contrary, I worked harder than any of them, though it was not I, but the grace of God that is with me. GOSPEL Your Kingdom Come! By Ian Wilsher ost of us know the Lord’s prayer in which we pray, “Your facts about the Lord Jesus but, rather, trusting Him personally. Kingdom come.” Trusting Him means resting in Him, relying on Him to save us from M our sin, relying on Him to give us life, trusting Him to live His life What are we asking? through us. It is inviting the Lord Jesus to establish His Kingdom in us, whereby we receive His grace and love and power so that we When Jesus began His ministry, He proclaimed, “The Kingdom of can live as He wants us to live. God is near. Repent and believe the good news!” (Mark 1:15). Being a Christian is not following a list of rules, nor undergoing Jesus came to establish His Kingdom. However, He did not come certain religious rituals, nor even being nice or good. Christianity to rule in a geographical location: He rules in the hearts and lives is about a relationship with God the Father through the Lord Jesus of those who are willing to submit to Him as their King. Christ. We establish that relationship by doing what Jesus commanded us to do: We are born ruling our own lives, following the ‘Repent and believe the good news.’ If you have dictates of our own selfish and sinful nature. never done that, why don’t you take time right This sinful nature makes it impossible for us to now to do so? obey His commands, especially the two main commandments to love Him and others. The I grew up going to Church, but never had a sinful nature is the antithesis of love: it is real or personal relationship with God. It was selfish, rather than ‘other’-orientated. Jesus only when I went to university that I first really proclaimed His Kingdom and said that if we understood the Gospel. One night, lying in want to belong we must do two things: bed, before going to sleep, I prayed a prayer in which I told the Lord I no longer wanted to go my Repent. This is to abdicate the throne of our own own way, but rather wanted to hand my life over in lives; it is to decide not to follow our own selfish way trust to Him. That brief, silent, very inarticulate prayer (which eventually leads to death); it is to turn away from was the most important thing I ever did. It was the start of my what we know is sin, and to submit ourselves to His authority and walk with the Lord, in which I have come to know Him. It hasn’t rule. always been easy. I haven’t always been consistent. I’ve sometimes taken backward steps, but, in it all, I have come to Believe the Good News. Believe that He is the Ruler and King, know and experience something of God’s love and grace and believe that He loves us enough to die for us, believe that He took mercy and faithfulness. You can too. the punishment for our sin, believe that He will forgive us, believe Ian is a pastor at Harvest Felowship that He will lead us in His Kingdom. This is not just believing the Church. THE CENTRETHE • CENTRE CHRISTIAN • CHRISTIAN COUNSELLING COUNSELLING CENTRE CENTRE 1 Corinthians 15:10 But by the grace of God I am what I am, and His grace toward me was not in vain. On the contrary, I worked harder than any of them, 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you. 5 though it was not I, but the grace of God that is with me. THANKSGIVING Anonymous feel very privileged to have been asked to share my story and the journey that I have been on in my life. My prayer is that my journey from darkness into God’s glorious light will be able to help and I encourage many others. As far back as I can remember I felt I was a nuisance. I felt Marriage soon followed but relationships were strained all round. constantly rejected and this emotion was threaded throughout My husband’s father died of an asthma attack five days after the my life. I became dependent on myself alone in order to wedding.