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Temple Israel of Great Neck Where tradition meets change Voice a Conservative egalitarian synagogue Rabbi Stecker: ‘Let Us Fight Hateful Words And Actions Together’ Temple Israel, Great Neck Synagogue Conduct Memorial Services for Victims Of the Pittsburgh Tree of Life Shooting Following last month’s synagogue shooting in Pittsburgh, two memorial services for the victims were held in Great Neck. Imam Abdullah Antepli, left, and Yossi Klein Halevi, will discuss More than 15 area congregations—including Temple Muslim-Jewish relations in a conversation to be moderated by Israel—participated in a service at Great Neck Synagogue Rabbi Howard Stecker. for prayer and reflection. A service led by Temple Israel clergy was held in the Sanctuary. It included prayer, singing and a moving memorial service for the victims of the Temple Israel Program Is shooting. Following are excerpts of comments by Rabbi Howard Stecker delivered at the Temple Israel gathering: Promoting Muslim-Jewish Like so many of us, I responded to the shooting in Pittsburgh with a mixture of shock, sadness, anger and Dialogue November 18th fear. Among many conflicting emotional reactions, by Marc Katz, Editor —Continued on page 6 Bridging the gap in understanding between Muslim and Jewish viewpoints will be the focus of a discussion at Temple Israel on Sunday, November 18. The program is titled “Across the Abyss: How a Former Jewish Extremist and Muslim Anti-Semite Are Helping Change Muslim-Jewish Relations.” It will feature two noted speakers, Yossi Klein Halevi, an author and journalist, and Imam Abdullah Antepli, the chief representative for Muslim Affairs and an adjunct faculty member of Islamic Studies at Duke University. They co-direct the Shalom Hartman Institute’s Muslim Leadership Initiative. Rabbi Howard Stecker, who will serve as moderator of the conversation, has known the speakers through his participation in Israel’s Shalom Hartman Institute and invited them to Temple Israel to participate in this program. “To A large turnout for a Temple Israel service for the Pittsburgh their credit, both speakers are prepared to have difficult synagogue shooting victims joined Cantor Raphael Frieder conversations such as this one, in which they will be asked in memorial prayers. Photo courtesy Great Neck News —Continued on page 6 Vol. LXI, No. 4 November 2018 Kislev/Tevet 5779 How to Make Holiness Part of Our Lives On Visiting Morocco A Voice Guest Column by Rabbi Daniel Schweber From the President by Rob Panzer EDITOR’S NOTE: On Rosh Hashanah, Rabbi Schweber spoke on the theme My wife and I recently returned from “living a holy life can help us be content in spite of life’s challenges and obstacles.” a trip to Morocco under the auspices This Guest Column contains excerpts from his sermon. of the Ramah Israel Institute. Morocco is a fascinating place, with a Jewish Are there other ways to evaluate our our lives’ with acknowledgement of the history extending back more than 2,000 lives besides health and wealth so we Divine. can be more content with our lives? years in cities like Fes, Casablanca, Rabat, Meknes and Marrakech. It is the One possible answer is holiness. The I invite you to join me in making an only Muslim country that has a Jewish more holiness we allow into our lives, accounting of the holiness in our lives museum, which is both supported by the more we are able to recognize and and how fully we are living. To me, and protected by the government. embrace the gift of life in its entirety; the Judaism is a toolbox with rituals and Many synagogues—although few are in ideas for living a holy and rich life. regular use—and cemeteries, as well, Let us use this day are maintained by the government. One such tool is daily mindfulness. and everyday to take a breath, There are even a few Jewish day We are mindful when we actively pay savor the moment schools left in Casablanca. Our group attention to the present, carefully and feel God’s presence… observing our thoughts and feelings. Jewish prayer, like deep breathing, is …in the midst of the leader light, the good, the joyful along with the a mindfulness practice. The Hebrew chanting these services darkness, the evil and sadness. verb to pray, l’hitpalel, is a reflexive verb in Morocco, I recognized meaning to meditate or examine one’s What is holiness and how can we make a familiar melody… own soul and self. it part of our lives? Rabbi Irwin Kula describes holiness as being filled with had the pleasure of visiting one of When we first wake up, 12 words of God’s presence. The Torah tells us them and had the opportunity to hear pure gratitude are traditionally recited. “You Shall be Holy.” It is a call for us to children sing to us in Hebrew. live as passionately as possible, ‘filling —Continued on page 10 I would like to focus, however, on the Ramah Institute. This organization Engage, Don’t Escape creates programming and trips to Israel for congregations, schools From the Rabbi by Rabbi Howard Stecker and families, based on the Ramah philosophy. The tours center on EDITOR’S NOTE: Rabbi Stecker wrote the following column days before the Conservative Jewish values, bringing tragic synagogue shooting in Pittsburgh. The horror of that event, and the very visitors to sights of Jewish history and real presence of anti-Semitism in the United States, only serve to underscore the interest, and is based on an egalitarian importance of vigilance and engagement that he writes about below. approach. The synagogue our group The Torah presents two stark models outside the family. To the extent that we attended for Shabbat, Temple Beth El for how we can relate to the world. We choose to involve ourselves with the Synagogue Henri Cadoch, was located can emulate Noah and his wife who people around us, we are following the in Marrakech. All the synagogues in built a boat for themselves, their family example of Abraham and Sarah. This is Morocco are non-egalitarian, but all and select animals and sailed away as the model of engagement. who are interested in participating were the world was about to be destroyed. welcome. Our tour staff highlighted a To the extent that we choose to focus I will be moderating few unique things to take note of and encouraged us to “just take it all in only on the well-being of ourselves a conversation between… and our families, we are following the stride” as a new experience. example of Noah and his wife. This is Yossi Klein Halevi the model of escape. and…Abdullah Antepi When I entered, the rabbi of the congregation directed me to a seat. It We can, instead, choose to follow the For centuries, Jews have followed both was slightly closer to the front than my model of Abraham and Sarah. Abraham models, choosing which to emphasize usual spot. It was a bit of a surprise and Sarah welcomed strangers based on a variety of internal and when, in the midst of the leader into their tent, forged treaties with external factors. When we felt insecure chanting these services in Morocco I neighboring peoples, and advocated and frightened, we focused primarily recognized a familiar melody to Lecha for just treatment even for those —Continued on page 8 —Continued on page 7 2 In Memoriam Upcoming Events at Temple Israel Temple Israel extends condolences to the families of: November 17 December 9 “Shabbat Talk” 12:45 P.M. Congregational Noon LEONARD ABRAMS about Camp Ramah Hanukkah Pizza Lunch husband of Linda Abrams November 18 Interactive Hanukkah Concert 12:30 P.M. and esteemed member of Temple Israel Men’s Club Blood Drive 8:30 A.M. Congregational 6:30 P.M. November 19 Hanukkah Candle Lighting MARTIN BERGSTEIN Board of Trustees Meeting 8:15 P.M. Temple Israel Players Auditions 7:30 P.M. husband of Bobette Bergstein November 26 December 10 and esteemed member of Temple Israel Sisterhood Board Meeting 10:00 A.M. Sisterhood Board Meeting 10:00 A.M. November 29 Temple Israel Players Auditions 7:30 P.M. YOUSSEF OHEBSION Men’s Club Vodka 7:30 P.M. December 12 father of Haleh Damaghi and Latkes Program Temple Israel Players Auditions 7:30 P.M. “Shabbat Talk”: Choosing 12:45 P.M. December 13 BARBARA FORST Jewish History and the Jewish Story Men’s Club Meeting 7:30 P.M. mother of Joshua Forst December 3-10 December 16 Hanukkah Temple Israel Film Series 7:00 P.M. PAULINE COHEN December 3 Presents “Rock in the esteemed member of Temple Israel Sisterhood Luncheon Program: Noon Red Zone” “Analyzing the Election” December 20 SHARYN ROSEN December 8 Board of Trustees Meeting 8:15 P.M. sister of Dr. Joel Abrahams EmptiNesters Hanukkah Party 6:30 P.M. NASIM DAYANI father of Noushin Botesazan Waxman Youth House Taking Teens To and Nader Dayani Israel During February School Break LILLIAN SILVERBERG For over 2,000 years Jews have made pilgrimages to the Jewish homeland. There mother of Temple Israel is something deep within that reverberates to the call of going to the Holy Land. Executive Director Leon Silverberg This year Temple Israel is answering that call with a Waxman Youth House trip to Israel. May their memories be for a blessing. The trip, scheduled to take place from February 12-24, will be bringing students as Candle Lighting Times well as community teenagers across Israel to connect to the people, the history and the land. “We want to create a rounded experience that starts in the Youth House Friday, November 16 with our Israel seminar, takes the teens to Israel for real hands-on learning about 4:19 P.M.