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Alzheimer's Is Probable to Cripple the Healthcare System Love And Relationship By Dr. Sandy Sanbar, Irene Pearson & Judy Rector All Copyright Reserved © 2018 ii Publication Details No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording, scanning or otherwise, except as permitted under Sections 107 or 108 of the 1976 United States Copyright Act, without either the prior written permission of the Author. Requests to the Author for permission should be addressed online at [email protected]. Limit of liability/disclaimer of warranty: the publisher and the author make no representations or warranties with respect to the accuracy or completeness of the contents of this work and specifically disclaim all warranties, including without limitation warranties of fitness for a particular purpose. No warranty may be created or extended by sales or promotional materials. The advice and strategies contained herein may not be suitable for every situation. This work is sold with the understanding that the publisher is not engaged in rendering legal, accounting, or other professional services. If professional assistance is required, the services of a competent professional person should be sought. Neither the publisher nor the author shall be liable for damages arising here from. The fact that an organization or website is referred to in this work as a citation and/or a potential source of further information does not mean that the author or the publisher endorses the information the organization or website may provide or recommendations it may make. Further, readers should be aware that internet websites listed in this work may have changed or disappeared between when this work was written and when it is read. iii About the Author Sandy Sanbar, M.D., Ph.D., JD, is a physician, biochemist and an attorney. He is an advocate and has a keen interest in personal behavioral issues of elderly people; which includes issues such as privacy, the rights of nursing home residents, and the highly charged and sensitive matters involving sex, intimacy, love and romance in the elderly and Alzheimer’s sufferers. He is a prolific author of over 200 articles, and author and editor of several books. He is a State National and International Lecturer on Legal Medicine and Medical Ethics. Sanbar is an Adjunct Professor of Medical Education at the University of Oklahoma Health Sciences Center, Oklahoma City. He is also an Adjunct Professor of Medical Jurisprudence at Touro University Nevada College of Osteopathic Medicine, Henderson, Nevada. He served in the U.S. Army Medical Corps, first as a CAPTAIN in 1968, then was promoted to MAJOR in 1969, while at Fitzsimmons General Hospital, Denver, Colorado. In 1970, he became an LT. COLONEL while serving in the U.S. Army Medical Corps, U.S. Army Hospital, Danang, Vietnam, and he received a Bronze Star Medal Award for his efforts in Vietnam before he was honorably discharged on July 4, 1970. Irene Pearson is a qualified and proficient writer who has been working in collaboration with Book Writing Inc. for the past three years. She has spent twelve years down the lane, practicing, enhancing and polishing her writing skills, under Creative Writing and Technical Writing. Irene persistently chose to write as a Ghost-Writer, and while doing so she wrote numerous books which have been published to date. Nevertheless, Irene also hopes to publish her own book under her pen name, whenever she feels her audience is ready to accept her ideas and her book. Irene’s professional experiences under writing include different type of books that she has written and formulated from scratch. These books vary from Fiction, Non-fiction, Motivational, iv Self-Help and Religious books, to Novels, Science Fictions, and Story books for children of all ages, with a creative mindset to strike any kind of reader. Irene continues to pursue Research Writing, alongside Creative writing; she has devised numerous research papers for improving communication skills, and a substantial amount of technical papers for engineering, as well as medical sciences and culture. Irene is currently working on a book which concerns Psychological differences and inter-human associations which enhance learning skills; while it also tackles the reasons behind the perception that an intelligent person can learn quicker, while a weak person takes time to understand and grasp. My book is an argumentative and research-based book which revolves around the different techniques that can aid any reader to boost up their learning skills. Judy Rector, is also an advocate for personal behavioral issues of elderly people, and she deeply cares about her family and friends. Born in Oklahoma City, Judy has always had a passion for helping people. She is an astute business woman, a retired highly successful owner and chief executive manager. v Dedication For Author’s past and present family members and friends. vi Acknowledgement Thanks also to the authors and publishers of the printed materials and online stories for the essays and articles which are compiled, referenced and discussed in this novel. All the character names in this book are pseudonyms. vii Table Of Contents Publication Details ......................................................................... iii About the Author ............................................................................. iv Dedication ............................................................................................ vi Acknowledgement .......................................................................... vii Foreword ............................................................................................ xvi Introduction ................................................................................................ 1 Annie ................................................................................................... 3 Sherry .................................................................................................. 3 The Origin ................................................................................................ 4 Chapter 1 ..................................................................................................... 9 Types of Love and Relationships ............................................................. 9 Love .................................................................................................... 9 True Love ............................................................................................ 9 Expressing Love ................................................................................ 10 Greek Terminology of Love .............................................................. 11 Chinese Conceptualization of Love .................................................. 14 Basis of Love .................................................................................... 18 Love Values ...................................................................................... 19 Chapter 2 ................................................................................................... 20 Unconditional Love ............................................................................... 20 The Origin of Unconditional Love .................................................... 20 Prominence of Unconditional Love .................................................. 21 viii Unconditional Love V/s Unconditional Relationships ...................... 23 Ways to Harvest Unconditional Love ............................................... 26 Reconstruction of Confidence in a Dilemma of Love ....................... 27 Love Needs Reassurance................................................................... 28 Love Does Not Entail Reciprocation ................................................ 29 Chapter 3 ................................................................................................... 34 Close Friends Love ................................................................................ 34 Friendship ......................................................................................... 34 Love .................................................................................................. 35 Discovery of Love in Your True Friend ............................................ 36 Certainty of Your Feelings Concerning Your Friend ........................ 38 Friendship-Oriented Love is Eminent ............................................... 44 Chapter 4 ................................................................................................... 48 Romantic Love .................................................................................. 48 First Love Nurtures Romance ........................................................... 49 Romance is Evergreen and Youthful ................................................ 50 Passionate Love................................................................................. 52 Passionate Love Fades ...................................................................... 52 Attachment Patterns .......................................................................... 53 Psychological Defenses ..................................................................... 54 The Fantasy Bond ............................................................................. 55 Sustain Passion by Engaging in Romantic Love ............................... 56 Behavioral Impact of Passionate Love
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